August 2, 2025 • 49 mins
What happens when two OG Bachelorettes get together in Lake Tahoe?? A lot of pickleball and a lot of spilled tea!
DeAnna Stagliano is hanging out with Trista Sutter, and she’s ready to reveal some of the best-kept travel secrets from her years as a private flight attendant. You won’t believe what you should NEVER order from the drink menu on a plane!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
Hi everybody, this is Trista and I'm coming to you
from Lake Tahoe. We are at a beautiful Verbo. It
is stunning and if you have never checked out Verbo,
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(00:27):
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But for right now, Hi, we're getting a selfie. I
am sitting next to one of my faves, one of
my favorite leads, very close friend, very long time friend,
(00:48):
well long time. Let's we need to talk about how
long we have known each other. I am welcome or
I'm welcoming. I am welcoming the beautiful Tianna Stagliano. Hi.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Eighteen years. Eighteen years, Oh my gosh, because I's just
celebrated his eighteenth birthday. Yes, he did so eighteen years.
I was at your house and I was holding your
first car. That's right. You still need to me that
your angel baby, angel baby in your house and veil
with just so young and fresh face. Yes, eighteen years
(01:21):
that is so and isn't it true how our friendship
has grown over the years. I know it's just blossomed,
just like blossoms.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Just like an eye, just like us. Okay, how are
you loving Lake Tahoe?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Isn't this amazing? I'm having the best time, right, Okay?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Good?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Like I'm not sure if I'm going to go home
or if I'm going to stay. I's up in the
air at this point, the best time.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm so glad because, as I think, you know, this
was kind of my idea because I wanted to play
pickleball selfishly because they always go on these golf trips
and what I you know, other fun stuff. But but
I was like, can we do a pickleball? And I'm
so proud of you because you haven't ever played, or
at least not a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I have never ever played, and I would have to.
I really should credit you, my coach, for all of
my skills, for my athleticism, for just my abilities in
general on the pickleball court. Now, I didn't win a
single game, Yes you did. You want a little tiny trophy.
(02:28):
I'm sorry. I didn't win a single game. But I
looked good. That's right. I'm stayed and I had a
lot of fun. Good.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's all that matters. That is all that matters.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I'm a pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah, no one, I mean for real, you're going to
be a pickleballer because you're going to go home and
you're going to find a club, just like I told you,
and you're going to find some fun people to play with,
maybe even get some lessons. You're going to have so
much fun. And it really truly is obsessing, like it's
something to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Obsess about it ever since. Yeah, I love Birthing a pickleballer.
She's a pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
You really are a pickleballer, or you can call there's
all there's tons of merch okay around pickleball.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Let's just before we put the cart before the horse. Yeah,
let's just make sure I know how to play first.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
No, no, no, But what I was going to say
is you're a day dinker, so you can be a
day drinker but also a day dinker because Dnking is
a pick pickleballer.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Day dnker. I'm really doing well. I'm just thriving. Look
at me. Oh my gosh, I love it. It makes
personality right, day dinker pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Okay, so tons of people here, who have you been
having the most fun with?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Honest to god, in it, I'm not I'm not being
ridiculous right now. The group as a whole has just
been really awesome. I was laughing. I was having a
conversation with one of my friends because I get up
pretty early, and I was sitting out back and I
was watching the river, you know, and I'm just like
basking in just like the joy, the beautiful trees, thinking
Lord for all of this, you know, I'm just so happy.
And I was laughing because I was on the phone
(04:10):
with a girlfriend of mine and she's just like, how's
it going? And I was like, there is nothing more
fun than taking twenty washed up reality stars, sticking us
under one roof and making us talk about our experience
on television real, right, Who's better? It was more popular?
Who made more money, Who's got bigger boobs? Who laughed more?
Who made out with more girls? Bob guinny there. It
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just there's been a lot of laughs. Like I have
a hard time being like, oh, I'm I'm here for work, yeah,
but like this is a this is really great. Yeah,
And you know what, I just right. So then I
come back to like, I'm truly blessed. Yeah, you know
what I mean, Yeah, I'm working, but like, how many
people get to say that they're working and they're having
the most fun while doing it?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Totally?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Who gets great to be this lucky, this blessed to
be able to do something like this where we get
to spend a couple of days with our friends right
right when the last time we got to see each other,
we actually just got to be together and talk and
catch up, you know what I mean? Yeah, who really
gets to say that they get to do this? Totally?
I so agree? Yeah, yeah, so a great.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It really makes me happy, and it has been such
a good group, such a good group from all different
you know, walks but end shows and whatever. But I
I love this kind of stuff. It like fills my bucket. Obviously,
my husband is a little bit different in that, you know,
social things are not his cup of tea, and it
kind of drains his bucket a little bit. But I
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was like, babe, just let's you can go read, you
can take a nap, you can go hang out in nature,
which is like his favorite thing to do on the planet.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
So you know what, from an outsider. Do you know
what is really beautiful is like he just lets you shine, Trista,
Like it's nice to have him here and like I
can see like Ryan would much rather be in his room. Yes,
I'm sorry, not all the time, that's not what I
don't know how I mean that, but yeah, but he has.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
He did enjoy. He's gone out, but he did thoroughly enjoy.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Beautiful that he allows you to do these things and
he allows you to shine. He's not fighting you for it,
he's not fighting you in it. He allows you. He
knows you thrive in these things, and he allows you
to do that. And I think it's really beautiful.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Thank you. That means a lot. I'll take I'll take
what she's having. I'll take what she's having. Yeah, he
is good at that. He I think he does get
joy from seeing me happy. And it does. We were
just saying it is exhausting, like being on constantly and
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I will be drained, but in the moment, I just
I'll stay up and like have a glass of wine
with everybody and or whatever, you know, cocktail and just
being social and like connecting with people, like the connection,
the deep connection, the that is the meat.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And potatoes of life. I mean, I'm a true extrovert,
so like I thrive in moments like this. But even
when we're just sitting in you and Bob and I
are just chit chatting and talking about the past and
we're getting tired, right the second we walk in here
and we do this, I turn on. This brings me
to life, like there's something really beautiful in it, and
like there's people that you just now naturally gravitate towards.
And this has just been a really great group of people. Yes,
(07:15):
it's been really really great. Yes, agreed. So I want
to get into some like recent stuff, but I know
life has been you know, a little rough as of late,
maybe like you know, maybe a year, maybe two whatever.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I will not be pushing you in any way, shape
or form, But is there anything that you want to
share with everybody about what's going on personally with you
and Steven and where you are at kind of like
mental health wise. Yeah, no, not really.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
No, I think there's a beauty in healing, and I
wouldn't think that anyone would like to be in my shoes.
In the last few months. It has not been fun,
and there is some piece of I chose to go
on television, I choose to do podcasts, I choose to
have a life on social media. That is my choice.
(08:21):
That there's also a piece of like my personal life,
my divorce, things that my children will have to read
living out and what has truly been the most difficult
time of my life is violating. Yeah, it's violating.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
But I'm freaking strong and I'm really resilient, and I
choose every day to keep my side of the street clean.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Good for you and your kids side of the street clean. Yeah,
they're your priority. I know that for a fact.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. But like at the end
of the day, my children get to do is love
their father and they get to love me. I'm their mother.
That's what they deserve.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
They don't get to deserve. They don't get to take
on the mess of what takes place in broken relationships
and broken marriages, the unhealth that happens. They don't get
to do that. What they deserve and their right is
to love their father and love their mother and feel
joy and happiness and peace and safety in that. That's
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what my children deserve, and that's what I hope to
give to.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Them great way of looking at it. I know you've
been through so much and more than anyone going through divorce,
not more than anyone has been through, but it's like
an extreme. Right. The whole jail and all of that
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is just an extreme that you don't expect when you're.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
No Trista. I would not tell you that I thought
that that that's where I would see myself at forty
three years old. No, No, that was How did you
explain it? Last night? With a sheet?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
The woman was like, here's your white sheet, and I
don't know what you said.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
It's not a good look. Yeah, it's not. It's not.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
It's not where anyone wants to be, especially when you
are an upstanding citizen and a loving mother and a
wonderful human like obviously you know you know what.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
I think that as individuals, we all have different highs
and different lows, you know what I mean. And there
are pivotal moments in your life where you choose to
make different choices, you choose to look inward and choose growth.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
My hope is that at some point I can only
go up right, just when I think like things couldn't
get worse in the past few years, and something else
has happened. I have to think, like, Okay, there's that
has to get better. Yea, this can't be my story.
I don't belong here, and I won't pretend to know
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the future and I won't pretend to be God. But like,
there has to be a piece in here where like
I needed to take something, I needed to learn and
I needed to grow, and I'm open to that. And
for me, that's where the beauty comes from, right. I mean,
I'm not perfect by any means, and I am human,
and there are many parts of what has taken place
over the last few months that I would love to
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never ever have to think a big about again. But
I choose to learn and grow. That's what I choose
to do, and I believe that there's beauty in that.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Yep, I'm right there with you. Okay, enough that So kids,
how are they? You just went to Hawaii? How is
the trip?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
This trip was great? My kids are great. They're just
so great. Like I know, everybody thinks their own kids
are great, but mine.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Are really great.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Mine are like really really great, you know what I mean.
They're easy, and they're kind, and they're a lot of
fun and they're happy. They're like genuinely happy, and they're
really polite. It was never been important to me for
my children to be like straight a kids. Like, I'm
not trying to raise geniuses. Yeah, what I want is
to raise good people, good loving and kind people. And
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do you know what? They are good, kind and loving
people and they're also really polite. They say please and
thank you with everything that they do. And I'm just
like beaming from the inside because I worked tirelessly on
their manners. Yes, tirelessly.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
That's amazing and something you should very much be proud of.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Thank you, I am.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Because my kids could work on their manners a little bit.
If you're listening, Maxwell and Blakesley. My kids are kind
and very happy, and yes, that is the endgame, for
them to be happy. That's all you want, you know,
happy and hell see, every night I pray that my
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family and friends are happy, healthy and safe. Yes, those
are that's what I want. Yeah, I've added a few
to mine.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I'm sure my new one is bless him, heal me.
That's my new one. Amen.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Okay, what's it like traveling as a single mom with
two kids who aren't a baby like we were just
talking to Ben about how he's traveling with Winnie.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Who is the cutest thing on the planet. Oh my gosh,
she's really cute.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
But you know, traveling with a baby is one thing.
Traveling with kids who need to get up and walk
around and like you know, might not sit there on
their iPad or whatever. Watch a movie. How is it
with you with your kids and traveling.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
It's amazing? Okay, good. Addison and Austin are at the
right age. Austin is nine, Addison is eleven, and at
this point, like they're pretty self sufficient, do you know
what I mean? I have genuinely loved my children at
every age, but it's just different. It's just different. And
right now, like they're they're pretty self sufficient, but like
in times that they really need me, but they need
me in different ways, do you know what I mean.
(14:20):
We're very, very very lucky that my kids are well traveled.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Mm. You know.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I was trying to tell my children, like, oh my god,
we're going to Hawaii, like none of our friends are going,
and I was like, easy, easy, Now you know how
grown adults will never hop the water, They'll never go
to Hawaii in their entire life. Ye like you have
a lot to be really grateful for itly so they're
excellent travelers. And the nice thing about this age is
like they carry their own bags. I'm like, hey, you
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need some snacks, you better put them in your bag.
We are no longer playing this game. Oh you need
some snacks, they go in your bag. Needs to go
in your bag. Do you have your headphones? I won't
ask you again, yep, and they do. Do they pack themselves?
I hack For the most part. Addison is at the
age where she's very particularly she's wearing, so she likes
to make sure she double checks what I put in
the suitcase for her. Like Austin really doesn't care. Yeah,
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He's like, whatever, I'll wear the same shorts all week,
well long, I don't care. He's gonna remember his switch
and his phone so he can play roadblocks, and he's
going to bring a book like he loves to read.
And then he's pretty solid. He also just like likes
to sleep, so he has no problem to be like,
can I just like lay on your shoulder? I'm like, yeah, man,
all da yes please. He's the greatest guy in the
entire world.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Oh my god, snuggling. I miss that so much with Max.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I enjoy my children. I genuinely enjoy my children. I
enjoy to do things with them. And I really enjoyed
vacationing in Hawaii with them. Like they're just they're just
really great. Yes, I.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Love that age there. Let's see, eleven would be like
fifth grade? Is she going into six going into sixth? Okay,
and then he's going in fourth yeah, okay. Oh, it
really is such a sweet time because once they hit
middle school, oh, the dealing with like the mean people
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and like, so we were talking a lot about this
today is and Ben walked away from the conversation. He's like,
I want to always have a baby.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
I wanted to grow up. We were talking about sex.
We were talking about a great topic of conversation because
your children are older than mine. So you know, I's
asking you and Ryan's advice about like when do you
do it right? Because Austin is nine, Addison is eleven. Yeah,
and I know that I was sharing that like I
was in high school before I heard girls at the
(16:40):
lunch table talking about a bja oh yeah, they were
talking about food, right, I did not know. And then
when I heard that they were putting certain things in
their mouth. I was like, that's absolutely disgusting. I don't
know why you would do something like that. Like I
was like, this is why would you do that? But
apparently these kids these days talk about it at an
early age.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Well not only talk about it, but they see it
through social media and on the internet. And that's why
I wanted to talk about it with you today, because
I think you're right on the precipice of when you
really do need to have the conversation with them, because
you at least I didn't want my kids learning about
certain things through their friends or through the internet.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Also, what I was asking you is it's you know,
I'm only going to get one go with this, right,
you know what I mean? And right they are at
an age where I'm trying to figure out when is
it appropriate. I don't want it to be too early,
but I also don't want it to be too late.
I don't want them to be learning about this stuff
at school. So I appreciate you know, having friends who
are in a different phase of life, but I appreciate
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you and Ryan sharing openly with me about how I
could navigate this with my kids, and not to say
that it has conversation. But it was like from my
dad and he was like, hey, a guy does this
and a woman does this, and like, don't do it totally,
don't come home pregnant. That was the extent of it. Like,
I want to create a very safe space for my children.
I want them to always feel like they can come
to me and talk to me. And the truth of
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the matter is that sex in a capacity when you're
ready is a very natural and wonderful thing to have
in a relationship. One, yeah, it is, totally, but it's
also there's the basics of it that you have to
teach your children. And that's where I'm just trying to
gauge and understand when is the time to do that totally.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
And that's hard, and you have to do what is
right for you and your family, right, but I just
want you to start thinking about it, you know, just
because they are at the ages that they're at, and go, like,
talk to other people. You know, this is for you
guys out there who are listening to go talk to
other people about what was right for them, what they
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were able to do, when they did it, why they
did it, you know, all of those things. For us,
I just I can't remember exactly when it was, and
I just feel like it really allowed my kids to
know that there's nothing that I won't talk with them.
There's no shame. They I am their safe place. They
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can always come to me always, and I I want
them to. I want them to always know that they
can come to me and feel comfortable. And so as
long as you establish that, I feel like that's so
valuable and important and crucial in a parental, you know,
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relationship with your child. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Absolutely, I'm grateful for the advice. You know what I mean.
I admire you guys, you know, as parents, a couple.
You know what I mean. Thank you?
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Okay, So what things in your life are you looking
forward to? Obviously, you have been working as a private
polight attendant, which I feel like is like one of
those jobs where it's like a dream job, dream job
for people, especially for someone like you who loves the
whole like chef, catering, nurturing experience. Tell less about that job.
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What's going on currently in your work life and what
you're looking forward to?
Speaker 3 (20:08):
I think with you know, everything that's taken place in
my life, I'm in a very transformational I'm in a
very transformational place. Like I feel like I'm almost like
this like rebirth, you know what I mean, which is
really exciting, Which is really exciting. I get to decide
what do I do next, relationship wise, career wise, as
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a woman, you know what I mean, as a mother,
as as a business person, you know. And I have
so many things that I feel passionate about, and I
have so many jobs that I love, so I'm trying
to figure that out. I've been in corporate aviation for
fifteen years, and yes, you're right, I love my job.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I love this.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
It's called corporate aviation.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Sorry, I was like, that's a luxury flight attendant or
whatever I just call.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
It's totally corporated. I'm a glorified server. That's what I am.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
But I work whatever thousand thousand, yeah, you.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Know, forty forty eight sometimes okay, yeah, corporate aviation, which
is private jets. I do get a lot of interest
in my job, and it is a very interesting job.
But I think that's what people they see, the glamorous
side of my job. You know. I love posting videos
of me in the galley making up food because it
is it is like you have to be a magician
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in the air, like, there's no pulling over when I
forget the hot sauce. Like, I have to know how
to create things and make things in the air from
what I've got. Yeah, and I've gotten pretty good over
the years of figuring out how to make things in
the air, how to make sauces, how to heat things up,
how to not heat things up, how to burn things.
I've done at a time or two. I could tell
you some stories. Tell them, I tell them a story.
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My biggest fear in the air is a fire on
an airplane. Oh, no kidding, because an airplane is literally
it'll go up in seconds. Yeah, you know what I mean.
I think that anyone who is in a aviation in
general would relate to what I'm saying. A fire in
the air is very scary. You have to find it quickly.
You have to hope you can put it out. You
have to hope you can get it extinguished and then
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get your plane to safety. It's scary. It's terrifying. I
cook a lot. If I have the luxury of being
at home, I will prep things in my own kitchen
and then I take them at work. Yep, and I
make some pretty damn good biscuits trista. It's my grandmother's recipe,
and I only do it when I have a lot
of free time because it's pretty labor intensive for me.
I'm not a solid baker, so I follow the recipe
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to a tea, you know. But there's a lot of
folding and kneading and folding and kneading, and then you
cut them up into beautiful squares and then you freeze
them and there's a lot of butter. And I love boom.
So I bake these beautiful biscuits at home and I
freeze them overnight, so go so I can take them
to my plane and bake them the next day. Yeah,
and we're going across the water. So when I say
that we're going over Hawaii, it's the largest body of
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water you'll ever fly over, which is there's a point
of no return. Did you know that?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
What do you mean? No, I don't know what you mean.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
Hawaii from l Hawaii is the largest body of water
you'll ever fly over. Okay, The point of no return
is like once you get halfway, if something were to happen,
you keep going. Oh until that point something happens, you
would turn around and come back. Okay, but there is
a point okay that like, if something were to happen,
you try to make it the rest of the way.
I'm no pilot, so i don't have to deal with that, Okay.
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I'm just along for the ride. So I'm baking these biscuits.
And I make the mistake of putting the biscuits on
the top rack. And if you've never seen an oven
on an airplane, and a galley is really small, It's
very small. If you took a good look at my
arms in my hands, you'll see scars up and down
because the oven is so small and the racks are
like it's like an inch and a half in between.
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So you just constantly and I'm you work fast on
a plane, you know. And if you're thinking about in
a restaurant, I'm serving a meal surface sometimes to eight
or twelve people, sometimes just a few, but sometimes a lot,
And so I'm doing a lot of things in a
very small space. I slap these biscuits in the oven
and don't realize that when they rise, they sit on
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the top part of the oven. So pretty quickly these
biscuits start burning and the airplane and I've like never
done this this was only a few years ago. Okay,
So I tend to think that I'm a pretty great
flight attendant. And all of a sudden they start smoking.
And the other thing that you don't know or you
might know about an aircraft is like we circulate the
same air, yes, right, So when it starts smoking, like
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it's smoking, oh, and I'm like, oh, I'm like, you know,
I'm trying to wave it. I turned the oven off,
like I listened to my cues first, Like, I turn
the oven off. Nothing actually like lights, flames, you know
what I mean, but like when you burn something in
your oven at home. But the problem is is it
starts going through the whole air of the aircraft. Crap.
So I turn the oven off, and these biscuits are
chalk like they're done, and I can't They're too hot
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to throw in the trash bag. And I'm like, there's
no way you can't just toss them out the window.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
You know.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
So my pilot, yeah, sorry, sir, no, don't mind the biscuits.
My pilot comes back and he's like, are you burning something?
And I can't remember what plane, but my galley's in
the rear and I was like, yeah, man, like I'm burning,
so we end up they have a switch the way
they can let some of the air out. But yeah,
that was that was not.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And were you near the point of no return? Is
that why you brought that up?
Speaker 3 (25:10):
No, I actually did it pretty early. But it's fine.
There wasn't a fire. I was just burning biscuits. I
just burning biscuits. There was no fire. It just dunked
to high heavens. So I did that. And then one
other thing when I was a flight isn't. When I
first started my job, I had no clue what I
was doing. And fifteen years ago they used to just
kind of throw us to the wolves, like and they
just get on a plane and do whatever. And I,
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thankfully was pretty good at my job. I had a
long history and service industry. I had worked on every
level of a restaurant in my life, Like I've managed,
I've hosted, I've rolled silverware, I've done it all. Yeah,
I get this job and it's you know, this young
woman who's been on this account for a really long time.
She's like, it'd be easy, peasy, You're just gonna fly
to San Francisco. By the way, I baked cookies before landing,
(25:52):
and I was like, Okay, I'm gonna bake some cookies,
just like, can you just order the dough. She's like, yeah,
I'll just get them. You just pop them on a
pan and stick them in the oven. And if you
know this about me, I am a cook. I am
not a baker. Yes I'm not. Yeah right, cool, cool, cool.
I get on this plane right before landing. I can
see the ground, like, you know, I only have a
few minutes. So I get the oven on and she's
I remember reciting in my brain, don't mess this up,
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you know, pop the dough on a pan, set a
timer in the oven. Bam. Right, the cookies are finally done.
We're probably like three thousand feet. I can see the ground.
I'm like, oh my god, serve the cookies. Serve the cookies.
I pull them out and they look like these little
bon bonds.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
They little rounds, ye yeah, or not, circles, sears, fears. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
No one told me I had to flatten out the cookies.
So if he baked, is this like little ball and
everything bakes differently in the air. You've got you know,
the elevation, you've got the oven works, you know, faster harder,
heet hotter, you know. And so I get this little
cookie and at this point, I don't have time to
stop start over. We do not have time to.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
Baby smelling like cookies, so they're probably like, give me
a cookie.
Speaker 3 (26:54):
She bakes the parson cookies every time before landing. So
I take this little bon bon out and I'm like,
how am I going to do this? I stick it
in a little bowl and I stick a little mint
leaf on it. It looks cute, and I'm making my rounds
and I stick this little bowl in front of the
passenger one too like enjoying. He's like, oh my god,
this is so cute. And I was like, I thank you,
(27:16):
oh so much. So cute, and he was like, wow,
little bite sized cookies. I would have never thought of this.
It's just a one biter. And he eats this cookie
and he was like, you're gonna have to tell her
how to do this. Oh whoa, We still have to
go home, Trista, I've got to make the same mistake twice, right, crap.
And I'll never forget that. Because he's like, oh my god,
this cookie, this is a little cute and I was like,
(27:38):
oh my god, I did it. By accident. But part
of my job is just knowing when not to say anything. Yep,
totally knowing when to smile yeah, and then hope the
same mistake happens again, right, and it did it? I
don't remember because I remember being so mortified by that,
because it was like my second or third flight, and
I was like, oh my god, this little bon bond.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
It looked like if you've ever seen that, it looked
like a bond bon you need, like a bite sized
cookie bonbond.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
I'll never ever forget it. You're like, no, I'm not
doing I can't remember if I made the same mistake.
But every time I bake cookies on an airplane now
I think of that. Oh that, don't mess cookies up,
don't make those cute, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
Okay, So, because you spend so much time traveling, what
is your best packing pack?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
I actually hardly ever unpack really.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
So because I travel so much, I have just like
a second set of everything. So like my work bag
I'm carrying around, yep, I have three sets of chargers.
I have all different, like I just keep extra sets
in my bag. Sometimes in my line of work, I
can get a two hour heads up, and I need
to be at the airport, so I always need to
have pressed clothes, got it ready to go, got it,
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and then a bag ready to go. Yep. I've made
the mistake one time in my career not having a
change of clothes and shopping at Target at eleven o'clock
at night for underwear. It's just not fun. So that's stressful.
I pretty much at all times have a bag packed,
like I have a you know, change of underwear bras.
But in my toilet tree bag, I have an extra toothbrush,
I have an extra razor, I have shampoo, I have
everything ready to go, a second thing of face cream.
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I just like have all of my things already the way.
It's just easy to zip up. I put it in
my bag. I don't fold my clothes when I put
them on my luggage. I roll them Sam, Sam, Yeah right.
It helps on the wrinkles, yes, and it helps fit
more stuff yes yeah. Yeah, and I'll do I'll do
like my shirt and pants together, Yep. I take a
couple of pair of jeans because I can wear the
same two pair of jeans for eighteen days. Of course,
(29:26):
I just do it. Yeah, and I'll roll my things
up and I tuck them together and then I stack yep,
and I'm also just to just set you over the
edge with my neuroses. I do it in like rows.
So like here's my workout clothes, They're stacked to the
back of the suitcase, like against against the back of
the bag because I can stack them two or threefold.
And then my underwear is always in the same thing.
(29:47):
My toiletrees are always in the same place. And then
for some reason, always on the right side of my
bag goes my toiletry bag, my makeup.
Speaker 2 (29:54):
That's why you knew today. So so i's so for
everyone listening to your.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Room and you're unpacked, I'm like, you're insane. How do
you do this?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
So whenever I get somewhere, I have a carry on,
like here we can. I came here with a carry on,
and I unpack everything once I get.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Somewhere, because I have to crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
I need to have it organized. I need to have
it like here's my workout clothes, here's my underwear, here's
my swimsuits, here's whatever.
Speaker 3 (30:23):
I have to have it all put away.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
She came in my room and braided my hair yesterday
for the pickleball tournament.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
And she was like real college besties.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Yes, and and she was like, wait you take out everything? Well, well,
that night or maybe was it that night you called
me because we were at different houses and you were like, hey,
can you bring me? Was this last night you ringin
things out of my suitcase? And how spot on was
I in the page from my suitcase? And I was like, okay, sure,
(30:54):
I'll go in. And I went into her room and
she was like, okay, so go in my bag and
in the top part you're gonna find my blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
And I was like, okay, how does she know? Like
the inside flap, not the top pocket, but the bottom pocket,
not where my makeup wipes are. But on the bottom
pocket you'll find my sockscrab those on the suitcases. On
the very bottom you'll find a black pair of leggings.
Are like on point, without looking at my bag, I
know where everything is, yes, And I can carry on
and roll through an airport. It amazes me to this
(31:23):
day when I have to commercial when I get through
the TSA checkpoint, people who don't know what to do
blows my mind.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But think they're they're travel as much as you you know.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Clear clearly not clearly not. Every time I get on
a plane and I sit in the emergency roo, I'm like,
you're okay, I'm a flight attendant. I'll save your life.
Follow me, leg body leg come this way. Listen to
the sound of my voice. What's body legs mean? When
you get out? Our windows are smaller? Okay, when we
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get out of coach exits, Well, you don't want to
come out like butt first? How are you gonna get out?
What do you mean like people?
Speaker 2 (32:04):
What you think that people would actually go like that and.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Try to get out? Do you know what the number
one thing is in an emergency situation? What people forget
to do? Do you know why the flight attendant stands
in front of you and shows you how to unbuckle
and buckle your seat belt? What in a panic situation?
In an emergency situation, they did a study the amount
of people who forget because when you get in a car,
how do you buckle your seat belt? Clicks in, yeah, yeah,
(32:27):
clicks in right, right right, push a button and it
pops out. They think that on an airplane it is
a latch. You have to lift up and remove the lever.
True it is different and in a panic situation, in
emergency situations, they don't know how to They have found
there was a study down on some airplane crash and
I can't remember what it was. The people who didn't
get out of the airplane. They found that they had
broken thumbs from where they tried over and over again
(32:51):
to press the button to release the seat belt. No way,
because until you're in a situation like that, you have
you have what like two types of people, fight or flight. Yep,
you know what I mean. Yeah, people who panic and
people who don't. I'm a leader, follow me, yeah yeah, yeah,
I'm getting out. You can come my way, yes, right, yes.
And then there are people who just you freeze, you
don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
They found in that crash, in particular, that these people
had blistered broken thumbs because they were pushing trying to
get their seat belt unlatched. They could not remember to
lift the lever to release the seat belt. That's why
the flight attendant always does it, says it. And I
always watch a flight attendant when she does the emergency procedures.
I do always because even a panic situation, even though
(33:34):
I think if I were ever God forbid, right, I
think I would know what to do. But I watch
because studies have shown people who don't pay attention they
don't remember in a situation. And when you need to
get out there's a fire, there's a water landing, there's
something like that, you have seconds to survive. That's freaking scary.
I'm also a role follower, so oh yeah, and you
(33:56):
say listen, I'm gonna listen.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Okay. Is it true you shouldn't drink coffee or tea
on a flight because the water tanks on airplanes aren't
cleaned often? Oh look at that face. I do not
order coffee on an airplane. Do you know where else
you shouldn't drink coffee?
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Where?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
In your hotel room? Oh? Well yeah, oh I remember.
Light attendants have washed their pantyhose in those.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I do not ever drink slight attendants wash their pantyhose.
Coffee makers in a hotel wash disgusting.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Also, just here's the thing. I can't go down this
rabbit hole trusted because I travel too much for a living.
But think about a hotel room. Okay, would you want
to clean a hotel room?
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Hell? No?
Speaker 3 (34:44):
Do you know what I do? What I always leave
money for the maid. I can't imagine a worse job,
yeah than to clean someone's hotel room. Yeah, I can't
imagine having to do that. So I carry money in
my wallet and I always leave it for the hotel staff. Yes,
that's a great hat. Do not drink her coffee in
your hotel room bit of advice.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
And do not drink the coffee on an airplane. Okay.
So do you see flight attendants coming on the airplane
with their Starbucks? Yes, get a coffee on the plane.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
So I remember when we did Special Forces. Ali Ali
Mano was on Special Forces on my season, and she
posted a story of the hotel room that we were
staying in in Wales. She looked on the inside and
it was I know.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Don't don't ever look. Don't ever, don't ever look. I'm
telling you, I travel too much for a living. I
do not watch those shows, those documentaries where they turn
the lights off into a black light to see what's
in the room. Don't do it. No, I can't because
I have just enough crazy in me and I'll never
sleep same Sam. And I've lucky in my life. Yeah,
like I am. I'm like the highest ranking person you
(35:53):
could possibly be like, I have so many points I
don't know how to spin them. I cannot look at
those things because yeah, once you start thinking about it, totally.
I wear my shoes in hotel rooms you just so
you know, don't wear my shoes in my house. Wow,
what do you think? They have dark color printed carpet
hotel names right right. Don't drink the coffee.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Oh my gosh, So I don't drink coffee, so I
don't have that problem.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
But fixed don't drink the tea either. I don't.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
They get the hot water on the plane too, Yeah
no no, I just get it from a can, like
you know, give me this brite with ice.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Say can you drink or the ice? Ice comes? The
ice gets brought to the airplane. They don't. Okay, so
ice is fine.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
You'll say, great, we're safe with ice, We're safe with
can you're actually open. Oh and don't take your freaking
shoes off.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
On the airplane, please.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
People.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
There was a study a long time ago. I'm just
really this is people are never going to fly again.
There was a study. There was a study done in
a laboratory, and I can't remember if they announced what
airline I was in a oh, in an air laboratory. Okay,
those are bathrooms on an airplane. And there was a
study done after like a six or an eight hour flight.
(37:04):
What was found on the lavatory floor? Nope? There were Nope,
you don't see this, but the producers are shaking their hands.
Don't tell them out loud. No, there were. There were
strains of hepatitis on the floor. Do you know I
will stop someone before they walk into a laboratory with
no shoes on. And I'm not being paid to do this,
(37:27):
Please save yourself. Do not do that. So put your
shoes on.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
Shoes stay on on a plane, but your shoes stay on.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
Do not go to the lab What is living on
that floor? As holy gross, don't do I could do this.
I could go on this tangent for a really long time.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
Okay, So since we're talking about not taking your shoes
off and feet, we have had an illuminating conversation before
we started this pod with We were talking about you
know what your next step in life is going to be,
career wise, what are you going to transl at those
Wait a second, well, we're going to transition into and
I don't know how it came up when we were
(38:16):
talking about fee and we were talking to go about
only fans and start a foot.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
My new career path, Yes, my new career path could
be showing my feet for a living. I'm not sure
being a dancer is in my future, but showing my
feet could be. Yes.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
So we learned that there is a thing called weeki
Wikiki feet wiki feet, and it has you are ranked
in order of like good feet, bad feet. Okay, so
Easton Easton is producer.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
I also thought we might be scott free, like we're
just old enough to where like this possibly can't be
a thing it is a thing, but apparently it is.
It's a thing.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
It's a thing, people, It's a thing. Easton has our
Easton has our rating. He looked up our rating before
we started. And so we are on the edges of
our seat.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
No, I want you to be mindful that I do
not have my feet in view. I want you to
be mindful that I am not putting my feet into
view because I've got some talons on it.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
You do not. Your feet are My feet are super
swollen and look like sausages right now.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
So okay, so hit it hit us with us better
than what I'm anticipating.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Oh gosh.
Speaker 4 (39:27):
Okay, so to set the expectations, Yes, this is a
score out of five.
Speaker 2 (39:32):
Okay and wait, so wait, and I also want to
say what we learned is that they will take like
paparazzi photos and they'll zoom in on your feet in
order to get the rankings correct.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
Yes, so okay, yeah, yeah, we're on Trista's page right now.
Speaker 4 (39:48):
There's a lot of like, there's a there's a red
carpet for marriage book. There's one of t recovering from
an injury. It looks like an ankle injury.
Speaker 3 (40:02):
Yes, I broke my ankle. Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (40:06):
It's gonna make you really think about what you guys
post on social media.
Speaker 3 (40:10):
Yes it is.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
Okay, we shall we reveal the screen.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
We shall reveal the scores.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Okay, Oh hold my breath.
Speaker 3 (40:19):
I'm serious, Scarce.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
We're gonna start with Deanna.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Oh god, remember I need to be attractive. Okay out of.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
Five four point six nine, Holy crap.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
You've got great feet. See I told you I've heard
my new calling. I was waiting for like an audible,
like this is where your path is going, and I
believe it just came to me. I think God gave you.
I'm sorry, tell me that to get a four point six.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
Five?
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Wow, that's you have beautiful feet you're talking about anymore?
Look at these suckers at I don't know. There's some
close ups of my feet, a lot of them.
Speaker 1 (40:54):
Are you showing off your manicure and your feet are
in the background. That's what it looks like, is the.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
I am really, I am very scared. I am very scared.
I'm very scared.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Point six that's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Four point seven out of five that's pretty stick.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
That's solid. That's I mean.
Speaker 4 (41:18):
And now, actually, before we move on to Trista, I
do you want to check this? They have your shoe
size on here, and I want to see.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
If it's accurate.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
Okay, that's so true.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Say seven? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (41:27):
It's inaccurate?
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (41:29):
You know my friend Ben, he's trying to find me
a date. He asked me my shoe size today and
I politely just did not answer his question. I have
a big ass foot for my body. Put our feet
next to each other. No, it's embarrassing. Come on. The
producer she just went, she just gasped. Did you hear her?
(41:59):
I want you to know that my sister and her
husband are going to find this because they have made
fun of my feet my entire life, and they probably
feel so satisfied right now in this moment. Oh my god, Trista,
my toes are longer than your whole foot. Oh, I
can't believe I'm allowing you to do this. This is just.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
Yes. I have had this, this toe ring since I
was in I was in college and my dad took
me and my stepsister and stepmom to Key West and
we got that and I have had it ever since.
Even when I get like MRIs or whatever, they ask
(42:46):
if you have any like jewelry or whatever that can't
be removed, and I'm like, yes that.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
So don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
Yeah, I leave it on, it never comes off. And
then Deanna has a tattoo's.
Speaker 3 (42:57):
I got it with my sister. Yeah. You know, people
think that I'm all straight waist and I'm not. Look
at me. I'm so wild. I have a tattoo. Tattoo,
I have three three? Where's the third? A wild? Oh?
I'm so wild? You know Ben didn't ask me if
there were things about me that he didn't know. Just
(43:19):
look at me? Now, where's the third it's for me.
I have it for me, but I have it here
worthy that's awesome. There was a period of time where
I forgot that and I don't ever want to forget
it again. When I was eighteen, the cool thing to
do is to get a tattoo because you're allowed. And
my sister and I had a thing you're allowed or
you're an adult. You're an adult, and they will legally
(43:39):
give it to you.
Speaker 2 (43:40):
Because I'm literally like, you're not allowed in my house
because my son just turned eighteen.
Speaker 3 (43:44):
My dad didn't know for a very long time. Yeah,
my sister and I had a thing for butterflies, and
she's my very best friend in the entire world, and
we went together once she turned eighteen.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
And I have it on my right foot. She has
the exact same butterfly image on her left foot, so
when we stand together, we both have it and I
still love it to this day. I love it.
Speaker 2 (44:05):
I have that.
Speaker 3 (44:06):
I have this one on my ribs and then I
have just on my wrist. I have my kids birth
dates because I travel so much, and also when I
got divorced and had to, you know, split the kids
into two different homes, and I miss them. This I
just I love it. I touch it, I see it,
and it makes me think of my children to love it.
But back to my feet, since this is my bright
and shining moment, I will have you know that when
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I get my pedicure, they do compliment how big my
nail beds are. Yes, for real, they have a very
nice palette. Trista to paint my nails not so much
and for those same thing as my nail You didn't
know that my my toes are a solid four inches
longer than Trista's foot.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
They are not inches. You don't know your inches. She's
not a mathematician people.
Speaker 3 (44:54):
I wear a nine. I wear a nine, I'm not
a seven. That's very it's very flattering because I am
a short human and being I am five foot four,
you would not expect me to have this massively gargantuan foot. Unfortunately,
my toes take up at least three inches of my foot.
People should pay for this, I really, I know, selling
(45:14):
myself for real.
Speaker 2 (45:15):
I'm like we might be joining all the only fans. People.
You might have to look only fans for feet.
Speaker 3 (45:20):
That would pay me a good dollar for me to
describe these nines in my running shoe on the and
a half.
Speaker 1 (45:26):
For sure, Trista, are you a six and a half?
Speaker 3 (45:29):
I'm a six?
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Okay, looks like we have to update some some wiki
feed data. Your score.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
I'm very nervous to hear my score, but yes, please tell.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
Me point seven seven.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
So I'm so happy. This is so exciting, this is
so exciting.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
These are both like the very top.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
Wow, but like, what are like? What's the average? Do
we know what the average wiki feet score is?
Speaker 4 (45:57):
Like?
Speaker 3 (45:58):
Do they give like two or do you.
Speaker 2 (46:01):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (46:01):
I will look into this. I do not know that
much about Wiki fee is about their son. Everyone listening
is my first time on this website.
Speaker 3 (46:09):
I will tell you I made a conscious effort over
time when I saw other celebrities. I am not one,
but when I saw their pictures on the red carpet
and their shoes were too small, oh and the toes
go over. I talked about this on a different podcast.
There are certain things that are a hard pass for
saying that I can't sit past sam with men. It's
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dark jeans and case Swiss tennis shoes. I can't get
past it. And then what about birkenstocks and socks? I
love it. I'll do it up down. My husband does that.
I saw pictures of women on a red carpet one
time where the shoes were too small and their toes
creep over the edge and they were like climbed, and
(46:50):
I just thought, if I have to wear heels that
are three sizes too big, please Lord, don't ever let
my toes crawl over me. And I would be open
to if someone finds a photo with my toes hanging
off the ledge of my shoe, please, by all means,
send it to tell me.
Speaker 2 (47:06):
You tell me that's a beautiful pot to me.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
I just found someone else on Wiki beat.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
Okay, Ryan, Oh god, what's his score?
Speaker 1 (47:14):
Oh yeah, four point three six?
Speaker 3 (47:16):
Yeah, we've got a beat.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
Is he a size thirteen?
Speaker 3 (47:19):
He's size eleven?
Speaker 2 (47:20):
Right? Wow?
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I mean Ryan has many wonderful redeeming qualities, but we
can let him not have the foot score like that's okay.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
We always tease and you guys, I'm taking this back
as ammunition to say, Babe, I have a four point
seven to seven.
Speaker 3 (47:34):
You've got My Wiki feet score is better than yours. Also,
you know what they say trista with men and big
shoe sizes that they have big, big shoes.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Would you like to know about Guinea's score?
Speaker 3 (47:51):
Yeah, we need to know Bob's. I can't wait. Should
we bring him in here so that he can hear
Noah for another hour?
Speaker 1 (47:59):
Yeah? So Ryan's at four point three six, Bob Guinea
is at four point three three?
Speaker 2 (48:07):
What about Ben Ben Higgins?
Speaker 3 (48:10):
We're getting leverage. Now, we're getting leverage.
Speaker 2 (48:12):
I just need to know Ben's and then we're done.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Four.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
Really, he's done well for himself. He's really thrived. And Okay, Ashley,
sorry to ask for Ashley.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Ashley, Okay, let's let's go because we have to do
almost famous and then we're done.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Yes, four point four to four?
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Oh boy?
Speaker 2 (48:36):
Wow. So I know that this hasn't officially been announced yet,
but I know something and I'm really excited for you
to be able to share it with everybody.
Speaker 3 (48:49):
I think there's some great things in store for me.
I totally agree.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
Thank you, my friend,
This is the almost famous podcast with iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Hi everybody, this is Trista and I'm coming to you
from Lake Tahoe. We are at a beautiful Verbo. It
is stunning and if you have never checked out Verbo,
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(00:27):
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But for right now, Hi, we're getting a selfie. I
am sitting next to one of my faves, one of
my favorite leads, very close friend, very long time friend,
(00:48):
well long time. Let's we need to talk about how
long we have known each other. I am welcome or
I'm welcoming. I am welcoming the beautiful Tianna Stagliano. Hi.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
Eighteen years. Eighteen years, Oh my gosh, because I's just
celebrated his eighteenth birthday. Yes, he did so eighteen years.
I was at your house and I was holding your
first car. That's right. You still need to me that
your angel baby, angel baby in your house and veil
with just so young and fresh face. Yes, eighteen years
(01:21):
that is so and isn't it true how our friendship
has grown over the years. I know it's just blossomed,
just like blossoms.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Just like an eye, just like us. Okay, how are
you loving Lake Tahoe?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Isn't this amazing? I'm having the best time, right, Okay?
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Good?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Like I'm not sure if I'm going to go home
or if I'm going to stay. I's up in the
air at this point, the best time.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I'm so glad because, as I think, you know, this
was kind of my idea because I wanted to play
pickleball selfishly because they always go on these golf trips
and what I you know, other fun stuff. But but
I was like, can we do a pickleball? And I'm
so proud of you because you haven't ever played, or
at least not a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
I have never ever played, and I would have to.
I really should credit you, my coach, for all of
my skills, for my athleticism, for just my abilities in
general on the pickleball court. Now, I didn't win a
single game, Yes you did. You want a little tiny trophy.
(02:28):
I'm sorry. I didn't win a single game. But I
looked good. That's right. I'm stayed and I had a
lot of fun. Good.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
That's all that matters. That is all that matters.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
I'm a pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Yeah, no one, I mean for real, you're going to
be a pickleballer because you're going to go home and
you're going to find a club, just like I told you,
and you're going to find some fun people to play with,
maybe even get some lessons. You're going to have so
much fun. And it really truly is obsessing, like it's
something to.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Obsess about it ever since. Yeah, I love Birthing a pickleballer.
She's a pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
You really are a pickleballer, or you can call there's
all there's tons of merch okay around pickleball.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Let's just before we put the cart before the horse. Yeah,
let's just make sure I know how to play first.
Speaker 2 (03:25):
No, no, no, But what I was going to say
is you're a day dinker, so you can be a
day drinker but also a day dinker because Dnking is
a pick pickleballer.
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Day dnker. I'm really doing well. I'm just thriving. Look
at me. Oh my gosh, I love it. It makes
personality right, day dinker pickleballer.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
Okay, so tons of people here, who have you been
having the most fun with?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
Honest to god, in it, I'm not I'm not being
ridiculous right now. The group as a whole has just
been really awesome. I was laughing. I was having a
conversation with one of my friends because I get up
pretty early, and I was sitting out back and I
was watching the river, you know, and I'm just like
basking in just like the joy, the beautiful trees, thinking
Lord for all of this, you know, I'm just so happy.
And I was laughing because I was on the phone
(04:10):
with a girlfriend of mine and she's just like, how's
it going? And I was like, there is nothing more
fun than taking twenty washed up reality stars, sticking us
under one roof and making us talk about our experience
on television real, right, Who's better? It was more popular?
Who made more money, Who's got bigger boobs? Who laughed more?
Who made out with more girls? Bob guinny there. It
(04:33):
just there's been a lot of laughs. Like I have
a hard time being like, oh, I'm I'm here for work, yeah,
but like this is a this is really great. Yeah,
And you know what, I just right. So then I
come back to like, I'm truly blessed. Yeah, you know
what I mean, Yeah, I'm working, but like, how many
people get to say that they're working and they're having
the most fun while doing it?
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Totally?
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Who gets great to be this lucky, this blessed to
be able to do something like this where we get
to spend a couple of days with our friends right
right when the last time we got to see each other,
we actually just got to be together and talk and
catch up, you know what I mean? Yeah, who really
gets to say that they get to do this? Totally?
I so agree? Yeah, yeah, so a great.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
It really makes me happy, and it has been such
a good group, such a good group from all different
you know, walks but end shows and whatever. But I
I love this kind of stuff. It like fills my bucket. Obviously,
my husband is a little bit different in that, you know,
social things are not his cup of tea, and it
kind of drains his bucket a little bit. But I
(05:36):
was like, babe, just let's you can go read, you
can take a nap, you can go hang out in nature,
which is like his favorite thing to do on the planet.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
So you know what, from an outsider. Do you know
what is really beautiful is like he just lets you shine, Trista,
Like it's nice to have him here and like I
can see like Ryan would much rather be in his room. Yes,
I'm sorry, not all the time, that's not what I
don't know how I mean that, but yeah, but he has.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
He did enjoy. He's gone out, but he did thoroughly enjoy.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
Beautiful that he allows you to do these things and
he allows you to shine. He's not fighting you for it,
he's not fighting you in it. He allows you. He
knows you thrive in these things, and he allows you
to do that. And I think it's really beautiful.
Speaker 2 (06:17):
Thank you. That means a lot. I'll take I'll take
what she's having. I'll take what she's having. Yeah, he
is good at that. He I think he does get
joy from seeing me happy. And it does. We were
just saying it is exhausting, like being on constantly and
(06:37):
I will be drained, but in the moment, I just
I'll stay up and like have a glass of wine
with everybody and or whatever, you know, cocktail and just
being social and like connecting with people, like the connection,
the deep connection, the that is the meat.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And potatoes of life. I mean, I'm a true extrovert,
so like I thrive in moments like this. But even
when we're just sitting in you and Bob and I
are just chit chatting and talking about the past and
we're getting tired, right the second we walk in here
and we do this, I turn on. This brings me
to life, like there's something really beautiful in it, and
like there's people that you just now naturally gravitate towards.
And this has just been a really great group of people. Yes,
(07:15):
it's been really really great. Yes, agreed. So I want
to get into some like recent stuff, but I know
life has been you know, a little rough as of late,
maybe like you know, maybe a year, maybe two whatever.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
I will not be pushing you in any way, shape
or form, But is there anything that you want to
share with everybody about what's going on personally with you
and Steven and where you are at kind of like
mental health wise. Yeah, no, not really.
Speaker 3 (07:57):
No, I think there's a beauty in healing, and I
wouldn't think that anyone would like to be in my shoes.
In the last few months. It has not been fun,
and there is some piece of I chose to go
on television, I choose to do podcasts, I choose to
have a life on social media. That is my choice.
(08:21):
That there's also a piece of like my personal life,
my divorce, things that my children will have to read
living out and what has truly been the most difficult
time of my life is violating. Yeah, it's violating.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3 (08:42):
But I'm freaking strong and I'm really resilient, and I
choose every day to keep my side of the street clean.
Speaker 2 (08:49):
Good for you and your kids side of the street clean. Yeah,
they're your priority. I know that for a fact.
Speaker 3 (08:55):
Yeah, yeah, one hundred percent. But like at the end
of the day, my children get to do is love
their father and they get to love me. I'm their mother.
That's what they deserve.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
They don't get to deserve. They don't get to take
on the mess of what takes place in broken relationships
and broken marriages, the unhealth that happens. They don't get
to do that. What they deserve and their right is
to love their father and love their mother and feel
joy and happiness and peace and safety in that. That's
(09:28):
what my children deserve, and that's what I hope to
give to.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Them great way of looking at it. I know you've
been through so much and more than anyone going through divorce,
not more than anyone has been through, but it's like
an extreme. Right. The whole jail and all of that
(09:50):
is just an extreme that you don't expect when you're.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
No Trista. I would not tell you that I thought
that that that's where I would see myself at forty
three years old. No, No, that was How did you
explain it? Last night? With a sheet?
Speaker 2 (10:07):
The woman was like, here's your white sheet, and I
don't know what you said.
Speaker 3 (10:12):
It's not a good look. Yeah, it's not. It's not.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
It's not where anyone wants to be, especially when you
are an upstanding citizen and a loving mother and a
wonderful human like obviously you know you know what.
Speaker 3 (10:26):
I think that as individuals, we all have different highs
and different lows, you know what I mean. And there
are pivotal moments in your life where you choose to
make different choices, you choose to look inward and choose growth.
Speaker 2 (10:46):
Right.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
My hope is that at some point I can only
go up right, just when I think like things couldn't
get worse in the past few years, and something else
has happened. I have to think, like, Okay, there's that
has to get better. Yea, this can't be my story.
I don't belong here, and I won't pretend to know
(11:07):
the future and I won't pretend to be God. But like,
there has to be a piece in here where like
I needed to take something, I needed to learn and
I needed to grow, and I'm open to that. And
for me, that's where the beauty comes from, right. I mean,
I'm not perfect by any means, and I am human,
and there are many parts of what has taken place
over the last few months that I would love to
(11:28):
never ever have to think a big about again. But
I choose to learn and grow. That's what I choose
to do, and I believe that there's beauty in that.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Yep, I'm right there with you. Okay, enough that So kids,
how are they? You just went to Hawaii? How is
the trip?
Speaker 3 (11:49):
This trip was great? My kids are great. They're just
so great. Like I know, everybody thinks their own kids
are great, but mine.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Are really great.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Mine are like really really great, you know what I mean.
They're easy, and they're kind, and they're a lot of
fun and they're happy. They're like genuinely happy, and they're
really polite. It was never been important to me for
my children to be like straight a kids. Like, I'm
not trying to raise geniuses. Yeah, what I want is
to raise good people, good loving and kind people. And
(12:18):
do you know what? They are good, kind and loving
people and they're also really polite. They say please and
thank you with everything that they do. And I'm just
like beaming from the inside because I worked tirelessly on
their manners. Yes, tirelessly.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
That's amazing and something you should very much be proud of.
Speaker 3 (12:39):
Thank you, I am.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Because my kids could work on their manners a little bit.
If you're listening, Maxwell and Blakesley. My kids are kind
and very happy, and yes, that is the endgame, for
them to be happy. That's all you want, you know,
happy and hell see, every night I pray that my
(13:03):
family and friends are happy, healthy and safe. Yes, those
are that's what I want. Yeah, I've added a few
to mine.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
I'm sure my new one is bless him, heal me.
That's my new one. Amen.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Okay, what's it like traveling as a single mom with
two kids who aren't a baby like we were just
talking to Ben about how he's traveling with Winnie.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
Who is the cutest thing on the planet. Oh my gosh,
she's really cute.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
But you know, traveling with a baby is one thing.
Traveling with kids who need to get up and walk
around and like you know, might not sit there on
their iPad or whatever. Watch a movie. How is it
with you with your kids and traveling.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
It's amazing? Okay, good. Addison and Austin are at the
right age. Austin is nine, Addison is eleven, and at
this point, like they're pretty self sufficient, do you know
what I mean? I have genuinely loved my children at
every age, but it's just different. It's just different. And
right now, like they're they're pretty self sufficient, but like
in times that they really need me, but they need
me in different ways, do you know what I mean.
(14:20):
We're very, very very lucky that my kids are well traveled.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Mm. You know.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
I was trying to tell my children, like, oh my god,
we're going to Hawaii, like none of our friends are going,
and I was like, easy, easy, Now you know how
grown adults will never hop the water, They'll never go
to Hawaii in their entire life. Ye like you have
a lot to be really grateful for itly so they're
excellent travelers. And the nice thing about this age is
like they carry their own bags. I'm like, hey, you
(14:46):
need some snacks, you better put them in your bag.
We are no longer playing this game. Oh you need
some snacks, they go in your bag. Needs to go
in your bag. Do you have your headphones? I won't
ask you again, yep, and they do. Do they pack themselves?
I hack For the most part. Addison is at the
age where she's very particularly she's wearing, so she likes
to make sure she double checks what I put in
the suitcase for her. Like Austin really doesn't care. Yeah,
(15:09):
He's like, whatever, I'll wear the same shorts all week,
well long, I don't care. He's gonna remember his switch
and his phone so he can play roadblocks, and he's
going to bring a book like he loves to read.
And then he's pretty solid. He also just like likes
to sleep, so he has no problem to be like,
can I just like lay on your shoulder? I'm like, yeah, man,
all da yes please. He's the greatest guy in the
entire world.
Speaker 2 (15:30):
Oh my god, snuggling. I miss that so much with Max.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
I enjoy my children. I genuinely enjoy my children. I
enjoy to do things with them. And I really enjoyed
vacationing in Hawaii with them. Like they're just they're just
really great. Yes, I.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
Love that age there. Let's see, eleven would be like
fifth grade? Is she going into six going into sixth? Okay,
and then he's going in fourth yeah, okay. Oh, it
really is such a sweet time because once they hit
middle school, oh, the dealing with like the mean people
(16:07):
and like, so we were talking a lot about this
today is and Ben walked away from the conversation. He's like,
I want to always have a baby.
Speaker 3 (16:18):
I wanted to grow up. We were talking about sex.
We were talking about a great topic of conversation because
your children are older than mine. So you know, I's
asking you and Ryan's advice about like when do you
do it right? Because Austin is nine, Addison is eleven. Yeah,
and I know that I was sharing that like I
was in high school before I heard girls at the
(16:40):
lunch table talking about a bja oh yeah, they were
talking about food, right, I did not know. And then
when I heard that they were putting certain things in
their mouth. I was like, that's absolutely disgusting. I don't
know why you would do something like that. Like I
was like, this is why would you do that? But
apparently these kids these days talk about it at an
early age.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Well not only talk about it, but they see it
through social media and on the internet. And that's why
I wanted to talk about it with you today, because
I think you're right on the precipice of when you
really do need to have the conversation with them, because
you at least I didn't want my kids learning about
certain things through their friends or through the internet.
Speaker 3 (17:21):
Also, what I was asking you is it's you know,
I'm only going to get one go with this, right,
you know what I mean? And right they are at
an age where I'm trying to figure out when is
it appropriate. I don't want it to be too early,
but I also don't want it to be too late.
I don't want them to be learning about this stuff
at school. So I appreciate you know, having friends who
are in a different phase of life, but I appreciate
(17:42):
you and Ryan sharing openly with me about how I
could navigate this with my kids, and not to say
that it has conversation. But it was like from my
dad and he was like, hey, a guy does this
and a woman does this, and like, don't do it totally,
don't come home pregnant. That was the extent of it. Like,
I want to create a very safe space for my children.
I want them to always feel like they can come
to me and talk to me. And the truth of
(18:04):
the matter is that sex in a capacity when you're
ready is a very natural and wonderful thing to have
in a relationship. One, yeah, it is, totally, but it's
also there's the basics of it that you have to
teach your children. And that's where I'm just trying to
gauge and understand when is the time to do that totally.
Speaker 2 (18:23):
And that's hard, and you have to do what is
right for you and your family, right, but I just
want you to start thinking about it, you know, just
because they are at the ages that they're at, and go, like,
talk to other people. You know, this is for you
guys out there who are listening to go talk to
other people about what was right for them, what they
(18:43):
were able to do, when they did it, why they
did it, you know, all of those things. For us,
I just I can't remember exactly when it was, and
I just feel like it really allowed my kids to
know that there's nothing that I won't talk with them.
There's no shame. They I am their safe place. They
(19:04):
can always come to me always, and I I want
them to. I want them to always know that they
can come to me and feel comfortable. And so as
long as you establish that, I feel like that's so
valuable and important and crucial in a parental, you know,
(19:24):
relationship with your child. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Absolutely, I'm grateful for the advice. You know what I mean.
I admire you guys, you know, as parents, a couple.
You know what I mean. Thank you?
Speaker 2 (19:34):
Okay, So what things in your life are you looking
forward to? Obviously, you have been working as a private
polight attendant, which I feel like is like one of
those jobs where it's like a dream job, dream job
for people, especially for someone like you who loves the
whole like chef, catering, nurturing experience. Tell less about that job.
(20:02):
What's going on currently in your work life and what
you're looking forward to?
Speaker 3 (20:08):
I think with you know, everything that's taken place in
my life, I'm in a very transformational I'm in a
very transformational place. Like I feel like I'm almost like
this like rebirth, you know what I mean, which is
really exciting, Which is really exciting. I get to decide
what do I do next, relationship wise, career wise, as
(20:30):
a woman, you know what I mean, as a mother,
as as a business person, you know. And I have
so many things that I feel passionate about, and I
have so many jobs that I love, so I'm trying
to figure that out. I've been in corporate aviation for
fifteen years, and yes, you're right, I love my job.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
I love this.
Speaker 3 (20:51):
It's called corporate aviation.
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Sorry, I was like, that's a luxury flight attendant or
whatever I just call.
Speaker 3 (20:56):
It's totally corporated. I'm a glorified server. That's what I am.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
But I work whatever thousand thousand, yeah, you.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Know, forty forty eight sometimes okay, yeah, corporate aviation, which
is private jets. I do get a lot of interest
in my job, and it is a very interesting job.
But I think that's what people they see, the glamorous
side of my job. You know. I love posting videos
of me in the galley making up food because it
is it is like you have to be a magician
(21:25):
in the air, like, there's no pulling over when I
forget the hot sauce. Like, I have to know how
to create things and make things in the air from
what I've got. Yeah, and I've gotten pretty good over
the years of figuring out how to make things in
the air, how to make sauces, how to heat things up,
how to not heat things up, how to burn things.
I've done at a time or two. I could tell
you some stories. Tell them, I tell them a story.
(21:48):
My biggest fear in the air is a fire on
an airplane. Oh, no kidding, because an airplane is literally
it'll go up in seconds. Yeah, you know what I mean.
I think that anyone who is in a aviation in
general would relate to what I'm saying. A fire in
the air is very scary. You have to find it quickly.
You have to hope you can put it out. You
have to hope you can get it extinguished and then
(22:08):
get your plane to safety. It's scary. It's terrifying. I
cook a lot. If I have the luxury of being
at home, I will prep things in my own kitchen
and then I take them at work. Yep, and I
make some pretty damn good biscuits trista. It's my grandmother's recipe,
and I only do it when I have a lot
of free time because it's pretty labor intensive for me.
I'm not a solid baker, so I follow the recipe
(22:31):
to a tea, you know. But there's a lot of
folding and kneading and folding and kneading, and then you
cut them up into beautiful squares and then you freeze
them and there's a lot of butter. And I love boom.
So I bake these beautiful biscuits at home and I
freeze them overnight, so go so I can take them
to my plane and bake them the next day. Yeah,
and we're going across the water. So when I say
that we're going over Hawaii, it's the largest body of
(22:51):
water you'll ever fly over, which is there's a point
of no return. Did you know that?
Speaker 2 (22:56):
What do you mean? No, I don't know what you mean.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
Hawaii from l Hawaii is the largest body of water
you'll ever fly over. Okay, The point of no return
is like once you get halfway, if something were to happen,
you keep going. Oh until that point something happens, you
would turn around and come back. Okay, but there is
a point okay that like, if something were to happen,
you try to make it the rest of the way.
I'm no pilot, so i don't have to deal with that, Okay.
(23:21):
I'm just along for the ride. So I'm baking these biscuits.
And I make the mistake of putting the biscuits on
the top rack. And if you've never seen an oven
on an airplane, and a galley is really small, It's
very small. If you took a good look at my
arms in my hands, you'll see scars up and down
because the oven is so small and the racks are
like it's like an inch and a half in between.
(23:42):
So you just constantly and I'm you work fast on
a plane, you know. And if you're thinking about in
a restaurant, I'm serving a meal surface sometimes to eight
or twelve people, sometimes just a few, but sometimes a lot,
And so I'm doing a lot of things in a
very small space. I slap these biscuits in the oven
and don't realize that when they rise, they sit on
(24:02):
the top part of the oven. So pretty quickly these
biscuits start burning and the airplane and I've like never
done this this was only a few years ago. Okay,
So I tend to think that I'm a pretty great
flight attendant. And all of a sudden they start smoking.
And the other thing that you don't know or you
might know about an aircraft is like we circulate the
same air, yes, right, So when it starts smoking, like
(24:24):
it's smoking, oh, and I'm like, oh, I'm like, you know,
I'm trying to wave it. I turned the oven off,
like I listened to my cues first, Like, I turn
the oven off. Nothing actually like lights, flames, you know
what I mean, but like when you burn something in
your oven at home. But the problem is is it
starts going through the whole air of the aircraft. Crap.
So I turn the oven off, and these biscuits are
chalk like they're done, and I can't They're too hot
(24:45):
to throw in the trash bag. And I'm like, there's
no way you can't just toss them out the window.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
You know.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
So my pilot, yeah, sorry, sir, no, don't mind the biscuits.
My pilot comes back and he's like, are you burning something?
And I can't remember what plane, but my galley's in
the rear and I was like, yeah, man, like I'm burning,
so we end up they have a switch the way
they can let some of the air out. But yeah,
that was that was not.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
And were you near the point of no return? Is
that why you brought that up?
Speaker 3 (25:10):
No, I actually did it pretty early. But it's fine.
There wasn't a fire. I was just burning biscuits. I
just burning biscuits. There was no fire. It just dunked
to high heavens. So I did that. And then one
other thing when I was a flight isn't. When I
first started my job, I had no clue what I
was doing. And fifteen years ago they used to just
kind of throw us to the wolves, like and they
just get on a plane and do whatever. And I,
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thankfully was pretty good at my job. I had a
long history and service industry. I had worked on every
level of a restaurant in my life, Like I've managed,
I've hosted, I've rolled silverware, I've done it all. Yeah,
I get this job and it's you know, this young
woman who's been on this account for a really long time.
She's like, it'd be easy, peasy, You're just gonna fly
to San Francisco. By the way, I baked cookies before landing,
(25:52):
and I was like, Okay, I'm gonna bake some cookies,
just like, can you just order the dough. She's like, yeah,
I'll just get them. You just pop them on a
pan and stick them in the oven. And if you
know this about me, I am a cook. I am
not a baker. Yes I'm not. Yeah right, cool, cool, cool.
I get on this plane right before landing. I can
see the ground, like, you know, I only have a
few minutes. So I get the oven on and she's
I remember reciting in my brain, don't mess this up,
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you know, pop the dough on a pan, set a
timer in the oven. Bam. Right, the cookies are finally done.
We're probably like three thousand feet. I can see the ground.
I'm like, oh my god, serve the cookies. Serve the cookies.
I pull them out and they look like these little
bon bonds.
Speaker 2 (26:29):
They little rounds, ye yeah, or not, circles, sears, fears. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (26:34):
No one told me I had to flatten out the cookies.
So if he baked, is this like little ball and
everything bakes differently in the air. You've got you know,
the elevation, you've got the oven works, you know, faster harder,
heet hotter, you know. And so I get this little
cookie and at this point, I don't have time to
stop start over. We do not have time to.
Speaker 2 (26:50):
Baby smelling like cookies, so they're probably like, give me
a cookie.
Speaker 3 (26:54):
She bakes the parson cookies every time before landing. So
I take this little bon bon out and I'm like,
how am I going to do this? I stick it
in a little bowl and I stick a little mint
leaf on it. It looks cute, and I'm making my rounds
and I stick this little bowl in front of the
passenger one too like enjoying. He's like, oh my god,
this is so cute. And I was like, I thank you,
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oh so much. So cute, and he was like, wow,
little bite sized cookies. I would have never thought of this.
It's just a one biter. And he eats this cookie
and he was like, you're gonna have to tell her
how to do this. Oh whoa, We still have to
go home, Trista, I've got to make the same mistake twice, right, crap.
And I'll never forget that. Because he's like, oh my god,
this cookie, this is a little cute and I was like,
(27:38):
oh my god, I did it. By accident. But part
of my job is just knowing when not to say anything. Yep,
totally knowing when to smile yeah, and then hope the
same mistake happens again, right, and it did it? I
don't remember because I remember being so mortified by that,
because it was like my second or third flight, and
I was like, oh my god, this little bon bond.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
It looked like if you've ever seen that, it looked
like a bond bon you need, like a bite sized
cookie bonbond.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
I'll never ever forget it. You're like, no, I'm not
doing I can't remember if I made the same mistake.
But every time I bake cookies on an airplane now
I think of that. Oh that, don't mess cookies up,
don't make those cute, don't do it.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
Okay, So, because you spend so much time traveling, what
is your best packing pack?
Speaker 3 (28:18):
I actually hardly ever unpack really.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:21):
So because I travel so much, I have just like
a second set of everything. So like my work bag
I'm carrying around, yep, I have three sets of chargers.
I have all different, like I just keep extra sets
in my bag. Sometimes in my line of work, I
can get a two hour heads up, and I need
to be at the airport, so I always need to
have pressed clothes, got it ready to go, got it,
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and then a bag ready to go. Yep. I've made
the mistake one time in my career not having a
change of clothes and shopping at Target at eleven o'clock
at night for underwear. It's just not fun. So that's stressful.
I pretty much at all times have a bag packed,
like I have a you know, change of underwear bras.
But in my toilet tree bag, I have an extra toothbrush,
I have an extra razor, I have shampoo, I have
everything ready to go, a second thing of face cream.
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I just like have all of my things already the way.
It's just easy to zip up. I put it in
my bag. I don't fold my clothes when I put
them on my luggage. I roll them Sam, Sam, Yeah right.
It helps on the wrinkles, yes, and it helps fit
more stuff yes yeah. Yeah, and I'll do I'll do
like my shirt and pants together, Yep. I take a
couple of pair of jeans because I can wear the
same two pair of jeans for eighteen days. Of course,
(29:26):
I just do it. Yeah, and I'll roll my things
up and I tuck them together and then I stack yep,
and I'm also just to just set you over the
edge with my neuroses. I do it in like rows.
So like here's my workout clothes, They're stacked to the
back of the suitcase, like against against the back of
the bag because I can stack them two or threefold.
And then my underwear is always in the same thing.
(29:47):
My toiletrees are always in the same place. And then
for some reason, always on the right side of my
bag goes my toiletry bag, my makeup.
Speaker 2 (29:54):
That's why you knew today. So so i's so for
everyone listening to your.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
Room and you're unpacked, I'm like, you're insane. How do
you do this?
Speaker 2 (30:04):
So whenever I get somewhere, I have a carry on,
like here we can. I came here with a carry on,
and I unpack everything once I get.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Somewhere, because I have to crazy.
Speaker 2 (30:16):
I need to have it organized. I need to have
it like here's my workout clothes, here's my underwear, here's
my swimsuits, here's whatever.
Speaker 3 (30:23):
I have to have it all put away.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
She came in my room and braided my hair yesterday
for the pickleball tournament.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
And she was like real college besties.
Speaker 2 (30:31):
Yes, and and she was like, wait you take out everything? Well, well,
that night or maybe was it that night you called
me because we were at different houses and you were like, hey,
can you bring me? Was this last night you ringin
things out of my suitcase? And how spot on was
I in the page from my suitcase? And I was like, okay, sure,
(30:54):
I'll go in. And I went into her room and
she was like, okay, so go in my bag and
in the top part you're gonna find my blah blah blah.
Speaker 3 (31:02):
And I was like, okay, how does she know? Like
the inside flap, not the top pocket, but the bottom pocket,
not where my makeup wipes are. But on the bottom
pocket you'll find my sockscrab those on the suitcases. On
the very bottom you'll find a black pair of leggings.
Are like on point, without looking at my bag, I
know where everything is, yes, And I can carry on
and roll through an airport. It amazes me to this
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day when I have to commercial when I get through
the TSA checkpoint, people who don't know what to do
blows my mind.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But think they're they're travel as much as you you know.
Speaker 3 (31:35):
Clear clearly not clearly not. Every time I get on
a plane and I sit in the emergency roo, I'm like,
you're okay, I'm a flight attendant. I'll save your life.
Follow me, leg body leg come this way. Listen to
the sound of my voice. What's body legs mean? When
you get out? Our windows are smaller? Okay, when we
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get out of coach exits, Well, you don't want to
come out like butt first? How are you gonna get out?
What do you mean like people?
Speaker 2 (32:04):
What you think that people would actually go like that and.
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Try to get out? Do you know what the number
one thing is in an emergency situation? What people forget
to do? Do you know why the flight attendant stands
in front of you and shows you how to unbuckle
and buckle your seat belt? What in a panic situation?
In an emergency situation, they did a study the amount
of people who forget because when you get in a car,
how do you buckle your seat belt? Clicks in, yeah, yeah,
(32:27):
clicks in right, right right, push a button and it
pops out. They think that on an airplane it is
a latch. You have to lift up and remove the lever.
True it is different and in a panic situation, in
emergency situations, they don't know how to They have found
there was a study down on some airplane crash and
I can't remember what it was. The people who didn't
get out of the airplane. They found that they had
broken thumbs from where they tried over and over again
(32:51):
to press the button to release the seat belt. No way,
because until you're in a situation like that, you have
you have what like two types of people, fight or flight. Yep,
you know what I mean. Yeah, people who panic and
people who don't. I'm a leader, follow me, yeah yeah, yeah,
I'm getting out. You can come my way, yes, right, yes.
And then there are people who just you freeze, you
don't know what to do.
Speaker 2 (33:10):
Oh.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
They found in that crash, in particular, that these people
had blistered broken thumbs because they were pushing trying to
get their seat belt unlatched. They could not remember to
lift the lever to release the seat belt. That's why
the flight attendant always does it, says it. And I
always watch a flight attendant when she does the emergency procedures.
I do always because even a panic situation, even though
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I think if I were ever God forbid, right, I
think I would know what to do. But I watch
because studies have shown people who don't pay attention they
don't remember in a situation. And when you need to
get out there's a fire, there's a water landing, there's
something like that, you have seconds to survive. That's freaking scary.
I'm also a role follower, so oh yeah, and you
(33:56):
say listen, I'm gonna listen.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Okay. Is it true you shouldn't drink coffee or tea
on a flight because the water tanks on airplanes aren't
cleaned often? Oh look at that face. I do not
order coffee on an airplane. Do you know where else
you shouldn't drink coffee?
Speaker 1 (34:14):
Where?
Speaker 3 (34:14):
In your hotel room? Oh? Well yeah, oh I remember.
Light attendants have washed their pantyhose in those.
Speaker 2 (34:23):
I do not ever drink slight attendants wash their pantyhose.
Coffee makers in a hotel wash disgusting.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Also, just here's the thing. I can't go down this
rabbit hole trusted because I travel too much for a living.
But think about a hotel room. Okay, would you want
to clean a hotel room?
Speaker 2 (34:43):
Hell? No?
Speaker 3 (34:44):
Do you know what I do? What I always leave
money for the maid. I can't imagine a worse job,
yeah than to clean someone's hotel room. Yeah, I can't
imagine having to do that. So I carry money in
my wallet and I always leave it for the hotel staff. Yes,
that's a great hat. Do not drink her coffee in
your hotel room bit of advice.
Speaker 2 (35:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (35:03):
And do not drink the coffee on an airplane. Okay.
So do you see flight attendants coming on the airplane
with their Starbucks? Yes, get a coffee on the plane.
Speaker 2 (35:13):
So I remember when we did Special Forces. Ali Ali
Mano was on Special Forces on my season, and she
posted a story of the hotel room that we were
staying in in Wales. She looked on the inside and
it was I know.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Don't don't ever look. Don't ever, don't ever look. I'm
telling you, I travel too much for a living. I
do not watch those shows, those documentaries where they turn
the lights off into a black light to see what's
in the room. Don't do it. No, I can't because
I have just enough crazy in me and I'll never
sleep same Sam. And I've lucky in my life. Yeah,
like I am. I'm like the highest ranking person you
(35:53):
could possibly be like, I have so many points I
don't know how to spin them. I cannot look at
those things because yeah, once you start thinking about it, totally.
I wear my shoes in hotel rooms you just so
you know, don't wear my shoes in my house. Wow,
what do you think? They have dark color printed carpet
hotel names right right. Don't drink the coffee.
Speaker 2 (36:14):
Oh my gosh, So I don't drink coffee, so I
don't have that problem.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
But fixed don't drink the tea either. I don't.
Speaker 2 (36:19):
They get the hot water on the plane too, Yeah
no no, I just get it from a can, like
you know, give me this brite with ice.
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Say can you drink or the ice? Ice comes? The
ice gets brought to the airplane. They don't. Okay, so
ice is fine.
Speaker 2 (36:33):
You'll say, great, we're safe with ice, We're safe with
can you're actually open. Oh and don't take your freaking
shoes off.
Speaker 3 (36:40):
On the airplane, please.
Speaker 1 (36:41):
People.
Speaker 3 (36:42):
There was a study a long time ago. I'm just
really this is people are never going to fly again.
There was a study. There was a study done in
a laboratory, and I can't remember if they announced what
airline I was in a oh, in an air laboratory. Okay,
those are bathrooms on an airplane. And there was a
study done after like a six or an eight hour flight.
(37:04):
What was found on the lavatory floor? Nope? There were Nope,
you don't see this, but the producers are shaking their hands.
Don't tell them out loud. No, there were. There were
strains of hepatitis on the floor. Do you know I
will stop someone before they walk into a laboratory with
no shoes on. And I'm not being paid to do this,
(37:27):
Please save yourself. Do not do that. So put your
shoes on.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
Shoes stay on on a plane, but your shoes stay on.
Speaker 3 (37:36):
Do not go to the lab What is living on
that floor? As holy gross, don't do I could do this.
I could go on this tangent for a really long time.
Speaker 2 (37:55):
Okay, So since we're talking about not taking your shoes
off and feet, we have had an illuminating conversation before
we started this pod with We were talking about you
know what your next step in life is going to be,
career wise, what are you going to transl at those
Wait a second, well, we're going to transition into and
I don't know how it came up when we were
(38:16):
talking about fee and we were talking to go about
only fans and start a foot.
Speaker 3 (38:23):
My new career path, Yes, my new career path could
be showing my feet for a living. I'm not sure
being a dancer is in my future, but showing my
feet could be. Yes.
Speaker 2 (38:34):
So we learned that there is a thing called weeki
Wikiki feet wiki feet, and it has you are ranked
in order of like good feet, bad feet. Okay, so
Easton Easton is producer.
Speaker 3 (38:49):
I also thought we might be scott free, like we're
just old enough to where like this possibly can't be
a thing it is a thing, but apparently it is.
It's a thing.
Speaker 2 (38:57):
It's a thing, people, It's a thing. Easton has our
Easton has our rating. He looked up our rating before
we started. And so we are on the edges of
our seat.
Speaker 3 (39:08):
No, I want you to be mindful that I do
not have my feet in view. I want you to
be mindful that I am not putting my feet into
view because I've got some talons on it.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
You do not. Your feet are My feet are super
swollen and look like sausages right now.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
So okay, so hit it hit us with us better
than what I'm anticipating.
Speaker 2 (39:26):
Oh gosh.
Speaker 4 (39:27):
Okay, so to set the expectations, Yes, this is a
score out of five.
Speaker 2 (39:32):
Okay and wait, so wait, and I also want to
say what we learned is that they will take like
paparazzi photos and they'll zoom in on your feet in
order to get the rankings correct.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
Yes, so okay, yeah, yeah, we're on Trista's page right now.
Speaker 4 (39:48):
There's a lot of like, there's a there's a red
carpet for marriage book. There's one of t recovering from
an injury. It looks like an ankle injury.
Speaker 3 (40:02):
Yes, I broke my ankle. Oh, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (40:06):
It's gonna make you really think about what you guys
post on social media.
Speaker 3 (40:10):
Yes it is.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
Okay, we shall we reveal the screen.
Speaker 3 (40:15):
We shall reveal the scores.
Speaker 1 (40:17):
Okay, Oh hold my breath.
Speaker 3 (40:19):
I'm serious, Scarce.
Speaker 1 (40:21):
We're gonna start with Deanna.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Oh god, remember I need to be attractive. Okay out of.
Speaker 1 (40:25):
Five four point six nine, Holy crap.
Speaker 3 (40:29):
You've got great feet. See I told you I've heard
my new calling. I was waiting for like an audible,
like this is where your path is going, and I
believe it just came to me. I think God gave you.
I'm sorry, tell me that to get a four point six.
Speaker 1 (40:43):
Five?
Speaker 3 (40:44):
Wow, that's you have beautiful feet you're talking about anymore?
Look at these suckers at I don't know. There's some
close ups of my feet, a lot of them.
Speaker 1 (40:54):
Are you showing off your manicure and your feet are
in the background. That's what it looks like, is the.
Speaker 2 (41:02):
I am really, I am very scared. I am very scared.
I'm very scared.
Speaker 3 (41:07):
Point six that's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (41:11):
Four point seven out of five that's pretty stick.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
That's solid. That's I mean.
Speaker 4 (41:18):
And now, actually, before we move on to Trista, I
do you want to check this? They have your shoe
size on here, and I want to see.
Speaker 1 (41:22):
If it's accurate.
Speaker 3 (41:23):
Okay, that's so true.
Speaker 1 (41:25):
Say seven? Is that right?
Speaker 3 (41:27):
It's inaccurate?
Speaker 2 (41:28):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (41:29):
You know my friend Ben, he's trying to find me
a date. He asked me my shoe size today and
I politely just did not answer his question. I have
a big ass foot for my body. Put our feet
next to each other. No, it's embarrassing. Come on. The
producer she just went, she just gasped. Did you hear her?
(41:59):
I want you to know that my sister and her
husband are going to find this because they have made
fun of my feet my entire life, and they probably
feel so satisfied right now in this moment. Oh my god, Trista,
my toes are longer than your whole foot. Oh, I
can't believe I'm allowing you to do this. This is just.
Speaker 2 (42:25):
Yes. I have had this, this toe ring since I
was in I was in college and my dad took
me and my stepsister and stepmom to Key West and
we got that and I have had it ever since.
Even when I get like MRIs or whatever, they ask
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if you have any like jewelry or whatever that can't
be removed, and I'm like, yes that.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
So don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:52):
Yeah, I leave it on, it never comes off. And
then Deanna has a tattoo's.
Speaker 3 (42:57):
I got it with my sister. Yeah. You know, people
think that I'm all straight waist and I'm not. Look
at me. I'm so wild. I have a tattoo. Tattoo,
I have three three? Where's the third? A wild? Oh?
I'm so wild? You know Ben didn't ask me if
there were things about me that he didn't know. Just
(43:19):
look at me? Now, where's the third it's for me.
I have it for me, but I have it here
worthy that's awesome. There was a period of time where
I forgot that and I don't ever want to forget
it again. When I was eighteen, the cool thing to
do is to get a tattoo because you're allowed. And
my sister and I had a thing you're allowed or
you're an adult. You're an adult, and they will legally
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give it to you.
Speaker 2 (43:40):
Because I'm literally like, you're not allowed in my house
because my son just turned eighteen.
Speaker 3 (43:44):
My dad didn't know for a very long time. Yeah,
my sister and I had a thing for butterflies, and
she's my very best friend in the entire world, and
we went together once she turned eighteen.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Yep.
Speaker 3 (43:54):
And I have it on my right foot. She has
the exact same butterfly image on her left foot, so
when we stand together, we both have it and I
still love it to this day. I love it.
Speaker 2 (44:05):
I have that.
Speaker 3 (44:06):
I have this one on my ribs and then I
have just on my wrist. I have my kids birth
dates because I travel so much, and also when I
got divorced and had to, you know, split the kids
into two different homes, and I miss them. This I
just I love it. I touch it, I see it,
and it makes me think of my children to love it.
But back to my feet, since this is my bright
and shining moment, I will have you know that when
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I get my pedicure, they do compliment how big my
nail beds are. Yes, for real, they have a very
nice palette. Trista to paint my nails not so much
and for those same thing as my nail You didn't
know that my my toes are a solid four inches
longer than Trista's foot.
Speaker 2 (44:49):
They are not inches. You don't know your inches. She's
not a mathematician people.
Speaker 3 (44:54):
I wear a nine. I wear a nine, I'm not
a seven. That's very it's very flattering because I am
a short human and being I am five foot four,
you would not expect me to have this massively gargantuan foot. Unfortunately,
my toes take up at least three inches of my foot.
People should pay for this, I really, I know, selling
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myself for real.
Speaker 2 (45:15):
I'm like we might be joining all the only fans. People.
You might have to look only fans for feet.
Speaker 3 (45:20):
That would pay me a good dollar for me to
describe these nines in my running shoe on the and
a half.
Speaker 1 (45:26):
For sure, Trista, are you a six and a half?
Speaker 3 (45:29):
I'm a six?
Speaker 1 (45:30):
Okay, looks like we have to update some some wiki
feed data. Your score.
Speaker 2 (45:34):
I'm very nervous to hear my score, but yes, please tell.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
Me point seven seven.
Speaker 3 (45:42):
So I'm so happy. This is so exciting, this is
so exciting.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
These are both like the very top.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
Wow, but like, what are like? What's the average? Do
we know what the average wiki feet score is?
Speaker 4 (45:57):
Like?
Speaker 3 (45:58):
Do they give like two or do you.
Speaker 2 (46:01):
Know what I mean?
Speaker 4 (46:01):
I will look into this. I do not know that
much about Wiki fee is about their son. Everyone listening
is my first time on this website.
Speaker 3 (46:09):
I will tell you I made a conscious effort over
time when I saw other celebrities. I am not one,
but when I saw their pictures on the red carpet
and their shoes were too small, oh and the toes
go over. I talked about this on a different podcast.
There are certain things that are a hard pass for
saying that I can't sit past sam with men. It's
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dark jeans and case Swiss tennis shoes. I can't get
past it. And then what about birkenstocks and socks? I
love it. I'll do it up down. My husband does that.
I saw pictures of women on a red carpet one
time where the shoes were too small and their toes
creep over the edge and they were like climbed, and
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I just thought, if I have to wear heels that
are three sizes too big, please Lord, don't ever let
my toes crawl over me. And I would be open
to if someone finds a photo with my toes hanging
off the ledge of my shoe, please, by all means,
send it to tell me.
Speaker 2 (47:06):
You tell me that's a beautiful pot to me.
Speaker 1 (47:09):
I just found someone else on Wiki beat.
Speaker 3 (47:10):
Okay, Ryan, Oh god, what's his score?
Speaker 1 (47:14):
Oh yeah, four point three six?
Speaker 3 (47:16):
Yeah, we've got a beat.
Speaker 1 (47:17):
Is he a size thirteen?
Speaker 3 (47:19):
He's size eleven?
Speaker 2 (47:20):
Right? Wow?
Speaker 3 (47:21):
I mean Ryan has many wonderful redeeming qualities, but we
can let him not have the foot score like that's okay.
Speaker 2 (47:28):
We always tease and you guys, I'm taking this back
as ammunition to say, Babe, I have a four point
seven to seven.
Speaker 3 (47:34):
You've got My Wiki feet score is better than yours. Also,
you know what they say trista with men and big
shoe sizes that they have big, big shoes.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Would you like to know about Guinea's score?
Speaker 3 (47:51):
Yeah, we need to know Bob's. I can't wait. Should
we bring him in here so that he can hear
Noah for another hour?
Speaker 1 (47:59):
Yeah? So Ryan's at four point three six, Bob Guinea
is at four point three three?
Speaker 2 (48:07):
What about Ben Ben Higgins?
Speaker 3 (48:10):
We're getting leverage. Now, we're getting leverage.
Speaker 2 (48:12):
I just need to know Ben's and then we're done.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Four.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
Really, he's done well for himself. He's really thrived. And Okay, Ashley,
sorry to ask for Ashley.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Ashley, Okay, let's let's go because we have to do
almost famous and then we're done.
Speaker 1 (48:33):
Yes, four point four to four?
Speaker 3 (48:36):
Oh boy?
Speaker 2 (48:36):
Wow. So I know that this hasn't officially been announced yet,
but I know something and I'm really excited for you
to be able to share it with everybody.
Speaker 3 (48:49):
I think there's some great things in store for me.
I totally agree.
Speaker 2 (48:52):
Thank you, my friend,
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