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May 8, 2025 11 mins

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
 
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocates Law dot com.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
Kyle is on the phone today for our first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by Lindsay. So in
a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
him another date. But first, Kyle, how long has it
been since you heard from Lindsay.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about been about ten days, Okay, it's been
a little bit of time. Yeah, so I'm getting a
little nervous about it, but I'm really hoping I can
get some kind of answer because it was great. It
felt like such a great first start, and I really
had like a great feeling about her. I think I

(00:40):
just think, let's bed awesome. I get nervous on some dates,
and I feel like this was very low key, kind
of hangout. I think a lot of people get nervous
on first dates sometimes, so you know, we took it
really just chill, and that was kind of the vibe
we agreed on, and I that's what I prefer for
initial now, when you meet someone and you know, no,

(01:02):
there's no like you don't have to feel it obligated
to do anything or say anything, etc. I just kind
of like th as you come, and it was good.
We we basically we we actually went to some food
trucks and you know, got food and we're just getting
to know each other. And as the afternoon went on,
we actually ended up kind of like stargazing a little

(01:22):
bit in the park because we just we just kept
talking and like the sun was setting and I realized,
I'm like, oh, craft like three hours have gone by.
So it was it was nice. Yeah, yeah, and she
just she just made me feel very what's the word,
very very grounded, I would say. And I just felt
like she's just like someone I could see myself like

(01:44):
spending a lot of time with where I'm like, oh, yeah,
you just you know, a good like partner kind of
in crime kind of thing. So that was awesome. And
I honestly, I'm a little worried that I said something
dumb because I tend to just kind of talk on
and on and on when I get nervous s I
don't know really what to say or do. But the
good thing is we eventually went back to my car

(02:06):
and I was gonna, you know, drive her home. Before
we did. You know, there was a bit of a vibe,
you know, and in a good way. There kind of
was this chemistry and we ended up making out for
a good like five ten minutes, and it was it
was really really nice, you know, it was it was hot,
it was really really fun. But since then I have

(02:27):
not heard from her. I've only sent her like couple messages,
like maybe three messages I think, maybe like a like
a thanks so much, I had such a great time.
And then like a day or two later I sent
her like a hey, how's it going, And then still nothing,
And then the most recent message was like yesterday, So
it's been a little while. But the last ones I
sent her was just like a like a real on

(02:48):
Instagram Okay, but yeah I sent it to her and
still no answer. And if she's not feeling it, that's
that's fine, I guess, but I was. I'd be a
little let down, especially because I don't she doesn't seem
like the kind of person that would just like totally
drop off. Like she's active on Instagram still like spot
we follow each other and.

Speaker 4 (03:07):
So you are seeing her interact and do things socially,
but she hasn't texted ye yeah, she's like.

Speaker 3 (03:12):
Posted on her story, you know. But I'm like, I
get the people will get busy, Like I understand, like
if I if I open up my phone after like
a long day of work and like I have like
twenty text dousand differ different people, It's overwhelming and I
don't want to answer them initially, you know, because it
steels daunting.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
Let's go back to what you said, Kyle, because it
sounds like, you know, you were having a good time.
But what do you think you said that could potentially
be what threw her off?

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Oh my god?

Speaker 2 (03:39):
And did it happened before or after the makeout?

Speaker 3 (03:43):
I mean, I guess I didn't. I think I said anything. Honestly,
I don't think I said anything inappropriate. I just think
that we're like offensive. I just think that, to be honest,
I think I could imagine myself like kind of rambling
on to a point where she's like, all right, this
guy's a little.

Speaker 4 (03:56):
Annoying, you know, So did you let her get any
words in?

Speaker 3 (04:00):
I tried to. I tried to. I know it's not
something I'm great at, but I mean it's not for
any lack of liking her. I really like her. Obviously,
I'm she might have felt a little like steamrolled by
me in conversation.

Speaker 2 (04:16):
Maybe Okay, we'll find out a few steamroller the second
like not in the good way. Come back and then
call her and see if she'll tell us why she's
ghosting you and maybe get you another date. In your
first day.

Speaker 3 (04:29):
Follow up Okay, okay, thanks so much guys.

Speaker 2 (04:32):
Yeah, well, place, I'll come back. Get your first day
follow up, Next.

Speaker 1 (04:36):
First Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at Advocateslaw dot com.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.
Kyle is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lindsey.
So we're about to call her and ask her why
she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Kyle,
why don't you catch us up on your situation?

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Oh geez. I went on a really really great first
date Lindsey, really low key. We discussed food and just
really talked and got to know each other and it
was so easy and nice, and we went stargazing basically,
and I had a great time. We made out for
like five minutes straight. It was awesome. And I have

(05:15):
not heard from her since.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
So I'm a little worried, and you think it might
be because you maybe talked too much steamrolled there.

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Yeah, I think I think it's. The technical term is
diarrhea of the mouth. Just I ramble. So I'm afraid
about that, but I don't know who knows.

Speaker 2 (05:34):
Okay, well, are you ready for us to call her?

Speaker 3 (05:36):
All right? Yeah's all right, let's do out here here
we go.

Speaker 2 (05:50):
Hello, Hi, mansweak to Lindsay. Please, yes speaking, Hey Lindsay,
how are you? My name is Jewblell. I'm calling from
a radio show. It's called the Jewbile Show.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
Hi, Lindsay, whole shows here.

Speaker 2 (05:59):
I'm hi and I'm Victoria. Hi. Have you ever listened
to the show before?

Speaker 5 (06:06):
It's familiar? Yeah, I mean I think off and on.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Okay, sweet, Well, we do a segment on our show
it's called the first Date follow Up. That's where if
you go on a date with somebody and then you
end up ghosting them, that person can email us to
get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.
And we got an email about you from somebody. Oh, okay,
are you ghosting somebody?

Speaker 3 (06:26):
Well? Is this about Kyle?

Speaker 2 (06:29):
It's about Kyle?

Speaker 3 (06:30):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (06:31):
Oh, Kyle told us about your date. He said he
really liked you, but he's confused. He says, it's been
like ten days and you haven't talk to him.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
Well, it was it was a really it was a
really nice date. I mean, Kyle is is a real sweetheart.
Oh my gosh, I can't. I can't believe I'm talking
about this on the radio. The date was was really nice.
Kyle's a really, really sweet guy, he really is.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
So why are you ghosting him?

Speaker 3 (06:56):
Then?

Speaker 5 (06:57):
Well, I mean, it's not about him exactly.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
It just got to be honest.

Speaker 5 (07:04):
It was about the car snacks, like the snacks.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
He has enough car.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
Not calling him back because of car snacks.

Speaker 5 (07:13):
No, No, I mean that sounds bad.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
I know.

Speaker 6 (07:16):
It's just more of like we made out because there
was some chemistry there. And when we were making out,
I kept tasting sour cream.

Speaker 3 (07:26):
And onion chips. Oh, couldn't get past it.

Speaker 5 (07:29):
It was like kissing the chips. It was just it
was a lot.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
It was a lot.

Speaker 4 (07:34):
It is kind of weird though, whever you kiss somebody
and you taste anything, though, so but you didn't think that,
you know, if he had a mint or gum or
like you kind of next time you went to kiss him,
there's like some mouthwash or something like, you can't get
past our cream and onion.

Speaker 6 (07:49):
Well, I mean I said to him at the time,
I said, hey, you know, do you want to I
have some gum in my purse.

Speaker 5 (07:56):
Do you want to have some of it?

Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (08:00):
I know, but I said, and he said yeah, okay,
And he had some and it just didn't really help.
And I could still taste the chips.

Speaker 4 (08:06):
Did he just get chips like or is that a
lingering thing and he just happens to taste like sour
creaman onion or.

Speaker 2 (08:11):
She would have known if you would have just ate
the chips.

Speaker 5 (08:14):
I mean, I guess, I don't know.

Speaker 6 (08:16):
I mean, it's not the worst flavor, but you know,
when you're kissing someone, you don't really want to be
tasting sour cream and onions.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
Like.

Speaker 2 (08:23):
I could think of worse things to taste like, but
it would be distracting because I would be thinking about snacks,
very distracting the whole time I'm kissing. Okay, And that's
the reason you're not calling him back because of his
sour creaman onion breadth.

Speaker 5 (08:35):
Honestly, yeah, that's really the reason why huh.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
Okay, well, thank you for being honest. I have to
let you know now, lindsay that Kyle is actually on
the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
Oh my gosh, okay, Hi Kyle, Hi, Well this is
this is worse than I could have even imagined it.
I'm I don't know if they told you, but I was.
I was really worried that I had just you know,
talked and talked and talking to death and you were,
you know, annoyed with me or just were over the

(09:08):
whole thing. And and I never in my life imagined
that it would have been that my breath was bad.
And I am so absolutely mortified. I am so sorry.

Speaker 2 (09:19):
She didn't say it was bad. She actually said it
was pretty good. But just like you know, you can't
have too many tips like that, then you do start
to get tired of them.

Speaker 7 (09:28):
It's it's it's it's it's my laze, you know, sour
creaman onion that those are like my like go to
I always have like a little like mini bag like
in the car, I you know, when I go on
long drives and stuff, travel to see my parents.

Speaker 3 (09:40):
So it's you know, sometimes I gotta throw some snacks
in the carpet. I'm sorry, I really am. I should
have thought about that, and I don't know what the
hell I was doing.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
But did you eat sour creaman onion chips before the date?

Speaker 3 (09:52):
I did eat those before the date. I also just
generally usually carry a little kind of.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Bag in my pocket, you know, but sour cream and
onion chips more than anybody I've ever heard.

Speaker 4 (10:03):
It's like a binkie.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
Yeah. I mean, look, it's not always sour cream. Sometimes
it's barbecue, sometimes it's ranch. You know, who's who's to say?
But I will say, you know what. I know it's
a little strange. But if you ever, you know, need
of a snack, bunch, sugars, low or anything, I'm your guy.
I got you. He's a literal.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Lindsey. What do you think about that?

Speaker 5 (10:27):
I guess it's is sure. You know, it's nice to
have someone around who always have snacks. I'll give you that.
I'll give you that.

Speaker 3 (10:34):
Listen. I'm totally fine also being told my breath is bad.
You know, it helps me fix it. If my breath
smells like sour cream or barbecue or cool ranch or
you know, any of those. Really we're one of the
other flavors. It doesn't matter. Just tell me and I'll
fix it. I'm okay, you'll being.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Told that, okay, Lindsay, Well, would you like to go
on another date with Kyle? Will pay for it and
you have complete freedom to tell him if he's got
flaming hot cheeto breath?

Speaker 6 (11:00):
Well, I suppose yes, if I have that freedom, and
if you promise to avoid you know, maybe the tower
creaman onion next time.

Speaker 5 (11:08):
I think that'd be nice.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
I just want you to know. I'll be I'll be brushing,
i'll be mouthwashing, I'll miss and I got everything, I
got mentors, I got denteen, I got all the stuff everything,
I'll be ready.

Speaker 5 (11:22):
I think that would be very fine, Kyle. I think
it'd be fun. And you know what, if you are
going to bring a snack, my favorite is goldfish, just
so you know, you.

Speaker 3 (11:30):
Know what you want goldfish. You got goldfish. I'm doing
it all right.

Speaker 2 (11:34):
Congratulations Kyle, you got another date.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Thank you guys so much. Really appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
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