May 6, 2025 • 5 mins
This is basically a guide to not accidentally talk yourself out of a chance. The gist? Confidence is key, and women can smell uncertainty a mile away. If you’re constantly asking for permission—whether it’s to text, kiss, or plan the date—you’re giving off “I don’t think I’m good enough” vibes. Instead, have a plan, be genuine, and don’t lead with your wallet or weird compliments. Most women make a million decisions all day and don’t want to make every one for you too. So relax, be direct, and don’t treat flirting like a business proposal.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
When a guy asks if he can add me on
Snapchat right away, it's an instant no facts, So you
will show. All that means is, Hey, I want to
send you some pictures of something you never want to see,
and then I want to bug you NonStop for pictures
of you. Yeah, that's a text we just got in
at four one oh six one. Because there's a trend
going viral of phrases that men say that instantly make
(00:22):
a woman lose interest.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We'll go over it right now.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So if you're a guy, you can learn what not
to say to a woman, and if you're a woman
you can see if you agree text in four one
oh six to one. Is there anything that is an
instant no for you when a guy says it? But
here's one of the first things on the trends going
viral of phrases that men say that make a woman
instantly lose interest.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Where do you want to go on our date?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
That instantly makes a woman lose interest?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Yeah? Which date is it? If it is the first day?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Wait, why does it matter?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Well, because the first day I personally would like them
to take charge and like do that and make it
an adventure.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
But like later.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
I think it's fair for us to go back and
forth and decide what the dates can run.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Right.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Oh, it says a lot of women don't want to
be the one who decides everything for the date or
go to their favorite place. She wants you to have
a plan. Yeah, so instead of going where do you
want to go on a date?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Go?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
You're coming with me to chuck e cheese. It's hot though.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
When you get you get Here's what usually happens though.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
You say, here's what we're gonna do, here's how we're
gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
And they're like, yeah, but no, that's that's after you've
been in a relationship a while. You're like, no, you
know what she's been on me about making decisions. I
want to make a decision. We're gonna go to this restaurant.
Ew I don't want to go there. What is another
phrase that will instantly make a woman lose interest? If
(01:45):
a man says you're so beautiful, apparently that's one that
makes women lose interest.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Nina, you agree with that.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
No, I don't, But again, context, at what point if
you're texting me good morning beautiful every day, that does
make me lose interest? If You're sitting across from me,
staring into my eyes, and all of a sudden, you're
so mesmerized and you say you're so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I'm like, okay, what I thought?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
That list is not talking about looking into your eyes.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So it says there's nothing wrong with giving a woman
a compliment. But when you say something like you're so beautiful,
it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal. Yeah,
the key to giving a compliment is to say with confidence,
not like she's above you and you're below her. So, hey,
you're just as beautiful as I am. Is that what
(02:32):
I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
There's a new trend of girls if they get that
comment right, like you're so beautiful, girl, tell me how
challenge because it is a generic phrase, it really is.
It's such a broad like you're you're so great.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, you're pretty, you're beautiful.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
But I like that, ask how you could instantly see
some guys you're a headlights.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I like that idea brus and then you know what
they're true.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
But then that could be a total turn off.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
What is another phrase that a guy can say to
a woman that will instantly make her lose interest.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Can I buy you a drink? Is also on there.
Really that doesn't make me lose interest on it.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
I think it's the way you have to do it, like,
just buy me a drink, don't ask, I'll take a drink.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Do it well? I would assume you walk. Can I
buy you a drink?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
I wouldn't have thought that would be one that would
instantly be a turnoff for women, But I guess it
is says there's nothing wrong with buying woman a drink,
even if you just met her, but using it as
your conversation starter is not a good idea.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Oh that's a perfect conversation starter. I'll say yes every time.
I mean, I've used it too.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I think you got to say hey, I totally have.
I think you got to say your name first. You
gotta be like, hey, I'm Brad.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Can I buy you a drink?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
No, I think I like I like the asking if
you can buy me a drink first, and then we'll
talk and then say your name, because sometimes you just
want the drink and you don't.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Want to talk. Yeah, but then I feel bad.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I can take the drink if I'm not going to
like real smooth operator.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You're gonna pay attention to what she's drinking. You're gonna
order it. You're gonna hand it to her and say
I bought you a drink that would make me feel
like you drugged me.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like, that's why I would
want to do that.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Yeah, don't. I wouldn't do it that way. You gotta ask, you,
gotta be there. You got to watch the bartender. But
otherwise I think you're gonna roofy me.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, next level, you go, Hey, I noticed what you
were drinking.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I ordered yours. He's making it right there and then leave.
Oh okay, that's not made yet. That's weird. It's he
just comes off kind of weird. Yeah, does it? Yeah,
because that means you were watching me.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I think you're gonna get me so beautiful. Where do
you want to go on the first day?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
That's going viral of things that insight to women. That
does an instant turn off. Can I kiss you? Asking
for a kiss?
Speaker 5 (05:04):
I like that too, So I don't like that one.
Don't ask me because then I'm gonna get in my
head about it too. So just kiss me if you're
gonna kiss me. I don't want any questions.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I think it's hotter when you just kiss me, but
I'm turned off if you lass.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Really is it in the way that you do it? Maybe? Yes,
it's all of this is in the way that you write.
All of this is he hord or not? That is
all very true. Yeah, all of this is solved if
you're not well. Hot is in the eye of the beholder. Sure,
but that doesn't really change what I'm saying. You're beautiful.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Can I buy you a drink? And then can I
kiss you?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I don't hate
When a guy asks if he can add me on
Snapchat right away, it's an instant no facts, So you
will show. All that means is, Hey, I want to
send you some pictures of something you never want to see,
and then I want to bug you NonStop for pictures
of you. Yeah, that's a text we just got in
at four one oh six one. Because there's a trend
going viral of phrases that men say that instantly make
(00:22):
a woman lose interest.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
We'll go over it right now.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So if you're a guy, you can learn what not
to say to a woman, and if you're a woman
you can see if you agree text in four one
oh six to one. Is there anything that is an
instant no for you when a guy says it? But
here's one of the first things on the trends going
viral of phrases that men say that make a woman
instantly lose interest.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Where do you want to go on our date?
Speaker 3 (00:42):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:43):
That instantly makes a woman lose interest?
Speaker 2 (00:45):
Yeah? Which date is it? If it is the first day?
Speaker 4 (00:48):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Wait, why does it matter?
Speaker 4 (00:50):
Well, because the first day I personally would like them
to take charge and like do that and make it
an adventure.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
But like later.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
I think it's fair for us to go back and
forth and decide what the dates can run.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Right.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Oh, it says a lot of women don't want to
be the one who decides everything for the date or
go to their favorite place. She wants you to have
a plan. Yeah, so instead of going where do you
want to go on a date?
Speaker 5 (01:09):
Go?
Speaker 2 (01:10):
You're coming with me to chuck e cheese. It's hot though.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
When you get you get Here's what usually happens though.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
You say, here's what we're gonna do, here's how we're
gonna do it.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
And they're like, yeah, but no, that's that's after you've
been in a relationship a while. You're like, no, you
know what she's been on me about making decisions. I
want to make a decision. We're gonna go to this restaurant.
Ew I don't want to go there. What is another
phrase that will instantly make a woman lose interest? If
(01:45):
a man says you're so beautiful, apparently that's one that
makes women lose interest.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
Nina, you agree with that.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
No, I don't, But again, context, at what point if
you're texting me good morning beautiful every day, that does
make me lose interest? If You're sitting across from me,
staring into my eyes, and all of a sudden, you're
so mesmerized and you say you're so beautiful.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I'm like, okay, what I thought?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
That list is not talking about looking into your eyes.
Speaker 1 (02:10):
So it says there's nothing wrong with giving a woman
a compliment. But when you say something like you're so beautiful,
it sounds like you're putting her on a pedestal. Yeah,
the key to giving a compliment is to say with confidence,
not like she's above you and you're below her. So, hey,
you're just as beautiful as I am. Is that what
(02:32):
I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
I wouldn't like it.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
There's a new trend of girls if they get that
comment right, like you're so beautiful, girl, tell me how
challenge because it is a generic phrase, it really is.
It's such a broad like you're you're so great.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
Yeah, you're pretty, you're beautiful.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
But I like that, ask how you could instantly see
some guys you're a headlights.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I like that idea brus and then you know what
they're true.
Speaker 4 (03:10):
But then that could be a total turn off.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
What is another phrase that a guy can say to
a woman that will instantly make her lose interest.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
Can I buy you a drink? Is also on there.
Really that doesn't make me lose interest on it.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
I think it's the way you have to do it, like,
just buy me a drink, don't ask, I'll take a drink.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Do it well? I would assume you walk. Can I
buy you a drink?
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
I wouldn't have thought that would be one that would
instantly be a turnoff for women, But I guess it
is says there's nothing wrong with buying woman a drink,
even if you just met her, but using it as
your conversation starter is not a good idea.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Oh that's a perfect conversation starter. I'll say yes every time.
I mean, I've used it too.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
I think you got to say hey, I totally have.
I think you got to say your name first. You
gotta be like, hey, I'm Brad.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Can I buy you a drink?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (04:02):
No, I think I like I like the asking if
you can buy me a drink first, and then we'll
talk and then say your name, because sometimes you just
want the drink and you don't.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Want to talk. Yeah, but then I feel bad.
Speaker 5 (04:11):
I can take the drink if I'm not going to
like real smooth operator.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
You're gonna pay attention to what she's drinking. You're gonna
order it. You're gonna hand it to her and say
I bought you a drink that would make me feel
like you drugged me.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying, Like, that's why I would
want to do that.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Yeah, don't. I wouldn't do it that way. You gotta ask, you,
gotta be there. You got to watch the bartender. But
otherwise I think you're gonna roofy me.
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Okay, next level, you go, Hey, I noticed what you
were drinking.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
I ordered yours. He's making it right there and then leave.
Oh okay, that's not made yet. That's weird. It's he
just comes off kind of weird. Yeah, does it? Yeah,
because that means you were watching me.
Speaker 4 (04:49):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I think you're gonna get me so beautiful. Where do
you want to go on the first day?
Speaker 1 (04:57):
That's going viral of things that insight to women. That
does an instant turn off. Can I kiss you? Asking
for a kiss?
Speaker 5 (05:04):
I like that too, So I don't like that one.
Don't ask me because then I'm gonna get in my
head about it too. So just kiss me if you're
gonna kiss me. I don't want any questions.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
I think it's hotter when you just kiss me, but
I'm turned off if you lass.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Really is it in the way that you do it? Maybe? Yes,
it's all of this is in the way that you write.
All of this is he hord or not? That is
all very true. Yeah, all of this is solved if
you're not well. Hot is in the eye of the beholder. Sure,
but that doesn't really change what I'm saying. You're beautiful.
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Can I buy you a drink? And then can I
kiss you?
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I don't hate
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