May 6, 2025 • 9 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jay is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Dove.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first
let's find out about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Jay. How long has it been since you heard from Dove?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Almost two weeks now?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Have you been reaching out to her in that time?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
I did, like once or twice, Like, you know, I'm
not trying to be too invasive, you know, I know
the chicks like their space.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah, okay, okay, which may be happening right now, we
don't know. So let's talk about your date, Jay. How
did that go? Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
I thought it went pretty well.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
We went to a game, had a couple of beers afterwards.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Like somebody was going well.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
So she I asked she wants to go to a
bar sports boring nearby and she was down and kicked
it for a while, and uh, still seems kind of
crazy about like she kept asking me like if I'm
going to order anything.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Else to eat? And uh, I'm a big eater.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
I don't know if I made her feel uncomfortable because
she was like just chowing down and I wasn't. But like,
you know, one of my my good buddies always tells
me that I should eat before the day because I'm
a little bit of a slob.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I don't know if she was bothered by that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
What, Like, I don't know, wew sloppy? Do you eat?
Were you like throwing food all over the restaurant?
Speaker 5 (01:23):
And I only have I only have another person's opinion
on it, you know who I trust, So I don't know.
I mean, I do kind of score barbecue sauce on
the shirt, but you know, a couple of drinks then.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Like on purpose.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
No, No, I'm trying to help her out, like trying
to pass it over and.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
Okay, so I have a good conversation outside of the
condiment showers or.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Uh have my I thought?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So, okay, did it seem like the barbecue sauce on
the shirt bothered her?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
No? I mean not that I was aware of.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You know, we'll see, we can help you out and
try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
We'll plays song, come back and then call her and
see what hotell us why she's ghosting you, maybe get
you another date.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Okay, ah, sick, I'm gonna put my phone probably on mute.
Washing comes on, so it's gonna be a lot of windows,
you know.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, yeah, that's probably a good idea.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
All right, we'll play a song, come back, give you
first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Then little of your first day follow up, and Jay
is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by a girl
named Doves On a second. We're gonna call her and
see if she why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Jay, why don't you refresh
our memory on your date before we call her?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Yow douv and I went to a game kicked it
when is sports?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Far?
Speaker 4 (02:57):
After saw saunor, which apparently is the thing, and uh,
then she just dipped and kind of ghosted.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Now I'm trying to see what's good?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Okay, yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
And you think maybe the barbecue sauce on her shirt
might have been the thing that turned her off?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Well, I didn't before, but you guys kind of made
a big deal about it.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Okay, so maybe it's all right, man, we're gonna call
her ready, all right, Sie, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
(03:42):
I speak to Dove. Please, Hey Dove, how are you?
My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Hi, Dove, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
How are you? Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:54):
I'm okay.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Hey, do you ever listen to the show.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I have been passing. I'll be honest. I'm more of
a Spotify kind of gal.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, that's hey, that's fine. So we do a segment
that's called the first Date follow Up. It's where you
go out with someone and you end up ghosting them.
That person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got
an email about you from somebody. Okay, well, can you
think of anybody that you're currently ghosting?
Speaker 6 (04:21):
I mean, I've gone on a couple of dates. I
you know, we're all out here trying to make it happen.
I had gone on a date a couple of weeks ago.
I did have a good time. Okay, what was his name?
I think uh Jay? And we like went to a
game and I liked him, and there's another guy, Michael,
(04:42):
I don't know, maybe Michael or Jay.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Maybe Michael or Jay. You're right the first time, yes,
J Yeah. Jay wants to know why you're not calling back. U.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Well did my dad did I forgotten? Mute? Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Jay is on the phone, actually listening and wants to
talk to you.
Speaker 6 (05:12):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So anyway, Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting in.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
Okay. Well, this is a wild experience and when I
can truly say I've never had before in my life. Yeah,
I mean I what what did she say something that
I totally is?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:44):
All right, so yeah, I like thought he was really attractive.
I'm really into like, you know, the sorry per saying
this way J, but like the dad good look like
it's kind of a vibe that I like, and you know,
we were really vibing. And and then he like started
eating and he wanted a side of mayo for like
(06:07):
a dip. But I actually have like a mayo phobia,
and I just didn't want him to feel bad, which
which is like why I never said anything. But then
I kept trying to be cute about it, and twitt
like twisted that it wasn't a thing anymore, and I
kept trying to like feed him so that he would
just skip the Mayo dip. And then you know, even
(06:29):
at the end of the night, I like I wanted
to kiss him, but like I could an idea, like
I deal with like the Mayo in my mind, and
so honestly, it was like the Mayo thing, and I
maybe probably should have said something, but like now I don't.
I mean, that's just it hasn't. I don't know, well, clearly,
like this is a strange moment.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
You have a like a male phobia, like a legit
f yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Like it's like everything about it makes me a free
but more anything like deeply, deeply viscerally disgusting.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
I think it's like it's a textural thing.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
It's a visual thing. I look at it and like
the way that it like looks like in a mound
is like it.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Was just like, oh my god, Like I'm talking about
it right now, but if.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
You want to vomit, like I just like it's just
like I think about it and my entire body tenses
and then I look to smell the smell of it,
the idea of what's even in it, Like everything about
Mayo makes me nauxious and I also, yeah, I guess
at this point it's become like a fear to even
be around it because of how it makes me viscerally feel.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
Damn, did not hear that?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I read something about Mayo like it Actually they said
it doesn't have dairy, but I think it does.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
What this is like kind of good news?
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I thought it was the fact that I sostuff your shirt.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
No, that wasn't it. Though it was actually one of
my favorite shirts and now it can't come out.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
But no, that wasn't the reason.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
Damn, dude, Like if you would have broke it down
for me, I would have stowed up passed that out
the window.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Dude, Like, yeah, that would have been nice. I guess. Yeah,
never again to the Mayo, well, dub, even though you.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Just dissed me, Like, I'm gonna be real, there should
only be one turtle Dove, because you're a hell unique.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Wow, are you sure the Mao is the reason why
you were ghosting?
Speaker 6 (08:33):
There's like a little vibe here, like like I was laughing,
I had a really good time and just like then, yeah,
the Mayo really put the ick in all of this.
I couldn't take it. But like you're you're you're a
unique little dude, buddy.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
No, I respect that it's better that we learned about
the Mayo thing now than like, you know, down the road.
Since I put the ick in it, if you go
out with me again, we could put the young back
in it.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Would you like to go out with j again on
another date? We'll pay for it mayo.
Speaker 6 (09:08):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
I would be willing these pickup lines. I don't know
if I like them or I hate them. I haven't
decided yet that they are making me smile, So I would.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Be willing to on the condition that for the moment,
we just don't include food at all, and we can
do some like activity or something that's like really cute,
and we can we can re establish the food stuff
at a different points on.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Alignell, congratulations, Jay, you got another.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
Date, so dog like for real, I got hell activities
that we could bust through that don't involve Mayo.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Sounds like a great time.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Ju Wile's first date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Jay is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Dove.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first
let's find out about the date.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Jay. How long has it been since you heard from Dove?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Almost two weeks now?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
Have you been reaching out to her in that time?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
I did, like once or twice, Like, you know, I'm
not trying to be too invasive, you know, I know
the chicks like their space.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yeah, okay, okay, which may be happening right now, we
don't know. So let's talk about your date, Jay. How
did that go? Oh?
Speaker 4 (00:40):
I thought it went pretty well.
Speaker 5 (00:42):
We went to a game, had a couple of beers afterwards.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Like somebody was going well.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
So she I asked she wants to go to a
bar sports boring nearby and she was down and kicked
it for a while, and uh, still seems kind of
crazy about like she kept asking me like if I'm
going to order anything.
Speaker 4 (01:01):
Else to eat? And uh, I'm a big eater.
Speaker 5 (01:06):
I don't know if I made her feel uncomfortable because
she was like just chowing down and I wasn't. But like,
you know, one of my my good buddies always tells
me that I should eat before the day because I'm
a little bit of a slob.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
I don't know if she was bothered by that.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
What, Like, I don't know, wew sloppy? Do you eat?
Were you like throwing food all over the restaurant?
Speaker 5 (01:23):
And I only have I only have another person's opinion
on it, you know who I trust, So I don't know.
I mean, I do kind of score barbecue sauce on
the shirt, but you know, a couple of drinks then.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Like on purpose.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
No, No, I'm trying to help her out, like trying
to pass it over and.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
Okay, so I have a good conversation outside of the
condiment showers or.
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Uh have my I thought?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
So, okay, did it seem like the barbecue sauce on
the shirt bothered her?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
No? I mean not that I was aware of.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You know, we'll see, we can help you out and
try to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
We'll plays song, come back and then call her and
see what hotell us why she's ghosting you, maybe get
you another date.
Speaker 4 (02:11):
Okay, ah, sick, I'm gonna put my phone probably on mute.
Washing comes on, so it's gonna be a lot of windows,
you know.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Okay, yeah, that's probably a good idea.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
All right, we'll play a song, come back, give you
first day follow up.
Speaker 1 (02:27):
Next first date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Then little of your first day follow up, and Jay
is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by a girl
named Doves On a second. We're gonna call her and
see if she why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Jay, why don't you refresh
our memory on your date before we call her?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
Yow douv and I went to a game kicked it
when is sports?
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Far?
Speaker 4 (02:57):
After saw saunor, which apparently is the thing, and uh,
then she just dipped and kind of ghosted.
Speaker 6 (03:07):
Now I'm trying to see what's good?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Okay, yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
And you think maybe the barbecue sauce on her shirt
might have been the thing that turned her off?
Speaker 5 (03:14):
Well, I didn't before, but you guys kind of made
a big deal about it.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Okay, so maybe it's all right, man, we're gonna call
her ready, all right, Sie, Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
(03:42):
I speak to Dove. Please, Hey Dove, how are you?
My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.
It's called The Jebel Show.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
Hi, Dove, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria.
How are you? Hi?
Speaker 6 (03:54):
I'm okay.
Speaker 3 (03:55):
Hey, do you ever listen to the show.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I have been passing. I'll be honest. I'm more of
a Spotify kind of gal.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
Okay, that's hey, that's fine. So we do a segment
that's called the first Date follow Up. It's where you
go out with someone and you end up ghosting them.
That person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And we got
an email about you from somebody. Okay, well, can you
think of anybody that you're currently ghosting?
Speaker 6 (04:21):
I mean, I've gone on a couple of dates. I
you know, we're all out here trying to make it happen.
I had gone on a date a couple of weeks ago.
I did have a good time. Okay, what was his name?
I think uh Jay? And we like went to a
game and I liked him, and there's another guy, Michael,
(04:42):
I don't know, maybe Michael or Jay.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Maybe Michael or Jay. You're right the first time, yes,
J Yeah. Jay wants to know why you're not calling back. U.
Speaker 4 (05:00):
Well did my dad did I forgotten? Mute? Oh?
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Jay is on the phone, actually listening and wants to
talk to you.
Speaker 6 (05:12):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So anyway, Yeah, he wants to know why you're ghosting in.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
Okay. Well, this is a wild experience and when I
can truly say I've never had before in my life. Yeah,
I mean I what what did she say something that
I totally is?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (05:44):
All right, so yeah, I like thought he was really attractive.
I'm really into like, you know, the sorry per saying
this way J, but like the dad good look like
it's kind of a vibe that I like, and you know,
we were really vibing. And and then he like started
eating and he wanted a side of mayo for like
(06:07):
a dip. But I actually have like a mayo phobia,
and I just didn't want him to feel bad, which
which is like why I never said anything. But then
I kept trying to be cute about it, and twitt
like twisted that it wasn't a thing anymore, and I
kept trying to like feed him so that he would
just skip the Mayo dip. And then you know, even
(06:29):
at the end of the night, I like I wanted
to kiss him, but like I could an idea, like
I deal with like the Mayo in my mind, and
so honestly, it was like the Mayo thing, and I
maybe probably should have said something, but like now I don't.
I mean, that's just it hasn't. I don't know, well, clearly,
like this is a strange moment.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
You have a like a male phobia, like a legit
f yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:56):
Like it's like everything about it makes me a free
but more anything like deeply, deeply viscerally disgusting.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
I think it's like it's a textural thing.
Speaker 7 (07:06):
It's a visual thing. I look at it and like
the way that it like looks like in a mound
is like it.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
Was just like, oh my god, Like I'm talking about
it right now, but if.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
You want to vomit, like I just like it's just
like I think about it and my entire body tenses
and then I look to smell the smell of it,
the idea of what's even in it, Like everything about
Mayo makes me nauxious and I also, yeah, I guess
at this point it's become like a fear to even
be around it because of how it makes me viscerally feel.
Speaker 6 (07:36):
Damn, did not hear that?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
I read something about Mayo like it Actually they said
it doesn't have dairy, but I think it does.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
What this is like kind of good news?
Speaker 4 (07:51):
I thought it was the fact that I sostuff your shirt.
Speaker 6 (07:54):
No, that wasn't it. Though it was actually one of
my favorite shirts and now it can't come out.
Speaker 4 (08:00):
But no, that wasn't the reason.
Speaker 5 (08:02):
Damn, dude, Like if you would have broke it down
for me, I would have stowed up passed that out
the window.
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Dude, Like, yeah, that would have been nice. I guess. Yeah,
never again to the Mayo, well, dub, even though you.
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Just dissed me, Like, I'm gonna be real, there should
only be one turtle Dove, because you're a hell unique.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Wow, are you sure the Mao is the reason why
you were ghosting?
Speaker 6 (08:33):
There's like a little vibe here, like like I was laughing,
I had a really good time and just like then, yeah,
the Mayo really put the ick in all of this.
I couldn't take it. But like you're you're you're a
unique little dude, buddy.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
No, I respect that it's better that we learned about
the Mayo thing now than like, you know, down the road.
Since I put the ick in it, if you go
out with me again, we could put the young back
in it.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
Would you like to go out with j again on
another date? We'll pay for it mayo.
Speaker 6 (09:08):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (09:09):
I would be willing these pickup lines. I don't know
if I like them or I hate them. I haven't
decided yet that they are making me smile, So I would.
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Be willing to on the condition that for the moment,
we just don't include food at all, and we can
do some like activity or something that's like really cute,
and we can we can re establish the food stuff
at a different points on.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Alignell, congratulations, Jay, you got another.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
Date, so dog like for real, I got hell activities
that we could bust through that don't involve Mayo.
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Sounds like a great time.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
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