BONUS - Is This a Date… or Just Frozen Yogurt?

Someone on The Jubal Show is in a confusing situation—are they heading to a casual hangout, or is it actually a real date? After multiple cancellations, mixed signals, and a last-minute plan involving frozen yogurt, the team debates what’s really going on. Listen in as the Jubal family breaks it down, gives their unfiltered advice, and tries to answer the ultimate dating question: how do you know if it’s actually a date?

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Somebody on this show needs your help. It's a Jewble show.
And look, if you listen to the Jewel Show, we're
one big, weird family. So if you were fill alone
out there, remember you're not alone, because you've got a
bunch of strange brothers and sisters and aunts and uncles
and kissing cousins out there who listen to this show
on a daily basis, and we help our listeners out

(00:21):
from time to time. But now one of the people
on this show desperately needs your advice. Who is it
and what do they need your help with? You'll find
out right after this. It's the Jewble Show. Someone in
your family needs help right now. It's a Jewele show.
And I say that because everybody that listens to the
show is part of one big family. From all the
creepy truck driving uncles to the nosey bus driving aunts

(00:42):
who want to tell us how to live our lives
we love them, to our nine to five office working
brothers and sisters who steal our undies because theirs we're
in the wash. Oh well, by the way, I need
my favorite pair back. I got plans tomorrow, so these
return them to the radio station. That's not weird anyway.
As part of our family, from time to time, one
of our try needs help. And today that's none other
than our own Victoria Ramirez challenge.

Speaker 2 (01:09):
Not even I didn't say that. It was like, why
am I even listening to begin with? You're a virgin,
you can't try, So.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
What's the issue that you're dealing with? They need our
help with.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
Look, I need your help because I'm not I'm not
really sure if I have a date tonight or not.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
I'm very confused about the whole things tonight.

Speaker 2 (01:32):
Well we yes, yes, I cancel on this man so
many times. Oh my gosh, you can't give here.

Speaker 1 (01:37):
Victorian made a comment earlier today in studio that she's
not sure if she has a date tonight. I still
don't know what that means. What do you mean you're
not sure if you have a date tonight?

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Well, okay, so let me explain. So there's a guy
that I met when I got this job, right like
we all like moved here for our jobs. He has
a pretty good job. But that but so I met
him way back when a few years ago and normally
only see him whenever we're like big parties. Happened, But

(02:05):
one hadn't happened in a while, and so then I
saw him like a month ago. It was very random,
and I was like, oh, hey, how's it going. And
he's asked me to like hang up before for like
happy hour, but we just never did. And then when
I was at this party, like he asked me again.
He's like, hey, like we should like hang out get
some happy hour or something else, like yeah, cool, Like
I'm down.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Then you're thinking, just he's just a friend, Yeah, the
dude that you know.

Speaker 2 (02:29):
Yes, I was thinking he just like wants to like
hang out more like be friends, like he's more people
to hang out with. So I said yes, and then
thinking it probably wouldn't have on, but then he actually
hit me up about it, so I agreed. That was
the first time we're supposed to get happy hour. Then
I think I canceled the first time, he canceled the
second time. It was kind of going back and forth,

(02:49):
and now it's like we're on number five and I've
canceled for a sixth last weekend, and I felt bad.
But also he suggested like recently going to Frozen yog
at like four o'clock. That's cute.

Speaker 1 (03:01):
Though those who get frozen yoga at four o'clock. Honey,
that's cute. But so wait, so you're not sure if
it's a date or not?

Speaker 3 (03:07):
Though?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
And yes, I'm not sure because like, originally it was
happy hour drinks, like I don't know, workers restferral, let's
just like let loose, But now it's frozen yogurts. Me
feels different.

Speaker 3 (03:17):
But this is the seventh redo. Well that's a great sign.
But I think that's a great What do you want
to date him? Or do you want to be friends?
Because if you don't want to date him, then you
don't want to be going on a date, right, Yeah, but.

Speaker 2 (03:31):
Like I don't want to date. I've never had it
in my head to date this man. But I'm not.

Speaker 1 (03:36):
I don't want to close myself. Are you sure if
it's a date?

Speaker 2 (03:39):
No, that's my issue, Like are we going happy hour
or we have only been flirty with you anything that
would make you think that it's a date?

Speaker 1 (03:47):
Or are you just assuming that because he asked you
out it's a date.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
No, that's not just me, No, it's also me jubol.
Come on, let's think about this. How many men yourself
included do you know that would consistently hit up a woman,
and if he didn't have intentions to spend more time
or explore what your relationship could possibly I've known a
few it would.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
I've had some friends that just hang out with women
all the time, and they really actually don't, they're actually
just friends. It always surprised me when I meet them
because they're like, I'm hanging out with my friends. I
show up, it's a girl. I'm like, you're trying to yeah, Like, no,
it's my friend. What are you talking about? I'm like,
you're a weird dude. Okay, but most guys probably yeah,
it's a date, but you're just not sure.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
But what if he's asking me, like during the weekdays
in between he's like, oh, like, how's your week going?
He'll ask me how my weekend was, how's work?

Speaker 1 (04:34):
Like okay, so he's starting to talk to you like that.
He definitely wants to date.

Speaker 2 (04:37):
He he asks me, this is a date? How do
you know it's a date? Again?

Speaker 3 (04:42):
In my experience, there is no man that is going
to consistently hit like hit you up to ask about
your day and give you a seventh chance. If he's
not in seventh chance to reschedule a date seven times
is excessive, but I don't need to do that with
my best friends. And when you have a guy that's
texting you, he'll really that is the sign. And when
I say if he's into you, you will know this

(05:05):
is one of those moments. You're just being a little
knife in my opinion.

Speaker 2 (05:09):
Okay, but he also canceled a few times, like I
did not cancel seven just so we're all clear, but
I will say I told him I was going to
text him back. So I canceled this last weekend because
I went on a trip. Okay, who cares about all that?
Can you read the date him or not? Like it
would it be bad if you went out with them?
Would or do you want to be friends with him?

Speaker 3 (05:27):
Like?

Speaker 1 (05:27):
Are you interested in him?

Speaker 2 (05:29):
He made? I mean, he's funny and he makes me laugh,
so like I yes, yes and no, yes, yes I
don't Okay.

Speaker 3 (05:38):
The reason why she says no, just to like translate,
is because you just don't date even though you want to.

Speaker 2 (05:44):
Anytime a man comes in, you're like, I don't have
time for this. Usually I don't have time. I got
things to do, and they annoy me too much. They
like always want to hang out or always want to
hit me up, or always want to go to the moment, right,
So yeah, that kind.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Of But you're crying when's no nobody's doing that. You're like,
nobody wants to see me, nobody. I'm not dating anybody.
I want to date somebody. So do you want to
go out with him? If it is a date? I? Yeah,
I I know, No I yeah, So are we doing
it anyway?

Speaker 2 (06:16):
So it doesn't matter.

Speaker 1 (06:17):
So we're gonna find out how it goes.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Oh it's so true. Yeah.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
So like if he kisses you and.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
They wouldn't pull back, I'd run.

Speaker 1 (06:24):
I'm not gonna lie