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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Alicia is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
She's been married to her husband Edward for three years,
but now she thinks something might be going on, so
we'll see if we can.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Help her out.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Sorry about that, Alicia, what's going on? Why do you
think that your husband Edward's cheating?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Hi, Well, I mean it's kind of a it's kind
of a bit of a story.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Well, we work for the same company, but we work
in at different departments, so we've never really had to
interact that much. I have a different boss in my
department and my husband, Edward is the boss in his department,
And you know, we're both very professional at work, and
we're very by the book. So when we come home,
(00:46):
we don't really talk very much about work, and it's
been good for us in the relationship, but sometimes it
can be a little a little boring. But you know,
we just don't really talk about our days, I guess
when we get home until about until about a month ago,
(01:07):
some things have just gotten sort of rocky in.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
The past month, and my husband and I.
Speaker 5 (01:14):
Have been going to therapy.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Trying to work with a therapist and then trying to
talk things. But it doesn't really feel like things are
getting better. It just feels like everything is sort of
plateaued and they've not gotten worse. And I just feel
like Edward, I don't know, he seems he's very detached.
(01:37):
He feels he seems like he's bored, like he just
wants to not come home or not really like talk
to me. And I feel like I've tried everything I
could think of to like spice things up and keep
him interested.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Are you bored? No, you know, I mean I've been we've.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Been married for a while while, you know, well not
a while.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
But three years. So it's a long time to be married.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
And you know, it's comfortable now, So I'm not really bored.
Speaker 4 (02:09):
But I mean there are.
Speaker 3 (02:11):
Times when things have gotten sort of complacent, but that
I think that's just life.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Sure, do you think that he's actually cheating on you
or do you think that because he's bored that he might.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
Well, here's the thing is we you know, we both
take separate cars to work, even though we're going the
same place, but we both get home.
Speaker 5 (02:30):
He usually gets home a little later. But now he's
been getting home, like a few hours later than he
usually does.
Speaker 3 (02:38):
And he's also been getting text from his secretary Lizzy
right before we go to bed at ten.
Speaker 5 (02:45):
Eleven, which is pretty late for us.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
And I've asked him, like, why does your secretary keep
texting you?
Speaker 5 (02:52):
What does she need to talk to you about? Like
eleven o'clock at night? And he says, oh, it's just work,
and he's right.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
You know, I'll say, just stop talk, like, stop.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Being like that, like you're being crazy right now.
Speaker 1 (03:04):
I don't like that.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Yeah, I mean it's very like he.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Just has like these prepared answers to kind of shoot
me down whenever I ask him anything about Lizzy to
where I don't feel.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
Comfortable talking about it.
Speaker 3 (03:17):
But I don't think that's appropriate or that she probably
needs to text him that late.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Yeah, yeah, no, I think you're I think you're right.
Does Lizzie know you?
Speaker 5 (03:25):
Yeah, she knows me.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (03:27):
I mean, coworkers don't need to be texting that late
unless you're working on a special project and it's like
a one time thing, but that's like not an everyday thing. Yeah,
I mean, could he be working on a special project.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
I don't think so, But it's I don't think so.
Speaker 4 (03:39):
I think work is just normal as it's always been.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
I don't think they have anything special going on right now.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
But it's also just like the way he responds in
his tone whenever I ask him about it, he gets
very defensive.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Yeah, not a good defensive and this is usually not
a good sign when it comes to that.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Well, we'll see if we can help you out.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
You already told us what grocery store you guys are
rewards card members at, So we'll call pretend to be
from the grocery store and say that every single month,
we choose one lucky rewards member who gets free flowers
delivered to anybody that they want, and we'll see if
he sends us to here or somebody else.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Okay, okay, thank you, play a song.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Come back and get your to catch teeter next right
in the middle of you to catch a teter if
you're just joining us. Alicia is on the phone and
she thinks that her husband of three years, Edward, might
be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend
to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards
member at, and tell him that every single month, we
choose one Lucky Rewards member who gets free flowers delivered
from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends
those to his wife, Alicia or to somebody else. But first, Alicia,
(04:36):
why don't you refresh our memory of your situation?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
My husband and I.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
Have been having problems lately, has been going to therapy and.
Speaker 5 (04:47):
Thanks, it's gotten worse that they haven't really gotten better.
And lately he hasn't.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Been coming home from work right away, and he's been
getting checks from his secretary pretty late at night and
won't tell me what they're about, and gets pretty defensive
when I ask him, Oh, just wondering what's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, me too, see if we can find out for you.
Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 3 (05:11):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (05:12):
Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
Hello, Hi, this is corrible calling from SO. I was
looking for a Rewards Card member named Edward.
Speaker 1 (05:32):
Yes speaking Hi Edward.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
I'm actually calling to say congrats here this month's big winner.
Speaker 5 (05:39):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Yeah, I must be Uh must be my lucky day.
I win the flowers.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Every single month, we choose one Lucky Rewards Card member
at random to say thank you very much for being
a customer and chopping with us. You've won thirty six
long stim red roses, a box of candy or chocolate,
and a card to be delivered to anybody that you
want within the fifty United States. It's a three hundred
and sixteen dollars value.
Speaker 7 (06:00):
Actually wow okay, yeah, no, thank you, thank you. I'm
in Yeah. Can I tell you who to make it
up to?
Speaker 1 (06:08):
All right?
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Let me get my form pulled up then, and okay,
first thing I'll need is the first and last name
of the person you want to send them to.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Sure, yeah, make it.
Speaker 5 (06:17):
Up to Lizzy.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Okay, great, I will do that.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
And is there anything you would like to put on
a card before I get the address and stuff?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Sure?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Yeah, put Alicia.
Speaker 7 (06:29):
I listened to the show too, and Lizzy is my
free pass.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
Okay, whoa, what.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
Are you serious right now? Putting me on the show?
Putting me on blast? You know I listened to the show.
I know your voice, buddy.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
Well, thank you for this show. Yeah, thank you for
listening to the show. Obviously.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Then you know your wife is on the phone, Alicia
and suspects that you might be messing around, so you
are yeah.
Speaker 7 (06:53):
Yeah, yeah, I'm cheating on you with Lizzy. I'm cheating
on with you with Lizzia and don't mean anything.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
All right, listen, it's just my It was cool.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
But guess what, she's my past because you cheated first,
and you know this.
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Did did she tell you that? Did she tell you
that she's a cheater? Did she tell.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
You let them know?
Speaker 5 (07:10):
Lisha?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Do you want Selmer shut that Alicia had sex with her?
Speaker 1 (07:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (07:17):
Two months ago. Do you know how I found out?
We drive separate.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
So one day I came home, I found a condom
wrapper in the waste basket next to the bed in
my back.
Speaker 1 (07:26):
All right, do you think we use condoms?
Speaker 3 (07:28):
No?
Speaker 5 (07:29):
Okay, So then I'm ashamed.
Speaker 7 (07:31):
I felt being being cuckled by my my, your boss.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Her boss.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
So the way you deal with it is to cheat
on me with your secretary.
Speaker 4 (07:39):
That's the way I deal with it, your secretary.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
That's so cliche. Yeah, that's the way that you deal
with it.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
To get back at me.
Speaker 7 (07:48):
Oh, give me a break, Like we haven't gone to therapy,
Like we haven't gone through this that you owe me.
You admitted that we talked about having a free past.
Guess what Lizzie is mine. I tried to be a
little bit doubt it. Yeah, I was kind of, But
for you to get mad about it, let alone go
on the radio and call it out.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Are you kidding me? Alicia?
Speaker 1 (08:06):
You hypocrite?
Speaker 6 (08:07):
So you lied about it, and it kind of doesn't
make it better that you just didn't see it.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
But Alicia, you don't know. I mean, it.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Sounds like you know you guys obviously have a lot
to talk about or to not talk about it anymore.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
I don't think you should just try to make it
an eye for an eye and get back at me
sleeping with your secretary and then lying to me about it.
Speaker 7 (08:29):
You were fine with an eye for an eye. You
said you owed me all right, Do I have a
free pass or not?
Speaker 6 (08:34):
Well, you should have just told her that you have,
that you were taking advantage of the past. I mean
at that point, no.
Speaker 3 (08:39):
I'm sorry if I made you so humiliated or called
you out.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
That was not what I wanted to do.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
I just felt like you weren't talking to me and
you couldn't tell me what.
Speaker 5 (08:50):
Was going on.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
If you wanted a free pass, why didn't you have
this conversation with me?
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Did you have a conversation with me before you cheated.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
Do you think I wanted any of this?
Speaker 1 (08:59):
Okay, Alicia, you know you got your answer.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
I just talk about this off the year when we
go home. I mean, I love you.
Speaker 5 (09:11):
And I don't.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
I don't want to keep fighting with you.
Speaker 1 (09:17):
Do you guys want to be together.
Speaker 7 (09:19):
I didn't enjoy being with Lizzie. It was a one
time thing, and i'm i'm, i'm, I'm calling it off.
Speaker 1 (09:25):
I don't want to do it again.
Speaker 7 (09:27):
I only did it because I felt like I had
to gain some kind of control all right back in
the relationship.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But no, you're who I want to be with and
I hate it. I hate everything about it.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
I love you.
Speaker 4 (09:37):
I love you too.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
We wouldn't give up on the Yeah, it's really good.
It sounds like you guys have something to talk about
now in therapy.
Speaker 5 (09:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
Well yeah, okay, good luck. I hope you work it out.
I do me too. I'm glad you guys have love there.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
Cool.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Thanks Lockez, appreciate it.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
Thank you. I love you. Accord. You will shows to
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