November 13, 2024 • 39 mins
Someone on the show revealed why they lied to their wife early in their relationship. Eddie did something sketchy at his kid's sports game. All the guys on the show take the 'Incredible Husband' test.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Transmitting this good.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hey, welcome to Wednesday Show Morning Studio Mine. Okay, so
we're going to start with an ethics question, and it's
just it's Eddie who had the ethics question.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
So what what were you asked to do? Okay?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
So, when my kid plays basketball, uh, sometimes a parent
keeps the stats.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So you're asked to sit at the score.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Table, and you you know, you're like, oh, number four
scored two points there, you write it down.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Ooh, foul on number fourteen, You write that down.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
GiB me White checking your head because I already know
where this is going. And if he's not to ask
if you like fludge things so that your kid looks
better your kid's team wins. The answer is no, you can.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Winning would be tough, and yes, it's wrong to change
the score would be tough, and you're not exactly right
on that theory.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah, well only sort of go ahead. Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
So part of it is when the team gets seven fouls,
the other team is in the bonus, which means they
shoot free throws. Well, it's towards the end of the
game and my son's team was down ten points. They
had exceeded their limit of fouls, but only I had
the stats, so in order for them to even have
a chance at a comeback, I had to keep my
(01:12):
mouth shut. Normally the stat keeper would be like, hey,
they got seven fouls.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Other other team shoots free throws. But I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So I don't think it's a question of right or
wrong because the wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, yeah, but I just didn't say anything. And really
it's not my job to tell.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
So the ref is supposed to know.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Yeah, not really. The ref doesn't ever, doesn't keep a
foul counter.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Sometimes the ref would look back at me and be like, hey,
how many fowls is that? And then I would tell them,
But the ref never looked back at me, so.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
He must have thought you were in the clear. They
were in the clear.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
At some point you had to say there were six,
and the ref should have known the next one is
in the bonus.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
At some point. They never asked you anything. They never
asked me a thing, So it's ever it's not.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
A right or wrong question. Okay, so it's wrong. I
think that is. That's Eddie's job to let them know.
But would you have done it, like, let's do that,
because I think I was If it were me, I
would not have said anything.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
I mean, if there was any chance of them coming
back to win the game, I had to keep my
mouth shut.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I agree, I don't agree that it's right, but the
question is better than it. I'm not better than it.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Is my point right, But if it was reverse and
you spoke up and it was going to benefit your
son team, would you have said something?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Of course, of course, right right.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I thought it wasn't your job to say anything, but
it is.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
At that point.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
So mostly it's not ethics of right or wrong, it's
ethics up do we have them right? And in this situation,
I don't feel like any of us do. I think
we all would have done what you did. Man, we
would do crazy things for our kids. I love our kids.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I got no problem with it. It's like the ball
goes out of bounds. You know it's off your team.
You're not gonna be like, hey, ref, that was definitely
all us our ball.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
The ball was out. The ball was out, like the ref.
Speaker 6 (02:47):
Calls it for you, even though you know you knocked
out of bounds. You're not going to tell the ref,
oh actually knocked it out.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're competing though you're not the stack keeper, So that
would be a bit.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Different, I know, but I'm just saying it's still kind
of a similar example of like if you were the
like you're the parent, you're the line judge, and it's out,
but you're like, what's something that the sure the ref
doesn't come to you for your exact opinion, but you
know it was out.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Shouldn't you say it was out?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You're the line, you're the line judge, and you're supposed
to speak up. You speak up unless it's your kid,
then you speak a littless if it's against them.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Right, But I was just the stack guy and no
one asked me you're the stack guy.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Didn't want win, No, they didn't come back anyway except
for your integrity and a human Yeah, I know that's
not right, Eddie. Okay, I won't do that, but we're
not gonna act like we're better than that, all right?
Speaker 7 (03:36):
Anonymous Anonymous bar. There's a question.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
To be because, Hello, Bobby Bones, I have a friend
who's about to make a horrible life choice and I
need to know how I can talk him out of it.
He's dead set on getting a tattoo that he thinks
is just hilarious. He wants one female leg going from
(04:05):
his armpit to his arm another female leg will go
down his side.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Oh no, the armpit. Oh that's a bad idea.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Okay, he thinks it's brilliant and he's ready to fork
out a bunch of money to make sure it's done right.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
There's no right way to do this tattoo. What can
I say.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
For this?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Dude? Put into perspective? Do you understand what's happening?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, so that the bad body part for kids listening
would be the armpit, right, correct? A sign trying to
be a good friend. You're not going to talk him
out of this. This is going to be a terrible decision.
We agree with you. You're not going to talk him
out of it. There's really nothing you can say because
I'm sure he thinks it's so funny that it's going
to be way funnier than any sensible conversation you have
(04:50):
with him. But what's gonna happen is he's gonna have
to get it removed at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
For sure, some of it, especially if he's single. Anyone
will get with anybody.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, this this is not one of those situations, because
to commit to something that's horrible, you're committed already in
your mind. There's no there's no turning bag. Nothing's going
to stop him.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Now, how do you even think of that?
Speaker 8 (05:10):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm sure you saw something on the internet. People will
sometimes do stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
With their belly button.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
What do they do?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
They can be a butthole?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No, they do that.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
They do all kinds of why why amy you're asking,
I didn't get it done. Guys are stupid and they
think stupid stuff's funny.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Okay, Well, then tattoo artists in general should be like, no,
I'm not gonna do that.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I think it was hilarious. I'll be like, it's like
a picture. I said, look at this guy's getting done.
It is a terrible idea. You can play him this
this clip here. Hey, buddy, it is a terrible idea.
I know you think it's funny. It's not gonna be
funny in five years. It's really not gonna be funny.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
In ten it might.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It may not be funny in two when you have
to get some of it removed.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
But go ahead. We learn the most when we mess up,
and man, is this a mess up.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
A temporary solution would be to draw that out with
a sharpie and just live with and for a little
bit of that.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Amen. A bad decision, that's all we have, so bad?
All right, close it up. Here's a voicemail from yesterday
morning Studio.
Speaker 9 (06:11):
I'm just kind of curious, are we sure this move
Dney Studio is the greatest idea?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
You know?
Speaker 10 (06:15):
Just office drama with eggshell's off the balcony launch with
other people heavy complaining about getting the van.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Just kind of seems like the.
Speaker 8 (06:25):
Group is ready to beat each other up to.
Speaker 11 (06:28):
Enjoyed the show.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
And I mean, I'm here for it, but I just
kind of want to check in, make sure.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
Everybody's doing all right, Madia. Everybody does need a week off.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I agree that things have been a little tense up
here because there's been a lot of new and a
lot of learning.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Eddie's had a whole thing, a whole new system to learn.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Technology wise, I'm like hitting curves, driving the parking garage.
People are throwing, eddies are throwing It's all Eddie basically
pretty much.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
He's throwing eggs shells off the top.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
No, it's definitely been for the air condition was off.
Excuse me, there were no vents in the room for
the first two weeks. But we're getting there. It's it's
getting a little better. But I appreciate. How about that
week off them? Yeah, yeah, you'll get that. I'd love
for somebody to stay a week off and we just
stay working.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
No, no, no, no, all of that.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
No, no, that would be that's my week off if
some of you guys just stay home. Okay, yeah, no,
you hate I.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Love it here.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
No, you're clear, I love I love my new debt.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Now you're mean you're clean, you mean we're clean a
pile of stories.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
So if you have an important presentation coming up, or
you're going to be in front of a lot of people,
which maybe you do at school or work or whatever
you have going on, stay away from ice water.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh yeah, so the old adage of don't do ice water.
It restricts a lot of stuff. You know this, Yeah,
I mean thinking about cold anything you're getting to pull
your cold.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
You don't be naked after if your dude.
Speaker 9 (07:41):
You know why.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
It restricts Oh, any muscle, Yeah, cold restricts anything anything muscular.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
I thought it would stimulate you and you are more
vibrant in front of the people. But a study found
that drinking ice cold water before an important event can
decrease your physical or mental performance as much as fifteen
percent because your body has to use extra energy to
warm you up, and that's less energy for your brain.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
So it's better to drink room to mature water.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I mean that.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Sounds like a lot deeper than I've ever heard. I
don't know about fifteen percent where they get those Cockamamie's stats.
But now, if you drink anything cold, even if you
get in cold water, like you tighten up yew, yeah,
or a cold studio.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
And Iowa based grocery store chain, you know, high V
they announced that they're getting rid of self checkout machines
totally at a bunch of locations, and maybe other stores
will follow suits. They said that they're doing it to
promote more face to face interaction with people.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I don't think they should get rid of self checkout machines.
I think people should just get smart enough to use them.
You don't need a whole store full of them. But yeah,
let's not blame human ignorance.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
No, they want face to face interaction.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
That means that people go in there can't figure them out.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Is that yes, of course, that's that's what you interpret
I can't.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Figure it out half the time. I should get better
at this. If I got fruit, I'm screwed. Although I
don't go to the grocery that often. But if I
got anything that doesn't have a big fat bar code
on it and I can't find it immediately, the bar
code is like bent and I got to like straighten
out the bar code. Yeah, that's just because we're idiots.
They should also do a better job at labeling them.
But no, I'm all for efficiency. So they're cutting that
(09:15):
because it's not as efficient. Don't act like they're doing
that just because they want people to hang out with
each other.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
No, it says we want to provide better customer service
experience with face to face people. This is what they
had pre COVID and they want more of that. We
need that interaction telling you.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
If they were making a bunch of money off so
check out, they would go back to that. But people
can't use it.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Doki.
Speaker 5 (09:34):
All right, If you could win a VIP suite to
a concert for fourteen people.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Who we don't have fourteen friends, Oh we'll find them.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
If you one with this guy one, you would have
no problems for the suite because there's this construction worker
in Vancouver. He bought a scratch off lottery ticket for
a game called Concert and a Lifetime and now he
gets to take his whole family in a suite to
Taylor Swift. Here he is talking about it.
Speaker 8 (10:00):
He didn't believe it in the beginning. I had my
roommate double check to take it for me. It'll be
a fun, fun experience most definitely. It is called Concert
of a Lifetime for a reason, so I might as
well make that up. And you know, for somebody special.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Okay, if I scratch a thing and it's like you
won the grand prize like millions, Oh, we're all gonna Taylor.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
But I mean I will be like, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Well I haven't gotten Just the coolest part.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
He is setting aside four of the tickets and giving
them to the Make a Wish Foundation. So it's going
to be him, ten of his people, and then four
to make a Wish.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
And he also won twenty five thousand dollars cash.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Oh okay, now we're talking. That's okay, we're talking. Okay,
that's good.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
I'm Amy. That's my file.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
That was Amy's pile of stories.
Speaker 7 (10:45):
It's time for the good news.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Amy.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
So there's this woman Lynn's story.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
She's retired and she is known in Fort Worth, Texas
for offering free rides to neighbors that need write to
the hospital for cancer treatment, or they need a ride
to work if they don't.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Have a car or her car is aging. You know,
gas prices are high. And this guy, David.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Kelleher, he owns David Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ramp in Philadelphia.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
He heard about her story and he.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Decided, Okay, I got to hook this girl up. What
he did, though, was he sort of tricked her and said, hey,
bring your car in to Fort Worth. We're going to
have it worked on, and he arranged to have a
new car given to her as like a surprise when
she got there.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
So he paid for the car in Texas and they
gave it to her when she took it in there.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
Yeah, twenty twenty four brand new Jeep Compass.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I love a good trick that turns into a good
like I do. I think that's the funniest when trick's
turn into cool step.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
I was like, hey, bring your car in, we'll get
it worked on, and then brand new car.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
I also love a good trick when it turns into
they arrest people because I like those and the like, hey,
come get your free season tickets to the Pittsburgh Stealers.
And the guys are like, all right, go on, go in.
And I said, we got you, Travis. We know we
have a worn out for your rest. I just love
a trick. I think, yeah, good and bad.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Well, and how she does this does this, I think
this is kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Again.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Her name is Lynn's Story and she looks on her
next door neighbor app to see if people need rides
and she offers them up. So that's how she finds
people near her that might need help. So this is
encouragement of like, if you would like to do that.
It's worked for her so far as she's been safe.
She got a free car.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Every day she has to mark herself safe on Facebook
with a little flag. All right, that's it. That's what
it's all about. That was telling me something good. It's
a very easy game. Well it seems like it would be.
On the surface. We're gonna play. Name that sound. These
are general sounds from around the house. Ray, give me
an example there.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
What's up? Open a bottle?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Open a bottle? Open to be your bottle whatever the
other day. Okay, So we have Cody on who lives
in Austin. Hey, Cody, how are you this morning?
Speaker 7 (12:46):
I'm good. How are y'all doing?
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Pretty good? Now you can pick Amy, Eddy or Lunchbox.
Speaker 11 (12:49):
They're gonna play with and for you because it may
be harder for you to hear on the phone.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
But you're gonna have seven of these. If they can
get five out of seven, you win. So you get
to pick your player, Amy, Eddie or Lunchbox.
Speaker 10 (13:01):
I'm gonna go with Eddie because I really.
Speaker 7 (13:03):
Hope he gets Punchbox of the song.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
I mean, I gotta start all over for that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
But yeah, okay, see I did five.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Out of seven. You ready, let's go all right? Go
with number one? Now you can hear it twice. I'm
good man, I'm gonna hear it again. But what if
you miss it? All right, let's hear it. Okay, go on,
t that's a microwave, my friend.
Speaker 11 (13:27):
Now, Cody, you can you have to confirm his answer
if you say you're with it, We're good.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Cody, Is that a microwave?
Speaker 7 (13:33):
That's what I was gonna go with as well.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Okay, microwave beeping is correct. Let's go Cody. That's one
number two?
Speaker 7 (13:52):
What the.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Whoa? I have no idea what that is? Oh man,
does Cody know.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
What that is?
Speaker 9 (14:08):
See that that sounds kind of like a trick because
I think that's popcorn in a microwave.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Man, I hear like liquid in there, Cody, one more time, right, huh?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Okay, you two got to figure it out.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yeah, Cody, I mean, I'm with you. It does sound
like popcorn in the microwave. But I hear liquid.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
But I have not boil boiling water.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
That's what I was thinking, boiling water. Okay, official answer.
Are we gonna go with boiling water? Okay? That isn't correct.
It's a coffee maker.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Dripping down?
Speaker 11 (14:52):
Yeah, here it is, okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, I
hear it. Now you can miss one more. You can
miss one.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
More, all right?
Speaker 12 (15:02):
Next one? What what is that?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
You hear that again? Man, Cody? I think I hear
like a.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Like a mouse trap or something, you know, like it's
metal on metal.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 10 (15:32):
I could hear it super well. We can go with
whatever you're thinking on.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
And I got nothing. There is a lifeline a lifeline. Now,
you can go to anybody in the room here.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
The problem is when they don't play games, they get
all sad and they don't listen.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
That's what they're doing. We're not gonna play it again.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
I look at you.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
I appreciate you being involved.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Here, but why would I hear?
Speaker 4 (15:54):
Cody's a nice guys like that?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Okay, so I get to use a lifeline here. Yeah.
Do you want me to pick it or Cody to
pick it? Doesn't matter. You guys are a team.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Okay, Cody, let's use the lifeline because I have no idea.
You think Lunchbox or Amy.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Would help well?
Speaker 9 (16:13):
In all fairness, that was only read to lunchbox, So
let's go with Amy.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Amy. What do you think it is?
Speaker 11 (16:18):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
They don't have to pick your answer, but you just
give them a little help here.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Yeah. Can I hear it again?
Speaker 3 (16:22):
No? I just said that we can't play. You weren't listening.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
No, I heard it. Bang in a string a.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Stranger like you straighter, Like when it's the metal strainer
and you're straining something and you're like bang to get
the water out.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Guys, h Cody, what do you want to go with?
Speaker 7 (16:47):
Dude?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
You just pick it got nothing three seconds? All right,
let's go with banging a stranger? Is it banging a stranger?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
It's a toaster popping?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Yea one more time, toaster popping.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
Yes, I hear it now, Okay, okay, oh it's metal
for sure.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Okay, okay, okay. If you miss another one, it's over.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
So you did not get that next one?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yeah, I'm in. I got that one. You don't even
need a second listen. I don't need a second listen.
Speaker 10 (17:28):
I got that.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
I got that one.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
Or no.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
Oh yeah, I'm actually at the car wash cleaning uh pause,
cleaning out in my car.
Speaker 10 (17:36):
So I'm gonna go.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I think he's probably got this one. What do you do?
What do you think it is? Talk about it? Yeah, yeah,
vacuum cleaner is what I have.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
Vacuum okay, vacuum.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Yeah, it's perfect, yes, show me vacuum.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Correct Still baby three left, can't miss any of us.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Go next one up, Cody to me, that sounds like
just water going to you know, turn on the faucet.
Speaker 10 (18:06):
What kind of sounded like the disposal would don't be
the same answer?
Speaker 13 (18:09):
Nah?
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Again, Well let's hear it again, but I'll listen for
that I don't hear the disposal on this clip. Okay, Yeah,
to me, that's just turning on the faucet and that's
water going down the drain.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
So you want to go faucet? Yeah, all right? Is
it faucet?
Speaker 7 (18:36):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Two left? You gotta go two for two. Let's go.
Here we go, next one up.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Let's see.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
That sounds easy someone walking upstairs?
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Right?
Speaker 3 (18:57):
But is that too specific?
Speaker 13 (19:00):
Is your final play, Cody?
Speaker 4 (19:14):
I want to stand by walking up the stairs. You
hear the way the shoe is like slipping up those stairs?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Like, yeah, I did.
Speaker 10 (19:23):
I altill kind of heard a hammer being put.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Down the whole No more listens.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
I didn't hear the hammer, So I think we should
just go with going up the stairs.
Speaker 10 (19:33):
I trust you. If I lose, I still got to
take a shot at lunchbox.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Okay, I like that. I like that. Show me going upstairs?
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (19:40):
Correct, no hammer in there? No hammer? Okay? Good? Last one.
If you get this, you win. If you miss it,
you lose.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
Here we go.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
That first part threw me off. I don't know what
that first part was. The second part sounds like rain
coming down the gutter. M Is that what's called the gutter. Yeah,
like you have a gutter to the gutter. We hear
it again, what Cody, I have no idea, dude, Like,
(20:41):
I don't know what that roller thing is at the front.
It sounds like a cash register and then water comes down.
Speaker 10 (20:48):
Could it be the garage door opening?
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Hey, here's what you can do.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Yeah, you can either just not give an answer, but
you don't get to give an answer.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
You don't get to say it right or wrong.
Speaker 11 (20:58):
But you can go to lunchbox and he gets to
choose to give an actual intelligence answer.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Or he can just say suck an egg and you lose.
So he has all the power. No, I can't trust
him there, so if you but if you don't know it, yeah, yeah,
but that's just giving up. Maybe maybe he wants to
like show you he's good at the game, or maybe
he wants to just stick it to Cody and go
suck an egg.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
You want me to give me your comments.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
You both are wrong, so he looks mad.
Speaker 7 (21:23):
I'm just telling you're both wrong.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
You can go to lunchbox, but if you do, he
has every ability to go just suck an egg and
you lose the whole thing. Or you can give you
what you think is your best answer, because I'll guarantee
you're both wrong five seconds.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Guys, Uh huh, Cody, it just came to me. We
don't have to depend on this dude like this guy
just depended on No.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
No, look, if we've tossed it a lunchbox, he's just
gonna trash both of us.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So no, I think I have it. Do you have
a guest, Cody? Real quick?
Speaker 9 (21:52):
No, but I completely agree.
Speaker 10 (21:53):
Do not get it?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Yeah, we're not doing that. Okay, lunchbox.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Write down what you would have done though, if would
say sucking eggor if you would have put an answer down?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Okay, easily, Eddie, what do you have bones, I'm going
with washing machine that is.
Speaker 3 (22:10):
Turning on the machine and water going in filling in
the tub.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Let's go, lunchbocks. What if they would have come to you,
what answer would you given?
Speaker 6 (22:18):
Well, I wrote down washing machine, but before when the
clip was playing, but I put.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
Suck an egg and we like that though we wanted
sucking egg.
Speaker 11 (22:29):
Yeah, you answered washing machine, Ray Mundo is a washing machine?
Speaker 1 (22:37):
No?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
What is it a dishwasher? The first part is the dishes.
One more time, right, playatform up closet and that's the
water inside of it.
Speaker 3 (22:47):
How sorry, Cody. I'm so sorry, dude.
Speaker 7 (22:50):
We were so close sucking egg, got it.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
You can't say that now we.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Didn't go too that's true, Cody. I'm sorry you didn't win,
but we'll get you on for another game soon. Okay, buddy,
all right, thank you, lunchbox, anything for Cody?
Speaker 6 (23:01):
Oh no, I got no party shots. I would be
as a bad day, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
You get no scuba.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Steve spends four o one k to date his wife No, okay,
So this all comes from a story I was reading,
But it says that if you spend too much taking
somebody on a date, you could be dooming the date
because too many presents too early will leave her thinking
that you're hoping to either a by her or B.
You can't continue up what she feels is a norm, right,
(23:32):
so you're out.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
I wouldn't even say it's a love bomb.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's it's a bit different than that, because my love
bombs a bit manipulative.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Yeah, but this is just like you're setting the bar
too high.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Sure, you just can't continue on. So a lot of
women will actually react in the opposite way. Stick to
gifts they could be enjoyed together, or things that are
more activity based. So that was the story. But then
Scuba was telling me, so you did the opposite of this,
well a little bit of both.
Speaker 14 (23:58):
So I took out five from my four one k
and I when you do, you have to borrow it,
so they give you the money, you pay a bunch
of penalties on it. But I had no money whatsoever
to date my wife. So for me, I looked at
it as a way to bring me to an even
playing field to do stuff with her, like to be
able to take her in intimate dates, to walk around
the city and stop and get ice cream. I couldn't
even afford things like that, so I needed some sort
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of money to get around and date this beautiful.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Woman, walk around the city and get ice cream.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
You didn't have the money to walk and eat ice cream? Well,
I could walk around, but I couldn't afford the ice cream.
Speaker 14 (24:29):
So I needed some sort of money to be able
to do these little things.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Oh, so question where did you live?
Speaker 14 (24:36):
I lived, So I just got out of divorce, and
so I got to keep the apartment for my ex wife,
and so all my money went to pay for my apartment,
my cell phone bill, and transportation.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
That was it.
Speaker 14 (24:47):
I lived very, very frugal, And you do not want
your wife to know this. I did not because she
thought I made decent money because I worked in radio.
I was in a large market at San Francisco. She
thought I had, you know, a well paying job, which
I did, but I just had a lot of overhea
so high divorce.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Can set you back.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
A little bit. Got you, got you? I want to
make sure she got in there.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Yeah, so Scuba, you take five grand out of your
four one kids, you get back?
Speaker 14 (25:16):
No, because it's my money, so it's gone. I just
have to pay the penalties on it. And eventually I
crewed that money back o her time by putting money
into the four one k And.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
What kind of stuff did you take her to do?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
And did you spend most of it on her or
did you also by like clothes in a PlayStation or.
Speaker 14 (25:29):
I spent all of it on her, and then I
spent clothing to look good for her. So everything was
in sense to lure in this amazing woman, to then
fix my.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Life to then't trick her. You're tricking her.
Speaker 14 (25:40):
I didn't really trick her because I was still who
it was as the person. Everything we talked about was
true and who I was just not my financial situation.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
Did you feel like you were misleading her all a
little bit? But then I mean.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
I'm sure you took her like concerts and stuff and trips.
Speaker 14 (26:00):
Yeah, concerts and went to places and went to all
kinds of things. I took her shopping and bought her
some stuff. I bought her some perfume and all that.
But then I had to stretch it out over six months,
so I had also be you know, I don't watch
my spending. And then eventually got to the point where
I was out of money and she's like, hey, you
coming out to see me in Espay. I'm like, I
don't have any money to pay for the ticket on
the subway to go see you.
Speaker 7 (26:21):
Can I borrow some money?
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Oh? I need to borrow money.
Speaker 14 (26:24):
She had a vendmo me or whatever was zell me
twenty bucks to go see her, And that's when we
had the real conversation of like, here's what's really going on.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Was that a drastic turn from you wearing nice clothes
taking her on trips too? I need money to take
the train to see you.
Speaker 14 (26:38):
I think at that at that point we had we'd
really fallen in love and as far as who we
are as people and what we were into and all
the things we stood for in life. And then I
just had to be very honest with her and look like,
here's the deal, this is what I did, and here's
where I'm at financially, you know, take it or leave it.
And then she found out my credit score. But she
worked in she worked in banking and financing. How was
(26:58):
a credit score? What you say that wash was like
in the high threes, It was really badly.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
I think I'd fall out.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I think I'd be right out of love because you
were misleading her.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, but she could be the ying yang.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah that's great. But he was misleading her the whole time.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yes, And then it also was my fault though, just financially.
Speaker 14 (27:18):
I never had a great person to kind of guide
me along in life of how to do things with
certain things and order to put my money on, how
to spend it and save it.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
And so I was just really ignorant growing up.
Speaker 14 (27:27):
And she had so much knowledge in the financial world
that she was able to fix me and correct me
and bring my credit score up and tell me, how
to pay off debt and all those.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Kind of things.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I understand all of that, but I'm saying you still
misled her at the beginning. Yeah, but we can skip
over that.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
You know that water under the bridge. So what is
your advice?
Speaker 2 (27:44):
So everybody should fake it if they're trying to lure
someone in until they get to the point where they
like them so much they can't back out.
Speaker 14 (27:49):
Oh, and it depends on what you're faking, I think,
because for me, it was just I didn't have money,
and the money doesn't make a person, but you need
money to do things in life, and so I wasn't
fully lying about who it was.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
I just couldn't afford the lifestyle. You should only partially lie. Sure,
I don't want to say you should lie. It just
depends on what it is you're doing.
Speaker 14 (28:06):
For what I did, it's fine because I'm saying that
because I did it.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
And all he did really was take money out of
his savings.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
It's my money, it was his money.
Speaker 7 (28:14):
Yeah, it wasn't like he was but again.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
He was not acting like he was taking money out
of his savings, like he was taking a loan out
on his life to fake like he had more money.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
I think, Look, it.
Speaker 14 (28:23):
Worked, right, it worked. I you have three kids, we're
married for over ten years now. I mean life was good.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
Your strategy worked.
Speaker 14 (28:29):
Credit score, the credit score is in the high sevens.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Life is great.
Speaker 14 (28:32):
Man, I don't have two cars that She definitely fixed
me financially, but also as a person too.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
So for me, it was a huge one.
Speaker 15 (28:41):
Ming people, spitting on homeless guys you walked by, like better,
different perspective on life, and just how I wasn't bad
to people, but just made me think about things in
a different way that I never thought of before.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
It seems to me like similar to you, Bobby.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Maybe he didn't really have anybody that showed him love
and he finally.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Got that take out a bunch of money to fake
like I had money. I was like, I'm broke.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
You like it? Oh you don't, Okay, I guess I'll
be single a while. And but it didn't work out
for you that way though, right, Yeah, and then I
made a bunch of money. You see, but our wives
were better for us. What our wives did did make
us better.
Speaker 6 (29:20):
Yeah, why do you think you didn't make your wife better?
Speaker 7 (29:24):
Why is it? Why is the wife.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
I'm tired.
Speaker 6 (29:29):
Everybody giving the wife credit? How did you make the
wife better? I don't want this stuff on the internet.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
I think about that.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Okay, So here are ten habits that turns a normal
man into an incredible husband. And so this is the
incredible husband test. And so there are ten of these things.
Let's see how we scale on this guy's scale.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
Score be honest.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Number one, devote time to a shared ritual.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
So first of all, I would encourage you not to
think that ritual means more than it does, Like it
doesn't have to be anything grandiose.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
What about like nighttime we share that time?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
No, but I mean specifically outside of that.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Oh yeah, yeah, Like I'm saying, my wife and I
have we dedicate every Tuesday night for like four hours.
There's nothing that happens except for we have dedicated that
time to Tuesday night from like five to ten pm.
I'll do anything on Tuesday nights. And if I do
and I try to schedule anything, we move that to
a different time. We also every night try to sit
(30:29):
down and at least watch one show. It's just our
time to that's our ritual our Tuesday night, and then
we watch a show Eddie, No man, I'm thinking, I
also have four kids.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
I got nothing.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
The only thing that we do ritually is go to church,
but that's just a family thing.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
It's not just me and my wife us too. Nothing really.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Eddie's like we rush our teeth.
Speaker 4 (30:50):
Yeah, we have time we hang out and we talk
about stuff.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
But other than that, not much.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
But it doesn't have to be something that's hours long, right,
I mean, it literally can be something fifteen minutes.
Speaker 3 (30:58):
But it's richman, it happens. It's consistent. Nothing.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
No, when she goes to bed, she'll say like, Hey,
I'm going to bed, you want to join me?
Speaker 3 (31:07):
And that's pretty much it. I'd be like, yeah, I'll
be up there in a minute.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
But are you saying that in a way of like no,
just like at least I go to bed. Yeah, give
regular sincere compliments. Yeah, I try. I purposefully try to
do that. I think I make a good effort to
do that.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Do you try too hard sometimes to think of something?
Speaker 7 (31:28):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (31:29):
No, No, I don't have to try hard to think.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I have to make sure they sound sincere and not
like a third grader punching their crush in the arm.
That makes sense, Yeah, you know, because it's a difference,
or like flirting for guys, or say is different than so, yes,
I would say I give regular compliments. My sincerity feels
a little weird. Tho's what I worry about. And if
you do it too much then it starts to be
like are you even telling it? I'm terrible at getting
(31:51):
complidents though, I'm terrible at getting complidence so much.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
Watch you here.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
Oh yeah, I tell her things for cooking when she cooks.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
Dinner at night, Like I wouldn't say that's a compliment.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
We thank you is not a complt or it's delicious.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
When I say this dinner tastes really good. Okay, that's
a keeper. That's a compliment. Okay, yeah, I do that
on every night we need dinner. Communicate clearly and consistently.
I do not get points for this one. I'm doing
a much better job. But I think my communication skills
one on one are way worse than they are one
to ten million.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
I think you get points right now for honesty.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Thank you all accept those points. The next one let
go of mistakes one reasonable Nope, out on that one.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
God, that's a hard one.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Yeah, I'm bad at admitting that I'm wrong or admitting
it as a mistake, but.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
You get it points right now for admitting make your
that way.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
I love Amy being the scorekeeper. It is good acknowledge
their own shortcomings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think I'm
pretty good at knowing what I suck at, especially in
a relationship.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Just like I did in the last two things, I
acknowledge I'm not good at them. Give me a point.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
It has there been growth? Like, do you think there's growth?
Because you can't just like growth ten years from now.
You can't be like, well, I'm just not good at that.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
I know I've grown significantly in all these areas. Yes,
next up, consistently prioritize their partner and relationship. Yes, I've
only recently understood what that means.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
Yeah on Tuesdays.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
No, I'm saying just in general, I've only recently understood
what prioritizing the relationship means. Meaning the one consistent thing
in my life that I always thought was gonna be
the relationship. We're married, so I can that we'll always
get to come back to that if all these things
are happening.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Oh, we'll put the relationship last because I'll always be there.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
But I can only do these couple of things now,
and so I've flipped majorly in that department.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
Because I thought, well, that'll always be there.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
I can always come back to the relationship, but if
I don't nurture that, it will not always be there.
I've only recently understood this, because I would see that
as like, that's the rock, that rock. That boulder is
not moving for a million years. And I don't think
the boulder is moving. But I would make decisions that
made the boulder mad because I would not I would
(33:51):
like work every day for four weeks and not spend
any time next up. Respect opposing opinions. Man, you respect it.
You just like to argue it. Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
I respect what you're saying. Yeah, I respect that. She's
a good arguer.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
To remain loyal absolutely and trust a partner absolutely and
be generous and showing affection.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
That's tough. I was told recently, just try to be
more kind Eddie.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
You're like the nicest guy.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
But like I think, when I'm in stressful situations, I
kind of just like, we gotta go, we gotta do this,
and my wife's more like, hey, I want to just
like slow down, then be kind and maybe like just
we'll work things out without maybe getting frustrated.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
You are snappy van Winkle, for sure, that's it. You
do snap, you do snap.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
I think affection.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
I've had to learn even what that means, because the
general guys like affection. Kissing, well that's yeah, hugging like
that is us like, that's a But also there are
a lot of things like just touch, just like being
in the same area for a long time, Like her
feet are on me, I'll rub them.
Speaker 3 (34:59):
Words of act animation, yeah, just listening to anything. I
found that one out recently, right, But you've been ried
for a long time. Two years, three years, three years? Yeah,
I'm at three.
Speaker 10 (35:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We recorded this year ago, which wouldn't make these sense.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Okay, So I think of those ten I probably give
myself a solid B minus if I'm accurately just. But
I would have given myself a C minus a D
plus a year and a half ago, not because I
wasn't trying, because I did not understand, Like I never
have been in like a serious relationship until I met
my wife, was never engaged, never lived with a woman,
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female girlfriend, never did any of that. It was always
by myself. I sometimes am very thankful that she has
put up with the lack of emotional maturity that I
had and sometimes still have.
Speaker 3 (35:59):
Now I I'm one hundred years old.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
In other ways, I'm twelve when it comes to emotional
relationship maturity, and she's had a lot of patience.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
About a year and a half ago, you were six,
Now you're twelve.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Wait, thank you doubled up. I thought you're in your thirties.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
No, no emotion.
Speaker 3 (36:15):
Oh yeah, thanks Dan.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
But we can all.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
Hey, give yourself grace, Bobby though, because when you when
we're all, when we're not acting rationally, we can all
go back to our six year old selves quickly.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Yeah, I just don't go back. I got I start there.
Oh god, yeah, yeah, I start there and then hopefully
I grow out.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Man, I know, I know. So there you go.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
I B minus for me, right yourself out of.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
Yeah, I go B solid B. But I have stuff
to work on, for sure, lunch bikes.
Speaker 7 (36:42):
I'll give myself a C plus, no problem.
Speaker 1 (36:44):
And you're happy with that.
Speaker 6 (36:45):
That's the kind of grades I got in school, so
pretty solid for me.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
Got it.
Speaker 7 (36:50):
It's time for the good.
Speaker 1 (36:51):
News produce ready.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
The Pittsburgh Steelers will do something really cool for military veterans.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
They are helping them get rid of their debt.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
So for every game the Steelers win, they will get
rid of one hundred thousand dollars of debt.
Speaker 3 (37:07):
For veterans around the community.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
So right now they are seven and two, which means
they've already relieved seven hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
Seelers weren't specially good this year either when the season started.
Maybe that's why they're they were like, all right, we're
gonna do it. We're gonna have this idea. No, they're
playing awesome. They're leading their division right now.
Speaker 5 (37:23):
Maybe that's why they're all like extra motivated to hell veterans.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
See, that's the great way to look add that's being
like I met They were like, we don't really have
a quarterback.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
We have two kinds of quarterbacks. Yeah, it's not that.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
No, that's a great story. Good for them and all
those people that are being helped, all this veterans. A
great story. That is what it's all about. That was
telling me something good. Here's a voicemail from Christina and Denver.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
What's up, Bobby Bone show, we just got wallop with
a huge snow storm. I am a pet sitter.
Speaker 10 (37:54):
So I had to drive.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Back and forth in the snow shovel to else is
about four time beach and walk dogs in snow three
times a day.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for keeping me company
while I did all that.
Speaker 14 (38:10):
Listen to your show all the time, and got to
say thanks for making me laugh.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
So keep up the great work. Thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
I'd also like to say officially, I hate winter and
it's coming, it's already there.
Speaker 3 (38:22):
I hate winter. I hate it so much. Every part
of me hates winter.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
I don't like being cold, I don't like being mildly cold,
and like not being able to go outside. I don't
like the fact that there might be ice on the roads.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
The whole thing. It's all stupid and it sucks. Anyway,
am you good?
Speaker 1 (38:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (38:35):
Good?
Speaker 3 (38:36):
I hate it. I hate it so much. Let's for
a fall. But let's go to the corny. Here we go.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
What happens when potatoes drink too much?
Speaker 3 (38:50):
What happens when potatoes drink too much?
Speaker 1 (38:52):
They get mashed?
Speaker 2 (38:58):
That was the morning corny.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
The drinkers like that one.
Speaker 7 (39:03):
That's really good.
Speaker 10 (39:04):
That's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
And that is the end of the first half of
the podcast.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That is the end of the first half of the podcast.
That is the end of the first tip of the podcast.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
That is the end of the first tip of the podcast.
Speaker 11 (39:19):
You can go to the podcast to or you can
wait till podcast to come out.
Transmitting this good.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hey, welcome to Wednesday Show Morning Studio Mine. Okay, so
we're going to start with an ethics question, and it's
just it's Eddie who had the ethics question.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
So what what were you asked to do? Okay?
Speaker 4 (00:21):
So, when my kid plays basketball, uh, sometimes a parent
keeps the stats.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
So you're asked to sit at the score.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Table, and you you know, you're like, oh, number four
scored two points there, you write it down.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Ooh, foul on number fourteen, You write that down.
Speaker 5 (00:35):
GiB me White checking your head because I already know
where this is going. And if he's not to ask
if you like fludge things so that your kid looks
better your kid's team wins. The answer is no, you can.
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Winning would be tough, and yes, it's wrong to change
the score would be tough, and you're not exactly right
on that theory.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
Yeah, well only sort of go ahead. Okay.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
So part of it is when the team gets seven fouls,
the other team is in the bonus, which means they
shoot free throws. Well, it's towards the end of the
game and my son's team was down ten points. They
had exceeded their limit of fouls, but only I had
the stats, so in order for them to even have
a chance at a comeback, I had to keep my
(01:12):
mouth shut. Normally the stat keeper would be like, hey,
they got seven fouls.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
Other other team shoots free throws. But I didn't say anything.
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So I don't think it's a question of right or
wrong because the wrong.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, yeah, but I just didn't say anything. And really
it's not my job to tell.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
So the ref is supposed to know.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Yeah, not really. The ref doesn't ever, doesn't keep a
foul counter.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
Sometimes the ref would look back at me and be like, hey,
how many fowls is that? And then I would tell them,
But the ref never looked back at me, so.
Speaker 1 (01:40):
He must have thought you were in the clear. They
were in the clear.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
At some point you had to say there were six,
and the ref should have known the next one is
in the bonus.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
At some point. They never asked you anything. They never
asked me a thing, So it's ever it's not.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
A right or wrong question. Okay, so it's wrong. I
think that is. That's Eddie's job to let them know.
But would you have done it, like, let's do that,
because I think I was If it were me, I
would not have said anything.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
I mean, if there was any chance of them coming
back to win the game, I had to keep my
mouth shut.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I agree, I don't agree that it's right, but the
question is better than it. I'm not better than it.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Is my point right, But if it was reverse and
you spoke up and it was going to benefit your
son team, would you have said something?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
Of course, of course, right right.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
I thought it wasn't your job to say anything, but
it is.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
At that point.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
So mostly it's not ethics of right or wrong, it's
ethics up do we have them right? And in this situation,
I don't feel like any of us do. I think
we all would have done what you did. Man, we
would do crazy things for our kids. I love our kids.
Speaker 6 (02:39):
I got no problem with it. It's like the ball
goes out of bounds. You know it's off your team.
You're not gonna be like, hey, ref, that was definitely
all us our ball.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
The ball was out. The ball was out, like the ref.
Speaker 6 (02:47):
Calls it for you, even though you know you knocked
out of bounds. You're not going to tell the ref,
oh actually knocked it out.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
You're competing though you're not the stack keeper, So that
would be a bit.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
Different, I know, but I'm just saying it's still kind
of a similar example of like if you were the
like you're the parent, you're the line judge, and it's out,
but you're like, what's something that the sure the ref
doesn't come to you for your exact opinion, but you
know it was out.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Shouldn't you say it was out?
Speaker 2 (03:09):
You're the line, you're the line judge, and you're supposed
to speak up. You speak up unless it's your kid,
then you speak a littless if it's against them.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Right, But I was just the stack guy and no
one asked me you're the stack guy.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Didn't want win, No, they didn't come back anyway except
for your integrity and a human Yeah, I know that's
not right, Eddie. Okay, I won't do that, but we're
not gonna act like we're better than that, all right?
Speaker 7 (03:36):
Anonymous Anonymous bar. There's a question.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
To be because, Hello, Bobby Bones, I have a friend
who's about to make a horrible life choice and I
need to know how I can talk him out of it.
He's dead set on getting a tattoo that he thinks
is just hilarious. He wants one female leg going from
(04:05):
his armpit to his arm another female leg will go
down his side.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Oh no, the armpit. Oh that's a bad idea.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Okay, he thinks it's brilliant and he's ready to fork
out a bunch of money to make sure it's done right.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
There's no right way to do this tattoo. What can
I say.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
For this?
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Dude? Put into perspective? Do you understand what's happening?
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Yeah, so that the bad body part for kids listening
would be the armpit, right, correct? A sign trying to
be a good friend. You're not going to talk him
out of this. This is going to be a terrible decision.
We agree with you. You're not going to talk him
out of it. There's really nothing you can say because
I'm sure he thinks it's so funny that it's going
to be way funnier than any sensible conversation you have
(04:50):
with him. But what's gonna happen is he's gonna have
to get it removed at some point.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
For sure, some of it, especially if he's single. Anyone
will get with anybody.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, this this is not one of those situations, because
to commit to something that's horrible, you're committed already in
your mind. There's no there's no turning bag. Nothing's going
to stop him.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Now, how do you even think of that?
Speaker 8 (05:10):
Right?
Speaker 2 (05:10):
I'm sure you saw something on the internet. People will
sometimes do stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
With their belly button.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
What do they do?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
They can be a butthole?
Speaker 1 (05:19):
No, they do that.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
They do all kinds of why why amy you're asking,
I didn't get it done. Guys are stupid and they
think stupid stuff's funny.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Okay, Well, then tattoo artists in general should be like, no,
I'm not gonna do that.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
I think it was hilarious. I'll be like, it's like
a picture. I said, look at this guy's getting done.
It is a terrible idea. You can play him this
this clip here. Hey, buddy, it is a terrible idea.
I know you think it's funny. It's not gonna be
funny in five years. It's really not gonna be funny.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
In ten it might.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
It may not be funny in two when you have
to get some of it removed.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
But go ahead. We learn the most when we mess up,
and man, is this a mess up.
Speaker 5 (05:55):
A temporary solution would be to draw that out with
a sharpie and just live with and for a little
bit of that.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Amen. A bad decision, that's all we have, so bad?
All right, close it up. Here's a voicemail from yesterday
morning Studio.
Speaker 9 (06:11):
I'm just kind of curious, are we sure this move
Dney Studio is the greatest idea?
Speaker 6 (06:15):
You know?
Speaker 10 (06:15):
Just office drama with eggshell's off the balcony launch with
other people heavy complaining about getting the van.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Just kind of seems like the.
Speaker 8 (06:25):
Group is ready to beat each other up to.
Speaker 11 (06:28):
Enjoyed the show.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
And I mean, I'm here for it, but I just
kind of want to check in, make sure.
Speaker 8 (06:31):
Everybody's doing all right, Madia. Everybody does need a week off.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I agree that things have been a little tense up
here because there's been a lot of new and a
lot of learning.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Eddie's had a whole thing, a whole new system to learn.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Technology wise, I'm like hitting curves, driving the parking garage.
People are throwing, eddies are throwing It's all Eddie basically
pretty much.
Speaker 3 (06:50):
He's throwing eggs shells off the top.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
No, it's definitely been for the air condition was off.
Excuse me, there were no vents in the room for
the first two weeks. But we're getting there. It's it's
getting a little better. But I appreciate. How about that
week off them? Yeah, yeah, you'll get that. I'd love
for somebody to stay a week off and we just
stay working.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
No, no, no, no, all of that.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
No, no, that would be that's my week off if
some of you guys just stay home. Okay, yeah, no,
you hate I.
Speaker 3 (07:13):
Love it here.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
No, you're clear, I love I love my new debt.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Now you're mean you're clean, you mean we're clean a
pile of stories.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
So if you have an important presentation coming up, or
you're going to be in front of a lot of people,
which maybe you do at school or work or whatever
you have going on, stay away from ice water.
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh yeah, so the old adage of don't do ice water.
It restricts a lot of stuff. You know this, Yeah,
I mean thinking about cold anything you're getting to pull
your cold.
Speaker 3 (07:40):
You don't be naked after if your dude.
Speaker 9 (07:41):
You know why.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
It restricts Oh, any muscle, Yeah, cold restricts anything anything muscular.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Oh.
Speaker 5 (07:47):
I thought it would stimulate you and you are more
vibrant in front of the people. But a study found
that drinking ice cold water before an important event can
decrease your physical or mental performance as much as fifteen
percent because your body has to use extra energy to
warm you up, and that's less energy for your brain.
Speaker 1 (08:06):
So it's better to drink room to mature water.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
I mean that.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Sounds like a lot deeper than I've ever heard. I
don't know about fifteen percent where they get those Cockamamie's stats.
But now, if you drink anything cold, even if you
get in cold water, like you tighten up yew, yeah,
or a cold studio.
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
And Iowa based grocery store chain, you know, high V
they announced that they're getting rid of self checkout machines
totally at a bunch of locations, and maybe other stores
will follow suits. They said that they're doing it to
promote more face to face interaction with people.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
I don't think they should get rid of self checkout machines.
I think people should just get smart enough to use them.
You don't need a whole store full of them. But yeah,
let's not blame human ignorance.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
No, they want face to face interaction.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
That means that people go in there can't figure them out.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Is that yes, of course, that's that's what you interpret
I can't.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Figure it out half the time. I should get better
at this. If I got fruit, I'm screwed. Although I
don't go to the grocery that often. But if I
got anything that doesn't have a big fat bar code
on it and I can't find it immediately, the bar
code is like bent and I got to like straighten
out the bar code. Yeah, that's just because we're idiots.
They should also do a better job at labeling them.
But no, I'm all for efficiency. So they're cutting that
(09:15):
because it's not as efficient. Don't act like they're doing
that just because they want people to hang out with
each other.
Speaker 5 (09:19):
No, it says we want to provide better customer service
experience with face to face people. This is what they
had pre COVID and they want more of that. We
need that interaction telling you.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
If they were making a bunch of money off so
check out, they would go back to that. But people
can't use it.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
Doki.
Speaker 5 (09:34):
All right, If you could win a VIP suite to
a concert for fourteen people.
Speaker 3 (09:39):
Who we don't have fourteen friends, Oh we'll find them.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Trust me.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
If you one with this guy one, you would have
no problems for the suite because there's this construction worker
in Vancouver. He bought a scratch off lottery ticket for
a game called Concert and a Lifetime and now he
gets to take his whole family in a suite to
Taylor Swift. Here he is talking about it.
Speaker 8 (10:00):
He didn't believe it in the beginning. I had my
roommate double check to take it for me. It'll be
a fun, fun experience most definitely. It is called Concert
of a Lifetime for a reason, so I might as
well make that up. And you know, for somebody special.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Okay, if I scratch a thing and it's like you
won the grand prize like millions, Oh, we're all gonna Taylor.
Speaker 3 (10:20):
Okay, that's cool.
Speaker 7 (10:21):
But I mean I will be like, oh wow.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
Well I haven't gotten Just the coolest part.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
He is setting aside four of the tickets and giving
them to the Make a Wish Foundation. So it's going
to be him, ten of his people, and then four
to make a Wish.
Speaker 1 (10:35):
And he also won twenty five thousand dollars cash.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Oh okay, now we're talking. That's okay, we're talking. Okay,
that's good.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
I'm Amy. That's my file.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
That was Amy's pile of stories.
Speaker 7 (10:45):
It's time for the good news.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Amy.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
So there's this woman Lynn's story.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
She's retired and she is known in Fort Worth, Texas
for offering free rides to neighbors that need write to
the hospital for cancer treatment, or they need a ride
to work if they don't.
Speaker 1 (11:03):
Have a car or her car is aging. You know,
gas prices are high. And this guy, David.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Kelleher, he owns David Chrysler Dodge Jeep Ramp in Philadelphia.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
He heard about her story and he.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Decided, Okay, I got to hook this girl up. What
he did, though, was he sort of tricked her and said, hey,
bring your car in to Fort Worth. We're going to
have it worked on, and he arranged to have a
new car given to her as like a surprise when
she got there.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
So he paid for the car in Texas and they
gave it to her when she took it in there.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
Yeah, twenty twenty four brand new Jeep Compass.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
I love a good trick that turns into a good
like I do. I think that's the funniest when trick's
turn into cool step.
Speaker 5 (11:40):
I was like, hey, bring your car in, we'll get
it worked on, and then brand new car.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
I also love a good trick when it turns into
they arrest people because I like those and the like, hey,
come get your free season tickets to the Pittsburgh Stealers.
And the guys are like, all right, go on, go in.
And I said, we got you, Travis. We know we
have a worn out for your rest. I just love
a trick. I think, yeah, good and bad.
Speaker 5 (11:58):
Well, and how she does this does this, I think
this is kind of cool.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Again.
Speaker 5 (12:02):
Her name is Lynn's Story and she looks on her
next door neighbor app to see if people need rides
and she offers them up. So that's how she finds
people near her that might need help. So this is
encouragement of like, if you would like to do that.
It's worked for her so far as she's been safe.
She got a free car.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
Every day she has to mark herself safe on Facebook
with a little flag. All right, that's it. That's what
it's all about. That was telling me something good. It's
a very easy game. Well it seems like it would be.
On the surface. We're gonna play. Name that sound. These
are general sounds from around the house. Ray, give me
an example there.
Speaker 3 (12:37):
What's up? Open a bottle?
Speaker 2 (12:39):
Open a bottle? Open to be your bottle whatever the
other day. Okay, So we have Cody on who lives
in Austin. Hey, Cody, how are you this morning?
Speaker 7 (12:46):
I'm good. How are y'all doing?
Speaker 3 (12:47):
Pretty good? Now you can pick Amy, Eddy or Lunchbox.
Speaker 11 (12:49):
They're gonna play with and for you because it may
be harder for you to hear on the phone.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
But you're gonna have seven of these. If they can
get five out of seven, you win. So you get
to pick your player, Amy, Eddie or Lunchbox.
Speaker 10 (13:01):
I'm gonna go with Eddie because I really.
Speaker 7 (13:03):
Hope he gets Punchbox of the song.
Speaker 3 (13:06):
I mean, I gotta start all over for that.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
But yeah, okay, see I did five.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Out of seven. You ready, let's go all right? Go
with number one? Now you can hear it twice. I'm
good man, I'm gonna hear it again. But what if
you miss it? All right, let's hear it. Okay, go on,
t that's a microwave, my friend.
Speaker 11 (13:27):
Now, Cody, you can you have to confirm his answer
if you say you're with it, We're good.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
Cody, Is that a microwave?
Speaker 7 (13:33):
That's what I was gonna go with as well.
Speaker 3 (13:34):
Okay, microwave beeping is correct. Let's go Cody. That's one
number two?
Speaker 7 (13:52):
What the.
Speaker 3 (13:58):
Whoa? I have no idea what that is? Oh man,
does Cody know.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
What that is?
Speaker 9 (14:08):
See that that sounds kind of like a trick because
I think that's popcorn in a microwave.
Speaker 4 (14:13):
Man, I hear like liquid in there, Cody, one more time, right, huh?
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Okay, you two got to figure it out.
Speaker 4 (14:32):
Yeah, Cody, I mean, I'm with you. It does sound
like popcorn in the microwave. But I hear liquid.
Speaker 9 (14:38):
But I have not boil boiling water.
Speaker 3 (14:40):
That's what I was thinking, boiling water. Okay, official answer.
Are we gonna go with boiling water? Okay? That isn't correct.
It's a coffee maker.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Dripping down?
Speaker 11 (14:52):
Yeah, here it is, okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, I
hear it. Now you can miss one more. You can
miss one.
Speaker 3 (15:01):
More, all right?
Speaker 12 (15:02):
Next one? What what is that?
Speaker 3 (15:14):
You hear that again? Man, Cody? I think I hear
like a.
Speaker 4 (15:26):
Like a mouse trap or something, you know, like it's
metal on metal.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
What do you think it is?
Speaker 10 (15:32):
I could hear it super well. We can go with
whatever you're thinking on.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
And I got nothing. There is a lifeline a lifeline. Now,
you can go to anybody in the room here.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
The problem is when they don't play games, they get
all sad and they don't listen.
Speaker 3 (15:46):
That's what they're doing. We're not gonna play it again.
Speaker 1 (15:48):
I look at you.
Speaker 3 (15:50):
I appreciate you being involved.
Speaker 1 (15:51):
Here, but why would I hear?
Speaker 4 (15:54):
Cody's a nice guys like that?
Speaker 3 (16:03):
Okay, so I get to use a lifeline here. Yeah.
Do you want me to pick it or Cody to
pick it? Doesn't matter. You guys are a team.
Speaker 4 (16:08):
Okay, Cody, let's use the lifeline because I have no idea.
You think Lunchbox or Amy.
Speaker 3 (16:11):
Would help well?
Speaker 9 (16:13):
In all fairness, that was only read to lunchbox, So
let's go with Amy.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Amy. What do you think it is?
Speaker 11 (16:18):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
They don't have to pick your answer, but you just
give them a little help here.
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Yeah. Can I hear it again?
Speaker 3 (16:22):
No? I just said that we can't play. You weren't listening.
Speaker 1 (16:27):
No, I heard it. Bang in a string a.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Stranger like you straighter, Like when it's the metal strainer
and you're straining something and you're like bang to get
the water out.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Guys, h Cody, what do you want to go with?
Speaker 7 (16:47):
Dude?
Speaker 3 (16:47):
You just pick it got nothing three seconds? All right,
let's go with banging a stranger? Is it banging a stranger?
Speaker 2 (16:57):
It's a toaster popping?
Speaker 3 (16:59):
Yea one more time, toaster popping.
Speaker 4 (17:03):
Yes, I hear it now, Okay, okay, oh it's metal
for sure.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Okay, okay, okay. If you miss another one, it's over.
Speaker 2 (17:09):
So you did not get that next one?
Speaker 3 (17:24):
Yeah, I'm in. I got that one. You don't even
need a second listen. I don't need a second listen.
Speaker 10 (17:28):
I got that.
Speaker 3 (17:29):
I got that one.
Speaker 5 (17:29):
Or no.
Speaker 9 (17:30):
Oh yeah, I'm actually at the car wash cleaning uh pause,
cleaning out in my car.
Speaker 10 (17:36):
So I'm gonna go.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
I think he's probably got this one. What do you do?
What do you think it is? Talk about it? Yeah, yeah,
vacuum cleaner is what I have.
Speaker 7 (17:42):
Vacuum okay, vacuum.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
Yeah, it's perfect, yes, show me vacuum.
Speaker 2 (17:47):
Correct Still baby three left, can't miss any of us.
Speaker 4 (17:49):
Go next one up, Cody to me, that sounds like
just water going to you know, turn on the faucet.
Speaker 10 (18:06):
What kind of sounded like the disposal would don't be
the same answer?
Speaker 13 (18:09):
Nah?
Speaker 4 (18:10):
Again, Well let's hear it again, but I'll listen for
that I don't hear the disposal on this clip. Okay, Yeah,
to me, that's just turning on the faucet and that's
water going down the drain.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
So you want to go faucet? Yeah, all right? Is
it faucet?
Speaker 7 (18:36):
Correct?
Speaker 3 (18:37):
Two left? You gotta go two for two. Let's go.
Here we go, next one up.
Speaker 2 (18:53):
Let's see.
Speaker 3 (18:54):
That sounds easy someone walking upstairs?
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Right?
Speaker 3 (18:57):
But is that too specific?
Speaker 13 (19:00):
Is your final play, Cody?
Speaker 4 (19:14):
I want to stand by walking up the stairs. You
hear the way the shoe is like slipping up those stairs?
Speaker 3 (19:19):
Like, yeah, I did.
Speaker 10 (19:23):
I altill kind of heard a hammer being put.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
Down the whole No more listens.
Speaker 4 (19:27):
I didn't hear the hammer, So I think we should
just go with going up the stairs.
Speaker 10 (19:33):
I trust you. If I lose, I still got to
take a shot at lunchbox.
Speaker 3 (19:35):
Okay, I like that. I like that. Show me going upstairs?
Speaker 1 (19:39):
Wow?
Speaker 3 (19:40):
Correct, no hammer in there? No hammer? Okay? Good? Last one.
If you get this, you win. If you miss it,
you lose.
Speaker 7 (19:46):
Here we go.
Speaker 3 (20:05):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (20:06):
That first part threw me off. I don't know what
that first part was. The second part sounds like rain
coming down the gutter. M Is that what's called the gutter. Yeah,
like you have a gutter to the gutter. We hear
it again, what Cody, I have no idea, dude, Like,
(20:41):
I don't know what that roller thing is at the front.
It sounds like a cash register and then water comes down.
Speaker 10 (20:48):
Could it be the garage door opening?
Speaker 3 (20:51):
Hey, here's what you can do.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
Yeah, you can either just not give an answer, but
you don't get to give an answer.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
You don't get to say it right or wrong.
Speaker 11 (20:58):
But you can go to lunchbox and he gets to
choose to give an actual intelligence answer.
Speaker 2 (21:02):
Or he can just say suck an egg and you lose.
So he has all the power. No, I can't trust
him there, so if you but if you don't know it, yeah, yeah,
but that's just giving up. Maybe maybe he wants to
like show you he's good at the game, or maybe
he wants to just stick it to Cody and go
suck an egg.
Speaker 7 (21:16):
You want me to give me your comments.
Speaker 3 (21:18):
You both are wrong, so he looks mad.
Speaker 7 (21:23):
I'm just telling you're both wrong.
Speaker 2 (21:25):
You can go to lunchbox, but if you do, he
has every ability to go just suck an egg and
you lose the whole thing. Or you can give you
what you think is your best answer, because I'll guarantee
you're both wrong five seconds.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Guys, Uh huh, Cody, it just came to me. We
don't have to depend on this dude like this guy
just depended on No.
Speaker 4 (21:44):
No, look, if we've tossed it a lunchbox, he's just
gonna trash both of us.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
So no, I think I have it. Do you have
a guest, Cody? Real quick?
Speaker 9 (21:52):
No, but I completely agree.
Speaker 10 (21:53):
Do not get it?
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Yeah, we're not doing that. Okay, lunchbox.
Speaker 2 (21:58):
Write down what you would have done though, if would
say sucking eggor if you would have put an answer down?
Speaker 4 (22:01):
Okay, easily, Eddie, what do you have bones, I'm going
with washing machine that is.
Speaker 3 (22:10):
Turning on the machine and water going in filling in
the tub.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Let's go, lunchbocks. What if they would have come to you,
what answer would you given?
Speaker 6 (22:18):
Well, I wrote down washing machine, but before when the
clip was playing, but I put.
Speaker 2 (22:22):
Suck an egg and we like that though we wanted
sucking egg.
Speaker 11 (22:29):
Yeah, you answered washing machine, Ray Mundo is a washing machine?
Speaker 1 (22:37):
No?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
What is it a dishwasher? The first part is the dishes.
One more time, right, playatform up closet and that's the
water inside of it.
Speaker 3 (22:47):
How sorry, Cody. I'm so sorry, dude.
Speaker 7 (22:50):
We were so close sucking egg, got it.
Speaker 3 (22:52):
You can't say that now we.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Didn't go too that's true, Cody. I'm sorry you didn't win,
but we'll get you on for another game soon. Okay, buddy,
all right, thank you, lunchbox, anything for Cody?
Speaker 6 (23:01):
Oh no, I got no party shots. I would be
as a bad day, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Okay, thank you?
Speaker 3 (23:11):
You get no scuba.
Speaker 2 (23:12):
Steve spends four o one k to date his wife No, okay,
So this all comes from a story I was reading,
But it says that if you spend too much taking
somebody on a date, you could be dooming the date
because too many presents too early will leave her thinking
that you're hoping to either a by her or B.
You can't continue up what she feels is a norm, right,
(23:32):
so you're out.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
I wouldn't even say it's a love bomb.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's it's a bit different than that, because my love
bombs a bit manipulative.
Speaker 5 (23:40):
Yeah, but this is just like you're setting the bar
too high.
Speaker 2 (23:43):
Sure, you just can't continue on. So a lot of
women will actually react in the opposite way. Stick to
gifts they could be enjoyed together, or things that are
more activity based. So that was the story. But then
Scuba was telling me, so you did the opposite of this,
well a little bit of both.
Speaker 14 (23:58):
So I took out five from my four one k
and I when you do, you have to borrow it,
so they give you the money, you pay a bunch
of penalties on it. But I had no money whatsoever
to date my wife. So for me, I looked at
it as a way to bring me to an even
playing field to do stuff with her, like to be
able to take her in intimate dates, to walk around
the city and stop and get ice cream. I couldn't
even afford things like that, so I needed some sort
(24:20):
of money to get around and date this beautiful.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Woman, walk around the city and get ice cream.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
You didn't have the money to walk and eat ice cream? Well,
I could walk around, but I couldn't afford the ice cream.
Speaker 14 (24:29):
So I needed some sort of money to be able
to do these little things.
Speaker 3 (24:32):
Oh, so question where did you live?
Speaker 14 (24:36):
I lived, So I just got out of divorce, and
so I got to keep the apartment for my ex wife,
and so all my money went to pay for my apartment,
my cell phone bill, and transportation.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
That was it.
Speaker 14 (24:47):
I lived very, very frugal, And you do not want
your wife to know this. I did not because she
thought I made decent money because I worked in radio.
I was in a large market at San Francisco. She
thought I had, you know, a well paying job, which
I did, but I just had a lot of overhea
so high divorce.
Speaker 1 (25:05):
Can set you back.
Speaker 3 (25:07):
A little bit. Got you, got you? I want to
make sure she got in there.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Yeah, so Scuba, you take five grand out of your
four one kids, you get back?
Speaker 14 (25:16):
No, because it's my money, so it's gone. I just
have to pay the penalties on it. And eventually I
crewed that money back o her time by putting money
into the four one k And.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
What kind of stuff did you take her to do?
Speaker 2 (25:25):
And did you spend most of it on her or
did you also by like clothes in a PlayStation or.
Speaker 14 (25:29):
I spent all of it on her, and then I
spent clothing to look good for her. So everything was
in sense to lure in this amazing woman, to then
fix my.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
Life to then't trick her. You're tricking her.
Speaker 14 (25:40):
I didn't really trick her because I was still who
it was as the person. Everything we talked about was
true and who I was just not my financial situation.
Speaker 2 (25:46):
Did you feel like you were misleading her all a
little bit? But then I mean.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
I'm sure you took her like concerts and stuff and trips.
Speaker 14 (26:00):
Yeah, concerts and went to places and went to all
kinds of things. I took her shopping and bought her
some stuff. I bought her some perfume and all that.
But then I had to stretch it out over six months,
so I had also be you know, I don't watch
my spending. And then eventually got to the point where
I was out of money and she's like, hey, you
coming out to see me in Espay. I'm like, I
don't have any money to pay for the ticket on
the subway to go see you.
Speaker 7 (26:21):
Can I borrow some money?
Speaker 3 (26:22):
Oh? I need to borrow money.
Speaker 14 (26:24):
She had a vendmo me or whatever was zell me
twenty bucks to go see her, And that's when we
had the real conversation of like, here's what's really going on.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Was that a drastic turn from you wearing nice clothes
taking her on trips too? I need money to take
the train to see you.
Speaker 14 (26:38):
I think at that at that point we had we'd
really fallen in love and as far as who we
are as people and what we were into and all
the things we stood for in life. And then I
just had to be very honest with her and look like,
here's the deal, this is what I did, and here's
where I'm at financially, you know, take it or leave it.
And then she found out my credit score. But she
worked in she worked in banking and financing. How was
(26:58):
a credit score? What you say that wash was like
in the high threes, It was really badly.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
I think I'd fall out.
Speaker 2 (27:08):
I think I'd be right out of love because you
were misleading her.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
Yeah, but she could be the ying yang.
Speaker 2 (27:13):
Yeah that's great. But he was misleading her the whole time.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yes, And then it also was my fault though, just financially.
Speaker 14 (27:18):
I never had a great person to kind of guide
me along in life of how to do things with
certain things and order to put my money on, how
to spend it and save it.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
And so I was just really ignorant growing up.
Speaker 14 (27:27):
And she had so much knowledge in the financial world
that she was able to fix me and correct me
and bring my credit score up and tell me, how
to pay off debt and all those.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
Kind of things.
Speaker 2 (27:35):
I understand all of that, but I'm saying you still
misled her at the beginning. Yeah, but we can skip
over that.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
You know that water under the bridge. So what is
your advice?
Speaker 2 (27:44):
So everybody should fake it if they're trying to lure
someone in until they get to the point where they
like them so much they can't back out.
Speaker 14 (27:49):
Oh, and it depends on what you're faking, I think,
because for me, it was just I didn't have money,
and the money doesn't make a person, but you need
money to do things in life, and so I wasn't
fully lying about who it was.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
I just couldn't afford the lifestyle. You should only partially lie. Sure,
I don't want to say you should lie. It just
depends on what it is you're doing.
Speaker 14 (28:06):
For what I did, it's fine because I'm saying that
because I did it.
Speaker 4 (28:09):
And all he did really was take money out of
his savings.
Speaker 3 (28:12):
It's my money, it was his money.
Speaker 7 (28:14):
Yeah, it wasn't like he was but again.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
He was not acting like he was taking money out
of his savings, like he was taking a loan out
on his life to fake like he had more money.
Speaker 3 (28:22):
I think, Look, it.
Speaker 14 (28:23):
Worked, right, it worked. I you have three kids, we're
married for over ten years now. I mean life was good.
Speaker 3 (28:27):
Your strategy worked.
Speaker 14 (28:29):
Credit score, the credit score is in the high sevens.
Speaker 3 (28:31):
Life is great.
Speaker 14 (28:32):
Man, I don't have two cars that She definitely fixed
me financially, but also as a person too.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
So for me, it was a huge one.
Speaker 15 (28:41):
Ming people, spitting on homeless guys you walked by, like better,
different perspective on life, and just how I wasn't bad
to people, but just made me think about things in
a different way that I never thought of before.
Speaker 1 (28:54):
It seems to me like similar to you, Bobby.
Speaker 5 (28:56):
Maybe he didn't really have anybody that showed him love
and he finally.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Got that take out a bunch of money to fake
like I had money. I was like, I'm broke.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
You like it? Oh you don't, Okay, I guess I'll
be single a while. And but it didn't work out
for you that way though, right, Yeah, and then I
made a bunch of money. You see, but our wives
were better for us. What our wives did did make
us better.
Speaker 6 (29:20):
Yeah, why do you think you didn't make your wife better?
Speaker 7 (29:24):
Why is it? Why is the wife.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
I'm tired.
Speaker 6 (29:29):
Everybody giving the wife credit? How did you make the
wife better? I don't want this stuff on the internet.
Speaker 3 (29:34):
I think about that.
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Okay, So here are ten habits that turns a normal
man into an incredible husband. And so this is the
incredible husband test. And so there are ten of these things.
Let's see how we scale on this guy's scale.
Speaker 1 (29:48):
Score be honest.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
Number one, devote time to a shared ritual.
Speaker 2 (29:55):
So first of all, I would encourage you not to
think that ritual means more than it does, Like it
doesn't have to be anything grandiose.
Speaker 3 (30:03):
What about like nighttime we share that time?
Speaker 1 (30:06):
No, but I mean specifically outside of that.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
Oh yeah, yeah, Like I'm saying, my wife and I
have we dedicate every Tuesday night for like four hours.
There's nothing that happens except for we have dedicated that
time to Tuesday night from like five to ten pm.
I'll do anything on Tuesday nights. And if I do
and I try to schedule anything, we move that to
a different time. We also every night try to sit
(30:29):
down and at least watch one show. It's just our
time to that's our ritual our Tuesday night, and then
we watch a show Eddie, No man, I'm thinking, I
also have four kids.
Speaker 3 (30:40):
I got nothing.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
The only thing that we do ritually is go to church,
but that's just a family thing.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
It's not just me and my wife us too. Nothing really.
Speaker 1 (30:48):
Eddie's like we rush our teeth.
Speaker 4 (30:50):
Yeah, we have time we hang out and we talk
about stuff.
Speaker 3 (30:53):
But other than that, not much.
Speaker 2 (30:55):
But it doesn't have to be something that's hours long, right,
I mean, it literally can be something fifteen minutes.
Speaker 3 (30:58):
But it's richman, it happens. It's consistent. Nothing.
Speaker 4 (31:03):
No, when she goes to bed, she'll say like, Hey,
I'm going to bed, you want to join me?
Speaker 3 (31:07):
And that's pretty much it. I'd be like, yeah, I'll
be up there in a minute.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
But are you saying that in a way of like no,
just like at least I go to bed. Yeah, give
regular sincere compliments. Yeah, I try. I purposefully try to
do that. I think I make a good effort to
do that.
Speaker 3 (31:25):
Do you try too hard sometimes to think of something?
Speaker 7 (31:28):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (31:29):
No, No, I don't have to try hard to think.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
I have to make sure they sound sincere and not
like a third grader punching their crush in the arm.
That makes sense, Yeah, you know, because it's a difference,
or like flirting for guys, or say is different than so, yes,
I would say I give regular compliments. My sincerity feels
a little weird. Tho's what I worry about. And if
you do it too much then it starts to be
like are you even telling it? I'm terrible at getting
(31:51):
complidents though, I'm terrible at getting complidence so much.
Speaker 3 (31:53):
Watch you here.
Speaker 7 (31:53):
Oh yeah, I tell her things for cooking when she cooks.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
Dinner at night, Like I wouldn't say that's a compliment.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
We thank you is not a complt or it's delicious.
Speaker 6 (32:01):
When I say this dinner tastes really good. Okay, that's
a keeper. That's a compliment. Okay, yeah, I do that
on every night we need dinner. Communicate clearly and consistently.
I do not get points for this one. I'm doing
a much better job. But I think my communication skills
one on one are way worse than they are one
to ten million.
Speaker 1 (32:17):
I think you get points right now for honesty.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
Thank you all accept those points. The next one let
go of mistakes one reasonable Nope, out on that one.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
God, that's a hard one.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
Yeah, I'm bad at admitting that I'm wrong or admitting
it as a mistake, but.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
You get it points right now for admitting make your
that way.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
I love Amy being the scorekeeper. It is good acknowledge
their own shortcomings. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think I'm
pretty good at knowing what I suck at, especially in
a relationship.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
Just like I did in the last two things, I
acknowledge I'm not good at them. Give me a point.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
It has there been growth? Like, do you think there's growth?
Because you can't just like growth ten years from now.
You can't be like, well, I'm just not good at that.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
I know I've grown significantly in all these areas. Yes,
next up, consistently prioritize their partner and relationship. Yes, I've
only recently understood what that means.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
Yeah on Tuesdays.
Speaker 2 (33:05):
No, I'm saying just in general, I've only recently understood
what prioritizing the relationship means. Meaning the one consistent thing
in my life that I always thought was gonna be
the relationship. We're married, so I can that we'll always
get to come back to that if all these things
are happening.
Speaker 3 (33:19):
Oh, we'll put the relationship last because I'll always be there.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
But I can only do these couple of things now,
and so I've flipped majorly in that department.
Speaker 3 (33:27):
Because I thought, well, that'll always be there.
Speaker 2 (33:28):
I can always come back to the relationship, but if
I don't nurture that, it will not always be there.
I've only recently understood this, because I would see that
as like, that's the rock, that rock. That boulder is
not moving for a million years. And I don't think
the boulder is moving. But I would make decisions that
made the boulder mad because I would not I would
(33:51):
like work every day for four weeks and not spend
any time next up. Respect opposing opinions. Man, you respect it.
You just like to argue it. Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
I respect what you're saying. Yeah, I respect that. She's
a good arguer.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
To remain loyal absolutely and trust a partner absolutely and
be generous and showing affection.
Speaker 3 (34:13):
That's tough. I was told recently, just try to be
more kind Eddie.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
You're like the nicest guy.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
But like I think, when I'm in stressful situations, I
kind of just like, we gotta go, we gotta do this,
and my wife's more like, hey, I want to just
like slow down, then be kind and maybe like just
we'll work things out without maybe getting frustrated.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
You are snappy van Winkle, for sure, that's it. You
do snap, you do snap.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
I think affection.
Speaker 2 (34:39):
I've had to learn even what that means, because the
general guys like affection. Kissing, well that's yeah, hugging like
that is us like, that's a But also there are
a lot of things like just touch, just like being
in the same area for a long time, Like her
feet are on me, I'll rub them.
Speaker 3 (34:59):
Words of act animation, yeah, just listening to anything. I
found that one out recently, right, But you've been ried
for a long time. Two years, three years, three years? Yeah,
I'm at three.
Speaker 10 (35:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:17):
We recorded this year ago, which wouldn't make these sense.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
Okay, So I think of those ten I probably give
myself a solid B minus if I'm accurately just. But
I would have given myself a C minus a D
plus a year and a half ago, not because I
wasn't trying, because I did not understand, Like I never
have been in like a serious relationship until I met
my wife, was never engaged, never lived with a woman,
(35:42):
female girlfriend, never did any of that. It was always
by myself. I sometimes am very thankful that she has
put up with the lack of emotional maturity that I
had and sometimes still have.
Speaker 3 (35:59):
Now I I'm one hundred years old.
Speaker 2 (36:00):
In other ways, I'm twelve when it comes to emotional
relationship maturity, and she's had a lot of patience.
Speaker 1 (36:07):
About a year and a half ago, you were six,
Now you're twelve.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Wait, thank you doubled up. I thought you're in your thirties.
Speaker 1 (36:14):
No, no emotion.
Speaker 3 (36:15):
Oh yeah, thanks Dan.
Speaker 1 (36:17):
But we can all.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
Hey, give yourself grace, Bobby though, because when you when
we're all, when we're not acting rationally, we can all
go back to our six year old selves quickly.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Yeah, I just don't go back. I got I start there.
Oh god, yeah, yeah, I start there and then hopefully
I grow out.
Speaker 3 (36:32):
Man, I know, I know. So there you go.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
I B minus for me, right yourself out of.
Speaker 3 (36:37):
Yeah, I go B solid B. But I have stuff
to work on, for sure, lunch bikes.
Speaker 7 (36:42):
I'll give myself a C plus, no problem.
Speaker 1 (36:44):
And you're happy with that.
Speaker 6 (36:45):
That's the kind of grades I got in school, so
pretty solid for me.
Speaker 3 (36:49):
Got it.
Speaker 7 (36:50):
It's time for the good.
Speaker 1 (36:51):
News produce ready.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
The Pittsburgh Steelers will do something really cool for military veterans.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
They are helping them get rid of their debt.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
So for every game the Steelers win, they will get
rid of one hundred thousand dollars of debt.
Speaker 3 (37:07):
For veterans around the community.
Speaker 4 (37:09):
So right now they are seven and two, which means
they've already relieved seven hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 1 (37:14):
That's cool.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
Seelers weren't specially good this year either when the season started.
Maybe that's why they're they were like, all right, we're
gonna do it. We're gonna have this idea. No, they're
playing awesome. They're leading their division right now.
Speaker 5 (37:23):
Maybe that's why they're all like extra motivated to hell veterans.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
See, that's the great way to look add that's being
like I met They were like, we don't really have
a quarterback.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
We have two kinds of quarterbacks. Yeah, it's not that.
Speaker 2 (37:34):
No, that's a great story. Good for them and all
those people that are being helped, all this veterans. A
great story. That is what it's all about. That was
telling me something good. Here's a voicemail from Christina and Denver.
Speaker 3 (37:47):
What's up, Bobby Bone show, we just got wallop with
a huge snow storm. I am a pet sitter.
Speaker 10 (37:54):
So I had to drive.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Back and forth in the snow shovel to else is
about four time beach and walk dogs in snow three
times a day.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for keeping me company
while I did all that.
Speaker 14 (38:10):
Listen to your show all the time, and got to
say thanks for making me laugh.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
So keep up the great work. Thank you for the call.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
I'd also like to say officially, I hate winter and
it's coming, it's already there.
Speaker 3 (38:22):
I hate winter. I hate it so much. Every part
of me hates winter.
Speaker 2 (38:25):
I don't like being cold, I don't like being mildly cold,
and like not being able to go outside. I don't
like the fact that there might be ice on the roads.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
The whole thing. It's all stupid and it sucks. Anyway,
am you good?
Speaker 1 (38:35):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (38:35):
Good?
Speaker 3 (38:36):
I hate it. I hate it so much. Let's for
a fall. But let's go to the corny. Here we go.
Speaker 1 (38:47):
What happens when potatoes drink too much?
Speaker 3 (38:50):
What happens when potatoes drink too much?
Speaker 1 (38:52):
They get mashed?
Speaker 2 (38:58):
That was the morning corny.
Speaker 1 (39:01):
The drinkers like that one.
Speaker 7 (39:03):
That's really good.
Speaker 10 (39:04):
That's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (39:06):
And that is the end of the first half of
the podcast.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
That is the end of the first half of the podcast.
That is the end of the first tip of the podcast.
Speaker 2 (39:16):
That is the end of the first tip of the podcast.
Speaker 11 (39:19):
You can go to the podcast to or you can
wait till podcast to come out.
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