April 30, 2025 • 9 mins
Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bria is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Bria, how long
has the Vince had you heard from Jason?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's then at least god like a week, but he
hasn't responded to me. Okay, yeah, I reached out a
couple of days ago and yeah nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
What did you say to him when you reached out?
Speaker 5 (00:36):
I just was like, hey, love your date when I
go out.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
In oh and then nothing?
Speaker 5 (00:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yeah, So how was the date?
Speaker 6 (00:45):
I went really well, you know, before the date, we
talked to her a while on the apps, and I
don't know, it's just kind of like real conversations, really
viby stuff, not just like surface level. You know.
Speaker 7 (01:02):
We talked about how much I love cooking, and he
seemed just like you was into that, and so then
he came over.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
For dinner so I could make him dinner.
Speaker 7 (01:12):
And I know, I know it was the first day
that was at my place, which was super scary and risky, but.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
He came over, okay, bold, I like that.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Yeah, but I think I'm good at reading people, so
I think it's.
Speaker 8 (01:26):
Fine, you know, Okay, And so I made him a
staffron chicken herb rice and a cucumber yogurt salad, and yeah,
he ate everything and poured a lot more wine, getting
like super romantic.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
And then we went to the couch with the line
and I don't know, I was trying to figure out
how to get to the next step, you know, And
I remember this guy friend that I had mentioned that.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
If you want to tease a man, you just blow
in the back his neck.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
So I did.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Then you jumped up and freaked out, like I tagted him.
Speaker 9 (02:06):
Yeah, yeah it might It might shock me too.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
I was just gonna say, Jubilee, is that a turn on?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
If you just we were like I was eating and
you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of
blew on the back of my neck and probably I
probably jump.
Speaker 7 (02:20):
Yeah, we weren't eating anymore, we but the wine did
get everywhere.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Were you guys like making out before you did it?
Or you just kind of just lean over and he
blew on his neck.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
I did kind of just lean over and blow.
Speaker 9 (02:35):
Okay, yeah, that was a shock.
Speaker 10 (02:37):
It's like you got to give people grace though, right
like right when you start to talk to somebody new,
you got to feel him out, So a little neck blow.
Hopefully we wouldn't do it, but it is a little
u surprised.
Speaker 7 (02:48):
I said sorry, and I explained, like this is something
the friend told me to do, and he laughed it off,
but then immediately said he had to go.
Speaker 9 (02:56):
Oh, like I don't know.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
I thought we had kished, and he asked me a
lot of questions, which like people don't do, you know.
He asked me about my childhood, my favorite books, and
like I cannot remember the last time a man asked
me a question.
Speaker 9 (03:11):
Well that's good.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
On his way out, did you guys kiss again to
say goodbye or was he just like, oh, yeah, I
gotta go and then he was just gone.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
He was just like, yeah, I gotta go, and then
he was gone. I'm like, it sucks. It sucks because
I don't just bring anyone to my.
Speaker 7 (03:27):
Space and I can't really face with him, and like,
I don't know, I know that that was a weird
choice didn't feel like a deal breaker, you know.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yeah, it was one moment out of the whole evening.
Speaker 9 (03:37):
Right, Well, let's see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get to a second date.
Speaker 9 (03:45):
Okay, okay, great, all right, we'll get your first day.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Follow up, next first date follow up powered by the
Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
and if you're just joining us at Bria is on
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
So we're about to call him and see if he'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a
second date. But Bria, before we do that, why don't
you recap your date for us again real quick.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
We had a great time. He came to my place.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided
to blow on his neck afterwards get things going.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And he did not.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Like that any Think maybe it was the neck blowing
that kind of creeked him out, and that's why.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
He's ghosting you gotta be gotta be.
Speaker 9 (04:30):
Well, are you ready to go? Call him right now?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (04:34):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jason.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Please, Hey Jay, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jebil Show.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Hi Jason. I'm Nina.
Speaker 9 (05:04):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel. How are you?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
WHOA?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Okay?
Speaker 10 (05:08):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (05:08):
How do you feeling good? Have you listened to the
show before?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (05:14):
I think I know what this is about.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Is it about Bria?
Speaker 9 (05:19):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It is the first day follow up? Yep, you went
out with Bria and you're Ghostinger. So she emailed us
to see if you'll tell us why you're Ghostinger? Do
you mind talking about it?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
Okay? Wow?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
All right? Well what the.
Speaker 11 (05:34):
Dinner was incredible but easily top five meals I've ever had.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Wow, there's no doubt. But there was no dessert, she said.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
She tried to, you know, have a little like that, like.
Speaker 11 (05:52):
So my grandma raised me and she always said, real
woman sends her man off to something sweet. And that
night I kept waiting maybe it was like chilling in
the fridge or like you're.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Talking about food.
Speaker 9 (06:04):
Oh yeah, you're not. You actually mean dessert?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (06:08):
Literally, like desert, and it's not just like you know, dessert.
It's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know,
like she nailed.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
The sabery, but there was no sweet.
Speaker 11 (06:19):
It wasn't balanced, and I just kept like waiting for
the meal to end, and it like never did.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Okay, that's why your ghostinger is because the food was good,
but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Yeah, it was just weird.
Speaker 11 (06:38):
Like I was just like I didn't want to ask,
but I just kept waiting, and it was just like
my palette was all confused, and it was like, do.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
You have dessert every night? Is that something that you do?
Speaker 11 (06:51):
I mean not if I'm just like you know, eating
on the go, but like for a meal, you.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Know, part of like a meal. It's like it's not polite.
Speaker 11 (07:01):
It's not polite to like not serve the dilrt you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Okay, all right, well, thank you for being honest with us.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah, no, that's how I felt about it.
Speaker 9 (07:11):
And Jason Bria is on the phone listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Okay, you've got to be kidding me. You got to
be kidding me.
Speaker 7 (07:18):
Not polite you know what, you know, what else is
not plite ghosting someone?
Speaker 11 (07:24):
Oh my god, are you serious right now?
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Also, what is this nineteen fifty two?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm
pie to tuck you in at night.
Speaker 11 (07:34):
Like it's not about You've got to be kidding about
like thoughtfulness, you know, like I don't know. I mean,
it's not nineteen fifty two, but my grandma who had
to take care of people.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
Oh okay, oh oh good good.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
So it's done to me like you don't want a girlfriend,
you want a grandma with benefits.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Right, Oh, that just sounds weird.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
I don't like that.
Speaker 11 (07:58):
Try to seduce me with a ghost breathe to the
jugular like, that's not care, that's confusion.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (08:06):
I was trying to be something sweet and you should
have been an adult and said something.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
You go to me over a cake. It's not the cake.
Speaker 11 (08:15):
It's just like my grandma's principals, you know, Like that's like, yeah,
it's the fact you don't get the cake, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
I'm I'm so sorry. I'm not your grandma. I'm sorry
I'm not your grandma. I am too.
Speaker 11 (08:29):
Honestly, I really thought you were cool. Oh, but I'm
not getting grandma vibes. It's just like, you know, it's
too bad.
Speaker 10 (08:37):
You're looking for a grandma. You're looking for grandma characteristics
in your woman.
Speaker 11 (08:44):
I mean in a certain way, I guess. Yeah, you
know you got to tick that box as well.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
You know this is ridiculous And yeah, I'm sure you
can go to.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
A nursing room bingo night to sign the woman in.
Speaker 9 (09:01):
Jason, would you like a second date with Bria? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 11 (09:05):
I didn't in the past. Notice are like no direction.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
Great, you and your grandma can go baked cookies and
have asleep over together.
Speaker 11 (09:15):
Then, how dare you? My grandma's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Seriously, how dare you?
Speaker 4 (09:24):
She must be so proud.
Speaker 11 (09:27):
She's an amazing woman.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
She's beautiful and honestly, she bed you didn't get a.
Speaker 11 (09:32):
Chance to meet her, because you get a learned a
lot from her.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Bria You Will's first date follow up
First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys
online at advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Bria is on the phone today for a first date
follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Jason.
So in a few minutes, we're gonna call him and
see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and
maybe get her another date. But first, Bria, how long
has the Vince had you heard from Jason?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
It's then at least god like a week, but he
hasn't responded to me. Okay, yeah, I reached out a
couple of days ago and yeah nothing.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
What did you say to him when you reached out?
Speaker 5 (00:36):
I just was like, hey, love your date when I
go out.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
In oh and then nothing?
Speaker 5 (00:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:43):
Yeah, So how was the date?
Speaker 6 (00:45):
I went really well, you know, before the date, we
talked to her a while on the apps, and I
don't know, it's just kind of like real conversations, really
viby stuff, not just like surface level. You know.
Speaker 7 (01:02):
We talked about how much I love cooking, and he
seemed just like you was into that, and so then
he came over.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
For dinner so I could make him dinner.
Speaker 7 (01:12):
And I know, I know it was the first day
that was at my place, which was super scary and risky, but.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
He came over, okay, bold, I like that.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Yeah, but I think I'm good at reading people, so
I think it's.
Speaker 8 (01:26):
Fine, you know, Okay, And so I made him a
staffron chicken herb rice and a cucumber yogurt salad, and yeah,
he ate everything and poured a lot more wine, getting
like super romantic.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
And then we went to the couch with the line
and I don't know, I was trying to figure out
how to get to the next step, you know, And
I remember this guy friend that I had mentioned that.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
If you want to tease a man, you just blow
in the back his neck.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
So I did.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
Then you jumped up and freaked out, like I tagted him.
Speaker 9 (02:06):
Yeah, yeah it might It might shock me too.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
I was just gonna say, Jubilee, is that a turn on?
Speaker 2 (02:13):
If you just we were like I was eating and
you just randomly walked up behind me and kind of
blew on the back of my neck and probably I
probably jump.
Speaker 7 (02:20):
Yeah, we weren't eating anymore, we but the wine did
get everywhere.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Were you guys like making out before you did it?
Or you just kind of just lean over and he
blew on his neck.
Speaker 5 (02:33):
I did kind of just lean over and blow.
Speaker 9 (02:35):
Okay, yeah, that was a shock.
Speaker 10 (02:37):
It's like you got to give people grace though, right
like right when you start to talk to somebody new,
you got to feel him out, So a little neck blow.
Hopefully we wouldn't do it, but it is a little
u surprised.
Speaker 7 (02:48):
I said sorry, and I explained, like this is something
the friend told me to do, and he laughed it off,
but then immediately said he had to go.
Speaker 9 (02:56):
Oh, like I don't know.
Speaker 7 (02:59):
I thought we had kished, and he asked me a
lot of questions, which like people don't do, you know.
He asked me about my childhood, my favorite books, and
like I cannot remember the last time a man asked
me a question.
Speaker 9 (03:11):
Well that's good.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
On his way out, did you guys kiss again to
say goodbye or was he just like, oh, yeah, I
gotta go and then he was just gone.
Speaker 5 (03:19):
He was just like, yeah, I gotta go, and then
he was gone. I'm like, it sucks. It sucks because
I don't just bring anyone to my.
Speaker 7 (03:27):
Space and I can't really face with him, and like,
I don't know, I know that that was a weird
choice didn't feel like a deal breaker, you know.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yeah, it was one moment out of the whole evening.
Speaker 9 (03:37):
Right, Well, let's see if we can figure it out
for you.
Speaker 2 (03:40):
We'll play a song come back, and then call him
and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you
and maybe get to a second date.
Speaker 9 (03:45):
Okay, okay, great, all right, we'll get your first day.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Follow up, next first date follow up powered by the
Advocates Injury Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.
Speaker 2 (03:56):
Right in the middle of your first day follow up
and if you're just joining us at Bria is on
the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jason.
So we're about to call him and see if he'll
tell us why he's ghostinger and maybe get her a
second date. But Bria, before we do that, why don't
you recap your date for us again real quick.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
We had a great time. He came to my place.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
I made him a nice dinner, and I just decided
to blow on his neck afterwards get things going.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
And he did not.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
Like that any Think maybe it was the neck blowing
that kind of creeked him out, and that's why.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
He's ghosting you gotta be gotta be.
Speaker 9 (04:30):
Well, are you ready to go? Call him right now?
Speaker 5 (04:33):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (04:34):
Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi, man, speak to Jason.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Please, Hey Jay, how are you? This is a radio show.
It's called the Jebil Show.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Hi Jason. I'm Nina.
Speaker 9 (05:04):
Hi, I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel. How are you?
Speaker 5 (05:07):
WHOA?
Speaker 6 (05:08):
Okay?
Speaker 10 (05:08):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (05:08):
How do you feeling good? Have you listened to the
show before?
Speaker 5 (05:13):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (05:14):
I think I know what this is about.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
Is it about Bria?
Speaker 9 (05:19):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
It is the first day follow up? Yep, you went
out with Bria and you're Ghostinger. So she emailed us
to see if you'll tell us why you're Ghostinger? Do
you mind talking about it?
Speaker 6 (05:31):
Okay? Wow?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
All right? Well what the.
Speaker 11 (05:34):
Dinner was incredible but easily top five meals I've ever had.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Wow, there's no doubt. But there was no dessert, she said.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
She tried to, you know, have a little like that, like.
Speaker 11 (05:52):
So my grandma raised me and she always said, real
woman sends her man off to something sweet. And that
night I kept waiting maybe it was like chilling in
the fridge or like you're.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Talking about food.
Speaker 9 (06:04):
Oh yeah, you're not. You actually mean dessert?
Speaker 6 (06:07):
Yeah?
Speaker 11 (06:08):
Literally, like desert, and it's not just like you know, dessert.
It's like this principle of like completing the meal, you know,
like she nailed.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
The sabery, but there was no sweet.
Speaker 11 (06:19):
It wasn't balanced, and I just kept like waiting for
the meal to end, and it like never did.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Okay, that's why your ghostinger is because the food was good,
but it did not include a sweet treat at the end.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Yeah, it was just weird.
Speaker 11 (06:38):
Like I was just like I didn't want to ask,
but I just kept waiting, and it was just like
my palette was all confused, and it was like, do.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
You have dessert every night? Is that something that you do?
Speaker 11 (06:51):
I mean not if I'm just like you know, eating
on the go, but like for a meal, you.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
Know, part of like a meal. It's like it's not polite.
Speaker 11 (07:01):
It's not polite to like not serve the dilrt you
know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Okay, all right, well, thank you for being honest with us.
Speaker 5 (07:08):
Yeah, no, that's how I felt about it.
Speaker 9 (07:11):
And Jason Bria is on the phone listening and wants
to talk to you.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
Okay, you've got to be kidding me. You got to
be kidding me.
Speaker 7 (07:18):
Not polite you know what, you know, what else is
not plite ghosting someone?
Speaker 11 (07:24):
Oh my god, are you serious right now?
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Also, what is this nineteen fifty two?
Speaker 3 (07:29):
I'm so sorry that I didn't bring out a warm
pie to tuck you in at night.
Speaker 11 (07:34):
Like it's not about You've got to be kidding about
like thoughtfulness, you know, like I don't know. I mean,
it's not nineteen fifty two, but my grandma who had
to take care of people.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
Oh okay, oh oh good good.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
So it's done to me like you don't want a girlfriend,
you want a grandma with benefits.
Speaker 4 (07:52):
Right, Oh, that just sounds weird.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
I don't like that.
Speaker 11 (07:58):
Try to seduce me with a ghost breathe to the
jugular like, that's not care, that's confusion.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (08:06):
I was trying to be something sweet and you should
have been an adult and said something.
Speaker 5 (08:11):
You go to me over a cake. It's not the cake.
Speaker 11 (08:15):
It's just like my grandma's principals, you know, Like that's like, yeah,
it's the fact you don't get the cake, you know.
Speaker 5 (08:23):
I'm I'm so sorry. I'm not your grandma. I'm sorry
I'm not your grandma. I am too.
Speaker 11 (08:29):
Honestly, I really thought you were cool. Oh, but I'm
not getting grandma vibes. It's just like, you know, it's
too bad.
Speaker 10 (08:37):
You're looking for a grandma. You're looking for grandma characteristics
in your woman.
Speaker 11 (08:44):
I mean in a certain way, I guess. Yeah, you
know you got to tick that box as well.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
You know this is ridiculous And yeah, I'm sure you
can go to.
Speaker 7 (08:55):
A nursing room bingo night to sign the woman in.
Speaker 9 (09:01):
Jason, would you like a second date with Bria? We'll
pay for it.
Speaker 11 (09:05):
I didn't in the past. Notice are like no direction.
Speaker 7 (09:11):
Great, you and your grandma can go baked cookies and
have asleep over together.
Speaker 11 (09:15):
Then, how dare you? My grandma's a beautiful woman.
Speaker 5 (09:20):
Seriously, how dare you?
Speaker 4 (09:24):
She must be so proud.
Speaker 11 (09:27):
She's an amazing woman.
Speaker 5 (09:28):
She's beautiful and honestly, she bed you didn't get a.
Speaker 11 (09:32):
Chance to meet her, because you get a learned a
lot from her.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Bria You Will's first date follow up
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