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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Connor is on the
phone today for a first Day follow up and he's
getting ghosted by a woman named Gso we're about to
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. But
first we have to find out about the date. Connor,
how long has it been since you talked to you.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
It's been a little over a week, and I've I've
tried everything. I've tried, calling, texting, you know, the works.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
Okay, Well, that's a frustrating feeling. Maybe she lost her phone.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
That would be a good, excellentation.
Speaker 4 (00:36):
Right, be hopeful. Why don't you tell us about your date?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Okay? So we did something that's I don't know, I
guess it's a little quirky. It was a scavenger hunt
at the Art Museum downtown. And basically, you like download
this app, right, and it gives you all these clues
and like riddles to solve, and you basically like run
around finding the stuff, like you know, the ugliest statue
(01:02):
or the most romantic painting. And we were like when
we started I was like, you know, do you ever
watch like Amazing Race or any of those like reality shows,
And she was like, yeah, let's yeah, I love those.
I love that stuff. So I was like me too,
Let's like pretend we're on one of those. So I
don't know, there was like a lot of playful, banter conversation.
(01:24):
Some of those conversations got like pretty deep, and we
were like it felt very like easy and intimate because
we were doing things like we were sharing our earbuds
to listen to the audio tour and we were like,
we kept making fun of how the like narrator sounded
very dramatic, So I don't know, we were just having fun,
you know, yeah.
Speaker 4 (01:44):
And it seemed like she was super into it too.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh totally. It was easy we were. To me, it
was like we were in our own bubble. Like even
at one point, like we sat we were sitting and
we found this like weird abstract sculpture that was on
the like scavenger hunt, and we just sat there and
before I knew it, I looked at my watch and
forty minutes had passed. We had just been like talking
(02:09):
and I don't know, like you know that kind of
when something like that happens, it just feels like you
clicked and it doesn't happen that much. So I really
felt like we clicked.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
Yeah, okay, So why do you think you're getting ghosted?
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Well, that's it. I don't know, because I guess I've
never had a date that I would actually describe as
like fun. I feel like I meet a girl, I
go out on like the obligatory coffee date. We have
small talk, or there's like an awkward dinner where you're wondering,
oh am I paying for this? Or we splitting it
(02:42):
like it's just so awkward. And this was not any
of that. It's kind of like we were I don't know,
we were on like a little adventure, you know. Yeah.
And I think the part that was like I'm not
trying to sound corny or anything, but like the part
that was mostly attractive is that I got to see
her brain at work, you know, like how she saws
(03:04):
stuff and like how she thinks and how she approaches
the world. And I was just very very attracted by
what I saw.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Yeah you're into her, tell her into her?
Speaker 2 (03:18):
I am. It's weird, Like she even would She even
made this super dry joke about modern art that like
no one else would have caught and I to this
like a week later. I'm thinking about it every single day,
Like the joke like replays in my head, and I'm like,
I don't know, it's just so smart. You know, you
don't you don't run into someone who's like as attractive
but also so interesting and so easy to have fun with.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Yeah, are you smart too? Because I mean, if we're
thinking about what could have gone wrong, I don't know
if she's super intellectual and if you can't think of anything,
like there weren't even any awkward moments.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I didn't have any, and like I'd like to think
that I'm pretty smart, which is why I'm always looking
for intelligence is like a part of the package. So no,
I mean, I don't think that would be it. I
would be pretty surprised if she didn't find like, you know,
she didn't feel like I was keeping up.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
Okay, well we'll see if we can figure out for reason.
Speaker 1 (04:13):
We'll play a song, come back, call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you or if
you lost her phone?
Speaker 4 (04:19):
Yea, and then I'm never get you a second date.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Okay, thanks. I would appreciate that.
Speaker 1 (04:24):
All right, we'll play song come back and get your
first date follow up next. Right in the middle of
your first date follow up and if you're just joining us,
Connor is on the phone, and Connor is getting ghosted
by a woman named Giaso. We're about to call her
and see if she'll tell us the reason she's ghosting
him and maybe get him a second date. But first, Connor,
why don't you break down your date again real quick
(04:46):
with you?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Yeah? It was perfect, at least on my end, and
I thought she had fun. We went to the Art
Museum downtown. We like downloaded this app where you can
go on a Stavenger hunt and solve riddles and like
find different pieces of our and it was it was
everything I looked for and to date, it was fun,
it was easy to talk to her. We totally clicked,
and Yeah, I just really feel like I got a
(05:09):
glimpse into not only like not only her, but like
how her brain works, which, like I said, sounds kind
of corny. But I am really into this girl, So
I'm really hoping that there's some I hope there's some
fluke that I was shy. She's not like responding to me.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
Okay, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 2 (05:28):
As ready as I'll ever be?
Speaker 1 (05:29):
All right, here we go. Hello, Hi, mespeaks to you please?
She Hey, Gia, how are you? This is the Jewbil Show.
It's a radio show.
Speaker 4 (05:50):
Hi, Gia, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and my name
is Jewel. How are you Hi?
Speaker 5 (05:55):
Good?
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Thanks?
Speaker 2 (05:57):
Yeah? Are you?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Do you know the show like that?
Speaker 5 (06:01):
Well? Okay, I don't remember submitting to anything, but.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Well I don't think you did, but we did get
an email about you from somebody who listens to the show.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
That's why we're on the shoe.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
Oh cool, Okay, you're the most chill attitude. Now, well,
we do a segment on the show that's called the
first Date follow Up. That's where if you go out
on a date with somebody and then you end up
ghosting them, that person can have us call you to
ask us why you're ghosting them?
Speaker 4 (06:32):
Who are you ghosting?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
So Connor?
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Yes, it is about Connor.
Speaker 1 (06:37):
He said that he really liked you, thought your day
was great, and it's confused that it's been you know,
over a week now and you haven't responded to him.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Do you mind telling us why?
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (06:48):
Well, oh my goodness. The date was fun, like surprisingly fun.
He's you know, clever and charming, but also he was
just a.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Lot was a lot.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
What does that mean?
Speaker 6 (07:02):
Well, you know, people can just like there's a line
of like too much sometimes. At first we were clicking,
and like I thought it was, you know, cute, how
into the scavenger he wasn't, you know, I love like
interactive things and games and everything. But he kept making
like literally everything into a bit just the whole time,
(07:22):
like narrating the date in a god the worst fake
British accent I've ever heard. You know, it's cute the
first time, but not like you know, an hour later,
and then you know, trying to solve clues that like
weren't even you know, part of the game, and you know,
high fiving strangers like.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
Like not everyone listen to this dude, you know?
Speaker 4 (07:44):
Yes, I mean that's kind of a warm energy, you know.
Speaker 6 (07:49):
Yeah, I mean like like this old guy just kind
of looked at him weird, which.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Actually was pretty funny. But then he like he climbed
up on a fountain to.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
Like look for another clue. I don't know, it set
off his emotional arm.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
And this was the thing like a docent.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
Yeah, Like he got into like an argument with him
and like they were starting to like call security. He
was arguing about whether this, like you know, I've seen
it in different TV shows where it's like a banana
or a fire extinguisher or something just like on the wall,
whether that counts his art, you know, like having this
debate about modern art. And it was just like I
(08:31):
feel like those two tables just kind of like explain
it the best. It's just like chaotic energy, and I
was just like at first I was excited.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
But then by the end, I was just exhausted.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Wait, wait, that's why you goes to me because I
was too fun.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
You guys, he was here, you didn't you didn't.
Speaker 2 (08:55):
Say anything at the time. I mean you were laughing
and we were having a really good time. We're having fun.
Speaker 6 (09:01):
We were, But then I also laugh when I'm stressed,
like I'm nervous, you know, like I'm not going to
tell someone that I barely know like how to not
act when they're having fun. And yeah, some of it
was fun and funny, but then.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
I was just like by the end of it, I
didn't feel safe leaving you unsupervised.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
In public.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
I feel like you should have had one of those
badacs beliefs.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Listen. Yeah, I wasn't trying to be extra. I just
I really liked you. I was nervous, so I leaned
into the jokes because it felt easier than like being
awkward or quiet or like too serious.
Speaker 6 (09:41):
I get that. Tell Ever, it's like okay to be
quiet for a little bit in a museum, you know,
there wasn't any room for just like being and like
stopping and observing. It was just like onto the next
one to the next. It was like being stuck in
an improv show.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Well, look, I know I can be a lot, but
but like A on that date, I swear I was
not putting on a show. I was genuinely having one
of the best dates I've ever had in my life.
And I was just so surprised and it was so
refreshing that you were so smart and funny, and you
you made art to me feel like less pretentious. So
I just didn't want it to end.
Speaker 4 (10:18):
JEA, he loves your brain.
Speaker 6 (10:21):
Okay, well that's really sweet. Actually, thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
I mean, listen, I'm not looking for you to change
your vibe or anything like if you're Camra Mail. That's great,
but I don't know Camma Mail and Espresso Espresso can
work together, balance ourselves, each other out or whatever.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Right, so you're Espresso.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
I mean I do like lavender more than camal, But
what you want to be a lot?
Speaker 3 (10:51):
Like?
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, See that can be a whole
damn macchiato if you'll let me.
Speaker 1 (10:58):
What do you think you want to let him be
a macchiato? Would you go on another date with con?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Okay, let me think I appreciate that honesty. I do.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
I did have a good time, minus the part where
I thought we were going to get a danced from
the museum.
Speaker 5 (11:16):
Forever's coming up.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I will climb on fountains. I will not climb on fountains,
I swear I will. I will not get in fights
at the dose and and there will be no fake accents.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
And I love it.
Speaker 6 (11:31):
Like my next date is maybe signing up for an
improv show or something.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I mean, I think you should give we should give
it one more shot.
Speaker 4 (11:42):
Yeah you will, you will?
Speaker 5 (11:44):
Yeah, because even today.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
Maybe last Yay, all right, sweet, this is awesome. Oh yes,
this is exactly how I hope this would go. This
is great.
Speaker 6 (11:56):
Okay, Well I'll text you and we can go get
those lattes and playing the next thing.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Cool. Just let me know when and I won't be latte.
Speaker 4 (12:08):
What what does that mean?
Speaker 2 (12:12):
Like late? Like like latte late. I don't all right.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
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