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December 15, 2025 12 mins

A wild first night, instant chemistry, and then—total silence. In this unforgettable First Date Follow Up from The Jubal Show, one incredible connection turns into a confusing ghosting that leaves everyone wondering what really went wrong.

After meeting in the most unexpected way, assumptions are made, signals get crossed, and one wrong impression almost shuts the door on something real. When the truth finally comes out, it flips the entire story on its head and proves that you can’t always judge a date by how the night began.


Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
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Speaker 3 (00:07):
Because it's Christmas time, we're counting down the twelve first
day follow ups of Christmas has voted on by you. Yeah,
we countdown all the way to the number one first
date follow up that you voted on. Jessica is on
the phone today for a first date follow up, and
she's getting ghosted by a dude named Chase. So we're
gonna call him in a little while and see if
you'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get
her another date. But first, Jessica, how long has it

(00:28):
been since you heard from Chase?

Speaker 4 (00:30):
Hey?

Speaker 5 (00:30):
So, yeah, it's been about a week since I texted him.
He responded the first time, but since his first response,
I haven't heard anything back.

Speaker 2 (00:40):
Okay, how did you guys meet? And then what was
that date like?

Speaker 1 (00:43):
So?

Speaker 5 (00:43):
We actually met at a club, and honestly, it was
like more of a rave than a club, and I
don't even go out that much, so I was just
like letting loose after a long week, and I was
dancing next to him and we're both just having a
good time, not really talking, and then I bumped right
into him, but he caught me before I fell very romantic.

(01:08):
I looked up at him and I smiled, and I
was just like immediately smitten. He was so gorgeous. So
we danced for a little bit, and then I asked
if he wants to if he wanted to go to
the bar for a drink, And I know it sounds
like a wrong com but it actually literally did happen
that way. And then we just went to the bar
and sat there getting to know each other. Well, we

(01:30):
tried to because it was extremely loud in the club,
so I think he was there, like with his friend
celebrating something, but I couldn't really tell what he was
saying half the time. And also we were both pretty drunk,
and there were some extra party favors that we had
as well, so we were definitely feeling a little handsy, okay,

(01:52):
And he didn't live that far from the club, so
he asked if I wanted to go to his place
for a little quiet time, that's what he called it,
and I agreed, and so we both just walked a
couple of blocks to his place. We sobered up a bit.
We were still feeling kind of brisky, so we kind
of like briskly walked to his place, and once we

(02:13):
got there, I definitely made the first move and he
was okay with that, so you know, clothes were flying off.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
Wow, that doesn't sound like quiet time to me compared
to a rave.

Speaker 5 (02:26):
I can't say everything that happened that night because this
is the morning show. But afterwards we laid in bed
and in like a backwards date kind of way, we
actually got to know each other a.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
Lot better after all that. Like, so the next morning,
you guys talked and really got to know each other.

Speaker 5 (02:42):
Yeah, we just kind of spent the whole night talking
and we mostly talked about our shared music tape because
we were both hard ravers in our younger days. We
didn't really talk about work or relationships or anything boring.
We just wanted to have fun with the night. And
we laid there until the early hours of the morning,

(03:04):
and then I had to get up early the next
day and I just went home, playing the whole night
in my head over and over again. And I texted
him the next day and he told me he texted
me back, and he said he'd talked.

Speaker 4 (03:17):
To me tomorrow. But that was over a week ago.

Speaker 5 (03:21):
And I texted a couple more times. I tried calling,
but it went straight to voicemail.

Speaker 3 (03:25):
What do you think could happened?

Speaker 5 (03:28):
Honestly, I feel like maybe I was just too enthusiastic
and I came on too strong, and I kind of
and I just sort of like hooked up with him
without really knowing him at all. And so I think
maybe I feel guilty about the order of our gate.
And I think maybe he just thought of it as

(03:50):
like a one night stand. And I don't blame him
if he thinks that, but I just feel like it
would stuck to lose this opportunity.

Speaker 3 (03:56):
Yeah, if you're calling him, then he would be like, well,
maybe it's not a one nice and then.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
And then like also a one night stand, you sit
there and talk the next day, because usually it's like
thank you, nice to meet you.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
Yeah, yeah, that's true too.

Speaker 2 (04:07):
Does he have a girlfriend?

Speaker 1 (04:09):
That's the thing that always makes me nervous is when
I got here after you have a great connection, and
usually when they ghost's because they're hiding from somebody else.

Speaker 5 (04:16):
Oh god. I mean we didn't talk about past relationships
or anything like that, but I didn't even consider that.

Speaker 3 (04:21):
Did you notice any pictures on his wall, or like
any anything around the house that looked like a girlfriend
was there.

Speaker 2 (04:26):
Did he have throw pillows?

Speaker 4 (04:29):
It was a bit of a blur.

Speaker 5 (04:30):
It was a bit of a blur.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
Okay, all right, well, yeah, we'll see if we can
figure it out for you. We're about to call him
and see if we can figure out why he's a ghostinger.
But first, Jessica, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your.

Speaker 6 (04:40):
Date with Chase.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
Yeah. So I bumped into Chase at the club. We
had a very immediate romantic connection. We hung out at
the bar for a little bit before going back to
his place. We were both pretty drunk, and then I
stayed over. We did sing, and then we spent the

(05:03):
early hours of the morning talking and then we had
a great connection. I left, I texted him, and I
haven't heard back from him in a week.

Speaker 3 (05:14):
Okay, Well we're gonna call him right now and see
if he'll tell us and then maybe get you another date.
Are you ready?

Speaker 5 (05:20):
I'm ready?

Speaker 3 (05:20):
Okay, here we go. Hello, I may I speak to Chase? Please?

Speaker 4 (05:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:36):
This is Chase Chase. How are you man? My name
is Jewble, and this is a radio show called the
Jewbil Show.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
Hi Chase, I'm Nina. Also on the Jubil Show. Hi,
I am Victoria.

Speaker 4 (05:47):
How are you good?

Speaker 3 (05:48):
Have you heard of the show before?

Speaker 6 (05:51):
In passing, I was out once since someone was talking
about you guys a show.

Speaker 4 (05:55):
I had never listened to it, but I've heard of
he does?

Speaker 3 (05:57):
Okay, sweet? Well, we do a segment on the show,
so it's called the first Date follow up. What that
is is if you go out on a date with
somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person
can email us to get you on the phone and
ask why you're ghosting them?

Speaker 4 (06:11):
Okay, all right, And we got.

Speaker 3 (06:12):
An email about you from somebody named Jessica.

Speaker 4 (06:16):
Wow, Okay, yeah, I know her.

Speaker 3 (06:19):
Okay, And Jessica told us a little bit about your
date and said that you haven't gotten back to her
and she's curious if she did something wrong or why
you're a ghosting her.

Speaker 4 (06:30):
This is funny. I'm actually I'm flattered by this entire thing.

Speaker 6 (06:33):
To be honest with you, I didn't think she would
go to do this on the radio, but you know,
here we are.

Speaker 4 (06:40):
So I didn't call her.

Speaker 6 (06:42):
Back because it just seemed like, you know, she just
seemed too much of a party girl for me. I'm
someone who doesn't really go out much, and when we
had met, that was really the first time I've gone
out and did anything in about a month or so.
And look, Jessica is great, She's gorgeous. It definitely felt

(07:02):
like I was in some sort of romantic comedy situation
like a movie. She bummed into me and and like, oh,
look who it is type thing, and it's like like
like a Matthew McConaughey movie or something.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
She fell and picked her up and then then the
music stopped, and.

Speaker 6 (07:17):
Yeah, she fell into my arms and she was falling
and I grabbed her arm and was able to kind
of catch her from hitting the floor.

Speaker 4 (07:24):
But you know, her defense, she was.

Speaker 6 (07:25):
Drunk, I think is to say she was trashed. Was
was pretty fair, but she seemed like it was an
everyday situation as.

Speaker 4 (07:32):
Far as that. And I'm not judging her at all.

Speaker 6 (07:34):
You know, we've all kind of been to these situations
at clubs, and I get it.

Speaker 4 (07:39):
But I'm usually not that fun.

Speaker 6 (07:40):
I think I came off of like a super fun
guy and I'm pretty boring and low key. We did
go back to my place. I was kind of barely
hanging on there.

Speaker 4 (07:49):
We had a few drinks.

Speaker 6 (07:50):
Obviously, She, on the other hand, incredible energy, Like wow,
she was really hanging out of my arm.

Speaker 4 (07:56):
It's kind of being all over.

Speaker 6 (07:57):
Me, which I kind of liked. Obviously, we kind of,
you know, did some things. I didn't text her back,
sang it. You know, I feel bad, you know now
that I'm saying it out loud to be honce with him.

Speaker 1 (08:08):
So you're quite literally ignoring the signs from the universe
to talk to Jessica. Who foun your lap? Yeah, is
what it sounds like to me, because you feel like
you can't you can't keep up with her.

Speaker 4 (08:21):
She's got incredible energy.

Speaker 6 (08:23):
I'm and I'm sort of an introvert, and I was
having a few drinks that night, so you know, I
was very eased and just kind of feeling myself a
little bit.

Speaker 4 (08:32):
I'm not that guy. Kelly and I don't go out.

Speaker 6 (08:35):
Much, and the drinks are flowing, and then she kind
of comes into the world and we just had a
good night that night.

Speaker 3 (08:40):
So that's all you know about her, right, Yeah.

Speaker 4 (08:43):
I did pretty much. We didn't get too deep in
the conversation.

Speaker 3 (08:45):
In your head, you just picture someone who's just like
bouncing around and always on the go and has to
be out places and doesn't ever want to be home. Like,
what do you? I don't know why you think that
wouldn't work.

Speaker 4 (08:55):
I just think that she's.

Speaker 6 (08:56):
Someone who kind of bounces around, goes out a lot parties,
probably has a high end, you know, probably.

Speaker 4 (09:01):
Goes out four front times a week, probably drinks a lot.

Speaker 6 (09:04):
It's totally cool, and I understand I probably goes to
a ton of concerts and raised and whatever.

Speaker 4 (09:09):
I'm just not that guy.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Okay, all right, you're making assumptions back. You might as
well ask her yourself.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Good point, Chase, you can ask her yourself, because she's
actually on the phone and he's been listening this whole
time and wants to.

Speaker 6 (09:20):
Talk to you.

Speaker 5 (09:21):
Hi, would dude, you are not going to believe this.
I am literally a librarian. What what I I never
go out. I never go out at all.

Speaker 6 (09:39):
No, no, I I look, I understand, just there is
no way you're a librarian. I don't think that'll don't
even exist anymore. I appreciate what you're doing, of course,
but oh my god, it's just I'm super low key.

Speaker 4 (09:50):
So it's it's it's just.

Speaker 1 (09:52):
No I do.

Speaker 4 (09:53):
You don't have to lie about it.

Speaker 5 (09:55):
What we still exist. I'm literally a librarian. I'm not kidding.
Come out so you actually, I'm just genuinely curious. You
actually work at a library, and.

Speaker 2 (10:06):
A library that's what it is.

Speaker 5 (10:08):
Yes, I went to school for this. I am not
making this up.

Speaker 3 (10:14):
We never met a librarian before.

Speaker 2 (10:16):
You guys didn't hang out a library.

Speaker 3 (10:18):
Well, I mean yeah, when you're in the library, but
like in that in like outside of their natural habitat. Okay,
that's cool, Jessica.

Speaker 5 (10:25):
Yeah, thanks, yes, I guess.

Speaker 6 (10:31):
Because usually librarians are boring and introverted to So what
are you doing?

Speaker 4 (10:36):
How did we meet at a club? Like, how did
that even happen?

Speaker 5 (10:39):
Well, I honestly never go out at all, but my
friends kind of like coaxed me into it that night,
and so I just decided to say I just happened.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
To be out that night.

Speaker 5 (10:48):
That's like not even my lifestyle either.

Speaker 3 (10:52):
Oh that's why when we first talked to you, Jessica,
you said that you used to go to stuff like
that all the time.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
Oh, okay, that makes it in high school. So the
universe quite literally had you fall into his arms. I
feel like you can't let you guys walk away from this.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
Yeah, I was just really into him, and I feel
like we're both just letting go. We both hopp into
be here, be.

Speaker 4 (11:14):
There that night.

Speaker 6 (11:15):
Honestly, I feel like I'm on jess I'm so sorry,
I really I apologize. I feel like an idiot literally
judging a book by its cover here and that sounds
so stupid. Wow, I totally was jumping the gun and
had no idea, and I'm obviously frankly, I'm a jealous

(11:36):
of how much energy you have, you know, that night
and the next morning, and seemingly the tolerance of a
twenty year old so never in a million years with
I think you're a librarians.

Speaker 3 (11:46):
To be truthful, Chase, would you like to go out
on another date with Jessica? We'll pay for it?

Speaker 6 (11:51):
Hell yeah, yeah, I definitely. I definitely need to make
it up to her. For sure, Jess, I feel like
an idiot and to take you out on actual Loki night,
I'm done, Like I'm down.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
I think I'd be great

Speaker 2 (12:01):
From the chapter to their Yeah, exactly
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