July 21, 2025 • 10 mins
Brent thought his date with Lola went great—flowers, flirty vibes, even a near-kiss. But when she suddenly ran off after dropping her keys, he was left completely confused. Turns out, Lola was wearing some “protective” undergarments to avoid temptation…and accidentally exposed them when her pants split in the parking lot. Total mortification! We got them both on the phone, and what happened next? You’ll just have to hear it to believe it.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Brent is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lola.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date if he still wants one.
But first, Brent, how long has it been since you
heard from Lola.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been five days since we went on the date.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, And how many times do you try to reach
out to her in those five days.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
The first time was the next morning, and then she
never responded, So two days later I followed up and
didn't get anything back from her than either, Okay, she's
definitely ghosting.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Did you text call email?
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I texted her?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Yeah, I texted her. The first text. I was just like,
you know, I had a great time and I'd love
to see you again. Let me know if you feel
the same. So I'm trying to be pretty straightforward.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
Okay, tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
The date was really fun. We went down to that
little theater. It was cool.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
We saw this artsy movie that you know, I didn't
really understand, but she seemed into it, and uh, you know,
we were just we had a good time. She was
laughing at my jokes. She she brushed against my arm
a couple of times. I thought we reviving.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I even brought her flowers, which I I don't really
do that for dates. But you know, she was really
She's really smart and hot and funny.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
So did you guys do anything else other than go
to the movie.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Absolutely, we just walked around a little bit. Towards the end.
You know, I thought we were gonna kiss. We were
kind of headed both then to to do it, but
then we knocked heads and then she dropped her keys,
and then I've been down to help, but she just
kind of ran off. It was pretty quick. I was
(01:55):
kind of I didn't know something I'd come up or
if I did something.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
You know, let's go through that.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So you knocked heads when you were about to kiss,
she dropped her keys and then just sprinted, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I went down to help the keys, and then yeah,
she just kind of got up there.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I gotta go.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
So so she actually said.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, I think so she was. I mean, it was
like so quick, but yeah, she was kind of Uh, yeah,
it was just a quick goodbye. I was, you know,
sitting around like what just happened?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
That's not funny.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
With the visual that I get from that looks very funny,
like her just taking off and sprinting away.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Worried I head better her a little too hard.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, maybe she was just dazed and she didn't know
where she was.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Why do you think she would do that?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Well, I was thinking through it, and I was like,
maybe maybe it was because earlier I said something, you know,
I was like, I like thick girls, and which I
mean as a compliment, like she's pervy, gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Okay, wait, but you thought that could be it?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
When did you say that?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
I was kind of just earlier along I hit him
in like she looked amazing, So I didn't mean it
in the wrong way at Also.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Okay, so you didn't say it right before you head
buttered her would be very weird. I mean, yeah, that
could be taken the wrong way. But she stayed with
you on the date.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Though, Yeah, and he tried to kiss her and she
tried to kiss you, so that I don't know, I
don't think that's what it was.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
But that also is like, I don't know, I know
a lot of girls would just stay on a date.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Yeah, just even if they decided an hour ago they
didn't like this person will just stay there.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Or even though go in for a kiss, just because
they feel like they just want to get it overwey,
let's move on.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Did her attitude change after you called her a thicky thick?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I mean it wasn't like that, but no, it was
like it was I think, you know, I think I'm
looking into it.
Speaker 7 (03:53):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
She didn't react to uh or anything like. Okay, so all.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Right, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date if.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You still want one. Okay, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up right
after this. Right in the middle of your first date
follow up, and if you're just joining us, Brent is
on the phone and Brent is getting ghosted by Lola.
(04:28):
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us the reason she's ghosting him and maybe get
him a second date. But before we do that, Brent
catch us up on your situation again real quick.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
So, five days ago we went on a nice date
to the theater and saw a movie.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I thought everything was going well, were reviving.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I brought her flowers, and then towards the end of
the day we went in to kiss.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
We knocked heads a little bit. She dropped her keys
and just ran off.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I'm not sure if she left because of that, or
if it was because of a common I said earlier
than midst of that.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know, I like thick girls.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
You know she's so okay? You ready for us to
call her? Yes, okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Man? Hello, Hi, Man, I speak to Lola. Please speaking,
Hey Lola, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show. Hey, I'm Victoria, I'm a
producer brand, and I'm Jewbell.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
How are you?
Speaker 7 (05:33):
Oh my god, I listened to you guys.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Oh well, thank you appreciate that. How are you doing today?
Speaker 7 (05:39):
I'm doing well? Did I win something?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Maybe if you listen to the show, then you've probably
heard a first day follow up before. Yes, okay, well,
we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Yeah,
any idea who email us?
Speaker 3 (05:59):
I have a sense.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I don't go on too many days. So yeah, I'm
guessing it might be Brent.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yes, it's Brent. Brent emailed us. He told us that
he really liked you. He thought the day was going great,
and he's confused. It's been about five days now and
you haven't answered his text or anything like that, so
long time.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Want us to call you and.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Ask if you could tell us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah, I I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
He was great.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It's it's not him, it's it's one hunder me.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
So yeah, can you.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Give us kind of a hint if you don't want
to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I mean, the day was actually going very well. I
was nervous, and you know, he was very sweet. So
I had like a plan.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
I think a plan that you know, I I feel
like is not a foreign concept to a lot of women.
I am. You know, I wore a certain undergarments, certain
you know, protective UNDERGARMENTUS period undergarments.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Okay, yeah, places, yeah, okay, so it was that time
for you. No.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I wore them as a like protective chastity belt.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Measure so that nothing would happen if it went Oh, Okay,
that's things appropriate.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Don't trust yourself to do it on your own. Yeah,
A little back up there.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It seems like he had potential, so I wanted to, like,
you know, to do things right.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:52):
Anyway, they were like, you know, they're large, they're stained
and whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
At the end of the day, we were in the
parking lot and I and I dropped my keys and I,
you know, bent down to get my keys and my
pants that I was wearing my regular pants split ah
right where you don't want him to split the undergarments.
(08:21):
The stained large undergarments were visible in addition to me
ripping my pants.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Not a good look.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
So anyway, it was I was absolutely mortifying, and I
was like that I.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
So, yeah, it was discussing and.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Awful because your pants were it was horrifying. I didn't
think I was ghosting him so much as like doing
him a favor to like not subject him to like
the horrors of like my ripped pants and my like
stain underpayout.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
So you're embarrassed, I mean, yeah, yeah, HeLa. I don't
know if you remember this or not since you've heard
these before, but Brent is on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Why, like you know me?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah, Brent is here.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I would not have guessed that was the reason you
go to me. Ever, Hey, hey lolla, Hey Brent. By
the way, I didn't see anything when you ran I
had I had no idea. I thought you were mad
at me. So that's hilarious. Yeah, how could you not see?
Speaker 7 (09:42):
You really didn't see?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
No, I think I was just like in shock, but
a little bit about how quickly you're running off and
after kind of knocking your head.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
I was just hoping you're okay.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
To be honest, it's concussed and runs like the nearest.
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
So I've been in like imaginary shame for five days.
This is like the weirdest thing that has ever happened to.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Be on a date. I have to say, most ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
No, that's uh, that's you don't have to be embarrassed
about anything.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Uh, I like you stains and all. I think that's
happen to be embarrassing.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
You'd like to go on another date with Brett? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 7 (10:29):
I would. I would love to, absolutely and I will.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
I will wear a boost fitting skirt and you know,
proper proper attire at this time.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Yeah, let's make a me a different undergarment choice.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Yeah yeah, you can wear whatever undergarments you want. I'm
just happy you said, but you can't.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Don't do that again.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
You will.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
First date fall up,
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Brent is on the phone today for our first date
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Lola.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date if he still wants one.
But first, Brent, how long has it been since you
heard from Lola.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
It's been five days since we went on the date.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, And how many times do you try to reach
out to her in those five days.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
The first time was the next morning, and then she
never responded, So two days later I followed up and
didn't get anything back from her than either, Okay, she's
definitely ghosting.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
Did you text call email?
Speaker 3 (00:41):
I texted her?
Speaker 4 (00:42):
Yeah, I texted her. The first text. I was just like,
you know, I had a great time and I'd love
to see you again. Let me know if you feel
the same. So I'm trying to be pretty straightforward.
Speaker 5 (00:51):
Okay, tell us about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
The date was really fun. We went down to that
little theater. It was cool.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
We saw this artsy movie that you know, I didn't
really understand, but she seemed into it, and uh, you know,
we were just we had a good time. She was
laughing at my jokes. She she brushed against my arm
a couple of times. I thought we reviving.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
You know.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
I even brought her flowers, which I I don't really
do that for dates. But you know, she was really
She's really smart and hot and funny.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
So did you guys do anything else other than go
to the movie.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Absolutely, we just walked around a little bit. Towards the end.
You know, I thought we were gonna kiss. We were
kind of headed both then to to do it, but
then we knocked heads and then she dropped her keys,
and then I've been down to help, but she just
kind of ran off. It was pretty quick. I was
(01:55):
kind of I didn't know something I'd come up or
if I did something.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
You know, let's go through that.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So you knocked heads when you were about to kiss,
she dropped her keys and then just sprinted, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I went down to help the keys, and then yeah,
she just kind of got up there.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
I gotta go.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
So so she actually said.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, I think so she was. I mean, it was
like so quick, but yeah, she was kind of Uh, yeah,
it was just a quick goodbye. I was, you know,
sitting around like what just happened?
Speaker 5 (02:26):
That's not funny.
Speaker 6 (02:27):
With the visual that I get from that looks very funny,
like her just taking off and sprinting away.
Speaker 4 (02:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Worried I head better her a little too hard.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Yeah, maybe she was just dazed and she didn't know
where she was.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Why do you think she would do that?
Speaker 4 (02:47):
Well, I was thinking through it, and I was like,
maybe maybe it was because earlier I said something, you know,
I was like, I like thick girls, and which I
mean as a compliment, like she's pervy, gorgeous.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Okay, wait, but you thought that could be it?
Speaker 5 (03:01):
When did you say that?
Speaker 4 (03:03):
I was kind of just earlier along I hit him
in like she looked amazing, So I didn't mean it
in the wrong way at Also.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Okay, so you didn't say it right before you head
buttered her would be very weird. I mean, yeah, that
could be taken the wrong way. But she stayed with
you on the date.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
Though, Yeah, and he tried to kiss her and she
tried to kiss you, so that I don't know, I
don't think that's what it was.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
But that also is like, I don't know, I know
a lot of girls would just stay on a date.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Yeah, just even if they decided an hour ago they
didn't like this person will just stay there.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Or even though go in for a kiss, just because
they feel like they just want to get it overwey,
let's move on.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
Did her attitude change after you called her a thicky thick?
Speaker 4 (03:47):
I mean it wasn't like that, but no, it was
like it was I think, you know, I think I'm
looking into it.
Speaker 7 (03:53):
You know.
Speaker 3 (03:53):
She didn't react to uh or anything like. Okay, so all.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
Right, we'll see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date if.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
You still want one. Okay, awesome, thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
All right, we'll get your first day follow up right
after this. Right in the middle of your first date
follow up, and if you're just joining us, Brent is
on the phone and Brent is getting ghosted by Lola.
(04:28):
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us the reason she's ghosting him and maybe get
him a second date. But before we do that, Brent
catch us up on your situation again real quick.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (04:37):
So, five days ago we went on a nice date
to the theater and saw a movie.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
I thought everything was going well, were reviving.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
I brought her flowers, and then towards the end of
the day we went in to kiss.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
We knocked heads a little bit. She dropped her keys
and just ran off.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I'm not sure if she left because of that, or
if it was because of a common I said earlier
than midst of that.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
You know, I like thick girls.
Speaker 5 (05:06):
You know she's so okay? You ready for us to
call her? Yes, okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Man? Hello, Hi, Man, I speak to Lola. Please speaking,
Hey Lola, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jebel Show. Hey, I'm Victoria, I'm a
producer brand, and I'm Jewbell.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
How are you?
Speaker 7 (05:33):
Oh my god, I listened to you guys.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Oh well, thank you appreciate that. How are you doing today?
Speaker 7 (05:39):
I'm doing well? Did I win something?
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Maybe if you listen to the show, then you've probably
heard a first day follow up before. Yes, okay, well,
we got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Yeah,
any idea who email us?
Speaker 3 (05:59):
I have a sense.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
I don't go on too many days. So yeah, I'm
guessing it might be Brent.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Yes, it's Brent. Brent emailed us. He told us that
he really liked you. He thought the day was going great,
and he's confused. It's been about five days now and
you haven't answered his text or anything like that, so
long time.
Speaker 5 (06:18):
Want us to call you and.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Ask if you could tell us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Yeah, I I don't want to talk about it.
Speaker 7 (06:26):
He was great.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
It's it's not him, it's it's one hunder me.
Speaker 7 (06:34):
So yeah, can you.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Give us kind of a hint if you don't want
to talk about it.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
I mean, the day was actually going very well. I
was nervous, and you know, he was very sweet. So
I had like a plan.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
I think a plan that you know, I I feel
like is not a foreign concept to a lot of women.
I am. You know, I wore a certain undergarments, certain
you know, protective UNDERGARMENTUS period undergarments.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
Okay, yeah, places, yeah, okay, so it was that time
for you. No.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I wore them as a like protective chastity belt.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
Measure so that nothing would happen if it went Oh, Okay,
that's things appropriate.
Speaker 5 (07:40):
Don't trust yourself to do it on your own. Yeah,
A little back up there.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
It seems like he had potential, so I wanted to, like,
you know, to do things right.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (07:52):
Anyway, they were like, you know, they're large, they're stained
and whatever.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
At the end of the day, we were in the
parking lot and I and I dropped my keys and I,
you know, bent down to get my keys and my
pants that I was wearing my regular pants split ah
right where you don't want him to split the undergarments.
(08:21):
The stained large undergarments were visible in addition to me
ripping my pants.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
Not a good look.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
So anyway, it was I was absolutely mortifying, and I
was like that I.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
So, yeah, it was discussing and.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Awful because your pants were it was horrifying. I didn't
think I was ghosting him so much as like doing
him a favor to like not subject him to like
the horrors of like my ripped pants and my like
stain underpayout.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
So you're embarrassed, I mean, yeah, yeah, HeLa. I don't
know if you remember this or not since you've heard
these before, but Brent is on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Why, like you know me?
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah, Brent is here.
Speaker 3 (09:22):
I would not have guessed that was the reason you
go to me. Ever, Hey, hey lolla, Hey Brent. By
the way, I didn't see anything when you ran I
had I had no idea. I thought you were mad
at me. So that's hilarious. Yeah, how could you not see?
Speaker 7 (09:42):
You really didn't see?
Speaker 4 (09:44):
No, I think I was just like in shock, but
a little bit about how quickly you're running off and
after kind of knocking your head.
Speaker 3 (09:51):
I was just hoping you're okay.
Speaker 6 (09:53):
To be honest, it's concussed and runs like the nearest.
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
So I've been in like imaginary shame for five days.
This is like the weirdest thing that has ever happened to.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Be on a date. I have to say, most ridiculous.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
No, that's uh, that's you don't have to be embarrassed
about anything.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
Uh, I like you stains and all. I think that's
happen to be embarrassing.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
You'd like to go on another date with Brett? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 7 (10:29):
I would. I would love to, absolutely and I will.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
I will wear a boost fitting skirt and you know,
proper proper attire at this time.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Yeah, let's make a me a different undergarment choice.
Speaker 3 (10:44):
Yeah yeah, you can wear whatever undergarments you want. I'm
just happy you said, but you can't.
Speaker 5 (10:50):
Don't do that again.
Speaker 4 (10:51):
You will.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
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