May 24, 2025 • 47 mins
It was finally time, Morgan was able to talk to Abby about her big relationship news she shared last week. They dive into all things boyfriends and how things are going with her new living arrangements. Then, Morgan shared she may have done some damage to her shoulder, and Abby has a REAL ID appointment.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgane Part one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Behind the scene with a member of the show, What's Up?
Happy weekend?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Everybody? Abby is showing me this weekend?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Abby, how are you good? How are you? Yeah? You're
feeling good? You ready to chat?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You dropped some big news since the last time you've
been on here.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I did, I really did?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Or as we put on the social post, bumpshow news.
I know.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, that was a dramatic headline.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
We're adding some drama lately, you know, just spicing it
up these days.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
That's what we're doing on social media. I'm fixing my mic.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Ocause we're in a different studio than we normally are
to do best bits because all of our studios are
all taken up, so Abby and I are sitting in
the big studio.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
We are unusual. That's weird. It does feel weird.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Okay, Well, you dropped huge news. How are you feeling
about dropping the big news?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Very like a vulnerable like I feel like people know
a lot because I did so well at keeping it private,
and I'm like, oh, I said a lot.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's now all out there. And so you share that
you're now living with your boyfriend and.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
He has two kids.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yes, that was the big bombshell news in case she
missed it, which you can check and you know, go
catch up on best bits. But vulnerability is hard and
sharing something that you kept for secret for at least
six months the kids saying you've kept secret for you
how long you guys have been dating, which is a
year and a half.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yeah, but I mean, I plan. I think I'm still
gonna keep it, you know, not give too many details.
Just like privacy. I have everybody involved, so it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Having kids involved is a different role than just you
and a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, it is.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
It's a whole different lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It is. But it's going really well.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And how is living together going good? Like I thought
it would be.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I've never lived with someone, you know, and so I
thought it'd be, I don't know, more difficult, But it's
actually fun. It's like fun. I don't do anything really
to annoy each other. Like he's really clean, He's like
more clean than me.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, Like I say, have you figured out your differences yet?
Because I feel like living together is when you start
to see, oh, well we have this a little bit
different or we may operate a little bit differently.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Here or there. So like I get coffee every day
and I leave it on the counter and I don't
throw it away. He's like, are you done with this?
It's like four pm. I'm like, yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
So is it a half drinking coffee?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Oh you don't even finish them no, huh. And you're
buying coffee yep, okay every days.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
It's really bad. It's a bad thing. But I leave
it out all the time and he just gets annoyed
at that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, so you are learning to pick up a little
bit more.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, it's also weird because just not being at my house,
you know, like feeling more in control. I'm at someone
else's house and I still kind of feel like I'm oh,
can I get in your Pantry's like, Abby, you don't
what are you doing? You don't have to ask?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Yeah, like what you're getting comfortable with being in his.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Space when I have always been in my space, so
I've never had to feel uncomfortable or like ask if
I can do something. So it's yeah, I'm getting used to.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
That, and you're learning to different like finance, like who
pays for what?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
That side of things.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yes, it's always an interesting and uncomfortable start, and then
you start to figure it out. But the beginning's always
a little awky and quirky.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It really is awkward. Wait, what do you do? I'm
curious how financing saying things?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah, in the beginning, he wanted to pay for everything. Yeah,
and it got to a point where I was like, Okay,
we're funny and I don't like this, and so I
would start paying for some things and he'll still insist
in different areas. So we just kind of make sure
both of us feel like we're contributing. Is really where
it matters for me. I don't ever want to feel
(03:42):
like a relationship is one sided.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
So that's kind of where it lies right now.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, Like for us, he would just eat in every day,
like he loves to just like cook at home and
he has like a sandwich every day for lunch. I'm like,
I want to go out all the time. I love
eating out, and so I feel about making him pay
for it. Times I'm just like, can we go out?
I'll pay for it. God, Because he would just save
so much money and he's a financial planner, like I said, so,
he's very good with money.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Okay, and the budgeting. Are you good with money?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Oh my gosh, no, No, like he did like a
budget thing for me or whatever, and I was like,
oh my gosh, wow, really yeah, just because I'm not.
He is so organized and everything he spends and did,
like this whole sheet, and how he like nets this much?
He you know, puts everything out itemized. Like, sorry, Eddie's sitting.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
In the room with us and he's given eyes. Okay, Well,
if you're gonna at least ask, might as well turn
on your mic.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
How much does he net? No, it's just like a
monthly thing as much as he should. Because of me.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Having a girlfriend really changed his financial planning, didn't it? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It did? It did? Sorry, but yeah, so I'm figuring
that out too.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
So you are learning your differences. How are you guys
navigating the difference? Does it feel good? It feels like
communicative or is it? It does?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah? Because he's very patient with me.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, has he understood your shopping habit yet?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Oh gosh, we only need to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
You have mentioned on the best bits, And I'm not
blasted you in anyway because we have talked about the
best bits.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah, we have. Abby loves to go shopping and we'll
just buy stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Heck, there was one time when Abby was staying at
my house and it was so sweet of her. But
I showed back up after she was washing my animals
and she had got me a Marvel sweatshirt. She's like,
I was just walking them all.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
And I found it.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I think, that's so sweet. What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I don't know. That's what I do. It's really bad.
And I have like through the three closets in my
house are like full of clothes, and so I've had
to try to consolidate all into his closet and he
moved everything like to the left, and I have like
his whole closet.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
It's yeah, in all fairness, boys have ten outflit fits.
They don't really have the same. Women's fashion is a
little bit different. Guys can wear the same outfit for
ten plus years and never goes out of style. The women.
Everything we do goes out of style once a year.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I know.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So it is it different in sharing, And I do
feel like women tend to take over more. Men tend
to take over more on the shoe department. So does
he have more shoes than you? No?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Still he has more. I guess hats. He loves wearing hats.
A thousand hats.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
They always have one, like it's an accessory. There's something
that they have a lot of. Yeah, but then everyone
else is like a sliver of a closet. Yeah, at
least in most of the homes that I've seen in
all with my friends.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Yep. No, mine's shoes have closed everything. So I gotta
work on that. That is something that he's like, you
really need to work on this. This could be a
serious problem in the future. Oh yeah, it could be,
but you're working on it. Yeah, and you're it's okay.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
It's okay to have flaws and to work through them.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
M hm.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
So also part of what living together is about is
understanding each other and learning each other more, because when
you're not living together, I feel like you kind of
have this side of you that they don't know about,
and then you live together, it's like, here's all of
me is here.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I go, hope you like it. Yeah, but it's good. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
And living with kids around, is that an adjustment too?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yes, it is, especially like with our jobs because we
have to work at night too, like to prep for
the next day, and they just want to play and
I just feel so bad. So I'm like I have
to go work. They're like, why are you working? I
already worked earlier.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I'm like, I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You don't get it.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, so when they like go to bed, is that
when you start working again?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Basically, And how are you guys navigating alone time together too?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Well? He has them half the time, so I you know,
I get to see him.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
So your moments happen on the off weeks when you
guys kind of have some time together and yes, go
do stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
You want to do, Like he has them every other weekend,
so you know, it's like they're like completely opposite weekends.
You know, we have the kids. It's just like all
kids centered, yeah, stuff, which is really fun. And then
the next weekend it's like, let's go to Broadway or
something I don't know, like.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And it sounds like that's you sided where you're like,
I want to go do things.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yes, but he also does too, like he wants to
get out. He's like, you should do something.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
But just better about it. Financially, it's thinking what's the
best scenario?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I know, yeah, I mean those white claws downtown are expensive, are.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
You know a six bag of white claws back home,
caused about half the price of one down town. No.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I thought about that. I was like, we should add
up how much you spend in like three months and
just drinks the river priced we had went.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
So I took my boyfriend for the first time for
his first concert at the Ryeman. We went and saw
Tucker Wetmore's sold out show there, which was so awesome.
Tucker was so great. He plays insane piano. It's really
good piano skills. Would never have known.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Uh huh. It was really cool. It was cool.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
He had standing ovations multiple times. He was just like
super emotional too because it was at the Ryman. It
was a really cool show to see. But that was
his first one. And we walked up. He goes, dang,
twenty eight dollars for a double, and I was like, yeah,
we're getting into pricey stuff down here downtown. He's like,
you know, I should have assumed that, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, no, it is crazy. Is that really what it
is for a It's like for a double vodka?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Yeah, twenty eight dollars, which to me at this point
was so crazy about it. I'm like, oh, that's not
that bad. But that's because I've been conditioned to think
if from going downtown. But then I go to like
a hole in the wall, it's.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Like five bucks, uh huh.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
And then that's when I realized, Okay, I need to
stay away from downtown.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
No, a date night is expensive. Or if you want
to take your family to a concert, like expect to
spend a lot with tickets and everything.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know how everything adding up. Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
So okay, how do you feel?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
We feel good about the combo?
Speaker 2 (09:43):
I feel good? Do you feel super vulnerable or we
feel okay? No good? Okay, let's just not go any
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I've found your threshold. Okay, that's what I was finding.
You can also ask me any questions you want to ask.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Are you guys living together? Has he moved in?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yeah no, but we do spend a lot of time
together really yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Yeah, what do you guys do? Like for fun? That
was like lifeer, like there you go dancing? Oh shop?
Speaker 1 (10:14):
We did go do a bar crawl. We've had game nights.
We do have a good routine together. We love to
go to the gym and work out together, which has
really helped me get into like a consistent routine and
like to cook together. He loves that I collect vinyls,
so every time I bring a new one home, he's like,
let's play it and we'll cook a dinner and hang out.
(10:35):
We've taken the dogs on hikes. Does he have a dog, No, Roscoe,
though it's kind of his little dog. That's my foster
that I've had, which at this point and moment in
time that this will air, Roscoe will be starting his adoption.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Trial, which is super exciting. Really yeah, oh, he got adopted.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, it's an adoption trial because rober is very special,
so we got to see how it goes for him,
how he gets acclimated, what that looks like. But it's
it's he feels.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Like it'll be really successful for him.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
So he's kind of taken on the ownership of Roscoe
a little bit because Remy has her own personality and
she's she demands attention. So he's kind of taken over
the role of Roscoe's owner a little bit in a way.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
And then we'll take.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
A little break after we have Roscoe and he's in
his home, and then I'll foster another one at some point.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But have you met your boyfriend's parents. Yes, her family.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
I've met his mom and all of his siblings. They
live dad, yet no one sibling does another one is
about to be here, and then another one lives in
another state, and then his mom and dad don't live here.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
That's aye. So how was that? It was good?
Speaker 1 (11:43):
I met him all for a brunch and then a
few weekends later they were in town again for Mother's
Day and they had a bit week.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
He's very, very close with his family.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
So they had that's when we did game night and
they had a whole barbecue and hung out with him.
Hit one of his brother came and joined us for
our bar crawl that we did. And it's been going
really well. I think I have made good impressions.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
I believe LUs. That's good.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yeah, it feels good. And he'll meet my family overseeing myfest.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Oh my gosh, all of them are coming in.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Town, my parents and my sister and brother in law,
so he'll meet some of them.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh my god, you're nervous. No, But it's so funny.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
He has like my parents, they just mispronounced names all
the time. Heck, they call me the dog name all
the time.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Really, I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
It's just like a parent thing, I think, and it's
it started having like ten years ago. But they'll call me,
they'll be like Lola, I'm like, I am Morgan. And
so when I told like they know his name and
they're like, well, it's kind of common with another name,
so just you know, give him a heads up that
like that's not on purpose, And I'm like, can you
guys just get his name right? Can we just not
(12:51):
miss up his name because it makes me feel a
little weird?
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yeah, wait, do you have a nickname for him? I
do have a nickname. I do. Have you said it?
Speaker 1 (12:59):
No, but well the nickname that the show members, not
show members, show listeners have come up with is I
r L Guy because I met him in real life.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Oh okay, yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
We posted like the thing was like met guy in
I r L which is in real life, so he's
become I r L Guy.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
But you did like a hard launch a little bit.
I mean it was great.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I feel medium launch medium Yeah, yeah, because I didn't
tag him and I didn't show his quite his face yet.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah. So the dancing one, yeah, you.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Had to like stop, you have to screenshot zoom in,
and it's kind of blurry.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It can be done, it can, it will be done well.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
I also think Instagram's don't be dirty because he has
his profile and stuff's out there, so I think some
people have already discovered him.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Did they message him? No, But he.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Started having enough people follow and I was like, yeah,
people found you.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Oh wow, yeah okay.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
So I was like I should just I mean whatever,
because he's posted. So I don't care what he does.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
He can do whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
It's different, and he didn't. He never cared if I did.
I just I'm so I'm so protective. I'm protective in
general of everybody on the show and just how we
do things with personal lives because I just I feel
very Mama Bear in a way of just making sure
everybody feels okay and comfortable, and so with other people
in my life, I feel very Mama Bear protective of like, yes,
(14:22):
are you ready for this?
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I know because they're not in they're not in this. Yeah,
they're just trying to live their life over here and then.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Yeah, and then your life and then they get a
like a little whiff of it and you feel, okay,
that's a lot. I wasn't prepared, So I'm like, genuinely,
are you ready for this kind of thing? And that
seems so dramatic, and it really isn't that dramatic, But
I just am protective. Do people have a lot of
opinions and they just say a lot of things, So
I don't I signed up for that they didn't.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Well, that's why I waited so long to like, say
about the kids. But I just I don't know. I mean,
I was gonna just say, like, I moved in with him,
but then I didn't want to leave that part out
because it's kind of a big deal. It is because
and it's also.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Really hard when what you do every day is part
of this show is talking about our personal lives. To
leave out a very significant portion. It's like any any
like lunch Box saying hey, I didn't have a kid
and he doesn't talk about it for a year, or
Eddie not being able to talk about adopting his kids
for a year. That would be really hard because it's
a significant part of your life and we have just
(15:28):
end in personal stories all the time. So how are
you all of a sudden just gonna admit this big
portion of it's hard and you try and hold on
to it. To protect it, but at the same time,
like it is part of your life now and that's
hopefully a part of your life for the foreseeable future.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I know it's crazy. It's still crazy because I was
just like the one always, you know. I don't know.
Even Bobby said it, like he's like, you're like the
last one I thought on the show that would ever.
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Living with someone or having oh yeah, you know, just
begin with a guy.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Just in general.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Well, you know, listen, they're still waiting for my downfall,
so it's fine. You know, that's that we're waiting for
both of them, so it can still happen.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
There's plenty of time left in my life, hopefully, it's true.
Just don't rush anything. Yeah, we're living it up. Okay,
we're gonna take a quick break.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
We'll be our back. We can talk about it more.
We can get into some other fun stuff, all right.
But overall, you feel really good. Emotion's good. You feel happy.
I do, yeah, all the things. And I meant to
ask you, are you getting rid of your place?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
You keeping it? Have you decided? Oh my gosh, I
guess yeah, that's where I'm still I still have it.
And sometimes we stay there like on weekends, and so
we can.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
Feel like a little staycation station.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
That's fun. It is kind of what it is. And
then my mom is going to be here for CMA
Fest actually, and she's going to stay there. So right now,
because all my stuff's there, Like I mean, I moved
my car and everything I use every day, but like
I have a guest room with a bed and then
my bed that's there and basically everything a couch, TV.
So I'm like, what all do I do with that?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But that is the interesting thing about moving in with
someone who has an established place, which is really awesome
because you're set up and you don't have to go
out and buy how it's awesome, But it is an
interesting dynamic because in that place, it's one person's stuff,
But how do you make sure the other person coming
in feels like it's also their space if you're not
(17:34):
utilizing some of their stuff.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
I know, I see that too, Like I'm like everything
in mind, it's my couch, it's my this. And like
the other day I spilled something on his couch and
I felt really bad. I mean, it was clear it
was a white claw. All I talk about was white claws.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
I you love a white class sponsor this gir already Seriously, I.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Drink two things, water and white claw anyway, so I
spilled it on there. But I felt really bad because
it was just like everywhere and I was like, oh
my gosh, this is his couch. But he's always so
like it's not a big deal, and he's like, you
can decorate, like put up decor that you want, you know,
or like to make it feel like it's yours too,
And I'm like, that's really nice. Yeah, I'm still in
the back of my mind, you know, it.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Is because you feel like you're coming into someone's face
and it was theirs forever and now you're like.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Okay, well it's not exactly mine. I wasn't here first,
I know. Yeah, Like if I was in an apartment,
you know, it'd be way different because it's just a
lot easier to take on. I could, I don't know,
get a storage unit or something. But with this, I'm like, huh,
I mean, eventually, I'll probably rent it out and I
could do like I could do where it's furnished too,
something like that.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
And you can either confirm, deny or not talk about this.
But you and I have also talked about it was
really hard for you to make this transition. M h.
Are you feeling better about things now and you don't
have to talk about if you don't want it?
Speaker 2 (18:50):
No, I am, actually, I really am. I thought I
was gonna be a lot harder, like i'd be like, oh,
I'm missing it. And like I said, the drive is
twice as long at least, like it's a lot more
like in the more and stuff. But it's not bad.
It's really not. I like it. I kind of like
being there and just like feeling part of a house
and like a backyard. And because mine's the townhome.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I mean, you went straight from city girl life to
suburban mom.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
I know, I know, it's so weird. I saw somebody
comment and he's like, man, Abby jumped in the deep end.
I'm like, yeah, kind of like.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
You find the right person and it's worth jumping in
the deep deep in for And I feel like that's
what's happening. But internal battle you were having a very
just nervous of you and I have talked about the
other shoe dropping. You and I both have that feeling
just were we're just waiting for it. Yes, because of
things we've been through. Do you feel like the feet
(19:46):
are both firmly planted on the ground.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yeah, I do, okay, because like, at the end of
the day, you're like, this, it's just like a house.
It's just wood, you know, and nails.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
You had to break it down to the wood in
the nails.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
It's a box with walls. I don't know, and like
does that really matter at the end of the day.
It's like, it's who you're with inside those walls. That
was so cheesy. That was sobering cheesy, but it's.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Cute, but it was very cheesy.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So I'm like, why am I so holding on to
this house? I know, it's like my first house that
I bought, But why am I holding on so much
to it? When I knew eventually I was gonna move out.
It's a town home, it's pretty small, so I knew eventually,
like when I met somebody, I would move out into
a different home. So now's the time.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Yeah, But it's just I feel like, in a lot
of ways of transition, you probably weren't expecting. It's just
a lot of different things. But you just, I mean,
you took the bull by the horns. You said let's go. Yeah, seriously,
well let's go anywhere. I always knew that you were
capable of that. I think you were just a little afraid.
I think both of us are afraid of getting hurt,
and especially when you're this far in for you for
(20:53):
your sake, so I get it, oh for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Yeah. How do you feel like it's different with your
current boyfriend and then like others in the past, Like
why does this one feel so much more like secure?
I think I feel different.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I think that's a big part of it. Yeah, and
I think I finally attracted the right person that I
was looking for. I think it has a lot to
do with it.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I don't think I could.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I think I talked about this with Eddie a little bit,
but I don't think I could be where I am
now had that not last relationship not happened.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Oh wow? Really?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Yeah, I think he gave me a lot of security
and understanding. And I don't think it was meant to last,
but it taught me a lot of things that I
just wasn't prepared for in a healthy relationship because I'd
just been through so many bad ones. So it gave
me a lot of tools I needed to even make
the right one successful, and he in general feels different.
(21:48):
He's an impath, which I've never dated before, which I
always needed, and consistencies there. He's just very sure of himself.
There isn't a lot of doubt. I'm not questioning. Ever,
this support is insane. So there's just a lot of
things that were missing before in each if I like
(22:09):
really look back, because hindsight's always twenty twenty. Always when
you're in those it feels like this is it. This
feels good, you know whatever, and you know, I could
be putting my foot in my mouth and it happens
again whatever, but it doesn't feel that way. This feels safe.
That's why I felt also safe to post. I felt
like secure. I felt supported, and I just don't know
(22:32):
that I ever truly had that before. But I couldn't
tell you that when I was in it.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Isn't that crazy, h That's so wild? Yeah, but I
get it. It's like hindsight is twenty twenty. It really is. Yeah,
you learned so much.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
You look back on your I think that's more of
the craziest thing.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I really look back on just.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
My twenties in general now, and it was just wild.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
My twenties are wild.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I went through so many different things and even just
thinking of, you know, the listener's gonna be such a
hard time for my dating life. And I shouldn't say
all listeners, but some of them where it's just like
we've heard about this, here we go again.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
I started the show at twenty three years old.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
I mean, I was genuinely like in my metamorphosis of
my twenties when I was on this show.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
When you are dating, that's what you do is date.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
In your twenties, what you're doing is dating, especially at
this point.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Most people aren't getting married till after they're thirty.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
So really the twenties are about dating and understanding and
learning relationships and what you want, what you don't want.
And I was just full force going through that the
entire time I was on this show. That's wild and
that feels crazy, hmm, it does, I know. So it's
just weird in general to look back and just see
(23:44):
the growth. And people always say that you always hear
from people. The wisdom is everything, and the knowledge that
you gain is so powerful. But yeah, you're twenty one
year old or whatever. I know, you can't tell me anything.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Yeah, you really have to see it for yourself because
you're no one's gonna make you like they can tell
you everything, but like if you don't look for it
and see it yourself, you're just gonna be like, yeah, okay, thanks,
thanks for the advice.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Oh and things that used to be I would be
now like, oh I love that, Like we were, Yeah,
we would talk about just so many different things on
the show, and you hear these stories coming.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
I'm like, dang old me would.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Be like that was an Ick new He's like I
love that, which also feels weird.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Yeah, I don't know if you ever feel that way.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
And you're just like you have this moment where you're like,
I feel like I am a changed woman.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
I mean sometimes I like look back, I'm like, what
was I thinking? Why was that? I have those moments
where I'm just like, oh my gosh. And then my
phone for some reason, brings that old pictures like the
display one, and I'm like, I know, and I have
a thing about deleting pictures.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
I don't know why. Yeah, I can't delete pictures really.
I don't know if it's because I like the memory
around somebody versus the memory like necessarily of them m
but I like, like a moment, if we traveled or
we went somewhere, I'm like, I want those pictures. I
was there, I went to a new state there.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Yeah, my memory's bad. I can't delete anything. I'm like,
I won't even remember that happened in my life in
like two years. You and I both have memory problems.
It's not crazy, No, it's not. It really is. And
people don't understand when I'm like, I can't think, I
don't know, I don't know what I did yesterday?
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Is this also because you had met I always ask
everybody if if there's anything they want to talk about.
On part one, you had said your allergies or you
haven't bad, they've just related.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
So also you have a brain maybe that's it. Yeah,
they've taken my brain power. No, they've been terrible. Have yours.
I've been blowing my nose for two months, Like my
eyes are itchy. It's just rough.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
Well. And also, in all fairness, I can't tell between
mine what is allergy illness or a long COVID, So
just why I'm just permanently ill. But I did find
bee Paul in the other day. Really, have you ever
had be Paul? No, it's really good. I put it
on a sie and it's just like these little balls
of bee pollen and they're supposed to be really helpful
(26:05):
one for your immune system into especially so the bee
pollen I got from he was from here specifically in
Middle Tennessee. So it can help me with allergens in
Middle Tennessee. It's helping like you develop an immune system.
And there's smarter people who have better understanding than scientific
knowledge behind it. But all that to say, I did
(26:25):
find bepall on that I'm adding into my diet to
try and help me out a little bit with my
immune system with potential allergens all of that stuff.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Oh, I need to do that. So it's expensive.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I mean I think like it was eighteen bucks for
a jar like a honey jar. If you think of
like a honey jar, it's that same size.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
If it helps, I'll do it.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Yeah, Turnip truck here in Nashville.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Okay, they had some be pollen.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
But I and I don't know. Again, don't much smarter
people than me. But I'm willing to try everything at
this point.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Yeah, I've done zertech claritin nothing's working.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
It's the same concept if you take a spoonful of
honey that is from again has to be from here,
like where your allergens are, and have a spoonful of
honey every day. It's supposed to also help with allergens
because it has to do with bees in their pollen
and they're in the area the immunity. Yeah, then I
(27:21):
gave my brain stop rushing one hundred percent anymore.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
So I'll look it up something like.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
That, but try try it if it helps with your allergies.
It could not, but it could also at the very
least it's helping you with some vidermins and minerals that
you need.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
So that's the worst case that happens. And it tastes
um me good. Oh it does. I can't believe. I
haven't even had it.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
A little crunchy, just like kind of like honey, but
crunchy okay, so not a bad taste.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I will try it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
All right, We're gonna take one more break. We have
some more things to chat about going on in our lives.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
We'll be back.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
I'm actually shocked right now, Abby, Why because you sid
to me that you're you watch Final Destination Marathon. You
watched a movie.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Marathon all five of them. Who are you?
Speaker 1 (28:06):
You don't even watch one movie half the time?
Speaker 2 (28:08):
I love movies, now, do you?
Speaker 1 (28:11):
That's part of your newfound yeah identity with the boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Actually, we do watch a lot of movie and I
love it because his TV is huge. It's like an
eighty five.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
And listen, a TV does make all the difference. Do
you have a sound thing? Two?
Speaker 2 (28:24):
I got him a sound thing sound Bard.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Sorry, we both so.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
It goes like on the mantle and it is awesome.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Does it come with the speaker that you also sit
somewhere else?
Speaker 2 (28:36):
No, that's that was a little above my understanding budget
or whatever, you know. So I'm like, you want to
get those speakers that go along with it? That'd be awesome. Yeah.
Did he end up buying him?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
No? I was gonna say you could get it for
a Christmas give. They always have good deals on those
on Amazon or best Buy around different holidays today.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
But he has so nos have you heard of that?
Like with the app? Okay, those are oh my gosh, yeah,
those are price the one I wanted to get the
sound bar it was like nine hundred, so I got
like the mini. Okay, I'm talking like you know, just
like the basics, Like it's crazy, they're a lot and
so it's like an app. You control everything. So he
has like three to listen to music on. You put
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them in different rooms.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
Abby, you're living in a smart house. This is my
dream when I watched that movie on Disney Channel Smart House.
Do you remember Smart House?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Yeah? That was awes me too.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
Are you living in a smart house?
Speaker 2 (29:27):
I mean not really? Three speakers?
Speaker 1 (29:28):
You don't have an AI robot that take over the house?
Did she vacuum clean, turn it on and off, the lights, make.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Food until she malfunctioned and.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Then she like became obsessed with them. It's like you're
never living.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Oh my gosh, I want to watch that. Wait have
you not seen No? I just mean I want to
watch it again. Oh it's been a long time.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
I panic first. I was like, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
It's so funny. It is like it's good.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
I do wonder if it holds up now Princess Diaries
holds up that in Lizzie McGuire movie, because I've definitely
watched of those multiple times in the last few years.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
You have yeah, Oh my gosh, I need to like
do a whole sometimes I.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Need just comfort and I'll throw in one of my
movies from the back and as I'm like doing other stuff,
I just need a little nostalgia or comfort in my life. Yeah,
and that's where I go to Disney Channel original movies.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
I go to Halloween. Michael Myers have the same.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
This is also watching Why you watch freaking.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Final Destination A mo? Do you both like horror movies? Yeah?
Uh huh. He doesn't like watching them like alone. Me either.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I like watching him let alone alone.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
I love it. Oh my gosh, Halloween crazy during Halloween time.
Just give me all the scary movies by myself, like,
let's go. But anyway, wild have you seen Final Destination?
I think I saw the.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
First few because they came out in high school and
you went to the theaters with everybody. But they they
actually ruined my brain. Oh my gosh. Tanning beds, oh yeah,
b truck beds that have log the tree lodges on
them ruin my brain. I still see the roller coasters.
I already hated roller coasters, made me hate them more.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Now are that's the tree that come to mind? Oh
my gosh, yeah I do. That does happen to me now?
Now when I'm driving like a truck with all these logs,
I'm like, oh my gosh, Final Destination. See, well, I
only did it because the new one is in theaters.
So are you going to see the new one? I
do want to see it. Yeah, I haven't yet, but
I had to get all caught up on those. Now
I'm ready to go. I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Thanks, even though I don't understand why those, but I
am so proud of you. One that you had a
movie marathon and two that you're watching movies.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
I need to be shocked. I know, I am shocked.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
Yeah, did you ever watch any of the other ones
that I told you?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Did you ever which one?
Speaker 1 (31:40):
I don't remember that? That was in the Sun from
like a year ago. I think when we're in the
old studio.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
There were shows or movies, there were movies. Well I
put one of that. Yeah, I loved it. Are they
coming out with another one?
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We're supposed to be But that was like five years ago.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Because I see it on Netflix, it's like one of
the top ten movies. I was like, huh, it's always is.
It's so good. I thought they were doing it to like,
you know, get you ready for the next one coming out.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
But no, I hope so trust me that the day
that comes you will see me post about it.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
I will be so excited. Okay, let me know when
you here, well I think I was one.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
It was one, and you have your You're getting your
real ID as we were about to record this.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Yes, uh huh, like after this.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
Wait, so you're not actually gonna physically get it because
it takes a few days to get to you, so
obviously like a few weeks.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
But I'm going to do the process. That's what it is.
I gotta go, like, do my hair. I want to
look good. Wait, but you got an appointment. I couldn't
get an appointment.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
When I did this way back in February until July.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
Oh my gosh. No, I don't know how I got lucky.
I think somebody had a cancelation, because yeah, they were
not until like July fifteenth. And then I just looked
one day and I was like, oh my gosh, there's
an opening in Nashville. That's actually Franklin, so but it's outside.
But still the other ones I was looking in like
two hours away. It was like Chattanooga in the appointments, but.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
It really was, And I mean because I when I
went and did it. It was one day when Bobby
was traveling, and I went as soon as they opened,
literally eight thirty.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
I was there as the doors were supposed to open. Yeah,
there was a line.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
There was before the doors even opened, and I was
fourteenth the line.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Oh my god, I sat there for three hours. Do
you have to take like a driver's test?
Speaker 1 (33:21):
No?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Or like do they check your eyes? You're just getting renewal,
are you? Yeah? They do check your eyes?
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Oh god, but no, you do not have to do
a driver's test.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Okay, did you well? When did you have your other?
It's a long time, so you're just about to expire
this year my eyes. So I think it's been like
what ten years?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
But you're sure you don't, Oh you're sure you don't
have a real idea already though, No I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
Huh, But I look like so bad in my current one.
So I'm really excited.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
You're gonna go get all dulled up.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
Like people like make comments like people at the airport,
they're like, whoa, that doesn't even look like you. I'm like, good,
thank you, thanks.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I think they just have to entertain themselves somehow. Maybe
when I were Bay, I always got questioned you did, yeah,
because my ID picture never had banks right. So when
I would go there like this isn't you, I'm like
I'd literally pull all my banks back and be like hello,
and I'm like.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Oh it is.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
I'm like, get that haircut?
Speaker 2 (34:14):
Yeah, Oh, we can't get our picture taken every week.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Update this because I got a new hairstyle.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
Is really funny. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
I think they just like to have fun with that.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
I'm just nervous that I'm going to be missing something,
Like they're gonna be like, did you put this stuff
in online?
Speaker 1 (34:30):
Because you can put this stuff in like your documents
online to get approved, and then you just bring.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
All the documents that got approved. Oh no, I didn't.
You didn't do that. I'm old school. I just like
to show up.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Okay, but you're gonna be one of those people who
gets turned away. You know how many people I wash
get turned away?
Speaker 2 (34:44):
Are you serious? I have everything I need. I have
my birth certificate, my cecil security card.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
Proof of address, like a bill, yeah, a bill for
your house okay, two different ones?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Do you also have?
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Let me just look it up for all the people
who need help because apparently old school.
Speaker 2 (35:01):
Yeah, what if we don't want to do technology.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
It's literally on the government website. It is Yes, all
you do is type it in ABBY. You need real
ID required documents, proof of US citizen citizenship or illegal presence,
proof of your full Social Security number, and two proofs
of Tennessee residency. But I think they're specific about those,
so you either need two. So a current utility bill,
(35:28):
current bank stand at, current mortgage, or deal of sale,
employer verification, paycheck workstuff something like that. You need two
of those from list A, and then you need one
from list B, which is your taxpayer identification number Form
I ninety four from the United States Citizenship or the
(35:51):
I seven. There's a lot of numbers, a lot of
it is HEARDing members. Why Okay, I would double check
it before you go, and I would bring more than
you think you need, because at the very least is
all in your hands. I watched so many people get
turned off, like they literally were like, no, you don't
have what you need.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Oh that's so bad.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Oh I can't imagine, especially because you did get an appointment.
I know, just very far you have everything you could
ever want, And imagine okay. I even tell people like
getting their names changed, and they if they had the
signature in the wrong place on like the.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Marriage certificate, they'd get turned away. Oh.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
I witnessed a lot in my three hours while I
was there. I had a lot of friends too.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
You were fourteen in line and you were there three hours.
Speaker 1 (36:31):
They sat on number nine for like two hours. It
was moving really fast. I was like, yeah, we're gonna
get in and out.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
And then it just sat there and I.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Was like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (36:39):
They all went to lunch.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Something happened. I felt like the scene in Zudopia with
the freaking sauce.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
Yeah, that is so funny. It's my favorite scenes. Yeah,
it's so accurate, like they would do that. That's the
animal that's going to be in.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
It is and that is exactly what it was like,
That's how it was.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
In my brain.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
All I was picturing was slows and slats are my
favorite animal. I cannot understand it.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
So, yeah, I don't I feel for people going through that.
Oh yeah, I feel for myself at least you though, Yeah, okay, yeah,
there are fun things happening in your life before we
jump out of here. Anything else. I want to add,
Oh my gosh, I don't think so. Just living life? Yeah, living,
living life, living, living life? Are you living large? Living loving?
(37:29):
What is it living? Love and fishing, fishing, loving every one.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Hunting fishing and living every day?
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Is that what you're trying to do?
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Sung?
Speaker 2 (37:38):
Yeah, I haven't been hunting yet. I mean I haven't
been fishing lately, so, but I am loving every day.
What about you living every day? Oh? I was gonna
ask you hot take.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Do you feel like Riley Green shaming his mustache or
Morgan Wallen shaming his mullet was more controversial? Oh more
broke the internet.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
It's probably the better word to say. I think Morgan mullin.
I just remember it being just a huge when he
like cut it off and like completely cut his hair.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
It was a wild moment because the mullet was so
profound throughout when he like spiked in his stardom into
like the peak kind of.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
His career, it was just gone. Because I feel like
Riley didn't have his mustache that much. Like we wouldn't
be like, what artist has a mustache and think Riley Green?
I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Now, Yeah, but to your point, he's I think he
started having it. If I remember, I saw an interview
that Ella Langley wanted him to have it for the
U like you Look Like You Love Me video music video, Yeah,
and told him to keep it or he had it
and he was gonna shave it off and She's like.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Keep it, and then he kept and he's.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
Kept it when now I was gone, and I wonder.
I also wonder if there's also the theories online that
has to do with all that drama.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Yeah, what is going on? I don't know, man.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
But then I also saw La post a TikTok video
her literally stirring the pot and saying something like she
was singing a song from Caitlin butts of like some
dang it. I wish I knew what the lyric was,
but it was like if I was talking about you
know it or likes something to that effect.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
That's funny.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
So there's certainly things happening, yeah, and I just don't
know they're just messing with us. Though also at this point,
because I have this feeling sometimes when like people think
stuff is happening with me or they try and get info,
I'll be like, let me stir the pot because it's funny.
They're playing the game.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
I know, I think they are. That's a thing, and
then having a show after the next day, people are
saying they were normal, so like, yeah, gow do.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
You know they performed at Stand in my Boots and yeah,
seemed fun.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
She brought him out like she invited him during her time, right,
and she didn't have to. Yeah, she could have.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Been like if it's so bad, she could have been like, yeah,
I'm not bringing you out. Yeah, I'll get somebody else
to do it, like she really could have.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
So I'm confused. I don't know. I don't really follow
that that much. Like I know there's a lot happening,
but I feel like people and skew it either way,
Like people were zooming up on Mega Maroni when they
won the award there, like look at her face and
I looked at it and I was just like, she
just was standing there. What else is she supposed to do?
So like I don't know, I really don't know.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
I know it's so it's so funny and I don't
even get that invested, and then it just all starts
showing up on my fee and then I'm just next thing.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I know, I'm down a rabbit hole. I'm like, why
am I here? Yep, oh, it's gonna don't actually care
now that we're talking about it even more videos.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
I know that was so that was a funny thing
that I was watching online. But I do think it's
hilarious when dudes cut their mustaches. I love a mustache.
I also don't mind a mustache if you don't have one,
vice versa. I'm kind of indifferent, but I do think
it's funny because I remember this very vividly when my dad,
my dad, my entire childhood, had a mustache, and then
(40:48):
when we were in high school, we were convinced he
should shave it. We're like, get rid of it, no
longer the mustache. And I cried when he shaved his
mushats because I thought he looked like a naked morat.
I was like, where did he go? And he's like,
you told me.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
To shave it.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
I was like, I know, but put it back?
Speaker 2 (41:07):
Did he get it bad? Does he have one? No?
He doesn't, Okay, And now I'm used to it.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
You know, it was just that initial moment picture, but
dudes do kind of look a little bit like a
naked mole rat when they shaved the mustache, you know.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, yeah, No. When I looked at the Riley Green picture,
I'm like, oh.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
Not in like a bad way. It's just like it's
just full blown, like straight clean shade. Just feels like
a naked mole rat.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Because I like how it reminds me of yeah, you know,
because Riley always has scruff, and then he would just
like full of like, oh, I didn't even recognize him.
It was weird. I know, and he.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
Still looks great, but it's just I don't know why
I will because of my dad. Mustachesn't no longer have
a mustache remind me of naked mole rats.
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Oh my gosh, your poor dad.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
He didn't look like from that.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
He didn't look like one.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
I just for some reason associated the two.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
Yeah, oh, if you're listening.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
My dad always listened, so for sure called me about
this one. Hey, Dad, like, really a naked moulerat.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Okay, I have I have a question. I am considering
creating starting doing a co ed softball and or volleyball team.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
But should I Am I too old for that? No?
My boyfriend does it. He does volleyball. See volleyball. What
do you want to play on our team. Who he maybe,
but the only thing with him is it's hard because
it's usually on like the same night, like every Tuesday. Yeah,
and every other Tuesday. He wouldn't be able to with
his kids. That's fair. Well, you all you can find it,
(42:43):
that's all that matters. But yeah, oh no, you're not
too old. That's fun. I'm considered. I'm all about it.
But also all the softball stuff, like you've the home one.
I didn't want to admit this.
Speaker 1 (42:54):
I had, like I went and did some practicing since
it's been a minute since I practiced because I didn't
get a plan in the softball Game of the Year
prior because of my sister's wedding and bachelortt stuff. So
I went and did some like practice. I think I
might have messed up my shoulder, and so like then
I did the home run derby and I was like,
I'm just gonna have to suck.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
This up and do this. It's still hurt. Yeah, oh shit,
how do you mess it up? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
It's like I think I just might have bruised it
because it's like the rot I don't know that I
actually like hurt my rotator cuff. I think it might
just be super inflamed or something. But I'm also like
I want to start these things. I'm like, am I
too old? And since that my body is.
Speaker 2 (43:30):
Oh god, okay, yeah when you say it that way,
I know is just a number.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Your body ounce back in the same way. No, it
really very active. But every time I get injured, man,
I mean like when I broke my tailbone rollerblading, or
like when I ruined my hip from doing gymnastics. Every time,
it takes me at least six months to recover.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
Oh yeah, that's why I say no to a lot
of like ice skating, like it scares me.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
But I get to I love activities, so I do too.
Maybe I just need to be like the Michelin man,
like put me in just like shit, right up there,
you go all the pads, and then I can play.
Speaker 2 (44:05):
The sand volleyball. Oh that's gonna be fun, right because
I've been playing.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
My boyfriend plays sand volleyball a lot, and I've been
playing filling in on some of his teams because I
used to be a lebarro and like a back row hitter.
But also, sand volleyball is drastically different from court volleyball.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Oh my gosh, I like subbed in one time with mine.
It's not great. Did you play? No, I'm a runner,
that is true and basketball, but yeah I did not.
Volleyball is not my thing. It would break my wrist
if someone spiked it hard enough and I tried to hit.
Oh a snap, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
You're not supposed to hit with riz What where do
you hit?
Speaker 2 (44:40):
You're supposed to hit on your forearms.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Well, like when you put your hands out right, like yeah,
close your fists together and you bump with your fore arms.
If it hits your wrists, like, you're not hitting correctly.
There are some people who will like hit it with
the back of their wrist because they're like last minute reaction.
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Okay, that's see, that's where I messed up. But you're
I supposed to Oh my whole rist was brown, like
black and blue, like it was bruised so bad. After that?
Speaker 1 (45:08):
Were you trying to set? Because if you were setting too,
you you just like your hands and setting, but you
were bumping. You're attempting to bump, and it hit on
top of your wrist.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah, just like right here. It was right here on
that bone on the inside by your thumb. Yeah that's bad, girlfriend,
Yeah it was really bad. I'm just very.
Speaker 1 (45:27):
You're like, I would not like to sell it never, No,
not really.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
Yeah, I mean maybe Okay, I played t ball, Okay,
that's righte Like during the derby, you guys did like
Bobby's like, Abby you want to hit. I'm like, oh,
I think I'm good. I'm good. I don't know how
this will go. I haven't touched to bat in like
fifty years. Yeah, fifty fifteen. Yeah, well that's where I
(45:52):
am right now. But don't hurt your shoulder worse.
Speaker 1 (45:55):
I know I'm having to take a break from the
gym tune. It's just not I'm not very happy about it.
Speaker 2 (45:58):
But here I am.
Speaker 1 (46:00):
Truly, that's the worst I know. So anyways, we're get
out of here. Okay, thanks for being here hanging out
with me. You're welcome answering all the questions. Are you
gonna have a vulnerability hangover? Are you okay?
Speaker 2 (46:12):
No? I should be Okay, Okay, I had one after
on the show. You did just a little.
Speaker 1 (46:17):
Those are hard, but you did great. You didn't do
anything wrong, and you were authentic and you shared your story.
Speaker 2 (46:24):
M hm. Yeah, I'm just sharing my story.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
It is your story, Okay, you're like smiling, never mind
telling people where they can find to hear you all.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
That good stuff on Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
Woo, and go subscribe to the show YouTube page at
Bobby Bone Show and you can follow me at what
Girl Morgan. I did have a semi hard launch that
feels weird to.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Say, and it was pretty hard.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
No, okay, medium.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
Hard, yeah is good, so my heart. Anyways.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
Bye, that's the best bits of the week with more.
Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other
two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all
social platforms Bobby.
Speaker 2 (47:06):
Bob Show and follow at Webgirl
Speaker 1 (47:08):
Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgane Part one.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Behind the scene with a member of the show, What's Up?
Happy weekend?
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Everybody? Abby is showing me this weekend?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Abby, how are you good? How are you? Yeah? You're
feeling good? You ready to chat?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
You dropped some big news since the last time you've
been on here.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I did, I really did?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Or as we put on the social post, bumpshow news.
I know.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Yeah, that was a dramatic headline.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
We're adding some drama lately, you know, just spicing it
up these days.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
That's what we're doing on social media. I'm fixing my mic.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
Ocause we're in a different studio than we normally are
to do best bits because all of our studios are
all taken up, so Abby and I are sitting in
the big studio.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
We are unusual. That's weird. It does feel weird.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Okay, Well, you dropped huge news. How are you feeling
about dropping the big news?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Very like a vulnerable like I feel like people know
a lot because I did so well at keeping it private,
and I'm like, oh, I said a lot.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's now all out there. And so you share that
you're now living with your boyfriend and.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
He has two kids.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yes, that was the big bombshell news in case she
missed it, which you can check and you know, go
catch up on best bits. But vulnerability is hard and
sharing something that you kept for secret for at least
six months the kids saying you've kept secret for you
how long you guys have been dating, which is a
year and a half.
Speaker 2 (01:23):
Yeah, but I mean, I plan. I think I'm still
gonna keep it, you know, not give too many details.
Just like privacy. I have everybody involved, so it makes sense.
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Having kids involved is a different role than just you
and a boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Yeah, it is.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
It's a whole different lifestyle.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
It is. But it's going really well.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
And how is living together going good? Like I thought
it would be.
Speaker 2 (01:46):
I've never lived with someone, you know, and so I
thought it'd be, I don't know, more difficult, But it's
actually fun. It's like fun. I don't do anything really
to annoy each other. Like he's really clean, He's like
more clean than me.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Okay, Like I say, have you figured out your differences yet?
Because I feel like living together is when you start
to see, oh, well we have this a little bit
different or we may operate a little bit differently.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Here or there. So like I get coffee every day
and I leave it on the counter and I don't
throw it away. He's like, are you done with this?
It's like four pm. I'm like, yes, I am.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
So is it a half drinking coffee?
Speaker 2 (02:22):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
Oh you don't even finish them no, huh. And you're
buying coffee yep, okay every days.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
It's really bad. It's a bad thing. But I leave
it out all the time and he just gets annoyed
at that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Okay, so you are learning to pick up a little
bit more.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah, it's also weird because just not being at my house,
you know, like feeling more in control. I'm at someone
else's house and I still kind of feel like I'm oh,
can I get in your Pantry's like, Abby, you don't
what are you doing? You don't have to ask?
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Yeah, like what you're getting comfortable with being in his.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Space when I have always been in my space, so
I've never had to feel uncomfortable or like ask if
I can do something. So it's yeah, I'm getting used to.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
That, and you're learning to different like finance, like who
pays for what?
Speaker 2 (03:10):
That side of things.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Yes, it's always an interesting and uncomfortable start, and then
you start to figure it out. But the beginning's always
a little awky and quirky.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
It really is awkward. Wait, what do you do? I'm
curious how financing saying things?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah, in the beginning, he wanted to pay for everything. Yeah,
and it got to a point where I was like, Okay,
we're funny and I don't like this, and so I
would start paying for some things and he'll still insist
in different areas. So we just kind of make sure
both of us feel like we're contributing. Is really where
it matters for me. I don't ever want to feel
(03:42):
like a relationship is one sided.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
So that's kind of where it lies right now.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, Like for us, he would just eat in every day,
like he loves to just like cook at home and
he has like a sandwich every day for lunch. I'm like,
I want to go out all the time. I love
eating out, and so I feel about making him pay
for it. Times I'm just like, can we go out?
I'll pay for it. God, Because he would just save
so much money and he's a financial planner, like I said, so,
he's very good with money.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
Okay, and the budgeting. Are you good with money?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Oh my gosh, no, No, like he did like a
budget thing for me or whatever, and I was like,
oh my gosh, wow, really yeah, just because I'm not.
He is so organized and everything he spends and did,
like this whole sheet, and how he like nets this much?
He you know, puts everything out itemized. Like, sorry, Eddie's sitting.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
In the room with us and he's given eyes. Okay, Well,
if you're gonna at least ask, might as well turn
on your mic.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
How much does he net? No, it's just like a
monthly thing as much as he should. Because of me.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Having a girlfriend really changed his financial planning, didn't it? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It did? It did? Sorry, but yeah, so I'm figuring
that out too.
Speaker 1 (04:56):
So you are learning your differences. How are you guys
navigating the difference? Does it feel good? It feels like
communicative or is it? It does?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Yeah? Because he's very patient with me.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Okay, has he understood your shopping habit yet?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Oh gosh, we only need to talk about that.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
You have mentioned on the best bits, And I'm not
blasted you in anyway because we have talked about the
best bits.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah, we have. Abby loves to go shopping and we'll
just buy stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
Heck, there was one time when Abby was staying at
my house and it was so sweet of her. But
I showed back up after she was washing my animals
and she had got me a Marvel sweatshirt. She's like,
I was just walking them all.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
And I found it.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
I think, that's so sweet. What are you doing?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I don't know. That's what I do. It's really bad.
And I have like through the three closets in my
house are like full of clothes, and so I've had
to try to consolidate all into his closet and he
moved everything like to the left, and I have like
his whole closet.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
It's yeah, in all fairness, boys have ten outflit fits.
They don't really have the same. Women's fashion is a
little bit different. Guys can wear the same outfit for
ten plus years and never goes out of style. The women.
Everything we do goes out of style once a year.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
I know.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
So it is it different in sharing, And I do
feel like women tend to take over more. Men tend
to take over more on the shoe department. So does
he have more shoes than you? No?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Still he has more. I guess hats. He loves wearing hats.
A thousand hats.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
They always have one, like it's an accessory. There's something
that they have a lot of. Yeah, but then everyone
else is like a sliver of a closet. Yeah, at
least in most of the homes that I've seen in
all with my friends.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
Yep. No, mine's shoes have closed everything. So I gotta
work on that. That is something that he's like, you
really need to work on this. This could be a
serious problem in the future. Oh yeah, it could be,
but you're working on it. Yeah, and you're it's okay.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
It's okay to have flaws and to work through them.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
M hm.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
So also part of what living together is about is
understanding each other and learning each other more, because when
you're not living together, I feel like you kind of
have this side of you that they don't know about,
and then you live together, it's like, here's all of
me is here.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I go, hope you like it. Yeah, but it's good. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
And living with kids around, is that an adjustment too?
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yes, it is, especially like with our jobs because we
have to work at night too, like to prep for
the next day, and they just want to play and
I just feel so bad. So I'm like I have
to go work. They're like, why are you working? I
already worked earlier.
Speaker 1 (07:25):
I'm like, I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
You don't get it.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Yeah, so when they like go to bed, is that
when you start working again?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Basically, And how are you guys navigating alone time together too?
Speaker 2 (07:37):
Well? He has them half the time, so I you know,
I get to see him.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
So your moments happen on the off weeks when you
guys kind of have some time together and yes, go
do stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
You want to do, Like he has them every other weekend,
so you know, it's like they're like completely opposite weekends.
You know, we have the kids. It's just like all
kids centered, yeah, stuff, which is really fun. And then
the next weekend it's like, let's go to Broadway or
something I don't know, like.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
And it sounds like that's you sided where you're like,
I want to go do things.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yes, but he also does too, like he wants to
get out. He's like, you should do something.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
But just better about it. Financially, it's thinking what's the
best scenario?
Speaker 2 (08:13):
I know, yeah, I mean those white claws downtown are expensive, are.
Speaker 1 (08:18):
You know a six bag of white claws back home,
caused about half the price of one down town. No.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
I thought about that. I was like, we should add
up how much you spend in like three months and
just drinks the river priced we had went.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
So I took my boyfriend for the first time for
his first concert at the Ryeman. We went and saw
Tucker Wetmore's sold out show there, which was so awesome.
Tucker was so great. He plays insane piano. It's really
good piano skills. Would never have known.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Uh huh. It was really cool. It was cool.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
He had standing ovations multiple times. He was just like
super emotional too because it was at the Ryman. It
was a really cool show to see. But that was
his first one. And we walked up. He goes, dang,
twenty eight dollars for a double, and I was like, yeah,
we're getting into pricey stuff down here downtown. He's like,
you know, I should have assumed that, but.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yeah, no, it is crazy. Is that really what it
is for a It's like for a double vodka?
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Yeah, twenty eight dollars, which to me at this point
was so crazy about it. I'm like, oh, that's not
that bad. But that's because I've been conditioned to think
if from going downtown. But then I go to like
a hole in the wall, it's.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
Like five bucks, uh huh.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
And then that's when I realized, Okay, I need to
stay away from downtown.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
No, a date night is expensive. Or if you want
to take your family to a concert, like expect to
spend a lot with tickets and everything.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know how everything adding up. Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
So okay, how do you feel?
Speaker 1 (09:41):
We feel good about the combo?
Speaker 2 (09:43):
I feel good? Do you feel super vulnerable or we
feel okay? No good? Okay, let's just not go any
I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I've found your threshold. Okay, that's what I was finding.
You can also ask me any questions you want to ask.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Are you guys living together? Has he moved in?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Yeah no, but we do spend a lot of time
together really yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
Yeah, what do you guys do? Like for fun? That
was like lifeer, like there you go dancing? Oh shop?
Speaker 1 (10:14):
We did go do a bar crawl. We've had game nights.
We do have a good routine together. We love to
go to the gym and work out together, which has
really helped me get into like a consistent routine and
like to cook together. He loves that I collect vinyls,
so every time I bring a new one home, he's like,
let's play it and we'll cook a dinner and hang out.
(10:35):
We've taken the dogs on hikes. Does he have a dog, No, Roscoe,
though it's kind of his little dog. That's my foster
that I've had, which at this point and moment in
time that this will air, Roscoe will be starting his adoption.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
Trial, which is super exciting. Really yeah, oh, he got adopted.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
Well, it's an adoption trial because rober is very special,
so we got to see how it goes for him,
how he gets acclimated, what that looks like. But it's
it's he feels.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Like it'll be really successful for him.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
So he's kind of taken on the ownership of Roscoe
a little bit because Remy has her own personality and
she's she demands attention. So he's kind of taken over
the role of Roscoe's owner a little bit in a way.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
And then we'll take.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
A little break after we have Roscoe and he's in
his home, and then I'll foster another one at some point.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But have you met your boyfriend's parents. Yes, her family.
Speaker 1 (11:24):
I've met his mom and all of his siblings. They
live dad, yet no one sibling does another one is
about to be here, and then another one lives in
another state, and then his mom and dad don't live here.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
That's aye. So how was that? It was good?
Speaker 1 (11:43):
I met him all for a brunch and then a
few weekends later they were in town again for Mother's
Day and they had a bit week.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
He's very, very close with his family.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
So they had that's when we did game night and
they had a whole barbecue and hung out with him.
Hit one of his brother came and joined us for
our bar crawl that we did. And it's been going
really well. I think I have made good impressions.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
I believe LUs. That's good.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Yeah, it feels good. And he'll meet my family overseeing myfest.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Oh my gosh, all of them are coming in.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Town, my parents and my sister and brother in law,
so he'll meet some of them.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh my god, you're nervous. No, But it's so funny.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
He has like my parents, they just mispronounced names all
the time. Heck, they call me the dog name all
the time.
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Really, I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
It's just like a parent thing, I think, and it's
it started having like ten years ago. But they'll call me,
they'll be like Lola, I'm like, I am Morgan. And
so when I told like they know his name and
they're like, well, it's kind of common with another name,
so just you know, give him a heads up that
like that's not on purpose, And I'm like, can you
guys just get his name right? Can we just not
(12:51):
miss up his name because it makes me feel a
little weird?
Speaker 2 (12:54):
Yeah, wait, do you have a nickname for him? I
do have a nickname. I do. Have you said it?
Speaker 1 (12:59):
No, but well the nickname that the show members, not
show members, show listeners have come up with is I
r L Guy because I met him in real life.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Oh okay, yeah, and.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
We posted like the thing was like met guy in
I r L which is in real life, so he's
become I r L Guy.
Speaker 2 (13:16):
But you did like a hard launch a little bit.
I mean it was great.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
I feel medium launch medium Yeah, yeah, because I didn't
tag him and I didn't show his quite his face yet.
Speaker 2 (13:26):
Yeah. So the dancing one, yeah, you.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
Had to like stop, you have to screenshot zoom in,
and it's kind of blurry.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
It can be done, it can, it will be done well.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
I also think Instagram's don't be dirty because he has
his profile and stuff's out there, so I think some
people have already discovered him.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
Did they message him? No, But he.
Speaker 1 (13:47):
Started having enough people follow and I was like, yeah,
people found you.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
Oh wow, yeah okay.
Speaker 1 (13:52):
So I was like I should just I mean whatever,
because he's posted. So I don't care what he does.
Speaker 2 (13:58):
He can do whatever you want.
Speaker 1 (13:59):
It's different, and he didn't. He never cared if I did.
I just I'm so I'm so protective. I'm protective in
general of everybody on the show and just how we
do things with personal lives because I just I feel
very Mama Bear in a way of just making sure
everybody feels okay and comfortable, and so with other people
in my life, I feel very Mama Bear protective of like, yes,
(14:22):
are you ready for this?
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I know because they're not in they're not in this. Yeah,
they're just trying to live their life over here and then.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
Yeah, and then your life and then they get a
like a little whiff of it and you feel, okay,
that's a lot. I wasn't prepared, So I'm like, genuinely,
are you ready for this kind of thing? And that
seems so dramatic, and it really isn't that dramatic, But
I just am protective. Do people have a lot of
opinions and they just say a lot of things, So
I don't I signed up for that they didn't.
Speaker 2 (14:52):
Well, that's why I waited so long to like, say
about the kids. But I just I don't know. I mean,
I was gonna just say, like, I moved in with him,
but then I didn't want to leave that part out
because it's kind of a big deal. It is because
and it's also.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
Really hard when what you do every day is part
of this show is talking about our personal lives. To
leave out a very significant portion. It's like any any
like lunch Box saying hey, I didn't have a kid
and he doesn't talk about it for a year, or
Eddie not being able to talk about adopting his kids
for a year. That would be really hard because it's
a significant part of your life and we have just
(15:28):
end in personal stories all the time. So how are
you all of a sudden just gonna admit this big
portion of it's hard and you try and hold on
to it. To protect it, but at the same time,
like it is part of your life now and that's
hopefully a part of your life for the foreseeable future.
Speaker 2 (15:45):
I know it's crazy. It's still crazy because I was
just like the one always, you know. I don't know.
Even Bobby said it, like he's like, you're like the
last one I thought on the show that would ever.
I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
Living with someone or having oh yeah, you know, just
begin with a guy.
Speaker 2 (16:05):
Just in general.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Well, you know, listen, they're still waiting for my downfall,
so it's fine. You know, that's that we're waiting for
both of them, so it can still happen.
Speaker 2 (16:14):
There's plenty of time left in my life, hopefully, it's true.
Just don't rush anything. Yeah, we're living it up. Okay,
we're gonna take a quick break.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
We'll be our back. We can talk about it more.
We can get into some other fun stuff, all right.
But overall, you feel really good. Emotion's good. You feel happy.
I do, yeah, all the things. And I meant to
ask you, are you getting rid of your place?
Speaker 2 (16:38):
You keeping it? Have you decided? Oh my gosh, I
guess yeah, that's where I'm still I still have it.
And sometimes we stay there like on weekends, and so
we can.
Speaker 1 (16:47):
Feel like a little staycation station.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
That's fun. It is kind of what it is. And
then my mom is going to be here for CMA
Fest actually, and she's going to stay there. So right now,
because all my stuff's there, Like I mean, I moved
my car and everything I use every day, but like
I have a guest room with a bed and then
my bed that's there and basically everything a couch, TV.
So I'm like, what all do I do with that?
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But that is the interesting thing about moving in with
someone who has an established place, which is really awesome
because you're set up and you don't have to go
out and buy how it's awesome, But it is an
interesting dynamic because in that place, it's one person's stuff,
But how do you make sure the other person coming
in feels like it's also their space if you're not
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utilizing some of their stuff.
Speaker 2 (17:36):
I know, I see that too, Like I'm like everything
in mind, it's my couch, it's my this. And like
the other day I spilled something on his couch and
I felt really bad. I mean, it was clear it
was a white claw. All I talk about was white claws.
Speaker 1 (17:48):
I you love a white class sponsor this gir already Seriously, I.
Speaker 2 (17:52):
Drink two things, water and white claw anyway, so I
spilled it on there. But I felt really bad because
it was just like everywhere and I was like, oh
my gosh, this is his couch. But he's always so
like it's not a big deal, and he's like, you
can decorate, like put up decor that you want, you know,
or like to make it feel like it's yours too,
And I'm like, that's really nice. Yeah, I'm still in
the back of my mind, you know, it.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
Is because you feel like you're coming into someone's face
and it was theirs forever and now you're like.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
Okay, well it's not exactly mine. I wasn't here first,
I know. Yeah, Like if I was in an apartment,
you know, it'd be way different because it's just a
lot easier to take on. I could, I don't know,
get a storage unit or something. But with this, I'm like, huh,
I mean, eventually, I'll probably rent it out and I
could do like I could do where it's furnished too,
something like that.
Speaker 1 (18:37):
And you can either confirm, deny or not talk about this.
But you and I have also talked about it was
really hard for you to make this transition. M h.
Are you feeling better about things now and you don't
have to talk about if you don't want it?
Speaker 2 (18:50):
No, I am, actually, I really am. I thought I
was gonna be a lot harder, like i'd be like, oh,
I'm missing it. And like I said, the drive is
twice as long at least, like it's a lot more
like in the more and stuff. But it's not bad.
It's really not. I like it. I kind of like
being there and just like feeling part of a house
and like a backyard. And because mine's the townhome.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
I mean, you went straight from city girl life to
suburban mom.
Speaker 2 (19:15):
I know, I know, it's so weird. I saw somebody
comment and he's like, man, Abby jumped in the deep end.
I'm like, yeah, kind of like.
Speaker 1 (19:26):
You find the right person and it's worth jumping in
the deep deep in for And I feel like that's
what's happening. But internal battle you were having a very
just nervous of you and I have talked about the
other shoe dropping. You and I both have that feeling
just were we're just waiting for it. Yes, because of
things we've been through. Do you feel like the feet
(19:46):
are both firmly planted on the ground.
Speaker 2 (19:48):
Yeah, I do, okay, because like, at the end of
the day, you're like, this, it's just like a house.
It's just wood, you know, and nails.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
You had to break it down to the wood in
the nails.
Speaker 2 (19:59):
It's a box with walls. I don't know, and like
does that really matter at the end of the day.
It's like, it's who you're with inside those walls. That
was so cheesy. That was sobering cheesy, but it's.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Cute, but it was very cheesy.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So I'm like, why am I so holding on to
this house? I know, it's like my first house that
I bought, But why am I holding on so much
to it? When I knew eventually I was gonna move out.
It's a town home, it's pretty small, so I knew eventually,
like when I met somebody, I would move out into
a different home. So now's the time.
Speaker 1 (20:30):
Yeah, But it's just I feel like, in a lot
of ways of transition, you probably weren't expecting. It's just
a lot of different things. But you just, I mean,
you took the bull by the horns. You said let's go. Yeah, seriously,
well let's go anywhere. I always knew that you were
capable of that. I think you were just a little afraid.
I think both of us are afraid of getting hurt,
and especially when you're this far in for you for
(20:53):
your sake, so I get it, oh for sure.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Yeah. How do you feel like it's different with your
current boyfriend and then like others in the past, Like
why does this one feel so much more like secure?
I think I feel different.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I think that's a big part of it. Yeah, and
I think I finally attracted the right person that I
was looking for. I think it has a lot to
do with it.
Speaker 2 (21:16):
I don't think I could.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
I think I talked about this with Eddie a little bit,
but I don't think I could be where I am
now had that not last relationship not happened.
Speaker 2 (21:24):
Oh wow? Really?
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Yeah, I think he gave me a lot of security
and understanding. And I don't think it was meant to last,
but it taught me a lot of things that I
just wasn't prepared for in a healthy relationship because I'd
just been through so many bad ones. So it gave
me a lot of tools I needed to even make
the right one successful, and he in general feels different.
(21:48):
He's an impath, which I've never dated before, which I
always needed, and consistencies there. He's just very sure of himself.
There isn't a lot of doubt. I'm not questioning. Ever,
this support is insane. So there's just a lot of
things that were missing before in each if I like
(22:09):
really look back, because hindsight's always twenty twenty. Always when
you're in those it feels like this is it. This
feels good, you know whatever, and you know, I could
be putting my foot in my mouth and it happens
again whatever, but it doesn't feel that way. This feels safe.
That's why I felt also safe to post. I felt
like secure. I felt supported, and I just don't know
(22:32):
that I ever truly had that before. But I couldn't
tell you that when I was in it.
Speaker 2 (22:36):
Isn't that crazy, h That's so wild? Yeah, but I
get it. It's like hindsight is twenty twenty. It really is. Yeah,
you learned so much.
Speaker 1 (22:44):
You look back on your I think that's more of
the craziest thing.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I really look back on just.
Speaker 1 (22:49):
My twenties in general now, and it was just wild.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
My twenties are wild.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I went through so many different things and even just
thinking of, you know, the listener's gonna be such a
hard time for my dating life. And I shouldn't say
all listeners, but some of them where it's just like
we've heard about this, here we go again.
Speaker 2 (23:07):
I started the show at twenty three years old.
Speaker 1 (23:09):
I mean, I was genuinely like in my metamorphosis of
my twenties when I was on this show.
Speaker 2 (23:15):
When you are dating, that's what you do is date.
Speaker 1 (23:17):
In your twenties, what you're doing is dating, especially at
this point.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
Most people aren't getting married till after they're thirty.
Speaker 1 (23:23):
So really the twenties are about dating and understanding and
learning relationships and what you want, what you don't want.
And I was just full force going through that the
entire time I was on this show. That's wild and
that feels crazy, hmm, it does, I know. So it's
just weird in general to look back and just see
(23:44):
the growth. And people always say that you always hear
from people. The wisdom is everything, and the knowledge that
you gain is so powerful. But yeah, you're twenty one
year old or whatever. I know, you can't tell me anything.
Speaker 2 (23:57):
Yeah, you really have to see it for yourself because
you're no one's gonna make you like they can tell
you everything, but like if you don't look for it
and see it yourself, you're just gonna be like, yeah, okay, thanks,
thanks for the advice.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Oh and things that used to be I would be
now like, oh I love that, Like we were, Yeah,
we would talk about just so many different things on
the show, and you hear these stories coming.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
I'm like, dang old me would.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Be like that was an Ick new He's like I
love that, which also feels weird.
Speaker 2 (24:24):
Yeah, I don't know if you ever feel that way.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
And you're just like you have this moment where you're like,
I feel like I am a changed woman.
Speaker 2 (24:31):
I mean sometimes I like look back, I'm like, what
was I thinking? Why was that? I have those moments
where I'm just like, oh my gosh. And then my
phone for some reason, brings that old pictures like the
display one, and I'm like, I know, and I have
a thing about deleting pictures.
Speaker 1 (24:48):
I don't know why. Yeah, I can't delete pictures really.
I don't know if it's because I like the memory
around somebody versus the memory like necessarily of them m
but I like, like a moment, if we traveled or
we went somewhere, I'm like, I want those pictures. I
was there, I went to a new state there.
Speaker 2 (25:08):
Yeah, my memory's bad. I can't delete anything. I'm like,
I won't even remember that happened in my life in
like two years. You and I both have memory problems.
It's not crazy, No, it's not. It really is. And
people don't understand when I'm like, I can't think, I
don't know, I don't know what I did yesterday?
Speaker 1 (25:27):
Is this also because you had met I always ask
everybody if if there's anything they want to talk about.
On part one, you had said your allergies or you
haven't bad, they've just related.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
So also you have a brain maybe that's it. Yeah,
they've taken my brain power. No, they've been terrible. Have yours.
I've been blowing my nose for two months, Like my
eyes are itchy. It's just rough.
Speaker 1 (25:45):
Well. And also, in all fairness, I can't tell between
mine what is allergy illness or a long COVID, So
just why I'm just permanently ill. But I did find
bee Paul in the other day. Really, have you ever
had be Paul? No, it's really good. I put it
on a sie and it's just like these little balls
of bee pollen and they're supposed to be really helpful
(26:05):
one for your immune system into especially so the bee
pollen I got from he was from here specifically in
Middle Tennessee. So it can help me with allergens in
Middle Tennessee. It's helping like you develop an immune system.
And there's smarter people who have better understanding than scientific
knowledge behind it. But all that to say, I did
(26:25):
find bepall on that I'm adding into my diet to
try and help me out a little bit with my
immune system with potential allergens all of that stuff.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Oh, I need to do that. So it's expensive.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I mean I think like it was eighteen bucks for
a jar like a honey jar. If you think of
like a honey jar, it's that same size.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
If it helps, I'll do it.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
Yeah, Turnip truck here in Nashville.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Okay, they had some be pollen.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
But I and I don't know. Again, don't much smarter
people than me. But I'm willing to try everything at
this point.
Speaker 2 (26:55):
Yeah, I've done zertech claritin nothing's working.
Speaker 1 (26:59):
It's the same concept if you take a spoonful of
honey that is from again has to be from here,
like where your allergens are, and have a spoonful of
honey every day. It's supposed to also help with allergens
because it has to do with bees in their pollen
and they're in the area the immunity. Yeah, then I
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gave my brain stop rushing one hundred percent anymore.
Speaker 2 (27:23):
So I'll look it up something like.
Speaker 1 (27:25):
That, but try try it if it helps with your allergies.
It could not, but it could also at the very
least it's helping you with some vidermins and minerals that
you need.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
So that's the worst case that happens. And it tastes
um me good. Oh it does. I can't believe. I
haven't even had it.
Speaker 1 (27:41):
A little crunchy, just like kind of like honey, but
crunchy okay, so not a bad taste.
Speaker 2 (27:46):
I will try it.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
All right, We're gonna take one more break. We have
some more things to chat about going on in our lives.
Speaker 2 (27:51):
We'll be back.
Speaker 1 (27:55):
I'm actually shocked right now, Abby, Why because you sid
to me that you're you watch Final Destination Marathon. You
watched a movie.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Marathon all five of them. Who are you?
Speaker 1 (28:06):
You don't even watch one movie half the time?
Speaker 2 (28:08):
I love movies, now, do you?
Speaker 1 (28:11):
That's part of your newfound yeah identity with the boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Actually, we do watch a lot of movie and I
love it because his TV is huge. It's like an
eighty five.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
And listen, a TV does make all the difference. Do
you have a sound thing? Two?
Speaker 2 (28:24):
I got him a sound thing sound Bard.
Speaker 1 (28:27):
Sorry, we both so.
Speaker 2 (28:30):
It goes like on the mantle and it is awesome.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Does it come with the speaker that you also sit
somewhere else?
Speaker 2 (28:36):
No, that's that was a little above my understanding budget
or whatever, you know. So I'm like, you want to
get those speakers that go along with it? That'd be awesome. Yeah.
Did he end up buying him?
Speaker 1 (28:48):
No? I was gonna say you could get it for
a Christmas give. They always have good deals on those
on Amazon or best Buy around different holidays today.
Speaker 2 (28:54):
But he has so nos have you heard of that?
Like with the app? Okay, those are oh my gosh, yeah,
those are price the one I wanted to get the
sound bar it was like nine hundred, so I got
like the mini. Okay, I'm talking like you know, just
like the basics, Like it's crazy, they're a lot and
so it's like an app. You control everything. So he
has like three to listen to music on. You put
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them in different rooms.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
Abby, you're living in a smart house. This is my
dream when I watched that movie on Disney Channel Smart House.
Do you remember Smart House?
Speaker 2 (29:22):
Yeah? That was awes me too.
Speaker 1 (29:26):
Are you living in a smart house?
Speaker 2 (29:27):
I mean not really? Three speakers?
Speaker 1 (29:28):
You don't have an AI robot that take over the house?
Did she vacuum clean, turn it on and off, the lights, make.
Speaker 2 (29:37):
Food until she malfunctioned and.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Then she like became obsessed with them. It's like you're
never living.
Speaker 2 (29:42):
Oh my gosh, I want to watch that. Wait have
you not seen No? I just mean I want to
watch it again. Oh it's been a long time.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
I panic first. I was like, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (29:52):
It's so funny. It is like it's good.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
I do wonder if it holds up now Princess Diaries
holds up that in Lizzie McGuire movie, because I've definitely
watched of those multiple times in the last few years.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
You have yeah, Oh my gosh, I need to like
do a whole sometimes I.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Need just comfort and I'll throw in one of my
movies from the back and as I'm like doing other stuff,
I just need a little nostalgia or comfort in my life. Yeah,
and that's where I go to Disney Channel original movies.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
I go to Halloween. Michael Myers have the same.
Speaker 1 (30:22):
This is also watching Why you watch freaking.
Speaker 2 (30:24):
Final Destination A mo? Do you both like horror movies? Yeah?
Uh huh. He doesn't like watching them like alone. Me either.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I like watching him let alone alone.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
I love it. Oh my gosh, Halloween crazy during Halloween time.
Just give me all the scary movies by myself, like,
let's go. But anyway, wild have you seen Final Destination?
I think I saw the.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
First few because they came out in high school and
you went to the theaters with everybody. But they they
actually ruined my brain. Oh my gosh. Tanning beds, oh yeah,
b truck beds that have log the tree lodges on
them ruin my brain. I still see the roller coasters.
I already hated roller coasters, made me hate them more.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Now are that's the tree that come to mind? Oh
my gosh, yeah I do. That does happen to me now?
Now when I'm driving like a truck with all these logs,
I'm like, oh my gosh, Final Destination. See, well, I
only did it because the new one is in theaters.
So are you going to see the new one? I
do want to see it. Yeah, I haven't yet, but
I had to get all caught up on those. Now
I'm ready to go. I'm so proud of you.
Speaker 1 (31:27):
Thanks, even though I don't understand why those, but I
am so proud of you. One that you had a
movie marathon and two that you're watching movies.
Speaker 2 (31:32):
I need to be shocked. I know, I am shocked.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
Yeah, did you ever watch any of the other ones
that I told you?
Speaker 2 (31:38):
Did you ever which one?
Speaker 1 (31:40):
I don't remember that? That was in the Sun from
like a year ago. I think when we're in the
old studio.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
There were shows or movies, there were movies. Well I
put one of that. Yeah, I loved it. Are they
coming out with another one?
Speaker 1 (31:56):
We're supposed to be But that was like five years ago.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
Because I see it on Netflix, it's like one of
the top ten movies. I was like, huh, it's always is.
It's so good. I thought they were doing it to like,
you know, get you ready for the next one coming out.
Speaker 1 (32:08):
But no, I hope so trust me that the day
that comes you will see me post about it.
Speaker 2 (32:11):
I will be so excited. Okay, let me know when
you here, well I think I was one.
Speaker 1 (32:16):
It was one, and you have your You're getting your
real ID as we were about to record this.
Speaker 2 (32:22):
Yes, uh huh, like after this.
Speaker 1 (32:24):
Wait, so you're not actually gonna physically get it because
it takes a few days to get to you, so
obviously like a few weeks.
Speaker 2 (32:29):
But I'm going to do the process. That's what it is.
I gotta go, like, do my hair. I want to
look good. Wait, but you got an appointment. I couldn't
get an appointment.
Speaker 1 (32:35):
When I did this way back in February until July.
Speaker 2 (32:39):
Oh my gosh. No, I don't know how I got lucky.
I think somebody had a cancelation, because yeah, they were
not until like July fifteenth. And then I just looked
one day and I was like, oh my gosh, there's
an opening in Nashville. That's actually Franklin, so but it's outside.
But still the other ones I was looking in like
two hours away. It was like Chattanooga in the appointments, but.
Speaker 1 (32:59):
It really was, And I mean because I when I
went and did it. It was one day when Bobby
was traveling, and I went as soon as they opened,
literally eight thirty.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
I was there as the doors were supposed to open. Yeah,
there was a line.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
There was before the doors even opened, and I was
fourteenth the line.
Speaker 2 (33:16):
Oh my god, I sat there for three hours. Do
you have to take like a driver's test?
Speaker 1 (33:21):
No?
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Or like do they check your eyes? You're just getting renewal,
are you? Yeah? They do check your eyes?
Speaker 1 (33:26):
Oh god, but no, you do not have to do
a driver's test.
Speaker 2 (33:31):
Okay, did you well? When did you have your other?
It's a long time, so you're just about to expire
this year my eyes. So I think it's been like
what ten years?
Speaker 1 (33:39):
But you're sure you don't, Oh you're sure you don't
have a real idea already though, No I don't.
Speaker 2 (33:44):
Huh, But I look like so bad in my current one.
So I'm really excited.
Speaker 1 (33:48):
You're gonna go get all dulled up.
Speaker 2 (33:49):
Like people like make comments like people at the airport,
they're like, whoa, that doesn't even look like you. I'm like, good,
thank you, thanks.
Speaker 1 (33:56):
I think they just have to entertain themselves somehow. Maybe
when I were Bay, I always got questioned you did, yeah,
because my ID picture never had banks right. So when
I would go there like this isn't you, I'm like
I'd literally pull all my banks back and be like hello,
and I'm like.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Oh it is.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
I'm like, get that haircut?
Speaker 2 (34:14):
Yeah, Oh, we can't get our picture taken every week.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
Update this because I got a new hairstyle.
Speaker 2 (34:21):
Is really funny. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:23):
I think they just like to have fun with that.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
I'm just nervous that I'm going to be missing something,
Like they're gonna be like, did you put this stuff
in online?
Speaker 1 (34:30):
Because you can put this stuff in like your documents
online to get approved, and then you just bring.
Speaker 2 (34:34):
All the documents that got approved. Oh no, I didn't.
You didn't do that. I'm old school. I just like
to show up.
Speaker 1 (34:40):
Okay, but you're gonna be one of those people who
gets turned away. You know how many people I wash
get turned away?
Speaker 2 (34:44):
Are you serious? I have everything I need. I have
my birth certificate, my cecil security card.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
Proof of address, like a bill, yeah, a bill for
your house okay, two different ones?
Speaker 2 (34:54):
Do you also have?
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Let me just look it up for all the people
who need help because apparently old school.
Speaker 2 (35:01):
Yeah, what if we don't want to do technology.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
It's literally on the government website. It is Yes, all
you do is type it in ABBY. You need real
ID required documents, proof of US citizen citizenship or illegal presence,
proof of your full Social Security number, and two proofs
of Tennessee residency. But I think they're specific about those,
so you either need two. So a current utility bill,
(35:28):
current bank stand at, current mortgage, or deal of sale,
employer verification, paycheck workstuff something like that. You need two
of those from list A, and then you need one
from list B, which is your taxpayer identification number Form
I ninety four from the United States Citizenship or the
(35:51):
I seven. There's a lot of numbers, a lot of
it is HEARDing members. Why Okay, I would double check
it before you go, and I would bring more than
you think you need, because at the very least is
all in your hands. I watched so many people get
turned off, like they literally were like, no, you don't
have what you need.
Speaker 2 (36:05):
Oh that's so bad.
Speaker 1 (36:06):
Oh I can't imagine, especially because you did get an appointment.
I know, just very far you have everything you could
ever want, And imagine okay. I even tell people like
getting their names changed, and they if they had the
signature in the wrong place on like the.
Speaker 2 (36:22):
Marriage certificate, they'd get turned away. Oh.
Speaker 1 (36:24):
I witnessed a lot in my three hours while I
was there. I had a lot of friends too.
Speaker 2 (36:28):
You were fourteen in line and you were there three hours.
Speaker 1 (36:31):
They sat on number nine for like two hours. It
was moving really fast. I was like, yeah, we're gonna
get in and out.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
And then it just sat there and I.
Speaker 1 (36:38):
Was like, are you kidding me?
Speaker 2 (36:39):
They all went to lunch.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Something happened. I felt like the scene in Zudopia with
the freaking sauce.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
Yeah, that is so funny. It's my favorite scenes. Yeah,
it's so accurate, like they would do that. That's the
animal that's going to be in.
Speaker 1 (36:53):
It is and that is exactly what it was like,
That's how it was.
Speaker 2 (36:57):
In my brain.
Speaker 1 (36:57):
All I was picturing was slows and slats are my
favorite animal. I cannot understand it.
Speaker 2 (37:07):
So, yeah, I don't I feel for people going through that.
Oh yeah, I feel for myself at least you though, Yeah, okay, yeah,
there are fun things happening in your life before we
jump out of here. Anything else. I want to add,
Oh my gosh, I don't think so. Just living life? Yeah, living,
living life, living, living life? Are you living large? Living loving?
(37:29):
What is it living? Love and fishing, fishing, loving every one.
Speaker 1 (37:34):
Hunting fishing and living every day?
Speaker 2 (37:36):
Is that what you're trying to do?
Speaker 1 (37:37):
Sung?
Speaker 2 (37:38):
Yeah, I haven't been hunting yet. I mean I haven't
been fishing lately, so, but I am loving every day.
What about you living every day? Oh? I was gonna
ask you hot take.
Speaker 1 (37:49):
Do you feel like Riley Green shaming his mustache or
Morgan Wallen shaming his mullet was more controversial? Oh more
broke the internet.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
It's probably the better word to say. I think Morgan mullin.
I just remember it being just a huge when he
like cut it off and like completely cut his hair.
Speaker 1 (38:11):
It was a wild moment because the mullet was so
profound throughout when he like spiked in his stardom into
like the peak kind of.
Speaker 2 (38:20):
His career, it was just gone. Because I feel like
Riley didn't have his mustache that much. Like we wouldn't
be like, what artist has a mustache and think Riley Green?
I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Now, Yeah, but to your point, he's I think he
started having it. If I remember, I saw an interview
that Ella Langley wanted him to have it for the
U like you Look Like You Love Me video music video, Yeah,
and told him to keep it or he had it
and he was gonna shave it off and She's like.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Keep it, and then he kept and he's.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
Kept it when now I was gone, and I wonder.
I also wonder if there's also the theories online that
has to do with all that drama.
Speaker 2 (38:55):
Yeah, what is going on? I don't know, man.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
But then I also saw La post a TikTok video
her literally stirring the pot and saying something like she
was singing a song from Caitlin butts of like some
dang it. I wish I knew what the lyric was,
but it was like if I was talking about you
know it or likes something to that effect.
Speaker 2 (39:14):
That's funny.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
So there's certainly things happening, yeah, and I just don't
know they're just messing with us. Though also at this point,
because I have this feeling sometimes when like people think
stuff is happening with me or they try and get info,
I'll be like, let me stir the pot because it's funny.
They're playing the game.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
I know, I think they are. That's a thing, and
then having a show after the next day, people are
saying they were normal, so like, yeah, gow do.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
You know they performed at Stand in my Boots and yeah,
seemed fun.
Speaker 2 (39:42):
She brought him out like she invited him during her time, right,
and she didn't have to. Yeah, she could have.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Been like if it's so bad, she could have been like, yeah,
I'm not bringing you out. Yeah, I'll get somebody else
to do it, like she really could have.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
So I'm confused. I don't know. I don't really follow
that that much. Like I know there's a lot happening,
but I feel like people and skew it either way,
Like people were zooming up on Mega Maroni when they
won the award there, like look at her face and
I looked at it and I was just like, she
just was standing there. What else is she supposed to do?
So like I don't know, I really don't know.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
I know it's so it's so funny and I don't
even get that invested, and then it just all starts
showing up on my fee and then I'm just next thing.
Speaker 2 (40:19):
I know, I'm down a rabbit hole. I'm like, why
am I here? Yep, oh, it's gonna don't actually care
now that we're talking about it even more videos.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
I know that was so that was a funny thing
that I was watching online. But I do think it's
hilarious when dudes cut their mustaches. I love a mustache.
I also don't mind a mustache if you don't have one,
vice versa. I'm kind of indifferent, but I do think
it's funny because I remember this very vividly when my dad,
my dad, my entire childhood, had a mustache, and then
(40:48):
when we were in high school, we were convinced he
should shave it. We're like, get rid of it, no
longer the mustache. And I cried when he shaved his
mushats because I thought he looked like a naked morat.
I was like, where did he go? And he's like,
you told me.
Speaker 2 (41:05):
To shave it.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
I was like, I know, but put it back?
Speaker 2 (41:07):
Did he get it bad? Does he have one? No?
He doesn't, Okay, And now I'm used to it.
Speaker 1 (41:11):
You know, it was just that initial moment picture, but
dudes do kind of look a little bit like a
naked mole rat when they shaved the mustache, you know.
Speaker 2 (41:19):
Yeah, yeah, No. When I looked at the Riley Green picture,
I'm like, oh.
Speaker 1 (41:23):
Not in like a bad way. It's just like it's
just full blown, like straight clean shade. Just feels like
a naked mole rat.
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Because I like how it reminds me of yeah, you know,
because Riley always has scruff, and then he would just
like full of like, oh, I didn't even recognize him.
It was weird. I know, and he.
Speaker 1 (41:41):
Still looks great, but it's just I don't know why
I will because of my dad. Mustachesn't no longer have
a mustache remind me of naked mole rats.
Speaker 2 (41:50):
Oh my gosh, your poor dad.
Speaker 1 (41:52):
He didn't look like from that.
Speaker 2 (41:54):
He didn't look like one.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
I just for some reason associated the two.
Speaker 2 (41:59):
Yeah, oh, if you're listening.
Speaker 1 (42:02):
My dad always listened, so for sure called me about
this one. Hey, Dad, like, really a naked moulerat.
Speaker 2 (42:12):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:12):
Okay, I have I have a question. I am considering
creating starting doing a co ed softball and or volleyball team.
Speaker 2 (42:22):
But should I Am I too old for that? No?
My boyfriend does it. He does volleyball. See volleyball. What
do you want to play on our team. Who he maybe,
but the only thing with him is it's hard because
it's usually on like the same night, like every Tuesday. Yeah,
and every other Tuesday. He wouldn't be able to with
his kids. That's fair. Well, you all you can find it,
(42:43):
that's all that matters. But yeah, oh no, you're not
too old. That's fun. I'm considered. I'm all about it.
But also all the softball stuff, like you've the home one.
I didn't want to admit this.
Speaker 1 (42:54):
I had, like I went and did some practicing since
it's been a minute since I practiced because I didn't
get a plan in the softball Game of the Year
prior because of my sister's wedding and bachelortt stuff. So
I went and did some like practice. I think I
might have messed up my shoulder, and so like then
I did the home run derby and I was like,
I'm just gonna have to suck.
Speaker 2 (43:12):
This up and do this. It's still hurt. Yeah, oh shit,
how do you mess it up? I don't know.
Speaker 1 (43:17):
It's like I think I just might have bruised it
because it's like the rot I don't know that I
actually like hurt my rotator cuff. I think it might
just be super inflamed or something. But I'm also like
I want to start these things. I'm like, am I
too old? And since that my body is.
Speaker 2 (43:30):
Oh god, okay, yeah when you say it that way,
I know is just a number.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
Your body ounce back in the same way. No, it
really very active. But every time I get injured, man,
I mean like when I broke my tailbone rollerblading, or
like when I ruined my hip from doing gymnastics. Every time,
it takes me at least six months to recover.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
Oh yeah, that's why I say no to a lot
of like ice skating, like it scares me.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
But I get to I love activities, so I do too.
Maybe I just need to be like the Michelin man,
like put me in just like shit, right up there,
you go all the pads, and then I can play.
Speaker 2 (44:05):
The sand volleyball. Oh that's gonna be fun, right because
I've been playing.
Speaker 1 (44:09):
My boyfriend plays sand volleyball a lot, and I've been
playing filling in on some of his teams because I
used to be a lebarro and like a back row hitter.
But also, sand volleyball is drastically different from court volleyball.
Speaker 2 (44:19):
Oh my gosh, I like subbed in one time with mine.
It's not great. Did you play? No, I'm a runner,
that is true and basketball, but yeah I did not.
Volleyball is not my thing. It would break my wrist
if someone spiked it hard enough and I tried to hit.
Oh a snap, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
You're not supposed to hit with riz What where do
you hit?
Speaker 2 (44:40):
You're supposed to hit on your forearms.
Speaker 1 (44:42):
Well, like when you put your hands out right, like yeah,
close your fists together and you bump with your fore arms.
If it hits your wrists, like, you're not hitting correctly.
There are some people who will like hit it with
the back of their wrist because they're like last minute reaction.
Speaker 2 (44:57):
Okay, that's see, that's where I messed up. But you're
I supposed to Oh my whole rist was brown, like
black and blue, like it was bruised so bad. After that?
Speaker 1 (45:08):
Were you trying to set? Because if you were setting too,
you you just like your hands and setting, but you
were bumping. You're attempting to bump, and it hit on
top of your wrist.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
Yeah, just like right here. It was right here on
that bone on the inside by your thumb. Yeah that's bad, girlfriend,
Yeah it was really bad. I'm just very.
Speaker 1 (45:27):
You're like, I would not like to sell it never, No,
not really.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
Yeah, I mean maybe Okay, I played t ball, Okay,
that's righte Like during the derby, you guys did like
Bobby's like, Abby you want to hit. I'm like, oh,
I think I'm good. I'm good. I don't know how
this will go. I haven't touched to bat in like
fifty years. Yeah, fifty fifteen. Yeah, well that's where I
(45:52):
am right now. But don't hurt your shoulder worse.
Speaker 1 (45:55):
I know I'm having to take a break from the
gym tune. It's just not I'm not very happy about it.
Speaker 2 (45:58):
But here I am.
Speaker 1 (46:00):
Truly, that's the worst I know. So anyways, we're get
out of here. Okay, thanks for being here hanging out
with me. You're welcome answering all the questions. Are you
gonna have a vulnerability hangover? Are you okay?
Speaker 2 (46:12):
No? I should be Okay, Okay, I had one after
on the show. You did just a little.
Speaker 1 (46:17):
Those are hard, but you did great. You didn't do
anything wrong, and you were authentic and you shared your story.
Speaker 2 (46:24):
M hm. Yeah, I'm just sharing my story.
Speaker 1 (46:26):
It is your story, Okay, you're like smiling, never mind
telling people where they can find to hear you all.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
That good stuff on Instagram at Abby Lee Anderson.
Speaker 1 (46:37):
Woo, and go subscribe to the show YouTube page at
Bobby Bone Show and you can follow me at what
Girl Morgan. I did have a semi hard launch that
feels weird to.
Speaker 2 (46:47):
Say, and it was pretty hard.
Speaker 1 (46:51):
No, okay, medium.
Speaker 2 (46:52):
Hard, yeah is good, so my heart. Anyways.
Speaker 1 (46:56):
Bye, that's the best bits of the week with more.
Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other
two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all
social platforms Bobby.
Speaker 2 (47:06):
Bob Show and follow at Webgirl
Speaker 1 (47:08):
Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.
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