July 22, 2025 • 20 mins
# 198 - Absalom's Revenge - In this episode of The Chosen People with Yael Eckstein, in the wake of Tamar’s unanswered cries, Absalom breaks the silence with blood. This gripping episode from 2 Samuel 13:23–39 confronts the cost of delayed justice, the danger of silence, and the fury of a son who waited too long for his father to act.
Episode 198 of The Chosen People with Yael Eckstein is inspired by the Book of Joshua.
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Show Notes:
(01:18) Intro with Yael Eckstein
(02:29) Absalom's Revenge
(14:30) Reflection with Yael Eckstein
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Previously on the Chosen People.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
There is only one woman I want, Oh, Tamar, Absalom's.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Sister, your half sister, you dog you.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I can't eat, I can't sleep. Every night I see her,
I feel like I'm dying.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
And take her.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Stop stop, oh, none believe.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
When it was over, Tamar lay crumpled like a torn cloth,
weeping into the pillows. Tamar couldn't speak. Absalom held her tightly.
It was Amnon, wasn't it. But behind Absalom's calm eyes,
his fury seethed like molten iron. His tongue was a
(00:59):
sword's ill sheathed. His wrath are tiede yet to rise.
Amnon had taken Tamar with lust and violence. Now Absalom
would take Amnon with silence and patience. Vengeance is best served.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
Cold in a house full of kings. The one with
the sharpest knife makes the rules. Shelloh, my friends, from
here in the holy land of Israel, i'm l Extein
with international Fellowship of Christians and Jews, and welcome to
the Chosen People. Today's Bible story begins with absence, with silence,
(01:41):
with the crime long buried and justice long delayed. That's
where we find ourselves in Second Samuel thirteen. The crime
has already been committed, the pain has already taken root,
and yet nothing has been done. Tomorrow's tears dried long ago,
but the silence has only deepened. The king and the
father remains quiet, and that quiet becomes its own kind
(02:04):
of curse. Absalom has waited two years long enough for
grief to ferment into something darker. Well, what happens to
justice when no one carries it out? And what happens
to a man when righteousness is withheld and rage is
left to simmer. Let's step into the field where wine
(02:24):
is poured, sheep are sheared, and blood begins to speak.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
The evening stars drape themselves over balhazor like a royal
mantle of silver and blue, casting a gentle glow over
Absalom's lands. Warm air, thick with the scent of wool,
roasted meat and sweet fig wine, drifted through the valley.
(02:52):
In the great hall of his second home, Absalom played
the gracious host, smiling wide and laughing louder than all
his brothers. It was the season of shearing, a time
of festivity and bounty, and he had invited every son
of David under the pretense of merriment. The wine flowed freely,
(03:16):
and the sons of the king toasted to memories of
youth and tales of war and mischief. Cups clinked, songs
were sung, and the moods soared. Yet beneath Absalom's smile
was a stillness, a calculated quiet. Behind the eyes, his
(03:36):
gaze followed Amnon all through the feast. Amnon bloated with
wine and foolish pride, never sensed the trap. He drank
deeply and danced with abandon, boasting, jesting, clapping his hands
to the rhythm of liars and drums, a war, wine,
(04:00):
more music. The prince had become drunk on more than wine.
He was intoxicated by his own immunity. He lifted his
cup to Absalom.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Three cheers to Absalom for hosting this glorious party. When
I'm king, we'll host feasts like these. Are the great owls,
music and wine and dancing.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Absalom raised his cup with a smile and sipped I still,
never leaving his brother. As the hour grew late and
the embers in the hearths dimmed, Amnon excused himself from
the table. He staggered into the night, laughing softly at nothing.
(04:51):
He wandered past the shearing pens and into the barn
with a satisfied grunt. He collapsed into a pile of straw,
letting the the warmth of the summer night cradle him.
His eyes fluttered shut In the quiet darkness. Amnon drifted
into sleep, the smirk still curling on his lips. But
(05:13):
he was a fool to think himself safe under the
hush of starlight. The barn door creaked open. The sound
was quiet but deliberate. There stood Absalom, flanked by the
lean shadows of his loyal men, each with a dagger drawn.
(05:38):
Absalom turned to them, voice a low hush of command.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
With me, gentlemen, be strong and courageous.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
They entered. Torchlight licked the beams above, throwing flickering shadows
across the hay strewn floor. Rats fled to their holes
at the sudden glare. Amnon ster hed. His eyes blinked open,
bloodshot and unfocused, until they locked on the form looming
above him, Absolom.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
What are you doing here? How did I How did I.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Find myself in the Absalom crouched low, the torchlight catching
the gleam of his blade as he raised it to
Amnon's throat. You're a rather clueless one, aren't you.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Wait? Wait, wait, wait, Whatever it is you think I've done,
I swear I haven't. If this is about Tamar, it
was a misunderstanding, I swear, she quite.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Absalom pressed the tip of his blade closer to Amnon's throat.
A drop of blood trickled down his chest. You've always
talked too much. Somehow, with all those words, you managed
to say nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Would you really return my evil with evil? What would
father say when he finds out you killed his first born?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Absalom's grin returned, slow and sharp as a sword, Sliding
free of its sheath. He flipped his dagger, toying with
it in his hand. His laughter followed long, unhinged and
echoing against the beams above him.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Ha ha, ha ha.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
I can't wait for father to hear about this. When
he hears of this night, I want him to feel
it in his chest like a spear.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
David knew what.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
You did, and he was outraged, or so he said,
But he did nothing.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Nothing.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
What about everything?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Lengthen told us about.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Mercy, like the mercy you showed tomorrow. Amnon's breath quick
and the bard felt suddenly too small, too Alice.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And what about father?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
What will he do when he finds out.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
An He won't do anything a slap on the wrist.
Perhaps our father is weak, just like you. You had
to overpower a woman to feel like a man. You
(08:32):
had to defile your own sister to feel powerful.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
And our father he let you live. After that, I
want please let me explain, no explanation necessary.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Brother, Absalom's blade flicked in his hand, He rose and
stepped back, eyes locked on Amnon's. Then, with a tilt
of his chin, he signaled his men to strike. The blades.
All descended at once. Steel met flesh and bone. Hamlon gasped,
(09:09):
then gurgled, then collapsed in silence, blood soaking into the straw.
It was quick, but not merciful. Absalom wiped his blade
with a strip of cloth and exhaled long through his nose,
as if a weight had finally been lifted.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Finally, justice, tell the others that Amnon is despot.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Let them feel them.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Let them ride, Let the house and David know what
happens when they crossed.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The message was delivered, and when the other sons of
David heard what Absalom had done, terror gripped them like
a wolf's jaws. They mounted their mules and flared into
the night. Back in his house, long sat alone, the
din of celebration long since faded. He poured himself wine
(10:06):
and ate in silence, savoring the weight of the void
he had created. He had cast his first stone in
the war for the crown, and now all Juson would
know Absalom was not a man to be trifled with.
The palace was undone. Screams echoed through stone halls, and
(10:31):
whispers ran like wildfire through the courtyards. Grief and fear
held the city by the throat. Messengers stumbled in and
out of the palace gates with wide eyes and trembling lips.
Rumors grew with every breath. Absalom has slaughtered them. All.
The sons of David lie dead in the fields. When
(10:53):
the report reached the king's chamber, David collapsed where he stood.
His knees struck the floor, and his hands tore through
the fabric of his robes. The cries that followed were
not the cries of a king, but of a father
shattered by loss. He lay in the dust, his chest heaving,
(11:14):
forehead pressed to cold stone.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
My sons, all of them, will God my children.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
It was then, through the grief and chaos, that a
familiar voice rang out, with a sharp, mocking edge, marking
why so plum It was Jonadab, the annoying nephew and
instigator of the family. He leaned against the edge of
the long table, a sarcastic grin splitting his thin cheeks.
Speaker 6 (11:44):
You look as though you've lost all your airs, save
the one who'd killed them.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
David did not rise. His eyes were red, rimmed and hollow.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Ooh, I've no patience for your jests, Jonadab, Leave me
to my grief as you wishmarking.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
JOHNI da bowed low, sweeping a hand across his chest
with theatrical flare, but lingered at the exit, rising again
with an infuriating smile.
Speaker 6 (12:13):
However, I think it may lift your heart to know
that not all your sons are it just one absalind
struck only Amnon. The others yet live. What do you mean,
come now, uncle, do you really think Absalom would kill
all his brothers?
Speaker 3 (12:31):
No?
Speaker 6 (12:32):
No, them none alone has pain and rise. Absolom has
plotted this since the day Tamar fled from em Non's bedchamber.
He waited patiently, like a proper predator. You have a
clever boy, David, a clever boy.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Indeed, David stared at him, somewhere between disbelief and rage.
Johnada bowed again, turned on his heel, and vanished. Baniah,
the captain of the guard, stepped forward and bowed low.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Absalam is to be exiled from Jerusalem if he dares
de foot in my city. If I so much as
here the loves of his donkeys crossed my gates, he
shall die. Market Baniah, let the walls know he is banished.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Beniah bowed, But even as the order passed through the palace,
David's wrath soured into regret. The sin of the son
was born of the father's silence. It was David who
failed to punish Amnon, and now two sons were lost,
the one to death, the other to exile. Absalom fled
(13:44):
with haste to get sure where his mother's kin ruled.
There he remained for three long years, surrounded by sheep,
distant from the throne, yet not idle, while the grass
grew high in Geshur valleys. Absalom's hatred grew higher still.
(14:04):
In all that time, David never once sent for his son.
He never spoke the boy's name aloud. That Absalom did
not forget. He waited, he planned, and in the silence
he sharpened his knives. For David would soon learn the
(14:24):
most dangerous weapon of all is the fury of a
patient man.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Here's the question that haunts me. What happens when a
son loses faith in his father. We often talk about
Absalom's hideous act. We ask why he did it, But
maybe first we should ask what was missing. Two years
of royal feasts, of national victories, of palace intrigue. But
there's been no word from the throne of the King
(14:55):
of David about Mar's pain, no judgment, not even acknowledgement.
And so Absalom acted. But in doing so, he traded
the weight of grief for the burden of guilt. I
found it interesting, then, the dramatized portion of this episode,
our writers added a part with Absalom whispering only be
(15:17):
strong and courageous, or for listeners of this show in Hebrew,
you say rak hazakhvahmitz I point this out because those
words weren't Absalom's tweeled. Those words belong to the leaders
anointed by God. Moses gave them to Joshua before he
crossed the Jordan, and David will give them to Solomon
(15:39):
as he prepares to build the Holy Temple. Those words
carry the weight of covenant of holy work, But in
our dramatized interpretation of this story, when Absalom speaks them,
those words only carry destruction. Jewish tradition teaches that whoever
destroys the soul is as if he has destroyed an
(15:59):
entire higher world, and in this story we watched that
world collapse, and this collapse was long in the making.
The abominable act of the rape of Tamar by her
brother Omnon is particularly shocking, and Absalom's revenge by killing
Omnoon only adds to the violence inflicted upon the house
(16:20):
of David. Many of our sages suggest that it all
goes back to David's sin with Batshiba at the time,
God told David, now, therefore, the sword will never depart
from your house, because you despised me and took the
wife of Uriya Thehiti to be your own. As the
old saying goes, what goes around comes around. Even though
(16:40):
King David had performed exemplary repentance, even penning the fifty
first Psalm, the stain of sin remained. David may have repented,
but he also created an atmosphere of violence that came
back on his very own family. This story reminds each
of us today that we all need to be careful
with our actions, because negative actions often lead to negative consequences.
(17:07):
There are some Bible stories that feel like shattered mirrors.
You look into them, and pieces of your own soul
are staring back, but bent, fragmented, sharp around the edges.
This one is like that. Absalom's act is full of heartache,
and yet it teaches nothing about healing. His justice creates
(17:28):
no wholeness. His vengeance restores it nothing to Tamar. Instead,
it opens up a new wound, one that reaches all
the way to Jerusalem's gates. The prophet Jeremiah once wept
over Jerusalem and said peace, peace, They say, when there
is no peace, that's what I feel here. A false
peace settled over David's house after Tamar's shame, but it
(17:51):
was just a calm on the surface, while the roots
of rage twisted deep underground.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
And affected everything.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
And that's when Absalom's blade fell. It happened, and the
peace was destroyed. I don't know your story, but maybe
you've waited in silence for justice that never came. I
want you to note that there is a better way,
a way that balances strength and kindness, a way to
love enemies while also holding them accountable for their actions,
(18:20):
a way to show mercy when everything in us wants
to lash out. David lost two sons, one to unchecked
the lust and the other to unanswered rage, and his
silence shadowed both. We can all learn from David's silence
and never let in action become our legacy. Because the
(18:43):
God of King David and the Chosen People still speaks,
He still judges, and he still heals.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
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Previously on the Chosen People.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
There is only one woman I want, Oh, Tamar, Absalom's.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Sister, your half sister, you dog you.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
I can't eat, I can't sleep. Every night I see her,
I feel like I'm dying.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
And take her.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Stop stop, oh, none believe.
Speaker 1 (00:35):
When it was over, Tamar lay crumpled like a torn cloth,
weeping into the pillows. Tamar couldn't speak. Absalom held her tightly.
It was Amnon, wasn't it. But behind Absalom's calm eyes,
his fury seethed like molten iron. His tongue was a
(00:59):
sword's ill sheathed. His wrath are tiede yet to rise.
Amnon had taken Tamar with lust and violence. Now Absalom
would take Amnon with silence and patience. Vengeance is best served.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
Cold in a house full of kings. The one with
the sharpest knife makes the rules. Shelloh, my friends, from
here in the holy land of Israel, i'm l Extein
with international Fellowship of Christians and Jews, and welcome to
the Chosen People. Today's Bible story begins with absence, with silence,
(01:41):
with the crime long buried and justice long delayed. That's
where we find ourselves in Second Samuel thirteen. The crime
has already been committed, the pain has already taken root,
and yet nothing has been done. Tomorrow's tears dried long ago,
but the silence has only deepened. The king and the
father remains quiet, and that quiet becomes its own kind
(02:04):
of curse. Absalom has waited two years long enough for
grief to ferment into something darker. Well, what happens to
justice when no one carries it out? And what happens
to a man when righteousness is withheld and rage is
left to simmer. Let's step into the field where wine
(02:24):
is poured, sheep are sheared, and blood begins to speak.
Speaker 1 (02:31):
The evening stars drape themselves over balhazor like a royal
mantle of silver and blue, casting a gentle glow over
Absalom's lands. Warm air, thick with the scent of wool,
roasted meat and sweet fig wine, drifted through the valley.
(02:52):
In the great hall of his second home, Absalom played
the gracious host, smiling wide and laughing louder than all
his brothers. It was the season of shearing, a time
of festivity and bounty, and he had invited every son
of David under the pretense of merriment. The wine flowed freely,
(03:16):
and the sons of the king toasted to memories of
youth and tales of war and mischief. Cups clinked, songs
were sung, and the moods soared. Yet beneath Absalom's smile
was a stillness, a calculated quiet. Behind the eyes, his
(03:36):
gaze followed Amnon all through the feast. Amnon bloated with
wine and foolish pride, never sensed the trap. He drank
deeply and danced with abandon, boasting, jesting, clapping his hands
to the rhythm of liars and drums, a war, wine,
(04:00):
more music. The prince had become drunk on more than wine.
He was intoxicated by his own immunity. He lifted his
cup to Absalom.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Three cheers to Absalom for hosting this glorious party. When
I'm king, we'll host feasts like these. Are the great owls,
music and wine and dancing.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Absalom raised his cup with a smile and sipped I still,
never leaving his brother. As the hour grew late and
the embers in the hearths dimmed, Amnon excused himself from
the table. He staggered into the night, laughing softly at nothing.
(04:51):
He wandered past the shearing pens and into the barn
with a satisfied grunt. He collapsed into a pile of straw,
letting the the warmth of the summer night cradle him.
His eyes fluttered shut In the quiet darkness. Amnon drifted
into sleep, the smirk still curling on his lips. But
(05:13):
he was a fool to think himself safe under the
hush of starlight. The barn door creaked open. The sound
was quiet but deliberate. There stood Absalom, flanked by the
lean shadows of his loyal men, each with a dagger drawn.
(05:38):
Absalom turned to them, voice a low hush of command.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
With me, gentlemen, be strong and courageous.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
They entered. Torchlight licked the beams above, throwing flickering shadows
across the hay strewn floor. Rats fled to their holes
at the sudden glare. Amnon ster hed. His eyes blinked open,
bloodshot and unfocused, until they locked on the form looming
above him, Absolom.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
What are you doing here? How did I How did I.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Find myself in the Absalom crouched low, the torchlight catching
the gleam of his blade as he raised it to
Amnon's throat. You're a rather clueless one, aren't you.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Wait? Wait, wait, wait, Whatever it is you think I've done,
I swear I haven't. If this is about Tamar, it
was a misunderstanding, I swear, she quite.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
Absalom pressed the tip of his blade closer to Amnon's throat.
A drop of blood trickled down his chest. You've always
talked too much. Somehow, with all those words, you managed
to say nothing.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Would you really return my evil with evil? What would
father say when he finds out you killed his first born?
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Absalom's grin returned, slow and sharp as a sword, Sliding
free of its sheath. He flipped his dagger, toying with
it in his hand. His laughter followed long, unhinged and
echoing against the beams above him.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Ha ha, ha ha.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
I can't wait for father to hear about this. When
he hears of this night, I want him to feel
it in his chest like a spear.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
David knew what.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
You did, and he was outraged, or so he said,
But he did nothing.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Nothing.
Speaker 4 (07:51):
What about everything?
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Lengthen told us about.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Mercy, like the mercy you showed tomorrow. Amnon's breath quick
and the bard felt suddenly too small, too Alice.
Speaker 2 (08:04):
And what about father?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
What will he do when he finds out.
Speaker 3 (08:11):
An He won't do anything a slap on the wrist.
Perhaps our father is weak, just like you. You had
to overpower a woman to feel like a man. You
(08:32):
had to defile your own sister to feel powerful.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
And our father he let you live. After that, I
want please let me explain, no explanation necessary.
Speaker 1 (08:48):
Brother, Absalom's blade flicked in his hand, He rose and
stepped back, eyes locked on Amnon's. Then, with a tilt
of his chin, he signaled his men to strike. The blades.
All descended at once. Steel met flesh and bone. Hamlon gasped,
(09:09):
then gurgled, then collapsed in silence, blood soaking into the straw.
It was quick, but not merciful. Absalom wiped his blade
with a strip of cloth and exhaled long through his nose,
as if a weight had finally been lifted.
Speaker 3 (09:29):
Finally, justice, tell the others that Amnon is despot.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Let them feel them.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
Let them ride, Let the house and David know what
happens when they crossed.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The message was delivered, and when the other sons of
David heard what Absalom had done, terror gripped them like
a wolf's jaws. They mounted their mules and flared into
the night. Back in his house, long sat alone, the
din of celebration long since faded. He poured himself wine
(10:06):
and ate in silence, savoring the weight of the void
he had created. He had cast his first stone in
the war for the crown, and now all Juson would
know Absalom was not a man to be trifled with.
The palace was undone. Screams echoed through stone halls, and
(10:31):
whispers ran like wildfire through the courtyards. Grief and fear
held the city by the throat. Messengers stumbled in and
out of the palace gates with wide eyes and trembling lips.
Rumors grew with every breath. Absalom has slaughtered them. All.
The sons of David lie dead in the fields. When
(10:53):
the report reached the king's chamber, David collapsed where he stood.
His knees struck the floor, and his hands tore through
the fabric of his robes. The cries that followed were
not the cries of a king, but of a father
shattered by loss. He lay in the dust, his chest heaving,
(11:14):
forehead pressed to cold stone.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
My sons, all of them, will God my children.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
It was then, through the grief and chaos, that a
familiar voice rang out, with a sharp, mocking edge, marking
why so plum It was Jonadab, the annoying nephew and
instigator of the family. He leaned against the edge of
the long table, a sarcastic grin splitting his thin cheeks.
Speaker 6 (11:44):
You look as though you've lost all your airs, save
the one who'd killed them.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
David did not rise. His eyes were red, rimmed and hollow.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
Ooh, I've no patience for your jests, Jonadab, Leave me
to my grief as you wishmarking.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
JOHNI da bowed low, sweeping a hand across his chest
with theatrical flare, but lingered at the exit, rising again
with an infuriating smile.
Speaker 6 (12:13):
However, I think it may lift your heart to know
that not all your sons are it just one absalind
struck only Amnon. The others yet live. What do you mean,
come now, uncle, do you really think Absalom would kill
all his brothers?
Speaker 3 (12:31):
No?
Speaker 6 (12:32):
No, them none alone has pain and rise. Absolom has
plotted this since the day Tamar fled from em Non's bedchamber.
He waited patiently, like a proper predator. You have a
clever boy, David, a clever boy.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
Indeed, David stared at him, somewhere between disbelief and rage.
Johnada bowed again, turned on his heel, and vanished. Baniah,
the captain of the guard, stepped forward and bowed low.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
Absalam is to be exiled from Jerusalem if he dares
de foot in my city. If I so much as
here the loves of his donkeys crossed my gates, he
shall die. Market Baniah, let the walls know he is banished.
Speaker 1 (13:19):
Beniah bowed, But even as the order passed through the palace,
David's wrath soured into regret. The sin of the son
was born of the father's silence. It was David who
failed to punish Amnon, and now two sons were lost,
the one to death, the other to exile. Absalom fled
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with haste to get sure where his mother's kin ruled.
There he remained for three long years, surrounded by sheep,
distant from the throne, yet not idle, while the grass
grew high in Geshur valleys. Absalom's hatred grew higher still.
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In all that time, David never once sent for his son.
He never spoke the boy's name aloud. That Absalom did
not forget. He waited, he planned, and in the silence
he sharpened his knives. For David would soon learn the
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most dangerous weapon of all is the fury of a
patient man.
Speaker 5 (14:32):
Here's the question that haunts me. What happens when a
son loses faith in his father. We often talk about
Absalom's hideous act. We ask why he did it, But
maybe first we should ask what was missing. Two years
of royal feasts, of national victories, of palace intrigue. But
there's been no word from the throne of the King
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of David about Mar's pain, no judgment, not even acknowledgement.
And so Absalom acted. But in doing so, he traded
the weight of grief for the burden of guilt. I
found it interesting, then, the dramatized portion of this episode,
our writers added a part with Absalom whispering only be
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strong and courageous, or for listeners of this show in Hebrew,
you say rak hazakhvahmitz I point this out because those
words weren't Absalom's tweeled. Those words belong to the leaders
anointed by God. Moses gave them to Joshua before he
crossed the Jordan, and David will give them to Solomon
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as he prepares to build the Holy Temple. Those words
carry the weight of covenant of holy work, But in
our dramatized interpretation of this story, when Absalom speaks them,
those words only carry destruction. Jewish tradition teaches that whoever
destroys the soul is as if he has destroyed an
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entire higher world, and in this story we watched that
world collapse, and this collapse was long in the making.
The abominable act of the rape of Tamar by her
brother Omnon is particularly shocking, and Absalom's revenge by killing
Omnoon only adds to the violence inflicted upon the house
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of David. Many of our sages suggest that it all
goes back to David's sin with Batshiba at the time,
God told David, now, therefore, the sword will never depart
from your house, because you despised me and took the
wife of Uriya Thehiti to be your own. As the
old saying goes, what goes around comes around. Even though
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King David had performed exemplary repentance, even penning the fifty
first Psalm, the stain of sin remained. David may have repented,
but he also created an atmosphere of violence that came
back on his very own family. This story reminds each
of us today that we all need to be careful
with our actions, because negative actions often lead to negative consequences.
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There are some Bible stories that feel like shattered mirrors.
You look into them, and pieces of your own soul
are staring back, but bent, fragmented, sharp around the edges.
This one is like that. Absalom's act is full of heartache,
and yet it teaches nothing about healing. His justice creates
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no wholeness. His vengeance restores it nothing to Tamar. Instead,
it opens up a new wound, one that reaches all
the way to Jerusalem's gates. The prophet Jeremiah once wept
over Jerusalem and said peace, peace, They say, when there
is no peace, that's what I feel here. A false
peace settled over David's house after Tamar's shame, but it
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was just a calm on the surface, while the roots
of rage twisted deep underground.
Speaker 1 (17:58):
And affected everything.
Speaker 5 (18:00):
And that's when Absalom's blade fell. It happened, and the
peace was destroyed. I don't know your story, but maybe
you've waited in silence for justice that never came. I
want you to note that there is a better way,
a way that balances strength and kindness, a way to
love enemies while also holding them accountable for their actions,
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a way to show mercy when everything in us wants
to lash out. David lost two sons, one to unchecked
the lust and the other to unanswered rage, and his
silence shadowed both. We can all learn from David's silence
and never let in action become our legacy. Because the
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God of King David and the Chosen People still speaks,
He still judges, and he still heals.
Speaker 1 (18:54):
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Of the Chosen People with Yiel Eckstein, edited by Alberto Avilla,
narrated by Paul Coltofianu. Characters are voiced by Jonathan Cotton,
Aaron Salvado, Sarah Seltz, Mike Reagan, Stephen Ringwold, Sylvia Zaradoc,
Thomas Copeland, Junior, Rosanna Pilcher, and the opening prayer is
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voiced by John Moore. Music by Andrew Morgan Smith, written
by Aaron Salvato, bre Rosalie and Chris Baig. Special thanks
to Bishop Paul Lanier, Robin van Ettin, kayleb Burrows, Jocelyn Fuller,
and the team at International Fellowship of Christians and Jews.
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