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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
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Speaker 2 (00:07):
Mark is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Sasha.
So in a few minutes we'll call her and see
els why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another day.
But first, Mark, how long has it been since you
heard from Sasha.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
It's been about a couple of weeks.
Speaker 4 (00:21):
Now, Okay. Have you been reaching out to her during
that time?
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Yeah, I mean I've called a couple of times, I've
texted and been no reply, And that's why I'm calling you,
guys design and see if we can figure out what's
going on.
Speaker 4 (00:35):
Well, why don't you tell us about how you met
her and then the date and stuff.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Yeah, so we met on Hinge and I just immediately
found her to be so beautiful and classy. I mean
one of her photos she's even wearing pearls.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
And I thought that was We started chatting and she
told me how she.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Always wanted to go to Paris, so I thought, for
a date, we could go to this Parisian cafe and
get coffee and croissants, which I thought was perfect.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
That's cool. Did you wear a beret?
Speaker 1 (01:08):
No, Yeah, that's definitely why. I'm just kidding. That's a
cute idea, though, Yeah, thought I thought so too. I
thought so too.
Speaker 5 (01:17):
So we you know, we had our croissants and our
coffee and we're talking laughing, and you know.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
She shared so much of her life stories with me.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
I just felt like she really wanted me to know her,
which you know, was just so sweet.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
And we were supposed to go in the bike ride,
but then.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
Her roommate reached out that she needed to be taken
care of. So I was okay with that because I
love that she's good to her friends. But after that,
I never really heard from her again.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
So what did she say to you, or like, what
was the interaction like after her roommate called, or like
as you guys were going your separate ways.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Well, you know, we were supposed to go on this
bike ride and she kind of.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Had a dodge out, so I gave her a hug,
and you know, she's had she had a great time,
and that was basically it. I said, you know, i'll
call you later, and when I called, I got no answer.
I texted a couple of times of the course of
the last few days and no.
Speaker 4 (02:14):
Response is her Okay, I hope so not the freak job.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
But you don't think it was one of those things
where someone says, Hey, i'll text you on the sly
and then you call me and then I'll say I
have to go if you're on a day you don't like.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
Do you think that could have been a thing.
Speaker 3 (02:31):
I don't think. I don't think I didn't get that vibe.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
I mean, she was opening up so much to me
about like her life and her family and her friends.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
It just felt like she was she.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
Was having a really great time. I mean, the only
thing I can think of is like, I mean, there's
a bunch of people checking me out in the cafe,
which you know, sometimes I am a little awkward, but
I do kind of look like overal life Superman at times.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
So I was getting a lot of.
Speaker 4 (02:56):
But I always wanted to, Okay, you look like a
real life Superman. What is that? Are you like? Ripped?
Speaker 5 (03:02):
I got this Clark Kent kind of swirl to my hair,
and okay, I've been compared a lot to it, but
my eyes were on her. I don't know, I don't
know if that was anything that she was nervous about.
But yeah, I don't think anything was wrong with the findite.
I just genuinely thought she had to go help her.
Speaker 4 (03:20):
Did you tell her that you look like Superman at
any point, because that also could have been Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
No, no, I.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
Did not lucky you.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
You're on a date with Superman, I know, all right,
and you didn't get kiss or anything right at the
end of the day.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
No, I was gonna, you know, I was gonna try
and go for it, but there's a bunch of people
outside the shop of the Parisian coffee shop, and I
just felt like.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
A warm hug was the right move.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
Okay, all right, well we'll figure it out where you
will play a song, come back, and then call her
and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
and maybe get you another date.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Okay, thank you, I appreciate it.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Plas don't come back, get your first day follow up. Next,
we're just joining us for today's first date follow up.
Mark is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Sasha.
So we're about to call her and see if she'll
tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
another date. But before we do that mark, Why don't
you catch us up on your situation.
Speaker 5 (04:15):
Yeah, well, I met this beautiful girl named Sasha. We
went on hings, went on this great date to Parisian cafe,
had a great time, and now I haven't heard from her, and.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
I want to know why.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Well, and you do think it's because you look like
Superman maybe and you were getting checked out a lot.
Speaker 3 (04:31):
Right, I'm just worried. I'm just worried that she was
aware of that people were looking at me, that's all.
I don't know if that that can.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Be kind of bombering, Like if you were somebody that's
super hot that everybody's staring at you do feel like, oh,
touching me?
Speaker 4 (04:46):
You know? I get that. Well, we're ready for us
to call her.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
Yeah, yes see, here we go.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Hello, Hi, I'm asking to Sasha. Please Sasha.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
How are your name? Is Jubil?
Speaker 2 (05:08):
I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Hi.
Speaker 4 (05:10):
I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. Oh
Hi do you listen to the show ever?
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Sometimes?
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
You guys agreed, this is so crazy.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
You know why we're calling you.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I have a suspicion and I'm very much about it.
That's suspicion being true.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
What do you think it is? What's your suspicion?
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Is it the second date?
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Follow the first date? Follow up?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Yes, you are ghosting somebody you know who knows.
Speaker 6 (05:44):
I have a sneaking suspicion that it's.
Speaker 4 (05:48):
Mark, and you're correct. She hasn't answered all.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Yeah, well, because I don't really ghost that often, but
this was a unique experience.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Really, okay, would you mind telling us why you're ghosting him?
Speaker 6 (06:06):
He was just so gross.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
I'm sorry. That was like the playton the most easiest
way to say it.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
He just he was burping the throughout the entire date,
and like the first time was just kind of because
it was loud and he didn't say excuse me or
anything like that, but then it just kind of just
kept happening, and so like I felt like I had
to keep talking so that I didn't have to engage
(06:33):
with him, and.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
It was it was just so.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Uncomfortable, just thoroughly grossed out.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Was it just really loud or was it kind of
under his breath? I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
The thing.
Speaker 6 (06:45):
I get that burping is natural, but there are ways
that you can kind of minimize the damage, Like you
can kind of put it under your breath, you can
cover your mouth, you can say excuse me.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
But like, since none of that was happening.
Speaker 6 (06:59):
But the burping and itself kept happening over and over,
it just felt like super disrespectful and just I was
so turned off and grossed out.
Speaker 4 (07:09):
Really I mean that, I mean I wouldn't love that either.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Like in the place you were at, he was just
burping loudly, yes, constantly.
Speaker 6 (07:17):
It was just it was so frequent and so loud,
like it almost got to the point where, you know,
like a Homer Simpson when.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
He belches, like it was kind of ripple. Like that's
what I felt like.
Speaker 6 (07:29):
Maybe it wasn't that bad, but like that's what kind
of I started to feel like was happening.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Like I was just, oh, I can't even okay, Well
you didn't tell us that.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
No, it sounded like a very pleasant day.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah, maybe you forgot, or maybe you haven't heard enough
first day follow ups to know that he's actually on
the phone listening and wants to.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
Mark, Oh, yeah, I saw.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Am Sorry, I don't I honestly don't know what you're
talking about.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
I mean, I worked a couple of times because I've
been dealing with some like speculated acid reflex. Oh I'm
sorry to hear that. Then why didn't we go to coffee? Like?
That's not going to help the situation any you know, well,
because I wanted to take you to a Parisian cafe.
I mean, is the real reason that because I look
(08:23):
like Superman?
Speaker 4 (08:24):
What?
Speaker 5 (08:31):
Sorry?
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Sorry, that's not nice. I'm sorry. No, No, that's not
the reason.
Speaker 6 (08:38):
Yes, you are an objectively attractive man.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
But if you're.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Wondering about the why people were looking at you, it
was because you were burping so much that people were
concerned that you were going to be sick.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
Are you sure that people weren't just looking at me
because of how I look?
Speaker 6 (09:01):
Oh? No, I'm sorry. I like it was not attractive.
They were not looking at you because you were attractive.
They were looking at you because they were disgusted.
Speaker 3 (09:13):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
I can't even help but ask, like, Burt, are you okay?
Because to be burping that much, I don't know if
that's normal.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Yeah, I've been on a different medication to try and
deal with my reflux. It's it's just been a struggle
bus But I'm doing much better.
Speaker 3 (09:28):
Thanks.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
You know, like Sasha, you say you want to go
to France, but you really probably shouldn't go to France
because in other countries it's actually considered polite to burp.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
Is it's a compliment of the show.
Speaker 6 (09:44):
Well, even if that's true here in the stage, I
like it when if someone burbs that they at least
they excuse me or cover their mouth or something along
those lines. Maybe I'm reaching for the stars here, but
that is something that I am looking for.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Respect you, they excuse me. I usually say excuse me,
but I just I was. You were telling these beautiful stories.
I didn't want to interrupt you. I was trying to
respect you.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Sasha, would you like to go on another date with Mark?
Will pay for it?
Speaker 5 (10:15):
You know what, I didn't know that she was still
closed minded, So I honestly don't know that.
Speaker 3 (10:22):
This is going to work out. Closed minded? What do
you What do you mean? I mean, if you can't.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
Just be present and accept the person for how they are,
I mean, burping happens.
Speaker 6 (10:38):
Yeah, I get that, it's just how you handle it that,
you know, really changes things, and how you handle it
was just not it for me.
Speaker 5 (10:49):
That's fine, I mean, if somebody don't accept me and
accept me for my purse.
Speaker 2 (10:53):
Too, well, sorry no second date mark, but it sounds
like you're fine with that.
Speaker 5 (11:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
I think it's for the best. Juble's first date follow
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