July 21, 2025 • 53 mins
Summer House newcomer Lexi Wood may have moved out, but has she actually moved on??
Despite the Hamptons headlines and romance rumors, the self-proclaimed ‘Lover Girl’ isn’t quite ready to quit reality TV.
Lexi tells Gia what life was REALLY like in the Bravo bubble, and the person who actually made her feel right at home when the cameras weren’t rolling!
Plus the Canadian model addresses the Drake gossip, her loneliest moments, and the bittersweet way she celebrates her bad break ups!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of casual Chaos.
This week, I have a really exciting guest, Lexi would
welcome to casual Chaos. This is such a long time coming.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Oh my god, no, I know, I feel like we've
known each other for like a minute now, and yeah,
we've been trying to get the schedules to align.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
But it's also fun because we've really met each other
at events and that's how our relationship was formed. And
I think just being both in the Bravo world, you
kind of just connect right away. Yeah, and we were
like you just it's a level of trust.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I feel one hundred percent. It's like it's like a family.
You like see each other and you're like from across
the room and you're like, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Hid, I feel safe, immediate number exchange. And now it
finally worked out. So I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I feel like it's like the two dancing girl emojis
in real life.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
You know, you're just the taller version. It's just the shoes.
We were just downstairs and Lexi and I walked in
at the same time and I saw her. I guess
photo ID, Yes, Okay, she is a photo I d
not a license, and that's because you were living in Paris.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yes, so when I turned well, when I was sixteen.
So in Canada, it's like a little bit different getting
your license here. I feel like they kind of just
like it's.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Very easy here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I feel like you think, yeah, but in Canada they
get it through layers.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Really, Oh, I mean later than some states. We get
our license at seventeen. Then eighteen you get your adult
license and you can you know, have the normal amount
of people in the car, but oh, your probationary license too.
You can't drive past eleven. Okay, so there's like a
certain certain real rules for seventeen.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I feel like ours, Like, again, I don't have it,
so I don't I don't know. I've never gone through
the process, but I'm pretty sure it's like sixteen sixteen
some states in Yeah, and then you can't, like you
have to go through like your driver's before you're even
allowed to like practice on the real roads your six hours.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Maybe yeah, so the same thing in Jersey. Maybe it's
the same.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't know. So I was like I was modeling
so much and I just kind of feel like I
just never needed it. I lived downtown Toronto when I
was a teenager, so I just took the subway or
taxis to my jobs. And then I was homeschooled in
high school. Wow, so I did everything in my house.
And then I moved to Paris the day of my
(02:30):
seventeenth birthday, so obviously I wasn't getting my license then.
And then after that, I really just lived in cities
that I could take in huber, a taxi, the subway.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So does Toronto kind of remind you of New York City?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
One hundred percent. It's basically like a smaller, a smaller
version of New York. I feel like that's why I
love New York so much, and I feel so at
home here because it's so similar. And it's also like
a fifty minute flight.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yeah no, not that at all.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
No.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
So, then when did your modeling career really take off off?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
So I started modeling when I was I think, like eleven,
and I pretty much immediately like I kind of accidentally,
my dad is actually the one that got me into modeling.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I was super shy that we love the supportive dad.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
We love a supportive dad. So I he's a firefighter too,
so it was like so funny seeing him just like
love the glitz and the glamor of the following world.
And so he got me into modeling because I was
super shy. I wouldn't even like speak, And then I
met with the agency. The president of the agency was like,
sign me right on the spot, and I think I
(03:35):
started working like either the next day or two days later,
and ever since then, I just like haven't really stopped working.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
What was your first campaign when you were you said
you were eleven, Yeah, so what was your first campaign?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
My first campaign was actually for Walmart.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah, I did a lot of Walmart things I did
in Canada. I don't know if you guys have it
here sears, Yeah, okay, so I did, like Seers. I
was in like all the Wish books as a kid,
but I was also the paper girl, which made it
kind of confusing for the people that I was delivering
the newspapers too, because they'd be like, why are you
in the newspaper and like in the like Wish books,
(04:11):
but you're also delivering my newspaper and like knocking on
the door for three dollars, we got dollars.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
So you were the newspaper girls. Wait, that's so funny.
That was my mom's job too, really Yeah, when she
was younger, Wait, she would ride her bike around town
and deliver the newspaper.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, so you were always a hustler always Yeah, no, forever.
I feel like my parents really raise my sister and
I to always be like very business savvy. My mom
is so smart with like just real estate, and we
always kind of like she's just a brilliant business lady.
Her father was in business too, so I feel like
it comes really natural to her. Which then she taught
us a lot of like business moves.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
So yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Literally, my sister and I when we were younger, like
set like seven years old, we'd like go knocking on
doors selling like coffee mugs, or be like, oh my god,
like can we clean your eye? I was like anything
to just make money. Or I'd be out and I'd
be like, do you want to buy me this anyone? Which, yeah,
it was like always kind of hustling.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I love that. And you, your mom and your sister
are so close. Yeah, I feel like I saw you guys.
I think at every event together.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yes, no, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You guys are little.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yes, we work together, we party together. We I don't
know I'm just like so comfortable with them, and I
think that it's so nice because I lived by myself,
Like I started really traveling the world by myself when
I was eighteen.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Oh so she wasn't with you during so you moved.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I moved to Paris when I was seventeen with my
sister because I wasn't legally allowed to go by myself.
And then she older than you. Yeah yeah, yeah, so
she was nineteen and then I was so young. I know, No,
it was crazy. They like handed me a subway map
as soon as I landed, and they're like, you've a
casting in an hour, go figure it out.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I was like, what I think? I like, yeah, I
was like, And the airport is also not easy.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
No, no, like there's not one thing that Paris airport
and I, well, I think with everyone we have a
love hate relationship. I've cried in that airport so many times,
like most recently, like not that long ago. Yeah, like
I just that airport is so intense. But yeah, so
then I started kind of like I moved to New
York when I was eighteen, lived on my own and
(06:26):
then moved to a year. Yeah only for a couple
months actually, so in modeling, it's like kind of funny.
So you moved to places for only like three months,
and then you moved to another place basically just like
build your book and then you'll do like direct bookings
for that country. Okay, So like you moved to Paris
for yeah, three months and then came back to Canada.
(06:48):
And then I moved to Miami for three months and
then they went back, and then moved to New York
for longer because it was like closer. Yeah, and then
I moved to la then I moved to London and
then yeah, so kind of like all over.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
The place, You've been everywhere.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, which is so great, Like I love, I mean,
it really is.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I feel like it teaches you so much. And then
as you're just traveling, you're seeing so many incredible things.
Yeah that the average person, you know isn't fortunate enough
to say no exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
But I think that's what's so funny is like I
now appreciate having my family around so much and being
able to work with them because I really did everything
alone for like almost like like seven eight years. Yeah. Yeah,
they we just started working together like two years ago.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
So now your fam is back together yes, but otherwise
you were traveling to all these countries by yourself. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Wow, Yeah, I like went to.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Did your agent or manager ever come with you? No?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
No, so I would like these castings, yeah, I would
go And then like I went to Australia once for
a job for literally thirty hours, and I had to
go back to Lafe for another job. I like went
to Bolly by myself. I went i Italy by myself.
Like I there's so many places, like really traveled like
everywhere by myself, which is so lovely. But then also
(08:13):
you want somebody to like yeah, so yeah, it's nice
to have them with me.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
That's crazy. Yeah, but such a you know, beautiful life
at the same time. So, now you're back in New York.
I am you moved here from Miami?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
No, so I moved here from LA four years ago.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Wow, and now you're you're here.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Yeah, there's my home.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
You think you're going to go back to Canada.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
It's funny. I I mean, I guess, like you never know.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Realistically, I never want to say never.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, like never say never. But because I've lived in
America for so long, like I actually think about this
all the time. I'm like where am I realistically going
to meet my husband? And then like if my husband's America,
this is like so crazy, But like if my husband's American,
then like is he gonna want to move to Canada?
And now that I work with my family and they
get to live and like work in America, there's just
like there's so much thought that goes into it. But
(09:10):
I do feel like since my family is here now.
I gave to New York, so my parents still have
their house in Canada and like they still family homes. Yeah, yeah,
but my mom and sister are mainly here now because
obviously we have so many work things that we have
to do together. So yeah, it's just I feel like
(09:30):
over the past two years, now knowing that they can
also come and go, it really has made me feel
more like America is definitely more home, where before I
was just kind of like by myself in America, like okay,
your family, yeah, And I'm like, is my sister's kids
and I want my kids and her kids and like, you.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Know, I feel like when you meet your person, you
guys will figure it out together. Yeah, it's gonna be
hard because especially his family's here, But now that your
family is here. Yeah, maybe your sister will want to
ste Yeah does she Well, we never know.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
It depends on where her husband is. Like I think
that it really just like yeah, I think it'll just happen.
It'll all fall into place. I try not to think
about it too much, especially now because I'm like, oh,
like now we can kind of move more fluidly, whereas
before it was so like two different countries and like
there was no option. But yeah, I think it just
(10:28):
depends on where my person is. I mean, damn, maybe
they're not even in America or Canada. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
You've been everywhere, But do you feel like you were
never settled in an area?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
One hundred percent. I feel like I was so lonely,
And I think that's one thing that.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
You never got to really make friends in each one
of these places because you were there for such a
short amount of time.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Definitely. Well, I think actually the opposite. I like have
to leave my heart in everywhere, like every part of
the world. Like one of my best friends lives in Sweden,
my best friends lives in Manchester, one of my best
friends lives in Australia. One so I have to like
leave little pieces of me and like a big, a
big part of like my best friends, like in just different.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah continents, And did you meet a lot of your
friends at modeling castings and stuff like that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Through work.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
So it's either we were booked on a job together
and like we were shooting together in a different place or.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Because you I feel like you bond so much when
you're doing a modeling shoot because you have to feel
comfortable with that person that you're doing it with. And
I feel like shoots are so fun. They just feel
so confident when you're doing them, and it's a fun
energy that's going around. So then you get so close
with the person that you're doing it with that you're like,
(11:46):
let's go get drinks after.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
No, honestly, and like you really do. It's like a sisterhood.
I think that's what's so great. Like I have not
one competitive bone in my body because I just grew
up with like like in the modeling world technically like
everyone's competition, but also nobody's competition because it literally comes
down to like a freckle at the casting and at
the end of the day, like if I can't get
(12:08):
the job, like I want my girls to get the job,
like I I want to see them on those billboards.
I want to see them on the commercials. I want
even if I was up for the job too and
I didn't get it, like, I'm just so happy for
them that they did get it. So yeah, I have
like not one competitive bone in my body, like I
want everyone to win, and I know what's mine is
mine and what's theirs is theirs. And like cheering from
(12:30):
the sidelines, I love it.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Well, that's the best way to be.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
And that's also so good for yourself and your mental health, yeah,
because it just keeps you in such a you know,
free spirited, sane mindset, because when those feelings take over,
I feel like it could be pretty crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Yeah, I feel like it would be like a very
dark feeling. I remember like like you're not good enough. Yeah.
I remember one of the first jobs, like I went
to this casting I think it was really home depot
and I was like I had lines, Like I was
like I was really getting it, Like I was like, no,
like this is my job. One hundred captain director loved me,
like he basically said like see you soon, and I
(13:08):
ended up never hearing back. And then I see the
commercial on TV and they ended up going with like
a Boy, and so I was like, you know what,
I looked at my parents and my parents are like, oh,
this is her commercial. And then I sit there and
I was like, well, I can't be that so and
then I think that and I think I was like eleven,
Like it was right at the start of my career.
So I feel like that was really my mindset always
(13:29):
moving forward. I was like, well, I can't be anything
but me, and that's perfect. So no, no worries if
I don't get the job.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
So living in New York, you feel like it's your home.
You've been here for four years. How did you end
up on Summer House?
Speaker 2 (13:53):
So I knew Amanda okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Because usually I feel like if you know somebody on
the cast or friend of a friend. That's kind of
how it works in the Bravo world a little bit.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah. So Paige and Amanda had been following me on
Instagram and then kind of like when I realized obviously,
I followed them back because they're fabulous and they have
great style and gorge, and so then we were kind
of like Instagram friends.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
And then I met Amanda at an event and we
just really like bonded. We talked about everything literally under
the sun. And then it was actually that night that
she was like, would you want to go on the
show that I'm on? And it's funny because I remember
we were sitting outside of my house and I was like,
I gotta be honest now, Like I was like, not
(14:37):
at all. And it was the year that the boys
went on, so the year before I was getting on,
and then I was like, I honestly would just want
to like meet more of you guys instead of just
like having us like my soul comfort. And then slowly
I like met Paige during fashion Week in real life,
so then I felt like being like face to face
(14:57):
so different than Instagram total. And and then I met
like a few other people at events. So when I
was going in, like I felt really good. I knew
the three girls and then meeting everybody else, and because
I came from like a modeling background and influencing, I
really was like, oh my god, this would be great.
I'm gonna meet new friends, We're all gonna be besties,
(15:18):
and this will be so fun. It's a Canadian you.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Really like, we're going in there to just make new friends. Yeah,
and then did you did you? I mean, I feel
like everyone thinks about this to themselves, but did you
also look at it as an opportunity to better your career?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
And funny, I never thought about that, which sounds.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Crazy, No, but honestly, it's if your career was already
at its peak and at its fullest and you didn't
obviously you gained something from everything, yeah, but if you were,
you know, satisfied within yourself with your career, you were
probably like, I'll just do this for fun.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Yeah, And it was honestly just a part of the
industry that I hadn't like experienced, I had experienced like
acting or obviously influencing modeling, Like I feel like I
experienced so many different parts of the industry that reality
was really the only space that I hadn't been a
part of. And obviously, like there's there's so many different
aspects of the industry, but reality was something that was
(16:15):
just always I'm so open and I just thought it
would be a good fit. And I think because yeah,
I already had a million followers, already had things I
never even thought about, like, oh, I'm gonna get so
much exposure from this. I really just went in being
like this will be so fun.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
The Bravo world there's just different.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Yeah, No, for sure.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I feel like they are probably not like your average
followers that you had.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Yeah. I think because I lived in so many different places,
my following is so like international.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, which is awesome.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah, obviously I had a lot of people from Australia.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
They love Bravo. My mom run a full Australia tour
right now.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Oh we got no way.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Yeah, she's doing shows like all over Australia right now.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Okay, wait, that's so cool. I love Australia because they
have hay You there. So in Canada we have hay
You okay, and then they have hay You and it's
like a big Bravo network.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Well, they love Bravo. Yeah. Whenever I am in Greece
because Mikonos is my favorite place ever. Have you I've
never been to Greece. I was.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I've been talking about this for so long. I actually
had a job.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
They would kill it.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
I'm obsessed, just like thrive there.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Maybe maybe you'll find your husband there.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Maybe every boy and Greece, no, come.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
On, European men are just chef's Kuss there, but they
it's so much fun and miconos. But when I we've
gone to summers now, and because right now in Australia
it's their winter. Yeah, so they go to Europe in
the summers you get the warm weather and I see
(17:56):
so many Aussies there and they run up to us
and they were like, we love Bravo and they're just
like so cute. I love their accents too, I know.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
I'm like, imagine if we had accents like that, like
that would just be so British. I'm just like, per
it's so nice, and.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
I just have my raspy Jersey accent.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
I love a Jersey accent. No, I'm not even joking.
It's one of my favorite acts. Yeah, obsessed.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
I think it's so cute things. Yeah, I love Do
you feel like I have a hard one?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
No, I feel like you're just very smooth. Yeah, it's
it's an accent.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
For sure, But I don't I don't think so okay perfect.
I don't know. I feel like I'm just very like
I wouldn't exaggerate saying coffee like that doesn't come out
of my mouth like that was me exactly.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Do you want it to come out of your mouth
and like do you have to consciously think?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I don't know. Sometimes dog is a thing I love.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Sometimes I'll be standing there and I'll say something and
I'm like, well, I meant to say dog.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I'm obsessed with that. I wish my like Canadian accent
pops out sometimes, especially if I hanging out with my
dad a lot, and it's like it's insane, like how house.
Like when I had to say, like Summer House, I
was like, oh my god, I have to like really
concentrate on this.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Was Summer House. What you were expecting or what were
you expecting going into I guess being on reality TVA.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I honestly I had no idea what to expect. Like
I it's funny, I didn't even I owned a TV
in LA, but I didn't ever watch it. And like,
for a long time, I didn't even this sound so bad.
I didn't know how to turn it all. So I
didn't really Yeah, no time for TV. No, literally it
was either I was working or hanging out with friends
and sleeping like that was really it. So I didn't
(19:46):
even really tune into any of the shows, and I
never watched Summerhouse before I was on it, so I
had no idea, I had no expectations, no other than
obviously to like make besties for the resties, but other
than I, like I I had no idea how anything worked,
which kind of I kind of loved that, Like I
didn't treage me, Like I was like, Okay, what's going
(20:07):
to happen here? I definitely found out.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
So was it not what you were expecting?
Speaker 2 (20:11):
I think watching it back, you see a lot of
things that it's funny because like there's that saying like
ignorance is bliss. Sometimes it really that's true because I
saw so many things that I was like, wait a minute,
what is going on right now? Like whoa that happened
behind my back? Or you know, your perception of things,
(20:32):
and then how like yeah, then like when you see
the other side or how it's shown, you're like, whoa,
that's like so that's crazy, Yeah, that's crazy. So yeah,
I think that it definitely was like a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I think it's hard because going on to any reality show,
you can't control the editing realm. Yeah, and as much
as what people do behind your back, it's all a
part of the plot. It's all about piecing together how
the drama is gonna look its best, so they can
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cut out things that you say during a confessional, cut
out how a scene really played out, and it's all
to make it look its best. They are producing a
TV show at the end of the day, and as
crazy as it is, it's just the rollercoaster of being
on reality TV and how I've been looking at next gen.
(21:33):
After each episode, I kind of just sit there, I reflect,
and I look at it as a chance to grow.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Yeah, one hundred reals they do no, And I will
say I learned a lot even just like watching yourself back,
I'm like, oh my gosh, whoa Okay, so that's not
like you have a feeling in your soul and how
you think that it's like being executed, but then it's
like completely not, it's not picking up like that, and
so then you really like you learn so much, which
(22:03):
I love and like I would do reality again. I
think that it was a space that like I really
felt good in because I love being myself. I mean, like,
that's the best job in the world to just have
to be yourself. And yeah, I think that it's amazing
for the right opportunity. But yeah, I think I definitely
(22:23):
learned a lot and I love that.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, I think that it was a cool No. I
love what you just said because you feel in the
moment that you are being so true to yourself and
doing the right thing and being totally in control. And
then sometimes you watch yourself back in you're like, whoa,
that is not me? Or actually that didn't happen to
(22:49):
the full.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Extent, yes, or like the content or this didn't completely gone,
or like there's just so many there's from.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
A view, this wasn't played out how this was actually
played out when I was there, like played out to
its fullest, I guess.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Yes, or like they don't show certain aspects to highlight
other aspects, and then it's like, well, damn if I
saw what the audience saw, I might have made other choices.
I'm only living with like what's in front of me
and what people are telling me to my face, and
that's really all you can go by. And then watching
(23:24):
it back, I was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
And we also go by what we experience throughout the
whole season, So there's also things that happen throughout the
whole season that get cut that are not shown and
so when you're sitting there, you're reacting to what's been
going on for the whole season. Yeah, and viewers sometimes
(23:49):
don't see what you see.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Yeah. And I also think that it's funny because the process,
like Love Island, I think, does it really great because
they it airs like pretty much right.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Away and I think much editing time.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, it's crazy. And then I think what's difficult about
like some other shows, and like I don't know when
you guys filmed, but it's like a year ago okay, yes.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Actually over almost. We started filming in June. We filming August,
beginning of August. Okay, so we're reaching like our year mark. Yeah,
we ended filming.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Yeah. So then you kind of just like you heal
from like all the drama, and then all of a
sudden it starts to air, and then you hear things
that were said behind your back and things like things
were playing out differently, and then you kind of are
sitting there being like, okay, one, I know for my situation,
like I was like, I'm embarrassed. I obviously I am
(24:43):
learning so much about myself but also about other people,
and you almost like don't know how to even take
on those feelings because I'm like, okay, I'm over it,
like I fully was like moved on, like I was
fully moved on from the situation in more ways than one.
(25:03):
And but then you start seeing it and you're like, wait,
am I angry again? Because I feel angry again? But
then you don't know what's going on because then you're like, okay,
the edit, okay, well that completely is taken out. They'll
take it like weeks, so it looks like it went
from like zero to one hundred, and that's like whoa, Like.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
I don't even know what's going on anymore.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
And then I'm like, but it was I remember it,
And then I'm like, am I crazy? No?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Yeah, I feel very fragile right.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Now, do you Okay?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
No, it's I'm like, this is just not what I remember. Yeah,
and I totally remember. You know. During my season of
Next Gen, I had my couple moments where I got
you know, we all have. I got feisty, you know.
My eyes were bulging like they were probably seeing ten
(25:59):
we're only human but yeah, no, only human and my
eyes like actually were bigger than my face. I need
to chill my eyes need to chill the out, like
my eyes don't hill the fout, like I don't know
what's gonna happen, Like it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
They're beautiful eyes, you should, I know.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
But like it's a little scary, like it's like, whoa,
I'm looking into your soul, Like it looks like I
want to, like, you know, do bad things. Yeah, it's
not it's not nice. Yeah, but I knew throughout my show,
I was always trying to be a girl's girl and
stand up for what I believed in. And while doing that,
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I think sometimes it kind of bites you in the
butt a little bit, Like it kind of bit me
in the ass a little bit because maybe I looked
like I was overdoing it and getting too involved when
there was also a million other things going on. But
of course it was. They constant showed me kind of
(27:02):
butting myself into it and cut down everything else, which
again shame on me, because I should have been more
mindful and I should have known that. You never know
what happens in the editing room, for sure, But I
it's so hard because it's reality and you're trying to
be yourself and also like.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
You have all of the moments and if somebody that's watching,
isn't understanding that there's like other pieces to the entire puzzle.
That's kind of like on them because you are trying
your best to like stay true to your morals and values,
which is a girl's girl. And I feel like that
was me too, Like my thing was like I will
never fight with a girl period, Like like I will
(27:43):
never go back and forth if a girl says like, oh, hey,
this hurt my feelings immediately, whether I understand it or not,
like oh, I'm like period, like I am listening and
hearing you. Yeah, I will just never fight with a
girl because like I think women are great. I think
will women are brilliant. I believe women. I think that
like they're always right.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
They are always right, they are And.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I think that like at the end of the day,
when we're together, that's like powerful, Like.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Well, it's a lot more powerful than men when you
think we could dominate.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
When I think about like a group of men walking
into a club, like I don't even notice when I
think about a group of like batty women.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Like reminds me like come on, give like a good
a good like entrance show right now, like sex in
the city.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yes, giving like I just picture me and my girlfriends,
like all in great outfits, great makeup, great hair, vibing,
not caring about a boys walking in slow motion. Literally
like that's what I picture. Yeah, Like that's powerful when
when the girlies are together, you literally can't beat it. No,
but I do understand what you're saying. But you definitely
(28:49):
can't beat yourself up for that because there is so
like there's so much that goes into life.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
So much there's and you just move on. Yeah, they'll
talk about something else tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Well fair, that's so fair. Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
But how are you feeling after So you were a
little angry after watching everything back between Jesse and Sierra.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
Well, it wasn't even like just that. I think I
was really upset at.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
Like everyone kind of yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Not everyone obviously, Like I don't want to Yeah, I
don't want them texting me after hearing because of me,
Like why are you mad at me? I'm not mad
at everyone? And I'm definitely like I've moved on from
that entire summer, in that entire situation, I feel like
I've said what I've needed to say when the show
is airing, And I was kind of like doing, Like
when Bravo was putting me out on the press tour,
(29:38):
it's kind of your yeah, yeah, like I.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Said, I felt like that's exactly what I was saying too,
Yeah in mine.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Yeah, Like it was just kind of like, Okay, this
is the time to talk about what's going on and
how it made me feel and whatever. But honestly, like
I'm so moved on from it, and like I've dated
other people, I've like my life is so full and
I have so much going on. To harp on something
that happened to you year ago is just and it
was two months of my life, like realistically, like let's
(30:05):
also let's make that clearly.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
A short relationship. Yea very short lived Yeah, And.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
Like I figured it out really fast in the grand
scheme of things, like I was like, okay, perfect, I.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Think that that's that also puts a ton of pressure.
You're in a relationship on a reality TV show. You're
in the Hamptons every weekend with these people, and then
things end and you just got to keep going because.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yeah, but like also, yeah, I feel like that's also
just like life in general, Like I had other public
relationships and it's fine, like who cares you're not my person. Goodbye,
onto the next. You know, like my thing with dating
is actually get like a breakup cake every single time.
Like for me, it's a celebration. I'm like LFG like
(30:51):
onto the next because I'm one guy closer to like
my husband, and I love that. Like, I'm just like perfect,
I learned my lesson. Let's wrap that with a bow.
If I need to like vent or something, I will
say it all.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
But you also have your sisters for that.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
That's the thing. Yeah, I'm just like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
I have you have your safe space.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Yeah, and I'm also just like such an open book
that I'm just like I'll say it to their face too.
I don't care.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
I think the communication is like really important.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
But you also hold yourself so well. I love your
whole mentality. You're kind of like I don't give vibes,
nothing bothers me and one step out a time.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Yeah, I'm I feel like and maybe that's like my virgo.
Like I'm definitely an overthinker, but how I process things,
and like the more upset I am, the more calm
I get, and the more I just want to be
like Okay, but I'm also very blunt.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
That's crazy. The more you overthink things, the more calm
you get. Yeah, I feel like the the more I
overthink things, the more my anxiety goes through the roof.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
I just like breathe through it and I'm like, Okay,
it's funny. So I used to have like an insane
fear of like traveling, and like obviously because I was
like so young traveling. Yeah, but my sister would always
be like, just take it one step at a time.
She'd be like, Okay, what's also, what's like the worst
thing that's gonna happen? And I'm like, you know what,
Like that's actually really slay because nothing like nothing that
bad is gonna happen. Like even if I forget my
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suitcase and like it's chaos and whatever. If as long
as I have my phone, a charger and my passport,
I'm good. I can figure it all out in my
wallet and might need that.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
On Summer House, did you feel welcomed by everybody or
did you feel like an outcast?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
I think my situation was so unique, Like everyone that's
new coming into the house in the future, I think
will have a different experience for me, and I really
hope that they do. My experience was very unique because
I went in with someone, then she left, and then
(32:59):
I was kind of just like a new person by myself,
and like what is great is like they all have
known each other for so long, whether they're close or not,
they've just known each other for so long. And I was.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
New how many ogs were on Summerhouse when you were there?
Almost everyone? Almost everyone, right besides Sierra.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Mm hmm, yeah, I think I think Paige Page, but
like they've also been on forever forever, so like I
feel like in my eyes, like they're OG's, you know
what I mean, Like in my like a.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Lot of the boys though, are new.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Yeah, the Boys. The two Boys came.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
In, Carl like yeah, yeah, yeah much, Yeah, I think, Yeah,
Amanda and Kyle have been on for a long time too.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Yeah, so yeah, I think basically everyone. Gabby came in later.
I think she was the season before the Boys, and
then it was me. It was then the Boys then me.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
So you're kind of like a hot new bombshell entering
the villa.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Yeah, And I think just because I was alone, like
I really was just trying to find like grounding and
footing in wherever, like I could and it definitely is
like a different Last summer was just like a different
experience than I think any other summer from like what
I've heard in just the sense of like everybody was.
(34:28):
Everybody is just in like a different time in their life. Obviously,
Lindsay was pregnant, Like that's amazing, Like she's such a
great mom. Gema is so beautiful and brilliant, not surprising.
But you know, like everybody's in different phases than they
were ten years ago. And I'm I was going in
twenty six, like I'm like, let's have fun in the Hampton's.
(34:53):
But also I am like a grandma in some ways too, so.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Like I feel like I feel like everyone.
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Is yeah right, I'm like I me and my girlfriend cool.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yeah, me and my girlfriends we rent every year down
the shore.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
Okay, love and same energy.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
The same energy. Yeah. But I'm my guys, this is
not ending next summer. Yeah we're twenty four. Yeah, next
summer will be twenty five.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Yeah, you're still so young.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
This cannot be the end.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
No, no, no, no, no, you can even run that for
a long time.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
Let's not shut the coffin.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Yeah we're okay, And if you take the mentality of
other people, like in summer else like you could do
it forever, forever, forever, like they have energy, you could
do this for so long. I'm like, this is the
Shore is not going anywhere.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
No, I do really want to go to the Hamptons, though,
so bad.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Would you switch over from Jersey Shore to the Hampton's Yeah?
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Really, as I get as I got older, I totally would.
I feel I think the Jersey Shore is always home, yeah,
and it always will be a place that I well,
always enjoy going to. But once I'm a little older,
like I wouldn't even mind going to the Hampton's late
twenties into my thirties. Yeah, I just I don't know,
(36:14):
kind of a chill vibe, even though I know it's
not chill.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
But I know, I feel like now it's so funny
because I feel like every from the city goes to
the Hampton's and so I'm like, what, guys, what is
the difference. We're all just in the Hampton's now, Yeah,
like great, I guess we have pools, but like places
here have pools. I know. I'm just like it's everyone.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I feel like NYC is a drought in the summer.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Yeah, everyone loves God. Yeah, like especially now, like I'm
kind of like okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Bye, I can breathe.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
Yeah, like every go to the Hampton's so funny, I
can live freely.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Who made you the most comfortable on the show?
Speaker 2 (36:57):
I think in the moment, like obviously, like when you're
dating somebody in the house, that's like your most comfortable person.
And he definitely like made himself my most comfortable person.
That's why I think, like watching everything back, I was
like whoa, whoa, whoa. If I knew this stuff, he
definitely would not have been my most comfortable person. But again,
(37:20):
like that was just so long ago that I'm just
like yeah, yeah, with like a lock.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Now the coffin is shut buried.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
Yeah, I will say Gabby, Gabby and Lindsay they were
like always so amazing with me, like and because I
didn't know them going into the house, like I really
wasn't expecting them to be so like open arms.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
So you really knew Amanda and Paige and then I
met Sierra too, got it.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
Yeah, so I really only knew those three and then
obviously Kyle because Amanda like talked on the phone and stuff.
But yeah, so I.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
Read these SAMs very nurturing, and I feel when you're
on a show and you show growth, that's the most
rewarding feeling. And also for the audience, it's really nice
to see literally a hoodah from Love Island.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
She's got the most followers, like most followers, over.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Three million followers, literally wild and why because people saw
her growth throughout the entire Love Island journey and how
she really came into her own and became a better
person from the experience. So I feel like that's Lindsay too.
On Summer House. She had her moments, but she grew
(38:43):
throughout the seasons and now she's a mommy.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
Yeah, a mosita no she Yeah, I'm just like, I
think that she's so great and I'm so honored that
I got to meet her in like that chapter of
her life because it's exactly Yeah, it's exactly what I
needed too. So so yeah, having her and Gabby they
were just like so great.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
And then I think obviously like the boys in some way,
they're just like, so, I have no idea what's going
on most of the time that in their own world. Yeah,
but yeah, those two were great.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
And then what were your weeks like before heading to
the Hampton's on the weekends just work events.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, so we it was kind of like we only had.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Or did you did you not film at all? Was
it literally just on the weekends.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
So we filmed Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Oh so it was your whole week basically.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
And then we had our producer calls on Tuesdays, so
it was like Monday was really the only day that
we could like sleep, do our laundry.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Yeah, the action has off on Mondays.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
Yeah, so really, and then like I'd just be hanging out,
trying to have like a real relationship outside of the
house too, and like he definitely wanted like hang out
a lot, so I would just try to balance work,
a relationship, living normal human life like cleaning my house
and doing laundry, going to events. Yeah, like yeah, so
(40:12):
I really only had two days, wow.
Speaker 1 (40:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
And it wasn't like always filming like NonStop. Wednesday Thursday
would be like on and off, but I basically filmed
either Wednesday or Thursday or Wednesday and Thursday every week.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
What advice would you give to Jesse's you next girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Honestly, just like I have no idea. I think go
with your gut. If you feel like something sketchy, it
probably is. But I think I would tell that advice
to any girl, Like I think, I think.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
If always trust your intuition.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
Yeah, and I just really hope that like he grows
and everything. But I honestly like, I don't really have advice.
I think that again, like women know what their boundaries are,
and my boundaries will be different than hers, and that's lovely,
Like I'm rooting for her.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
I think he's still just in his party phase.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
I have no idea. I don't even like see him anywhere.
Speaker 1 (41:07):
Oh, I don't know. I'm just saying, like, yeah, word
on the street.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
Yeah, I don't see anything about him ever period.
Speaker 1 (41:15):
I'm I do a lot with Amazon Live. Yeah. It
was so funny because I did like a cooking thing. Yeah,
but like Jesse did a cooking thing as well before me.
But I didn't see him.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
Yeah. I think his track records on TV. So like,
if they want to look into it, cool if ignorance
is bliss in that case, cool, whatever is great for her.
I love that for her.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
You know, what is your dating history? Do you? Are
you typically in long relationships or shorter relationships it's funny.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
I've done both, Like I definitely have Like I feel
like the first couple months is definitely like the trial
period because people get comfortable and then they all of
a sudden like really start to show their true colors.
So normally, if somebody is not my person, I find
out within like the first three months. But I've had
like a lot of long term relationships too, and I
don't I mean, obviously I'm a relationship.
Speaker 1 (42:07):
Girl, are you.
Speaker 2 (42:08):
Yeah, Like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I am too. Yeah, I've only ever really been in relationships. Yeah,
not in a bad way. I've had my like healthy
breaks in between, but no, that's.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
Like me, like i feel like there's always someone. But
I'm just very like unless like you're coming correct, like
don't even talk to me realistically, I'm just very And
I think that that's great. I think women should be
able to have boundaries on like what they want and
like clearly say what they want and either meet it
(42:40):
or if that's not what you're looking for, just say
that's not what you're looking for, and then like that's
great also because it's for two different people. But yeah,
I've always just been like very clear with being like, hey,
I'm a very like exclusively dating girl and then like
once we figure out everything how it all works, then
obviously be my like will be in a relationship. But
(43:00):
I'm very like from the start exclusive or like I'm
not wasting my time and energy.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
I feel like, even when I started hooking up with someone,
if I really enjoy doing it and I am with you,
I am not doing it with anybody else. So I
have that same mentality where it's like if I'm vibing
with you and we're together, then I'm not I'm not
going around and doing other things. Yeah, I also just
like it's dirty.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yeah. I also just kind of feel like it's safety
for like my body, my mind, my heart, like oh
god forbid, God forbid, or she's nuts, like what? And
like also if that's not aligned with what somebody else wants,
like amazing, go find somebody that it is aligned with.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Like open relationships crazy, never heard of them.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
Never, It's funny, like I feel like what I heard
works for that relationship because like there's been some relationships
around like Okay, let's like you can make your own
you can make your own rules for every relationship. But
like I always also grew up like my parents are
dating in high school and they're like still obsessed with
each other, like they just have.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
So you always saw like your parents being so in love,
such a healthy marriage and just show you what you
and just show you how you want to be treated.
I always see videos where it's I want my kids
to look at their dad and say, wow, he really
loves mommy. Yeah that's like I cry.
Speaker 2 (44:30):
Yeah cry, No, it's true. And like my parents just
always showed me, like they just they would like get
into fights, but then they'd tell us and they'd be like, hey,
we onto this fight. This is how we worked it out,
just so that we also had the tools to like
see a loving marriage but also see like an actual
argument and like also a resolution, and so like we
really were equipped with like all of the knowledge to
(44:52):
be able to be like, Okay, how am I going
to be in my relationship? Am I equipped with the
tools to be able to argue with somebody and then
like find a nicely common ground And Yeah, my parents
have just always taught us like so many great things.
Speaker 1 (45:04):
That's amazing. I actually love that so much.
Speaker 2 (45:07):
Yeah, they're amazing, because oh I'm gonna take that maybe
for my kids you're gonna your kids are gonna have
like the best.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
No, you can just tell like you're very calming. You're
very like straight up though, very straight up.
Speaker 1 (45:24):
Very calming. I never like being aggravated, and whenever I
am aggravated, I just feel bad after.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
See, I'm very I don't feel bad if I'm aggravated,
Like I'm like, there's a reason because I'm so calm.
I'm like, if I get aggravated, I've never yelled, Like
I don't think my tone has ever gone like above this.
I don't even know if I could like do that,
but like I get sassy, like my facial expressions, my tone,
I'm like, it's nuts. Like you can tell when I'm
(45:53):
like annoyed, But if you get me to that point,
then I'm like, I don't feel bad for that.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
You deserved it. Okay, So it takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (45:59):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
With me, I my face tells it all. So if
I'm annoyed, you could see it all over my face. Same.
I it does take me a while to get there,
of course, but then when I get there, it could
be the stupidest thing that annoys me, and then I'm just.
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Aggrivat I like could make up an excuse for every
single thing for someone. I like have so much empathy
for everyone, like even even on the street, like if
somebody like cuts me off or well not that I drive,
Like if I'm in an uber and somebody like aggressively
cuts us off, I'm like, you know what, you never
know what they're going to, like, you just never know,
Like people just live such complex lives. You really never
(46:42):
know what somebody else is going through. And it's like
when I think about even like a lot of things
that I've gone through in life that literally no one
knows about, and you feel so lonely in that feeling
you're just trying to like get by, and yeah, so
that I always try to think of like how I
felt in those moments, like reject that onto other people
and be like okay, no, like they deserve patience and
(47:04):
like kindness and loving and like, but yeah, once you
push me to a point after so many patterns, yeah,
of course, and like mistakes, and you're probably gonna see
like a sassy side of me, sassy Lexi. Yeah, and
my facial quessions are nuts, Like I'll be sitting there
like ew like full like stank face.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Okay, wait, I need to know are that any of
the Drake rumors true? I feel like they have to
be here from Canada and you're so hot.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Look at I think that being even put out there
by anyone but me and him was insane. It definitely
was not that person's place to say anything.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
His life is very public, guys.
Speaker 2 (47:53):
But I will say, like, he's amazing and I'm really
like you lucky to yeah to know him, and I think, yeah,
he's so talented, so sweet, comes from such a great family,
has great friends.
Speaker 1 (48:08):
Yeah, he's he's so talented.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
He's so talented.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
I love his music. I still listen to Controller.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Oh one hundred percent. I'm like all of his albums
are always on.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Like always on. Yeah. Wait, I like need the tea
more about Drake.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
Girl, I have a lot of tea. Oh my, Laura
is crazy. I could do like a five thousand parts series.
Speaker 1 (48:27):
On TikTok well, like a tell all.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Yeah, not about that specifically, no, like that.
Speaker 1 (48:32):
Was like yeah, but why this person like saw you
guys out and just like exploited you.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
So basically Jesse went on chicks in the office, so
that I'm getting to scent it like like a billion
trillion times.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Oh, Like he was like jealous.
Speaker 2 (48:46):
He said, you can't play it chill with somebody that's
dated Drake Is quotes and like I would just scent
it a billion times. And I was like, first of all,
why would you say that, So why would.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
You say something like my and no one knew that.
Speaker 2 (49:06):
I think like everything that you enter, whether it's a friendship, relationship, whatever,
there's just like you're figuring it out, like you're not
going to go and like.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
But also like I hang in a public relationship is
very difficult. Everybody's in your business. Yeah, so you don't
need to release something if.
Speaker 2 (49:28):
I want to do exactly Like I just kind of
feel like I'm not going to make like a public like.
Speaker 1 (49:35):
That also just shows your respect for each other and
how you guys just vibed with your relationship.
Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah, and like the I have a bunch of friends
too that like I've never posted or whatever, because like
it's a human to human connection. So yeah, I just
felt like it was really like it's not like.
Speaker 1 (49:50):
You were using it for clout and he kind of
just exploited.
Speaker 2 (49:54):
He clouded it, and I was like, oh, that's interesting
because it's not like nobody here is clothing that except
for somebody that literally didn't even know me when.
Speaker 1 (50:06):
Like anything to do with the subject.
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Yeah, I was like, what, like why are you bring
this up? He also has said like a lot of
other things that like it's just one hundred like the
other things are just like not true. Like he said
I introduced him to a certain other rapper, never introduced him.
He like he just like says things that I'm like
that literally just didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (50:24):
Is he like cloudy sir?
Speaker 2 (50:26):
Yes? So, which like the math math thing crazy, you
know what I mean? So yeah, I just I just
think it's distasteful and I think it's just like very
lame energy and it's just something that like I've just
never done and like I will I will never do.
Like I remember like one of my birthdays when I
was my eighteenth birthday, I.
Speaker 1 (50:47):
Like had say different twice, I got you, okay.
Speaker 2 (50:50):
I see something like I'm trying. So I remember one
of my I like had a birthday part well my
boyfriend at the time and my friend's surprise, it's made
They flew in from like La, Yeah, and they grew
up there like industry kids. And their parents have been
in the industry and whatever. And my agent at the
time was like, you should post all these people at
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your birthday. This is crazy and I was like, I
would never do that, and she's like why, like it
would help so much or whatever, and I was like,
I would just never do that, Like they're my actual
human friends, Like I'm not going to exploit them because
like I genuinely care about them, and I care about
their privacy, I care about their safety, I care about
like their trust I and like those none of those
(51:34):
photos I've ever been seen from my birthday because I'm
just like I don't need to. I'll get it. They're
on my own. I don't need anyone else to like
clout from. I'll get there or yeah.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
Say it louder.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
Yeah, I'm just not about that. Again. I just think
it's distasteful and like I get I get it sometimes,
but sometimes it's just not needed.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
It's period.
Speaker 2 (52:01):
But yeah, everybody in your life, it's been really great,
really talented, really successful, beautiful people. Very thankful for them.
Speaker 1 (52:11):
When a girl can be walked all over and if
the girl allows it, the boy will do it. Yeah,
And that's why you have to put up those boundaries
right from the start.
Speaker 2 (52:20):
And I think like, like being forgiving is also really important.
Like people are going to mess up.
Speaker 1 (52:25):
With communication, yeah, and that's the right communication tools.
Speaker 2 (52:28):
Yeah, and like that's totally okay. Like if somebody messes up,
like you're not the same human and living the same
human experience, you're gonna mess up. But you can't mess
up multiple times with the same action. That is a
choice at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (52:43):
So, yeah, my god, this was so amazing. You are
so you are such a calming and beautiful person. I
love your confidence, I love your advice. I feel like
you are so wise and have so much wisdom. So
always hold that with you. Because even sitting right sitting
here right now interviewing you on Casual Chaos, you have
taught me so many things. So I take every interview
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in every podcast as a blessing. I learn from everything
that I do, and you have just taught me so
many things during this and I'm so happy I learned
more about you. Such a beautiful person.
Speaker 2 (53:18):
We need to get drinks of something.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
Yes, I'm moving like, so we'll talk about us. Yeah,
we'll talk about it all right, Lexie. Well, thank you
so much for coming on Casual Chaos for having me,
and I will see you guys next week. Love you guys. Bye,
Hey guys, and welcome back to another week of casual Chaos.
This week, I have a really exciting guest, Lexi would
welcome to casual Chaos. This is such a long time coming.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Oh my god, no, I know, I feel like we've
known each other for like a minute now, and yeah,
we've been trying to get the schedules to align.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
But it's also fun because we've really met each other
at events and that's how our relationship was formed. And
I think just being both in the Bravo world, you
kind of just connect right away. Yeah, and we were
like you just it's a level of trust.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I feel one hundred percent. It's like it's like a family.
You like see each other and you're like from across
the room and you're like, okay.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Hid, I feel safe, immediate number exchange. And now it
finally worked out. So I'm so excited.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
I feel like it's like the two dancing girl emojis
in real life.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
You know, you're just the taller version. It's just the shoes.
We were just downstairs and Lexi and I walked in
at the same time and I saw her. I guess
photo ID, Yes, Okay, she is a photo I d
not a license, and that's because you were living in Paris.
Speaker 2 (01:12):
Yes, so when I turned well, when I was sixteen.
So in Canada, it's like a little bit different getting
your license here. I feel like they kind of just
like it's.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
Very easy here.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
I feel like you think, yeah, but in Canada they
get it through layers.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
Really, Oh, I mean later than some states. We get
our license at seventeen. Then eighteen you get your adult
license and you can you know, have the normal amount
of people in the car, but oh, your probationary license too.
You can't drive past eleven. Okay, so there's like a
certain certain real rules for seventeen.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
I feel like ours, Like, again, I don't have it,
so I don't I don't know. I've never gone through
the process, but I'm pretty sure it's like sixteen sixteen
some states in Yeah, and then you can't, like you
have to go through like your driver's before you're even
allowed to like practice on the real roads your six hours.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Maybe yeah, so the same thing in Jersey. Maybe it's
the same.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
I don't know. So I was like I was modeling
so much and I just kind of feel like I
just never needed it. I lived downtown Toronto when I
was a teenager, so I just took the subway or
taxis to my jobs. And then I was homeschooled in
high school. Wow, so I did everything in my house.
And then I moved to Paris the day of my
(02:30):
seventeenth birthday, so obviously I wasn't getting my license then.
And then after that, I really just lived in cities
that I could take in huber, a taxi, the subway.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
So does Toronto kind of remind you of New York City?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
One hundred percent. It's basically like a smaller, a smaller
version of New York. I feel like that's why I
love New York so much, and I feel so at
home here because it's so similar. And it's also like
a fifty minute flight.
Speaker 1 (02:55):
Yeah no, not that at all.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
No.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
So, then when did your modeling career really take off off?
Speaker 2 (03:00):
So I started modeling when I was I think, like eleven,
and I pretty much immediately like I kind of accidentally,
my dad is actually the one that got me into modeling.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
I was super shy that we love the supportive dad.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
We love a supportive dad. So I he's a firefighter too,
so it was like so funny seeing him just like
love the glitz and the glamor of the following world.
And so he got me into modeling because I was
super shy. I wouldn't even like speak, And then I
met with the agency. The president of the agency was like,
sign me right on the spot, and I think I
(03:35):
started working like either the next day or two days later,
and ever since then, I just like haven't really stopped working.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
What was your first campaign when you were you said
you were eleven, Yeah, so what was your first campaign?
Speaker 2 (03:47):
My first campaign was actually for Walmart.
Speaker 1 (03:49):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Yeah, I did a lot of Walmart things I did
in Canada. I don't know if you guys have it
here sears, Yeah, okay, so I did, like Seers. I
was in like all the Wish books as a kid,
but I was also the paper girl, which made it
kind of confusing for the people that I was delivering
the newspapers too, because they'd be like, why are you
in the newspaper and like in the like Wish books,
(04:11):
but you're also delivering my newspaper and like knocking on
the door for three dollars, we got dollars.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
So you were the newspaper girls. Wait, that's so funny.
That was my mom's job too, really Yeah, when she
was younger, Wait, she would ride her bike around town
and deliver the newspaper.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yeah, so you were always a hustler always Yeah, no, forever.
I feel like my parents really raise my sister and
I to always be like very business savvy. My mom
is so smart with like just real estate, and we
always kind of like she's just a brilliant business lady.
Her father was in business too, so I feel like
it comes really natural to her. Which then she taught
us a lot of like business moves.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
So yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Literally, my sister and I when we were younger, like
set like seven years old, we'd like go knocking on
doors selling like coffee mugs, or be like, oh my god,
like can we clean your eye? I was like anything
to just make money. Or I'd be out and I'd
be like, do you want to buy me this anyone? Which, yeah,
it was like always kind of hustling.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
I love that. And you, your mom and your sister
are so close. Yeah, I feel like I saw you guys.
I think at every event together.
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yes, no, one hundred percent.
Speaker 1 (05:18):
You guys are little.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
Yes, we work together, we party together. We I don't
know I'm just like so comfortable with them, and I
think that it's so nice because I lived by myself,
Like I started really traveling the world by myself when
I was eighteen.
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Oh so she wasn't with you during so you moved.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
I moved to Paris when I was seventeen with my
sister because I wasn't legally allowed to go by myself.
And then she older than you. Yeah yeah, yeah, so
she was nineteen and then I was so young. I know, No,
it was crazy. They like handed me a subway map
as soon as I landed, and they're like, you've a
casting in an hour, go figure it out.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
I was like, what I think? I like, yeah, I
was like, And the airport is also not easy.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
No, no, like there's not one thing that Paris airport
and I, well, I think with everyone we have a
love hate relationship. I've cried in that airport so many times,
like most recently, like not that long ago. Yeah, like
I just that airport is so intense. But yeah, so
then I started kind of like I moved to New
York when I was eighteen, lived on my own and
(06:26):
then moved to a year. Yeah only for a couple
months actually, so in modeling, it's like kind of funny.
So you moved to places for only like three months,
and then you moved to another place basically just like
build your book and then you'll do like direct bookings
for that country. Okay, So like you moved to Paris
for yeah, three months and then came back to Canada.
(06:48):
And then I moved to Miami for three months and
then they went back, and then moved to New York
for longer because it was like closer. Yeah, and then
I moved to la then I moved to London and
then yeah, so kind of like all over.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
The place, You've been everywhere.
Speaker 2 (07:04):
Yeah, which is so great, Like I love, I mean,
it really is.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
I feel like it teaches you so much. And then
as you're just traveling, you're seeing so many incredible things.
Yeah that the average person, you know isn't fortunate enough
to say no exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:19):
But I think that's what's so funny is like I
now appreciate having my family around so much and being
able to work with them because I really did everything
alone for like almost like like seven eight years. Yeah. Yeah,
they we just started working together like two years ago.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
So now your fam is back together yes, but otherwise
you were traveling to all these countries by yourself. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Wow, Yeah, I like went to.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
Did your agent or manager ever come with you? No?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
No, so I would like these castings, yeah, I would
go And then like I went to Australia once for
a job for literally thirty hours, and I had to
go back to Lafe for another job. I like went
to Bolly by myself. I went i Italy by myself.
Like I there's so many places, like really traveled like
everywhere by myself, which is so lovely. But then also
(08:13):
you want somebody to like yeah, so yeah, it's nice
to have them with me.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
That's crazy. Yeah, but such a you know, beautiful life
at the same time. So, now you're back in New York.
I am you moved here from Miami?
Speaker 2 (08:32):
No, so I moved here from LA four years ago.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Wow, and now you're you're here.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Yeah, there's my home.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
You think you're going to go back to Canada.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
It's funny. I I mean, I guess, like you never know.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Realistically, I never want to say never.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, like never say never. But because I've lived in
America for so long, like I actually think about this
all the time. I'm like where am I realistically going
to meet my husband? And then like if my husband's America,
this is like so crazy, But like if my husband's American,
then like is he gonna want to move to Canada?
And now that I work with my family and they
get to live and like work in America, there's just
like there's so much thought that goes into it. But
(09:10):
I do feel like since my family is here now.
I gave to New York, so my parents still have
their house in Canada and like they still family homes. Yeah, yeah,
but my mom and sister are mainly here now because
obviously we have so many work things that we have
to do together. So yeah, it's just I feel like
(09:30):
over the past two years, now knowing that they can
also come and go, it really has made me feel
more like America is definitely more home, where before I
was just kind of like by myself in America, like okay,
your family, yeah, And I'm like, is my sister's kids
and I want my kids and her kids and like, you.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Know, I feel like when you meet your person, you
guys will figure it out together. Yeah, it's gonna be
hard because especially his family's here, But now that your
family is here. Yeah, maybe your sister will want to
ste Yeah does she Well, we never know.
Speaker 2 (10:07):
It depends on where her husband is. Like I think
that it really just like yeah, I think it'll just happen.
It'll all fall into place. I try not to think
about it too much, especially now because I'm like, oh,
like now we can kind of move more fluidly, whereas
before it was so like two different countries and like
there was no option. But yeah, I think it just
(10:28):
depends on where my person is. I mean, damn, maybe
they're not even in America or Canada. I don't know.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
You've been everywhere, But do you feel like you were
never settled in an area?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
One hundred percent. I feel like I was so lonely,
And I think that's one thing that.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
You never got to really make friends in each one
of these places because you were there for such a
short amount of time.
Speaker 2 (10:51):
Definitely. Well, I think actually the opposite. I like have
to leave my heart in everywhere, like every part of
the world. Like one of my best friends lives in Sweden,
my best friends lives in Manchester, one of my best
friends lives in Australia. One so I have to like
leave little pieces of me and like a big, a
big part of like my best friends, like in just different.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah continents, And did you meet a lot of your
friends at modeling castings and stuff like that? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Through work.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
So it's either we were booked on a job together
and like we were shooting together in a different place or.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Because you I feel like you bond so much when
you're doing a modeling shoot because you have to feel
comfortable with that person that you're doing it with. And
I feel like shoots are so fun. They just feel
so confident when you're doing them, and it's a fun
energy that's going around. So then you get so close
with the person that you're doing it with that you're like,
(11:46):
let's go get drinks after.
Speaker 2 (11:48):
No, honestly, and like you really do. It's like a sisterhood.
I think that's what's so great. Like I have not
one competitive bone in my body because I just grew
up with like like in the modeling world technically like
everyone's competition, but also nobody's competition because it literally comes
down to like a freckle at the casting and at
the end of the day, like if I can't get
(12:08):
the job, like I want my girls to get the job,
like I I want to see them on those billboards.
I want to see them on the commercials. I want
even if I was up for the job too and
I didn't get it, like, I'm just so happy for
them that they did get it. So yeah, I have
like not one competitive bone in my body, like I
want everyone to win, and I know what's mine is
mine and what's theirs is theirs. And like cheering from
(12:30):
the sidelines, I love it.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Well, that's the best way to be.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (12:34):
And that's also so good for yourself and your mental health, yeah,
because it just keeps you in such a you know,
free spirited, sane mindset, because when those feelings take over,
I feel like it could be pretty crazy.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Yeah, I feel like it would be like a very
dark feeling. I remember like like you're not good enough. Yeah.
I remember one of the first jobs, like I went
to this casting I think it was really home depot
and I was like I had lines, Like I was
like I was really getting it, Like I was like, no,
like this is my job. One hundred captain director loved me,
like he basically said like see you soon, and I
(13:08):
ended up never hearing back. And then I see the
commercial on TV and they ended up going with like
a Boy, and so I was like, you know what,
I looked at my parents and my parents are like, oh,
this is her commercial. And then I sit there and
I was like, well, I can't be that so and
then I think that and I think I was like eleven,
Like it was right at the start of my career.
So I feel like that was really my mindset always
(13:29):
moving forward. I was like, well, I can't be anything
but me, and that's perfect. So no, no worries if
I don't get the job.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
So living in New York, you feel like it's your home.
You've been here for four years. How did you end
up on Summer House?
Speaker 2 (13:53):
So I knew Amanda okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
Because usually I feel like if you know somebody on
the cast or friend of a friend. That's kind of
how it works in the Bravo world a little bit.
Speaker 2 (14:03):
Yeah. So Paige and Amanda had been following me on
Instagram and then kind of like when I realized obviously,
I followed them back because they're fabulous and they have
great style and gorge, and so then we were kind
of like Instagram friends.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
For a while.
Speaker 2 (14:15):
And then I met Amanda at an event and we
just really like bonded. We talked about everything literally under
the sun. And then it was actually that night that
she was like, would you want to go on the
show that I'm on? And it's funny because I remember
we were sitting outside of my house and I was like,
I gotta be honest now, Like I was like, not
(14:37):
at all. And it was the year that the boys
went on, so the year before I was getting on,
and then I was like, I honestly would just want
to like meet more of you guys instead of just
like having us like my soul comfort. And then slowly
I like met Paige during fashion Week in real life,
so then I felt like being like face to face
(14:57):
so different than Instagram total. And and then I met
like a few other people at events. So when I
was going in, like I felt really good. I knew
the three girls and then meeting everybody else, and because
I came from like a modeling background and influencing, I
really was like, oh my god, this would be great.
I'm gonna meet new friends, We're all gonna be besties,
(15:18):
and this will be so fun. It's a Canadian you.
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Really like, we're going in there to just make new friends. Yeah,
and then did you did you? I mean, I feel
like everyone thinks about this to themselves, but did you
also look at it as an opportunity to better your career?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
And funny, I never thought about that, which sounds.
Speaker 1 (15:36):
Crazy, No, but honestly, it's if your career was already
at its peak and at its fullest and you didn't
obviously you gained something from everything, yeah, but if you were,
you know, satisfied within yourself with your career, you were
probably like, I'll just do this for fun.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
Yeah, And it was honestly just a part of the
industry that I hadn't like experienced, I had experienced like
acting or obviously influencing modeling, Like I feel like I
experienced so many different parts of the industry that reality
was really the only space that I hadn't been a
part of. And obviously, like there's there's so many different
aspects of the industry, but reality was something that was
(16:15):
just always I'm so open and I just thought it
would be a good fit. And I think because yeah,
I already had a million followers, already had things I
never even thought about, like, oh, I'm gonna get so
much exposure from this. I really just went in being
like this will be so fun.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
The Bravo world there's just different.
Speaker 2 (16:37):
Yeah, No, for sure.
Speaker 1 (16:39):
I feel like they are probably not like your average
followers that you had.
Speaker 2 (16:44):
Yeah. I think because I lived in so many different places,
my following is so like international.
Speaker 1 (16:50):
Yeah, which is awesome.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
Yeah, obviously I had a lot of people from Australia.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
They love Bravo. My mom run a full Australia tour
right now.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
Oh we got no way.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Yeah, she's doing shows like all over Australia right now.
Speaker 2 (17:02):
Okay, wait, that's so cool. I love Australia because they
have hay You there. So in Canada we have hay
You okay, and then they have hay You and it's
like a big Bravo network.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Well, they love Bravo. Yeah. Whenever I am in Greece
because Mikonos is my favorite place ever. Have you I've
never been to Greece. I was.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
I've been talking about this for so long. I actually
had a job.
Speaker 1 (17:25):
They would kill it.
Speaker 2 (17:26):
I'm obsessed, just like thrive there.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
Maybe maybe you'll find your husband there.
Speaker 2 (17:30):
Maybe every boy and Greece, no, come.
Speaker 1 (17:35):
On, European men are just chef's Kuss there, but they
it's so much fun and miconos. But when I we've
gone to summers now, and because right now in Australia
it's their winter. Yeah, so they go to Europe in
the summers you get the warm weather and I see
(17:56):
so many Aussies there and they run up to us
and they were like, we love Bravo and they're just
like so cute. I love their accents too, I know.
Speaker 2 (18:05):
I'm like, imagine if we had accents like that, like
that would just be so British. I'm just like, per
it's so nice, and.
Speaker 1 (18:13):
I just have my raspy Jersey accent.
Speaker 2 (18:15):
I love a Jersey accent. No, I'm not even joking.
It's one of my favorite acts. Yeah, obsessed.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
I think it's so cute things. Yeah, I love Do
you feel like I have a hard one?
Speaker 2 (18:26):
No, I feel like you're just very smooth. Yeah, it's
it's an accent.
Speaker 1 (18:30):
For sure, But I don't I don't think so okay perfect.
I don't know. I feel like I'm just very like
I wouldn't exaggerate saying coffee like that doesn't come out
of my mouth like that was me exactly.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Do you want it to come out of your mouth
and like do you have to consciously think?
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I don't know. Sometimes dog is a thing I love.
Speaker 2 (18:52):
I love it.
Speaker 1 (18:53):
Sometimes I'll be standing there and I'll say something and
I'm like, well, I meant to say dog.
Speaker 2 (19:00):
I'm obsessed with that. I wish my like Canadian accent
pops out sometimes, especially if I hanging out with my
dad a lot, and it's like it's insane, like how house.
Like when I had to say, like Summer House, I
was like, oh my god, I have to like really
concentrate on this.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Was Summer House. What you were expecting or what were
you expecting going into I guess being on reality TVA.
Speaker 2 (19:23):
I honestly I had no idea what to expect. Like
I it's funny, I didn't even I owned a TV
in LA, but I didn't ever watch it. And like,
for a long time, I didn't even this sound so bad.
I didn't know how to turn it all. So I
didn't really Yeah, no time for TV. No, literally it
was either I was working or hanging out with friends
and sleeping like that was really it. So I didn't
(19:46):
even really tune into any of the shows, and I
never watched Summerhouse before I was on it, so I
had no idea, I had no expectations, no other than
obviously to like make besties for the resties, but other
than I, like I I had no idea how anything worked,
which kind of I kind of loved that, Like I
didn't treage me, Like I was like, Okay, what's going
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to happen here? I definitely found out.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
So was it not what you were expecting?
Speaker 2 (20:11):
I think watching it back, you see a lot of
things that it's funny because like there's that saying like
ignorance is bliss. Sometimes it really that's true because I
saw so many things that I was like, wait a minute,
what is going on right now? Like whoa that happened
behind my back? Or you know, your perception of things,
(20:32):
and then how like yeah, then like when you see
the other side or how it's shown, you're like, whoa,
that's like so that's crazy, Yeah, that's crazy. So yeah,
I think that it definitely was like a roller coaster.
Speaker 1 (20:47):
I think it's hard because going on to any reality show,
you can't control the editing realm. Yeah, and as much
as what people do behind your back, it's all a
part of the plot. It's all about piecing together how
the drama is gonna look its best, so they can
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cut out things that you say during a confessional, cut
out how a scene really played out, and it's all
to make it look its best. They are producing a
TV show at the end of the day, and as
crazy as it is, it's just the rollercoaster of being
on reality TV and how I've been looking at next gen.
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After each episode, I kind of just sit there, I reflect,
and I look at it as a chance to grow.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
Yeah, one hundred reals they do no, And I will
say I learned a lot even just like watching yourself back,
I'm like, oh my gosh, whoa Okay, so that's not
like you have a feeling in your soul and how
you think that it's like being executed, but then it's
like completely not, it's not picking up like that, and
so then you really like you learn so much, which
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I love and like I would do reality again. I
think that it was a space that like I really
felt good in because I love being myself. I mean, like,
that's the best job in the world to just have
to be yourself. And yeah, I think that it's amazing
for the right opportunity. But yeah, I think I definitely
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learned a lot and I love that.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Yeah, I think that it was a cool No. I
love what you just said because you feel in the
moment that you are being so true to yourself and
doing the right thing and being totally in control. And
then sometimes you watch yourself back in you're like, whoa,
that is not me? Or actually that didn't happen to
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the full.
Speaker 2 (22:50):
Extent, yes, or like the content or this didn't completely gone,
or like there's just so many there's from.
Speaker 1 (22:57):
A view, this wasn't played out how this was actually
played out when I was there, like played out to
its fullest, I guess.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
Yes, or like they don't show certain aspects to highlight
other aspects, and then it's like, well, damn if I
saw what the audience saw, I might have made other choices.
I'm only living with like what's in front of me
and what people are telling me to my face, and
that's really all you can go by. And then watching
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it back, I was just like, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:26):
And we also go by what we experience throughout the
whole season, So there's also things that happen throughout the
whole season that get cut that are not shown and
so when you're sitting there, you're reacting to what's been
going on for the whole season. Yeah, and viewers sometimes
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don't see what you see.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Yeah. And I also think that it's funny because the process,
like Love Island, I think, does it really great because
they it airs like pretty much right.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Away and I think much editing time.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Yeah, it's crazy. And then I think what's difficult about
like some other shows, and like I don't know when
you guys filmed, but it's like a year ago okay, yes.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Actually over almost. We started filming in June. We filming August,
beginning of August. Okay, so we're reaching like our year mark. Yeah,
we ended filming.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Yeah. So then you kind of just like you heal
from like all the drama, and then all of a
sudden it starts to air, and then you hear things
that were said behind your back and things like things
were playing out differently, and then you kind of are
sitting there being like, okay, one, I know for my situation,
like I was like, I'm embarrassed. I obviously I am
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learning so much about myself but also about other people,
and you almost like don't know how to even take
on those feelings because I'm like, okay, I'm over it,
like I fully was like moved on, like I was
fully moved on from the situation in more ways than one.
(25:03):
And but then you start seeing it and you're like, wait,
am I angry again? Because I feel angry again? But
then you don't know what's going on because then you're like, okay,
the edit, okay, well that completely is taken out. They'll
take it like weeks, so it looks like it went
from like zero to one hundred, and that's like whoa, Like.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
I don't even know what's going on anymore.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
And then I'm like, but it was I remember it,
And then I'm like, am I crazy? No?
Speaker 1 (25:33):
Yeah, I feel very fragile right.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Now, do you Okay?
Speaker 1 (25:38):
No, it's I'm like, this is just not what I remember. Yeah,
and I totally remember. You know. During my season of
Next Gen, I had my couple moments where I got
you know, we all have. I got feisty, you know.
My eyes were bulging like they were probably seeing ten
(25:59):
we're only human but yeah, no, only human and my
eyes like actually were bigger than my face. I need
to chill my eyes need to chill the out, like
my eyes don't hill the fout, like I don't know
what's gonna happen, Like it's gonna be bad.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
They're beautiful eyes, you should, I know.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
But like it's a little scary, like it's like, whoa,
I'm looking into your soul, Like it looks like I
want to, like, you know, do bad things. Yeah, it's
not it's not nice. Yeah, but I knew throughout my show,
I was always trying to be a girl's girl and
stand up for what I believed in. And while doing that,
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I think sometimes it kind of bites you in the
butt a little bit, Like it kind of bit me
in the ass a little bit because maybe I looked
like I was overdoing it and getting too involved when
there was also a million other things going on. But
of course it was. They constant showed me kind of
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butting myself into it and cut down everything else, which
again shame on me, because I should have been more
mindful and I should have known that. You never know
what happens in the editing room, for sure, But I
it's so hard because it's reality and you're trying to
be yourself and also like.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
You have all of the moments and if somebody that's watching,
isn't understanding that there's like other pieces to the entire puzzle.
That's kind of like on them because you are trying
your best to like stay true to your morals and values,
which is a girl's girl. And I feel like that
was me too, Like my thing was like I will
never fight with a girl period, Like like I will
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never go back and forth if a girl says like, oh, hey,
this hurt my feelings immediately, whether I understand it or not,
like oh, I'm like period, like I am listening and
hearing you. Yeah, I will just never fight with a
girl because like I think women are great. I think
will women are brilliant. I believe women. I think that
like they're always right.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
They are always right, they are And.
Speaker 2 (28:06):
I think that like at the end of the day,
when we're together, that's like powerful, Like.
Speaker 1 (28:10):
Well, it's a lot more powerful than men when you
think we could dominate.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
When I think about like a group of men walking
into a club, like I don't even notice when I
think about a group of like batty women.
Speaker 1 (28:21):
Like reminds me like come on, give like a good
a good like entrance show right now, like sex in
the city.
Speaker 2 (28:29):
Yes, giving like I just picture me and my girlfriends,
like all in great outfits, great makeup, great hair, vibing,
not caring about a boys walking in slow motion. Literally
like that's what I picture. Yeah, Like that's powerful when
when the girlies are together, you literally can't beat it. No,
but I do understand what you're saying. But you definitely
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can't beat yourself up for that because there is so
like there's so much that goes into life.
Speaker 1 (28:55):
So much there's and you just move on. Yeah, they'll
talk about something else tomorrow.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
Well fair, that's so fair. Yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1 (29:04):
But how are you feeling after So you were a
little angry after watching everything back between Jesse and Sierra.
Speaker 2 (29:11):
Well, it wasn't even like just that. I think I
was really upset at.
Speaker 1 (29:16):
Like everyone kind of yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:18):
Not everyone obviously, Like I don't want to Yeah, I
don't want them texting me after hearing because of me,
Like why are you mad at me? I'm not mad
at everyone? And I'm definitely like I've moved on from
that entire summer, in that entire situation, I feel like
I've said what I've needed to say when the show
is airing, And I was kind of like doing, Like
when Bravo was putting me out on the press tour,
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it's kind of your yeah, yeah, like I.
Speaker 1 (29:40):
Said, I felt like that's exactly what I was saying too,
Yeah in mine.
Speaker 2 (29:44):
Yeah, Like it was just kind of like, Okay, this
is the time to talk about what's going on and
how it made me feel and whatever. But honestly, like
I'm so moved on from it, and like I've dated
other people, I've like my life is so full and
I have so much going on. To harp on something
that happened to you year ago is just and it
was two months of my life, like realistically, like let's
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also let's make that clearly.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
A short relationship. Yea very short lived Yeah, And.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
Like I figured it out really fast in the grand
scheme of things, like I was like, okay, perfect, I.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Think that that's that also puts a ton of pressure.
You're in a relationship on a reality TV show. You're
in the Hamptons every weekend with these people, and then
things end and you just got to keep going because.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
Yeah, but like also, yeah, I feel like that's also
just like life in general, Like I had other public
relationships and it's fine, like who cares you're not my person. Goodbye,
onto the next. You know, like my thing with dating
is actually get like a breakup cake every single time.
Like for me, it's a celebration. I'm like LFG like
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onto the next because I'm one guy closer to like
my husband, and I love that. Like, I'm just like perfect,
I learned my lesson. Let's wrap that with a bow.
If I need to like vent or something, I will
say it all.
Speaker 1 (31:05):
But you also have your sisters for that.
Speaker 2 (31:06):
That's the thing. Yeah, I'm just like, yeah.
Speaker 1 (31:08):
I have you have your safe space.
Speaker 2 (31:10):
Yeah, and I'm also just like such an open book
that I'm just like I'll say it to their face too.
I don't care.
Speaker 1 (31:19):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (31:20):
I think the communication is like really important.
Speaker 1 (31:24):
But you also hold yourself so well. I love your
whole mentality. You're kind of like I don't give vibes,
nothing bothers me and one step out a time.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
Yeah, I'm I feel like and maybe that's like my virgo.
Like I'm definitely an overthinker, but how I process things,
and like the more upset I am, the more calm
I get, and the more I just want to be
like Okay, but I'm also very blunt.
Speaker 1 (31:46):
That's crazy. The more you overthink things, the more calm
you get. Yeah, I feel like the the more I
overthink things, the more my anxiety goes through the roof.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
I just like breathe through it and I'm like, Okay,
it's funny. So I used to have like an insane
fear of like traveling, and like obviously because I was
like so young traveling. Yeah, but my sister would always
be like, just take it one step at a time.
She'd be like, Okay, what's also, what's like the worst
thing that's gonna happen? And I'm like, you know what,
Like that's actually really slay because nothing like nothing that
bad is gonna happen. Like even if I forget my
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suitcase and like it's chaos and whatever. If as long
as I have my phone, a charger and my passport,
I'm good. I can figure it all out in my
wallet and might need that.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
On Summer House, did you feel welcomed by everybody or
did you feel like an outcast?
Speaker 2 (32:38):
I think my situation was so unique, Like everyone that's
new coming into the house in the future, I think
will have a different experience for me, and I really
hope that they do. My experience was very unique because
I went in with someone, then she left, and then
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I was kind of just like a new person by myself,
and like what is great is like they all have
known each other for so long, whether they're close or not,
they've just known each other for so long. And I was.
Speaker 1 (33:11):
New how many ogs were on Summerhouse when you were there?
Almost everyone? Almost everyone, right besides Sierra.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Mm hmm, yeah, I think I think Paige Page, but
like they've also been on forever forever, so like I
feel like in my eyes, like they're OG's, you know
what I mean, Like in my like a.
Speaker 1 (33:40):
Lot of the boys though, are new.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Yeah, the Boys. The two Boys came.
Speaker 1 (33:45):
In, Carl like yeah, yeah, yeah much, Yeah, I think, Yeah,
Amanda and Kyle have been on for a long time too.
Speaker 2 (33:52):
Yeah, so yeah, I think basically everyone. Gabby came in later.
I think she was the season before the Boys, and
then it was me. It was then the Boys then me.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
So you're kind of like a hot new bombshell entering
the villa.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Yeah, And I think just because I was alone, like
I really was just trying to find like grounding and
footing in wherever, like I could and it definitely is
like a different Last summer was just like a different
experience than I think any other summer from like what
I've heard in just the sense of like everybody was.
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Everybody is just in like a different time in their life. Obviously,
Lindsay was pregnant, Like that's amazing, Like she's such a
great mom. Gema is so beautiful and brilliant, not surprising.
But you know, like everybody's in different phases than they
were ten years ago. And I'm I was going in
twenty six, like I'm like, let's have fun in the Hampton's.
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But also I am like a grandma in some ways too, so.
Speaker 1 (34:56):
Like I feel like I feel like everyone.
Speaker 2 (34:58):
Is yeah right, I'm like I me and my girlfriend cool.
Speaker 1 (35:02):
Yeah, me and my girlfriends we rent every year down
the shore.
Speaker 2 (35:06):
Okay, love and same energy.
Speaker 1 (35:09):
The same energy. Yeah. But I'm my guys, this is
not ending next summer. Yeah we're twenty four. Yeah, next
summer will be twenty five.
Speaker 2 (35:19):
Yeah, you're still so young.
Speaker 1 (35:21):
This cannot be the end.
Speaker 2 (35:22):
No, no, no, no, no, you can even run that for
a long time.
Speaker 1 (35:25):
Let's not shut the coffin.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
Yeah we're okay, And if you take the mentality of
other people, like in summer else like you could do
it forever, forever, forever, like they have energy, you could
do this for so long. I'm like, this is the
Shore is not going anywhere.
Speaker 1 (35:42):
No, I do really want to go to the Hamptons, though,
so bad.
Speaker 2 (35:45):
Would you switch over from Jersey Shore to the Hampton's Yeah?
Speaker 1 (35:50):
Really, as I get as I got older, I totally would.
I feel I think the Jersey Shore is always home, yeah,
and it always will be a place that I well,
always enjoy going to. But once I'm a little older,
like I wouldn't even mind going to the Hampton's late
twenties into my thirties. Yeah, I just I don't know,
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kind of a chill vibe, even though I know it's
not chill.
Speaker 2 (36:17):
But I know, I feel like now it's so funny
because I feel like every from the city goes to
the Hampton's and so I'm like, what, guys, what is
the difference. We're all just in the Hampton's now, Yeah,
like great, I guess we have pools, but like places
here have pools. I know. I'm just like it's everyone.
Speaker 1 (36:33):
I feel like NYC is a drought in the summer.
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Yeah, everyone loves God. Yeah, like especially now, like I'm
kind of like okay, yeah.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
Bye, I can breathe.
Speaker 2 (36:45):
Yeah, like every go to the Hampton's so funny, I
can live freely.
Speaker 1 (36:52):
Who made you the most comfortable on the show?
Speaker 2 (36:57):
I think in the moment, like obviously, like when you're
dating somebody in the house, that's like your most comfortable person.
And he definitely like made himself my most comfortable person.
That's why I think, like watching everything back, I was
like whoa, whoa, whoa. If I knew this stuff, he
definitely would not have been my most comfortable person. But again,
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like that was just so long ago that I'm just
like yeah, yeah, with like a lock.
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Now the coffin is shut buried.
Speaker 2 (37:31):
Yeah, I will say Gabby, Gabby and Lindsay they were
like always so amazing with me, like and because I
didn't know them going into the house, like I really
wasn't expecting them to be so like open arms.
Speaker 1 (37:45):
So you really knew Amanda and Paige and then I
met Sierra too, got it.
Speaker 2 (37:52):
Yeah, so I really only knew those three and then
obviously Kyle because Amanda like talked on the phone and stuff.
But yeah, so I.
Speaker 1 (38:00):
Read these SAMs very nurturing, and I feel when you're
on a show and you show growth, that's the most
rewarding feeling. And also for the audience, it's really nice
to see literally a hoodah from Love Island.
Speaker 2 (38:18):
She's got the most followers, like most followers, over.
Speaker 1 (38:21):
Three million followers, literally wild and why because people saw
her growth throughout the entire Love Island journey and how
she really came into her own and became a better
person from the experience. So I feel like that's Lindsay too.
On Summer House. She had her moments, but she grew
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throughout the seasons and now she's a mommy.
Speaker 2 (38:46):
Yeah, a mosita no she Yeah, I'm just like, I
think that she's so great and I'm so honored that
I got to meet her in like that chapter of
her life because it's exactly Yeah, it's exactly what I
needed too. So so yeah, having her and Gabby they
were just like so great.
Speaker 1 (39:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
And then I think obviously like the boys in some way,
they're just like, so, I have no idea what's going
on most of the time that in their own world. Yeah,
but yeah, those two were great.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
And then what were your weeks like before heading to
the Hampton's on the weekends just work events.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
Yeah, so we it was kind of like we only had.
Speaker 1 (39:29):
Or did you did you not film at all? Was
it literally just on the weekends.
Speaker 2 (39:33):
So we filmed Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Oh so it was your whole week basically.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
And then we had our producer calls on Tuesdays, so
it was like Monday was really the only day that
we could like sleep, do our laundry.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
Yeah, the action has off on Mondays.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
Yeah, so really, and then like I'd just be hanging out,
trying to have like a real relationship outside of the
house too, and like he definitely wanted like hang out
a lot, so I would just try to balance work,
a relationship, living normal human life like cleaning my house
and doing laundry, going to events. Yeah, like yeah, so
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I really only had two days, wow.
Speaker 1 (40:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (40:15):
And it wasn't like always filming like NonStop. Wednesday Thursday
would be like on and off, but I basically filmed
either Wednesday or Thursday or Wednesday and Thursday every week.
Speaker 1 (40:24):
What advice would you give to Jesse's you next girlfriend?
Speaker 2 (40:29):
Honestly, just like I have no idea. I think go
with your gut. If you feel like something sketchy, it
probably is. But I think I would tell that advice
to any girl, Like I think, I think.
Speaker 1 (40:41):
If always trust your intuition.
Speaker 2 (40:43):
Yeah, and I just really hope that like he grows
and everything. But I honestly like, I don't really have advice.
I think that again, like women know what their boundaries are,
and my boundaries will be different than hers, and that's lovely,
Like I'm rooting for her.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
I think he's still just in his party phase.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
I have no idea. I don't even like see him anywhere.
Speaker 1 (41:07):
Oh, I don't know. I'm just saying, like, yeah, word
on the street.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
Yeah, I don't see anything about him ever period.
Speaker 1 (41:15):
I'm I do a lot with Amazon Live. Yeah. It
was so funny because I did like a cooking thing. Yeah,
but like Jesse did a cooking thing as well before me.
But I didn't see him.
Speaker 2 (41:26):
Yeah. I think his track records on TV. So like,
if they want to look into it, cool if ignorance
is bliss in that case, cool, whatever is great for her.
I love that for her.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
You know, what is your dating history? Do you? Are
you typically in long relationships or shorter relationships it's funny.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
I've done both, Like I definitely have Like I feel
like the first couple months is definitely like the trial
period because people get comfortable and then they all of
a sudden like really start to show their true colors.
So normally, if somebody is not my person, I find
out within like the first three months. But I've had
like a lot of long term relationships too, and I
don't I mean, obviously I'm a relationship.
Speaker 1 (42:07):
Girl, are you.
Speaker 2 (42:08):
Yeah, Like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (42:09):
I am too. Yeah, I've only ever really been in relationships. Yeah,
not in a bad way. I've had my like healthy
breaks in between, but no, that's.
Speaker 2 (42:19):
Like me, like i feel like there's always someone. But
I'm just very like unless like you're coming correct, like
don't even talk to me realistically, I'm just very And
I think that that's great. I think women should be
able to have boundaries on like what they want and
like clearly say what they want and either meet it
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or if that's not what you're looking for, just say
that's not what you're looking for, and then like that's
great also because it's for two different people. But yeah,
I've always just been like very clear with being like, hey,
I'm a very like exclusively dating girl and then like
once we figure out everything how it all works, then
obviously be my like will be in a relationship. But
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I'm very like from the start exclusive or like I'm
not wasting my time and energy.
Speaker 1 (43:05):
I feel like, even when I started hooking up with someone,
if I really enjoy doing it and I am with you,
I am not doing it with anybody else. So I
have that same mentality where it's like if I'm vibing
with you and we're together, then I'm not I'm not
going around and doing other things. Yeah, I also just
like it's dirty.
Speaker 2 (43:24):
Yeah. I also just kind of feel like it's safety
for like my body, my mind, my heart, like oh
god forbid, God forbid, or she's nuts, like what? And
like also if that's not aligned with what somebody else wants,
like amazing, go find somebody that it is aligned with.
Speaker 1 (43:46):
Like open relationships crazy, never heard of them.
Speaker 2 (43:51):
Never, It's funny, like I feel like what I heard
works for that relationship because like there's been some relationships
around like Okay, let's like you can make your own
you can make your own rules for every relationship. But
like I always also grew up like my parents are
dating in high school and they're like still obsessed with
each other, like they just have.
Speaker 1 (44:11):
So you always saw like your parents being so in love,
such a healthy marriage and just show you what you
and just show you how you want to be treated.
I always see videos where it's I want my kids
to look at their dad and say, wow, he really
loves mommy. Yeah that's like I cry.
Speaker 2 (44:30):
Yeah cry, No, it's true. And like my parents just
always showed me, like they just they would like get
into fights, but then they'd tell us and they'd be like, hey,
we onto this fight. This is how we worked it out,
just so that we also had the tools to like
see a loving marriage but also see like an actual
argument and like also a resolution, and so like we
really were equipped with like all of the knowledge to
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be able to be like, Okay, how am I going
to be in my relationship? Am I equipped with the
tools to be able to argue with somebody and then
like find a nicely common ground And Yeah, my parents
have just always taught us like so many great things.
Speaker 1 (45:04):
That's amazing. I actually love that so much.
Speaker 2 (45:07):
Yeah, they're amazing, because oh I'm gonna take that maybe
for my kids you're gonna your kids are gonna have
like the best.
Speaker 1 (45:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:17):
No, you can just tell like you're very calming. You're
very like straight up though, very straight up.
Speaker 1 (45:24):
Very calming. I never like being aggravated, and whenever I
am aggravated, I just feel bad after.
Speaker 2 (45:31):
See, I'm very I don't feel bad if I'm aggravated,
Like I'm like, there's a reason because I'm so calm.
I'm like, if I get aggravated, I've never yelled, Like
I don't think my tone has ever gone like above this.
I don't even know if I could like do that,
but like I get sassy, like my facial expressions, my tone,
I'm like, it's nuts. Like you can tell when I'm
(45:53):
like annoyed, But if you get me to that point,
then I'm like, I don't feel bad for that.
Speaker 1 (45:56):
You deserved it. Okay, So it takes a lot.
Speaker 2 (45:59):
Yeah, yeah, I feel like.
Speaker 1 (46:02):
With me, I my face tells it all. So if
I'm annoyed, you could see it all over my face. Same.
I it does take me a while to get there,
of course, but then when I get there, it could
be the stupidest thing that annoys me, and then I'm just.
Speaker 2 (46:20):
Aggrivat I like could make up an excuse for every
single thing for someone. I like have so much empathy
for everyone, like even even on the street, like if
somebody like cuts me off or well not that I drive,
Like if I'm in an uber and somebody like aggressively
cuts us off, I'm like, you know what, you never
know what they're going to, like, you just never know,
Like people just live such complex lives. You really never
(46:42):
know what somebody else is going through. And it's like
when I think about even like a lot of things
that I've gone through in life that literally no one
knows about, and you feel so lonely in that feeling
you're just trying to like get by, and yeah, so
that I always try to think of like how I
felt in those moments, like reject that onto other people
and be like okay, no, like they deserve patience and
(47:04):
like kindness and loving and like, but yeah, once you
push me to a point after so many patterns, yeah,
of course, and like mistakes, and you're probably gonna see
like a sassy side of me, sassy Lexi. Yeah, and
my facial quessions are nuts, Like I'll be sitting there
like ew like full like stank face.
Speaker 1 (47:24):
Okay, wait, I need to know are that any of
the Drake rumors true? I feel like they have to
be here from Canada and you're so hot.
Speaker 2 (47:35):
Look at I think that being even put out there
by anyone but me and him was insane. It definitely
was not that person's place to say anything.
Speaker 1 (47:49):
His life is very public, guys.
Speaker 2 (47:53):
But I will say, like, he's amazing and I'm really
like you lucky to yeah to know him, and I think, yeah,
he's so talented, so sweet, comes from such a great family,
has great friends.
Speaker 1 (48:08):
Yeah, he's he's so talented.
Speaker 2 (48:11):
He's so talented.
Speaker 1 (48:12):
I love his music. I still listen to Controller.
Speaker 2 (48:15):
Oh one hundred percent. I'm like all of his albums
are always on.
Speaker 1 (48:18):
Like always on. Yeah. Wait, I like need the tea
more about Drake.
Speaker 2 (48:22):
Girl, I have a lot of tea. Oh my, Laura
is crazy. I could do like a five thousand parts series.
Speaker 1 (48:27):
On TikTok well, like a tell all.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
Yeah, not about that specifically, no, like that.
Speaker 1 (48:32):
Was like yeah, but why this person like saw you
guys out and just like exploited you.
Speaker 2 (48:37):
So basically Jesse went on chicks in the office, so
that I'm getting to scent it like like a billion
trillion times.
Speaker 1 (48:44):
Oh, Like he was like jealous.
Speaker 2 (48:46):
He said, you can't play it chill with somebody that's
dated Drake Is quotes and like I would just scent
it a billion times. And I was like, first of all,
why would you say that, So why would.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
You say something like my and no one knew that.
Speaker 2 (49:06):
I think like everything that you enter, whether it's a friendship, relationship, whatever,
there's just like you're figuring it out, like you're not
going to go and like.
Speaker 1 (49:15):
But also like I hang in a public relationship is
very difficult. Everybody's in your business. Yeah, so you don't
need to release something if.
Speaker 2 (49:28):
I want to do exactly Like I just kind of
feel like I'm not going to make like a public like.
Speaker 1 (49:35):
That also just shows your respect for each other and
how you guys just vibed with your relationship.
Speaker 2 (49:41):
Yeah, and like the I have a bunch of friends
too that like I've never posted or whatever, because like
it's a human to human connection. So yeah, I just
felt like it was really like it's not like.
Speaker 1 (49:50):
You were using it for clout and he kind of
just exploited.
Speaker 2 (49:54):
He clouded it, and I was like, oh, that's interesting
because it's not like nobody here is clothing that except
for somebody that literally didn't even know me when.
Speaker 1 (50:06):
Like anything to do with the subject.
Speaker 2 (50:08):
Yeah, I was like, what, like why are you bring
this up? He also has said like a lot of
other things that like it's just one hundred like the
other things are just like not true. Like he said
I introduced him to a certain other rapper, never introduced him.
He like he just like says things that I'm like
that literally just didn't happen.
Speaker 1 (50:24):
Is he like cloudy sir?
Speaker 2 (50:26):
Yes? So, which like the math math thing crazy, you
know what I mean? So yeah, I just I just
think it's distasteful and I think it's just like very
lame energy and it's just something that like I've just
never done and like I will I will never do.
Like I remember like one of my birthdays when I
was my eighteenth birthday, I.
Speaker 1 (50:47):
Like had say different twice, I got you, okay.
Speaker 2 (50:50):
I see something like I'm trying. So I remember one
of my I like had a birthday part well my
boyfriend at the time and my friend's surprise, it's made
They flew in from like La, Yeah, and they grew
up there like industry kids. And their parents have been
in the industry and whatever. And my agent at the
time was like, you should post all these people at
(51:12):
your birthday. This is crazy and I was like, I
would never do that, and she's like why, like it
would help so much or whatever, and I was like,
I would just never do that, Like they're my actual
human friends, Like I'm not going to exploit them because
like I genuinely care about them, and I care about
their privacy, I care about their safety, I care about
like their trust I and like those none of those
(51:34):
photos I've ever been seen from my birthday because I'm
just like I don't need to. I'll get it. They're
on my own. I don't need anyone else to like
clout from. I'll get there or yeah.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
Say it louder.
Speaker 2 (51:48):
Yeah, I'm just not about that. Again. I just think
it's distasteful and like I get I get it sometimes,
but sometimes it's just not needed.
Speaker 1 (51:58):
It's period.
Speaker 2 (52:01):
But yeah, everybody in your life, it's been really great,
really talented, really successful, beautiful people. Very thankful for them.
Speaker 1 (52:11):
When a girl can be walked all over and if
the girl allows it, the boy will do it. Yeah,
And that's why you have to put up those boundaries
right from the start.
Speaker 2 (52:20):
And I think like, like being forgiving is also really important.
Like people are going to mess up.
Speaker 1 (52:25):
With communication, yeah, and that's the right communication tools.
Speaker 2 (52:28):
Yeah, and like that's totally okay. Like if somebody messes up,
like you're not the same human and living the same
human experience, you're gonna mess up. But you can't mess
up multiple times with the same action. That is a
choice at the end of the day.
Speaker 1 (52:43):
So, yeah, my god, this was so amazing. You are
so you are such a calming and beautiful person. I
love your confidence, I love your advice. I feel like
you are so wise and have so much wisdom. So
always hold that with you. Because even sitting right sitting
here right now interviewing you on Casual Chaos, you have
taught me so many things. So I take every interview
(53:07):
in every podcast as a blessing. I learn from everything
that I do, and you have just taught me so
many things during this and I'm so happy I learned
more about you. Such a beautiful person.
Speaker 2 (53:18):
We need to get drinks of something.
Speaker 1 (53:20):
Yes, I'm moving like, so we'll talk about us. Yeah,
we'll talk about it all right, Lexie. Well, thank you
so much for coming on Casual Chaos for having me,
and I will see you guys next week. Love you guys. Bye,
Hosts And Creators
Lauren Zima
Chris Harrison
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