August 22, 2025 • 10 mins
Dominic thought he pulled out all the stops with a rooftop dinner, jazz show, and playful banter — but Crystal vanished after date one. Was his “unique” dating style charming or a total dealbreaker? Find out why she ghosted him in this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Law dot com.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Dominic is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Crystal.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Dominic, how long
has it been since you heard from Crystal?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Probably a little over a week, probably like a ten days.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, have you been trying to get a hold of her?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, yeah, I tried calling and sending text I even
I sent her TX with this person's handbag that I
thought she'd liked. But nothing.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
It's like you're offered a buy for not even a
handbag response.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
I mean, yeah, yeah, I mean, just like just something
that I thought she would like, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Okay, we met? We met him? He yeah, Actually it
was through friends. It wasn't either of neither of us
on a Yeah, but you know, I was like super
lucks and for our first date, I wanted to do
something memorable. I had I had to match that you
know yacht energy. Well yeah, that's how we met, you know.
(01:15):
So I'm like, okay, this is this is the level
we're playing. That we're up here, you know, you know,
not a not big deal. I booked us dinner at
this rooftop spot private chef tasting menu. It was great
and she she loved his good time. Uh we're vibing.
And then after that I got her tickets to a
late night jazz show front row and uh yeah it
(01:37):
was it was great, and then she was digging it.
The thing Crystal, though, is that she kind of liked games,
you know, like like kind of like you know, you know,
playing they're like okay, kind of like almost hard to
get kind of kind of thing. Like even when when
we had that dinner, she ordered, you know, two desserts.
(01:58):
She's that kind kind of woman like, so she kind
of wants to like, you know, test me to see
where that line is and see unless she can get
away with you know, and and to be fair, I
dig it, you know what I mean, Like I'm kind
of I like that vibe.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Okay, okay, you like a challenge.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Yeah, she's different, you know, like she's she's not just beautiful,
don't get me wrong. She's she's hot, you know, but
she she's smart, she's sharp.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Okay, well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
I don't know why she's ghosting me.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Did anything happen on your date at all?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Well, okay, there's when we were on our date, Crystal
goes to uh she goes to the bathroom, right, and
I went up to go get some drinks and there's
this gorgeous woman at the bar and she she started
talking to me, and I'm talking to her and it's
just harmless kind of you whatever, you know, very very
(02:54):
light flirting. But I see Crystal coming back, and it's like, okay,
let me you know, I'm gonna see she likes to play.
Crystal like to play, so let me let me up
it up a little bit. I'm I can make her
a little bit jealous if she the what you know,
what she does. I'm I'm leaning into it. And honestly,
it worked like it worked like so she comes back
from the bathroom, season at the table, comes straight to
(03:16):
the bar, immediately grabs my hand and pulls me away
like like she wants to, you know, make me hers.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
So your strategy was to purposefully make hurt, jealous while
on a date with her, very.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Very very lightly, you know, like my tongue was down
this other girl's throat. Like that's like I said, she
likes she likes this kind of like one upping, this
kind of predator prey kind of thing. You know, she's
she's taking it, she's she's doing it. So that's the
whole idea is like that's part of this game to
to you know, get to win the other person's love
(03:51):
and affection, and we're both on it.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Maybe flirting with another woman wasn't part of the game, which.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Is that's exactly what I'm second guessing right now.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, okay, hey, okay, all right, well I don't know.
I shall try to help for you.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and
maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up next and literally
your first day follow up if you're just joining us.
Dominic is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Crystal,
So in a second we're going to call her see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
(04:26):
get him a second date. But first, dominic, why don't
you run down your date for us again?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Real quick?
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, really great? This girl is high class. Someone felt
like we had this nice, little, playful kind of you know,
back and forth kind of thing. And I'm wondering if
maybe I pushed it too far. I don't know, but
I'm digging her and I'm hoping for a second date.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
You are flirting with another woman on the date. That
may not have been part of this cat and mouse
routine that you guys have, right, but.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
But it was. I was only flirting with her because
I wanted Chris. That was part of the you know.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Yeah? Yeah, all right, here we go.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
This is Chrystal.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Hi Crystal, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubeil Show. Hi Crystal, I'm Nina. Hi
I'm Victoria. My name is Jubel. What's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Who? Wait?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Sounds like you're a work or something. Sorry to interrupt that,
but hey, have you ever listened to The Jubel Show before?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I have not heard it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
No worries. Check it out sometime if you want.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
But we're calling you today because somebody who does listen
to the show actually send us an email about you.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Interesting.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
We do a segment that's called the first Date follow Up.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting. So we got an email about
you from somebody that you're ghosting.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Okay, so one of the radio shows. Okay, you've got
to be agree with you.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Are you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Uh? Probably is his name Dominic? Oh really?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, Dominic emailed us told us about your dates, that
he really liked you, and it's been about ten days
and you haven't heard from you. So he's wondering if
you wouldn't mind telling us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I'm ghasting him because at the end of the ninety
start to give me like a dog. And I don't
mean that he was read. I mean he literally made
everything transaction, Like he told me that if I helped
with the dishes one day, he'd buy me a handbag,
and if I kept him company in.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
The bedroom that maybe I'd earned some jewelry.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm not a golden retriever or like a trophy whatever.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
That's uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Honestly, it feels like pretty woman almost like you're baiting
me with things, and I'm not That's not my vibe.
I'm not trying to like win prizes.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Okay, well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him, Chris,
I do have to let you know that Dominic is
actually on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Oh no, okay, Dominic, Yeah, okay, first, uh pump the brakes, Okay,
the whole just hold on.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
This is a playful Okay, this is like like no faithful,
flirty rewards. You know, it's not it's not It's not
like you know, like like stores for handbags. You know,
this isn't Baskin Robbins.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
He basically offered me a loyalty punch card five get
this for one diamond Braceland.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Do you hear what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
That is.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
The whole thing that you know that like this is
this was me being like curious about you, like like investing.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
In you, if investing I'm not a dog portfolio. I
just want to dessert, not a down payment on my
affection or anything.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
But thank you. You got two desserts. Okay, that that
should show how how much you know I'm into you.
And you know, Crystal, Crystal, you said you said that
that you liked that I was playful and generous. You
said you wanted a man that could keep you on
(08:32):
your toe You stop that.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
To me, I did.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
You're riot comedy, playful and generous is what I said,
But not puppy training camp with this side of product bag.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
You know, there's a difference between keeping me on my
toes and.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Putting me on a harness and a leaves and putting
in that guy.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Do you know how many women would beg me to
put them?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
People want to be on your They get it, they
get it.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
They get it. Yeah, they get it. That's ridiculous. I
really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
I do have a meeting I have to get too shortly.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
So are we Are we done with this?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Well?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Not quite yet, Crystal? Would you like to go on
another day with Dominic? Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
You payfully?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Fetch the bone girl or whatever I do? All right, Look,
I'm just saying I could get you some sweet new
shoes if you want to do another day. You know,
did we just talk about this.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
I can get my own shoes. I appreciate it, but
like no, it's all good. Thank you so much, Tom,
good luck with everything. I hope you find the girl
that's going to be your guccy goddess who will do
whatever little favors you need for their bags or whatever.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
You're weird. Right, here's here's a thing. Like you know,
there's tons of girls out there who was skilled.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I know.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
I know this, Crystal. I know that you are going
to miss this punch card system. You're going to open
the week you're gonna be calling me. I guaran mark
my words, you're gonna be calling me in a week.
I guarantee it. All right, Well cool, this was a productive. Yeah,
I'll talk to you. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
She's gone dominic. She I went to a meeting. I
think I'm sorry, man, no other day.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Yeah, what a weirdo?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Am?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
I right?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
You Will's first date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Law dot com.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
Dominic is on the phone today for our first day
follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Crystal.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
get him a second date. But first, Dominic, how long
has it been since you heard from Crystal?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Probably a little over a week, probably like a ten days.
Speaker 2 (00:24):
Okay, have you been trying to get a hold of her?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Yeah, yeah, I tried calling and sending text I even
I sent her TX with this person's handbag that I
thought she'd liked. But nothing.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
It's like you're offered a buy for not even a
handbag response.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
I mean, yeah, yeah, I mean, just like just something
that I thought she would like, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (00:46):
Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the date?
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Okay, we met? We met him? He yeah, Actually it
was through friends. It wasn't either of neither of us
on a Yeah, but you know, I was like super
lucks and for our first date, I wanted to do
something memorable. I had I had to match that you
know yacht energy. Well yeah, that's how we met, you know.
(01:15):
So I'm like, okay, this is this is the level
we're playing. That we're up here, you know, you know,
not a not big deal. I booked us dinner at
this rooftop spot private chef tasting menu. It was great
and she she loved his good time. Uh we're vibing.
And then after that I got her tickets to a
late night jazz show front row and uh yeah it
(01:37):
was it was great, and then she was digging it.
The thing Crystal, though, is that she kind of liked games,
you know, like like kind of like you know, you know,
playing they're like okay, kind of like almost hard to
get kind of kind of thing. Like even when when
we had that dinner, she ordered, you know, two desserts.
(01:58):
She's that kind kind of woman like, so she kind
of wants to like, you know, test me to see
where that line is and see unless she can get
away with you know, and and to be fair, I
dig it, you know what I mean, Like I'm kind
of I like that vibe.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Okay, okay, you like a challenge.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Yeah, she's different, you know, like she's she's not just beautiful,
don't get me wrong. She's she's hot, you know, but
she she's smart, she's sharp.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Okay, well, why do you think she's ghosting you?
Speaker 4 (02:29):
I don't know why she's ghosting me.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Did anything happen on your date at all?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Well, okay, there's when we were on our date, Crystal
goes to uh she goes to the bathroom, right, and
I went up to go get some drinks and there's
this gorgeous woman at the bar and she she started
talking to me, and I'm talking to her and it's
just harmless kind of you whatever, you know, very very
(02:54):
light flirting. But I see Crystal coming back, and it's like, okay,
let me you know, I'm gonna see she likes to play.
Crystal like to play, so let me let me up
it up a little bit. I'm I can make her
a little bit jealous if she the what you know,
what she does. I'm I'm leaning into it. And honestly,
it worked like it worked like so she comes back
from the bathroom, season at the table, comes straight to
(03:16):
the bar, immediately grabs my hand and pulls me away
like like she wants to, you know, make me hers.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
So your strategy was to purposefully make hurt, jealous while
on a date with her, very.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
Very very lightly, you know, like my tongue was down
this other girl's throat. Like that's like I said, she
likes she likes this kind of like one upping, this
kind of predator prey kind of thing. You know, she's
she's taking it, she's she's doing it. So that's the
whole idea is like that's part of this game to
to you know, get to win the other person's love
(03:51):
and affection, and we're both on it.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Maybe flirting with another woman wasn't part of the game, which.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Is that's exactly what I'm second guessing right now.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Yeah, okay, hey, okay, all right, well I don't know.
I shall try to help for you.
Speaker 3 (04:05):
We'll play a song come back, and then call her
and see she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and
maybe get you a second date. Okay, okay, all right,
we'll get your first day follow up next and literally
your first day follow up if you're just joining us.
Dominic is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Crystal,
So in a second we're going to call her see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe
(04:26):
get him a second date. But first, dominic, why don't
you run down your date for us again?
Speaker 4 (04:29):
Real quick?
Speaker 6 (04:30):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, really great? This girl is high class. Someone felt
like we had this nice, little, playful kind of you know,
back and forth kind of thing. And I'm wondering if
maybe I pushed it too far. I don't know, but
I'm digging her and I'm hoping for a second date.
Speaker 5 (04:48):
You are flirting with another woman on the date. That
may not have been part of this cat and mouse
routine that you guys have, right, but.
Speaker 4 (04:56):
But it was. I was only flirting with her because
I wanted Chris. That was part of the you know.
But yeah, yeah, yeah, all right.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Yeah? Yeah, all right, here we go.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
Hello.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
This is Chrystal.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
Hi Crystal, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubeil Show. Hi Crystal, I'm Nina. Hi
I'm Victoria. My name is Jubel. What's going on?
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Who? Wait?
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Sounds like you're a work or something. Sorry to interrupt that,
but hey, have you ever listened to The Jubel Show before?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
I have not heard it.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
No worries. Check it out sometime if you want.
Speaker 3 (05:45):
But we're calling you today because somebody who does listen
to the show actually send us an email about you.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Interesting.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
We do a segment that's called the first Date follow Up.
That's where if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting. So we got an email about
you from somebody that you're ghosting.
Speaker 4 (06:07):
Okay, so one of the radio shows. Okay, you've got
to be agree with you.
Speaker 2 (06:11):
Are you ghosting somebody?
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Uh? Probably is his name Dominic? Oh really?
Speaker 3 (06:21):
Yeah, Dominic emailed us told us about your dates, that
he really liked you, and it's been about ten days
and you haven't heard from you. So he's wondering if
you wouldn't mind telling us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
I'm ghasting him because at the end of the ninety
start to give me like a dog. And I don't
mean that he was read. I mean he literally made
everything transaction, Like he told me that if I helped
with the dishes one day, he'd buy me a handbag,
and if I kept him company in.
Speaker 4 (06:49):
The bedroom that maybe I'd earned some jewelry.
Speaker 1 (06:52):
I'm not a golden retriever or like a trophy whatever.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
That's uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Honestly, it feels like pretty woman almost like you're baiting
me with things, and I'm not That's not my vibe.
I'm not trying to like win prizes.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Okay, well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him, Chris,
I do have to let you know that Dominic is
actually on the phone listing and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (07:19):
Oh no, okay, Dominic, Yeah, okay, first, uh pump the brakes, Okay,
the whole just hold on.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
This is a playful Okay, this is like like no faithful,
flirty rewards. You know, it's not it's not It's not
like you know, like like stores for handbags. You know,
this isn't Baskin Robbins.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
He basically offered me a loyalty punch card five get
this for one diamond Braceland.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
Do you hear what I'm saying?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
That is.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
The whole thing that you know that like this is
this was me being like curious about you, like like investing.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
In you, if investing I'm not a dog portfolio. I
just want to dessert, not a down payment on my
affection or anything.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
But thank you. You got two desserts. Okay, that that
should show how how much you know I'm into you.
And you know, Crystal, Crystal, you said you said that
that you liked that I was playful and generous. You
said you wanted a man that could keep you on
(08:32):
your toe You stop that.
Speaker 2 (08:33):
To me, I did.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
You're riot comedy, playful and generous is what I said,
But not puppy training camp with this side of product bag.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
You know, there's a difference between keeping me on my
toes and.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Putting me on a harness and a leaves and putting
in that guy.
Speaker 4 (08:52):
Do you know how many women would beg me to
put them?
Speaker 2 (08:58):
People want to be on your They get it, they
get it.
Speaker 4 (09:03):
They get it. Yeah, they get it. That's ridiculous. I
really appreciate it.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
I do have a meeting I have to get too shortly.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
So are we Are we done with this?
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Well?
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Not quite yet, Crystal? Would you like to go on
another day with Dominic? Will pay for it?
Speaker 4 (09:18):
You payfully?
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (09:23):
Fetch the bone girl or whatever I do? All right, Look,
I'm just saying I could get you some sweet new
shoes if you want to do another day. You know,
did we just talk about this.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
I can get my own shoes. I appreciate it, but
like no, it's all good. Thank you so much, Tom,
good luck with everything. I hope you find the girl
that's going to be your guccy goddess who will do
whatever little favors you need for their bags or whatever.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
You're weird. Right, here's here's a thing. Like you know,
there's tons of girls out there who was skilled.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I know.
Speaker 4 (10:08):
I know this, Crystal. I know that you are going
to miss this punch card system. You're going to open
the week you're gonna be calling me. I guaran mark
my words, you're gonna be calling me in a week.
I guarantee it. All right, Well cool, this was a productive. Yeah,
I'll talk to you. Thank you.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
She's gone dominic. She I went to a meeting. I
think I'm sorry, man, no other day.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
Yeah, what a weirdo?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
Am?
Speaker 4 (10:37):
I right?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
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