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December 3, 2025 12 mins

A flawless first date suddenly derails and now Jewel wants answers. In this First Date Follow Up, the team calls Patrick to uncover the real reason he ghosted her after what felt like a romantic win… until one very unexpected accident changed the entire vibe. Was it the fall? The flirting? Or something much stranger?


Tune in for surprising twists, awkward honesty, and the hilariously petty debate that follows.


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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at adjus dot com. Jewel is on the
phone today for a first date follow up and she's
getting ghosted by a guy named Patrick. So in a
few minutes we'll call him and sy if he'll tell
us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a second date.
But first, Jewel, how long has it been since you
heard from old Pat?

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Hey, guys, it's been over a week, which feels embarrassing
to say, but yeah.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Okay, so why don't you tell us about the date
and we'll see if there's any holes.

Speaker 3 (00:33):
Thank you, I appreciate it. Okay. So we were having
a really great time.

Speaker 2 (00:37):
Obviously he's cute, like I saw his pictures before I
met him. We met on an app, so you know,
matched the picture, like really cute. I specifically loved his dimples,
like I have a thing for people with dimples, and
when he laughed, he's really got him and he's he
was like a gentleman. He was definitely confident, but not

(01:01):
overtly like kind of a quiet confident guy, and he
actually listened to me. That was probably what stood out
the most because I've been on so many first dates
where people are like.

Speaker 3 (01:11):
Checking out, and he was actually paying attention.

Speaker 2 (01:15):
He remembered, like, mind names of my family members I
mentioned and stuff about work, and that.

Speaker 4 (01:21):
Was so nice.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
That's cool people to remember.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Oh.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Also another thing that I've never seen before, he ordered.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
Dessert so confidently, like I feel like guys are weird
about dessert sometimes, and he was just like took charge,
got the brownies. It was like amazing, I'm attracted to.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
That, you know, sure.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
And then we like had such a good time at
dinner that we extended the date, which was unexpected. We
decided to get a nightcap, so we like walked to
a cute rooftop bar and then we get in there
and we're going to sit at the bar, and this

(02:10):
is so embarrassing. I like misjudged the height of the
stool because it was one of those tall bar stools.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
I fell, which is embarrassing enough, but I didn't just fall.
When I fell, I reached instinctively to grab for something
to hold on to, and I fully grabbed his jewels, like.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Well, he liked he took it like a man.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
He didn't like make a big dealer cry or whatever,
but I you guys, like I was like, I didn't
just grab and let go. I was holding as I
was falling side of the yanking.

Speaker 1 (02:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
Yeah, Well at first, he, like I said, he was
just like like kind of like like sucking it in
or whatever, like not, but he couldn't help it. When
I actually pulled, he yelped because he can't help it.

Speaker 3 (03:15):
Like I don't blame him, But then everybody noticed obviously,
so then it was like dramatic, and what's going on?
Like you know, it was a rooftop bar, so it's
it's like you could actually hear him screen. It's not
like we're in a small dive bar. Like everyone was
looking not cute, and it just felt like the whole

(03:36):
vibe shifted after that obviously, like I had trouble recovering.

Speaker 2 (03:41):
I was like apologizing a lot and trying to keep
conversation going, but it was so uncomfortable and I just
felt really bad.

Speaker 3 (03:49):
But everything before.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
That was so good, right, So I'm like, you know,
we probably spent another twenty minutes there and then just
kind of like awkwardly wrapped it up, and he did
he did walk me to my uber and make sure,
like I got home safe and everything, but then I
never heard from him again.

Speaker 1 (04:08):
Oh, no, acident, I don't know that is it. We'll
play a song come back, and then call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and
maybe get you a second date. Okay, thank you, yep,
we'll get your first name follow up next. Right in
the middle of your first name follow up And if
you're just joining us, Jewel is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named Patrick. So we're

(04:30):
about to call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghostinger and maybe get her another date. But first, Juel,
why don't you recap your date with Patrick? Real quick,
grab and doll.

Speaker 2 (04:41):
So we had an amazing first date Italian spot all
the way through dessert, great time. Decided to extend the date,
went for a nightcap on a rooftop bar, and I
misjudged the height of the barstool, fell.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
And on the way down really firmly grabbed his junk
accident it shifted.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
The vibe, and then spent about twenty more minutes together
and then never heard from him again.

Speaker 3 (05:07):
So really, I'm really hoping we could salvage.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
It right, right, yeah, all right, Well we'll see if
that is the reason or if it's something else. Are
you ready for us to call in?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (05:15):
See, okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Patrick.
Please speaking? Hey Patrick? How are you? This is a
radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show. Hi Patrick, I'm Nina,

(05:36):
I am Victoria, and I'm Freeze and my name is Jewbell.
How are you whole parties here?

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Uh? Good?

Speaker 5 (05:43):
How are y'all doing? What's just? H?

Speaker 4 (05:45):
Not bad?

Speaker 1 (05:46):
Thanks? Have you ever listened to the show before?

Speaker 4 (05:49):
No?

Speaker 5 (05:49):
I can't say that I have.

Speaker 1 (05:51):
Okay, So we do a segment on the show called
the First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go
out on a date with somebody and you end up
ghosting them, that person can email us to call you
and find out why you're ghosting them. And we got
an email about you from somebody?

Speaker 5 (06:03):
Oh, okay, whoa.

Speaker 1 (06:05):
Any idea who would email us? Yeah?

Speaker 5 (06:08):
No, it's kind of a surprise. I wasn't expecting. I
was hoping I want a car or something.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
Yeah, me too, Any idea who it would be?

Speaker 4 (06:17):
No?

Speaker 5 (06:18):
I can't say that I can think of it right now.
It's kind of I feel bad a little awkward.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
It was a date I think you would remember because
you ended up getting grabbed in the junk on accident.

Speaker 5 (06:29):
He yelled, Okay, yeah, you're talking about Duel, right, That
is that the person.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
Yeap du will email us said that she thought you
were awesome, but you've been ghosting her and she doesn't know.
Why would you mind telling us?

Speaker 5 (06:44):
Yeah, I mean this is this is really weird.

Speaker 4 (06:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
So Juel told me when we were on the date
that she doesn't trust people who walks as I mean,
she said that if someone walks with urgency, they're hiding something.
And I don't know, I couldn't un hear it. I
mean like I walked fast, and it kind of felt
like a personal attack. I mean, like I hate slow walkers,
you know, like walk with some intention, with some urgency.

(07:12):
You're milling around your phone, I'm trying to get somewhere,
and you know, I just I just felt like a
personal attack. I just couldn't unhear it.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
So you thought she was like being passive aggressive with you,
and like, you know, I don't trust you because you
walk fast.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
Yeah yeah, I just like I'm just walking and like
everyone has their own pace. I mean I would appreciate it.
If we're walking all together in a public space, you
walk with some intention and not like we're at a
park un.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Street.

Speaker 5 (07:39):
But I'm not going to judge you for walking slow.
I'm just saying, you know, I'm not going to sit
here and be like, oh, well, slow walkers are terrible.
People are trying to hide something and.

Speaker 1 (07:49):
Much okay, a huge jump. So you weren't hiding anything.

Speaker 5 (07:54):
No, no, no, I probably had to be somewhere. Yeah,
so that's why she doesn't trust people that walks fast.
And that was really weird to me, so I didn't
call her back.

Speaker 1 (08:04):
All right, Well, thank you for telling us, man, I
appreciate it. I'll also let you know right now that
Jewel is on the phone and has been listening and
wants to talk to you.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Yo.

Speaker 5 (08:13):
They're here right now.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
Yeah, Hi, Hi Patrick, Hey Jewel, what's up. Well?

Speaker 2 (08:24):
I feel like this is kind of ridiculous. I wasn't
attacking you. I was just stating my opinion, like it
was not a personal attack on you.

Speaker 5 (08:31):
I mean, you said people who walk fast are either
running from guilt or running from taxes. You said, Juel.
You said this while I was walking next to you
on our way to grab a nightcap.

Speaker 2 (08:41):
And okay, first of all, you were walking like somebody
owed you money, Like I just thought you were cold
or really excited about getting the drink.

Speaker 3 (08:49):
Like that's that's my normal.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
Pace, that's how my legs work, that's my natural speed,
one foot in front of the other past.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
Your natural speed made me feel like I was re
enacting a chase scene from a crime documentary, like I
had to take five steps for every one of your steps.

Speaker 5 (09:06):
You called me subspecially athletic in public, Like what does
that even mean?

Speaker 3 (09:11):
It wasn't an insult, It was an observation, like you
moved like you trained for mall walking championships.

Speaker 5 (09:19):
To get into the roofstop before the bar got crowded.

Speaker 2 (09:23):
Well, I've never seen anybody walk that bout, and I
think you're being dramatic, like nobody was looking.

Speaker 5 (09:30):
The bartender literally asked if we're good because you whispered,
Why did you speak walking easy?

Speaker 4 (09:34):
Hiding something?

Speaker 3 (09:35):
So she really leaned into this st patrick. To be honest,
one lady looked at you.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Like you were about to steal a purse, like she
was clutching her bag like it was a newborn.

Speaker 1 (09:49):
Were you being playful jewel or like, were you being
kind of like playfully passively aggressive.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
I felt like I was like flirting and trying to
make it sort of more normal feeling by just calling
it out because it was so weird. But I wouldn't have.
I would have still done enough. I would have before
this stilled one another second date. Like it's not like
it stuck with me or bothered me that much, but
I guess it bothered you.

Speaker 5 (10:18):
I don't see what you're asking me right now, like
you went around the whole bar. Damn, they're asking them
if I was walking fast. I feel like that's enough
for a person to.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
Say, no your date. We're just leaning.

Speaker 5 (10:30):
So what if I'm walking fast? That's just who I
am as a person, and that's that's something you can accept.
Why would I want to keep talking to a person?

Speaker 2 (10:38):
Well, just in my own defense, I did feel like
I had to make a joke of it and tell
people because.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
They were looking and it was so weird. So I
was kind of like cleaning up after you.

Speaker 5 (10:49):
I don't know, no one was looking at us, no
one cared about what we were doing. We walked into
the bar. We got there before it got busy, that's
why I was walking, like I said, way I walk,
and like that's probably it helped us. We would have
not gotten there, would have been busy, even got a seat.
No one's cared about No one's cared about walking in the.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
Bar, Trust me. I can tell people were talking about.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
It and it was awkward.

Speaker 5 (11:13):
Oh so now you're a minderer. Now you read everyone's
mind in the bar and knew that everyone had a
problem with me walking fast. Well, then I guess you
could read my mind right now?

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Well, Patrick, would you like another day? Would jwel pay
for it?

Speaker 2 (11:25):
No?

Speaker 5 (11:25):
I think I can say that I don't want to
date anyone who thinks of my walking pace as a
moral flaw.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
Yeah, and I don't even know why I wanted a
second date because you're walking in Psycho and.

Speaker 1 (11:38):
So just an auction Psycho.

Speaker 5 (11:43):
Psycho Okay, yeah, psycho, Okay, Jewel, you know what I'll
be the cycle walks of Purpose while you lolly got
your way through life.

Speaker 3 (11:52):
Oh oh yes, it's nineteen hundred and I'm a Lolley Gagger.
I cannot believe I want there's another date with you.

Speaker 1 (12:02):
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