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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury
Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Ruby is on the phone today for a first day
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jordan's.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
So in a few minutes we'll call.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghostinger
and maybe get her another date. But first, Ruby, how
long has it been since you heard from Jordan?
Speaker 4 (00:20):
Hi, it's been nine days, okay.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Oh, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
How many times have you tried to reach out to him?
Speaker 5 (00:26):
So I did a double text and I sent one
Instagram reel? Okay, yeah, that last text was two days ago.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
So you didn't make the reel.
Speaker 4 (00:37):
I just sent like a.
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Top gun like real, like a jet reel. So I said, like, oh,
still feeling the need for speed?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
So yeah, well, I'm sure that's an inside joke somewhere.
So questions, Well, I don't can tell us about.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Your date, Ruby, Yeah, it was an incredible date.
Speaker 4 (00:56):
We went to an aviation museum.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Uh oh and top gun fan so oh okay.
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Yeah, it was my idea.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
And he even did that quote he said, like I
feel the need for speed in front of me with
the jets and it felt perfect.
Speaker 3 (01:12):
It's like the fantasy.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Yeah, it was like kind of my dream day, honestly.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
Like we grabbed burgers after two and then we talked
about our childhoods for like two hours maybe, and he
told me about how he built model planes with his grandpa.
I guess I'm confused why, Like, I don't know why
he's not talking like texting me. But we also kissed
in the parking lot and he really kissed me.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Okay, yeah, so it was like a good kiss. You
don't know why he's ghosting.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
Yes, Like why would you kiss me and start to
ghost me? It doesn't make sense to me.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Is there anything you can think of that would be
something that happened on the date that was awkward?
Speaker 4 (02:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Maybe I like talked about like my hedgehog that passed
away during COVID.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
I'm so sorry.
Speaker 5 (02:09):
I showed him a picture, right, it's the earn of
my hedgehog. She's a little tiny pick, like a tiny
and pink. Or maybe I asked him any questions about
his grandpa.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:18):
I was just curious, Like I didn't mean to make
a therapy or anything.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
What why do you think the hedgehog would be a
reason you wouldn't call you back.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
I just felt pretty emotional when I showed it to him,
like I started to cry, because it really was a
good she was really a good emotional support for me, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
Maybe this was a hymn thing.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
You know how some people get really overwhelmed by other
people's emotions and if you're somebody that can't really like
carry your emotions, like well or.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
You it's too much.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I don't know, like maybe he really liked you, but
then was like I don't know how to express myself.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
I hope he's like in an act, like he got
to an accident and he's in the hospital.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
You know, like.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
He's doing okay, he just had a really good reason.
I get where you're going.
Speaker 6 (03:04):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
All right, Ruby, Well, we'll play a song come back,
and then call him and see if he'll tell us
why he's ghosting you and maybe get you a second.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Date if you still want one.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
Okay, yes, all right, we'll get your first date follow
up next. Right in the middle of your first date
follow up and if you're just joining us, Ruby is
on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Jordan So
we're about to call Jordan and see if he'll tell
us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a second date.
But before we do that, Ruby, why don't you break
(03:35):
down your situation again for us real quick?
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Hi? Yeah, So I went on an amazing date and
it's been nine days since he hasn't texted me back.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
And we went to an aviation museum. So we had
a great time.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
He kissed me like really hard, and oh yeah, I
think I overshared about bubbles, my hedgehogs who passed away.
And yeah, maybe I scared him by having like big emotions.
Speaker 4 (04:02):
I'm not sure. I think he like.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
Might be in the hospital or an action, because I
honestly he really led me on.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Okay, well I hope not. Are you ready for us
to call him?
Speaker 4 (04:13):
No, but I guess we have to do it all right?
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jordan.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
Please, uh speaking?
Speaker 3 (04:33):
Hey Jordan, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called The Jewbell Show. Hi Jordan, I'mina. Hi, I'm
Victoria and my name is Jewbell.
Speaker 4 (04:41):
What is how many people? What is this party?
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Yeah, there's three people on the phone. It's a radio
show called the Jewel Show. Have you ever listened to us?
Speaker 6 (04:51):
I think I have. Actually, I just don't know why
you're calling me now.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
Well, we're calling you because we do a segment on
the show called the First Date follow Up. And what
that is is if you go on a date with
somebody and then end up ghosting them, that person can
email us to get you on the phone and ask
why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Oh no, okay, it's Ruby, isn't it.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yes, it is Ruby. Congratulations. Do you mind telling us
why you're a ghostinger?
Speaker 6 (05:22):
I don't know. It just it's we had one nice
date that.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
It got a little weird what happened.
Speaker 6 (05:28):
The date was awesome actually, but Ruby's awesome. She's smart, funny,
definitely interesting. But then she she told me about her
dead hedgehog within twenty minutes of meeting me and cried
like real tears.
Speaker 2 (05:46):
Right, Yeah, we talked to her about your day. She
did tell us that par she thought that might be
one of the reasons.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
We found that kind of hard to believe because it
just feels a little bit, you know, harsh.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
Well, yeah, I mean I didn't want it to be
a big thing, but you can made a big thing
like I mean, she really cried.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Did you comfort her?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
I tried, but it was just a little overwhelming for me.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
So we finished out the date and that this seemed
like enough for me. It is a sign that might
not be the best to come.
Speaker 3 (06:21):
The hedgehog thing, that's it.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Yeah, well, you know what, it's not even just that.
Speaker 6 (06:27):
She she also at one point showed me this this
little picture on her key chain of an urn for
the hedgehog.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
It was really a lot but the hedgehog.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
Okay, so there's a lot of hedgehog.
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Memorial for hedgehog. It was a lot of hedgehog, a
lot of tears, a lot of hedhog.
Speaker 2 (06:48):
All right, well, thank you for telling us why you're
a ghostinger. Now, Jordan, I let you know that Ruby
is on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4 (06:58):
Uh yeah, HydroD In, it's Ruby. How are you are you? Ruby?
You've been ghosting me, haven't you? Yeah?
Speaker 6 (07:10):
I mean you've been listening in so I guess you
just heard that.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Wow, you are a jerk, and you're ghosting me because
of bubbles. You seem to have like run away.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
From commitment or any like issues that require guests.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
It seems yeah, it's like you never had a pet,
or you've never felt deep emotion for something for anybody.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Okay, I mean this, hold on, this is a lot.
Speaker 6 (07:37):
This is what I mean. This is a lot. This
was the first day and it's not even because of Bubbles.
It's because you told me about Bubbles being dead within
twenty minutes of meeting me, and then you cried about
it for another twenty minutes, and it's like you wanted
me to cry too.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
It's just I mean, come on, it's it's a lot
on date one. So okay, I'm so sorry for having
a heart. I guess we should have talked about something
more superficial, like crypto or like sports injuries. I guess
I really thought you were someone else, but like it
seems like you're showing me that you really are just
like shallow.
Speaker 6 (08:13):
I mean, you kind of should be a little lighter.
Speaker 4 (08:17):
I'm the first meet.
Speaker 5 (08:19):
I mean, we're the point of dating is like what marriage? Right,
So like we're supposed to jump in, dive in pretty deep, not.
Speaker 6 (08:26):
In twenty minutes of meeting someone, and then that me think, well,
how much deeper is it going to go?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
Crying about it.
Speaker 5 (08:34):
You're counting the time when you meet someone on a date, like, oh,
there's a time where twenty minutes that's when she cried,
Oh yeah, bye way.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Why did you kiss me after? Why did you leave
me on like that? Huh?
Speaker 6 (08:46):
I mean, I guess I just kind of felt bad.
It's I mean, you've been like mourning this.
Speaker 5 (08:51):
Hedgehog for years and oh, oh my god, you are
my first kid. Whoa, Yeah, that was my first kiss, Jordan. Oh,
I like you ruined my dream of like my first
kiss that was supposed to be with my my so
many or something, but you did it because of my
(09:11):
pet that guy.
Speaker 6 (09:14):
So I didn't know that. I mean I would have
guessed the first kiss would have been aheadhog.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Oh, I just can't believe that.
Speaker 7 (09:24):
Oh it's it's okay, it's all. We all go through things.
It gets better, it'll be You'll be fine.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
I didn't know it was your first kiss, and I
am sorry I ruined that moment for you.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
You just don't ever do that to a girl again.
Speaker 3 (09:45):
Ruby.
Speaker 1 (09:46):
Thinking about it like this, how many people actually end
up with the person that they kiss for the first time,
like their very first kiss, Like, who's with that person?
Speaker 4 (09:53):
I just wanted mine to be special.
Speaker 5 (09:55):
I was been waiting for years for this moment, you know,
like I'm waiting.
Speaker 6 (10:00):
Hold on, wait a minute. I thought that you've had
boyfriends before.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Yeah, well I may have cuddled with them, but I've
never kissed them. Well, we talked a little about this.
I thought it was more than just cuddling. I sucked
with six people, but I've never kissed them.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Oh oh oh why not?
Speaker 5 (10:20):
Because I was trying to save it for my soulmates
and Jordan kissed me. So now I really have to
rethink my life is honestly.
Speaker 6 (10:31):
Yeah, I mean maybe you should have started with the
kiss and then save the other stuff for the.
Speaker 3 (10:37):
Soulmate way to do it.
Speaker 5 (10:39):
Yeah, well not your opinion, but you really ruined my kiss,
so off Jordan's Oh you will first da