August 9, 2023 • 38 mins
Episode 263 - "The Baller Alert Show" Feat: Ferrari Simmons, Su Solo & You Know BT Produced by: Octavia March
Special Guest: Bambi from Love & Hip-Hop
Topics include: ICYM, Montgomery Brawl & more. Our exclusive interview with Bambi: Divorce from Scrappy, beef with Erica, Dating, Love & Hip-Hop & more.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Bird with me here, you know, BT, it was so
low shout of O c T no what we see?
Whole game read the butler something. Oh, you can't stand
on their own se I already know you can't bother
with me because with the squad of me, they get
a little They called me.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
He love Bather Alert. Welcome to the Butther Alert Show
on c T.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
What up you know, BT?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
We got a special guess in the buildings.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
We do yo, this bawn baby in the building?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, y'all do listen. I came in here, I out.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
You don't even look like you got how many kids?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
You got?
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Three girls day, three whole children?
Speaker 7 (00:47):
You were good though, wow, shining and everything. Let's get
into it. We're gonna we got a segment on our
show called in case you missed it, and in case
everybody missed it, I'm sure they did and know the
Montgomery broad went down.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Did y'all see it?
Speaker 6 (01:03):
I mean, if you missed that, then where the hell
you been? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
If you missed that, you weren't on the internet. I
was out of the country and I was on the beach,
and I think I was like the first person to
see it, because I don't know for whatever reason I had.
I had took a shot. I was on the beach,
and then I just went on my Instagram because I
was like, man, I've been on Instagram, like you know,
in like a date, and.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
It's like five minutes.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
I seen a blog site posted this and I was like, Na,
this can't be real. This cannot be real.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
It was real.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Did you see the old the security gonna throw his
hat up?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yo, I want to wait to get in an altercation
with somebody, so throw your hat at. I can't wait.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
You bring the hood out.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
I'm throwing my hat up. And when I throw my
hat up, you already know what time it is.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
No, but you gotta hope because I think that he
threw his hat up because he wants them to be distracted.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Well, I thought he was calling for help.
Speaker 8 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Hell, that was like a bird car. It's like you know,
where the gang at.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I thought he was like trying to strac because he
threw the hat up and he looked at the hat
like it was a magic. I thought he thought the
guy was gonna look up at the.
Speaker 6 (02:08):
I'm doing it whatever it means.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
What was your initial thought when you saw it?
Speaker 6 (02:12):
I mean to be honest, I can't stand fighting like
videos right, Like it makes me cranch all the time.
But that one I was like, I was so into it.
It made me feel I mean, it was like one
of them fights that'd be fun.
Speaker 7 (02:25):
I didn't watch it at first because I was afraid,
Like I don't like stuff like that either.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
It's like, man, I don't want to see no more
racist stuff.
Speaker 7 (02:31):
But then when I heard that some black people came
to his rescue.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
I was like, well, let me see.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
He was just about to get his ass whooped. I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I seen it was looking a little it was looking bad.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Right, and then I kept swiping. And then I seen, like,
you know, seven other brothers come running to the rescue.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
And I said, him swimming to the rescue.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
It was the swim. For me, it was the swimmer,
and then the trainer. Up it was the chair.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, now you know, man, listen, he was whooping. Every
everybody asked with that chair.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
He went crazy with the chair.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I was. I was kind of scared for it was
just like everybody.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
And then a little poor little ladies, Oh my god, well.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
We can't say poor little ladies because they the ladies
was jumping on the security guard.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
To me, listen, all of them was drunk. They had
to be.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
They had to be on something, because I just wonder
what made them be like, Yo, we're all.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
About to jump this security guard right.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Down, this privileged man.
Speaker 7 (03:27):
You know, it all started because somebody told them they
couldn't do something.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Yep, you know, we ain't supposed to tell him they
can't do nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Yeah, and that man got that man got a job
to do.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Man.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
It's like, you know people, but I mean, you know.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Like she said, privilege a black man telling you you
can't park your boat right here, like you ain't gonna
have that.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
When they got they ass whooped.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I tell you that because one of the guys I
believe was on TikTok and did y'all see his face.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
His face on the screen.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
I was like, damn, look like you got your ass
his nose.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Yeah, he said he said that man could fight.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
You know a lot of people on the internet where
we love so much about it, is like you really
don't see black people stick together like that, you know
what I mean, Like it's stuff like that happens. You
normally see people just kind of be like, oh, I'm
just gonna record this and stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
But nah, it was an absolute, like moment, you know
what I'm saying, something that we needed. And right after
it was over with, though, it went back to black
people trashing each other on social media, Like you know
what I'm saying. It wasn't even a whole day later
that went by it and people was back on their bullshit.
But it definitely was a moment like we needed that,
(04:38):
we needed to see each other come together and whip
some What was.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Your favorite meme?
Speaker 6 (04:43):
The crocs? Oh my with the crocodiles and so the
crock was all up his legs and it was so
funny because I'm probably like the last person in the
world to get a pair of crocs, right, And so
I posted a picture with my crocs on maybe like
three weeks ago, and then the people was coluning to me.
They was like, damn bam, why you got them in
(05:04):
sports mode? And I didn't even know what the hell
that meant. So I had like the little strap on
the back, and so I was like, see, this is
why I keep my shit in sport mode. You know
that we got CROs he had they were like shin
guards at that point. You know what I'm saying. They
was like, man.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah that was that was a brawl.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I think my favorite moment was, I mean, well, the
favorite meme where they said, I'm going to tell my
kids this was a civil rights movement.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
No, no, no, it was another one soldier boy when
he was doing Oh yeah, that's how I'm gonna be.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Telling that story.
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Yeah, this is what I'm how I'm gonna be when
I tell my kids what happened?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
What about yours?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Mine was?
Speaker 7 (05:46):
They made a whole playlist called the Montgomery Bral on Spotify,
so I could imagine.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Did you see the people of Some people went back
and they found the chair.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
No, you just see people.
Speaker 5 (05:59):
Take somebody got a tattoo of the chair.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
I've seen the tattoo.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
That's o D.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Oh my gosh, y'all check that video out. Go fund
me all the people you know, free us forever. Also,
congratulations to see her and Russell. She uh revealed that
she's pregnant again.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Oh wait, I thought a girl. I'm thinking Carly Russell.
I was like, wait see her or Russell? Okay, okay, yes,
trying to wrestle.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Man was just here to throw a party, though it
search a rescue party.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah yeah, but yeah, like you said, you know, Atlanta
will book anybody for anything.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
We'll book a giraffe, period giraffe.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, man.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
But another thing, in case you missed it, Bam is
here in the building.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
We're gonna talk to a little bit.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
We'll be right back with more of a boler Alert Show.
You're listening to a special edition of the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
What's a good job. It's the Bam and you're now
tuned in to The.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Baller Alert Show for more of the Butler Show. Bambi
is definitely in the building. In case you missed it,
y'all all in the blogs.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Man, are not all in the blood is doing their job.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
They love you.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
They eating it up.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
I ain't even been saying nothing. That's a crazy thing.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
You can say whatever you want to say here.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
Hey, listen first first, we can't, you know, assume everybody
know who Bam is.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
So before we get started, let everybody know. You know
a little bit about yourself, who you are? You know,
I know you came from the West Coast.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Yeah for sure. I'm definitely from Compton.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
You from Compton, I Am.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
You didn't know that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I never knew that. Where'd you think I was from Atlanta?
Speaker 6 (07:36):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Really love hip hop Atlanta.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
You didn't start there though.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
No.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
I was on Basketball Wives l A. That was like
the first show that I did. Gotcha, you know love
and hip hop?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:49):
Let you initially get into TV? Was it your you
said your cousin.
Speaker 6 (07:53):
No. So I went to college and LA. So my
last year I had to pick up a minor. I
tried to find something that was super duper easy. So
I was like, let me minor in theater. So just
so one of my theater teachers he was on a
popular TV show at the time, and then he was like,
you can get some credit if you go do some
(08:14):
background and I said, oh shit for show. Like so
I started doing like a little background work and then
I ended up really getting into it and you know,
becoming a member of SEG and I started doing independent films.
I was doing like music videos, modeling all kind of
stuff when I was living in LA and then I
moved out to Atlanta and then really started like pursuing
(08:38):
the music very heavily. And at that time, one of
my best friends she was on Basketball Wives. So I
went on the show as her friend, but as an
artist still Malaysia. Yeah, we grew up together, so that's
like family.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
How was that first introduction in a TV? Like, was
you nervous?
Speaker 6 (08:58):
You know what? It was so crazy because reality TV
at that time was like getting real real popular and
that show was really big. And I didn't understand like
the whole concept of reality TV. I thought it was
just like real real shit, like all day, every day.
And I didn't understand that it was like organized real life.
(09:22):
So I was kind of like a loose cannon, you know.
I was just like, what do you mean organized? So
it's just like you know, you come in, you gotta
sit down, you gotta wait, you can't talk yet, you
gotta you know, talk about certain things, and so it's
just like.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
A production, a production.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
And I didn't understand that, and I went into it
like very blind.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
And they probably was like yes, got her.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
They were were at the same time.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
You had a lot of time though, ye you was.
You had a crazy rock.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
And I think that's why because I was so like
blind to like there really was. I just went in like, yeah,
what's up, Like, bitch, my friend don't like you, so
I don't like your ass, Like, so it was it
was crazy. It was a real one on. Yeah. I
was like, yeah, no, that's not how this work.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
You like you like you a little bit seasoned now.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
Yeah, so now I'm a lot more like reserved, and
I understand you know what it is, like, it's it's
very real elements of your life, but just in like
a more produced way.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Do you think like back then when you started doing
reality TV, like that was kind of like the golden
age of reality TV versus now it's so many different platforms.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
No, what I really felt like was the golden moment
in reality TV was like stuff like The Hills and that,
Like no, well that too, But to be honest, I
ain't even really watch it like that. I was looking
at more like like The Hills, right, did you guys
ever watch that?
Speaker 8 (10:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Like people were making like millions.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Of dollars, but they came for millions, right.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
So for me, that was like the Golden California too.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
So you like, you like the type of money that
they're making, you know.
Speaker 6 (11:08):
And then you know, we get all these black people
together to act the damn.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Fool and yeah, and then next thing you know, it's.
Speaker 7 (11:15):
Like people, Yeah, to your point at reality back then,
you had like the Jessica Simpson and Nick show.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
You had Laguna Beach, the Hills and.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
H oh yeah that was doing but I think and
then on the Black Side you did have Baldwin Hills.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
I watched that too, Yeah, I watched. They weren't making
millions though, but they were in a better light than
a flavor flav Yeah was yeah for sure. Yeah, what made.
Speaker 7 (11:44):
The transition for you to you know, be on Basketball
Wise and then come in and join another reality show
in Atlanta?
Speaker 6 (11:52):
So I was actually living in Atlanta and then doing
like the music stuff, and then my friends started doing
basketba and so I went home to film Basketball Wives.
I was actually living here already, and then when that
was over, I came back to Atlanta and still like
doing my music stuff, and then I started like going
out with Scrap and so it just seemed like the
(12:15):
natural kind of segue, like Okay, well this show is
more about like the music, and now I'm dating him,
So you know, it seemed like.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
The the right thing to do.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
Seemed like the thing that made the most sense.
Speaker 7 (12:29):
You know, did they ask you to be a part
of it or is that something was that like playing.
Speaker 6 (12:34):
Well, I had met like some of the producers just
kind of like out and about and it was a thought,
like I thought about it. I'm like, well maybe I
should do this, and then yeah, like just start talking
to the people. Once me and him started actually like really.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Dating, how was it like on your first day on set?
Speaker 6 (12:53):
It was it was light because it was just like
me and him, we were playing basketball or something.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Okay, so they was warming you up pretty much.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 7 (13:02):
So you guys, you know, have your relationship on TV
or whatever, you end up getting married and having kids
and having the family.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
What turned everything? Was it the show?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
That just I don't think it was a show. You
can't really blame the show. It's just kind of life,
you know, like just growing and different directions at like
a different pace because obviously, you know people grow, like
that's what we do. But you know, just kind of
like growing at a different pace is like the key,
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you know, because you could be growing one moment I
came and then you know it's just like a whole
bunch of ups and downs, and then the downs just
started to be the It was a lot of downs.
Speaker 7 (13:50):
Wow. Yeah, for those who don't know you and Scrappy,
you know, are get or are you divorced?
Speaker 6 (13:55):
That we're officially divorced?
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Okay, yeah, so what was the moment though?
Speaker 7 (14:00):
That was just like this is just over cause y'all
were going back and forth for a second on the show.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
Yes we were. For me, like the ultimate deal breaker
is cheating, just I can't do it.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
So you don't believe in any more chance, you don't
believe in like second chances.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I mean, I don't disagree with that for some people
in these situations, but for my situation, it just didn't
like deserve a second chance because we already had some
other shit going on. And then that was just kind
of like all right, so.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yeah, nah, he was like, that's that was kind of
the last strong Yeah, you don't think y'all.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Ever get back together. We're divorced, me, you can't get remarried.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
Yeah, no, I don't think. Well that's not I don't think,
but no, we're that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 5 (14:43):
How did you guys break the news to your children?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
Well, my oldest is four, and so it wasn't really
something I had to sit him down for. He just
kinda I don't know, it just was like a natural
kind of thing. I tried to keep things as normal
as possible for as long as we could. And then
now he just you know, he goes to his dad's
(15:08):
house and then he comes back home. So it wasn't
really like a thank god, you know, he was so young. Still,
I feel like had he been like six seven, eight,
we would have had a lot of explaining to do.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
But how old are your younger children?
Speaker 6 (15:26):
They just turned two and three, So have a two
year old, a three year old and a four year old.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
How's that as a single mom.
Speaker 6 (15:32):
I wouldn't necessarily say single mom because I don't want
to offend the women who only who is just them,
you know what I'm saying. So we share the responsibility
of our children, and you know, they go with their
dad for a couple days and then they come home.
And of course even when you got your kids for
five days, like it gets it's a lot. But I
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mean I have a great balance, you know, Like my
kids are at a real energetic age, so we do
a lot of shit, like during the day, you know,
it's like NonStop when when I'm with them. And then yeah,
so I mean we've been we've been working it out.
It's been going well for us like, I'm good. They're good,
(16:18):
they're happy, healthy, and they they weren't like shocked into
a situation. It wasn't traumatic for them.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So yeah, how does the co parenting work? Do you
still contact him?
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Or I don't a medium. I'm a different type of person,
like I don't really like confrontation. I don't like a
lot of extra shit. And our kids they are two,
three and four, so they're out of age where when
it's time for him to come pick them up, I
just let up the garage and they run on out,
or you know, a family member is probably there.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
So y'all don't really communicate.
Speaker 6 (16:56):
We don't really have to.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
Does the media bother you? Because I know you don't
really say too much on the media in the Internet.
Speaker 6 (17:04):
I don't want to say it bothers me because it
comes with the territory. But I will say that it's
starting to get really really out of hand, like with
certain like blogs in the way that they were things
And I had to reach out to a blog maybe
a couple of weeks ago, and they posted something they
(17:25):
reposted something that I posted, and they tried to make
it relate to something that Scrap's mom had posted and
I just asked them, like very respectfully. I was like,
how did you even pair the two? Like I'm not
even talking about them, like this has nothing to do
(17:47):
with it something. Yeah, And I was just like, you know,
like y'all kind of setting me up to be bullied
because it looks like I'm feeding into whatever they got
going on, and I wasn't at all. So sometimes it
just gets annoying because I can't even post like a
thought or a feeling or a quote or anything without
people assuming that it's about that situation.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Now with the media, like a lot of people on
the internet, they feel like when all of these things,
when it's a lot of back and forth, you know,
with reality TV stars, people feel like that you guys
are doing this because of a storyline.
Speaker 6 (18:24):
I know a lot of people feel like that, and
some people do that though some people actually you know,
go online and do things and say things because it
does help them, like with a storyline, because now they
have something to film about or talk about. So I
understand why people can assume that that will be the case,
but it's never been a case for me because you know,
(18:48):
like obviously, like I don't even have to do anything
to have a fucking storyline, like I don't have to
do nothing.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Like people just they did. They take the posts down.
Speaker 6 (18:58):
They did, and I was really surprised that they took
it down. They didn't like clap back and try to
say nothing weird or nothing. They just they just took
it down.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I think it's because it's because it came directly from you.
I think it was like from me.
Speaker 6 (19:13):
Yeah, but I respected that though, because you know, and
I came at them very very respectfully, like I was
just like, hey, like, I'm absolutely not referring to them,
and if I do, like you will know because it's
gonna be a lot more direct. And so right now
I feel like y'all set me up to be bullied
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and so they just removed the post.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Do you feel the need to respond?
Speaker 6 (19:36):
Sometimes I do, but right now no, it's because I
know that people are looking for a response. So at
this point, I'm just like, it's not even worth it.
And then you find yourself trying to defend yourself about everything,
and you just go down this sucking rabbit hole because
if you defend yourself about one thing, they'll be like,
well what about this? But then you said this? But
(19:57):
then you did that, and I'm just like, su leave
me all lot home please? They on you heavy.
Speaker 8 (20:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (20:04):
And well his side, like his mother and his first
baby mom and their child is like definitely coming at
you head.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Yeah. You know what's crazy about that? I'm like, imagine
divorcing somebody because they cheated and then now their family
is attacking you. So he did you wrong and and
they're attacking I'm like, make it make please, make it
(20:33):
make sense, but it you know.
Speaker 5 (20:34):
How do you feel about that? Though?
Speaker 6 (20:36):
I don't. I just feel like she's crazy and she weird,
and you know, like just anything that I say in response,
like it just gives her some extra fuel to just
keep going and going, and I'm just like, you're tired. Yeah,
it's annoying. It's annoying, but it's also like who cares?
(20:58):
Like I don't think anybody even like pays her that
much attention or even if they do, like they're being
entertained by it. And I don't think that people. She's
not a credible like source, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (21:11):
So you know when the when Erica goes on line
or on love and hip hop and say says stuff
like you didn't feed her child and things like that, Like,
how do you respond to that?
Speaker 6 (21:22):
I don't because the other day I was just asking myself,
I was like, should I try to even defend myself
and show the entire threat because when it kind of
like Manni Mani's relationship, Our whole relationship was based off
of like me kind of coddling her, you know, doing
(21:43):
things for her and taking care of her. I love that,
you know what I'm saying. That was like before I
even had kids. I consider her like my kid. So
when I hear her mom says say those types of things,
I'm just like, for one, like, where are you even
getting this from? Because I know, like I just I
don't want to believe that e Money had ever like
(22:04):
said some shit like that to her mom. And then I,
like I said, I looked at my whole thread of
text messages and I'm like the whole thing is like hey, bam,
can you order me some food? Or I'm like hey
I cooked to send the microwave or you know whatever.
So it just doesn't really prompt me to want to
like defend myself or to just be like, no, this
(22:24):
is all bullshit. I'm just like whatever if that's yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:28):
I think people get confused too, because y'all, you any
money had like a back and forth.
Speaker 6 (22:32):
We absolutely did not have a back and forth, And
the fact that people say that is insane to me.
It wasn't a back and forth. It was she had
referred to me as that lady, and then people were
in my comments saying that lady, that lady, and I
was like, what the fuck are they talking about? So
my next post I used to caption that lady because
(22:54):
I had obviously saw the video of her saying, you know,
calling me that lady, So I used the caption. I said,
it's that lady. So for me, that wasn't going back
and forth with her. That was me posting a caption.
And then her mom started talking, and then she started talking.
But when I started going back, it was to her mom.
It was never to her.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Oh okay, yeah, does that make you not trust people?
Speaker 6 (23:15):
It does. But you know, I've always been a lot
like guarded and a little reserved even in my marriage,
because I don't know, I didn't fully like just trust
so him. Well, it wasn't necessarily him, it was just
like the people around like I wouldn't like disclose too
(23:38):
much of my personal life because I didn't really trust
the people around him. Okay, but you disclosed it to him,
not to everybody else, you says, nah, because I mean
certain things I would just not tell him, like and nothing.
I don't think anything too like serious, but certainly things
(24:00):
I just wouldn't because I know that he likes to
share a lot of information.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
So are you still You're still love and hip hop?
Speaker 6 (24:08):
Right? I am?
Speaker 7 (24:08):
When people say, like, you know, what's your storyline going
to be? You know, and how she gonna remain on here?
What do you say to those people?
Speaker 6 (24:15):
Obviously I've been doing this before. If they're insane waiting
that just because you know I'm not with him anymore.
I mean, maybe it will be the show, maybe it won't.
But as long as they you know what I'm saying,
writing them checks and want me around, I'll be around.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Hello. Have they called?
Speaker 6 (24:31):
They? Have they?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Have they called?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Have you?
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Have you been speaking with them about?
Speaker 6 (24:37):
I mean we're still filming, We're in the the second
half of the season, and I'm divorced, so obviously my
storyline has nothing to do with him, you know.
Speaker 7 (24:48):
So with your music, you said you getting back to
what do you have like projects you're working on, like
his album come in. I don't know about an album
just yet, but I definitely have been recording and you know,
I got singles that I've been dropping, and this year
on the show, like they have absolutely been highlighting me,
like as an artist, like just kind of getting back
(25:08):
in and it's been really cathartic, you know what I'm saying,
just to be in the studio and kind of releasing
and that's been my release.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
And that's good that they're able to like highlight more
of like your music.
Speaker 6 (25:19):
Yeah, I absolutely love that because for as long as
I've been on this show, that has not been the case.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
I'm pretty sure that somebody on your team probably made
a call.
Speaker 6 (25:30):
Yeah, I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
This is what we want to focus on some.
Speaker 6 (25:36):
Yeah, but yeah, so, but in general, I feel like
this season they've been kind of like showcasing their artists
a lot more than they have in the past, which
is great. You know, it's a good look. It's on
MTV now. I feel like it's a lot of talented
artists on this show and it kind of always get
(25:59):
overshadowed by rama. The drama, yeah, and that's what people watch,
you know. Yeah, they want to see the drama. But
then they tell us like, well, why y'all on TV
doing this? And I can ratchet and I'm just like, well,
how do you know because you're watching right well.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
And it's like when people say things like that, and
I'm like, if y'all want these things to not be
on your TV, don't watch.
Speaker 6 (26:22):
That's what I'm saying. I just feel like people have
this selective outrage, you know what I'm saying, Like they
get so so angry about certain things, and then they
want to cancel people. And people can't have opinions, but
they can. Everybody on the internet can drag you, they
can bully you, they can say whatever they want to
(26:42):
say about you. But then if I say one comment
and response to something that somebody said to me, then
you know they're gonna cancel me, they gonna drag me,
they gonna do all this shit. But they can they
can do this all day collectively as like a group
a community.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
Does that make you kind of like be like, you know,
on the internet, like I don't really like you know,
does it kind of make you like nervous being on
the internet?
Speaker 3 (27:09):
Now?
Speaker 6 (27:10):
I don't want to say nervous, but I save a
lot of things for the people who actually give a fuck,
if that makes sense. So you know, I have a
group of friends who I talk to if I want
to discuss something that's a topic that I feel is
personal or deep or you know whatever. I'd rather have
those discussions with people privately, Yeah, privately, and people who
(27:33):
can have healthy discussions. And now people that just are
going to try to drag you if you disagree with them.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
They trying to counsel Jamie Fox, I'm like the man
almost died.
Speaker 6 (27:45):
Yeah, and everybody was so just distraught and sending prayers
and he says one thing against what they believe in
or whatever the case. I don't even know what the
situation is. But now I just see everybody.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
Well, he made a statement when he h he was
talking about a fake friend that was I guess that
was around him recently, and he said, uh, what do
you post?
Speaker 3 (28:09):
He said, if they hated it on Jesus, what you
think they'll do to you?
Speaker 4 (28:14):
And I think the word they is what kind of
like you know, said certain community off, I'm exhausted.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Their energy is like real chill, you're very unbothered.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Yeah, And I mean, and you know that has been sad,
Like that's.
Speaker 3 (28:34):
The energy that you give me respected because I'm unbothered.
Speaker 6 (28:38):
Yes, Like I don't. I don't really. I just be like,
what you what you want to do about it? Like
I'm very solution based, that's my thing.
Speaker 7 (28:45):
I'm like, yeah, did your family get upset or oh
they be ready to go crazy?
Speaker 6 (28:52):
But my family, See, that's that's the thing. When your
family is like respectful, they respect me. Like so my
mom respects me. My cousins, my brothers, they respect me.
So if I say pump y'all breaks, they gonna do that.
So your family like unleashing and the people around you
just like being unruly. That's a sign of them not
(29:13):
having no respect for you. So my people they all
got respect for me. If I tell them pipe down,
they piped down.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
Okay, would you I know you're newly divorced and all that,
but would you, Uh, when do you think you'll be
able to open to dating again?
Speaker 6 (29:26):
I mean I've been on some dates.
Speaker 5 (29:28):
Okay, Yeah, did you like any of the guys?
Speaker 3 (29:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (29:37):
I think they cool, but like, oh, I actually like
enjoy like dating or like being courted. You know what
I'm saying not on like no kind of like I
don't know. I just like when a guy be like, hey,
you know we're gonna go through a B and C cool,
like let's go see what's going on. We have these
nice conversations and we have dinner and then you know
(30:00):
like maybe we'll talk again, maybe we won't. But I
think ladies need to kind of like be on that
type of vibe opposed to you know, oh no, I
ain't never been the girl that's just like oh yeah,
I'm wanna fuck with him or I want to like I.
Speaker 5 (30:17):
Just be lill type of vibees you mean they need
to be on just enjoy.
Speaker 6 (30:23):
Yeah, that too, like when your options, but just enjoy
like the mono, meeting people, seeing if y'all got anything
in common, like just everything ain't a race. And even
some of these dates I've been on, it's so crazy
because two times, like I've tried to like offer to
(30:43):
even like pay like half because I knew it wasn't
really Benna go nowhere after that's you know, cannot wait.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
So is that is that the signal that that.
Speaker 6 (30:56):
Well, I mean yeah, I like I'll grab I'll grab
the dinner, like don't even worry about it. I don't
be one to offend nobody, but yeah, I'm finna go
to the house.
Speaker 5 (31:11):
What do you look for? What's your type?
Speaker 6 (31:14):
I don't really have a type, to be honest, Like,
I like, that's why I like to go out with
somebody and kind of see what type of personality they got.
If you don't really seem like thirsty and you just
chill and we can have good conversation, that's my type.
So I just like being able to vibe with somebody
(31:34):
that ain't super thirsty and extra.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Have you vibed with any Africans? Because you know, we
just had Jesse Will on the show. She said there's
like three main Africans one in Atlanta.
Speaker 6 (31:43):
No, I know, I haven't.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
No.
Speaker 6 (31:46):
Well, actually I think one of the guys said he
was nah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Yah.
Speaker 4 (31:53):
So so when you when you go on these days,
could you tell like when somebody's into you because they
like your personality or because of who you are?
Speaker 6 (32:02):
No, I think it got to be the personality because
most of the guys I've gone out with are well
established and not like that. But you know they already,
So yeah, I don't think it be. But you never
know because a lot of famous people, they they'll look
(32:22):
at somebody on TV and be like, ooh, I like
her because you.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Know, or be a lot of guys that are established
and you know they want to be famous.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
That's true too. Yeah, I haven't caught that vibe, and
hopefully I don't because I really, you know, would love
a private relationship going forward.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
Yeah, how do guys approach you? Do they or people
approach you?
Speaker 6 (32:45):
Do they be in your DM or so It's a
lot of d ms, but I really don't. I just
started like going on the other side, like checking those
and I'm.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
Like, oh, okay, any surprises.
Speaker 6 (33:00):
Yeah, but but for the for me, like I like
like the intro, like my friend one of my friends
would be like, hey like such and such, Like I
don't know, it just seems a little.
Speaker 7 (33:12):
More Can somebody introduce you to somebody versus you finding
it a little bit more safe?
Speaker 6 (33:17):
Yeah, because like the Instagram, it just feel weird, Like
I'd be even scared to like write back like they
finished screenshot this ship or I don't know, it just
be weird. I'd be like, nah, let me just if somebody,
you know, make a nice little introduction, then that's like,
like you said, it feels safer.
Speaker 7 (33:36):
So so if you find somebody you know, do you
want more kids? Are your tubes tied?
Speaker 6 (33:41):
No, my tubes are not tired. They are wide open.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
Okay kids, I think so.
Speaker 6 (33:47):
But no, I didn't tie my tubes, burn them or
do nothing like that. So I'm definitely, you know, open
to more, open to more children. Why not? I got
hella already.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
So if you date somebody and you actually like them,
do you see them coming on the show with you?
Speaker 3 (34:05):
No, No, You're gonna be like, hell no, you can't.
Speaker 6 (34:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
No, So where are you at now? You know what's
next for you?
Speaker 6 (34:16):
Well, I mean I'm always always, always working and doing
new things and just rediscovering myself. Of course, I still
have my salon here house a Shimmer, so it's a
salon and a boutique, and I'm expanding that, like I
always have new products my kids, Shimer Babies, like it's
(34:37):
a new hair product like for kids. And I also
have a children's book that I'm releasing soon and it
kind of talks about the space that my kids are
in right now, having the transition having two homes. So
it's a good way for parents to kind of like
introduce that new life to like a small kid, the Todller.
(35:01):
So that's what this new book is about. And you know,
of course like still doing the music, just everything.
Speaker 8 (35:09):
We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of The
Baller Alert Show. You're listening to a special edition of
The Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
What's a good job? It's Thebam and you're now tuned
in to the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 8 (35:27):
That's it.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
Dear ball Alert, My homeboys getting married and asks me
and a few mutual friends to be his grooming one
in particular friend that I know for a fact tried
to holler.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
At his fiance in the past. Do I say something
or do I lead that drama alone?
Speaker 6 (35:41):
You know what it's to lose. Lose because if you
say something, then you're potentially gonna ruin the vibe of everything.
You don't know what the friend is gonna how he's
gonna feel, you don't know how the fiance is gonna feel.
You don't know, like you're gonna fuck that whole situation.
The wedding might even be called off right if you
(36:03):
kind of disclose this information, because the dude's probably gonna
be like, why you didn't tell me. He's gonna be
asking his girl like why you didn't say nothing or whatever.
But if you keep it to yourself and then later
on after they're married they find out, then you're gonna
be fucked up again. So just be quiet. I would
(36:29):
just be quiet.
Speaker 4 (36:32):
I think I'm agree with you on this. I think
that you don't need to say nothing. First of all,
it's not like y'all has sex. Right, he tried to
holler that dude girl and ended up anything I'll say,
and getting married, And to me, that's not a big deal.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
She obviously is attractive.
Speaker 6 (36:50):
Right. Oh, I got a better one. Maybe he should
tell the guy who tried to holler at the girl
that he needs to set this one out, so they
need to have a private conversation. And you just need
to go tell boy like, hey, you tried to holler
at her. Is making me uncomfortable?
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Oh, Like, you probably don't need to be a groom
You don't.
Speaker 6 (37:06):
Need to be a groomsman. Just go sit this one
out and tell him you you can't make it.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
Yeah, I think that would be kind of weird too,
if I tried to holler at somebody's you know, potential
wife and I'm his groomsman. I kind of be like, uh,
you know, I gotta be in Cowboy or something Union
or something. Yeah, like, yeah, you probably need to sit
that one out. And you know, I don't think you
need to say anything because something like that when somebody's
(37:31):
get about to get married and it's like man as
a man, it's like you don't want you like, bro,
you're supposed to be my home. But it's like an
episode of you know, what's the what's the movie called
the Woods?
Speaker 6 (37:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (37:42):
Yeah, the Wood?
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Yeah, the Woods? Like yeah, man, just yeah, I agree
with you. Sit this one out.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
What you think? No, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
Just you need to excuse yourself, yep, because this.
Speaker 6 (37:56):
Is that private conversation with your boy and be like
just don't even don't even worry about it.
Speaker 5 (38:01):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 7 (38:02):
Not Well, Bamby, Like I said, we appreciate you for
stopping by the Ball Alert Show. You are open to
come anytime you want to rote whatever you want to.
Before we get out of here, we got.
Speaker 5 (38:11):
A pep talk with Bambi.
Speaker 6 (38:13):
Hey guys, this is the bam And my advice to
everybody out there is just to be silent and a
season where it feels like you're being attacked. Okay, sometimes
it's okay to just be quiet. You don't have to respond.
You can just kind of be in a safe, quiet
(38:33):
space by yourself and just really try to process everything
that's going on around you before you start speaking.
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low shout of O c T no what we see?
Whole game read the butler something. Oh, you can't stand
on their own se I already know you can't bother
with me because with the squad of me, they get
a little They called me.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
He love Bather Alert. Welcome to the Butther Alert Show
on c T.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
What up you know, BT?
Speaker 2 (00:28):
We got a special guess in the buildings.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
We do yo, this bawn baby in the building?
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yeah, y'all do listen. I came in here, I out.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
You don't even look like you got how many kids?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
You got?
Speaker 6 (00:44):
Three girls day, three whole children?
Speaker 7 (00:47):
You were good though, wow, shining and everything. Let's get
into it. We're gonna we got a segment on our
show called in case you missed it, and in case
everybody missed it, I'm sure they did and know the
Montgomery broad went down.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Did y'all see it?
Speaker 6 (01:03):
I mean, if you missed that, then where the hell
you been? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
If you missed that, you weren't on the internet. I
was out of the country and I was on the beach,
and I think I was like the first person to
see it, because I don't know for whatever reason I had.
I had took a shot. I was on the beach,
and then I just went on my Instagram because I
was like, man, I've been on Instagram, like you know,
in like a date, and.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
It's like five minutes.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
I seen a blog site posted this and I was like, Na,
this can't be real. This cannot be real.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
It was real.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
Did you see the old the security gonna throw his
hat up?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yo, I want to wait to get in an altercation
with somebody, so throw your hat at. I can't wait.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
You bring the hood out.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
I'm throwing my hat up. And when I throw my
hat up, you already know what time it is.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
No, but you gotta hope because I think that he
threw his hat up because he wants them to be distracted.
Speaker 6 (01:52):
Well, I thought he was calling for help.
Speaker 8 (01:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (01:55):
Hell, that was like a bird car. It's like you know,
where the gang at.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
I thought he was like trying to strac because he
threw the hat up and he looked at the hat
like it was a magic. I thought he thought the
guy was gonna look up at the.
Speaker 6 (02:08):
I'm doing it whatever it means.
Speaker 5 (02:10):
What was your initial thought when you saw it?
Speaker 6 (02:12):
I mean to be honest, I can't stand fighting like
videos right, Like it makes me cranch all the time.
But that one I was like, I was so into it.
It made me feel I mean, it was like one
of them fights that'd be fun.
Speaker 7 (02:25):
I didn't watch it at first because I was afraid,
Like I don't like stuff like that either.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
It's like, man, I don't want to see no more
racist stuff.
Speaker 7 (02:31):
But then when I heard that some black people came
to his rescue.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
I was like, well, let me see.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
He was just about to get his ass whooped. I'm
not gonna lie.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I seen it was looking a little it was looking bad.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
Right, and then I kept swiping. And then I seen, like,
you know, seven other brothers come running to the rescue.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
And I said, him swimming to the rescue.
Speaker 6 (02:52):
It was the swim. For me, it was the swimmer,
and then the trainer. Up it was the chair.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Yeah, now you know, man, listen, he was whooping. Every
everybody asked with that chair.
Speaker 6 (03:01):
He went crazy with the chair.
Speaker 3 (03:03):
I was. I was kind of scared for it was
just like everybody.
Speaker 6 (03:08):
And then a little poor little ladies, Oh my god, well.
Speaker 4 (03:13):
We can't say poor little ladies because they the ladies
was jumping on the security guard.
Speaker 5 (03:17):
To me, listen, all of them was drunk. They had
to be.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
They had to be on something, because I just wonder
what made them be like, Yo, we're all.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
About to jump this security guard right.
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Down, this privileged man.
Speaker 7 (03:27):
You know, it all started because somebody told them they
couldn't do something.
Speaker 6 (03:31):
Yep, you know, we ain't supposed to tell him they
can't do nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
Yeah, and that man got that man got a job
to do.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
Man.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
It's like, you know people, but I mean, you know.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Like she said, privilege a black man telling you you
can't park your boat right here, like you ain't gonna
have that.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
When they got they ass whooped.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
I tell you that because one of the guys I
believe was on TikTok and did y'all see his face.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
His face on the screen.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
I was like, damn, look like you got your ass
his nose.
Speaker 6 (04:01):
Yeah, he said he said that man could fight.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
You know a lot of people on the internet where
we love so much about it, is like you really
don't see black people stick together like that, you know
what I mean, Like it's stuff like that happens. You
normally see people just kind of be like, oh, I'm
just gonna record this and stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (04:16):
But nah, it was an absolute, like moment, you know
what I'm saying, something that we needed. And right after
it was over with, though, it went back to black
people trashing each other on social media, Like you know
what I'm saying. It wasn't even a whole day later
that went by it and people was back on their bullshit.
But it definitely was a moment like we needed that,
(04:38):
we needed to see each other come together and whip
some What was.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Your favorite meme?
Speaker 6 (04:43):
The crocs? Oh my with the crocodiles and so the
crock was all up his legs and it was so
funny because I'm probably like the last person in the
world to get a pair of crocs, right, And so
I posted a picture with my crocs on maybe like
three weeks ago, and then the people was coluning to me.
They was like, damn bam, why you got them in
(05:04):
sports mode? And I didn't even know what the hell
that meant. So I had like the little strap on
the back, and so I was like, see, this is
why I keep my shit in sport mode. You know
that we got CROs he had they were like shin
guards at that point. You know what I'm saying. They
was like, man.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Yeah that was that was a brawl.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
I think my favorite moment was, I mean, well, the
favorite meme where they said, I'm going to tell my
kids this was a civil rights movement.
Speaker 6 (05:30):
No, no, no, it was another one soldier boy when
he was doing Oh yeah, that's how I'm gonna be.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
Telling that story.
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Yeah, this is what I'm how I'm gonna be when
I tell my kids what happened?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
What about yours?
Speaker 4 (05:45):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Mine was?
Speaker 7 (05:46):
They made a whole playlist called the Montgomery Bral on Spotify,
so I could imagine.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
Did you see the people of Some people went back
and they found the chair.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
No, you just see people.
Speaker 5 (05:59):
Take somebody got a tattoo of the chair.
Speaker 6 (06:01):
I've seen the tattoo.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
That's o D.
Speaker 6 (06:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:05):
Oh my gosh, y'all check that video out. Go fund
me all the people you know, free us forever. Also,
congratulations to see her and Russell. She uh revealed that
she's pregnant again.
Speaker 6 (06:18):
Oh wait, I thought a girl. I'm thinking Carly Russell.
I was like, wait see her or Russell? Okay, okay, yes,
trying to wrestle.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Man was just here to throw a party, though it
search a rescue party.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah yeah, but yeah, like you said, you know, Atlanta
will book anybody for anything.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
We'll book a giraffe, period giraffe.
Speaker 6 (06:39):
Yeah, man.
Speaker 7 (06:40):
But another thing, in case you missed it, Bam is
here in the building.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
We're gonna talk to a little bit.
Speaker 8 (06:45):
We'll be right back with more of a boler Alert Show.
You're listening to a special edition of the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (06:54):
What's a good job. It's the Bam and you're now
tuned in to The.
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Baller Alert Show for more of the Butler Show. Bambi
is definitely in the building. In case you missed it,
y'all all in the blogs.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
Man, are not all in the blood is doing their job.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
They love you.
Speaker 5 (07:10):
They eating it up.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
I ain't even been saying nothing. That's a crazy thing.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
You can say whatever you want to say here.
Speaker 7 (07:17):
Hey, listen first first, we can't, you know, assume everybody
know who Bam is.
Speaker 5 (07:21):
So before we get started, let everybody know. You know
a little bit about yourself, who you are? You know,
I know you came from the West Coast.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Yeah for sure. I'm definitely from Compton.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
You from Compton, I Am.
Speaker 6 (07:33):
You didn't know that.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
I never knew that. Where'd you think I was from Atlanta?
Speaker 6 (07:36):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Really love hip hop Atlanta.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
You didn't start there though.
Speaker 4 (07:41):
No.
Speaker 6 (07:41):
I was on Basketball Wives l A. That was like
the first show that I did. Gotcha, you know love
and hip hop?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (07:49):
Let you initially get into TV? Was it your you
said your cousin.
Speaker 6 (07:53):
No. So I went to college and LA. So my
last year I had to pick up a minor. I
tried to find something that was super duper easy. So
I was like, let me minor in theater. So just
so one of my theater teachers he was on a
popular TV show at the time, and then he was like,
you can get some credit if you go do some
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background and I said, oh shit for show. Like so
I started doing like a little background work and then
I ended up really getting into it and you know,
becoming a member of SEG and I started doing independent films.
I was doing like music videos, modeling all kind of
stuff when I was living in LA and then I
moved out to Atlanta and then really started like pursuing
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the music very heavily. And at that time, one of
my best friends she was on Basketball Wives. So I
went on the show as her friend, but as an
artist still Malaysia. Yeah, we grew up together, so that's
like family.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
How was that first introduction in a TV? Like, was
you nervous?
Speaker 6 (08:58):
You know what? It was so crazy because reality TV
at that time was like getting real real popular and
that show was really big. And I didn't understand like
the whole concept of reality TV. I thought it was
just like real real shit, like all day, every day.
And I didn't understand that it was like organized real life.
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So I was kind of like a loose cannon, you know.
I was just like, what do you mean organized? So
it's just like you know, you come in, you gotta
sit down, you gotta wait, you can't talk yet, you
gotta you know, talk about certain things, and so it's
just like.
Speaker 5 (09:39):
A production, a production.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
And I didn't understand that, and I went into it
like very blind.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
And they probably was like yes, got her.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
They were were at the same time.
Speaker 7 (09:51):
You had a lot of time though, ye you was.
You had a crazy rock.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
And I think that's why because I was so like
blind to like there really was. I just went in like, yeah,
what's up, Like, bitch, my friend don't like you, so
I don't like your ass, Like, so it was it
was crazy. It was a real one on. Yeah. I
was like, yeah, no, that's not how this work.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
You like you like you a little bit seasoned now.
Speaker 6 (10:14):
Yeah, so now I'm a lot more like reserved, and
I understand you know what it is, like, it's it's
very real elements of your life, but just in like
a more produced way.
Speaker 4 (10:26):
Do you think like back then when you started doing
reality TV, like that was kind of like the golden
age of reality TV versus now it's so many different platforms.
Speaker 6 (10:36):
No, what I really felt like was the golden moment
in reality TV was like stuff like The Hills and that,
Like no, well that too, But to be honest, I
ain't even really watch it like that. I was looking
at more like like The Hills, right, did you guys
ever watch that?
Speaker 8 (10:53):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (10:53):
Like people were making like millions.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Of dollars, but they came for millions, right.
Speaker 6 (11:00):
So for me, that was like the Golden California too.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
So you like, you like the type of money that
they're making, you know.
Speaker 6 (11:08):
And then you know, we get all these black people
together to act the damn.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
Fool and yeah, and then next thing you know, it's.
Speaker 7 (11:15):
Like people, Yeah, to your point at reality back then,
you had like the Jessica Simpson and Nick show.
Speaker 5 (11:22):
You had Laguna Beach, the Hills and.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
H oh yeah that was doing but I think and
then on the Black Side you did have Baldwin Hills.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
I watched that too, Yeah, I watched. They weren't making
millions though, but they were in a better light than
a flavor flav Yeah was yeah for sure. Yeah, what made.
Speaker 7 (11:44):
The transition for you to you know, be on Basketball
Wise and then come in and join another reality show
in Atlanta?
Speaker 6 (11:52):
So I was actually living in Atlanta and then doing
like the music stuff, and then my friends started doing
basketba and so I went home to film Basketball Wives.
I was actually living here already, and then when that
was over, I came back to Atlanta and still like
doing my music stuff, and then I started like going
out with Scrap and so it just seemed like the
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natural kind of segue, like Okay, well this show is
more about like the music, and now I'm dating him,
So you know, it seemed like.
Speaker 3 (12:25):
The the right thing to do.
Speaker 6 (12:28):
Seemed like the thing that made the most sense.
Speaker 7 (12:29):
You know, did they ask you to be a part
of it or is that something was that like playing.
Speaker 6 (12:34):
Well, I had met like some of the producers just
kind of like out and about and it was a thought,
like I thought about it. I'm like, well maybe I
should do this, and then yeah, like just start talking
to the people. Once me and him started actually like really.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Dating, how was it like on your first day on set?
Speaker 6 (12:53):
It was it was light because it was just like
me and him, we were playing basketball or something.
Speaker 3 (12:56):
Okay, so they was warming you up pretty much.
Speaker 6 (12:59):
Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 7 (13:02):
So you guys, you know, have your relationship on TV
or whatever, you end up getting married and having kids
and having the family.
Speaker 5 (13:10):
What turned everything? Was it the show?
Speaker 6 (13:12):
That just I don't think it was a show. You
can't really blame the show. It's just kind of life,
you know, like just growing and different directions at like
a different pace because obviously, you know people grow, like
that's what we do. But you know, just kind of
like growing at a different pace is like the key,
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you know, because you could be growing one moment I
came and then you know it's just like a whole
bunch of ups and downs, and then the downs just
started to be the It was a lot of downs.
Speaker 7 (13:50):
Wow. Yeah, for those who don't know you and Scrappy,
you know, are get or are you divorced?
Speaker 6 (13:55):
That we're officially divorced?
Speaker 5 (13:57):
Okay, yeah, so what was the moment though?
Speaker 7 (14:00):
That was just like this is just over cause y'all
were going back and forth for a second on the show.
Speaker 6 (14:05):
Yes we were. For me, like the ultimate deal breaker
is cheating, just I can't do it.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
So you don't believe in any more chance, you don't
believe in like second chances.
Speaker 6 (14:16):
I mean, I don't disagree with that for some people
in these situations, but for my situation, it just didn't
like deserve a second chance because we already had some
other shit going on. And then that was just kind
of like all right, so.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Yeah, nah, he was like, that's that was kind of
the last strong Yeah, you don't think y'all.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Ever get back together. We're divorced, me, you can't get remarried.
Speaker 6 (14:38):
Yeah, no, I don't think. Well that's not I don't think,
but no, we're that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 5 (14:43):
How did you guys break the news to your children?
Speaker 6 (14:46):
Well, my oldest is four, and so it wasn't really
something I had to sit him down for. He just
kinda I don't know, it just was like a natural
kind of thing. I tried to keep things as normal
as possible for as long as we could. And then
now he just you know, he goes to his dad's
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house and then he comes back home. So it wasn't
really like a thank god, you know, he was so young. Still,
I feel like had he been like six seven, eight,
we would have had a lot of explaining to do.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
But how old are your younger children?
Speaker 6 (15:26):
They just turned two and three, So have a two
year old, a three year old and a four year old.
Speaker 5 (15:30):
How's that as a single mom.
Speaker 6 (15:32):
I wouldn't necessarily say single mom because I don't want
to offend the women who only who is just them,
you know what I'm saying. So we share the responsibility
of our children, and you know, they go with their
dad for a couple days and then they come home.
And of course even when you got your kids for
five days, like it gets it's a lot. But I
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mean I have a great balance, you know, Like my
kids are at a real energetic age, so we do
a lot of shit, like during the day, you know,
it's like NonStop when when I'm with them. And then yeah,
so I mean we've been we've been working it out.
It's been going well for us like, I'm good. They're good,
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they're happy, healthy, and they they weren't like shocked into
a situation. It wasn't traumatic for them.
Speaker 5 (16:26):
So yeah, how does the co parenting work? Do you
still contact him?
Speaker 6 (16:31):
Or I don't a medium. I'm a different type of person,
like I don't really like confrontation. I don't like a
lot of extra shit. And our kids they are two,
three and four, so they're out of age where when
it's time for him to come pick them up, I
just let up the garage and they run on out,
or you know, a family member is probably there.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
So y'all don't really communicate.
Speaker 6 (16:56):
We don't really have to.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
Does the media bother you? Because I know you don't
really say too much on the media in the Internet.
Speaker 6 (17:04):
I don't want to say it bothers me because it
comes with the territory. But I will say that it's
starting to get really really out of hand, like with
certain like blogs in the way that they were things
And I had to reach out to a blog maybe
a couple of weeks ago, and they posted something they
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reposted something that I posted, and they tried to make
it relate to something that Scrap's mom had posted and
I just asked them, like very respectfully. I was like,
how did you even pair the two? Like I'm not
even talking about them, like this has nothing to do
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with it something. Yeah, And I was just like, you know,
like y'all kind of setting me up to be bullied
because it looks like I'm feeding into whatever they got
going on, and I wasn't at all. So sometimes it
just gets annoying because I can't even post like a
thought or a feeling or a quote or anything without
people assuming that it's about that situation.
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Now with the media, like a lot of people on
the internet, they feel like when all of these things,
when it's a lot of back and forth, you know,
with reality TV stars, people feel like that you guys
are doing this because of a storyline.
Speaker 6 (18:24):
I know a lot of people feel like that, and
some people do that though some people actually you know,
go online and do things and say things because it
does help them, like with a storyline, because now they
have something to film about or talk about. So I
understand why people can assume that that will be the case,
but it's never been a case for me because you know,
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like obviously, like I don't even have to do anything
to have a fucking storyline, like I don't have to
do nothing.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
Like people just they did. They take the posts down.
Speaker 6 (18:58):
They did, and I was really surprised that they took
it down. They didn't like clap back and try to
say nothing weird or nothing. They just they just took
it down.
Speaker 3 (19:09):
I think it's because it's because it came directly from you.
I think it was like from me.
Speaker 6 (19:13):
Yeah, but I respected that though, because you know, and
I came at them very very respectfully, like I was
just like, hey, like, I'm absolutely not referring to them,
and if I do, like you will know because it's
gonna be a lot more direct. And so right now
I feel like y'all set me up to be bullied
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and so they just removed the post.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Do you feel the need to respond?
Speaker 6 (19:36):
Sometimes I do, but right now no, it's because I
know that people are looking for a response. So at
this point, I'm just like, it's not even worth it.
And then you find yourself trying to defend yourself about everything,
and you just go down this sucking rabbit hole because
if you defend yourself about one thing, they'll be like,
well what about this? But then you said this? But
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then you did that, and I'm just like, su leave
me all lot home please? They on you heavy.
Speaker 8 (20:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (20:04):
And well his side, like his mother and his first
baby mom and their child is like definitely coming at
you head.
Speaker 6 (20:11):
Yeah. You know what's crazy about that? I'm like, imagine
divorcing somebody because they cheated and then now their family
is attacking you. So he did you wrong and and
they're attacking I'm like, make it make please, make it
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make sense, but it you know.
Speaker 5 (20:34):
How do you feel about that? Though?
Speaker 6 (20:36):
I don't. I just feel like she's crazy and she weird,
and you know, like just anything that I say in response,
like it just gives her some extra fuel to just
keep going and going, and I'm just like, you're tired. Yeah,
it's annoying. It's annoying, but it's also like who cares?
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Like I don't think anybody even like pays her that
much attention or even if they do, like they're being
entertained by it. And I don't think that people. She's
not a credible like source, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (21:11):
So you know when the when Erica goes on line
or on love and hip hop and say says stuff
like you didn't feed her child and things like that, Like,
how do you respond to that?
Speaker 6 (21:22):
I don't because the other day I was just asking myself,
I was like, should I try to even defend myself
and show the entire threat because when it kind of
like Manni Mani's relationship, Our whole relationship was based off
of like me kind of coddling her, you know, doing
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things for her and taking care of her. I love that,
you know what I'm saying. That was like before I
even had kids. I consider her like my kid. So
when I hear her mom says say those types of things,
I'm just like, for one, like, where are you even
getting this from? Because I know, like I just I
don't want to believe that e Money had ever like
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said some shit like that to her mom. And then I,
like I said, I looked at my whole thread of
text messages and I'm like the whole thing is like hey, bam,
can you order me some food? Or I'm like hey
I cooked to send the microwave or you know whatever.
So it just doesn't really prompt me to want to
like defend myself or to just be like, no, this
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is all bullshit. I'm just like whatever if that's yeah.
Speaker 7 (22:28):
I think people get confused too, because y'all, you any
money had like a back and forth.
Speaker 6 (22:32):
We absolutely did not have a back and forth, And
the fact that people say that is insane to me.
It wasn't a back and forth. It was she had
referred to me as that lady, and then people were
in my comments saying that lady, that lady, and I
was like, what the fuck are they talking about? So
my next post I used to caption that lady because
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I had obviously saw the video of her saying, you know,
calling me that lady, So I used the caption. I said,
it's that lady. So for me, that wasn't going back
and forth with her. That was me posting a caption.
And then her mom started talking, and then she started talking.
But when I started going back, it was to her mom.
It was never to her.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Oh okay, yeah, does that make you not trust people?
Speaker 6 (23:15):
It does. But you know, I've always been a lot
like guarded and a little reserved even in my marriage,
because I don't know, I didn't fully like just trust
so him. Well, it wasn't necessarily him, it was just
like the people around like I wouldn't like disclose too
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much of my personal life because I didn't really trust
the people around him. Okay, but you disclosed it to him,
not to everybody else, you says, nah, because I mean
certain things I would just not tell him, like and nothing.
I don't think anything too like serious, but certainly things
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I just wouldn't because I know that he likes to
share a lot of information.
Speaker 5 (24:05):
So are you still You're still love and hip hop?
Speaker 6 (24:08):
Right? I am?
Speaker 7 (24:08):
When people say, like, you know, what's your storyline going
to be? You know, and how she gonna remain on here?
What do you say to those people?
Speaker 6 (24:15):
Obviously I've been doing this before. If they're insane waiting
that just because you know I'm not with him anymore.
I mean, maybe it will be the show, maybe it won't.
But as long as they you know what I'm saying,
writing them checks and want me around, I'll be around.
Speaker 3 (24:30):
Hello. Have they called?
Speaker 6 (24:31):
They? Have they?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Have they called?
Speaker 2 (24:35):
Have you?
Speaker 3 (24:36):
Have you been speaking with them about?
Speaker 6 (24:37):
I mean we're still filming, We're in the the second
half of the season, and I'm divorced, so obviously my
storyline has nothing to do with him, you know.
Speaker 7 (24:48):
So with your music, you said you getting back to
what do you have like projects you're working on, like
his album come in. I don't know about an album
just yet, but I definitely have been recording and you know,
I got singles that I've been dropping, and this year
on the show, like they have absolutely been highlighting me,
like as an artist, like just kind of getting back
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in and it's been really cathartic, you know what I'm saying,
just to be in the studio and kind of releasing
and that's been my release.
Speaker 3 (25:16):
And that's good that they're able to like highlight more
of like your music.
Speaker 6 (25:19):
Yeah, I absolutely love that because for as long as
I've been on this show, that has not been the case.
Speaker 3 (25:26):
I'm pretty sure that somebody on your team probably made
a call.
Speaker 6 (25:30):
Yeah, I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
This is what we want to focus on some.
Speaker 6 (25:36):
Yeah, but yeah, so, but in general, I feel like
this season they've been kind of like showcasing their artists
a lot more than they have in the past, which
is great. You know, it's a good look. It's on
MTV now. I feel like it's a lot of talented
artists on this show and it kind of always get
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overshadowed by rama. The drama, yeah, and that's what people watch,
you know. Yeah, they want to see the drama. But
then they tell us like, well, why y'all on TV
doing this? And I can ratchet and I'm just like, well,
how do you know because you're watching right well.
Speaker 4 (26:15):
And it's like when people say things like that, and
I'm like, if y'all want these things to not be
on your TV, don't watch.
Speaker 6 (26:22):
That's what I'm saying. I just feel like people have
this selective outrage, you know what I'm saying, Like they
get so so angry about certain things, and then they
want to cancel people. And people can't have opinions, but
they can. Everybody on the internet can drag you, they
can bully you, they can say whatever they want to
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say about you. But then if I say one comment
and response to something that somebody said to me, then
you know they're gonna cancel me, they gonna drag me,
they gonna do all this shit. But they can they
can do this all day collectively as like a group
a community.
Speaker 4 (27:01):
Does that make you kind of like be like, you know,
on the internet, like I don't really like you know,
does it kind of make you like nervous being on
the internet?
Speaker 3 (27:09):
Now?
Speaker 6 (27:10):
I don't want to say nervous, but I save a
lot of things for the people who actually give a fuck,
if that makes sense. So you know, I have a
group of friends who I talk to if I want
to discuss something that's a topic that I feel is
personal or deep or you know whatever. I'd rather have
those discussions with people privately, Yeah, privately, and people who
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can have healthy discussions. And now people that just are
going to try to drag you if you disagree with them.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
They trying to counsel Jamie Fox, I'm like the man
almost died.
Speaker 6 (27:45):
Yeah, and everybody was so just distraught and sending prayers
and he says one thing against what they believe in
or whatever the case. I don't even know what the
situation is. But now I just see everybody.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
Well, he made a statement when he h he was
talking about a fake friend that was I guess that
was around him recently, and he said, uh, what do
you post?
Speaker 3 (28:09):
He said, if they hated it on Jesus, what you
think they'll do to you?
Speaker 4 (28:14):
And I think the word they is what kind of
like you know, said certain community off, I'm exhausted.
Speaker 2 (28:25):
Their energy is like real chill, you're very unbothered.
Speaker 6 (28:28):
Yeah, And I mean, and you know that has been sad,
Like that's.
Speaker 3 (28:34):
The energy that you give me respected because I'm unbothered.
Speaker 6 (28:38):
Yes, Like I don't. I don't really. I just be like,
what you what you want to do about it? Like
I'm very solution based, that's my thing.
Speaker 7 (28:45):
I'm like, yeah, did your family get upset or oh
they be ready to go crazy?
Speaker 6 (28:52):
But my family, See, that's that's the thing. When your
family is like respectful, they respect me. Like so my
mom respects me. My cousins, my brothers, they respect me.
So if I say pump y'all breaks, they gonna do that.
So your family like unleashing and the people around you
just like being unruly. That's a sign of them not
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having no respect for you. So my people they all
got respect for me. If I tell them pipe down,
they piped down.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
Okay, would you I know you're newly divorced and all that,
but would you, Uh, when do you think you'll be
able to open to dating again?
Speaker 6 (29:26):
I mean I've been on some dates.
Speaker 5 (29:28):
Okay, Yeah, did you like any of the guys?
Speaker 3 (29:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (29:37):
I think they cool, but like, oh, I actually like
enjoy like dating or like being courted. You know what
I'm saying not on like no kind of like I
don't know. I just like when a guy be like, hey,
you know we're gonna go through a B and C cool,
like let's go see what's going on. We have these
nice conversations and we have dinner and then you know
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like maybe we'll talk again, maybe we won't. But I
think ladies need to kind of like be on that
type of vibe opposed to you know, oh no, I
ain't never been the girl that's just like oh yeah,
I'm wanna fuck with him or I want to like I.
Speaker 5 (30:17):
Just be lill type of vibees you mean they need
to be on just enjoy.
Speaker 6 (30:23):
Yeah, that too, like when your options, but just enjoy
like the mono, meeting people, seeing if y'all got anything
in common, like just everything ain't a race. And even
some of these dates I've been on, it's so crazy
because two times, like I've tried to like offer to
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even like pay like half because I knew it wasn't
really Benna go nowhere after that's you know, cannot wait.
Speaker 3 (30:50):
So is that is that the signal that that.
Speaker 6 (30:56):
Well, I mean yeah, I like I'll grab I'll grab
the dinner, like don't even worry about it. I don't
be one to offend nobody, but yeah, I'm finna go
to the house.
Speaker 5 (31:11):
What do you look for? What's your type?
Speaker 6 (31:14):
I don't really have a type, to be honest, Like,
I like, that's why I like to go out with
somebody and kind of see what type of personality they got.
If you don't really seem like thirsty and you just
chill and we can have good conversation, that's my type.
So I just like being able to vibe with somebody
(31:34):
that ain't super thirsty and extra.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Have you vibed with any Africans? Because you know, we
just had Jesse Will on the show. She said there's
like three main Africans one in Atlanta.
Speaker 6 (31:43):
No, I know, I haven't.
Speaker 4 (31:45):
No.
Speaker 6 (31:46):
Well, actually I think one of the guys said he
was nah, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (31:52):
Yah.
Speaker 4 (31:53):
So so when you when you go on these days,
could you tell like when somebody's into you because they
like your personality or because of who you are?
Speaker 6 (32:02):
No, I think it got to be the personality because
most of the guys I've gone out with are well
established and not like that. But you know they already,
So yeah, I don't think it be. But you never
know because a lot of famous people, they they'll look
(32:22):
at somebody on TV and be like, ooh, I like
her because you.
Speaker 3 (32:26):
Know, or be a lot of guys that are established
and you know they want to be famous.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
That's true too. Yeah, I haven't caught that vibe, and
hopefully I don't because I really, you know, would love
a private relationship going forward.
Speaker 5 (32:43):
Yeah, how do guys approach you? Do they or people
approach you?
Speaker 6 (32:45):
Do they be in your DM or so It's a
lot of d ms, but I really don't. I just
started like going on the other side, like checking those
and I'm.
Speaker 3 (32:55):
Like, oh, okay, any surprises.
Speaker 6 (33:00):
Yeah, but but for the for me, like I like
like the intro, like my friend one of my friends
would be like, hey like such and such, Like I
don't know, it just seems a little.
Speaker 7 (33:12):
More Can somebody introduce you to somebody versus you finding
it a little bit more safe?
Speaker 6 (33:17):
Yeah, because like the Instagram, it just feel weird, Like
I'd be even scared to like write back like they
finished screenshot this ship or I don't know, it just
be weird. I'd be like, nah, let me just if somebody,
you know, make a nice little introduction, then that's like,
like you said, it feels safer.
Speaker 7 (33:36):
So so if you find somebody you know, do you
want more kids? Are your tubes tied?
Speaker 6 (33:41):
No, my tubes are not tired. They are wide open.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
Okay kids, I think so.
Speaker 6 (33:47):
But no, I didn't tie my tubes, burn them or
do nothing like that. So I'm definitely, you know, open
to more, open to more children. Why not? I got
hella already.
Speaker 4 (34:00):
So if you date somebody and you actually like them,
do you see them coming on the show with you?
Speaker 3 (34:05):
No, No, You're gonna be like, hell no, you can't.
Speaker 6 (34:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
No, So where are you at now? You know what's
next for you?
Speaker 6 (34:16):
Well, I mean I'm always always, always working and doing
new things and just rediscovering myself. Of course, I still
have my salon here house a Shimmer, so it's a
salon and a boutique, and I'm expanding that, like I
always have new products my kids, Shimer Babies, like it's
(34:37):
a new hair product like for kids. And I also
have a children's book that I'm releasing soon and it
kind of talks about the space that my kids are
in right now, having the transition having two homes. So
it's a good way for parents to kind of like
introduce that new life to like a small kid, the Todller.
(35:01):
So that's what this new book is about. And you know,
of course like still doing the music, just everything.
Speaker 8 (35:09):
We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of The
Baller Alert Show. You're listening to a special edition of
The Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 6 (35:23):
What's a good job? It's Thebam and you're now tuned
in to the Baller Alert Show.
Speaker 8 (35:27):
That's it.
Speaker 4 (35:28):
Dear ball Alert, My homeboys getting married and asks me
and a few mutual friends to be his grooming one
in particular friend that I know for a fact tried
to holler.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
At his fiance in the past. Do I say something
or do I lead that drama alone?
Speaker 6 (35:41):
You know what it's to lose. Lose because if you
say something, then you're potentially gonna ruin the vibe of everything.
You don't know what the friend is gonna how he's
gonna feel, you don't know how the fiance is gonna feel.
You don't know, like you're gonna fuck that whole situation.
The wedding might even be called off right if you
(36:03):
kind of disclose this information, because the dude's probably gonna
be like, why you didn't tell me. He's gonna be
asking his girl like why you didn't say nothing or whatever.
But if you keep it to yourself and then later
on after they're married they find out, then you're gonna
be fucked up again. So just be quiet. I would
(36:29):
just be quiet.
Speaker 4 (36:32):
I think I'm agree with you on this. I think
that you don't need to say nothing. First of all,
it's not like y'all has sex. Right, he tried to
holler that dude girl and ended up anything I'll say,
and getting married, And to me, that's not a big deal.
Speaker 3 (36:48):
She obviously is attractive.
Speaker 6 (36:50):
Right. Oh, I got a better one. Maybe he should
tell the guy who tried to holler at the girl
that he needs to set this one out, so they
need to have a private conversation. And you just need
to go tell boy like, hey, you tried to holler
at her. Is making me uncomfortable?
Speaker 3 (37:04):
Oh, Like, you probably don't need to be a groom
You don't.
Speaker 6 (37:06):
Need to be a groomsman. Just go sit this one
out and tell him you you can't make it.
Speaker 4 (37:10):
Yeah, I think that would be kind of weird too,
if I tried to holler at somebody's you know, potential
wife and I'm his groomsman. I kind of be like, uh,
you know, I gotta be in Cowboy or something Union
or something. Yeah, like, yeah, you probably need to sit
that one out. And you know, I don't think you
need to say anything because something like that when somebody's
(37:31):
get about to get married and it's like man as
a man, it's like you don't want you like, bro,
you're supposed to be my home. But it's like an
episode of you know, what's the what's the movie called
the Woods?
Speaker 6 (37:41):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (37:42):
Yeah, the Wood?
Speaker 3 (37:43):
Yeah, the Woods? Like yeah, man, just yeah, I agree
with you. Sit this one out.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
What you think? No, I agree, I agree.
Speaker 5 (37:53):
Just you need to excuse yourself, yep, because this.
Speaker 6 (37:56):
Is that private conversation with your boy and be like
just don't even don't even worry about it.
Speaker 5 (38:01):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 7 (38:02):
Not Well, Bamby, Like I said, we appreciate you for
stopping by the Ball Alert Show. You are open to
come anytime you want to rote whatever you want to.
Before we get out of here, we got.
Speaker 5 (38:11):
A pep talk with Bambi.
Speaker 6 (38:13):
Hey guys, this is the bam And my advice to
everybody out there is just to be silent and a
season where it feels like you're being attacked. Okay, sometimes
it's okay to just be quiet. You don't have to respond.
You can just kind of be in a safe, quiet
(38:33):
space by yourself and just really try to process everything
that's going on around you before you start speaking.
Speaker 8 (38:41):
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