June 2, 2025 • 9 mins
Cole met Terreen at Stagecoach, and it felt like fate—dancing under the stars, sharing drinks, and bonding over a shared zip code. But when the boots came off and the joggers came on, the dream died faster than a rodeo ride gone wrong.
In this First Date Follow-Up, Cole calls The Jubal Show to find out why Terreen ghosted him after what he thought was a magical weekend turned promising first date. Her reason? She wanted a real cowboy—not a guy who two-steps at country festivals and twerks to Snoop in joggers. Can genre confusion really kill a vibe that hard?
Spoiler: If your cologne smells more like club night than cattle ranch, she’s not riding off into the sunset with you.
Listen now to find out if Cole gets another shot—or if Terreen is still holding out for her hay-scented dream man.
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Cole is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Terreen.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Cole, how long has
it been since you heard from Arran?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean, it's it's been a few days, and uh,
you know, I thought we had a real connection, so
it's it's a bummer if.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
It's a few days. Are you sure you're being ghosted?
Have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I of course I've tried, and you know I texted,
I even called once, but uh, you know, just just nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Why don't you tell us about the date? Okay? Uh?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So last month we met a stagecoach and it was magic,
like we were both in boots with Biden to Midland
those saying how you know where it was to meet
someone not from out of town at a festival and
you know, boom it was. It was awesome, like we
lived in the same city, same side. What are the
odds of finding some like guided stage coach.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah not high.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I mean, oh man, Like the whole weekend, we just
kept bumping into each other, and you know, we were
partying together with both of our friend groups, and it's
just I don't want to be cheesy, but like it
really did feel like it was it was meant to beat.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Okay, okay, what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So we hung out all night, We danced, We even
slow danced like under the stars at one point, and
it was magic. And when we got home, I was
so stoked. We actually falled through and grabbed drinks the
next week like right away. Oh good, Yeah, it was
better than it was great. Like we went to this
bar has like awesome HAPs and music and I got
(01:45):
some wings here, she got fries, and we just shared everything.
And I gotta say, she's like hilarious and smart and
kind of spicy. You know, she's definitely my type.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Okay, do you feel like you're her type too?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I mean, the way she was acting, I certainly did.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Well. How did things end?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Like, was the last thing that that last interaction you
had before she stopped texting you?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Well, I got to be honest, it's been a while
since I've felt like an immediate click with somebody, and
she she just kept up with me and called me
on funny ways, like I feel like she saw me,
and like, I guess there was this a moment at
the bar. I said something dumb like I told her, Hey,
you know, my friends think.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
You're super hot. I know I like that.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So so like that I said that, and like she
gave me this look and said like cool, but why
do I need to know that? So I I tried
to recover and I was like, no, no, I mean
you're stunning. That's that's that's what I was trying to say.
And yeah, but that was like when I felt the shift.
You know, Okay, so you felt and so you did
feel a shift. Yeah, And you know it's been like
(02:57):
a little bit over week actually and not forever, but
like it's enough time that I've gone from Okay, she's
busy to she's done with me.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
But did you guys plan to see each other again
at the end of the night or you just we're
like cool, thanks, this was fun.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, we talked about it, and you know, I was
I was like excited and I reached out to her
and you know, so I haven't heard anything and I
saw that last night she posted this story about coffee
with the girls. So I felt like, oh, she's definitely
by her phone, and so I just like text her
one last time. I was like, can't wait to hang again?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Nothing?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Oh nothing at all.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Maybe get to a second date. Okay, I appreciate it.
All right, we'll get your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
But if you're just joining us, Cole is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Terrence. So in a minute,
gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
But before we do that, Cole, why don't you remind
us about your.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Day with Terran.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, well we went a stagecoach. We both lived in
I moved, you know, I wanted to see her when
we got back to wint to the bar, had a
good time, shared some food, had some laughs and then
since then she's just.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Ghost to me. Well, are you ready for us to
call her? I am all right? Hello, Hi man I
(04:43):
speaks of Terran. Please this hey Taran? How are you?
This is a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. Hi,
Taron Amina, Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. What's going on going?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Do you know?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Have you ever listened to the show?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
I mean not not all the time. I'm so sorry,
but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Hey, we're calling you today because we do a segment
on the show and it's called the First Day follow Up.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
That's where if you go out.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
On a date with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them, that person can have us get you on
the phone to ask why you're ghosting.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So are you ghosting anybody right now? I don't know?
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Like what is what is happening?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Right?
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Okay? I think I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
You want to take a shot at it?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Col?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
It is?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Congratulations? Yeah, do you have a few minutes to tell
us why you're ghosting?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Cole? He said he really liked you and thought you
guys got along great.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Sure. Yeah, Look Cole's nice. He's a really nice guy,
but he's just not who I though he was.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
What does that mean?
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Well, okay, so we met at Stagecoach and there he
had the whole cowboy aesthetic, you know, hat thirty Games,
like hot, very Yellowstone. But then we got together at
a bar and he he was as different. He knew
every word to a Snoop Dogg song and he started
talking like we were the party and he was wearing
(06:17):
like joggers or something.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
That sounds fun though, So what was the issue?
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah, I mean that was kind of it.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Like, uh, I just he's not he's he's not a cowboy.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Okay, okay, So you want a cowboy, yeah I.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Do, okay for real, like a like an actual cowboy.
I mean he really has athetic down, but like.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You're not just talking about a guy who dressed like
a cowboy, like you want an actual guy who works
on cows, like an actual like cher.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
I don't know if that's how that works.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah, okay, Bobby is.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Well, guys, I'm sorry, I just I'm confused, Taren. Hey,
I thought we were having fun. Hey, Taren, that's cold.
He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Mmmm. You you liked me with your hat?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
What are you?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
What are you talking about? No one at stage Coach
is a real cowboy. They just like I like country
music and also hip hops.
Speaker 6 (07:38):
To me, you you tworked man. You tworked to gin
and juice in joggers.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Cowboys can't work.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Told me your dream man wears wranglers and fixes tractors.
I thought that was like a pipe, not like a
hard contract.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I tried to.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Tell you, I want a man who smells like leather
and hay, not one who smells like a d this
cologne and like acts like a like a hip hop
hype man.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Who So, I'm sorry you ghosted me over genre confusion
like I own boose.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Good for you, and I will always appreciate that, But
I've got to keep looking. You know, my my cowboys
out there. He's probably shoeing a horse right now.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
What do I have to do to last so you happen.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
On the move.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I'm trying. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
I don't have a horse.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I have a BMW Yes exactly, Okay, I'll ask anyway, Arreen,
would you like to go on another date with Cole?
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Will pay for it?
Speaker 6 (08:46):
If you were who I thought you were when we met,
we would definitely be dating, no hard feelings. You're hot,
You're just not a cowboy.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
So you do think I'm hot, but you are not
a cowboy.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I'm sorry, Like, how many times?
Speaker 4 (09:02):
How many times we have to do?
Speaker 6 (09:03):
How many times I can.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Break up with you?
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Y'all are oh like you're the roofs out of the range?
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Do you have any plan for finding a cowboy? Tearran?
They're not really that easy to find. I mean, you
can go to a rodeo.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
I'm gonna hold out and uh you know, I'm sure
life will take me there.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Jubile's first date fall
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Cole is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Terreen.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him another date. But first, Cole, how long has
it been since you heard from Arran?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I mean, it's it's been a few days, and uh,
you know, I thought we had a real connection, so
it's it's a bummer if.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
It's a few days. Are you sure you're being ghosted?
Have you tried to reach out to her?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I of course I've tried, and you know I texted,
I even called once, but uh, you know, just just nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
Why don't you tell us about the date? Okay? Uh?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
So last month we met a stagecoach and it was magic,
like we were both in boots with Biden to Midland
those saying how you know where it was to meet
someone not from out of town at a festival and
you know, boom it was. It was awesome, like we
lived in the same city, same side. What are the
odds of finding some like guided stage coach.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Yeah not high.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
I mean, oh man, Like the whole weekend, we just
kept bumping into each other, and you know, we were
partying together with both of our friend groups, and it's
just I don't want to be cheesy, but like it
really did feel like it was it was meant to beat.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Okay, okay, what happened?
Speaker 3 (01:23):
So we hung out all night, We danced, We even
slow danced like under the stars at one point, and
it was magic. And when we got home, I was
so stoked. We actually falled through and grabbed drinks the
next week like right away. Oh good, Yeah, it was
better than it was great. Like we went to this
bar has like awesome HAPs and music and I got
(01:45):
some wings here, she got fries, and we just shared everything.
And I gotta say, she's like hilarious and smart and
kind of spicy. You know, she's definitely my type.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
Okay, do you feel like you're her type too?
Speaker 3 (01:59):
I mean, the way she was acting, I certainly did.
Speaker 4 (02:02):
Well. How did things end?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Like, was the last thing that that last interaction you
had before she stopped texting you?
Speaker 3 (02:09):
Well, I got to be honest, it's been a while
since I've felt like an immediate click with somebody, and
she she just kept up with me and called me
on funny ways, like I feel like she saw me,
and like, I guess there was this a moment at
the bar. I said something dumb like I told her, Hey,
you know, my friends think.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
You're super hot. I know I like that.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So so like that I said that, and like she
gave me this look and said like cool, but why
do I need to know that? So I I tried
to recover and I was like, no, no, I mean
you're stunning. That's that's that's what I was trying to say.
And yeah, but that was like when I felt the shift.
You know, Okay, so you felt and so you did
feel a shift. Yeah, And you know it's been like
(02:57):
a little bit over week actually and not forever, but
like it's enough time that I've gone from Okay, she's
busy to she's done with me.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
But did you guys plan to see each other again
at the end of the night or you just we're
like cool, thanks, this was fun.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah, we talked about it, and you know, I was
I was like excited and I reached out to her
and you know, so I haven't heard anything and I
saw that last night she posted this story about coffee
with the girls. So I felt like, oh, she's definitely
by her phone, and so I just like text her
one last time. I was like, can't wait to hang again?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
Nothing?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Oh nothing at all.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
Maybe get to a second date. Okay, I appreciate it.
All right, we'll get your first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
But if you're just joining us, Cole is on the
phone and he's getting ghosted by Terrence. So in a minute,
gonna call her and see if she'll tell us why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date.
But before we do that, Cole, why don't you remind
us about your.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Day with Terran.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, well we went a stagecoach. We both lived in
I moved, you know, I wanted to see her when
we got back to wint to the bar, had a
good time, shared some food, had some laughs and then
since then she's just.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Ghost to me. Well, are you ready for us to
call her? I am all right? Hello, Hi man I
(04:43):
speaks of Terran. Please this hey Taran? How are you?
This is a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. Hi,
Taron Amina, Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. What's going on going?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
Do you know?
Speaker 4 (04:56):
Have you ever listened to the show?
Speaker 3 (04:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (04:59):
I mean not not all the time. I'm so sorry,
but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Hey, we're calling you today because we do a segment
on the show and it's called the First Day follow Up.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
That's where if you go out.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
On a date with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them, that person can have us get you on
the phone to ask why you're ghosting.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So are you ghosting anybody right now? I don't know?
Speaker 6 (05:24):
Like what is what is happening?
Speaker 3 (05:26):
Right?
Speaker 6 (05:29):
Okay? I think I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
You want to take a shot at it?
Speaker 1 (05:35):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Col?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (05:36):
It is?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Congratulations? Yeah, do you have a few minutes to tell
us why you're ghosting?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Cole? He said he really liked you and thought you
guys got along great.
Speaker 6 (05:45):
Sure. Yeah, Look Cole's nice. He's a really nice guy,
but he's just not who I though he was.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
What does that mean?
Speaker 6 (05:54):
Well, okay, so we met at Stagecoach and there he
had the whole cowboy aesthetic, you know, hat thirty Games,
like hot, very Yellowstone. But then we got together at
a bar and he he was as different. He knew
every word to a Snoop Dogg song and he started
talking like we were the party and he was wearing
(06:17):
like joggers or something.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
That sounds fun though, So what was the issue?
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah, I mean that was kind of it.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Like, uh, I just he's not he's he's not a cowboy.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Okay, okay, So you want a cowboy, yeah I.
Speaker 6 (06:41):
Do, okay for real, like a like an actual cowboy.
I mean he really has athetic down, but like.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
You're not just talking about a guy who dressed like
a cowboy, like you want an actual guy who works
on cows, like an actual like cher.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
I don't know if that's how that works.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Yeah, okay, Bobby is.
Speaker 5 (07:12):
Well, guys, I'm sorry, I just I'm confused, Taren. Hey,
I thought we were having fun. Hey, Taren, that's cold.
He's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk
to you.
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Mmmm. You you liked me with your hat?
Speaker 4 (07:31):
What are you?
Speaker 3 (07:31):
What are you talking about? No one at stage Coach
is a real cowboy. They just like I like country
music and also hip hops.
Speaker 6 (07:38):
To me, you you tworked man. You tworked to gin
and juice in joggers.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
Cowboys can't work.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
Told me your dream man wears wranglers and fixes tractors.
I thought that was like a pipe, not like a
hard contract.
Speaker 4 (07:54):
I tried to.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Tell you, I want a man who smells like leather
and hay, not one who smells like a d this
cologne and like acts like a like a hip hop
hype man.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
Who So, I'm sorry you ghosted me over genre confusion
like I own boose.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Good for you, and I will always appreciate that, But
I've got to keep looking. You know, my my cowboys
out there. He's probably shoeing a horse right now.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
What do I have to do to last so you happen.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
On the move.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
I'm trying. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (08:34):
I don't have a horse.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
I have a BMW Yes exactly, Okay, I'll ask anyway, Arreen,
would you like to go on another date with Cole?
Speaker 4 (08:43):
Will pay for it?
Speaker 6 (08:46):
If you were who I thought you were when we met,
we would definitely be dating, no hard feelings. You're hot,
You're just not a cowboy.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
So you do think I'm hot, but you are not
a cowboy.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I'm sorry, Like, how many times?
Speaker 4 (09:02):
How many times we have to do?
Speaker 6 (09:03):
How many times I can.
Speaker 3 (09:04):
Break up with you?
Speaker 4 (09:05):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
Y'all are oh like you're the roofs out of the range?
Speaker 4 (09:11):
Do you have any plan for finding a cowboy? Tearran?
They're not really that easy to find. I mean, you
can go to a rodeo.
Speaker 6 (09:20):
I'm gonna hold out and uh you know, I'm sure
life will take me there.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
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