THURS: Bobby On Michigan Coach Being Fired And Detained By Police + Bobby Is 9 Days Sober + Bobby On His Wife Giving Birth + Day 1 Of Our St. Jude Radiothon!

Bobby talked about Head Football Coach Sherrone Moore who was fired by Michigan and detained by police. Bobby shares why and how he is 9 days sober. We also talked about the influencer who was arrested in another country doing something that she didn’t know was illegal there. Bobby talked about the conversation he had with his wife last night and had a suggestion of how they go about the baby delivery process. We also talked about Day 1 of our St. Jude Radiothon.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:05):
We got a lot of stuff to talk about. We
are today. We did on the radio show The Radiothon.
So if you want to be a partner in hope
with Saint Jude, we would love it. The phone numbers
one eight hundred seven nine to five eighteen hundred nineteen
bucks a month, we'd love it. That's not what we're
going to do primarily on the podcast, but just want
to say that upfront. Amy, did your algorithm feed you
the Michigan football story?

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Yes, it sure did.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
I didn't know if it was big enough to cross over.
Oh yeah, So Sharon Moore, the Michigan had football coaches
fired yesterday, which just in the sports world was big
news because of the timing of it, because the coaching carousel,
which is what they call it, has already happened, meaning
the biggest jobs open, coaches from big to mid schools
going to the biggest jobs, and they got to fill

(00:48):
those other jobs they just opened. And they call it
a karrousel because it's all these coaches shifting places. So
usually by now all those jobs are full and filled.
So they're like, sure Moore has been fired, Now he
only really got the job because the head coach that
wasn't Michigan went to coach the Chargers, but that head
coach Harbaugh at Michigan had gotten too a little trouble

(01:11):
for cheating, for stealing signs from the other sidelines. They
won a national championship. He now suspended like ten years
from coaching in college. Michigan's been the source of a
bit of scandal, nothing like what happened yesterday, though, So
Sharon Moore gets the job. He was on that staff
and he's had a pretty good couple of years, not
really to Michigan standards. They lost to Ohio State this
year for the first time in years, so I don't

(01:33):
think he was going to last there anyway. But that
has nothing to do with what we're about to talk about.
He gets fired, which is weird because all the coaches
that are possibly in the mix for a new job,
I've already got their job. So you realize something's up
and they say for cause. And if you're fired for cause,
you don't get the rest of your contract because that
means you did something that violated one of the terms.

(01:55):
That's not sucking at coaching. If you suck coaching and
you have a buy out, they have to pay you
all the rest of it. If they feel like you're
not doing your job good enough, that's not for cause.
And it started to say for cause, and then it
started to come out that they caught him having an
affair with a staffer. Now he's married with four kids.
I am close ished to this story because this happened

(02:18):
to me with my favorite team a decade ago, where
our head coach, Bobby Patrino got fired because he was
having an affair with the staffer and he had hired
her and given her a raise, and they cut him.
It is the motorcycle eve whore. He's got the big
neck race on. So I'm like, dang, he got patrinod.
So that starts to come out and they show who

(02:39):
she is and she's the daughter of a big NFL
scout and she was his like executive assistant and he
gave her a big raise, and they were showing like,
cause Michigan is a public school, so they were showing
like all the financial documents. And then the story started
to come out allegedly that like door Dash brought Plan
B to the office to drop it off and he

(03:01):
had her take it. Whoa And someone reported that and
it seems like people in Michigan knew for a while.
They were just trying to and if he'd have been
a real good coach. I'm going to tell you I
don't think they had fired him that. I think they
had covered it up, but they didn't. He ends up
getting fired and then we hear about it. Then last
night they're like, police have now arrested, shrown more arrested.

(03:24):
I don't think what he did was illegal. Turns out,
according to stories, allegedly he busted into his mistress's house,
who he, according to stories, allegedly had an abortion with
after he got her pregnant and threatened her life and
then held a knife to his throat.

Speaker 2 (03:42):
Oh big time.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
And his wife tracked him using the app because they
fought they wear am I at or follow him whatever
he is happen. My wife just apple. Cops got him
at a church. Yeah, and they're a church. That's where
they intercepted him.

Speaker 2 (03:57):
They said, but like he was Yeah, yeah, I thought.

Speaker 3 (04:05):
I when I read it, I was like, he went
to go pray man.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
That's crazy, hard crash out, hail Mary, I see you
with your double and Andre Hill Mary catch that. Yeah,
it's a crazy story. And what I was thinking was
I wonder if this got over to nonsports.

Speaker 2 (04:20):
It did, yeah, because also I follow people like what's
his name? No, I can't even think of his name,
but he's a.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
He's a sports no herbie saw. I guess no, because
he's down in the middle.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
You know, well like a lot of times emotional. So no,
not Tim Tobey Emmanuel. Yes, so so he you know.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
He's from Texas. Yes, he's from Texas.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
So I think I saw him do a whole breakdown
and then it popped up on a few different news
feed so I don't know that it was so much.
I think it was like actual people that I follow,
but they choosing to focus their energy on it because
it was such a big story, which he does sports often,
but he also does other stuff.

Speaker 1 (05:07):
Wild story.

Speaker 4 (05:08):
That's crazy because when I caught it, like at I
don't know, four o'clock, it was just that he'd gotten fied.
But man, the way everything unfold is goes on.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
But I mean, I was I'm like, okay, how does
such to get in the position he's in. He's an
intelligent man, Okay, I guess I'm assuming go ahead, I
would assume most head coaches like that, like, you you're smart,
you order Plan B to your school.

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Again, this is alleged allegedly, but the same people that
were tweeting about this were the ones that week ago
were saying something's coming and they wouldn't say exactly what
it was, and so it has kind of been known.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah, it's just sort of like, you know, may Fat
checked out.

Speaker 1 (05:50):
That for me, Mike, I saw it in like three
different places, but they're just.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
Like, Okay, no one's ever gonna know. I'm just gonna
door dash plan B to the university. I believe to
my office.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
I believe I saw on your Instagram story mine. Yeah,
I'm trying to remember the quote. It was like, you
don't go to a bar and ask for WD forty.

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Oh yeah, no, you don't go to the hardware store
shopping for bread, like if you need bread.

Speaker 1 (06:15):
In that Yeah.

Speaker 2 (06:16):
Yeah, it's yeah, yeah, Kat said she uses it a
lot in therapy for people to understand like sometimes you
have expectations of certain people for certain things, and it's
like you can't go to the hardware store and expect
to get bread.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Well, I think a very end of that fits in this,
because yeah, he's really smart at football. It doesn't mean
that the other parts of his life that he's got
it all figured out and he's not having struggles or.

Speaker 2 (06:38):
You know, I get it. And then and yeah, when you're.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
You want football, you go to that W forty.

Speaker 4 (06:45):
Yeah, I'm still kind of lost on the hardware store.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
You don't really give it.

Speaker 1 (06:49):
So remove, remove anything we're talking about. And just because
it's a great it's great. It's like I say, a
lot of times, you can't get mountain dew from a turnip.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
Yeah, oh that's a good one too.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
That's more of the Southern verse.

Speaker 2 (07:01):
So it's just in your expectations of people, like sometimes
you keep going like even if it's your partner, your wife,
your husband, your best friend, like they can't always offer
what you need. And if you keep going back to that,
well it causes resentment for no reason when that person
can't give you that. So she uses the analogy as

(07:22):
a therapist oftentimes, like if you're looking for bread, don't
go to the hardware store. If you're looking for bread,
you need to go to the grocery store. So that
might not be bread, is you fill that in with
whatever it is and the store is whatever you need,
and then you go to the appropriate person to fill that.
Like it might be your best friend is great at
offering X, y Z, and your husband can't give you that.

(07:43):
You know, got it?

Speaker 4 (07:45):
Yeah it's pretty good.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
Okay, it just happened.

Speaker 4 (07:47):
A bunch of different ones.

Speaker 2 (07:48):
It helps with proper boundaries in relationships and knowing the
capacity of what someone has to give you so that
you don't build a resentment.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
So I don't think you go to him for relationship
advice and how to have a happy keeping marriage.

Speaker 4 (08:00):
She got a question about coaching, You get you?

Speaker 1 (08:02):
Yeah, you do? You want to know how to run
a spread offense? Yeah, yes, so I bet I got Yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:08):
Yeah, that's terrible. He's got four kids. I just when
all this stuff gets so public. I don't know how
old his kids are, but.

Speaker 4 (08:16):
Yeah, no one really thinks about what about the chick.

Speaker 3 (08:18):
I mean, is this good for her?

Speaker 6 (08:20):
Like?

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Is she going to become famous because this? Or is
this bad fame?

Speaker 2 (08:23):
It depends on what if what she cares about.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, I think if there's fame, it's infamy a bit.
She probably just wants it to go away. Yeah, yeah,
it's it's it's bad news for all parties, and there
are clips of them standing by and again she was
his executive assistant, so obviously they're together a lot, but
there are clips of them like pregames, standing by each

(08:47):
other talking, and now people are finding every specific time
they were together on camera or walking. But again, that
job promotes them being together, but them being together promote
promoted her, you know.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
I mean she went from like fifty thousand, fifty thousand
to ninety thousand.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
And you can't do that. I mean, that's what Bobby
Petrino did the Arkansas coach. And what sucked is we
were so good. We had won ten and eleven games.
We were finally winning. It was awesome. I wanted him
to hide it and they didn't, and he left. Then
he came back his offensive coordinator, and then is wild man,
I'm sad about that.

Speaker 3 (09:23):
More than so she gets fired too, right.

Speaker 1 (09:26):
I'm sure. Yeah, I don't know for sure, but I'm sure.
She was the executive assistant to the head coach in
the Michigan Athletic Staff Directory. She joined the university in
twenty twenty one, working in on campus recruiting. Her salary
saw a significant increase from fifty eight to ninety thousand,
which fueled online speculation amid the scandal. She's a daughter
of Jeff Shiver, a veterans scout for the Chicago Bears.

(09:49):
So all I wanted to know is if that made
your timeline your story? What social media platform Instagram? Do
you do Twitter at all?

Speaker 2 (09:59):
Now?

Speaker 1 (10:00):
It's a it's a bad place, man, m I think
I'm like eight, eight or nine days sober now, like
you haven't gone. No, I don't check any out replies
at all. I don't see anything said to me. I
never check anything. I don't look at comments anywhere.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
See.

Speaker 2 (10:15):
I don't even know that it's bad over there because
I just don't go.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Good for you. You're not going in to Iran, so
you don't know how how.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
I mean, because I don't have a desire to go
to So.

Speaker 1 (10:31):
It's bad news. I like the for you part of
it for the most part. Although these social media companies
their job is to get engagement, and you know how
to get engagement create enrangement, and so they want to
do things not only give you what you're asking for,
but they also want to slide in little things that
trigger you as well, so you get upset. That's how
they stay alive. You getting upset and engaging with certain.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
Things that is good. Is it good for sports or
what news? Okay, see, because yeah, that's what. I don't
ever even really think about it unless you talk about it.
Or my boyfriend's on it a lot, but he must
be on it for news, news and sports because he's
not posting, he's just reading.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
Yeah, nine days sober, I believe Wow, which is hard
because I naturally go right to Matt replies, I want
to see what everybody has say about anything I said
or anything I've done. But I don't, and I've found
that I'm much happier. I don't go into Instagram comments
on my stuff, much happier. I don't look at anything.
But I told Mike we did a bobbycast. It's up,
I told Mike. I said, I think I'm going to

(11:30):
just dedicate like Tuesdays for days when I look.

Speaker 4 (11:35):
At stuff every social media.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Yeah, not just Twitter Tuesdays, not just social media, because
I look at social media and I go into other
people's comments, and it's so toxic in other people's comments
at times, and I'm like, man, I hope they don't
believe this stuff. And then I would look at mine,
and I'd just get so mad, and I'm like, why
can't I subscribe to what I tell other people? So
it was benefiting me none to look at them. It
was only detrimental to my mental health. To me wanted

(12:00):
to fight people. I fight people on Twitter all the time,
Like that's like the one that's like my fight club.
You go into a basement, get all your anger out.
Arkansas lose a football game, I just fight with somebody.
Call it a family.

Speaker 2 (12:13):
Oh see, I don't know. He just hasn't been that.
I don't. I don't experience negativity really. I mean I
watched a girl yesterday for like three minutes, uh, heat
up a potato in a microwave and then scoop a
hole in it and squash him cheese down in it
and then ate the potato like a sandwich. And I

(12:33):
watched her do the whole thing. I was like, what
is wrong with me? Like why did I just watch this?
And what? Well, well that's weird. First of all, I'm intrigued.
Now I kind of want to try because she acted
like this is the best snack known to man, and uh,
that's kind of where I am, you know, I like
it just to healthy place.

Speaker 4 (12:52):
I watched Polar Bears in Alaska. This guy's sitting in
his truck like live stream watching Polar Bears.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
Pretty crazy, that's a show.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
And Mike.

Speaker 1 (13:02):
I was at physical therapy and one of the assistants
to my physical therapist was talking about muck Bang.

Speaker 7 (13:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:09):
I knew all about it.

Speaker 8 (13:10):
Mmm.

Speaker 2 (13:11):
The people that eat the she do them or.

Speaker 1 (13:14):
She watches it. She watches them, but she was talking
about it. She goes like, you guys familiar with muck Bang.
And not only was I familiar and I knew what
it was, and I was the only one of like
the six people around because different people are getting worked on.
I said, what about the dude that lost all the
weight recorded all the videos ahead of time? And she
was like yeah, she said his name Nick Avocado. Yeah,
And then we talked.

Speaker 2 (13:32):
About does Nick Avocado do muck Bang?

Speaker 7 (13:34):
He did, and then he, I think maybe over a
year or two, lost a bunch of weight and then
posted all this stuff. Like Eric I just banked all
this stuff.

Speaker 1 (13:42):
So a lot of the food that he was eating,
he would post it, have it on a schedule and
it'd come out of a few days and would just
eat big dude. But what had happened was he had
recorded a bunch for like a year or so.

Speaker 7 (13:53):
Right, he'd go to like McDonald's, order the entire menu
and then eat it on camera.

Speaker 1 (13:57):
And then but he would as he was posting all videos,
he was actually losing weight, but you wouldn't see in
the videos because he had recorded so many ahead of time.
So just one day he comes back and he's like
one hundred pounds later. Oh wow, it's great.

Speaker 4 (14:09):
That sounds familiar.

Speaker 1 (14:10):
Yeah, we talked about long time ago. But I felt
pretty in the know because I was like mug bang.
Of course, who doesn't know mug bang. Everybody else is like,
what's muck bang? And I was like, I got no idea.

Speaker 2 (14:20):
Yeah, I get fed muck bang from time to time.
I had to google it. I saw the one.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
Good job muck bang. You get fed muck bang. You
don't even know what?

Speaker 6 (14:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (14:27):
Yeah, now I did it.

Speaker 1 (14:28):
I did it again.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
I knew the when I did tell Mary, but I
I had to google it. And at first it's like,
what is this?

Speaker 1 (14:37):
It feels like it's dirty, stony, Yes, because I felt.

Speaker 2 (14:39):
Because it was girls and I was like, is this something?

Speaker 1 (14:41):
The word bang is in and muk rhymes with you.

Speaker 2 (14:44):
Know, sexual thing.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Think about that. Yeah, imagine if just the f was changed.

Speaker 2 (14:49):
Yeah, Like I thought, this was like.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
That's the worst called yeah yeah yeah.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
And then I was like, oh, but this one girl
that I ended up watching for a while. I think
I went like twenty reels deep of her luck bang
and she would like.

Speaker 1 (15:05):
So you did it again? Deep? Oh my god?

Speaker 2 (15:10):
Why didn't mean to do that?

Speaker 7 (15:11):
Mart?

Speaker 1 (15:12):
Okay?

Speaker 2 (15:12):
So she would make these frozen candies and the way
her microphone was when she would buy into them, it
was very satisfying.

Speaker 4 (15:20):
The sound was.

Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah, it was like this crystallized candy. Do you know
what I'm talking about?

Speaker 8 (15:25):
Mine?

Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah? Did you see Bonnie Blue got arrested?

Speaker 7 (15:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Yeah, poor girl?

Speaker 2 (15:28):
Who's that?

Speaker 1 (15:29):
So she went to Bali, which I wouldn't have known
really where the country is, but it's Indonesia. And she
went to Bali and they were doing like a on
a bus. They were having sex with all these people.
She's the one that did like two hundred people on
h or something. I remember that.

Speaker 2 (15:42):
I know that I was I a thousand, Yeah, yeah,
I don't remember the number.

Speaker 1 (15:45):
Speaking of muck bang, it's called a bank bus, bang bus.
They get on the bus and that's a thing. Oh yeah,
but I.

Speaker 2 (15:51):
Just I know she doesn't want people feel bad for
I feel for her like something I don't like. She
thinks it's fine.

Speaker 1 (15:57):
But they came in. Why would you go to a
foreign country because she she's not in jail. They arrested her,
but they took her passport. So now she's like stuck
in Indonesia. And they confiscated like everything in the bus,
and it was like.

Speaker 4 (16:08):
They arrested her for being in the busy.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
Arrested her because there are certain countries you can't do
pornographic things, even in your own like Indonesia. I don't
know a lot about Indonesia. Sounds more like a college
team than it does a country, but you can't do that.
They arrested her and they're holding her in the country.

Speaker 3 (16:26):
Yeah, fifteen years maybe improved that to be held.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
I don't want to. It's what I'll tell you. A
funny thing is that, so the World Cup's coming to
North America. It's going to be Canada, United States, Mexico,
and so they're going to be summer next year. And
so they have a Pride match which is in Seattle,
and I believe that two teams playing the Pride Match
are Egypt and Iran, where you can't even be gay legally. Now,

(16:52):
the Pride Match was already determined that site in that time,
but then they do a random draw and the two
teams in the World Cup playing the Pride Match are
two teams or you can't even be gay legally.

Speaker 2 (17:01):
Sorry, why is it called the Pride Match?

Speaker 1 (17:03):
Well, it's like to promote unity, Okay, I didn't know
if there was.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
I didn't know Pride was for something totally separate in soccer,
like you know, like a pride.

Speaker 1 (17:12):
No, it's not, it's for what it's here.

Speaker 2 (17:14):
Now, it's a group of lions are called Yeah, so
I didn't know if it had a totally different meeting.
So this is for the celebration of equality, and it's.

Speaker 1 (17:23):
The two countries that celebrate it the least that actually
will put you in jail for it. Now, they didn't
plan it all this way. It's so funny that that's
what it is.

Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, that's weird.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
You think they would just like move it for.

Speaker 4 (17:36):
Something they selected and be like I'm going to select again, Like.

Speaker 1 (17:42):
The June twenty sixth match in Seattle was assigned to
Iran in Egypt, and it is the Pride Match the
World Cup. The two worst possible teams countries to play
in that hilarious. I'm big pride guy, so it's funny
to me that the two countries where it's illegal to
be gay or playing in the Pride Match?

Speaker 4 (18:03):
Is us going to be good for like the World Cad.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
You can ask lunchbox that.

Speaker 3 (18:07):
I mean, we should be all right.

Speaker 1 (18:08):
Our group is very weak. Yeah, that's we sure cheated.

Speaker 4 (18:11):
Oh our group that we're in, like the division or whatever.

Speaker 1 (18:14):
The group FIFA is very shady, so they were shady
for us for a change.

Speaker 4 (18:17):
Good.

Speaker 1 (18:17):
Yeah, have a very very weak and I don't know
much about I watched it. Wayne Gretzky can't read.

Speaker 3 (18:24):
He looked bad. Man he's old though, yeah, just and
he and he was such in a hurry, didn't understand.
He just kept growing balls, like wait, wait, wait, stop, man, stop,
we gotta explain, and he's like, oh, sorry, sorry, it's hilarious.

Speaker 1 (18:37):
So, okay, I think we're caught up on the stuff
I want to talking about. Well, sports that crosses over
into pop culture. Oh yeah, no, I'm a Bonnie.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
Blue I'm intrigued about her own sport.

Speaker 1 (18:47):
That is a sport, that is an endurance sport where
you do have to train your body, I.

Speaker 2 (18:53):
Mean in your mind somehow. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
They did confiscate a bunch of viagara from the bus.

Speaker 2 (19:00):
I'm not surprised.

Speaker 3 (19:01):
Did they take the bus?

Speaker 1 (19:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (19:04):
Did she was she aware of the.

Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, because somebody had warned her. I read the story.
There was another person was like, don't do that over there.
I don't know. There's so many places. If you're gonna
do something like that, you do where it's legal.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (19:17):
Man, fame so.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
Cool now, Like she's famous for this stuff. That's crazy.
She's making a lot of money.

Speaker 1 (19:24):
She's in jail yet. Yeah, they did arrest her. Yeah,
but they took her passport so she doesn't get to
come home.

Speaker 4 (19:32):
I have seen pictures of Bali. Bali is really pretty.

Speaker 1 (19:35):
Yeah. I don't know why. I know Bali. It feels
beachy because people go there.

Speaker 2 (19:39):
You maybe see like I don't know, pops up in
my feet every once in a while, Like people go
there to what's it find themselves?

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Bali even Indonesia or is it just near Indonesia?

Speaker 2 (19:51):
I thought it was part of it.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
But maybe again the province of Indonesia.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
Oh yeah, that's it. Province.

Speaker 1 (19:57):
That sounds like a fancy I don't what other countries
are near Indonesia, Singapore, Singapore.

Speaker 7 (20:05):
It's above Australia, right by the Philippines, kind of below Thailand.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
India. Okay, yeah, I never am over there, remember that
part of the world. I mean, I've been to Australia,
but I never really just stopped by. Is there no
opportunity for me just to stop by right around the room? Maybe?

Speaker 9 (20:21):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (20:22):
Man, hold on, sorry, dang, no, I didn't write it now. Okay.

Speaker 9 (20:27):
There was a man who got arrested because he sent
something a little strange through a bank tube. Here's want
to guess.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
What he made.

Speaker 4 (20:36):
I mean, it could be anything, you know.

Speaker 9 (20:38):
I'm talking about one of those twoes when you go
through the drive throughout a bank and you can send
it shoots it straight up?

Speaker 1 (20:42):
Is it sexual in nature?

Speaker 9 (20:44):
Not sexual?

Speaker 8 (20:45):
No?

Speaker 4 (20:47):
Hoop, I'm gonna guess like a fire firework, firecracker.

Speaker 1 (20:53):
It'd be terrible, but it'd be like you. I understand
why people would think that was funny.

Speaker 4 (20:56):
If it didn't hurt any want to be funny, what
is it.

Speaker 9 (20:58):
A bag of crystal meth?

Speaker 1 (21:00):
We accidentally sent it to us? Yeah, you don't send
that off on purpose? Oops.

Speaker 9 (21:03):
Yeah, yeah, he sent it through and they believe he
was also under the influence at the time of doing this,
So you sent it in there thinking he was sending money.

Speaker 4 (21:12):
But like, hold on, So if it's an accident, right,
like you accidentally put your crystal meth in there, it
goes in the bank and that you're like, oh crap,
I hit sent Can you just tell the teller, like, hey,
can you send that back real quick? That was an accident.

Speaker 1 (21:24):
Yeah, it's really you can send it back, but they
don't have to and they're probably going to call the cops. Wow,
we can't even have it.

Speaker 3 (21:29):
But the teller, like what is what you call the
Just send it back and let him be, leave him alone,
let him do his meth.

Speaker 4 (21:36):
I will going to say all that, but I mean, like.

Speaker 1 (21:38):
It's like that the teller situation could happen, and I'm
sure it has happened. If people actually put their weed
in there or whatever it is, or they're gun that
happens anything illegal, Sure that can happen, And they easily
could have sent it back and said nothing of it.
That person chose because it is illegal to call the cops.
And then also if they're on camera and they see it,
and yeah, let me, let me walk to a scenario

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that car crashes and kills somebody.

Speaker 4 (22:01):
Yes, they're going to go all the way back to
the bank.

Speaker 2 (22:03):
No. I was thinking, like, you have an opportunity to
intervene while this person's problems are not your problems. It's
like this could be the rock bottom that, like Bobby's saying,
save someone else's life, or gets this person the help
they need, or.

Speaker 1 (22:16):
Well, I was also saying, like you're you could be
on the hook if you purposefully put it back in
and then he kills somebody. Oh, you would be on
the hook if you purposefully gave him his drugs back
and then he's so high that he crashed into somebody
and somehow that foot that the security footage of you
pulling it.

Speaker 2 (22:30):
Of course, Oh, I felt like your conscience might be well,
that would be too, but but I didn't know.

Speaker 4 (22:34):
Legally, maybe I feel like you can easily be like, oh,
I didn't know what it was, I just give it
back because.

Speaker 1 (22:38):
He asked for it. You could plead ignorance, true ignorance.
That's what I.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Mean. I've never seen math.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
I thought you're gonna say time, all right, Amy, you're up.

Speaker 2 (22:50):
So the highest form of intelligence isn't logic, speed or memory.
It's something called metacognition, and it's when your brain can
literally observe what is happening in correct errors in real time.
Like let me give you an example, because I think
that we all this would be our high intelligence. Okay,
Like if you do something and then you pause and
say and you think to yourself, wait, why did I react?

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Like that? That is real time awareness, And this neuroscientist
is saying that that's the highest form of intelligence.

Speaker 4 (23:20):
So I'm curiously has that all the time? Dude?

Speaker 2 (23:23):
Like who has that? Like if you're behaving a certain
way and you're like wait a second, or you react
to someone, you're like, oh, why did I do that?

Speaker 1 (23:29):
I'll at Eddie go first as he's screaming that he's
has had a superior intelligence.

Speaker 4 (23:33):
I do it all the time, Like I'll say something
even on the show and be like why, Well.

Speaker 1 (23:36):
That's a different action. That's you having like intelligence, Now,
that's you having remorse and regret for something.

Speaker 4 (23:42):
Stupid, you say that's that's not the same.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
Like in the early part of a crash out, we
talked about crash out, so I use this as example
where you have awareness that you are crashing out and
you're able to stop that crash out even though every
part of you is saying continue the crash out. And
part of what a crashout is is the inability to
stop the crash out because your hormones, you're emotionally, you're tired,
everything is off for whatever reason. So to me, what

(24:06):
I hear is when you start the it's not even
stopping before it happens. I think when you start, because
we at times do that, if you can have awareness
of it when it's such an unaware area that you're
doing it, it's sort of.

Speaker 2 (24:20):
Like when you might be in that like Bobby's using
crash out, but also like you're in the middle of
sort of flipping to you know, sometimes you're acting rational
and then you flip to like not rational, maybe if
you're having an argument.

Speaker 4 (24:31):
With your wife, yeah, or the kids.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
Or you're mad at the kids, yes, and you I've
been working.

Speaker 4 (24:37):
On that one a lot, so yeah, am I working
on my intelligence.

Speaker 1 (24:39):
But like in the early part of it. You're able
to stop it, not feel sorry for it after it
or not that.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
And you're able to recognize ooh okay, I am I
am activated right now, I'm triggered. I am angry right now, like,
and you're labeling the feeling in real time instead of
like having a whole situation happen. Anyway. I just thought
it was interesting that, like, oh, oh okay, if we
could concentrate on that, like that helps our brain grow.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
Mine often happens in triggered moments, and sometimes I choose
to continue to be triggered, but.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
You're choosing it, yeah, and you're aware of it.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
Yeah. I often know when I'm triggered. I often know
right when the switch hits, and I'm like, should I
go forward or not? And most times I don't anymore,
sometimes I do. I think I have awareness of it though,
I told maybe you told my wife, I said, had
one hundred percent awareness? You said it on the show,
But then did you tell her?

Speaker 2 (25:28):
Yeah, we were talking about it.

Speaker 1 (25:29):
And you're one hundred percent aware, ha ha ha. And
I said, how did.

Speaker 3 (25:34):
You know that?

Speaker 1 (25:35):
That wasn't even a clip? No? No, she told me
in person, she goes, because Amy told me, you're one
hundred percent aware. I said, I am. I'm the most
aware of person I know.

Speaker 2 (25:41):
She goes, ha ha, She's probably the only one that
maybe knows sometimes where maybe you're not aware.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
I think she's not aware of how aware I am. Oh,
I can't keep up?

Speaker 2 (25:55):
Okay, is that what you told her?

Speaker 4 (25:57):
I mean it's pretty smart to say, like I can
choose I'm aware, but I choose to do what.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
I told her last night. I said, hey, when you
go into labor, can you not make it so much
about you?

Speaker 4 (26:09):
Oh boy, why did you do that? Like, why would
you say that.

Speaker 2 (26:15):
Right now? When that came out of your mouth where
you like, why am I this way? No?

Speaker 1 (26:19):
I literally was just trying to trigger her like to me,
that was funny. And she knows it immediately and then
just turns it back on me. She goes, yeah, it's
a good point, like what should we celebrate about you
while while the baby's you know, ripping out of me?
And I'm like, well, there are many things because this
is a both of us thing that we're both getting into.
I just don't want all the focus on you, like
I'm there and who knows how long, I'll be there

(26:40):
like my feet at her, like there are things that
I'm going through and so now it's just turned into
an Abbot Costello act. But yeah, she didn't really take
de bait. She doesn't think I'm very funny anymore anymore.
She can really predict everything I'm about to say before
I say it.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
That's marriage, dude.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Yeah, but it's not on the other because she makes
me laugh so hard. She's the funniest person I've ever met,
and she will make me laugh out of nowhere, like
she can hit me in places I do not see coming.
So I hear you it's marriage, and I get so
frustrated that she won't use that and monetize it her humor.

Speaker 4 (27:17):
Yes, so what does that say about us though, because
like I'm no longer funny too. But there was a
time too where I was like, Chris.

Speaker 1 (27:24):
Rock, Oh, if we go to life my wife, if
we go to dinner and we're you know, four six deep,
and I've got the table just laughing, like I.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
Mean four six people deep, cause you know that sounds
like that's what people say, we're like deep drinks.

Speaker 1 (27:37):
I was like, if we got four or six people
and I'm really giving them the business, Like I'm on
and they're just aha, I got little comebacks. I'm telling
funny stories and they're just going to town. I'll elbow
my wife and be like, you don't even get appreciate
this anymore? Could you do not think this is funny?
And she's like, I've heard the story three times. I'm like, yeah,
I worked it out on you. I got it so funny.

(27:58):
So but yeah, she's she's really not impressed. Now, funny
I am. She's funnier than I am. And I'm often like,
let's do something you should do social media, you should
be on the podcast. She's like, I don't. That's not
my desire. Like I don't, I don't. I'm good. I'm like,
you're wasting it. She goes, I'm not wasting it. Did
you laugh? Yes? She It wasn't a waste. I don't
need to perform it for people to So that's often

(28:20):
the conversation. But I did hit it with the hey,
let's not make this labor all about you crazy. I
thought that was funny. Uh, yeah, that's what's up. Who
did that story? I did? Okay, that's a good one.
A little late, even though you weren't quite ready.

Speaker 2 (28:36):
I forgot to write it down on my piece of paper,
and then we were so into that other story. I
just forgot.

Speaker 4 (28:41):
I have a question, why, Amy, why have you been
doing like falling into forrest gum my accent?

Speaker 1 (28:47):
She'll go, yeah, I wonder how today's gonna be. I
think it's going to be pretty good.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Yeah you say that.

Speaker 2 (28:52):
I don't know. I probably got it from somewhere.

Speaker 1 (28:55):
It's always sentence to like you'll start doing it and
then you're talking as you You never just launch into it.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
Is it like the Christmas movies? I'm launching I don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:04):
I don't know what it is.

Speaker 4 (29:06):
You'll be like, yeah, that's weird. We didn't have that,
and takes it's, I.

Speaker 1 (29:11):
Don't know, like a weird emphasis you put.

Speaker 2 (29:13):
In so back to so I heard myself do that
one and why if my head internally, I was like,
why did I do that accent?

Speaker 1 (29:22):
I don't know. It's edio.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
It's like you and you're like blah blah blah blah blah.

Speaker 1 (29:26):
He does stay consistent with how with the words. He
puts the emphasis on yes Spanish Spanish? Why yes? What's
your story?

Speaker 4 (29:34):
There's a guy that's being investigated where they're investigating the
whole thing in Europe who he was a sperm donor
and he had this cancer causing gene and he has
fathered over two hundred children in Europe and people are dying,
like kids are dying. I didn't know that could be
a thing, having the gene.

Speaker 1 (29:52):
Like absolutely having the genes that's so prevalent in your
sperm that it's giving people cancer.

Speaker 4 (29:57):
Yeah, that's what they're saying.

Speaker 1 (29:59):
That there's cancer.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
That he has this gene. It's a cancer causing gene
and he didn't know he had it. He says, he
didn't know he had it. But he's donated so much
sperm that they are just finding out everyone that he's
fathered and in the investigation they've already found like a
few kids that have already passed away of it.

Speaker 1 (30:18):
And I understand how you can have because that made
it sound a kind of dumb. There's genetic cancer because
I know genetic No women.

Speaker 2 (30:25):
Can do genetic testing for breast cancer or yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:28):
I guess what. But we really don't know environment versus
genetic versus. And they all probably have a relationship with
each other to create whatever's happening with our bodies. Right.
A person can have a genetic cancer causing mutation in
their sperm. But if it's a mutation, is it always

(30:49):
present in the sperm? Not necessarily, So this guy was
donating sperm and not all of it had that cancer
in it.

Speaker 4 (30:57):
Though probably not, But I mean it's it's I guess
what they're trying to find out though, is like how many?
Like how is this okay? Like you gotta double check
to make sure that this genetics aren't in that sperm
before someone donates that much.

Speaker 2 (31:13):
Yeah, I know that's a lot.

Speaker 1 (31:14):
Like it makes I wish I could just put it
all in like a bucket and see how much it
is overall. That would be crazy.

Speaker 2 (31:19):
So he's saying, he swears he didn't know.

Speaker 4 (31:22):
He says that he had no idea, and that's not
on him.

Speaker 2 (31:24):
It's not on him that unless he's like some secret status.

Speaker 1 (31:28):
Unless somebody told him about it and he kept doing it,
that's not on him. I'm reading about this now. The
donor can carry a rare, previously undescribed mutation in the
TP five three gene. The gene normally acts as a
tumor suppressor, but in its mutated form. If significantly increased,
it does a lifetime risk of developing various cancers, often

(31:50):
at an early age, while most of the donor's body
cells did not contain the mutation. Is this about this?

Speaker 4 (31:56):
He said, up up to twenty percent of his sperm.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
Okay, so that's that's not a small amount. But I
felt like it was one hundred percent, which I didn't know.
There could be a cancer gene in every batch every sperm.

Speaker 2 (32:10):
Yeah, yeah, Also, sorry, how many babies?

Speaker 1 (32:14):
Has see said hundreds?

Speaker 4 (32:15):
I don't think you know, so I said, nearly two
hundred feet.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
Now, this is meg. This is getting really tricky because
I imagine he's donated to one particular bank which is in
a multiple.

Speaker 4 (32:27):
Multiple banks, because I've seen this before where like people
have to have to do multiple banks because they one bank.

Speaker 2 (32:34):
Okay, well, still is he one county over or where
is he? Because like then you go all these babies
that are that's a lot that you run the risk
of those kids going to school together.

Speaker 4 (32:44):
In dating Cross, there's a documentary that's out about that
this guy that they were trying to arrest because that
was his thing to donate sperm and just be a
father of as many kids as he can, and they
were they would have all the moms would have parties
to be like, we need to figure out who his
kids are. So they would get on Facebook and all

(33:05):
these social media platforms to get together, and they would
get all the brothers and sisters together.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
Man with one thousand kids, Oh my gosh, that's crazy.
So I want to counterpoint your point though. Okay, obviously
there are a lot of people that can't have babies
or they are as like men, their sperm doesn't work,
and there are reasons that maybe the wife or a
single person is going to get us. Obviously, the sperm
is needed, and if enough people, if there aren't people
giving the sperm, some people aren't gonna have babies unless

(33:32):
there are people like this are giving a whole lot
of sperm.

Speaker 2 (33:34):
No, I understand that, but.

Speaker 1 (33:36):
Hopefully there's some sta to other states. Is that what
you said?

Speaker 2 (33:39):
They're just like you, like.

Speaker 1 (33:40):
After your tenth of month, it's got to go one
state over.

Speaker 2 (33:42):
Yes, Like you just need to like, like there's only
a certain amount of sperm per capita.

Speaker 4 (33:49):
Like I hear you, like they should know, Like you
should know if you're hanging out with your brothers.

Speaker 1 (33:55):
I just didn't want there to be the stigma of
you can only donate so much sperm because the sperm
is needed, but you're saying you just don't think the
sperm shouldn't live.

Speaker 2 (34:04):
Yeah, surely they have.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
You trade sperm with Minnesota sperm, will send you some
of this guy, and you send us some of that.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
Or yeah, do it cross country like a literally different countries.

Speaker 4 (34:15):
I think that's what in the documentary whatever, whichever one
you were talking about. I think that's the what they
were trying to do is create laws to where you
can only donate sperm in.

Speaker 1 (34:24):
This area, like literally, and that's what that was. Your
that's going to be.

Speaker 2 (34:28):
So unfortunate, Like you fall in love.

Speaker 4 (34:31):
And you're like.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
Why do I have so much in common with this person? Oh,
because I'm related.

Speaker 1 (34:35):
To them.

Speaker 4 (34:37):
And you're.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
In Iceland. I think they had an app yes, because again,
that's a country that's pretty contained, not a lot of people.
And I believe even in Rektvik, which is the capital,
it's the capital, it's the biggest city, but it ain't
that big.

Speaker 2 (34:52):
Yeah, they do have a Yes' sibling Identify.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Ice Lendings app, a mobile app that let's users bump
phone to check if they're too closely related, like cousin
second third cousins before dating, using a vast database of
family trees to prevent accidental incest, a real concern in
the small nation of Iceland because again, not a lot
of people are getting out a lot of people coming in,
unless it's tourists. They app gained international fame with the

(35:18):
slogan bumped the app before you bump in bed. That's lunchbarks.

Speaker 3 (35:24):
Do you want happier sad?

Speaker 1 (35:26):
Whatever? Is the most compelling story.

Speaker 3 (35:29):
Andy dick Ah that said there was video of him
just slumped over on an LA sidewalk. He had an
overdose and they had to give him narkin to reverse
the effects. And he came out and said, yeah, man,
I enjoy crack every once in a while. I was
out and this guy started telling me about how he
was sad, and he went out some crack and he goes,

(35:49):
you know, I could use some of that because I
don't see anything wrong with it.

Speaker 4 (35:53):
Yeah, he was like on the streets and he saw
like some homeless guy who's like down on his luck,
and they started talking and he had cracked and the
like I decided to just do crack with him.

Speaker 2 (36:01):
Yeah, and then the Narkin brought him back yep, and
now he's talking about it.

Speaker 3 (36:07):
Yeah, he said, yeah, that was me.

Speaker 9 (36:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:08):
I mean I saw the news story that he had
overdosed and they brought him back. He's a narcan on him.
There's a book that I read called In the Realm
of Hungry Ghosts and it's Gibor Mate who wrote it,
and it's about addiction and how some people, and I'm
not saying this is true to Andy Dick's story, how
some people are just we'll talking about genetics, Like genetically,

(36:30):
they don't really have the ability to be addicted. And
they can do meth and they can do crack, and
they can do they can drink and it might feel
good to them and they may do it more because
of that, but there is not the addiction part of
it with them. That's why there have been professors who
have been fired from universities for being like, hey, I
don't mind doing heroin. I do heroin occasionally feel good
and people are like that's crazy, but they're like, I'm

(36:51):
not an addict. I just use it. And that does
happen with people where they can just go and enjoy
it and then go back. It seems like he's had
a lot of issues with this. I'm not eve talking
about him specifically, but you don't know's you don't know
until you try to try.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
And it's like that word.

Speaker 1 (37:07):
It's Russian roulette. Yeah, especially with the hardcore drugs, because
a lot of them, if you do have the addiction,
it is so hard to get off and yeah, and
it can kill you or ruin your life and then
kill you. But for some people there is not that
they can do heroin and just go, well, that felt good.
They do it again in three months, let's see. But
you don't know unless you try it.

Speaker 4 (37:28):
Even with like drinking, My brother can't have one drink
without having like twenty I can have one drink and
not finish it.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
Ray can have one drink and be drunk. It's wild.

Speaker 4 (37:39):
All different times.

Speaker 1 (37:40):
It's wild. They can have one sit and be like yeah,
you know, yeah that sucks. He's had a lot of Yeah.

Speaker 3 (37:47):
He's got a lot of issues, man, pretty bad, sad.

Speaker 2 (37:50):
And that's why I think it's important to Sometimes people
with addiction or alcoholism or something like people question the willpower,
like especially if they've been sober for quite some time
and then they relapse. It's like, oh, well, what's there.
It's not. It's it's just so much bigger. It's not
a willpower thing.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
No, it's a chemical in the brain. Yeah, so it's
it's like.

Speaker 2 (38:13):
It's just a reminder because some people don't understand that,
and I can understand not getting it unless you it's
like a dormant you dive into it.

Speaker 1 (38:20):
It's a dormant disease and you wake it up and
now you have the disease. The disease is like hello,
I'm now ear you've triggered me rock and roll, and
so now you have a disease. And some people don't
have the dormant disease in them, correct.

Speaker 4 (38:35):
Like herbies, that's dormant, right, not never, buddy, No, don't
feel like you know, cold sores or whatever.

Speaker 2 (38:43):
Yeah, that's virul but sometimes yeah, it's asymptomatic, like you
may not know it's not like you have warts anywhere.

Speaker 4 (38:48):
No, not the warts, but like like those people get
cold sores, like that's dormant for most of the time.

Speaker 1 (38:53):
Then you get it for most of the time, but
it does pop up like hey, she thought you meant
the down.

Speaker 2 (39:02):
There, down south. That was her face.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Okay, let us take a break. It's time for the
good news.

Speaker 6 (39:13):
Ready.

Speaker 4 (39:17):
Valentina is four years old. She lives at Ecuador.

Speaker 8 (39:20):
Well.

Speaker 4 (39:21):
Last July, she felt a lump in her belly told
her mom. Her mom took her to the er and
the doctors were like, well, we don't know what this is.
They did a numerous amount of tests and they realize
it was childhood cancer. It was a rare form of
cancer in her kidney. So they tried to do chemotherapy
and nothing was working. The tumor kept popping up, so
they did what they had to do. They took her

(39:42):
twenty five hundred miles away to Saint Jude in Memphis.
She was accepted, so the doctor's there knew exactly what
to do. They've been working on her. They did surgery
on the tumor. It's removed, and her parents say that
it's just been a blessing that they actually took her
to the hospital.

Speaker 1 (39:57):
When you support Saint Jude, you're helping organization. It's help
push the overall childhood cancer survival rate from twenty percent
to more than eighty percent, which is drastic and so
that's why we're here today. Together with Saint Jude. We
are fighting until no child dies from cancer. And that's
a story about a girl in another country that's coming
to Memphis. Now. Honestly, we don't live in Memphis. And

(40:17):
so you're like, why do you work with Saint Jude.
It's because they take kids from everywhere, every state, they
take kids from all over the country, all over the world.
And not only that, all of their research that they
do they share freely and openly. That's why. So if
you want to become a Partner in Hope and help
fight childhood cancer, the phone number is one eight hundred
seven nine five eighteen hundred. One eight hundred seven nine

(40:40):
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wherever you live, whatever town you're in, whatever state you're in,
whatever country you're in. One eight hundred seven nine five
eighteen hundred. Become a partner in Hope. Families never receive
a bill from Saint Jude. And it's all because of you.
One eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred. That's what

(41:00):
it's all about. That was telling me something good the
Bobby Bones Show, and Saint You all right, we're here
with Tamaro and Nansi. Hi, Ansi? How you doing? You tired?
I feel you? So Annsie is going back and forth
to Saint Jude right now in active treatment. Is that true?

Speaker 6 (41:16):
So?

Speaker 1 (41:17):
How long ago did you get diagnosed? And how long
have you been going to Saint Jude?

Speaker 5 (41:21):
She got diagnosed in August of last year.

Speaker 10 (41:26):
We found out that she had.

Speaker 5 (41:27):
Fanconi anemia and she required a transplant back in April.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
And that's a rare blood disease, right, yes, so, and
I'm sure, like me, you probably didn't know a lot
about it until they said that Ansie had it, right,
So there's a lot of education that happens, right then, yes,
And so like what is that? Because I don't know
exactly what that is.

Speaker 5 (41:45):
It's a genetic type of aplastic anemia. So basically her
body had quit making red blood cells, white blood cells,
and platelets.

Speaker 1 (41:54):
And when a doctor tells you that, how do they
explain it to you?

Speaker 10 (41:59):
Well, I'm also so a nurse.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
Oh so I feel like, yeah, that helped a lot.

Speaker 5 (42:03):
They Yeah, I did understand a little bit about it.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
So can you explain it to us then? Because we
don't have any idea I.

Speaker 5 (42:10):
Mean basically her body had just quit making was starting
to stop making blood cells, like the bone marrow was
just not working properly.

Speaker 1 (42:20):
And when they tell you this, how long until they
say to you, hey, there's an option with Saint Jude.

Speaker 5 (42:25):
The day that our primary care doctor sent the referral
to the Saint Jude affiliate, they wanted to see her
that exact day.

Speaker 1 (42:32):
Wow. Yeah, So I'm assuming you just go.

Speaker 10 (42:35):
Oh, yeah, it was. They're amazing. I mean we were.

Speaker 5 (42:38):
We were actually in a waiting list for a different
hospital and it was gonna be like a four or
five month waiting list and Saint Jude got us in
literally the same day.

Speaker 1 (42:47):
So when you go to Saint Jude on day one,
what happens.

Speaker 5 (42:50):
Well, we actually started out with the affiliate clinic.

Speaker 10 (42:54):
We see the Johnson City affiliate.

Speaker 5 (42:56):
Clinic, and then eventually they took her to Memphis about
two months into trying to figure out what really was
going on. First the affiliate clinic tried to figure out
exactly what was going on, and then once she got
a diagnosis, she went to Memphis in about.

Speaker 10 (43:16):
A month after that.

Speaker 1 (43:17):
And I think we talk a lot about saying you
we work with them a lot. And we talked about
cancer a lot in childhood cancer. But this isn't that.
This is a rare blood disease, right right, And I
hadn't heard, you know, when a lot of the kids
come in that either I've worked with the coming of
the studio, it's rarely this. Did you know they worked
with blood diseases?

Speaker 10 (43:33):
I did, But you.

Speaker 5 (43:35):
Know that was I feel like a special circumstance in
a way. I mean they do have other disorders that
they work with as well, obviously, but yeah, I mean
it's a it's a critical illness and it's a DNA
repair disorder, so it could have very easily turned into
a leukemia had she not had the transplant.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
And did you have any pets?

Speaker 2 (43:59):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (43:59):
Dog? Yeah? What's the dog's name? Did you name him?

Speaker 8 (44:03):
No?

Speaker 6 (44:04):
Man?

Speaker 1 (44:04):
Oh yeah yeah. Do you still get to see him
a lot? Yeah? How old he's? Oh wow? What grade
are you in?

Speaker 5 (44:12):
I mean second grade?

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Oh dang, that's a really cool grade. Do you like
second grade? Is there a school at Saint Jude?

Speaker 2 (44:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (44:19):
What do you do there? Out? Staff?

Speaker 8 (44:23):
And equations?

Speaker 1 (44:24):
Equations? What what's your favorite subject?

Speaker 6 (44:28):
Math?

Speaker 1 (44:29):
I would think if you said equations? Yeah, that's a
lot of math. What is school like for her, Tamra?
What like? What what school like at Saint Jude.

Speaker 5 (44:37):
Well, they have a great program where they try to
keep up with the curriculum that she has in her hometown.
She just gets assigned a certain teacher and then they
have stim labs and lots of different programs there at
the school.

Speaker 10 (44:53):
So she was getting about an.

Speaker 5 (44:54):
Hour one to two hours a day at Saint Jude
as well along with her treatment.

Speaker 1 (45:02):
Like, how thankful are you for what Saint Jude does?

Speaker 5 (45:04):
Oh, my goodness, We're so thankful for Saint Jude. Literally,
they've they've saved her life.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
I mean, how did you know that something wasn't right?

Speaker 5 (45:14):
So she went in for a six year old well visit,
and she's always been on the smaller side of things,
so she was really like starting to come down on
the growth churt, like she was barely even on it
at that point.

Speaker 10 (45:28):
And they did that.

Speaker 5 (45:30):
She'd had some reoccurring infections and just a couple other
little things and it just led to blood work. And
then once they did the blood work, her platelets came
back and they were really low, and then that's when
she got the hematology referral to Saint Jude.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
A lot of parents listening now who maybe aren't affected
by this, and I'm sure you thought you never would
be affected by this. And if people are listening and
they're wondering, like why Saint Jude, like what what would
that answer be from you?

Speaker 10 (45:58):
Saint Jude is amazing.

Speaker 2 (46:00):
I feel like.

Speaker 5 (46:02):
They have we get top notch care there. They've just
been so amazing with everything. Also, you know, we've never
received a bill. We've never received a bill for anything.
I mean, she's she's hearing age. She has so much medication, uh,
just transportation going back and forth to Memphis lodging. I mean, honestly,

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we would have probably lost everything that we had had
it not been for Saint.

Speaker 1 (46:27):
Jude, which is why we do this show. And if
you're listening now and you want to support Saint Jude,
I'll give you the text number. First, you can text
the word Bobby to seven eight five eight three three,
and then you will get a link back. That link
is okay to click, that is from Saint Jude. That's
how you donate. Text the word Bobby to seven eight
five eight three three, and when you do, you'll get
this special edition Papa Joy shirt made just for today.

(46:49):
So that is a text again Bobby to seven eight
five eight three three. You guys have a night at
the Opry?

Speaker 10 (46:55):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (46:56):
Was that? Is that why she's tired?

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (46:57):
Yeah? What did you guys do with the opry?

Speaker 10 (46:59):
Well? She got to meet lots of stars last night.

Speaker 5 (47:04):
She got to introduce Kelsey Ballerini and dance with her
on stage, meet several other Saint Jude kids.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
And did you have any friends at Saint Jude that
you hang out with at all? Do you have any
friends at in school or anything at Saint Jude?

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Yeah? Are they pretty good friends?

Speaker 6 (47:20):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (47:20):
Do you have any you want to shout out any
of them? Say hi? Say hi to them? Okay, well
we'll tell them Hi. Well, I'm so glad that you
came by. Did you have fun? Are you tired? Are
you sleepy? Yeah? Me too, I'm sleepy too. I'm sleepy too.
Did you have fun at the Opry? Yeah? What did
you get to do there?

Speaker 10 (47:41):
I got kick out and meet new friends.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
Oh that's cool. Do they have therapy dogs at Saint Jude?

Speaker 7 (47:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (47:50):
Do you ever pet him?

Speaker 8 (47:51):
Yeah, couzie sometimes they hang out at the school.

Speaker 5 (47:55):
Cousey is a little coppet really and they act people.

Speaker 1 (48:00):
That's really cool. Well, it's been really nice to me.
You thank you for coming by, all right, You guys
can also call this number one eight hundred seven nine
five eighteen hundred. If you don't want a text, you
can call now one eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred.
Families never get a bill from Saint Jude. When I
say that, like, that's the literal truth.

Speaker 10 (48:20):
Right, it is absolutely the truth.

Speaker 1 (48:22):
Because you know, they believe that a family should only
have to worry about helping their child live. Saint Jude
leading the way in the way that the world understands,
treats and defeats childhood cancer and other just like with
ANSI like other life threatening diseases like a rare blood disease.
So when they share their information openly, I think that
is so important too, because there are kids all over
the world being helped by the research that Saint Jude does. Well,

(48:46):
thank you guys for coming in, Thank you for having us,
and asy, I hope you get a good nap. I'm
going to get a good nap to today, so it's
gonna be awesome. And if you're listening out there again.
You can text the word Bobby to seven eight five
eight three three and click that link from Saint Jude.
Thank you guys for coming in the Bobby Bone Show
in Saint Jude. Let's jump over to lunchbox and check
in and see if we're getting closer to our goal

(49:07):
of seventy five partners in hope with Saint Jude.

Speaker 3 (49:10):
Yeah, Bobby, I'll get to that about our goal and
minute I'll give you an update. But I got Paul
on the line right now. Paul, what's going on?

Speaker 2 (49:16):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (49:16):
Nothing, I just wanted to call in and tell y'all
my experience with Saint Jude and then how great it was.

Speaker 3 (49:23):
Okay, Yeah, tell us about Saint Jude. Did you go
to Saint Jude, did you volunteer there? Tell us your story.

Speaker 6 (49:28):
My granddaughter was getting the run around in late Charles.
So my daughter finally got in the car, took her
to Texas Children's Hospital in Houston, and within twenty minutes
of getting in there, they had diagnosed the problem. At
d IPG. So one of the doctors that was seeing

(49:49):
by granddaughter, McKinley. She sits on the board at Saint
Jude's and we didn't have to pay for anything. It
was just so wonderful, very welcoming feeling from the time
we got there. You know, just a class situation, you know,
having to go there. You have to go somewhere. That's
where you want to go.

Speaker 3 (50:07):
Yeah, this is Paul from Lake Charles, Louisiana listening on
one oh one point one w NOE. Please text Bobby
Bobby to seven eight five eight three three and click
the link from Saint Jude. You can become a Partner
in Hope and you can help families like this. This grandpa,
his granddaughter goes to Saint Jude. They didn't receive a bill.

(50:28):
Everything was paid for. You heard it from his own mouth.
How amazing that place is. He said.

Speaker 6 (50:34):
Quote.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
If you have to end up somewhere, you want to
end up with Saint Jude because they're so amazing. When
you become a Partner in Hope, you're going to receive
that special edition Pimp and Joy Camo T shirt and
made only for today. Call us one eight hundred seven
nine five eighteen hundred. Our goal this hour is seventy
five Partners in Hope. We are close to our goal.

(50:56):
Need about ten more people. And Hey, where is Tampa?
One O three point five in Tampa? Where are you at?
Ninety four nine? T and T and Tallahassee. Come on,
we got late Charles calling in. Where are you guys? Hey,
Paul Man, thank you so much. Have a great day.
I'm gonna go answer some more follows. Trying to get
these trying to get these partners in hope.

Speaker 6 (51:14):
Yeah, I'll be one of them, all right, letter Paul, just.

Speaker 1 (51:19):
Go over to Abby and Florida. Who is on the phone. Abby,
good morning, Thank you for calling.

Speaker 8 (51:24):
So I heard you guys talking about doing the Saint
Dude Radio spad and I just wanted to call and
say that I was a Saint Dude kid. I went
there from about three years old till about eighteen when
I graduated. Wow, And they are absolutely amazing. They are
everything that you hear about. They honestly do everything in

(51:46):
their power to make you just feel absolutely at home
and comfortable. I am super excited that I get to
go back now and do life studies for them. So
I get to go back and see my old family,
my old doctors and my nurses, and because they are
they are my family. I've been there forever, so it's
nice to see them.

Speaker 1 (52:05):
Wow, you were there from three to eighteen. Can you
share your story?

Speaker 6 (52:08):
So?

Speaker 8 (52:08):
I was diagnosed with an oligodendroglioma, which is a brain tumor,
when I was three years old. It was surgically removed.
Six months later, another one came back, and that vicious
cycle kept happening. So I'd have surgery after surgery to
remove a tumor until I had my fourth brain tumor,
and they were afraid if they surgically removed it it

(52:29):
would paralyze me. So they decided to do radiation for
six weeks and then after that they've been gone. I
did radiation at seven years old and I haven't had
a tumor since.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
Wow, And you go back, and you would go back
a lot, right all the way up to eighteen.

Speaker 8 (52:44):
YEP, I would go back. I eventually graduated to only
going back once a year, just to double check on things.
Initially it was every couple months to every six months
to a year.

Speaker 1 (52:56):
So when we asked people to be partners in hope, like,
what do you think we should say to convince them?
Like if they're thinking about it.

Speaker 8 (53:02):
They, like I said, they do everything in their power
to make you feel absolutely at home and not worried
about the treatments that are going on. So for me,
I was very much so afraid of anything to do
with hospitals and lots of needles and all that fun stuff.
But they would hire social workers just to come and
paint and do arts and crafts with us. I remember

(53:24):
doing I think there the Marty Garral parade, Like they
literally gave everybody beads. You've got to dress up in
those buzzy solas and walk around and parade around the
entire hospital, and it was just a great way to
distract us and get our minds off of the heaviness
that was going on around us.

Speaker 1 (53:43):
Well, I appreciate you sharing your story, and I'm happy
that you know you're going back now on your own
just to help out. It's not because you're still sick
or dealing with those brain tumors. So really appreciate you
calling and sharing your story with this Abbey.

Speaker 8 (53:55):
Yes, thank you for allowing me to.

Speaker 1 (53:57):
Have a great day. Thanks Abby, Thanks thanks listening. That's
just one example, And one of the things we didn't
mentioned there is that families never receive a bill from
Saint Jude for treatment or travel or housing or food,
because all the family should have to worry about is
helping their kid live. And Saint Jude, obviously they do
all the treating, all the doctors, but then they do

(54:18):
things like if you're seventeen, they build a prom for
the kids, if you're seven, they do the painting. They also,
as they're doing the clinical they share all their discoveries openly,
so this is it's kind of like open source. So
whatever they discover they share with hospitals all around the world,
so like your kid could actually be affected positively wherever
you are because of what their hospital has found. So

(54:39):
we're asking you guys, if you want to be a
partner in Hope, it's very easy. You can call one
eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred be a partner
in Hope nineteen bucks a month to help the kids
Saint Jude fight cancer. The Bobby Bone Show in Saint Jude.
Gonna go over to lunchbox. Now, let's see how we've
done with our goal. We set the goal at one
twenty five. That's what we're looking for. Part diners and Hope.

(55:00):
You guys can still be a partner in Hope. We
would love it one eight hundred seven nine five eighteen
hundred nineteen bucks a month. Be a partner in Hope.
Let's go to lunchbox. Now, how's it going.

Speaker 3 (55:11):
Our goal this hour is one hundred and twenty five
Partners in Hope, our biggest goal yet. But I got
bad news. We're not there yet. We need about fifty
more people to reach our goal. So kiss the ninety
six in Little Rock.

Speaker 1 (55:24):
Come on.

Speaker 3 (55:25):
We got a couple of calls from Wichita represent Morgan
and Abbey one O two one the bowl in Wichital
We need more you people, who's gonna outdo you? You
gonna let Little Rock beat you?

Speaker 1 (55:36):
Witch talk?

Speaker 3 (55:36):
Come on, give us a text b oh bb why
to seven eight five eight three three. That's b oh
bb y to seven eight five eight three three. Then
you click the link from Saint Jude. We need fifty
more partners in Hope. Let's go pick up your phone
start texting that number. Text Bobby b o bb why

(55:58):
to seven eight five eighth read three gotta go.

Speaker 9 (56:02):
It's time for the good news with Bobby.

Speaker 2 (56:08):
Right.

Speaker 1 (56:08):
Jabam was two years old and he was diagnosed with
a cute lymphoblastic leukemia. So he's two it's three years
of treatment. He gets to five years old and they
were celebrating because he had gone through all the treatments.
So they do I think where they check on the
bone marrow and that test revealed that the cancer had returned.
And so he goes through it again and it's another
three years. He gets out of that, they celebrate again

(56:29):
and so he has some normal cancer free childhood, but
relapsed again in twenty ten. Now, during the relapse, he
broke his leg and so they did blood work, realize,
we gotta put you back in the hospital for one
hundred days. He was in the hospital. He then went
into a coma and then he was unable to recognize

(56:49):
his mother after the coma. Now still a kid. So
Saint Jude the whole time with them, with them, with them,
you know, and the goal that Saint Jude not only
is to help these kids like fight cancer, beat cancer,
get out and live a normal life. And they've already
been through with him three times at this point. So
he finishes, gets out of the coma, starts to go

(57:10):
to school. He since then after attending Saint Jude which
at school, learned music because he was there for so long,
he then earned a scholarship to play trombone the University
of Memphis. He was on college game day, and so
he's gone through multiple treatments. Basically, I spent most of
his childhood at Saint Jude and now again he's playing
in the Memphis band with trombone. So all because of

(57:32):
Saint Jude. All because people like you listening now donated
and became a partner in Hope. Because nobody gets a
bill if they go to Saint Jude for anything, travel,
for treatment, for any medicine. It's all covered because of
partners and hope. One eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred.
That's the number you can call right now if you
want to be a partner in Hope. You really will
make a difference. One eight hundred seven nine five eighteen hundred.

(57:55):
Make a difference, support Saint Jude and become a partner
in Hope. That is what it's all about. That was
tell me something good. Hey, thank you guys for hanging out,
Thanks for listening to the podcast. Obviously we put a
little Saint Jude on here from today's radiothon, but we
still wanted to do a full podcast for you guys.
And if you do want to be a partner and
hope we would love it. If you're a podcast listener,

(58:16):
the number is one eight hundred seven nine to five
eighteen hundred, and they'll continue going if you continue calling
and saying, hey, I want to give nineteen bucks a
month to help the kids at Saint Jude. That would
be awesome. So to all the podcast listeners, we'd love
it if you stepped up and did this. And if
you do, hit me in the DMS and just say hey,
podcast listener, who's a partner and hope we'd love that.
So one eight hundred seven nine to five eighteen hundred.

(58:39):
We're back tomorrow. We'll do another radiothon, but we'll do
another podcast as well with content and current events. Thank
you guys, Hope you have a great rest of the day.
We will see you tomorrow. Bye, everybody,