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February 10, 2020 38 mins

Episode 97 - "The Culture Deserves It" Feat. Kenny Burns w/ Ferrari Simmons & Su Solo Produced by: @iHandlebars

Topics: Lori Harvey, Power, Cassie and More.

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":The Culture Deserves It"

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Speaker 1 (00:09):
And your baby so lower. She was the Uber last
weekend and the Uber you're such a nice person. Can
you talk about that real quick? My bad? KB Okay,
definitely a nice person. Literally, it was a little fender bender.
Y'all know, people don't know how to drive well because
you never met before. Because the person that he had

(00:31):
the finnder bender with was tripping. It was a white person.
It was a Caucasian person, and it was literally like
a little bit scratch, no, seriously, it was a little
bit scratch on the car. And I felt so bad
for the Uber driver because she just was like, oh
my god, Like I don't know what to do, Like
should I just offer him to pay? And I was
like I would. Next thing, you know, it's like, can
you stay for the police report just in case he

(00:52):
tries to? I was like, do I have to? Like
I kind of felt like I had to since I
was in the car, did I not? No, you don't
know her, but I was in the guard. It was
literally a finder bender. Okay, Well, I would hope somebody
will stay with me if a white man was tripping
on me like that. He went crazy. The man went

(01:13):
ballistic and the weather was horrible, like I was like, sir, relaxed.
It was. I don't know what the weekend after you
got through there than that, My weekend was great. I
had a lot of stuff going on. Shout out to

(01:35):
my girl DJ also working on a lot of her.
Love her. Shout out to my habitcher sister. She's doing
absolutely amazing. Couldn't be more proud. My Sunday Bunch experience
is doing really well. We are growing each and every week.
I have kept four pounds off my body and I
am feeling so good about it. Yes, yea, well, thank

(01:56):
you all. Shout out to this rolls oiled my folks
is not in town alright, greatory, how was your weekend?
My weekend was good. Uh, same schedule out here in
these streets turning up. You don't do the same thing, bro,
Your life is different. Baby might have did something that
she didn't do yesterday. You didn't grab your wife, but
on that happens every day. Yes, she slapped them finally

(02:20):
why I don't know. I didn't put it because they
their besties. But I can't wait for baller mail today.
I know that's the baller mail today. It's really good.
I'm super hyped about it. He's smiling from ear to ear,
so it must be really good. Awesome. Well, I had
a great weekend, y'all. I was in Memphis, one of
my favorite cities on the planet. My brother Curtis giving

(02:40):
curs had dalk weekends. Yeah, he coming next time. Time
for DJ E class Man. We had a DJ class
got them crazy man. Listen to me. He murdered it.
I'm talking about last minute. Sorry. I hit him like
a my way, Yo, can you get on a flight
and like three hours we need you to got you,
big bro. He got Chris, he did great. Jacket Edge performed.

(03:01):
I want to tell everybody out there how I really, really,
really feel about today's U R and NO about the
R and B artists of the nineties. Today, I feel
like the majority I'm gonna cracked out. I feel like
they lost. I'm not cracked out literally, but you know
what I'm saying lost. The zest to stay relevant, to
stay fly, to stay in the mix, and Jacket Edge

(03:24):
make me feel like the nineties when they'm gonna talk
about you know what presence is, everything they showed up
they had on. You know what I'm saying that the
Thames with the sherlands On and they came in there
like you know, saying some nineties are hare bag. No,
I mean it wasn't like too baggy, but I mean
it was today's version of the fit, but still the
style of the nineties. And I also want to shout

(03:44):
like genuine and other people that are still in the mix,
because it's something to be said about taking care of
yourself and getting that bag for the jacket. At pform,
they got so many hits. You don't you don't be realized,
Like when I first, you don't realize how many hits
they got. Like if you got ten records that everybody's

(04:05):
gonna sing to the top of their you could tour
forever forever. And they definitely have ten. They performed eight
like literally they had to go because they go they're
on a tour bus headed to Florida, but like literally
eight songs. I'm talking about people singing to the top
of their lung. So one time for Jacket Edge at Yeah,

(04:27):
and they kept asking me, y'all, I just want you
to and please, I need your opinion this and I
won't get more than anything in life. But somebody got
to find Davante because we know Casey and Joejoe out here.
We see them sporadically. We know Dav's back. Where is Devon?
I don't think he wants to be seen. No, we
need Joe to see because they got more to ten
hits and he's all four of them don't want to
go see Joe to see. But see the problem is

(04:48):
Casey and Jojo they're looking like somebody grandfather, you need
to come work out with me. They've been through a lot.
They've been through a lot. They've you know, they enjoyed
a lot of things back in their time. They probably
still enjoy some of those things. Unfortunately that might not
be the group guys. We might not like we got

(05:11):
some hold. But then but they are really old though
that old. They listen to me. Gott he's forty, about
to be forty. He's been out like he got yo Gotti, Yo.
God he was with his first album came out nineties six.
I was like, how did he because that's when Reason

(05:32):
came out, you know what I'm saying. But anyway, like
I think people could look good and keep maintaining my point, God,
he don't look like no old man drinking really got
the best of Casey and Jojo drinking and smoking, smoking
and drinking drugs. But I missed those I missed those
concert moments like the used to be in that really

(05:54):
fun concerts back in the day, and you didn't need
a lot of the extra like theatrics, Like you just
wanted good music, good energy from artists, and that was it.
That was it. Yeah, And I just wanted Chicago on
the way. Chicago, It's gonna be a star weekend. It's
my birthday weekend. Time for McDonald's. I love y'all black
and positivity golden and I'm on the way in fast Kicks,

(06:16):
oh and Bobby Burke and the whole civilized crew. It's
going down this weekend. And now it's time for in
case you missed the LAS one time for the Goat.
I'm talking about for real, for real jay Z is
the for real, for real goal. Oh yeah, come on
down to convinced the NFL to sign a hundred million

(06:38):
dollar deal or criminal justice reform. Now we all heard
the haters and they say, I mean, we could go back,
we could peel some shows back and have some you
know what I'm saying. But it's really amazing how people
won't to shoot and kill before they get the full information.

(06:58):
They were trying to bury my man, Colin Kaepernick. Where
you at champ Where is the commentary for that that?
Because this is this is right here, this right here
is Sean proved. Now we can say whatever we want
to say about how you felt about Colin Kaepernick and
how Colin Kaepernick did all this and did all that.
How do you have white but here this guy raised

(07:19):
a hundred ms hand out one honey out to honey ms. Okay,
he's still doing the work and he's still doing the
worry it's probably not it's probably gonna be more to
that's a victory. That's a w and today they never
spent no money on And I know you're not gonna say,

(07:40):
see I told you. I just hope the money is
spent spent. There's nothing wrong with what I'm saying because
it's not jay Z that the sides how the money
is going to be spent. All he like. What he
was able to do, created the program. What he was
able to do is amazing, right, And we all can
agree that in order to help something improve, it's better

(08:03):
to be on the inside. So we commend that he
was able to do that for sure. I just hope
the money gets used the right way. That's just like
ka trainer. I hope the money is used. That was
the first Latino Latin Super Bowl. Yeah. I enjoyed it,
for sure, and I thought, nobody you know this col

(08:25):
up down. I enjoyed the half time show. It was good.
Was there something wrong with they're not being black people before?
You know black? Yeah, I mean you know they're like
our cousins. I'm saying they're black, they're black white. Well,
this is one problem I have with a lot of
these politicals. Right if you look at like a lot

(08:47):
of these people's names, guns, her name, Dad, like all
these people in the Senate, in the government and beside
with Republicans, I'd be like, you hate your people, You
hate your people. They don't know the people. That's the problem.
Your heritage. It is in your last name, your hair,
just where you come from. Like with support like Donald Trump,
We're gonna that later. Ladies, speaking of criminals that need

(09:08):
to be brought to justice, they tried Lord Harvey. Did
y'all see the footage? The footage ye talk about it.
Don't do that, ladies, don't do that. No one no
one should ever do that. They're not gonna get far.
You had the keys, they may have a gun whatever,
you know what, I'm like the car period she went

(09:33):
to the she kind of was that man could have
shot you in your face. Honest to god, she could
have been killed, She could have been kidnapped. Anything could
have happened to her. And I'm I'm so glad it didn't.
But girl, like that's sexy. But know that what she
did was young as hell. What she did was young
and um and I was not safe, But I'm so

(09:56):
happy that she's okay. You think about they had that
car because you saw the black are kind of creeping today,
you know what I'm saying that this was a plan,
Like you got to be more into with like, you
know what I'm saying. Investigators are trying to pull surveillance
from Whole Foods because that's allegedly where she was coming from,
to see if like they followed her, because it just
looked so premeditated. It was so premeditated. Oh yeah, it

(10:22):
isn't Calabasas. First of all, I love that you said that,
because at the end of the day, why are you
taking the fanom to an apartment exactly, random whatever, culinary whatever. Well,
y'all know, y'all know Atlanta. Okay, it's a lot of
people that live in y'all Atlanta. Okay, I'm just saying,
but that's subject to this type of action, Like if

(10:43):
I'm driving, first of all, I wouldn't even want a
car like that. But at the same time, it's like
I'm not driving certain places and parking certain places and
being a certain situation. I'm being thoughtful about that. Off
the rim, do we know where she was? Like was
it a regular apartment? Comes one of those like one
of those like you know, quote unquote luxury places that's

(11:05):
supposed to have like z Yeah, it wasn't definitely had
security if they were in there because they were parked
in the lot, unless they just knowledge not to do
certain things. And you know, when you grow up privilege
and all that, you got a different different Oh my god,

(11:25):
this is truly sadness that turned into madness for me,
Like angry, I'm angry. A four year old dies from
the flu after mom listens to anti vax Facebook group
instead of using tamiflu described prescribed by the doctor. Now,
this is you know, I don't believe in drugs. I really,

(11:45):
I really really don't believe in drugs. I think the
drugs make you need more drugs. I just I truly
believe that. I believe because the money isn't in the cure,
and you feel what I'm saying, money isn't for you
to need it, and even with these vaccinations and things,
and then let me just go just saying that's your
immune system. Why are you young? Mind? You sort of so,
so I'm not mad at trying to do alternative things. Um,

(12:09):
and the flu really doesn't sound like or the death
of me? Right, Like, you don't feel like I I
gotta just get the drinking love flows. I gotta do
my medicine that they get better. Right. What do y'all
think about that it was the mother like wrong wrong?
Or I don't think she was wrong. I think I
think it was her choice. I think there are a
lot of studies that show that children that do get

(12:29):
vaccinated end up with they have a higher risk of autism.
There have been a lot of studies that show how
bad these things can actually be for us. Um, I
just think that if if you if your child when
the baby was first born and he was vaccinated. You
can't just all of a sudden take off. Yeah, it's

(12:51):
just so hard because we know that we can't really
trust a lot of the things that our government provides
for so but you don't know if you're making the
right decision. All you can do is hope that it
turns out to be okay and that you're as long
as your intentions are pure. I don't believe she wanted
to harm her child, and I don't believe that. I think, yeah,
I think she she looked at it and said, wow,
there have there have been so many kids that have

(13:12):
negatively suffered from taking these vaccinations. I don't want to
harm my child anymore. There's no way she could have
suspected that her child would have died. And I feel sorry,
so sorry that she's going through this right now. I think, um,
you know, just growing up as a parent is very
important to know your medicines, know what medicine does what.
And I'm pretty sure she probably knew what that medicine

(13:33):
did and decided not to do it. I agree with
that because Jessica looks at the labels my mom in it.
You know, there's medicines that have like the words some
of them have steroids in it, yeah, but the worship
and then there's ones that you can you know, And
I think I can't fault the mother because I think
her objective was to give her baby another alternative than that.

(13:55):
You know then, because I'm sure this one was it
um Tama flew. She could have read the box and
be like, uh, yeah, we all We also have to
understand too, like we know, we have so much more
knowledge now about what they're actually putting in our things
like food and medicines and stuff. You. I think it's
really important for us to start raising our kids the

(14:16):
way we want them to be as adults, Like don't
start them off eating cheetos and hot dogs and then
when they turn to be fifteen years old, you're trying
to switch it up, like yeah, start from the time,
you know. But I will say it's been hard with
the nephews because Kyle we eat anything he had, take
the left over salmon, you know, the broccoli or whatever

(14:37):
for lunch. Can't you be like nah? And it's like
eat some green boy, and it's like his mom is
a great example of eating everything. I'm not I am
now and even like I was about to say, this
like since I've been eating better, right, it's been literally
the last fifteen years I've been eating better, Like this
weekend feel better. I feel much better. But I don't

(14:58):
get sick. I never to really get sick. And when
this weekend Saturday, I tried to, like go to Houston's, right,
but I got the chicken tenders, but I you know,
got my salad. But the chicken tenders were hella greasy.
Then I didn't have another option, so I had to
eat some fast food. Then before I went out, I
didn't have another option, so I had to eat some
fast food. It was like my chest felt like it

(15:21):
was about to open up. Now. It was heavy. It
was that's a great word. It was heavy. Which they're
doing a lot of alternative options at these burger kings
with them. I was gonna, look, I was going, I
got to find impossible no kings nowhere. I got like
an egg biscuit. Yeah, but you know, I am glad

(15:43):
that they're opening up, you know, two more options we
need for that reason alone, Like you said, you wasn't
you was out and wasn't nothing else open at all,
So yes, please McDonald's, we're gonna get us this Uh,
this impossible something we need no possible nuggets. I love
I love that breakfast and I'm so happy that McDonald
serves breakfast. We just need to understand, though, y'all, that

(16:05):
impossible burgers don't necessarily mean Okay, what's the alternative? We
just want you know, it ain't gonna be healthy. If
you're putting big Max sauce and the baldest it's not healthy.
No more cheese all over it and dressing. Yeah, let me,
what's up? I need to I'm trying to pull up

(16:26):
to that side window. They got a slutty. You said, yeah,
burger had a good what was your burger? Burger has
a good impossible burger? Is it? Do you know if
it's like a vegan burger or is it just the
patty that's the impossible Okay, so the rest of it
is still like alright, y'all, speaking of regular deglar um,
it's another regular day for gayl Kano. Snow can open

(16:48):
the wind and reveal the gail, receive even death threats,
everybody calling them Okra and Kale and Kale I didn't
hear that. That's good? And then you see Snoop Dogg
that went and made a statement have to calling her
a funky doghead bitch. I mean, I had never I've

(17:09):
never heard that. You know, I will say Kobe fan
since Kobe came in the league before late Yeah, so
he was in the village. You know, you get hot, boy,
you start going on. I've never heard anyone call anybody
a funky doghead bitch. That was that was it was.

(17:36):
I think it was. I think it was. Okay, it
was a scarf, it was definitely. Yeah, He's not embarrassed
by that at all time. You know, I kind of
feel like, you know how when your mama say, you know,
you keep on acting open at school, I'm gonna coming
and show out with I felt like that's what snoop.
Did you know black people handled their business in the house.

(18:00):
You know, it's not it's not an outside thing. And
I think the world got a glimpse of in house situations. Yeah,
she he gotta. He gave Gail a public whipping. Yeah,
the tongue lashing for show for show. Well, Gail, we
hope you learn um. And I listened to her her explanation,

(18:21):
and I do understand where she's coming from, just because
of we're all in media and a lot of people
don't know they're gonna take the best clip. But no,
but the way you refer and acting is a total
difference framing of Like she said that like somebody was scoring.
Ind she knew she shouldn't have asked that question that

(18:41):
for that particular interview. I think maybe later on you
could have no, no, no, I don't asked the question
in that manner. She asked the question and then doubled down,
And that's what the problem. That's what the problem was
for me. There was nothing wrong with her asking a
question because the whole story was so public, Like, I
don't think that was anything wrong with that. It was
that well, of course you wouldn't have known if he

(19:04):
was like this, because I mean, like that's the part
that got and that was his friend too. He was
super cool, Yeah he was. She was like I just
basically she wanted to be like bitch, I just told you.
But you know when she said that, and it's like,
it's Black History Month. For one, you're sailing came down
the river, CBS, you got Trump has given metals, no

(19:28):
racist all in Black History Month? Like what is going on?
And even to your point of Black History Miguel, it's
Black History Month. That man dead, he just died. Skipped
the question when she doubled down on it. That's where
I disconnected. That's where I really felt like, Okay, she
really has an agenda with this question right now. It
wasn't her just being a journalist or whatever the case is.

(19:50):
It was her really trying to I felt like she
was coming. Didn't even have a proper funeral before you
a c That's it. It's just so disheartening into Sue's
protests getting on airs. It's like when they do that
to somebody else. She didn't vialify Weinstein like that her partner,
you know what I mean, Like, you're gonna do the
white people like the black people. You're gonna keep you fair.
If you were known to be that type of journalists,

(20:13):
then you got it right. Once you're coming up out
of nowhere, really up under your friend and you acting crazy.
We just had to get on her head on pro
for acting while and you're gonna turn around and do
the same thing. Well, I hope Tarik don't receive no
death threats. Ladies and Best one of the best TV
shows and pop culture that is Gentlemen, The finale was

(20:38):
last night, and I must say I said, I said
on this show, I said, I ain't know what I said. Well,
I really believe that it was Tarik because I don't
see ghosts sparing anybody else. Like when he told Tommy
let him go, let him go. I knew at that

(20:59):
moment it's got to be Tera. And you can see
the pain in his face when you let's let me
tell you something. Let me tell you something. Let me
tell you this ending though Tasha, Tasha, you ain't ship Tasha,
but she heard how do you leave Tasha? No money? Y'all,
don't stop naggings and hold on. I love Tasha, but

(21:23):
Tasha they put see in the end, they might the
part you might have seen already, might have had this,
but if you don't remember. They reminded us that Tasha
didn't want him to be nothing but a dough boy. Yeah,
you know what I'm saying. And he wanted to he
wanted to change, and she was not supportive of that,
you know what I'm saying. But she got She got
on the bandwagon later on with Terry Silver. She was

(21:44):
trying to change her life and trying. Yeah, but it
wasn't with him. Yeah, and so the separation although he
was guilty for his you know, his stuff with Angela exactly.
But the point is, I think it was because of
the non support of changing and growing and not wanting
to be you know what I'm saying in that life.
And he even said towards the gravest. She's like, do
you love me? And she was like, yeah, I love you,

(22:05):
I loved you rather or whatever he said, But you
didn't want me, you wanted me to be yeah, But
he was going off the rail. He was ready to
his whole family down the river. He was like, you
could go to jail there, but listen, but my point
is this, how are you selling somebody down the river?
If you're going to be lieutenant governor has the power

(22:28):
over the like it has power in the judicial system.
The whole thing was like, you're about to be indicted
facts Y and Z, so if you go in there,
own it. He went to jail for him first. Remember
when Ghosts went to jail. He didn't go to jail
for himself for his right. Is that the fact that
my tripment I don't remember because he said and this

(22:51):
for now, that he said he wasn't going he said,
I already did some time. I'm not going back. I
don't remember if it was because, okay, what the bottom
line is. I think that if you look at like
what he was saying, because it was about Lakisha and
it was about you took a child away from their MoMA,
like goes, how many people have you've been on the
killing spree? Don't you killed the lady the drunk man

(23:15):
because you was mad trying to take on somebody else
problems about the rain of thing. I'm emotional. I don't
even know how that. I just feel like she was
going to jail because of the key. She felt like
you couldn't. I feel like girls had to go because
you couldn't even trust him. He had going back on
his word, like you did say, look, I'm not gonna
let you go to jail. But he was making moves
really for his family along for himself. I mean, even

(23:37):
think about it, because he was he was really he
was ready to sell everybody down the river. Like he said,
I was telling the first of all selling people down
the river is telling on them. He was telling tell.
He threatened, He threatened Tasha, that he hed he sent
the fest to her, her daycare, got that shut down.
He was telling the fants about Dre. He got him

(23:57):
locked up. He was telling and he was murdered. He
should have got Draymard definitely had to go, but he
was sorry for him setting himself up. He was setting
his own self up. He didn't care. He was like, look,
I'll take this. I'll take your whole life away. Tasha.
You know you ain't nothing. You ain't nothing. Anyway, he told,
how did you get I don't, I don't, I don't.

(24:19):
Daughter died. Everything changed Because the daughter died. It just
seemed like God started to become more and more and
more arrogant he became. If we started to watch it,
everything he was doing, it became even more clear that
it was all self servant. We knew that, we already

(24:40):
knew that about him, but he was getting worse. The
stuff that he was saying out of his mouth to
his family was crazy. But he said he would take
the kids away from her and have the lady ray.
I don't just He said, I could just take everything
from you like and he said you ain't nothing. He said,
you are a drug dealer. Wow. He told her she

(25:01):
was a drug dealer. And then she was nothing but
a half smart chicken head who would still be in
the hood if it wasn't for him. Exactly, that man
started getting really really really reckless. Solomon is over here
rolling her neck, I'm telling you, but like it was reckless,
Like I was watching it like, oh, hell, I lost
his mane When when when when Tyrek was in them

(25:24):
and dieting and he told Rum the white man, look,
I saw you. No, that was some brilliant acting that
he was sitting there and he asked the lady who
you know he had the child rep or whatever he
gave me. She leaves and says everything is that said,
if I'm gone is off the record, So he knew.
He went from crying and said to this straight guys

(25:48):
and was like, I saw you pick up that gun
and sacks like just trying to get in Trumble. The
thing that's got me shook is Tasha would have been
okay if she was just left it alone. Because they
didn't have no case because Drake killed. They said Dray
killed James and Drey is dead. The lady was scrambling.

(26:10):
She detective was scrape your new boyfriend up dog, Like Tasha,
if you would have that down because she got scared.
She was like, Yo, they need somebody else to put
in jail. They need somebody, They need a body. And
you went and told got this this dude that you
don't even know, and then he sold you down the river.
Now you were the president. But hold on, when she
took the wig, let's talk about when she took her

(26:32):
wig off, st taking her eyelashes all, she looked like
a basic bitch. I just want to say this, ladies
and Jim like the most baser look. And then she
left the mama one year rent free. She that was

(26:54):
so petty. Ain't getting no money. And then the mama
got one year rent. And then Tarik couldn't touch nothing
until you went to college. Right, He's like, are you
gonna go to and graduate with a three point five?
The last last thing? I mean, we gotta go on
to baller mail, y'all. But how did how was the parallel?
This is what I didn't like about the ending. I
didn't like about how she set dude up because it

(27:15):
was it was point as they already had Drey and
Drake was dead, so dies the case died with Dre Then, yeah,
he already had sacks like I'm telling you if you're
telling me, so you know it was good. But then
she said, dude. Up at the end, you see her
going to jail, and it's parallel with him going to college.
And I'm looking at Tarik like somebody should have shot

(27:35):
you in your motherfucker face. I just didn't feel like,
you know what I mean? He said it right, he
told ghost you refused to see me. I am you.
He's grown as an actor. I've loved really seeing like
the evolution of Tarik on the show. I'm super excited
to see what happens next, where they gonna go with this. Yeah,
I'm so excited Tommy's new show, Tommy. Tommy has a
show coming out, Tommy. I think it's two separated Tommy's

(27:58):
and Callie. And then you've got Power Book too, that's
going to be still in New York. I want to
see what Tom is gonna do, like if Tom is
gonna go to Cali and create his own new group
of people, like if he's going to start a new operation,
or if he just wants to live a simple life.
But I don't see Tom. I see him, I see
him faking. Let's out with that ending and coming back

(28:20):
because you've got Power book too with Method Man. You
got Marry J. Blige the new one and yeah, so
the power that we know to the today closed at
the finalite book to Excited with Courtney camp Nice reappeared
in Yes and now we're from our sponsors and now

(28:46):
it's time for Baller Man. I'm engaged to my man
and he has an identical twin. They act just like
and that's the problem to be already. I'm in love
with my man, but I feel extremely uncomforta bull around
his twin when he comes over. I often confuse it
to unless I stare at them. My fiance is aware

(29:08):
and of this and tells me he understands. But the
problem is I hate that I am attracted to his
twin brother. I feel bad about that. Is that normal
being with an identical twin? This is this part Ferrari.
I see that you're engaged to a twin. What do
you do? Kenny, Sue, please help? They did not she

(29:29):
did not throw that in there. They must look alike
a like. No, she said, they look exactly like in
the actor like Wow, I'm I'm crying. That's hilarious. This
is the thing. It kind of makes sense that she'd
be attracted to the twin, right, because they look the same,

(29:49):
they act the same. Obviously, if you are engaged to
one of them, you're more than likely you'll find the
other one attractive. I think that's just some normal human
ship that she can't shake. However, this you don't need
to be talking about this like you need yourself. Like
it's like if you need to draw like a birthmark
on your man's face so you can identify him, or

(30:10):
give him a piece of jewelry or something like, do something,
but you cannot be looking at the twin. I think
she's just she's physically she's uncomfortable. She's uncomfortable because she's attractive.
Yeah's identical. What do you well, this is what I
do is my my fiance has identical twins. She's really identical.

(30:31):
They're identical. You can tell them apart. But but for me, um,
I pretend the twin sister is my is my sister.
She is basically no, but I pretend that she's my sister.
I pretend that she's my blood sister. Yes, she's going
to have to get her man like like a chain,
you see chain, so you can identify her sometimes they

(30:58):
get the style and when that when that happens, I
don't know, you know, but I don't like the acts.
They act completely different. You do like her as a person,
you just yeah, I love she said, he's not, even
though they favor a lot. But I think, dear sweetheart, darling, um, sweetheart, darling,

(31:21):
you cannot give me. These are things you can't say publicly.
And I know this is them and we're not going
to say your Instagram handle and you trust us with
your life. But at the end of the day, like
putting these types of statements in the air, you know
what I'm saying, allows the laws of attraction to kind
of me also, and said that she was going to
put a picture, but she didn't want to. Don't want

(31:43):
to be a problem long term, Like what does she
get mad or divorced later on and then she sleeps
with the brother to That's that's the real issue, because
at the end of the day, it's physical. You can't
you're you're curious, she's curious about how it would be same. Yeah,
she want to know truth, girl, get you a little

(32:03):
a little charnal, write it out to yourself. You can
get it out. If she feels like she has to
get it out, get it out, write it, burn it.
But yeah, she just can't. She should not be putting
this energy screenshotter that she unsent uns the d m
s see that. That's when you want to write it,

(32:26):
burn it and call it to that. Yeah, we can't
blame you for being curious just because it's in your
face all the time. But that's an emotion you just can't. Mean,
that's something you cannot do. Yeah, you got to check
that one system. You cannot do that. If you want
to be with your man, you want to get married
and live a fruitful, happy life, you cannot have those emotions. Now,
it's gonna be hard for you if you're physically attracted

(32:47):
someone to be around that person all the time. But
if he looks like your husband, put all that energy
into your eyes like your husband, talk like your husband,
I mean, that's time. That's to that. You need professional
help for that. Yeah, I've never had I've never been
comfortable anyway. And now we're from our sponsors and now

(33:15):
time for comment creeping. Alright, y'all, this is common creeping.
I'm gonna give you guys a little bit of history
before we get into it, so y'all can understand what's
going on. But back in the day, Atlanta's own Sierra
and Future decided that they wanted to be a power couple,
and so they linked up looking for Yeah, he was
looking for something, got engaged, he allegedly cheated over and

(33:36):
over and over and over again. So Sierra finally left,
and we all felt really bad because we felt like
we were a part of Sierra's like love search, Like
we just felt like like we felt your paces. We
felt so bad for her. But that you know, feeling
really didn't last long because she started dating Russell Wilson
of the Seattle Seahawks, and we were all just trying

(33:58):
to figure out, like what air was Sierra reciting, Like
how did she go from all these frogs back to
back to back to back getting play. I'm not saying
he's not the man, he just wasn't the man for her.
It's the only point. Okay, that's cool, that's really cool.
There was even a story of like Sierra like chasing

(34:20):
fifty cent down at Lenno Small because like he tried
to walk away from her, Like it's like it was sad.
We felt bad for her, like we really did. But anyway,
she starts dating Russell Wilson, and we were trying to
figure out, like says, how did this happen? Because this
man is all into you. He got a lot of money,
like you, you're doing your thing. Not Fast forward to Cassie,

(34:41):
who was Diddy's long time girlfriend. I think I feel
like they were dating for about a decade. Yeah, it
was a very long time and there were no signs
of engagement, kids, none of that, like nothing. The relationship
finally ended, and then Cassie met her now husband, Alex
find who was actually really fine in real life. He's
extremely attractive, okay, and Alex posted a photo of Cassie

(35:04):
and their daughter with the caption, oh, he's fine as hell.
Um So anyway, Alex posed a photo of Cassie and
their daughter with the caption that read the absolute greatest
gifts God gave me is two of the most beautiful,
happy girls. And then at live Lux left a comment asking, Hey,
did Sierra share that prayer with Cassie and Alex this

(35:27):
is why he's extra fine? Okay he responds and said,
what if Russell shared that prayer with me? It just
changed the game. See ladies, we always think that, you know,
we're the ones that are like praying for these men. Good.
They're praying for you, sis, They're praying for you. Baby.

(35:49):
You better, yes, says Look, they want us just as
bad friend. You know, I got to answer for that though,
And I think I think we talked about the one
that was a great one. Um. You know, it's always
you think you want something until you really get it right,
and then when you're young, it's the excitement that you're after.

(36:12):
It's that the dopamine. Right, so it's like you get
and it's from me, then women, and then you realize,
you know, if you get the opportunity to get the one,
that person that completes you it nine times ain't the
dope Maine. You know what I'm saying. It nine times

(36:34):
I attend, ain't the dopamine. So you gotta be you know,
fruitful in your thoughts. Ladies, men, you know what I'm saying.
And then also you gotta get out of that. You
know what I'm saying, that that that drug haze, the dopamine,
and so you can see clear. And I think that's
what happened. For a year she had all of the
celebrity you know what I mean. It's then the third
she found a solid dude that love her, Her son

(36:59):
that she had was in my and she locked in.
It's like, Okay, I'm gonna create my own dope man
over here with this. And that's what what are so happy?
So happy for them because we I feel like we
all felt like we were a part of Cassie and
absolutely time, you know, so to see both of these
ladies on the other side, super happy, growing their families,

(37:20):
their businesses are growing hair and just laid all that.
Oh no, they have to go through that just to
appreciate what they had. Listen, ain't no mistakes. You stay
down what you want to stay down until you wake up, period.
And they woke up. And when they woke up, they
got right. And you you know what, it makes you
realize who was the person? Who was who was the problem?
Who was the problem? And it wasn't you, wasn't Sierra,

(37:43):
And it wasn't you Cassie. Oh and it makest to serious.
She's pregnant again, right one time for the new bag.
They're gonna have a couple of moments. Well, listen, he
got that new contract. They can afford it. All right,
now it's time for Fucius, says ladies. Damn. I don't
know if you follow me on Instagram, but if you don't,

(38:05):
you show it. This morning, I had a special post
and I like to share it with you. I asked
my followers, ask yourself one thing this morning. What matters most.
I've learned on my journey that you must pay attention
to the signs, and those signs are the affirmations and
distractions that sway your decisions. I truly believe in following

(38:25):
your gut no matter what. Most times, when you lead
with love, the beauty is on the other side of
your actions. We don't have all the answers, but we
do have the power to learn as we grow. Ladies
and gentlemen, living your truth. We love your balling nation. Peace,

(38:46):
It's real.
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