BONUS - Dating App Disasters: The Biggest Turnoffs Women Can’t Stand

Swipe right if you’ve ever been baffled by what guys post on dating apps — from awkward voice notes to flexing with zero charm. In this episode, we dive deep into the top dating app turnoffs that make women swipe left faster than you can say “match.” Discover why poor grammar, group photos, and flashy wealth might be killing your chances — plus, the #1 profile mistake that sends women running. Whether you’re navigating the dating scene or just love a good cringe-worthy story, this episode spills the tea on what really works (and what doesn’t) in online dating.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
You know what's worse than the dating apps themselves, dudes
who are on the dating apps. No offense to all
the guys out there, but let's just be honest. Most
of the time, it's guys trying to impress women with
things that only other guys would be impressed with, like
how much you can bench press. For the most part,
women don't care that much about how much weight you

(00:20):
can push unless it's being able to carry their emotional.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
Baggage with care. Oh that's so true.

Speaker 1 (00:25):
I remember lift with your back, And I know that
dudes on dating apps missed the mark most of the time.
Because there's a new study going viral about the biggest
dating turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps.
Text in yours and will tell you what the number
one dating app turnoff for women is. Right after this,
I'm matched with this guy on Tinder and his first

(00:46):
voice note that he sent me with just him chewing
chips in no hello, just crunching in my ear like
we were in a Pringles commercial. Why then he sent
me a second message that said, I thought this would
be cute, you know, so you can hear what it's
like to have snacks together. Our ASMR future love story.
I called it blocked. I would not block them because

(01:09):
of that. That is creativity point. A text message we
just got in at four one oh six one because
there's a suddy gooing viral about the biggest dating turnoffs
for women when it comes to the dating apps. Text
in yours four one o six one, and we'll tell
you what the number one dating app turnoff for women
is in just a second. Let's go over some of
the top turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps,

(01:31):
over messaging or getting too clingy.

Speaker 2 (01:33):
It's sae, yeah, this.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Healthy relationships need breathing room, coming on too strong before
that suggests the lack of boundaries and can feel like
love bombing, which often leads to burnout and controlling behavior.

Speaker 3 (01:45):
Well, especially when there's isn't it like the blue text rule,
like you shouldn't have too many blue blocks or green
blocks depending on whatever type of Yeah, too many blocks
that are on your own, Like you shouldn't go more
than like two without somebody responding at that point then,
and I.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
Feel like on the dating apps, it's just guys going
over and over and over again, hey hi hey hey, hey, hey,
hey hey hey, with no response until you get the
long paragraph where they yell seriously. Going over the top
dating turnoffs for women when it comes to dating apps,
when it comes to guys, Guys using poor grammar and

(02:21):
spelling is also in the top. Yeah, it says it's
not about being an English major. It's about effort. A
dating profile is your highlight reel, and if you can't
take the time to write clearly, it signals you may
not put effort into other parts of your relationship either. Plus, Brad,
grammar can make you sound less intelligent than you are,
which is not the vibe you probably want. And this
is the most logical explanation for all of it. I mean, yes,

(02:44):
that feels like common sense to me. The fact that
we need to explain why it's important to have proper
grammar is beyond me.

Speaker 2 (02:50):
I feel like it does really corrects me. But why
you okay with him not being like.

Speaker 3 (02:54):
No, I'm not.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
But it's just so funny, like if someone spells it
like text me and be like you're beautiful, but like
y oh you are and like forgets the.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
Like oh okay, yeah, you're not getting a response. We're
going over the top dating turn offs for women when
it comes to guys on the dating apps only posting
group photos in your profile, says every picture is a
group shot. It's either because he's hiding behind his friends,
he's insecure about standing alone, or he's trying to level

(03:26):
up his own attractiveness through comparison, and it creates confusion
and nobody wants to fall for the hot best friend
by mistake.

Speaker 2 (03:34):
Yeah, bro, I hate this.

Speaker 3 (03:37):
They get themselves into trouble though, because now you're presenting
other options to us, and every time you post a picture,
so like, why would we want you if you are
like you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (03:46):
It's like a game, ending up being like a game
of like where's Waldo and having to do like.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Detective skills, which one argue, yea, do you think it is?
You hope it's the one, But then you ask me
find out that that is their friend, You're like, dang it,
well is his name? Yeah?

Speaker 2 (03:59):
Friend single.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Here's another one of the top turn offs for women
when it comes to men on the dating apps flaunting
his wealth. It says, well, ambition can be attractive. Making
money your personality signals shallow priorities, and it implies that
status is more important than substance, and it risks attracting
people who care about what you own rather than who
you are, and that's a shaky foundation for any relationship preach.

Speaker 4 (04:22):
Okay, wait, but the thing is if a guy posts
a picture like flying a plane, that in a way
could be flaunting your wealth. But if you have like
a license to fly the plane to back up, I
don't know, it's kind of hot like that. Well yeah,
because then you can go fly around like where you
gonna take me? Man?

Speaker 3 (04:38):
Okay, So what if it's a dude that's posting a
picture with like his Gucci slides and then he's got
his Gucci belt and then he's got the wallet on
the top, and then behind him is his Like what's
what are those trucks called again? The Tesla ones, the
Tesla truck, cyber truck with the cyberstruck behind that.

Speaker 2 (04:55):
Okay, you know what I'm saying, Like, does that? Do
you like that? The cyber truck alone is going to
turn me off? Like home? Yeah, see how many of
those blown up?

Speaker 4 (05:01):
I'm trying to get into one of those cars.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
I bet there are a lot of cyber trucks on
the dating apps. It wouldn't surprise me and ye, why there,
I don't know, I'm not on them.

Speaker 3 (05:11):
Yes, Victoria, we were out a winery and this one
dude pulled up in the cyber truck and I was like,
oh my gosh, quick, we got to see what this
person looks like. Yeah, we go up to him. It's
like this older dude, kind of super tight jeans and
this really young beautiful woman like with him. And it
was like, could it be more of a stereotype and say, like,

(05:31):
nailed it.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Here's another one of the top turn offs for women
when it comes to the dating apps. Vulgar pickup lines.
So guys using something explicit immediately frames that the interaction
is purely physical and not charming.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
You need to know your audience.

Speaker 5 (05:48):
Yeah, I feel like you would like these, but that
is a major turnoff.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
And I had a guy the other day. But it's
got to be funny though, Okay, what did you say?

Speaker 5 (05:58):
He yeah, see if I was a light switch and
I was like, what, he goes, because you're turning me on.

Speaker 2 (06:03):
I was like, no, one, you're turning me off.

Speaker 5 (06:08):
That's not that's weird.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
I mean yeah, but that was in it. That that
ended it. I was like you're turning me.

Speaker 1 (06:16):
Yes, I am a light switch and you just turned
off the lights for good. So I'm out.

Speaker 2 (06:21):
You're gonna regret that.

Speaker 1 (06:22):
No, And the number one her biggest turnoff for women
when it comes to the dating apps is men not
having photos of themselves on their profile.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Bro, what do you want to buy the FBI? Why
can I see your face?

Speaker 1 (06:34):
It says from a trust and safety perspective, it's a
red flag because online dating is already a high risk
from misinterpretation, and profiles without solo shots make women wonder
if he's hiding his appearance, if he's in a relationship,
or if he's even real.

Speaker 2 (06:48):
Oh yeah, good point.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Well yeah, because if I can't see what you look like, like,
what's the what else are you posting?

Speaker 2 (06:54):
If you don't post sun yourself stub?

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Is it sunset?

Speaker 2 (06:58):
Your fancy car? These are all things I've seen.

Speaker 4 (07:02):
I don't want to date your sunset photo, Nina.

Speaker 1 (07:04):
I want to date you, just I don't have any
pictures of myself, just the beautiful sunsets that I see,
and your smile reminds me of that beautiful sunset.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
Dang, what you know?

Speaker 1 (07:15):
I kind of like, so I want to do it
with you, Okay, I just want to figure out what
would happen on the dating app