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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Damon is on the
phone today for our first Day follow up and he's
getting ghosted by a woman named Elena. So in a
few minutes we'll call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
second date. But first, Damon, how long has it been
since you heard from Elena?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
It's been three or four days now.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I mean, she isn't a crazy amount of time, but
you know, it just feels weird, like, you know, we
had a great time connected like so I don't know,
I mean, I could be being crazy, you know.
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Three days Okay, well we'll find out where you tell
us a little bit about the date.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
So we went to this place called and they make
like these really cool mixed drinks like us.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
I couldn't even honestly, I couldn't really choose between the two.
There was this one that was called the Smoked Gentleman
Bourbons in like a tiny dome glass and smoke comes
up and stuff.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Drink you're talking about that's cool?
Speaker 4 (01:06):
Yeah, yeah, this was my best idea for the day
to be honest, it is like something a little different.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Than yeah something it's experience, right. Yeah, there's another one
called Lavender Lover. It's like a purple drink.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
That comes looking like a flower. So I don't know,
I couldn't.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
Decide, so I just got bole of them, okay, and
then Lavender Lover and the other drink as well.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Yeah, yeah, we make fun of it.
Speaker 4 (01:36):
But anyway, we uh, honestly, it was like smooth, like quick,
like exciting conversation for what was euly hours you know. Yeah,
like it's like it's really confusing for me at the moment,
to be honest, you know, it's just like touching my
arm and like laughing, like a little bit more than
(01:57):
I deserved.
Speaker 2 (01:58):
And yeah, I felt like she was really into meate.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
So then what happened?
Speaker 2 (02:04):
She invited me home?
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Whoa her place? Yeah, you know she will come over,
you know, you.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Know, but she was like, okay, do you want to come,
you know, back for one more drink?
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Like okay, and did you do it?
Speaker 2 (02:23):
We did stuff for sure?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
Oh yeah, I was just mean did you go over there?
As another question? Anyway, So we got there and so
stuff happened. Uh uh did go over there? And stuff
did happen.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Stuff did happen. My assumption was, you know, not incorrect.
The reason I think that she's ghosting me is I.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
Might have taken like a weird photo while she was
in the bathroom before I left me and her dad.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Wait, you kind of faded on that one. Gosh, say
it confidently.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
I sent her a photo of me in her bed
while she's in the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
Next morning, her dad know her, and of him in
her bed.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
I heard her dad.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I was like, whoa send her a picture of you
in her bed while she was in the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, so when did you send that photo while she
was in the bathroom or the next day?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
It was like the next morning she was in the
bathroom and I was so bad?
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Yeah, I'm luck yet, Okay? And did she seem weird
about that? Like, was it a weird pick for you
doing something weird?
Speaker 2 (03:43):
I wasn't doing anything all that weird.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
No, you did not say that confidently. Did you say
anything with the picture? You just sent a picture of
you in her bed.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
I did say something. I said, like, you know, some
of the time, it's till next time we can emerge.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
You okay, all right, Well, we'll see what we can
figure it out for you. We'll play a song come back,
and then call her and see if she'll tell us
why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date. Okay,
thank you, all right, we'll get your first day follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first day
follow up, if you're just joining us, that Damon is
on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Elena. So
(04:23):
we're about to call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
second date. But before we do that, Damon, why don't
you break down your day again for us real quick.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
So we went to this cool like bar lounge thing.
Speaker 5 (04:36):
We had these like dope drinks that were you know,
like smoke was flying out of the one and the
other one was like kind of made like a flower.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
And you know, we're vibing. She was touching me, she
was laughing harder at my jokes, und deserved, you know,
all the things that you would think would lead.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
To for being intimate, and and now she hasn't and
oh yeah, well too, yeah and.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Left to get it, and now she hasn't responded for.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
Over for this because you sent her a weird picture
from her bed.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
Ye and there was a caption there on the photo.
I think that this is all we need to say,
right why not? We're people missing it. I said something
to tide you over. Well.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Confidence right now is sounding like that could be a
problem here too, But that's all right, we'll figure it out. Okay,
all right? Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
All right, here we go. Hello, I may I speak
to Elena? Please?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Hi? Yeah, I'm Elena.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Hey, Elena, how are you. This is a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Elena, I'm Nina. Hi,
I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel. What's up?
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Hi? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Much? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Yeah? A couple of times actually.
Speaker 1 (06:01):
Okay, sweet, Well, and we do a segment on the
show it's called the first Date follow Up. That's where
if you go out on a date with somebody and
you end up ghosting them, they can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting.
And we got an email about you from somebody. That's
why we're calling.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Oh okay, all right, Yeah, what's going on in the idea?
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Who would email us.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I have a guess I did go on a date
a few days ago.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Yeah, okay, And are you still talking to him or
have you stopped talking to them?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I did ghost Okay, chances are it's probably Damon that's
who emailed us about why you're ghosting Damon, he's really curious.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
Well, he like he didn't pass the test, like a
gentleman test. He definitely failed that.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
What is the gentleman test?
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Well, so, like, first off, so we went to this
like really cool bar, but he like couldn't decide in
a drink and he ordered two drinks like he's doing
like a tasting flight of regret, and like the waiter
was like making fun of him and stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
And then I invited him over to my place after
to see if he'd like keep it cool, and he
definitely didn't. What did he do is zero too. He
just went straight to make outload.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Oh wow, Okay, so that was all a test, like
you didn't want him, you wanted to come over to
your place, but not do anything right?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Right, he's supposed to have like self control and like
show that he took me seriously because like we had
like really good chemistry during our date, so you know,
he can show me like he respects me and whatever,
And instead he was like, oh, passo, collected zero respect points.
I wait what you literally told me to kiss you?
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Hey, Elena, that's Damon. He's actually on the line. Yeah,
and he's been listening wants to talk to you.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Oh wow. I should have guessed that.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Oh my god, Hi Damon, hi o, Hi wow?
Speaker 3 (08:14):
What is like?
Speaker 2 (08:15):
This is a really out of left field here? Well,
like you are supposed to coump the brakes, like he
told you to kiss me to see what you would
do buck the breaks.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
A beautiful, funny chick that invited me back to our
place told me to kiss her.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
We had great chemistry on the date. Like I'm supposed
to not do anything about that exactly, Like that's the assignment.
I say, kiss me, and you'd be a gentleman.
Speaker 1 (08:42):
So that's the test, Elena, is to just keep putting
it on and wait for him to stop.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Absolutely, yes, he's got to like show he has some
restraint that he respects me. How am I supposed to
pass if I don't know there's a test, Well, that's
the thing, Like the right guy would have known. I'm
not just looking for a hook up, Like I am serious,
who's supposed to know that one? Like when you're the
one initiating the contract, I don't get it. But like
(09:11):
if you really liked me, you would be like, oh,
I'm thinking long term here, Like there's plenty of time
for good, there's plenty of find that sex and like
we can show some restraint and that wasn't you obviously, Yeah,
my bad.
Speaker 5 (09:26):
I'm just I'm acting crazy, like you told me to
kiss you and you're in u selling me.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
I should have been stop you, I guess, well, like
that's ittty incredible. Chemistry is super easy and we had that,
but self control is not easy, like life is hard. Damon,
are you projecting right now? Are you talking about self control?
When you were the one that told me to kiss you, Well,
like you let me go like all the way, like right,
(09:55):
like we started with the kiss and you didn't stop
me there, and you didn't stop me all the wait
until the ends of the test when we were in
bad I mean, I'm definitely not gonna stop you after
the kiss.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
Wait, just real quick, Alena, take me to the spot
where you know that he's about to fail the test
and you're like, screw it, We're just gonna go with
it anyway.
Speaker 2 (10:15):
Oh, I mean, like we did have great chemistry. He's
not wrong about that. And like Damian, obviously you know,
like I'm attracted to you. You're very attractive, So like
I wasn't gonna.
Speaker 1 (10:25):
Say no, but you want to do what you didn't
want to.
Speaker 2 (10:30):
I mean, of course, like, isn't that life. I know that,
like I wanted to. We had fun in the moment,
it was great, but now I know that he's not
the one for me because if he was the one.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
For me, would you would have stopped himself? So this
was a win win for you.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
I'm sorry everyone, if I might like am I is
this like a like a coordinated prank show thing.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
This is just obviously like why you're still single? Like
you would have figured this out if you really liked me.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Yeah, man, I'm like, really, I'm not any closer to
understanding Gunnis.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Well, Elena, would you like another date with Damon? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yeah, yeah, we can go on a second date.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
You do want a second date, you do want to
go out with me again, but you don't want to
date me.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
I mean, yeah, we can. We can go out again,
Like we can hook up one more time, Like it
was great. You didn't pass the tizer though, Like it
can't go beyond that. Okay, Yeah, all.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
Right, you're okay. I think that's a successful.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
First they involved and congratulates Zamon. You get at least
one more time to do stuff, all right, thank Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
Juble's first date follow up