Amy & Morgan Exchange Boyfriend Stories

It was a girl chat kind of weekend! Amy and Morgan ask each other details about their boyfriends. Amy shares life updates about her kids and perimenopause. They talk about their time in Austin for the iHeartCountry Festival.

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
One behind a scene with a member of the show.
Happy Saturday. Everyone joining me this weekend on Best Bits
is Amy. How are you Amy?

Speaker 1 (00:13):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (00:14):
Excited to be here?

Speaker 1 (00:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Catch up on the all things going on in your life. Well,
we're gonna start with the one thing that I was
getting so many questions about, and it is both of
our boyfriends.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
Oh okay, Oh, I do have a few.

Speaker 2 (00:27):
Specific questions okay, but and these are from listeners. These
are not me. I'll have my questions after. Okay, perfect,
because this is not the question part. But when there's
so many of one thing, I reserve it for a
space be where we can just talk all about that.
So most attractive thing about your new boyfriends to you, guys,
this is coming from Kate.

Speaker 1 (00:48):
Oh gosh, there's several things. But I do like that
he's tall. He's six' three.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
Okay oh we went physical, Okay oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:54):
Yeah but also he's, kind all, right we got we
got tall.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
Kind, yeah he's a great. Dad, okay these are good.
THINGS i would Say mine is that he Is his
love language is acts of service AND i love. It.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Oh, so what's?

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yours my giving one is acts of. Service my, sorry
my receiving one is acts of, service.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
Okay my giving.

Speaker 2 (01:27):
ONE i don't know THAT i have a specific. ONE
i try and show up in a lot of. Them
but maybe more than, anything it's quality. TIME i like
to make sure THAT i give a lot of quality.
Time BUT i also love acts of, service giving and.
Receiving M h has always been but he's very big in.
That and he's very, consistent which are two qualities that
are kind of hard to.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Find, YEAH i would say consistent is a good. One
like there's he's very, stable consistent, mine so that is.
Attractive consistency is.

Speaker 2 (02:00):
Sexy we. Have that has been a thing that we've
talked about on my. Podcast that is a trait that we.
Love and, PHYSICALLY i mean he has very nice.

Speaker 1 (02:09):
Muscles oh, yes, YEAH i saw that. Picture, yeah he
does look Like thor a little.

Speaker 2 (02:15):
Bit and he's ALSO i don't, know he's just, tall
dark and. HANDSOME i would say we're going to the physical.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Route oh did you just Say?

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Thor, yeah because the guys all Reference.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Thor, yeah they'll call Them. THOR i forgot. THAT i
put up a little question box. TOO i know this
is YOUR i was, like so just, NOW i was, like.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
Did they come in through?

Speaker 1 (02:34):
Yours, WELL i PUT i overlaid a question box on
top of your question box because IF i IF, i you,
know IF i do, yours they click on your, page
and just in case they, didn't WHICH i want them,
to but if they, clicked if they clicked the question,
box then maybe they could just ask right. Away so,
yeah and you're, right there's lots.

Speaker 2 (02:52):
Of there's lots of boyfriend.

Speaker 1 (02:53):
Questions there's lots of boyfriend. Questions, okay well Here i'll ask.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
This this is the only other specific ONE i had
that came from. IT a lot of them was just,
like talk about your. Boyfriends how does he feel about
sharing on the podcast including his?

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Name? Okay he he is okay with. It that's so
funny BECAUSE i just read a question here Is amy's,
boyfriend okay With amy talking about? Him that's From julie In.
Kansas he is okay with.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
It, YEAH i would assume that you've probably had that
conversation and he guys have talked about things much like
both you AND i have. Discussed we always ask for
it's not necessarily an, approval but just to like the
communication is. There we're not openly going to share something without.

Speaker 1 (03:37):
Are you okay IF i say? This and that's with
any of our friendships or. RELATIONSHIPS i think we've learned,
sometimes although sometimes stuff will just organically come up And i'm, like,
oh this is a good, story AND i have to
pause be, like OH i HAVEN'T i haven't asked IF
i can share this, yet So i'll have to. Wait
or sometimes it just comes out and then you ask for.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
Forgiveness, yes but more often than, not we are asking
for be, like, hey you good with. This we're not,
Guys we're not. Stupid we're Not we're not openly just
talking about other people's lives without having some version of
a reality outside of this.

Speaker 1 (04:11):
Job, yeah but to just BE i get the curiosity behind,
it because to be kind of thrown into dating somebody
that talks about their life on YEAH, prettyo it's, like,
oh how do they really feel about? It and he
was pretty okay with it from the get. GO i,
mean he's not eager to like come on and talk
like he doesn't want to.

Speaker 2 (04:31):
Be ever be a guest on your.

Speaker 1 (04:34):
PODCAST i don't think, so, okay but but that may.
CHANGE i just, know, right, Now, no he doesn't have
any interest in, that Which i'm okay.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
With, yeah and you guys hard, launched, well you hard
launched a picture of you guys On. INSTAGRAM i, did
how did that? Feel it felt?

Speaker 1 (04:53):
Good but we had been In. CHARLESTON i posted the
picture that you're talking about we took In, charleston WHICH
i think was two weeks BEFORE i posted. It SO
i didn't really post that much while we were In,
charleston AND i didn't really post much of our trip.
Anyway BUT i had that picture AND i just thought
it was sweet and, cute AND i, thought, WELL i

(05:15):
Guess i'll make this the cover shot for the month Of.

Speaker 2 (05:20):
April after you posted, it was there any like second
hand where you're, like, oh MAYBE i shouldn't have or
were you just, like, yes this feels.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Good, no it felt. Good my ex husband. Been he
did say something to me, later BECAUSE i think he
saw it like a week, like because he doesn't spend
a lot of time On instagram or, anything but he
does have an. Account we has a work, one but
then he has this other account where he posts nothing
but our daughter's On instagram and he follows her and
he uses it to keep up with certain. Things and he, said, oh,

(05:52):
HEY i didn't know we were posting like our. PEOPLE
i think that what he's referring to is way back,
whenever maybe we were first getting divorced or, something or
maybe even we were still, married but someone we knew
had gotten divorced and they were just in a new

(06:12):
relationship and putting it all over social. Media and he said, That,
okay now That i'm thinking this, THROUGH i didn't plan
on talking about, this BUT i don't need to Ask
ben's permission BECAUSE i know that he'd be fine with
me telling the. Story but now THAT i think about,
it we definitely were still married because it was at
a couple we knew that got divorced and then the

(06:33):
husband was like posting all these pictures of him and
his new, person AND i just was, like it just was.
Cringey it felt, Weird AND i said to, HIM i was,
like this could never be. Us and maybe that's a
little foreshadowing, there BECAUSE i don't know at the time
THAT i knew we would end up getting. Divorced But i'm,
like oh my, gosh if we were to ever be
in this, situation, like we cannot do, that AND i

(06:54):
guess he held onto that because then he said something to.
Me he's, LIKE i thought we weren't supposed to be those.
People we we're like posting all this. Stuff AND i,
SAID i don't really feel like that was posting all
that stuff now THAT i know what you're referring. To
we were. That it was just like very much in our,
face like, everywhere and it was a shady. SITUATION i,

(07:15):
SAID i think all the variables are very very. Different
AND i posted a picture of, us and so he's, like, oh,
okay good to. Know it was like all, Right not
that he has social media that he, uses BUT i
guess if he wanted, to and he were to post
him and who he's, dating because he had a girlfriend
for a year but they broke, up but they didn't he,
didn't he didn't ever post about.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
Her it's so interesting to me just hearing how much
you're navigating and these new waters of having a, boyfriend you,
have your ex, husband all these just kind of pieces
and balancing things that you're. Doing does that do you
ever think about?

Speaker 1 (07:51):
That, NO i think we're just Doing but, yeah looking
at it, all sometimes it can feel like a. Lot
IF i focus on, it but, no it's just, like,
oh we got to navigate. THIS i, Know ben AND
i haven't been exchanging like five hundred texts and emails
trying to figure out our summer schedule because it different
travel and camps that the kids have and different. Things

(08:13):
we can't stick with our Typical friday To, friday which
is what we do are week, on week, off because he's, like,
OH i want to take the kids to do this this,
week And i'm, like, well this is when we have
show vacation AND i would like to take the kids,
here but that happens to be a week that he's
supposed to have. Them so there's just a lot of
coordinating that has to. Happen and that's when it makes
me thankful That ben AND i are in such a healthy,

(08:36):
place BECAUSE i would imagine if we weren't that would
just make stuff like. This it's already grueling just trying
to like tetras sometimes making it all, work but if
you add in a layer of disdain and discuss and
you know how some people really feel about and having

(08:57):
to work with AN x man would be. Painful SO
i have a level of gratitude for where we are
and how we navigate. It, so, yeah it's not as
much as it could, be you know WHAT i. Mean, Yeah,
NO I.

Speaker 2 (09:12):
I totally hear, that and it's made me think. Too
JUST i think it's harder probably for you to see
in that. Moment But i'm just sitting here in a
lot of respect for you that you're going through just
a lot of different changes and phases all at the
same time and learning constantly while it's all.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
Happening, yeah they, met But ben Met alex for the first.
Time how did it? Go it was really. Good it happened,
organically and he stopped by the house After sashira's, birthday
And alex didn't go to the birthday. Party he was
invited By, sashira and he's, like, Look ben AND i

(09:50):
haven't met. YET i don't want that to steal any
of the, spotlight So i'll just stop by the house.
After and Then ben AND i sat by each other
at dinner and we were talking AND i, said you,
KNOW i rode here with your parents because his parents
were in town and they wanted to come over and
hang out with. Me so THEN i just rode with
them to. DINNER i, said they're going to drop me.
Off so they're going to be, there SO i bet
they'll Meet. Alex why don't you stop by and meet him.
Too let's just rip this band aid off Because i've

(10:12):
been waiting for it to happen and it hadn't happened,
yet AND i just, thought maybe now it's a good.
Time and Then ben said. Okay so it's a little awkward,
though Because ben always comes through the back. Door he
won't just walk, in but he always parks in the
back and comes through the. Porch and this time we're all.
Inside his parents are, There alex is, there the kids are,

(10:34):
there And ben, parks goes to the front, door. Knocks
he can see us all through the, window so you'd
think you'd just be, like, hey walk, in so. Knocks
everything just seemed very, formal and then he comes in
and he sticks his hand out and he goes to
Meet alex and they both shake and they do first
and last, name real firm grip and just, clear like you, know.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
Be, like, yeah are you holding your breath in that,
moment just kind.

Speaker 1 (10:59):
Of like watching it. Happen and my Friend cat was
there AND i was looking at her AND i was,
like what is? Happening right. Now why are they both
acting so? Weird you?

Speaker 2 (11:07):
Know but it is better to be formal than. INFORMAL
i suppose in that.

Speaker 1 (11:10):
Situation like be like walking through my front door and
then making a beeline and being Like Amy, brown nice
to meet, you and then you'd be Like Morgan, hewlesman
and so, yeah it. Was it was good. THOUGH i feel,
Relief and that was one of my feelings on my
podcast this week With Therapy, cat the cat that was

(11:31):
at my house that. Night she's my friend also, cat
but she's cry okat The Therapy cat AND i talked
about on the podcast because we have a feeling of
the day on Our Feeling things, Podcast and my feeling
was relief that that finally happened AND i can like
exhale and it, went it went, well and SO i
want TO i want to celebrate that and soak it
up AND i look for more. Interactions ben had told

(11:54):
me at one point early on in a divorce THAT
i had this fantasy in my head that made be
whoever we ended up dating next or being with in the,
future that we would all take family vacations. Together, Okay
and he THOUGHT i was In La La, land AND
i will say in the relationship he was in for that,

(12:14):
year that was definitely a lot of land statement that
would not have. Happened that just would Not AND i
can understand. THAT i can understand if some people feel that,
way like there's, separation you don't want to have a
relationship with that, Person, Okay But ben AND i share,
kids and we've known each other since we were, kids
AND i think our dynamic is just different than a

(12:36):
lot of other. Relationships AND i don't, KNOW i, Started
i'm starting to think, like, oh we could be LIKE
i don't know that that would really really, happen but
we're closer to. It it doesn't seem like so crazy right.
Now If ben were to be in a relationship and
then we all were decided to like all go hang
out and take the kids and do something.

Speaker 2 (12:57):
Well AND i don't feel like it's as weird because
even listening to you talk about, it you already have
an interesting dynamic in the fact that you're really close
To benn's. Parents that's an important thing for you because
of so many different life. Events they've been involved in
your life since you were very. Young they're around a
lot his ex or His how do you say widowed his,

(13:21):
wife oh my.

Speaker 1 (13:22):
Boyfriend. Yes oh so his wife is in, laws he
has a father in.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
Law, YES i was going to say THAT i would
imagine it's.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
Involved, Yeah i've met. Him i've met him a couple times.

Speaker 2 (13:36):
Because he would want them close to. Them so you
have some interesting dynamics happening here that you guys are
all being very mature and understanding and connecting on. THAT
i don't think this idea that you have is really
that far. Fetched, yeah, no because a lot isn't could
have handle those, dynamics and you guys are handling multiple.

Speaker 1 (13:59):
DYNAMICS i wouldn't say my situation With, Alex i'm handling it,
perfectly But i'm. Trying AND i had no issues meeting
her dad and her twin sister and her best. Friends
i've met them, all and because it's like there's that

(14:19):
would not be happening if they had got, divorced if
they had been divorced and she was still, Alive, like,
Obviously i'm probably not gonna meet her best, friends but
they're all in a place where they knew before she passed.
Away she, SAID i Want alex to meet somebody make
sure that that happens sort of. Things so her best
friends are giddy over the moon That alex has met
somebody and he's dating. Somebody they're, like oh, gosh you,

(14:41):
know and it's gonna be hard for them, because, yeah
their best friend passed. Away they also. Know part of
something she shared when she was dying WAS i hope
he meets, somebody and now they're, like, oh, yay this is,
happening and so, yeah it. Is it's interesting territory THAT
i never thought i'd be.

Speaker 2 (15:00):
Navigating but, well you're doing it from a bird's eye,
view you're doing it. Beautifully. THANKS i know when you're in,
it it seems a lot. Different there's a lot of things,
happening but from my, perspective you're handling it really, well
and you're navigating as best as somebody possibly could given
a lot of different.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
Factors thank.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
You SO i hope you know That.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
I'm learning how to receive praise or compliments cats seeing
a Therapy. Cat in the, podcast she gave us tips
for receiving, compliments and she, said you, know research, shows
especially for, women it's really hard to just receive a,
compliment like we feel like we have to be like
if someone's, like oh nice. Shirt you'd be, like oh, this,
UGH i felt gross this, morning or oh This i've
had it, forever like you feel like you have to

(15:37):
instead of just saying thank, you and so her tip
number one is you just say thank you and then
your head go, pause, pause, pause. Pods so right Now
i'm trying to receive you saying That i'm handling it
beautifully from what you can, tell And i'm going to
go thank, you and in my head pods pause, pause
pose like not say anything. Else, OH i don't have
to say, anything just thank.

Speaker 2 (15:56):
YOU i need to do. This my boyfriend loves to
be very kind to, me and he's always giving me
compliments AND i deflect all of. Them i'm, Like I'M
i am literally like if you put up a DEFLECTOR
i am. It he'll compliment me and he's, Like i'll
be like.

Speaker 1 (16:11):
You cann't stop AND.

Speaker 2 (16:13):
I don't believe. That Or i'll say something just totally
off put and he's, like where did that even come?
From and he'll just look at me and Say, morgan
AND i just have to look at him. BACK i
say thank, you like very.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
Quietly now you can go thank. You paus, pus paus.

Speaker 2 (16:28):
Paus he's gonna be, like why are you saying? Pas i'm,
Like i'm trying to make this happen in my. Head
SO i get. It it's hard and we've been conditioned
a certain way and it gets hard to break that.
Habit we're gonna take a quick. Break we'll be. Back
we have more to talk. About have you had this
where you're learning an entirely new? Language SO i remember

(16:49):
you bringing up, football and he watches football a. Lot
my boyfriend's very interested in golf until he'll text me
when he's out, golfing and he the other day he was,
LIKE i got a, birdie And i'm like, googling what
the heck is a? Birdie And i'm trying to learn
and understand this whole new language of golf BECAUSE i
NEVER i knew golf. EXISTED i had boyfriends that played,
before BUT i was never truly. Invested and now when

(17:10):
he texted, Me i'm, like dang, IT i have to
learn all these new. Terms and some listener messaged me
that a pro tip in golf is anything with a
bird is good, news anything not with a bird. Questionable
so she's, like pro tip if you ever get a
bird text, message it means good, good don't know what it,
means AND i have to go. Further but So i'm

(17:31):
learning an entirely new language right, now and that language is.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
Golf, Yeah i'm going to need to pick up on.
Golf that's something that we've decided we're gonna start doing more.
Together he, plays he doesn't play as much as he wants.
To that's why he wants us to play together so
we can play. More and his fifteen year old son
is getting really into, it SO i think he also
that's the way he wants to bond with his. Son,
yeah SO i see more golf in my. Future SO

(17:55):
i got a golf skirt the other.

Speaker 2 (17:56):
DAY i love that you went straight to golf skirt
and golf clubs or, YEAH i don't.

Speaker 1 (18:01):
KNOW i don't need my own CLUBS i, yet BUT
i assume IF i start playing more THAN i. Will
BUT i got a cute.

Speaker 2 (18:11):
Skirt, well we love A q. Shirt that's where it. Starts,
remember the outfit helps us get excited about.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
Something, yeah Like Deone. Sanders if you look, good you feel.
Good if you feel, good you play. Good, yeah if
you play, good they pay.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
GOOD i didn't know that was the any part of.
THAT i THINK i always ever just heard if you look,
good you feel. Good if you feel if.

Speaker 1 (18:29):
You look, good you feel. Good if you feel, good
you play. Good that's WHAT i pay. Good they pay.

Speaker 2 (18:33):
Good that last, ONE i did not. Know that is new.
Information but, yeah that's where my territory is right. Now
and if you want to ask any, questions you. Can
BUT i just grilled, you So i'm giving you space
to now go me back if you.

Speaker 1 (18:46):
Well LIKE i, mean what about your boyfriend being a
part of any of your, Stuff like you have a,
podcast and do you think that that's something one day
he would? EVER i MEAN i feel LIKE i know
it's a little, early but Sometimes ben would do stuff with.
Me and even After ben AND i, divorced he came
on the podcast and we talked a little bit about co.
Parenting but is that and that was Not BEN'S i would.

(19:06):
Say out of the seventeen years that we were, married
AND i was on the radio the whole time we were,
TOGETHER i, mean he was. Involved he was involved with a,
microphone LIKE i could fit it all one.

Speaker 2 (19:18):
Hand, Probably, YEAH i don't know THAT i would ever
like a show scenario that feels Like i'm just walking
him into a lions, den you know WHAT i. Mean
but on my, podcast, YEAH i think he would be
so up for.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
It what do you think you would talk? About like
use you're very into therapy and you're Podcast lean's, Therapeutic
like is he open to?

Speaker 2 (19:37):
Therapy, Yes and he's very mental health. Focused and he
also has a crazy life story THAT i would love
to share and he would love to share. Someday that's really.
Cool and also just our relationship and meeting and because
it was in real life and it was kind of
fate playing a hand in all of that versus dating

(19:58):
apps and stuff that stories. Interesting all my friends love
to hear, it like gives them hope that you can
still meet the old school. Away so those two, things
and he's super. Supportive he will always take photos and
videos of me all the time without me ever, asking
just he's like, HERE i took all these And i'm,
like what when did you even do?

Speaker 1 (20:15):
That like if you're just like what are you?

Speaker 2 (20:17):
Doing like If i'm putting together flower bouquets Or i'm
hanging out with the, animals like he's just always he
loves snapping photos and, videos WHICH i.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
Love that's helpful.

Speaker 2 (20:26):
Because I've i've always dated people who kind of resented
that part about me THAT i wanted to take photos
and pictures and you, know do my little food posts
or any anything like. That it just felt like it
was always a. Burden and with, him there is none of.
That he's he loves capturing. Content he's not even a content.
Person he just likes creating memories through.

Speaker 1 (20:47):
Photos and he's not trying to be like an he.
Doesn't he's not asking you to capture.

Speaker 2 (20:53):
Content, no, No but LIKE i love taking pictures and
videos of him because that's WHO i was before and
he loves. That and he's, like nobody ever took videos
and stuff of. Me this is a really Cool it
was like nobody ever took them on. Me so this
is a cool moment that we're. Having and SO i
don't there's no part of me now that feels burdened
in that, aspect at least in my side of my.

Speaker 1 (21:13):
Career how long has it been at this, point were
over a month and a. Half, so, LIKE i guess
your parents will meet him In june when they come
for sea.

Speaker 2 (21:22):
Fans, yes, yes they will meet. Him they're very. Excited
i've met.

Speaker 1 (21:26):
Have they like face timed with?

Speaker 2 (21:27):
Them, yes they've met on, FaceTime and he's met one
of my sisters on FaceTime and My i've met his
whole family besides his. Dad dad hasn't been down, yet
But i've met everybody. Else so it feels, safe it feels,
good it feels right in a lot of. Ways but
there's just you, know there's still walls THAT i have

(21:48):
up that are slowly coming. DOWN i think over the
course of time that's the only thing that will really
make those come. Down BUT i have this kind of
arbitrary timelines in my head of, well maybe in like six,
months it'll feel Like i'll Feel, okay he's not going,
Anywhere but it's just me and my past like kind
of speaking to me and trying to make me feel

(22:08):
LIKE i have to pay attention to these arbitrary timelines
that happened in my past relationships or situations where something.
Happened So i'm really trying to fight those back and
just allow it to be good and safe and, happy
because that's what it. Is, yeah you, KNOW i haven't
had any reason not to feel that. Way it's really
just more my past situations that like to try and

(22:31):
creep in WHICH i was prepared. For my therapists THAT
i had for a really long, time especially after the abusive,
relationship told me the only way THAT i would ever
truly heal is like WHEN i felt really safe in
a relationship to let things down and guards. Down And
i've had moments of that in, relationships BUT i don't

(22:52):
know That i've HAD i think it was going to
take the right whoever was going to be the right
one for it to truly my healing to truly. FINISH
i don't know if that makes any, sense Because i've
had lessons That i've had a lot of growth and a
lot of learning and past, relationships BUT i think Whoever
i'm supposed to marry is the one will be the

(23:12):
one where the remainder of the really hard healing is
going to happen for, me like, internally.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
Right that makes.

Speaker 2 (23:20):
Sense, so and it feels like that's kind of happening
in a, way and that scares, Me AND i Think
i'm pushing back on her a lot of like, No
i'm not ready for that. Yet, yeah you, know so it's,
interesting you, know like you, mentioned it's this, internal you're
just fighting a lot of things and trying to understand what's,
happening trying to understand yourself and your body and what's

(23:41):
going on in all these different, moments while also just
trying to enjoy the, present the good that's happening to.
You so it's an interesting experience That i'm happening right.
Now but so, far no, flags lots of.

Speaker 1 (23:54):
Happiness, yeah he sounds like a. Dream he is.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
Everybody all my friends are like obsessed with. THEM i
literally got it text from my friend the other day
that was, Like, morgan your boyfriend is the sweetest guy,
ever even at five, am because he goes to the
gym and he'll go work out and she sees. Him
she goes to this gym, too and she's, like he's
literally the kindest. HUMAN i was, like that's all you ever, want,
right is for not only you to feel that, way

(24:18):
but everybody around you to also feel that same way about, them.

Speaker 1 (24:23):
Especially if they're nice at five. Am, right who's nice
at five? Am i'm.

Speaker 2 (24:28):
Not i'm a little little hungry and steepy girl all the.
Time so but, yeah that's where we.

Speaker 1 (24:34):
Are, well that's. EXCITING i KNOW i.

Speaker 2 (24:37):
Need an update on the kiddos before we go into
our Next.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
Gray, WELL i was gonna, SAY i would like TO
i look forward to meeting.

Speaker 2 (24:42):
Him oh, yeah you definitely.

Speaker 1 (24:43):
Will, yeah my kids Or i'm like my kids Are they're,
Like i've got.

Speaker 2 (24:49):
All the kids whatever you want to, say.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Three other, kids but they're not. There i'm not, there,
mom we're Not we're taking things. Slow but let's see my. Kids,
stevenson they're about to finish.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
School istash about to finish.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Finish, No, no she's a junior's one more year. Left,
yeah even though she just turned. Eighteen she's obviously with
the adoption and them getting here, late like we held them,
Back like, stevensince you, know fourteen and still in junior.
High or and he's gonna be fifteen this summer and
he'll still be in junior. High but they're both doing really.
Great Like. Stevenson last, NIGHT i don't, know just bedtime

(25:31):
last night was really. Sweet like. EVERYBODY i was, like,
hey it's time for, bed and nobody fought me on.
It everybody just went to. Bed and THEN i go
to their rooms AND i say good, Night but his
door was already shut and the dog was in, there
so didn't want to open it because the dog will run.
Out she loves coming to my. Room and so just
through the, DOOR i was, like good, Night. Stephenson and

(25:52):
then he just yelled so, loud probably making SURE i
could hear it because his door was, shut and he was,
like good, night, Mom AND i don't, know it just
warmed my heart so, much AND i was, LIKE i
loved hearing that yeah from. Him and you, know we
went through a season with him for a little bit
where it was pretty, rough and it just reminded me
how far we have. Come and it's just a special

(26:14):
moment for. Me so when you're asking me about the,
kids That stevenson's story popped in my. Mind and then
So shiraa is doing great, Too like she's like trying
to figure out what her summer job is going to,
be trying to decide if she wants to apply at
clothing boutiques or.

Speaker 2 (26:32):
Restaurants, okay was she still working at her other?

Speaker 1 (26:36):
Restaurants she quit that one track, Seasons like she hasn't
been there AND i don't think she wants to go back.
There if she does do a, restaurant she'll do a
different one just for try some new things, out just, Diversity,
yeah a new. Experience but this one restaurant she did
want to apply, to it's a little bit further. Away
SO i had to talk to her about how the
further away you, work that's the more that you're spending

(26:56):
on gas. Money and so she was, like, OH i
don't know IF i want to do, That AND i was, like,
YEAH i, mean if that's really where you want to,
work then you weigh that out and you sacrifice the.
Gas it's. Fine but at her, Age i'm, like you could,
Work you're gonna want to work closer to, home and
SO i don't. KNOW i was encouraging to try the

(27:16):
boutique this time, around like if she just did the
restaurant thing last, time like working in retail and, clothing
AND i was, like but you may have to you, know,
start you may not be working the floor helping customers right.
Away maybe you're working in the back or doing, things
which she did have a small job steaming clothes a,
boutique which she reached out to. THEM i don't know
if she's going to they have anything for her like

(27:39):
more than. That so she's hoping for more. EXPERIENCE i
think interacting with.

Speaker 2 (27:45):
People she's still wanting to do. HAIR i know at
one moment in, time she was wanting to do beauty.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
School oh well Esthetician, okay she wanted to go for face. Stuff,
yes she's still interested in.

Speaker 2 (27:58):
That could she be a front desk a place like
that or around, YEAH.

Speaker 1 (28:02):
I think for summer they're. Not those jobs are more
difficult to get if you're just looking for. Summer but
she has asked some of my friends that are in that, field, like,
hey CAN i come shadow? You or are you looking
for an? INTERN i want to learn? More so she
could do that. Too but if she's an, INTERN i
don't think she's going to get, paid or if she's just.

(28:23):
Shadowing but she's looking to save up some money and
she's you, know starting to look at colleges and trying
to figure out applying for scholarships and stuff like.

Speaker 2 (28:34):
That so does she want to go to?

Speaker 1 (28:35):
College?

Speaker 2 (28:36):
NOW i know that was also not.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
Really, important not like she wanted to do more of
the esthetician school, route which we, supported and now she
is thinking she wants the college. EXPERIENCE i think because
some of her friends are doing college visits and she
went with her best friend to Visit, alabama and when
she came back from, THAT i think she was, Like,
OH i THINK i do want to have the college. Experience,

(29:00):
Yeah and so we'll. See we're trying not to push
it either. Way we kind of want to see where
she lands with. It But i'm excited for her if
she does do, that BECAUSE i think it'd be cool
for her to have the full blown, experiment not experiment.
Experience but she was saying the other, DAY i THINK

(29:22):
i need to get a, dog like A German shepherd
IF i go to, college AND i was, like, What
first of, all you're going to be in a small
space with. Roommates you don't have room for A German.
Shepherd they're likely not going to be allowed if you're
living in a dorm or an apartment or something like.
That and she's, like, What, no it's going to keep me,
safe LIKE i don't want to get assaulted or LIKE
i was, like where are? You what stories you're hearing
on college, campuses WHICH i know that sadly stuff like

(29:44):
that does, happen but you could also survive it without
A German. Shepherd AND i just don't think that your
freshman year of college is when you need to focus
on having a big dog because you're going to be
going to school and you may have some sort of
a job and you're going to need to, study and
you're going to have a social.

Speaker 2 (30:03):
Life, yeah it sounds like there might be some fear
associated with, college just based on, stories.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
Especially off you, KNOW i think she sees stuff on
YouTube and, TikTok like she watches all those. Crimes oh
there's this one crime. GIRL i don't even know the person's,
name but she breaks down like crazy cases on. YouTube
she's just some girl that records them out of her
bedroom And i've watched some of them with. HER i
WISH i could remember the person's. Name she's got millions of.

(30:31):
Viewers but so she is very into, those And i'm,
like maybe we need to cut back on that BECAUSE
i think that's why you think you need A German.

Speaker 2 (30:38):
Shepherd, well and she loves, horror, right, yeah loves. IT
i feel like between the crime and the horror, stuff
we're definitely IMPACTING i know a little bit of. Power
how she feels in, safety, right and that's. Fair, YEAH
i totally get. It but, yeah definitely No German shepherd
freshman year of.

Speaker 1 (30:56):
COLLEGE i know definitely you don't have time for. That,
yeah and also or, money, like, Yeah i'm like A
german shepherd that requires a lot of. Care there's vet,
bills shedding tons of. Food you're not thinking this.

Speaker 2 (31:12):
THROUGH i really appreciate that we are going from a
bird to A german. Shepherd.

Speaker 1 (31:17):
YEAH i like the evolution of the. Bird, definitely a
bird could not protect, her or a cat like she
loves her, Cat, maggie that would not protect. Her, No
so she just wants protection And i'm, like get some
mace OR i bought her one of those. Birdies.

Speaker 2 (31:33):
Yeah the there's also an app chain things so that
she can have on her phone that she can hold
onto whenever she goes, places and if she releases her,
hand it calls nine one. One that's WHAT i used
a lot in called.

Speaker 1 (31:43):
GOSH i would have. TO i feel LIKE i would
accidentally release my hand and.

Speaker 2 (31:47):
Be, like oh, shoot, WELL i think when you're that.
TENSE i would be tents, sometimes walking in dark places
AND i would just like grip my.

Speaker 1 (31:53):
Phone so that's when you would pull it, Up like
if you're walking on campus at night by yourself or.

Speaker 2 (31:58):
Something and all of your. TIME i would somebody IF
i was, walking so somebody was on the, phone but
if nobody could answer or. Somebody it was kind of
just my backup. Plan but it was there and it was,
ready AND i felt safe because IF i released it
and didn't put, like you can release it FOR i
think it's three, seconds but if you put it back,
on then it won't call nine one. One if you
release it and you never put it back, on it

(32:19):
will call nine one to your direct. Location, gotcha it's
on like safe, Light. Homelight i'd have to look it.
Up but so there's so many things that she could.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Have, yeah, yes and like here's a key. Chain you
don't need A german, shepherd you.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
Know BUT i shout out to. Her she's dreaming for
the stars AND i appreciate that about. Her we're gonna
take another quick break and we'll be back for maybe
some stories From, Austin texas for a. Festival how was
The iHeart festival for, You Austin? Texas what was it
like going back for? You especially living In nashville for
so long, NOW.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
I i get asked that question like every TIME i go, back,
like oh my, Gosh you're going to see family And i'm,
like it's so. Awkwards i'm, LIKE i don't have family there,
Anymore like my sister moved To, colorado my mom, died
my dad, died nobody's. THERE i do have friends that
are still, there and my cousin is In, wimberley which
is outside Of, austin so it's not necessarily super easy

(33:14):
to get. To it's not, like, oh you're In. Austin
so Obviously i'm going to see my cousin because it's
a little bit of a hike To. Wimberley BUT i
do like going. Back it's just not the. Same it's
very busy and, trafficky and we're we're staying like our
hotel to the, venue there's a lot of, construction and

(33:35):
so it just feels, like, yeah like IF i. Could
we're very busy, Too so IF i had time to
actually get out and enjoy a few, THINGS i THINK
i would love. It LIKE i normally do try to
go like. Hike we used to call it back in
the Day Town, lake but now It's Ladybird. Lake IF
i go do, that that's very life giving to. Me

(33:57):
AND i didn't get to do that this, trip SO
i was kind of, sad but of COURSE i Love.
Austin it'll always be home for. Me it just doesn't
feel the same going. Back and THEN i there's the
awkward like are you gonna see?

Speaker 2 (34:10):
Family, yeah And you're like, okay we have to do this,
again And i'm like no want Wam it was. INTERESTING
i Love, austin BUT i don't have the experience that.
You BUT i do know what that feeling is like
WHENEVER i go back To wichita and so much has
changed and you've just been gone for a long, time
and life is, different even though my. Family that is
the different part is my family's all still. There there's

(34:32):
so much that has changed and all your, favorites a
lot of things have, gone new things have replaced, them
or just a lot of change WHEN i don't, know
tourism is more likely In austin than In, wichita but
when new businesses come in and it just changes the
layout and the environment of a place like. That SO

(34:53):
i know that. Feeling but Also austin to me has
always always been, strange literally because WHAT i knew About
austin BEFORE i ever visited it Was austin is. Weird
their slogan or mode At boston, weird Keep boston. Weird
and so WHEN i first went, THERE i, said, yeah
it's a little, strange there's some strangeness to, it but good.
Weird it's fun. Weird and every TIME i, GO i

(35:14):
JUST i always experience some, funny quirky, things especially If
i'm walking Down Sixth street or, something AND i just
witness weirder things THAN i Think i've witnessed in any.
City And i've spent a lot of time In, denver
which is supposed to be like the comparison Of austin
of the, weirdness AND i Think austin Wins austin.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
PIZZA i think.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
So BUT i always get breakfast. Tacos that's my. THING
i will always eat breakfast, tacos like from a specific
place or just, NO i like try and go to
new places THAT i haven't been and because that's JUST
i feel Like austin is really good for breakfast tacos,
Definitely so that's What i'll always. Get it's always on the.
MENU i try and get it both days or especially

(35:55):
even in the airport on the way, Back i'll get
a breakfast. TACO hm just makes me.

Speaker 1 (35:58):
HAPPY yea favorite kind of breakfast.

Speaker 2 (36:00):
COCCO i love anything where they put a potato and,
egg so it's not really. Hard Because i'm. Vegetarians you
can't add a whole lot of, things but as. Long
there's some places that don't make potato and egg breakfast,
tacos but anytime they. Do there's one place at the,
airport AND i can't remember what they're, called but their
potato egg is mashed potato with egg and then they
add avocado to it and it's so.

Speaker 1 (36:21):
Yummy Oh i'm trying to think of what is there
at the. AIRPORT i like the migas breakfast taco all
always from. Anywhere migas is.

Speaker 2 (36:30):
It that's scrambled, eggs a specific kind of?

Speaker 1 (36:33):
Cheese, well they may they may use. IT i don't
know if every place may have a different type of
cheese that they, use but it's typically just like a
like a HOW i make. Migas so there's like maybe
some rotel type, situation so like a tomato pepper concoction
and then, eggs, cheese tortilla strips or like you, know

(36:58):
like a crunch like you get that in. There that's
that's migas for.

Speaker 2 (37:02):
Me got?

Speaker 1 (37:03):
It and it's wrapped up in a tortilla with some
avocado and maybe a dipping.

Speaker 2 (37:07):
Sauce, Okay and the dipping sauces are always so. Spicy
WHENEVER i go To, austin the spicy sauce always gets
me BECAUSE i think it's not gonna be. Spicy sitting,
There i'm, like you start sweating Because i'm a. Baby
i'm a baby when it comes to spices THAT i am.

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Too i'm not good at.

Speaker 2 (37:23):
It i'm trying to expand my, palate BUT i swear
every time one of my friends who like spicy food
will try something and they'll be, like it's not, spicy you're,
Fine and THEN i, Eat i'm, like, guys that was so,
hot and my mouth is dying AND i have to
like chug water AND i feel like such a. Child
but in my, FAIRNESS i have come a long way
BECAUSE i did used to put sugar in, salsa so.

Speaker 1 (37:43):
Okay AND i feel LIKE i used to think that
that was weird when you would say, That but THEN
i feel LIKE i got messages after, that and then
even started looking at ingredients and sometimes sugar is added
to the to the. RECIPE i know you were doing
it to counter so you were adding extra BUT i
JUST i ever associated sugar at all with. It but
in some jars if you look at the, back there's added.

Speaker 2 (38:04):
Sugar, well so this this is funny about this. TOO
i was making the homemade enchilada, sauce which tends to
be pretty mild and it calls for chili. Powder, WELL
i was making this enchilata sauce AND i didn't have chili,
powder SO i added cayenne. Pepper, OH i didn't realize
how much cayenne PEPPER i, added and it was so.

(38:26):
Spicy SO i ended up having to add sugar to
my enchilada sauce and it was kind of a, mess
but it ended up tasting really. Good BUT i added
a crap ton of sugar that was supposed to be
something that was relatively, healthy and it was just. Not
it tasted very sweet and then the, ending, though was
still really. Spicy and SO i would finish eating my

(38:46):
enchiladas AND i would just be. Stewetty oh, yeah it
was not a Good you're still gonna have to kick.

Speaker 1 (38:52):
There, well you were telling your story. TOO i tried
to look up taco restaurants at the. Airport so is
It Taco.

Speaker 2 (38:58):
DELI i think it Was Taco. Deli, Yeah i'm.

Speaker 1 (39:02):
Trying to think because if anybody wanted to know if
they're traveling through The Austin. Airport WHAT i love about
the airport there is it's all local. Places so if
you don't have time to drive out To driftwood to
Get Salt lake, barbecue you can get salt like barbecue
at the.

Speaker 2 (39:15):
Airport, yes and there's a food. Truck there's two Places
i've had breakfast tacos in. There there's a food truck
that has you literally walk up to it and it's
a food. Truck and Then Taco, deli Which Taco deli
is consistently. Good is that A texas chain for?

Speaker 1 (39:31):
TACOS i mean there's multiple locations In, austin BUT i
don't know if that says. Here Taco deli handcrafted tacos Across,
texas So i'm not quite sure where it. Started but,
yeah we would Get Taco deli. Back you, know when
we were working at the station In, austin a coffee
shop across the street from us would Carry Taco deli's.
Tacos it's Called Rudo Maaya, coffee and we would go

(39:55):
get the tacos and they were so. Good and then
speaking of, Barbecue rudy's has breakfast tacos and they would
drop off tacos Every thursday at the station and it
was so. Good and they would do pigs in a blanket.
Too they would drop off breakfast tacos and pigs and
a blanket AND i was, like, oh this was.

Speaker 2 (40:13):
Like to get food all the. Time we don't have that.

Speaker 1 (40:15):
Experience, well when we were going over to the coffee
shop to get Taco, deli we were paying for. It
but Every thursday When brutis would drop it, off it
was treat and that was so. Awesome SEE i love
that tons of, tacos lots of. Tacos we'd be like,
breakfast this is breakfast. Lunch that was back, when, yeah
we were just starting out and we free food WAS i,
mean free food is always, great but especially in our early. Twenties, yeah,

(40:37):
yeah free food was.

Speaker 2 (40:39):
Everything that's one of my favorite inventions of food Is
mexican food with. Breakfast AND i don't think UNTIL i
finally went To austin DID i ever realized like breakfast.

Speaker 1 (40:49):
Burritos so they didn't have that growing up In, wichita.

Speaker 2 (40:52):
Not anywhere THAT i went because, like Our mexican food
was on the Border Taco, bell and we never really
Went Taco. Bell we had A Taco tico if that
was also a fast food, joint AND i never went.
There we always Chose Taco bell, because especially in the,
Nineties Taco bell looks so. Cool it was a cool
LITTLE i don't know the pastels that they had or,

(41:14):
Whatever but we never went to any Local mexican. RESTAURANTS i,
know now there's a, lot but WHEN i was growing, up,
no for, sure we did all the, Chains Texas roadhouse
And Olive. Gordon we had a lot of, chains so
Don't it wasn't really UNTIL i was in college THAT
i learned about breakfast in, tacos and a lot of

(41:35):
restaurants started putting breakfast tacos on their. Menus kind of
became a thing at one. Point but then WHEN i
went To austin was WHEN i really, realized like what
breakfast tacos were supposed to taste, Like and you, know
like the really good, ones.

Speaker 1 (41:48):
The, authentic, good, stuffy.

Speaker 2 (41:49):
Yeah because you get it From american restaurants and they're.
GOOD i love a breakfast taco no matter. What but
THEN i went To austin and it ruined me BECAUSE
i had really good breakfast burritos and breakfast.

Speaker 1 (41:59):
Tacos you gotta find when it comes To mexican restaurants In,
texas you gotta find just like the the places that you're,
like you, Question you're, LIKE i don't, know SHOULD i
go in? THERE i, mean that's what my dad would always.
Do he's, like, oh the more like he would just
call him a hole in the wall type, place even for,
burgers not Just mexican, Food, like the more hole in
the wall, Looks he's, like the better it's gonna.

Speaker 2 (42:20):
Be that is, True he's not. Wrong is it a
place where he has a burger named not for? Him
also a hole in the?

Speaker 1 (42:25):
Wall oh that's, Big Daddy's, no not. Real, NO i
would call that more of like a like A texas
roadhouse type. Situation oh, okay shout out. Dad, Yeah well
he had a that was a they had some of
those restaurants and he was it's, where, uh the one
In odessa he had for, Years like WHEN i go visit,

(42:49):
him he moved To odessa for a little bit after
him and my mom. SPLIT i guess to probably quiet
down some of the buzz because he was leaving her
for somebody. Else so they Moved odessa for a little,
bit AND i would go visit him for spring. Break
AND i was the hostess At Big, daddies SO i
would host us there and uh then, yeah HE i,

(43:10):
GUESS i guess still. THERE i don't know who owns
it now or, what but there's Still my half sister
was In odessa for something and they decided to go
eat A Big daddy's and she opened up the menu
and there was Cliffs burger still on the. Menu that's.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
WILD i, know it's cool that it's still there though years.

Speaker 1 (43:28):
Later, YEAH i love.

Speaker 2 (43:29):
That, okay we're gonna end us on a celebrity. Story
do you have a celebrity story From iHeart?

Speaker 1 (43:35):
Festival, WELL i told this one on the, Show My
Sam hunt story where he fell in front of it. Fell,
WELL i didn't, fall BUT i dropped all my luggage
in front of, him AND i might as well have.
Fallen it's. RIDICULOUS i was about to start A Thomas
rhett interview On hulu and his phone started ringing and
he was, like, oh what's. This he looked at it
was his wife, calling AND i, thought and The hulu

(43:57):
hits are, live and SO i was, like, oh shoot
to answer a phone call from his wife and then
we're gonna go and have to. Stall but he was,
Like i'll call her Rag AND i was, like, oh,
see stars are just like. Us like he's at work
doing his, thing but his wife is, like, OH i
got to call my. HUSBAND i have a. Question or
maybe he's not on. STAGE i, mean because he was
also about to take the.

Speaker 2 (44:16):
Stage, Well AND i feel like she wouldn't call for
no reason either, too because of his work. Environment so
she mustn't called because something was going, on.

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Yeah or she could have JUST i don't think it
was anything serious because if he was alarmed by, that
he would have picked it. UP i don't think he would. Have,
Yeah so they probably are just used to, talking which
that's the whole. Thing like some people do not call
their spouses or their significant others on the. Job that
was shocking to, Me like therapy. Cats she told me
she just never called her husband at, work AND i was,

(44:44):
like WHAT i would Call ben all the. TIME i,
MEAN i guess when he was in the military it was. Different.
Uh but and my BOYFRIEND i call. HIM i call.
Him i'll call him as soon as we get done
here we, Leave, yeah and Then i'll call him, again just,
hey what are you's? Doing i'm? Working, okay you know.
So BUT i put up a thing about it On

(45:06):
instagram a couple of months, ago AND i was shocked
at how divided some people. Were they're, like oh my, gosh,
YEAH i would never call my spouse at work, ever
and again it depends on what your spouse. Does but
just the fact that it's a thing of, like, no
they're at, work why WOULD i call. Them i'm like
to see what's.

Speaker 2 (45:22):
Up that kind of shocks me BECAUSE i feel like
most people when they were kids would call their parents
while they ARE i don't know how many TIMES i
would pick up the home phone just to bother my
parents at work for the stupidest. Things.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
YEAH i, mean maybe.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
People are traumatized from that, experience and others are, like,
NAH i did it all the, time.

Speaker 1 (45:40):
Or to your, point depending how they grew, up maybe
their parents had jobs where they couldn't call them and
so they just it doesn't occur to them to just
call theirs their, Partner, yeah because, YEAH i would call
to your, POINT i would call my parents all the time,
too AND i definitely call my, boyfriend probably too. Much
and then sometimes he's, Like, OKAY i gotta, go And i'm, like,

(46:02):
WELL i just got done with work because our schedules
are very, different AND i was, LIKE i have a
twenty minute drive, Home like what AM i supposed to do?

Speaker 2 (46:08):
Now isn't it funny? Too? HOW i don't know if
you've ever seen those memes or videos where you call
somebody when you're on a drive home and they don't
call you back until you pull in the garage and you're, like,
NO i don't want to talk to you. NOW i
only want to talk to you BECAUSE i would drive me.

Speaker 1 (46:20):
Home, yes. Hilarious it's like you're at, home or they'll
show it's like a girl at home like eating, popcorn WATCHING,
tv literally doing nothing but her phone rings and she ignores.
It and she's like when that person calls that you
called when you were driving because you're still not doing,
anything like you could totally, answer but it's, like oh, no,
no you missed your. WINDOW i know when you had

(46:41):
way more energy or you were in the mood to.
Talk they may never.

Speaker 2 (46:45):
MIND i take it.

Speaker 1 (46:46):
Back, yeah you may not find that energy again for
another five. Days, yeah, yep very.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
Real all, Right, amyel thanks for joining, Me thanks for
talking about, boyfriend, kids all the life.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Updates thank. You same to you before we.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Leave just you're. Good how are you.

Speaker 1 (46:59):
Feeling i'm.

Speaker 2 (47:00):
Great perimantal pause everything.

Speaker 1 (47:02):
Perimidal pausal stuff is you, know it's ebbs and. Flows,
yeah so you never. Know speaking of by, HER i
did have a little bit of A i was emotional and.
HORMONAL i had a moment With Elizabeth, fazio who we work.
With we're. BACKSTAGE i had to let out a quick
cry for a, second AND i was, LIKE i looked
at her AND i was, LIKE i don't know what is.
HAPPENING i really. DON'T i was, LIKE i don't know

(47:23):
Why i'm. CRYING i cannot explain this right. Now and
that's one of those things where it's just, Like, god
this is so. Unprofessional nobody else saw me besides, her
SO i felt, okay but it just made me want
to like hug a lot of women that maybe just
need to let out a cry where literally at their,
job there's no way they could do, it and you
have to go hide and find a. Space SO i

(47:45):
just want to normalize random tears at work when you're you,
know you're estrogen might be a little off or something,
LIKE i don't know it. Was that was a, CRAZY
i heart. Story i've never had that.

Speaker 2 (47:58):
Happen it feels really out of body where you just feel.

Speaker 1 (48:01):
Yes BECAUSE i like focus and like get my job
done and like do WHAT i need to. Do AND
i was. VACCAGING i was, Like, ELIZABETH i don't know what's,
happening but we need to go over here in the
dark right, now because like tears are flowing AND i
JUST i feel off AND i need to feel. On
and so it was LIKE i got it out and
THEN i felt a little bit. Better so that released
some chemicals THAT i needed to help me. Survive so,

(48:22):
YEAH i know a lot of other women are going through.
It SO i just want to send you a hug
through the. Podcast and, also if you're a guy listening
and you have a woman in your life that might
be going through, it just remember to have some compassion
and grace because she may act in a way that
is confusing to her as. Well it doesn't excuse our,
behavior but sometimes maybe you just get curious about, hey,

(48:43):
uh let's let's let's. Pause what what could really be going?
On you, know instead of thinking, that you, know we're
just sacting all, Crazy you're not.

Speaker 2 (48:55):
Crazy your body's just betraying you a little.

Speaker 1 (48:57):
Bit and we'll even know that it's like betraying because
it's so it's part of the. Process it's like literally
what is supposed to be, happening but also.

Speaker 2 (49:07):
Crap because why do we have to have?

Speaker 1 (49:09):
That you know WHAT i, mean that's WHAT i.

Speaker 2 (49:11):
Want that's WHERE i feel. Betrayed is this feels very
one sided, exactly AND i don't appreciate that experience for
all of you guys that are going through. It all,
Right we'll tell the people where they can find to
hear you all that good.

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Stuff At Radio amy On socials and podcast Is Feeling Things,
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Speaker 1 (49:47):
Bye that's the best bits of the week With.

Speaker 2 (49:49):
Morgan thanks for.

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Listening be sure to check out the other two parts this.

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