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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Lacey is on the phone today for a first day
follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Matt.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call Matt and
see if I tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Lacey, how long
has it been since you heard from Matt? Hey?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Yeah, honestly, it's been a couple of weeks. Okay, I
don't really understand.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yeah, well, have you tried to get a hold of
him in that time? Like, see, okay I did?
Speaker 4 (00:32):
I did?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Yeah, So, like I texted him a couple of times,
you know, just like a casual like, hey, how's your
week going? You know, nothing like desperate. But yeah, it's
been two weeks, and uh, you know, in dating months
that that feels like engating time. That feels like two months. So,
(00:55):
I mean we had an amazing We had an amazing date,
and like, you know, I've dated guys where the connection
feels kind of flat and forced and stuff, but with him,
like I really I felt an immediate spark, which is
so rare and we were like speaking the same language,
like without even trying. It was we had this like magnetism.
(01:18):
I don't know how else to describe it. And I
would just hate to see that go. It's such a
hard thing to come by, it really is.
Speaker 5 (01:26):
I hate that. But why don't you tell us about
that day? Why don't you tell us about the day?
How did it go?
Speaker 4 (01:31):
I would love to.
Speaker 1 (01:32):
Yeah, So we went to this like really blanky cocktail lounge.
It was I mean it was like velvet couches and
like candlelit. It was very romantic, like upscale, you know.
The bartenders were in like fancy vests and oh my gosh.
And Matt It's just like one of those like annoyingly
handsome guys like who sometimes you know, somehow just like
(01:55):
makes eye contact feel like flirting, you know, like like
it just like pierces your soul. And we had these
like ridiculous drinks that like came in teacup.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Which was like so cute.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
We were just like laughing the all time. He was
like teasing me about being too extra. When I asked
the bartender to like torch my lemon peel longer, you know,
we were we already had this like banter going. You
could really like feel it, and I had this feeling.
I remember thinking like, oh my gosh, I got these
people around us. I think we've been dating for a
(02:30):
really long time.
Speaker 5 (02:31):
Oh you guys just flowed like that.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Yeah, and there.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Was kissing a little more than a little more than kissing.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
But you know, I will I'll spare you the details.
But he's a really.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Really good kisser, which is just all adding to like
why I'm so confused, because it was like one of
the best first dates.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
I've ever had.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Okay, is there anything that you can think of at
all that would be the reason that he would be ghosting.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Maybe because I took a selfie during the date, like
a boat, like a both of us.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Oh yeah, I mean.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
But I don't know, I don't I mean, he laughed,
like but maybe he thought it was like too aggressive
to be, you know, posting about us or you know,
even just taking a photo of us. But maybe he
thinks I'm like, you know, already planning our wedding or
something like. It didn't feel that way, you know, Yeah,
really good selfie.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
By the way, did you post it anywhere?
Speaker 4 (03:29):
No? No, no, I just it was just for like.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
My own memories got you. Okay, I think I think
I was really good. You can be like, hey, baby,
is this is when Day and I met you know?
Speaker 4 (03:38):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 5 (03:40):
Okay, Well we'll see where you figured it out for you.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
Cut, well, play us on come back and then call
him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting
you and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Okay, okay, thank you. All right, we'll get your first
day follow up right after this.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Right in the middle of your first day followup, if
you're just joining us, Lacey is on the phone and
she's getting ghosted by a guy named Matt. So we're
about to call him and see if that's ALUs why
he's ghostinger and maybe get our second date. But before
we do that, Lacy, why don't you catch us up
on your date again real quick?
Speaker 4 (04:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
So, Matt and I went to this really twinky cocktail
lounge and got some drinks together and it was just
like so viby and romantic, and he was making eye
contact the whole time. We were laughing, we were you know,
poking fun at each other. It was there was kissing,
there was a little more than kissing, and I just
have no idea like, what possibly could have caused.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Him to ghost?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
You think it might be because of the selfie that
you guys have.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
I think that's literally the only thing I can think
of about that potentially.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Yeah, warned me out of somebody took a selfie with
me on the first date, something I could.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
See myself doing. But I understand why people might be
It's okay, lazy, I.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Feel you all right? Are you ready for us to
get him a call?
Speaker 4 (04:53):
Yes?
Speaker 5 (04:54):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Hi, may I speak to Matt? Please?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
Hey, Matt? How are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jubile Show.
Speaker 5 (05:15):
What's up?
Speaker 7 (05:15):
Matt?
Speaker 4 (05:15):
I'm Nina.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
Hi, I am Victoria and my name's Jubel.
Speaker 6 (05:19):
Oh wow, I love.
Speaker 5 (05:21):
That reaction every day. Have you ever listened to the
show before?
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I have?
Speaker 1 (05:25):
I have?
Speaker 6 (05:26):
This is awkward and surprising.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
Sweet. Thank you? Well, Matt.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Guess what what? We got an email about you from
somebody that you're ghosting. Isn't that fun?
Speaker 6 (05:39):
Is this about Lacey?
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Yes? Okay, it is about Lacey. So we talked to Lacey.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
She told us about your date, you know, said that
she really liked you a lot of thought things were great,
but cannot figure out why you're ghosting her? Do you
mind telling us?
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Yeah, okay, this is going to sound ridiculou, but I
swear it threw me off. Okay, So halfway through the date,
she licked the rim of her cocktail glass like like
slowly like and while maintaining eye contact, and truth be told,
(06:19):
I panicked, like I was, well, like in my head,
I was like, was that a move or was there
sugar stuck there? Like I didn't know how to handle it.
Speaker 3 (06:28):
Okay, it would be kind of funny for a movement
a change how you how you view it, Like, is
it because it's a move that you were uncomfortable?
Speaker 6 (06:38):
I just didn't know if like if she was messing
with me or if that's just how she drinks. It
was it was like a scene of a movie that
I wasn't prepared for.
Speaker 3 (06:51):
Like she was giving you a signal or something.
Speaker 4 (06:53):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:55):
I don't know. And that's yeah, that I mean, that's
that's like literally why I haven't called it back because
like I was like, I can't read it. I don't
know what this means.
Speaker 5 (07:05):
Like how bad of a lick was it? Right?
Speaker 6 (07:09):
Like I said, it was intense it was aggressive, almost
animal lesk like like.
Speaker 2 (07:14):
Like did she pick the glass up and like lick
it from top to bottom or like all the around?
Speaker 6 (07:21):
I mean it was like around the ram like she
picked it up, but like the whole time, like looking
at me. Yes, yeah, it just threw me off. It
was it was wild, like how.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
Many times does she make it around the rim?
Speaker 6 (07:37):
I didn't even count because it was one of those
things I was like, do I watch this? Is this?
Like I couldn't look away? But I also felt weird
looking at it, you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Yeah, okay, if it's what I'm picturing in my head
right now, I could see how that would be uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Yeah, I also see how I kind of dig it,
you like, staring you down just like.
Speaker 1 (07:57):
This.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Yeah, okay, but that's the reason.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
Yeah, that's I mean, that's it. That's the reason.
Speaker 5 (08:06):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Well, guess what, Matt, I mean, you listen to these,
but I'm not sure if you remember Lacy is on
the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Oh, I guess I should have known.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Hi, Hi Lacy, Hey Matt. Oh sorry, so I heard
the whole thing. You're you vanished over a glass?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Licking.
Speaker 6 (08:30):
Is that yes?
Speaker 4 (08:31):
Is that really?
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (08:33):
Yeah? Correct?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Yes, I'm so sorry one second, Okay, sorry, I was
just taking a sip of water and licking the bottle.
Who yeah, Matt, No, I I was not seducing you.
There was literally cinnamon sugar on the rim, like you said, So,
(08:56):
I'm not going to be.
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Wasteful, you know.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
And and honestly, like even if I even if I
was trying to seduce you, why wouldn't you lean into that?
Like this is kind of crazy that that you're going
to be so like anti flirtation, Like this is a
little weird.
Speaker 6 (09:10):
It was intense and like you locked eyes like you
were issuing a challenge.
Speaker 4 (09:17):
Well maybe I was. Maybe I was issuing a challenge
and maybe you failed.
Speaker 6 (09:22):
Oh I don't fail.
Speaker 4 (09:24):
You don't fail, Okay, prove it.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
I mean you think I'm beautiful. You know, I'm funny,
I'm hilarious, I smell amazing. Like, give me one good
reason that that you shouldn't want another date?
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I'm serious, Matt.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Would you like to go on another day with Lazy?
We'll pay for it.
Speaker 6 (09:42):
Well, here's the thing is is not like being in control?
And do you make that very hard?
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (09:53):
That just sounds scared all around.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Power plase, I'd rather be like a you know, hey, lady,
h lick that glass for me?
Speaker 7 (10:03):
Whoa, lady, you know you better watch out.
Speaker 4 (10:15):
I might lick your glass next time.
Speaker 6 (10:19):
Okay, but only if I give you permission. I'm not
like that all the time. I do like to be
in control of certain things, though.
Speaker 3 (10:30):
You know, guys are so complicated.
Speaker 6 (10:34):
So you know I can be in control if there's
a time for me to be in control, is right?
You know we can do that for you.
Speaker 4 (10:40):
Lady.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
All right, Well, what do you think, lay It sounds
like Matt's down for another day?
Speaker 7 (10:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (10:48):
That is that?
Speaker 5 (10:48):
A yes?
Speaker 1 (10:50):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (10:52):
I didn't think we get at this point.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
But hey, okay, all right, congratulations another day, saying lady.
Speaker 4 (11:01):
Well, I'm all in.
Speaker 6 (11:04):
I'm sorry that the glass looking threw me off before,
but now I'm all in and I'm ready to show you. Oh, Matt, oh,
I love that.
Speaker 4 (11:14):
Hey, where's something that makes women stare at you? So
I can get tellous what I got? Just the thing,
Lady jubile, first dayfall up