November 18, 2023 • 26 mins
Morgan and Abby answer listener submitted questions! They talk about the possibility of freezing their eggs and going on different career paths. Abby reveals how she got the job with the show and how her job on the show works. Plus they share their favorite Amazon purchases and biggest life lessons from their 20s.
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Mark as Played
Transcript
Episode Transcript
Available transcripts are automatically generated. Complete accuracy is not guaranteed.
Speaker 1 (00:01):
The best Bits of the week, and we've got a organ.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Best Bits of the week with Morgan number two.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
It is time for the listener, Q and A. Abby
is still here with me.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I've not made a run out of the room crying
because apparently you guys think I do that.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
You haven't yet.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
We're not adding to their idea. I was not. That
was competitive. Yes, we'll go with that, Abby sarcaso. I
know your game. They did not. But now I also
can't tell you my daughter or not. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Yep, that's what I do.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay. Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Also,
I'm going to say everybody's names, but some of these
last things, I'm absolutely gonna Butcher oh so very much apologized.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I can't wait to hear this.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
This is from Sarah Coolier.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Okay, so probably wasn't right. I don't know what's happened.
I'm like roasted today, Like.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Make me cry.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Oh you're good?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Got this? Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Abby?
Go for it?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Man, there, I think about this all the time. I'm
just like, there's so much I want to do in
this life, Like there's so many different jobs I want
to do, Like I really want to be a realtor
at some point. And I also love interior decorating okay,
like I love that decorating my house and designing, and
some people like don't have any in their house and
(01:28):
they don't know what they're doing. I'm like, I would
love to go in like stage housing, in stuff like
stage houses, you know, yeah, put them for sale. Love that.
I always think about that.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
You want to like stage my house? Does my house like?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Okay? Yeah, I like it, but I could I could
add some I do.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I'm definitely very minimalists and I like things matching. Yes,
I'm not good at the pops of color. The podcast
room I'm trying to put together is pops of color.
So I might have to take you up on that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Oh that's fun. It'd be so fun. Yeah, like coming
up as like color schemes and stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, I love all that. I mean, hit you up
for some interior resign.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I would love to, but like at this point, no,
I like where I am now, but I feel like
you never know in the future. Yeah, but I don't
know what about you, you.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Know, I do like it is really interesting for me
because this was my dream job, like not necessarily going
into radio, but working on a show like this, And
I listened to Bobby Bunchow growing up, so like this
was the dream job for me. It just seems super
unattainable going from where I was to hear And so
when I got this job and I've stayed in this
(02:35):
job for several years now, I just never anticipated what
would come after that because I thought a lot of
my career would be working up to it and so
and I'm really lucky that way, but it definitely has
made me think like, Okay, I hit the dream now now,
like now what? So it does make me think like, yes,
and there is there is a big part of me
that I would consider like going and doing being a
(02:57):
digital director for a massive like Fortune five hundred company
that sounds really fun to me. Oh my gosh, like
a really big brand, yeah, like a Tito's vodka or
like a Taco Bell or Sonic or just something really
massive and working on a brand of that scale, which
would be really cool, which would totally be a different
(03:17):
career trajectory for me. But I would like my podcast
to come out first, and then I kind of determine
from there what happens.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, so that's awesome. We'd be really good at that.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
It'd be really fun, Like it'd be really hard to
go from this job to another job because this job
is so fun, it's so awesome, And I don't know,
I don't even know if that will ever happen, like there,
you know, there could be opportunities that come up. I'm like, no,
I'm staying yes, you know, Like but I think if
I were to ever do anything different, that might be
where I lean into mm hmm, okay, So who knows. Life,
(03:49):
It is.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Hard to know. I feel like some doors open like
unexpectedly and you just have to walk through sometimes.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But so that's what like, yeah, if doors open. Also,
if something opens in different directions, I'll be like, hey,
you know the money's right, let's something out. Yeah. Yeah,
So I'm never against it, right, which I feel like
is kind of you too, Like you're kind of open
and just exploring ye life, because I think we all
want to grow and be like the best version of ourselves.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
That's the thing, Like we like life is so short
that it's hard to like you want to do everything.
And that's where I am now. I'm like, I love
where I'm at now, but also there's so much I want.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
To do, yes, but you know, it's hard, so there's
only so much time exactly, Okay, how do you answer
the phones and know what is being talked about on
the show at once? Oh?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Man, that's a lot. It's a lot of multitasking, because
that's from Katie Evans, Hello, kat Yeah, it is a lot.
So like I answer the phone, my what year is it?
My right ear and then my left ear is like
listening to what's going on on the show. And then
if Bobby takes a call while I'm talking to someone else,
that's when I get a little bit distracted because I'm
(04:56):
a little nervous if they're gonna go rogue or say
something they didn't say to me. But then I'm also
trying to listen to like Scuba Steve and what he's saying.
So it is like a lot of multitasking. I just
I'm just kind of used to it, like having to
listen to what they're saying and listen to what Bobby's saying.
And then you know, Ray's like, oh did you hear
that Bobby wants these callers and so it's just a
(05:18):
lot of that. But I have to go like fast
because some people they want to talk a long time.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And tell you the whole story.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yes, and if we're already I have a hard time
at cutting people off. I feel bad. I know I
need to get better at that because but I don't
want them to appear rude or seem like I don't
want to hear what they have to say, because I do.
But it's like, I we're kind of moved on from
that segment. I need to get callers for this current segment.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
So yeah, it's just a lot of multitasking.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Okay, that's I mean, that's a good answer. I didn't
know all that about your different ears. It's like you
have five ears.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
It really is.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, And then I'm like trying to type they're like
your nose and your mouth.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Basically there's a lot happening. Yeah, Like I don't even know.
So now I've gotten just very good at hearing what's going.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
On, okay, or like even a multitasker. Yeah, so proud. Okay,
what did you do for work before the show? Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
So I when I first moved.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Here, And that's from Aubrey Bailey Aubrey.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Okay, so I moved here right out of college, like
I did my internship at Health and Wellness Center, and
that's kind of when I realized I didn't want to
do that anymore. But I was like, oh shoot, I
just remember sitting in there and I was like, I
want to do something in music. So anyway, I went home, graduated,
came back, and immediately I liked wanted to volunteer for
(06:35):
the Big ninety eight because they were doing an event,
and so I just asked someone work and I was like, Hey,
can I ever volunteer for events? I just want to
like see what you guys do. And she was like, oh,
we're actually hiring. So she hired me as a promotions tech,
which is the one that like drives the vehicle, you know,
like around town, sets up the ten at car dealerships,
and like I remember sometimes even Lunchbox was the talent
(06:58):
at the remote and I was the tech like setting
up the tamp for him. And then little did you know,
oh I know, I'm like, oh my gosh, now here right,
he's still annoying and in my life, I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding. So I did that, but then I was like,
I really need like real money. That was part time.
So then I worked at a video production company where
we hire like the camera guys, all the tour guys
(07:21):
that go out and set up the led screens for
concerts and tours and like cmafest, we did that. So
I was like operations manager and did all this stuff
in office. So it's a lot of administrative stuff, kind
of like running a company. But I was like, I
want to do something. I'm just sitting here doing a
lot of spreadsheets. I want to do something more, and
so I applied to the phone screener job, but I
(07:44):
didn't get it. And then two years later that's when
they were like, hey, are you interested? And I was
like yes because I just needed I needed a challenge,
like I wasn't. I had been there for five years
at this company, and I was like, I need to
grow and do something out of my comfort zone. So
I'm just sitting here and doing some cheats.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
So yeah, and here you are doing stuff out of
your comfort zone.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yes, a lot of things, A lot of things.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Yeah, that's kind of what the show likes to do, right,
to push each other out of our comfort zones. Even
if you don't.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Want to go because that was the thing. I felt
like I was getting further from my dream when I
was doing that other job, Like I wasn't singing at all,
I wasn't doing anything with that. And now I'm kind
of at least getting back to my vision of Okay,
you moved here because you like to sing and you
wanted to play guitar, and so now I'm getting to
do those things. So, yeah, it is out of your
comfort zone. But you'd also like grow, Yeah, find out
what you're capable of.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
So that's the only way you grow is out of
your comfort zone. You stay in the comfort zone, you
don't grow at all. I know you, like it might
be like a pretty daisy, but like you're never going
to turn into a sunflower, right, yes, exactly. Yes, Okay,
well that was good. Thank you for sharing your story.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Yes, thank you. That was a long winded Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
It was good. It was good, and we're going to
come back. We got some questions about egg freeze.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Oh good, Yeah, let's talk about that.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Okay, be right back. I don't mean to laugh about
egg freezing. It just feels weird saying egg freezing. Yes,
that term feels weird. But the topic is not at
all funny.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But the whole conversation. That's kind of why I laughed.
The whole conversation I brought up because I feel like
a lot of people didn't really understand what I was saying.
They thought I had to pick when I was talking
about career, yeah, versus family. They thought you have to choose.
But I was kind of saying more like specific. I'm
sure you understand, like coming to Nashville, coming for a
specific place, like I couldn't have this job anywhere else,
(09:30):
you know, So I think that's kind of more of
how I was saying.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I totally understood what you were saying in this in
this whole conversation that happened because I've had the same
thoughts of myself. I'm like, Okay, if I move home
and get a regular job, I'll probably be able to
find someone and settle down. Probably will. The odds of
that are more likely me continuing in Nashville on this dream.
(09:55):
In a city that is full of dreamers, finding someone
to settle down with is like a needle in a haystack.
You know, people don't like to settle down in this town.
And so where you were coming from was one hundred
percent true, and it's not wrong to feel and think
that way. I think it was very honest. But I
do believe that you should always go after Here's the thing.
(10:18):
I would never stop my life for a person. I
would never stop being who I am for a person.
And the moment you stop doing that the moment you're
gonna start becoming unhappy. And so if you were to
move home, you will eventually be unhappy at some point
when I don't know. But if you stay on the
(10:39):
path of chasing whatever dream you want to chase and
doing whatever you want to do, and then hopefully finding
the person that you are supposed to find, then there
is greater chance at happiness. And even if you don't
find that person, there's still a greater chance of happiness
then going home and doing something that was not a
part of what you would originally wanted.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Right, you know, with the chance that you might meet
someone like, yeah, I would never do that, just like
move home and be like, oh, okay, now he has
to be here. Where is he?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
But it is like I totally get it, Like that
thought has crossed my mind because it's really hard to
settle down here. It is like I do say, Nashville
is a city of dreamers.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
It is.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
It is not for the week hearted in the week
as far as chasing dreams, but like as far as dating,
terrible town for it because nobody's settling down. They are
here to chase dreams. They're not here for you to
stop them from chasing said dream, you know. And so
it is hard to find that. But so all that
(11:34):
to say, the reason the question that I got asked
was from Crystal Lowman, I think I said that right.
Any thoughts on egg freezing as far as like for
you just right now, I'm I'm at different places.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I know it's very expensive. There's one thing that it is.
I mean, it's definitely like an investment.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
For me.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I'm kind of like God's plan and I feel like
God's plan is whatever is meant to be will be.
And so I probably wouldn't freeze my eggs because I'm
either meant to for it to work out or I'm not.
I don't know, you know, I just feel like I
don't really have a big chance because I've never thought
(12:19):
about it. Seriously, that's a good question.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
I know it's hard. You know, like for me, I
have not thought about it. I have thought if I
hit a certain point, maybe if I hit thirty three
for me personally, that maybe it starts to become more
of a topic of conversation. But genuinely, like, right now,
I don't know that I want to have kids. I
(12:43):
don't know, like there's a part of me that would
be okay not, there's a part of me that would
be sad to not. And I don't know that until
I meet my person that I'm going to have that
actual answer if I'm just thinking that way because I'm
by myself right now and I don't want to have
kids by myself, you know, So I don't think until
I get to a point of finding that person that
(13:05):
I want to spend my life with, I'm gonna have
that answer to then be able to be like, Okay,
I need to freeze my eggs so we have the
time to explore this and see. I think that's why
I don't have either answer, And that's kind of where
you're at.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Yes, that's definitely because I want to have them with
the right person, don't want to have them by myself.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yeah, I almost like I definitely want to make sure
I find a partner that's going to be a good
dad and a good partner and having kids, Like, I
don't need to be doing it on my own. I
don't want that, you know, So if that's the option,
then I definitely don't want to do it right. So
and maybe that's also reflective of what you're thinking too, huh.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
And I just I don't feel like I'm at the
age where I need to start thinking about that. I
just feel so much younger. I don't know, I feel
like I'm still like twenty five.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
You're as young as you feel. Yes, so if you
feil twenty five, then you're twenty five.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Uh huh. But like, realistically, when you think about it,
I'm like, oh, I probably is a good idea if
you do want to have if you know a hundred
percent you want to have kids, Yes, I think it
is a good idea to do. But yes, so I
probably should have, you know, like an age like you
where it's like, okay, right now, I have not even
thought about it or started any process.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
But well, I could say that, and I could say
that about thirty three, but who knows three comes? I'm like,
never mind, I don't want to think about it.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
So yeah, but it's good that you have like a number.
So but yeah, I don't really have a clear okay answer.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
That's a right, Well, Crystal, we tried. When we get
Kaylea Collins wants to know when we moved from Tennessee
to Kansas, what was your biggest fear that you conquered
over time Kansas to Tennessee. Yep, sorry, I don't know
why I wrote it backwards.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
No, you're good. What's the biggest fear?
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Yeah, that you conquered over time?
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Okay, this is funny. This is actually really funny. So
I had like fear of public speaking in college.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Okay, when I.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Took public speaking or speech class. Oh my gosh, Like
I hated it being in a small and that's kind
of like me was singing too. I just hated it.
And I was always so nervous. Like me right now,
I'm like thinking back and it's already making me flustered.
To me, be like, no, yeah, do it, because honestly,
(15:14):
I don't know what happens when my brain kind of
does that. It's happened on the show where sometimes I
just start to like zone out or I just get
I run out of ideas of what I was trying
to say. I don't I can't describe it. It's weird,
but it's only like a small portion group of people.
If I'm up on a stage or like talking in
front of like a crowd, it's not bad. It's only
(15:35):
like a small room because there were only like twelve
people in the class.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
And we work in a small room.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
Yeah, so I would say that just like not even
like the kind of stage fright I would say. And
I think I'm still trying to conquer that.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Yeah, that's a good one. Also not funny. You said
this is funny, but it's not funny.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Well, it's just like ironic. It's ironic. Yeah, it's ironic.
I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I don't want to laugh at your pain of stage. Try.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It's a small group of people, and I'm even with
I'm like that with my family. I remember, if you
Christmas ago, my uncle like had a guitar and he
was like, you want to sing? And I was like
I was, I didn't want to sing in front of
my family. There's like twenty of us, and I was like, no,
I'm shy. But it's like, oh my gosh, it's your family,
Like it's just a weird thing.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Yeah, but I get it. Everybody has their things, so
it's not weird.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
I don't think it's weird, but still trying to work
on it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
So, you know, mine, I think is a fear of failure.
I was really scared to move away from everyone and
everything I knew and fail and I would be out
by myself doing it. And I still have that problem.
I don't. I don't jump without having a plan. I'm
not a yeah, let's quit everything and figure it out.
I can't, like I physically don't have that in my bones.
(16:46):
I have to plan and be strategic and understand what's
coming next. So still a fear I'm trying to conquer
of just kind of letting go the reins a little
bit in general of my life. But uh, definitely failure,
big fear of that.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Oh that is a good one. I mean yeah, because
that's a really hard thing to say when oh, I
moved here and then people are like, oh, what are
you doing? Oh not much. I've been here three years,
not much, But I'm like, you're here the opposite exactly. Yeah,
Like that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
It is, it is awesome, but it's still there, like
they're still in the back. I'm like, you know what, tomorrow,
everything could blow up in flames and I technically would fail,
you know what I mean, Like that's still there. It's
a very real thought process that my body goes through
in every opportunity, in every situation I'm in.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, what's really crazy is like we're kind of the
opposite in that is you want to have a plan
and you like to know what's happening next, and I'm
like the opposite. I'm just like, well, hopefully this works out.
I don't have a plan. I don't know what's going
to happen. And it's just like I'm just a huge
Like if the door opens and it feels right to you,
like walk through it. So that's weird. It's crazy that
both of us like took different paths and we.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Still both ended up here.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Like that's a testament too, Like you got to do
it how you feel it works for you. If you don't,
then it's definitely a haywire regardless of what you want. Right, Okay,
we got two more questions. We'll be right back all right,
talking about favorite things we've purchased from Amazon from Kelly
(18:18):
Neubauer I really hope I'm pronouncing half these last names corrected.
I'm not. I'm very sorry. One of my favorite things
while you kind of are.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
You looking at online? Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:29):
One of my favorite things is a little this little
contraption that I take with me when I travel. It's
on my Amazon page. Like if you go to my
Instagram and go to the link and bio, it's on there.
But it's this little piece that I hook up to
the back of the seat and I put my phone
in it and it holds up my phone so I
can watch everything, oh and not have to hold my
phone when I'm on an airplane. It's amazing. Is it
(18:53):
like ten dollars? No?
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Way?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Yeah, that one's really cool. A water bottle I talked
about I think with Scuba that like for that and
Hazel that you push the button, water comes out and
when they're done drinking, you push the water it goes
back in.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, those are all amazing, both amazing contraptions.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Those are awesome.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Hold on time, I think, are you looking at yours? Yes?
A lot of any others.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
For Halloween because I was Landy Wilson and I went
hard on Amazon getting bell bottoms and everything, try to.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Figure out what you were gonna do. Yeah, that's fair.
I yeah, I'm trying to think of anything else. Like
front of Mine, Yeah, that I've purchased from Amazon, and
I don't know that I have any in this moment.
Those are just two that like really changed my change
my life. Oh. I do have timers that I have
all my Christmas trees on that I literally control an app.
(19:43):
I can just hit a button and they turn on
and off.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Oh my gosh. Look, I was just gonna show you that.
That's why I got this heavy duty like smart thing.
I just ordered it, but I haven't set it up.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
I think those might be the same ones I have.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Oh my gosh. So yeah, you plug it in and
you can control it like right now you could.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Yeah. I can turn it on and off and you
can set schedules on it. It's amazing.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I need you to help me set mine up. I
was struggling. I can get that.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, okay, I got you. I can help you. But
that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
So my ice maker is not tastes bad in my freezer?
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Yeah, just does.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
I don't know what's wrong with it. So I just
got like this portable little countertop ice maker, Like how
cute it is? It makes ice?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Oh does it make a little little teeny tiny sonic ice.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Yes, yeah, you can do two sizes and you can
plug it in anywhere, like you can take it with
you somewhere that it actually works. It does. It takes
a while to make the ice, because it does, but
it does freeze it really fast. But if you want
it like instant, if you want a whole bunch, you
would have to be a couple hours to okay making enough.
But I thought that was cool. I also got this
like little like tabletop fire like that goes outside random things. Yeah,
(20:44):
but you can have it inside Amazon is meant to
be random, like you just put alcohol in it, which
I don't know. All this fire kind of makes me nervous,
so I got to read up and make sure I
don't do anything dangerous. But it's just like a cute
little tabletop fireplace.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Oh yes, yeah, like I thought you were expected, Like
you know how I have the tables like full blown
table one. Huh No, that's what I was anticipating.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
It's got a little one.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
You got like a little flame. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I just can't like random things. I don't have that
nothing's good.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
It's like those are good jewelry. It's all right, Hey,
these are favorite things that make our life a little
bit easier. So true. We do have one more from
Emily Ferrara.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
I have to tell you one more I got. Oh
my gosh, it's so cute. It is a Christmas light
USB phone charger for your car, for your car. Look
at that and you plug it in.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
You you are you are buying plitlessing now I see it.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Ten dollars, but it's so cute. I'm driving down the
road and my car is like a little up inside
like Christmas light.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Listen. I do love that because I love Christmas lights.
So I do like the vibe. But you do have
a bunch of random.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It must have been really bored.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
I don't. I was either shop. You love to shop.
I do, okay, Emily for Rara for yep, we're rolling
with it. Biggest life lessons from our twenties and what
are we looking for it in our thirties? Oh, I
know this is a big question. I think the biggest
life lesson I learned in my twenties is that everyone
(22:13):
is not like me. They don't have a personality like me,
they don't have a heart like me. We are all
different humans and it can be very disappointing and very disheartening.
But it's also okay that we are not like each other.
But everyone is not going to be like you as
far as the way you see the world, the way
you feel about the world and your opinions and thoughts
(22:35):
and life, especially potential partners, Like you can't make somebody
feel certain things that you feel. That was a big
life lesson for me in my twenties. That's a good
feel like that just comes to mind, like without thinking
much about it. Mm hmm, anything that comes to yours.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah, Like mine would be know what you want, like
try to really like pinpoint once you want in life
and go after that because, like I said, mine, when
I didn't really know, I was like, oh, I'll just
see what happens. That's when I was in a job
for five years that I really wasn't that happy. I
knew it wasn't a direction I was going that I
wanted to go in. I was doing administrative work like
and doing spreadsheets. That's not something that's gonna get me
(23:14):
what I want to be doing. So I feel like
that like five years in my twenties was not really wasted,
but like it didn't challenge me, and I just feel
like I should have tried to do do some of
the goals I'm trying to make right now about singing,
Like I don't know why I waited in that five years, Yeah,
just because I really wasn't happy and I didn't have
motivation to do anything. So I just say, like, go
(23:36):
after what you want, like don't wait until later, Like
do it now, because like twenties is your best time
to like.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Explore what to try a bunch of different yes.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Like try everything. Don't just get stuck in a job
that just because it makes good money or whatever, Like
do what you really want to do and just try
everything you can. That's what I would say.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
No, it's a great life lesson and a very big one,
especially for you, like personally, mm hmm, okay, what about
looking forward to in our thirties.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
I am positive in my dating. I'm positive something good
is going to come in my thirties. Like I've been
with a lot of not great ones and I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Losing that boy's mind.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah. Oh yeah, basically that like have not treated me
well and I'm finally like just saying I'm like, no,
you don't have to be treated that way, like that's
not normal, and don't make excuses for them. And so
I've finally like I'm like, that's what I'm looking forward to.
I know, like what I'm worth and I'm not gonna
settle or let anyone treat me that way again.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
I'm with you. I do feel like I'm I am
excited to meet the partner that's supposed to make my
life better, you know, not just find a partner that's
gonna be my boyfriend. Like I'm excited to meet someone
that will hopefully change the course of my life as
far as the way I see the world. Yes, and
experience partnerships and relationships. Right, So I have you like
(25:00):
I've d we all have seen it. I've dated some
crappy dudes. So I am excited and I am hopeful
that that person is around, Yeah, somewhere in my thirties,
Like a teammate.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
That's what I'm looking for. It's just a teammate.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Yeah, Like, let's just do life together, not you by yourself,
not me and my myself like together, yes, and we
figured it out along the way.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I think that's what that's what our thirties are gonna be.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Yeah, and I'm I'm also just looking forward to see
what I do in my career. I'm excited because it's
a mystery to me right now, and I am excited
to see what my thirties will bring for what I do.
So I am excited for that.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yeah, you're but excited, which is understandable to be nervous.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah about dreams, life, Yes, love and the pursuit of happiness.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
That's what it's all about right there there, it is, okay, Abby, Well,
thank you joining me.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Yeah, this is telling people where they can find you.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
I am on Instagram Abby Lee, Anderson l E, I
G H and then Twitter hang or X is it
X now I don't even know I'm hanging on to
singing Abby.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
You are that okay? And I'm at WEP Girl Morgan.
If you want any of those Amazon things, I do
have them linked on my Instagram bio. And of course
please follow the show at Bobby Bone Show. Lots of
good content up there, things that I talked about, and
you can check out part one where we went on
some unusual talent conversations, show rants, Christmas movies and a
(26:24):
mysterious Taco Bell package. So all good stuff over interesting,
very interesting. We'll see you later, ye
The best Bits of the week, and we've got a organ.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Best Bits of the week with Morgan number two.
Speaker 1 (00:10):
It is time for the listener, Q and A. Abby
is still here with me.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
I'm here.
Speaker 1 (00:14):
I've not made a run out of the room crying
because apparently you guys think I do that.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
You haven't yet.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
We're not adding to their idea. I was not. That
was competitive. Yes, we'll go with that, Abby sarcaso. I
know your game. They did not. But now I also
can't tell you my daughter or not. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Yep, that's what I do.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay. Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Also,
I'm going to say everybody's names, but some of these
last things, I'm absolutely gonna Butcher oh so very much apologized.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I can't wait to hear this.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
This is from Sarah Coolier.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Okay, so probably wasn't right. I don't know what's happened.
I'm like roasted today, Like.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Make me cry.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
Oh you're good?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Got this? Do we ever consider going on different career paths? Abby?
Go for it?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Man, there, I think about this all the time. I'm
just like, there's so much I want to do in
this life, Like there's so many different jobs I want
to do, Like I really want to be a realtor
at some point. And I also love interior decorating okay,
like I love that decorating my house and designing, and
some people like don't have any in their house and
(01:28):
they don't know what they're doing. I'm like, I would
love to go in like stage housing, in stuff like
stage houses, you know, yeah, put them for sale. Love that.
I always think about that.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
You want to like stage my house? Does my house like?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Okay? Yeah, I like it, but I could I could
add some I do.
Speaker 1 (01:42):
I'm definitely very minimalists and I like things matching. Yes,
I'm not good at the pops of color. The podcast
room I'm trying to put together is pops of color.
So I might have to take you up on that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Oh that's fun. It'd be so fun. Yeah, like coming
up as like color schemes and stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Okay, I love all that. I mean, hit you up
for some interior resign.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
I would love to, but like at this point, no,
I like where I am now, but I feel like
you never know in the future. Yeah, but I don't
know what about you, you.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Know, I do like it is really interesting for me
because this was my dream job, like not necessarily going
into radio, but working on a show like this, And
I listened to Bobby Bunchow growing up, so like this
was the dream job for me. It just seems super
unattainable going from where I was to hear And so
when I got this job and I've stayed in this
(02:35):
job for several years now, I just never anticipated what
would come after that because I thought a lot of
my career would be working up to it and so
and I'm really lucky that way, but it definitely has
made me think like, Okay, I hit the dream now now,
like now what? So it does make me think like, yes,
and there is there is a big part of me
that I would consider like going and doing being a
(02:57):
digital director for a massive like Fortune five hundred company
that sounds really fun to me. Oh my gosh, like
a really big brand, yeah, like a Tito's vodka or
like a Taco Bell or Sonic or just something really
massive and working on a brand of that scale, which
would be really cool, which would totally be a different
(03:17):
career trajectory for me. But I would like my podcast
to come out first, and then I kind of determine
from there what happens.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, so that's awesome. We'd be really good at that.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
It'd be really fun, Like it'd be really hard to
go from this job to another job because this job
is so fun, it's so awesome, And I don't know,
I don't even know if that will ever happen, like there,
you know, there could be opportunities that come up. I'm like, no,
I'm staying yes, you know, Like but I think if
I were to ever do anything different, that might be
where I lean into mm hmm, okay, So who knows. Life,
(03:49):
It is.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Hard to know. I feel like some doors open like
unexpectedly and you just have to walk through sometimes.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
But so that's what like, yeah, if doors open. Also,
if something opens in different directions, I'll be like, hey,
you know the money's right, let's something out. Yeah. Yeah,
So I'm never against it, right, which I feel like
is kind of you too, Like you're kind of open
and just exploring ye life, because I think we all
want to grow and be like the best version of ourselves.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
That's the thing, Like we like life is so short
that it's hard to like you want to do everything.
And that's where I am now. I'm like, I love
where I'm at now, but also there's so much I want.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
To do, yes, but you know, it's hard, so there's
only so much time exactly, Okay, how do you answer
the phones and know what is being talked about on
the show at once? Oh?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Man, that's a lot. It's a lot of multitasking, because
that's from Katie Evans, Hello, kat Yeah, it is a lot.
So like I answer the phone, my what year is it?
My right ear and then my left ear is like
listening to what's going on on the show. And then
if Bobby takes a call while I'm talking to someone else,
that's when I get a little bit distracted because I'm
(04:56):
a little nervous if they're gonna go rogue or say
something they didn't say to me. But then I'm also
trying to listen to like Scuba Steve and what he's saying.
So it is like a lot of multitasking. I just
I'm just kind of used to it, like having to
listen to what they're saying and listen to what Bobby's saying.
And then you know, Ray's like, oh did you hear
that Bobby wants these callers and so it's just a
(05:18):
lot of that. But I have to go like fast
because some people they want to talk a long time.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
And tell you the whole story.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yes, and if we're already I have a hard time
at cutting people off. I feel bad. I know I
need to get better at that because but I don't
want them to appear rude or seem like I don't
want to hear what they have to say, because I do.
But it's like, I we're kind of moved on from
that segment. I need to get callers for this current segment.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
So yeah, it's just a lot of multitasking.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Okay, that's I mean, that's a good answer. I didn't
know all that about your different ears. It's like you
have five ears.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
It really is.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Yeah, And then I'm like trying to type they're like
your nose and your mouth.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Basically there's a lot happening. Yeah, Like I don't even know.
So now I've gotten just very good at hearing what's going.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
On, okay, or like even a multitasker. Yeah, so proud. Okay,
what did you do for work before the show? Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
So I when I first moved.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Here, And that's from Aubrey Bailey Aubrey.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Okay, so I moved here right out of college, like
I did my internship at Health and Wellness Center, and
that's kind of when I realized I didn't want to
do that anymore. But I was like, oh shoot, I
just remember sitting in there and I was like, I
want to do something in music. So anyway, I went home, graduated,
came back, and immediately I liked wanted to volunteer for
(06:35):
the Big ninety eight because they were doing an event,
and so I just asked someone work and I was like, Hey,
can I ever volunteer for events? I just want to
like see what you guys do. And she was like, oh,
we're actually hiring. So she hired me as a promotions tech,
which is the one that like drives the vehicle, you know,
like around town, sets up the ten at car dealerships,
and like I remember sometimes even Lunchbox was the talent
(06:58):
at the remote and I was the tech like setting
up the tamp for him. And then little did you know,
oh I know, I'm like, oh my gosh, now here right,
he's still annoying and in my life, I'm just kidding.
I'm kidding. So I did that, but then I was like,
I really need like real money. That was part time.
So then I worked at a video production company where
we hire like the camera guys, all the tour guys
(07:21):
that go out and set up the led screens for
concerts and tours and like cmafest, we did that. So
I was like operations manager and did all this stuff
in office. So it's a lot of administrative stuff, kind
of like running a company. But I was like, I
want to do something. I'm just sitting here doing a
lot of spreadsheets. I want to do something more, and
so I applied to the phone screener job, but I
(07:44):
didn't get it. And then two years later that's when
they were like, hey, are you interested? And I was
like yes because I just needed I needed a challenge,
like I wasn't. I had been there for five years
at this company, and I was like, I need to
grow and do something out of my comfort zone. So
I'm just sitting here and doing some cheats.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
So yeah, and here you are doing stuff out of
your comfort zone.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yes, a lot of things, A lot of things.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Yeah, that's kind of what the show likes to do, right,
to push each other out of our comfort zones. Even
if you don't.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
Want to go because that was the thing. I felt
like I was getting further from my dream when I
was doing that other job, Like I wasn't singing at all,
I wasn't doing anything with that. And now I'm kind
of at least getting back to my vision of Okay,
you moved here because you like to sing and you
wanted to play guitar, and so now I'm getting to
do those things. So, yeah, it is out of your
comfort zone. But you'd also like grow, Yeah, find out
what you're capable of.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
So that's the only way you grow is out of
your comfort zone. You stay in the comfort zone, you
don't grow at all. I know you, like it might
be like a pretty daisy, but like you're never going
to turn into a sunflower, right, yes, exactly. Yes, Okay,
well that was good. Thank you for sharing your story.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Yes, thank you. That was a long winded Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
It was good. It was good, and we're going to
come back. We got some questions about egg freeze.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Oh good, Yeah, let's talk about that.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Okay, be right back. I don't mean to laugh about
egg freezing. It just feels weird saying egg freezing. Yes,
that term feels weird. But the topic is not at
all funny.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
But the whole conversation. That's kind of why I laughed.
The whole conversation I brought up because I feel like
a lot of people didn't really understand what I was saying.
They thought I had to pick when I was talking
about career, yeah, versus family. They thought you have to choose.
But I was kind of saying more like specific. I'm
sure you understand, like coming to Nashville, coming for a
specific place, like I couldn't have this job anywhere else,
(09:30):
you know, So I think that's kind of more of
how I was saying.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
I totally understood what you were saying in this in
this whole conversation that happened because I've had the same
thoughts of myself. I'm like, Okay, if I move home
and get a regular job, I'll probably be able to
find someone and settle down. Probably will. The odds of
that are more likely me continuing in Nashville on this dream.
(09:55):
In a city that is full of dreamers, finding someone
to settle down with is like a needle in a haystack.
You know, people don't like to settle down in this town.
And so where you were coming from was one hundred
percent true, and it's not wrong to feel and think
that way. I think it was very honest. But I
do believe that you should always go after Here's the thing.
(10:18):
I would never stop my life for a person. I
would never stop being who I am for a person.
And the moment you stop doing that the moment you're
gonna start becoming unhappy. And so if you were to
move home, you will eventually be unhappy at some point
when I don't know. But if you stay on the
(10:39):
path of chasing whatever dream you want to chase and
doing whatever you want to do, and then hopefully finding
the person that you are supposed to find, then there
is greater chance at happiness. And even if you don't
find that person, there's still a greater chance of happiness
then going home and doing something that was not a
part of what you would originally wanted.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Right, you know, with the chance that you might meet
someone like, yeah, I would never do that, just like
move home and be like, oh, okay, now he has
to be here. Where is he?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
But it is like I totally get it, Like that
thought has crossed my mind because it's really hard to
settle down here. It is like I do say, Nashville
is a city of dreamers.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
It is.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
It is not for the week hearted in the week
as far as chasing dreams, but like as far as dating,
terrible town for it because nobody's settling down. They are
here to chase dreams. They're not here for you to
stop them from chasing said dream, you know. And so
it is hard to find that. But so all that
(11:34):
to say, the reason the question that I got asked
was from Crystal Lowman, I think I said that right.
Any thoughts on egg freezing as far as like for
you just right now, I'm I'm at different places.
Speaker 2 (11:50):
I know it's very expensive. There's one thing that it is.
I mean, it's definitely like an investment.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
It is.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
For me.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
I'm kind of like God's plan and I feel like
God's plan is whatever is meant to be will be.
And so I probably wouldn't freeze my eggs because I'm
either meant to for it to work out or I'm not.
I don't know, you know, I just feel like I
don't really have a big chance because I've never thought
(12:19):
about it. Seriously, that's a good question.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
I know it's hard. You know, like for me, I
have not thought about it. I have thought if I
hit a certain point, maybe if I hit thirty three
for me personally, that maybe it starts to become more
of a topic of conversation. But genuinely, like, right now,
I don't know that I want to have kids. I
(12:43):
don't know, like there's a part of me that would
be okay not, there's a part of me that would
be sad to not. And I don't know that until
I meet my person that I'm going to have that
actual answer if I'm just thinking that way because I'm
by myself right now and I don't want to have
kids by myself, you know, So I don't think until
I get to a point of finding that person that
(13:05):
I want to spend my life with, I'm gonna have
that answer to then be able to be like, Okay,
I need to freeze my eggs so we have the
time to explore this and see. I think that's why
I don't have either answer, And that's kind of where
you're at.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Yes, that's definitely because I want to have them with
the right person, don't want to have them by myself.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Yeah, I almost like I definitely want to make sure
I find a partner that's going to be a good
dad and a good partner and having kids, Like, I
don't need to be doing it on my own. I
don't want that, you know, So if that's the option,
then I definitely don't want to do it right. So
and maybe that's also reflective of what you're thinking too, huh.
Speaker 2 (13:42):
And I just I don't feel like I'm at the
age where I need to start thinking about that. I
just feel so much younger. I don't know, I feel
like I'm still like twenty five.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
You're as young as you feel. Yes, so if you
feil twenty five, then you're twenty five.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Uh huh. But like, realistically, when you think about it,
I'm like, oh, I probably is a good idea if
you do want to have if you know a hundred
percent you want to have kids, Yes, I think it
is a good idea to do. But yes, so I
probably should have, you know, like an age like you
where it's like, okay, right now, I have not even
thought about it or started any process.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
But well, I could say that, and I could say
that about thirty three, but who knows three comes? I'm like,
never mind, I don't want to think about it.
Speaker 2 (14:18):
So yeah, but it's good that you have like a number.
So but yeah, I don't really have a clear okay answer.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
That's a right, Well, Crystal, we tried. When we get
Kaylea Collins wants to know when we moved from Tennessee
to Kansas, what was your biggest fear that you conquered
over time Kansas to Tennessee. Yep, sorry, I don't know
why I wrote it backwards.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
No, you're good. What's the biggest fear?
Speaker 1 (14:41):
Yeah, that you conquered over time?
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Okay, this is funny. This is actually really funny. So
I had like fear of public speaking in college.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Okay, when I.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Took public speaking or speech class. Oh my gosh, Like
I hated it being in a small and that's kind
of like me was singing too. I just hated it.
And I was always so nervous. Like me right now,
I'm like thinking back and it's already making me flustered.
To me, be like, no, yeah, do it, because honestly,
(15:14):
I don't know what happens when my brain kind of
does that. It's happened on the show where sometimes I
just start to like zone out or I just get
I run out of ideas of what I was trying
to say. I don't I can't describe it. It's weird,
but it's only like a small portion group of people.
If I'm up on a stage or like talking in
front of like a crowd, it's not bad. It's only
(15:35):
like a small room because there were only like twelve
people in the class.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
And we work in a small room.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
Yeah, so I would say that just like not even
like the kind of stage fright I would say. And
I think I'm still trying to conquer that.
Speaker 1 (15:47):
Yeah, that's a good one. Also not funny. You said
this is funny, but it's not funny.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Well, it's just like ironic. It's ironic. Yeah, it's ironic.
I don't.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
I don't want to laugh at your pain of stage. Try.
Speaker 2 (15:59):
It's a small group of people, and I'm even with
I'm like that with my family. I remember, if you
Christmas ago, my uncle like had a guitar and he
was like, you want to sing? And I was like
I was, I didn't want to sing in front of
my family. There's like twenty of us, and I was like, no,
I'm shy. But it's like, oh my gosh, it's your family,
Like it's just a weird thing.
Speaker 1 (16:17):
Yeah, but I get it. Everybody has their things, so
it's not weird.
Speaker 2 (16:22):
I don't think it's weird, but still trying to work
on it.
Speaker 1 (16:24):
So, you know, mine, I think is a fear of failure.
I was really scared to move away from everyone and
everything I knew and fail and I would be out
by myself doing it. And I still have that problem.
I don't. I don't jump without having a plan. I'm
not a yeah, let's quit everything and figure it out.
I can't, like I physically don't have that in my bones.
(16:46):
I have to plan and be strategic and understand what's
coming next. So still a fear I'm trying to conquer
of just kind of letting go the reins a little
bit in general of my life. But uh, definitely failure,
big fear of that.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
Oh that is a good one. I mean yeah, because
that's a really hard thing to say when oh, I
moved here and then people are like, oh, what are
you doing? Oh not much. I've been here three years,
not much, But I'm like, you're here the opposite exactly. Yeah,
Like that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
It is, it is awesome, but it's still there, like
they're still in the back. I'm like, you know what, tomorrow,
everything could blow up in flames and I technically would fail,
you know what I mean, Like that's still there. It's
a very real thought process that my body goes through
in every opportunity, in every situation I'm in.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, what's really crazy is like we're kind of the
opposite in that is you want to have a plan
and you like to know what's happening next, and I'm
like the opposite. I'm just like, well, hopefully this works out.
I don't have a plan. I don't know what's going
to happen. And it's just like I'm just a huge
Like if the door opens and it feels right to you,
like walk through it. So that's weird. It's crazy that
both of us like took different paths and we.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
Still both ended up here.
Speaker 2 (17:56):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (17:57):
Like that's a testament too, Like you got to do
it how you feel it works for you. If you don't,
then it's definitely a haywire regardless of what you want. Right, Okay,
we got two more questions. We'll be right back all right,
talking about favorite things we've purchased from Amazon from Kelly
(18:18):
Neubauer I really hope I'm pronouncing half these last names corrected.
I'm not. I'm very sorry. One of my favorite things
while you kind of are.
Speaker 2 (18:27):
You looking at online? Yep?
Speaker 1 (18:29):
One of my favorite things is a little this little
contraption that I take with me when I travel. It's
on my Amazon page. Like if you go to my
Instagram and go to the link and bio, it's on there.
But it's this little piece that I hook up to
the back of the seat and I put my phone
in it and it holds up my phone so I
can watch everything, oh and not have to hold my
phone when I'm on an airplane. It's amazing. Is it
(18:53):
like ten dollars? No?
Speaker 2 (18:54):
Way?
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Yeah, that one's really cool. A water bottle I talked
about I think with Scuba that like for that and
Hazel that you push the button, water comes out and
when they're done drinking, you push the water it goes
back in.
Speaker 2 (19:06):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, those are all amazing, both amazing contraptions.
Speaker 2 (19:10):
Those are awesome.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
Hold on time, I think, are you looking at yours? Yes?
A lot of any others.
Speaker 2 (19:17):
For Halloween because I was Landy Wilson and I went
hard on Amazon getting bell bottoms and everything, try to.
Speaker 1 (19:23):
Figure out what you were gonna do. Yeah, that's fair.
I yeah, I'm trying to think of anything else. Like
front of Mine, Yeah, that I've purchased from Amazon, and
I don't know that I have any in this moment.
Those are just two that like really changed my change
my life. Oh. I do have timers that I have
all my Christmas trees on that I literally control an app.
(19:43):
I can just hit a button and they turn on
and off.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Oh my gosh. Look, I was just gonna show you that.
That's why I got this heavy duty like smart thing.
I just ordered it, but I haven't set it up.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
I think those might be the same ones I have.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Oh my gosh. So yeah, you plug it in and
you can control it like right now you could.
Speaker 1 (19:56):
Yeah. I can turn it on and off and you
can set schedules on it. It's amazing.
Speaker 2 (20:00):
I need you to help me set mine up. I
was struggling. I can get that.
Speaker 1 (20:03):
Yeah, okay, I got you. I can help you. But
that's a good one.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
So my ice maker is not tastes bad in my freezer?
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Yeah, just does.
Speaker 2 (20:11):
I don't know what's wrong with it. So I just
got like this portable little countertop ice maker, Like how
cute it is? It makes ice?
Speaker 1 (20:16):
Oh does it make a little little teeny tiny sonic ice.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
Yes, yeah, you can do two sizes and you can
plug it in anywhere, like you can take it with
you somewhere that it actually works. It does. It takes
a while to make the ice, because it does, but
it does freeze it really fast. But if you want
it like instant, if you want a whole bunch, you
would have to be a couple hours to okay making enough.
But I thought that was cool. I also got this
like little like tabletop fire like that goes outside random things. Yeah,
(20:44):
but you can have it inside Amazon is meant to
be random, like you just put alcohol in it, which
I don't know. All this fire kind of makes me nervous,
so I got to read up and make sure I
don't do anything dangerous. But it's just like a cute
little tabletop fireplace.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Oh yes, yeah, like I thought you were expected, Like
you know how I have the tables like full blown
table one. Huh No, that's what I was anticipating.
Speaker 2 (21:03):
It's got a little one.
Speaker 1 (21:04):
You got like a little flame. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (21:05):
I just can't like random things. I don't have that
nothing's good.
Speaker 1 (21:11):
It's like those are good jewelry. It's all right, Hey,
these are favorite things that make our life a little
bit easier. So true. We do have one more from
Emily Ferrara.
Speaker 2 (21:21):
I have to tell you one more I got. Oh
my gosh, it's so cute. It is a Christmas light
USB phone charger for your car, for your car. Look
at that and you plug it in.
Speaker 1 (21:31):
You you are you are buying plitlessing now I see it.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
Ten dollars, but it's so cute. I'm driving down the
road and my car is like a little up inside
like Christmas light.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Listen. I do love that because I love Christmas lights.
So I do like the vibe. But you do have
a bunch of random.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
It must have been really bored.
Speaker 1 (21:49):
I don't. I was either shop. You love to shop.
I do, okay, Emily for Rara for yep, we're rolling
with it. Biggest life lessons from our twenties and what
are we looking for it in our thirties? Oh, I
know this is a big question. I think the biggest
life lesson I learned in my twenties is that everyone
(22:13):
is not like me. They don't have a personality like me,
they don't have a heart like me. We are all
different humans and it can be very disappointing and very disheartening.
But it's also okay that we are not like each other.
But everyone is not going to be like you as
far as the way you see the world, the way
you feel about the world and your opinions and thoughts
(22:35):
and life, especially potential partners, Like you can't make somebody
feel certain things that you feel. That was a big
life lesson for me in my twenties. That's a good
feel like that just comes to mind, like without thinking
much about it. Mm hmm, anything that comes to yours.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah, Like mine would be know what you want, like
try to really like pinpoint once you want in life
and go after that because, like I said, mine, when
I didn't really know, I was like, oh, I'll just
see what happens. That's when I was in a job
for five years that I really wasn't that happy. I
knew it wasn't a direction I was going that I
wanted to go in. I was doing administrative work like
and doing spreadsheets. That's not something that's gonna get me
(23:14):
what I want to be doing. So I feel like
that like five years in my twenties was not really wasted,
but like it didn't challenge me, and I just feel
like I should have tried to do do some of
the goals I'm trying to make right now about singing,
Like I don't know why I waited in that five years, Yeah,
just because I really wasn't happy and I didn't have
motivation to do anything. So I just say, like, go
(23:36):
after what you want, like don't wait until later, Like
do it now, because like twenties is your best time
to like.
Speaker 1 (23:42):
Explore what to try a bunch of different yes.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
Like try everything. Don't just get stuck in a job
that just because it makes good money or whatever, Like
do what you really want to do and just try
everything you can. That's what I would say.
Speaker 1 (23:53):
No, it's a great life lesson and a very big one,
especially for you, like personally, mm hmm, okay, what about
looking forward to in our thirties.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
I am positive in my dating. I'm positive something good
is going to come in my thirties. Like I've been
with a lot of not great ones and I'm.
Speaker 1 (24:15):
Losing that boy's mind.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Yeah. Oh yeah, basically that like have not treated me
well and I'm finally like just saying I'm like, no,
you don't have to be treated that way, like that's
not normal, and don't make excuses for them. And so
I've finally like I'm like, that's what I'm looking forward to.
I know, like what I'm worth and I'm not gonna
settle or let anyone treat me that way again.
Speaker 1 (24:37):
I'm with you. I do feel like I'm I am
excited to meet the partner that's supposed to make my
life better, you know, not just find a partner that's
gonna be my boyfriend. Like I'm excited to meet someone
that will hopefully change the course of my life as
far as the way I see the world. Yes, and
experience partnerships and relationships. Right, So I have you like
(25:00):
I've d we all have seen it. I've dated some
crappy dudes. So I am excited and I am hopeful
that that person is around, Yeah, somewhere in my thirties,
Like a teammate.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
That's what I'm looking for. It's just a teammate.
Speaker 1 (25:13):
Yeah, Like, let's just do life together, not you by yourself,
not me and my myself like together, yes, and we
figured it out along the way.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
I think that's what that's what our thirties are gonna be.
Speaker 1 (25:24):
Yeah, and I'm I'm also just looking forward to see
what I do in my career. I'm excited because it's
a mystery to me right now, and I am excited
to see what my thirties will bring for what I do.
So I am excited for that.
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Yeah, you're but excited, which is understandable to be nervous.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
Yeah about dreams, life, Yes, love and the pursuit of happiness.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
That's what it's all about right there there, it is, okay, Abby, Well,
thank you joining me.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
Yeah, this is telling people where they can find you.
Speaker 2 (25:55):
I am on Instagram Abby Lee, Anderson l E, I
G H and then Twitter hang or X is it
X now I don't even know I'm hanging on to
singing Abby.
Speaker 1 (26:03):
You are that okay? And I'm at WEP Girl Morgan.
If you want any of those Amazon things, I do
have them linked on my Instagram bio. And of course
please follow the show at Bobby Bone Show. Lots of
good content up there, things that I talked about, and
you can check out part one where we went on
some unusual talent conversations, show rants, Christmas movies and a
(26:24):
mysterious Taco Bell package. So all good stuff over interesting,
very interesting. We'll see you later, ye
Hosts And Creators
Bobby Bones
Amy Brown
Lunchbox
Eddie Garcia
Morgan Huelsman
Raymundo
Mike D
Abby Anderson
Scuba Steve
Popular Podcasts
Dateline NBC
Current and classic episodes, featuring compelling true-crime mysteries, powerful documentaries and in-depth investigations. Follow now to get the latest episodes of Dateline NBC completely free, or subscribe to Dateline Premium for ad-free listening and exclusive bonus content: DatelinePremium.com
24/7 News: The Latest
The latest news in 4 minutes updated every hour, every day.
Therapy Gecko
An unlicensed lizard psychologist travels the universe talking to strangers about absolutely nothing. TO CALL THE GECKO: follow me on https://www.twitch.tv/lyleforever to get a notification for when I am taking calls. I am usually live Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays but lately a lot of other times too. I am a gecko.