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August 26, 2025 49 mins

Bobby starts with a dilemma from a listener who had an off-putting interaction with an ice cream shop. Bobby shares why he embraces haters after quickly diving into the comments yesterday on Instagram. Bobby talks to Carla in New Mexico who makes a case for her favorite NFL team for Bobby to pick. Bobby revealed what he can about possibly owning a sports team.  Bobby brings up the prediction he made at the start of the year about a show member and why he can NEVER reveal it. Caller Anna needs advice with her relationship with her brother as he is about to get married and doesn't want kids at their wedding. But she is the only person with kids who would be attending. Is she being sensitive or targeted?

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
All right, let's go. I'll start with the voice out here, Raymond,
do play me number one.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
So I went into a little ice cream shop on
the Oregon coast yesterday and I asked for a sample
of Maui Sherbert. The lady behind the counter said, no,
you get a cup of it. I don't want to
give you a sample. Do I call the manager and
say something? Do I leave a bad review online? Well,
she was having a bad day and I let it go.

(00:28):
It was just very off putting. Any help would be
her advice to be appreciated.

Speaker 1 (00:34):
She's given you the cup because she said no, you
get a cup. But he wasn't trying to buy the cup.

Speaker 3 (00:40):
Thought she said you got to get a cup.

Speaker 1 (00:42):
No, you get a cup of it. I don't want
to give you a sample.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Oh Like I was saying, like you get it, like
you gotta get it, like let's not buy it.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Yeah, that's probably it. But if she was like, no, no,
no sample, you get a cup, then she's trying to
hook up with you.

Speaker 4 (00:58):
And if if you get a freak up ice cream,
I would never call the manager and complaint.

Speaker 1 (01:02):
That's called hooking up for ice cream, and it's worth
it's worth it. Yeah, I don't. I'm not a big
manager guy.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
What do you mean like talk to the manager guy,
Like I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:12):
Gonna call the manager. Yeah, just like an ice cream place,
like what you don't go back to the place. It's like,
if you have a problem with the business, don't go back.
If you don't like Cracker Burrow, don't go back. I
was watching a whole video about Cracker Burrow because it's
I'm kind of on it right now, where this guy's like, hey,
here's the reason that a lot of these restaurants, like
you do McDonald, you could do ihop Cracker Burrow. Like,

(01:34):
while they're all changing their logos, it's not a person
who's doing it. It's private investment, like private equity. And
what they're doing is to make a thing so generic,
even the shapes of the buildings, so if it doesn't work,
they can quickly transfer it to something else. Because he's like, look,
pizza huts. They used to think of how pizza.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
Used to be shaped, right, like very obvious.

Speaker 1 (01:54):
It's like they pizza would go out of business, they'd
have this building and it would be somebody to put
something in it. But it was always in the Pizzahut building,
you knew. He was like, they're trying to genericize things
to make sure that if it doesn't work, they're kind
of hedging their investment in their bets. And he goes,
and this is just people online making it an issue
because it's something that people will click and be fake
passionate about. So I thought that was super interesting that

(02:17):
it's these It makes total sense when it comes to
money that that's what they would do. It's kind of again,
it's kind of hedging your bet.

Speaker 5 (02:23):
You know.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
The number one land owners.

Speaker 3 (02:24):
In America McDonald's.

Speaker 6 (02:26):
Yep.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
Oh, I was just going to guess McDonald's.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Or Taco Bell because McDonald's owns all the land and
all of their franchise and then they franchise the building
and they out to the people rent on the land.
McDonald's is considered, if not the biggest, one of the
world's largest real estate companies, which is crazy because you think, oh,
they're making a ton off Hamburgers. I think they're making

(02:49):
a ton off of land.

Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah. I remember my dad talking about that. I know
that from him because he was in the restaurant business
for a while and he would talk about how that
would so, and my sisters in laws are it too,
like the way they were with Taco Bell. But I
believe when he sold them all, he kept all the
real estate for it, so even whoever bought it has
to pay him, like for the late Ion's not my dad, Yeah, no, no,

(03:15):
my dad no have a bunch when he died. No, no,
I was paying for everything at that point, really pretty much. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:21):
I saw that morgana clipped the cocker Brel clip because
I think I did that on the Post show, right, yeah,
And I went to the comments for one second, I
was like, I gotta get out of here because I'm
about to. It's just it's toxic, and Morgan has to
go through Facebook. And I looked at him for one second,
and then I thought to myself, what a single one
of these people that's upset about Crockerbreral. Had it not
been a meme on the internet, would they have driven

(03:42):
by it and been upset? Not a single person would have.
And then I was looking at other logos because I
typed it in. Sonic changed our logo few years ago.
I think we get upset about that. Oh yeah, it
was super colorful.

Speaker 3 (03:54):
I don't like change.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah, but some people just follow the internet's advice.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (03:58):
True, it's a group thing. It's hateful group think, and
it happens all the time. And it's not just one
side the whole h Sidney Swayney thing, which that was
stupid too.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, it's like they sometimes. I saw Bethany Frankel talking
about it on a post today how people like love
to hate her and then even if they really don't,
they just get on the Bandmike, like maybe they start
to not like her, but then they really get into it.
It's almost like you don't even want to be doing it,
but you just start hating on things because if it
comes your unhealthy obsession or your indulgence, like you know

(04:29):
when you should stop eating something, but you keep eating
it anyway, and that sometimes people get into that with
their online behavior. It's like I don't even really want
to be acting this way, but I'm just sort of
into it. Like I get like a like a dopamine
hit or something from it. Yeah, Like, and you just
like continue with that behavior behavior, and the more you
do it, the more the more you do it.

Speaker 1 (04:49):
And you also have to realize that people saying negative things,
that's just the people that are saying negative things. You're
not seeing all the people that have no interest or
saying positive things because they don't have an interest to
go and be a part of to hop in the group.
Because also you get in the group, which, by the way,
comments I'm not even saying just about cracker Bill in general.
If you get into like a group of comment it's

(05:10):
all negative because people don't have a voice for the
most part, and the only way they can get their
voice heard is by saying something that gets a reaction,
and that is usually negative because if it's like, hey,
I love this, you're not gonna get a bunch of likes.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
You're not gonna get it.

Speaker 1 (05:22):
But if you're like, this sucks, and here's why, that's
very easy to piggyback off of or get a reaction
from the person you're saying you don't like it too.
It's but there's a point. And I think about this
because my whole career I've said things and people haven't
agreed or disagreed. And one of the things though, that
I thought was funny because I got into the comments
for one second. Let me just sidetrack. I got into

(05:43):
the comments for one second, and I had to get out.
But someone was like, you need to stick to talking
about music, bro, I talk about using none on one podcast,
Like I haven't made my success talking about music. I
make my success talking about culture that's in our personal lives,
like the whole life. It's like, you need to still
talk about music. Have I talked about music? I would
have a job anymore because I don't control me and
i've there's nothing about music that I can do or

(06:05):
say that's really that interesting other than I like it
or I don't like it. That's it. But I really
thought about it. I thought about putting the gloves on yesterday.
It's just it's not a good place.

Speaker 4 (06:18):
You haven't been out in a while.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
I haven't been out in a while, but it's not
a good place for me, So I didn't do it.
But my also point is if people ever stopped talking
bad about me, I'm done. I'm done. I there has
to be people that have a not positive opinion about me,
because there are going to be people to have a

(06:40):
positive opinion about me, and vice versa, and the things
that people like about me are going to be the
things that make people not like me. And if I
have nobody talking crap, about me. Then I'm a milk
toast and it doesn't matter. So the days and.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
Generic, oh got it, just like a plane crash, just.

Speaker 1 (06:58):
Plain so that the day that I'm fully play is
the day that I have no relevance at all anymore
and I go away. So to me, there's real value
in the negativity. I just have to not get involved
in the negativity and not see it. I don't see anything.
I don't go to Facebook.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
So do you think when you get involved in the
negativity like you're saying, like you've done before, do you
get some sort of a dopamine head off of that.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
I sometimes I used to like create accounts and say
bad stuff about me. Wait what it's body back in
the day, just to keep it going.

Speaker 3 (07:29):
Hm.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
Okay, I don't anymore because I don't really It's like
getting into my DMS. Sometimes I don't even unless I'm
in the right headspace. I don't even get my DMS
because why would I subject myself to something that's not
going to help me in any way whatsoever? Right, because
there's nothing I'm going to take from it to make
my life more positive. I'm not going to take the
advice of somebody in that like or the criticism, because

(07:54):
I wouldn't take their advice. So why would I take
their criticism because they don't know what or how or
why that I've had to do this and keep it
at a certain level for this amount of years, so
I don't look at it, and I haven't in years.
I went into the comic yesterday and I was like,
I wonder I knew what it was gonna be, and
I was like, oh, maybe I feel like mixing it up.

(08:14):
And then I had a little talk. I was like, eeah,
I don't not worth it.

Speaker 3 (08:17):
They'll talk with yourself.

Speaker 1 (08:18):
Yeah, I do that sometimes.

Speaker 3 (08:19):
It's good.

Speaker 1 (08:20):
You know how they have a devil on an angel
to pop up on shoulders, it's just me on both shoulders.
I just look over. It's like a three headed monsters,
three nerds with glasses going ah, you could put your
time somewhere else.

Speaker 3 (08:31):
That's good, that's gross.

Speaker 1 (08:33):
Yeah, But if the negativity ever stops, I'm done. And
I also know that, and you can always go back.
Today he went away yesterday. I'm not going back. I
don't need that. I don't crave it. I'm not saying
I will never go back. I used to fight on
Twitter all the time. We did a Bobby Cast, which,
by the way, there's one up to day with Chase
Elliott and then the one that we're doing Thursday, it's

(08:55):
Jay Renshaw, who's chit Ah.

Speaker 3 (08:58):
You know chit I only know Chip from y'all.

Speaker 1 (09:00):
Yeah, So I had him on and then I did
a whole thing about beefs that I've been in over
the years, and I just let Mike go just throw
out people who have got into fights with and I
just talked about all the situations that comes out Thursday
over on the Bobby Bobby Bones channel YouTube page, which
is where I put all the Bobby Cast stuff. But yeah,

(09:22):
I don't I don't really have an interest in that
right now. But the reason it came up was Gavin Adcock.
He's fighting with everybody and it's hilarious and beefs are theater.
That's all they are. It's all theater. He's fighting with
Charlie Crockett, he was fighting with Nickelback sound guy, he
was fighting with Beyonce's fans like it's theater and people
are like, well, it's a PR stunt, yeah, but it's working.

(09:45):
And that's the whole reason that people are saying that's
what it is, so don't believe it. But it's also like,
if that's what it is, it's absolutely working. It's hilarious.
He's also like the nicest guy is what's funny. I'm
I met him, he's been in a couple of times.
I met his parents, I've met him out away from
the show, like spend some time a little bit of
time with him, like as a guy, I like him

(10:06):
as a character. It's funny.

Speaker 3 (10:09):
I guess that's a good way to put it. It's
like part of it.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
We're all we're all an amplified version of ourselves, or
we're focused on a specific version of ourselves as a
public figure. So but yeah, Gavin Accock's hilarious. When he
had his windows busted in in his car and blamed
it on Beyonce's fans, I laughed out loud. He was like,
somebody brought busting my windows in my truck and he

(10:32):
gives kind of Beyonce's fans. I think maybe he said
he could have been Nickelback sound guy. He didn't know
or it was just somebody random, which it probably was,
and he even knew it was. It was like somebody
just in the neighborhood trying to steal stuff. I guess funny.
It was funny.

Speaker 6 (10:44):
Did you see that somebody charged the stage at him
at his Witchitas show and.

Speaker 1 (10:48):
He didn't move. He just kept doing this thing there.
He's also a big old boy, because I mean he
played college football. He's a big old boy.

Speaker 6 (10:58):
Yeah yeah, and then personally nose dived on stage like
was going to tackle him, and he's just like, what's up, dude?

Speaker 1 (11:05):
Yeah, not a guy I want to tackle. There are
other guys that wouldn't. Like Yoda boy, I tackle him,
I take him down. Other than that, I'm probably not
gonna tackle many people. Uh so, Yeah, the beefs it's
all theater. It was the I said that to it
a couple of mine. I was like, it's it was
all theater. But there were people I fought with that
I don't even not like anymore can and I have
fought at one point. What yeah, way back in the day.

Speaker 3 (11:27):
About what I remember, I remember fake.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
Beef for no, it wasn't fake. I don't remember. But
I remember us fighting on Twitter.

Speaker 3 (11:37):
Craig like it because back when he would post all
his shirtless videos before he blew up, you know, he
was like, your selfie shirtless singer guy.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
No, because that would have been me being jealous.

Speaker 3 (11:47):
Okay, well sometimes we react in immature ways.

Speaker 1 (11:51):
Not me, because never reacted immature a thing.

Speaker 4 (11:54):
Always.

Speaker 1 (11:55):
Definitely, I know that was Craig Campbell. Forgot about that.
I like Craig. Craig and I are really are cool.
Now remember that one. No, it took me a second
to remember why I keep notes on my phone?

Speaker 3 (12:04):
What you keep these notes?

Speaker 1 (12:06):
I keep everything? Yeah, beaked with Craig Campbell.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
Yeah, your beef.

Speaker 1 (12:10):
We haven't beef forever.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
But what it was I don't remember this.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
Well. I'm gonna tell you, Like thirteen years ago we
first started here, Eddie and I were doing raging idiot
songs with artists and we had them cover Lord Royals. Yeah,
it didn't really well, uh streaming downloads at the time.
And when TMZ had their country music version of TMC
for a minute in Nashville, they went to them. They
were like, hey, we saw the song and he was like, yeah,
I just decided to record it one day, and I

(12:33):
got so pissed. I was like, that's what happened. But
then it doesn't matter. It was all stupid anyway, Okay.

Speaker 3 (12:37):
I do remember that.

Speaker 1 (12:38):
Yeah, oh that is dumb.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
So golly the came thing. That's weird that I can't even.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
It just was a Twitter fight about something and I
don't even remember. But that was my point that a
lot of these beefs I don't even remember why we fought.

Speaker 3 (12:52):
Well, you had the Florida and.

Speaker 1 (12:54):
That's the first one we go into. And we spent
a lot of time on that one.

Speaker 3 (12:56):
Because then they tried to give you a piece of
art and.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
I said, I don't even know where that painting is.
I don't want to spoil it because I talk about
it took a lot. So, yeah, they gave me a painting.
I don't know where it is, but that's on Thursdays,
Bobby cast it comes out.

Speaker 3 (13:10):
I gave you a painting. Once I know exactly where
it is.

Speaker 1 (13:13):
Did John Mayor painting?

Speaker 2 (13:14):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (13:15):
Do I still have it?

Speaker 3 (13:16):
Nope, it's in my house. I gave it back you
didn't want You didn't want it, so and when John
Mayer came in, I had him sign it. So it
is a John Mayer original by me, signed by John.

Speaker 1 (13:27):
That's pretty cool.

Speaker 3 (13:28):
I have it.

Speaker 1 (13:30):
You have your own original. That's pretty cool.

Speaker 3 (13:31):
I have it in our gamroom. Like the kids are like,
why is this in here?

Speaker 1 (13:34):
What is this?

Speaker 3 (13:35):
I'm like, you can.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
Why do you have it?

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Who that is because you didn't want it or something
in your id. If you want it, I will gladly
give it back.

Speaker 1 (13:43):
I mean, you can keep it, but I remember having
it forever. Yeah, but I'll take it. You did it.
I'm building a new studio, so I'll take it back.

Speaker 3 (13:52):
Okay, I should probably sign it too. Maybe I did
you want me to add more tattoos because when I
did it?

Speaker 1 (14:01):
Why so?

Speaker 3 (14:03):
I feel like.

Speaker 1 (14:04):
Aryh, you got to leave the original art in the
year it was made. You can ride on the back
of it like Amy. In the year it was made.

Speaker 3 (14:09):
I mean, gosh, it was like two thousand and What
year was I into painting, Probably twenty ten.

Speaker 1 (14:13):
It was like three months inside of twenty ten.

Speaker 3 (14:15):
Yeahed Taylor Swift. I painted John Mayer in.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
The end, and you gave you gave Taylor that painting.

Speaker 3 (14:21):
Yes, I did.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
And she said, oh, it's so beautiful. I put it
on my tour bus. I wonder if it's still there.

Speaker 3 (14:25):
She said, you are so talented. I have audio of
her saying.

Speaker 1 (14:29):
You like secretly recorded giving Taylor a painting and Taylor
being super nice about it.

Speaker 3 (14:35):
You are so talented, and you guys say I'm creepy.
That plays on like sometimes in my head. If you know,
when you're having moments where I don't feel talented, I
hear Taylor, you are so talented.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Benny Blanco got roasted after showing off luxury blueberries. So,
by the way, if you do anything, if you were
to show up and be like, hey, I just this
is a guy I just met on the street, holmelest guy.
I just gave him a thousand bucks, you'd get roasted.
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter what you do. People
will roast you because they have nothing else to do.
So when I read the people get roasted or people

(15:06):
like oh this happened with miley'syris and they show like
Twitter comments of people like going hard on her, It's
like you just picked out three random comment you could
have picked out easily. It's many good comments. But Benny Blanco,
but it is stupid. He had two hundred dollar luxury blueberries.

Speaker 3 (15:19):
What is a luxury and they open the box, it's
a big box.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
It's these big blueberries and they're in a box that
look like the big chocolates when you open a box,
and he thought it was wild. They came individually packed
and he was showing off the package and he said
the box is around two hundred bucks, and so people
were like, oh, your tone deaf. Although I don't expect
rich people to show if you show your life, I
don't expect you to hide your life. I don't think
you have to go out of your way to be like, look,

(15:43):
how rich I am. But if you're super rich, I
don't want you lying about it and like not showing
if you're someone who shows your life, Am I making sense?

Speaker 4 (15:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, because if you're someone who's like, hey, I want
to let you into my life, I don't want you
to hide things because you're more successful than I am,
because then you're not showing your life.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
I see what you're saying.

Speaker 1 (16:04):
So you can pick. You can be like, yeah, I'm
gonna show them luxury blueberries because I feel like these
are crazy and show them, right, But I would rather
you not act like you don't have it, because that's
a lie. So be honest. And I feel like he
was being honest.

Speaker 4 (16:19):
Yeah, it's like Kim Kinge like she shows us her life.
She's rich. I want to see the rich stuff. That's
the cool part about her life.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
That's from parade.

Speaker 3 (16:25):
That's Walkerris right.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
I am interested. I'm interested. Look at apples.

Speaker 4 (16:31):
They're huge.

Speaker 1 (16:31):
They're not quite big as apples, but they're huge. A
cryptocurrency scammers five years on the run came to an
end in South Korea. He was arrested for littering a
cigarette butt and they arrested him and he was it's
been running because he was accused of defrauding thirty hundred
people out of thirteen million dollars. That's he gets arrested. Yeah,

(16:52):
they got him. The Little nas X story is interesting
because he has now been charged with four felonies. What
they say, he can be in jail for years. Lil
naz X is facing years in prison because the La
County District Attorney has charged him with four felonies, including
battery with injury on a police officer. Timz broke the story.
We saw the video of him walking. It says naked,
but he was in his underwear when I saw it. Yeah,

(17:14):
White Tides.

Speaker 4 (17:14):
Apparently got naked at one point.

Speaker 1 (17:15):
I saw another clue he did. Yeah, yeah, I never
saw the naked He was naked on Mature Boulevard when
cops were called. They say they confronted him. He charged
the officers naked. If you're a cop, you gotta be like,
all right, because there's a movie scene. What no country
for all men? Are they fighting naked in the shower?

(17:36):
Whatever it was, there's a oh there is butt naked?
Was he got a different weapon coming at you?

Speaker 3 (17:43):
I mean, I don't want to assume he's inebriated, but I.

Speaker 4 (17:47):
Think he was.

Speaker 7 (17:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (17:48):
They I think they claimed he was a drug overdose.

Speaker 1 (17:51):
They were saying that in like one of the first
versions of the headlines. H he was here with a
felony charge of resisting an executive officer i e. A cop.
He was held with that bail. He's said to be arraigned.
If he hasn't been yet, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (18:02):
Yes, Veil's now been said at seventy five thousand dollars.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
Oh that's nothing. He has to pay seventy one hundred
bucks can get out. Cops arrested little nas. They thought
he was high on drugs, so I took him to
the hospital and transport him to jail.

Speaker 8 (18:14):
Gm Z.

Speaker 4 (18:15):
His white cowboy boots are now available on eBay for
ten thousand dollars because he let him there and someone
walking by picked him up.

Speaker 1 (18:21):
Oh wow, I gotta get him to sign him though, otherwise,
who cares? I got a picture John Mayer Amy signed
pretty cool ten thousand bucks.

Speaker 3 (18:27):
So John signed it.

Speaker 1 (18:28):
No, but you're gonna sign it as you sure?

Speaker 3 (18:30):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (18:31):
John Mayer's coming to town to play Pilgrimage Festival. Not
that I would go because I don't really like to
go to things, but it's when we're gone for iHeart.

Speaker 3 (18:41):
Oh well, then you can't go.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
I know.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
I listened to him on SmartLess. Was that the one
I heard?

Speaker 1 (18:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (18:47):
Yeah, yeah, and then he sang he did like a
medley of it's good, he's interesting.

Speaker 1 (18:56):
He's kind of weird, all all are true?

Speaker 3 (18:59):
Yeah, I know. I just went through on it like
the episode. I think I thought all those things like,
but not in that order. I think I thought, oh, this,
he's sort of interesting, he's weird, and then he played
and I was like, gosh, she's good.

Speaker 1 (19:12):
Oh yeah, what his weirdness and what makes him interesting
is that it's weird, and it's also what makes him
really good to what he does, right. United pilot makes
a difficult decision to cancel a flight on the runway
because a pastor would smoke a weed in the bathroom.
They cancel a flight, no way. Yep. This is from
the New York Post. A United pilot made the difficult
decision to cancel the flight while it was on the

(19:34):
runway after a passenger smoked marijuana in the bathroom of
the plane. It had to be a vape, right, I
would assume, right, because you're not really walking, you know,
getting a bat I don't know how you're getting that here.
You're put in your butthole.

Speaker 4 (19:46):
No, you can just put in your carry on bag.
If you just put it in your suitcase and it's
just in a they're not going to see it.

Speaker 1 (19:52):
And yeah, but I'm not risking it. That's the point.
I'm not going to go through I put in my butthole.
That's not a risk.

Speaker 2 (19:56):
Well.

Speaker 1 (19:57):
I put a lot of stuff on my buttole just
to see if I get it through.

Speaker 4 (19:59):
Okay, Well, yeah, I do like quarter rolls.

Speaker 1 (20:04):
I just want to see it just from when I
have to do it. I just like to no, you
know that, Yeah, they can I'd have been so mad.
If I'm on this flight, yeah, I'd be like.

Speaker 3 (20:14):
A man of the Lord is delaying us for weed.
A man of the Lord, A pastor, the pilot. I
thought you said the person smoking was a pastor.

Speaker 4 (20:26):
No, No, I just had a pilot.

Speaker 1 (20:28):
I listen.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
Sometimes I don't know, Oh, passenger, Okay, passenger, Sorry, I
heard pastor.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
I didn't know what you were saying. A man of
the lad.

Speaker 3 (20:39):
A pastor, but you said passenger.

Speaker 4 (20:41):
That would be a cool pastor.

Speaker 1 (20:43):
Though a scientist says he's figured out the Bermuda Triangle,
there's nothing supernatural about the Bermuda Triangle, and he blames
rogue waves for the various disappearances over the years. He
explains that this busy stretch of the ocean sees many
ships and plants. The number of disappearances is what you'd expect,
nothing really unusual, and basically it's their high profile. But
that Bermuda Triangle goes from Miami through the Bahamas, down

(21:06):
to Turks and Caicos, up to like Bermuda and then back.
It's a in like that. Eighties and nineties would be
on unsolved mysteries like planes that disappear to the Marina
Triangle but apparently just rogue waves. Oh you know what,
Eddie's not here to talk about it. But we watched
Amy Bradley.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
Okay, and where do you think she is dead? Do
you think she went overboard?

Speaker 1 (21:29):
Probably? Probably it's close. I think probably fell out the boat.
Nine to forty eyewitness testimonies are the least right.

Speaker 3 (21:42):
It's like after all these years too, it's like, I think.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
There's a chance. I think there's a chance because there
were some weird stuff that happened, like the pictures they
got of her on that site. But I would say
like thirty nine percent chance she died, like thirty two
percent chance she was trafficked off and died o terrible,
you know, six percent chance she's still alive, thirty percent
chance she's doing something. But I think of the betting odds.

(22:07):
If I were betting them, I would bet she probably
fell off the boat. But there are a lot of
weird things that happen. Yeah, but yeah, we watched that.

Speaker 3 (22:15):
It I thought for a minute that she was trafficked
sadly and was down in the Caribbean somewhere. But lately
I've been thinking she fell overboard or just ended her life.

Speaker 1 (22:28):
So it's still bad for her parents because they're still searching.

Speaker 3 (22:31):
Like, yeah, I know they've giving up.

Speaker 1 (22:34):
It's not a spoiler.

Speaker 3 (22:35):
No, all this is known.

Speaker 1 (22:36):
All this is I knew that all before I went
into it, but I didn't know all the details, like
the granular parts of it.

Speaker 3 (22:41):
There's still so much you could see in. I guess
be gosh, entertained feels like the wrong word, but it
still could be an interesting documentary, definitely compelling, compelling. Thank
you sounds better because it feels weird to be all
those things feel weird to be entertained by. Obviously, someone
has lost their life was missing.

Speaker 1 (23:02):
We were talking yesterday on twenty five Whistles about this
psycho stew who's a wrestler and got beat up by
Rampage Jackson's son. Has this made it to you?

Speaker 3 (23:10):
No, I guess it's not my Even though I've been
watching that stuff, it is not.

Speaker 1 (23:15):
It's really not wrestling in the O.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Wait did it happen in the streets?

Speaker 1 (23:21):
Kind of?

Speaker 3 (23:22):
Then maybe I did see something like they were outside
they weren't like in.

Speaker 1 (23:25):
A ring sort of the beginning of it. What did
you see there?

Speaker 3 (23:29):
Was their cars? Well, I guess I saw two guys
in a headline and was somebody in a wheelchair.

Speaker 1 (23:35):
No, okay, I don't know what has it gotten to you?

Speaker 4 (23:39):
Yeah, a little bit.

Speaker 6 (23:40):
But what I saw was that mister Beasts was offering
to pay for one of the cars, one.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
The funeral or the hospital bills.

Speaker 3 (23:49):
Yeah, so what happened.

Speaker 1 (23:50):
Let me tell you what happened. So remember when you
used to come over to my house way back in
Austin and we would watch you sc fights. Yes, we'd
all come over and remember Iceman.

Speaker 3 (23:59):
Yeah, I see. Yeah, I feel like we made like
poster boards or something.

Speaker 1 (24:03):
At the same time, there was a guy named Rampage Jackson.
This is around the time when he was big in UFC. Yeah,
it was good. So Rampage Jackson, very famous fighter. He
has a son named Rajah Jackson. Raja's now twenty three,
twenty two, twenty three years old, and so Raja goes
to this wrestling event. He's also a big live streamer,
which everything's live, and so he shows up to this
wrestling event. He's going to be there for this wrestling event.

(24:24):
And it's a it's a small town wrestling event, meaning
it's like an independent it's not WWE or AEW or
any of those. So he gets there and there are
all these cameras and the wrestlers are like in the
back of the warehouse, just sitting around having a beer
talking and they're not like John Cena cut They're like
big fat dudes, like you know, just big fat dudes
that probably are strong and still athletic. And one of

(24:47):
the wrestlers, Psycho Stu, thinks that Rajah because he has
all these cameras with them, and the cameras come over,
thinks he's a wrestler because Roger's big, big dude, And
so he takes a can that's empty and does this
thing where you smash it on the head, but you
really don't smash it. One there's nothing in it, and
two you smash it with your own hand as you

(25:07):
hit the head. It's a wrestling move. And so they
have this thing. Then Roger gets pissed because he's like,
why did you do that to me? Psycho Stu didn't
realize he wasn't a wrestler. All the cameras were there.
He thought they were doing it like a work whatever.
After that, you then see the apology. Psycho Stu goes
up and it's like, dude, I'm sorry, I thought you
were a wrestler. And all the cameras were here and

(25:29):
they like, shake on it, dap it out. It's like
all good. Like there was an apology, there was an
acceptance of the apology, and moving on. Psycho stud then
was like, hey, let's another wrestler. Was like, hey, let's
make this a thing in the ring. Then, since we
streamed it, you come in later and start beating up
Psycho Stu and we'll pull you off. And so he's like, okay, Well,

(25:51):
what seemed to me and then a lot of other
people on the internet is that he was still listening
to his chat and they were firing him up and
he was like, you're going to take that abuse, and
he was like, okay, I'm in the ring and I'm
gona beat him up for real. Now. Psychostud thinks that
Rajah Jackson's gonna jump in and he's gonna make himself
vulnerable because Roger Jackson's gonna do a move to him,
and you kind of have to make yourself vulnerable to
be a part of that. So Roger Jackson picks him up,

(26:13):
slams him on his head hard and then as he's
knocked out, starts punch him in the face as hard
as he can, not once like ten fifteen punches in
the face, and everybody's confused because at first this was
part of what they had talked about. But he wasn't wrestling.
He was beating the crap out of like a body
that had no life to it. So finally they come

(26:35):
in and I'm talking about that he beats the crap
out there intervene because they thought it was a work
which they thought it was wrestling, because they had decided
he was gonna come in the ring, but he took
that time. According to what I've seen, he slams him
way too hard, knocks him out, and then starts punching
the face as hard as you possibly can. Finally people
get in. Another wrestler comes in, and then you see

(26:57):
Roger Jackson on the phone. They're still streaming, and he's like,
I'm not letting you f was me Psycho Steu's been
he was out, he was non responsive. So mister Beast
is in the news because he's like, I'll cover your
bills because it's not like these wrestlers have a bunch
of money at this level. They have none. They're doing
it for like fifty bucks a show. So in the video,
Psycho Stu was unconscious. Later that day, a user at

(27:18):
feared Buck reported that Psycho Stu had broken facial bones
and lost teeth. He also said that the former American vet,
because he was a veteran, he choked on his own
blood and teeth after being hit by Roger Jackson while
already unconscious. Unconscious don't know stuff like that. YouTuber mister
Beasts responded, promising to help Psycho Stu. Dang man. This
hurts to see, especially because I read he was a

(27:39):
veteran that used wrestling as an outlet to get over PTSD.
If anyone connected knows how I can help, please reach
out so I can help him with the hospital bills.
Oh it was crazy looking, and I can understand why
people thought it was part of the wrestling of it,
because they had already worked out that he was going
to jump in, and there was already an apology, like

(28:02):
in he hit him with the beer can, except it
wasn't a real can, and then he was like, oh
my bad, I'm very sorry, and Roger accepted the apology.
He was like, got it, no problem, so let's turn
this into something. Except he let us chat get him
and then we turned into something.

Speaker 3 (28:17):
Is that what he said later, like I let the
chat get to.

Speaker 1 (28:19):
You see him on the chat before he goes in, right, Mike, Yeah,
because he hasn't said anything. Yeah, he's like leaning over
the phone and he's like, I'm not and then he
puts it down and goes in and beats scrap out.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
So you got fired up, wild.

Speaker 1 (28:31):
That's why you don't look at the car.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
It's one reason.

Speaker 4 (28:35):
But now he's been manned from kick.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
That's why you don't look at the comments.

Speaker 3 (28:39):
Well, I mean, yeah he's not, but he wasn't a
wrestler anyway.

Speaker 4 (28:43):
The streaming platform he came.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
Sorry thought kick was a right was a wrestling club.

Speaker 1 (28:50):
A teacher on sickly for sixteen years refuses to test
to see if she got better. In two thousand and nine,
a teacher took sickly from work and she have been
back since the entire time. The teacher has been able
to pull in a full salary. No way, that's crazy.
It wasn't until recently the authority decided to question her
extended absence and request proof of illness, and so she sued,

(29:12):
saying that she refused to take a medical test. Estimates
suggest that this teacher has been able to pull around
eighty four thousand dollars annually during her sick leave. That's
a good job, you can get it.

Speaker 4 (29:20):
That's unbelievable.

Speaker 1 (29:21):
Metro with that story, Metro with that story, A mean
anything for you before we go? We gotta take a
break anyway.

Speaker 3 (29:27):
No, I'm just thinking about this. When do we get
an update on psychos too?

Speaker 1 (29:33):
Yeah? I don't know. I think that was it right, Yeah,
I said critical of it, stable condition, critical condition. Gosh,
Roger has to go to jail.

Speaker 3 (29:41):
That was my next question, has to go to jail?
So like, but what if did charges have to be pressed.

Speaker 1 (29:48):
Or kind of yeah, they could be pressed and yes,
but I think the DA in California. It was in California,
I think so.

Speaker 4 (29:55):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (29:55):
Now I gotta go see if this is the video
that I loosely saw, like were people outside. Maybe it
was just like people outside talking about it, because I
feel like I saw these words and guys fighting. I
don't know where I got a guy in a wheelchair.

Speaker 4 (30:05):
Put Maybe you just saw a guy in a chair, yeah, folding.

Speaker 1 (30:09):
Maybe the will on a car that you saw and
all of a sudden, that's a wheelchair. I got it.
Next next thing, you know. Okay, let's take a break,
and then we've got a bunch of calls we're gonna do.
Uh yeah, all right, cool, let's grab some calls. Carla
in New Mexico is on now, Hey Carla, what's going on?

Speaker 7 (30:30):
Hey Bobby, I know that you are trying to choose
between two NFL teams, so I wanted to throw a proposition.

Speaker 9 (30:38):
Out for you.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
I'm listening.

Speaker 7 (30:39):
Go ahead, okay, So just imagine September, you and Jerry
Jones are sitting in an owner's suite watching the game,
and you both can say that you are NFL owners
because if you choose the Green Bay Packers, as you know,
they are the only team that is owned by the fans.

(31:00):
So I don't know about you, but I think that'd
be a.

Speaker 8 (31:02):
Pretty pol bit.

Speaker 1 (31:03):
Okay, So I appreciate the call. I am down to
the two teams. I feel like the Packers have won recently,
and so I feel like, also, it's too cold there.
You guys have an advantage, and that is when people
come into Lambeau and uh November, it's terrible. It's it's snow.
I don't want to have to go to a game

(31:24):
and freeze the whole time. But that is definitely an
advantage for teams in Green Bay and Buffalo, et cetera.
I think that's gonna really keep me from being a
Packers fan. I like the Packers, I appreciate the Packers,
but I don't think I'm gonna be a fan. Also,
if you're an owner, like you can't really sell the share.
You pay money and then you have a piece of
paper that is you're an owner, but you don't get
to do anything with it. And so when I own
a team one day and I'm really close by the

(31:45):
way I k I can say no more. But like
what I can say no?

Speaker 3 (31:51):
You can say what like type of sport?

Speaker 1 (31:53):
I can say no more, but I'll say it is
not a goober sport. It's a real sport. It's a
real team in a real league. That's all I'll say.

Speaker 3 (32:01):
Okay, Well, I have more questions that I'm scared to
ask because then when if you're like, I'm not going
to say like, I can ask whatever and you can
just plead the fifth a like is it?

Speaker 1 (32:10):
I will say nothing a good question.

Speaker 4 (32:13):
Ay, good question.

Speaker 1 (32:14):
Question.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Is it something you're already sort of involved in but
you are going to level up?

Speaker 1 (32:19):
I can't really comment on that.

Speaker 3 (32:22):
Is it in the state I was born in?

Speaker 1 (32:24):
I'm already owner that major like pickleball?

Speaker 3 (32:27):
Is it in America?

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (32:30):
Wow, you're involved in a lot.

Speaker 4 (32:31):
It's in America.

Speaker 1 (32:33):
This is what happens when you give a poor kid
money and he gets older and has It's like, oh,
I have money, now what can I do?

Speaker 2 (32:38):
Well?

Speaker 1 (32:38):
You buy stupid stuff, although this one won't be stupid. Yeah,
I don't feel like it comes to fruition.

Speaker 3 (32:44):
Oh is it local ish? You're not going to answer answer.
I want to keep asking, but I think maybe.

Speaker 1 (32:50):
Now it's a good question. You don't know.

Speaker 3 (32:52):
I don't. I mean, I'm not saying that I do.
I just have guesses. Like I have lots of guesses
and they arrange for Broncos.

Speaker 1 (32:58):
I'm buying them from Walmart.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
Oh, Walmart owns the Broncos. Yeah, well that's that's kind.

Speaker 1 (33:04):
Of the owner of one of the walls.

Speaker 3 (33:05):
Okay, Yeah, that feels like a sign because you love
a sign. Yes, because Walmart people are from Arkansas. You're
from Arkansas. You can you know do you see that?

Speaker 1 (33:18):
Yes, people have also called and made the connection.

Speaker 3 (33:20):
Well I didn't hear it.

Speaker 1 (33:21):
I know you were gone for a couple of weeks.

Speaker 3 (33:22):
Yes, that came from my own yea, Carla.

Speaker 1 (33:25):
I respect the Packer fans. You guys are insane and
that's the best kind of fan base. But for me,
it's going to be either the Panthers, who haven't won forever,
or the Broncos who haven't won in a bit and
have a bit more history and tradition. So but thank
you for the car I really appreciate that.

Speaker 7 (33:41):
Yeah, thanks for taking my call.

Speaker 1 (33:42):
All right, see you later. Let's go over to Holly
in Wichita, Kansas. Holly, you are on the show. What's
going on?

Speaker 3 (33:50):
Hi? I'm Holly.

Speaker 8 (33:51):
I was calling to put my two cents in about
who Bobby should pick. Okay, I think the Broncos should
be his choice, mostly because they did something super awesome
for my son. He was eleven.

Speaker 9 (34:04):
He was one of my students and we were in
the process of adopting him. He had adopted on his
eleventh birthday, which was December twentieth, and the Broncos had
surprised him with a Christmas Day package for him to
go down on the field that the Broncos Chiefs game.
Some of the Broncos players tossed footballs with him, played
with him, gave him a whole package of swag and

(34:27):
stuff like that. So they really went above and beyond
to make him feel special. He was born in Colorado,
so he's always had a connection to the Broncos just
because of where he was born. And I felt like
that should be one hundred votes towards the Broncos instead
of just one.

Speaker 1 (34:44):
That's a pretty cool story. Aside from who I picked that,
I like that what players did he hang out with?

Speaker 9 (34:51):
I am not the sports ball person. I do believe
somebody named Webber. There was a player named Weber. That's
all I remember. But I'm I'm not the sports ball
My husband would shoot me if I couldn't tell you.
But I have no idea that even more ironic part
of the story than my husband is a hardcore Chuse fan.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
That's funny.

Speaker 9 (35:10):
And then we adapted two more children and they are
her core Raiders fans.

Speaker 2 (35:14):
Wow, So it's the poor.

Speaker 9 (35:17):
Guy has a house full of rivals.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
Well I will, I'll factor that into my decision, which
should be coming pretty soon. But I appreciate you calling,
thanks for listening.

Speaker 9 (35:27):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
All Right, see you later, and I'll figure who that
Weber guy is. I don't know of a Weber that
played for Denver.

Speaker 4 (35:32):
Denver Broncos had a quarterback named Adam Weber in twenty eleven.

Speaker 1 (35:37):
Oh was it that long ago that she was talking about?

Speaker 4 (35:39):
I didn't know when. That's the only Weber I could find.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Huh? All right, Oh wait.

Speaker 4 (35:44):
Mike Weber, and American football running back played for the Broncos.
And Ryan Weber, who knew Weber was so prominent. Yeah,
and then a collegiate player that played for Malone University.

Speaker 1 (35:54):
All right, let's go over to Josh and Missouri. Who's
on the phone. Hey, Josh, what's going on, buddy, Josh? Josh, Josh, Josh, Josh. Yes, sir, Hey, So.

Speaker 7 (36:08):
There was a prediction made in January, and I was
calling to try to get an answer on it.

Speaker 5 (36:14):
He predicted.

Speaker 9 (36:17):
It was for one of the cast members there, and
I was just trying to see what it was.

Speaker 1 (36:22):
Yeah. So here's the thing about that, Josh, I nailed
the prediction. The thing is, I can never reveal it.
It's it's not a bit. I thought I could reveal
it one day and I'd be like, dang, is he psychic?
Is that type thing? I can never reveal it. I
nailed the.

Speaker 3 (36:36):
Prediction, and well, like, we don't know what it is either, so.

Speaker 1 (36:40):
The only person who knows is Mike, because Mike wrote
on it, like wrote the date and wrote on the seal.
So if I ripped it, I nailed the prediction, Mike did.
I nailed the prediction. But it's dead. But it's dead.
This is not even a bit, huh. But I nailed
it so hard. I just can't reveal it. If we

(37:00):
want to do the bit where I put all of
you guys like on a wheel or something, and whoever
hits it can open it, but you can't say what
it is, like one other person see it. I nailed
it so hard, but it just wouldn't be good if
I were to reveal it.

Speaker 2 (37:14):
Not at all?

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Okay?

Speaker 3 (37:17):
But my like, is it problematic if you reveal it?

Speaker 2 (37:19):
Though?

Speaker 3 (37:20):
Like, so it just could be embarrassing, you say.

Speaker 1 (37:24):
I said nothing. Actually I didn't bring this up, and
now I'm glad Josh did because I was thinking about
this the other night. I hate to let things just
float away. But I'm going to say that this will
be something I can Maybe in years I can reveal it,
but I can't right now because it what it brings
will not be will not be great.

Speaker 3 (37:49):
So I said I didn't nail it, though what it
brings will not be great. Well, no, I'm going to
be thinking about this randomly night exactly.

Speaker 4 (38:02):
I mean, what are your like, what has come true
this year?

Speaker 2 (38:05):
Like?

Speaker 4 (38:05):
What has happened?

Speaker 3 (38:06):
No, I don't even know.

Speaker 1 (38:07):
I think the only person that knows is the person
that knows that's might be. No, it's the person that.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
Knows, the person that knows it came true.

Speaker 1 (38:16):
The person doesn't know that I guessed.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
It, So the person would they know, but they know
they obviously know it has truth truth, and that it's
the envelope of truth. But did he try sometimes lunchwuk's
he like hints at a word to get us off
the track. So it probably isn't embarrassing. You did that, Bobby?
You know you went him? Or did you mean like

(38:40):
m like, what's another word that starts with that in past?

Speaker 1 (38:46):
Impasta?

Speaker 3 (38:49):
Okay, well great, I haven't thought about this in a while,
and now.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
All I know is you guys, do not need me
to open the envelope on the air. Would be terrible
for it be terrible for.

Speaker 3 (38:58):
Everybody, for everybody or everybody one person.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
It would just be bad for a person. And then
it just gets then you know how it turns in here, So.

Speaker 3 (39:05):
Are you gonna do the wheel thing?

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Somebody think I should kill it or should I let
one person see it? Kind of like the one person
seeing it, but the one person has to like they
can't ever say.

Speaker 3 (39:17):
Yeah, could the person it's about be on the wheel?

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Yeah? Of course, because what if I put the wheel
up and the one.

Speaker 4 (39:26):
What about? Of course?

Speaker 2 (39:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (39:27):
But I guess I made trust everybody and not saying
any why we do the will and we don't put
lunchbox on it.

Speaker 4 (39:34):
Well, I am such a good secret keeper that it's ridiculous.

Speaker 1 (39:38):
It'll be low on prep one day and just send yeah,
you'll have nothing for the show and be like, I
know somebody left an anonymous message about what's in the envelope?
Anonymous fill the tea.

Speaker 4 (39:48):
Mmmm, that's not like me.

Speaker 1 (39:52):
So that's what's up, Josh. I appreciate you calling because
I was thinking about this and I thought, how can
I address that? I still know it. I'm not forgetting
about it. I also don't want to do the thing
where I should keep stretching it. But it is what
it is at this point, and it personally would not
be good.

Speaker 3 (40:07):
I mean, I think we're assuming it's somebody on the show,
but it could be somebody in country music.

Speaker 1 (40:11):
Somebody on the show.

Speaker 3 (40:12):
You've said that.

Speaker 1 (40:13):
I'm just telling you somebody on the show, and it's
a prediction that I made that for sure came true,
and it just wouldn't be good because this I don't
think it's it's something that's wanted to be known.

Speaker 3 (40:27):
What what.

Speaker 4 (40:31):
Someone has a skeleton on this show.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
That you know about that came true? And then they
know about it because it but nobody else knows except
for Mike.

Speaker 1 (40:41):
D You pretty much nailed it.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
How did you know?

Speaker 1 (40:46):
I guessed it. I could see I can see it
coming a mile away.

Speaker 3 (40:48):
But you guess so? And then how did you get confirmation?

Speaker 1 (40:51):
Some call me the falsest prophet of all time? What
the falsest prophet?

Speaker 3 (40:55):
Sorry, I don't know if it's the falsest what.

Speaker 1 (40:57):
The falsest prophet? The false a false prophet?

Speaker 3 (41:00):
False, You're the falsest of the all. Yes, are you
saying false like a false prophet? But he was saying falsest,
the falsest of them all, the falsest prophet of the mall.

Speaker 1 (41:11):
Yeah, except I nailed this one. That's all. Okay, I
can see things coming a mile away? All right, uh Josh,
thank you. I'll consider that. But it gets you can
drive the listeners crazy.

Speaker 3 (41:22):
Yeah, driving me crazy right now.

Speaker 1 (41:25):
Okay.

Speaker 3 (41:25):
So sometimes you you predict things, but also sometimes you
make things happen, Like when you draw.

Speaker 1 (41:31):
Those don't make this happen, trust me, you you you
I didn't make this happen.

Speaker 3 (41:36):
You lead the horse to the water.

Speaker 1 (41:38):
Not really how you say that?

Speaker 4 (41:39):
You lead the witness?

Speaker 3 (41:40):
How do you want to say it? You do that
thing where you're like, hey, you know, what's that thing
you do? And then you draw it on paper and
then you're like how many of this? And then I'm
like seventeen and then you hold the paper and you're
like seventeen. I knew you were going to say that.
I made you say that, like you you know what
I mean? What's that game called?

Speaker 1 (41:56):
It's really called a game. It's called it's not being
psychic or anything. It's literally me No, it's me positioning
you in a way you don't know you're being positioned exactly.

Speaker 3 (42:06):
Did you position this person?

Speaker 5 (42:08):
No?

Speaker 4 (42:08):
Did you proposition this person?

Speaker 1 (42:10):
Okay, all right, we're done. Thank you everybody down that call.
Do we have another call? Let's go one more call.
Let's go to Anna and Florida. Anna. Anna, you're on
Good Morning Morning. What we can to do for you?

Speaker 5 (42:30):
So I was calling for some advice. My brother is
getting married next year and we're working on our relationship.
We haven't really been talking very much in the past
seven years. Well, I offered to do a engagement party
for them because I really want them to know that
we support them. Well, he I called him, and I

(42:53):
was talking about the engagement party with them, and they
told me that they don't have very many plans for
the wedding, but they do know that they don't want
any kids there. Well, this kind of threw me off
because the only people in our family that have kids
that would be coming would be me and my sister.

(43:15):
And the reason why this kind of is a red
flag for me, and I'm trying to decide if I'm
being sensitive, is because when I had my daughter at
the time, i'd only met his fiance once, and she
got upset that we did not reach out to her
when we had her and we were in the hospital
because I didn't know that she was interested. And so

(43:38):
I'm trying to decide if I'm being sensitive and this
is a normal thing for weddings, or if there's a
little bit of cattiness in it.

Speaker 1 (43:44):
Listen, I think three things can be true. I think
you don't have to pick one of those things. Are
you being sensitive? Yeah, a little, but you deserve to
be sensitive because the relationship hasn't been good and you
want to be sensitive. You also deserve to be sensitive
after all the things that have happened between you guys.
So yeah, he's probably a little sensitive. That's okay. You
deserve to have your feelings. Number two is a little
bit of cattiness. Yeah. Probably, there's probably not just cattiness,

(44:07):
but like posturing for position, like you know, it's my wedding,
I want to be dominant even though you're doing the deal,
So that can also happen. Is it normal for weddings
to have no kids. Sure, some have that. We didn't
have any kids at our wedding. We had some a
few kids that were like in the wedding, but it
was a no cell phone and no kids wedding and

(44:27):
that was okay. Is it, you know, common? Probably not?
But is it normal? Sure? So all three things can
be true. So I want to say that, first of all,
you don't have to pick one of those lanes to
go down. Yes, yes, and yes. Also this is gonna
be hard, but I understand why that it would kind
of hurt your feelings that they say no kids, especially
if you have the only kids, because that sucks and

(44:48):
that feels a bit personal, and I understand why that
would be sensitive to you. But it is their wedding
and you have volunteered to pay for this party. Now
with that does not come ownnership of you getting to
dictate terms of their wedding. So I would say that.
So what I would encourage you to do is at
times when you have to massage your relationship back into place,

(45:11):
is to understand that you're going to have to sacrifice
a little bit, and some of the sacrifice might be
that your kids don't go to the wedding. So I
would encourage you not to make this about you, to
make this about the wedding. And yep, it sucks. It sucks,
and it also might be personal, and it also might
be personal from not even him, from her who knows.

(45:32):
Not up to you to unfold that. Up to you
if you want to be the supportive sister and rebuild
this relationship, to just be a part of the wedding.
And you've offered a really selfless thing, and I love that,
and I think that's super great. And you are putting
in the work in the effort, and so continue putting
in the work in the effort. No kids at the wedding,

(45:53):
if that's what they want. I don't think that it's
wrong to have one more conversation though, but not in
an angry way to go, hey, the only kids that
would becoming ours? Are you sure you won't reconsider this?
And if they say no, we don't want any kids, okay,
you got it, and then it's up to him or
them to invest into the relationship after the wedding. I
don't think that their wedding is a time for them

(46:13):
to invest in this relationship. I think it's the time
for them to get married and for you to do
your investment. So I would encourage you to go along
with their wishes and Yep, you're probably a little sensitive,
and yep they're probably being a little caddy, and yep,
it's kind of normal at times for people not to
have kids, so all that can be true. Okay, Aw,

(46:35):
it's not the most fun answer. Honestly. It's not like
I'm telling you this and going like this is such
a great answer. I'm glad you called. I'm gonna tell
you how I feel, and you're gonna love it.

Speaker 3 (46:42):
I think that's a really good answer.

Speaker 1 (46:44):
That's not fun. That's not a fun answer to hear.

Speaker 4 (46:46):
But I don't know you.

Speaker 1 (46:47):
So it's easier to do this when I don't know
people because I don't have to live with you and
be like, oh, they're in a bad mood because it's
some advice I gave them. It's easy to do this
with you, Anna, because like, I'm rooting for you. But
also it's like, I don't have a personal inters, so
I'm gonna tell you exactly how I feel, So do
your investment now, suck it up, and hopefully the relationship
gets better because of the sacrifice that you're making, and
they will meet you with sacrifice later on.

Speaker 2 (47:10):
I can definitely do that.

Speaker 1 (47:11):
That's really cool. That you called though, or that even
you think about this from a perspective of well, I know,
I'm right, you're like, hey, how do you see this?
So I think that says a lot about what you
want out of the future with your family, and I
think that's super cool, and I'm rooting for you guys
to kind of patch you back up.

Speaker 5 (47:28):
Thank you, all.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
Right, good luck. Please let us know how it goes.
But there's nothing wrong with having one more conversation with him,
But don't make him defensive, like, don't don't challenge him
on it. Be like, hey, I was thinking about it,
and I get it. You don't have kids at the wedding.
Is there any chance you would let our kids come
since they are the only kids? And if he gives
you a thoughtful response, totally accept it and move on
to the wedding.

Speaker 5 (47:51):
I wouldn't even know how to start that conversation. And
I think that's kind of why I've just been like, Okay,
well they're just not gonna come.

Speaker 3 (47:59):
Burn email you don't want to be So I was
thinking about these kids. They can't come. Sign anonymous.

Speaker 4 (48:07):
Yeah, yeah, she sounds so.

Speaker 1 (48:09):
Yeah, it sucks, it's.

Speaker 3 (48:10):
A it's yeah, it's a life swallow. And it's like
I think for me sometimes because of my past hearts,
I assigned that someone else is doing something because of
you know, and I make up a whole story, and
you could be making up a story right now. Like
Bobby said, all these things could be true. They could
be doing it, and also it could be a story
in your head. And also it's their wedding, so you

(48:32):
kind of just have to let that go.

Speaker 1 (48:34):
Yep, good luck, Anna, We you know what. I feel
good about it for you because I can tell you're
gonna put in the work and this is one of
those things that takes work and being uncomfortable to grow.
So good luck and hopefully we'll talk to you soon.
Let us know how it goes, Like when is the wedding?

Speaker 5 (48:48):
So they're not getting married until next December?

Speaker 1 (48:52):
You got change that. Don't be adults, they can go
ye all right, Anna, thank you for the call. I
hope you have a good day. All right bye, Hey,
thanks for hanging out with us on the podcast All
your part tours. You can go over to the Bobby Cast. Today.

(49:12):
I do have an interview with Chase Elliott and then
also Eddie and I talk about the kind of biggest
disasters in music history, like that happened at live events.
It's it's a little dark, but you can hear that
up on the Bobbycast today, So go check that out.
Thank you guys. If you don't mind share this podcast
in your Instagram stories, tag us too, we'd love to

(49:33):
see it. We could use the help. We will see
you guys tomorrow. All right, goodbye everybody.
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