December 2, 2025 • 8 mins
The holidays are supposed to be joyful—but one seemingly innocent question turned a family gathering into total chaos. In Cedar Falls, Iowa, Tory Langford went from festive cheer to internet legend after being asked if she’s seeing anyone, resulting in thousands of dollars in property damage, viral TikTok fame, and a run-in with the law.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh, the holidays. It's the Jewel Show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
A time for peaceful reflection about the past year, the
joy of families conversating around the dinner table, and who
am I kidding? It's the holidays, time for elbowing the
elderly out of the way to get the last kind
of sugar cookies at the grocery store. And nothing says
Christmas cheer like two strangers bashing each other over the
head with oversized candy canes over a parking spot dispute.
(00:24):
And of course, who could forget those families that get
together and ended up making national headlines because of something
that happened at their holiday festivities. Well, this is America,
so there's one of those every week pretty much. But
we're in luck because one woman is making headlines today
all because she was asked one question at her family
get together and it caused her to snap so much
(00:45):
so that an entire city block was riddled with chaos
and she's currently behind bars. What she says, she doesn't
regret it. Wow, we tell you what happened right after this.
It's the Jewele Show. What's the one question you should
never ask a family member during the holiday days?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's The Jewel Show. We'll tell you what it is
in a second.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
But one woman is making international headlines today all because
her aunt asked her a simple question and it ended
with thousands of dollars in property damage and she's behind bars.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
No, no, what's the question? What happened? To tell you
in a second, But.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
First, remember you can always stream the show and the
iHeartRadio app. Just add Hits one of six point one
to your favorites and stream us there. Yeah, so dope,
thank you very much. Appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Stream us there sounds funny.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Stream it on there? Whoa stream it up? Suckers? Stream
it why? Yeah, I know why.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
You can also ask your smart devices to stream it too,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Whoa Now we're getting smart.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, that's why don't you fire up Hits one of
the six point one The Jewel Show.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Stream me baby, yeah, wow.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Hey, Google, delete my enery internet history from last night,
and then stream Hits one of six point one.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You can also get the podcast where we get your podcasts,
or go to the Will Show dot com and it'll
send you right there. Okay, Now, how did one woman
end up behind bars and cost thousands of dollars in
property damage because of something she was asked at a
family's holiday get together. It happened Cedar Falls, Iowa. You
may have already seen the video that's gone viral on TikTok,
but a normally quiet family holiday gathering turned into instant
(02:19):
internet legend this week after thirty two year old graphic
designer Tory Langford finally snapped first when one of her
relatives asked her a simple question. According to witnesses, she
didn't respond with a let's change the subject to the question.
It turned into a slow motion meltdown and she's currently
(02:41):
behind bars. There's a TikTok video that's got n omber
eighteen million views and a bunch of property damage. It
happened when reportedly her aunt Carol asked her, so are
you seeing anyone yet? Good?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I was going to suggest that.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
I got bail money? Did you dirty?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That was dirty, Aunt Carol.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
I ain't asked her if she was seeing anybody yet,
and according to family members, they say that she froze,
stared off into the distance, and then stood up, slammed
both hands on the table and yelled, I'm committed to
a relationship with inner piece Carol.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Again for Tori I got a donation.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
And then at that point she pointed at each relative
and assigned them a romantic red flag list, basically talking
about all the things that's wrong in their relationship before
running out into the front yard and destroying all of
the decorations that the family had on the front Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Because she was asked if she's seeing anybody?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Then, for some reason, according to police, she stripped off
her clothes wow, and put a Santa hat on from
a Santa decoration that she destroyed, and somehow produced a megaphone.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Where did she get the megaphone from? Nobody knows.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
She was prepared for Aunt Carrol to trigger her.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
She ran down the block, destroying all of the neighborhood decorations,
ripping out lights, stomping out in display snow man, all
while screaming into the megaphone that she's committed to her
in her place.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Everything was cool until she left the house. Yeah, exactly
what you touch.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Other people's decorations.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
They didn't do your just your family. So we're in
your family's decorations and let them know.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All because she was asked if she's seeing anybody yet
over the holidays, She's currently behind bars, and when asked
her comment, she says she doesn't regret it, and we'll
do it again.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
It is a very triggering question.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I get it every year.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I got every day.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
I like, it's not the question, it's the yet at
the end.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yet all the elders, they always ask that question during holidays.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
But I don't think people understand is what we're dealing
with now.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
And I tried to explain this to my mom and
you guys too, Like it's not just finding somebody that
you like. It's finding somebody that's single, that doesn't want
to play with toys, that doesn't have other people that
they want to include in the relationship, that have all
of these different things.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Like it's a whole new like spread.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
It's harder to find your buffets behind bars.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because she totally freaked out when her aunt asked her
why she's still single at their family get together, and
because of that, a list of rude phrases that you
should never say to single friends is also going viral.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Or say it and watch your house get burned out.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Only they say these are things you should avoid saying
to your single friends this holiday season over some woman.
You can see how you'd react if it was said
to you, you're not trying hard enough. Okay, they say
it's a bad phrase to say to somebody.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Who's single this holiday season.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
My gold hoops are on right now and I'm about
to pull them off because you talk, understand, especially when
you're a big, a good person with a big heart
and you're trying to do things.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Shut up, everybody in mind.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean, I just left the studio. She's running down.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
The street as a friend who's married with a big
rock on her finger and just plays at home.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
There's another one. You know, you just need to get
back out there, back out there.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
That's another thing they say you shouldn't say, see your
single friends.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
She SIPs her one and goes, honey, do you have
any friends?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, I know they're all married too.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
So they're specifically talking about one person. By the way,
I like this, it's a consistent theme.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
He was having a conversation with this one person that
is not in the room right.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Now yesterday, and it's just going to be an ongoing.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Theme because it's an upsetting time of year for single people.
We're fine, guys. You don't have to feel sorry for us.
Back to Tory's point, in our piece and her piece
is invaluable.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
There's another thing they say you should never say to
a single person this holiday season.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Maybe just try wearing more makeup.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Oh why would that work at I'm sorry, why.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Would you ever think that's a good thing to say.
I feel like my grandpa back in the day rest
in Peace, would have said something. So would have said
something like that.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
My mother did say something like that.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
She said, you need more eyeliner, and make sure your
cleavage is showing.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
You're not going out of the house like that. I
can barely see any cleavage, just like, let me show
your gifts.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I mean, she's not lying.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
But if a guy is, but he's gonna date me,
he's going to see me eventually without makeup.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
And if I can get him to fall in love
with me looking.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
With its normal, yeah, he's going to be so impressed
when I do wear makeup.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I feel the same way. It's just about doing chores.
If I can get her to fall in love with
me without doing any chores around the house, yeah, that's
not going to happen. I know, I know, I'm just saying.
The makeup's hand in hand.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
They say that you should also not say this to
a single person during the holiday. If you're trying to
help them out, you're just too picky. Lower your standards,
you know.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Yeah, I do have a question though, how come almost
everybody in this room is thingle like, are we not
trying hard enough?
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I mean, are we too picky?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Not single? I said, almost.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Every day when someone says you're too picky though, it's like,
you know what, I don't like that you're single. Just
go get with anybody. There's gotta be a prison pin
pile something up every I mean anything, Come on standards,
Oh my god, I don't care how they treat you
or how they are, Like, you're just weird because you're single.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Someone this guy sent me a damn and he says
you're way too vain.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
He's like, maybe you're the love of your life is
unemployed or in jail, or maybe he's just at home
by himself.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
You don't know, you're so shallow.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
And I was like, actually, all those things make them
exempt for me.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I'm pretty sure that's not the love of my life.
Thank you.
Oh, the holidays. It's the Jewel Show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
A time for peaceful reflection about the past year, the
joy of families conversating around the dinner table, and who
am I kidding? It's the holidays, time for elbowing the
elderly out of the way to get the last kind
of sugar cookies at the grocery store. And nothing says
Christmas cheer like two strangers bashing each other over the
head with oversized candy canes over a parking spot dispute.
(00:24):
And of course, who could forget those families that get
together and ended up making national headlines because of something
that happened at their holiday festivities. Well, this is America,
so there's one of those every week pretty much. But
we're in luck because one woman is making headlines today
all because she was asked one question at her family
get together and it caused her to snap so much
(00:45):
so that an entire city block was riddled with chaos
and she's currently behind bars. What she says, she doesn't
regret it. Wow, we tell you what happened right after this.
It's the Jewele Show. What's the one question you should
never ask a family member during the holiday days?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
It's The Jewel Show. We'll tell you what it is
in a second.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
But one woman is making international headlines today all because
her aunt asked her a simple question and it ended
with thousands of dollars in property damage and she's behind bars.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
No, no, what's the question? What happened? To tell you
in a second, But.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
First, remember you can always stream the show and the
iHeartRadio app. Just add Hits one of six point one
to your favorites and stream us there. Yeah, so dope,
thank you very much. Appreciate it.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Stream us there sounds funny.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Stream it on there? Whoa stream it up? Suckers? Stream
it why? Yeah, I know why.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
You can also ask your smart devices to stream it too,
you know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Whoa Now we're getting smart.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Yeah, that's why don't you fire up Hits one of
the six point one The Jewel Show.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
Stream me baby, yeah, wow.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
Hey, Google, delete my enery internet history from last night,
and then stream Hits one of six point one.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Daddy.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
You can also get the podcast where we get your podcasts,
or go to the Will Show dot com and it'll
send you right there. Okay, Now, how did one woman
end up behind bars and cost thousands of dollars in
property damage because of something she was asked at a
family's holiday get together. It happened Cedar Falls, Iowa. You
may have already seen the video that's gone viral on TikTok,
but a normally quiet family holiday gathering turned into instant
(02:19):
internet legend this week after thirty two year old graphic
designer Tory Langford finally snapped first when one of her
relatives asked her a simple question. According to witnesses, she
didn't respond with a let's change the subject to the question.
It turned into a slow motion meltdown and she's currently
(02:41):
behind bars. There's a TikTok video that's got n omber
eighteen million views and a bunch of property damage. It
happened when reportedly her aunt Carol asked her, so are
you seeing anyone yet? Good?
Speaker 1 (02:58):
I was going to suggest that.
Speaker 4 (03:01):
I got bail money? Did you dirty?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
That was dirty, Aunt Carol.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
I ain't asked her if she was seeing anybody yet,
and according to family members, they say that she froze,
stared off into the distance, and then stood up, slammed
both hands on the table and yelled, I'm committed to
a relationship with inner piece Carol.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Again for Tori I got a donation.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
And then at that point she pointed at each relative
and assigned them a romantic red flag list, basically talking
about all the things that's wrong in their relationship before
running out into the front yard and destroying all of
the decorations that the family had on the front Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
Because she was asked if she's seeing anybody?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Then, for some reason, according to police, she stripped off
her clothes wow, and put a Santa hat on from
a Santa decoration that she destroyed, and somehow produced a megaphone.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Where did she get the megaphone from? Nobody knows.
Speaker 3 (03:58):
She was prepared for Aunt Carrol to trigger her.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
She ran down the block, destroying all of the neighborhood decorations,
ripping out lights, stomping out in display snow man, all
while screaming into the megaphone that she's committed to her
in her place.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Everything was cool until she left the house. Yeah, exactly
what you touch.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Other people's decorations.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
They didn't do your just your family. So we're in
your family's decorations and let them know.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
All because she was asked if she's seeing anybody yet
over the holidays, She's currently behind bars, and when asked
her comment, she says she doesn't regret it, and we'll
do it again.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
It is a very triggering question.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
I get it every year.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I got every day.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
I like, it's not the question, it's the yet at
the end.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yet all the elders, they always ask that question during holidays.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
But I don't think people understand is what we're dealing
with now.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
And I tried to explain this to my mom and
you guys too, Like it's not just finding somebody that
you like. It's finding somebody that's single, that doesn't want
to play with toys, that doesn't have other people that
they want to include in the relationship, that have all
of these different things.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
Like it's a whole new like spread.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
It's harder to find your buffets behind bars.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Because she totally freaked out when her aunt asked her
why she's still single at their family get together, and
because of that, a list of rude phrases that you
should never say to single friends is also going viral.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Or say it and watch your house get burned out.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Only they say these are things you should avoid saying
to your single friends this holiday season over some woman.
You can see how you'd react if it was said
to you, you're not trying hard enough. Okay, they say
it's a bad phrase to say to somebody.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Who's single this holiday season.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
My gold hoops are on right now and I'm about
to pull them off because you talk, understand, especially when
you're a big, a good person with a big heart
and you're trying to do things.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Shut up, everybody in mind.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
I mean, I just left the studio. She's running down.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
The street as a friend who's married with a big
rock on her finger and just plays at home.
Speaker 1 (06:03):
There's another one. You know, you just need to get
back out there, back out there.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
That's another thing they say you shouldn't say, see your
single friends.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
She SIPs her one and goes, honey, do you have
any friends?
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, I know they're all married too.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
So they're specifically talking about one person. By the way,
I like this, it's a consistent theme.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
He was having a conversation with this one person that
is not in the room right.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Now yesterday, and it's just going to be an ongoing.
Speaker 4 (06:29):
Theme because it's an upsetting time of year for single people.
We're fine, guys. You don't have to feel sorry for us.
Back to Tory's point, in our piece and her piece
is invaluable.
Speaker 2 (06:39):
There's another thing they say you should never say to
a single person this holiday season.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Maybe just try wearing more makeup.
Speaker 2 (06:46):
Oh why would that work at I'm sorry, why.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Would you ever think that's a good thing to say.
I feel like my grandpa back in the day rest
in Peace, would have said something. So would have said
something like that.
Speaker 3 (06:57):
My mother did say something like that.
Speaker 4 (06:59):
She said, you need more eyeliner, and make sure your
cleavage is showing.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
You're not going out of the house like that. I
can barely see any cleavage, just like, let me show
your gifts.
Speaker 1 (07:10):
I mean, she's not lying.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
But if a guy is, but he's gonna date me,
he's going to see me eventually without makeup.
Speaker 3 (07:22):
And if I can get him to fall in love
with me looking.
Speaker 4 (07:25):
With its normal, yeah, he's going to be so impressed
when I do wear makeup.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
I feel the same way. It's just about doing chores.
If I can get her to fall in love with
me without doing any chores around the house, yeah, that's
not going to happen. I know, I know, I'm just saying.
The makeup's hand in hand.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
They say that you should also not say this to
a single person during the holiday. If you're trying to
help them out, you're just too picky. Lower your standards,
you know.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
Yeah, I do have a question though, how come almost
everybody in this room is thingle like, are we not
trying hard enough?
Speaker 3 (08:00):
I mean, are we too picky?
Speaker 1 (08:02):
Not single? I said, almost.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Every day when someone says you're too picky though, it's like,
you know what, I don't like that you're single. Just
go get with anybody. There's gotta be a prison pin
pile something up every I mean anything, Come on standards,
Oh my god, I don't care how they treat you
or how they are, Like, you're just weird because you're single.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
Someone this guy sent me a damn and he says
you're way too vain.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
He's like, maybe you're the love of your life is
unemployed or in jail, or maybe he's just at home
by himself.
Speaker 3 (08:31):
You don't know, you're so shallow.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
And I was like, actually, all those things make them
exempt for me.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
I'm pretty sure that's not the love of my life.
Thank you.
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