Bobby On Inviting His Biological Dad To His Future Wedding + Was Amy's Situation With Her Son Was Just A 'White Lie'? + Mike D Got Punished In Public

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, the Bobby Bones post show pre show on
our radio show, we talked maybe a couple weeks ago
at Eddie's fantasy football team. And because your parents, my
in laws, they saw the name of your team. Yeah,
they were in town when I was drafting, and they're like,
explain this whole fantasy draft thing. And I was showing
them in. Right on the top of my computer screen

(00:21):
was my team name, the San Francisco sixty nine Ers,
a play on the forty nine ers. And then my
mother in law was like, what why why sixty nine nerves?
You know what I found out later too, my wife
said she knows what that means. Oh you think she
was with you. I'm like, oh, my gosh, she was
totally trying to get me. Well. Some listeners have asked,

(00:41):
how the sixty nine ers are doing, Oh, dude, you
want to know undefeated? My friend, Wow, the sixty nine
ers are four? And oh, who's your quarterback? Josh, No,
who's my homes My homes is really yeah, I hope
I get Corona. Well, I know this past week. I
know this. That is the thing about fantasy football this
year is we have to worry not only about injury,
is corona. That's why you draft the person, even if

(01:02):
their handcuff isn't that good. You have I'm just in
case you're right, But I propose too to our league
leader or whatever, that they should give us extra points
if our player gets corona. Oh nice, come on an
automatic ten. You're right, Since they're gonna be out for
a week or two whatever, you might as well give
us points for Is this the sore Loser league? No?
This is another league? Okay, and are you is it

(01:23):
big money league? Yeah, it's big money. How much do
you win if you win the whole league? Almost a thousand? Yeah? Wow? Yeah,
that's kind of small money compared to sore Losers, but
big money. So wait, but how many people are in
sore Losers? Forty eight? But is it all one? It's
not eight teams? Yeah, forty eight teams, four divisions. But
but same players can be into Yeah, so in the

(01:43):
playoffs you have four separate drafts, and so in the
playoffs you can have the same players playing against it.
It could be Patrick Mahomes versus Patrick Winn Right, okay,
so it'll all be settled on the players that don't match.
How much money can you win? The losers. It's twenty
three hundred bucks for overall winner, and then like a
thousand for second place, five hundred for third, and two

(02:03):
hundred bucks for fourth, and every division winner gets two
hundred bucks. So who's winning that league right now? Eddie undefeated? There?
Two uns? What's that team names? That one's called just
I think it's what I think it's called Corona, Corona
Eddie or something. Yeah, all of them are like super
vulgar names. Eddie's butt play No No, But that's our

(02:24):
second year doing that though, and last year Ashley from
Green Bay on it just took us all out, you know, Lunchbox. No,
but Lunchbox did like girls can't play fantasy and three
won the whole thing. So how's your team doing. I'm
one and three. I'm the third highest scoring team out
of forty eight team. Hey you I didn't mentioned that team. Yeah,

(02:45):
I'm three and one, baby. One of us is gonna
win the league, which is really sad because we have
all these forty five listeners playing and we're just gonna
crush them all. Which is sad because lunch seems amazing.
He will eventually win his division. I'm crushing my division.
I honestly think we're all gonna be in the playoffs
and we're just splitting the money, which is not how
it was designed. Were you guys, chopped pot with us
three means yeah, I'm always game for that, yeah, instead

(03:08):
of risking it. Yeah. Wendy Williams was talking about coronavirus
on our show. Here's what Wendy Williams calls coronavirus. She
can't quite say it. Don't be afraid of Crnova. Don't
let it dominate your life, sir. We are here out
in the field. We are frightened of Cornova. You got it,

(03:28):
so we can get it. Is it that she just
can't say it, or that she's trying to make though
I say things wrong all the time, trying to do
it twice in a row sometimes I'll catch myself. But
Cronova is very wrong. That sounds like an island. Guys.
We're gonna go to Cronova this summer. It's gonna be great.
It's a resort. You'll love it. You're gonna love the
beach at Cronova. Okay. Amy left at one point in

(03:52):
the show, which is why she's not here right now.
She had some stuff she had to go take care
of So I think that's set for now. I give
you one final story before we get to the radio show.
In Oklahoma City, some jailer's face cruelty charges because on
Loop musically they turned the volume way up and they
played Baby Shark over and over and over and over again.
Is that the torture? Two former detention officers and their

(04:16):
supervisor or charged Monday after an investigation found inmates at
the Oklahoma County Jail they were forced to listen to
Baby Shark Unloop at loud volumes for extended periods of time.
They were subjected to the inhumane discipline. That's terrible. Listen
to that crap. It's terrible, dude. I hear it all
the time too. Yeah. I was gonna say, parents, hear
that all My baby, my foster baby, he loves. And

(04:38):
I told you there's not just baby Shark anymore. Now,
it's a brush, my te t. They do it to everything,
that same melody, to anything, time to go potty potty potty,
like everything. So you should take him a court. I
will he'll win because the presidents in humane. All right.
Enjoy today's show. Check out Kaylee Short's podcast she's got

(04:58):
one called too much to say. Check out Velvet's Edge
with Kelly Henderson and here is today's radio show. It's
really good. Check it out. Transmitting the Alaska. Welcome to

(05:18):
Wednesday's show, Morning Studio. Morning. Let's hear from Chris and
Illinois who left a voicemail last night Morning Studio. Reason
for the call volunteering my services go with the lunchbox
to the murder house. I'm a cop here in Illinois
within driving distance to that location. One thing you might
need to think about, Lunchbox is you've already told people

(05:41):
on which a day you're going to be there and
where that location's at. So you might need somebody to
help protect you from inside the house and outside the
house if people are going to show up and try
to mess with you from outside. So God, give me
a call, have a good day. Why would anyone mess
with you? Yeah? What in the world? We didn't think
about that, but that's possible. We just gave your exact
and this guy just gave people idea like he just

(06:03):
filled this any ELP when that cannon want goodness, Frank
and Charlie is sitting listening now, I think about that.
Let's go messing him. Oh, how many days here we
go Jean Dade until once Box goes to the axe
murderer ghost house, be a friend, very free. Well, he's

(06:29):
gonna spend the night in the house where a bunch
of people were murdered. What's we have an update here
on Lauren Alena. We have an update on my wife.
Because people were concerned that I was going with another chicken.
I was like, my wife won't care. And then after
I thought about it, I was like, maybe I should
ask my wife what she thinks. Lauren Alena, the country singer,
said yeah, I'll go. It's ten hours there, ten hours back.
So here's Lunchbox secretly recording. Yeah, my wife has no idea.

(06:52):
I found someone to go to maze with me. Oh wow,
she wants to. She wants to? Yeah, she said she
would do it. She was like, what about your wife?
I mean, what do you think. I'm fine with it. Oh,

(07:12):
I don't care. I feel like this is getting I
can just surprised that you, like, that's a long time
to be with just one other person that you don't
know that well. But regardless of who it is. But
regardless I heard what she said, what did she mean no,
she just meant that it might be awkward because it's

(07:33):
kind of like a stranger and I'm gonna be stuck
in a car with someone for twenty hours, ten hours
there or ten hours back, and she goes, but I
got no problem with it, So don't you wonder to
a little bit of a problem with it just selfishly
where you're like, yeah, she should worry because I'm a
hot commodity and about me. No, see, I don't because
I want her to understand in the world that I'm
gonna hang out with chicks and that you can be

(07:54):
cool with it. And I try to tell you, guys,
my wife is cool and she hasn't. She doesn't worry
about that kind of stuff and it makes life so
much easier. Or does she not worry because it's you?
And she's like, there's no way Lauren's gonna try to
make out with him. Yeah, And then if she would,
would you be that cool if she went on a
road trip with some guy County let's say Riley Green. Yes, guy, Oh,

(08:17):
like do you understand that? Like I'm in a marriage
and I look, I know my wife digs my chili
and I dig her chili. Like, that's all I care about.
And I'm not worried about people bringing chili in and
being like, oh, this chili's better, and why are we
committing to chili. I've never heard that before. So as
of today, it's still Lauren. Yes, I have not heard anything.
I don't have her number. They won't give it to me.

(08:39):
See other people looking at too, like I was, you know,
I was gonna try to hit her up, see what,
like kind of snacks we need to bring and who's
gonna do what? But they won't give me your number.
As up today, it's still Lauren. Yeah, okay, and my
wife's good. Yeah, with it, with it, Let's open up
the millbag. Bobby is Mail Morning Studio. My name is Derek.

(09:03):
To make a long story short, my wife invited her
twenty two year old sister to live with us after
her boyfriend kicked her out after with her myself for
two weeks. I can see why he threw her out.
She's a real slob. She leaves every room a disaster area. Also,
she likes to watch TV very loudly at night, which

(09:26):
I find rude. Of course, my wife doesn't ask her
to pick up after herself or correct any of her
behavior because she's quote healing right now, so it's not
my place to ask her to pick up or is
it in the kitchen after she cooks and eats? Also,
at what point do I ask her to start paying
some rent? Any advice on what to do? Question mark,

(09:47):
signed Derek. There's your email of the day, Amy. I'll
let you hear this one first. Oh, a family meeting
needs to happen. And while it's okay to respect her
healing process, she can't just walk her out and take
over somebody's home and she that needs to be brought
to her attention because I don't think she would want
to live that way either if she knew, and maybe she's, yeah,

(10:08):
she's focused on other things. But if you sit down
and just say, hey, we're happy to have you here,
We're sorry that you're hurting, but like to live here,
We're gonna need you to do X, Y and Z,
and everyone's going to be happier for it, because when
you have one person in your house bringing everything down,
it's a real, you know, fun suck. You can kind

(10:28):
of sense the resentment, yes, building to a whole new
level with him in this email to explode and it
won't be good, and it'd be good for the long
lasting family, not her who's hitting it, quitting it and
getting out, you know. Yeah, and she's also twenty two.
We were all dumbies at twenty two and didn't quite
know what we were doing. She just needs to be
shaken a little bit. Hey, we're happy to have you here.

(10:49):
And I would be as direct as you possibly could.
First tell your wife, we're have it. Make it a
family meeting. But how you gonna have family without her
in it? You just need to talk to your wife
and say, hey, we need to say something to her,
and then say something to her. Yeah. Where, But it's
not like you want to scold someone else's kid. You
also don't want to scold someone else's sister. So you go, hey, hey,
twenty two year old, love having you here. That sucks

(11:11):
what you went through, man, And then relate to that
I went through something similar x y Z. This is
how it hurt me, so I get it. Here's the
thing though, here, like we kind of go buy these
rules and it's annoying for me to pick stuff up
too all the time, but I do it so the
house stays running. So we're gonna need to focus on
that a little more. ABCDEFG boom. Yeah, it should work

(11:31):
a bit, and then you rent after three months, and
three months is a long time. After three months is
when you start going, hey, if you're gonna live here,
you gotta somehow contribute to what we're doing. A month
is right about the time where it stops to be comfortable.
It stops being comfortable to uncomfortable. The second month is like,
when are they leaving the whole time? Third month you're miserable,

(11:54):
but that's living there. So after a month three that's
when she needs to start contributing, or if you don't
want her to contribu be a no one to live there. Hey,
we need to have an exit plan for this. Hey,
we're happy to help you. When do you think you'll
move out? So we can help you get to that place.
It's every conversation, all the communication is all about relating
and helping, even though it's about kicking her butt out.
That's what I say. That's interesting you through the relating

(12:17):
in there, and I think that's super important. In some
parenting books I'm reading, especially when you're dealing with teenagers
that have been through stuff. The one of the best
ways to connect with them if you're looking to connect
is to share a relatable story. It may not be
the exact same thing they've been through, but it creates
a safe space, and that's good. That's what you're doing there.

(12:38):
He can create that with the twenty two year old.
It's not a sister. He can create a safe space
for her to feel comfortable and be like, oh, okay, yeah,
you're not so bad. I'll do whatever I need to
do to pitch in. When someone understands you, they'll listen
to you. Yes, exactly, So let's suggest. Yeah, there you go.
Good luck with that. That stinks. It's a good advice,
though it'll probably happen. Yeah, a couple more times in life.

(12:58):
Your sister, her sister, her mom. I moved in with
my sister and her husband when I was twenty two
because my boyfriend broke up with me. But I live
with him. But I think it was fine. I'm sure
they would probably tell you some stories where it got
a little annoying, but I think I tried to help

(13:19):
out and do my part. They had a new baby
at the time. I would try to babysit if I could,
to help out. I didn't really pay anything, but if
like he needed help with his work. He had just
started a company, I would go be his assistant for
the day. And I don't think he paid me, but
I mean I had a free place to live. Okay.
I hear her resentment growing too, and that was bobbies mail. Bad.

(13:44):
This is Michelle in Pittsburgh. Michelle, welcome to the show
What's going on? Morning Studio? Morning? Well, I wanted to
call him real quick and talk about the thunder stolen
at my wedding. Please do so. My younger sister got
engaged the morning of my wedding. Wow, oh no, no, no,
that's bad. Well is it her fault though? And she

(14:07):
didn't go okay, so very very quickly. They lived in Germany.
My sister and her boyfriend at the time lived in Germany.
They came home for my wedding, and while they were
home in Pittsburgh, his family here, her family here, they
got engaged. But they did it on the morning of
my wedding, and my father start up and toasted them
at my wedding. Usually I'm on the side of there's

(14:32):
enough joy to go around. Yeah that's a little too close. Yeah,
that cuts a little too. Why could they do it
the day after the weddings? I mean, if you're there
only for a short window, why not right after? Right right?
And and yes, I don't know, I don't know. We
did it the morning of? Were you so ticked? Um?
You know, I was really happy for her, but her

(14:53):
marriage laughed and minded not so maybe it was a sign.
I don't know. I mean, I'm I'm happily married seventeen
years for my second husband, so it's fine. But um,
maybe that was a sign for that day. I don't know.
What a story. Well, thank you for sharing it with us,
Thanks for listening. Thanks, thanks so much. All right, see
you lady. Let's go over to May. Who is calling

(15:14):
us in Arkansas? May? What's going on? Oh my gosh,
it's actually you. Hi. I just wanted to call and
thank you guys so much. I'm calling from cabin, Arkansas,
and I can just relate to you guys. My husband's
Air Force pilot and um, we're actually um fostering two

(15:37):
little girls right now, and we just we love listening
to you guys. My son I drop him off at
his um developmental school. He's autistic, and we'll sing along
to the Bobby Bones Show. And I just want to
thank you guys so much thanking. All she needs is
a bulldog and to be blind in one eye. And
she's part of all of us. I mean, Amy's husband
was in the in the Air Force, was a pilot.

(15:58):
Edie's fostering kids to two of them, and I'm from Arkansas,
that's where she is perfect. Holy krap. May we're basically you.
You're like, well, that's awesome, and tell your son we
say hello and thank you for calling us. Well, thank
you so much. All right, see you later. Right, let's
do one more. This is Hope in Ohio. Hope you're
on the Bobby Bones Show. What's going on? Oh my gosh,

(16:19):
morning studio. Yeah, okay, crossed that off the bucket list.
I called because I just wanted to tell Mike relax,
you didn't do anything wrong with my brother proposed to
his girlfriend at my wedding, at the wedding reception, and
I didn't even know who would do that, well, who
would even do that? That's insane. No, acsolutely, Bobby, you

(16:40):
didn't bother me at all. I found out when we
got back from our honeymoon. And I really wish they
would have led him to tell everybody. All of our
family and friends were together, and it would have been
a perfect time for them to announce it. I would
not have been offended at all. Well, you are very
loving and giving and that there's no way if someone
got engaged at my wed, I would be I'd be

(17:02):
one but her forever, and then two I would just
be like you would question there, I would just be confused,
like why yeah, um, well, thank you for calling. Thanks
for listening to the show too. I hope we appreciate that.
Thank you. Thanks so much for love talking to you
all right, see later, Hey, coming up. Though there is
a little little drama with ray Mundo's weddings, it's work.
Because this is like day three of this. You can

(17:22):
tell when a bit really works. People are still calling
the latest from Nashville and Tullywood and Morgan Number two
thirty second Skinny More. Performers announced for the CMT Music Awards.
Kaylee hammock Ingrid andrews Riley, Green Hearty, Mickey Guyton, and
Travis Stinning will all perform. The show is happening in

(17:42):
October twenty feet on CMT. Shania Twain shared in an
interview that she's been texting with pop artist Harry Styles
about a collaboration. Definitely. We text each other off and
on about music and toying with the idea of doing
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each other too. That you can count on it. I'm

(18:03):
going to hold him to it. That's a dream collaboration
for me for sure. Luke Colums gave fans another taste
of his deluxe album, coming out on October twenty third.
He shared a teaser of the song called Cold as
You Melo club Planning, Damn Man and when you walk
for this bro car food, an old barstool drinking beer,

(18:25):
almost dance Cold as You. I'm Morgan number two. That's
your skinny hat. It's time for the good News with Bobby.
Music teacher Stephanie Katza wanted to make sure her students
wouldn't miss out on the music class experience because listen,
it's virtual. You're missing a lot of experiences. So she

(18:47):
and a group of other teachers came up with a
plan to help the kids still be able to connect
when they wanted to make music while learning online. She
learned there are seventy five hundred kindergarteners through sixth graders
and their Appleton Area School district in Wisconsin that supplies
and money and need help. So what they did They
went to all the local music vendors. They went to
a bunch of folks in the neighborhood and they raised

(19:07):
over fifty six thousand dollars and she made They made
all these kits with like an eggshaker, rhythm sticks, drumsticks,
like a lot of music stuff so they can still
have this stuff and do it virtually. Awesome, Pretty cool.
I love to see a teacher because most do man.
Most go out of their way to make sure the
kids are able to learn and and figure it out.
That's what it's all about right there. That was tell

(19:27):
me something good. Sorry today, this story comes from us
from Tempe, Arizona. A man works for Amazon in the
customer service department, and he tells his friends, Hey, set
up some fake Amazon accounts and I'll just start issuing
you refunds. Like yeah, So they set up eight accounts
and over three months, he gave them back ninety six

(19:49):
thousand dollars in credit. Wow, in three months, not spread
it out over a couple of years. Three months ninety
six thousand dollars in refunds and he gets arrest. Wow,
you know this, that probably works if it's less money. Yeah,
office space theory just a little bit. Wow, that's crazy.
I'm lunchbox. That's your bone head story of the day.

(20:13):
All right, best and worst time? Ready up first, the
best concert you've ever been to? Best concert. I'm gonna
go Garth in Little Rock. That was so good. We
all went together. That was a big part of it. Well,
you can have that one if you're like, hey, I'll
knew John Mayor Minneapolis then because I was torn anyway, Okay,

(20:34):
you take it John Mayor Minneapolis early recently. Yeah, both
of these are in the last couple of years, so
I'm gonna go that amy years. Mine would be Garth
Brooks and Little Rock A when we took a road
trip there, me and Eddie. It was fun. It was fun.
We only went just to go to the show, like
we just did something for ourselves, Eddie. Best concert, Oh, man,
I want to say that one, but I can't. I'm
Pearl Jam and you two in Hawaii to me was

(20:56):
the best Lunchbox. Best concert. Oh, it had to be
Jay Z and Eminem at Yankee Stadium in New York. Awesome, incredible.
Was that a gift? It was a gift, Bobby. I mean,
I can't thank you enough. You You got those tickets
for me, and it was amazing. Worst concert you've ever
been to? Oh gosh, oh I think about that one.

(21:18):
The worst. I'm gonna tell you mine, but oh my god,
mine was just because he was sick and I felt
bad for him. Amoss Lee at the Ryeman he lost
his voice completely. He gutted it out, worked as hard
as he could. I love him, He's so good, but
it was terrible because I just he couldn't sing. I
felt bad for him. So I'm gonna go that for
my worst concert. Okay, worst concert, Amy, y'all are going

(21:38):
too or some people are not going to like that
I'm saying this, But for me, it was because of
the people that were around us. I left at Eric
Church concert early because it was the people where we were.
They were obnoxious, Amy, you did what I leave my chef,
so I don't. It wasn't Eric Church's fault, but they

(22:01):
were his fans. Eddie oh Man. I hate to say this,
but when I saw Bob Dylan live once it's like
playing music trivia with the artists, like what song is that?
It sounds familiar? How does it feel like? I realised, like,
what's happening? It was terrible lutchbikes. Man, it would have
to be Willie Nelson, guys. I went and saw him.

(22:22):
He was old, you couldn't understand what he's saying, like
you're saying about Bob Dylan, and I just turned around.
I was like, not for me, you see you later, Oh, Willie.
Best and worst feelings in the world, Best and worst
feelings in the world. I mean the best feeling is

(22:43):
like that's a more of a doing of something like
cuddling up and feeling safe and love. I feel like
that's a really good feeling that we all want, cuddling,
feeling secure and safe and love. Like it's a that's
a feeling to me. Um and then worst sick nauseous physically,

(23:04):
like the worst feeling and the like, yeah, it's like
the worst feeling in the world. Oh yeah, nausea. Okay,
I mean that's pretty bad. Yes, so it's getting shot,
never happened, painful thing, so like oh heart, heart, like
a great feeling would be Okay, I got it. Would

(23:26):
be not having a set your alarm because you get
to sleep in the next day. Yea. A terrible feeling
would be for me waking up and going, oh my god,
I'm late. Oh gosh, that was stressful. Like those are
the feeling that is a bad one. And he's like,
best feeling when you get a massage. No, I was
on what feels the best? What's the best, Eddie, best

(23:49):
and worst feeling? All right? So the best, for sure
is when you catch a fish and it's biting that lie,
I don't know why, when it's such a cool feeling,
all right. And worse I was leaning with Amy kind
of the physical thing. I hate it when it rains
on me, like like I hate when I'm dry and
rain is making me wet. I hate that feeling. Lunchbikes. Oh,

(24:11):
the best feeling in the world is winning. It doesn't
matter what it is, winning a board game, winning a
game on this show, winning anything is the best. Scratching
a lottery ticket and winning five dollars, best feeling ever.
Worst losing hunger, Oh, hungers for you, good hunger. When
you are hungry, there's nothing worse in the world because

(24:31):
all you can think about is food and that's all
you want to do is eat, and it's just it
won't go away. I feel like we struggle with this
category because very physical things. It's supposed to be like
a feeling, like an emotional thing. Yeah, but at first
you didn't say that just a feeling, said feeling when
you getting your feelings, is that because I'm punched you?
But feeling has different meanings. Best and worst sound, Yeah, yes,

(24:54):
feeling the feeling. You just get to sleep in the neck.
You're like, this is gonna be great. Yeah, I don't
have any pressure. I'm gonna wake up. And the worst,
as you can see, I'm very time orion in my life.
When you wake up and you're already late. It's the worst,
best and worst sounds. The worst sound is nails on
a chalk ward. I cannot handle that. The best sound

(25:18):
is I don't know. I'll go while you think about it.
Best sound is for me when I write a new
joke and I'm on stage and stand up and at
the first time I deliver it in the crowd just
goes ah and laughs hard. That is the best, most
rewarding sound. Yeah, because it's you're always vulnerable, trying on
immaterial and when it hits and people laugh, and that's
just the best to me, that that fills me on

(25:40):
the inside. It's pretty cool. Um. The worst is a
dentist drill terrible. What's your best? I don't know, like
a song that I like when it comes on, but
that goes back to feelings, and that would be the
best feeling, Eddie, I was gonna say the best sound

(26:03):
is just sports on TV. Like I don't even need
to be watching it. I love the sound of a
TV with sports on. Um. The worst to me is
probably silence. I don't like silence. That scares mech best
sound is me as a baseball hitting a baseball bat.
The crack of the bat is just that makes me
feel with a roar. No, just a crack of the bat.

(26:23):
I love that. Worst sound is someone writing in a
regular pencil. If it's not mechanical, it gives me the
chills and it drives me nuts. Reality shows best and worst.
Amy best would be Real Housewives, like all of them okay,
and then worse would be um, what was that Jim
Tan laundry one? Yes, Eddie, Man, I don't watch the

(26:50):
reality TV though, I don't know best big Brother, Worse
Real World, who knows, I don't care. Lunch uh tie
for best of Survivor and The Challenge, and the worst
is Love Island and Big Brother, two shows Ray tells
me are great and they are horrendously bad. The awful
nothing happens. I've watched all summer, three nights a week,
and nothing happens. Nothing. That's terrible. Best and worst for

(27:15):
me Best American Idol, of course, thank you very much.
And worse the Voice, you know what I go that
one good one? Or the or the teens getting pregnant yea,
all the teens? Oh, come on, all those shows are
a little tough for me. Ray's weddings coming up in

(27:36):
a little over two weeks. And so him and Bay
have been together for six years or so, right, Yeah,
And when you were deciding on your first dance song,
did you kind of go through your time together or
did you pick a song that was current? Pretty much
a current song that we've heard on the radio. That's good, okay,
and you you decided to go with what we went with.
Taylor Lover now I remember, and that's you in hers

(28:04):
first dance. Yeah, and so but now you're changing it.
We had to just because the political climate and I
believe there's a debate right before our wedding and everybody
right now is Democrat Republican and it's a hard line.
So we just said get away from that because we
feel like this is a very political artist, because Taylor
Swift hates Donald Trump. Yes, you're not gonna play at

(28:24):
your wedding. We didn't want people hearing it and being like,
I don't associate her music. I can take the art
and the artist and separate them. Yeah, almost every time.
Sometimes I can if it's r Kelly, when it's something
like that. Yeah, but even then I'm still like, man,
I love, I believe I can fly and I don't.
But but does anyone when he played that go well,

(28:45):
because Taylor Swift hates Donald Trump, he probably shouldn't play
that about the Nope, Nope, Now that Rays brought it
to my attention. I still don't think it. Who brought
that up? Between you guys, We just started. We discussed
random stuff on the patio all the time, and that
was something we ought about. Hey, it's a really I mean,
there's a divide right now with politics in our country.
Why play an artist that's really political? I just don't

(29:07):
think if Taylor as being I think she has a
side and she uses her platform to educate about the
things that she felt strongly about. But I don't think
she's negatively political. I mean she goes. I feel she
goes very very Okay, maybe I just don't see it
as hard she goes. So it's still up in the
air what we're going to switch it to. But we

(29:28):
have kind of thrown around as a song from when
me and her both kind of grew up with. Okay, well,
which is like really nostalgic for everybody, truly madly deeply
sas what is this like two thousand and one or something.
I mean this is our wheelhouse when we were kids
at school dances interesting pick you guys didn't know each

(29:52):
other then. But mostly it's about the message of the song. Yeah,
I mean everybody wanted to dance to this song when
we're in school, Savage Garden, Truly Madly Deep nineteen ninety seven.
And they're not American, I don't think, right, no, but
that doesn't matter. Well, no, if they're trying to stay
away from political stuff, I think they're good here. Oh
you mean they're staying out Yeah, guys for neutral. Taylor

(30:13):
Swift doesn't post it on Instagram since August eighteen. Maybe
her Instagram stories Okay, yeah, Mike right, she's been doing
a lot of her stories. Oh story, Okay, because I
was like, wait, I need to go see this. How
have I been missing it? I don't know. I don't
know either. Fine, I like her. I would like to
encourage you to stay with Taylor Swift lover. Okay. I

(30:35):
mean the first thing that happens is somebody yells out
Democrats right when we're trying to dance. Who would do
that though? Maybe my parents? I don't know. Wait, when's
the election? Three? Right right before? I mean just say, hey,
we're action so yell bag, we're keeping politics out of this.

(30:57):
Oh boy. Okay, if you do change let us know
the song. You've changed it too. I would encourage you
not to change it. Jah show anyone agree with him? No, okay,
we're all for once on the said of being against
Ray in this. Okay. I will put it on Facebook too,
because our listeners on Facebook have nothing political to say. Yeah,
they're not passionate. And this is Molly from southern California.

(31:24):
I wanted to let you know that I have been
a part of the COVID vaccine trial and I got
my first shot, and so far I have felt fine.
It feels like a police shot. I you know, my
arm feels a little tender and there's like a tiny
little like Charlie horse knot, but otherwise I feel fine.

(31:44):
So maybe that will encourage you and I can call
you after I get my second shot in a month
and let you know how that goes, and that'll encourage
everyone else to get the vaccine when it is available.
And she said, and I cut this off. Her third
eye in her neck is growing up and she's just
now starting to see through it. She's so brave. That's
pretty cool though, that she's in the vaccine trial. Um

(32:07):
Eddie said he had good news and bad news. Regarding
his good news is I think I can smell now again,
I'd say close to one hundred percent. My neighbor would
had a little fire going in the backyard and I
can smell it from my house, which that was not
a thing last week. So that's good. Bad news is
the doctor said antibodies are gonna last till October mid October. Ish.
I think now those things are connected in my mind.

(32:28):
I feel like now that I'm smelling more, that might
mean my antibodies are going away and I'm no longer superhuman.
So I can't be like, hey, what's up, everybody shake
my hand. I'm good. No, I might have to go
back normal. Now, what do you mean you're not normal?
You could still pass it on, I know, but mentally
I was like, yeah, this virus can do anything to me.

(32:49):
Now I'm like, all right, now, I gotta just chill
back back again like everyone else. It's kind of scary, man.
It's kind of scary because because I'm telling you, for
a little bit I felt invincible. But I'm back to normal.
You're Samy's pile of stories. So Halloween is almost here,
and it's obviously going to look a little bit different

(33:09):
because the coronavirus. But a group of parents want people
to put purple pumpkins outside their houses to show that
they're a safe location for trick or treaters. So if
you've got a purple pumpkin, you're telling people that, hey,
we've been sticking to the health guidelines for COVID nineteen
and no one has tested positive here. Step right up.
I don't like that because I would feel pressure in

(33:31):
my pumpkin purple even if I hadn't been doing that right,
And then everybody's guidelines in their head are a little
different to what they've been doing. So yeah, I just
don't know how. I'm sure that for some this can
be really like a good example of like, hey, yeah,
this is what we've been doing, and you can feel
safe to go in here. But how could you can't know? Yeah,
there's no way but look for purple pumpkins while you're

(33:53):
trick or treating. So this guy in North Carolina, he
applied for paytech protection, Graham loans, paycheck protection, Yeah, the ones, Yes,
that came up. And he used all the names from
Game of Thrones to do it, to fraud, like to
get money. So he got paychecks in everyone's name. Yeah,

(34:13):
well he only got a few of them approved, which
how that even happened, I'm not quite sure. But he
applied for fourteen PPP loans and that's over six point
one million dollars and he received he received more than
one point seven million. Wow, did they say that to callis? Yeah?
Callis white Walker, the Night's Watch, white Walker, is anyone

(34:37):
these names? Well, I think eventually somebody put it together
because an investigation was launched, and yeah, all the there
was fake documents, falsified tax filing. Dumb of him not
to just use names that he made up of generic
people caught. Obviously, White Walker's not gonna last forever. Someone's
eventually going to catch that, all right, what else? He's

(34:58):
the big Game of Thrones fan. Reba McIntyre has a
new boyfriend. I guess they started dating earlier this year,
and it's the CSI actor Rex Lynn. I saw picture.
I didn't know who he was. Oh, CSI Miami, you
didn't never watch Okay, I know who he is. I
saw the headline. I thought it was gonna be Ho Ratio,
the redhead dude from YEA Cool. No, I don't know

(35:19):
any of these people are well listen, I'm glad she's
got a new boyfriend. I knew her old boyfriend in
a little bit. Yeah. Yeah, name Skeeter. Yeah Peter, she said,
because who was in a couple times to talk about him. Yeah.
She said that because of the pandemic they were able
to really get to know each other well through texting,
face time and talking. Good. But that guy's gonna be

(35:41):
like I got That's what I was thinking. Yeah. And
also it was Anthony Skeeter Lazoso. Ye Skeeter, I told
you you just guys laughed at me like I would
just call. Skeeter is a photographer that she met through
her friend kicks By, like a nature photographer. Yeah you
knew that. Yeah, he made money in the old business. Yeah,

(36:02):
I knows, all right. Which, speaking of kicks Brooks, just quickly,
he's going to be in the movie along with ray
Lynn called A Nashville Christmas Carol, and it's set to
premiere on the Hallmark Channel as part of their Hallmark
Christmas Movies. I'll know we were twenty first. I'm so
excited about that. Yeah. I saw Raylan out a movie
outside of a movie trailer on Instagram, going, I'm shooting
a movie. That's cool. Yeah. Yeah. A Nashville Christmas Carol

(36:25):
is one of forty new holiday themed movies that will
premiere on the Hallmark Channel this Ye're starting October twenty third.
Think Janet Kramer did one of those. Two pretty recently
finished another one. Yeah, yeah, look at that. Okay, Oh,
Dolly Pardoner Runaway June. We're also releasing new holiday projects. Yeah,
we do is Dolly already out? Dolly's is out? I
believe yes, or maybe one song of it, the whole

(36:47):
thing's out. Yeah, I think it didn't come out. We
talked about it, all right, I'm Amy. That's my pabum.
That was Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the
good news. Ay. So there's a zoomba teacher named Carlos
and when the pandemic hit, he had to shut down
his in person zoomba classes. So then he decided to

(37:09):
do them online from his apartment. He turned it into
like a Honolulu, Hawaii theme and told his students, hey,
I don't want you to pay for these, I'm just
putting these up. If you really want to make a payment,
just donate to the Hawaiian Food Bank. And so that's
what they did, and so far his students have donated

(37:30):
around seventy six hundred dollars. Oh, he didn't want any money,
huh No. And he's still they're still getting their zoomba on.
That's still be like, well, let me just get my
rent and then well, I don't know. I think that
he probably has a job some zoom you know, fitness instructor.
I know, I don't know. I'm saying some fitness instructors
that I knew or know they have a job and

(37:50):
then teaching a couple of classes a week as their hobby,
passion and type thing. You know, I saw who watched
Last Chance of you in this room? Anybody? Nobody? You
guys don't watch Last Time. There's a couple of seasons.
So on the first two seasons, they're in Mississippi, UM
Eastern Mississippi. It's a community college on there, and the
girl Brittany who works as the director of all the

(38:11):
student the student athletes to make sure they get the
grades to be able to Yeah, yeah, she'd like the
star the first two seasons and she I was ready.
She's a boxing coach now as well, so she left
that she's not working there anymore. She goes around and
speaks to folks because she's super inspirational and she's also
a boxing coach. And I was like, huh, that makes
sense though, yeah Last Chance you Yeah, I know you
keep talking about it. Did you love it? Lunchboxing? I

(38:33):
love the first two seasons, but then when they moved
to Kansas, I just never got back into you'd love
that one even more? Three and four are nuttier. Oh
maybe I'll get on coach in season three. Crazy. Also,
it's a good one that if your your wife and
into sports or your girlfriend because they get attached to
the players. Just the storyline. It's not all about football
football in there. That's cool. Yeah, a little baby takes

(38:55):
a good couple show. It's a fair couple enjoyed its football.
Yeah yeah, coming from me, I don't love football, and
I enjoyed it. Nice. There you go. That's what it's
all about. Thank you. That was tell me something good.
The question that I read this morning was does your
spouse think you're funny? I mean, did your husband think

(39:16):
you're funny? Yes? Yeah? How what's your sense of humor?
I don't know. He tells me that I'm funny. That's
one of the things he says he likes about me,
that I'm funny. Look what is If you were to
ask him, like, what's Amy's sense of humor? Style? What
would he say? Uh? Quick witted, sarcastic? Do you not

(39:38):
think I am? I wouldn't say really either one of those.
I would say, your your your randomness is what's funny
about you? Okay, you don't think I'm quick. That's interesting.
I think you're quick. Okay, well, then he must like
my quick is Yeah. Do you think Amy's quick witted? No,
not really, I wouldn't categorize either. I think you're funny. Yeah, yeah,

(40:00):
you're funny. I just wonder how your husband defined your humor.
You're not sarcastic. Really, I can be, okay, we all
can be. Okay. So I'm just randomly funny, is what
you're saying that. I just get lucky. You're very random.
I know I'm not lucky, but you're very good at
being random, Like I never know what you're gonna say. Okay, Well,
then I guess I'm random, which I see is quick witted.

(40:23):
And then uh yeah, And I know that a lot
of people wouldn't know this about him, but he's he's
funny too, which is hard. He is way I don't
know he is him, I know, but I like him.
He doesn't show a lot of people that side. I
don't think I've ever laughed at anything he's ever said.
You have n't because he doesn't say it for you.

(40:44):
Would you say quick doesn't know, I'd say he's got
a really dry sense of humor that he doesn't let
a lot of people see. He's got a dry quiet
hidden by the way. I like him, right, I know,
even I'm surprised sometimes when I laugh, because I'm like,
I forget you're funny. Whilst ID show women truly care
about a man's humor. They consider it an extremely attractive quality.

(41:04):
You think your husband is one of the best five
things about him? Is this funny? Oh? Maybe number five?
It's it's up there because it is. Maybe with him.
It's a little random too, but it's it's it catches
me off guard and I do laugh. So there's that.
Shana and Nashville's on. Hey, Shana, how are you? What's

(41:25):
going on? Hey, good morning studio. I am moving from
Nashville to Nebraska. I have no family there, and I
was just wondering if you had any advice for someone
moving by themselves. I've done that before. I've moved to
a place I didn't know a single soul, and my
first advice would be that when you're feeling a little
overwhelmed and lonely, that that's absolutely okay and that's just normal.

(41:47):
So don't feel like that you're isolated in this, because
anyone that goes through this goes through a really tough time. However,
everyone that goes through this, most of myself, I'm gonna
clude myself and this you end up growing from it
and either loving it so much because you went through
something difficult, learn from it, made new good friends, or
you go, you know what, this just wasn't for me,
Like I finally learned what I don't want to do,

(42:10):
and let's go here. So I'm gonna tell you first
that you're gonna it's just gonna be a great experience
for your life. Secondly, it's tough because the pandemic. It's
tough just to go out and do stuff. So we'll
just say the pandemic doesn't exist, so and things get
a little back to normal. If you can find a
place to volunteer a little bit, you'll meet like minded people. Church.
If you go to church, you'll meet like minded people.

(42:30):
It's all about meeting people that have the same the
same social interest that you do. Yeah so yeah, Or
even if you have a favorite workout you like to do,
Like when I met I met my friend at the gym,
I just went up to her yeah, and then we
ended up liking yoga and we would go do that

(42:52):
together and met more people, and then once you meet
one person, you might meet some of their friends, and
then it's a slow process. You're gonna love yourself for it,
but it will take a second. And don't feel overwhelmed
when it's not going your way at first, because you
go to a new city and all the news channels
are weird and the news anchors look funny, the people
on the radio are stupid because you don't know that
their stories yet. But it's gonna be awesome, and people

(43:13):
in your basket are super nice shanas, so good luck.
Let's go over to Amy and get the Morning Corny
in here we go, Morning Corny, What are King Kong's
favorite cookies? What are King Kong's favorite cookies? Chocolate chimp?
What chocolate chimp? Get it now? We get it all?

(43:37):
Get it? No, no, no, no, we're That was the
Morning Corny. Another one going, yeah, that's what I mean.
Where does the dog keep its car? Where does the
dog keep its car? And a barking lot? Okay, yeah, okay, okay, guys,
they can't all be winner, would I know exactly? I

(43:58):
was like, well, this is of course the day that
I don't bring a joke that you laugh at but
I mean you only laugh once every I don't know
three weeks. You may have heard this voicemail on the
show yesterday. Here you go, good morning, studio or should
I say buenos dias peel. I just want to say
I have some beef with Eddie. You've branded yourself as
our favorite Mexican, which, by the way, you very much are.

(44:20):
But dude, it's been Hispanic Heritage Month and we need
a Hispanic sement from you. Here's a couple of ideas
that I have, either Spanish Word of the Day, Heritage
Mond edition, or music school about Mexican music or its influence. Anyway,
Hispanic Heritage Month ends October fifteen, so you still have time,
all right, Today's October seventh, Eddie, give us a little

(44:42):
piece of this a lot of pressure, but you know
I'm always loaded with the Spanish word of the day,
so let me give you that right now. The word
of the day, my friends, is vassil. Vassil. That means
glass like a glass, not like a window glass, but
a glass. So let me use that in a sentence.
Firstands the vassal. Stay how you get it? No? What

(45:10):
from the sample and hard to forget okay, no wet Pierce.
I mean, I know the sample, what is the real?
What is the English? The glass glass? I know, but
I guess I never knew he's saying this. Oh my gosh,
how about I'm gonna need some whisk you vas? And

(45:33):
you even use it in the right tense because plural,
it's plural vassals, good job, bones, thank you, anything else?
Oh that's my Spanish worth the day. But I did
want to say it too, you know, because this listener
brought this up. Influential like Hispanic country artist to me
growing up was a Rick Trevino. Do you remember him? Yes? Man?

(45:53):
Growing up, he like really inspired me. I never knew
I'd be a part of country music, like be on
this show at all. But at that time, I'm like, Wow,
this is a guy that's like me, my culture, my
heritage making it in country music. And at that time
I loved nineties country. So him to me changed my
life as far as getting into country music. Would you
consider him to be Texas country? I don't know. I

(46:15):
didn't see he didn't. I didn't really know what that
was then Texas country. Now yes, now for sure, he's
t Hano's like that's that's the difference between me and
you know a lot of other Hispanics in the US.
I'm Tehano like my for three generations, my family's been
in Texas when Texas was Mexico, we've been to Hano,

(46:36):
so that was very special to me. And then growing
up my dad man listen to Texas tornadoes, those guys
Freddie Fender dude to me is what you know? Hispanic
in country music event pretty awesome. I feel pretty heritage.
That's what I'm talking about. All right, Thank you, Eddie.
So we're gonna be the Jerry here. Amy. We're gonna

(46:57):
decide if you're a lie to your son, is a
bad lie or a white lie? Okay, right, tell the
show what happened? It could be true what happened. So
one of my son's favorite songs right now is Nobody
but You. We listened to it every single day, Blake
and Gwinn Yes, I don't want man, no, I don't Yeah,

(47:20):
I live without you. I don't want to even breathe
the whole song over and over. And he we were
outside singing it and he said, hey record this because
he wanted to play drums with rocks or percussion with
these rocks, and he was excited to see himself back
and then asked me to post it to Gwen and

(47:42):
Blake for them to see, to make sure that they
got it got on their instagrams, Like in his mind,
I think he thinks it goes to their page right away,
and so he's thinking they're gonna see it. So he
asked me if I thought they saw it, and I
was trying to keep the mood was very great that moment.
Everything was really awesome, and I'll try to keep it awesome,
and I didn't want to bring it down by saying

(48:03):
they wouldn't see it, So I just said, yeah, I'm sure. Yeah,
Blake and Gwinn they saw it. Watch it right now.
If I tag them, they saw it. Yeah. And the
truth is probably if I tagged them, they didn't see it.
So because you know, they don't follow me and I
don't know how into their dms on Instagram they are,
so yeah, they probably didn't see it. I made him

(48:25):
think they saw it bad liar White lie d I
think that Amy could have. They absolutely could have. That's
the social media. There is a chance that they saw it. Yeah,
And I don't think Amy lied in this case. Bones
I think I'm no, she definitely lied. I said they
saw it probably maybe they probably, I just didn't like.

(48:49):
I just didn't voice the probably part really loud. I
just well, I tagged them and went to their Instagram.
They saw it, and really, Amy's right again about you know, like,
if it's gonna make him happy to think that they
saw it would feed him all he wants lunchbox. Listen, Amy,
you had a chance to teach your son a life lesson,
and you missed that opportunity. You could have told him, look,

(49:09):
not everybody sees everything, but instead you lie to him.
So he thinks everybody sees anything he posts. And so
now as he gets older, he's gonna post things and
when they don't see it, he's gonna have his heartbroken.
You could have saved him from that and just taught
him a life lesson. That's a bad lie. He hasn't
asked a post or tag anybody. It's not like it
is going to be his new thing. I don't think.
But it's just in the moment, I was desperate for

(49:31):
a good time. I think it's a white lie. Yeah, yeah,
it's tough, but yeah, but but honestly, you know that
maybe there is a percentage that they could have seen it.
I guess I could go to see if it was seen. Ever, like,
what do you always say, Bones, Like, you can't prove
that they didn't. Yes, I can. You can look and

(49:51):
see if it's seen or not. No, No, no you can't.
I think as long as this isn't a thing where
you're always acting like sending messages to people from him
that he could never read. No, I would never want
to do this one for the rock. Oh he saw it,
he'll see it. Anything you want to say to the Kardashians,
I can't really the only parents that's ever done this.
If a kid's like, oh, hey, send this to Bobby Bones,

(50:13):
and I'm sure the parents are like, oh yeah, yeah.
But I think maybe five or six year old Bobby
talked about you on the radio today. It was great.
But your son is ten. Oh may I say he's ten,
But given he's been in America three years and his
early years, he's not developed as a ten year old.

(50:35):
He's younger than ten. Emotionally, he's more like six. And
it's fine to say that doing a six year old, right, yeah,
six year old would be Yeah, I'm going white lie anyway.
White light wins good. But we had a good and
we'll put it up on Facebook and let our listeners
go to So can I go to hold on win
Stefani's DMS. It doesn't say scene. No, they definitely hasn't

(50:58):
been Oh dude, dude, don't tell him about that feature. Dude.
Let's see how many of the top three songs in
country music you can sing back? Any? Okay? At number
three this week is Jason Aldean. Got what I Got?
Can you sing it back? Go ahead? Got what I

(51:19):
got because I got it, and then when I got it,
I was like, well I didn't note this song I got. Well, okay,
let me get my Jason Aldean. God what I got
because I got it? Because I got what I got.
I don't miss what I had. I got it, and
I want you get no points when I got you?

(51:50):
All right? Number two Luke Combs loving on You. M
Oh you got this? Can you sing back? I can?
But now I have that song in my head. I'm
thing on you, loving on you nothing give me h
because I'm in love loving on you. Over two, I know.

(52:19):
The number one song in country music is Lee Bryce
one of them girls, one of them girls, one of
them girl, that's it right, one hold on one of
them one of them girls like you over yeah, girls

(52:41):
like this I can't grab it like one of them girls?
Who one of them? By three? Okay, do you know
how to sing the song set? The number one pop
song is Savage Love due from Jason Derue Josh six

(53:01):
eighty five bts Savage Love, No kin We Shut You
Out Today. The number one dance song, by the way,
is from Cruella and Yellow Claw that Rewind, It's got

(53:23):
to stop it. Here you go here Rewind gives me
a headache geez. A psychologist found people in their eighties
are happier than the rest of us for three main reasons. One,
they know their purpose, they stress less, and they live

(53:44):
in the moment. It's always people are super old or
super young or the happiest. Yeah, because either we're not
affected by it, because we don't know it yet, or
because we've been through all the crap we realize it's
not near as important if we put on it, and
we would think we would see these stories enough times
and learn from this. Like there's a reason older people
are happier because they realized all the crap were worried
about for the most part, doesn't matter. It's inconsequential. But

(54:05):
we don't. We go about our days focusing on the
wrong things, stress out all days, stressing out about stuff
that's not gonna matter in three weeks. So, man, if
you're in your eighties, you're probably just grateful. Huh. Yeah,
you're in your eighties and you're healthy. Like, look at
our two presidential candidates. They're both really old, and they're
both one step away from being the president to get

(54:26):
for another four years because they're really stressed out. And Yeah,
there was a guy who put up a billboard to
find a girlfriend, and we talked about it back when
it went up. So the update is he spent five
hundred and fifty bucks on a billboard back in January
to find a girlfriend. Now he's in a relationship with
the one of the women who contacted him, and he
says they're in love. Wow, I guess thirty years old

(54:49):
back in January put it up, said single question mark,
date mark, this could be the sign you're waiting for.
In a twenty eight year old woman reached out and
they went out, and all of a sudden, they're together
and they say they're in love. I saw a really
interesting thing on TikTok the other day where this girl
was like, Hey, I started at this new job a
couple of years ago, and I sent an email out
to everybody in the office, or like twenty people, and

(55:10):
I said, Hey, I'm going for a hike at this place.
If anyone wants to come, I don't really know anyone,
so why don't we all, if you are free, come
on this hike with me. And she goes of that.
One person responded, and then the camera rolls over and
it's too a dude. He goes he worked in the
same office. The only one that came. We're now engaged
to be married. That's cool. And I was like, that's
so good, awesome, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's pretty cool.
Kid's time for the good news. Thomas Feleski is a

(55:38):
Vietnam VET and last year's house was broken into and
a lot of things were taken, including his military medals
and honors, and he was really sad about it. And
the detective working on the case, Frank Corona, was also
a Marine VET, and he was like, man, we gotta
do something about these medals. We can't find them anywhere.
So he worked with his supervisor. They found a company,
found replacement medals, They got new ones made, put them

(55:59):
in a show auto box, and then called Frank or
Thomas before his eighty fourth birthday, said hey, come on down,
we got a birthday present for you. And it was
all the medals replaced in a shop that had to
be so special. Man, he said, it gave him chills,
and he was speechless, and he goes, that's what you
expect from a fellow marine rat. Man, it gave me chills. Dang,
that's awesome. That's what it's all about. That was tell
me something good. We're moments away from sending Mike d

(56:24):
out with this sign. I guess we could send him
out now. If you're watching us on camera right now, Mike,
do you want to bring the sign out and show everybody?
Oh boy, Mike D lost a bet and this is
his sign you needed to walk somewhere out of here.
Obviously I'm right on it. Sign says I've been a
bad boy and this is my punishment. So you can
go and head out, like call the hotline or a guy.

(56:47):
He was just recommending us movies Mike's gonna go outside
for thirty minutes and hold that sign up at a
busy part of town. And so he recommended us all
movies his expertisees movies. And if we all did love it,
he got Peno Lions because he was very sure that
we would all love the movie. Yeah, yeah, but we did.
But yeah, watch us. We gotta put it up on Facebook.
Can we stream that? Come out there? Yeah, I'm trying

(57:10):
to figure out who's going with him so we can
get it streamed. You can follow us Bobby Bones Show
on Facebook or Instagram. Let's do the big story. Now,
let's go Bobby's b story. Yesterday, Edie van Halen, the
legendary guitarist and former co founder of Van Halen, died
after a long battle with cancer. Years of jumping around
on stage took a toll. He had a hip replacement

(57:30):
surgery in nineteen ninety nine. He also had cancer in
his throat and his tongue, which caused him to lose
part of his tongue. The cancer claimed his life on
October six, twenty twenty, which was yesterday. He was sixty
five years old. Now for me, I know van Halen.
F'm listening to classic rock radio. Basically, Yeah, but I
know you were a big fan because your brother was
your older brother. I was, That's all I heard growing

(57:51):
up with My brother would just Blair van Halen. That
was his favorite band. Eddie van Halen was his idol.
So yeah, this was big. I talked to him yesterday
and my brother was hit hard by it. Really. I
don't like, usually a celebrity death doesn't really take someone
down like that, but my brother was. He was really
sad about it. The top five streaming van Halen songs
Number five ain't talking about love. I don't know that one,

(58:19):
you know, not really. I'm barely miss van Halen right
like I came in at Garth Brooks and Nirvana musically
for me, so I missed a lot of that right
before it. Number four, I do know hot for teacher,
you know, thinking about van Halen two, they had different

(58:40):
lead singers, but the two van Halens were the only
two that were the consistence in the band. Yes, David
Roth was lead singer, the Red Rocket was dam Hagar
was a lead singer. The guy from Extreme ended up
being a lead singer. Kept switching out the lead singers.
Number three running with the Devil. Number two, Panama there

(59:09):
all Gailey Rocks even ain't talking about love? Yeah, No,
Sammy hig are you okay? Here we go? Number one
jump and honorable mention is you really got me? You
really go down? You don't know, girl, you really go now?

(59:36):
So rest in peace to one of the best guitarists,
at least one of the most distinct and best guitarists ever,
because even I can hear guitar playing and know that's
Eddie van Halens. Yes, And it's so hard to have
someone be so precise with an instrument and so good
that you can identify them just by what they're doing
with their actions. Like I can hear Brad Paisley play
guitar and I know it's Brad Paisley doesn't kind of

(59:58):
like the chicken picking. I can hear Eddie Mayan Haylen,
I know it's him. You know, there are just certain
folks that you can hear and go oh, that's so
recognizable and so distinct because it's their sound. Yeah, So
rest in piece to Eddievan Halen. There was another guy
that died yesterday and you'll definitely know his song. Johnny
Nash died at eighty he has I can see clearly now,
I can see clear rain jam song h Man has

(01:00:23):
lasted too over the test of time. Nash passed away
on Tuesday of natural causes at his home in Houston, Texas.
You gotta start in pop music in the nineteen fifties.
This was nineteen seventy two and it was a number
one for four weeks. It's gonna ben rat back rest

(01:00:44):
and piece about those guys, but yeah, stinks. Man. Man,
you know the silver lining when we lose musicians like
this is we have their recordings for the rest of
our lives. Like it's selfish, a little bit of us.
But man, you know it's cool to go back and
listen to these the music that they left us. For me.
I often say people that create art never die, because

(01:01:05):
I wouldn't know the difference of either one of these
two guys was living or dying. I could still consume
their music, right, So to me, they're not dead, right,
and they're not making new music where I'm sitting here
ready to get its Like Tom Petty. To me, tom
Petty's not dead. Yeah, that's a good example because I
wasn't waiting for Tom Petty's latest release. But I still
can't get enough of Wild Flowers. That the record, I
still can't get enough of, you know, the stuff with

(01:01:27):
the Heartbreakers, and I go back and listen to it.
Tom Petty's alive to me because he created in his
work lasts and I don't know him. So that's the
great thing about being a fan of someone who creates
an art is they never really die to you. Some
part of them always stays alive, and some part of
them will always stay alive. All right, that's your big story,
Thank you, guys. Bobby's story. Let's check in with Mike

(01:01:53):
d real quick. Who is out? Mike? Are you out
in the spot right now? I'm out on the spot.
Are there cars that are all driving around? There's people
hogging at me, stopping and seeing what I did. It's awful,
all right? Tell he our listeners what your sign says.
So my sign says I've been a bad boy underlined
and this is my punishment. So he's gonna stay out
there for half an hour and hold this sign. What

(01:02:13):
are you telling him you did? I said something awful
and I'd rather not say nice. There he is. Make
him think the worst. That's funny. Okay, well, check back
with him in a second. He's on Instagram Live though,
right Morgan. Yeah, on our show page, Bobby Bones Show.
And you can see Mike D holding the sign right
now on Instagram Live. Okay, let's go talk to Missy

(01:02:36):
and Illinois. Who's back? Hey, Missy, thank you for calling
the show. What's going on? Hey, Bobby? Quick question? Um,
now that we're talking about weddings and Mike D got engaged,
and I was just thinking about you and your wedding.
I know you haven't gotten engaged yet, but parents play
a really big role in the wedding, and I was

(01:02:57):
just curious if you had thought about if you're going
to possibly invite your dad for how that might work.
I don't probably Arkentuck, he plays that role for you,
but I just was curious. That's interesting question. Probably not,
I haven't thought about that that. What I have thought
about is, like, I guess the mother and son do

(01:03:18):
a dance. Does it happen at weddings? Yes, Okay, I don't.
My mom's not alive. She hasn't been alife for a while,
so that stinks. So I don't have a mom to
do that. My real dad has never been in my life.
He left when I was five six years old, but
he's still exists. I met him again a couple of
years ago. The whole first chapter of my last book
was me just going I gotta go meet him and

(01:03:39):
see what the problem is here. But I don't think right.
I don't think I would invite him, just as a
guest wouldn't invite him. I think that too much attention
would be on that situation. For sure, I'd be looking
and it wouldn't be that fair to her, and I
wouldn't want to worry about that. I often have trouble

(01:04:02):
with people doing things for me anyway. I don't like
being the oddly for someone who demands the center of
attention for a job. I never want to be at
when I'm not at work, I feel guilty that people
have that are people are doing things for me. So
Arkansas Keith was my step dad for a bunch of years,
so he would for sure come, But maybe he'd dance
with me. That would do the son father dance. So

(01:04:24):
Arkansas Keith, that's step dad for a few years. Son dance,
Ray you and your mom dancing? Oh yeah, what song?
Still gotta figure that out it's up in the air,
just like everything else. But we got like three weeks
to narrow a lot of it down. Um yeah, I missy.
It's a good question that I don't know. What would
you guys, Eddie, what would you say? I mean, I

(01:04:45):
don't know, man, it's that's that's a tough one, you know,
And I think I think when it all comes down
to it, it's your day. Whatever you want to do,
however you're feeling, is what the decision that you make.
Like if you're not, you don't feel comfortable, you don't
think it's fair to Caitlin whatever, I wouldn't do it.
A story about weddings and they say that, you know,
a lot of women when they're young, girls have an

(01:05:07):
idea what the what the wedding to be like, But
more guys know what they want their wedding to be
like than girls. Do you think that's what the story said?
What I did not think once about my wedding. I
really haven't thought about it either, other than me probably
performing doing it, okay, but that's thinking about it though, No,
I'm not. I'm just kidding it. I never wouldn't perform,
you wouldn't Raymundo did you have any idea what you

(01:05:28):
wanted to wedding to be? Like, listen, when I'm gonna
show up on October twenty fourth, it's going to be like, Oh,
this is nice, this is really cool. You guys have
done a really good job. I have no idea what
they've been doing at all, and I have no input,
and I don't care about an input. I know it'll
be beautiful. Though. I did see your fiance say yesterday
she did not agree with you about Mike D proposing
and that she wasn't upset about that. Yeah, so I

(01:05:50):
guess she was on the other side of that one.
So I should have I should have not went after
Mike D for the proposal. It should have just flown.
But yet she's not on my side on that one.
Mike D is out on the streets right now holding
a sign and it's a big old posterboard sign. Mike deal,
what does the sign say. It says I've been a
bad boy and this is my punishment. And why are
you holding that sign? Because I failed? They're recommending you

(01:06:12):
guys movies, and what are people saying to you out
on the street. They're asking what I did wrong? They
want to know why I've been a bad boy. Do
they think you cheated on your girl? Like? Are people
asking anything specific? No, they just ask you what I did?
They want to know. They're curious. Anybody, anybody interesting come
by and coutch music stars because you're right out there
in the middle of the circle. No nobody yet. I

(01:06:35):
think a listener haunts by and though about it. All right,
mykeda is out right now. It called the whip around.
What's what's that called the whoop around? Roundabout? The roundabout? Yea.
So I'll be up there for the next few minutes.
You can watch it on Instagram Live where Mike D's
out there paying off his punishment. The world's most expensive

(01:06:57):
piece of ham just sold for fourteen thousand dollars? Are
you out of your mind? A ham producer, which there's
the thing, recently announced that had sold the most expensive
piece of ham in the world. The buyer was from Japan.
It spent fourteen thousand dollars for one slice of ham.
Oh Julio reveal. A president of I Don't know this

(01:07:18):
hand place said that the record breaking piece of ham
was prepared following the strict instructions of the buyer They
requested that the ham come from an Iberian pig at
least two years old that had been grazing in the
mountains of Sierra Mayer for at least one hundred days.
The animal had to gain at least one hundred kilos.
It sounds like a prenup for the crazy people, like

(01:07:38):
you can only wear this and eat this. The animal
had to gain at least one hundred kilos during the
time they spent grazing, and that their diet consisted of
only acorns and herbs. Finally, the curing period of the
ham was five years, double the normal curing period for
premium ham. Priced at fourteen thousand, one hundred dollars, the
Iberian ham was already featured on the Japanese team show

(01:08:00):
TV show The Fair Price that Is That's at berserk.
So not only did he pay all that money, he
had to wait five years for it. Well, I think
it's not worth that money unless you wait five years
for it. Okay, I don't think you just pointed a
pig like red lobster and be like, I'll take that
one and then pay fourteen thousand dollars. Do you even
like him? Yeah? I liked him. Ham is solid as
far as meats go. Like, it's solid. Okay, Bologney. I

(01:08:23):
love Blogney because we didn't have a lot of money
growing up, so we could afford bologny wipe bread with
a lot of mustard. So I have an affinity for
blogne Easter. Probably not the healthiest, not even sure what
goes in it. You don't even know what it is,
not gonna google it, don't want to see a YouTube
of it. But I like that because it makes me
think of being a kid. Um. But my favorite meets
sandwich meats turkey, Come on, Turkey's great. Yeah. I love

(01:08:46):
some roast beef. Occasionally it's done right with you know
what the what the right? You know tomato? Ham is
right in the hams a solid five on the scale,
like ham and cheese, hot and cheese. I don the
ham is just a medium placeholder for meat. Like, if
you want a solid meat, that's ham. But what are
you gonna put around it? Yeah, Like ham is only

(01:09:08):
as good as its buddies, right, hammer can be bad
too if its buddies aren't good. If you're not putting
good stuff with it, you have a hams just in
the middle. There, it's good ham talker, but I do
like like pepper pepper turkey, pepper hams. Yes. I would
go into like Kroger and tell the guy I'll take
a first. I'll be like, give me a pound of
pepper hams, and the guy like, you want to pound.
I don't know the difference. It's a lot. I'd like
to take a pound, and the guy gives like a

(01:09:29):
keyload like you see on the drug cartel shows brick Yeah,
that of a ham, and I'm like, well, the crap,
that's way too much. Well then I going to be like, hey,
can I get like an eighth? And he'd do like
one slice with that machine and like here you go.
You just can't get it right. That's it? Can I
get another eighth? So my life in my twenties was
trying to figure out that balance of exactly how much

(01:09:50):
meat I would eat during the day. I still tell him,
I'll tell you when to stop. Oh you do that,
you peper grinder, because I don't know you're the pepper grinder.
A guy at the grocery store, Yes, he's over there,
chop at the meet, I get another one, another one?
Can you go in and say, can't you get enough?
For one sandwich. Is that a thing? Yeah, no problem.
Can you give me two cuts of that and then

(01:10:11):
throw it on the scale here? Oh nineteen cents? Can
you cut a piece of that off and take it back?
Did you talk about pepper grinder? Yeah? I don't know.
If I went back to watch the Saturdaynight Live bit
where I think it's Will Farrell with a pepper grinder, yeah,
and he's like, tell me when to stop, and the
guy's mad at him. He doesn't need to tell him
when to stop. He's like, it's burning hurs. This is

(01:10:31):
Anita in Maryland who's on the phone. Anita, what's going on?
Welcome to the Bobby Bone Show. Hi, how are you
guys feeling? We are pretty good? What can we do
for you? So? I need some advice. I have been
with my boyfriend for ten years, on and off. We
officially moved in together at the beginning of the pandemic,
but I've got him since I was seventeen, and I'm

(01:10:54):
ready to move forward to the next step of getting married,
and he every time I mentioned it just kind of
brushes it off, like, hey, change the subject. So I
don't know what I should do. Well, you're gonna have
to draw a line at some point. It could be today,
it could be a year. You're gonna have to decide
when the line is drawn. But the thing about drawing

(01:11:15):
a line is if you draw the line, you have
to live by that line. Because if you draw the
line and then you don't live by it, they know
they'll never have to respect a line the rest of
their life. So if you say, and I'll go to
Eddie story in a second, because he had a pooper
get off the pot scenario in his marriage to be married. Yeah,
so you've been together with him on and off for
ten years. You know he should know. He's only not

(01:11:37):
committing because you're not making him commit. He's not ever
just gonna walk into it at this point. He's not
gonna wake up all morning and go, you know what.
The last ten years and three months I really haven't known,
But today I got it. That's never gonna happen. He
may love you, he may want to be with you,
he just can't. Something inside of him won't let him
walk up to that spot. So my advice to you is,

(01:11:58):
and Eddi's gonna tell a story after this, my advice
to you is you have to give him some sort
of poop or get off the pot, which means we
gotta do this or we're not gonna do it. And
I need to move on with my life and start
taking the destruction of what this is gonna do to
me and then rebuilding it so I can be healthy
for someone else. So you don't think her throwing peppering
in there every now and then, like hey, let's talk
about marriage real quick, and him brushing it off. That's

(01:12:20):
not gonna help. I was thinking about it, not gonna help,
not help before, not gonna help on the future. You
have to make him commit one way or the other,
and you have to put a line down and go
this is you have to decide by this point to
found him gone, then you gotta go. If you say
you're gonna go, you gotta go. Eddie, what happened to
you and your wife? So we've been dating for about
six years until she finally said, hey, listen, we have

(01:12:42):
to make a decision here. We've been dating for six years.
I don't know if I want to date much longer
if we're not gonna get married. And so when she
told me that, honestly, and I'm completely honest, I did
not think about marriage before she even mentioned that. I
don't know if it's instilled in just me or guys
in general, but not once that I think like, oh yeah,

(01:13:02):
six years, it's time to get married. So the fact
that she said that really made me be like, WHOA, Okay, yeah,
I guess she's right. There is no other girl that
I'd rather be with. She is the woman of my dreams,
my life, Like, all right, it's time to get married.
So until she said that, honestly, I really didn't even
think about it. So your story is all different than hers.
But what would you tell her? What's what's your advice

(01:13:23):
to Anita in Maryland? Well, the first thing I thought
when she said, you know that he tries to brush
it off a little bit. I remember a period in
my relationship when after she told me that I was
planning the engagement, and anytime she mentioned it, I try
to brush it off. So I don't know if I'm
overstepping my opinion here, but that could be the case. Anita.

(01:13:44):
Is there any chance after ten years he's already planning
it and that's why he's brushing it off. Well, to
be honest with you, I thought the engagement ring and
he knows that I bought. It's still okay. Maybe not. Yeah,
I could be completely wrong about that, Anita. Honest, it's difficult,
but you have to go this is the this is
what we're gonna do, and if we don't do it,

(01:14:04):
that's okay. I'll still love you. But to be fair
to me, I can't sit here in this purgatory forever.
I need to go to heaven or go to hell.
And you can define which ones which in that situation,
but you can't just sit in purgatory. So if you're
worried about your long term health mentally, you need to
have him commit to something, even a date to commit to. Yeah,

(01:14:25):
you can say what us today the October seventh, you
can say hey by January. First, I need to know
what you're gonna do here and if not, but you
haven't told them to think about I'm not even gonna
pressure your say one thing to you about it until then.
I know my situation. Man, I needed that push, Nita,
What do you think about that? I think that's a
good idea because he's kind of like a laid back

(01:14:48):
that's a little, you know how, kind of metodic kind
of dude. What a wonderful phrase. Boy, what do I know? Okay,
favorite movie? Do you want us to talk to him?
I don't know that's possible right now, he's on heavy equipment.
Well okay, well, if you do decide you want us

(01:15:08):
to talk to him, I'd be happy to have a
conversation with them. But until then, that's my recommendation. Okay,
thank you for the call. I appreciate your listening, Anita.
Of course I listen every single day. Thank you update
us too, whatever happens. Okay, oh, of course, all right,
see you later. Yeah, bye bye. I want to go
over here. We get a call. But by the way,

(01:15:29):
we walk on these calls an advice, Trust me, it's
limitless with me. Yeah, dude, you're actually pretty good advice.
Patrick and Alabama, you are on the show. What's going
on with you? Hey, Bobby Bones, how are you doing?
Pretty good? Man? Thanks for calling cool cool. So Yeah.
The question that I had for everybody is I'm going
to propose to my girlfriend and I'm trying to figure
out how her best friend is getting married in a

(01:15:51):
few months and we're going to the wedding and her
best friend who is getting married, as well as her
parents want me to propose to her after the throw
the bouquet to my girlfriend. And I've always thought that
proposing at someone else's wedding was something you don't do.
Wondering what you guys think, don't do it. I don't
care how much they say to do it. This is

(01:16:13):
her day. It's also like someone proposing on Christmas Eve
or New Year's my opinion here, that's a day meant
for that already, Like have your own day. You don't
need to go to her best friend's wedding, even if
her best friend doesn't care, because still a lot of
attention is going to be on the best friend. It's
not gonna be on your girl when it could be
and should be on your girl. If there are people there,
I would recommend that you not do it at someone

(01:16:34):
else's wedding, even if the best friend's like, hey, I
love it, it's really cool. I would recommend you not
do it now because all the friends and family are
going to be close and near. You could do it
very close to that, especially if you have the sign
off from the best friend. Yeah, because that's important. How
often do you get a bunch of people together, especially
now in Corona Land, so my advice would be, don't

(01:16:55):
do it during the wedding, regardless of what they're trying
to get you to do, but do it around the wedding,
because it sounds like he's not worried about Thunder being stolen.
She's the opposite of Raymundo. She's there to share Thunder,
not have it stolen. But I would not do it
during the wedding. Heck, man, you can do it that
night after the wedding's over, when you're by yourself. You
could be hey, this has really been a great night,

(01:17:15):
like I can't wait to marry you. Let's go, Let's
go on a drive and then take drive somewhere and
do it there and have the other people that you
love up there waiting after the wedding. You could do
it like that. Don't do it at the wedding, man,
The feeling of maybe witnessing that happening feels weird, Like
even just thinking about the awkwardness of someone posting someone
else's wedding. Yeah, okay, Patrick, I feel about that. I

(01:17:40):
think that you guys have have held me a lot,
so that's kind of how I felt, and they were
trying to push me into it and I was like,
I don't know, I don't know about that. Yeah, I
appreciate it. Your instincts are right, my friend. Have a
good day, all right, see you later. We often hear
people that when lottery prizes end up really screwed up
and worse off psychologically. They say, you're screwed up in

(01:18:01):
works off. What do you think about that, lunch fox,
I think they're full of prow Well, so the deal is,
as long as you don't win the massive, massive prizes,
you're great. You want a million bucks, life's great. It
really only happens to folks who win the four hundred million,
two hundred million. But why if you have four hundred
million dollars, everything's peachy. Money doesn't fix stuff. Coming from

(01:18:24):
someone who is completely broke and living in poverty to
where I am now, you have different It's just problems.
Problems are problems. Money doesn't really change anything. But what
happens is is that folks come and they're like, oh,
let me get this from you for a loan. It
creates weird relationships. I do think some of your life,
some of the pressures are alleviated, but other ones are

(01:18:45):
are new. Yeah, when you're living on your own private island.
They can't come get your money. People try to kill
you for your money. Not on my private island. Okay,
Well apparently that's when they went through a talk to
these folks. That's what happened. The people that had one
up to only a couple million dollars were super happy,
but once it hit at a certain points that were like, no,
this has actually been detrimental to my health having all

(01:19:05):
this money. So there you go, go out today, win
the lottery of it. Only win medium win the big wins.
All right, that's what's up. We'll see tomorrow. Bye, buddy,
Bobby Bones.

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.css-14f5ked{margin:0;word-break:break-word;display:-webkit-box;-webkit-box-orient:vertical;box-orient:vertical;-webkit-line-clamp:2;overflow:hidden;}Bobby On Inviting His Biological Dad To His Future Wedding + Was Amy's Situation With Her Son Was Just A 'White Lie'? + Mike D Got Punished In Public