September 11, 2025 • 10 mins
Kai thought he had the perfect date—smoothies, tapas, a kiss, and great conversation. But after he devoured all the shrimp and some very questionable texts popped up on his phone, Evie disappeared. In this First Date Follow Up on The Jubal Show, we call Evie to uncover the real reason she ghosted—and whether Kai can talk his way into a second chance.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Kai is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
We went on a date with and really liked.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
So in a second we'll call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another day for first Kai, how long as the
bench as you were from Evie?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks I've heard from Evie.
We usually are.
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Very friendly inmplirtatious to everyone that goes to our constant gym.
We've been certing back and forwards a little bit. But
then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie
after our workout, so we want to grab a smoothie
and that went really well, So then we decided we'd
go out and actually.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Able proper date. So we went to this new topics
place in town.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
We ended up chatting with each other and we got
the paia and while we went on the pie to
come out, we decided to after we ordered, we decided
to sit on the same side of the booth and
we go through each other's phones, and we were talking
about pictures and videos that we were.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Talking about, especially with our family members, and then there
was a kiss, which was pretty awesome. So I think
everything was going to Quarner plan. But then I have
an art.
Speaker 6 (01:09):
Doctor, and I think it's because I know the shrimp
out of the pie.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
The shrimp.
Speaker 7 (01:16):
Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about
the kiss.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
Then.
Speaker 7 (01:20):
Was that mutual?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Definitely? Definitely, I kissed her to kiss it back.
Speaker 7 (01:30):
So then where does the shrimp come in?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
I was.
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Mainly a few of the protein content, my majority of
the Yeah, shrimp from the pie.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
I think that she made.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Why do you think that that's the thing that she
say something about it?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
She would give me a look the entire time.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So is it that you ate all the shrimper? Is
that because you left the girl starving?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's that's that's why I called you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
You reach out to her and she just said nothing.
Speaker 7 (02:02):
Well what was your last interaction? So what did you
say to her?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
So basically you sent her a text and said I
had a great time and then she responded saying thanks
for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were
looking for.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
So I taxed after dinner, I said, a really great time,
and I looking for the next day.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
And she just responded with, you know, thank you for
dinner with the period you know, Hanlo.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Energy you would kind of response. So I haven't done
everything from her since then.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?
Speaker 6 (02:31):
Just acting not really, not really you know, long home competition,
just you know how I would that would be a
favorite talk.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
We'll plays on come back and then call her and
see if it tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe
get you another date. Okay, all right, plus i'll come back,
get your first DAFE follow up next. Right in the
middle of your first date follow up and if you're
just joining us, Kai is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by a girl named Evie that he really likes.
He met her at CrossFit and they went out on
(03:05):
a date and he thinks he's not getting a call
back because he ate all of the shrimp and the
piea that they ordered, and she also needs her protein
because you know, crossfits absolutely, So we'll see if that's
the reason. All right, kay, are you ready to give
her a call? Okay, man, here we go. Hello, Hi,
(03:32):
I speak to ev Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you?
My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also
on the show.
Speaker 7 (03:42):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Okay, how are you?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
It's a radio shown.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Yeah? Again?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, sweet? Thank you? Are you familiar with what a
first date follow up is?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Yeah? Okay, okay, okay, cool.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they
can email us to get you on the show and
ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email
about you from somebody. You have any idea who that
would be?
Speaker 8 (04:16):
Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so
I have this feeling I might know who it is.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Okay, Okay, who is that.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Is it?
Speaker 6 (04:27):
Kai?
Speaker 7 (04:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
He told us about your date and he wants to
know why you're not calling him back or why you're
ghosting him?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 7 (04:37):
Well?
Speaker 8 (04:38):
Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were
having like a pretty.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Good night.
Speaker 8 (04:45):
Tapas and then like we had this like really good kids, right,
and then he got up went to the bathroom, and
while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages
from someone ing v and it was like egg plant
emojis and uh like teach emoji's and tell emojis and
I'm at least five just in the time that he
(05:09):
was in the bathroom. So like, I don't know Louvie is,
but it sounds like he's kind of got something going
on already, and I just I felt.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So uncomfortable after that.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I
don't know, it felt like he just left his phone
out on the table like he would see looking to.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
The film when he came back kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Okay, he thought, the reason you're not calling him back
is because he hate all the shrimp out of the
paa Oh.
Speaker 8 (05:37):
I mean yeah, he did do.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
That, and that was dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts
that seemed like from another girl, I mean five, Yeah,
a lot.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
Of egg plant emojis.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
A lot.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
We should ask him about that, don't you think you Yeah.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Oh, that's right, he's here.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Right, Yes, he is guy's on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Hey, Hey, maybe this is kind of awkward, but I'm
I'm a little.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Bit mortified and I'm going to kill my friend, the
one that was.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Setting all the emoji text messages Jim to my friend Vick.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Yeah, he's he was. Basically, he knew that I was
in ev for a while and he was trying to
be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let
me know exactly what I should do, and atomically speaking,
everything goes well on the dates. But I uh, not
that I don't appreciate his input, but I kind of
(06:48):
already knew how to do that anyways, but.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
His own way, he was trying to at least at
least be encouraging and and and and be friendly. But
I don't I don't think he knew that she was
going to see the messages from him. Uh, Okay, I'm
going to kill him the next time I see him.
But it was nothing sexual between and somebody else. It
was mainly sexual between me and me and my buddy.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
So what you're saying is it wasn't another girl, but
it was your friend, like convinced we were going to
hook up, Like, is that why you went out with me?
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Because we were like sure we were going to hook up.
I wasn't going out with you because I was students,
we're going to cut I was going out because I
wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking
up thing is just a bonus. You're the main You're the.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Main goal here is to is to go and have
a good time with you, because I have come into.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
You a goal.
Speaker 8 (07:46):
Come on, like a guy like you at the gym
only has one agenda and friends.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Just like the r VIC or whatever his name is.
Speaker 8 (07:56):
I knew you were too good to be true when
I went out right, like, if that's all your interest, Like, that's.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Not what I'm here for.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
That's not all I'm interested in you. That's just my
friends and dumb idiots. And he's decided to send very
very dumb text messages when I wasn't.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
At the table. But I am not into you.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
For that, that's just a bonus.
Speaker 9 (08:17):
I'm into you for everything that you are and everything
that you can be, and especially all the conversation that
we having on the last day. The connections are going
really well.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
So yes, I can understand that you might.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Be a little upset and confused by the messages, but that's.
Speaker 9 (08:35):
The last thing on my mind.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
And you're also your your squad game.
Speaker 10 (08:39):
Is like insane, like you can squat so much and
I think it's really hot, So it's it's also that's
not a bonus, but you have a child bearing enjoy
it at some point in time after after an apology dinner,
what you possibly see about no potentially.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Doing something on those lines scream after two. And also
you get to eat all the shrimp tonight. You get
all the shrimp, and.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Wherever we go, I will make sure that they feed
you at least eat extra shrimp, just to make sure
that I have to make it for the last time.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I don't know if it is like out there. Would
you like to go on another date with Kaile? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but
you can buy me shrimp in yes, yes, I will.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Go on a second date, but you are on probation.
Speaker 7 (09:30):
It sounds like you said yes to shrimp.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Okay, Well, congratulations Kyle, you got another date.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Yea, this is exactly and I appreciate all that help.
This was well exactly how I thought it would joke.
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Let's just tell Victor exence.
Speaker 8 (09:44):
Okay, okay, yeah, I want to see those texts, though, I.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a little
bit of editing that way to not as graphic as well,
but I will make sure that you see them.
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Juble's first date follow up
First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Kai is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
We went on a date with and really liked.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
So in a second we'll call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another day for first Kai, how long as the
bench as you were from Evie?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks I've heard from Evie.
We usually are.
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Very friendly inmplirtatious to everyone that goes to our constant gym.
We've been certing back and forwards a little bit. But
then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie
after our workout, so we want to grab a smoothie
and that went really well, So then we decided we'd
go out and actually.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Able proper date. So we went to this new topics
place in town.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
We ended up chatting with each other and we got
the paia and while we went on the pie to
come out, we decided to after we ordered, we decided
to sit on the same side of the booth and
we go through each other's phones, and we were talking
about pictures and videos that we were.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Talking about, especially with our family members, and then there
was a kiss, which was pretty awesome. So I think
everything was going to Quarner plan. But then I have
an art.
Speaker 6 (01:09):
Doctor, and I think it's because I know the shrimp
out of the pie.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
The shrimp.
Speaker 7 (01:16):
Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about
the kiss.
Speaker 6 (01:19):
Then.
Speaker 7 (01:20):
Was that mutual?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?
Speaker 4 (01:26):
Definitely? Definitely, I kissed her to kiss it back.
Speaker 7 (01:30):
So then where does the shrimp come in?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
I was.
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Mainly a few of the protein content, my majority of
the Yeah, shrimp from the pie.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
I think that she made.
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Why do you think that that's the thing that she
say something about it?
Speaker 4 (01:47):
She would give me a look the entire time.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
So is it that you ate all the shrimper? Is
that because you left the girl starving?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
That's that's that's why I called you guys.
Speaker 3 (01:57):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
You reach out to her and she just said nothing.
Speaker 7 (02:02):
Well what was your last interaction? So what did you
say to her?
Speaker 1 (02:05):
So basically you sent her a text and said I
had a great time and then she responded saying thanks
for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were
looking for.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
So I taxed after dinner, I said, a really great time,
and I looking for the next day.
Speaker 6 (02:18):
And she just responded with, you know, thank you for
dinner with the period you know, Hanlo.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
Energy you would kind of response. So I haven't done
everything from her since then.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?
Speaker 6 (02:31):
Just acting not really, not really you know, long home competition,
just you know how I would that would be a
favorite talk.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
We'll plays on come back and then call her and
see if it tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe
get you another date. Okay, all right, plus i'll come back,
get your first DAFE follow up next. Right in the
middle of your first date follow up and if you're
just joining us, Kai is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by a girl named Evie that he really likes.
He met her at CrossFit and they went out on
(03:05):
a date and he thinks he's not getting a call
back because he ate all of the shrimp and the
piea that they ordered, and she also needs her protein
because you know, crossfits absolutely, So we'll see if that's
the reason. All right, kay, are you ready to give
her a call? Okay, man, here we go. Hello, Hi,
(03:32):
I speak to ev Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you?
My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also
on the show.
Speaker 7 (03:42):
Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
Okay, how are you?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
It's a radio shown.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Sure.
Speaker 3 (03:52):
Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?
Speaker 4 (03:55):
Yeah? Again?
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, sweet? Thank you? Are you familiar with what a
first date follow up is?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Yeah? Okay, okay, okay, cool.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they
can email us to get you on the show and
ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email
about you from somebody. You have any idea who that
would be?
Speaker 8 (04:16):
Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so
I have this feeling I might know who it is.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Okay, Okay, who is that.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Is it?
Speaker 6 (04:27):
Kai?
Speaker 7 (04:29):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
It is.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
He told us about your date and he wants to
know why you're not calling him back or why you're
ghosting him?
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 7 (04:37):
Well?
Speaker 8 (04:38):
Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were
having like a pretty.
Speaker 4 (04:43):
Good night.
Speaker 8 (04:45):
Tapas and then like we had this like really good kids, right,
and then he got up went to the bathroom, and
while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages
from someone ing v and it was like egg plant
emojis and uh like teach emoji's and tell emojis and
I'm at least five just in the time that he
(05:09):
was in the bathroom. So like, I don't know Louvie is,
but it sounds like he's kind of got something going
on already, and I just I felt.
Speaker 4 (05:18):
So uncomfortable after that.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I
don't know, it felt like he just left his phone
out on the table like he would see looking to.
Speaker 4 (05:28):
The film when he came back kind of thing.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
Okay, he thought, the reason you're not calling him back
is because he hate all the shrimp out of the
paa Oh.
Speaker 8 (05:37):
I mean yeah, he did do.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
That, and that was dumb.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts
that seemed like from another girl, I mean five, Yeah,
a lot.
Speaker 8 (05:48):
Of egg plant emojis.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
A lot.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
We should ask him about that, don't you think you Yeah.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
Oh, that's right, he's here.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Right, Yes, he is guy's on the phone and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Hey, Hey, maybe this is kind of awkward, but I'm
I'm a little.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
Bit mortified and I'm going to kill my friend, the
one that was.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
Setting all the emoji text messages Jim to my friend Vick.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
Yeah, he's he was. Basically, he knew that I was
in ev for a while and he was trying to
be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let
me know exactly what I should do, and atomically speaking,
everything goes well on the dates. But I uh, not
that I don't appreciate his input, but I kind of
(06:48):
already knew how to do that anyways, but.
Speaker 4 (06:52):
His own way, he was trying to at least at
least be encouraging and and and and be friendly. But
I don't I don't think he knew that she was
going to see the messages from him. Uh, Okay, I'm
going to kill him the next time I see him.
But it was nothing sexual between and somebody else. It
was mainly sexual between me and me and my buddy.
Speaker 8 (07:15):
So what you're saying is it wasn't another girl, but
it was your friend, like convinced we were going to
hook up, Like, is that why you went out with me?
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Because we were like sure we were going to hook up.
I wasn't going out with you because I was students,
we're going to cut I was going out because I
wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking
up thing is just a bonus. You're the main You're the.
Speaker 5 (07:39):
Main goal here is to is to go and have
a good time with you, because I have come into.
Speaker 4 (07:43):
You a goal.
Speaker 8 (07:46):
Come on, like a guy like you at the gym
only has one agenda and friends.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Just like the r VIC or whatever his name is.
Speaker 8 (07:56):
I knew you were too good to be true when
I went out right, like, if that's all your interest, Like, that's.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
Not what I'm here for.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
That's not all I'm interested in you. That's just my
friends and dumb idiots. And he's decided to send very
very dumb text messages when I wasn't.
Speaker 4 (08:12):
At the table. But I am not into you.
Speaker 5 (08:15):
For that, that's just a bonus.
Speaker 9 (08:17):
I'm into you for everything that you are and everything
that you can be, and especially all the conversation that
we having on the last day. The connections are going
really well.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
So yes, I can understand that you might.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Be a little upset and confused by the messages, but that's.
Speaker 9 (08:35):
The last thing on my mind.
Speaker 4 (08:37):
And you're also your your squad game.
Speaker 10 (08:39):
Is like insane, like you can squat so much and
I think it's really hot, So it's it's also that's
not a bonus, but you have a child bearing enjoy
it at some point in time after after an apology dinner,
what you possibly see about no potentially.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
Doing something on those lines scream after two. And also
you get to eat all the shrimp tonight. You get
all the shrimp, and.
Speaker 6 (09:04):
Wherever we go, I will make sure that they feed
you at least eat extra shrimp, just to make sure
that I have to make it for the last time.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I don't know if it is like out there. Would
you like to go on another date with Kaile? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 8 (09:18):
I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but
you can buy me shrimp in yes, yes, I will.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Go on a second date, but you are on probation.
Speaker 7 (09:30):
It sounds like you said yes to shrimp.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Okay, Well, congratulations Kyle, you got another date.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Yea, this is exactly and I appreciate all that help.
This was well exactly how I thought it would joke.
Thank you so much.
Speaker 7 (09:42):
Let's just tell Victor exence.
Speaker 8 (09:44):
Okay, okay, yeah, I want to see those texts, though, I.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a little
bit of editing that way to not as graphic as well,
but I will make sure that you see them.
Speaker 7 (10:00):
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