Bobby talked about how marriage counseling has benefited him and his wife's relationship since before they got married. Amy lost a game recently and we've been waiting to have her spin the Wheel of Mild Punishment. Bobby finally determines her fate today and she is NOT happy. How well do you know classic TV Theme songs? Raymundo gives the show members a question about famous tv show songs...who can get the most correct and be the champ? In the Anonymous Inbox, a listener is debating between choosing a lucrative job offer or the love of his life?
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Transmitting Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio, Ray Mudo.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
What's the game it is? How well do you know
TV show songs? The theme songs? So I'll give you
a question about details from these famous TV theme show lyrics.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Hey, give us an example.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
In the Golden Girls theme song, what would the card
attached to the biggest gifts say the card attached Wou'd
say thank.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
You for being a friend? Correct? Okay, how many questions
do you have here? We have ten? Let's do seven,
all right? Write your answers down elimination style. All four
of us are in number one. In the Friends theme song,
it feels like your life is always stuck in what gear?
(00:55):
I'm in?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
What is.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
This game?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Is gonna be hard? Yeah? Because if you sing it,
other people are getting possibly hear it. But Amy's singing it.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Well, you already have it, so I can think they
don't have.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
It's me? What the heck?
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Can you say it? One more time?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
In the Friends theme song, it feels like your life
is always stuck in what year?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I'm in the wind? Amy d o A, No, you
love life? Do I know You're always stuck in second gear?
Second gear? Second first?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
I never drew, I never drove stick, so I don't
know what that means.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Just numbers though, and bunch of guys eliminated wow, eliminator style.
I thought it'd be easy at first, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Next up in the Jefferson's theme song, what part of
town are they finally moving on up to?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I'm in, I mean moving on up to the east side,
east side side. Okay, we finally got a piece of
the pier. Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Next, in the full House theme song, the singer wonders,
whatever happened to predictability?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
The milkman, the paper boy? And what is the third thing?
Got it? I'm in? I mean you can sing it.
The sign okay, the milkman, the paper boy even in
TV correct Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Next in the Fresh Prince of bel Air theme song,
where did Will spend most of his days?
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Got it? Had to get there, but I got it.
I'll sing this one. I'm in in West Philadelphia, born
and raised on the playground is where I spent most
of my days? Playground? Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters
had hair of gold like their mother, and how was
the youngest one's hairstyle.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Described I'm in. Will you read that again? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters
had hair of gold like their mother. How is the
youngest one's hairstyle described?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
You might have singing it? Do you have? Are you no?
I need to sing it to get it so I
can sing it. I already have it. Okay, here's a
story about the lovely lady who is really not very lovely.
Girls like their mother, their youngest one in curls, curls.
I have curls. I had to get there all. I
(03:49):
had to fight that one, all right.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Next, in the Beverly Hillbillies theme, the singer invites you
to come and listen to a story about.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
A man named what Okay, got it? You know that
you can say this one? I'm in. Go ahead, the
story of a man named Jed. Well, here's a millionaire.
Oh you don't know what they're red it's Jed, but
I think it's Come and listen to a story about
a man named Jed. The poor mountaineer barely kept his
family fed. That one day he was shooting at some
(04:18):
crude and up from the ground, no, shooting at some food,
and up from the ground came a bubbling cruise? Is
that like a black goal texasity? All right? One more? Yeah?
This is it? Last one?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?
What does she get out front?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
What? I don't know this one? I don't know that
Anamal Hanna theme song either? Do you know what I mean?
So read it again? Ray?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
What does she get out front? What does she get
out front? I'm in? What do you have? Bentley? Oh?
I flowers combining flowers? I don't know? You know front?
Speaker 6 (05:05):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Limo? I don't know how that song go wrong? Get
out front?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I know the melody? Yeah, we appreciate you all. Too
old for that one. Okay, we have three more though, Yeah,
we'll do these next two normal, and if we don't,
we'll do tie break on the third.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
In the Family Matters theme, it's a rare condition this
day and age to read any good news on what.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I'm in. Newspaper page, newspaper page.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
In the Family Ties theme, how many years have they
been together?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
This is where you win? I don't even know that.
Oh wait, wait, that's been yes, ladies. Oh no, I'm
off now, I'm off. Hold on, what are we singing?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
No?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
No, because I don't know. I have no idea. I
have it, repeat it. I need to sing it though.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
In the Family Ties theme, how many years have.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
They been together? I think I have it? I have it?
I think? So Okay, singer, are you out? Do you
have nothing? Well I'm not in yet. Well, right, I'm in.
How many years are they together? I have it? Oh?
(06:24):
All right, I'm in. I don't know. What do you
heck to? Random number thirteen? I think the song goes,
I bet we've been together for a million years. Oh,
I bet we'll be together for a million more million? Correct?
Good job, dude. Glad you know hannim on Tana because
I know that one. I didn't have no clue. What
was the tenth one? It is?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
In the Growing Pains theme, the singer asked them show
them that smile again and not waste another minute on
what show.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Them the smile? Look you show me in a smile,
don't waste another minute. Oh you're crying? Correct, good job dude.
Post Malone has a stalker and post malone stalker has
been arrested for the fifth time. It is a woman.
Her name is Cherish Gorner, and this time she was
taken into custody because she jumped in front of post
(07:16):
Malone's car as he was trying to leave his home. Wow,
his driver had to swerve to avoid hitting her. So
a couple things are weird here. One just the general
idea of having a stalker. Two she knows where he lives,
and three she knows where he lives and is waiting
outside of his house for him.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
And like, being arrested already hasn't deterred her, So like,
what needs to happen next?
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I wonder if this is the first time, Mike, do
you know much about this story? I don't think it's
the first time it's happened. No, I mean first time
she was arrested and taken in arrest that I believe.
So yeah, oh, because I know she's been charged, but
this is the first time I believe she's been arrested.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Okay, Well, we need to scare straight while she's in there.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I don't think she's able to be scared straight because
she believes she has a spiritual connection with the singer
and his quote in title to be near him.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Oh yeah, that's a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
It's her fifth time that she's been charged with trespassing, stalking,
even intoxication at his Raising Cane's restaurant. The latest arrest
comes with fell Any charges for stalking and violating a
court order. The stalker is now being held with that
bail that's from the boot. So you could go, ah,
just some crazy woman, He's fine. The problem is with
(08:24):
crazy people, they can go next level very quickly. And
this turns into one of those well if I can't
have you, no one else will type situations, or then
you kill them, and that is not out of the
realm of possibility. In a situation like this, it's five times.
She knows where he lives, she tried to stop his car,
and probably what she can do something bad to him
(08:45):
right then, probably knows, she thinks he's he's her boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
She has a spiritual connection.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Absolutely, you don't kill that person until you absolutely know
you can't have him, and then you kill him so
nobody else can.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
And that's justifiable too.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There's another one, and this one's creepy and dyer way.
And I do like Selena Gomez and I like Benny Blanco,
and I think they've been kind of cute together, although
it starts to border on Okay, you're pushing this, but
here's one. Benny Blanco admits that when Selena Gomez is away,
he likes to spray or perfume on him to remind
him of her.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
I mean this tracks.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Benny wakes up every day and says to himself, how
can I make Selena's day better?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Like?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Can I give a theory to this? He loves her
that I don't think he really does this. There are
two things here. This is from People magazine. One, I
think like this plays whenever he does over the top stuff.
This plays in many ways for her, for him, for them.
It gets a lot of hits. And then two, the
perfume he's spraying on himself is her perfume. Like, it's
(09:48):
not just her perfume that she owns, it's her raw.
It's like rare beauty perfume. So I think part of
the ankle there too. Advertising the world and he doesn't
like this. But the world is wrestling, Yes, the world
is wrestling. The world is a stage. So as funny
as that is and as weird as it, I don't
think that's really what's happening. I think he's probably making
(10:09):
it up. Or two, if he posts videos him doing it,
it's with her perfume and it's selling her perfume.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Genius.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
The World's a wrestling ring. Finally, mister Beast credits his
poor mental health for a success. Hey, I feel seen.
Oh I feel I've never felt more seen in my life.
Mister Beasts the biggest YouTuber on the planet. But while
he was chatting on Lewis Howe's The School of Greatness podcast,
(10:37):
he dropped a bomb that shocked the host. Quote, if
my mental health is better, I wouldn't be as successful
as I am. I feel that to do anything great,
it doesn't have to even be in a professional space,
a parent, working at a bank, a runner, whatever. To
do anything great, it takes a lot of sacrifice, and
(10:58):
you're going to miss out in other parts of your life,
and you're missing out on other parts of your life
because the sacrifice of your mental health is never great.
It can be pretty good at best, but it's hard
to be even great at balance because if you're balanced,
you're putting work into It's not just being even. You're
putting equal amount of work and making sure you don't
(11:19):
put too much work somewhere if you have to declare
I want to be balanced, that means you are imbalanced
and you have to work extra to fix that imbalance.
So even being balanced is really hard. So I understand,
and I feel your mister beast, But for anyone that
wants to be great at anything, it takes a lot
of sacrifice, and a lot of sacrifice means you don't
get to do other things that normal people get to do,
(11:41):
and that affects your mental health. But even be balanced.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
So, but which came first, like chicken or the egg?
Like you know, because you're saying like you're putting it
into it.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Question. I think to be driven, there's got to be
something broken that's driving people that are crazily driven. That's abnormal,
and something is broken and in order to push that
abnormal drive, because why would that drive even exist if
something wasn't motivating it. And so it's like why a
lot of presidents, you know, have like single moms or
(12:15):
there was a version where their dads weren't. Like there's
a lot of that and it's proving Okay, well I'll
show him, Like that's been a very familiar over and
over pattern.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
Wow, that's kind of crazy if they're like, I'm gonna
show my dad and I'm going to come president, and
then they actually do.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
If you have have yeah, the leader of them.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Thank you, mister Beast, speaking out for all of us
mentally unstables. Anonymous of the question to be well, Hello,
(12:54):
Bobby Bones. I'm twenty three, just finished school with a
tech degree. The landing a job has been harder than
I expected. Right now, I've got a temporary gig that
pays the bills, but I just got a full time
offer with great pay, almost double what I'm making now.
The problem is that it's four hours away from my girlfriend.
We've been together since high school. I really do see
a future with her, but she can't move because she's
helping her parents out. Do I hold off for something closer,
(13:17):
or take a job and risk losing the person I love?
Signed job offer or love of my life? It doesn't
have to be out of one of those. I mean,
if you take the job, it doesn't you have to
lose her. Yeah, and you can still be together if
you're gone, But she can't go, so you're kind of risking.
You're risking why.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
I want to know how long does she have to
help out her parents.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Yeah, you don't have to hold out for something closer.
You can take the job, and you don't have to
risk losing the person you love because you can still
be with that person you love if you take a
job four hours away. This is only a season. You're
twenty three. This is a season in life.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Thank you for reminding me. He's only twenty three.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Yeah, if you are thirty eight, different story, you're twenty three.
You can do a couple of years with a four
hour distance. Our boy Reid did that forever. His wife
now went to med school and he lived here and
she was down in Louisiana, and they made it work,
knowing at the end they we're gonna be back together again.
So you do not have to hold out for something closer.
(14:16):
This is a great job. Go take it and get
started on you guys's future together. You take that job.
Now you're getting started on your future together because you
start saving up some money. Boom gets your house, Boom
gets you a kid with her, hopefully later. But then
you have a little money in your pocket. So let
her take care of her parents and you guys formulate
a plan. The plan is either a she eventually moves
to be with you, or you go and do that
(14:38):
job for a year or two years and then use
that job to get a job back nearer to where
you are now. It doesn't have to be only one
of those two options, so open up your mind a
little bit. It doesn't have to be that. But take
the job, bam and keep her and you can do both.
It'll be a little difficult, but that's okay, and hopefully
she's school was that. Yeah, good things are difficult because
(14:59):
good thing take work, and work is difficult. And so
I'm not talking about your job, talking about your relationship.
So yeah, don't give up the job, but donn but
don't give up the girl. We're gonna need an update.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
On this, Yeah, I know, because I got two years.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Yeah, we won't, or at least when he has the conversation,
because if he's like, I'm taking the job and she's like,
well that doesn't work for me, so I'm breaking.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Up with you, then you take the job, and then
you know, and you just take the job because all right,
there you go, Thank you, everybody, close it up, start
up a hornet's nest, Amy what I did?
Speaker 4 (15:32):
Yeah I did?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Yeah, what do you mean would you have voicemail number four.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
So I just wanted to call in on the segment
about Amy being a real hater on WWE wrestling. So
the split ratio is sixty percent women and am they're
not just rubbing oil all over themselves and going in
the ring.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
It's an art form.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Stop sipping the hater ade and let's start considering it
as art. Thanks.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
That's right now, it's art. It is for sure art.
If actings are performance, Yeah, do you think so Lea
is art?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Okay, do you think acting in Marvel movies art? It's
a make sure of those two things.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Yeah, you're right, Okay, I get it. I'll give you
that it's art.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
I've been thinking about something. What is art? I've been
thinking about this in that we were gonna do the
wheel of mild punishment. M Oh yeah, I'm just gonna
do the punishment now, No need to spin the wheel?
Speaker 4 (16:25):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Because you've been such a hater, it's actually really good. No.
I enjoyed it so much. You're gonna watch on Netflix Unreal,
which is a docu series. It's five episodes. Episodes don't
that long? You have a week. I'll give you a
week and a few days, so not Monday coming up,
but the next Monday. You have eight days, nine days
to watch WWE unrel And it's a docu series about
(16:50):
how they write the storylines on the athletes, the wrestlers.
And you come back and give me a review of
the show and see if you understand wwel or better. Okay,
this is.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Better than I thought. I thought you were about to
make me go to some local wrestling chows.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
No, I don't know they have any of those. But
I think you'll like this more and I think you'll
have an appreciation for it. Like there's one I don't
want to give too much of the way, but it's
a certain wrestler that once they got in and started
to be pretty good, they broke their arm, came back,
broke the arm again.
Speaker 4 (17:19):
Like they really broke it.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, yes, yes, they really broke it. Okay, And then
see if you can have a favorite wrestler, because I
have like my all time favorite wrestler, which is Sting
and he's still yeah he's older now, but he wrestled
in a different organization, Geriatric. He still wrestles. He's still
a part of it, the GWe, and he wears face
(17:41):
paint so he doesn't look much older. And then I
have like about his body though well he wears like
big stuff mostly the okay. Yeah. And then I have
my favorite like now, which you probably like. See him punk.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
CM punk Yeah, like the letter CM. I just want
to know the name so I knowed who to look for. Okay,
see them punk now?
Speaker 4 (18:02):
Is the unreal? Is that showcase?
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Men and women both wrestlers, Okay, so you don't know
who's gonna be.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
I just have to pick a favorite.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I just I just want you to watch it. Come
away with thoughts, okay, and you have plenty of time.
This is your will of my old punishment, no will,
I'm just gonna sign the punishment. But it's a great punishment.
I love it. It's one of the best documentries I've
seen it in a while.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
How many episodes? Five?
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Five would you play? Voicemal number one.
Speaker 7 (18:26):
I think Amy should be assigned the homework of watching
the movie fighting with my family and report back what
she's learned. I think she would like it and would
have a better appreciation for wrestling. The WWE always gives
back to the community wherever they are. They always reach
out to the boys and Girls Club Special Olympics. They
(18:48):
do a great job, so it's important to just spread
that word too. All right, thank you love the show.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Do you hate Special Olympics?
Speaker 4 (18:56):
No?
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Okay, no, so what is it called? Worry about the
movie yet? Just watch Unreal? But that's a movie and
it is with actors, but it's based on the life
of a very famous female wrestler. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
No, I love that they give back in that way
to kids. That are the kids that.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
It's always got. It's always got to be.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
That's your attraction as an adult is because when you
were a kid.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Atracted am in with tights? Okay, I have my own reason.
Speaker 5 (19:22):
Heights a lot of people if this is something they
enjoyed as a kid.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
They So you're saying there are no adults that get
into wrestling as an adult.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
Okay, maybe that will be me after I watch Unreal.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
I don't know. So you've been assigned that. I'll check
back a week from Monday.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Deal, sure, but I will put a spread this like,
call in if you became a fan of wrestling as
an adult.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
Okay, whatever, No, I'm not proving anything. I'm curious.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
I'm curious if if you never were exposed to it
as a kid, and then you went to something as
an adult or watch something as an adult and you're.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Like, Okay, I get it, I'm into it. And again
that could be blowing up.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Wow, wow, blowing up. Yeah, right, it's time for the
good news.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
There's a woman that lives in southern Maryland and she
won the lottery because of her late father. Yeah, he died,
but she decided to enter in his death date.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
That's a weird thing. I go my birthday anniversary.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Yeah, she just felt like, I think I need to
do the death date. And she plays the.
Speaker 5 (20:27):
Lottery every day and something about it was like, yeah,
I'm gonna do this. Pick five, I'm gonna use the
day he died. And it was a one dollar bet
and she won fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Hey should we all try that? But who's death date?
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Our parents?
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Anyone? Any parent? Oh? I'm like, what did we all
hit the lottery? Then this is a real deal.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Hey, I could get to end her twice.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
My mom my dad left, remember that day. I can
do every year. When I was five, a lot of
I don't hate the bit, I don't hate the bid.
Let's try it. We all put in the dead death
dates of our parents death date, Yes, yeah, I guess
dead death date feels a little too too dark. Yeah,
(21:12):
but that's why she hit fifty rand?
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Crazy, But how do you so it's a pick five?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Her date must have been because like mine, my mom's
death date I think is.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
Too many numbers, I know, walking through it because she
died in October, so that's ten. Yeah, and then she
died on the twenty seventh, so that's more. And then
it was your twenty fourteen.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Oh you just wanted to make a millions with all
six numbers? Wow? Oh those are six numbers.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Second do six so I can do ten twenty seven fourteen?
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Oh all right, yeah, we gotta try this, Okay, okay,
that's all.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
My dad could be pick five.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
He's April Fool's Day four one.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Oh twenty one. What a bit is turn weird? That's
a good story though, Yeah, yeah, yah, that's a good
story money because of it, and then we are too.
How funny would it be if we all won or
one of us wanted. Lunchbox didn't win because his parent
and didn't. That's why didn't die. All right, there you go,
that's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.
(22:14):
So there was a wedding and the mother in law,
I guess about two mother in law shows up and
she has tupperware and she has cake in the tupperware
because she didn't like the original cake. So she brought
cake and tupperware. And then later on in the wedding
she got on the microphone and she was like, hey,
if you don't like the original cake, I brought other
cake and the tupperware.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
So when I hear this story, I think she had
to know what she was marrying into the bride, Like
that mother in law doesn't just do that day up.
I'm not saying it's not difficult or it's not annoying,
but that mother in law doesn't show up and go
all crazy mother in law without there being traces of
crazy mother in law to begin with. So, as funny
as it is, a little bit of that had to
(22:58):
be expected, right, and there probably had to be a
decision of the mother in law's like, well, I don't
like the cake, can we get a different cake? And
I'm like, no, we're going to get this cake. And
then you know she's already kind of a crazy mother
in law, so it's not super surprising. She did not
need to get on the mic though she didn't need
to bring it to begin with. But you know what,
if you have a crazy mother in law a crazy friend,
they have the right to be a little crazy because
they're still in your life while being crazy. But there
(23:20):
was no need for her to grab the microphone and
declare that she had a different cake. We did make
a bet at your wedding. I offered somebody over a
thousand bucks to knock it over. Well I wasn't knock
it over. It was the cake. Really that wasn't being used.
Speaker 4 (23:35):
Uh No, that cake was the cake they were going
to cook from it. Yes, and it was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
It was awesome, and I knew no one would do it.
I was like, thousand bucks, you knocked that cake over?
Speaker 5 (23:44):
No, friend, I grew up with Margie. She became a
baker and that was her wedding gifts.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Me up, I shouldn't have done that.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
So like and a cake, that's one of the most
expensive things.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
I wouldn't have really had that. I wouldn't have had
him do it was just a joke. I was like,
thousand bucks, if you knock.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
The takeover I mean, I think she was at the wedding.
She probably would have I don't think it.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Was knocking over me. I think it was like face
planned inside, like fall on it.
Speaker 4 (24:07):
I would have harmed all.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Yeah, that really wouldn't happened, But I think I would
have done it for a thousand bucks. Experts say if
you're getting married, it's always important to have the marriage
counseling discussion before arguments arise. It can also save you
money when you apply for your marriage license, you get
a discount apparently really. In a study, eighty percent of
married people think pre marital counseling helped their marriages, and
those that didn't speak to a councilor admitted to struggling
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and fighting over things that could have been figured out prior.
It's from your tango dot com. My wife and I
started going to marriage counseling right before we got married.
But we've stayed with it. We go every two weeks,
like we're still with it. It's it's way more maintenance
than anything. Obviously, we have the same fights and discussions
that any married couple have. I say, any everybody's a
(24:52):
little different based on how you live, where you live,
what you do, but ours are very similar to anyone else's.
But what it does for us, because I'm a big
believer in therapy and counseling anyway, what it does for
us or for me specifically, it teaches me ways to
communicate whenever times aren't as easy as when they're just
(25:14):
like life is living free, Like I have an issue
with communicating whenever I'm not right. If everything's normal, I'm great,
I'll communicate away. But as soon as something bad happens,
I'm like, yeah, I'm just gonna go ahead and shut
this down on the outside, figure it out on the inside,
and then come back with the whole new approach. And
my wife will be like, you just had the whole
decision and discussion within yourself and then came back and
(25:35):
you're like, oh, this is what it's going to be now,
and you didn't even include me in that. And so
I've developed better ways in those scenarios, so less shutting
down yeah, and more and also the ability to have
uncomfortable conversations because I never wanted to have them with her.
She's great at that. She communicates like a boss. If
there's a video game, she's bows her final boss of
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communicating for me, I was like, dah, I got other
things I want to do and I'll just figure it out,
so I'm not going to have the uncomfortable conversation Personally. Professionally,
I don't give crap, but personally it was like dad.
But counseling for me has done that, and I think
premaritally what it does too is they bring up things
that you're eventually going to fight over, like fundamental things,
(26:17):
and you then have to kind of decide how you
feel about things right then instead of later when you're
already in the marriage, and they could be so fundamental
that they hurt the marriage thoughts.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
Yeah, I think that you can.
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Also, it just sets up a healthy pattern, like you said,
like y'all are committed for that, and if you can
get in early before the marriage, then you know, hey,
we're going to agree if we encounter this. Obviously, you
don't know what's going to hit you during your marriage
at all whatsoever. But if you're both in alignment of like,
how are we going to move forward with a plan
if XYZ happens both your when it happens, Yeah, yeah,
(26:55):
it really is not if it's when and then you're
both in alignment on how you want to handle it
and bringing in outside help. Are you open to that
at all? Because some people just are not. They don't
want to involve a third party. It's either be the
best perspective for you.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, they feel like it's embarrassing or they grew up
like I did. What therapy wasn't around. Nobody went you went.
If you were to therapy, you were crazy. You were like,
you went to a shrink and why would you do that?
Are you? Are you insane? But I think with the
knowledge of mental health and mental health issues and uh,
communicating better to keep your mental health better, I think,
you know, there's been a lot of knowledge, a lot
(27:32):
of education in that in the past few years.
Speaker 5 (27:34):
My friend told me the other day and he's like
late thirties. He said he didn't start therapy till two
years ago, and before that he would have told you,
no way, therapy is a huge waste of.
Speaker 4 (27:42):
My time and I will never do it.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Why did it bit the first time for the radio show?
Oh yeah, because all my insurance and I was like,
I'm show them how crazy I am. And I was like, oh,
I kind of like that. It was hard, but I
kind of like that. So I'm a big recommender of
therapy even as you're married. And sometimes we go and
I don't even want to go because we have nothing
to talk about. I was gonna say fight about, but
(28:04):
that's what it feels like. If we have nothing to
fight about, what even is there to talk about? And
so but we go and weasually there are days we
just have good we only talk about good things, and
it's like, what do we need to do this?
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Yeah, it's the maintenance of it is that is super important.
And that mother in law like justice for the mother
in law a little bit. She should probably go to therapy,
and she should that's my point. She should probably go
to therapy. Paris Hilton's husband gave her the ultimate birthday gift.
Hey pink and white, fully customized private jet. Wow birthday.
(28:37):
It even has the phrase that's hot stenciled on the outside.
That's so cool, wow, really cool. Your birthday president isn't
near as cool as Paris Hilton's. I don't care who's
listening me included, that's a cool birthday president I've ever seen.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
So.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Paris's husband, his name is Carter Room, gave her a
fully customized golf Stream G four fifty, nicknamed Slive Air
after her stupid made up words sliving, which is a
combination of slaying and living. The jet looks awesome. It's
a pink one. I'd like to have the pink jell.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
It's a combination of what and living.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
Slaying and living living. Yeah, OK, and that's hot. And
then her name is written in her autograph on the
back part of it. And I looked it up. The
gulf Stream G four fifty is a popular large cabin
private jet. If you were to buy it new thirty
nine million dollars. Oh my go, look at this. That's
(29:31):
the craziest birthday present I've ever seen.
Speaker 8 (29:32):
She probably already has a jet, right, so this is
another one, you think, I don't know, probably so this
is just kind.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Of like you want to take the pink one, or
you want to take the other one, right, or they
trade in the other one. Now, I don't know. I
don't know. I'm not pocket watching her money. I have
no idea. But that's the coolest thing I've ever seen.
Your son's birthday is coming up. Get them one? Yeah, yes,
for a jet?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
He did not know.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
I think the most extensive thing he asked for were
pit vipers, sunglasses?
Speaker 4 (30:00):
You have a list, Yeah, I have a list. I
I he's not listening to this, so he'll never know.
But I ordered him the pit vipers.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
You have to whisper to us if he's not listening.
He also here if you talk, Yeah, but ers are funny.
Speaker 5 (30:13):
Yeah, So whatever reason, he updated this list and I
got it, and pit vipers were first, so I was like, Okay,
that's easy.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
You just better not lose them.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Or he said, well even adults that are responsible and
make sure to lose sunglasses.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (30:28):
But then in its second, third and fourth is candy.
He's just put Milky Way, reeses and sneakers.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
Candy, all three of those that can happen.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Sneakers obviously, mint snickers. Oh shoot.
Speaker 5 (30:40):
Actually the most extensive thing even on here is Apple Watch.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
But I'm not getting in that.
Speaker 1 (30:44):
I'm not getting that. You're not getting him that. What's
the pit vipers?
Speaker 4 (30:47):
Cause they're over one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
That's like his comparing them to the Apple Watch. Yeah
that way more? Yeah, yeah, war Is it an Apple Watch?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Yeah, I believe so. I think it depends on which
kind you get.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I think the Apple is. Yes.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
He also asked for College Bowl.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (31:08):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
V Bucks, Roebucks, I know what those are. That's money
on his video games. A glowing stainless steel cross necklace
and an armor of God figuring.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Did you get him those?
Speaker 4 (31:20):
I think the I think grandma his his dad like
sent it off to his aunt. Grandma and grandpalled.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
They're getting probably the cross birthday and the armor of
God Sunday.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Oh and Ray, when's your birthday? I got a month? Yeah,
because Ray made a list too. Yeah, and so far
I got you one thing from the list.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Yeah, the Oliver People's Tom Brady's those are awesome. Yeah,
and so you have other things on your list? Still No, no, no,
I don't know the shows. Oh we're not buying anything
to send that? Oh yeah yeah? Did you do you
give a list to your wife?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Yeah, there, That's why I got to do it ahead
of time.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
My mom tries to order stuff from Canada, and stuff
stuff takes time to go flying from Canada, getting maple
upper weight, well, where they live, it's insane to try
and get stuff delivered sent Amazon where.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
The upper Pensula in America, right, okay.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
Yeah, so if my mom's sending something from where they live,
it's two weeks minimum.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Pony express or what pretty much. I don't think that's true.
It is.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
If you send a Father's Day card, do it am
onth early. It's terrible. It's really weird. Only affects me.
Nobody else lives where my parents live.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
Yeah, maybe they are in some well, no.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
One else lives where his parents live. That's true because
that's the one spot of land they live on. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (32:40):
Yeah, I know, I get it.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
I think they've just forgotten to send stuff forever and
rays claims it on that. Uh and you're you're son
starting holed fifteen and race turning forty. There we go,
two birthday lists right there.
Speaker 4 (32:50):
Wait, but what's collegeable? Do you know it is?
Speaker 1 (32:53):
It sounds like a video game, but I don't know.
Is it like a trivia game?
Speaker 5 (32:58):
It's got to be on the I didn't have on
the I figured is you gave him the whatever game
he plays? What is that at xbox PSI? Oh yeah,
yeah yeah, the Big White Yeah you gave him that is.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
A televised quest show or a series of postseason college
football games. That's oh College Bowl?
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Okay? The Quist show currently titled Yeah, I don't know
is I'll pass on that. Maybe he misspelled it. Maybe
it's like college ball because he did sneakers.
Speaker 4 (33:22):
For Sneakers, Sneakers candy.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Yeah, I'd follow up on that one. Okay, It's time
for the good news. Bobby. He's eight years old from
near Chicago's as Mateo. He gave the twenty three dollars
they got from his birthday to a homeless woman selling
candy on the side of the road, saying he wanted
to help her because she was trying to buy formula
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for her baby. His mom captured the moment put it
on social media. It went super viral, and now there
is a crowdfund campaign one hundred percent of donations going
to sport to people in need in that area, and
they've been able to raise thousands of thousands of dollars
because the mom recorded the kid and then didn't take
the money for themselves. They donated at all. All the
money coming in from the viral video and the people don'tate. Thanks.
(34:07):
It's pretty good.
Speaker 8 (34:07):
That's his birthday money, all of his birthday money twenty
three bucks, Like, here you go, that's unheard of for
a child.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
You have four kids. How many would have done that
with their twenty three dollars? One one, there's one.
Speaker 8 (34:16):
Anytime he sees the homeless person who's like, do we
have money?
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Like, how much do we have? Twenty bucks? Give it
to him? Does he give away his money too? Absolutely?
The other three no, no chance, no chance. They don't
act like they don't even see the person. That's from people.
That's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.
Wake up, wake up in the mall, and you turn
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the radio and the dogs.
Speaker 6 (34:49):
Ready and his lunchbox more game two, Steve Bred trying
to put you through this buck he's running this week's
next bit.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
The Bobby's on the.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
Box, so you know what to.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
The babbleball? Okay, ninety seconds on the clock. How many
of Amy's corny jokes can we get right in ninety seconds? Amy? Ready,
up there, Ready, let's go the morning corny? What do
you call a sad cheese memory cheddar? Sad cheddar uh
(35:28):
American with American sad bree said brie cheese, cream cheese,
blue cheese. Well, I didn't. I didn't have that, thank you. Okay.
Speaker 4 (35:42):
What do you call a sad brownie?
Speaker 8 (35:44):
Okay, keep going the same thing, right, chocolate Betty Crocker,
sad brownie child ship?
Speaker 1 (35:49):
Are you talking like a girl scout or like an
actual brownie? An actual? Okay? Either? Like brownie is like
a lower of ours. That's a great point. Okay, sad brownie,
I don't know anything her. She's melted chocolate, a brown ole,
a brown brown crystal, a dessert. What's sad about being brown?
(36:10):
Is not blue? Desert? A brown or brownie? Frown brownie,
frowning brownie? Wow? How did you get that brown?
Speaker 5 (36:20):
What kind of vehicle does an egg drive?
Speaker 3 (36:24):
Shell?
Speaker 8 (36:24):
Cracked shell over easy, scrambled taurus, yolk, toyota yok yolks wagon.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
What do you call a cow or sorry? What is
a cow without a map?
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Lost? Cow? Lost? Cattle lost, b floped catalyst catalogue? Wait,
a cow without a map?
Speaker 5 (36:49):
A cow without a map, it's got to be something lost,
utterly lost.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
We don't respect that joke. That was not good, no
respect for.
Speaker 4 (37:05):
And it's got to be something with loss.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
Over the word boom, no respect. Okay, that's good. You
gotta respect that.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
You got.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
You got blue cheese, brownie and yolkswagens.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
All right, I did like you would have gotten utterly,
no chance, no chance more than whatever.
Speaker 1 (37:28):
Yeah, no respect back again. Okay, good job Bobby Bone
Show Today.
Speaker 6 (37:35):
This story comes us from Buffalo, New York. A twenty
nine year old man was waiting for his flight. It's
one am, there's not a lot of people at the airport.
He's had a few drinks, and he sees one of
those golf carts that they drive people, you know, beep
beep coming through.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
He's like, keys are in it.
Speaker 6 (37:51):
Let me go ahead and drive that around the airport,
goes on the moving walkways and he crashes it and
gets arrested.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
As is it. I would think that would be something
you wouldn't leave the keys in, just because there are
so many people walking around and so many of them
are drunk, and you can see those keys in because
it's open the cop car. You should't mess with. You
shoudn't even look inside of him. No, no, no, no.
But I would think you wouldn't leave the keys in
that in airport.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
I know you would think though at one am maybe
they were.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Like especially one am though everbody's drunk or sleepy, it's
fairly empty or sleepy. Okay, I'm Lunchbox. That's your bonehead
story of the day. I'm not trying to bore everybody
with retirement talk, and I don't know that I will
ever actually retire. But mostly it's become a bit because
Eddie and Lunchbox always talk about wanting to retire yet
haven't done anything about it.
Speaker 8 (38:38):
Gosh, I can't wait?
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Which the problem? Which is the problem because you're not
doing anything and our listeners think that it's a bit
as far as we're just making up a story, but
it's absolutely true.
Speaker 8 (38:49):
No, it's not a bit.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
We're doing it as a bit, but it's true.
Speaker 8 (38:53):
It's true. Like I don't have money to put into
a four oh one k right now in my life.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
You made the money.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
Do you think you're the poorest person than ever in
history of the world. Do you think there are people
that have more kids and less money that put money back.
I just asking because.
Speaker 8 (39:06):
Yes, but my wife is in control of our finances,
and I've run this buyer hundreds of times. She says
this right now is not the time.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Great, I'm gonna present you with some more information. Uh,
Americans think they need to have blank set aside for retirement.
How much do you think Lunchbox? Did Americans think they
need to have set aside for retirement?
Speaker 6 (39:30):
Two million?
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Oh, that's way higher. So yeah, I thought it was
gonna blow you guys away. It's not. It's not going
to one point two million.
Speaker 4 (39:38):
Well, I mean, Lunchbox is once an island, and we
need I.
Speaker 3 (39:41):
Want to live.
Speaker 6 (39:42):
I want to live a life of luxury, so I
don't want to be scraping by when I retire.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
So I think you have to be a multi millionaire
to be able to retire.
Speaker 8 (39:49):
So I don't care about that.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
This is average Americans, So this is not being a multimillionaire.
So the whole I thought one point two million was
a crazy high number. It is a high number as
far as like you have to have that much saved up.
Speaker 8 (39:58):
Yeah, because I'm thinking, like I just need enough to
go to McDonald's, you know, a few times a day
and five times a day, and pay for my tea
times and that's it.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
Yeah, you gotta pay electric bills?
Speaker 8 (40:09):
Well yeah, yeah, but I figured by that, by that age,
I should have like my house is already paid off
and it's my kids are out, so to my wife
to turn all the lights off and we're not in
the room.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
It leaves a lot of people feeling doubtful they'll have
enough save to retire, but experts say it's still possible
to build a more secure financial future by taking the
right steps. This is from go Banking Rate. So I'm
gonna recommend what they're saying. Number One, enroll in your
employer's retirement savings plan. You can still do that. That's
number one. Yeah, you can still do that right now,
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and it's taken out before your checks taxed.
Speaker 8 (40:44):
You know, I heard a guy talk about how like
the taxes are going to be higher when you're sixty
or seventy years old, and so your tax is gonna
be You're gonna be taxed way more than you would
ever be taxed if you saved your money just in
something else.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
What you just said makes no sense. I don't know.
Speaker 8 (40:58):
You just said, well, I'm the guy on TikTok said it, dude,
you're really he said, basically, whatever, like you're you put
your money in the account now, right and you can't
take it out until you're sixty five. You can there's
a penalty where there's a penalty, right, so you wait
till you're sixty five years old to take it out
or whatever the age is. But whatever the taxes are
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at that point, like whatever the government taxes for income,
that's what the number.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Is going to be.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
He doesn't know what the tax is going to be.
Speaker 8 (41:26):
He's he's assuming it's going to be higher than he
is now.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
He's assuming and projecting with direct which okay, don't believe
people on TikTok when you so.
Speaker 8 (41:33):
Now, my algorithm is feeding to me like, do not
put your money in a four oh one k.
Speaker 1 (41:37):
Uh, they say, look to catch up on contributions to
IRA four to one k plans. They say, check into
blah blah blah. Oh if you're not gonna do put
one to two percent of your salary in retirement one
percent even one percent one to two okay, And if
you get a bonus or raise, put half of that
extra money towards retirement.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
I don't know. I feel like talking to them is
just like Geddy's over there, he's like one percent.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
No, Eddie.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
But if you just have yourself to do it, then
you find other ways or like you could I just
recently learned about a checking account that gives you a
high earning one like four percent.
Speaker 4 (42:20):
So I move some stuff over there, and that's going
to make me more money than whole thing else.
Speaker 6 (42:26):
Tells where you got that.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
I want to do that.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
Give me that.
Speaker 8 (42:31):
I want to do it right now.
Speaker 5 (42:32):
Let me ask you if you if you find the
one percent from your paycheck, you'll do it.
Speaker 4 (42:36):
Do I get a finder's fee?
Speaker 8 (42:38):
You're pro bono?
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Okay? So my only point with this whole thing is
you guys keep waiting and you're like, well, I can't
do it, but it's going to be time to retire.
When you actually think you can't do it, you're not
gonna have any money.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
How about this, guys, you give me your money and
all put.
Speaker 8 (42:51):
It in the checking Risky she'll lose it.
Speaker 1 (42:54):
You sound like made off, Hey, but some people made
a lot of money with made off maybe because you
had to pay some of them can make it look successful.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
I forget about them.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
Some people did it awesome, really, yeah it was. You
just never wanted to be one of the last ones in. Like,
if you got any and you're in for a while,
he starts to pay you back some. But there's the
new people coming in, he would keep their money. You
always wanted to be the next one up. All right, guys,
good luck with your money.
Speaker 8 (43:16):
Okay, Amy, we'll talk after the show.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
Here's a voicemail from Lindsay in California.
Speaker 7 (43:21):
I have a question for the room.
Speaker 9 (43:23):
Do you guys believe that cheating is a non negotiable
as in that is something you'll never be able to
get over or it's something that you are able to
get over and stay together.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Thanks guys. No, I guess I would wonder does she
mean in our relationships or do we mean that? Because
I would say nothing is a non negotiable unless it's negotiated.
Like some couples, I mean they've cheated, and they've they're
happier now because they learned why the marriage or the
relationship wasn't successful. Like they've been able to address the issues.
(43:56):
There's been a lot of pain, obviously, but they've been
able to work through things that probably they would have
never worked through had the really hard thing not happened.
So I think every circumstance is different. So I don't
think cheating is just generally a non negotiable. I think
it sucks. I think for me it's easy for me
to go, yeah, it is, and then if it happens,
you're like, well, and now I have to address this.
(44:16):
So I would say nothing is a non negotiable. Yeah,
I'm just blanket statement in it.
Speaker 5 (44:21):
Yeah, it's not a black and white I think for
so many people it's great, like you said, until you're
in it, then you know how you're going to handle it.
But some people they might be like, out front, hey,
this is a non negotiable anyway it happens, or like
peace out.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Yeah, some people could be like that, And some people
may say that out front and be like, no, I
don't know, let's walk through exactly. I've just seen it
happen in so many ways where yes, many of them
have been like they cheated, I'm out, some of them
have been like, let's work through it. They don't get
all the way through it. And some have been like, well,
let's address instead of addressing the symptoms, let's address the
actual problem. And they do and they're actually happier because
(44:52):
of it. So I think it's not a one size
fit all. But yeah, sure, I'll say that now non negotiable.
I don't negotiate it with cheaters or terrorists think they
don't negotiate with cheeters are terrorists? Thank you for that.
You can leave us a voicemail anytime. Eight seven seven
seventy seven, Bobby, that's our number. Eight seven seven seventy
seven b O, B B Y. We appreciate you guys
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being here. Bailey Zimmerman will be on the show tomorrow.
We are excited about that. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye, everybody.
The Bobby Ball Show The Bobby Bones Show theme song written,
produced and sang by read Yarberry. You can find his
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of Production. I'm Bobby Bones. My instagram is mister Bobby Bones.
Thank you for listening to the podcast.
Transmitting Welcome to Thursday Show Morning Studio, Ray Mudo.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
What's the game it is? How well do you know
TV show songs? The theme songs? So I'll give you
a question about details from these famous TV theme show lyrics.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
Hey, give us an example.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
In the Golden Girls theme song, what would the card
attached to the biggest gifts say the card attached Wou'd
say thank.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
You for being a friend? Correct? Okay, how many questions
do you have here? We have ten? Let's do seven,
all right? Write your answers down elimination style. All four
of us are in number one. In the Friends theme song,
it feels like your life is always stuck in what gear?
(00:55):
I'm in?
Speaker 3 (00:58):
What is.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
This game?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Is gonna be hard? Yeah? Because if you sing it,
other people are getting possibly hear it. But Amy's singing it.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
Well, you already have it, so I can think they
don't have.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
It's me? What the heck?
Speaker 4 (01:16):
Can you say it? One more time?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
In the Friends theme song, it feels like your life
is always stuck in what year?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
I'm in the wind? Amy d o A, No, you
love life? Do I know You're always stuck in second gear?
Second gear? Second first?
Speaker 5 (01:42):
I never drew, I never drove stick, so I don't
know what that means.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Just numbers though, and bunch of guys eliminated wow, eliminator style.
I thought it'd be easy at first, all right.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Next up in the Jefferson's theme song, what part of
town are they finally moving on up to?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
I'm in, I mean moving on up to the east side,
east side side. Okay, we finally got a piece of
the pier. Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Next, in the full House theme song, the singer wonders,
whatever happened to predictability?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
The milkman, the paper boy? And what is the third thing?
Got it? I'm in? I mean you can sing it.
The sign okay, the milkman, the paper boy even in
TV correct Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Next in the Fresh Prince of bel Air theme song,
where did Will spend most of his days?
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Got it? Had to get there, but I got it.
I'll sing this one. I'm in in West Philadelphia, born
and raised on the playground is where I spent most
of my days? Playground? Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters
had hair of gold like their mother, and how was
the youngest one's hairstyle.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Described I'm in. Will you read that again? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (03:19):
According to the Brady Bunch theme song, all the daughters
had hair of gold like their mother. How is the
youngest one's hairstyle described?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
You might have singing it? Do you have? Are you no?
I need to sing it to get it so I
can sing it. I already have it. Okay, here's a
story about the lovely lady who is really not very lovely.
Girls like their mother, their youngest one in curls, curls.
I have curls. I had to get there all. I
(03:49):
had to fight that one, all right.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Next, in the Beverly Hillbillies theme, the singer invites you
to come and listen to a story about.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
A man named what Okay, got it? You know that
you can say this one? I'm in. Go ahead, the
story of a man named Jed. Well, here's a millionaire.
Oh you don't know what they're red it's Jed, but
I think it's Come and listen to a story about
a man named Jed. The poor mountaineer barely kept his
family fed. That one day he was shooting at some
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crude and up from the ground, no, shooting at some food,
and up from the ground came a bubbling cruise? Is
that like a black goal texasity? All right? One more? Yeah?
This is it? Last one?
Speaker 2 (04:30):
In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?
What does she get out front?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
What? I don't know this one? I don't know that
Anamal Hanna theme song either? Do you know what I mean?
So read it again? Ray?
Speaker 2 (04:43):
In the Hannah Montana theme song, because of her fame?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
What does she get out front? What does she get
out front? I'm in? What do you have? Bentley? Oh?
I flowers combining flowers? I don't know? You know front?
Speaker 6 (05:05):
What?
Speaker 1 (05:05):
Limo? I don't know how that song go wrong? Get
out front?
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I know the melody? Yeah, we appreciate you all. Too
old for that one. Okay, we have three more though, Yeah,
we'll do these next two normal, and if we don't,
we'll do tie break on the third.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
In the Family Matters theme, it's a rare condition this
day and age to read any good news on what.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
I'm in. Newspaper page, newspaper page.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Correct?
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
In the Family Ties theme, how many years have they
been together?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
This is where you win? I don't even know that.
Oh wait, wait, that's been yes, ladies. Oh no, I'm
off now, I'm off. Hold on, what are we singing?
Speaker 3 (05:49):
No?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
No, because I don't know. I have no idea. I
have it, repeat it. I need to sing it though.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
In the Family Ties theme, how many years have.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
They been together? I think I have it? I have it?
I think? So Okay, singer, are you out? Do you
have nothing? Well I'm not in yet. Well, right, I'm in.
How many years are they together? I have it? Oh?
(06:24):
All right, I'm in. I don't know. What do you
heck to? Random number thirteen? I think the song goes,
I bet we've been together for a million years. Oh,
I bet we'll be together for a million more million? Correct?
Good job, dude. Glad you know hannim on Tana because
I know that one. I didn't have no clue. What
was the tenth one? It is?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
In the Growing Pains theme, the singer asked them show
them that smile again and not waste another minute on
what show.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
Them the smile? Look you show me in a smile,
don't waste another minute. Oh you're crying? Correct, good job dude.
Post Malone has a stalker and post malone stalker has
been arrested for the fifth time. It is a woman.
Her name is Cherish Gorner, and this time she was
taken into custody because she jumped in front of post
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Malone's car as he was trying to leave his home. Wow,
his driver had to swerve to avoid hitting her. So
a couple things are weird here. One just the general
idea of having a stalker. Two she knows where he lives,
and three she knows where he lives and is waiting
outside of his house for him.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
And like, being arrested already hasn't deterred her, So like,
what needs to happen next?
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I wonder if this is the first time, Mike, do
you know much about this story? I don't think it's
the first time it's happened. No, I mean first time
she was arrested and taken in arrest that I believe.
So yeah, oh, because I know she's been charged, but
this is the first time I believe she's been arrested.
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Okay, Well, we need to scare straight while she's in there.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
I don't think she's able to be scared straight because
she believes she has a spiritual connection with the singer
and his quote in title to be near him.
Speaker 4 (08:01):
Oh yeah, that's a problem.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
It's her fifth time that she's been charged with trespassing, stalking,
even intoxication at his Raising Cane's restaurant. The latest arrest
comes with fell Any charges for stalking and violating a
court order. The stalker is now being held with that
bail that's from the boot. So you could go, ah,
just some crazy woman, He's fine. The problem is with
(08:24):
crazy people, they can go next level very quickly. And
this turns into one of those well if I can't
have you, no one else will type situations, or then
you kill them, and that is not out of the
realm of possibility. In a situation like this, it's five times.
She knows where he lives, she tried to stop his car,
and probably what she can do something bad to him
(08:45):
right then, probably knows, she thinks he's he's her boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
She has a spiritual connection.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
Absolutely, you don't kill that person until you absolutely know
you can't have him, and then you kill him so
nobody else can.
Speaker 4 (08:55):
And that's justifiable too.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
There's another one, and this one's creepy and dyer way.
And I do like Selena Gomez and I like Benny Blanco,
and I think they've been kind of cute together, although
it starts to border on Okay, you're pushing this, but
here's one. Benny Blanco admits that when Selena Gomez is away,
he likes to spray or perfume on him to remind
him of her.
Speaker 4 (09:20):
I mean this tracks.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
Benny wakes up every day and says to himself, how
can I make Selena's day better?
Speaker 3 (09:26):
Like?
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Can I give a theory to this? He loves her
that I don't think he really does this. There are
two things here. This is from People magazine. One, I
think like this plays whenever he does over the top stuff.
This plays in many ways for her, for him, for them.
It gets a lot of hits. And then two, the
perfume he's spraying on himself is her perfume. Like, it's
(09:48):
not just her perfume that she owns, it's her raw.
It's like rare beauty perfume. So I think part of
the ankle there too. Advertising the world and he doesn't
like this. But the world is wrestling, Yes, the world
is wrestling. The world is a stage. So as funny
as that is and as weird as it, I don't
think that's really what's happening. I think he's probably making
(10:09):
it up. Or two, if he posts videos him doing it,
it's with her perfume and it's selling her perfume.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
Genius.
Speaker 1 (10:17):
The World's a wrestling ring. Finally, mister Beast credits his
poor mental health for a success. Hey, I feel seen.
Oh I feel I've never felt more seen in my life.
Mister Beasts the biggest YouTuber on the planet. But while
he was chatting on Lewis Howe's The School of Greatness podcast,
(10:37):
he dropped a bomb that shocked the host. Quote, if
my mental health is better, I wouldn't be as successful
as I am. I feel that to do anything great,
it doesn't have to even be in a professional space,
a parent, working at a bank, a runner, whatever. To
do anything great, it takes a lot of sacrifice, and
(10:58):
you're going to miss out in other parts of your life,
and you're missing out on other parts of your life
because the sacrifice of your mental health is never great.
It can be pretty good at best, but it's hard
to be even great at balance because if you're balanced,
you're putting work into It's not just being even. You're
putting equal amount of work and making sure you don't
(11:19):
put too much work somewhere if you have to declare
I want to be balanced, that means you are imbalanced
and you have to work extra to fix that imbalance.
So even being balanced is really hard. So I understand,
and I feel your mister beast, But for anyone that
wants to be great at anything, it takes a lot
of sacrifice, and a lot of sacrifice means you don't
get to do other things that normal people get to do,
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and that affects your mental health. But even be balanced.
Speaker 5 (11:44):
So, but which came first, like chicken or the egg?
Like you know, because you're saying like you're putting it
into it.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Question. I think to be driven, there's got to be
something broken that's driving people that are crazily driven. That's abnormal,
and something is broken and in order to push that
abnormal drive, because why would that drive even exist if
something wasn't motivating it. And so it's like why a
lot of presidents, you know, have like single moms or
(12:15):
there was a version where their dads weren't. Like there's
a lot of that and it's proving Okay, well I'll
show him, Like that's been a very familiar over and
over pattern.
Speaker 5 (12:23):
Wow, that's kind of crazy if they're like, I'm gonna
show my dad and I'm going to come president, and
then they actually do.
Speaker 4 (12:28):
If you have have yeah, the leader of them.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Thank you, mister Beast, speaking out for all of us
mentally unstables. Anonymous of the question to be well, Hello,
(12:54):
Bobby Bones. I'm twenty three, just finished school with a
tech degree. The landing a job has been harder than
I expected. Right now, I've got a temporary gig that
pays the bills, but I just got a full time
offer with great pay, almost double what I'm making now.
The problem is that it's four hours away from my girlfriend.
We've been together since high school. I really do see
a future with her, but she can't move because she's
helping her parents out. Do I hold off for something closer,
(13:17):
or take a job and risk losing the person I love?
Signed job offer or love of my life? It doesn't
have to be out of one of those. I mean,
if you take the job, it doesn't you have to
lose her. Yeah, and you can still be together if
you're gone, But she can't go, so you're kind of risking.
You're risking why.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
I want to know how long does she have to
help out her parents.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
Yeah, you don't have to hold out for something closer.
You can take the job, and you don't have to
risk losing the person you love because you can still
be with that person you love if you take a
job four hours away. This is only a season. You're
twenty three. This is a season in life.
Speaker 4 (13:53):
Thank you for reminding me. He's only twenty three.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Yeah, if you are thirty eight, different story, you're twenty three.
You can do a couple of years with a four
hour distance. Our boy Reid did that forever. His wife
now went to med school and he lived here and
she was down in Louisiana, and they made it work,
knowing at the end they we're gonna be back together again.
So you do not have to hold out for something closer.
(14:16):
This is a great job. Go take it and get
started on you guys's future together. You take that job.
Now you're getting started on your future together because you
start saving up some money. Boom gets your house, Boom
gets you a kid with her, hopefully later. But then
you have a little money in your pocket. So let
her take care of her parents and you guys formulate
a plan. The plan is either a she eventually moves
to be with you, or you go and do that
(14:38):
job for a year or two years and then use
that job to get a job back nearer to where
you are now. It doesn't have to be only one
of those two options, so open up your mind a
little bit. It doesn't have to be that. But take
the job, bam and keep her and you can do both.
It'll be a little difficult, but that's okay, and hopefully
she's school was that. Yeah, good things are difficult because
(14:59):
good thing take work, and work is difficult. And so
I'm not talking about your job, talking about your relationship.
So yeah, don't give up the job, but donn but
don't give up the girl. We're gonna need an update.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
On this, Yeah, I know, because I got two years.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Yeah, we won't, or at least when he has the conversation,
because if he's like, I'm taking the job and she's like,
well that doesn't work for me, so I'm breaking.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Up with you, then you take the job, and then
you know, and you just take the job because all right,
there you go, Thank you, everybody, close it up, start
up a hornet's nest, Amy what I did?
Speaker 4 (15:32):
Yeah I did?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Yeah, what do you mean would you have voicemail number four.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
So I just wanted to call in on the segment
about Amy being a real hater on WWE wrestling. So
the split ratio is sixty percent women and am they're
not just rubbing oil all over themselves and going in
the ring.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
It's an art form.
Speaker 3 (15:53):
Stop sipping the hater ade and let's start considering it
as art. Thanks.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
That's right now, it's art. It is for sure art.
If actings are performance, Yeah, do you think so Lea
is art?
Speaker 4 (16:05):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Okay, do you think acting in Marvel movies art? It's
a make sure of those two things.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
Yeah, you're right, Okay, I get it. I'll give you
that it's art.
Speaker 1 (16:14):
I've been thinking about something. What is art? I've been
thinking about this in that we were gonna do the
wheel of mild punishment. M Oh yeah, I'm just gonna
do the punishment now, No need to spin the wheel?
Speaker 4 (16:25):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (16:27):
Because you've been such a hater, it's actually really good. No.
I enjoyed it so much. You're gonna watch on Netflix Unreal,
which is a docu series. It's five episodes. Episodes don't
that long? You have a week. I'll give you a
week and a few days, so not Monday coming up,
but the next Monday. You have eight days, nine days
to watch WWE unrel And it's a docu series about
(16:50):
how they write the storylines on the athletes, the wrestlers.
And you come back and give me a review of
the show and see if you understand wwel or better. Okay,
this is.
Speaker 4 (17:01):
Better than I thought. I thought you were about to
make me go to some local wrestling chows.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
No, I don't know they have any of those. But
I think you'll like this more and I think you'll
have an appreciation for it. Like there's one I don't
want to give too much of the way, but it's
a certain wrestler that once they got in and started
to be pretty good, they broke their arm, came back,
broke the arm again.
Speaker 4 (17:19):
Like they really broke it.
Speaker 1 (17:20):
Yeah, yes, yes, they really broke it. Okay, And then
see if you can have a favorite wrestler, because I
have like my all time favorite wrestler, which is Sting
and he's still yeah he's older now, but he wrestled
in a different organization, Geriatric. He still wrestles. He's still
a part of it, the GWe, and he wears face
(17:41):
paint so he doesn't look much older. And then I
have like about his body though well he wears like
big stuff mostly the okay. Yeah. And then I have
my favorite like now, which you probably like. See him punk.
Speaker 5 (17:53):
CM punk Yeah, like the letter CM. I just want
to know the name so I knowed who to look for. Okay,
see them punk now?
Speaker 4 (18:02):
Is the unreal? Is that showcase?
Speaker 5 (18:03):
Men and women both wrestlers, Okay, so you don't know
who's gonna be.
Speaker 4 (18:08):
I just have to pick a favorite.
Speaker 1 (18:09):
I just I just want you to watch it. Come
away with thoughts, okay, and you have plenty of time.
This is your will of my old punishment, no will,
I'm just gonna sign the punishment. But it's a great punishment.
I love it. It's one of the best documentries I've
seen it in a while.
Speaker 4 (18:21):
How many episodes? Five?
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Five would you play? Voicemal number one.
Speaker 7 (18:26):
I think Amy should be assigned the homework of watching
the movie fighting with my family and report back what
she's learned. I think she would like it and would
have a better appreciation for wrestling. The WWE always gives
back to the community wherever they are. They always reach
out to the boys and Girls Club Special Olympics. They
(18:48):
do a great job, so it's important to just spread
that word too. All right, thank you love the show.
Speaker 1 (18:55):
Do you hate Special Olympics?
Speaker 4 (18:56):
No?
Speaker 1 (18:56):
Okay, no, so what is it called? Worry about the
movie yet? Just watch Unreal? But that's a movie and
it is with actors, but it's based on the life
of a very famous female wrestler. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
No, I love that they give back in that way
to kids. That are the kids that.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
It's always got. It's always got to be.
Speaker 5 (19:14):
That's your attraction as an adult is because when you
were a kid.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Atracted am in with tights? Okay, I have my own reason.
Speaker 5 (19:22):
Heights a lot of people if this is something they
enjoyed as a kid.
Speaker 1 (19:25):
They So you're saying there are no adults that get
into wrestling as an adult.
Speaker 5 (19:28):
Okay, maybe that will be me after I watch Unreal.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
I don't know. So you've been assigned that. I'll check
back a week from Monday.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Deal, sure, but I will put a spread this like,
call in if you became a fan of wrestling as
an adult.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
Okay, whatever, No, I'm not proving anything. I'm curious.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
I'm curious if if you never were exposed to it
as a kid, and then you went to something as
an adult or watch something as an adult and you're.
Speaker 4 (19:56):
Like, Okay, I get it, I'm into it. And again
that could be blowing up.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
Wow, wow, blowing up. Yeah, right, it's time for the
good news.
Speaker 5 (20:10):
There's a woman that lives in southern Maryland and she
won the lottery because of her late father. Yeah, he died,
but she decided to enter in his death date.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
That's a weird thing. I go my birthday anniversary.
Speaker 4 (20:24):
Yeah, she just felt like, I think I need to
do the death date. And she plays the.
Speaker 5 (20:27):
Lottery every day and something about it was like, yeah,
I'm gonna do this. Pick five, I'm gonna use the
day he died. And it was a one dollar bet
and she won fifty thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (20:38):
Hey should we all try that? But who's death date?
Speaker 4 (20:41):
Our parents?
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Anyone? Any parent? Oh? I'm like, what did we all
hit the lottery? Then this is a real deal.
Speaker 4 (20:48):
Hey, I could get to end her twice.
Speaker 1 (20:51):
My mom my dad left, remember that day. I can
do every year. When I was five, a lot of
I don't hate the bit, I don't hate the bid.
Let's try it. We all put in the dead death
dates of our parents death date, Yes, yeah, I guess
dead death date feels a little too too dark. Yeah,
(21:12):
but that's why she hit fifty rand?
Speaker 5 (21:13):
Crazy, But how do you so it's a pick five?
Speaker 4 (21:17):
Her date must have been because like mine, my mom's
death date I think is.
Speaker 5 (21:23):
Too many numbers, I know, walking through it because she
died in October, so that's ten. Yeah, and then she
died on the twenty seventh, so that's more. And then
it was your twenty fourteen.
Speaker 1 (21:34):
Oh you just wanted to make a millions with all
six numbers? Wow? Oh those are six numbers.
Speaker 4 (21:37):
Second do six so I can do ten twenty seven fourteen?
Speaker 1 (21:40):
Oh all right, yeah, we gotta try this, Okay, okay,
that's all.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
My dad could be pick five.
Speaker 5 (21:47):
He's April Fool's Day four one.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Oh twenty one. What a bit is turn weird? That's
a good story though, Yeah, yeah, yah, that's a good
story money because of it, and then we are too.
How funny would it be if we all won or
one of us wanted. Lunchbox didn't win because his parent
and didn't. That's why didn't die. All right, there you go,
that's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.
(22:14):
So there was a wedding and the mother in law,
I guess about two mother in law shows up and
she has tupperware and she has cake in the tupperware
because she didn't like the original cake. So she brought
cake and tupperware. And then later on in the wedding
she got on the microphone and she was like, hey,
if you don't like the original cake, I brought other
cake and the tupperware.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (22:37):
So when I hear this story, I think she had
to know what she was marrying into the bride, Like
that mother in law doesn't just do that day up.
I'm not saying it's not difficult or it's not annoying,
but that mother in law doesn't show up and go
all crazy mother in law without there being traces of
crazy mother in law to begin with. So, as funny
as it is, a little bit of that had to
(22:58):
be expected, right, and there probably had to be a
decision of the mother in law's like, well, I don't
like the cake, can we get a different cake? And
I'm like, no, we're going to get this cake. And
then you know she's already kind of a crazy mother
in law, so it's not super surprising. She did not
need to get on the mic though she didn't need
to bring it to begin with. But you know what,
if you have a crazy mother in law a crazy friend,
they have the right to be a little crazy because
they're still in your life while being crazy. But there
(23:20):
was no need for her to grab the microphone and
declare that she had a different cake. We did make
a bet at your wedding. I offered somebody over a
thousand bucks to knock it over. Well I wasn't knock
it over. It was the cake. Really that wasn't being used.
Speaker 4 (23:35):
Uh No, that cake was the cake they were going
to cook from it. Yes, and it was beautiful.
Speaker 1 (23:40):
It was awesome, and I knew no one would do it.
I was like, thousand bucks, you knocked that cake over?
Speaker 5 (23:44):
No, friend, I grew up with Margie. She became a
baker and that was her wedding gifts.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Me up, I shouldn't have done that.
Speaker 4 (23:52):
So like and a cake, that's one of the most
expensive things.
Speaker 1 (23:56):
I wouldn't have really had that. I wouldn't have had
him do it was just a joke. I was like,
thousand bucks, if you knock.
Speaker 5 (24:00):
The takeover I mean, I think she was at the wedding.
She probably would have I don't think it.
Speaker 1 (24:04):
Was knocking over me. I think it was like face
planned inside, like fall on it.
Speaker 4 (24:07):
I would have harmed all.
Speaker 1 (24:08):
Yeah, that really wouldn't happened, But I think I would
have done it for a thousand bucks. Experts say if
you're getting married, it's always important to have the marriage
counseling discussion before arguments arise. It can also save you
money when you apply for your marriage license, you get
a discount apparently really. In a study, eighty percent of
married people think pre marital counseling helped their marriages, and
those that didn't speak to a councilor admitted to struggling
(24:30):
and fighting over things that could have been figured out prior.
It's from your tango dot com. My wife and I
started going to marriage counseling right before we got married.
But we've stayed with it. We go every two weeks,
like we're still with it. It's it's way more maintenance
than anything. Obviously, we have the same fights and discussions
that any married couple have. I say, any everybody's a
(24:52):
little different based on how you live, where you live,
what you do, but ours are very similar to anyone else's.
But what it does for us, because I'm a big
believer in therapy and counseling anyway, what it does for
us or for me specifically, it teaches me ways to
communicate whenever times aren't as easy as when they're just
(25:14):
like life is living free, Like I have an issue
with communicating whenever I'm not right. If everything's normal, I'm great,
I'll communicate away. But as soon as something bad happens,
I'm like, yeah, I'm just gonna go ahead and shut
this down on the outside, figure it out on the inside,
and then come back with the whole new approach. And
my wife will be like, you just had the whole
decision and discussion within yourself and then came back and
(25:35):
you're like, oh, this is what it's going to be now,
and you didn't even include me in that. And so
I've developed better ways in those scenarios, so less shutting
down yeah, and more and also the ability to have
uncomfortable conversations because I never wanted to have them with her.
She's great at that. She communicates like a boss. If
there's a video game, she's bows her final boss of
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communicating for me, I was like, dah, I got other
things I want to do and I'll just figure it out,
so I'm not going to have the uncomfortable conversation Personally. Professionally,
I don't give crap, but personally it was like dad.
But counseling for me has done that, and I think
premaritally what it does too is they bring up things
that you're eventually going to fight over, like fundamental things,
(26:17):
and you then have to kind of decide how you
feel about things right then instead of later when you're
already in the marriage, and they could be so fundamental
that they hurt the marriage thoughts.
Speaker 4 (26:29):
Yeah, I think that you can.
Speaker 5 (26:31):
Also, it just sets up a healthy pattern, like you said,
like y'all are committed for that, and if you can
get in early before the marriage, then you know, hey,
we're going to agree if we encounter this. Obviously, you
don't know what's going to hit you during your marriage
at all whatsoever. But if you're both in alignment of like,
how are we going to move forward with a plan
if XYZ happens both your when it happens, Yeah, yeah,
(26:55):
it really is not if it's when and then you're
both in alignment on how you want to handle it
and bringing in outside help. Are you open to that
at all? Because some people just are not. They don't
want to involve a third party. It's either be the
best perspective for you.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Yeah, they feel like it's embarrassing or they grew up
like I did. What therapy wasn't around. Nobody went you went.
If you were to therapy, you were crazy. You were like,
you went to a shrink and why would you do that?
Are you? Are you insane? But I think with the
knowledge of mental health and mental health issues and uh,
communicating better to keep your mental health better, I think,
you know, there's been a lot of knowledge, a lot
(27:32):
of education in that in the past few years.
Speaker 5 (27:34):
My friend told me the other day and he's like
late thirties. He said he didn't start therapy till two
years ago, and before that he would have told you,
no way, therapy is a huge waste of.
Speaker 4 (27:42):
My time and I will never do it.
Speaker 1 (27:44):
Why did it bit the first time for the radio show?
Oh yeah, because all my insurance and I was like,
I'm show them how crazy I am. And I was like, oh,
I kind of like that. It was hard, but I
kind of like that. So I'm a big recommender of
therapy even as you're married. And sometimes we go and
I don't even want to go because we have nothing
to talk about. I was gonna say fight about, but
(28:04):
that's what it feels like. If we have nothing to
fight about, what even is there to talk about? And
so but we go and weasually there are days we
just have good we only talk about good things, and
it's like, what do we need to do this?
Speaker 2 (28:14):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (28:14):
Yeah, it's the maintenance of it is that is super important.
And that mother in law like justice for the mother
in law a little bit. She should probably go to therapy,
and she should that's my point. She should probably go
to therapy. Paris Hilton's husband gave her the ultimate birthday gift.
Hey pink and white, fully customized private jet. Wow birthday.
(28:37):
It even has the phrase that's hot stenciled on the outside.
That's so cool, wow, really cool. Your birthday president isn't
near as cool as Paris Hilton's. I don't care who's
listening me included, that's a cool birthday president I've ever seen.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
So.
Speaker 1 (28:49):
Paris's husband, his name is Carter Room, gave her a
fully customized golf Stream G four fifty, nicknamed Slive Air
after her stupid made up words sliving, which is a
combination of slaying and living. The jet looks awesome. It's
a pink one. I'd like to have the pink jell.
Speaker 4 (29:04):
It's a combination of what and living.
Speaker 1 (29:07):
Slaying and living living. Yeah, OK, and that's hot. And
then her name is written in her autograph on the
back part of it. And I looked it up. The
gulf Stream G four fifty is a popular large cabin
private jet. If you were to buy it new thirty
nine million dollars. Oh my go, look at this. That's
(29:31):
the craziest birthday present I've ever seen.
Speaker 8 (29:32):
She probably already has a jet, right, so this is
another one, you think, I don't know, probably so this
is just kind.
Speaker 1 (29:39):
Of like you want to take the pink one, or
you want to take the other one, right, or they
trade in the other one. Now, I don't know. I
don't know. I'm not pocket watching her money. I have
no idea. But that's the coolest thing I've ever seen.
Your son's birthday is coming up. Get them one? Yeah, yes,
for a jet?
Speaker 4 (29:55):
He did not know.
Speaker 5 (29:56):
I think the most extensive thing he asked for were
pit vipers, sunglasses?
Speaker 4 (30:00):
You have a list, Yeah, I have a list. I
I he's not listening to this, so he'll never know.
But I ordered him the pit vipers.
Speaker 1 (30:07):
You have to whisper to us if he's not listening.
He also here if you talk, Yeah, but ers are funny.
Speaker 5 (30:13):
Yeah, So whatever reason, he updated this list and I
got it, and pit vipers were first, so I was like, Okay,
that's easy.
Speaker 4 (30:20):
You just better not lose them.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
Or he said, well even adults that are responsible and
make sure to lose sunglasses.
Speaker 3 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (30:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (30:28):
But then in its second, third and fourth is candy.
He's just put Milky Way, reeses and sneakers.
Speaker 1 (30:34):
Candy, all three of those that can happen.
Speaker 4 (30:37):
Sneakers obviously, mint snickers. Oh shoot.
Speaker 5 (30:40):
Actually the most extensive thing even on here is Apple Watch.
Speaker 4 (30:43):
But I'm not getting in that.
Speaker 1 (30:44):
I'm not getting that. You're not getting him that. What's
the pit vipers?
Speaker 4 (30:47):
Cause they're over one hundred dollars.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
That's like his comparing them to the Apple Watch. Yeah
that way more? Yeah, yeah, war Is it an Apple Watch?
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
Yeah, I believe so. I think it depends on which
kind you get.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
I think the Apple is. Yes.
Speaker 4 (31:05):
He also asked for College Bowl.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (31:08):
I don't know what that is.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
V Bucks, Roebucks, I know what those are. That's money
on his video games. A glowing stainless steel cross necklace
and an armor of God figuring.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
Did you get him those?
Speaker 4 (31:20):
I think the I think grandma his his dad like
sent it off to his aunt. Grandma and grandpalled.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
They're getting probably the cross birthday and the armor of
God Sunday.
Speaker 1 (31:33):
Oh and Ray, when's your birthday? I got a month? Yeah,
because Ray made a list too. Yeah, and so far
I got you one thing from the list.
Speaker 2 (31:40):
Yeah, the Oliver People's Tom Brady's those are awesome. Yeah,
and so you have other things on your list? Still No, no, no,
I don't know the shows. Oh we're not buying anything
to send that? Oh yeah yeah? Did you do you
give a list to your wife?
Speaker 3 (31:57):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (31:57):
Yeah, there, That's why I got to do it ahead
of time.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
My mom tries to order stuff from Canada, and stuff
stuff takes time to go flying from Canada, getting maple
upper weight, well, where they live, it's insane to try
and get stuff delivered sent Amazon where.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
The upper Pensula in America, right, okay.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
Yeah, so if my mom's sending something from where they live,
it's two weeks minimum.
Speaker 1 (32:19):
Pony express or what pretty much. I don't think that's true.
It is.
Speaker 2 (32:24):
If you send a Father's Day card, do it am
onth early. It's terrible. It's really weird. Only affects me.
Nobody else lives where my parents live.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
Yeah, maybe they are in some well, no.
Speaker 1 (32:34):
One else lives where his parents live. That's true because
that's the one spot of land they live on. You
know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (32:40):
Yeah, I know, I get it.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
I think they've just forgotten to send stuff forever and
rays claims it on that. Uh and you're you're son
starting holed fifteen and race turning forty. There we go,
two birthday lists right there.
Speaker 4 (32:50):
Wait, but what's collegeable? Do you know it is?
Speaker 1 (32:53):
It sounds like a video game, but I don't know.
Is it like a trivia game?
Speaker 5 (32:58):
It's got to be on the I didn't have on
the I figured is you gave him the whatever game
he plays? What is that at xbox PSI? Oh yeah,
yeah yeah, the Big White Yeah you gave him that is.
Speaker 1 (33:08):
A televised quest show or a series of postseason college
football games. That's oh College Bowl?
Speaker 3 (33:13):
Is that?
Speaker 1 (33:13):
Okay? The Quist show currently titled Yeah, I don't know
is I'll pass on that. Maybe he misspelled it. Maybe
it's like college ball because he did sneakers.
Speaker 4 (33:22):
For Sneakers, Sneakers candy.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
Yeah, I'd follow up on that one. Okay, It's time
for the good news. Bobby. He's eight years old from
near Chicago's as Mateo. He gave the twenty three dollars
they got from his birthday to a homeless woman selling
candy on the side of the road, saying he wanted
to help her because she was trying to buy formula
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for her baby. His mom captured the moment put it
on social media. It went super viral, and now there
is a crowdfund campaign one hundred percent of donations going
to sport to people in need in that area, and
they've been able to raise thousands of thousands of dollars
because the mom recorded the kid and then didn't take
the money for themselves. They donated at all. All the
money coming in from the viral video and the people don'tate. Thanks.
(34:07):
It's pretty good.
Speaker 8 (34:07):
That's his birthday money, all of his birthday money twenty
three bucks, Like, here you go, that's unheard of for
a child.
Speaker 1 (34:12):
You have four kids. How many would have done that
with their twenty three dollars? One one, there's one.
Speaker 8 (34:16):
Anytime he sees the homeless person who's like, do we
have money?
Speaker 1 (34:19):
Like, how much do we have? Twenty bucks? Give it
to him? Does he give away his money too? Absolutely?
The other three no, no chance, no chance. They don't
act like they don't even see the person. That's from people.
That's what it's all about. That was telling me something good.
Wake up, wake up in the mall, and you turn
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the radio and the dogs.
Speaker 6 (34:49):
Ready and his lunchbox more game two, Steve Bred trying
to put you through this buck he's running this week's
next bit.
Speaker 1 (34:57):
The Bobby's on the.
Speaker 3 (34:58):
Box, so you know what to.
Speaker 1 (35:05):
The babbleball? Okay, ninety seconds on the clock. How many
of Amy's corny jokes can we get right in ninety seconds? Amy? Ready,
up there, Ready, let's go the morning corny? What do
you call a sad cheese memory cheddar? Sad cheddar uh
(35:28):
American with American sad bree said brie cheese, cream cheese,
blue cheese. Well, I didn't. I didn't have that, thank you. Okay.
Speaker 4 (35:42):
What do you call a sad brownie?
Speaker 8 (35:44):
Okay, keep going the same thing, right, chocolate Betty Crocker,
sad brownie child ship?
Speaker 1 (35:49):
Are you talking like a girl scout or like an
actual brownie? An actual? Okay? Either? Like brownie is like
a lower of ours. That's a great point. Okay, sad brownie,
I don't know anything her. She's melted chocolate, a brown ole,
a brown brown crystal, a dessert. What's sad about being brown?
(36:10):
Is not blue? Desert? A brown or brownie? Frown brownie,
frowning brownie? Wow? How did you get that brown?
Speaker 5 (36:20):
What kind of vehicle does an egg drive?
Speaker 3 (36:24):
Shell?
Speaker 8 (36:24):
Cracked shell over easy, scrambled taurus, yolk, toyota yok yolks wagon.
Speaker 4 (36:36):
What do you call a cow or sorry? What is
a cow without a map?
Speaker 1 (36:41):
Lost? Cow? Lost? Cattle lost, b floped catalyst catalogue? Wait,
a cow without a map?
Speaker 5 (36:49):
A cow without a map, it's got to be something lost,
utterly lost.
Speaker 1 (37:01):
We don't respect that joke. That was not good, no
respect for.
Speaker 4 (37:05):
And it's got to be something with loss.
Speaker 1 (37:09):
Over the word boom, no respect. Okay, that's good. You
gotta respect that.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
You got.
Speaker 4 (37:18):
You got blue cheese, brownie and yolkswagens.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
All right, I did like you would have gotten utterly,
no chance, no chance more than whatever.
Speaker 1 (37:28):
Yeah, no respect back again. Okay, good job Bobby Bone
Show Today.
Speaker 6 (37:35):
This story comes us from Buffalo, New York. A twenty
nine year old man was waiting for his flight. It's
one am, there's not a lot of people at the airport.
He's had a few drinks, and he sees one of
those golf carts that they drive people, you know, beep
beep coming through.
Speaker 1 (37:50):
He's like, keys are in it.
Speaker 6 (37:51):
Let me go ahead and drive that around the airport,
goes on the moving walkways and he crashes it and
gets arrested.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
As is it. I would think that would be something
you wouldn't leave the keys in, just because there are
so many people walking around and so many of them
are drunk, and you can see those keys in because
it's open the cop car. You should't mess with. You
shoudn't even look inside of him. No, no, no, no.
But I would think you wouldn't leave the keys in
that in airport.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
I know you would think though at one am maybe
they were.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
Like especially one am though everbody's drunk or sleepy, it's
fairly empty or sleepy. Okay, I'm Lunchbox. That's your bonehead
story of the day. I'm not trying to bore everybody
with retirement talk, and I don't know that I will
ever actually retire. But mostly it's become a bit because
Eddie and Lunchbox always talk about wanting to retire yet
haven't done anything about it.
Speaker 8 (38:38):
Gosh, I can't wait?
Speaker 1 (38:40):
Which the problem? Which is the problem because you're not
doing anything and our listeners think that it's a bit
as far as we're just making up a story, but
it's absolutely true.
Speaker 8 (38:49):
No, it's not a bit.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
We're doing it as a bit, but it's true.
Speaker 8 (38:53):
It's true. Like I don't have money to put into
a four oh one k right now in my life.
Speaker 4 (38:58):
You made the money.
Speaker 1 (38:59):
Do you think you're the poorest person than ever in
history of the world. Do you think there are people
that have more kids and less money that put money back.
I just asking because.
Speaker 8 (39:06):
Yes, but my wife is in control of our finances,
and I've run this buyer hundreds of times. She says
this right now is not the time.
Speaker 1 (39:16):
Great, I'm gonna present you with some more information. Uh,
Americans think they need to have blank set aside for retirement.
How much do you think Lunchbox? Did Americans think they
need to have set aside for retirement?
Speaker 6 (39:30):
Two million?
Speaker 1 (39:31):
Oh, that's way higher. So yeah, I thought it was
gonna blow you guys away. It's not. It's not going
to one point two million.
Speaker 4 (39:38):
Well, I mean, Lunchbox is once an island, and we
need I.
Speaker 3 (39:41):
Want to live.
Speaker 6 (39:42):
I want to live a life of luxury, so I
don't want to be scraping by when I retire.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
So I think you have to be a multi millionaire
to be able to retire.
Speaker 8 (39:49):
So I don't care about that.
Speaker 1 (39:50):
This is average Americans, So this is not being a multimillionaire.
So the whole I thought one point two million was
a crazy high number. It is a high number as
far as like you have to have that much saved up.
Speaker 8 (39:58):
Yeah, because I'm thinking, like I just need enough to
go to McDonald's, you know, a few times a day
and five times a day, and pay for my tea
times and that's it.
Speaker 1 (40:07):
Yeah, you gotta pay electric bills?
Speaker 8 (40:09):
Well yeah, yeah, but I figured by that, by that age,
I should have like my house is already paid off
and it's my kids are out, so to my wife
to turn all the lights off and we're not in
the room.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
It leaves a lot of people feeling doubtful they'll have
enough save to retire, but experts say it's still possible
to build a more secure financial future by taking the
right steps. This is from go Banking Rate. So I'm
gonna recommend what they're saying. Number One, enroll in your
employer's retirement savings plan. You can still do that. That's
number one. Yeah, you can still do that right now,
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and it's taken out before your checks taxed.
Speaker 8 (40:44):
You know, I heard a guy talk about how like
the taxes are going to be higher when you're sixty
or seventy years old, and so your tax is gonna
be You're gonna be taxed way more than you would
ever be taxed if you saved your money just in
something else.
Speaker 1 (40:56):
What you just said makes no sense. I don't know.
Speaker 8 (40:58):
You just said, well, I'm the guy on TikTok said it, dude,
you're really he said, basically, whatever, like you're you put
your money in the account now, right and you can't
take it out until you're sixty five. You can there's
a penalty where there's a penalty, right, so you wait
till you're sixty five years old to take it out
or whatever the age is. But whatever the taxes are
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at that point, like whatever the government taxes for income,
that's what the number.
Speaker 3 (41:24):
Is going to be.
Speaker 1 (41:24):
He doesn't know what the tax is going to be.
Speaker 8 (41:26):
He's he's assuming it's going to be higher than he
is now.
Speaker 1 (41:28):
He's assuming and projecting with direct which okay, don't believe
people on TikTok when you so.
Speaker 8 (41:33):
Now, my algorithm is feeding to me like, do not
put your money in a four oh one k.
Speaker 1 (41:37):
Uh, they say, look to catch up on contributions to
IRA four to one k plans. They say, check into
blah blah blah. Oh if you're not gonna do put
one to two percent of your salary in retirement one
percent even one percent one to two okay, And if
you get a bonus or raise, put half of that
extra money towards retirement.
Speaker 5 (41:59):
I don't know. I feel like talking to them is
just like Geddy's over there, he's like one percent.
Speaker 4 (42:05):
No, Eddie.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
But if you just have yourself to do it, then
you find other ways or like you could I just
recently learned about a checking account that gives you a
high earning one like four percent.
Speaker 4 (42:20):
So I move some stuff over there, and that's going
to make me more money than whole thing else.
Speaker 6 (42:26):
Tells where you got that.
Speaker 8 (42:28):
I want to do that.
Speaker 1 (42:29):
Give me that.
Speaker 8 (42:31):
I want to do it right now.
Speaker 5 (42:32):
Let me ask you if you if you find the
one percent from your paycheck, you'll do it.
Speaker 4 (42:36):
Do I get a finder's fee?
Speaker 8 (42:38):
You're pro bono?
Speaker 1 (42:39):
Okay? So my only point with this whole thing is
you guys keep waiting and you're like, well, I can't
do it, but it's going to be time to retire.
When you actually think you can't do it, you're not
gonna have any money.
Speaker 4 (42:48):
How about this, guys, you give me your money and
all put.
Speaker 8 (42:51):
It in the checking Risky she'll lose it.
Speaker 1 (42:54):
You sound like made off, Hey, but some people made
a lot of money with made off maybe because you
had to pay some of them can make it look successful.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
I forget about them.
Speaker 1 (43:02):
Some people did it awesome, really, yeah it was. You
just never wanted to be one of the last ones in. Like,
if you got any and you're in for a while,
he starts to pay you back some. But there's the
new people coming in, he would keep their money. You
always wanted to be the next one up. All right, guys,
good luck with your money.
Speaker 8 (43:16):
Okay, Amy, we'll talk after the show.
Speaker 1 (43:19):
Here's a voicemail from Lindsay in California.
Speaker 7 (43:21):
I have a question for the room.
Speaker 9 (43:23):
Do you guys believe that cheating is a non negotiable
as in that is something you'll never be able to
get over or it's something that you are able to
get over and stay together.
Speaker 1 (43:36):
Thanks guys. No, I guess I would wonder does she
mean in our relationships or do we mean that? Because
I would say nothing is a non negotiable unless it's negotiated.
Like some couples, I mean they've cheated, and they've they're
happier now because they learned why the marriage or the
relationship wasn't successful. Like they've been able to address the issues.
(43:56):
There's been a lot of pain, obviously, but they've been
able to work through things that probably they would have
never worked through had the really hard thing not happened.
So I think every circumstance is different. So I don't
think cheating is just generally a non negotiable. I think
it sucks. I think for me it's easy for me
to go, yeah, it is, and then if it happens,
you're like, well, and now I have to address this.
(44:16):
So I would say nothing is a non negotiable. Yeah,
I'm just blanket statement in it.
Speaker 5 (44:21):
Yeah, it's not a black and white I think for
so many people it's great, like you said, until you're
in it, then you know how you're going to handle it.
But some people they might be like, out front, hey,
this is a non negotiable anyway it happens, or like
peace out.
Speaker 1 (44:31):
Yeah, some people could be like that, And some people
may say that out front and be like, no, I
don't know, let's walk through exactly. I've just seen it
happen in so many ways where yes, many of them
have been like they cheated, I'm out, some of them
have been like, let's work through it. They don't get
all the way through it. And some have been like, well,
let's address instead of addressing the symptoms, let's address the
actual problem. And they do and they're actually happier because
(44:52):
of it. So I think it's not a one size
fit all. But yeah, sure, I'll say that now non negotiable.
I don't negotiate it with cheaters or terrorists think they
don't negotiate with cheeters are terrorists? Thank you for that.
You can leave us a voicemail anytime. Eight seven seven
seventy seven, Bobby, that's our number. Eight seven seven seventy
seven b O, B B Y. We appreciate you guys
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being here. Bailey Zimmerman will be on the show tomorrow.
We are excited about that. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye, everybody.
The Bobby Ball Show The Bobby Bones Show theme song written,
produced and sang by read Yarberry. You can find his
instagram at read Yarberry, Scuba Steve executive producer, Raymondo, head
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of Production. I'm Bobby Bones. My instagram is mister Bobby Bones.
Thank you for listening to the podcast.
Hosts And Creators
Bobby Bones
Amy Brown
Lunchbox
Eddie Garcia
Morgan Huelsman
Raymundo
Mike D
Abby Anderson
Scuba Steve
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