December 15, 2024 • 39 mins
In this weekly series, we share highlight clips from the past week of some of the podcasts on The Nashville Podcast Network- In The Vet's Office with Dr. Josie (no episode this week), Take This Personally with Morgan Huelsman, The BobbyCast, 4 Things with Amy Brown, Sore Losers, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and Get Real with Caroline Hobby. You can listen to new episodes weekly wherever you get your podcasts.
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-4 Things with Amy Brown- @RadioAmy
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-Movie Mikes Movie Podcast- @MikeDeestro
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Sunday, Sampler got a bunch of good stuff here, you know.
On the Bobby Cast this week we had Dan and
read Isabel. They are prolific writers, were in a bunch
of hits like Luke Combs hits. But they have a
great podcast called God's Country and I'm gonna play a
clip from that and they talk about being burnt out,
which is normal, just doesn't matter what the job is.
We do talk about podcasting and like worst performances like
that's coming up in just a second. And then movie
(00:30):
Mike's Movie podcast, him and his wife went through the
list of the best and the worst movies they saw
in November. This is a really good guide for you guys.
For me, I use stuff like this to figure out
what I'm gonna watch. So all the shows are coming up,
but I do want to talk with these guys first
from the Bobby Cast.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Here they are Dan and read Isabel.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So one of my friends today who I'm very close to.
I was walking. We're walking together and he has a
number one. He's about to have a second number one,
and he knows I know how the games work, and
he's like, hey, I think that we have picked our
date to strategically go for number one, and you know
some people drop off. They all get in their little
(01:13):
we you know, you know how it goes around here, indeed,
And so I'm like, that's freaking awesome that your team
is saying this is the date, because that's as close
as you can get to getting it, that you've decided
on the push date to getting it. And he's like,
it's awesome. I said, so, do you have a what's
your next song? And this is somebody to hang out
with like twice a week, but we never talk music,
(01:33):
and not because we avoid it, but because we're like
actual friend Yeah, like playing trucks. And he was like,
I just wrote it, just cut it, and he said,
you listen to it. And I got that that old
feeling that I used to hate when people say, hey,
would you listen to my song? Because mostly it was
what you listen to it and then play it right
that I feel like everybody was trying to use me
(01:54):
for something. Sure, but my first five years is all
I felt. I didn't trust anybody. I was wrong about
a lot of people's probably right about a lot of people.
I was. I was right some and I got burned
really bad and I think that's what made me overcorrect
and just keep it. But he he sent me the
song and I and for a second I had that
PTSD of oh my god, and I'd have that many
(02:15):
conversation with myself, like this is your really friend, This
is a real life friend, like Compnity Kidney, you give
them one friend. And I listened to the song, and
in my head I was already imagining the text I
was gonna have to send. Oh wow, man, hey, I
can't wait to see what this does. In my head,
that's what I was imagining, because that means it's fine, Yeah,
that's fine. I listened to it. It was so good, like
I wanted to cry, and I don't think it was.
(02:36):
And the song was good. The song is really good.
But I don't think it was because of just the
song being really good. I think it was like all
that that I just talked about. I was able to
kind of just kind of kick all those feelings that
I had about people using me, so I don't do this,
and I do do this, and I keep these boundaries up.
(02:57):
And then I have this friend who's been grinding so
hard and lie I started to get tears of and
I'm by myself, and I'm like, what is I'm like
having this weird moment and I listened to this song,
and this song is so good. I'm not gonna play it.
I'm not saying who it is. And so I text
him back, I'm gonna write verbatim because I think as
songwriters and just artists in general, you guys will relate.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I'm excited about this.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I said, I don't know the guy that wrote that song,
is what I replied. I said, I know the mediocre
pickleball player that I beat the crap out of, but
I don't know that guy who wrote that song. Like
that's awesome, and sometimes you need to be reminded how
awesome your friends are. And he wrote, thank you, It's
probably the favorite thing I've ever written, you know, a
(03:41):
personal thing about his family. And then I just wrote
a couple things about I said, Hey, the concept was great,
the word play was awesome. Sonically, whoever singing the harmony's
like so technically. I just did a little quick evaluation.
I said, gets to the hook quick, which is like
a thing. And he says to me, hoping it's going
to be the one that opens the door all the
way for us. And as you was saying that, I
(04:04):
said to that, I said I was dreading to listen
to it because I was afraid to be fine, and
I would just say, can't wait to see this song
do his thing. But back to he said, hoping it
was going to be the one that opens the door
for us. And I feel like I said this because
I have felt that way many times about many things
that I was going to do. And there's not a door.
There's never a door. There's there's never a door. And
(04:24):
I said, the door will never be open all the way.
It's just a different chase to a different door. But
you wrote an excellent song, regardless of what it does
on some chart based on a thousand variables, that is
an amazing song. Acknowledging it now is extremely valuable because
it won't be up to you or even up to
your art. If it's going to be a number one,
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it's all by chance. I love youbody, And he writes
a message back, and it was just the idea of again,
here's my friend. And you guys have to create art
out of your thoughts and your heart and your soul,
and then you have to go and just let people judge.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, but I think that's an interest, that's a that's
a really I mean, like you can tell that whoever,
even if it wasn't you, if someone had just read
me that text message of what they replied, that's somebody
that that has has grown up in the in the business,
you know what I mean, Like, you know how the
business works. And I think there for a while, when
(05:22):
you're starry eyed, you have this concept that you're going
to be able to release this song and that basically
based on how people feel about it, it's going to
perform at a certain level. And then maybe you even
do that, maybe you even have one that connects and
that's what brings you to the town.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Right.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
We've seen that a lot, and you know, to to
when you kind of see behind the curtain on on
the game of it, it's a different it's a different deal.
So to have someone who's who knows that and is
able to ship and I know we're talking way inside here.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I hope that's that's why we do this talk inside
is Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just think it's it's cool and it probably meant
a lot to him to hear it from somebody who's
who has done that and been a part of it
and honestly kind of like dissociated themselves from that and go,
this is my honest opinion, and whether it does anything
or not, like great tune, man, And that's what that
means a lot to creatives.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
No doubt. Yeah, because like it feels like in that
moment like put yeah, putting ever, put the lights, put
the radio, shows, put the radio, put everything aside. A
great song was heard and appreciated and moved somebody the
way it is created to do.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Period. Before you start, he starts or she whoever starts
second guessing maybe this song wasn't as good as I
thought it was.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Oh he or she thought that when they sent it,
because I mean, I do that all the time. It's like, man,
this song is a banger, Dude, I know this is awesome.
And then I get in the truck with reading, I'm like,
check this tune out and I play it, and like
halfway through the first verse, I'm like, oh, shouldn't I
say that, Oh he probably doesn't like that part. This
should get a reaction.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
It didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Okay, we're you know.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
What I mean, And before you know it, you're cutting
it off. Halfway through the second verse, one it ain't
that good. You know, we'll see what happens.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
And you've assigned his thoughts unfairly, totally, unfairly cast up
thing little food for yoursel life.
Speaker 6 (07:32):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
It's pretty beautiful, beautiful that for a little more said,
he can't cut your kick in with Fulling with Amy Brown.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
The first email is from a listener that was asking
about alan On because I shared about my allan On
experience in last week's episode, which, if you're not familiar,
allan On is a support group that helps loved one
of alcoholics by providing a place to meet to have
a safe space to share and learn how to cope.
(08:09):
So that's what allan On is. And I'm going to
leave the listener's name off because this is something very
personal and I want to respect that. And sometimes I
have time to hear back permission to use names when
it's something personal, but in this case, I just got
the email this morning.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So here's what they wrote.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Hey, Amy, longtime listener, and I have been listening to
four Things since it came out. After hearing the latest podcast,
you mentioned that you went to alan on meetings and
you tried to go weekly. What gave you the motivation
to go when it's mainly to deal with the person
in your life that has the problem. A little background
on me. I did go to therapy for myself for
many years, mainly for anxiety and panic attacks. So I'm
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in no way against personal growth, therapy, rehab, etc. Someone
in my life is an alcoholic and we haven't had
a relationship for over ten years, just recently went to
rehab and have been sober a couple of months. How
did you get in the mindset that going to those
meetings would be best for you? I feel like, since
I'm not the one with the disease, I don't want
(09:11):
to do the work, especially with children and limited time
for myself as it is. Also, maybe I'm being a
whiny baby. It's a hard place to be in your
friend blank from blank All right, So, dear Blank, here's
what I will say to you. I'm sorry that you're
dealing with this. Thank you for listening to the podcast
(09:34):
all of these years and for taking the time to
email me about something so personal. It's definitely a hard
place to be, and you are not a whiny baby
for feeling this way at all, whatsoever. What you are
experiencing is totally valid, and it's okay to feel conflicted
about adding one more thing to your plate, especially when
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it's not something you asked for or something you've done.
I totally get it. I'd never even heard of alan
On until a few years ago, and started going when
I was.
Speaker 8 (10:06):
Advised to go.
Speaker 7 (10:08):
It was made very clear to me by a couple
of trusted people that I had my own issues based
on my relationship with my qualifier. Now, in this case,
your family member is the qualifier, and there are certain
behaviors that we pick up along the way that aren't helpful,
even if their behaviors or patterns from ten years ago,
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twenty years ago, or two months ago. For example, I
was extremely codependent, I lacked boundaries, I enabled, I frequently
got involved in things that were not on my side
of the street, etc. But in my mind, none of
those things were my problem. They were because of my qualifier. So,
(10:53):
similar to you, I didn't understand why I needed help
dealing with someone else's problem. Well, what I learned over
time is that all of those things, they were my
problem and my responsibility, and if I wanted peace and change,
I had to put in the work like it wasn't
about fixing the other person, but really about finding the
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tools to help me feel less stuck and less frustrated
and just less helpless, and really to have the best
relationship with my qualifier possible because I still wanted that.
So I don't know all the details of your situation
and if you even want a relationship with this person,
but if they're sober, I mean, it could be a
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beautiful time for you to nurture your relationship. But that
will take you staying on your side of the street,
focusing on you. I mean, if I really thought about
the exact motivation. Yes, I was encouraged by other people,
but it really boiled down to peace for myself and
me focusing on myself. And that's what those very t
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trusted people in my life could see that I couldn't
see at the time. They were observing my actions, and
it was very clear to them that I was in
victim mode and contributing to the agony I was feeling.
And they could see that if I didn't learn how
to manage that, I was never going to find peace.
So for me, yeah, boiled down to finding peace. And
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the awesome thing about alan On is that it helped
me focus on what I can control, like my reactions, boundaries, mindset,
and I did mention a weekly meeting that I try
to go to in last week's episode, But you don't
have to go weekly or even commit to it long
term to benefit from it. You can just take it
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one meeting at a time and see how it feels.
There are even zoom options that I've done that are helpful.
I never regret going to a meeting, and I love
some of the friends that I've made along the way.
I mean, these are the type of friends that will
not judge anything, so it's very refreshing. And also I
totally get that you're a mom and your time is limited,
(13:05):
but I do think that giving yourself even an hour
here or there can make such a big difference. And
you are not alone in this. I admire you for
even considering going, Like sending me this email just shows
that you care and you're curious, and I think curiosity
is very important. And this isn't just about your relationship
with this person in your life, this family member, but
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it is about you and your family. I can say
that going has made me a better mom, and I
didn't expect that to be the case, but that was
my ignorance of it all. Like I was very ignorant
when it came to anything with alcohol and addiction and
all that comes with that. So whatever you decide, give
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yourself grace and know that you are doing your best.
And this is a really tough situation. So that is
what I will say to you there. You just got
to take care of you whatever that looks like.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 9 (14:13):
Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers?
Speaker 10 (14:18):
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox.
Speaker 11 (14:20):
I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a
lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully
soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
to be determined. Over to you, coach, And.
Speaker 11 (14:48):
Here's a clip from this week's episode of The Sore Losers.
What the is Bill Belichick doing? He explained it to me.
He said, it on dirt. He said he was going
to do it on dot. No, no, he said he
was gonna.
Speaker 10 (15:03):
Do it on dot. What is he doing.
Speaker 9 (15:08):
He's at home with that twenty two year old bored
out of his mind. He's doing this talk shows with
Pat McAfee's talking ball. He still got it. He's bored
out of his mind. He doesn't have Maybe he exercises
a little. It doesn't look like he's a massive bike rider,
canoe or kayaker water sports.
Speaker 11 (15:25):
Definitely doesn't look like he gets on the peloton.
Speaker 10 (15:26):
At all, at least so much more time during the day.
Speaker 9 (15:29):
And he says, I can probably do this it maybe
get out of the Patriots a bad situation.
Speaker 10 (15:34):
We learned Urbanemeyer did it.
Speaker 9 (15:37):
You UNC must have a great quarterback coming up in
the system, another Tom Brady, and so he said, this
is my time to shine U. N C is primed
right now because are they in the ACC Yeah, dog shit,
they're losing cam Ward, Miami's terrible, Florida State's terrible, They
Clemson Kate Klubnick's probably gonna go to Broncos minor league team.
So you got to think he's seeing you and see
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they're gonna win it. Next year they're in the top
twelve team playoff the way it's format, and now you
can win a championship within one to two years and
the portal Billchick's champion.
Speaker 11 (16:08):
I get the acc It seems simple like, but I
don't understand Bill Belichick going into an eighteen year old's
house and being.
Speaker 10 (16:18):
Like, hey man, you wanna go to North Carolina?
Speaker 11 (16:20):
Like, what the is he gonna say to an eighteen
year old Eighteen year olds don't give a crap about
Bill Belichick.
Speaker 9 (16:26):
I'm not talking about it because he already said it
on Dot. You want to know what he said. What
said He's gonna treat it like a factory. So he
would then go into these kids' houses. A lot of me,
you don't go into their house now physically it's more
a virtual type thing. But he will then go into
some of the premier A List type guys. He's gonna
go in their living room and he's gonna say it's
a factory. I will get you into the NFL. I'm
gonna build you these four years to make you an
(16:47):
NFL prospect. What I can do is do that Norther coaching,
then college football can do that because none of them
have done it at an elite level as an NFL player,
coach and all that and won championships. He said, it
will be a fact you n C copyrighted factory.
Speaker 10 (17:03):
Hang up and listen.
Speaker 11 (17:05):
I heard all that on him. He's seventy two years old.
There's the realistically two years, two years. There's no way
he's going to be coaching for that much longer.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
Dude, what is it with everything? You got to do
it in moderation. No coach knows when to go out
at the right time. You never know when to leave
Vegas at the right time.
Speaker 10 (17:26):
You do.
Speaker 9 (17:28):
Yeah, if you have some self control you get when
you get out of coaching. Tom Brady he's got the itch.
He's acting like he's gonna plead quarterback again.
Speaker 11 (17:35):
Oh my god, he's he's got to quit announcing because
he's terrible at that. He's decent, but he doesn't put
in much work.
Speaker 10 (17:42):
Man.
Speaker 11 (17:43):
There's no there's no way he's practicing midweek, like all right,
let me let me work on this. Like he's not
going over game tape. He is showing up on Sunday
and just winging it. Because the dude is not polished
at all. He hasn't gotten any better. It just seems
like he does. He's getting paid three hundred and something
million dollars and he's like, what are they gonna do?
Speaker 10 (18:00):
Fire me? Great point, great point.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I bet he watched a little bit of film the
night before a day of that's he's got five days off, five.
Speaker 11 (18:08):
Days off, and he's just chilling, hanging out at the
beach or whatever he does. I don't even know what
he does in his spare time. It has to be
at the beach because he's very tan.
Speaker 9 (18:17):
But dude, people are realizing nobody wants to just go
home and lay in bed. We weren't made to lay
in that position until we're in the coffin. Amen, Amen Belichick.
He's with the chicks banging or bagging her. Eh gets
a free time, man, why not do you NC?
Speaker 10 (18:31):
I just can't figure it out.
Speaker 9 (18:34):
Due he's on Pat mcavy every damn day or something. Shit,
He's all the time on there talking. He'll do a
secondent for forty five minutes. He ain't got nowhere to
be pour it out of his mind. Dude loves talking ball.
Why not talk ball for a team that you think
you can maybe make a difference with.
Speaker 11 (18:48):
Now, I do understand he's gonna have the coaching edge
over any coach he faces.
Speaker 10 (18:51):
He's the better. He's a better coach than anyone he's
gonna face.
Speaker 9 (18:54):
When's the best time to enter the twelve team playoff
this year? When's the second best yet time next year?
That's what he's doing. It's a brand new system. Look
all the teams that got in this year, Indiana.
Speaker 10 (19:05):
Arizona State. He said, holy shit, I could win this
thing first year. I mean, you get into twelve, you
got a chance.
Speaker 11 (19:12):
I My belief is he's doing this just to guarantee
his son gets a head coaching job that he's gonna
when he retires, that they have to name him the
head coach or whatever. He's the head coach in waiting.
And so he's like, you know what, I'm not gonna
go back to the NFL. But this is so much
more of a grind. You're seventy two years old. How
much energy can a seventy two.
Speaker 10 (19:30):
Year old have?
Speaker 9 (19:32):
Well, and even more than that, you're talking about what's
the other great one?
Speaker 10 (19:35):
What's his name?
Speaker 9 (19:35):
Nick saban Eh College game day morning. He kind of
slows it down a little bit it's kind of been unwatchable.
I'll watch clips and highlights and stuff. It just it
brings a well oiled machine to us.
Speaker 10 (19:47):
Oh halt.
Speaker 9 (19:48):
Saban says some good stuff, but it's like, dude, sometimes
that TV stuff's tough.
Speaker 10 (19:52):
Belichick's great at it. I think Saban maybe gets back
into coaching and.
Speaker 11 (19:56):
Says, dude, there's no way Saban's going back.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
It's like Or loves big newon Kickoff.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
He was on there the other day and he got
They're saying like, hey, ten million, would you do a
coaching job or something for ten million? He goes getting
paid that here, why would I do that? So Urban
ain't going anywhere. He loves talking on TV bullshitting Saban. Dude,
he's more of a cut and dried guy. I mean,
Saban likes McAfee, but it's like, how many more times
can he laugh at McAfee's standing up making an ass
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of himself. Saban maybe gets back into coaching. Belichick. He
loves his little hits that he does, but he's like, dude,
I kind of meant to just be a coach.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
He loves to be a coach.
Speaker 10 (20:32):
He loves to be a coach. You realize it.
Speaker 11 (20:36):
God, I just I can't figure it out. Man, Like,
does that mean no NFL team was showing any inkling
of interest? And so he's like, you know what, I'll
go to you and see.
Speaker 9 (20:45):
Well, half the teams are gonna make the playoffs, the
other half aren't. Maybe he turned Maybe there's stuff that
happens we never hear about. Maybe he turns down. Who
says he do they have to announce that he goes
in interviews? What if he just went and chilled in
Arizona and kind of hung with the Cardinals for a
little bit, Like I don't love this culture.
Speaker 10 (21:02):
I'm out, man. Did we have a great culture at
the Patriot?
Speaker 11 (21:04):
There's no way, There's no way we would know, we
would know every move that Bill Belichick makes with.
Speaker 12 (21:24):
Lloydan Uelsman, this is the Kansas Kids episode, and I
have got Nicole Gallion on here. Nicole and I have
become friends in recent years, especially over our loved connection
of Kansas.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Nicole, how are you wonderful?
Speaker 13 (21:41):
Good to see you?
Speaker 4 (21:41):
Really?
Speaker 12 (21:42):
The purpose of this episode is people who have moved
away from their home state when it was kind of
unheard of and not something that a lot of people did,
and chase their dreams. So before we get into that, though, like,
tell me kind of your origin story when you started
writing and wanting to chase the dream of music, and
when you were first starting to think, Okay, I don't
think I can live here and do what I want
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to do.
Speaker 13 (22:03):
So I went to this thing when I was in
junior high with my mom called at the time as
fan Fair, which to a cmafest. I'm sure all of
your followers know what CMA Fest is, but back when
I was in middle school, my mom and I went
to CMA Fest like Fanfare, three or four years in
a row, and it was my first time on an
airplane to go anywhere. And so we came to Nashville
(22:24):
and I just learned about this place called Belmont, and
I remember like just knowing like, oh, I have to
go there.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
I have to be there now.
Speaker 13 (22:33):
Granted I had never been to like any other city,
but it was totally like grand design that I came
to Nashville first and fell in love with it. So
I always at that time like I just knew that
I needed to be in Nashville. I didn't really know
the why. I just was for sure that I needed
to get here, and that is really the way it
worked out. I got here, went to Belmont, and then
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I learned about songwriting. It was so weird because I like,
I have a job that I didn't know existed when
I was growing up in Kansas. And I'm sure you're
in the same boat where you're like, I have a
job that I didn't know I could have, you know,
I mean, did you think you were gonna win a
CMA award?
Speaker 12 (23:10):
You know it's like, oh, no social media, no working
in social media side of that.
Speaker 13 (23:14):
Yeah, no, yeah, a hundred percent. So I guess like
Nashville is the thing that like spoke to me more
than songwriting. And then I got here and met songwriters,
and I was like, I think I'm a songwriter because
I was always a writer, Like wrote in every way
that I possibly could, you know, and whatever my hometown
had to offer me, like your book, or I wrote
for our small town newspapers in the summer, Like as
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a journalist, I would go to the city commission meetings
and like write the copy for the newspaper. I just
loved writing, very creative. So it makes sense now in hindsight.
By the time I didn't really know.
Speaker 12 (23:46):
The Kansas Kids episode continues, Logan Mize is joined with
me right now. Logan, you have been part of my
life as a friend, as an artist, as so many
different things.
Speaker 8 (23:56):
So it's really good to have you here.
Speaker 14 (23:58):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (23:59):
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 12 (24:00):
At what point for you when you were growing up
where you're like, Okay, I want to be an artist
and I'm going to move away from here.
Speaker 14 (24:08):
Well, it wasn't that much of it, wasn't that clear
of a decision. I was just like I couldn't never
stick with anything, Like I was kind of a meandering idiot, honestly,
but I and I wasn't like a great singer by
any means that I had to like really work at that.
But I loved music. I loved songs, and you know,
I just a night out for me as a kid
(24:30):
was like begging my parents to take me to Witch
Talk so we could go to Blockbuster Music. And I
don't know if you remember.
Speaker 15 (24:36):
That, Yeah, Blockbuster music, Blockbuster Music.
Speaker 14 (24:39):
I'm showing my age a little bit.
Speaker 12 (24:41):
I know there's like Blockbuster for DVDs, but Blockbuster music.
Speaker 14 (24:45):
There was a Blockbuster Music. See that's how much older
I am than new Okay, So thirty nine. Full disclosure.
Speaker 8 (24:51):
That's only eight years. That's not that much.
Speaker 14 (24:53):
Okay, well it must have closed down at some point.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
It was it was amazing.
Speaker 14 (24:57):
First of all, you would go and to this big
section and it was like the lighting was cool, and
there was music posters everywhere, and there was rows and
rows of CDs and you could go just you could
find anything. And so I would beg my parents to
take me. We'd go on a Friday night. I'd spend
hours in there. And my parents like music too, so
(25:18):
that was like what I loved, and I just I
didn't know that I wanted to do music. I just
that was where my heart was. But I couldn't stick
with anything, you know, I couldn't stick with piano lessons.
You know, I dropped out of three different colleges. I
just was a mess. And that was the one thing
that I always felt passionate enough about to where like
I can stick with that.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
Carlone, she's a queen and talking, so she's getting really
not afraid to feel the episode, so just let it flow.
No one can do were quiet like carry line.
Speaker 16 (26:14):
It's so with Caroline.
Speaker 8 (26:17):
So your dad's a truck driver, he is, Yeah, he
inspired your hats.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Right, yeah.
Speaker 16 (26:21):
He he was one of the reasons that I started
doing it, and Marcus as well. You know, Marcus is
always wearing the feathers on his cowboy.
Speaker 17 (26:30):
Hat, and we needed base like trucker hat, yeah, and we.
Speaker 15 (26:33):
Needed to dress them up a little bit.
Speaker 16 (26:36):
That's I always found myself like kind of looking for
a trucker that was just a little elevated.
Speaker 15 (26:42):
Agreed, you know, yes, yes, because they there's.
Speaker 16 (26:46):
Just a lot of them everywhere and now, and they're
not always like the most meaningful things, and so I
just I liked to have something that was a little
bit nicer than like what I have on my head
right now. This is but then again, I do be
wearing this with like a damn ball gown.
Speaker 17 (27:02):
So this is your hat.
Speaker 16 (27:03):
This is no this is the guy that makes Marcus
his guitars. Banker Banker handcrafted. Yeah, that mister banker custom
on Instagram. But he just had a bunch of these,
and I worked Everyone thinks I'm a banker, so we
did work at a bank, right, So when I met
Marcus's family, they were like, you know, even like my mom,
(27:25):
just people from back home who haven't really like seen
these you know, the big towers in the city, like
in Charlotte, where people work in Bank of America. If
you tell somebody I work at Bank of America, they're
thinking like a teller or something like that. And so
Marcus's family when we first met, they were like, oh,
you know, Uncle Danny had a big amount of money
(27:47):
go missing out of his account the other day. Do
you think that you could, like, uh, you know, help
him within that. And I'm like, I don't know how
to tell you this, but I don't work at like
a branch. I work from home, which is another foreign
thing that my mom couldn't wrap her head around, was
working from home a lot. But anyway, I I told
(28:09):
his family, I'm like, no, I'm in like I'm in
like acquisitions. So we're like, you know, taking over a
company and banquifying them. And yeah, I'm not sure that
I ever fully explained it to them, but hopefully Uncle
Danny got his money back.
Speaker 17 (28:26):
I didn't.
Speaker 15 (28:27):
I was just like, I can't help in that department.
Speaker 18 (28:29):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (28:29):
I don't do that.
Speaker 16 (28:30):
I don't I don't touch the money, and thank God
for it, because I'm a gold digger, you know, a
gold digger.
Speaker 17 (28:35):
So you would think because of that, actually, you doing
a banker hat would be fitting.
Speaker 16 (28:38):
Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 8 (28:39):
I mean the brand, Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 15 (28:42):
Yeah, this is one of the first ones that I was.
Speaker 17 (28:45):
Th say, you're a gold digger just because you're married
to Marcus. Was he already like rocking when y'all met?
Speaker 9 (28:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 15 (28:49):
Yeah, yeah he really was. Tell me he slid my
DMS threw me a fire.
Speaker 17 (28:55):
How did he find you?
Speaker 15 (28:57):
I was I had gone to his concert.
Speaker 16 (28:59):
It was my It was my birthday that week, and
so you know white girls under birthdays, they got to
have a week full of events and so at the
top of it, yeah, I think he was smack dab
in the center.
Speaker 15 (29:11):
He might have even been on a Tuesday. O crunk
on a Tuesday.
Speaker 17 (29:14):
Okay, so what year is this? How old were you?
Speaker 15 (29:16):
This is where twenty twenty one. I turned thirty that year, So.
Speaker 17 (29:20):
This was a big birthday week.
Speaker 8 (29:21):
M h and yeah, we're in Charlotte, Charlotte.
Speaker 15 (29:26):
And then we met in Raleigh the next night. He
was like, can I take you to dinner?
Speaker 17 (29:30):
So how did he know you were at the show?
Speaker 15 (29:33):
I had posted a story.
Speaker 17 (29:34):
Oh and he saw himself taging it and he was like, man,
that girl's.
Speaker 8 (29:38):
Cut and what did he say?
Speaker 7 (29:41):
So what?
Speaker 15 (29:41):
He just sent me a fire emoji?
Speaker 17 (29:42):
What is it like when you are at a show
watching someone who you like just love their music.
Speaker 15 (29:48):
I wasn't even watching.
Speaker 8 (29:50):
I wasn't you were just having a great time.
Speaker 15 (29:52):
Yeah, how are you doing?
Speaker 16 (29:54):
I was hitting my pen and I was laid back
on the lawn because I was in like the very
very back of the lawn section. I was just watching
the planes and things go.
Speaker 15 (30:02):
By and chatting with my friend, like, can you believe
I'm thirty?
Speaker 17 (30:05):
I you know, are you feeling good about thirty?
Speaker 13 (30:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (30:08):
Oh my good.
Speaker 15 (30:09):
Yes.
Speaker 16 (30:10):
Any anytime I meet someone that's like, oh my god, thirty,
because you know, in the South, like you got to
be like married by twenty five or at least that's
that's how it is where I'm from. And uh, anytime
I meet someone that's like, oh, you know, I thought
I'd have my life together by thirty or that this
that that that, I'm like, it's it was the best.
(30:31):
Like I came into my own when I turned thirty.
Now I did meet my husband that week, but I'm
just like, yeah, how.
Speaker 17 (30:40):
Had you come into your own? I had change or shifted.
Speaker 15 (30:43):
I had my dream job.
Speaker 16 (30:46):
Hm, that was that was really you know where because
my mom was is in finance and you know, worked
for a long standing company like Bank of America.
Speaker 15 (30:55):
And so it's just a really good job I had.
Speaker 16 (30:58):
Like I'll said, I loved in the cutest part of
Charlotte Dealworth and I thought, you know this is I
can die happy. I've got a little tether in the
backyard from my dog to run around the circles on
and uh two bed, one bath.
Speaker 15 (31:13):
Yeah, it was just everything everything I'd ever wanted. And
then here comes mister King.
Speaker 17 (31:18):
Were you ever thinking you'd be married to someone like
creative like that? Or would you would you have thought
you would have married someone like a banker?
Speaker 7 (31:25):
You know?
Speaker 16 (31:26):
The thing with me is is like I didn't ever
have a type, so like all the men were very
very different and different.
Speaker 15 (31:35):
Different career paths. Uh So I didn't really know what
to expect.
Speaker 16 (31:39):
Honestly, I kind of accepted that it wasn't in the
cards for me anytime soon.
Speaker 15 (31:44):
Like I was just like, I don't I don't need
no man. I was making good money and I'm like,
I don't need anybody to come wreck shop.
Speaker 16 (31:50):
You know I got a truth holding it down myself. Yeah,
but I'm happy that it happened the way it did.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
Hey, it's Mike d and this week all Movie Mike's
Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey on and we broke down
our best and worst movies that we've seen in theaters
and streaming from the last thirty days, giving you recommendations
on waste to save time and money on movies we
think you should skip, and movies we.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
Think that you're going to absolutely love.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
I'll play you a little bit of this episode now
of us talking about our best movies, but be sure
to check out this full episode to hear all of
our picks. But right now, here's just a little bit
of Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. What was the best thing
we watched in your opinion?
Speaker 18 (32:30):
As if you've enough to ask, the green lights behind
my head didn't tell you it is wicked?
Speaker 4 (32:35):
Is it a movie that you've been thinking about every
day since? Because that is my sign of oh that
was a good movie.
Speaker 18 (32:41):
I think about it. I watched TikTok's about it. The
soundtrack comes up on Spotify. I said that weird. Well,
I was gonna say shuffle on Spotify.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Suffle, Spotify, and you got that internet radio on your phone.
Speaker 18 (32:56):
Popular has been coming on Gracy Abrams Radio, so I
have been listening Popular.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
So is it the popular from the movie or the
popular from the musical?
Speaker 8 (33:04):
The movie?
Speaker 17 (33:05):
You know?
Speaker 18 (33:05):
I think about holding space for the lyrics of define
Gravity about once a day. I want to go see
it again. I tell other people to go see it.
I ask people if they've seen it. So, yeah, it
does consume a lot of my brain power.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
I did go back and I rewatched The Wizard of
Oz when last weekend without me.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
I'll rewatch it again. I'll watch that movie every day.
I love it. That like Saturday morning, I just started it.
Speaker 8 (33:28):
That's so rude.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
How is it rude watching a movie we've both seen.
It's not like I rewatched it, watch it and I'll
rewatch it again. We've both already seen it. It's not
like we were I started a show without you.
Speaker 8 (33:40):
It's rude to rewatch a movie on Saturday morning when
you know I sleep.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I watched like two other movies in that time, so
I was like, okay, i'll watch this one now. It's
surprisingly shorter than I remember. I mean, it's like an
hour and a half so it's a quick watch. But
I did some research on that because Warner Brothers owns
the rights to Wizard of Oz and it's not public
domain until twenty thirty five, so that leads me to
believe that they are building up towards remaking the Wizard
(34:10):
of Oz because once it's public domain, it's free game
for people to make it. I don't know if you
can rebuy the rights to have it reset for another
one hundred years. But who do you think should play
Dorothy in a remaking of the Wizard of Oz? I
started thinking about that, like who kind of fits?
Speaker 8 (34:24):
Advance warning about thinking about this shed put me on
the spot right now.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Okay, I feel like you would have somebody in mind
because you really don't have to be I mean, Judy
Garland could sing, but I almost feel at this point
you don't have to be a singer you could have
because I think that's kind of hard to find somebody
at the level of like Brand Carpenter to Herbi Dorothy
dire hair Brown. I was thinking like a Daisy Ridley, like.
Speaker 8 (34:48):
You're just gonna pick one of the Daisy's for everything
right now?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
I just feel like you need somebody who already has
like the hair.
Speaker 15 (34:56):
But I don't.
Speaker 8 (34:57):
I don't see Daisy Bridley in a whims Cool musical.
Speaker 2 (35:00):
Maybe she's a little bit too old for that role.
Speaker 18 (35:03):
Daisy Edgar Jones. I could, yeah, actually, because when she
was doing the Twisters press tour, everyone's like, what's one
thing people don't know about you? And she's like, I'm
quite silly, and she's like in her mid twenties. I
can see Daisy Edgar Jones.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
I'll go with my other Daisy, my backup busy.
Speaker 8 (35:17):
Which we did rewatch Twisters on Things Giving Now we.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Did, and we blew up the air mattress and rewatched
that movie.
Speaker 8 (35:22):
Great, great experience.
Speaker 18 (35:23):
Sometimes being an adults fun, Like just blow up the
air mattress for me a cookie cake.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
Yeah, there's nobody who can tell you not to.
Speaker 4 (35:30):
That was always something I wanted to do as a kid,
like blow up an air mattress or create like a
pillow for it and watch movies with in.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
I never did it.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Now I've done it. It's fun.
Speaker 8 (35:39):
It's great.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
My best of the month for I wasn't done talking
about Wicked. Oh you got more.
Speaker 18 (35:44):
I didn't even know who you didn't even let me
finish you sidetracked on the remaking of the Wizard of Us.
Speaker 8 (35:49):
Okay, even if and I we did the review, I
forgot already. We did that after we saw it.
Speaker 18 (35:56):
Even if you're not a musical person a theater person,
go see it. It's so well done. I know people
are like, this press tour they've done is wild, and
I do admit it is strange to watch them cry
in every interview, but you know what, they're proud of
their work. It was an experience and I think they
both should be proud of it because they're both phenomenal
in it. And I think it's just so good. And
(36:17):
even if you're like, wow, two and a half hours,
it doesn't feel like it. I'm like another movie we're
gonna talk about. So yeah, go see what I could.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
Got my good now, yes, all right? For my best
of the month, I'm going with A Real Pain, which
was a story with Kieran Colkin. You said it right time, okay,
making sure and Jesse Eisenberg and I feel like that
movie really hit me on an emotional level that I
wasn't quite expecting.
Speaker 8 (36:40):
TikTok about that made me really sad.
Speaker 4 (36:41):
That I feel like Jesse Eisenberg's character in the movie Yeah,
why to make you sad?
Speaker 8 (36:47):
Because you looked sad while talking.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
I didn't realize how emotional I was.
Speaker 8 (36:50):
You looked so sad you came home and I was like,
do you need a hug?
Speaker 2 (36:53):
And I'm like why.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
See, sometimes when I do reviews, I just like I
have to go off raw emotion. That is how I
based a lot of my reviews. And that one we
left the theater and I felt weird that something was
so oddly specific to me in a movie about just
like my personality and stuff I've been like dealing with,
like my whole life. And I think when I sat
(37:17):
down to record that review, I was like, this is
gonna kind of feel like a therapy session because it's
stuff I've I mean, I've talked to you about that,
and maybe not in that explicit way, just because I
just thought that was something that only I dealt with.
But seeing somebody else go through that of just that
feeling of like wanting to be more outgoing, wanting to
connect with people more, and I was like, man, this
(37:38):
movie just hit me and I didn't know how. I
didn't really know what that movie was going to be
about about their entire journey of like being close and
then kind of being estranged, going back for a really
dark reason after their grandma died, and then you have
all the other emotions mixed in with why they are
there going to that concentration camp, and just like, man,
where's this movie going? But there's a also like some
(38:00):
fun moments in it, some really good bonding moments, and
I think it's characters, yeah, and it's yeah, like a
really unique just blend of people. And it doesn't feel
like a traditional movie in the sense that it's not
like a this happens, therefore, this happens, Therefore this happens.
Here's the rising act, here's the fault. It doesn't really
follow that. It just felt like a movie about life.
(38:23):
And I enjoy those movies every now and then. It's
a nice little slice of life that you go through
something from beginning to end. It's not so much that
you follow this character's journey and they accomplish something amazing.
It's just like you feel all these things. That was
my best What what did you rate Wicked Again? You
gave it a five out of five? I think so,
I think you gave it a five out of five
when we did it, because I gave it a four
(38:44):
point five out of five because it was split into
two for a real pain. I gave that one a
four point five out of five, and so forth for
the year, I have not given out a five out
of five.
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Sunday, Sampler got a bunch of good stuff here, you know.
On the Bobby Cast this week we had Dan and
read Isabel. They are prolific writers, were in a bunch
of hits like Luke Combs hits. But they have a
great podcast called God's Country and I'm gonna play a
clip from that and they talk about being burnt out,
which is normal, just doesn't matter what the job is.
We do talk about podcasting and like worst performances like
that's coming up in just a second. And then movie
(00:30):
Mike's Movie podcast, him and his wife went through the
list of the best and the worst movies they saw
in November. This is a really good guide for you guys.
For me, I use stuff like this to figure out
what I'm gonna watch. So all the shows are coming up,
but I do want to talk with these guys first
from the Bobby Cast.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Here they are Dan and read Isabel.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
So one of my friends today who I'm very close to.
I was walking. We're walking together and he has a
number one. He's about to have a second number one,
and he knows I know how the games work, and
he's like, hey, I think that we have picked our
date to strategically go for number one, and you know
some people drop off. They all get in their little
(01:13):
we you know, you know how it goes around here, indeed,
And so I'm like, that's freaking awesome that your team
is saying this is the date, because that's as close
as you can get to getting it, that you've decided
on the push date to getting it. And he's like,
it's awesome. I said, so, do you have a what's
your next song? And this is somebody to hang out
with like twice a week, but we never talk music,
(01:33):
and not because we avoid it, but because we're like
actual friend Yeah, like playing trucks. And he was like,
I just wrote it, just cut it, and he said,
you listen to it. And I got that that old
feeling that I used to hate when people say, hey,
would you listen to my song? Because mostly it was
what you listen to it and then play it right
that I feel like everybody was trying to use me
(01:54):
for something. Sure, but my first five years is all
I felt. I didn't trust anybody. I was wrong about
a lot of people's probably right about a lot of people.
I was. I was right some and I got burned
really bad and I think that's what made me overcorrect
and just keep it. But he he sent me the
song and I and for a second I had that
PTSD of oh my god, and I'd have that many
(02:15):
conversation with myself, like this is your really friend, This
is a real life friend, like Compnity Kidney, you give
them one friend. And I listened to the song, and
in my head I was already imagining the text I
was gonna have to send. Oh wow, man, hey, I
can't wait to see what this does. In my head,
that's what I was imagining, because that means it's fine, Yeah,
that's fine. I listened to it. It was so good, like
I wanted to cry, and I don't think it was.
(02:36):
And the song was good. The song is really good.
But I don't think it was because of just the
song being really good. I think it was like all
that that I just talked about. I was able to
kind of just kind of kick all those feelings that
I had about people using me, so I don't do this,
and I do do this, and I keep these boundaries up.
(02:57):
And then I have this friend who's been grinding so
hard and lie I started to get tears of and
I'm by myself, and I'm like, what is I'm like
having this weird moment and I listened to this song,
and this song is so good. I'm not gonna play it.
I'm not saying who it is. And so I text
him back, I'm gonna write verbatim because I think as
songwriters and just artists in general, you guys will relate.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I'm excited about this.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I said, I don't know the guy that wrote that song,
is what I replied. I said, I know the mediocre
pickleball player that I beat the crap out of, but
I don't know that guy who wrote that song. Like
that's awesome, and sometimes you need to be reminded how
awesome your friends are. And he wrote, thank you, It's
probably the favorite thing I've ever written, you know, a
(03:41):
personal thing about his family. And then I just wrote
a couple things about I said, Hey, the concept was great,
the word play was awesome. Sonically, whoever singing the harmony's
like so technically. I just did a little quick evaluation.
I said, gets to the hook quick, which is like
a thing. And he says to me, hoping it's going
to be the one that opens the door all the
way for us. And as you was saying that, I
(04:04):
said to that, I said I was dreading to listen
to it because I was afraid to be fine, and
I would just say, can't wait to see this song
do his thing. But back to he said, hoping it
was going to be the one that opens the door
for us. And I feel like I said this because
I have felt that way many times about many things
that I was going to do. And there's not a door.
There's never a door. There's there's never a door. And
(04:24):
I said, the door will never be open all the way.
It's just a different chase to a different door. But
you wrote an excellent song, regardless of what it does
on some chart based on a thousand variables, that is
an amazing song. Acknowledging it now is extremely valuable because
it won't be up to you or even up to
your art. If it's going to be a number one,
(04:46):
it's all by chance. I love youbody, And he writes
a message back, and it was just the idea of again,
here's my friend. And you guys have to create art
out of your thoughts and your heart and your soul,
and then you have to go and just let people judge.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Yeah, but I think that's an interest, that's a that's
a really I mean, like you can tell that whoever,
even if it wasn't you, if someone had just read
me that text message of what they replied, that's somebody
that that has has grown up in the in the business,
you know what I mean, Like, you know how the
business works. And I think there for a while, when
(05:22):
you're starry eyed, you have this concept that you're going
to be able to release this song and that basically
based on how people feel about it, it's going to
perform at a certain level. And then maybe you even
do that, maybe you even have one that connects and
that's what brings you to the town.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Right.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
We've seen that a lot, and you know, to to
when you kind of see behind the curtain on on
the game of it, it's a different it's a different deal.
So to have someone who's who knows that and is
able to ship and I know we're talking way inside here.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I hope that's that's why we do this talk inside
is Yeah.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I just think it's it's cool and it probably meant
a lot to him to hear it from somebody who's
who has done that and been a part of it
and honestly kind of like dissociated themselves from that and go,
this is my honest opinion, and whether it does anything
or not, like great tune, man, And that's what that
means a lot to creatives.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
No doubt. Yeah, because like it feels like in that
moment like put yeah, putting ever, put the lights, put
the radio, shows, put the radio, put everything aside. A
great song was heard and appreciated and moved somebody the
way it is created to do.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Period. Before you start, he starts or she whoever starts
second guessing maybe this song wasn't as good as I
thought it was.
Speaker 3 (06:44):
Oh he or she thought that when they sent it,
because I mean, I do that all the time. It's like, man,
this song is a banger, Dude, I know this is awesome.
And then I get in the truck with reading, I'm like,
check this tune out and I play it, and like
halfway through the first verse, I'm like, oh, shouldn't I
say that, Oh he probably doesn't like that part. This
should get a reaction.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
It didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Okay, we're you know.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
What I mean, And before you know it, you're cutting
it off. Halfway through the second verse, one it ain't
that good. You know, we'll see what happens.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
And you've assigned his thoughts unfairly, totally, unfairly cast up
thing little food for yoursel life.
Speaker 6 (07:32):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
It's pretty beautiful, beautiful that for a little more said,
he can't cut your kick in with Fulling with Amy Brown.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
The first email is from a listener that was asking
about alan On because I shared about my allan On
experience in last week's episode, which, if you're not familiar,
allan On is a support group that helps loved one
of alcoholics by providing a place to meet to have
a safe space to share and learn how to cope.
(08:09):
So that's what allan On is. And I'm going to
leave the listener's name off because this is something very
personal and I want to respect that. And sometimes I
have time to hear back permission to use names when
it's something personal, but in this case, I just got
the email this morning.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
So here's what they wrote.
Speaker 7 (08:26):
Hey, Amy, longtime listener, and I have been listening to
four Things since it came out. After hearing the latest podcast,
you mentioned that you went to alan on meetings and
you tried to go weekly. What gave you the motivation
to go when it's mainly to deal with the person
in your life that has the problem. A little background
on me. I did go to therapy for myself for
many years, mainly for anxiety and panic attacks. So I'm
(08:50):
in no way against personal growth, therapy, rehab, etc. Someone
in my life is an alcoholic and we haven't had
a relationship for over ten years, just recently went to
rehab and have been sober a couple of months. How
did you get in the mindset that going to those
meetings would be best for you? I feel like, since
I'm not the one with the disease, I don't want
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to do the work, especially with children and limited time
for myself as it is. Also, maybe I'm being a
whiny baby. It's a hard place to be in your
friend blank from blank All right, So, dear Blank, here's
what I will say to you. I'm sorry that you're
dealing with this. Thank you for listening to the podcast
(09:34):
all of these years and for taking the time to
email me about something so personal. It's definitely a hard
place to be, and you are not a whiny baby
for feeling this way at all, whatsoever. What you are
experiencing is totally valid, and it's okay to feel conflicted
about adding one more thing to your plate, especially when
(09:54):
it's not something you asked for or something you've done.
I totally get it. I'd never even heard of alan
On until a few years ago, and started going when
I was.
Speaker 8 (10:06):
Advised to go.
Speaker 7 (10:08):
It was made very clear to me by a couple
of trusted people that I had my own issues based
on my relationship with my qualifier. Now, in this case,
your family member is the qualifier, and there are certain
behaviors that we pick up along the way that aren't helpful,
even if their behaviors or patterns from ten years ago,
(10:31):
twenty years ago, or two months ago. For example, I
was extremely codependent, I lacked boundaries, I enabled, I frequently
got involved in things that were not on my side
of the street, etc. But in my mind, none of
those things were my problem. They were because of my qualifier. So,
(10:53):
similar to you, I didn't understand why I needed help
dealing with someone else's problem. Well, what I learned over
time is that all of those things, they were my
problem and my responsibility, and if I wanted peace and change,
I had to put in the work like it wasn't
about fixing the other person, but really about finding the
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tools to help me feel less stuck and less frustrated
and just less helpless, and really to have the best
relationship with my qualifier possible because I still wanted that.
So I don't know all the details of your situation
and if you even want a relationship with this person,
but if they're sober, I mean, it could be a
(11:38):
beautiful time for you to nurture your relationship. But that
will take you staying on your side of the street,
focusing on you. I mean, if I really thought about
the exact motivation. Yes, I was encouraged by other people,
but it really boiled down to peace for myself and
me focusing on myself. And that's what those very t
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trusted people in my life could see that I couldn't
see at the time. They were observing my actions, and
it was very clear to them that I was in
victim mode and contributing to the agony I was feeling.
And they could see that if I didn't learn how
to manage that, I was never going to find peace.
So for me, yeah, boiled down to finding peace. And
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the awesome thing about alan On is that it helped
me focus on what I can control, like my reactions, boundaries, mindset,
and I did mention a weekly meeting that I try
to go to in last week's episode, But you don't
have to go weekly or even commit to it long
term to benefit from it. You can just take it
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one meeting at a time and see how it feels.
There are even zoom options that I've done that are helpful.
I never regret going to a meeting, and I love
some of the friends that I've made along the way.
I mean, these are the type of friends that will
not judge anything, so it's very refreshing. And also I
totally get that you're a mom and your time is limited,
(13:05):
but I do think that giving yourself even an hour
here or there can make such a big difference. And
you are not alone in this. I admire you for
even considering going, Like sending me this email just shows
that you care and you're curious, and I think curiosity
is very important. And this isn't just about your relationship
with this person in your life, this family member, but
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it is about you and your family. I can say
that going has made me a better mom, and I
didn't expect that to be the case, but that was
my ignorance of it all. Like I was very ignorant
when it came to anything with alcohol and addiction and
all that comes with that. So whatever you decide, give
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yourself grace and know that you are doing your best.
And this is a really tough situation. So that is
what I will say to you there. You just got
to take care of you whatever that looks like.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
We're gonna do it live.
Speaker 9 (14:13):
Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers?
Speaker 10 (14:18):
What up, everybody? I am lunchbox.
Speaker 11 (14:20):
I know the most about sports, so I'll give you
the sports facts, my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much
a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 9 (14:27):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a
lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully
soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
to be determined. Over to you, coach, And.
Speaker 11 (14:48):
Here's a clip from this week's episode of The Sore Losers.
What the is Bill Belichick doing? He explained it to me.
He said, it on dirt. He said he was going
to do it on dot. No, no, he said he
was gonna.
Speaker 10 (15:03):
Do it on dot. What is he doing.
Speaker 9 (15:08):
He's at home with that twenty two year old bored
out of his mind. He's doing this talk shows with
Pat McAfee's talking ball. He still got it. He's bored
out of his mind. He doesn't have Maybe he exercises
a little. It doesn't look like he's a massive bike rider,
canoe or kayaker water sports.
Speaker 11 (15:25):
Definitely doesn't look like he gets on the peloton.
Speaker 10 (15:26):
At all, at least so much more time during the day.
Speaker 9 (15:29):
And he says, I can probably do this it maybe
get out of the Patriots a bad situation.
Speaker 10 (15:34):
We learned Urbanemeyer did it.
Speaker 9 (15:37):
You UNC must have a great quarterback coming up in
the system, another Tom Brady, and so he said, this
is my time to shine U. N C is primed
right now because are they in the ACC Yeah, dog shit,
they're losing cam Ward, Miami's terrible, Florida State's terrible, They
Clemson Kate Klubnick's probably gonna go to Broncos minor league team.
So you got to think he's seeing you and see
(15:58):
they're gonna win it. Next year they're in the top
twelve team playoff the way it's format, and now you
can win a championship within one to two years and
the portal Billchick's champion.
Speaker 11 (16:08):
I get the acc It seems simple like, but I
don't understand Bill Belichick going into an eighteen year old's
house and being.
Speaker 10 (16:18):
Like, hey man, you wanna go to North Carolina?
Speaker 11 (16:20):
Like, what the is he gonna say to an eighteen
year old Eighteen year olds don't give a crap about
Bill Belichick.
Speaker 9 (16:26):
I'm not talking about it because he already said it
on Dot. You want to know what he said. What
said He's gonna treat it like a factory. So he
would then go into these kids' houses. A lot of me,
you don't go into their house now physically it's more
a virtual type thing. But he will then go into
some of the premier A List type guys. He's gonna
go in their living room and he's gonna say it's
a factory. I will get you into the NFL. I'm
gonna build you these four years to make you an
(16:47):
NFL prospect. What I can do is do that Norther coaching,
then college football can do that because none of them
have done it at an elite level as an NFL player,
coach and all that and won championships. He said, it
will be a fact you n C copyrighted factory.
Speaker 10 (17:03):
Hang up and listen.
Speaker 11 (17:05):
I heard all that on him. He's seventy two years old.
There's the realistically two years, two years. There's no way
he's going to be coaching for that much longer.
Speaker 9 (17:19):
Dude, what is it with everything? You got to do
it in moderation. No coach knows when to go out
at the right time. You never know when to leave
Vegas at the right time.
Speaker 10 (17:26):
You do.
Speaker 9 (17:28):
Yeah, if you have some self control you get when
you get out of coaching. Tom Brady he's got the itch.
He's acting like he's gonna plead quarterback again.
Speaker 11 (17:35):
Oh my god, he's he's got to quit announcing because
he's terrible at that. He's decent, but he doesn't put
in much work.
Speaker 10 (17:42):
Man.
Speaker 11 (17:43):
There's no there's no way he's practicing midweek, like all right,
let me let me work on this. Like he's not
going over game tape. He is showing up on Sunday
and just winging it. Because the dude is not polished
at all. He hasn't gotten any better. It just seems
like he does. He's getting paid three hundred and something
million dollars and he's like, what are they gonna do?
Speaker 10 (18:00):
Fire me? Great point, great point.
Speaker 9 (18:03):
I bet he watched a little bit of film the
night before a day of that's he's got five days off, five.
Speaker 11 (18:08):
Days off, and he's just chilling, hanging out at the
beach or whatever he does. I don't even know what
he does in his spare time. It has to be
at the beach because he's very tan.
Speaker 9 (18:17):
But dude, people are realizing nobody wants to just go
home and lay in bed. We weren't made to lay
in that position until we're in the coffin. Amen, Amen Belichick.
He's with the chicks banging or bagging her. Eh gets
a free time, man, why not do you NC?
Speaker 10 (18:31):
I just can't figure it out.
Speaker 9 (18:34):
Due he's on Pat mcavy every damn day or something. Shit,
He's all the time on there talking. He'll do a
secondent for forty five minutes. He ain't got nowhere to
be pour it out of his mind. Dude loves talking ball.
Why not talk ball for a team that you think
you can maybe make a difference with.
Speaker 11 (18:48):
Now, I do understand he's gonna have the coaching edge
over any coach he faces.
Speaker 10 (18:51):
He's the better. He's a better coach than anyone he's
gonna face.
Speaker 9 (18:54):
When's the best time to enter the twelve team playoff
this year? When's the second best yet time next year?
That's what he's doing. It's a brand new system. Look
all the teams that got in this year, Indiana.
Speaker 10 (19:05):
Arizona State. He said, holy shit, I could win this
thing first year. I mean, you get into twelve, you
got a chance.
Speaker 11 (19:12):
I My belief is he's doing this just to guarantee
his son gets a head coaching job that he's gonna
when he retires, that they have to name him the
head coach or whatever. He's the head coach in waiting.
And so he's like, you know what, I'm not gonna
go back to the NFL. But this is so much
more of a grind. You're seventy two years old. How
much energy can a seventy two.
Speaker 10 (19:30):
Year old have?
Speaker 9 (19:32):
Well, and even more than that, you're talking about what's
the other great one?
Speaker 10 (19:35):
What's his name?
Speaker 9 (19:35):
Nick saban Eh College game day morning. He kind of
slows it down a little bit it's kind of been unwatchable.
I'll watch clips and highlights and stuff. It just it
brings a well oiled machine to us.
Speaker 10 (19:47):
Oh halt.
Speaker 9 (19:48):
Saban says some good stuff, but it's like, dude, sometimes
that TV stuff's tough.
Speaker 10 (19:52):
Belichick's great at it. I think Saban maybe gets back
into coaching and.
Speaker 11 (19:56):
Says, dude, there's no way Saban's going back.
Speaker 10 (19:59):
It's like Or loves big newon Kickoff.
Speaker 9 (20:02):
He was on there the other day and he got
They're saying like, hey, ten million, would you do a
coaching job or something for ten million? He goes getting
paid that here, why would I do that? So Urban
ain't going anywhere. He loves talking on TV bullshitting Saban. Dude,
he's more of a cut and dried guy. I mean,
Saban likes McAfee, but it's like, how many more times
can he laugh at McAfee's standing up making an ass
(20:23):
of himself. Saban maybe gets back into coaching. Belichick. He
loves his little hits that he does, but he's like, dude,
I kind of meant to just be a coach.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
He loves to be a coach.
Speaker 10 (20:32):
He loves to be a coach. You realize it.
Speaker 11 (20:36):
God, I just I can't figure it out. Man, Like,
does that mean no NFL team was showing any inkling
of interest? And so he's like, you know what, I'll
go to you and see.
Speaker 9 (20:45):
Well, half the teams are gonna make the playoffs, the
other half aren't. Maybe he turned Maybe there's stuff that
happens we never hear about. Maybe he turns down. Who
says he do they have to announce that he goes
in interviews? What if he just went and chilled in
Arizona and kind of hung with the Cardinals for a
little bit, Like I don't love this culture.
Speaker 10 (21:02):
I'm out, man. Did we have a great culture at
the Patriot?
Speaker 11 (21:04):
There's no way, There's no way we would know, we
would know every move that Bill Belichick makes with.
Speaker 12 (21:24):
Lloydan Uelsman, this is the Kansas Kids episode, and I
have got Nicole Gallion on here. Nicole and I have
become friends in recent years, especially over our loved connection
of Kansas.
Speaker 2 (21:39):
Nicole, how are you wonderful?
Speaker 13 (21:41):
Good to see you?
Speaker 4 (21:41):
Really?
Speaker 12 (21:42):
The purpose of this episode is people who have moved
away from their home state when it was kind of
unheard of and not something that a lot of people did,
and chase their dreams. So before we get into that, though, like,
tell me kind of your origin story when you started
writing and wanting to chase the dream of music, and
when you were first starting to think, Okay, I don't
think I can live here and do what I want
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to do.
Speaker 13 (22:03):
So I went to this thing when I was in
junior high with my mom called at the time as
fan Fair, which to a cmafest. I'm sure all of
your followers know what CMA Fest is, but back when
I was in middle school, my mom and I went
to CMA Fest like Fanfare, three or four years in
a row, and it was my first time on an
airplane to go anywhere. And so we came to Nashville
(22:24):
and I just learned about this place called Belmont, and
I remember like just knowing like, oh, I have to
go there.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
I have to be there now.
Speaker 13 (22:33):
Granted I had never been to like any other city,
but it was totally like grand design that I came
to Nashville first and fell in love with it. So
I always at that time like I just knew that
I needed to be in Nashville. I didn't really know
the why. I just was for sure that I needed
to get here, and that is really the way it
worked out. I got here, went to Belmont, and then
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I learned about songwriting. It was so weird because I like,
I have a job that I didn't know existed when
I was growing up in Kansas. And I'm sure you're
in the same boat where you're like, I have a
job that I didn't know I could have, you know,
I mean, did you think you were gonna win a
CMA award?
Speaker 12 (23:10):
You know it's like, oh, no social media, no working
in social media side of that.
Speaker 13 (23:14):
Yeah, no, yeah, a hundred percent. So I guess like
Nashville is the thing that like spoke to me more
than songwriting. And then I got here and met songwriters,
and I was like, I think I'm a songwriter because
I was always a writer, Like wrote in every way
that I possibly could, you know, and whatever my hometown
had to offer me, like your book, or I wrote
for our small town newspapers in the summer, Like as
(23:36):
a journalist, I would go to the city commission meetings
and like write the copy for the newspaper. I just
loved writing, very creative. So it makes sense now in hindsight.
By the time I didn't really know.
Speaker 12 (23:46):
The Kansas Kids episode continues, Logan Mize is joined with
me right now. Logan, you have been part of my
life as a friend, as an artist, as so many
different things.
Speaker 8 (23:56):
So it's really good to have you here.
Speaker 14 (23:58):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (23:59):
Thanks for having me.
Speaker 12 (24:00):
At what point for you when you were growing up
where you're like, Okay, I want to be an artist
and I'm going to move away from here.
Speaker 14 (24:08):
Well, it wasn't that much of it, wasn't that clear
of a decision. I was just like I couldn't never
stick with anything, Like I was kind of a meandering idiot, honestly,
but I and I wasn't like a great singer by
any means that I had to like really work at that.
But I loved music. I loved songs, and you know,
I just a night out for me as a kid
(24:30):
was like begging my parents to take me to Witch
Talk so we could go to Blockbuster Music. And I
don't know if you remember.
Speaker 15 (24:36):
That, Yeah, Blockbuster music, Blockbuster Music.
Speaker 14 (24:39):
I'm showing my age a little bit.
Speaker 12 (24:41):
I know there's like Blockbuster for DVDs, but Blockbuster music.
Speaker 14 (24:45):
There was a Blockbuster Music. See that's how much older
I am than new Okay, So thirty nine. Full disclosure.
Speaker 8 (24:51):
That's only eight years. That's not that much.
Speaker 14 (24:53):
Okay, well it must have closed down at some point.
Speaker 1 (24:56):
It was it was amazing.
Speaker 14 (24:57):
First of all, you would go and to this big
section and it was like the lighting was cool, and
there was music posters everywhere, and there was rows and
rows of CDs and you could go just you could
find anything. And so I would beg my parents to
take me. We'd go on a Friday night. I'd spend
hours in there. And my parents like music too, so
(25:18):
that was like what I loved, and I just I
didn't know that I wanted to do music. I just
that was where my heart was. But I couldn't stick
with anything, you know, I couldn't stick with piano lessons.
You know, I dropped out of three different colleges. I
just was a mess. And that was the one thing
that I always felt passionate enough about to where like
I can stick with that.
Speaker 6 (25:58):
Carlone, she's a queen and talking, so she's getting really
not afraid to feel the episode, so just let it flow.
No one can do were quiet like carry line.
Speaker 16 (26:14):
It's so with Caroline.
Speaker 8 (26:17):
So your dad's a truck driver, he is, Yeah, he
inspired your hats.
Speaker 2 (26:20):
Right, yeah.
Speaker 16 (26:21):
He he was one of the reasons that I started
doing it, and Marcus as well. You know, Marcus is
always wearing the feathers on his cowboy.
Speaker 17 (26:30):
Hat, and we needed base like trucker hat, yeah, and we.
Speaker 15 (26:33):
Needed to dress them up a little bit.
Speaker 16 (26:36):
That's I always found myself like kind of looking for
a trucker that was just a little elevated.
Speaker 15 (26:42):
Agreed, you know, yes, yes, because they there's.
Speaker 16 (26:46):
Just a lot of them everywhere and now, and they're
not always like the most meaningful things, and so I
just I liked to have something that was a little
bit nicer than like what I have on my head
right now. This is but then again, I do be
wearing this with like a damn ball gown.
Speaker 17 (27:02):
So this is your hat.
Speaker 16 (27:03):
This is no this is the guy that makes Marcus
his guitars. Banker Banker handcrafted. Yeah, that mister banker custom
on Instagram. But he just had a bunch of these,
and I worked Everyone thinks I'm a banker, so we
did work at a bank, right, So when I met
Marcus's family, they were like, you know, even like my mom,
(27:25):
just people from back home who haven't really like seen
these you know, the big towers in the city, like
in Charlotte, where people work in Bank of America. If
you tell somebody I work at Bank of America, they're
thinking like a teller or something like that. And so
Marcus's family when we first met, they were like, oh,
you know, Uncle Danny had a big amount of money
(27:47):
go missing out of his account the other day. Do
you think that you could, like, uh, you know, help
him within that. And I'm like, I don't know how
to tell you this, but I don't work at like
a branch. I work from home, which is another foreign
thing that my mom couldn't wrap her head around, was
working from home a lot. But anyway, I I told
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his family, I'm like, no, I'm in like I'm in
like acquisitions. So we're like, you know, taking over a
company and banquifying them. And yeah, I'm not sure that
I ever fully explained it to them, but hopefully Uncle
Danny got his money back.
Speaker 17 (28:26):
I didn't.
Speaker 15 (28:27):
I was just like, I can't help in that department.
Speaker 18 (28:29):
I don't.
Speaker 8 (28:29):
I don't do that.
Speaker 16 (28:30):
I don't I don't touch the money, and thank God
for it, because I'm a gold digger, you know, a
gold digger.
Speaker 17 (28:35):
So you would think because of that, actually, you doing
a banker hat would be fitting.
Speaker 16 (28:38):
Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 8 (28:39):
I mean the brand, Yeah, I love that.
Speaker 15 (28:42):
Yeah, this is one of the first ones that I was.
Speaker 17 (28:45):
Th say, you're a gold digger just because you're married
to Marcus. Was he already like rocking when y'all met?
Speaker 9 (28:49):
Yeah?
Speaker 15 (28:49):
Yeah, yeah he really was. Tell me he slid my
DMS threw me a fire.
Speaker 17 (28:55):
How did he find you?
Speaker 15 (28:57):
I was I had gone to his concert.
Speaker 16 (28:59):
It was my It was my birthday that week, and
so you know white girls under birthdays, they got to
have a week full of events and so at the
top of it, yeah, I think he was smack dab
in the center.
Speaker 15 (29:11):
He might have even been on a Tuesday. O crunk
on a Tuesday.
Speaker 17 (29:14):
Okay, so what year is this? How old were you?
Speaker 15 (29:16):
This is where twenty twenty one. I turned thirty that year, So.
Speaker 17 (29:20):
This was a big birthday week.
Speaker 8 (29:21):
M h and yeah, we're in Charlotte, Charlotte.
Speaker 15 (29:26):
And then we met in Raleigh the next night. He
was like, can I take you to dinner?
Speaker 17 (29:30):
So how did he know you were at the show?
Speaker 15 (29:33):
I had posted a story.
Speaker 17 (29:34):
Oh and he saw himself taging it and he was like, man,
that girl's.
Speaker 8 (29:38):
Cut and what did he say?
Speaker 7 (29:41):
So what?
Speaker 15 (29:41):
He just sent me a fire emoji?
Speaker 17 (29:42):
What is it like when you are at a show
watching someone who you like just love their music.
Speaker 15 (29:48):
I wasn't even watching.
Speaker 8 (29:50):
I wasn't you were just having a great time.
Speaker 15 (29:52):
Yeah, how are you doing?
Speaker 16 (29:54):
I was hitting my pen and I was laid back
on the lawn because I was in like the very
very back of the lawn section. I was just watching
the planes and things go.
Speaker 15 (30:02):
By and chatting with my friend, like, can you believe
I'm thirty?
Speaker 17 (30:05):
I you know, are you feeling good about thirty?
Speaker 13 (30:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (30:08):
Oh my good.
Speaker 15 (30:09):
Yes.
Speaker 16 (30:10):
Any anytime I meet someone that's like, oh my god, thirty,
because you know, in the South, like you got to
be like married by twenty five or at least that's
that's how it is where I'm from. And uh, anytime
I meet someone that's like, oh, you know, I thought
I'd have my life together by thirty or that this
that that that, I'm like, it's it was the best.
(30:31):
Like I came into my own when I turned thirty.
Now I did meet my husband that week, but I'm
just like, yeah, how.
Speaker 17 (30:40):
Had you come into your own? I had change or shifted.
Speaker 15 (30:43):
I had my dream job.
Speaker 16 (30:46):
Hm, that was that was really you know where because
my mom was is in finance and you know, worked
for a long standing company like Bank of America.
Speaker 15 (30:55):
And so it's just a really good job I had.
Speaker 16 (30:58):
Like I'll said, I loved in the cutest part of
Charlotte Dealworth and I thought, you know this is I
can die happy. I've got a little tether in the
backyard from my dog to run around the circles on
and uh two bed, one bath.
Speaker 15 (31:13):
Yeah, it was just everything everything I'd ever wanted. And
then here comes mister King.
Speaker 17 (31:18):
Were you ever thinking you'd be married to someone like
creative like that? Or would you would you have thought
you would have married someone like a banker?
Speaker 7 (31:25):
You know?
Speaker 16 (31:26):
The thing with me is is like I didn't ever
have a type, so like all the men were very
very different and different.
Speaker 15 (31:35):
Different career paths. Uh So I didn't really know what
to expect.
Speaker 16 (31:39):
Honestly, I kind of accepted that it wasn't in the
cards for me anytime soon.
Speaker 15 (31:44):
Like I was just like, I don't I don't need
no man. I was making good money and I'm like,
I don't need anybody to come wreck shop.
Speaker 16 (31:50):
You know I got a truth holding it down myself. Yeah,
but I'm happy that it happened the way it did.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
Hey, it's Mike d and this week all Movie Mike's
Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey on and we broke down
our best and worst movies that we've seen in theaters
and streaming from the last thirty days, giving you recommendations
on waste to save time and money on movies we
think you should skip, and movies we.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
Think that you're going to absolutely love.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
I'll play you a little bit of this episode now
of us talking about our best movies, but be sure
to check out this full episode to hear all of
our picks. But right now, here's just a little bit
of Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. What was the best thing
we watched in your opinion?
Speaker 18 (32:30):
As if you've enough to ask, the green lights behind
my head didn't tell you it is wicked?
Speaker 4 (32:35):
Is it a movie that you've been thinking about every
day since? Because that is my sign of oh that
was a good movie.
Speaker 18 (32:41):
I think about it. I watched TikTok's about it. The
soundtrack comes up on Spotify. I said that weird. Well,
I was gonna say shuffle on Spotify.
Speaker 2 (32:50):
Suffle, Spotify, and you got that internet radio on your phone.
Speaker 18 (32:56):
Popular has been coming on Gracy Abrams Radio, so I
have been listening Popular.
Speaker 2 (33:00):
So is it the popular from the movie or the
popular from the musical?
Speaker 8 (33:04):
The movie?
Speaker 17 (33:05):
You know?
Speaker 18 (33:05):
I think about holding space for the lyrics of define
Gravity about once a day. I want to go see
it again. I tell other people to go see it.
I ask people if they've seen it. So, yeah, it
does consume a lot of my brain power.
Speaker 4 (33:16):
I did go back and I rewatched The Wizard of
Oz when last weekend without me.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
I'll rewatch it again. I'll watch that movie every day.
I love it. That like Saturday morning, I just started it.
Speaker 8 (33:28):
That's so rude.
Speaker 4 (33:29):
How is it rude watching a movie we've both seen.
It's not like I rewatched it, watch it and I'll
rewatch it again. We've both already seen it. It's not
like we were I started a show without you.
Speaker 8 (33:40):
It's rude to rewatch a movie on Saturday morning when
you know I sleep.
Speaker 4 (33:47):
I watched like two other movies in that time, so
I was like, okay, i'll watch this one now. It's
surprisingly shorter than I remember. I mean, it's like an
hour and a half so it's a quick watch. But
I did some research on that because Warner Brothers owns
the rights to Wizard of Oz and it's not public
domain until twenty thirty five, so that leads me to
believe that they are building up towards remaking the Wizard
(34:10):
of Oz because once it's public domain, it's free game
for people to make it. I don't know if you
can rebuy the rights to have it reset for another
one hundred years. But who do you think should play
Dorothy in a remaking of the Wizard of Oz? I
started thinking about that, like who kind of fits?
Speaker 8 (34:24):
Advance warning about thinking about this shed put me on
the spot right now.
Speaker 4 (34:27):
Okay, I feel like you would have somebody in mind
because you really don't have to be I mean, Judy
Garland could sing, but I almost feel at this point
you don't have to be a singer you could have
because I think that's kind of hard to find somebody
at the level of like Brand Carpenter to Herbi Dorothy
dire hair Brown. I was thinking like a Daisy Ridley, like.
Speaker 8 (34:48):
You're just gonna pick one of the Daisy's for everything
right now?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
I just feel like you need somebody who already has
like the hair.
Speaker 15 (34:56):
But I don't.
Speaker 8 (34:57):
I don't see Daisy Bridley in a whims Cool musical.
Speaker 2 (35:00):
Maybe she's a little bit too old for that role.
Speaker 18 (35:03):
Daisy Edgar Jones. I could, yeah, actually, because when she
was doing the Twisters press tour, everyone's like, what's one
thing people don't know about you? And she's like, I'm
quite silly, and she's like in her mid twenties. I
can see Daisy Edgar Jones.
Speaker 2 (35:14):
I'll go with my other Daisy, my backup busy.
Speaker 8 (35:17):
Which we did rewatch Twisters on Things Giving Now we.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Did, and we blew up the air mattress and rewatched
that movie.
Speaker 8 (35:22):
Great, great experience.
Speaker 18 (35:23):
Sometimes being an adults fun, Like just blow up the
air mattress for me a cookie cake.
Speaker 2 (35:28):
Yeah, there's nobody who can tell you not to.
Speaker 4 (35:30):
That was always something I wanted to do as a kid,
like blow up an air mattress or create like a
pillow for it and watch movies with in.
Speaker 1 (35:37):
I never did it.
Speaker 2 (35:37):
Now I've done it. It's fun.
Speaker 8 (35:39):
It's great.
Speaker 2 (35:40):
My best of the month for I wasn't done talking
about Wicked. Oh you got more.
Speaker 18 (35:44):
I didn't even know who you didn't even let me
finish you sidetracked on the remaking of the Wizard of Us.
Speaker 8 (35:49):
Okay, even if and I we did the review, I
forgot already. We did that after we saw it.
Speaker 18 (35:56):
Even if you're not a musical person a theater person,
go see it. It's so well done. I know people
are like, this press tour they've done is wild, and
I do admit it is strange to watch them cry
in every interview, but you know what, they're proud of
their work. It was an experience and I think they
both should be proud of it because they're both phenomenal
in it. And I think it's just so good. And
(36:17):
even if you're like, wow, two and a half hours,
it doesn't feel like it. I'm like another movie we're
gonna talk about. So yeah, go see what I could.
Speaker 4 (36:23):
Got my good now, yes, all right? For my best
of the month, I'm going with A Real Pain, which
was a story with Kieran Colkin. You said it right time, okay,
making sure and Jesse Eisenberg and I feel like that
movie really hit me on an emotional level that I
wasn't quite expecting.
Speaker 8 (36:40):
TikTok about that made me really sad.
Speaker 4 (36:41):
That I feel like Jesse Eisenberg's character in the movie Yeah,
why to make you sad?
Speaker 8 (36:47):
Because you looked sad while talking.
Speaker 2 (36:48):
I didn't realize how emotional I was.
Speaker 8 (36:50):
You looked so sad you came home and I was like,
do you need a hug?
Speaker 2 (36:53):
And I'm like why.
Speaker 4 (36:55):
See, sometimes when I do reviews, I just like I
have to go off raw emotion. That is how I
based a lot of my reviews. And that one we
left the theater and I felt weird that something was
so oddly specific to me in a movie about just
like my personality and stuff I've been like dealing with,
like my whole life. And I think when I sat
(37:17):
down to record that review, I was like, this is
gonna kind of feel like a therapy session because it's
stuff I've I mean, I've talked to you about that,
and maybe not in that explicit way, just because I
just thought that was something that only I dealt with.
But seeing somebody else go through that of just that
feeling of like wanting to be more outgoing, wanting to
connect with people more, and I was like, man, this
(37:38):
movie just hit me and I didn't know how. I
didn't really know what that movie was going to be
about about their entire journey of like being close and
then kind of being estranged, going back for a really
dark reason after their grandma died, and then you have
all the other emotions mixed in with why they are
there going to that concentration camp, and just like, man,
where's this movie going? But there's a also like some
(38:00):
fun moments in it, some really good bonding moments, and
I think it's characters, yeah, and it's yeah, like a
really unique just blend of people. And it doesn't feel
like a traditional movie in the sense that it's not
like a this happens, therefore, this happens, Therefore this happens.
Here's the rising act, here's the fault. It doesn't really
follow that. It just felt like a movie about life.
(38:23):
And I enjoy those movies every now and then. It's
a nice little slice of life that you go through
something from beginning to end. It's not so much that
you follow this character's journey and they accomplish something amazing.
It's just like you feel all these things. That was
my best What what did you rate Wicked Again? You
gave it a five out of five? I think so,
I think you gave it a five out of five
when we did it, because I gave it a four
(38:44):
point five out of five because it was split into
two for a real pain. I gave that one a
four point five out of five, and so forth for
the year, I have not given out a five out
of five.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
That's Sunday Sampler, New episodes out weekly of all those shows,
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with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 10 (39:08):
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Speaker 1 (39:10):
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