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September 16, 2025 86 mins

Rod and Karen are joined by Dee of the Bad and Boozy Podcast to discuss the Marion House 5K Race to Embrace Independence, being a CFO of a non-profit, how this administration changes the way things work, being directly around the women she’s helping in this new role, trying to collect money in this economic environment, what all can people give, Black Capitalism (112, Queen Latifah, Ruby Bridges, Lil Yachty), Gender Wars, man arrested for driving in Barbie toy jeep, man kills roommate over remote, Florida man uses bug spray as weapon and sword ratchetness.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips because Rod
and Karen are hot.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Hey, welcome to another episode of the Blackout Tips podcast.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
I'm your host Rod, joined us always by my co
host Karen, and we're live on a.

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Tuesday, ready to do some podcasts and find us everywhere
you find podcasts. And we're busy, like we're doing work,
Like we didn't do a show for y'all yesterday, but
you can find our work over at Keith and the Girl.
We did a long episode over there. It should be
out today for all the free people.

Speaker 3 (00:35):
It was behind the paywaller.

Speaker 2 (00:36):
First, a lot of talk about Charlie Kirk and about
all the happenings with last week on Keith and the Girl,
so make sure y'll check that out. I also was
on a podcast called mc University where that we're ironically
talking about a DC property Peacemaker Peacemaker season two and
so they've been recapping it and I hopped on there

(00:58):
with them. So if y'all want bonus extra Ride and Karen,
those are places you can go and find it.

Speaker 3 (01:03):
We're frequently on three.

Speaker 2 (01:04):
Guys on, So yeah, there's a bunch of places to
catch up with us. Even when we're not here, but
if you want extra us just us, you can go
to the Blackout Tips Patreon and sign up, because there
you get bonus stuff like a bunch of movie reviews
and Nerdoff and balls D Sports and when we do

(01:25):
live behind the paywall shows like balls D Sports and
the pregame the nerd Off, you guys get to see that,
so you can go watch it. You can always click
on the re button again later and watch the replay
like it's a real fun thing and it's just a
little treat for all y'all premium peoples. That being said,
we're not here alone and what has become essentially an

(01:47):
annual tradition at this point.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
I love it.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
We are joined by D of The Bad and Boozy
Podcast to discuss the Marrion House five K Race to
Embrace Independence Team Pam Dukes, what's going on? D?

Speaker 3 (02:02):
How you doing?

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Hi?

Speaker 4 (02:04):
How is everyone? Thanks for having me back. I was
just telling somebody else I said, oh, let me come back,
like I love it. Listen.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
I feel like lately we've been having a lot of
guests on where it's just been like, uh, good vibes,
you know.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
What I mean.

Speaker 2 (02:19):
We had Karen Yeah, Karen Cousin and her husband came
on and we talked about their charity work that they're
doing a week before that.

Speaker 4 (02:28):
And I was saving it. I was saving it, but
I was like, oh, Charry is a charity week around?

Speaker 1 (02:33):
Then I'm like it must be.

Speaker 3 (02:35):
Let me find out.

Speaker 2 (02:36):
But and then like the week before, we had a
therapist on Cassandra Dunbar, So like, I don't know, maybe
September is uh that time, or maybe it's just that
time of the of life people need to get some
other stuff out there.

Speaker 1 (02:49):
But because Fall, you know, because I know Fall is
Roger's like face.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
The best mom, It's the best favorite season.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
And I didn't really think of it like this, but
when fall, everything changes the every you know, you drop stuff,
you let stuff go, you prepare for new things.

Speaker 4 (03:06):
Yeah, Fall has always been kind of like a lot
of people look for spring cleaning, but fall has always
been kind of my renewal and resept Like, yeah, so
I fall with my time.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
But let's talk about what you're doing, because, like I said,
it's a good cause and it happens every year. But
some people, you know, this is gonna be their first show,
it's gonna be the show. They haven't been here since
last year, So, right, can you tell everybody about the
five k and like where they need to go to support?

Speaker 4 (03:34):
I sure can. But before I say all that camera
made the you made the comment about it being fall
and it seems like more people were given. So it
seemed like I'm learning being like now in the nonprofit world,
like this is the time of year that like we
about to roll into the holidays before we know it,
so more people. This is the time of year that
people were trying to come up out their money. So

(03:54):
you know this is the time they or they looking
like I need a tax break, So this the time
you get the nonprofits be trying to get you the
monete after taxes, and right, more people more likely could
be like all right, hold on, let me let me
say people real generous around the time of year. But
I will just introduce myself. I'm d our Work. I

(04:16):
now Work has been here well over a year at
the Marion House here in Baltimore. Marrion House is a
transitional housing program for women here in Baltimore. We've been
around this year makes forty three years. One of the
cool things about the mission is some people are like
are you religious, But we're not necessarily a religious organization,

(04:37):
but we were founded by nuns, so we still got
like some of that that hanging around, but it was
never They have been very like open and we don't
have any like religious aspects were very liberal over here,
but it is the nuns started the organization first to
help with recidivism, try to help uh, the women not
return incarceration in the program has expanded over the years,

(05:00):
so we have women either coming from jail or need
to be transition maybe other like you know, like those
twenty eight day like rehab programs. They need like a
longer transition back into the community. And then some people
might be coming from domestic violence situations and different things
like that. But my I'm the CFO here now and

(05:20):
my biggest connection even when I first reached out to
y'all to the races because my mom was a resident
at Marion House back in two thousand and nine before
she passed away in twenty twelve. And the biggest fundraiser
that we have coming up next week on the twenty
seventh is the Marying House five K that's our largest
just like don't like just donor fundraiser of the year,

(05:43):
and me and my brothers and family and friends have
participated in the race every year since twenty fourteen in
memory of my mom, and I've been like the top
either the top team or top individual fundraiser every year
since I've done a race, well every year except for
the first year, but every year. And now that I
work here, I got like my things all around my office. Yeah,

(06:08):
so since I've been here. Uh, when I talked to
y'all last year, it was just like I kind of
fell into the CFO role like it was. It was
it was unexpected, but like in a in a great way.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
But you yeah, you already had like a background and
like stuff.

Speaker 3 (06:27):
I know, you were doing tax accounting and stuff.

Speaker 4 (06:29):
Yea, I have a finance I have an accountant background.
I've literally done accounting since high school. I just found
like my accountant certificate that I got with my diploma.
But I was, I was. I worked at the I
R S for ten years, and so my accounting experience
wasn't specifically like, oh, I'm sitting in an accounting department. So

(06:50):
to go from that to like I run an accounting
department and all, it's been a huge learning curve over
the last year. But the best saying outside of this
the finance part is me being get to be like
side by side, like literally my office right now, the
next room over is one of the residence rooms. Our
offices are right in the same house as the lady.

(07:12):
So you get that. I get that unique perspective of
the I get to do you accounting, which is like
my career and my history, my love and with my
passion helping the ladies here. So so that's that's that's
like the story in a nutshell. But now, let I've
been up until like yesterday, my team pan Jukes was

(07:36):
like firmly in the lead. Somebody, some big donor came
out of nowhere and donated the other guy like twenty
five hundred dollars. I don't know where this lady came from.
But now I'm like, I got to secure my lead.

Speaker 1 (07:48):
Right, I take that personally?

Speaker 3 (07:50):
How do we Where do people go? Where do people
go to cut you up?

Speaker 4 (07:54):
I will drop the link in the chat, but I'll
crack it up because like I get real competitive. I've
got more of the employees involved this year, A lot
of the re registered, the women that we serve for
free and a lot of them now is like, can
we join your team? And I'm like, yes, come on,
everybody just joined my team. Wow.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
I mean I feel like if you're gonna be competitive
for something, being competitive about something that helps people is
like the best way to be competiti you know what
I mean.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
Because everybody because even if I lose, everybody, everybody wins
in the end. I dropped the link in the chat
to my fund raising page, but it's our main website
is Marionhouse dot org any slash five k and you'll
see seeing Pam Dukes and all the other stats. But
it's been such a fun learning experience since I've been here,

(08:43):
very challenging because you got to learn processes.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Yeah, what are the big challenges you know in your
new role?

Speaker 4 (08:51):
So I will say the biggest challenge is like if
you if you see a program from the outside, it
looks like, oh, this is just one program, and then
I get inside and I don't necessarily have a nonprofit background,
so I'm learning about like, oh no, we have this
one major program, but we have a bunch of smaller programs.
So we have the transitional housing, and then we have

(09:12):
Section eight housing, and then we have a family program
at another campus, and then all that is like house
under like smaller LLCs or smaller entities, so the books
and records more complicated than not new So learning that
and then and then learning about the I don't know,
the bureaucracy of the city, like when we get government funds,

(09:33):
like with like like which departments draw down, like which
grants apply to what what can we do here? We
got such nate over here, we got affordable housing over here,
We're building medicaid over here, we get grants from big
foundations over here. And then when you first come in,
it's like a lot of jobs. We have all these acronyms,
and I'm like, with those alphabets me, I.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Ain't true and like another language.

Speaker 4 (09:57):
But it's been fun, kind of like figuring it all out.
This time last year, I was copying on so many
emails that I probably didn't even know why my name
was there. But now but now I'm like, oh, okay,
now I'm starting to speak the language. But it's just
like a It's just been like a process but very interesting.
And I've always wanted to get back to the community.
So it's kind of like to see how the city

(10:18):
in the bureaucracy works and that person in office, but
I'm shaking stuff up, like messing with Yeah, I.

Speaker 2 (10:26):
Was gonna ask that, like how how is the climate
around like the part of it that is government grants
or dealing with that, like has that those things are
like because there's two parts of it.

Speaker 3 (10:41):
One we have a.

Speaker 2 (10:44):
Less charitable administration in office right now that can't really
be debated. But then the other part of it is
also a chaotic like things, so like like if you
tweet something, does that make it a all? Does you
know like that type of thing? So like how do
y'all navigate that?

Speaker 4 (11:01):
So I think it's like everybody is just kind of
learning and kind of like bracing for the worst. But
a lot of times we know that the administration will
say something but it didn't actually do a thing, so
it'll have people on edge but nothing really happened, But
you got to also kind of be prepared for that happening. Yeah,

(11:21):
I think one of the things that we see. I
think one of the immediate impacts that we have is
people's ability to give, because you're gonna be less charitable
if your jobs are cut, if if if your services
are cut, or if you just or if if things
cost so much, you don't have much money to give
the places like us, we're fortunate as a nonprofit to

(11:44):
be one of nonprofits in the city that have a
we have a fairly large amount then a typical nonprofit
will have like sitting in our investments, but every nonprofit doesn't,
so like we have more of a chushion than some
people will have. But like I would say, like was
it Jay February whenever he just like popped up, like

(12:06):
he was just causing all the chaos all of a sudden,
you want like five million emails from people in the
city from the Mayor's Office of Homeless Services, And everybody's
just trying to jump on these calls because even though
even though a lot of our money might not be
federal funds directly, it might be from this city that's
getting it from the face, so either way it could
trickle down to us. So everybody's like hopping on calls

(12:26):
like what we'll do if they cut off this pot
of money, and blah blah blah blah blah, like trying
I think it was more chaotic like early in the year,
and but now you're just kind of like watching the
headlines and things like that. And probably my biggest concern
around this time is that he makes any changes to
Medicaid because a lot of the women we serve, we're
able to provide counseling, different services like that, but we're

(12:49):
able to get rampers because they're because they're Medicaid eligible.
But if they're not MEDICAI eligible, then we could be
trying to serve a bunch of women but not bringing
in any revenue serve those same women. But but it's
we I just try to be like, not not reactive,
but it's proactive as I can. But sometimes you just

(13:11):
you just never know. But that part has been interesting,
like they cut off money, were at worst we got
a couple of programs that we would have to fold.
Ideally hopefully we don't, but yeah, it could be tough.

Speaker 1 (13:26):
You also say that y'all serve like families, And when
it comes to that, is it like the structure of
is like mother and children? Is it children only? Like
like type of things?

Speaker 4 (13:39):
So usually a mom and she may have she may
be pregnant, or she may have several kids. So we
have different intake requirements, but based on what they need,
what kind of housing, like if they qualify for such
an aid or like temper or like our affordable housing programs.
She would talk out intake coordinator and then to the

(14:00):
program managers to see if they if she would make
a good fit for the program, Like they required to
work and have certain kind of things like maybe attend
certain like groups and counselings and stuff like that to
be part of the program. But it depends. But it's
kind of nice. They have the family program up there
with the kids.

Speaker 1 (14:16):
You're also, like you said, you're located at the same
place that the residents are over the time you've been there,
particularly being that close to them. How seeing the growth
in them, Like how does it make you feel to
see like the difference between when people first started to now,
because I'm pretty sure there has to be some trends.

Speaker 4 (14:38):
I think I knew it would be different because not
only in my like our headquarters is I think, and
this this building is the combination of offices, and we have
like a large living area downstairs, not like a commercial
kitchen the second floor and then it's all offices in
the first floor and the second floor is a combination
of rooms for the clients in office isn't then the

(15:00):
therapy floor. It's all resident rooms. So you see the
ladies in the hallway throughout the day, depending on what's
on their schedules. And then a lot of times we'll
host celebrations or dinners for them after work. So sometimes
if you're just here, you just go to the celebration,
Like one thing we like to do around here is
have a party. But especially after the whole year, you

(15:23):
kind of see because this part of the program, the
ladies are usually here up to maybe a little bit
over a year, some people a little bit more, a
little bit less. So it's the hope is for them
to be able to go into the community or into
a Marine Houses two program. But so the ladies come in,
they have to meet with all the leadership on the staff,

(15:44):
myself and everybody else. So their thing with me is
they have a financial obligation while they're here, so I
get to I usually use the time to talk to
them one on one and not only tell them the
financial agreement, but also just kind of get to know them.
I always let them know that like my mom was
a resident here and things like that, and I know

(16:05):
and noticed that like this just makes me more relatable,
but like when you watch them like go to their
groups and graduate from their group and then get it
and then ta get a job, or they in different parts,
and like when they come in and like be excited.
I think it hit me probably about this time last year,

(16:25):
maybe like November or something, that even though I wasn't
fully in this role, one of my ladies was moved
who's her room was right across the hall, so I
would hear her big mouth all the time and laugh
with her or whatever, and then she was moving into
another program. Even though I still see her sometimes. When
she moved out, I was she was the first one
that I was like, oh, like they leave you. I

(16:49):
think I gotta get used to this. Like the part
of my routine was talking to her. But now it's
like when she's moving on, like she's done better and
she's moved on a few works and on to the
next phase. And I was like, oh, if I plan
to be here for a long time, I got to
get used to this heartbreak like yeah, dude, but also
kind of like being happy for them.

Speaker 3 (17:09):
Yeah yeah, yeah. I imagine.

Speaker 2 (17:11):
It's almost like being a teacher, you know, where it's
like my goal, my goal is Yeah, my goal is
for you to not have to keep coming back.

Speaker 4 (17:19):
But I'm a sad Yeah that's the goal. I was like, yeah,
that's the goal. You supposedly then, just like I had
one resident who's so part of that financial agreement. When
we collect that money, we put the majority of it
in savings, so when they move on, I'm the one
that get to be like, hey, and by the way,
here's your money. And I had a lady who like

(17:42):
gave me her paycheck and like was taking At first,
I was like, what's going on. She realized she was
at like a five thousand dollars savings goal, and she
was so excited to never save any money in our life.
So then she and my office crime, I'm in here crime,
and I'm just like like, so so it's like you're
just so happy, Like she was like she just like
so excited to move into one of our apartments, and

(18:03):
like by the matches that she had been looking right
and just yeah, yeah, because because some of the basic
things that we take for granted, Like we had somebody
come in from prison who like we're still using our
prison shower. We're like, girl, we got we can get
you these shoes and some of those things away, sanitation stuff,
a lot some of those small things. Yes, so when

(18:24):
they come in, we have like started hits them because
a lot of people they don't have they may have
nothing right and they so we have like things like
to get them started. So like get to seeing like
how the sausage is made. Has been really cool for
the most part, heartwarming. Every story isn't a success story.

(18:44):
On occasion someone gets removed from the program, but hopefully
it's to find them a different level of kid and
maybe we can't provide or something.

Speaker 3 (18:52):
Like that is hard? Is that hard to?

Speaker 4 (18:54):
Like?

Speaker 2 (18:55):
Is that also hard on you? When it's like, man,
this person is that we're not the place.

Speaker 4 (18:59):
I think it. I think it depends on the attachment.
Like if we have somebody that come in like pretty
like they came in and I didn't really get to
know them, it's still fast. But like if you have
like somebody who's been with us for years and maybe relapses,
like it might be they might be in one of
our permanent like in our permanent housing or one of
our more long term programs and they've been doing so
good and then they might have relapsed or something like

(19:22):
that could be tough, especially for the case managers or
people that work with them every day. But we do
our best to try to reconnect them with resources in
the community, and we everybody gets a second chance if
you need to do it here. But but overall it
can it can be great. Likes our house manager right
now is down fair cooking pork chops and I'm probably

(19:45):
gonna So it's like you get the little bonus things
like working with like the old black lady that's like
your auntie.

Speaker 2 (19:53):
Yeah, I bet y'all, I bet y'all. Y'all probably be
off the hood, right because.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
I know a lot of.

Speaker 4 (20:00):
Really cook let me tell you especially, So one of
the things the ladies have to do at this part
of the program is they have they on a cook team,
so they have to like share cooking duties and everybody,
everybody got different strengths and weaknesses. All the ladies can't cook,
but you know, they all work together. They figured it out.

(20:21):
But listen, sometimes you get the right lady that can cook,
and then they'd be like, hey, try this. I'd be
like when this such and such cooking again, okay, Or
a lot of times like if you hear late They're like, hey,
mister b Tri, just come downstairs with us. So even
if I try to hide, sometimes they be like, where
are you at? You out here with us? If we

(20:41):
try to do the holidays and things like that, we
always try to do something for them because for many
of them they weren't they hadn't had a chance to
celebrate holidays they sober, So we always do something June tenth,
Marty crawl whatever. And one thing about my big areas
nature is most of the time I'm at the event
with the leader, like I got a little I want

(21:03):
to space competition in Black History Month with one of
the ladies. So I'm in here. I'm in here?

Speaker 3 (21:11):
Is it?

Speaker 2 (21:11):
And also like, uh, you were talking about like people
are being sober, so like do I have to be
mindful of that? Like, hey, we're not bringing alcohol and
stuff like that in here?

Speaker 4 (21:20):
We can we cannot have Yeah, we can't have alcohol
on the premises at all.

Speaker 3 (21:25):
Does that conflict with your podcast?

Speaker 4 (21:27):
Is that DV?

Speaker 1 (21:28):
Like?

Speaker 3 (21:28):
Man, do you know I just don't.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
Talk about it. I just don't tell the ladies about it.
But you know, I know how to I know how
to edit.

Speaker 3 (21:36):
Yeah, but what you learned?

Speaker 4 (21:39):
But I can't be like, oh I was at the
Ravens game.

Speaker 3 (21:41):
It was lip right.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
Right, like I had a great time at the Ravens game.

Speaker 4 (21:49):
Like, oh I had a good time. I mean, they're
not stupid, but I'm not going to like putting it in.
It's all you learned stuff about the Ladies sometime, because
it didn't dawn on me to up. I was just
talking about watching the game. One of my clients, one
of our clients, was like, she was like, I'll be
glad when I get to watch football again. And I
didn't understand why I first, but even watching football, she
always associated with watching football and drinking. Right, Okay, I

(22:12):
can see that, and she's just not there yet. And
I was like, oh, you know, like thanks for sharing.
I always let him know, like share with share whatever
you want. You're not obligated, but you know, I'm not
a hard person to open up. But I thought that,
But that was something that keep in minds for the
next person. I don't know who might have something similar.
I agreed, but you have a lot about the Ladies.

Speaker 2 (22:34):
The are y'all seeing like waves of people needing more
help or more people needed help. I know a lot
of people are very concerned about the economy now because
of all these changes.

Speaker 3 (22:46):
You got the tariffs, she got all that type of stuff.

Speaker 2 (22:50):
And then in addition to are y'all seeing more people
that need help? Are you seeing people that have like
less to give? Or is it harder to get donations
at this point because people are filling the.

Speaker 4 (23:00):
Quand so it is a little bit harder to get donations.
And I think from a peoplespective, individual perspective, and even
large the big the people with a lot of money,
because this year we had to drop in, like the
big companies that would sponsor us the race and stuff
like that, Like some of our sponsors that would have
gave us like ten thousand dollars like dropped out and

(23:21):
give us money this dear, So we like who they get.
Hopefully hopefully they gave it to another organization that needed
it more than us, which I'm assuming so, but maybe,
but they're cuttings.

Speaker 2 (23:34):
And they'd be like, well, not just that you have
the like that stuff with terrors. But then you have
a lot of companies who cut back on like DEI
initiatives because whether they felt like they were worried about
what the administration was going to target them or whether
it's just you just.

Speaker 4 (23:52):
Never know and like like so I know at least
one of the companies had a change in their leadership
and the leadership and the person at the top before
had a long standing relationship with us, and this person
was just like I don't know them, like so like
that and the change. As far as people always need
housing our issue. We we get more calls, but we

(24:15):
aren't a selter. We aren't an emergency shelters. So sometimes
people call us because they need somewhere to go right now,
but that's not the nature about program. So unfortunately we've
got to turn those type of people away. Usually we
take people who have kind of already like had a
good start on their journey and then they need that
next boost. So like if you just stop using drugs

(24:37):
or drinking or something like last week, like we need
a lot like you need to be in like a
twenty eight day or a store of program another program
before you come, because this part of the program is
like more long term, right. So, but that's what it's
concerning that because Trump thinking about like he talking about
like cutting homeless services, like the fundingceal homeless services period

(25:00):
and I'm like, that's that's really ridiculous. Yeah, you damn hot. Yeah.
So even so a lot of people are homeless, even
the people who don't have any jail substitute histories or
things like that. People ain't got a place to go.

Speaker 2 (25:12):
Yeah, And it's very difficult too, because like it's not
just a matter of like balancing a budget or whatever.
Like they make money for the stuff they want to
and a lot of the stuff they're making money, they
make them find the money for.

Speaker 3 (25:25):
It is very cruel.

Speaker 4 (25:26):
We don't need no more guns than tanks and stuff.

Speaker 3 (25:30):
We're good, Bro, you got National Guard money? You know
you ain't got no National Guard.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
Money exactly exactly. So that part has been very interesting,
kind of like seeing an offer inside because before I
was just like, yeah, let's raise money. That's up. Now
I'm just like I work directly with the people who
like we raise these funds impacted.

Speaker 2 (25:50):
Right, what what kind of things can people give? Is
it just money or do people also give other things?

Speaker 4 (25:57):
So we do we keep like don't nations and things
on hand. Sometimes we'll have like furniture and things like
that because like depending on the program, we like like
like uh, having furniture in the apartments or you know,
like bidding, like when we turn the rooms over, we
got to go in clean and put new bidding and

(26:18):
things like that toil the trees. This is the time
of year out outside of the five K. The next
thing we'll roll right into is the is our Christmas
and UH program. So we, like all the ladies in
across the programs make witch lists, so we try to
get general things that they might want, but we try
to fulfill all the ladi's witch lists, so we get

(26:39):
people to kind of like adopt the ladies and individuals.
Right clothes Now, one interesting thing, well I thought was interesting,
like sometimes we like getting rid of clothes and things
like that, and I think some people aren't mindful of
like this old Warren pair of jeans. So we typically
only brand new clothes because like a lot of these

(27:03):
ladies haven't they haven't had anything. And then somebody just
want to give you their lord used hand me down, and.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
It makes a difference.

Speaker 4 (27:11):
They deserve ye something, deservething nice and fresh and not
just like yeah half the thought and typically just new clothes.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
And and in situations like this depend on the environment
they came from. For some of them, they may have
never really pad you like most of everything, and then
life may have been some form of hand me down.

Speaker 4 (27:32):
You might have been handed down. So we try to
encourage them, like when you get that whistless, put something
on there that you want, and they'll put like, oh,
I need some thocks. So I'm like, Darrel, we'll get
you some socks. Put something on there that you actually want,
because a lot of them have only been in survival
modes and only about what they need, but haven't had
just a gift because I don't know, you want a

(27:54):
leelo and six blanket, I don't care if you fifty.
You want a leelod sick blanket? Put it on the left.
Yeah so but yeah, so that but that's after the race.
That's kind of nice. And now that I'm here, we
do like a big Christmas dinner and the staff serve
the ladies and they open up their gifts, and you know,
we like to turn on the water works around here.

(28:15):
So somebody probably gonna cry when they get.

Speaker 2 (28:17):
Something or whatever. When when is the five K? When
is the deadline for people to give all of that stuff?

Speaker 4 (28:26):
So the five K is Saturday, September twenty seven. Uh,
And you can give up until the day. You actually
can give after that day, but I want you to
give before so right, so I can turn up. I've
had a couple of people like, I don't know if
I'm being able to donate before then you know what,
We're gonna need your money regardless of truth. We usually

(28:49):
leave the fund rais only live a couple of weeks
after the rape that Saturday, September twenty seven, and I
will say, if it's any runners for people like that listening,
that we do have a virtual option if you like
to join my team and just log your results virtually
so you can donate, You can join, you can do both.
You can share the link to somebody else that you

(29:11):
might think it's interested interested in the cause. But yeah,
so this is the R seventeen wow annually. Yeah, and
I've been doing it for about what twelve of the years.
Kind of crazy.

Speaker 1 (29:25):
So with the with the virtual you could do that
from anywhere, right, yep.

Speaker 4 (29:29):
And then you'll just will still send you your T
shirt and if we haven't missed a deadline, they will
get your hurt. But you'll just log your race results virtually.
And this year, if y'all know that Jenzell Gift. He
was like, I'm leaving with something. I'm leaving with some Yeah.
So if if I didn't, I was like, even though
I'm like neck and neck for the top fundraiser, this

(29:51):
did my personal goal for a team. I never won
larger team with Johns Hopkins. Usually would have a team
and it would just come out here with like one
in five people, and I was like, I ain't got
all them people. But this year, as of before this podcast,
I got thirty four people on my team. Thirty four
if I'm talking with the biggest team. This year, I

(30:11):
got new new goals.

Speaker 3 (30:12):
New goals that sound like a lot.

Speaker 4 (30:17):
Now, I will say, I will say a lot of
that is because listen, the ladies, the residents here like me.
So when they registered, they say, let's don't bet your team,
and I said, I'm not gonna stop you. I'm not
gonna stop you.

Speaker 1 (30:29):
I'm not gonna talk to you.

Speaker 4 (30:31):
You may give me the booths. I had to double
check with our advancement coordinator, like I ain't pad the numbers.
They said they wanted to try it.

Speaker 1 (30:37):
I didn't make them before them just on.

Speaker 4 (30:42):
Yeah, but it's it's fun.

Speaker 2 (30:43):
You just being extra nice doing when they first come in, like,
here's a candy bar. I mean, you know, if you
want to sign up for my team, you know it's food,
but it's not no pressure. Now we got a range
of women, so someone might be a little technological challenge,
and I'm like, you want me to register you right now?

Speaker 4 (30:58):
Right, come on to my office. I'll do it right.

Speaker 3 (31:00):
I got you covered, I got you.

Speaker 4 (31:02):
But it's another thing because over the years, it's different
levels of excitement of the ladies wanting to participate in
the race because we want you to participate, because everybody
who comes, we're here to support you the right So
we like, y'all come outside. These people gonna be out there.
But you know, I'm like the fun on tea, but
I'm at work for they like, let's let's join, Let's join.

(31:22):
Because I'm beginning.

Speaker 1 (31:23):
When you do these races and you see residents that
have like going on and been very successful coming back
and participating in the race, I know that has to
kind of impact everybody, you know what I'm saying, because
that has to be that has to be a beautiful moment,
one of.

Speaker 4 (31:40):
The highlights of the race every year. Even before I
was working here is. Before the race actually kicks off,
we have like the MC of the race and it's
usually full least five years have been one of our
local news people, the Oreo Bird to be here all that.
But before the race starts, we always have an alumni
resident like speak and do a speech. Every year. You

(32:02):
just and you just you just standing by the podium
here whoever story and you're about to cry because about
how she was in the like prostitute, whatever the story is,
and then she last year's lady was so eloquent. I
was like, you're okay. I was like, dang, she got
writing skills because deliverery was good. But that's the one

(32:24):
time you just be in the order and you'd be
like we be looking at each other like who won't
cry first? But it's always but it's beautiful for them
to come down.

Speaker 2 (32:30):
It's like, let me start, let me start running, so
to sweat make it look like I'm by crying.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
It's just it's just.

Speaker 4 (32:38):
Then she is kind of exciting because like now I
know I already know the resident that's going to speak,
so I hype it up, like, oh you gonna speaking.
I couldn't wait to I can't wait to see what
her It's like, it's like we be thinking, like did
we think she would be a good person? I was like,
should be here. So it's kind of nice because I
know because this will be one of my residents that
was here like my first year here, and now she's

(32:59):
she's doing her thing, but she's coming back to week
for the race, So that's dope. Tell tell look a
look at my girl.

Speaker 2 (33:08):
Tell everybody one more time where to donat and stuff,
and then we're gonna get into some of these topics
on the show.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
Oh yeah, you know, I'm ready. So everybody can donate,
go to Marionhouse dot org, splash five k and look
for teen pam Dukes. But I'm also going to drop
the link and the chat once more. And if y'all
follow me on your social media, y'all probably see me
posting it and posting and posting because that's what I
do around this time. Yeah, and thank you to everybody,

(33:36):
because I've definitely seen some names from prior years, from
the listeners from online and stuff like that who have
supported again this year even before I came on the show.
So yeah, and thank thanks in advance to whoever whoever
gonna help me get to my five thousand dollars go
in the next week.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
I love I love how the Baltimore accent comes out
when you say Pam Dukes like like I hear.

Speaker 4 (33:59):
People like, hey, but the Baltimore is real, y'all.

Speaker 2 (34:05):
Yeah, Ravens all day.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Hopefully y'all can do it this year. You know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (34:11):
We root for y'all.

Speaker 3 (34:14):
Because it's not gonna happen.

Speaker 1 (34:15):
But it's not gonna be the Panthers, not gonna We're terrible.

Speaker 3 (34:20):
All right, let's get into some topics, man.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
I'll start off trying to keep a little upbeat today
and start off with maybe some black capitalism.

Speaker 1 (34:29):
Okay, let's do this.

Speaker 3 (34:33):
Y'all talking. But the only thing I'm listening to is
that paper.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
Every day we get into that paper, I hear the
money left.

Speaker 3 (34:51):
Every day we get into that paper, I hit the
money talk of seal.

Speaker 2 (35:08):
Black capitalism. When we go around find different stories about
black people doing things with their money. One twelve Announces
Room one twelve tour with Total and Case.

Speaker 1 (35:22):
Were taking us back to the the nineties two thousands.
I remember when that album came out, Jah, Come on,
we couldn't even I couldn't even find it that that
Rule one twelve. Me and one of my friends with
the ever best buying shot and that ship was sold out,
couldn't get a hold of that city. Mad.

Speaker 2 (35:41):
You could tell they got they publishing money back from
Diddy because they was like, yeah, we ready tour.

Speaker 3 (35:47):
Like now that we can make the money.

Speaker 1 (35:49):
We can make the money.

Speaker 2 (35:50):
Like, let's go total case one twelve. I mean, look,
it's gonna be nothing but uncles and Annie's up and.

Speaker 1 (35:56):
There having the time of their lives.

Speaker 4 (36:01):
And I gotta remind myself that I am firmly an
auntie now, so sign me up.

Speaker 3 (36:05):
Come on, I would drop it like it's lukewarm.

Speaker 1 (36:07):
And come on, move it like it's cold.

Speaker 3 (36:11):
Put your hand up on my oh not too card,
not card.

Speaker 2 (36:18):
Queen Latifa has launched a game changing health program after
embracing menopause, Queen Latifa brought her voice and yeah, Queen Latifa,
she's like, let's go. She she's not a face of
weight watchers first ever menopause focused program, called weight Watchers
for Menopause. The campaign launches this month. It'll provide women

(36:41):
with access to menopause trained clinicians, evidence based treatments such
as hormow therapy and GLP one medications, personalized nutrition and
fitness plans and workshops designed specifically for every stage of menopause.

Speaker 1 (36:55):
Wonderful. That's really good because for some reason, people talk
about menopausal and things like that and it impacts women.
But a lot of people just ignore it because I'm
at the age when I'm pre menopausal and pre menopausal
could be ten years or longer, you know, depend on
that thing, and it impacts you very, very differently. And

(37:21):
I appreciate that because a lot of women go through
it very silently and they don't.

Speaker 4 (37:28):
We need some more. It's nice to have more representation
because I don't remember nobody talking about nothing. Yeah, for sure,
I didn't, like I love to death, But the ancestors Failder,
they didn't. They didn't know.

Speaker 1 (37:38):
They didn't talk about nothing. I didn't understand nothing about
hot flashes, menopausal and nothing.

Speaker 4 (37:44):
All.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
I realized one day I walked into the house, me
and my mama, just me and my mama. We lived there,
just me and her. One day I walked in. She
was butt nigger on the floor and she's like, this
is the coldest place in the whole house. Oh. I
was like, what the hell you negga? Because I'm a kid,
so I'm like, well, you happening here not realizing that,
you know, all of a sudden her skin caught on

(38:07):
fire and.

Speaker 3 (38:07):
She ain't know what to do, right, I think.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
I think also it's because a lot of things for women, uh,
in our society is like sex appeal stuff.

Speaker 3 (38:18):
It's all like can you have sex with this woman?

Speaker 2 (38:21):
And it's like when you're talking about menopause, it's not
one it's not about men.

Speaker 3 (38:24):
It's not about sexual tract.

Speaker 4 (38:26):
I don't care.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Yeah, So there's so like there's no glamorous like commercials
about it. There's no uh, there's not a lot of
women who want to talk about it or associate their
like there their brand with like menopause, like it's making her,
making her this part of putting her brand on the
line for this means that it.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
Means something.

Speaker 4 (38:46):
A fun fact. It's kind of related, just kind of
related to my job here now that myself and our
CEO are here. My whole leadership team is women. So
I'm getting and I'm the youngest, so I get some
of the menopausal as education that I don't get from
the ancestors yet right here doing our leadership meetings because
we can pause the meeting and be like, they can

(39:08):
be like hold on and we can all.

Speaker 3 (39:09):
Talk about it.

Speaker 4 (39:10):
Well, that's like a that's definitely a perk of work
with working with women and serving all the women, yes,
and having those conversations.

Speaker 1 (39:19):
I think with me, my mother in law really helped
me out a lot about some of the changes they
don't really talk about, like the hair thinning, you know,
just you know, your body aches, you know, like like
things that you don't really move, twings, you know, you're
irritated really easily, and you just don't know why. You

(39:40):
know you're going through those things, and like you say,
the ancestors, sometimes you go, well, I wish y'all would
have gave me kind of a a heads up. You
don't even know a lot of people don't even know
they're going through it right now. They just think something's wrong,
going to the doctor, the doctor telling them it's all right,
versus you actually your premium apausal.

Speaker 3 (39:59):
Yep.

Speaker 2 (40:00):
Ruby Bridges, y'all know, she's a little girl. It's I
kind of picture of a little girl that integrated the schools.

Speaker 3 (40:07):
The black girl there's all the angry white from Bond.

Speaker 2 (40:11):
She walked to New York Fashion Week, like I think
it was last night. And it's interesting too, it wasn't
just her, like, it was like some other yeah, And
I just think it's dope because you know, fashion week
is kind of really considered almost like a very elitist thing,
like to even care about fashion and to get into it,

(40:32):
there's so many like barriers and gatekeepers.

Speaker 3 (40:35):
And all this stuff.

Speaker 2 (40:37):
So then you get like these black fashion icons who
are like and at this moment where they're a racing
history that's chose to use it not just to be
like check out our clothes, look at the drip, but
it's like, look, we got a statement.

Speaker 3 (40:50):
Too about these women y'all are trying to forget.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
And the show creator Landy Smith said that the concept
was designed to remind people how recent school desegregation was.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Right, right, and it's not that old and and when
you tell people this, I purposely feel like it's strategically
and it's purposefully done. Pictures A lot of pictures, particularly
of her, are and black and white is done like
that on purpose. Right when we had ship where you
could have did color if you opted to, but you're like, no,

(41:20):
we're gonna dark and we're gonna.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
Hold on hard because Brandon's gonna write in if he
still listens, and he always do, right, because he's a
film person. He's like, it's not a conspiracy. They're not
doing that on purpose. That's what that was the technology
of the time. That's how they catch So I just
I just I know someone else.

Speaker 4 (41:42):
Goncy, but it is like, because of that, because it's
black and white, our brain is trained to think.

Speaker 3 (41:50):
I think that's true. But I just want to make
sure because.

Speaker 2 (41:52):
Somebody always fucking writes in to be like y'all always
say it's a conspiracy.

Speaker 3 (41:58):
I'm okay, it's not a cause.

Speaker 2 (42:00):
But I definitely felt that way when I was when
we used to do Black History Monks and they would
pull out the odds on the prize and they didn't
really do the technicolor update. So I would be in
there being like, oh, my brain, like you said, you
see black and white, it goes right to like, oh,
this must have happened one hundred years ago, and it's like, no,
that was yesterday.

Speaker 4 (42:22):
And because we in the time we was, we were
in that in between where like technic technology was slow,
So it makes sense that it felt far away, but
with the kids, that feels even farther away because I
am friends whose children asked us did we have TV?
Like the brain we didn't have TV. Like so Martinusther

(42:42):
King is way old to them.

Speaker 1 (42:44):
It is not yeah you were you're around. You were
looking like, no, I wasn't around. How would you think?

Speaker 2 (42:49):
I am yea for these kids too, like we're at
a point now where when they just see the four
by three frame instead of the wide stream, that's like how.

Speaker 3 (43:00):
How color and not color for us was the thing
for them? The bars on the side is like this
is old shit.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
If it don't feel the whole screen? Why is that
black spaces?

Speaker 2 (43:11):
And like for us, that's not that long ago, like
it was stuff in like twenty ten that was still
the four by three. Yeah, so yeah, like I'm sure
they'd be like, man, why are you showing me this
old stuff? I'm like, boy, this woo tang? What you
talking about? These boys they not own like we're old, man,
But shout out to them for doing that. They also

(43:33):
had Corretta Scott King, Berni I mean sorry, Bernice King,
the daughter of Martin Luther King, correct Scott King, yas
Should Shabbaz, the daughter of Malcolm X and doctor Betty Shabbaz,
Benjamin Hates Junior, the creator of the Juneteenth Flag, and
the legendary duo Tommy Smith and John Carlos. So y'all
know from putting their fist in the air at the

(43:54):
nineteen sixty eight Olympics, all these people alive, Like Ruby
Rich is just seventy one seventy one, we're not talking, yeah,
like they want to.

Speaker 4 (44:08):
The nasty, the same, baracky, the Saint Trump come back.

Speaker 2 (44:11):
Oh lord man, that's the stuff I be feeling the
worst about. It's like like I be feeling like, man,
America really let these folks down because they had made
progress and put everything on the line, and we was
up there like yeah, progress, were patting ourselves on the back.
And then it's like we're watching them roll back progress.

Speaker 1 (44:30):
Yes, it's like in real time, I had more freedoms
before than I do now. What's happening here is watching.

Speaker 2 (44:36):
People get fired for just being like, hey, you know
that dude did a lot of hate speeches.

Speaker 3 (44:40):
Like we're not saying that right now, shut up.

Speaker 2 (44:42):
Like real Like we're watching history be changed in our faces,
and it's just, you know, I just saw something where
Trumpet said he was gonna take down a lot of
the exhibits on slavery and stuff at like national parks
and museums. One of them is the iconic picture of
the back of that one slave where it's just a picture,
and you see auto that they're taking that down. You know,

(45:06):
so when they say stuff like slavery wasn't that bad,
like that was a picture that told a truth that.

Speaker 3 (45:13):
Could not be denied.

Speaker 2 (45:14):
Right, So when you tell somebody slavery wasn't that bad,
you like you just pointed that picture, like you.

Speaker 3 (45:19):
Mean, that wasn't that bad, And it's like, let me,
let me shut up.

Speaker 4 (45:22):
You know what.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
They're taking that stuff down because they're trying to erase
it in real time.

Speaker 1 (45:25):
When people say slavery is not that bad, you go
be a slave, then, right, if slavery was the best
things to sliced bread, being owned like a chair, you volunteer,
it's weird you'renot.

Speaker 2 (45:37):
Word how you're gonna say slavery not that bad? But
then be like the reason I be voting the way
I do is because economic anxiety is so it's so
hard out here, it's like, oh, so the economy is hard.
You know, it's real hard not getting paid anything for
your labor. That's much harder than you know, I'm making
a little lesser of the eggs costs a little bit more.
But okay, but we know, we just know flex over

(46:00):
here though very much. Let's see we'll do one more, guys.
This was kind of a funny one, but it is
black capitalism.

Speaker 3 (46:10):
And look, not all black capitalism is gonna always be good.
Lil yachty.

Speaker 1 (46:16):
Okay, I know who that is right?

Speaker 2 (46:18):
We saw him in concert, Yeah, Tyler the Creator. He
got slammed for ignoring male supporters at his meet and Greek.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
Oh I heard him get upset.

Speaker 2 (46:32):
Come on, man, come on, because you know, if people
pay extra for that meeting Greek man, you can't you can't. Yeah,
come and and honestly, if you're a dude, especially well, actually,
any dude, I was gonna say, especially a straight dude,
but any dude, if you're a dude paying for the
meet and Greek, you worked yourself through a bunch of
ego to see this man you wanted to I would

(46:57):
argue you wanted to see him worse than the women
that wanted to see him because you got to go.
Because that's not even a thing. Listen, I have a
lot of male friends now I think about it. I
don't think any of them has ever told me they
paid for a meet and greet with another man. I'm
just saying, right because and it's not they foult like.
I wouldn't judge them, but but I I'm just saying societally,

(47:20):
that's the pressure these brothers went through.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
They paid the extra money. It was like, I'm gonna
get this selfie.

Speaker 2 (47:25):
I'm a if they if they have a certain age,
they probably gonna try to freestyle for them.

Speaker 3 (47:30):
See they get a deal. That sucks, But that's that's
why you make them pay the money.

Speaker 2 (47:34):
And then you was like, nah, but but I'm not
just saying a sausage party.

Speaker 3 (47:38):
I don't want to talk to you. That's crazy, little
yay what you're doing.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
So yeah, he he had the picture with all the women.
Here's a video of from Twitter of the interaction.

Speaker 1 (47:52):
The pictures a part of the part of the thing.

Speaker 3 (47:55):
So they took they took they they took over there.
I don't know why they put that beat over there,
the song over there.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
I don't know, but uh, there's there's him with a
woman in the top left corner of the picture. Then
there's a dude that came up and he's looking like
kind of standoffish, and I guess they did like Little
Yachty with the girl. He hugs the little Yachty with
the dudes a couple. He just stayed on his phone
the whole time.

Speaker 1 (48:22):
Yeah, you need to acknowledge them or something.

Speaker 4 (48:24):
I mean, I don't.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
I'm like you, they they're not funny. I've done meeting
Greece and you, yeah, you had extra.

Speaker 4 (48:32):
Can you imagine?

Speaker 2 (48:34):
Can you imagine if at the next Black Autips and
it was like all the v I P people pay extra,
come get a selfie and then the dudes come up.

Speaker 3 (48:40):
I'm just on my phone, like, nah, bro, I don't
do that, ship man.

Speaker 4 (48:44):
And it's even worse that he was just on his phone, like.

Speaker 3 (48:47):
Real, damn, look, Yachty, I was rooting for you.

Speaker 2 (48:52):
But like I said, all capitalism isn't good that sometimes
people abuse it.

Speaker 3 (48:58):
Let's do something else kind of fun. Let me see
what else I have in the fun bag. Oh, don't
have any new gender wars. Let me see.

Speaker 2 (49:10):
Okay, yeah, this is this is a new segment. Let
me pull out the gender Wars song.

Speaker 3 (49:15):
Uh, and then we can uh, we can play the game.
I'll explain the rules and everything. We are going to.

Speaker 1 (49:27):
Kids a going on outside the.

Speaker 3 (49:32):
Kids A war went on outside Frock Okay, gender Wars.

Speaker 2 (49:38):
We go around, we find different sometimes using submitted comments,
content about these people trying to start these fights between
the men's and the women's on lines.

Speaker 3 (49:47):
They put out, the memes they put We've all seen them.
We've all walked on.

Speaker 2 (49:50):
The Facebook and it's a woman in a lingerie bending
over of fridge and it's like, what, uh this your
girl best friend?

Speaker 3 (49:59):
What thought? So whatever?

Speaker 1 (50:00):
You know?

Speaker 3 (50:02):
And so we know they did what they really seeking
to do. And what we do here we don't pick
a side. I'm not trying to tell you who's right
or wrong.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
What we do is we judge the content based on
the merriage like is this going to go viral?

Speaker 3 (50:15):
Is it going to make people mad? Will people have opinions?
What like?

Speaker 2 (50:19):
And then we give it from zero to ten on
how quality the content is and also if it's fake,
like we also do that a lot too. If it's fake,
we're like, we can tell so This one is from
the bish gossip man Instagram.

Speaker 3 (50:37):
Let anybody make an account?

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Really, you got a valid email address, I'll be following them.

Speaker 2 (50:43):
I should have asked the person that sent this, like
you followed them and it's The caption is a it's
a woman leaned over a plate eating some food and
it says woman reveals her date ditched her in the
middle of dinner because she didn't.

Speaker 3 (51:01):
Know how to eat steak correctly.

Speaker 2 (51:05):
Okay, let's go to Shane Lavelle. James says, I finally
let this guy take me out after he stayed in
my DMS begging for a chance, just for him to
play in my face and walk out on me in
a restaurant at the restaurant rolling my eyes emoji. If
y'all men can't afford to take women out, stop begging

(51:27):
for dates. It's sad he had to come up with
the lame excuse just to leave me stuck with the
bill I couldn't even afford. And the crazy part his
issue was me not knowing how to eat a steak
like be for real. As a man, it's your job
to teach me, not embarrass me. So not only is
he broke, but he's lacking masculinity too. I'm exposing him

(51:49):
because the world needs to know how he did me.
And then the picture is her eating a steak where
she has literally got it in her mouth like almost
like a dog. She didn't have to stake it all
and it's just hanging out of her mouth onto almost
onto the plate. Now I have some questions about the
authenticity because like who took the pic and why would

(52:14):
you post? Why would you post the pic up that
he took.

Speaker 3 (52:18):
A you doing this?

Speaker 4 (52:21):
That?

Speaker 3 (52:21):
Just why would yeah?

Speaker 2 (52:23):
And the way she wrote it with I'm exposing him,
it's like, well, why why is.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
It it a picture of him? It's really him?

Speaker 4 (52:29):
Because people want to see the picture first and have
more judging of the picture before they read all the words.
So you already put yourself over right.

Speaker 2 (52:35):
And then I have another question once again to the authenticity.
She put a screenshot of their text message which I'm
about to read, but the overlay on the screen shot
is her own, like nanc shan level. James as like
the overlay like almost like how TMZ does so you
can't steal the photo, which once again I'm like, okay,

(52:56):
you do that when you're trying to make viral content.
You see what I'm saying, because you can't steal my content, right.
So here's the apparent text supposed text messages. Hey are
you okay? You've been gone from the table like ten minutes.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
I left. What do you mean left? You haven't even
paid and you said you were going to the bathroom.
I paid for my food, Dude, what the F? I
hope this is a joke.

Speaker 2 (53:25):
The joke is you a woman that's almost for that
picking up a steak and biting it like you're an animal.
You're embarrassing and class list and I hate ever hopped,
I ever hopped in your DM. You're nothing like you
UPI to be on the internet. Her nigga only allowed
you to take me on the date so I could
get a meal. Ain't no way playing in my face
like this. A real man would have shown me how

(53:47):
to properly eat the steak. If you're broke and can't
afford me, you shouldn't have took me on the date.
I don't have the money for this food. You need
to cash at me, shorty. You got your meal, you
just gotta pay for it. Be blessed, big rabbit teeth
oh h word, all right, yeah, he doesn't play or
fictional person or whatever whoever supposedly since just don't play.

(54:11):
So Karen, with all those context clues, all the scope
of what happened, the picture, the the the status she posted,
and then of course.

Speaker 1 (54:21):
The uh the did you do the comments?

Speaker 4 (54:24):
Oh yeah, okay, what's the comment? All right?

Speaker 3 (54:28):
So this is from three weeks ago.

Speaker 2 (54:32):
I'm trying to see if there's I can't tell the
total number of comments, but I'll read song.

Speaker 3 (54:38):
Uh one is just my girl? U Uh?

Speaker 2 (54:41):
So Rita just posted a bunch of laughing about Dominique Chen,
who is like a person a famous like i G.
Model type person like a model model. So did he
send her this picture for the collage? Because she said
she calling him out, but by this picture she needs
to be called out because girl, what comedy? Comedy with

(55:04):
Kubari says don't ever go anywhere without being able to
take care of yourself. And four thousand people like that
for him, But he also got twenty four replies. Let's
see if people are arguing with him. Oh no, they're
on his side exactly.

Speaker 4 (55:19):
Men.

Speaker 2 (55:19):
You prices are easy to google, period, say it louder?
Did she ever say she couldn't. Okay, slippery takeet put
it up for the girls.

Speaker 3 (55:28):
She's like, I'm fighting to the bitter end. Facts.

Speaker 2 (55:31):
I always have your own one hundred. This will save
you from embarrassment that part. So most people agree with him.

Speaker 3 (55:37):
Okay, why the steak so light?

Speaker 1 (55:43):
Y'all know we liking well done burnt rubbery.

Speaker 2 (55:46):
The real question I wanta send up here Thinking the
steak looked kind of like.

Speaker 3 (55:50):
Too well done.

Speaker 2 (55:52):
I was like, oh man, I would have took it
a little bit like medium, rare or something.

Speaker 3 (55:56):
This first man, Black people love a well done steak.

Speaker 4 (55:58):
Man, it needed it didn't have a good charge.

Speaker 3 (56:01):
Well that's true, Yeah, that's true.

Speaker 2 (56:04):
It is funny because like, I don't know what stake
did to us, but it's generational at this point.

Speaker 1 (56:10):
They take that personally, but they be like, you want
a medium. I'm gonna say, chat, I don't want to
check a rubber band if you don't get out of
my pane.

Speaker 2 (56:16):
I used to work at UH, I used to work
at I Hop and they had the t bone and listen,
if it was black people ordering it, it was gonna be
well done.

Speaker 3 (56:24):
It just is what it is. I don't know how
to tell you.

Speaker 2 (56:28):
Uh, she called him broke, but then said she had
no money. She admitted that she only went on a
day for a meal. In hindsight, he could do no wrong. Okay,
but who took the picture?

Speaker 3 (56:38):
See them? The people that those people passed my critical
taking test. Everybody just like, why are you with the picture?

Speaker 1 (56:44):
Real?

Speaker 3 (56:45):
Why would you post it? Funny?

Speaker 2 (56:46):
How someone who can't afford their own mall calling man broke?
Sorry but I'm truly cracking up at this. Wil God
bless everyone. Okay, all right, so those are the comments, now, Karen,
zero to ten?

Speaker 3 (56:56):
What would you score this?

Speaker 1 (56:58):
I'm gonna give this one. I'm gonna give it a three.
I'm I'm gonna go on the lower end. And the
biggest reason why I'm gonna go on the lower end.
This would have been better than the video.

Speaker 4 (57:09):
Mm.

Speaker 1 (57:11):
You know the thing about the gender wars that kind
of make the difference is you can visually see the interaction,
like if he would have been recording her do like
actually doing this action and her responding and the back
and forth type of thing, it would have added another level.
Because it's okay to read the words, but it don't

(57:33):
move me. The same as me, you know, physically actually
seeing what was happening because we didn't have more context
of the environment and the you know, the tone of
their voices and things like that. And so for me,
that's why I'm knocking it down.

Speaker 4 (57:50):
What was the number three? Three?

Speaker 3 (57:51):
Okay? What about you, d what would you give it
out of ten?

Speaker 4 (57:55):
Man? Like a three? Like carent that picture. Once I
saw that picture her, I was like, this is not
even believable, right, like, because I didn't even want to
read all those words after the picture, like no bro
was now it was it's per comedy. But this ain't
no real. I don't believe this ain't no real fight,
This ain't no real.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
She got a watermark.

Speaker 4 (58:17):
It seems like you to go into the to the
writing businesses. It sounds like she got a script for
a TV movie over here with that.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
So that was that was what I was gonna say,
is like I almost want to give it two different
scores because I want to give it like like it's
a zero for me because it's so obviously fake like,
but it's also kind of like a ting because it's
so funny and it's so.

Speaker 4 (58:41):
Ain't it Like today it was very entertaining, but not
ender wars controversial exactly, but I kind of want to
see what kind of ghetto mess coming next.

Speaker 2 (58:51):
Yeah, So, like I went to Google her name and like,
as soon as I put Shanon level, like the whole
thing populated, which means she must just do this.

Speaker 3 (58:59):
She just tried to go viral to get people right up.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
So she's in on the idea that gender wars exists
and she's just trying to exploit it to get go viral.

Speaker 3 (59:08):
I saw.

Speaker 2 (59:09):
And also the second search was for her husband. I
was like, yeah, because she definitely got a man. And
it reminds me of the one we did a couple
of weeks ago, Karen, where it was a dude being like,
this woman took me out from my I was going
out for my birthday, but then she brought her kids
and then she did this and at the end he
was like, it was his wife.

Speaker 3 (59:26):
And his kids.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
Was hilarious because she's like and I was like, this
is perfect because on the one hand, obviously we're not
really gonna argue. It's like it's almost a zero if
you're taking it serious. But this is so smart and
funny and so in those ways, I wish I could
give her a higher score, but you guys are right.

Speaker 3 (59:43):
No one, only stupid people will think that's really agreed.

Speaker 2 (59:48):
So though, then she okay, I just know he was like, whoever,
the man who took that picture was smiling and laughing.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
So many cuss that they have to do that the
first time?

Speaker 2 (01:00:02):
She I know that man can't take her nowhere. You
know what I mean, And I don't mean nothing in
a bad way. I mean that in the most like,
oh my god, you are so extra.

Speaker 3 (01:00:11):
You always coming up with some.

Speaker 2 (01:00:12):
Books like they was in the car. She was like, so,
I'm gonna eat the steak like a dog. You take
the picture, then I'm gonna post this catch.

Speaker 3 (01:00:20):
He's like, girl, every time we go somewhere other people
can see us. It was people in that restaurant. You're
embarrassing us at the roof.

Speaker 2 (01:00:27):
They don't know we're doing the skit. They just think
something wrong with my wife, get something wrong with you? Okay,
all right, let's do uh you know, let's keep the
party going.

Speaker 3 (01:00:38):
Let's go to uh. Let's do some guests the race.
Where's my guess the race music at UH? The uh man?
All right, oh yeah, I found I found it. Here
we go. That's the race.

Speaker 4 (01:01:00):
A race.

Speaker 3 (01:01:05):
That's the race.

Speaker 2 (01:01:11):
That's the race, all right, guess the race. Go around
and go find the articles. Guess the rays of the
people involved. Today's contestants are Karen and.

Speaker 3 (01:01:24):
D and the chat room and everybody's racist. A man
arrested after driving child sized pink barbie g through Prince
George b C.

Speaker 2 (01:01:35):
Which is Canada, which Columbia and on the road, road,
on the road.

Speaker 1 (01:01:41):
With that little with that little ass battery that that
that the thing don't get more than three miles an
hour because kids.

Speaker 3 (01:01:48):
Yeah, go go power whells type of battery.

Speaker 2 (01:01:52):
Yes, on a day that included a hit and run
involving an ambulance and a prominent downtown business being.

Speaker 3 (01:01:58):
Destroyed by fire.

Speaker 2 (01:01:59):
Photos and video of the barbie jeep quickly spread online
with a mixture of humor and disbelief because the Prince
George man was pulled over by police after driving the
child size pink toy.

Speaker 3 (01:02:10):
Barbie jeep on the main roads UH. Photos captured by
several witnesses show Casper Lincoln wearing Aviator.

Speaker 2 (01:02:18):
Sunglasses and cruising down Fifteenth Avenue Aviator sunglasses.

Speaker 5 (01:02:24):
Buddy Fuddy got jokes speaking to CBC News, I'm surprised
I mounted it and pulled him over on them horses, right.

Speaker 2 (01:02:36):
I feel like you got pulled off by the police.
As like, sir, can we get some identification? He's like,
I'm just kidding.

Speaker 4 (01:02:44):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (01:02:44):
Lecas said he was getting ready to go get a
slurpery with a friend, but got lazy and decided to
borrow his roommates child's tiny car to get around poor baby.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
That I'd have been mad that baby mad. You don
put all them baby's call.

Speaker 2 (01:03:00):
Well, it's so it works two ways because like, on
the one hand, it's like, Yo, the kid got carjacked
by like uncle.

Speaker 3 (01:03:10):
I wonder if she called I would have I.

Speaker 2 (01:03:13):
Wondered because at first I was like, man, police really
pulling people over for this, And now I'm like, man,
if that little girl called, they just doing.

Speaker 1 (01:03:20):
Their job and little girl mad as hell.

Speaker 3 (01:03:23):
I want to hit a nine one one cause.

Speaker 1 (01:03:26):
My uncle got my car. Let's see him going up
the street.

Speaker 3 (01:03:31):
File police.

Speaker 1 (01:03:33):
I've been carjacked, humping robbed right, good week.

Speaker 4 (01:03:38):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (01:03:38):
He said he never drove it before while laughing. Uh.

Speaker 2 (01:03:42):
And the images he's seen driving a car near the
side of the road that's been closed.

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Its leasing his chest. Them things ain't so big.

Speaker 2 (01:03:48):
Some onlookers were in disbelief. You're really arresting him for
driving the kids jeep as summer Karan, one of the
people the film the man being put in handcuffs. They
say he was close to the curve and going maybe
three miles an hour.

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
Yes, yes, we are arresting you. Yes, you're slowing traffic
down like right, and people people probably afraid to hit you.
And you know some people are gonna drive behind you
because they don't you know, they're afraid to pass you
like to do bikers.

Speaker 2 (01:04:16):
Sometimes he should have pus he should have put a
bluetooth speaker in the back and been playing.

Speaker 3 (01:04:20):
Some music some on summer time. He said, I was
cruising down the street right. Uh oh wait.

Speaker 2 (01:04:30):
This woman who saw the incident said she drove in
the lane beside him. I was cruising down the street
right and it's undercovered, unmarked police vehicles behind me. So
I rolled my window down and say, don't let them
catch you riding dirty.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Not riding dirty. Hilarious.

Speaker 4 (01:04:50):
That is so good.

Speaker 3 (01:04:52):
Oh my god, I feel like driving a Barbie, a
Barbie cars driving party and not driving dirty.

Speaker 2 (01:05:04):
She was surprised to police a lot would be interested, like, hey,
what are you doing?

Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
All right? Right, I can see myself rolling the window
down like you good bro? Like uh, she said, he didn't.
He didn't look like he was speeding to me.

Speaker 1 (01:05:19):
No way he's speaking.

Speaker 2 (01:05:21):
The police said they have received multiple calls about him
and told him he'd been driving in the middle of
the road, which he denied, saying that the majority of
his journey had been on the sidewalk until he was
blocked off for that lane. So then he oh, once
he saw the blocked off lane on the road, he
was like alcohop on the road, but he had been
driving on the sidewalk.

Speaker 3 (01:05:41):
So yeah, there you go. Guys, guess the race of mister.
Let me look up his name.

Speaker 2 (01:05:47):
First name, It's uh, Casper Lincoln Karen.

Speaker 1 (01:05:53):
Why is Casper the ghost?

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
All right?

Speaker 4 (01:05:55):
Du very Caucasian, very Caucasian.

Speaker 2 (01:06:01):
Let's check the chat room. See what they believe riding
like Adam Sandler and the water boy.

Speaker 3 (01:06:06):
White. I wanna be King White, laughing while talking to
the police. White. Right, that was a detail, right, he's
had jokes short.

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
King is as white as the name Casper applies and
Mount Milk or like mountin Milk right.

Speaker 1 (01:06:23):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (01:06:23):
That ninja white and cruising down the street in my
tacos white.

Speaker 4 (01:06:29):
Somebody got that out of my head. I was trying
to get it out.

Speaker 3 (01:06:33):
But the correct answer is white. You guys all gotta correct.
And that's him as the police pulled him over. That's
driving hilarious the vehicle.

Speaker 4 (01:06:51):
It is really the barbie teeth though, that is hilarious.

Speaker 2 (01:06:54):
Yeah, that's gotta be a weird thing to call your friend, like, yeah,
I'm gonna need bad take money.

Speaker 4 (01:07:00):
But I guess maybe they don't have this Canada, right, Yeah,
maybe he got a room for.

Speaker 1 (01:07:07):
This.

Speaker 4 (01:07:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
The fact that they took him to jail tells you,
like how little they have going on up there. They
was like, we make the time, right, this knucklehead needs
to learn. Come here, your holser or whatever they say.

Speaker 3 (01:07:23):
Let's go to a more serious crime.

Speaker 2 (01:07:25):
Okay, okay, we've all had roommates, some you like, some
you didn't.

Speaker 3 (01:07:32):
Well, this man apparently did not like his roommate.

Speaker 2 (01:07:37):
Wait this yeah, this man chased down like a dog
and murdered his roommate over argument over argument about the
TV remote location.

Speaker 4 (01:07:52):
Not the more control because I could find a remote.

Speaker 3 (01:07:58):
In June.

Speaker 1 (01:07:58):
Richard, y'all don't know how to put a little ping
thing on it where where you can find it at
all times? And you ain't got to kill me.

Speaker 2 (01:08:05):
Richard Bana, forty was convicted by Jerry and Prince George
County the other PG.

Speaker 3 (01:08:12):
The other PG County will escape.

Speaker 2 (01:08:17):
Of murdering the second degree used a handgun commission of
a crime of violence tampering with evidence over the shooting
death of Dominique Scott Hayes twenty seven. The defendant was
sentenced to fifty years in prison.

Speaker 3 (01:08:27):
Oh, in January twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:08:29):
Twenty four, he shot and killed Scot Hayes at that
shared residence and since oh and uh, we'll say Barrywood
laying in Springdale. The killer, for his part, claimed self defense.
Uh what the defend police.

Speaker 1 (01:08:46):
Due batteries at you? What are we doing here?

Speaker 4 (01:08:48):
Say?

Speaker 2 (01:08:49):
Fell asleep in the living room on the second floor
around two am, but walk up at five thirty am
to find Scott Hayes making a lot of noise. So
Scott Hayes, Yeah, for the TV remote location. The sense
condemned man went on to say he first ignored the roommate,
but then Scott Hayes walked behind the couch the men
in the remote location.

Speaker 3 (01:09:09):
He said.

Speaker 2 (01:09:10):
He then removed a blanket from his eyes to see
Scott Hayes holding two large knives.

Speaker 3 (01:09:14):
So he said he grabbed the gun pointed at it
would be a sailor.

Speaker 2 (01:09:16):
So this is his recounting of events, So we don't
know if this is true or not. Agreed he could
have shot the dude and threw two knives on the ground,
We don't know, but yeah, he says. He added the
victim initially back the way at the sight of firearm
for taunting him by saying he would not fire the weapon,
and then he said there's.

Speaker 3 (01:09:35):
Only one way to find out what kind of dirty harry?

Speaker 2 (01:09:41):
Yes, what in the one liner happened in there are
you feeling lucky?

Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
He then admitted to open the fire on the man and.

Speaker 2 (01:09:50):
As he approached with the knives, but I guess the
jerry ain't believed act, so he ended up going because
he ended up getting sentenced. He said he saw no
bullet holes, and he saw the bullet holes but no blood.
It wasn't even sure he hit the other man. And
then he went back to sleep. Tell you right now, player,

(01:10:11):
that's that's not helping your case. That's not that's not
gonna help you with the Jerry right there.

Speaker 3 (01:10:14):
That going back to sleep, back to shooting your room.

Speaker 1 (01:10:17):
I said, you lasted as long as that dude would
look for them kids.

Speaker 3 (01:10:21):
From a couple of episodes ago.

Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
Yeah, I did a few minutes and I was like,
I'll go back to sleep.

Speaker 3 (01:10:27):
Uh So, guess the race of mister Richard Baranall.

Speaker 1 (01:10:32):
Okay, I'm going black.

Speaker 3 (01:10:35):
Okay, okay, d.

Speaker 4 (01:10:39):
My gut is gonna tell me black. But the knives
got me a little concerned because I don't be knowing
about the blacks and the Niles. But it's PG County, Maryland.
You know the black the blacks be living up in there,
so black.

Speaker 2 (01:10:52):
All right, let's take the chat room. That is a
white man with knives. Well, that's the roommate who got shot.
So I don't know his race.

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
Okay, is he a coryper two white?

Speaker 4 (01:11:00):
Wow?

Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
The roommate lost the remote and the cushions, and the
white man could not take it anymore.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
Bang Bang Barnard black, John wick Less black.

Speaker 2 (01:11:11):
The correct answer is and everyone who said black, you
got it right.

Speaker 3 (01:11:24):
A couple of y'all did say white though, So.

Speaker 1 (01:11:29):
The only thing that would have made this right, only
thing it would have made this better if they just said,
if they'd fight, no, what the middle of the fried chicken?

Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
Oh my god, Karen, what the remote is? Looking for
the remote? It's a black thing, Carrien?

Speaker 3 (01:11:46):
What is going on? Let's just go to the bonus.
That's why she's so good at the game.

Speaker 2 (01:11:54):
Racism hopped out?

Speaker 3 (01:11:58):
Why how can I be racist about anybody or anything.

Speaker 4 (01:12:06):
In my life?

Speaker 3 (01:12:08):
How can I call them niggas?

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
Just call them niggas?

Speaker 3 (01:12:15):
Go change, Skinny.

Speaker 5 (01:12:20):
Boon, big fast runner, high jumping speed chucking three hundred
and sixty degree basketball.

Speaker 2 (01:12:26):
Florida, A Florida man was recently arrested for attacking a
couple just outside of a public's grocery store.

Speaker 3 (01:12:35):
His weapon of choice, bug spray.

Speaker 1 (01:12:42):
I'd got to say, nun chucks.

Speaker 2 (01:12:44):
Daniel John Canal. Daniel John Canal sixty five. Man, it's
too old to be acting like that.

Speaker 4 (01:12:51):
All right? Well?

Speaker 2 (01:12:51):
Buck Spray stands accused of two council aggravated battery with
great bodily harmed On August thirty first, just at the
two pm. Police responded to a call by the altercation
at the supermarket. Debbie said the male victim had already
been taken to a nearby hospital. Dude of being sprayed
in the face by what appeared to be bugs. Break

(01:13:15):
by the way, this is such a petty weapon.

Speaker 3 (01:13:17):
Though it's a petty weapon, but it do feel like
it will mess you up.

Speaker 1 (01:13:23):
Yeah, because you can't break I mean, because it's not
as bad as like a mace or anything like that,
or pepper spray, is.

Speaker 4 (01:13:28):
It, but but you.

Speaker 1 (01:13:33):
Right like it was still messing.

Speaker 2 (01:13:34):
It's a lot of warning. It's a lot of warnings.
I wonder if you're not dies.

Speaker 3 (01:13:38):
I wonder if it's it might be as bad, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:13:41):
That's what I'm saying it because it killed and the
other end design to kill. The other thing too is
I do wonder the brand because I feel like the
it's some bugs prays that you be like when you're
in the dollar store, you be like, this ain't even water.

Speaker 1 (01:13:56):
They're gonna they're gonna shake that off and be like
you serious, girl.

Speaker 3 (01:14:00):
Just gonna annoy these roaches.

Speaker 2 (01:14:02):
But then like if you get that was spray, I
feel like that wash spray kill a person that.

Speaker 4 (01:14:09):
Might take it down.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
Come on, we use the wash spray for everything. We
don't care what you up bed.

Speaker 4 (01:14:13):
You can get.

Speaker 1 (01:14:14):
This waspray I shot.

Speaker 3 (01:14:15):
I shot, no joke.

Speaker 2 (01:14:17):
When that lizard got in the house years ago on
that episode, I shot it with was spray.

Speaker 3 (01:14:22):
That's how I got it out the house. And I
remember when I sprayed it, it flipped over onto his back,
Like what what was that like?

Speaker 1 (01:14:30):
Once you hit me with.

Speaker 4 (01:14:32):
That's very African American. We will spray. We had one
spray and spray all the buzzs the animals.

Speaker 1 (01:14:38):
We buy eighteen different bug sprays. One does it at all.

Speaker 3 (01:14:41):
It's like if you It's like if I go to.

Speaker 2 (01:14:43):
The store and they got a rocket launcher, what's the
point of getting the rest of these guns?

Speaker 4 (01:14:49):
I got.

Speaker 3 (01:14:50):
I got what I need. That's the big joker of guns.
And that's what the wash spray is. The big jokes
why I cost.

Speaker 1 (01:14:56):
The most and that's why I cost the boats.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
Debiitie said, so oh soon, a consensus of rose a
deputy rode in the charging document. Other units that arrived
first on the scene stated the victims smell the blood spray.
The deputies also know that the presence of spray residue
on the rear window of the victims white Honda Civic,
as well as on the front of the female victims
black T shirt.

Speaker 3 (01:15:16):
So he really he got it on the car, on
her shirt.

Speaker 4 (01:15:19):
He was How big was the bus It must have
been one of the big ones with the nos who
you take off?

Speaker 3 (01:15:28):
He was good. He let the chopper spray. No pun intended.

Speaker 4 (01:15:31):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (01:15:31):
The male victim said he was initially in one check
out line when his wife yelled for him to come
to the one she was at, but the process of
picking up multiple lines allegedly did not sit well with
the defendant, So his wife's like, hey, come to line
for whatever, and then the defendant like, whoa, whoa, whoa,
what you doing?

Speaker 4 (01:15:50):
Dog?

Speaker 2 (01:15:51):
You know you can't be violating the line rules. The
male victim told him that the guy who sprayed on
canal approached and attempted to get in front of him
his wife, who said she was already in line waiting
for her husband. The Affadavid claims the defending oh, so
they tried to juice the line. Okay, listen, all of
us that had black parents have gone through this. She

(01:16:13):
was holding the place, and then the husband was bringing
the items and then she was gonna basically let him
jump line by being like, I was in line.

Speaker 3 (01:16:22):
He the one with the items.

Speaker 2 (01:16:23):
We together, and this dude wasn't having it, so he
jumped in front of her like, no, if you ain't
got your items with you, I'm in line, and then
that's how the fight started. The Affidavid claims the defender
became upset when the couple began placing the merchandise on
the belt, so at the same time, he allegedly also
began placing his merchandise on the belt with theirs. Come on, man,

(01:16:48):
this is a petty dude, the husband stated. In an
argument of rows between the wife and the defendant, dude
to the husband stepped in. Then the husband stepped in
between them to tell him to back off right. The
husband said that he then left his car at merchandise
and ran out the store. The dude ran like, I'll
be back, come back, spray up this whole joint. The

(01:17:12):
husband stated that his wife and him went out to
their vehicle again loading their merchandise until it when he
ran up behind him and sprayed him in the face
with bugs brown.

Speaker 3 (01:17:21):
He tried to chase their selling off, but he can't see. Yeah, yeah,
it can't breathe.

Speaker 2 (01:17:27):
I wonder how old the victims were, Like, it's this
old people on old people violence in Florida sixty five and.

Speaker 4 (01:17:34):
Then like I heard sixty five. Want to people be
retiring to Florida? So uh.

Speaker 2 (01:17:41):
In the footage that they got footage the footage, the
defendant is allegedly seen getting it to his white four
f one P fifty and driving to the other side
of the public parking line and parking it in a stall. Next,
he is allegedly seen lying in wait before the spraying
the right with the Aaron bugs bray, and then he
continues to run off. The defending was later located taken

(01:18:04):
in the cussy at a nearby cemetery.

Speaker 1 (01:18:06):
A cemetery.

Speaker 4 (01:18:09):
Hold up, if that is such a random come on?

Speaker 1 (01:18:13):
Like was he there?

Speaker 3 (01:18:14):
He was? Like he was?

Speaker 2 (01:18:15):
He was there, Like at the end of john Wick
when he talked to his dead wife and before he
about to go do his thing, he was like, I
buried Mark here, not just how to let you know,
I got him, honey, I got him. During the initial interview,
the defending a legend said the other man spinning his face.
During the supermarket showdown, but did not want to talk
about anything that occurred in the parking lot.

Speaker 1 (01:18:40):
You out here running and gunning. I ain't know what
I think you. I don't think that people spit on you.

Speaker 3 (01:18:46):
Right, there's a lot of details in here.

Speaker 4 (01:18:48):
He was.

Speaker 2 (01:18:49):
He was briefly detained in the county jail for two
thousand dollars bond, but he has since been released. Uh So,
the sheriff put out a statement, this is the disgusting,
cowardly act and over what who checks out first at
the grocery store. The level that this man took it
to was dangerous and completely unnecessary.

Speaker 3 (01:19:08):
Please, when frustration is inevitably a current life, take a
moment to ask yourself is.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
This worth it?

Speaker 3 (01:19:13):
More often than not you will find the answer is no.
And that is one to grow on.

Speaker 4 (01:19:24):
It's like a special right.

Speaker 3 (01:19:26):
That's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
The more you know.

Speaker 2 (01:19:29):
Yes, I guess the race of mister let me get
his name, Daniel John caneal.

Speaker 1 (01:19:36):
Oh White, because that bell was like two thousand dollars.
Like that's like we've heard some ridiculous you know, one
hundred thousand, two hundred, you know, five hundred. They was
like two thousand I was like, that's close.

Speaker 3 (01:19:48):
That's white bell.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
That's close to almost a nobel type of situation.

Speaker 3 (01:19:51):
What about you, d where you think he is?

Speaker 4 (01:19:54):
Listen, I heard that Florida fifty five one fifty the
bell the man, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:20:01):
Let's check the chat room.

Speaker 2 (01:20:03):
See if you both can go three for three today
using buzz spread as a weapon.

Speaker 3 (01:20:07):
Fiells Raige cyst.

Speaker 1 (01:20:10):
That's hilarious.

Speaker 2 (01:20:12):
So white man, listen, you win the prize. Great job,
a white for f one fifty a cemetery white spray
and pray villain name and the fumigator white too wasteful
and white.

Speaker 3 (01:20:28):
The victim got the last of the peach sweet. Oh man,
that peach sweet heat chicken. The publics do bang, Let
might spray you over there if you get the last.

Speaker 1 (01:20:37):
One, that might be spraying if I'm in line.

Speaker 2 (01:20:42):
And then you jumped me with the peach street if
you jumped me with the peach chicken, I don't know, dog.
I'm have to get the wasp and help me let
the buck chopper spray white nonsense.

Speaker 3 (01:20:53):
Oh, the police were fed up.

Speaker 2 (01:20:55):
Let's see super white the f one fifty set it
off supermarket. The correct answer is he was white.

Speaker 5 (01:21:06):
Three for three.

Speaker 2 (01:21:06):
Congratulations about the while, and it's I don't know why
because this detail doesn't really change anything.

Speaker 3 (01:21:17):
But white f one fifty is it just like, that's
definitely a white man.

Speaker 4 (01:21:23):
I don't know why it hit different. It hit different. Yeah,
I can't.

Speaker 3 (01:21:27):
Explain it, but it just it's something about I was like, yep.

Speaker 1 (01:21:31):
You did say it was a video. Somebody brought that up.

Speaker 4 (01:21:33):
Can we see the video.

Speaker 3 (01:21:34):
I don't had a video that the police had. The
surveillance video.

Speaker 1 (01:21:36):
Oh the police had If I had the video, okay,
if I can say, because sometimes they put the video
out in the articles.

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
Yeah, no, I would have loved to show you the video.
No problem, all right.

Speaker 2 (01:21:46):
Last thing, soord ratchiness everybody the longest sign effect in
the world. Lincoln man charged after police find sword, brass

(01:22:15):
knuckles and a.

Speaker 3 (01:22:17):
Pound or we oh the trifecta? Was he gonna take
on a foot clean? What a Lincoln.

Speaker 2 (01:22:25):
Man is facing charges at the authorities found drugs, a sword,
and brass knuckles in his home. They were conducting surveillance
on a resident at a residence at five fifty pm
in order to server narcotics related nighttime no knock warrants.

Speaker 3 (01:22:39):
So they really thought he was They knew he was
doing something something.

Speaker 2 (01:22:44):
Court documents show investigators had evidence that fifty one year
old Jamison Bennett was selling marijuana and myth from the home.

Speaker 3 (01:22:51):
Guess the race, marijuana and myth? White? Care's going white?
All right? What about you, d.

Speaker 4 (01:23:00):
H I'm a goal, I'm a go white.

Speaker 3 (01:23:04):
You guys are both correct. He was white.

Speaker 2 (01:23:07):
He was white selling meth out the crib and swords
and brass knuckles and weed.

Speaker 3 (01:23:12):
So yep, you guys got the bonus round.

Speaker 4 (01:23:14):
That's kind of white though. Brass knuckles, we.

Speaker 3 (01:23:17):
All right, that's a lot. He was taken to the station.
They okay, so they.

Speaker 2 (01:23:22):
Found him and another man when they left the residents
in the vehicle and drove to a gas station. But
then they arrested him there. He was taken to the station.
The other man was the least at the scene. They
returned to his home. They executed the search search warrant,
a search warrant. They found pounder weed, twelve hundred and
seven dollars in cash, brass knuckles, and a twenty four

(01:23:43):
inch wakasa.

Speaker 3 (01:23:45):
She swored and he's not allowed to have those weapons
because he is a convicted fella.

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
So he was he was wild, he knew he was
in the wrong for all the stuff he was doing.
He's He's charged two counts possession of a deaily weapon
by prohibited person and two counts of possession of a
control substance and possessing money while violating twenty eight dash
four one six.

Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
Oh we all know twenty You don't want to do that.

Speaker 4 (01:24:11):
Oh we all know what that is.

Speaker 3 (01:24:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:24:12):
I hate when people will be like, I'm like, my bad,
thanks for telling me. Uh the judge who he will
be held without bond and set his next court date.

Speaker 3 (01:24:24):
For uh wait, his next court date is until fairruark.
Oh this is an old article. Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:24:29):
Cool.

Speaker 3 (01:24:29):
I was about to say, damn, so the articles from
seven months ago. I'm just now reading that.

Speaker 1 (01:24:34):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (01:24:35):
Yeah, I was like I thought, I was, like, that
feels extremely wrong. I know what he did is messed up.
But you can't just have me waiting for trial eight months.

Speaker 2 (01:24:45):
D tell people where to go to support you, define
you to help the people, and the most importantly, help
you come in first when it comes to breaking this record.

Speaker 4 (01:24:58):
I dropped the link in the chat one last time,
but you can find us at maryon House and it's
marrying with an a, not Marion House Dot or last
five K team Pam Dukes. You can donate to my
individual team. My individual my individual fundrais and go was
three thousand. Our whole team FUM raised and goal was

(01:25:20):
five thousand. We almost had but we can blow it out.
We can. We can blow it out the water. Let's
get but yeah, let's get there. And I did want
to tell y'all one quickly before while we was on
the doing one of the segments. So remember thoseps I
told you about. Look at this black man. Oh, the
house manager sent me a plate upstairs. It's port caps

(01:25:43):
and greens and rice and gravy on this.

Speaker 2 (01:25:45):
Are you gonna eat it and let it hang out
your mouth and have someone take a picture of you?

Speaker 3 (01:25:51):
I might got it.

Speaker 4 (01:25:52):
I guess that's a big point. I might do that.
I was like, look at this. She didn't even know
I was up here, daughters, but girl, she wanted to
make it to I got I love. Tomorrow is actually
the anniversary of my mother passing, so she know I
won't be here to get my pace.

Speaker 3 (01:26:09):
Well, man, listen, I'm sure she will be proud of you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:12):
And the legacy upholding and obviously you know, fundraising and
helping people. It's been so interesting to watch just the
way your life has turned from from like everything. I
still remember the total Wine days. You know what I'm saying,
so like it's big be up in.

Speaker 4 (01:26:29):
Total wine, but you know, just from a different.

Speaker 2 (01:26:31):
Yeah, exactly, Nah, But I love it, and thank you
for coming by.

Speaker 4 (01:26:34):
Thank you Saturday.

Speaker 3 (01:26:37):
No anytime. We'll be back Saturday for feedback show.

Speaker 2 (01:26:41):
And if your premium sports show is tomorrow, NERD Show
is Friday. I may or may not do a movie
of you Thursday, depends on if I'm gonna get to
go see him or not.

Speaker 3 (01:26:53):
All right, y'all, until next time, you na
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