November 17, 2024 • 50 mins
In this weekly series, we share highlight clips from the past week of some of the podcasts on The Nashville Podcast Network- In The Vet's Office with Dr. Josie, Take This Personally with Morgan Huelsman, The BobbyCast, 4 Things with Amy Brown, Sore Losers, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and Get Real with Caroline Hobby. You can listen to new episodes weekly wherever you get your podcasts.
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-The BobbyCast- @BobbyCast
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-Take This Personally- @TakeThisPersonally
-4 Things with Amy Brown- @RadioAmy
-Sore Losers- @SoreLosersPodcast
-Movie Mikes Movie Podcast- @MikeDeestro
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Speaker 1 (00:09):
We're back with Sunday sampler clips from the podcast. I
talked to George Burge about pressure to get a second
number one song, because you're like, oh, he got a
number one, It's all good, but like, what's the difference
sore losers, Amy Brown? There's a lot, but I will
tell you this. In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie
is back. Season two kicked off celebrity hair colorist Justin Anderson,
(00:31):
who you may know him from Arry Cavaliery. They had
a crazy conversation about a dog owner who wanted to
get their dog neuticles, which are implants like not getting neutered,
and then put fake ones in. God heard that was
the thing, but I didn't think it was real. So
in the Vets Office, if you like this, there's also
so much great information about animals, like go check it
out in the Vets Office with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
But here's the clip.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, you're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Horchak.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
We can ask you questions.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I'm not that smart about dogs, but like, why do
you have to neuter male dogs so they can't get
girls pregnant?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Yes, a, we don't want to be I don't want
to be a grandparent just yet. And then b they
a lot of like behavioral issues like getting into fights, marking,
and then really the big thing is they get prostatic
disease if they're not neutered, and certain kinds of cancer.
So that's like that's the big one.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The downside to it is they can get like they're
more likely to get fat. Oh really, because they don't
have all that testosterone in their system.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
And so wait, so if they take the walls out,
they're likely to get fat.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You're more likely to put on weight. Oh, but I'd
rather have like a little like a muffin top on
my dog than them getting cancer.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
Kevin's getting chunky. He's getting chunky right now. He's getting big,
but I love him bigger. Well, that's another question that
I want to ask you.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
You have to really monitor their weight, right, especially when
they're smaller dogs.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah, it's I mean, any dog, it's important. And that
how old is Kevin?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
He's four years old. It's like human.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Years, very classic. All you're twenty eight.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Birthday. We can't wait. Actually, he was like an insane teenager.
I gen't wait till he's in his thirties.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
We're so excited for his thirties.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
It's really classic that once they're neutered and then they
hit true adulthood, like three, four or five, they start
to pack on the LB's okay, their metabolis exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Oh my gosh, this is so wild.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yes, So we really like a lot of times when
my patients come in around like four years old, I'm like, whoa,
we got to like get you on weight watching.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Okay, So then that's where he's at.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Yeah, because we took him recently to our vet and
she was like, he put a little bit of weight on,
and I was like, we're not going back to her.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
She's rude.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, yeah, because if it was up to be I
would have him be like a little chunker.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I love when he's like bigger, but it's not healthy
for them.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Right, yeah, I mean a little like he I'm looking
at him and he is not obese by any stretch
of the imagination. So if he was like morbidly obese,
I'd be like, listen, justin, I don't care what you like.
We have to have him lose weight, but like a
little like cushion is fine.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, wellhen his defense to a lot of that is fur.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
He's actually a lot smaller than that. Yeah, but I
can feel his body is getting bigger well. And as
he gets older, he's kind of like all the guys
in my family, we get like barrel chested as we
get older, like car chest area.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Gets bigger, and that's kind of what's happening to him,
Like his body area is just getting really thick, barrel chest.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
He's a big boy, big boy.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Oh my god. I love him so much. I never
want him to die.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh my gosh. We talk about this a lot. It's
called anticipatory grief. Oh yeah, I think about them dying.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Just the other night, we were laying in bed and
I just start crying out of nowhere because I was
like holding him in the cutting with him and Scoot
it can't deal with my emotions because I'm like really
up and down.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
But he was like, what are you crying about right now?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
And I'm like, I'm just thinking about when we don't
have him anymore, and I like I want to lose
my shit, to be honest. That's why I never really
wanted a dog as an adult, because I'm like really
afraid of death, Like it freaks me out when I'm
attached to somebody, So I think.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
God, it daily, Yeah it is.
Speaker 7 (03:55):
You can spiral.
Speaker 8 (03:56):
I totally get it.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Like I think we're just driving in the car, I'll
think about it and I just start it's awful.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
You just have to think, like, well, a, we get
them to bring joy into our lives, which they do.
So I try to, like ninety percent of it to
be focusing on the joy. But think of all the
wonderful years that you've got, you know that you have
and still have with him, and all of that is
worth the heartbreak that you'll have after.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
He's going to be stuffed for sure and next to
my bed for the rest.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah doubt no, like for real, he's gonna be right there.
Like well, then I was telling SCO. I was like, what,
I wish we could plant it out where we all
went at the same time, you know.
Speaker 9 (04:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
And then sometimes I have morbid thoughts.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I'm like, we just we all just go and Julia.
Speaker 7 (04:34):
As your vet.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
I don't advise that, but not really. I completely understand though.
And then I've had a pet pass away and I
was like, I'm never getting another dog.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Oh my god, I do it.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I can't even think about how I'm going to be, Like,
it's really going to be a huge issue.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's like that will be hard, sugarcoated.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
But no, I know, harder than probably anybody in my life,
you know, because a lot of times it's like, well,
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
No, humans are bad deal too.
Speaker 7 (04:56):
No.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
I have clients all the time say to me when
their pets passed away, like I cry this much when
my mom died, right, cry as much when my grandma died,
Like this is but your mom and your grandma like
aren't getting into bed sleeping with you every single night.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
That's the thing. We're so attached. I mean, like even
like him.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
He literally sleeps like kind of wrapped around my head
and he like put his mouth right by my ear,
and so like I sleep to the sound of his
like little breathing in my ear and like the thought
of that.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Not being there, Oh my god, it's ot sound right now.
But I stop.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I saw something on social media recently where they were
talking about like they're trying to work on these things
that like prolonged dogs lives. Do you think that's kind
of gross and weird or do you think they should.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Like the NAD stuff.
Speaker 9 (05:32):
Were you reading.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yeah, they're saying like.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
No, I don't think it's I mean, if.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
We have modern science for us, why can't alle absolutely.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
And we already know our dogs are living a lot
longer than they were even in the eighties and nineties.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Because of diet and stuff.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
I think food, like preventative care. We're taking care of
their teeth, like all these things.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
That, yeah, that we are crazy about them, like we
do everything to try and keep them really healthy.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
So when I first came out of practice, I lived
in Boystown in Chicago, and oh we.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Got Boystound is fun the best. It's the best gay
area in America.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
In America.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I love it.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Take me back there, shout out all the gays and Boystown,
I love you. And I was convinced that in my
next life I needed to come back as a pet
to double dog dads. Oh there's nothing better.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I totally understand why our dogs lived the life. It's
so funny because like they've never been alone, Like if
we go to dinner for like two hours, they have
a babysitter, or they're like with cokecar neighbor who's like
their second mom. They are so well taken care of
I would want to be a gay guys dog for sure.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Have you always have you had pets growing up? Have
you always loved animals?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
So we always had pets growing up. We always had
golden tree ris like big, big dogs. I feel like
that's such the Mormon dog. I'm like from a big
Mormon families.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
To always have like blonde.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Yeah, everyone was blonde. It was just like our thing,
like whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
But as we got older, I love like little dogs,
like I want the gayest dogs in the world. I
secretly want like those shit suits and I want to
put like bows in their hair and like have them
blown out and stuff. But Scoot was like, absolutely not.
So I've always loved but these are my first ones
as an adult.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I have always had big dogs, and I now have Biggie,
who the audience knows he's a terror, but he's small,
and I don't think I'm ever going back to big dogs.
Speaker 10 (07:11):
No.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I love them, No, I love it just like holding them,
cuddle them.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I need like a little bit of girth on their body,
like Kevin, like I like how he's got that little
thick body, and the same thing with Clark, like I
couldn't do like a Chihuahua.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
You know, I'm a real like.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Cuddler, Like I like hold them tight and stuff, but
I know how to do it too.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Sometimes they say, I read this thing the other day
on Instagram. I want Instagram too much.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But they're saying, like a study came out that said
dogs don't like to be held or cuddled, And I'm like,
you need to calm down, because our dogs like climb
into our arms and want us to hold them. But
I feel like you have to train them to want
to do that, because if you hold the dog and
they don't want it, and you hold on to them
and they start to freak out and you don't let go,
that would like create like a it.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Feels unsafe to them, right, Sure, they feel trapped.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
So from a young because I like read all this stuff,
but from when they were really little puppies, Like you
hold them very gentle. If they start to square, you
let him go, you know, so that they know that
it's like a safe space, right, Like you're not trying
to like exactly.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Yeah, and these specifically Kevin's a Cavish on right. Yeah,
So cavaliers were bred to be lap dogs for the
for the Queen. I think he's so royal, he's so
loyal and so this.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
They say that they're like like a velcrow dog. They're like,
Kevin is attached. If I even shut the bathroom to
like our little toilet area, like he'll just sit there,
like he's like sniffing under the door, like he has
to be with us.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Like maybe borderline separation.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Anxiety bad, like really bad?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Okay, what has been the difference with this song being
a success? Are people treating you different?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Is your pay going up?
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Like?
Speaker 1 (08:49):
What has changed in the past year with the second
song that's about to be a hit?
Speaker 11 (08:52):
I think everything I think with every number one you have,
and I'll tell you you, guys, if I stack four
or five together and I start to feel differently, But
I feel like with every number one you have, like
everything just feels like it doubles in size, like the
way people treat you, the way that you're getting paid
for shows.
Speaker 12 (09:10):
I've been able to hire a couple of new people
in my crew for like.
Speaker 11 (09:12):
More support, and like I've had crowds start getting bigger
even still than they were just for mind on You
and then for me, like as an artist, I like
was over.
Speaker 12 (09:23):
The moon, excited, when Mind on You when number one.
Speaker 11 (09:26):
But at the same time, I was also kind of like,
oh crap, like I have to follow this up right,
Like there's eyes on me now, like there's pressure on
me now. Before it was like, Okay, this is a
wild shot. I'm just swinging for the fences and hope
I hit something. And now it's like, all right, I
have a standard and I have to you know, kind
of match that. And so when I wrote Cowboy Songs,
I knew that that was like the magic one that
was going to be the next single. But I'm starting
(09:47):
to feel that again, like Okay, what's number three going
to be? How are we going to back this up?
And it's a really exciting problem to have. But it's
wild to you know, feel that pressure constantly of like, okay,
what's next new music? How am I going to grow
as an artist? I'm going to keep connecting with fans.
So it's been really exciting that and we get a
lot of free stuff, so.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Which is.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
It is a really cool part of it.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
And I can tell you.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Just from like my experience and my weird baptism into
having like a little bit of fame for a minute
and then not really then a little bit more and whenever,
cause it's it doesn't exist forever, it's not real it,
it doesn't last. People are fickle, but when you are
this shiny penny, people do treat you way different. It's
(10:32):
of course, you get a bunch of free stuff. People
are offering to send you places. You're getting free close. Hey,
we'll dress you for this stuff. And you know, once
I started to like have some success and have some money, people,
that's why everybody start offing me the free stuff.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
And I was like, no, I can kind of afford
it now. It was weird.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
It was like, I actually can afford it. I don't
really need it as much now. But I've been to
the point too where it's been like really good and
then it's trickled away. And I've been the same exact
person with the same exact people, and they treat you,
even in this town like people treat you a bit different.
Whenever you have a hit and you're about to have
a second hit, how about rights? Do you get people
willing to write with you a lot easier.
Speaker 12 (11:08):
That's been the wildest part for me.
Speaker 11 (11:09):
I think, you know, and look like every writer only
has so much creative juice only has so much energy
to put into stuff, so like they want to chase
the stuff that they think they can potentially have a
hits on. So you can never blame anybody from coming
out of the woodwork and like trying to jump on
a project. But you know, I went from having my
small circle that I write songs with and that I
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knew I write well with, to my phone blowing up
every single I mean every single.
Speaker 12 (11:34):
Day, not an exaggeration.
Speaker 11 (11:35):
I will wake up to four songs in my inbox
or text messages being like, hey man, I think this
is a hit for you.
Speaker 12 (11:40):
Hey man, I think this is a hit.
Speaker 11 (11:41):
For people I hadn't heard from in years, or people
I've never met, or hey, I got your number from
SO and so sending you a song.
Speaker 12 (11:46):
It's the most flattering thing in the world.
Speaker 11 (11:48):
But it's also like you can so easily get lost
being like, oh, well, maybe I need to chase this direction,
or maybe I need to grow and do this and
kind of get away from what brought you to the
dance of the reason that you started have success in
the first place.
Speaker 12 (12:01):
And so that's been something I've.
Speaker 11 (12:02):
Been trying to navigate and I've been really blessed to have,
you know, my original group of friends that I wrote with,
like continue to write with me and know.
Speaker 12 (12:08):
Who I am and what I want to say.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
And you know, we do add some different people to
the room and try to add a different dynamic, but
it is there is so much noise that starts to come,
and like if you don't have a really good foundation,
like knowing who you are and knowing who your friends
are and knowing what real relationships are, like people that
genuinely have cared about you before you had something for
them to benefit from, versus people that will be gone
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the day that your success is gone. And that's the
kind of the thing that you have to learn how
to balance. And like our business managers, you know, when
you get into this industry and you sit down and
you're like, holy crap, I made money, like real money
for the first time this year, like in my life,
and you kind of can get delusional and think that
that will last forever too, And in your business maner,
it'll tell you like in this industry, like you're going
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to make ninety percent of the money for the rest
of your life and a five year window and if
you're lucky, really lucky. You might have a ten year window,
but that's it, Like it burns hot and fast and
it's gone, and so I know it's not forever.
Speaker 13 (13:03):
I was.
Speaker 11 (13:04):
I had a blessed life before this stuff took off,
and I know I'll have a blessed life after it
takes off, with just having real friends and people around me.
And I'm just trying to have fun while I'm in
the window, while I'm in the pocket.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
I librate on that because I think that's that's pretty profound.
I've had people said to me as well. It's like, hey,
you have a few years to make most of what
you're gonna make. So does that mean and are you
conscious of like saving a lot now because or are
you reinvesting most of it? Like what are you doing?
Speaker 12 (13:32):
Yeah, saving and reinvesting.
Speaker 11 (13:33):
What I'm trying not to do is like spend it
on watches and cars, you know what I mean, Like
put it away to where like I can do something
with it down the road, because you know, and I
know what it's like to have not had money before too,
and so it's it doesn't change much and it's just
like I'm trying to put it away for any day
because I know it's not gonna come like this forever,
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and so when when that's I mean, look, we're in
the entertainment industry. You know, you the new hot thing
for a little while, and that excites people, but you
know that doesn't last forever, and there's always a newer,
fresher thing coming on. And I'm going to try to
keep making authentic music and connecting with my fans.
Speaker 12 (14:10):
And I've been really lucky.
Speaker 11 (14:11):
To have that connection so far, and I think I've
got some fans that'll stay with me for a long time.
Speaker 12 (14:15):
But you never know when that turns off, and.
Speaker 11 (14:17):
So it's you try to give yourself a little safety net,
a little egg that you know when when that does
turn off, that you'll have some to fall back on
at the end.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
What's a week look like for you?
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Generally speaking?
Speaker 11 (14:27):
I work seven days a week for the most part
now towards the end of the year, like and I
call it work like it's my favorite thing in the
world to do.
Speaker 12 (14:34):
It's what I would be doing if it wasn't my job.
Speaker 11 (14:36):
But I'm Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and usually I'll get up,
I'll work out, and then I'll have a write Usually
from eleven to three, I'll write a song. I'll go
into town to music Row, my producer's studio, and then
one of my favorite writers will come in and you know,
three or four of us in a room and we'll
try to catch magic.
Speaker 12 (14:57):
It's just like going fishing. You know, you wet a
line every day.
Speaker 11 (14:59):
Most days you don't catch anything, and you catch something small,
but you hope, you know, every couple of months you
might catch something worth hanging on the wall.
Speaker 12 (15:05):
And that's kind of what we do.
Speaker 11 (15:06):
Monday through Wednesday we go fishing for a hit song,
and then Wednesday night, you know, come home, hang with
the family, and then uh, we have what's called bus
call where you go meet in a Walmart parking lot.
Everybody parks their trucks and you get on the bus
and the bus leaves about midnight and you wake up
in the city that you're playing on Thursday morning. You
play Thursday, Friday, Saturday on the road, and then you
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wake up back in a Walmart parking lot on Sunday
and do it again next week.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
Cass up road.
Speaker 13 (15:45):
Little food for Yourself life.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 13 (15:50):
Hey, it's pretty beautiful, beautiful, laugh a little more exciting
up of course city you're kicking it with full with
Amy Brown.
Speaker 8 (16:03):
So most of us are glued to our phones for
a lot of the day, and studies show that sixty
two percent of us feel hooked. And it's not hard
to see why. I mean, we're constantly scrolling, swiping, checking notifications.
There's emails, text messages, dms, instagram, TikTok, which speaking of
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texts and TikTok. Since I'm about to challenge us to
be on our phones less, I'll go ahead and save
you some screen time and play you a video that
my friend Claire sent me that comedian Denay Hayes put up.
It just made me laugh, like I was about to
sit down and record this and I got that and
I sort of laughed. So I'm throwing it in here
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because there's also a little reminder about our bodies in
the humor which I loved the four Things episode with
Denay from last year. She came on the podcast. If
you missed it, I will link it in the show notes.
But she's so funny and this clip reminds me how
funny she is. Okay, here it is, Yes.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I will tell you the procedure.
Speaker 9 (17:06):
I had done to lose all this weight, But I
just want to go and tell you it's very painful.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
It costs a lot.
Speaker 7 (17:13):
Of money, and it takes a lot of time, Like
it's really time consuming. But if you look it up,
it's called a divorce.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (17:20):
So while I did find that to be funny and relatable,
the reminder in the humor here is that you never
know what someone has going on in their life. So
that's why we don't ask her comment about people's bodies.
And while Deney didn't really seem to care that someone
was asking about how she slimmed down and lost weight,
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she made a joke about it. And others may laugh
and joke about it too, but deep down they may
not be able to handle it because the reason for
the weight loss or even weight gain or whatever it
is might be because of something sad, something hard, stressful, you know.
So just wanted to rode that little reminder in there
and also give you a little chuckle in case you
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needed it. Or maybe you're going through something hard like
a divorce and you're like, oh huh, okay, you're not alone.
But back to our phone problem, I have a mini
challenge for you for us, a phone free hour each day,
just one hour where you put the phone aside and
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really experience life distraction free, Like you could choose any
hour to do it, maybe while while working out, or
reading a book or going for a walk. It's a
small change, but I think the results will end up
being pretty big. Like without a screen just stealing our attention,
we're more present, engaged, and honestly, when I put my
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phone away just feels refreshing. I mean, this is like
a mini digital detox that we can do together. It's
not some extreme thing required here. It's just a small,
realistic situation which coming up in the second thing, we're
going to talk about the power of small winds, and
that's sort of what this little hour a day will
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be a little small wind that will add up and
be pretty powerful. And one way to go about this
challenge maybe would be to create a phone free zone
of sorts, like your bed. Maybe if you just don't
allow yourself to have your phone in your bed, then
that'll give you back some time, because studies showed that
when we leave the screens out of the bedroom, our
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brains get the memo it's time to rest. I was
just talking about this with my daughter doing her homework
in her bed with her computer, I'm like, no, let's
go downstairs to either the island, the kitchen table, the
dining room table. Let's sit at a table and do
our homework or at a desk, because when we work
in our bed then our brain gets confused as to
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what is happening, and we want our brain to get
the me to rest when we're in our beds. Hey,
I'm guilty of having my computer and my phone in
my beds. So I got to practice.
Speaker 7 (20:07):
What I preach.
Speaker 8 (20:08):
But lately, I feel like, because of the amount of
homework even happening in our home, even when we're around
the table and we're eating dinner, we've got our phones
and our computers out just to get everything done. And
I have my computer out during their homework because honestly,
I have to google how to help them with certain
things like math. But today I sort of I've just
had enough, and I'm like, I want real connection. I
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want to sit down, I want to have dinner. I
want to be no phones. So that's something that I
decided to do today. Hopefully I can maybe do it
again tomorrow. And I'm being realistic it's not going to
happen every day at dinner. Honestly, junior high high school days,
like multiple kids, there aren't enough hours in the night
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with all they have going on. But we got to
make sure we're intentional about that real time, that real
connection with our kids. And maybe it's not kids, maybe
it's your part or maybe your roommates, whatever it looks
like for you just when you're around the table, maybe
that's a no phone zone, your bed, no phone zone.
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And again not every single night. And then maybe your
hour doesn't have to be consecutive. It could be a
thirty minute phone free situation and then later on thirty
or you do fifteen fifteen, fifteen fifteen, and that'll give
you your hour. Let's just start with that hour every day.
And I think taking a dedicated hour away from our
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devices is going to allow us to just be present
and in the moment, which can for one, help with
the connection and our relationships. For two, that improves our
overall well being. For three, it can reduce anxiety and
then also four lead to mental clarity. There are four
benefits in this.
Speaker 7 (21:52):
I also just.
Speaker 8 (21:53):
Love the idea of connecting more with ourselves. Maybe not
even just others, but having that quiet time to re
set and recharge and find balance, because for me, I
feel constantly on and I need to be intentional about
taking time to reset. But sometimes I'm resetting with a
meditation and I'm using my phone to guide me on
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a meditation, and that won't fit into the hour free
phone How am I going to say this the phone
free hour challenge? I'm gonna have to like be phone
free to meditate if I want to. I mean, I
can still do my walking meditation. I just have to
find another time to maybe walk without my phone or
do something else one hour day.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
That's it.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
Little by little, we're gonna be making more space for
real life.
Speaker 14 (22:55):
We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
We are the one, two, three sore losers.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox.
Speaker 15 (23:04):
I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
It's Sison.
Speaker 14 (23:13):
I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. I live
on the North side of Nashville with Baser, my wife.
We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a lot of acreage,
no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins rye.
I believe maybe a little fescue to be determined.
Speaker 15 (23:31):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers speaking out man. Yesterday
last night, we had we delivered dinner to a family.
The mom had surgery.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Whole man.
Speaker 15 (23:48):
Wow, that fans loud, isn't it?
Speaker 2 (23:51):
But that's okay?
Speaker 15 (23:52):
Well why are you clapping?
Speaker 14 (23:54):
Awesome?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
What is awesome?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
That's cool? You did that?
Speaker 15 (23:59):
Oh yeah, yeah. Anyway, so we're friends with you know,
the couple of the kids are friends, and so we
took dinner over and we the kids play for a
little bit and then we're like, all right, well we're
gonna go. You know, I know you're not feeling well.
And the dad looks exhausted. Dude, he's been at this
for like five days because the mom is, you know,
laid up, and he just looks so tired. He wants
to just get to bed. We're like, we got to
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get out of here.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
I got to do my shirt again. I'm sweating.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I know it's hot.
Speaker 15 (24:24):
I was gonna say that fan was making a big difference,
but it's not making that big of a difference. Unless
I angle myself this way and that computer screen is
not blocking it, then I can feel it a little bit.
Speaker 14 (24:33):
I'm doing the same cape that Lunch posted the picture
of yesterday.
Speaker 15 (24:36):
Yeah, on Wednesday. If we get in the we get
in the car, we're getting everybody buckling in, all right,
We're ready to go. And we're in their driveway and
I turned the car on and there's a lady standing
on the sidewalk right behind the car and she's just
standing there. I'm looking in the review rear view mirror
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and the car's on. She has to see the car light.
Speaker 14 (25:00):
It's right, hey, sweet tits.
Speaker 15 (25:02):
And I mean two minutes, still standing there.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And the kid, dad, let's go.
Speaker 15 (25:09):
And I'm like, there's someone you know standing back there,
and I'm like, I know she sees the lights, like
the red light and the tail lights are on. Three
minutes go by, and I finally, all right, maybe she
doesn't see me, so I'll put it in reverse so
she has to see me.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
Whoa right, give her a blink.
Speaker 15 (25:28):
So I put it in reverse and she's just standing
there with her dog in the very middle, right in
the middle, right behind the car. We are trying to
back out of this person's driveway, and we can't.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
We are stuck.
Speaker 15 (25:44):
There's nowhere to go. And she's just standing there and
the dogs just kind of squatted there, and the lady's
just standing there with the leash, not trying to move
the dog, not trying to do anything, just hanging out.
Speaker 4 (25:53):
Hey, tit's on a stick.
Speaker 15 (25:56):
And I'm like, what is she doing?
Speaker 14 (25:59):
Influence sir? I mean, what descriptions of this last She's
eighty or twenty.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
She's probably.
Speaker 15 (26:07):
Forty eight, hot, brown hair, short, petite lady ray, very
nice shelf. Dog was kind of big, like a labradoodle.
Is that what they're called?
Speaker 14 (26:18):
Is she wearing the ass leisure that everybody wears now?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 15 (26:21):
She was wearing like a nice soft, like a light
pullover and some probably yoga pants, blacked yoga pants, and
it was a purple top.
Speaker 14 (26:30):
Say less for the truckers.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
She had some.
Speaker 15 (26:35):
White, whitish gray tennis shoes on. That's what she was wearing.
The dog was a golden doodle. It was kind of
grayish for the truckers.
Speaker 14 (26:45):
Was she tanned?
Speaker 7 (26:47):
No?
Speaker 15 (26:47):
I couldn't really tell. She had long sleeves on like
she and so finally I put it back in park
after five minutes of sitting there, and I get out
of the car and I kind of stick my head
around and that's when I see the problem. The dog's constipated.
The lady has a bag on her hand, and the
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dog has half a poop out its butt and it
can't come out and it won't move. So she is
down there trying to physically with the hand in the bag,
rip the poop out of the butt.
Speaker 14 (27:21):
You can't fault her for not moving.
Speaker 15 (27:23):
I didn't know. She was so like concerned with her
dog and paying attention to her dog that she probably
didn't notice the vehicle. She couldn't She was trying to
She couldn't move the dog because it was already in
this like poop position, but that poop, and she had
that bag on there.
Speaker 10 (27:39):
Hey mam, you gotta bear down. This is what I
do in the bathroom.
Speaker 15 (27:44):
And she looks at me and she goes, oh, I'm sorry,
you know, are you lunch bots? I know you're trying
to move. She goes, my dog's having problems getting this
poop out.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
How how's it going?
Speaker 14 (27:53):
I'm a lunch And she's like, I'm trying to move him.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Out of the way.
Speaker 15 (27:55):
I'm trying to move him out of the way. I'm like,
all right, so I get back in the car. I'm like,
get dad, what's going on?
Speaker 10 (28:00):
Have you considered massaging the groin area?
Speaker 4 (28:03):
Dad?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Why isn't she moving?
Speaker 15 (28:04):
Dad? Can we go down? I'm like, Oh, the dog's
taking a poop.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Can I see?
Speaker 15 (28:08):
Can I see?
Speaker 13 (28:09):
No, guys?
Speaker 15 (28:11):
And then I put it in reverse again to just
kind of watch on the camera because I'm like, I
want to see the action.
Speaker 14 (28:17):
Well did she address at all why the car cannot
back out?
Speaker 15 (28:20):
Well, she said the dog won't move. She said, I'm sorry.
I tried to move. I said, okay, and.
Speaker 10 (28:26):
Well, let me get your number roll. I don't know why,
but i'd put it back in reverse. I could watch
on the camera eight because I might. I mean, I
might as well see the action.
Speaker 15 (28:37):
And after eight minutes and thirty seconds of sitting in
the driveway, the poop was removed. She used her hand
in that bag to kind of yank that poop out
of there, and the dog moved out of the way.
Speaker 14 (28:53):
Dude, that is patience for you to actually get out,
not to do the horn.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
The horn.
Speaker 14 (29:00):
That actually was you being the bigger person that deserves
a round of applause.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
So that was a big night.
Speaker 13 (29:05):
Man.
Speaker 15 (29:05):
We delivered dinner, we watched a lady deliver a poop
out of the butt. I mean, it was an incredible
evening for me.
Speaker 16 (29:32):
I have always really loved to talk about attachment theory,
so I'm really excited not only because this amazing person
that's joining us is an expert in this field, but
also because we share the same name. It's doctor Morgan Anderson,
and she's a psychologist and attachment theory expert.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Morgan, how are you.
Speaker 6 (29:50):
I am doing great. Thank you so much for having me.
And yes, I love that we have the same name.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
It's awesome.
Speaker 16 (29:56):
It's interesting that you mentioned that because I look at
myself in my early twenties when I was dating and
I as an anxiously attached person. I was always finding
myself in situationships or in relationships with avoidance or disorganized
or men who knew how to bread crumb or gaslight.
And as I evolved as a human being and like
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really recognize I hated the way that I felt, and
I hated the way that I was being treated and
started to grow and to become who I am now
in Morgan, who's thirty one. I cannot be bothered if
somebody even gives me a hint of a breadcrumb or
in the direction of being an avoidant, I'm like, oh, yeap,
bread stop sign, I'm out. I'm getting out of the car.
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You can continue on, but it's not going to be
with me. It's interesting just watching the evolution of myself
having figured that out. So I want that for other
people if they've found themselves in one of these other
three in trying to find themselves to a secure attachment.
Speaker 6 (30:51):
Ooh, let's talk about this. This is good, this is juicy.
So when you're showing up with insecure attachment style like
you were talking about, also myself in my twenties as well,
your brain your attachment system. You are attracted to emotionally
unavailable partners, that is your emotional home. Those partners fit
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the model of what your brain knows is true about relationships,
so you are definitely attracted to those people. And of
course avoidantly attached people are attracted to anxiously attach people
as well because it also fits their emotional home. It's
this perfect storm of that magnetic attraction. And this is
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why it can be so hard to break out of it,
and the only way to break out of it is
to not get an avoidantly attached person.
Speaker 13 (31:44):
To love you.
Speaker 6 (31:45):
Like spoiler alert for everyone out there. That's not how
you break out of it. It's to change internally and
to do the work on yourself so that you become
securely attached and now you are attracted to a different
type of partner.
Speaker 16 (31:59):
It's really hard because even as someone who is a
secure attachment now and in the dating field currently, there
is an overwhelming amount of people who are avoidant and
who are emotionally unavailable.
Speaker 7 (32:11):
I don't know if that's.
Speaker 16 (32:13):
Just we're moralware that that's who they are, or if
we're just in a very specific timeframe where this is happening.
Speaker 7 (32:19):
I don't, you know, I don't know the science behind
any of that.
Speaker 16 (32:21):
But from personal experience, even being a secure attachment, they're
still finding me, They're still coming. Yes, the only thing
that has changed is that I can now see it
for what it is.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
The Ye're no longer attracted to it, so you're not
playing into it, So you're ending those connections so much
more quickly than you would have in the past. And
I'll give you some of the research on this. So
number one is that you're not wrong that there are
more avoidantly attached people in the dating pool because they
find themselves in and out of relationships more frequently, right,
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So they're in a relationship and then they're back in
the dating pool. So yes, there are, for poor punately,
more people who have avoidant attachment who are in the
dating pool. And then the other stat that is somewhat
terrifying to me is that avoidant attachment is the quickest
growing attachment style, So we have more people becoming avoidantly
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attached than any other attachment style.
Speaker 16 (33:21):
Oh gosh, that makes me so sad because it's already
rough out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
Okay, we don't need to make it work.
Speaker 6 (33:27):
There is hope. I want to get to the hopeful part.
But let's we could talk about this more.
Speaker 9 (33:31):
Well.
Speaker 16 (33:31):
It's funny, you know, my friends will often look at
me because of the relationships that I've been in there like,
I'm always surprised that you haven't become an avoidant based
on your experiences, And I think once you've had enough
experiences on the other side of an avoidant, you never
want to be that way. Your hope is to never
show up to another person like that because of how
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painful it is to be on that receiving end. And
it doesn't mean that anybody's at fault for being those
types of things. We're all human, we of have to
go through life experiences. But once you've felt that, and
once you've been on the other side, or been the
anxiously attached or the avoidant whatever, you know how much
pain is caused from that. And there's no benefit from
me switching attachments from secure to avoidant just simply because
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I've been hurt.
Speaker 6 (34:18):
What's really fascinating is that both the anxious attachment and
avoidant attachment, they actually are emotionally unavailable. They're both emotionally unavailable,
which I know is kind of mind blowing. Avoidantly attached
people are emotionally unavailable to their partners. Anxiously attached people
are emotionally unavailable to themselves.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
She's a queen and talking and.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
She's getting really not afraid to feel as episode, and so.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Just let it flow. No one can do we quiet
carey lone.
Speaker 9 (35:15):
It's sounding care lone, But I think about life like this,
like in one hundred and fifty years, we're all gonna
be dead. Nobody's gonna remember any of us. It doesn't
matter anything that we do. But it does, do you
know what I mean? Like people never like remember anything
other than how you make them feel. That's it. So
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I think my mind set is, like I do want
to make a difference. Like obviously I want to be
at a point in my career that I don't have
to beg to go on tour with somebody. Oh I
don't have to like get an email and them say, oh,
well it's a buy on. I'm like, no, I'm not
getting in debt, like I want to go on to
it because you want me there, or like I can
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do a headline to and out. I've got that in
the UK, but I'm trying to get that here. And
I think, like I want to be successful. I am successful,
Yes you are successful, but I would like to be
even more successful because I am a connection person. I'm
like very emotional. I feel my feelings. I know what
it feels like to be alone, and I want my
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songs to reach as many people as possible just to
I want to be I want to be of service
to people. I want to be of service because I
think that's my gift in this life and purpose. So
I think whatever desire is planted in your heart, like
on a timeline somewhere, you've already got it. So I
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think you have to become it before you are it.
And now that I'm in like a different energetic space,
things seem to be I think I was just like chasing,
chasing after people like hey, I am talented, Hey can
I'll play that show? I like, you know, and I'm like, no,
I don't need to, Like I'm really not interested in
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the whole fickle like, oh now we'll now now you're cool,
you know, now now that you've proved yourself and you've
done all the work, now we'll have a meeting with
you or take you on. I'm like, I'm just not
that way. I've never been that way. I've got I've
had friends since I've been like, you know, the same
friends since four years old. Like the people that I love,
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I will literally do anything for them, and I try
and show up for people because I feel like your
word is important. I'm generally always late, which is a
thing I'm working on, but I do show up.
Speaker 7 (37:41):
I show up, and I just love the.
Speaker 9 (37:42):
People that have shown up for me in this town
and they had no need to that. I didn't have
anything going on. And what's cool is like all these
little moments like I just played the Country Music Hall
of Fame and the Opry ways another like milestone and
I've only been here a year and a half. That's
it and fast I'm trying to but it's because of
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them as well, and it's like nice that I get
to share that with them. That's what I want. That's
what makes it for me that I get to share
that sort of stuff. And also on like a personal
level now at a point where I'm like, I want
to share my life with someone. I want to build
a life with someone and for them to bear witness
to it, because after time I spend on my phone
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alone editing to get like I don't know, two hundred
fewds or people. You know, I'm like, gosh, it's hilarious,
Like consistency is everything twenty just like let's go keep on.
Speaker 6 (38:38):
I freaking love you.
Speaker 7 (38:40):
You are speaking like the inside of my mind.
Speaker 9 (38:43):
You know, if I do ever quit the music industry,
I'm going to start a podcast and like be like
the Bridgeton of Nashville, and I'm just gonna like I'm
going to tell I'm just gonna expose everyone. No, I'm joking, no,
but I really I started this nonprofit called ie Woman
because I was absolutely horrified of how many women were
not on the radio. I was like, this, this doesn't
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happen in the UKID it's like best song wins.
Speaker 5 (39:08):
Really yeah, it doesn't matter how cool you are, what
politics you have.
Speaker 9 (39:11):
I mean there's politics everywhere, but I feel like I'm
also in this town that it is a bit that's
been difficult to navigate, Like I don't understand the system.
The politics don't make sense. And also there's so many
amazing female artists that why are they not on the radio.
And it's like, oh they people don't want to listen
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to female artists. I'm like, yeah they do. And the
most can I just say, the most international artists of
all time are females Shanaya, Dolly, those who I grew
up with from the UK, Like, oh globally do you
know what I mean? So I don't know. I'm like
a very girl's girl and just don't don't get it.
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But I'm not gonna like I'm not complaining about it.
I'm just like it is one of them things that
you're just like, all right, I just got to find
a new another way in, you know, a new way in.
Speaker 7 (40:05):
What's your method?
Speaker 9 (40:07):
Just be so good that they can't ignore me.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
I think it's happening.
Speaker 9 (40:13):
No, I just want to be myself and I want
people like you know, I am not like Elanie Wilson.
I mean, I love that girl, She's one of my friends,
but I'm not like I do veer on the more
poppier side of things because I love to dance. So
it's more like in the Land of Shanaia Megan trya
(40:34):
Miley like. I think my write in is very country
esque of like storytelling, but I like to sprinkle it
with a bit of you know, pop. But to be honest,
like country now is just like pop music. That's what
pop means, popular culture, and it is. It's like massive
in Europe, and I just I just find it's funny
(40:57):
sometimes that people will give you any excuse to say no.
And obviously I'm British, I'm not from here. I'm doing
country creature prop music. It's like there is a way
that a mold that you have to fit and I don't.
But then I'm like you know, Jelly's story is really
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inspiring and Haidie like, they get played on rock radio
as well. I don't here anybody saying I mean, they're
already successful, so I guess you can do what you
want when you get to that level.
Speaker 7 (41:31):
That's like, but they came out with rock influences.
Speaker 5 (41:33):
They didn't hide it.
Speaker 2 (41:34):
Yeah they were.
Speaker 9 (41:36):
I'm not trying to hide it, and I'm never you know,
it's up to the listener at the end of the day,
just let the song do.
Speaker 2 (41:42):
That's talking. Hey, it's Mike d And this week on
Movie Mike's Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey and I shared
our best and worst for the month of October. All
things we watched in theaters are streaming at home, and
we let you know whether or not these movies are
worth your time and money or if you should skip
them all together. So here's just a little bit of
our Be sure to check out the full episode of
Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and hit me up on socials
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at Mike Dstro. That's d E S t r O.
All right, we'll get into our movies of the month
now for October. You kick us off best movie you
saw in October in your opinion.
Speaker 7 (42:15):
So easy, We live in time, the sad one.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Yeah, you were waiting to be sad, And I think
I felt a little bit different about this movie because
everybody was saying, how sad it is going to be.
Just based on the trailer, you can tell that Florence
Pugh is gonna get cancer. You see her, they sit
down at the doctor's office. She has hair cut to
a scene and she has no hair, shaved head. I
love that she committed to the shaved head. She commits
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because whenever you didn't see Furriosa with me, right.
Speaker 7 (42:43):
Yeah, I saw in my family.
Speaker 2 (42:44):
We saw all the same time, different theaters. The thing
that I annoyed me about that movie is Anya Taylor
Joy did not shave her head. She wore like a
shaved head wig and it was so distracting to me.
And I feel like that also took her out of
that role because if you're not fully committing to it,
I don't bel leave you. And if I don't believe you,
I'm not gonna enjoy the movie. But Florence Pew straight
up shaved a head for real.
Speaker 7 (43:05):
To be fair, I was looking forward to being Sad
because it did come out on the weekend that it
is the anniversary of when my dad passed away when
I was younger, so I feel like I needed a
cathartic release. I actually couldn't cry as much as I
needed to. It was disappointing.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Did you cry at all?
Speaker 7 (43:19):
I teared up, but the tears didn't necessarily like free flow.
The girl across the aisle from us.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yeah, there were people falling there.
Speaker 7 (43:26):
And then in the bathroom she was like, I don't
know how everyone else is crying.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
And I think it's because I knew that it was
going to be said that I had this maybe this
guard up a little bit that I knew what to expect.
Speaker 7 (43:36):
It was also done in such a way that like
it was very just like beautiful.
Speaker 2 (43:41):
I love the way this movie was done. And I
told you afterwards that I almost felt bad even giving
it a grade because it just felt like one of
those movies that was essential to life. It didn't feel like, oh,
here's the beginning of this movie, here's the middle part
of this movie. It just flowed like life, like you
were getting a peek into these characters, just overwhelmingly sad
situation of her dealing with cancer, her trying to find
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her purpose in life. They have a daughter, and all
the things that they wanted to accomplish in life kind
of get put on hold. It is just a complex story,
taking like what otherwise would just be this really just
small slice of life story and making it feel so
much bigger and larger. And I think that's because you
have Florence Pew and Andrew Garfield together who have amazing chemistry.
Speaker 7 (44:23):
They really do. I'm gonna give it five stars.
Speaker 2 (44:26):
Five stars. Wow, I'd probably I'd probably go on the
four point five out of five because I feel like
it's there's nothing that I would change about the movie.
I love the way how of course it's called We
Live in Time. It would hop around in different timelines,
which I think made it way more enjoyable to watch.
You would see them from their very beginning of their relationship,
towards the end of their relationship, the middle. It just
(44:48):
kind of jumped around, and I think for somebody with
like an add brain, it would be really engaging to
watch because you're not just watching a continuous story.
Speaker 7 (44:57):
I think we all have add at this point.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Yeah, I'm the Internet.
Speaker 7 (45:01):
I'm playing the pandemic. Like we we just sat at
home on our phones. It was like tiny screen, big screen,
medium screen, and then it just kind of rewired our brains.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
It's funny now that even our break from our screen
is a screen, because we were like, all right, let's
put down the phones and watch nice, wholesome television on
a bigger screen. Yeah, that's all we do is just
look at screens.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
But I think it's different because it's not like scrolling,
and your eyes aren't like rapidly seeing a lot.
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Of and it's not a constant like here's fifteen seconds,
here's five seconds, here's two seconds exactly. Here's the costco guys,
here's your worst for October.
Speaker 7 (45:34):
Joker terrible, hated it.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
I feel like you never even got invested in this
movie whatsoever. Where I found parts of it that I enjoyed. No,
there was like little pockets of it that I was like, okay,
now we're getting good. You were just disconnected the entire time.
Speaker 7 (45:49):
I didn't even take out my movie candy because it
was not worth wasting my expensive Swedish candy on this film.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
Dang, that is the worst. You can't even snack your No,
it wasn't worth.
Speaker 7 (45:59):
My I was like, I should save this for a
movie that I'm enjoying. So I just took out my phone,
turned on the brightness, and scrolled. I don't worry. I'm
not an a hole like I turn it down and
no one can see me.
Speaker 2 (46:10):
But I was.
Speaker 7 (46:12):
I don't think my attention was ever kept during this film.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
I'll also say at the regal we go to in
the recliner seats, you really can't see the person's cell phone,
like behind you or next to you if you turn
down the brightness. And I also put it on like
the night mode where it changed everything black.
Speaker 7 (46:27):
I just keep mine on night mode. I know that's
kind of psychotic of me.
Speaker 2 (46:30):
All the time I have mine on dark mode. You
know that I haven't noticed. I didn't know that you do.
Speaker 4 (46:35):
I do?
Speaker 7 (46:36):
Yeah, Like my notes background is, oh my texts.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
I guess I didn't realize that.
Speaker 7 (46:41):
Yeah, I like it better. It doesn't hurt my eyes
as much.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
I'll do it in the movie because I'll occasionally make
a note.
Speaker 7 (46:46):
On occasionally you're making notes during every film we see.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
I make a lot of notes because I want to
remember it.
Speaker 7 (46:53):
Eighteen minutes and thirty two seconds this happened.
Speaker 2 (46:56):
I do I time every single I know, right, when
we start, I hit the stop. I know, because the
time online is never right. It includes the credits, and
sometimes even that's off. I have to know for sure.
Was it the singing for you? Or is it the story?
Or was it everything?
Speaker 7 (47:11):
Listen or is it Lady Gaga? Big fan of Lady Gaga.
We have to stop making every movie she's in a musical. Listen.
I love her, love her music, love her makeup line,
she does great things. We gotta stop just period it was.
It wasn't even original songs, because I don't mind a musical.
I love Broadway.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
It was a jukebox musical.
Speaker 7 (47:31):
I just am kind of also over Walking Phoenix.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
Really yeah, because of Napoleon No, I.
Speaker 7 (47:39):
Just feel like it's kind of a douche maybe interesting.
Speaker 2 (47:41):
I mean, for a while, he was one of my
favorite actors. I just feel like he hasn't done a
movie recently that I've really enjoyed him in.
Speaker 7 (47:49):
I also hated the First Joker because I was so
physically stressed, and.
Speaker 2 (47:53):
You thought this one was going to be as stressful.
Speaker 7 (47:55):
I think I actually would have rather been that stressed again, and.
Speaker 2 (47:57):
I wish it would have been that, And I told you, like, hey,
good thing is, it's not gonna be that dark, But
then we got this.
Speaker 7 (48:02):
I think I would have preferred darkness yeah over singing.
Speaker 2 (48:07):
Yeah. I didn't mind so much the music. It just
felt like the Joker character was a complete departure from
what he was in Part one. And I think the director,
Todd Phillips almost hated what he created with the first
one that people were I think he didn't expect people
to react to the Joker the way they did and
kind of idolize them in a way, and I think
(48:29):
that kind of made him upset that he wanted to
tell people like, Oh, this character I've created that's been
like this beacon now for this type of person. I
wanted to completely destroy that and derail this character and
make them completely unrecognizable. So what we got was not
the Joker that we were expecting from the first one,
(48:49):
and I think that's what I hated most because it
didn't feel like that. It felt like a slap in
the face to me. And then you throw in the
music and singing, and it commits to that so much
that I still think that he made the movie he
intended to make, but it was not what anybody wanted.
Speaker 7 (49:03):
It was not.
Speaker 2 (49:03):
I feel like if there was a movie we were
gonna walk out of this year, that probably would have
been close to one.
Speaker 7 (49:08):
I would have loved to have fuck.
Speaker 4 (49:10):
Out of that.
Speaker 2 (49:11):
It was pretty long, too. The only thing it had
going for it was that it looked good. I thought
the cinematography was still great.
Speaker 7 (49:17):
No, if that's enough to redeem a two hours.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
It's really not. But that was the only thing I
was like, Well, at least that shot looked cool. Aside
from that, there was very few things to be excited about.
Speaker 7 (49:26):
I honestly should have just gone to see whatever else
they were screening and then been like, text me when
you're done.
Speaker 1 (49:40):
Thank you guys for listening to this week's Sunday sample,
or if there's anything that you like maybe you don't.
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Subscribe, go check it out subscribe. That would help us tremendously.
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (49:49):
Have a great week.
Speaker 7 (50:00):
Zero
We're back with Sunday sampler clips from the podcast. I
talked to George Burge about pressure to get a second
number one song, because you're like, oh, he got a
number one, It's all good, but like, what's the difference
sore losers, Amy Brown? There's a lot, but I will
tell you this. In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie
is back. Season two kicked off celebrity hair colorist Justin Anderson,
(00:31):
who you may know him from Arry Cavaliery. They had
a crazy conversation about a dog owner who wanted to
get their dog neuticles, which are implants like not getting neutered,
and then put fake ones in. God heard that was
the thing, but I didn't think it was real. So
in the Vets Office, if you like this, there's also
so much great information about animals, like go check it
out in the Vets Office with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
But here's the clip.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Yeah, you're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Horchak.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
We can ask you questions.
Speaker 3 (01:08):
I'm not that smart about dogs, but like, why do
you have to neuter male dogs so they can't get
girls pregnant?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Yes, a, we don't want to be I don't want
to be a grandparent just yet. And then b they
a lot of like behavioral issues like getting into fights, marking,
and then really the big thing is they get prostatic
disease if they're not neutered, and certain kinds of cancer.
So that's like that's the big one.
Speaker 4 (01:31):
Okay, Yeah.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
The downside to it is they can get like they're
more likely to get fat. Oh really, because they don't
have all that testosterone in their system.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
And so wait, so if they take the walls out,
they're likely to get fat.
Speaker 5 (01:42):
You're more likely to put on weight. Oh, but I'd
rather have like a little like a muffin top on
my dog than them getting cancer.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
Kevin's getting chunky. He's getting chunky right now. He's getting big,
but I love him bigger. Well, that's another question that
I want to ask you.
Speaker 3 (01:56):
You have to really monitor their weight, right, especially when
they're smaller dogs.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Yeah, it's I mean, any dog, it's important. And that
how old is Kevin?
Speaker 4 (02:02):
He's four years old. It's like human.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Years, very classic. All you're twenty eight.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
Birthday. We can't wait. Actually, he was like an insane teenager.
I gen't wait till he's in his thirties.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
We're so excited for his thirties.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
It's really classic that once they're neutered and then they
hit true adulthood, like three, four or five, they start
to pack on the LB's okay, their metabolis exactly.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Oh my gosh, this is so wild.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
Yes, So we really like a lot of times when
my patients come in around like four years old, I'm like, whoa,
we got to like get you on weight watching.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Okay, So then that's where he's at.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Yeah, because we took him recently to our vet and
she was like, he put a little bit of weight on,
and I was like, we're not going back to her.
Speaker 4 (02:42):
She's rude.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, yeah, because if it was up to be I
would have him be like a little chunker.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
I love when he's like bigger, but it's not healthy
for them.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Right, yeah, I mean a little like he I'm looking
at him and he is not obese by any stretch
of the imagination. So if he was like morbidly obese,
I'd be like, listen, justin, I don't care what you like.
We have to have him lose weight, but like a
little like cushion is fine.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah, wellhen his defense to a lot of that is fur.
Speaker 3 (03:06):
He's actually a lot smaller than that. Yeah, but I
can feel his body is getting bigger well. And as
he gets older, he's kind of like all the guys
in my family, we get like barrel chested as we
get older, like car chest area.
Speaker 4 (03:16):
Gets bigger, and that's kind of what's happening to him,
Like his body area is just getting really thick, barrel chest.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
He's a big boy, big boy.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Oh my god. I love him so much. I never
want him to die.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh my gosh. We talk about this a lot. It's
called anticipatory grief. Oh yeah, I think about them dying.
Speaker 3 (03:32):
Just the other night, we were laying in bed and
I just start crying out of nowhere because I was
like holding him in the cutting with him and Scoot
it can't deal with my emotions because I'm like really
up and down.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
But he was like, what are you crying about right now?
Speaker 3 (03:42):
And I'm like, I'm just thinking about when we don't
have him anymore, and I like I want to lose
my shit, to be honest. That's why I never really
wanted a dog as an adult, because I'm like really
afraid of death, Like it freaks me out when I'm
attached to somebody, So I think.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
God, it daily, Yeah it is.
Speaker 7 (03:55):
You can spiral.
Speaker 8 (03:56):
I totally get it.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Like I think we're just driving in the car, I'll
think about it and I just start it's awful.
Speaker 5 (04:01):
You just have to think, like, well, a, we get
them to bring joy into our lives, which they do.
So I try to, like ninety percent of it to
be focusing on the joy. But think of all the
wonderful years that you've got, you know that you have
and still have with him, and all of that is
worth the heartbreak that you'll have after.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
He's going to be stuffed for sure and next to
my bed for the rest.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah doubt no, like for real, he's gonna be right there.
Like well, then I was telling SCO. I was like, what,
I wish we could plant it out where we all
went at the same time, you know.
Speaker 9 (04:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
And then sometimes I have morbid thoughts.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I'm like, we just we all just go and Julia.
Speaker 7 (04:34):
As your vet.
Speaker 5 (04:35):
I don't advise that, but not really. I completely understand though.
And then I've had a pet pass away and I
was like, I'm never getting another dog.
Speaker 4 (04:44):
Oh my god, I do it.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
I can't even think about how I'm going to be, Like,
it's really going to be a huge issue.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
It's like that will be hard, sugarcoated.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
But no, I know, harder than probably anybody in my life,
you know, because a lot of times it's like, well,
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
No, humans are bad deal too.
Speaker 7 (04:56):
No.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
I have clients all the time say to me when
their pets passed away, like I cry this much when
my mom died, right, cry as much when my grandma died,
Like this is but your mom and your grandma like
aren't getting into bed sleeping with you every single night.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
That's the thing. We're so attached. I mean, like even
like him.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
He literally sleeps like kind of wrapped around my head
and he like put his mouth right by my ear,
and so like I sleep to the sound of his
like little breathing in my ear and like the thought
of that.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Not being there, Oh my god, it's ot sound right now.
But I stop.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I saw something on social media recently where they were
talking about like they're trying to work on these things
that like prolonged dogs lives. Do you think that's kind
of gross and weird or do you think they should.
Speaker 5 (05:31):
Like the NAD stuff.
Speaker 9 (05:32):
Were you reading.
Speaker 4 (05:33):
Yeah, they're saying like.
Speaker 5 (05:34):
No, I don't think it's I mean, if.
Speaker 3 (05:36):
We have modern science for us, why can't alle absolutely.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
And we already know our dogs are living a lot
longer than they were even in the eighties and nineties.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Because of diet and stuff.
Speaker 5 (05:44):
I think food, like preventative care. We're taking care of
their teeth, like all these things.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
That, yeah, that we are crazy about them, like we
do everything to try and keep them really healthy.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
So when I first came out of practice, I lived
in Boystown in Chicago, and oh we.
Speaker 4 (05:58):
Got Boystound is fun the best. It's the best gay
area in America.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
In America.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
I love it.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Take me back there, shout out all the gays and Boystown,
I love you. And I was convinced that in my
next life I needed to come back as a pet
to double dog dads. Oh there's nothing better.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I totally understand why our dogs lived the life. It's
so funny because like they've never been alone, Like if
we go to dinner for like two hours, they have
a babysitter, or they're like with cokecar neighbor who's like
their second mom. They are so well taken care of
I would want to be a gay guys dog for sure.
Speaker 5 (06:30):
Have you always have you had pets growing up? Have
you always loved animals?
Speaker 3 (06:33):
So we always had pets growing up. We always had
golden tree ris like big, big dogs. I feel like
that's such the Mormon dog. I'm like from a big
Mormon families.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
To always have like blonde.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
Yeah, everyone was blonde. It was just like our thing,
like whatever.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
But as we got older, I love like little dogs,
like I want the gayest dogs in the world. I
secretly want like those shit suits and I want to
put like bows in their hair and like have them
blown out and stuff. But Scoot was like, absolutely not.
So I've always loved but these are my first ones
as an adult.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
I have always had big dogs, and I now have Biggie,
who the audience knows he's a terror, but he's small,
and I don't think I'm ever going back to big dogs.
Speaker 10 (07:11):
No.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I love them, No, I love it just like holding them,
cuddle them.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I need like a little bit of girth on their body,
like Kevin, like I like how he's got that little
thick body, and the same thing with Clark, like I
couldn't do like a Chihuahua.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
You know, I'm a real like.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
Cuddler, Like I like hold them tight and stuff, but
I know how to do it too.
Speaker 4 (07:27):
Sometimes they say, I read this thing the other day
on Instagram. I want Instagram too much.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
But they're saying, like a study came out that said
dogs don't like to be held or cuddled, And I'm like,
you need to calm down, because our dogs like climb
into our arms and want us to hold them. But
I feel like you have to train them to want
to do that, because if you hold the dog and
they don't want it, and you hold on to them
and they start to freak out and you don't let go,
that would like create like a it.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
Feels unsafe to them, right, Sure, they feel trapped.
Speaker 3 (07:53):
So from a young because I like read all this stuff,
but from when they were really little puppies, Like you
hold them very gentle. If they start to square, you
let him go, you know, so that they know that
it's like a safe space, right, Like you're not trying
to like exactly.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Yeah, and these specifically Kevin's a Cavish on right. Yeah,
So cavaliers were bred to be lap dogs for the
for the Queen. I think he's so royal, he's so
loyal and so this.
Speaker 3 (08:18):
They say that they're like like a velcrow dog. They're like,
Kevin is attached. If I even shut the bathroom to
like our little toilet area, like he'll just sit there,
like he's like sniffing under the door, like he has
to be with us.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Like maybe borderline separation.
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Anxiety bad, like really bad?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Okay, what has been the difference with this song being
a success? Are people treating you different?
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Is your pay going up?
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Like?
Speaker 1 (08:49):
What has changed in the past year with the second
song that's about to be a hit?
Speaker 11 (08:52):
I think everything I think with every number one you have,
and I'll tell you you, guys, if I stack four
or five together and I start to feel differently, But
I feel like with every number one you have, like
everything just feels like it doubles in size, like the
way people treat you, the way that you're getting paid
for shows.
Speaker 12 (09:10):
I've been able to hire a couple of new people
in my crew for like.
Speaker 11 (09:12):
More support, and like I've had crowds start getting bigger
even still than they were just for mind on You
and then for me, like as an artist, I like
was over.
Speaker 12 (09:23):
The moon, excited, when Mind on You when number one.
Speaker 11 (09:26):
But at the same time, I was also kind of like,
oh crap, like I have to follow this up right,
Like there's eyes on me now, like there's pressure on
me now. Before it was like, Okay, this is a
wild shot. I'm just swinging for the fences and hope
I hit something. And now it's like, all right, I
have a standard and I have to you know, kind
of match that. And so when I wrote Cowboy Songs,
I knew that that was like the magic one that
was going to be the next single. But I'm starting
(09:47):
to feel that again, like Okay, what's number three going
to be? How are we going to back this up?
And it's a really exciting problem to have. But it's
wild to you know, feel that pressure constantly of like, okay,
what's next new music? How am I going to grow
as an artist? I'm going to keep connecting with fans.
So it's been really exciting that and we get a
lot of free stuff, so.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
Which is.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
It is a really cool part of it.
Speaker 2 (10:09):
And I can tell you.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Just from like my experience and my weird baptism into
having like a little bit of fame for a minute
and then not really then a little bit more and whenever,
cause it's it doesn't exist forever, it's not real it,
it doesn't last. People are fickle, but when you are
this shiny penny, people do treat you way different. It's
(10:32):
of course, you get a bunch of free stuff. People
are offering to send you places. You're getting free close. Hey,
we'll dress you for this stuff. And you know, once
I started to like have some success and have some money, people,
that's why everybody start offing me the free stuff.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
And I was like, no, I can kind of afford
it now. It was weird.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
It was like, I actually can afford it. I don't
really need it as much now. But I've been to
the point too where it's been like really good and
then it's trickled away. And I've been the same exact
person with the same exact people, and they treat you,
even in this town like people treat you a bit different.
Whenever you have a hit and you're about to have
a second hit, how about rights? Do you get people
willing to write with you a lot easier.
Speaker 12 (11:08):
That's been the wildest part for me.
Speaker 11 (11:09):
I think, you know, and look like every writer only
has so much creative juice only has so much energy
to put into stuff, so like they want to chase
the stuff that they think they can potentially have a
hits on. So you can never blame anybody from coming
out of the woodwork and like trying to jump on
a project. But you know, I went from having my
small circle that I write songs with and that I
(11:29):
knew I write well with, to my phone blowing up
every single I mean every single.
Speaker 12 (11:34):
Day, not an exaggeration.
Speaker 11 (11:35):
I will wake up to four songs in my inbox
or text messages being like, hey man, I think this
is a hit for you.
Speaker 12 (11:40):
Hey man, I think this is a hit.
Speaker 11 (11:41):
For people I hadn't heard from in years, or people
I've never met, or hey, I got your number from
SO and so sending you a song.
Speaker 12 (11:46):
It's the most flattering thing in the world.
Speaker 11 (11:48):
But it's also like you can so easily get lost
being like, oh, well, maybe I need to chase this direction,
or maybe I need to grow and do this and
kind of get away from what brought you to the
dance of the reason that you started have success in
the first place.
Speaker 12 (12:01):
And so that's been something I've.
Speaker 11 (12:02):
Been trying to navigate and I've been really blessed to have,
you know, my original group of friends that I wrote with,
like continue to write with me and know.
Speaker 12 (12:08):
Who I am and what I want to say.
Speaker 11 (12:10):
And you know, we do add some different people to
the room and try to add a different dynamic, but
it is there is so much noise that starts to come,
and like if you don't have a really good foundation,
like knowing who you are and knowing who your friends
are and knowing what real relationships are, like people that
genuinely have cared about you before you had something for
them to benefit from, versus people that will be gone
(12:30):
the day that your success is gone. And that's the
kind of the thing that you have to learn how
to balance. And like our business managers, you know, when
you get into this industry and you sit down and
you're like, holy crap, I made money, like real money
for the first time this year, like in my life,
and you kind of can get delusional and think that
that will last forever too, And in your business maner,
it'll tell you like in this industry, like you're going
(12:51):
to make ninety percent of the money for the rest
of your life and a five year window and if
you're lucky, really lucky. You might have a ten year window,
but that's it, Like it burns hot and fast and
it's gone, and so I know it's not forever.
Speaker 13 (13:03):
I was.
Speaker 11 (13:04):
I had a blessed life before this stuff took off,
and I know I'll have a blessed life after it
takes off, with just having real friends and people around me.
And I'm just trying to have fun while I'm in
the window, while I'm in the pocket.
Speaker 1 (13:14):
I librate on that because I think that's that's pretty profound.
I've had people said to me as well. It's like, hey,
you have a few years to make most of what
you're gonna make. So does that mean and are you
conscious of like saving a lot now because or are
you reinvesting most of it? Like what are you doing?
Speaker 12 (13:32):
Yeah, saving and reinvesting.
Speaker 11 (13:33):
What I'm trying not to do is like spend it
on watches and cars, you know what I mean, Like
put it away to where like I can do something
with it down the road, because you know, and I
know what it's like to have not had money before too,
and so it's it doesn't change much and it's just
like I'm trying to put it away for any day
because I know it's not gonna come like this forever,
(13:55):
and so when when that's I mean, look, we're in
the entertainment industry. You know, you the new hot thing
for a little while, and that excites people, but you
know that doesn't last forever, and there's always a newer,
fresher thing coming on. And I'm going to try to
keep making authentic music and connecting with my fans.
Speaker 12 (14:10):
And I've been really lucky.
Speaker 11 (14:11):
To have that connection so far, and I think I've
got some fans that'll stay with me for a long time.
Speaker 12 (14:15):
But you never know when that turns off, and.
Speaker 11 (14:17):
So it's you try to give yourself a little safety net,
a little egg that you know when when that does
turn off, that you'll have some to fall back on
at the end.
Speaker 2 (14:24):
What's a week look like for you?
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Generally speaking?
Speaker 11 (14:27):
I work seven days a week for the most part
now towards the end of the year, like and I
call it work like it's my favorite thing in the
world to do.
Speaker 12 (14:34):
It's what I would be doing if it wasn't my job.
Speaker 11 (14:36):
But I'm Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and usually I'll get up,
I'll work out, and then I'll have a write Usually
from eleven to three, I'll write a song. I'll go
into town to music Row, my producer's studio, and then
one of my favorite writers will come in and you know,
three or four of us in a room and we'll
try to catch magic.
Speaker 12 (14:57):
It's just like going fishing. You know, you wet a
line every day.
Speaker 11 (14:59):
Most days you don't catch anything, and you catch something small,
but you hope, you know, every couple of months you
might catch something worth hanging on the wall.
Speaker 12 (15:05):
And that's kind of what we do.
Speaker 11 (15:06):
Monday through Wednesday we go fishing for a hit song,
and then Wednesday night, you know, come home, hang with
the family, and then uh, we have what's called bus
call where you go meet in a Walmart parking lot.
Everybody parks their trucks and you get on the bus
and the bus leaves about midnight and you wake up
in the city that you're playing on Thursday morning. You
play Thursday, Friday, Saturday on the road, and then you
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wake up back in a Walmart parking lot on Sunday
and do it again next week.
Speaker 2 (15:44):
Cass up road.
Speaker 13 (15:45):
Little food for Yourself life.
Speaker 4 (15:49):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 13 (15:50):
Hey, it's pretty beautiful, beautiful, laugh a little more exciting
up of course city you're kicking it with full with
Amy Brown.
Speaker 8 (16:03):
So most of us are glued to our phones for
a lot of the day, and studies show that sixty
two percent of us feel hooked. And it's not hard
to see why. I mean, we're constantly scrolling, swiping, checking notifications.
There's emails, text messages, dms, instagram, TikTok, which speaking of
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texts and TikTok. Since I'm about to challenge us to
be on our phones less, I'll go ahead and save
you some screen time and play you a video that
my friend Claire sent me that comedian Denay Hayes put up.
It just made me laugh, like I was about to
sit down and record this and I got that and
I sort of laughed. So I'm throwing it in here
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because there's also a little reminder about our bodies in
the humor which I loved the four Things episode with
Denay from last year. She came on the podcast. If
you missed it, I will link it in the show notes.
But she's so funny and this clip reminds me how
funny she is. Okay, here it is, Yes.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
I will tell you the procedure.
Speaker 9 (17:06):
I had done to lose all this weight, But I
just want to go and tell you it's very painful.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
It costs a lot.
Speaker 7 (17:13):
Of money, and it takes a lot of time, Like
it's really time consuming. But if you look it up,
it's called a divorce.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (17:20):
So while I did find that to be funny and relatable,
the reminder in the humor here is that you never
know what someone has going on in their life. So
that's why we don't ask her comment about people's bodies.
And while Deney didn't really seem to care that someone
was asking about how she slimmed down and lost weight,
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she made a joke about it. And others may laugh
and joke about it too, but deep down they may
not be able to handle it because the reason for
the weight loss or even weight gain or whatever it
is might be because of something sad, something hard, stressful, you know.
So just wanted to rode that little reminder in there
and also give you a little chuckle in case you
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needed it. Or maybe you're going through something hard like
a divorce and you're like, oh huh, okay, you're not alone.
But back to our phone problem, I have a mini
challenge for you for us, a phone free hour each day,
just one hour where you put the phone aside and
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really experience life distraction free, Like you could choose any
hour to do it, maybe while while working out, or
reading a book or going for a walk. It's a
small change, but I think the results will end up
being pretty big. Like without a screen just stealing our attention,
we're more present, engaged, and honestly, when I put my
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phone away just feels refreshing. I mean, this is like
a mini digital detox that we can do together. It's
not some extreme thing required here. It's just a small,
realistic situation which coming up in the second thing, we're
going to talk about the power of small winds, and
that's sort of what this little hour a day will
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be a little small wind that will add up and
be pretty powerful. And one way to go about this
challenge maybe would be to create a phone free zone
of sorts, like your bed. Maybe if you just don't
allow yourself to have your phone in your bed, then
that'll give you back some time, because studies showed that
when we leave the screens out of the bedroom, our
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brains get the memo it's time to rest. I was
just talking about this with my daughter doing her homework
in her bed with her computer, I'm like, no, let's
go downstairs to either the island, the kitchen table, the
dining room table. Let's sit at a table and do
our homework or at a desk, because when we work
in our bed then our brain gets confused as to
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what is happening, and we want our brain to get
the me to rest when we're in our beds. Hey,
I'm guilty of having my computer and my phone in
my beds. So I got to practice.
Speaker 7 (20:07):
What I preach.
Speaker 8 (20:08):
But lately, I feel like, because of the amount of
homework even happening in our home, even when we're around
the table and we're eating dinner, we've got our phones
and our computers out just to get everything done. And
I have my computer out during their homework because honestly,
I have to google how to help them with certain
things like math. But today I sort of I've just
had enough, and I'm like, I want real connection. I
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want to sit down, I want to have dinner. I
want to be no phones. So that's something that I
decided to do today. Hopefully I can maybe do it
again tomorrow. And I'm being realistic it's not going to
happen every day at dinner. Honestly, junior high high school days,
like multiple kids, there aren't enough hours in the night
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with all they have going on. But we got to
make sure we're intentional about that real time, that real
connection with our kids. And maybe it's not kids, maybe
it's your part or maybe your roommates, whatever it looks
like for you just when you're around the table, maybe
that's a no phone zone, your bed, no phone zone.
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And again not every single night. And then maybe your
hour doesn't have to be consecutive. It could be a
thirty minute phone free situation and then later on thirty
or you do fifteen fifteen, fifteen fifteen, and that'll give
you your hour. Let's just start with that hour every day.
And I think taking a dedicated hour away from our
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devices is going to allow us to just be present
and in the moment, which can for one, help with
the connection and our relationships. For two, that improves our
overall well being. For three, it can reduce anxiety and
then also four lead to mental clarity. There are four
benefits in this.
Speaker 7 (21:52):
I also just.
Speaker 8 (21:53):
Love the idea of connecting more with ourselves. Maybe not
even just others, but having that quiet time to re
set and recharge and find balance, because for me, I
feel constantly on and I need to be intentional about
taking time to reset. But sometimes I'm resetting with a
meditation and I'm using my phone to guide me on
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a meditation, and that won't fit into the hour free
phone How am I going to say this the phone
free hour challenge? I'm gonna have to like be phone
free to meditate if I want to. I mean, I
can still do my walking meditation. I just have to
find another time to maybe walk without my phone or
do something else one hour day.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
That's it.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
Little by little, we're gonna be making more space for
real life.
Speaker 14 (22:55):
We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 3 (22:57):
We are the one, two, three sore losers.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox.
Speaker 15 (23:04):
I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
It's Sison.
Speaker 14 (23:13):
I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. I live
on the North side of Nashville with Baser, my wife.
We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a lot of acreage,
no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins rye.
I believe maybe a little fescue to be determined.
Speaker 15 (23:31):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers speaking out man. Yesterday
last night, we had we delivered dinner to a family.
The mom had surgery.
Speaker 4 (23:45):
Whole man.
Speaker 15 (23:48):
Wow, that fans loud, isn't it?
Speaker 2 (23:51):
But that's okay?
Speaker 15 (23:52):
Well why are you clapping?
Speaker 14 (23:54):
Awesome?
Speaker 2 (23:57):
What is awesome?
Speaker 4 (23:57):
That's cool? You did that?
Speaker 15 (23:59):
Oh yeah, yeah. Anyway, so we're friends with you know,
the couple of the kids are friends, and so we
took dinner over and we the kids play for a
little bit and then we're like, all right, well we're
gonna go. You know, I know you're not feeling well.
And the dad looks exhausted. Dude, he's been at this
for like five days because the mom is, you know,
laid up, and he just looks so tired. He wants
to just get to bed. We're like, we got to
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get out of here.
Speaker 14 (24:21):
I got to do my shirt again. I'm sweating.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I know it's hot.
Speaker 15 (24:24):
I was gonna say that fan was making a big difference,
but it's not making that big of a difference. Unless
I angle myself this way and that computer screen is
not blocking it, then I can feel it a little bit.
Speaker 14 (24:33):
I'm doing the same cape that Lunch posted the picture
of yesterday.
Speaker 15 (24:36):
Yeah, on Wednesday. If we get in the we get
in the car, we're getting everybody buckling in, all right,
We're ready to go. And we're in their driveway and
I turned the car on and there's a lady standing
on the sidewalk right behind the car and she's just
standing there. I'm looking in the review rear view mirror
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and the car's on. She has to see the car light.
Speaker 14 (25:00):
It's right, hey, sweet tits.
Speaker 15 (25:02):
And I mean two minutes, still standing there.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And the kid, dad, let's go.
Speaker 15 (25:09):
And I'm like, there's someone you know standing back there,
and I'm like, I know she sees the lights, like
the red light and the tail lights are on. Three
minutes go by, and I finally, all right, maybe she
doesn't see me, so I'll put it in reverse so
she has to see me.
Speaker 4 (25:25):
Whoa right, give her a blink.
Speaker 15 (25:28):
So I put it in reverse and she's just standing
there with her dog in the very middle, right in
the middle, right behind the car. We are trying to
back out of this person's driveway, and we can't.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
We are stuck.
Speaker 15 (25:44):
There's nowhere to go. And she's just standing there and
the dogs just kind of squatted there, and the lady's
just standing there with the leash, not trying to move
the dog, not trying to do anything, just hanging out.
Speaker 4 (25:53):
Hey, tit's on a stick.
Speaker 15 (25:56):
And I'm like, what is she doing?
Speaker 14 (25:59):
Influence sir? I mean, what descriptions of this last She's
eighty or twenty.
Speaker 2 (26:04):
She's probably.
Speaker 15 (26:07):
Forty eight, hot, brown hair, short, petite lady ray, very
nice shelf. Dog was kind of big, like a labradoodle.
Is that what they're called?
Speaker 14 (26:18):
Is she wearing the ass leisure that everybody wears now?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 15 (26:21):
She was wearing like a nice soft, like a light
pullover and some probably yoga pants, blacked yoga pants, and
it was a purple top.
Speaker 14 (26:30):
Say less for the truckers.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
She had some.
Speaker 15 (26:35):
White, whitish gray tennis shoes on. That's what she was wearing.
The dog was a golden doodle. It was kind of
grayish for the truckers.
Speaker 14 (26:45):
Was she tanned?
Speaker 7 (26:47):
No?
Speaker 15 (26:47):
I couldn't really tell. She had long sleeves on like
she and so finally I put it back in park
after five minutes of sitting there, and I get out
of the car and I kind of stick my head
around and that's when I see the problem. The dog's constipated.
The lady has a bag on her hand, and the
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dog has half a poop out its butt and it
can't come out and it won't move. So she is
down there trying to physically with the hand in the bag,
rip the poop out of the butt.
Speaker 14 (27:21):
You can't fault her for not moving.
Speaker 15 (27:23):
I didn't know. She was so like concerned with her
dog and paying attention to her dog that she probably
didn't notice the vehicle. She couldn't She was trying to
She couldn't move the dog because it was already in
this like poop position, but that poop, and she had
that bag on there.
Speaker 10 (27:39):
Hey mam, you gotta bear down. This is what I
do in the bathroom.
Speaker 15 (27:44):
And she looks at me and she goes, oh, I'm sorry,
you know, are you lunch bots? I know you're trying
to move. She goes, my dog's having problems getting this
poop out.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
How how's it going?
Speaker 14 (27:53):
I'm a lunch And she's like, I'm trying to move him.
Speaker 4 (27:55):
Out of the way.
Speaker 15 (27:55):
I'm trying to move him out of the way. I'm like,
all right, so I get back in the car. I'm like,
get dad, what's going on?
Speaker 10 (28:00):
Have you considered massaging the groin area?
Speaker 4 (28:03):
Dad?
Speaker 2 (28:03):
Why isn't she moving?
Speaker 15 (28:04):
Dad? Can we go down? I'm like, Oh, the dog's
taking a poop.
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Can I see?
Speaker 15 (28:08):
Can I see?
Speaker 13 (28:09):
No, guys?
Speaker 15 (28:11):
And then I put it in reverse again to just
kind of watch on the camera because I'm like, I
want to see the action.
Speaker 14 (28:17):
Well did she address at all why the car cannot
back out?
Speaker 15 (28:20):
Well, she said the dog won't move. She said, I'm sorry.
I tried to move. I said, okay, and.
Speaker 10 (28:26):
Well, let me get your number roll. I don't know why,
but i'd put it back in reverse. I could watch
on the camera eight because I might. I mean, I
might as well see the action.
Speaker 15 (28:37):
And after eight minutes and thirty seconds of sitting in
the driveway, the poop was removed. She used her hand
in that bag to kind of yank that poop out
of there, and the dog moved out of the way.
Speaker 14 (28:53):
Dude, that is patience for you to actually get out,
not to do the horn.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
The horn.
Speaker 14 (29:00):
That actually was you being the bigger person that deserves
a round of applause.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
So that was a big night.
Speaker 13 (29:05):
Man.
Speaker 15 (29:05):
We delivered dinner, we watched a lady deliver a poop
out of the butt. I mean, it was an incredible
evening for me.
Speaker 16 (29:32):
I have always really loved to talk about attachment theory,
so I'm really excited not only because this amazing person
that's joining us is an expert in this field, but
also because we share the same name. It's doctor Morgan Anderson,
and she's a psychologist and attachment theory expert.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
Morgan, how are you.
Speaker 6 (29:50):
I am doing great. Thank you so much for having me.
And yes, I love that we have the same name.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
It's awesome.
Speaker 16 (29:56):
It's interesting that you mentioned that because I look at
myself in my early twenties when I was dating and
I as an anxiously attached person. I was always finding
myself in situationships or in relationships with avoidance or disorganized
or men who knew how to bread crumb or gaslight.
And as I evolved as a human being and like
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really recognize I hated the way that I felt, and
I hated the way that I was being treated and
started to grow and to become who I am now
in Morgan, who's thirty one. I cannot be bothered if
somebody even gives me a hint of a breadcrumb or
in the direction of being an avoidant, I'm like, oh, yeap,
bread stop sign, I'm out. I'm getting out of the car.
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You can continue on, but it's not going to be
with me. It's interesting just watching the evolution of myself
having figured that out. So I want that for other
people if they've found themselves in one of these other
three in trying to find themselves to a secure attachment.
Speaker 6 (30:51):
Ooh, let's talk about this. This is good, this is juicy.
So when you're showing up with insecure attachment style like
you were talking about, also myself in my twenties as well,
your brain your attachment system. You are attracted to emotionally
unavailable partners, that is your emotional home. Those partners fit
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the model of what your brain knows is true about relationships,
so you are definitely attracted to those people. And of
course avoidantly attached people are attracted to anxiously attach people
as well because it also fits their emotional home. It's
this perfect storm of that magnetic attraction. And this is
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why it can be so hard to break out of it,
and the only way to break out of it is
to not get an avoidantly attached person.
Speaker 13 (31:44):
To love you.
Speaker 6 (31:45):
Like spoiler alert for everyone out there. That's not how
you break out of it. It's to change internally and
to do the work on yourself so that you become
securely attached and now you are attracted to a different
type of partner.
Speaker 16 (31:59):
It's really hard because even as someone who is a
secure attachment now and in the dating field currently, there
is an overwhelming amount of people who are avoidant and
who are emotionally unavailable.
Speaker 7 (32:11):
I don't know if that's.
Speaker 16 (32:13):
Just we're moralware that that's who they are, or if
we're just in a very specific timeframe where this is happening.
Speaker 7 (32:19):
I don't, you know, I don't know the science behind
any of that.
Speaker 16 (32:21):
But from personal experience, even being a secure attachment, they're
still finding me, They're still coming. Yes, the only thing
that has changed is that I can now see it
for what it is.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
The Ye're no longer attracted to it, so you're not
playing into it, So you're ending those connections so much
more quickly than you would have in the past. And
I'll give you some of the research on this. So
number one is that you're not wrong that there are
more avoidantly attached people in the dating pool because they
find themselves in and out of relationships more frequently, right,
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So they're in a relationship and then they're back in
the dating pool. So yes, there are, for poor punately,
more people who have avoidant attachment who are in the
dating pool. And then the other stat that is somewhat
terrifying to me is that avoidant attachment is the quickest
growing attachment style, So we have more people becoming avoidantly
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attached than any other attachment style.
Speaker 16 (33:21):
Oh gosh, that makes me so sad because it's already
rough out here in these streets.
Speaker 2 (33:24):
Okay, we don't need to make it work.
Speaker 6 (33:27):
There is hope. I want to get to the hopeful part.
But let's we could talk about this more.
Speaker 9 (33:31):
Well.
Speaker 16 (33:31):
It's funny, you know, my friends will often look at
me because of the relationships that I've been in there like,
I'm always surprised that you haven't become an avoidant based
on your experiences, And I think once you've had enough
experiences on the other side of an avoidant, you never
want to be that way. Your hope is to never
show up to another person like that because of how
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painful it is to be on that receiving end. And
it doesn't mean that anybody's at fault for being those
types of things. We're all human, we of have to
go through life experiences. But once you've felt that, and
once you've been on the other side, or been the
anxiously attached or the avoidant whatever, you know how much
pain is caused from that. And there's no benefit from
me switching attachments from secure to avoidant just simply because
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I've been hurt.
Speaker 6 (34:18):
What's really fascinating is that both the anxious attachment and
avoidant attachment, they actually are emotionally unavailable. They're both emotionally unavailable,
which I know is kind of mind blowing. Avoidantly attached
people are emotionally unavailable to their partners. Anxiously attached people
are emotionally unavailable to themselves.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
She's a queen and talking and.
Speaker 3 (35:06):
She's getting really not afraid to feel as episode, and so.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Just let it flow. No one can do we quiet
carey lone.
Speaker 9 (35:15):
It's sounding care lone, But I think about life like this,
like in one hundred and fifty years, we're all gonna
be dead. Nobody's gonna remember any of us. It doesn't
matter anything that we do. But it does, do you
know what I mean? Like people never like remember anything
other than how you make them feel. That's it. So
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I think my mind set is, like I do want
to make a difference. Like obviously I want to be
at a point in my career that I don't have
to beg to go on tour with somebody. Oh I
don't have to like get an email and them say, oh,
well it's a buy on. I'm like, no, I'm not
getting in debt, like I want to go on to
it because you want me there, or like I can
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do a headline to and out. I've got that in
the UK, but I'm trying to get that here. And
I think, like I want to be successful. I am successful,
Yes you are successful, but I would like to be
even more successful because I am a connection person. I'm
like very emotional. I feel my feelings. I know what
it feels like to be alone, and I want my
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songs to reach as many people as possible just to
I want to be I want to be of service
to people. I want to be of service because I
think that's my gift in this life and purpose. So
I think whatever desire is planted in your heart, like
on a timeline somewhere, you've already got it. So I
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think you have to become it before you are it.
And now that I'm in like a different energetic space,
things seem to be I think I was just like chasing,
chasing after people like hey, I am talented, Hey can
I'll play that show? I like, you know, and I'm like, no,
I don't need to, Like I'm really not interested in
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the whole fickle like, oh now we'll now now you're cool,
you know, now now that you've proved yourself and you've
done all the work, now we'll have a meeting with
you or take you on. I'm like, I'm just not
that way. I've never been that way. I've got I've
had friends since I've been like, you know, the same
friends since four years old. Like the people that I love,
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I will literally do anything for them, and I try
and show up for people because I feel like your
word is important. I'm generally always late, which is a
thing I'm working on, but I do show up.
Speaker 7 (37:41):
I show up, and I just love the.
Speaker 9 (37:42):
People that have shown up for me in this town
and they had no need to that. I didn't have
anything going on. And what's cool is like all these
little moments like I just played the Country Music Hall
of Fame and the Opry ways another like milestone and
I've only been here a year and a half. That's
it and fast I'm trying to but it's because of
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them as well, and it's like nice that I get
to share that with them. That's what I want. That's
what makes it for me that I get to share
that sort of stuff. And also on like a personal
level now at a point where I'm like, I want
to share my life with someone. I want to build
a life with someone and for them to bear witness
to it, because after time I spend on my phone
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alone editing to get like I don't know, two hundred
fewds or people. You know, I'm like, gosh, it's hilarious,
Like consistency is everything twenty just like let's go keep on.
Speaker 6 (38:38):
I freaking love you.
Speaker 7 (38:40):
You are speaking like the inside of my mind.
Speaker 9 (38:43):
You know, if I do ever quit the music industry,
I'm going to start a podcast and like be like
the Bridgeton of Nashville, and I'm just gonna like I'm
going to tell I'm just gonna expose everyone. No, I'm joking, no,
but I really I started this nonprofit called ie Woman
because I was absolutely horrified of how many women were
not on the radio. I was like, this, this doesn't
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happen in the UKID it's like best song wins.
Speaker 5 (39:08):
Really yeah, it doesn't matter how cool you are, what
politics you have.
Speaker 9 (39:11):
I mean there's politics everywhere, but I feel like I'm
also in this town that it is a bit that's
been difficult to navigate, Like I don't understand the system.
The politics don't make sense. And also there's so many
amazing female artists that why are they not on the radio.
And it's like, oh they people don't want to listen
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to female artists. I'm like, yeah they do. And the
most can I just say, the most international artists of
all time are females Shanaya, Dolly, those who I grew
up with from the UK, Like, oh globally do you
know what I mean? So I don't know. I'm like
a very girl's girl and just don't don't get it.
(39:54):
But I'm not gonna like I'm not complaining about it.
I'm just like it is one of them things that
you're just like, all right, I just got to find
a new another way in, you know, a new way in.
Speaker 7 (40:05):
What's your method?
Speaker 9 (40:07):
Just be so good that they can't ignore me.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
I think it's happening.
Speaker 9 (40:13):
No, I just want to be myself and I want
people like you know, I am not like Elanie Wilson.
I mean, I love that girl, She's one of my friends,
but I'm not like I do veer on the more
poppier side of things because I love to dance. So
it's more like in the Land of Shanaia Megan trya
(40:34):
Miley like. I think my write in is very country
esque of like storytelling, but I like to sprinkle it
with a bit of you know, pop. But to be honest,
like country now is just like pop music. That's what
pop means, popular culture, and it is. It's like massive
in Europe, and I just I just find it's funny
(40:57):
sometimes that people will give you any excuse to say no.
And obviously I'm British, I'm not from here. I'm doing
country creature prop music. It's like there is a way
that a mold that you have to fit and I don't.
But then I'm like you know, Jelly's story is really
(41:20):
inspiring and Haidie like, they get played on rock radio
as well. I don't here anybody saying I mean, they're
already successful, so I guess you can do what you
want when you get to that level.
Speaker 7 (41:31):
That's like, but they came out with rock influences.
Speaker 5 (41:33):
They didn't hide it.
Speaker 2 (41:34):
Yeah they were.
Speaker 9 (41:36):
I'm not trying to hide it, and I'm never you know,
it's up to the listener at the end of the day,
just let the song do.
Speaker 2 (41:42):
That's talking. Hey, it's Mike d And this week on
Movie Mike's Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey and I shared
our best and worst for the month of October. All
things we watched in theaters are streaming at home, and
we let you know whether or not these movies are
worth your time and money or if you should skip
them all together. So here's just a little bit of
our Be sure to check out the full episode of
Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and hit me up on socials
(42:04):
at Mike Dstro. That's d E S t r O.
All right, we'll get into our movies of the month
now for October. You kick us off best movie you
saw in October in your opinion.
Speaker 7 (42:15):
So easy, We live in time, the sad one.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Yeah, you were waiting to be sad, And I think
I felt a little bit different about this movie because
everybody was saying, how sad it is going to be.
Just based on the trailer, you can tell that Florence
Pugh is gonna get cancer. You see her, they sit
down at the doctor's office. She has hair cut to
a scene and she has no hair, shaved head. I
love that she committed to the shaved head. She commits
(42:39):
because whenever you didn't see Furriosa with me, right.
Speaker 7 (42:43):
Yeah, I saw in my family.
Speaker 2 (42:44):
We saw all the same time, different theaters. The thing
that I annoyed me about that movie is Anya Taylor
Joy did not shave her head. She wore like a
shaved head wig and it was so distracting to me.
And I feel like that also took her out of
that role because if you're not fully committing to it,
I don't bel leave you. And if I don't believe you,
I'm not gonna enjoy the movie. But Florence Pew straight
up shaved a head for real.
Speaker 7 (43:05):
To be fair, I was looking forward to being Sad
because it did come out on the weekend that it
is the anniversary of when my dad passed away when
I was younger, so I feel like I needed a
cathartic release. I actually couldn't cry as much as I
needed to. It was disappointing.
Speaker 2 (43:18):
Did you cry at all?
Speaker 7 (43:19):
I teared up, but the tears didn't necessarily like free flow.
The girl across the aisle from us.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yeah, there were people falling there.
Speaker 7 (43:26):
And then in the bathroom she was like, I don't
know how everyone else is crying.
Speaker 2 (43:29):
And I think it's because I knew that it was
going to be said that I had this maybe this
guard up a little bit that I knew what to expect.
Speaker 7 (43:36):
It was also done in such a way that like
it was very just like beautiful.
Speaker 2 (43:41):
I love the way this movie was done. And I
told you afterwards that I almost felt bad even giving
it a grade because it just felt like one of
those movies that was essential to life. It didn't feel like, oh,
here's the beginning of this movie, here's the middle part
of this movie. It just flowed like life, like you
were getting a peek into these characters, just overwhelmingly sad
situation of her dealing with cancer, her trying to find
(44:02):
her purpose in life. They have a daughter, and all
the things that they wanted to accomplish in life kind
of get put on hold. It is just a complex story,
taking like what otherwise would just be this really just
small slice of life story and making it feel so
much bigger and larger. And I think that's because you
have Florence Pew and Andrew Garfield together who have amazing chemistry.
Speaker 7 (44:23):
They really do. I'm gonna give it five stars.
Speaker 2 (44:26):
Five stars. Wow, I'd probably I'd probably go on the
four point five out of five because I feel like
it's there's nothing that I would change about the movie.
I love the way how of course it's called We
Live in Time. It would hop around in different timelines,
which I think made it way more enjoyable to watch.
You would see them from their very beginning of their relationship,
towards the end of their relationship, the middle. It just
(44:48):
kind of jumped around, and I think for somebody with
like an add brain, it would be really engaging to
watch because you're not just watching a continuous story.
Speaker 7 (44:57):
I think we all have add at this point.
Speaker 2 (44:59):
Yeah, I'm the Internet.
Speaker 7 (45:01):
I'm playing the pandemic. Like we we just sat at
home on our phones. It was like tiny screen, big screen,
medium screen, and then it just kind of rewired our brains.
Speaker 2 (45:09):
It's funny now that even our break from our screen
is a screen, because we were like, all right, let's
put down the phones and watch nice, wholesome television on
a bigger screen. Yeah, that's all we do is just
look at screens.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
But I think it's different because it's not like scrolling,
and your eyes aren't like rapidly seeing a lot.
Speaker 2 (45:25):
Of and it's not a constant like here's fifteen seconds,
here's five seconds, here's two seconds exactly. Here's the costco guys,
here's your worst for October.
Speaker 7 (45:34):
Joker terrible, hated it.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
I feel like you never even got invested in this
movie whatsoever. Where I found parts of it that I enjoyed. No,
there was like little pockets of it that I was like, okay,
now we're getting good. You were just disconnected the entire time.
Speaker 7 (45:49):
I didn't even take out my movie candy because it
was not worth wasting my expensive Swedish candy on this film.
Speaker 2 (45:56):
Dang, that is the worst. You can't even snack your No,
it wasn't worth.
Speaker 7 (45:59):
My I was like, I should save this for a
movie that I'm enjoying. So I just took out my phone,
turned on the brightness, and scrolled. I don't worry. I'm
not an a hole like I turn it down and
no one can see me.
Speaker 2 (46:10):
But I was.
Speaker 7 (46:12):
I don't think my attention was ever kept during this film.
Speaker 2 (46:14):
I'll also say at the regal we go to in
the recliner seats, you really can't see the person's cell phone,
like behind you or next to you if you turn
down the brightness. And I also put it on like
the night mode where it changed everything black.
Speaker 7 (46:27):
I just keep mine on night mode. I know that's
kind of psychotic of me.
Speaker 2 (46:30):
All the time I have mine on dark mode. You
know that I haven't noticed. I didn't know that you do.
Speaker 4 (46:35):
I do?
Speaker 7 (46:36):
Yeah, Like my notes background is, oh my texts.
Speaker 2 (46:39):
I guess I didn't realize that.
Speaker 7 (46:41):
Yeah, I like it better. It doesn't hurt my eyes
as much.
Speaker 2 (46:43):
I'll do it in the movie because I'll occasionally make
a note.
Speaker 7 (46:46):
On occasionally you're making notes during every film we see.
Speaker 2 (46:49):
I make a lot of notes because I want to
remember it.
Speaker 7 (46:53):
Eighteen minutes and thirty two seconds this happened.
Speaker 2 (46:56):
I do I time every single I know, right, when
we start, I hit the stop. I know, because the
time online is never right. It includes the credits, and
sometimes even that's off. I have to know for sure.
Was it the singing for you? Or is it the story?
Or was it everything?
Speaker 7 (47:11):
Listen or is it Lady Gaga? Big fan of Lady Gaga.
We have to stop making every movie she's in a musical. Listen.
I love her, love her music, love her makeup line,
she does great things. We gotta stop just period it was.
It wasn't even original songs, because I don't mind a musical.
I love Broadway.
Speaker 2 (47:29):
It was a jukebox musical.
Speaker 7 (47:31):
I just am kind of also over Walking Phoenix.
Speaker 2 (47:33):
Really yeah, because of Napoleon No, I.
Speaker 7 (47:39):
Just feel like it's kind of a douche maybe interesting.
Speaker 2 (47:41):
I mean, for a while, he was one of my
favorite actors. I just feel like he hasn't done a
movie recently that I've really enjoyed him in.
Speaker 7 (47:49):
I also hated the First Joker because I was so
physically stressed, and.
Speaker 2 (47:53):
You thought this one was going to be as stressful.
Speaker 7 (47:55):
I think I actually would have rather been that stressed again, and.
Speaker 2 (47:57):
I wish it would have been that, And I told you, like, hey,
good thing is, it's not gonna be that dark, But
then we got this.
Speaker 7 (48:02):
I think I would have preferred darkness yeah over singing.
Speaker 2 (48:07):
Yeah. I didn't mind so much the music. It just
felt like the Joker character was a complete departure from
what he was in Part one. And I think the director,
Todd Phillips almost hated what he created with the first
one that people were I think he didn't expect people
to react to the Joker the way they did and
kind of idolize them in a way, and I think
(48:29):
that kind of made him upset that he wanted to
tell people like, Oh, this character I've created that's been
like this beacon now for this type of person. I
wanted to completely destroy that and derail this character and
make them completely unrecognizable. So what we got was not
the Joker that we were expecting from the first one,
(48:49):
and I think that's what I hated most because it
didn't feel like that. It felt like a slap in
the face to me. And then you throw in the
music and singing, and it commits to that so much
that I still think that he made the movie he
intended to make, but it was not what anybody wanted.
Speaker 7 (49:03):
It was not.
Speaker 2 (49:03):
I feel like if there was a movie we were
gonna walk out of this year, that probably would have
been close to one.
Speaker 7 (49:08):
I would have loved to have fuck.
Speaker 4 (49:10):
Out of that.
Speaker 2 (49:11):
It was pretty long, too. The only thing it had
going for it was that it looked good. I thought
the cinematography was still great.
Speaker 7 (49:17):
No, if that's enough to redeem a two hours.
Speaker 2 (49:20):
It's really not. But that was the only thing I
was like, Well, at least that shot looked cool. Aside
from that, there was very few things to be excited about.
Speaker 7 (49:26):
I honestly should have just gone to see whatever else
they were screening and then been like, text me when
you're done.
Speaker 1 (49:40):
Thank you guys for listening to this week's Sunday sample,
or if there's anything that you like maybe you don't.
Speaker 2 (49:44):
Subscribe, go check it out subscribe. That would help us tremendously.
Thank you.
Speaker 4 (49:49):
Have a great week.
Speaker 7 (50:00):
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