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January 13, 2020 43 mins

Episode 93 - "The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Produced by: @iHandlebars

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":The Culture Deserves It"

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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Should like style special. Kenny Byrne is the kid Roy
Simmon so low almost at that means we're going to
the place that you are representing very soon. Robber, you
came in here looking like a mannequin for the University
of Mayamia. What is going on? My favorite team? Something

(00:28):
just recently happened with the Hurricanes that you can't raincoats
and chucks. You are actually really memorabili out coach. You
do exact saying outfit for the Super Bowl Miami, right.
She said you looked like a coach. You know, I
feel like I'm Trash's my favorite team. You can't wait.

(00:52):
I just grew up to the Miami Hurricanes. Okay, Jimmy
Johnson just went to the Hall of Fame and he
was the first coach to take us to college championship.
I just saw somebody else's got Bill Coward. Yeah, congratulations.
How was your weekend, Susan? I saw you going on planes.
You actually one morning came back the next day. Year
I was gone for a couple of days. I had

(01:13):
a nice relaxing vacation. It was so necessary. I had
a great time. I was in the UK. You know,
it's one of my favorite places. You'd been going across
the pod. Yeah, I like to go across the pond. Yeah,
it's you don't look at me when you talk about
these things. You always look towards That's not true. I'd
go in the direction of my microphone because the Okay,
so y'all want me to talk like this. Okay, So

(01:35):
how was the trip? I had a great time. I
ate good, I slept um, you know, tried some new
wines and yeah, sounds like you're being cultured. Yeah. I
have a great time. I love traveling. I feel like,
you know, what's the point of going somewhere and doing
the same thing you would do. It's like your second
the third time in the UK, trip to the UK. Yeah,
you don't need much time. Just a few days, you know,

(01:59):
get you some p s, get you some culture, you know,
get you have some high have some high tea. But
I was so excited to get back to Atlanta on
Saturday because of my brunch about this guy. How much
do you know about the brunch, Kenny? What did you know?
Everything you did? I just haven't entered the building. You guys,

(02:21):
make sure you'll come by. Please. It's a good time,
you know. Bottles. I find that I don't have relationship
conversations with anybody. No nobody, alright, b nobody things out
here in the clubs man just doing my thing. A
t L man preparing for Super Bowl Miami are I

(02:44):
can see that going tomorrow. Anything I'm there right, doesn't
need a hotel. Good like to convince to come. If
you come, I gotta get a hotel. I ain't gonna right,
look like some excellent teams you're gonna participate this year
Super Bowl? Did you not see the Titans in the
Kansas City Chiefs guy? You know, I really wanted the

(03:05):
the Houston Texas to win because DeShawn Watson is from
the Atlanta where he's from Gainesville, Georgia, which is close
to Atlanta. But bro I left, it was twenty one
nothing to go to barbershop. I get to the barbershop.
How did flip? Wow? That was? That was a hell
of a game? Coe tell us about it. So who
you think it's going to be in the Super Bowl? Run?
Who I think is gonna be the Super Bowl? I
think it's gonna be Green Bay and the Chiefs. That

(03:28):
would be a great super Bowl. And I think a
Rodgers is gonna win his last Superna bro. No, they're
not gonna beat the cheese right. If that is this scenario,
I don't see that happen. Kelsey is a problem. Here
is a problem. The quarterback is a problem. I still
think Green Bay Packers might be a shootout though. How

(03:49):
was your weekend? And yeah, yeah you like that it's
been It was good. I was to do this weekend.
I did nothing. Actually, oh I had a free game. Yes,
I love yo c t um. I had a free
game on seminar on I g that's that's my new thing. Yeah,

(04:11):
if you follow me, I'm gonna be giving free game
more than often. And let me get you my little joy.
Thank you. I appreciate that. I really want to share
this with the people to I had a Thursday when
was it Wins that had the High Museum. We did
a figures of speech panel. Um, you guys heard a
special edition of The Baller Show. But it was you know,

(04:31):
it was dope because you know, Atlanta is the place
like this is where everything comes. And the fact that
Virgil I blow picked Atlanta to you know, bring his
show to second because you know the first with Chicago.
Then he came to Atlanta sex. It is pretty dope.
So we just were having a conversation of his influence
and with it, you know, it has meant to Atlanta culture.

(04:52):
So forth the song. So I picked Quasi bill on
a Motor Foe for he's been curing fashion here for
two decades. Ronaldo Neamyah who is the creative director creative
director of Wish, and Marina sky Sky super Dope sets
by Sky she does all the year. She's super flied to.
So we just had a good discussion. But one of

(05:13):
the things that came up out of it was like,
you know, these frustrated designers. Atlanta has a lot of
dope creators and a lot of just creators in general,
from music, fashion or whatever. And the conversation spilled from
the actual event to a separate thing that they held it.
I think it was what was the story next to

(05:34):
a'm on here? It's like a social club that they
built right there for anyway, they had like a meeting
of the minds, and I was getting this. It was
Saturday night, I think, and I was getting this like
all these texts, like yo, they're in here talking about
the event at the High Museum. So I saw like
a story or two. And it was bugging me out
because it was this one guy, forget his name. I
really want to shout him out, but um he was

(05:56):
talking about how, you know, I don't know this respect
to the people on the panel there, but they're not
from Atlanta. You know what I'm saying. This is not,
you know, a representation of Atlanta. And then another guy
by name of Darryl Matt who actually did the first
three collections design co designed with myself for the b
R and that's collection, he stood up in the thing
and they had a lot to say about like Atlanta

(06:17):
and why Atlanta is not getting credit. And so I
had wanted to create this free game conversation because I
think a lot of times people gotta get out of
their own way. I think a lot of times you
think because you're dope, you think people supposed to treat
you like you dope, and because you have a certain
skill set of talent and people. So I did this
free game and it was called get out of your
Own Way. And the three things that I wanted people

(06:37):
to take away from it is one, nobody owes you anything,
and I think like the work speaks for itself, you
know what I'm saying. I think a lot of times
people don't get that. They just think I've been out
here long a long time, I've done this, I should
get this. Well that's not you know, that's not how
things work all the time. And the second thing I
had said was as talented as you may be without
the business acumen behind it, you're just talented and and

(07:01):
that and that is so big of a point to
young creatives, like you could be super dope, but if
you can't handle your business, you don't get no real brand.
And three I was saying, and Robbery always says it's
in inspired. The third one you need o g you
know what I'm saying. With the thing I was hearing
from the Saturday conversation with just you know, and it's like,

(07:23):
you want to make it on your own, you have
people that have been here before you that you need
to lean on, that you need to ask questions too,
so you don't have to make the same mistakes that
could help you get the finance and that can help you,
you know, put you in position. And everybody here's a
product of that, Like you know what I'm saying, Like
we've all because everybody and I and I said it
on and you saw it. I said it on these
everybody and willing. And there's also be selective with that though, too,

(07:47):
because I feel like a lot of times people are
trying to, you know, be around these o g s
more so for cloud than it is to soak up
information and knowledge from them. So it's it's one thing
to be around them and just call people your o gs,
but really tap in and like build that reationship with
that person so they can't give you those important details.
Like you said to Octavia's point to like, there's a
lot of o g s that just want to stay

(08:08):
relevant and don't want to give you the game and
hoard the manufacturers award all the information. And those guys
are whacking. They like the idea of having young and
they like to be able to say exactly control them.
You can't. That's one of the big discussions about the
Atlanta fashion culture, fashion culture in general and business in general,
Like you got to share the information. Why if you're talented,

(08:30):
you know, one idea that you sacrifice is not gonna,
you know, deter your dreams or stop you from being creative.
You come up with that and you're sleep. If you're
really creative or you come up with great ideas, you
do it all the time. It's not one all one,
and I think that's the problem. Need to run that
conversation back. Yeah, we're going to continue to have a conversation,
but now it's time for In case you missed this

(08:53):
power y'all. I'm in love with the way that they're
telling these stories. Sleep. Why are you sleep? I'm just
so sick like who I saw pieces of it. I'm
almost catching up anywhere you are. Don't say that you
can't so you can't say that in at the beginning

(09:15):
and it went on somewhere else. I don't give last episode.
She doesn't like the fact that they're breaking down each suspect.
I like, I love that. I love that they're doing
that for me. I'm gonna tell you why you didn't know.
I didn't know it close your ears. I didn't know
about positive son and the fact that they was waiting

(09:38):
on the money all like that to go to But
but no, But what I'm saying is what you didn't know.
They're kind of laying out for you, and then they're
checking on but they're checking you off the list too.
But there's there's something you did. I didn't know the
father was there. He's over there. I didn't know the
father was ill, like to the point where he's saying
and they're both waiting to go to school and get
into the home. So I just like that, I don't

(09:59):
w take to me next. I really enjoyed learning about
Dre because it felt like it gave me a little
more insight, like how he became who you know, who
he is, and also the attachment to his daughter. I'm
not saying that a person shouldn't be attached to their
children like that, but seeing how he was so removed
from his mom, he it helped me like, I love

(10:23):
I love that they're doing it. I don't want to know.
I don't want to find out. The first episode who
shot goes? I didn't even want to come close to
finding out the episode more sus point and the spoiler
alert spoiler spoiler alert, the fact that and that was
her ghost ghost move because you know he was telling
that one time for the legend, the African legend, a

(10:47):
con who just find lives in agreement Synegal for eight
con city and what is this? A con city is
actual city in Senegal or so. He said that he
talked about this about eight to ten years of I
want to say he is building a city. He's actually
building creating a city, which means the layouts where the

(11:08):
banks are going to be, the residential with the commercial
properties are like he's really getting involved in that. And
they're going to focus on his energy efficient ways, which
we all know he went to Africa and created help
to create a way for them to have exactly um.
And also they're gonna focus on cryptocurrency, which is his, uh,
his thing. So yeah, two thousand acres is not just

(11:28):
any city. Is gonna be a futuristic city, Yes, yes,
which is why you know the cryptocurrency is coming in
and why the the energy efficient lifestyle is going to
come in. So I think that's gonna be a city
that's going to really light Africa, like Sated, but that
is going to Africa. A little fun fact, I signed
a con Ladies and gentlemen. Smith and Martin Lawrence stopped

(11:50):
by the Breakfast Club promoting a new movie, Bad Boys
three that comes out January. By the way, make sure
you're going to see and Will Smith admitted that he
had issues with Jada Impox relationship. Can y'all take me
to see this movie? Absolutely, like I really want us
to go together. Finally said it, He said it, said it.
He said it like that for a long time, but

(12:11):
he finally said it. Yeah, he was like, he just didn't.
Does he ever asked that question before? I probably wasn't.
The picture was circuling for so long and how cool
and dart. Yeah, it definitely wasn't a secret. She spoke
about it, and I think everybody received it as like
they love each other because of their like their connection,

(12:31):
them growing up together, her really knowing who he is.
So I think the way that Will explained it on
the Breakfast Club was really like and he made it.
He made a mention because he made it mention that
this was before like they were like friends friends growing up,
so this is like before sex and all this. So
it almost like they didn't have sex. He you know
that they were, they were grown to the point they

(12:52):
could have went to that level, and they both knew it.
They both knew with Will in that moment, so it
was kind of like he was I love honest, he was.
I think that's a very real emotion. I think it's
very real for humans to go to that. I love
that he did, though, I love that thin bits and
pieces of this have been kind of like alluded to
her said in interviews before. But I like the body

(13:12):
of work in the answer because it really gave you
like they were thinking up together why why wouldn't you
love somebody like that? And then I met her, and
then you know, I just kind of protected. So when
I saw him, I didn't really want to talk to him,
but I regret he said it too. I regret not
like speaking to him at these events not knowing you know,
his demise was, you know, not too far away, you
know what I'm saying. So that was a big thing
on Will's part, shout out to people that can just

(13:34):
be truthful no matter how you know, embarrassing and may
come off for how uncomfortable it is, because what he
was explaining to me was a real natural human emotion
and in his real timing on that answer, like being
back in the nineties, I don't think he could answer
that strongly. People don't like to talk about their insecurities,
So that was a big and growth does that, I mean,
what sure he does that you live long enough? And

(13:56):
there was another part of that interview that was very
interesting to me, where you know, Will was on his
p's and queues on how he answered it. He even
set up the conversation saying basically like, you ain't gonna
ask me that question before you asked the question, but
it was more like, um, before you ask the question
about Jada and Pop. Prior to that, he said basically like,

(14:18):
you know, there's all types of things that happen in
our relationship, and that happened in our relationship, and I'm
sitting there like on pins and needles state because you
know all the rumors that have been over the years
and then a long time, but it's been a long time.
To Rarer's point, when you're with somebody that long, you
know what I'm saying, like, when are you going what
you're doing? No, I think it's just more so about,
like you guys, individual interests, because I think people can

(14:40):
be together forever and be with that person. I think
people have interests, and I think it's cool that when
you find somebody that has the same interests as you,
I can still keep it based off the rumors, based
off the rumors that we've been hearing for decades, if
not close close to that, Like, you know, they maybe swing,
they may enjoy having other people in the bedroom. We

(15:02):
don't know over a former relationship. Do you really think
someone could be secure with another person joining the festivities?
For surely of the definitely think so, especially when it's
only like a surface level experience, Like you're talking about
somebody that you know, you know about, you've gone out

(15:24):
on dates, you've you've grown up with, But then just
inviting somebody in for a little surprised me daily. So
you don't think I'm not atually or emotionally connected. I
don't think that they care about the people that they
invite into their bedrooms. I think they have a good
time and then they send them on their way. Okay,
if it's a true thing, If it's true, smells like

(15:47):
my vagina, smells like Gwyneth Paltrow's new candle smells like
my vagina. We Alrea didn't get it. He just looked
at my face, like what is he talking about? Did
y'all hear about that? I saw it online? Other dam like,
she has a candle and it's sold out and it's
sold hours. Yeah, they were going to make it a
perfume at first, and they decided not to, but they

(16:09):
kept it as a seventy five dollar candle that smelt
like fresh water. I saw it was like Bergermont, like Cedar.
I'm like Bergermont, I've never seen you. Okay, everybody, Bergamont
and Cedar. Yeah, since some of the things, of course,
I've seemed a little of cidic, so I'm not really sure. Yeah,

(16:31):
I'm not really sure what she eats. Okay, lady and
gim speaking of the power of Vagina. Prince Harry is
backing away from the family. This is evident. I applaud
him that for this. You know, Megan Marco has been
going through it. We saw what it did to Princess Diana. Hello, um,

(16:54):
and I applaud him for that. I don't even come
up here. He is protecting his family. This is the
woman he suspend the rest of his life with. This
is who he decided to bring into his world. And
his world isn't being as receptive to her as he hoping.
He's like, you know what, y'all don't deserve her. I
deserve her. So we got divorce. I'm still with y'all,

(17:14):
but I ain't with y'all. Yeah, I mean, he's always
seemed like to you know, we just have a person
to just do his own thing, like he's I think
that poster that you know, first of all, the internet
is undefeated. Did you see that poster to get out
poster of all the royals? Hey, bro, I didn't see that.
You didn't see that? His mom that passed away? Yeah?

(17:37):
Yeah by the Papa ROSSI slash somebody set her up.
But my thing is like, you look at that poster, bro,
they look bro. Prince Harry said, in the words of
Bernie mac scar speaking of John, y'all, the power of
John is a cold piece work ums. The power of

(18:03):
oh yeah, you know what it is or somebody you know.
I was reading some of the comments and I wish
I had saved this person's Instagram. But one of the
Ballow Nation members commented, like, you know what it is.
I feel like Lorie and Future may work for a
little bit because men love the female version of themselves
that and I was like, wow, that's a good comment

(18:24):
if you just tune in. We're talking about the power
of vagina and the fact that Lorie Harvey posted a
kiss on the cheek from Future and now Rory is
spreading new energy around the studio with the picture of
them in the pool. Life is good. Future did look
really happy that she? Yeah, just page, which is really awesome.
And how many pictures does he have on his page?
Like hardly any? Yeah so she okay, so she made

(18:47):
the page posts his women ever but like faintly in
the background. But you know something he does not really collection.
She's the real deal recently. You know what that means, well,
you know, for very consistent what he does for his
ladies as far as like their birthdays. You know, the
rose petals on the floors. And that was a cheap shot. Oh,

(19:11):
there's like a whole things around the internet. It's like
a split screen of birthdays. Yeah, so he may not
post you girl, he treat you, but he posted her
something for a man posts his girl thing. It tastes
like the hole. I'm just saying that someone jump out

(19:37):
there real quickly, though. My baby's tastes like donuts as well.
Right by the way, you ask grab videos are I'm
keeping coming out because everybody died laughing. And I can
see your face though, although your face is nowhere in
the I can see you when you catch her off guard.
I'm like, man, she's gonna punch you one, you really, cousin,

(19:58):
met It's really going to punch you. So wait, do
we think that Lori and Future are going to be together?
I think it's a good moment. I got to come
up with a nickname for them, because you know, you
blame the names. I don't know it yet. Uh no, no, no, Hello,
that's a good one. And Hendrix. Okay, but I want

(20:19):
to I want to blame Future and Laurie. Let's just
make this a thing on baller, like, we need you
try to help us come up with a nickname for
the couple. Foury. I like that, like four real honesty
for Red, like I'm for real for like furry furry
furry Future and Laurie furry no furry got to go

(20:45):
viral like Manas starting to end right. Nevadius, demon will
burn you know what, Lorvadius. Lord, that's a good one. Guys.
Let's let's I think I'm gonna do Pluto's Pluto and

(21:07):
Laurie something like that name Vory. We have to win.
I got to write this out. I'm gonna headache right now.
Ye write this, let the marrinate. Okay, okay, great help
us out happy he's getting pregnant. You know that's next.

(21:30):
I don't know. I think Laura my mess around break
his heart and then we're gonna get their hendricks too.
I saw that too, I know three So who heard
him on the first one that he did the am
about I don't know what? Do you only I was
hurt by Sierra? Or do you think he was? Definitely
he was hurt by Is that why he is? That
why he lashed out the way that he did or

(21:51):
was it or was it that he felt like, you know,
I'm gonna have to I gotta talk about her. You
got being so hurt? We just was like it. So
he was not hurt, he was hurt. I'm just saying like, well,
I put too much emphasis on it was the man
hurt of that? Well? The album said, so, the album
said he was very hurt. And the way that he

(22:12):
kept talking about her in the media single Okay, one
time for a hurt me, one time for fury and
that's not a little. Boossey has called a truce with
the Kappas and it's offering six K and the chance

(22:37):
to befom with him at Boosty Bach. I would say this,
I like that should have milked that a little longer. Man,
that ship is funny, those means and him on the
face that was funny and they stepped to his fucking
song all the time. No, but you know, each friend
has a signature song for your money, and you know

(22:58):
you really have to trail lively with these fratern histories
because they take it very seriously. You cannot wear there
their parents and you can't signs. Well. Okay, So for
the people that don't know, Lucy was seen wearing a
shirt with the with official letters and the Cappas did

(23:18):
not like it. However, there's an actual clothing brand called Kappa,
so I don't really know if that brand uses you know,
those letters a lot or did they just use it
that time? Okay, cool, so that was like a one
time nine different that's like, you're not allowed to wear
if you're not a part of the organization, you're not allowed.
Are you saying you thought it was Capital who did
the Capita thing? I thought it was a Kappa designer

(23:40):
that made that, which is probably still wrong according to
how the Kappas feel like, they feel like nobody should
use those letters at all, whether you are designer or
not so. Yeah, so I totally get that. I just
feel like maybe somebody could have told him like a
little better. It was like the internet just went crazy,
like everybody was just can we start having conversations? Can

(24:03):
you tell people how you feel about what they did
or what it makes you or how you feel in
response to that without going crazy and like going off
on somebody. Yeah, that was a brotherhood, absolutely right. But
I think it was funny. I think it was right
for the Internet because that fraternity is funny to me. No, no, no,
they like they like candles that smell like vagina time.

(24:27):
You know, I'm saying I got a couple of cup
of cousins. Okay, some of cousins. Yeah, I mean, I guess.
I mean my part Mrs Alpha Boosty's initial response is
exactly what I would expect from Bosty. You know, didn't
really seem like he cared about how they felt. He
was like, my god, it's a sweat. I thought it
was cool, like is it a bad but my bad.
I think it was a dope historical moment for the

(24:48):
social media. His face though, when you were trying to
learn that shoulder ship, because he looked like somebody uncle
liked going on Mother's got practiced that ship. Yeah, that's
the whole thing. Are you trying to earn it via Instagram?
And you know sometimes to get stuck in it? It's
a bit. That's the that's the beauty of social media.
That part I think I love about social media. That's funny.

(25:11):
That's funny. I had it. I really laughed at that.
That was that was good comedy. Well, now he's created
a challenge. He wants to kappas to us videos to
his song with Wipe Me Down, and um, you're just
supposed to DM it to him. The top four pigs
are going to be able to perform at boost out
of the top four that they're going to receive six

(25:33):
thousand dollars cash. And make sure you know Chick your
crew well. Shout out to all stories and fraternities and
happy founders days. Yes, yes, absolutely, one thing before we
get out of In case you missed y'all, Why they
do trick Daddy in his hairline like that? Why did
the barber? What happened? Something happened, just left the situation

(25:54):
and got locked. The usually wears this little this little
I think when that came, like take it off, He's like, damn,
but it looked like Beijing. And then here he had
he had a Beijing. This is I'm not gonna blame
the ball because that was I wanted to blame the

(26:16):
barber at first, but I'm not going to do that
because you're a service. And clearly Trick said, hey man,
feel the same for me. You know, I need you
to Beijing this part out. Just go ball, hey, you know,
let it go. I grew up the Trick Daddy. He
to me a lot of Florida cats down there. He
was you know what I'm saying. There was our Rockefeller
records down there because we didn't listen to you know,

(26:37):
nothing to Northern listen to Trick Daddy j T Money
and you know what I'm saying, So yeah, man, treat
Daddy Man, hey man, just go ball, big dog. You
know what I'm saying. When I see you down there
super Bowl, We're gonna talk about police trying to say
his eyes were bloodshot. Read have you ever not seen
them blood shot? I've never seen Trick Daddy without the
jaun decide. Well, he is on you know, medication for

(26:59):
some health concern that he may have, and it could
have been that. You know, we don't know, but you
know trick to keep keep your head up. Man, get
that haircut, just go along. Just get the number one, man,
let's get one to give. You're a guy. That's the
number one. Right here is the number one double one.

(27:19):
Speaking of Legende Hustle Victoryly album that ain't going diamond man,
it's time. That's a great album. And now we're from
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(27:42):
one of my friends ex and I don't know what
to do. My friend was never, never officially with this guy,
but they did have sexual relations. I actually met him
before she did, and he and I have remained cool
for years. They did not end on a good note,
but have been cordial. Fast forward to you. Years later,
he's reached out to me and we've been hanging. My

(28:03):
friend doesn't know. He expressed that he wants to see
where this can go. But I can't take that step
because part of me feels guilty. Things seem perfect when
he and I are together, but it's like we are
living in secret. What should I do? I think that's
actually a very tricky situation, and I think it is
a case by case scenario because this is the thing,

(28:25):
let's let's think about this. Let's say one of your
girlfriends just literally it's like a serial data goes out
with thousands of people all the time with really no
true intention of like building with them. So it's like, Okay,
you went on three dates with this guy, now he's
off limits. My god, you don't went on two hundred
days this year, So that's two men that's off limits.

(28:45):
Like what's the limit? Though? I think I don't necessarily
think it's an amount of anything. I think it's based
off of their relationship, Like was it something casual that
neither neither one of them took seriously? Um, how long
was it? What what was the foundation of the relationship.
If it was just like we're just having fun, you know,

(29:06):
we're sucking off. If that's a turn off for you
that they've had sex with each other, then obviously stay
away from it. But if it was a situation where
these are two grown people that tried to date and
decided that that's not what they wanted, and what's the
problem If they end up having a connection with somebody
else that you might know, like I feel like, I
feel like when you're in school, middle school, hide school,
you don't do that. That's like I dated him two

(29:28):
years ago. You cannot, That's what I'm saying. That's why
I think it's case by case scenario. You gotta really
look into it and try to understand, Like, what's going
on here? I don't know, but she seems like she's
following her heart. Don't follow your heart? What smashed? If

(29:51):
you're if you're best If you're not going to follow
my heart to somebody that my best friend was in
a relationship with, I'll get it cool. Would you do that? No?
I actually have never done that before. But I think
it's a case by case. I think it's a case
by case scenario. Again, negatory if I think about this, like, Okay,

(30:16):
for example, guys at the club all the time, right,
they see a group of girls and they see the shiny,
pretty one that they think they want to talk to,
so they go to her, get her phone number, take
her out two times, and realize, Yo, this girl ain't
worth ship, Like I don't like her at all, But
then you end up seeing her out again. A couple
of times with her crew, and more and more you

(30:38):
seem to be attracted to somebody else who you didn't
initially approach. Are you wrong for trying to approach someone
that you feel like you have a better connection with.
I think that's kind of college is I think I
feel like when I was in school, you absolutely could
not talk to a guy that even tried to talk
to your homework at all. But I feel like as
an adult, you are far more mature to understand what

(31:00):
a real connection connection is versus lust, Like if you're
just gonna have with mom. Kelly on Instagram, she just
posted she's she's writing a song right now and it
says simone Kelly Kelly. She's writing a song right now
and the title is, um, I fail for the wrong friend.
You know what? That's the thing? You know? Thank you?

(31:21):
I gonna be honest, solo. I'm gonna give it to
you today. It is a case by case scenario. However,
you know, we're dealing with friends. I'm not gonna try
to have a strong connection with my friends acts. I
don't give a damn what type of capacity. Yeah, I
think the sneaking is wrong. I think the building behind
someone's back is wrong. I think um being sneaky about it.

(31:45):
It's wrong. Like I said, actually, guys, we'll have a
conversation with you. He bro, was you in such a
such serious? And then they will be like, oh no,
okay cool because you know I've been hitting her up,
you know, so I got double chat with you. Make
sure that cool? I bet kind of sound okay cool?
So I get you and ask you if you were serious,
and it's okay, but okay, yeah, but understand. Yeah, but

(32:07):
he's not gonna go into to be serious. He's gonna
go into you know, get the goods and go oh,
y'all try flow, Oh y'all. Don't have conversations like that.
We're not doing that just to have sex. It's only
if we're really interested in like dating that person. Ain't
nobody like talking to you. Just what I'm gonna I'm
gonna make sure my I mean, as a friend, Hey, bro,

(32:29):
was you such a serious? Was he? If I'm a
real friend, I'm gonna know that they're serious anyway, And
I'm just gonna fall back. So if you ask the
friend where they serious and the friend says he has back,
there's a whole bunch of other fish out there in
the sea. This is wh cool And if they weren't
and if they weren't serious, then you can try to
build a relationship with them. Are you say they're just
going to have sex. Yeah, I'm not going to try

(32:52):
to have sex. Make my move. Yes, he guys are
different and I'm gonna move on. Okay, what do you think,
kennib Yeah, I think I've had a great conversation. Nation
is full and they need to digest that thing. I
think that I got to give her some advice though,
I say that whole band. Yeah, you have to get

(33:13):
something out of that, so don't do it. No, I
think that at the end of the day, though, like
you gotta value the friendship, you know what I'm saying
at a certain point, Like if you feel strongly for
someone that you know your friend has been with, you
have to evaluate, you know what I'm saying, Because I
think there are people together today that probably had that
scenario and the friendship wasn't clearly as strong as they

(33:34):
thought it was, and end up the man was stronger exactly.
So I don't you know, I think she has to
do that research. I don't think that it's just like
a clear cut, like you don't mess with him. But again,
I think this is for you. This is a young
person's game. I think as you get older's way too
much involved in your way, too thoughtful, you know what
I'm saying, when you're pursuing someone. So and now a

(33:57):
word from our sponsors, and now it was time for
yes it is okay. So Cammorley Simmons, who is the
ex wife of Russell Simmons, former model and the creator
of Baby Fat. You know she's writ some pretty beautiful

(34:18):
they're very gorgeous, yes, and intelligent and um. You know,
humans really have a way of coming at people they
don't know much about, especially on social media. For example,
I don't know how to say you're your handle, but
I think it's at chica and a chise me something
like that. I don't know. Frank, Yeah, she kinda chise me.
I'm not sure from, but wow, yep, it sure does.

(34:41):
But this person took the time to comment on nineteen
year old mainly Simmons post okay. She posted a picture
on Instagram and said mood posted up in Baby Fat
all and chica and it chise me whatever your name is,
friend says I'm guessing you didn't go to college like
your sister. You are gonna stay home and hold it
up with quite a few laughing emojis, And of course,

(35:03):
her sister comes to her defense and says, she goes
to a top tier school and it is brilliant. Go
suck a toe. Listen, Yank, that's a good one. Listen.
I okay. I love that you came to defend your sister,
and I love that you guys are not only confident
young women and fashionable and not afraid to be sexy

(35:25):
and do you but you guys are so smart. It
doesn't matter what these people on the outside are saying about. Y'all,
live your life. Baby she's holding up fully closed in
her own brand. They relaunched Baby Fat, and she's sitting
there in her own her own brand, Like what are
you talking about? So all all you can say was

(35:45):
so you're just gonna stay home and hold up No Ho,
I'm gonna stay home and continue to get rich while
creating and revamping this brand. You fucking dummy. I got
a question, define ho, try to tell you? Whole is
no mo the final? Can somebody tell me what version
of the whole is in me? That's hard because now

(36:08):
we all talk about, you know, being fluid and liberated.
Like I don't even know if wh wisdom that's whole
wisdom I don't talk about. I'm saying people in general
talk about being liberated, So what the hell is who
wisdom anymore? I don't know. People are just so like, yeah,
what was that about? That was about taking the power

(36:29):
of the word slut from being a shameful word to
you know, making making you feel empowered, like I choose,
I choose to be sexually active. I choose to have
the type of partners that I have. You know, look,
I got a bigger question. Pecan or pecan? Butter pecan

(36:57):
or butter pecan? Pecan pecan? I believe that's the reason
the word to say it. I don't even I think
he can is uh a newer version of original versions
pecan po It all sounds like the smell of a
vagina camp. The first Prince Martin Martin needed some vagina tonight.

(37:19):
What oh, my bad job. He actually really forgot that
we were here detected some vagina tonight. Alright, So fresh
Prince or Martin Fresh Prince all day? Martin was a
little too much for me, how is it too, mum,

(37:39):
because it was a little bit more comedy. Fresh Prince
was a lot more story and comedy, and then it
just had had a lot more deep ship going on.
It was more relative to you. Yeah, I mean, but
Martin was very funny because you know and all that
that was cool Fresh Prince Mother, he was going he
was going to jail. Oh goddamn. You know what I'm saying.

(38:01):
It was like STI probably went through somebody. It's a
family mark. I think the stories. I think they just
told the stories differently. Like Fresh Brand had more like
he's a teenager, he's going through things, you want to
do ship. It was more identifiable. Martin was like grown
in that apartment in comic relief. For people who actually

(38:23):
stand up comedian, you can tell WILLISPI was just funny.
I want to ask you is do you think something's
going on with Martin Lawrence. Do you think he speaks
he stressed out about something something currently it's either like
he's went he went through something and the effects are
still there from whatever he went through, But definitely something
isn't right from him in the past versus now man

(38:46):
the way he speaks, it's like he's slower. It's timing.
That's why I cannot And by the way, people say
this movie Bad Boy's three coming out January sevente is amazing,
but um, I just wanted I'm interested to see because
like the lead promos, he looks slow, like he didn't
like the timing. Was I mean Will was it? Will?
I don't know. I mean this is a gnutrition. It

(39:11):
looks like it's your father time, Will beat you every time.
That's what I think. Everybody didn't make it out the
nineties successfully in him eat good, he's eating healthy, looks
like he's doing the little shots that you take. Will
has admitted that he doesn't eat the best, and you
know he's trying to work that now. But everybody's body

(39:31):
is affected differently. Could have just been a delay and
in the way that Martin's body responded to some of
the things that he engaged it in the past. And
then I also think this is a really aggressive promo
run that they're on. When's the last time that he
had to spend this much time doing this. It's it's
a lot on his body. I could imagine. I've been
saying it's for a couple of years now, I think,

(39:53):
I mean, I think that what he went through with
them drugs definitely. Yeah, when you and your prime like that,
you know, drug did play a part in a lot
of the people that we love to this day, and
you know, in their body of work and um, everybody
didn't successfully make it out of that time period. Yes,
the reflection of that good generation is way more conscious

(40:15):
about their health too. Though, Yeah, we have an impossible
I don't I don't know about that, pers but that's
a small fan of compared to it's good, you know
what I'm saying. Like if you look at like Hope
foods wouldn't be in existence ice, it wasn't like a
popular thing to be healthy. But you know it's so weird.
I mean, canola oil is actually pretty bad for you.

(40:37):
And if you look at the ingredients, Whole Foods cooks
a lot of their stuff with canola oil. So it's
like a lot of this stuff is really propaganda. Like
we have to understand what good food actually is. Just
because it sounds healthy or it looks healthy or especially
made every day doesn't necessarily mean that. So I think
we have a pretty poor idea of what popular everybody
want to make money. I do think I do think that. Okay,

(40:59):
so juicing right, people say supposed to eat your vegetables
like raw like the fibers part of the whole new trend,
and then also to like to to sue things like
if you vegetables in the proteins and the benefits of
vegetables and fruits are like you know what I'm saying,
better for you than French fries. I mean, it's it's
the fact, you know what I'm saying. But I think

(41:20):
that what I was saying to just about being conscious,
Like I think we all want to add little green
to our meals or try to do the offsetting thing,
drink more water after we eat sweets, like whatever it is.
I just think that those are the things because I'm
interested to see how far people live because with the iPhones,
like I'm always thinking about leaving my iPhone on my lap,
like I gonna do something to me too. I would

(41:40):
like to put it. I actually heard that you know
that the little radio active ways in there have been
known to like negatively affect your reproductive organ And I'll
be trying to tell my family, like don't sleep with
the phone like right by your ears. Like my mom
hates you can't use both AirPods at one time. She

(42:00):
used one at a time. Really a signal to the
other side, So it does your brain. Yeah, it only
connects to one AirPod and then that one air pod
sends a signal right across your head to the other
Guess what, y'all, You only give one life and you
better leave that motherfucker's be over tomorrow and not I
fucking Fucius said, ladies and gentlemen one time for the

(42:23):
beer Hoest lifestyle feed on social media. My wife has
come up with the genius thing to quote people daily spiritual, motivational, inspirational,
and this is one comes from my dear brother Will Smith,
who has a movie coming out January seventeen called Bad
Boys three. If you are absent doing my struggle, don't
expect to be present during my success. I'm seeing more

(42:45):
and more this and how people want to approach you
in the line themselves with you. You gotta be cautious,
young world, and how you approach people, because that could
be the beginning or the end. And it's just like
that in the words of my of the Wallow, Wallow
says that right, and it's just like that. Alright, ball Nation,

(43:06):
love y'all, peace, hell because the tree, it's real.
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