February 16, 2025 • 42 mins
In this weekly series, we share highlight clips from the past week of some of the podcasts on The Nashville Podcast Network- In The Vet's Office with Dr. Josie, Take This Personally with Morgan Huelsman, The BobbyCast, 4 Things with Amy Brown, Sore Losers, Movie Mike's Movie Podcast and Get Real with Caroline Hobby. You can listen to new episodes weekly wherever you get your podcasts.
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-The BobbyCast- @BobbyCast
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-Take This Personally- @TakeThisPersonally
-4 Things with Amy Brown- @RadioAmy
-Sore Losers- @SoreLosersPodcast
-Movie Mikes Movie Podcast- @MikeDeestro
-Get Real: @GetRealCarolineHobby
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Hey guys, welcome back to Sunday Sampler. A bunch of
clips from the podcast this week, so maybe you want
to check it out. In the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Morgan from The Bobby Bone Show came on to
talk about her pets adoption stories, how Remy became a
therapy animal, and so much more.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
So we're going to start with that.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Here's the clip of this week's in the Vets Office
with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
You're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie Horschak.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Do they sleep in your bed with you? Remy does.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
As you just heard the little scuffle between them. Remy
doesn't really allow Hazel to come sleep in the bed.
Sometimes she will if she's so tired. She doesn't pay
attention because Hazel's a little sneaky. But yeah, Remy does.
Hazel would love to whenever she does, especially when I
go back home. They both sleep in the same bed together.
But for some reason at my house.
Speaker 6 (01:05):
It's really so when you travel back to your hometown,
they'll sleep in the same bed together.
Speaker 7 (01:10):
Ye.
Speaker 6 (01:10):
No, like we're not in our normal environment. We've got
a band together.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
It's kind of like that because my parents have three
dogs and they both kind of like like their space
and they like being a little independent, so I think
they choose to be together versus separate.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
On that that's totally fair. But then we go back
home and it's all thanks for.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
This week only we are on the same team.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
It's funny how that works.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
And when we get home, it's over.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Are you about to tell me not to let her
sleep in the No?
Speaker 6 (01:34):
No, No, I'm definitely not. I feel like I'm like the
fear of bad news.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
No.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I have three dogs. Two of them sleep on the
floor because they just get hot at night. And then
my little ones like wrapped around my head.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
See, And I.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Don't I get it.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I know there's like, you know you sleep better or whatever.
I'm like, honestly, I don't know that I would sleep better.
I'd be like, where are you?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Why won't you cuddle me? I like having used a snuggle.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
I love to sleep with my little dog. Biggie is
his name.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
If his name is Biggie, he's a small dog.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
He's tiny.
Speaker 8 (02:01):
I know.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
His name when we adopted him was baby Bear, baby Bear,
and he only came to the name baby and my
husband was like, I'm not calling this dog baby. So
we called him Biggie because it sounds, you know, similar
to baby. Yeah, and he comes to Biggie though, he come,
oh yeah, he's totally Biggie is for sure his name now.
But no, like he's like my little space heater, and
(02:22):
he's so cuddly and that I'm all about. If you
want your pets to sleep in your bad with you,
I support you.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
It's funny too when I'm on the couch hanging out
with both of them, Like Remy will be cuddled like
she's little spoon with me, and if I'm like kind
of turned it all, Hazel will be in between my
knees like back, and we're all just I'm just like, well,
we're here until one of you moves back.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
You're like, I am just gonna have to hold it
for the next twelve hours.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
That's exactly.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Sometimes I will fall asleep on the couch if we're
all peacefully sleeping there, I'm like.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I'm just gonna sleep on the couch to night best.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
There's no better feeling.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
There really isn't, And I know there will become a
day that I'm going to miss that. So I'm gonna
soak it up every time that I can.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
So, you're single. Have you ever dated to anyone that
didn't get along or like your pets?
Speaker 9 (03:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
Yeah, really no, I didn't date them for very long.
That's what I don't know why I'm saying, really like
I asked the question.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah, no, it didn't last very long. That's honestly.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
One of my first questions before I even really start
to consider even going on a date with them, is
if they like animals.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Because I am a massive animal lover.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I me and you're producer of this podcast, have had
this conversation I can't date a hunter, which is funny
because yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
I just I can't.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I could if it was like out of sight, out
of mind, you never bring it home. Yeah, but I
just know most hunters that's not the lifestyle. No, And
I just I love animals so much that if you don't,
we're just going to be vastly on different scales, and
you're also not going to understand me as a human.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Being one thousand percent. It's like in your DNA. I
feel like, if you're an animal lover and you know
all their values, like finances, children, all of that, of
course is super important, but like, if you don't like animals,
that is right up there.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Oh yeah, and it's funny.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I had I dated one guy and he oh yeah,
all kinds and red flags, but he was actually really
good to my animals. But something that's really important to
me is that I if I see a straight animal,
I am going to find a way to get it,
and I'm gonna get it to safety.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
That's just all my plans will be curtailed. I don't
care correct.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
And we were headed to dinner and I saw a dog.
I was like, pull over right now, like I'm gonna
go find out and he was like, no, we're not,
and we're gonna keep going. And I sobbed about this
dog I had never met in my life. But I
was like, this is not going to work for me.
And I remember like sitting in that car being like
this is so important to me that I can't overlook this.
(04:36):
We broke up for a multitude of other reasons, but
that was something that really stuck in my brain. For
future partners, Yeah, they have to be okay with this
part of who I am.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I feel like you at the first state need to
be like would you or would you not stop on
the side of the road for a straight animal. Just
save us some time, Josie.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
There's also people that I've met who like purposely hit squirrels.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh don't that Like I'm not kidding.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Like they'll purpose and they'll see or they'll see possums
or something. I'm like, stop, I don't what is that animal.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Doing to you?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm calling nine one one on them.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
That's how I feel.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Not not only am I not gonna date you, You're
going to jail. See that is horrible. Oh, the toothpaste
one's funny. The toothpase story is funny.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
What's this?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
So I did?
Speaker 5 (05:20):
I did dat a guy, and you know, I brushed
Remy's teeth every single night. Miss Hazel doesn't have to
have her teeth brush teeth, but Rammy gets her teeth
brush every night and it is with my toothpaste.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
So I never forget that this is something I have
to do.
Speaker 10 (05:33):
Right.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Well, I was dating a guy and we were at
the point of him he was staying over and he
had went into my wrathroom to brush his teeth and
he came out and he was like, oh, that toothpaste
is super weird. And I was like, what are you
talking about? I have coldgate? Like, why is it weird?
He's like in the green bottle and I was like,
can you show me which one you use? And he
comes out, I'm like, it literally says dog paste on
(05:57):
this bottle.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
You're like, you just brush your teeth with the dog's toothpaste.
Speaker 11 (06:02):
I did.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
And you may or may not be illiterate because it
says dog toothpaste.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Oh, I guess says it Vet's best dog enzyme tooth face.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Wait, that is disgusting. I they like put like chicken
flavor in there.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
Yeah. Yeah, that's why it tasted a little weird for
this poor guy. And I was like, I'm really sorry,
but that is not my toothpaste. And he's like, Noed,
what did you guys? Yeah, we didn't work out for
other reasons. But I'm I'm not sure if that did
or did not play a part in that. It's very
possible it did.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Friday Night Read mentioned that that was a jam, but
I believe if I'm correct, you wrote that I think
Lady A cut it but didn't put as single.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
Yeah, it was on the on the Night record.
Speaker 12 (06:51):
And then you asked, Hey, you guys put a single?
Do you care if I cut it and put it
as single? Is that true?
Speaker 13 (06:56):
I actually was, I mean it was uh yeah. Basically
I was playing a little show down in Birmingham and yeah,
I got the one of the guys at the label, Kevin,
came down and he came to the show and just
after I played Friday night, he pointed out me.
Speaker 9 (07:13):
He said, there's your single, and I'm like, lady, hey,
cut it, you know. From the stage.
Speaker 13 (07:18):
He goes in and put on the radio it's your single,
Thanks Kevin, Keith Wildhearts.
Speaker 12 (07:22):
Yeah, man, how'd that one go?
Speaker 9 (07:24):
Uh? This goes out to the gift? Is all of
the dreamers ready to fly?
Speaker 13 (07:30):
How like Whisper single that we were twenty I'm bringing
you cookies next time I have a song on the radio.
We we missed number one by twenty six spins Way. Yeah,
so it's my first and I'm fine with you that.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
You know why, because I talked to Jen Wayne. I
was on a golf course. Jen Wayne pulls up behind me.
We're playing golf. Jen Wayne, by the way, was a
professional tennis player again away one of the great, great
people too. And she pulls up behind me and she's
with Garth's lawyer, but she to her, that's not gard lawyer,
that's like her friend or I don't know. And I
(08:05):
only knew Gard' lawyer because he kind of got somebody
I knew out of some trouble.
Speaker 12 (08:08):
Not Garth, but somebody I knew out of some trouble.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
And I just met him because we had opened for
Garth in Faantville in the Razor Bake Stadium, and so
I met him and I went up to him and
I was like, hey, I just want to say thank
you because he contributed to something that was very very
beneficiar to me. It's very beneficial to me. I can
take that out there. And so but then I see
Jen and him coming up right and I'm like, what
(08:32):
the crap? And she's like yeah, she goes can you believe?
Because again, at this point, I wasn't like in the
music game, meaning I'm just creating content at this point,
but I don't even keep up. But I want to
know if like my friends are doing well where you know,
And she was like, we missed by twenty sixpence or
twenty whatever the number was, and then she told me
who beat it.
Speaker 12 (08:52):
I think there was like a multi.
Speaker 13 (08:53):
Way yeah, someone had it for multi w Yeah, I'm
kind of like, why you don't need a three, five,
seven week number one?
Speaker 9 (08:59):
Especially?
Speaker 12 (09:00):
Is that close? Like somebody opened the point that's a
good song.
Speaker 9 (09:03):
No, it worked out.
Speaker 13 (09:04):
I mean, all that being said, and the interesting thing,
people like, guy, you must have been upset, and I
was like, honestly, I wasn't. That's the first time I
ever had a song go top five and it didn't
go number one, like it was my first number two.
I'll take it, Yeah, you'll take it, but I'm no,
I'm serious. It was like reve just in relative thinking.
It was like, I've never had a number two? How
cool was that I could have had six number twos.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
You know, Keith Urban is the guy too that had
really instilled in me after saying it many times. What
you said earlier was because Keith to be like this
song not on air. We'd be talking and Keith and
I left pretty close. I've been over to you know,
we're Keith and I a friendly when he's here.
Speaker 12 (09:42):
He's not here a whole lot.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But when he's here and he's like, dude, of my
biggest songs weren't number ones. He goes everybody thinks they
were because they were the everybody goes crazy for them,
but he's like number seven, number thirteen.
Speaker 9 (09:54):
The honest truth is it was too early. People are
catching up.
Speaker 13 (09:58):
And that being I will say if anybody he has
never seen Keith play live, you, I don't care what
genre and what zip code you thought you were born
into where your parents didn't want you listening to that
you listened to. Like whatever music you like, Keith Urban
will melt your face off. Also, his whole band is
like Frontmen and the and the cool thing is the
fact that he has Nathan and Jerry out there singing,
(10:20):
and that Keith isn't intimidated is because Keith is such
a rock star. He doesn't need to be intimidated anyway.
Go see Keith's live band. They're a freaking mind blowing.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
And he is such a it's where he gets thrown
around a lot. But he's such a perfectionist in that
I've been with and around him at times pre a
show and he's making sure the lights are in the
exact place the lights like before he does a show,
like he's going, okay, what you know, sometimes depending on
(10:51):
where you are when you are an artist, won't even
need to do their soundcheck. Let somebody go do it
for him. He ran a sound check, he ran some
new stuff, he wanted to test the lights. You wanted
to see with the light. Like, that's a guy I
who wants to make sure that the people get out
of it the money they put into it.
Speaker 13 (11:08):
Yeah, and he has the time to do it. I
remember in earlier years doing tours. You're just like, I
don't even have time for sound check because my day's
books so much.
Speaker 12 (11:18):
What do you mean having to like, dude, like, yeah.
Speaker 9 (11:20):
Just all kinds of random stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Read not that you out of songs you like, I'm
went whoa what no? Yeah, Rascal Flats, rewind Whisper sing
that one.
Speaker 13 (11:37):
Uh uh well, put the moon back up in the sky,
put a pull back into that sweet what oh.
Speaker 12 (11:44):
Yeah, No it's not it radio hear song that goes
like this. When I grow up, up up, I can
be whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
I won't won't won't You See I never said it
was that I said when I grow up, wasn't one
kids song?
Speaker 9 (11:59):
Right, kids songs before I even had kids.
Speaker 12 (12:02):
I just remember being so grateful Phil Barton.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
And what's what's really cool is every once while I
feel a play at a rite and people will tag me
in it. I just remember being so grateful because you
knew Phil and brought Phil over to the when I
lived downtown, and I was just so grateful that because dude,
you can write with anybody at any time.
Speaker 12 (12:16):
People do you have?
Speaker 9 (12:18):
But I was alright, any song ever.
Speaker 12 (12:20):
I was like, Eric, well don't say that, because it
made me feel less special. But then it's I was.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Like, He's like, all right with anybody, alright with every
everybody asked.
Speaker 12 (12:28):
Uh yeah, yeah. I was very great to.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Fool because I was like, and then Eric's like, let's
do that that that that. I remember it vividly and
it's awesome, and people still school still use that for
like assemblies.
Speaker 9 (12:41):
That's great.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
It get tagged at like the end of the school
year every year with schools and their kids like all
like the secondart of singing the whole song and so yeah,
that's it.
Speaker 12 (12:49):
You didn't know that digital read Yeah, see this guy's
singing back in school.
Speaker 11 (13:07):
We're gonna do it live? Oh the one, two, three?
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Sore losers?
Speaker 11 (13:15):
What up?
Speaker 14 (13:15):
Everybody?
Speaker 15 (13:16):
I am lunchbox. I know the most about sports, so
I'll give you the sports facts. My sports opinions, because
I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 11 (13:24):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful. A
lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully
soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
to be determined.
Speaker 15 (13:43):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers.
Speaker 14 (13:50):
Let me show you the picture, right, it.
Speaker 11 (13:51):
Looks like the N one mixtape to her out there.
They've shown clips of basketball shorts from twenty years ago.
It wasn't it crazy? How bad they used to have them?
Oh my gosh, And now they all wear them right
up their cranks.
Speaker 14 (14:03):
Dude. You can't even see the kid's legs.
Speaker 15 (14:06):
Dude, I mean, he has a head, arms, and ankles,
that's all he has.
Speaker 14 (14:14):
Is that not hilarious?
Speaker 11 (14:17):
You almost got to get him another pair of shorts.
Speaker 14 (14:19):
I did. I got him another pair of black shorts. Yeah,
I mean it.
Speaker 11 (14:21):
Is so you me my mom, she could sew those things.
Speaker 14 (14:24):
I mean, look at that. I mean it socks. It's
his socks. You don't even see any skin.
Speaker 11 (14:29):
He does look like a baller though.
Speaker 14 (14:30):
He does look like a baller.
Speaker 11 (14:32):
Dude, what's the little one? Dude just dick around on.
Speaker 15 (14:34):
The soide, dig's around on the sideline with his basketball
and cries because he can't go in the game.
Speaker 11 (14:38):
He looks like he'd be a little bit more efficient
than Jessica.
Speaker 14 (14:41):
Yeah, he's ready, he'll he'll be in it next year.
He'll be four next year and he can play. And
I'm like, how the hell is he gonna play basketball?
The basketball's three sizes, it's too big for.
Speaker 11 (14:49):
Him, Like, is it it's a women's ball.
Speaker 14 (14:51):
Probably it's like a twenty seven and a half inch
youth ball. I don't know that's women.
Speaker 11 (14:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 15 (14:55):
Yeah, that's where we're at. We got a game this
coming weekend. We got two games left, man, We got
to turn this season around. Finish five hundred. That's what
we're hoping for. To go three and three in our
first season would be a huge success. And you said
it wraps up win in two weeks. Here's what you
can hope. That'll be perfect. He goes right into March madness.
Then this stuff with Keith with kid, I'm gonna make
poster boards. You bring the march madness to the house.
(15:17):
The kids get into it. It invigorates them, just like
Lebron and Luca.
Speaker 11 (15:22):
Loving the game again. Maybe they get it. It all
just works together. Hopefully they keep that excitement. Then in
the offseason, this right now, you almost got to look
at it as a wash.
Speaker 14 (15:31):
No, we're still excited. We still have fun. I mean,
that's what we're trying to do.
Speaker 11 (15:36):
Like we played, I mean, I gotta tell you, I'm
shocked you guys are doing the score.
Speaker 14 (15:39):
Tell me how good this practice was. Yesterday I forgot
to tell you this.
Speaker 15 (15:42):
We played Duck Duck goosemies Duck Duck Goose basketball version.
So they dribble the ball around the circle. Another person
everybody in the circle has a ball Duck Duck duck goose,
and whoever gets hit goose has to start dribbling and
dribble around the circle and chase them around the circle
as they're dribbling.
Speaker 14 (16:01):
If they get back to their spot.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
It's really good. Boom dude, yees. So you had to
come up with the dumb ass stuff to keep them entertained.
You're not running plays and doing conditioning. These kids don't
need a condition at this age. There's two.
Speaker 14 (16:13):
They don't need conditioning because they got putty energy.
Speaker 11 (16:15):
These are the only two things I remember from basketball
at that age. You got to try one of them.
I'm just telling you. The one is where I told
you a kid needs to bark like a dog in
the middle of the lane, and then that distracts and
you run a play to the basket. But he just
gets on his knees and starts barking, and all the
other kids are looking and then boom, you be line
it to the right, get to the hoop, get a basket.
It works once. I'll do it.
Speaker 14 (16:35):
Okay, I'll do it this weekend.
Speaker 11 (16:37):
That's one thing. It Yes, you got to get a
kid just faking like their dog, going as loud as
they can so then kids look and then boom, then
you pass it. It works every time. The other thing
tell the kids to write down a mistake on a
piece of paper. Hey, what do you think you did wrong?
What do you think? This is what I remember from
four year old basketball. What did you do wrong? What'd
you do wrong? All the kids write down bad pass,
(16:57):
didn't make a basket? D d you take all you
put them in a coffee can you bring a lighter
with you? Light that bitch on fire? What is that day?
None of those matter? Okay, let's change it now. I
don't remember exactly how he outry.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Damn.
Speaker 14 (17:13):
That's pretty good, man.
Speaker 11 (17:13):
But they're all on fire.
Speaker 14 (17:14):
That's really good.
Speaker 11 (17:15):
And it's in a coffee can. So it's not gonna
start a fire in the basketball court. But it shocks
them all and you're like, because guess what, none of
those matter. They're all ashes.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Now.
Speaker 11 (17:23):
It's in the past. I remember from four years old, dude.
Speaker 14 (17:26):
So it's pretty legit.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
Dude.
Speaker 15 (17:29):
We're like, coach just started a fire and a coffee kid,
that's pretty good.
Speaker 11 (17:33):
It goes out on its own. You're not going to
start like a you know, gym fire.
Speaker 14 (17:37):
Okay, I like it, you guys.
Speaker 11 (17:39):
That's the type of stuff. It's something that they're going
to remember.
Speaker 15 (17:41):
Of value, right, yes, get their attention, all right, Well,
happy Wednesday, everybody.
Speaker 14 (17:46):
We're out of here. I mean, no football to talk about.
Speaker 11 (17:49):
I mean, coach started a fire at practice today in
a coffee can?
Speaker 15 (17:52):
What what what the Okay? The league calls me. Hey,
parents have been requesting to get off your team, saying
you're turning their kids into pyromania.
Speaker 11 (18:00):
I'm sorry, maybe you gotta throw I remember our coach too,
he had let a couple I don't need it was
an F but he'd definitely say a little S or
a D every once in a while. Okay, you let
us swear words, slip tournament. Come on, sorry kids for
saying that. Come on, just get them fired up. It's
something they're not expecting.
Speaker 14 (18:17):
I do like that, all right, anything else? You got
anything going on?
Speaker 11 (18:21):
No man, no bazer.
Speaker 7 (18:23):
Dude.
Speaker 11 (18:23):
They make her she's been working from home. She had
to commute. She said they commute in traffic hour and
a half.
Speaker 14 (18:30):
She had to commute.
Speaker 11 (18:31):
Yeah, they just they're doing a couple things in the office. Oh,
HiT's me up. Almost the same drive. My drive's twenty minutes.
Hers in traffic is an hour and a half. She goes,
it's brutal. I'm quitting tomorrow. I'm like, totally kidding. She's
not quitting, but she goes, Dude, this traffic is right,
This traffic is awful. And I'm like, yeah, it's pretty bad,
but working from home, you save yourself an hour and
(18:54):
a half on the front end and the back end.
Speaker 14 (18:55):
Yeah, that's three hours of your day.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Man.
Speaker 14 (18:56):
I just those people are sitting in traffic. That sucks
for them.
Speaker 16 (18:59):
But all right, cass up, little food for yourself life.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 12 (19:21):
It's pretty beautiful thing beautiful.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
For that for a little more exciting because.
Speaker 16 (19:28):
Said he can't you're kicking with fulling with Amy Brown.
Speaker 17 (19:34):
All right, let's talk about closure, because well, I think
this is something that we've likely all struggled with at
some point, like whether it's a breakup or a friendship
that fizzled or ended, or just any situation that never
fully has been resolved. It's really really hard to move
on without that final answer. And I will say, sometimes
(19:55):
we want to receive that final answer, but also sometimes
we want to give other people closure because we feel
like it will be good for them, when maybe that's
not necessarily our role. You may not have to provide that.
So that's a whole other thing to work through as well.
But I read something from psychologists Kavyat Shrivastov. Totally not
(20:16):
sure if I'm saying her name right, but I gave
it my best shot and it really hit close to home.
She said closure isn't about what the other person gives you.
It's about how you process what happened. Now, the main
reasons behind why we crave closure are pretty obvious. Obviously,
it helps us find peace after being hurt. It stops
(20:40):
us from just ruminating over it, obsessing over any answered
questions that we have. It helps us move forward without
lingering regrets of sorts. And pretty much closure is like
ceiling an emotional envelope. That's how I visualize it in
(21:01):
my head, like you're able to just close it shut
without it, you keep going into the envelope to reread
all the old stuff, the letters, the messages, and you
try to make it make sense and you can't. And
the hard truth about closure is sometimes we think that
it has to come from the other person, like we
(21:24):
need to hear them explain or apologize or or even
validate whatever it is that happened. But that's not always
going to happen again because they don't even owe it
to us. Now in some circumstances, yes, it's not a
blanket statement, but let's just say, for the sake of
this thing, it's never going to happen. You're not going
(21:47):
to get the closure, So then what what do you
do well. That's when you get stuck in the wide
trap and you're like, why did they do this?
Speaker 4 (21:53):
Was it me?
Speaker 17 (21:54):
What could I have done differently? How could I fix it?
And those types of questions will leave us spiraling forever.
So the key for us is to accept that we
don't need all the answers to move forward. And I
have had to practice this multiple times in my adult life,
(22:14):
and I wish I better understood this as a teen
and a young young adult as well, because the power
of acceptance is so good. And now that I know acceptance,
it just helps me. And I know that it could
sound like if you're accepting that you're just kind of
rolling over and being like, Okay, cool, you know this
horrible thing happened, and I'm fine with it. But that's
(22:34):
not what the acceptance part is. Acceptance just means that
you're not going to fight it. You're going to fight
what's happening. It means instead of obsessing over why something happened,
you focus on what you can do next. A little
mantra that I had in my back pocket for twenty twenty,
twenty twenty one, twenty twenty two, like I was using
(22:56):
this one a lot. I may not understand it, but
I can heal anyway. Because there was so much I
wasn't understanding and I didn't have answers to but I
knew I had the ability to heal anyway. Sometimes it
was hard for me to just move on. I didn't
like the idea of that, so I would think of
(23:19):
it more as like moving along or moving forward, Like
despite what was happening, I was going to move forward.
Sometimes I would move backwards, but at least I was moving.
It's a small shift from the word moving on to
moving forward, but for me it made a big difference.
It felt more practical and less forced. The energy is
(23:44):
a little bit different. I don't know, see if that
resonates with you, Like if you say I'm moving on
or I'm moving forward, there's different energy there. So then
comes the time where you'd have to really give yourself
closure Again, it's not coming from the other person, It
is coming from within you. At the end of the day,
finding closure is you choosing yourself because you're not going
(24:07):
to let those thoughts take up any more space rent
free in your brain. So one thing you need to do,
because who knows how long you've been thinking these thoughts.
I mean, some of you listening right now, I know
we're holding onto things from ten years ago and you
want closure and you have been wondering why for the
last ten years, or maybe it was just ten days ago. Well,
(24:29):
this is going to be awesome for you to be
reminded of this. I'm not saying anything new, by the way,
and I'm gathering a lot of different things that I
was taught over the last five years that I learned.
Some of this I picked up in alan On. That
is all about surrendering, releasing control. When you are stuck
in trying to figure out the why of what happened,
(24:51):
and you are stuck wanting closure from somebody else, this
is the opposite of surrendering. You have to focus on
what you can control, and you can't control that. So,
whether you've been trying to operate that way, like I said,
for ten years or ten days, pause and forgive yourself
for holding on for however long it was. Let go
(25:13):
of any resentment towards the person. You don't want to
carry that around, and then prioritize peace. If you are
waiting on that one last conversation or that one last explanation,
just know that you don't actually need it. Your piece
is within you. It's not dependent on what they do.
(25:33):
This is honestly one of those things like when I
was typing out what I wanted to say about this,
I'm like, oh, I need to email this to myself
so I can go back and read it when I
need it, or maybe I'll just pull this part of
the podcast and listen to it when I need it,
because I think we all crave closure, and we can
know that this is what we need to do to
(25:55):
let it go and not get all wrapped up in
that we need answers from somebody else when we're trying
to force it.
Speaker 7 (26:02):
Now.
Speaker 17 (26:02):
If someone wants to volunteer that information, that's totally fine,
but just knowing that really change things for you.
Speaker 18 (26:09):
Fully.
Speaker 17 (26:11):
I know there are things that I have ended where
I believe the person would appreciate more closure, and at
the same time, I felt like what I was able
to share was enough.
Speaker 13 (26:47):
Carylne, she's a queen and talking and she getting really not.
Speaker 14 (26:54):
Afraid to feel so and so just let it flow.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
No one can do We have a care line, is
so Calne.
Speaker 18 (27:06):
It's so disgusting.
Speaker 10 (27:07):
But I have this hacking issue that I feel like
every single time before I do a podcast, I got
hack it up and it's like, okay, it's like a thing.
Speaker 18 (27:13):
And I've never met someone to join in with me before.
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Here we are best friends right off the job because
I feel like it just really took us to the
next level right away.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
What do you think, Well, I think being singers too.
Speaker 7 (27:23):
You know when your voice is like in the prime
and when you know you've got stuff stuck in there. Yes,
And the worst is on stage. Sometimes I'll take a
puffer before I go on stage. Was actually I've learned
is the worst thing.
Speaker 4 (27:35):
What's a puffer like abuterol? Like when you have asthma,
Oh okay and you're like spray.
Speaker 7 (27:41):
It's like a steroid in your throat okay, to help
you open your airwaists okay, and it actually gets all
your mucus going. So I'm hacking on stage while doesn't work. Yeah,
so I can't take that.
Speaker 10 (27:53):
What do you do when a hack attack comes on stage?
Speaker 4 (27:58):
My husband, who's my play he can talk in my ears.
He's like, you need to take another shot of your puffer.
Come to the side of the stage after the second song.
Speaker 18 (28:07):
But now I know the puffer is the problem.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
Yeah, the puffers is a problem. So I just went
to the doctor.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
So I was this is not I'm not throwing names
out there, but I was hanging out with Shania Twain,
and I was.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Just like as a friend, No, I opened for her
and then I.
Speaker 18 (28:20):
Saw that and she like learned your song on stage
and y'all did like three part harmony.
Speaker 7 (28:23):
Crazy, like like best moment of my life so far
for sure, which.
Speaker 10 (28:27):
We'll circle back to the moment, but then let's talk
about the hanging out.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
We were hanging out.
Speaker 18 (28:31):
How do you hang out with Shania Twain?
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Well, she was on a three run date at this
festival in Newfoundland, which is like my family lives there,
so it was Canada.
Speaker 18 (28:40):
Yeah, okay, so you're from Canada, Yes.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
From Canada, okay.
Speaker 7 (28:43):
And I got to meet her on stage because I
play with her.
Speaker 10 (28:47):
And then how did you get that opening spad just
because you're a badass? Oh, you were nominated for like
Canadian Artists of the Year. I mean you got stuff
going on all the all the Canadians, you were the
one female.
Speaker 7 (28:57):
This was my first nomination ever. I was actually really
surprised that I got it.
Speaker 10 (29:01):
So you're nominated for Female Hours a Year, Yeah, which,
like I awesome.
Speaker 7 (29:05):
I thought maybe I would get like new Artists or something,
but that straight to the top. But hanging out with Shanaia,
I was like, this is my moment to ask her random.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Shit and you did?
Speaker 11 (29:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Would you do?
Speaker 19 (29:18):
So?
Speaker 7 (29:18):
I asked her because she's a fellow Canadian. I asked
her about like her business manager. Is it a Canadian
or is it an American? Because they need to know
all the tax laws for both countries.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
What is it? She's like, you need a Canadian?
Speaker 7 (29:29):
Okay, So I did actually switch business managers okay to
a Canadian.
Speaker 4 (29:34):
Yeah, I got it. I literally listened to every single
thing she told me. What else I did?
Speaker 18 (29:37):
Can you share all the team?
Speaker 7 (29:39):
She told me to go on singular for asthma, so
I did, okay, which is a medication for them, I think, so,
I said, so, so I must have. And then I
got my puffer and then I got I'm on zero
tech allergy pills and uh acid reflux nexium.
Speaker 4 (29:57):
So I'm just taking all these things.
Speaker 7 (29:59):
And then she told me like this whole thing about
like not eating before your show, and she like lays
in the dark in her hotel all day and people
just bring her like purified food.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
And I'm like, well, I don't have people.
Speaker 7 (30:11):
Yeah, and you have her husband. I have my husband,
but he has like ten jobs come out. He's not
going to pure a like pure pure raid.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Sorry is it?
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Period, pure raid food.
Speaker 18 (30:22):
So she only wants it like much of like apple
sauce style.
Speaker 7 (30:25):
Yes, she does not chew food day of her show. Meanwhile,
I'm like, I eat McDonald's for every meal when I'm.
Speaker 12 (30:32):
On the road.
Speaker 18 (30:33):
Why does she not choose food because I guess just
want to her throat.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Yes, she doesn't want to have.
Speaker 7 (30:38):
She doesn't want to have she knows her body, I guess.
So I wrote it down, but I'm not at that
point yet. Like she brings her own ninja with her.
Speaker 18 (30:46):
Does she like do anything when she's laying in the dark,
like wash TV?
Speaker 4 (30:49):
No, she dark like meditation music all day all day.
Speaker 18 (30:54):
How do you do that all day?
Speaker 5 (30:55):
I know?
Speaker 7 (30:55):
And I explained to her, I'm like, I'm at the
point of my career where I'm flying in day up.
Potentially I'm driving all morning and all night. I haven't
slept for a week, haven't showered, and need to eat McDonald's.
So I'm not at that point yet, but.
Speaker 18 (31:08):
Like, how does someone lay all day without going bananas?
Speaker 9 (31:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 18 (31:13):
Man, that's amazing. She's put down too.
Speaker 7 (31:14):
Many art shows where she's she rips around stage like
she's running.
Speaker 10 (31:18):
She this is like the rebirth of Shanaya because I
feel like she kind of went silent for a little
while and then re emerged. Yes, and like, man did
she re emerge like with incredible costumes and I feel
like she like cuts on herself backstage before. I've seen
like documentaries or something where she's like the caution will
be I could be.
Speaker 18 (31:36):
Wrong, but like shell like get some scissors and like
change it.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
Up a little bit.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
And like, yeah, I've definitely watched all her documentaries and
read her book and because she's Canadian, I just know
everything about her. And she was like trying to she
was like explaining some stuff about her past life.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
I'm like, I.
Speaker 18 (31:50):
Know, you don't have to.
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Tell me I know everything about yet, but thanks.
Speaker 10 (31:54):
So you go like hung out hung out? Yeah, Well
she all like four am, so like how many hours?
Speaker 7 (32:00):
Well it was like after the show, so like midnight
before ish, and she was just chatting with you. Yeah,
and she was so chill. She drank a whole bottle
of champagne and I was just.
Speaker 18 (32:09):
Is she living her best life these days?
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 18 (32:11):
I feel like she's really in her like her best Stris.
Speaker 7 (32:13):
She's so cool and she like swore and she was
like super Canadian and like, you know, Canadian hillbilly vibes.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
Which is what I am.
Speaker 18 (32:19):
So did you all like get numbers?
Speaker 4 (32:21):
No? Okay, but she was like, I'll send you this stuff.
I'm like, how are you going to send me that?
Let's be honest.
Speaker 10 (32:29):
That's so cool because a lot of times, like megastars
like that don't hang out with people that like are
opening for them.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
And I've never yes, I usually don't even get to
meet the person there.
Speaker 18 (32:36):
Yeah, sometimes you don't even to me meet them.
Speaker 7 (32:38):
And the fact cause actually so I made that happen
because oh go girl. I heard that she doesn't meet
opener sometimes and her mean greets are not very big, okay,
So I was like, how can I meet you? And
I'm I'm literally opening for the queen and I need
to meet her. So I side note when I play
the bagpipes.
Speaker 18 (32:56):
Oh I know, and I've got to I have so
many questions about bagpipes.
Speaker 7 (33:02):
So I was like, other than that, like, she's not
gonna care who I am, So what if I played
bagpipes to one of her songs?
Speaker 4 (33:08):
So you learned it?
Speaker 7 (33:09):
So that morning in the hotel, I learned any Man
of Mine on bagpipes.
Speaker 4 (33:13):
I have like my electric bagpipe.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
So I sent her manager a video of me playing
it and she was like, yeah, she loves it, so
should I approved. And then when I was about to
go on stage with her, I was like, you know,
do you guys play it in the same key like
I need to make They're like, no, you' you're not
really going to play it, Like she's just gonna talk
to you and you'll play it for like two seconds.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
You're not going to play with the band.
Speaker 7 (33:32):
I had in ears, but I didn't hear the count
in of them actually joining me. So I did the
beginning of any Man of Mine, and then the whole
band came in in a different key because I did
an album key, and so she talked to me in
my ear and she's like.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
That's the row gate.
Speaker 7 (33:46):
Go figure out what key we're in, Shan I did, yeah,
And I was like I specifically asked if you guys
played it in this key and they're like, no, don't
worry about it.
Speaker 8 (33:54):
Hey, it's Mike Dy and this week a Movie Mike's
Movie Podcast. Kelsey and I recently rewatched all a Harry
Potter movies. I reranked them from my least favorite to
my most favorite. We got into a big discussion and
heated debate on a death in the Harry Potter franchise
that I thought was a little bit overrated. So a
small spoiler warning. Even though the last movie came out
(34:16):
now over ten years ago, and I think if you
haven't seen any of the Harry Potter movies by this point,
you're probably not going to. But we do get into
all the details as far as the endings of the deaths,
because in order to do this episode, you have to
talk about it all. So here's just a little bit
of the episode, but be sure to check out the
entire thing on Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. At number four,
(34:39):
I have from twenty ten Deathly Hallow's Part one, directed
by David Yates. This one sets the stage and it
went up on my list.
Speaker 19 (34:47):
I was gonna say, you weren't the biggest deathly hell.
Speaker 8 (34:49):
No, and I think it's because when we do rewatch them,
we don't typically rewatch the last two, maybe because they
are heavier. Maybe it's because the conclusion of the story.
It's not one that I think, like, hey, let's put
that one on the way.
Speaker 19 (35:04):
Light, family friendly film.
Speaker 8 (35:05):
But the way we rewatched them all and where I
was able to see it build up towards the end
and like really find out the true story, I almost
feel like for the first time again because it's been
a while since we sat down and rewatched them all.
Speaker 19 (35:19):
Now, imagine like having to wait a year even though
I'd read the.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Book, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 8 (35:23):
Like I put myself in that position of when these
movies came out and thinking like going to a theater
and not knowing what was going to happen, even though
you probably read the book, you knew what was going
to happen, but that level of excitement had to be wild.
Speaker 19 (35:39):
Oh it was unmatched.
Speaker 8 (35:41):
So that one went up, and at number three, this
one also went up, and I put them together. It's
deathly Hollo's Part two from twenty eleven, the conclusion to
all of it. I don't remember the scene whenever Harry
finds out the whole story of how it all connects
and with Snape, Oh yeah, yeah. They go to the
big position of what does he dips his head in
(36:02):
like that water thing, like that fountain, and then he's
able to like do well.
Speaker 19 (36:08):
Harry dips his head in the water and sees he
puts like Snape's tears.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
That's what it was, his head that was sad.
Speaker 19 (36:17):
Sees all of Dumbledore telling Snape like you must be
the one to kill me, and how Snape, like all
along is tried to protect Harry and he wasn't the
bad guy. I remember reading that.
Speaker 4 (36:28):
And my mind was blown.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Life was changed.
Speaker 19 (36:31):
I was like, oh my god, he wasn't the bad
guy because in the books it's the same, Like you
think for six books that Snape hates Harry and that
he's responsible for Dumbledore's death. You think that and then
like you find out in the book truly changed me.
Speaker 8 (36:45):
And the fact that Voldemort has been a part of him,
like he lives inside of him, that whole connection of
when he what happened when he tried to kill him,
and it just for the first time I was able
to like really connect.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
It all and feel the gravity of it.
Speaker 8 (37:01):
And think, oh, like how well designed this story was
and all the pieces that ended up connecting. This is
the only movie franchise that I feel wraps up perfectly
because I guess because it is based on the book.
But there was nothing, no questions unanswered, there was no
emotions that you were lacking.
Speaker 19 (37:20):
It had it all Yeah, And then they give you
the scene in like twenty years when everyone's like married
and has their own kids going to.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
Out that hits you emotionally.
Speaker 8 (37:28):
I also love whenever they go into whatever that white
space is wherever he sees him again Dumbledore again and
he like you think he's dead, but then he's not
really dead. Then he comes back to live long Bottom
has his moment where he shines. So there are so
many great conclusions for different characters in this final movie
(37:52):
that I found myself loving it more and now I
feel like I could just go back and watch part
two and enjoy it and feel like, oh yeah, that
is one.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
Now I want to go back and rewatch. That is
why I have it.
Speaker 8 (38:02):
At number three now, but at number two has stayed
here pretty steadily. I'd say before Chamber of Secrets was
in that number two spot forever. I just love those
so much, but it's Prisoner of Azkaban came out in
two thousand and four. The inter we've watched this one,
I feel like the most.
Speaker 19 (38:21):
Because we've seen it anytime it's on TV. And then
we did one of our outdoor movie nights. They showed
that one.
Speaker 8 (38:28):
And this one. It's pretty It has a lot of
vivid memories. Obviously the introduction of serious.
Speaker 19 (38:33):
Black Hermione has the like time travel thing. It's the
first one where they look more like great older they
don't look like tiny kids.
Speaker 8 (38:42):
There are streat children in the first two, but this
one they get older.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
And it starts to get a little darker.
Speaker 11 (38:49):
The tone.
Speaker 8 (38:50):
The bus scene at the beginning, yes, which I think
is the most iconic, one of the most iconic things
out of all.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Of these movies, the double ducker bus.
Speaker 8 (38:59):
That is very memorable and overall has just become one
that I feel is a really good centerpiece of the
entire story. And I think it's the fact that we
have rewatched it so much that it has great rewatchability.
It has crept up into my number two slot all right,
and at number one. Sorcerer's Stone two thousand and one,
(39:21):
Chris Columbus I just feel that this one embodies everything.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
That I love about Harry Potter.
Speaker 12 (39:26):
I had it on VHS.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
That is amazing.
Speaker 8 (39:29):
I wish, but it's I hate to pick the first
one in a franchise because which you don't normally I
don't because I feel like the first one is still
setting the stage, but this one sets the stags.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
The best of him not knowing is a wizard Haggard
Haggard coming. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (39:50):
The best line, that whole interaction with all them trying
to get the notes to him, the mail to him
post doesn't come on Sunday, him living beneath the stairs,
them leaving and then still finding them and him finding
out about the platform nine to.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
Three quarter like they're just is the best. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (40:09):
And it also the reason we associate these movies, at
least for us, with Christmas time is because there is
Christmas in this one, Happy Christmas Harry, and it just
has like that warm, cozy vibe that even though it's
not a Christmas movie. I think that's why anytime November
December roll around, I want to rewatch these movies. And
(40:31):
I also feel this was the first time that you're
introduced to not knowing whether Snape is a good or
a bad guy.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
You think he's the bad guy the entire time. You
think he's the bad guy for six movies.
Speaker 8 (40:41):
Yeah, but this is the one where like, oh, he's
the bad guy. He's doing it, he's the one messing
up the quidditge man.
Speaker 19 (40:45):
Oh yeah, yeah, when he's doing the curse and it
turns out it's Quirrel and Snape's like trying to counteract it,
and Hermione sets Snape's robes on fire.
Speaker 8 (40:54):
So I think nothing will ever knock this one out
of being my favorite Harry Potter movie. It has everything
I want from every single character, and to me, it
just feels the most magical and I feel kind of
like a kid again whenever you watched this movie.
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Hey guys, welcome back to Sunday Sampler. A bunch of
clips from the podcast this week, so maybe you want
to check it out. In the Vets Office with Doctor
Josie Morgan from The Bobby Bone Show came on to
talk about her pets adoption stories, how Remy became a
therapy animal, and so much more.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
So we're going to start with that.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Here's the clip of this week's in the Vets Office
with Doctor Josie.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
You're listening to In the Vets Office with Doctor Josie Horschak.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
Do they sleep in your bed with you? Remy does.
Speaker 5 (00:48):
As you just heard the little scuffle between them. Remy
doesn't really allow Hazel to come sleep in the bed.
Sometimes she will if she's so tired. She doesn't pay
attention because Hazel's a little sneaky. But yeah, Remy does.
Hazel would love to whenever she does, especially when I
go back home. They both sleep in the same bed together.
But for some reason at my house.
Speaker 6 (01:05):
It's really so when you travel back to your hometown,
they'll sleep in the same bed together.
Speaker 7 (01:10):
Ye.
Speaker 6 (01:10):
No, like we're not in our normal environment. We've got
a band together.
Speaker 5 (01:13):
It's kind of like that because my parents have three
dogs and they both kind of like like their space
and they like being a little independent, so I think
they choose to be together versus separate.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
On that that's totally fair. But then we go back
home and it's all thanks for.
Speaker 6 (01:26):
This week only we are on the same team.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
It's funny how that works.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
And when we get home, it's over.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
Are you about to tell me not to let her
sleep in the No?
Speaker 6 (01:34):
No, No, I'm definitely not. I feel like I'm like the
fear of bad news.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
No.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I have three dogs. Two of them sleep on the
floor because they just get hot at night. And then
my little ones like wrapped around my head.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
See, And I.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Don't I get it.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I know there's like, you know you sleep better or whatever.
I'm like, honestly, I don't know that I would sleep better.
I'd be like, where are you?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Why won't you cuddle me? I like having used a snuggle.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
I love to sleep with my little dog. Biggie is
his name.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
If his name is Biggie, he's a small dog.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
He's tiny.
Speaker 8 (02:01):
I know.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
His name when we adopted him was baby Bear, baby Bear,
and he only came to the name baby and my
husband was like, I'm not calling this dog baby. So
we called him Biggie because it sounds, you know, similar
to baby. Yeah, and he comes to Biggie though, he come,
oh yeah, he's totally Biggie is for sure his name now.
But no, like he's like my little space heater, and
(02:22):
he's so cuddly and that I'm all about. If you
want your pets to sleep in your bad with you,
I support you.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
You know.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
It's funny too when I'm on the couch hanging out
with both of them, Like Remy will be cuddled like
she's little spoon with me, and if I'm like kind
of turned it all, Hazel will be in between my
knees like back, and we're all just I'm just like, well,
we're here until one of you moves back.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
You're like, I am just gonna have to hold it
for the next twelve hours.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
That's exactly.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
Sometimes I will fall asleep on the couch if we're
all peacefully sleeping there, I'm like.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
I'm just gonna sleep on the couch to night best.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
There's no better feeling.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
There really isn't, And I know there will become a
day that I'm going to miss that. So I'm gonna
soak it up every time that I can.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
So, you're single. Have you ever dated to anyone that
didn't get along or like your pets?
Speaker 9 (03:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (03:04):
Yeah, really no, I didn't date them for very long.
That's what I don't know why I'm saying, really like
I asked the question.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
Yeah, no, it didn't last very long. That's honestly.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
One of my first questions before I even really start
to consider even going on a date with them, is
if they like animals.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
Because I am a massive animal lover.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I me and you're producer of this podcast, have had
this conversation I can't date a hunter, which is funny
because yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:27):
I just I can't.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
I could if it was like out of sight, out
of mind, you never bring it home. Yeah, but I
just know most hunters that's not the lifestyle. No, And
I just I love animals so much that if you don't,
we're just going to be vastly on different scales, and
you're also not going to understand me as a human.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Being one thousand percent. It's like in your DNA. I
feel like, if you're an animal lover and you know
all their values, like finances, children, all of that, of
course is super important, but like, if you don't like animals,
that is right up there.
Speaker 3 (03:56):
Oh yeah, and it's funny.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
I had I dated one guy and he oh yeah,
all kinds and red flags, but he was actually really
good to my animals. But something that's really important to
me is that I if I see a straight animal,
I am going to find a way to get it,
and I'm gonna get it to safety.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
That's just all my plans will be curtailed. I don't
care correct.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
And we were headed to dinner and I saw a dog.
I was like, pull over right now, like I'm gonna
go find out and he was like, no, we're not,
and we're gonna keep going. And I sobbed about this
dog I had never met in my life. But I
was like, this is not going to work for me.
And I remember like sitting in that car being like
this is so important to me that I can't overlook this.
(04:36):
We broke up for a multitude of other reasons, but
that was something that really stuck in my brain. For
future partners, Yeah, they have to be okay with this
part of who I am.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
I feel like you at the first state need to
be like would you or would you not stop on
the side of the road for a straight animal. Just
save us some time, Josie.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
There's also people that I've met who like purposely hit squirrels.
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Oh don't that Like I'm not kidding.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Like they'll purpose and they'll see or they'll see possums
or something. I'm like, stop, I don't what is that animal.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Doing to you?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
I'm calling nine one one on them.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
That's how I feel.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
Not not only am I not gonna date you, You're
going to jail. See that is horrible. Oh, the toothpaste
one's funny. The toothpase story is funny.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
What's this?
Speaker 3 (05:19):
So I did?
Speaker 5 (05:20):
I did dat a guy, and you know, I brushed
Remy's teeth every single night. Miss Hazel doesn't have to
have her teeth brush teeth, but Rammy gets her teeth
brush every night and it is with my toothpaste.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
So I never forget that this is something I have
to do.
Speaker 10 (05:33):
Right.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Well, I was dating a guy and we were at
the point of him he was staying over and he
had went into my wrathroom to brush his teeth and
he came out and he was like, oh, that toothpaste
is super weird. And I was like, what are you
talking about? I have coldgate? Like, why is it weird?
He's like in the green bottle and I was like,
can you show me which one you use? And he
comes out, I'm like, it literally says dog paste on
(05:57):
this bottle.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
You're like, you just brush your teeth with the dog's toothpaste.
Speaker 11 (06:02):
I did.
Speaker 6 (06:02):
And you may or may not be illiterate because it
says dog toothpaste.
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Oh, I guess says it Vet's best dog enzyme tooth face.
Speaker 6 (06:08):
Wait, that is disgusting. I they like put like chicken
flavor in there.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
Yeah. Yeah, that's why it tasted a little weird for
this poor guy. And I was like, I'm really sorry,
but that is not my toothpaste. And he's like, Noed,
what did you guys? Yeah, we didn't work out for
other reasons. But I'm I'm not sure if that did
or did not play a part in that. It's very
possible it did.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Friday Night Read mentioned that that was a jam, but
I believe if I'm correct, you wrote that I think
Lady A cut it but didn't put as single.
Speaker 9 (06:49):
Yeah, it was on the on the Night record.
Speaker 12 (06:51):
And then you asked, Hey, you guys put a single?
Do you care if I cut it and put it
as single? Is that true?
Speaker 13 (06:56):
I actually was, I mean it was uh yeah. Basically
I was playing a little show down in Birmingham and yeah,
I got the one of the guys at the label, Kevin,
came down and he came to the show and just
after I played Friday night, he pointed out me.
Speaker 9 (07:13):
He said, there's your single, and I'm like, lady, hey,
cut it, you know. From the stage.
Speaker 13 (07:18):
He goes in and put on the radio it's your single,
Thanks Kevin, Keith Wildhearts.
Speaker 12 (07:22):
Yeah, man, how'd that one go?
Speaker 9 (07:24):
Uh? This goes out to the gift? Is all of
the dreamers ready to fly?
Speaker 13 (07:30):
How like Whisper single that we were twenty I'm bringing
you cookies next time I have a song on the radio.
We we missed number one by twenty six spins Way. Yeah,
so it's my first and I'm fine with you that.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
You know why, because I talked to Jen Wayne. I
was on a golf course. Jen Wayne pulls up behind me.
We're playing golf. Jen Wayne, by the way, was a
professional tennis player again away one of the great, great
people too. And she pulls up behind me and she's
with Garth's lawyer, but she to her, that's not gard lawyer,
that's like her friend or I don't know. And I
(08:05):
only knew Gard' lawyer because he kind of got somebody
I knew out of some trouble.
Speaker 12 (08:08):
Not Garth, but somebody I knew out of some trouble.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
And I just met him because we had opened for
Garth in Faantville in the Razor Bake Stadium, and so
I met him and I went up to him and
I was like, hey, I just want to say thank
you because he contributed to something that was very very
beneficiar to me. It's very beneficial to me. I can
take that out there. And so but then I see
Jen and him coming up right and I'm like, what
(08:32):
the crap? And she's like yeah, she goes can you believe?
Because again, at this point, I wasn't like in the
music game, meaning I'm just creating content at this point,
but I don't even keep up. But I want to
know if like my friends are doing well where you know,
And she was like, we missed by twenty sixpence or
twenty whatever the number was, and then she told me
who beat it.
Speaker 12 (08:52):
I think there was like a multi.
Speaker 13 (08:53):
Way yeah, someone had it for multi w Yeah, I'm
kind of like, why you don't need a three, five,
seven week number one?
Speaker 9 (08:59):
Especially?
Speaker 12 (09:00):
Is that close? Like somebody opened the point that's a
good song.
Speaker 9 (09:03):
No, it worked out.
Speaker 13 (09:04):
I mean, all that being said, and the interesting thing,
people like, guy, you must have been upset, and I
was like, honestly, I wasn't. That's the first time I
ever had a song go top five and it didn't
go number one, like it was my first number two.
I'll take it, Yeah, you'll take it, but I'm no,
I'm serious. It was like reve just in relative thinking.
It was like, I've never had a number two? How
cool was that I could have had six number twos.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
You know, Keith Urban is the guy too that had
really instilled in me after saying it many times. What
you said earlier was because Keith to be like this
song not on air. We'd be talking and Keith and
I left pretty close. I've been over to you know,
we're Keith and I a friendly when he's here.
Speaker 12 (09:42):
He's not here a whole lot.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
But when he's here and he's like, dude, of my
biggest songs weren't number ones. He goes everybody thinks they
were because they were the everybody goes crazy for them,
but he's like number seven, number thirteen.
Speaker 9 (09:54):
The honest truth is it was too early. People are
catching up.
Speaker 13 (09:58):
And that being I will say if anybody he has
never seen Keith play live, you, I don't care what
genre and what zip code you thought you were born
into where your parents didn't want you listening to that
you listened to. Like whatever music you like, Keith Urban
will melt your face off. Also, his whole band is
like Frontmen and the and the cool thing is the
fact that he has Nathan and Jerry out there singing,
(10:20):
and that Keith isn't intimidated is because Keith is such
a rock star. He doesn't need to be intimidated anyway.
Go see Keith's live band. They're a freaking mind blowing.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
And he is such a it's where he gets thrown
around a lot. But he's such a perfectionist in that
I've been with and around him at times pre a
show and he's making sure the lights are in the
exact place the lights like before he does a show,
like he's going, okay, what you know, sometimes depending on
(10:51):
where you are when you are an artist, won't even
need to do their soundcheck. Let somebody go do it
for him. He ran a sound check, he ran some
new stuff, he wanted to test the lights. You wanted
to see with the light. Like, that's a guy I
who wants to make sure that the people get out
of it the money they put into it.
Speaker 13 (11:08):
Yeah, and he has the time to do it. I
remember in earlier years doing tours. You're just like, I
don't even have time for sound check because my day's
books so much.
Speaker 12 (11:18):
What do you mean having to like, dude, like, yeah.
Speaker 9 (11:20):
Just all kinds of random stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Read not that you out of songs you like, I'm
went whoa what no? Yeah, Rascal Flats, rewind Whisper sing
that one.
Speaker 13 (11:37):
Uh uh well, put the moon back up in the sky,
put a pull back into that sweet what oh.
Speaker 12 (11:44):
Yeah, No it's not it radio hear song that goes
like this. When I grow up, up up, I can
be whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
I won't won't won't You See I never said it
was that I said when I grow up, wasn't one
kids song?
Speaker 9 (11:59):
Right, kids songs before I even had kids.
Speaker 12 (12:02):
I just remember being so grateful Phil Barton.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
And what's what's really cool is every once while I
feel a play at a rite and people will tag me
in it. I just remember being so grateful because you
knew Phil and brought Phil over to the when I
lived downtown, and I was just so grateful that because dude,
you can write with anybody at any time.
Speaker 12 (12:16):
People do you have?
Speaker 9 (12:18):
But I was alright, any song ever.
Speaker 12 (12:20):
I was like, Eric, well don't say that, because it
made me feel less special. But then it's I was.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Like, He's like, all right with anybody, alright with every
everybody asked.
Speaker 12 (12:28):
Uh yeah, yeah. I was very great to.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Fool because I was like, and then Eric's like, let's
do that that that that. I remember it vividly and
it's awesome, and people still school still use that for
like assemblies.
Speaker 9 (12:41):
That's great.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
It get tagged at like the end of the school
year every year with schools and their kids like all
like the secondart of singing the whole song and so yeah,
that's it.
Speaker 12 (12:49):
You didn't know that digital read Yeah, see this guy's
singing back in school.
Speaker 11 (13:07):
We're gonna do it live? Oh the one, two, three?
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Sore losers?
Speaker 11 (13:15):
What up?
Speaker 14 (13:15):
Everybody?
Speaker 15 (13:16):
I am lunchbox. I know the most about sports, so
I'll give you the sports facts. My sports opinions, because
I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 11 (13:24):
It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful. A
lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully
soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
to be determined.
Speaker 15 (13:43):
Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this
week's episode of The Sore Losers.
Speaker 14 (13:50):
Let me show you the picture, right, it.
Speaker 11 (13:51):
Looks like the N one mixtape to her out there.
They've shown clips of basketball shorts from twenty years ago.
It wasn't it crazy? How bad they used to have them?
Oh my gosh, And now they all wear them right
up their cranks.
Speaker 14 (14:03):
Dude. You can't even see the kid's legs.
Speaker 15 (14:06):
Dude, I mean, he has a head, arms, and ankles,
that's all he has.
Speaker 14 (14:14):
Is that not hilarious?
Speaker 11 (14:17):
You almost got to get him another pair of shorts.
Speaker 14 (14:19):
I did. I got him another pair of black shorts. Yeah,
I mean it.
Speaker 11 (14:21):
Is so you me my mom, she could sew those things.
Speaker 14 (14:24):
I mean, look at that. I mean it socks. It's
his socks. You don't even see any skin.
Speaker 11 (14:29):
He does look like a baller though.
Speaker 14 (14:30):
He does look like a baller.
Speaker 11 (14:32):
Dude, what's the little one? Dude just dick around on.
Speaker 15 (14:34):
The soide, dig's around on the sideline with his basketball
and cries because he can't go in the game.
Speaker 11 (14:38):
He looks like he'd be a little bit more efficient
than Jessica.
Speaker 14 (14:41):
Yeah, he's ready, he'll he'll be in it next year.
He'll be four next year and he can play. And
I'm like, how the hell is he gonna play basketball?
The basketball's three sizes, it's too big for.
Speaker 11 (14:49):
Him, Like, is it it's a women's ball.
Speaker 14 (14:51):
Probably it's like a twenty seven and a half inch
youth ball. I don't know that's women.
Speaker 11 (14:55):
Yeah.
Speaker 15 (14:55):
Yeah, that's where we're at. We got a game this
coming weekend. We got two games left, man, We got
to turn this season around. Finish five hundred. That's what
we're hoping for. To go three and three in our
first season would be a huge success. And you said
it wraps up win in two weeks. Here's what you
can hope. That'll be perfect. He goes right into March madness.
Then this stuff with Keith with kid, I'm gonna make
poster boards. You bring the march madness to the house.
(15:17):
The kids get into it. It invigorates them, just like
Lebron and Luca.
Speaker 11 (15:22):
Loving the game again. Maybe they get it. It all
just works together. Hopefully they keep that excitement. Then in
the offseason, this right now, you almost got to look
at it as a wash.
Speaker 14 (15:31):
No, we're still excited. We still have fun. I mean,
that's what we're trying to do.
Speaker 11 (15:36):
Like we played, I mean, I gotta tell you, I'm
shocked you guys are doing the score.
Speaker 14 (15:39):
Tell me how good this practice was. Yesterday I forgot
to tell you this.
Speaker 15 (15:42):
We played Duck Duck goosemies Duck Duck Goose basketball version.
So they dribble the ball around the circle. Another person
everybody in the circle has a ball Duck Duck duck goose,
and whoever gets hit goose has to start dribbling and
dribble around the circle and chase them around the circle
as they're dribbling.
Speaker 14 (16:01):
If they get back to their spot.
Speaker 11 (16:02):
It's really good. Boom dude, yees. So you had to
come up with the dumb ass stuff to keep them entertained.
You're not running plays and doing conditioning. These kids don't
need a condition at this age. There's two.
Speaker 14 (16:13):
They don't need conditioning because they got putty energy.
Speaker 11 (16:15):
These are the only two things I remember from basketball
at that age. You got to try one of them.
I'm just telling you. The one is where I told
you a kid needs to bark like a dog in
the middle of the lane, and then that distracts and
you run a play to the basket. But he just
gets on his knees and starts barking, and all the
other kids are looking and then boom, you be line
it to the right, get to the hoop, get a basket.
It works once. I'll do it.
Speaker 14 (16:35):
Okay, I'll do it this weekend.
Speaker 11 (16:37):
That's one thing. It Yes, you got to get a
kid just faking like their dog, going as loud as
they can so then kids look and then boom, then
you pass it. It works every time. The other thing
tell the kids to write down a mistake on a
piece of paper. Hey, what do you think you did wrong?
What do you think? This is what I remember from
four year old basketball. What did you do wrong? What'd
you do wrong? All the kids write down bad pass,
(16:57):
didn't make a basket? D d you take all you
put them in a coffee can you bring a lighter
with you? Light that bitch on fire? What is that day?
None of those matter? Okay, let's change it now. I
don't remember exactly how he outry.
Speaker 1 (17:12):
Damn.
Speaker 14 (17:13):
That's pretty good, man.
Speaker 11 (17:13):
But they're all on fire.
Speaker 14 (17:14):
That's really good.
Speaker 11 (17:15):
And it's in a coffee can. So it's not gonna
start a fire in the basketball court. But it shocks
them all and you're like, because guess what, none of
those matter. They're all ashes.
Speaker 1 (17:22):
Now.
Speaker 11 (17:23):
It's in the past. I remember from four years old, dude.
Speaker 14 (17:26):
So it's pretty legit.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
Dude.
Speaker 15 (17:29):
We're like, coach just started a fire and a coffee kid,
that's pretty good.
Speaker 11 (17:33):
It goes out on its own. You're not going to
start like a you know, gym fire.
Speaker 14 (17:37):
Okay, I like it, you guys.
Speaker 11 (17:39):
That's the type of stuff. It's something that they're going
to remember.
Speaker 15 (17:41):
Of value, right, yes, get their attention, all right, Well,
happy Wednesday, everybody.
Speaker 14 (17:46):
We're out of here. I mean, no football to talk about.
Speaker 11 (17:49):
I mean, coach started a fire at practice today in
a coffee can?
Speaker 15 (17:52):
What what what the Okay? The league calls me. Hey,
parents have been requesting to get off your team, saying
you're turning their kids into pyromania.
Speaker 11 (18:00):
I'm sorry, maybe you gotta throw I remember our coach too,
he had let a couple I don't need it was
an F but he'd definitely say a little S or
a D every once in a while. Okay, you let
us swear words, slip tournament. Come on, sorry kids for
saying that. Come on, just get them fired up. It's
something they're not expecting.
Speaker 14 (18:17):
I do like that, all right, anything else? You got
anything going on?
Speaker 11 (18:21):
No man, no bazer.
Speaker 7 (18:23):
Dude.
Speaker 11 (18:23):
They make her she's been working from home. She had
to commute. She said they commute in traffic hour and
a half.
Speaker 14 (18:30):
She had to commute.
Speaker 11 (18:31):
Yeah, they just they're doing a couple things in the office. Oh,
HiT's me up. Almost the same drive. My drive's twenty minutes.
Hers in traffic is an hour and a half. She goes,
it's brutal. I'm quitting tomorrow. I'm like, totally kidding. She's
not quitting, but she goes, Dude, this traffic is right,
This traffic is awful. And I'm like, yeah, it's pretty bad,
but working from home, you save yourself an hour and
(18:54):
a half on the front end and the back end.
Speaker 14 (18:55):
Yeah, that's three hours of your day.
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Man.
Speaker 14 (18:56):
I just those people are sitting in traffic. That sucks
for them.
Speaker 16 (18:59):
But all right, cass up, little food for yourself life.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Oh it's pretty bad.
Speaker 12 (19:21):
It's pretty beautiful thing beautiful.
Speaker 4 (19:23):
For that for a little more exciting because.
Speaker 16 (19:28):
Said he can't you're kicking with fulling with Amy Brown.
Speaker 17 (19:34):
All right, let's talk about closure, because well, I think
this is something that we've likely all struggled with at
some point, like whether it's a breakup or a friendship
that fizzled or ended, or just any situation that never
fully has been resolved. It's really really hard to move
on without that final answer. And I will say, sometimes
(19:55):
we want to receive that final answer, but also sometimes
we want to give other people closure because we feel
like it will be good for them, when maybe that's
not necessarily our role. You may not have to provide that.
So that's a whole other thing to work through as well.
But I read something from psychologists Kavyat Shrivastov. Totally not
(20:16):
sure if I'm saying her name right, but I gave
it my best shot and it really hit close to home.
She said closure isn't about what the other person gives you.
It's about how you process what happened. Now, the main
reasons behind why we crave closure are pretty obvious. Obviously,
it helps us find peace after being hurt. It stops
(20:40):
us from just ruminating over it, obsessing over any answered
questions that we have. It helps us move forward without
lingering regrets of sorts. And pretty much closure is like
ceiling an emotional envelope. That's how I visualize it in
(21:01):
my head, like you're able to just close it shut
without it, you keep going into the envelope to reread
all the old stuff, the letters, the messages, and you
try to make it make sense and you can't. And
the hard truth about closure is sometimes we think that
it has to come from the other person, like we
(21:24):
need to hear them explain or apologize or or even
validate whatever it is that happened. But that's not always
going to happen again because they don't even owe it
to us. Now in some circumstances, yes, it's not a
blanket statement, but let's just say, for the sake of
this thing, it's never going to happen. You're not going
(21:47):
to get the closure, So then what what do you
do well. That's when you get stuck in the wide
trap and you're like, why did they do this?
Speaker 4 (21:53):
Was it me?
Speaker 17 (21:54):
What could I have done differently? How could I fix it?
And those types of questions will leave us spiraling forever.
So the key for us is to accept that we
don't need all the answers to move forward. And I
have had to practice this multiple times in my adult life,
(22:14):
and I wish I better understood this as a teen
and a young young adult as well, because the power
of acceptance is so good. And now that I know acceptance,
it just helps me. And I know that it could
sound like if you're accepting that you're just kind of
rolling over and being like, Okay, cool, you know this
horrible thing happened, and I'm fine with it. But that's
(22:34):
not what the acceptance part is. Acceptance just means that
you're not going to fight it. You're going to fight
what's happening. It means instead of obsessing over why something happened,
you focus on what you can do next. A little
mantra that I had in my back pocket for twenty twenty,
twenty twenty one, twenty twenty two, like I was using
(22:56):
this one a lot. I may not understand it, but
I can heal anyway. Because there was so much I
wasn't understanding and I didn't have answers to but I
knew I had the ability to heal anyway. Sometimes it
was hard for me to just move on. I didn't
like the idea of that, so I would think of
(23:19):
it more as like moving along or moving forward, Like
despite what was happening, I was going to move forward.
Sometimes I would move backwards, but at least I was moving.
It's a small shift from the word moving on to
moving forward, but for me it made a big difference.
It felt more practical and less forced. The energy is
(23:44):
a little bit different. I don't know, see if that
resonates with you, Like if you say I'm moving on
or I'm moving forward, there's different energy there. So then
comes the time where you'd have to really give yourself
closure Again, it's not coming from the other person, It
is coming from within you. At the end of the day,
finding closure is you choosing yourself because you're not going
(24:07):
to let those thoughts take up any more space rent
free in your brain. So one thing you need to do,
because who knows how long you've been thinking these thoughts.
I mean, some of you listening right now, I know
we're holding onto things from ten years ago and you
want closure and you have been wondering why for the
last ten years, or maybe it was just ten days ago. Well,
(24:29):
this is going to be awesome for you to be
reminded of this. I'm not saying anything new, by the way,
and I'm gathering a lot of different things that I
was taught over the last five years that I learned.
Some of this I picked up in alan On. That
is all about surrendering, releasing control. When you are stuck
in trying to figure out the why of what happened,
(24:51):
and you are stuck wanting closure from somebody else, this
is the opposite of surrendering. You have to focus on
what you can control, and you can't control that. So,
whether you've been trying to operate that way, like I said,
for ten years or ten days, pause and forgive yourself
for holding on for however long it was. Let go
(25:13):
of any resentment towards the person. You don't want to
carry that around, and then prioritize peace. If you are
waiting on that one last conversation or that one last explanation,
just know that you don't actually need it. Your piece
is within you. It's not dependent on what they do.
(25:33):
This is honestly one of those things like when I
was typing out what I wanted to say about this,
I'm like, oh, I need to email this to myself
so I can go back and read it when I
need it, or maybe I'll just pull this part of
the podcast and listen to it when I need it,
because I think we all crave closure, and we can
know that this is what we need to do to
(25:55):
let it go and not get all wrapped up in
that we need answers from somebody else when we're trying
to force it.
Speaker 7 (26:02):
Now.
Speaker 17 (26:02):
If someone wants to volunteer that information, that's totally fine,
but just knowing that really change things for you.
Speaker 18 (26:09):
Fully.
Speaker 17 (26:11):
I know there are things that I have ended where
I believe the person would appreciate more closure, and at
the same time, I felt like what I was able
to share was enough.
Speaker 13 (26:47):
Carylne, she's a queen and talking and she getting really not.
Speaker 14 (26:54):
Afraid to feel so and so just let it flow.
Speaker 2 (26:58):
No one can do We have a care line, is
so Calne.
Speaker 18 (27:06):
It's so disgusting.
Speaker 10 (27:07):
But I have this hacking issue that I feel like
every single time before I do a podcast, I got
hack it up and it's like, okay, it's like a thing.
Speaker 18 (27:13):
And I've never met someone to join in with me before.
Speaker 7 (27:16):
Here we are best friends right off the job because
I feel like it just really took us to the
next level right away.
Speaker 4 (27:21):
What do you think, Well, I think being singers too.
Speaker 7 (27:23):
You know when your voice is like in the prime
and when you know you've got stuff stuck in there. Yes,
And the worst is on stage. Sometimes I'll take a
puffer before I go on stage. Was actually I've learned
is the worst thing.
Speaker 4 (27:35):
What's a puffer like abuterol? Like when you have asthma,
Oh okay and you're like spray.
Speaker 7 (27:41):
It's like a steroid in your throat okay, to help
you open your airwaists okay, and it actually gets all
your mucus going. So I'm hacking on stage while doesn't work. Yeah,
so I can't take that.
Speaker 10 (27:53):
What do you do when a hack attack comes on stage?
Speaker 4 (27:58):
My husband, who's my play he can talk in my ears.
He's like, you need to take another shot of your puffer.
Come to the side of the stage after the second song.
Speaker 18 (28:07):
But now I know the puffer is the problem.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
Yeah, the puffers is a problem. So I just went
to the doctor.
Speaker 7 (28:10):
So I was this is not I'm not throwing names
out there, but I was hanging out with Shania Twain,
and I was.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Just like as a friend, No, I opened for her
and then I.
Speaker 18 (28:20):
Saw that and she like learned your song on stage
and y'all did like three part harmony.
Speaker 7 (28:23):
Crazy, like like best moment of my life so far
for sure, which.
Speaker 10 (28:27):
We'll circle back to the moment, but then let's talk
about the hanging out.
Speaker 4 (28:30):
We were hanging out.
Speaker 18 (28:31):
How do you hang out with Shania Twain?
Speaker 7 (28:33):
Well, she was on a three run date at this
festival in Newfoundland, which is like my family lives there,
so it was Canada.
Speaker 18 (28:40):
Yeah, okay, so you're from Canada, Yes.
Speaker 4 (28:42):
From Canada, okay.
Speaker 7 (28:43):
And I got to meet her on stage because I
play with her.
Speaker 10 (28:47):
And then how did you get that opening spad just
because you're a badass? Oh, you were nominated for like
Canadian Artists of the Year. I mean you got stuff
going on all the all the Canadians, you were the
one female.
Speaker 7 (28:57):
This was my first nomination ever. I was actually really
surprised that I got it.
Speaker 10 (29:01):
So you're nominated for Female Hours a Year, Yeah, which,
like I awesome.
Speaker 7 (29:05):
I thought maybe I would get like new Artists or something,
but that straight to the top. But hanging out with Shanaia,
I was like, this is my moment to ask her random.
Speaker 4 (29:16):
Shit and you did?
Speaker 11 (29:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (29:17):
Would you do?
Speaker 19 (29:18):
So?
Speaker 7 (29:18):
I asked her because she's a fellow Canadian. I asked
her about like her business manager. Is it a Canadian
or is it an American? Because they need to know
all the tax laws for both countries.
Speaker 4 (29:28):
What is it? She's like, you need a Canadian?
Speaker 7 (29:29):
Okay, So I did actually switch business managers okay to
a Canadian.
Speaker 4 (29:34):
Yeah, I got it. I literally listened to every single
thing she told me. What else I did?
Speaker 18 (29:37):
Can you share all the team?
Speaker 7 (29:39):
She told me to go on singular for asthma, so
I did, okay, which is a medication for them, I think, so,
I said, so, so I must have. And then I
got my puffer and then I got I'm on zero
tech allergy pills and uh acid reflux nexium.
Speaker 4 (29:57):
So I'm just taking all these things.
Speaker 7 (29:59):
And then she told me like this whole thing about
like not eating before your show, and she like lays
in the dark in her hotel all day and people
just bring her like purified food.
Speaker 4 (30:09):
And I'm like, well, I don't have people.
Speaker 7 (30:11):
Yeah, and you have her husband. I have my husband,
but he has like ten jobs come out. He's not
going to pure a like pure pure raid.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
Sorry is it?
Speaker 2 (30:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (30:21):
Period, pure raid food.
Speaker 18 (30:22):
So she only wants it like much of like apple
sauce style.
Speaker 7 (30:25):
Yes, she does not chew food day of her show. Meanwhile,
I'm like, I eat McDonald's for every meal when I'm.
Speaker 12 (30:32):
On the road.
Speaker 18 (30:33):
Why does she not choose food because I guess just
want to her throat.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Yes, she doesn't want to have.
Speaker 7 (30:38):
She doesn't want to have she knows her body, I guess.
So I wrote it down, but I'm not at that
point yet. Like she brings her own ninja with her.
Speaker 18 (30:46):
Does she like do anything when she's laying in the dark,
like wash TV?
Speaker 4 (30:49):
No, she dark like meditation music all day all day.
Speaker 18 (30:54):
How do you do that all day?
Speaker 5 (30:55):
I know?
Speaker 7 (30:55):
And I explained to her, I'm like, I'm at the
point of my career where I'm flying in day up.
Potentially I'm driving all morning and all night. I haven't
slept for a week, haven't showered, and need to eat McDonald's.
So I'm not at that point yet, but.
Speaker 18 (31:08):
Like, how does someone lay all day without going bananas?
Speaker 9 (31:12):
Yeah?
Speaker 18 (31:13):
Man, that's amazing. She's put down too.
Speaker 7 (31:14):
Many art shows where she's she rips around stage like
she's running.
Speaker 10 (31:18):
She this is like the rebirth of Shanaya because I
feel like she kind of went silent for a little
while and then re emerged. Yes, and like, man did
she re emerge like with incredible costumes and I feel
like she like cuts on herself backstage before. I've seen
like documentaries or something where she's like the caution will
be I could be.
Speaker 18 (31:36):
Wrong, but like shell like get some scissors and like
change it.
Speaker 4 (31:38):
Up a little bit.
Speaker 7 (31:39):
And like, yeah, I've definitely watched all her documentaries and
read her book and because she's Canadian, I just know
everything about her. And she was like trying to she
was like explaining some stuff about her past life.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
I'm like, I.
Speaker 18 (31:50):
Know, you don't have to.
Speaker 4 (31:52):
Tell me I know everything about yet, but thanks.
Speaker 10 (31:54):
So you go like hung out hung out? Yeah, Well
she all like four am, so like how many hours?
Speaker 7 (32:00):
Well it was like after the show, so like midnight
before ish, and she was just chatting with you. Yeah,
and she was so chill. She drank a whole bottle
of champagne and I was just.
Speaker 18 (32:09):
Is she living her best life these days?
Speaker 4 (32:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 18 (32:11):
I feel like she's really in her like her best Stris.
Speaker 7 (32:13):
She's so cool and she like swore and she was
like super Canadian and like, you know, Canadian hillbilly vibes.
Speaker 4 (32:18):
Which is what I am.
Speaker 18 (32:19):
So did you all like get numbers?
Speaker 4 (32:21):
No? Okay, but she was like, I'll send you this stuff.
I'm like, how are you going to send me that?
Let's be honest.
Speaker 10 (32:29):
That's so cool because a lot of times, like megastars
like that don't hang out with people that like are
opening for them.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
And I've never yes, I usually don't even get to
meet the person there.
Speaker 18 (32:36):
Yeah, sometimes you don't even to me meet them.
Speaker 7 (32:38):
And the fact cause actually so I made that happen
because oh go girl. I heard that she doesn't meet
opener sometimes and her mean greets are not very big, okay,
So I was like, how can I meet you? And
I'm I'm literally opening for the queen and I need
to meet her. So I side note when I play
the bagpipes.
Speaker 18 (32:56):
Oh I know, and I've got to I have so
many questions about bagpipes.
Speaker 7 (33:02):
So I was like, other than that, like, she's not
gonna care who I am, So what if I played
bagpipes to one of her songs?
Speaker 4 (33:08):
So you learned it?
Speaker 7 (33:09):
So that morning in the hotel, I learned any Man
of Mine on bagpipes.
Speaker 4 (33:13):
I have like my electric bagpipe.
Speaker 7 (33:15):
So I sent her manager a video of me playing
it and she was like, yeah, she loves it, so
should I approved. And then when I was about to
go on stage with her, I was like, you know,
do you guys play it in the same key like
I need to make They're like, no, you' you're not
really going to play it, Like she's just gonna talk
to you and you'll play it for like two seconds.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
You're not going to play with the band.
Speaker 7 (33:32):
I had in ears, but I didn't hear the count
in of them actually joining me. So I did the
beginning of any Man of Mine, and then the whole
band came in in a different key because I did
an album key, and so she talked to me in
my ear and she's like.
Speaker 2 (33:45):
That's the row gate.
Speaker 7 (33:46):
Go figure out what key we're in, Shan I did, yeah,
And I was like I specifically asked if you guys
played it in this key and they're like, no, don't
worry about it.
Speaker 8 (33:54):
Hey, it's Mike Dy and this week a Movie Mike's
Movie Podcast. Kelsey and I recently rewatched all a Harry
Potter movies. I reranked them from my least favorite to
my most favorite. We got into a big discussion and
heated debate on a death in the Harry Potter franchise
that I thought was a little bit overrated. So a
small spoiler warning. Even though the last movie came out
(34:16):
now over ten years ago, and I think if you
haven't seen any of the Harry Potter movies by this point,
you're probably not going to. But we do get into
all the details as far as the endings of the deaths,
because in order to do this episode, you have to
talk about it all. So here's just a little bit
of the episode, but be sure to check out the
entire thing on Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. At number four,
(34:39):
I have from twenty ten Deathly Hallow's Part one, directed
by David Yates. This one sets the stage and it
went up on my list.
Speaker 19 (34:47):
I was gonna say, you weren't the biggest deathly hell.
Speaker 8 (34:49):
No, and I think it's because when we do rewatch them,
we don't typically rewatch the last two, maybe because they
are heavier. Maybe it's because the conclusion of the story.
It's not one that I think, like, hey, let's put
that one on the way.
Speaker 19 (35:04):
Light, family friendly film.
Speaker 8 (35:05):
But the way we rewatched them all and where I
was able to see it build up towards the end
and like really find out the true story, I almost
feel like for the first time again because it's been
a while since we sat down and rewatched them all.
Speaker 19 (35:19):
Now, imagine like having to wait a year even though
I'd read the.
Speaker 2 (35:21):
Book, I couldn't do it.
Speaker 8 (35:23):
Like I put myself in that position of when these
movies came out and thinking like going to a theater
and not knowing what was going to happen, even though
you probably read the book, you knew what was going
to happen, but that level of excitement had to be wild.
Speaker 19 (35:39):
Oh it was unmatched.
Speaker 8 (35:41):
So that one went up, and at number three, this
one also went up, and I put them together. It's
deathly Hollo's Part two from twenty eleven, the conclusion to
all of it. I don't remember the scene whenever Harry
finds out the whole story of how it all connects
and with Snape, Oh yeah, yeah. They go to the
big position of what does he dips his head in
(36:02):
like that water thing, like that fountain, and then he's
able to like do well.
Speaker 19 (36:08):
Harry dips his head in the water and sees he
puts like Snape's tears.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
That's what it was, his head that was sad.
Speaker 19 (36:17):
Sees all of Dumbledore telling Snape like you must be
the one to kill me, and how Snape, like all
along is tried to protect Harry and he wasn't the
bad guy. I remember reading that.
Speaker 4 (36:28):
And my mind was blown.
Speaker 2 (36:30):
Life was changed.
Speaker 19 (36:31):
I was like, oh my god, he wasn't the bad
guy because in the books it's the same, Like you
think for six books that Snape hates Harry and that
he's responsible for Dumbledore's death. You think that and then
like you find out in the book truly changed me.
Speaker 8 (36:45):
And the fact that Voldemort has been a part of him,
like he lives inside of him, that whole connection of
when he what happened when he tried to kill him,
and it just for the first time I was able
to like really connect.
Speaker 2 (36:59):
It all and feel the gravity of it.
Speaker 8 (37:01):
And think, oh, like how well designed this story was
and all the pieces that ended up connecting. This is
the only movie franchise that I feel wraps up perfectly
because I guess because it is based on the book.
But there was nothing, no questions unanswered, there was no
emotions that you were lacking.
Speaker 19 (37:20):
It had it all Yeah, And then they give you
the scene in like twenty years when everyone's like married
and has their own kids going to.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
Out that hits you emotionally.
Speaker 8 (37:28):
I also love whenever they go into whatever that white
space is wherever he sees him again Dumbledore again and
he like you think he's dead, but then he's not
really dead. Then he comes back to live long Bottom
has his moment where he shines. So there are so
many great conclusions for different characters in this final movie
(37:52):
that I found myself loving it more and now I
feel like I could just go back and watch part
two and enjoy it and feel like, oh yeah, that
is one.
Speaker 2 (37:59):
Now I want to go back and rewatch. That is
why I have it.
Speaker 8 (38:02):
At number three now, but at number two has stayed
here pretty steadily. I'd say before Chamber of Secrets was
in that number two spot forever. I just love those
so much, but it's Prisoner of Azkaban came out in
two thousand and four. The inter we've watched this one,
I feel like the most.
Speaker 19 (38:21):
Because we've seen it anytime it's on TV. And then
we did one of our outdoor movie nights. They showed
that one.
Speaker 8 (38:28):
And this one. It's pretty It has a lot of
vivid memories. Obviously the introduction of serious.
Speaker 19 (38:33):
Black Hermione has the like time travel thing. It's the
first one where they look more like great older they
don't look like tiny kids.
Speaker 8 (38:42):
There are streat children in the first two, but this
one they get older.
Speaker 4 (38:46):
And it starts to get a little darker.
Speaker 11 (38:49):
The tone.
Speaker 8 (38:50):
The bus scene at the beginning, yes, which I think
is the most iconic, one of the most iconic things
out of all.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
Of these movies, the double ducker bus.
Speaker 8 (38:59):
That is very memorable and overall has just become one
that I feel is a really good centerpiece of the
entire story. And I think it's the fact that we
have rewatched it so much that it has great rewatchability.
It has crept up into my number two slot all right,
and at number one. Sorcerer's Stone two thousand and one,
(39:21):
Chris Columbus I just feel that this one embodies everything.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
That I love about Harry Potter.
Speaker 12 (39:26):
I had it on VHS.
Speaker 2 (39:27):
That is amazing.
Speaker 8 (39:29):
I wish, but it's I hate to pick the first
one in a franchise because which you don't normally I
don't because I feel like the first one is still
setting the stage, but this one sets the stags.
Speaker 2 (39:44):
The best of him not knowing is a wizard Haggard
Haggard coming. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (39:50):
The best line, that whole interaction with all them trying
to get the notes to him, the mail to him
post doesn't come on Sunday, him living beneath the stairs,
them leaving and then still finding them and him finding
out about the platform nine to.
Speaker 2 (40:06):
Three quarter like they're just is the best. Yeah.
Speaker 8 (40:09):
And it also the reason we associate these movies, at
least for us, with Christmas time is because there is
Christmas in this one, Happy Christmas Harry, and it just
has like that warm, cozy vibe that even though it's
not a Christmas movie. I think that's why anytime November
December roll around, I want to rewatch these movies. And
(40:31):
I also feel this was the first time that you're
introduced to not knowing whether Snape is a good or
a bad guy.
Speaker 2 (40:38):
You think he's the bad guy the entire time. You
think he's the bad guy for six movies.
Speaker 8 (40:41):
Yeah, but this is the one where like, oh, he's
the bad guy. He's doing it, he's the one messing
up the quidditge man.
Speaker 19 (40:45):
Oh yeah, yeah, when he's doing the curse and it
turns out it's Quirrel and Snape's like trying to counteract it,
and Hermione sets Snape's robes on fire.
Speaker 8 (40:54):
So I think nothing will ever knock this one out
of being my favorite Harry Potter movie. It has everything
I want from every single character, and to me, it
just feels the most magical and I feel kind of
like a kid again whenever you watched this movie.
Speaker 11 (41:19):
Thanks for listening to this week's Sunday Sampler.
Speaker 1 (41:21):
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