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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Greg is on the phone today for our first Day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Joyce.
So we're about to call her and see if she
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
a second date. But first, Greg, how long has it
been since you were from joy Oh?
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Man, it's been like a almost two weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:23):
Ooh, I know, I know. I'm trying to figure this out.
I don't know what happened. I feel like we had
a good time.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
What was the last thing she said to you?
Speaker 4 (00:34):
The last thing she said to me? Well, we were
at in the bar. I don't know. We had like
a whole great date.
Speaker 3 (00:40):
It's just like I felt like she all of a
sudden disappeared on me, and so I was the one
who reached out to her of her text trying to
figure out where she went, and I just haven't heard back.
Speaker 1 (00:50):
Oh that's so good. Tell us about it.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Yeah, Well, I mean I feel like I should tell
you what happened first, because we ended up having a
good date.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
It wasn't like it was just some.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Random little fling, like we went out, got like these
burritos from a food truck, ended up walking around like
doing karaoke, Like I don't know, Joy's kind of my dream.
Speaker 4 (01:09):
Really.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
She was like spontaneous. She's got like this I don't know,
mischievous energy. I don't know, Like I don't want to
call her mischievous, but like that's.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
The best way I can come up with.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
She's gorgeous, like we ended up kissing and all this
good stuff, like she could challenge me. But yeah, it
was so weird when we when we got to this,
when we got to the bar, she just I went
to the bathroom and when I came back, she was gone,
did something happen?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
I'm trying to figure that out, Like I've been playing
the date over and over in my head.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
And we ended up getting into this argument about the
hot sauces that we were kidding with our burritos, Like
she got this nasty she got this nasty hot sauce.
It was like those fivejlapeno or five chili whatever, like
the hospital.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
You could get. It was like you are what are
you doing? And she's like, oh, I'm tough as nails.
I was like, oh okay, you're gonna regret that.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
I thought she was just like putting on a play
Like I thought she was just like playing around, and
I called it such like a basic move, and she
just kind of like paused for a minute.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Was like, okay, m yeah, maybe the word basic might
have hit harder than you wanted it to.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Well, that's that's what I'm worried about.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
Like, I'm just so freaked out that, you know, because
we were being so playful and like just kind of
play teasing back and forth.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
But like I don't want her to think.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
I don't want her thinking that I think that she
active is basic, Like I don't know. I was just
trying to rather her back in the same way that
she was rising me. But it was like that moment
just keeps playing it over and over in my head,
and I'm just so worried he actually think that.
Speaker 1 (02:48):
You're trying to rap her back like she was rasing you.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Joking, Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Did she say anything after that? Did she seem weird
after that?
Speaker 3 (03:00):
I mean, just like that that moment where her face
went kind of slack, John when I called her like
such a basic one.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Well, no, that's not the thing though. I didn't call
her basic. I just said, that's such like a basic
thing to do, try and show that you're all tough.
Speaker 5 (03:12):
And so I don't know, well, had you guys had
a couple drinks at that point, because sometimes people get
a little sensey poo, you know, so maybe that could
be part of it, Like you came off a little
bit more harsh, and then she was being a little sensitive,
and then you can't take back the fact that you
just bounced on somebody.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Oh god, well yeah, now that's all I'm going to
think about.
Speaker 4 (03:34):
Yeah, so of course.
Speaker 1 (03:36):
Okay, And you haven't heard anything from her since your date.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
No, it's been, like I said, like a week and
a half, two weeks, and it feels like.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
So much longer than that.
Speaker 3 (03:45):
And I texted her a couple of times, like I said, Hey,
you doing okay, and then I like she didn't respond,
And then I feel so silly because I texted her
again afterwards, telling you exactly what I'm telling her, exactly
what I'm telling you, like I apologize for calling her
base when she never said, like that's what's bothering me.
And so I have like three on read texsh no
(04:06):
row from me and I'm just feeling like, I don't know,
I just feel so dumb. I just feel so dumb,
Like I went to the bathroom, she's gone, and now
she's not responding to my text, and I'm just like, how.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Did I mess this up?
Speaker 1 (04:19):
All Right, we'll see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Then we'll play a song come Back Brutal, call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
Okay, okay, thanks guy.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
All Right, we'll get your first Day follow up right
after this. If you're just joining us for today's First
Day follow up. Greg is on the phone and he's
getting ghosted by Joy So we're about to call her.
That sounds sad, he's getting ghosted by Joy.
Speaker 5 (04:44):
Ah.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
We're about to call her and see if she'll tell
us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
second date. But before we do that, Greg, why don't
you recap your date for us real quick?
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Yeah? Yeah, I mean, I mean, like I was saying,
the date was great.
Speaker 6 (04:57):
We went out for burritos and then we went out
did some karaoke and I wasn't seen too well, but
we ended up going to a bar afterwards, and I
made a joke about calling her Burrito Choice basic and
then she just ditched.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Me at the bar when I went to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (05:13):
All right, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
Where?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
God?
Speaker 4 (05:18):
Yeah, I think I'm gonna to sit down for this.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yeah, okay, Hello, Hi, I'm asking the joy please?
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Hey, Joy? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show? Hi Joy? I mean Hi,
I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
Was up?
Speaker 1 (05:47):
Sorry?
Speaker 7 (05:48):
Hi? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 8 (05:54):
I have?
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (05:56):
Okay, well have you ever heard Have you ever heard
a first Date follow up before?
Speaker 7 (06:02):
Yes? I have?
Speaker 1 (06:04):
Sweet.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So that's the segment where if you're ghosting somebody, they
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4 (06:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Right, So we got an email about you from somebody
you ghosts Enjoy.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Who Greg Ringwell?
Speaker 7 (06:24):
Really?
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely.
Speaker 7 (06:30):
Oh yeah, I'm ghosting him.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Yes, Well, why do you mind telling us why he
ditched me? What I ditched?
Speaker 4 (06:37):
You?
Speaker 3 (06:38):
Like?
Speaker 8 (06:38):
She said he was going to run to the bathroom
and then he never came back. Wait, what I waited
like fifteen minutes, and I was like, I thought I'd
been shut up, and then like Emmy had just kissed
so I thought maybe it was that, and so I laughed.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Did you text him or anything to see if he
was okay?
Speaker 4 (06:57):
No?
Speaker 7 (06:57):
Why would I.
Speaker 8 (06:58):
I wasn't going to text the guy who like irish
by me after he kissed me, So I just like
message received, you know, and I just laughed.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
But like, what if he was really in the bathroom
and he needed a minute?
Speaker 7 (07:10):
I gave him fifteen minutes.
Speaker 8 (07:11):
It's like an eternity when you're just standing at a him.
Speaker 4 (07:15):
Can I hop in here? Can I hop in here? Mind? Hey? Joy?
Hi Joy? I was in the bathroom line. That line
was like a mile long. You saw it. And then
I don't know, I.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Got like pulled into this dumb conversation with a guy
about Journey. He was saying like Journey was overrated, and
I came back and then you were gone. I thought,
I honestly thought you were upset about what I was
saying about, like the hot sauce and stuff.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
Okay, if you're telling me my big romantic first date
ended because you got trapped in a debate about journey.
Speaker 4 (07:48):
Don't obsess about that, Are you kidding me? I mean
I was gone for like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 8 (07:54):
Well fifteen minutes is like a really long time to
wait when you're by yourself, Like, and what was I
supposed to do? Like go send out a search party
to the men's room, Like I couldn't go in there, and.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Chell, you shouldn't you?
Speaker 3 (08:06):
Yeah, you should have sent out a search party. I
think that's exactly a great idea. You know, knock on
every stall door and says Gregan. There, I'm trying to
find my date right now. He seems really good karaoke.
Maybe you know him?
Speaker 8 (08:19):
Oh god, I mean I'm surprised people weren't avoiding you
because of that.
Speaker 3 (08:22):
You butchered that karaoke? What no, No, I did not
I don't have a bad scene. What's what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (08:29):
Okay?
Speaker 8 (08:30):
Not to be like a juggle, though you did like
leave me for like some sort of conversation in the bathroom.
So I feel like it's I'm entitled to it, but
like you were not good like I thought. I kind
of thought you were doing it on purpose, like to
be funny.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
It's it's karaoke. You don't have to be perfect. Oh
don't worry, you were Oh my.
Speaker 4 (08:49):
God, are you being serious right now? I really can't
tell if you're joking anymore. I really can't tell if
you're using.
Speaker 8 (08:57):
I mean, you left me alone in this a yokey bar,
and then like now you're calling me on the radio.
Speaker 7 (09:03):
It's all just a little like not how I expected
my morning to go.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
It's like, Okay, first of all, I didn't leave you.
You left me.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
Okay, you left me while I was using the facilities.
And first of all, get your ears check. I sound amazing.
I don't know where this is coming from.
Speaker 8 (09:21):
I think this kind of goes with the like the
fact that you think burritos are better than tacos, Like
I feel like maybe we have like bear.
Speaker 4 (09:26):
Because they all because they are. Don't even try and
switch the don't even try and switch the topic to that.
That's ridiculous.
Speaker 7 (09:32):
Oh my god, you and.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Sorry, don't don't call me. Oh my god, what did
you just call me?
Speaker 7 (09:40):
I called you bo boy? Did you ditch me in
the middle of our date? We kissed and then you were.
Speaker 3 (09:46):
Just gone, like stop saying your dishy because I had
to take a.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Jesus again.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Oh my god, I haven't forget that I would have
to act used the facility somewhere. You're going to What
would happen if I'm gone for more than fifteen minutes?
Speaker 4 (10:06):
You're going to call the police?
Speaker 7 (10:08):
Well, no, I guess.
Speaker 4 (10:09):
I mean I don't know.
Speaker 7 (10:11):
I thought you left me.
Speaker 4 (10:13):
What kind of abandonment issues do you have if you
think that I can't leave?
Speaker 7 (10:18):
Here we go?
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Here we go?
Speaker 7 (10:20):
Okay.
Speaker 8 (10:20):
Number one, men's rooms never have lines, and number two, like,
so I left.
Speaker 7 (10:25):
You could have texted and I'm like, oh my god,
the line is so long.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
Oh my god. I could have texted I get what
don't know? Don't no, no, no no no no no no,
do not.
Speaker 7 (10:35):
Hey.
Speaker 8 (10:36):
I had to like like, no, you were not looking
for me all night?
Speaker 7 (10:41):
Please? You could have called me. If you've been worried
about where I went.
Speaker 8 (10:44):
When you got back from the bathroom, you could have
called me and I would have told you I'm in
an uber. I thought you distion me, but you didn't
do that. You waited until like midday.
Speaker 4 (10:52):
But now you're going to use the bathroom. Oh my god,
I love how you leaving is my fault? This is ridiculous.
Do you hear this, guys, She's saying that because she left,
it's my fault the date ended. I mean I couldn't
even want to stretch up with me.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
I was not going into the man's room. I'm really
sorry that.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Earlier joy. Would you like another day with Craig? Will
pay for it?
Speaker 8 (11:25):
I mean no, I don't understand, like why he even
called me, just like great me on the radio, Like,
this is insane.
Speaker 4 (11:32):
I'll get out this happen well yourself? What is this?
I feel like I'm talking.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
To an entirely different person. We had a great date
and you're spinning it out and this is disgusting behavior.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
You know what. I'm glad. I don't want this. It's ridiculous.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
Cool, great, great talk, thanks for calling.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
You know what, It's fine.
Speaker 3 (11:54):
I don't even want to go out with a basic
like you anyway.
Speaker 4 (11:59):
Get racked whoa
Speaker 7 (12:03):
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