My Birthday Celebration in Aruba: The Recap

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:48):
Okay, y'all, So this episode is going to be so
much fun because we are going to be doing a
recap of my birthday that just passed, but we are
still celebrating it all monthlaw, So please we us up all.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
Forms of payment.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
We have an Amazon gift link in the show notes below.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
But I'm really excited to have my homegirl. How a
long we've been friends list?

Speaker 4 (01:09):
Okay, so we know each other in high school, right, y'all?
In Memphis.

Speaker 5 (01:16):
They were connected in New York. I remember we met
at that little restaurant outside it was.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
Like a taco shop or something anyway, that was in
like twenty fifteen, and then we was passing around all
types of business ideas.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
I know.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
This has always been like my business bestie, my pon right.
So we've been going each other for almost like thirty
something years I think, or maybe close to thirty. And
then we reconnected because we have a mutual friend and
he had a birthday party, and so Liz, she doesn't
she no longer live in New York, but she came

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back to the birthday party just be poort him and
ran to each other. He was kicking I and then
we just reconnected. And it has been so amazing for
you said.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
That in my life it was you were like, oh
my god, I gotta say this and this and this
and this like went through like ten years. Yeah, and
I was like, yeah, we need to talk.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
You know how you have one of those friends that
feels like years can go by, but as soon as
you connect, like it just feel like no time went
by at all, Like y'all just y'all started right back
where you left off.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
That That's how I feel it Liz.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
So I wanted to go to a root but for
my birthday because obviously y'all know that the Flamingos is
my UH logo, which means Beauty, balance and Grace, and
I just been dying to see the Flamingos, like honestly,
like we go talk about the whole trip, but that
was like that was it once, So the Flamingos, I
didn't even need to do anything else. And so my
two homegirls they were supposed to go with me, but

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they were no longer able to go, and I was
gonna be like, fuck it, this was gonna be my
first solo trip. So as Liz and I was like,
you know, getting requainted with each other and Kiki, you know,
we both were in similar situations, like our life was
has always been parallel to each each other, if that
makes sense. And so and Liz is like a travel enthusiast,

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like she get me into a thousand countries and ten
you know what, ten months exact, right, And I was
like fuck it, I'm like, would you want to come
to a Ruba with me?

Speaker 3 (03:14):
And then how did you feel when I asked you?

Speaker 4 (03:16):
Okay? At first I was like no, no, he wasn't
because not it wasn't a you thing. It was because
I have had friends that have gone to a Ruba
and they lied. I actually need to follow up with
them and check them on it. But they were like, no,
Ruba's boring. It's like a cruise stop. You only need
a day there, Like I wouldn't recommend you go. So

(03:39):
kind of had me in the mood of like, Okay,
this is we can go somewhere else, like ask me
about the next trip, but this one I ain't gonna
be able to do it right right, Oh that was
my thought initially.

Speaker 3 (03:50):
I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 2 (03:51):
I did hear that Aruba was kind of like very
low key, very chill, like you don't need no more
than like a couple of days there and you good
to go. Which does it exactly what we did? Like
I couldn't imagine being a room before like a week
and some change.

Speaker 4 (04:05):
Really I couldn't exciding, you know, like that's my spot.
Like I literally could have had the airbnb for a week,
have my like laptop posted up and just worked there
for a week. It was like a few places on
the beach, and we really like because we only had
a couple of days.

Speaker 5 (04:25):
I feel like we didn't get to really see all
the beaches.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Agree. I agree, we got.

Speaker 5 (04:29):
To see two, but it was like rushed.

Speaker 4 (04:31):
I would have sat in one of them little beach
huts and have my laptop out, and I agree.

Speaker 2 (04:35):
I mean, don't get me wrong, Aruba was beautiful. Like, okay,
so before we started, I feel like we're about to
jump ahead. So how did you feel about your journey?
Get into a room because you it was a little
shit show with you.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
I was like, oh my god, remember.

Speaker 2 (04:50):
Your flight had got delight delayed is something and you
almost missed it your connective Like.

Speaker 5 (04:55):
Okay, so that's actually a good question because okay I started, y'all.

Speaker 3 (05:01):
I was like on the plane, like, come on, God,
she gotta make this trip.

Speaker 4 (05:04):
It was crazy, Okay. So from a Ruba standpoint, I
was like I don't know if I should go because
of what people were saying about Ruba. So that wasn't
a like eBay thing right then it was like it's
never never Oh and then it was like work. I
just started new projects, like I don't know what the
demand is gonna be, so like the timing's gonna work out,

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So y'all, I was about to go for like a day.

Speaker 5 (05:29):
I literally was gonna get in town.

Speaker 2 (05:32):
Yes, because she didn't want me to spend my birthday
by myself.

Speaker 4 (05:35):
That's a fact, exactly exactly. So then I was like,
so that whole thing had me thinking like should I
be going or not? So trying to get there and
your flight delay, they tell me you're gonna miss your connection.
They try to want to get there way later. I'm
sprinting to my life, y'allas and all. But like with

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stuff like that happens sometimes I'll be like, Okay, this
is a sign I shouldn't have gone. I was supposed
to be there, but this was like no, because like
our vibes had been so great and I just one,
like you said, we're on the same page with like business,
with romance, with everything that I was. I just felt
like it was gonna be a good girls trip and

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I knew I needed to get there.

Speaker 5 (06:19):
Yeah, Delta, Delta, I love you.

Speaker 4 (06:23):
However, y'all got y'all the most on time airline survey
says that's a lie.

Speaker 5 (06:29):
I had been running late with Delta non stop.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
Yeah, my flight was mad, Like when we was leaving
and I was rushing through that ship show over airport.
We discussed later.

Speaker 3 (06:40):
So, yeah, Delta, you've been trying to Delta, but we
ain't gonna talk.

Speaker 2 (06:44):
You know what Delta they trying because I saw that
playing on it's back, remember that picture that POSTU.

Speaker 3 (06:50):
Situate about it.

Speaker 4 (06:51):
I'm gonna be on one.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
Next week, So I was nervous, but I knew you
was gonna make it. I'm like, she's gonna make it,
like I was gonna even customer service from where I
was at, because I think at that time, was I
in the air or no, I was getting ready to leave, leave,
or I was like get into my seat whatever, and
you was already about to take off, or you was
already like right, you was already in Atlanta.

Speaker 4 (07:13):
So basically, y'all, I got to Atlanta and I already
only had the way this flight was booked. I already
only had thirty five minutes to get to my gate.
We got there late off something because like we were
waiting on flight attendants or something, and then like we
couldn't get off the plane when we got to Atlanta
because the JetWave was broken or the jet bridge was broken.

(07:34):
So I got off that plane fifteen minutes late. So
now I only got fifteen minutes to get to my
connecting gate. I'm like, you're waiting out there to fix
this jet bridge. I'm like, girl.

Speaker 2 (07:45):
You like you're gonna make I was like, you're gonna
make it, bitch. Like when that door opened, Joe, she
was holding it.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
I was like, later I took off and I made it.

Speaker 3 (07:58):
I knew you was gonna make it. I knew you
was gonna make it.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
You needed that energy because your girls stressed.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Yes, we were so like I think for me, one
of the things that I was really looking forward to
was this on this trip was obviously like a girl's trip,
Like I feel like we have like similar energies. But
like I was just ready to like just take a break.
I didn't work on PHG. I didn't work on nothing, y'all.
Like when I tell you I was I.

Speaker 4 (08:20):
Got her phone, it was just a camera at that point.
The phone was a camera.

Speaker 2 (08:24):
Yes, and then my phone, my camera is trash. I
ain't have no memory, y'all.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
So I well, wait, I got a new phone, y'all.
But I don't know why it's taken me so long
to transfer everything from this phone to my new phone.

Speaker 2 (08:38):
Like I haven't even activated. It's been on my what
counter for what two three days now? It hasn't been
a weekpating.

Speaker 3 (08:46):
I know my friends be like, yo, your phone is trash.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
Okay, So let's talk about the highlights of the trip.
So for me, the first thing I remember is just
like just flying over the beach and just seeing like
the blue waters and like just seeing a Ruba.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
And I was so fucking excited.

Speaker 2 (09:07):
And then I was I think I was already kind
of like lit because I had to drink a glass
of wine or something like.

Speaker 3 (09:11):
I was just like so ecstatic to.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
Finally be in a rub but like it was so pretty,
Like did you feel that way when you finally got there, especially.

Speaker 3 (09:18):
With everything you've been through we're trying to get there?

Speaker 4 (09:22):
A question?

Speaker 5 (09:22):
I do want to know why you chose a Ruba.
I'm just curious.

Speaker 4 (09:26):
Yeah, tell me that.

Speaker 2 (09:27):
Well, I just think for me, like like I said,
I wanted to see the flamingos, and I wanted to
get somewhere that was quick, that wasn't gonna take all
day and forever to get there. And I don't know,
I just always wanted to go to a Ruba, Like
I just always heard that Ruba was really pretty, which
it was, and you know, being from New York, it
doesn't take that long to get there, so I was
just excited to be there, and like, for real, for.

Speaker 3 (09:48):
I really wanted to see the Flamingos.

Speaker 2 (09:51):
Like I don't know, it's something about seeing like animals
up and clos that you don't really get to see
on a.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
Regular basis, your like logo, and I didn't know what
it meant either, So now.

Speaker 2 (10:01):
Yes, so for those who don't know what you shouldn't know,
because y'all been with me for six years, Flamingos for
the professional homegirl means beauty, balance, and grace. So I
always tell my listeners that you have to there's beauty
and brokenness. Oh she smiling, y'all, there's beauty and brokenness.
You gotta found balance. You have to find balance in
this life, and while you're doing it, you got to

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give yourself grace. So it was like really important for me,
Like I even think I had a moment, but I
think you was like going off on the beach and
when we saw the Flamingos, like I kind of tear
it up because I was like, damn, like I know,
know to me, like seeing the flamingos in person was
like me seeing a physical manifestation of my brand?

Speaker 4 (10:41):
Is your brand?

Speaker 3 (10:42):
Yeah yeah, so that was like really really special for me.

Speaker 4 (10:47):
I love it. Look at you now, this is like
I'm he blushing. I know she's smiling. Okay, okay, highlights.
You asked how I felt what I saw. We were
like because of my seat, y'all. I was just happy
to have a seat at this point. But I didn't
get the same side of the plane. I didn't see that.

(11:09):
I didn't see blue water. No, I just know I
just saw like fields of grass, like that's it.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
Oh wow, because okay.

Speaker 4 (11:19):
Since it wasn't my trip, right, Like, I didn't do
no research. I literally was like, you just tell me
where to be and wing.

Speaker 3 (11:26):
No, you did more research than me, though.

Speaker 4 (11:28):
I don't know, like I really like. I feel like
maybe because it's compared to how I normally do research.
But normally know what the room's gonna look like, hotels
gonna look like, what the streets gonna look like, what
the people gonna look like, a day in the life
in the rub but I already know before I get there, right,
But like time, I didn't do all that. I just
wanted to make sure we knew like restaurants that existed
and stuff. But I didn't do that like walk me

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down the street.

Speaker 3 (11:51):
That's a fact. This trip was definitely different because I
didn't play nothing.

Speaker 4 (11:54):
Right, which that's what we wanted. So I really didn't
know what to like, what to expect. I didn't know
if the water was clear. I really didn't know. So
like getting off the plane and not seeing anything until
we were in that calv that that was actually a
cool experience because I didn't know people looked like y'all.
I didn't know if they were gonna be black, white, Brazilian.
I had no I was like, okay, they're gonna be

(12:16):
Spanish because it's near Venezuela or near south of Marya.
I didn't know. So, like getting off, I was looking
around and I like, I texted M and A and
I'm like, I don't see no black people.

Speaker 2 (12:25):
Yeah, I ain't really see no niggas. Well, we didn't
see no niggas like that, did we There were.

Speaker 4 (12:29):
Some that lived there because it is still an island,
but it wasn't. I didn't I'm thinking islands, Okay, it
Sonna looked like Jamaica or it looked like I didn't
see like black people like that. And I still don't
know how to describe those people. They were beautiful people,
that's all I gotta say. Fat multi racial, it's multiracial.
It was like black mixed with Spanish mixed with I

(12:50):
don't know, they were beautiful, but.

Speaker 3 (12:51):
Yeah, that's what niggas say when they don't want to
offend nobody. They were beautiful, because we were.

Speaker 4 (12:59):
Talking about that too. But no, it's like we got
off and we got in a cab and our cab
driver was so nice and he was like kind of
decked out, like he had all bring some gold chains.
He had all like his Canadian tuxedo, you know, like
shirt was button a button low. I could see his hair,
he had little swags on him and he was just

(13:20):
like nice. He made sure that it was these bags
that they were giving away. They were like cooler bags,
and people were calling him on the street and he
was like, oh, hold on, I'm pulling over to get
these bags. And he was like you sure you don't
want it? And it was like the Generosity bag and
the weather.

Speaker 5 (13:36):
I was like, okay, I don't like it here. So
that was like a highlight stepping into it.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
I will say that the people in the Aruba are
mad nice. I can count on one hand how many
niggas tried it, but everybody else was super nice.

Speaker 4 (13:51):
I think only one niggas. Two niggas tried it.

Speaker 3 (13:53):
No three, the nigga at the airport.

Speaker 4 (13:56):
See, yeah, he tried it. It was yeah, he tried it,
So I wanted it was the one that I put
my shoes on the counter. Oh, on the counter. I
was like, vacation, my bad.

Speaker 3 (14:13):
Like Yo, we had a restaurant, y'all. This bitch gonna
really put her shoes on the count. People gotta get
their food and drinks. That nigga was like, are you serious?

Speaker 4 (14:23):
He black black mama me. He was like, Bro, you
ain't got no home training. Y'alls dirty too, girl.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
We had went through massing y'all. On that day, we
did u TV. Wait, so whis asked him, should start
with should we do the Flamingo bee? Should we do
the u TV?

Speaker 2 (14:39):
The chronological order of be okay, So when we get there,
as soon as we get in our taxi drive, our
cab driver, we was like, we hungry.

Speaker 3 (14:47):
We gotta get something to eat. So so we go
to Red Fish, right, So Red Fish. We had a server.
He was mooie, mollient like. He was very like sexual
like very He liked both of us.

Speaker 4 (15:02):
He didn't know which one he wanted, but he wanted hit.
He decided for chocolate at the end of the day.

Speaker 3 (15:06):
Yeah, So he was like just giving us all the
vibes and stuff. And so the food.

Speaker 2 (15:12):
The food at the restaurant wasn't bad. The calamari was fire.
That was the best calamario I ever had, in my opinion.
But I think we both had red snapper. We just
had to cook differently. And y'all, the food was so fresh.
It tastes like they got it right out to sea,
but it had no seasoning. Like I'm talking about, Like, y'all,
one thing about me, I don't really like a lot.

Speaker 3 (15:33):
I don't like salt. I don't put on in my food, nigga.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
I was putting so much salt in black pepper and
fish like it was so lackluster.

Speaker 4 (15:42):
Okay, So this is I, you know, be feeling bad
about talking about brown people food because I'm gonna start
out by saying that the food was fresh and good.

Speaker 3 (15:55):
Clothing it was. It was fresh.

Speaker 4 (15:58):
But she's not lying in y'all. Like it tasted like
the fisherman brought an egg. They pulled it out the chest,
the ice chest and put it straight on the stove
like there was nothing done in between that. So it
was like perfectly cooked. It was like a good portion.
I feel like the prices for it was we won't say.

Speaker 3 (16:19):
The name of it red You're not said any name
what redfish.

Speaker 4 (16:22):
Oh, so the prices and red fish, they were kind
of compared to American I don't feel like being in
a rub I was like, oh, our dollar golong Like
I didn't feel like that. Yeah, but I feel like
it was like normal. But y'all, I will say that
when we got there, we want a red snapper because
that's what the it was like. Barracuda and red snapper

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was what our capta driver said we had to have it.
We went there, they didn't had tudah, so the red snapper.
The dude was like, let me see if they got it,
and he went to.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
The he ever went to the seat to go get
that shit at the shit Yeah, like.

Speaker 4 (16:56):
The fisherman just rolled up with that, so I'm gonna
bring it out for you. So they mighty not had time.

Speaker 3 (17:03):
To do what the you always got time to season
put a little seas on something baby that.

Speaker 4 (17:07):
Ship because it ain't even have that. Like I got
my grilled, she got hers fried, and both of them
it tasted the lights around his bag. Yeah that was
mm hmm.

Speaker 3 (17:18):
So then I don't know, we're gonna we're gonna talk
about our guests or no, keep you moving, you talking
about the guests. Okay, So we had Liz had a
homeboard that it was in town, right, we ain't gonna
go into everything, but so the nigga pulls up right
and it's a vibe. We all have a fun this

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and that.

Speaker 2 (17:39):
So Liz is like, it's my homegirl's birthday. So Liz
is like throughout the entire trip, like y'all know, I
don't really drink like that, Liz, like we're taking shots.
I'm like prepping myself. So we got shots. Next thing,
you know, people singing happy birthday to me, and I
want to, right, I want to see how you're gonna
end this story.

Speaker 4 (17:57):
You're gonna put it on me.

Speaker 3 (17:59):
This is your story in it health.

Speaker 4 (18:01):
So you know, we shared a lot of laughs at
the table Like I feel like we were like real
life entertainers.

Speaker 5 (18:09):
We singing songs, we bringing up childhood memories.

Speaker 4 (18:12):
I don't know if y'all know about bobos.

Speaker 3 (18:14):
Bubbos and make your feet feel fine.

Speaker 2 (18:17):
That's such a down self like memph a song. But
Linz on some bobos. They's some fire bobos.

Speaker 4 (18:24):
So we having a good time. We ordered drinks or whatever,
and the drinks come out, We make the shots and
ship real quick and then it's like time to.

Speaker 5 (18:35):
Get the checks because niggas gotta gotta go again.

Speaker 3 (18:38):
Way so the way to say how many checks y'all need?
Why Linz Homebo was like dolls. We was like, damn, nigga,
ain't gonna pay for a drinks.

Speaker 4 (18:51):
A birthday girl drink like leave me, strind it, leave
me hang it. It's cool, you know what I'm saying.
But like birthday girl get her shots. But it's cool
because of restaurant was giving blue pool shots glogoo free stuff.
Yeah right, I don't think they charged this for so
it was cute.

Speaker 3 (19:06):
It was cute.

Speaker 2 (19:07):
It's cute, yeah, but we were just like, damn, like
this nigga's a dub cause like my nigga come on, now,
that's a red flag, ladies.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
If the nigga with you and he and I ain't
said he got paid all the time, like a thousands
of dollars. But like if it's you, you him and
your homegirl and like you was like that was my
young girl birthday, like by my bitch of shot, Like
come on, my bitch a shot.

Speaker 4 (19:26):
Because we were we were okay. So I feel like
if a dude doesn't do it because y'all had a
bad attitude or y'all wouldn't right or whatever, I mean,
he's still shure.

Speaker 5 (19:39):
But if he doesn't, okay, but we were like.

Speaker 3 (19:42):
Funny, but we was cracking jokes.

Speaker 4 (19:44):
Y'all folks was laughing, like cracking up. So yeah.

Speaker 3 (19:51):
So and I also feel like for y'all niggas, don't
don't link up still ask where you have to.

Speaker 5 (19:56):
Be honest, Like it was like a FaceTime like I'm
in a Ruba.

Speaker 4 (20:00):
Were you coming right right?

Speaker 3 (20:03):
So anyhood exactly.

Speaker 2 (20:16):
So at this point he went his own separate way
and then we was heading to our airbnb. So we
get to Airbnb and they was telling us somebody told
us that we lived across from Floyd Mayweather, right, so.

Speaker 3 (20:29):
We were gonna go with the asks or some sugar
because we you know, we stay in this airbnb. We
have no food in the house, y'all. I don't know
what the hell we were thinking.

Speaker 2 (20:37):
We have a bottle of liquor and some wine. Like
when I tell you we were on we was on
straight vibes, like we was.

Speaker 3 (20:47):
Going wherever the wind took our little asses, like we
did not care about nothing. Right, So we get to
the airbnb. I thought the airbnb was nice. It was
very big for just us too, you know, the same
way frame. I know she didn't like I'm being nice.
I don't think it was as bad as Lizz feels.

Speaker 4 (21:07):
Why do you think it was saying that made it
sound bad. We don't stay in nothing bad, no, you know. Okay,
so we'll start out by saying that the airbnb was
booked because straight off the rent, we only wanted to
stay in the places that were like hot rated. So
this was like either the best rated or the second
best rated that was available during our dates. Right, But

(21:30):
I think it's said like number one Airbnb and Ruba.

Speaker 2 (21:33):
Yeah, like it's a beautiful house, It's just not where
we would normally stay at yeah, and.

Speaker 4 (21:39):
I would normally stay there. The only issue is y'all,
y'all got to do better with the decor. Big ass house,
like like across from a mansion is gorgeous. You buy
one of the nicest beaches, like literally across the street
from one of the nicest beaches in a Ruba. But
the couch it was this old like night that the
couch were rit sent it and it didn't have no

(22:03):
like flowers, no table arrangements, no cute pillows. The water
was cold when we first there.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
So we didn't know how to work the shower.

Speaker 1 (22:13):
Because what was that?

Speaker 4 (22:15):
But the ready for that's me? That's right right too?
I told him, like you made a review, I wrote
a review.

Speaker 3 (22:23):
Yeah, I agree.

Speaker 2 (22:25):
I feel like so maybe the house was nice within itself,
but I do agree that the core for that house
could have been way better, like that's a nice house
like for us to be like we didn't even sit
on that couch, were like, I ain't no mind sit
on them. We don't know what the hell who ass
has been on there? Like it should be no reason
why the core looked like that.

Speaker 4 (22:42):
A lot of.

Speaker 2 (22:44):
Asses and tits and Dixon and everything. That castle like
it had a good time a couple of times, so
I think so after that we freshened up and then
what did we do do? We go to Calibrari Calibri
so that was that's the nightclub that everybody go to
every single night.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
I thought it was Kalibra.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
Anybody, any of our Ruber listeners, if we have any
fact checked us. But we went there and that was
a vibe. So they was playing like what.

Speaker 3 (23:17):
Type of music would you say? Like I would say,
like Spanish music.

Speaker 4 (23:19):
They were playing like all the what do they call it? Like, oh,
I know the name of this, It's like the Spanish
hip hop with Regatonton.

Speaker 3 (23:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (23:31):
So they was playing that and I ain't gonna lie.
It was a point where they Kalibra.

Speaker 3 (23:36):
I was right, you said brace so no niggas, niggas
an e gonna ask something to it, but I'm not
gonna lie. Like they was playing some hiss y'all. We
didn't know what the fuck them people were saying. But
that ship was a vibe, like it was a vibe.

Speaker 2 (23:54):
Then I think some guy had brought us a drink,
Like gods, was vinus drink the whole time he was there?

Speaker 5 (23:58):
Yeah, she had met this like white manillionaire dude on
a house there.

Speaker 4 (24:02):
Yes.

Speaker 3 (24:03):
I was like, please be my sugar daddy.

Speaker 4 (24:06):
I got you.

Speaker 3 (24:08):
I was like, Liz, I was nudge, I'm like what
you want.

Speaker 4 (24:11):
I was like.

Speaker 3 (24:13):
He was so scary though, I was like, come on, man,
I know because I mean.

Speaker 4 (24:18):
Look at you. I scared too.

Speaker 3 (24:21):
Okay, So wait was that the day of my my birthday?

Speaker 4 (24:26):
Eve? It was? It was Friday night.

Speaker 5 (24:30):
I just want to say she didn't let this out
because maybe because she don't feel the same way I do.

Speaker 4 (24:34):
What the name was cute?

Speaker 3 (24:37):
Who the sugar add huh? The sugar daddy no?

Speaker 4 (24:42):
Oh? Security guard was cute.

Speaker 3 (24:46):
And the little drug dealers next to me, girl, well
we had some young niggas, y'all, some young Spanish niggas,
some drug dealers. One the youngest one was like on
her ass. Big daddy over here was staring at me.
I was like, kids, what to be doing? Go home, sunny,
but you don't like him young. So any of the
male listeners to professional homeboys.

Speaker 2 (25:07):
The men were attractive, but I didn't see anybody that
made me be like, damn like that nigga. Fine, Like
the only person I would say is the security guard
that was like he made us get up by our seats.

Speaker 4 (25:17):
But I thought he was like, I'm trying to whisper
right ear he talking about get up, but he was
real swaggy about it. He wasn't like y'all got to
get over.

Speaker 2 (25:25):
It wasn't rude, but they had signs of verre saying
that niggas can't sit down, like we gotta be up
and dancing.

Speaker 3 (25:31):
But he was cute, little medium, but he was cute.

Speaker 5 (25:34):
So okay, I think that because you live in a
city like New York.

Speaker 4 (25:42):
You know, I'm be honest, and New York listeners don't
hate me, but I feel like New Yorkers be having
a habit of not being impressed by anything because y'all
got everything up there, right, But you gotta know that,
like the rest of the US of A. I went Tennessee, y'all,
I live in Nashville, right. You see these red tan

(26:03):
mad Yeah, these like this nice wavy brown hair and
teeth and pretty y'all see that.

Speaker 5 (26:10):
So that's not something you see every day. So I
think that's why I was like in.

Speaker 4 (26:13):
La La Land. Because I'm in New York. I don't
have the privilege of seeing the Midican poppies andyday.

Speaker 3 (26:21):
I was so underpressed. I was like Liz, she was like,
you don't think so come.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
So after we left Kalibra, we had went to go
get something to eat and everything was walking. Yeah, we
remember we was walking around because we went to the bar,
the Italian place, and we got pizza.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
And yeah, we remember you have actual birthday night.

Speaker 3 (26:42):
No, that was the leading into my birthday night, my birthday.

Speaker 5 (26:46):
Okay, okay, yeah, because when the clock strike, we were
like hey, right, So.

Speaker 3 (26:50):
We were trying to find something to eat, but everything
was like closed down. It was like what eleven o'clock,
eleven thirty when we started like making our way.

Speaker 4 (26:56):
Probably earlier than that, like eleven thirty.

Speaker 2 (26:59):
Okay, So we went to this I guess it's like
a little Italian piece of shop.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
This was wood. We had drinks and then Liz.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
Was like getting all emotional. She was saying a happy
birthday to me. So I was getting emotional and them
more life, more teens and it.

Speaker 3 (27:12):
Was so cute.

Speaker 2 (27:14):
Yes, and then we were just talking about like where
we want to be at and like relationship goals and
business goals, like it was just such a cute way
to bring in my birthday.

Speaker 4 (27:25):
I'm glad, I'm glad.

Speaker 3 (27:27):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (27:28):
It was like positive energy and y'all it was such
a good place too. I feel like to have your
birthday because everybodys gonna celebrate with you, girl, such like friendly,
nice people that like everywhere we went, we were like,
it's her birthday. It's people like okay, and like a drink,
here's a shot. You know. It was good vibes.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
You No, it was good vibes for sure. So what
did we do the next day? On Saturday? It went
to the beach.

Speaker 5 (27:51):
We woke up and we got our ass to the Renaissance.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Yes, so we went to the Renaissance Hotel. That is
where you cashed what do you call it?

Speaker 3 (28:01):
The boat side boat, the speedboat and child.

Speaker 4 (28:07):
Shruggling.

Speaker 3 (28:11):
That fish was struggling had some as.

Speaker 4 (28:17):
Like twelve to fourteen big ass people on that boat.
If it was a weight requirement, they ignored it. Y'all.
It was some big ass people on that boat. Oh
my god.

Speaker 3 (28:27):
Yeah, that ship was so funny because Liz's face was like,
can't nobody else get on this boat?

Speaker 4 (28:33):
Like really, but y'all it's cool because we were trying
to figure out where to get the boat, and everybody's
like at the hotel.

Speaker 5 (28:41):
I did you know that they meant at the hotel,
as in that boat take off from the lobby of.

Speaker 3 (28:45):
The hotel right behind Starbucks, y'all. I thought that was
kind of cool though.

Speaker 4 (28:49):
It's really cool.

Speaker 3 (28:50):
Yeah, yeah, so we did.

Speaker 4 (28:53):
It's like what a ride or tim int ride.

Speaker 2 (28:55):
Well, then we know we had to make a stop
and then I guess we had to pick up people
and drop people off, which I'm like, where they come from.

Speaker 5 (29:01):
I think it's another Renaissance property in the middle.

Speaker 3 (29:04):
Oh okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
And then after that we were able to take like
a five minute to Renaissance or the Flamingo Beach.

Speaker 4 (29:12):
Flamingo Beach yep.

Speaker 3 (29:13):
So we was like the one of the first people there.

Speaker 2 (29:15):
So we grab I seats whatever, and it was just
so nice, like y'all, no lie, Like the Flamingos literally
just came in like pop squad right.

Speaker 3 (29:23):
In front of us.

Speaker 4 (29:24):
Yeah, and they were like, yeah, like hanging out and
it wasn't like too many. It wasn't too few. It
was like the perfect number. Now, I will say that
the little niggas later.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
On, Oh, baby feisty.

Speaker 4 (29:39):
Because it's like so many.

Speaker 5 (29:40):
People trying to feed them and take pictures. You get
close to them, they snappy.

Speaker 2 (29:44):
Yeah, them niggas was agitated, but I don't blame them,
Like give me some space, goddamn, Like.

Speaker 3 (29:49):
Like I think her all day and I do this
every day, Like come on now. So when we was there,
we had what was our waiter name, Lulu girl, y'all,
we didn't get nigga a nickname. Lulu was a vibe.
When I tell you, we had so many fucking drinks.
I think we had like what ten drinks.

Speaker 5 (30:09):
If not more, because it was shots and and like,
so Lulu.

Speaker 4 (30:12):
I knew Lulu was it when we were like laying
down or whatever, and he was like, oh okay, so
it was something he said.

Speaker 5 (30:20):
It was like, what's y'all doing tonight?

Speaker 4 (30:22):
And I was like, I don't know. We're gonna turn
up and he was like, yes, that's what life's about.
You're just young enough and just old enough to get
out there and.

Speaker 3 (30:29):
Shake your ass.

Speaker 5 (30:32):
He like did a little ass work and then walked off.

Speaker 4 (30:34):
It was cute. I was like, oh, lot, bit the shit.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
No, he was such a vibe, like, oh my god,
and one thing I say about a Ruba because y'all
know I don't drink, and I drink a lot on
this trip.

Speaker 3 (30:45):
I didn't have no hangover. That's how you know, looking
out cheap?

Speaker 4 (30:48):
Or did he just don't put a lot in there?
Because I'm gonna study it is like them drinks. All
of the drinks were huge like that will I will
say I didn't like that. Like we ordered some like
gin drink. I was like super good. Though it tasted good,
but it was like two liters of June.

Speaker 2 (31:07):
I ain't gonna lie y'all. That shit was like give
it extra fucking large. She was like, God, damn, what
wants to drink all this shit?

Speaker 3 (31:13):
And it was just so much sugar, Oh my goodness.

Speaker 4 (31:17):
So I don't know if I don't know if we
didn't have a hangover because it was no alcohol in there,
or is it they used good alcohol?

Speaker 3 (31:23):
Yeah? True, true.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Now two things that we didn't like about uh about
this particular day. One the food was trash. The food
was trash. So they got like a little restaurant on
the beach and we were so hungry, and I'm like, shit,
I want to keep drinking.

Speaker 3 (31:38):
I'm like I gotta eat. Oh my god, that food
was not good, y'all.

Speaker 5 (31:43):
Yeah, and like it was everything except they brought out
these little pastries first.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
Then pastries was good. It was like a little like
the little chocolate brownies. And then it was like proissant thing.
It was like four or five different pastries and it
tastes like they just baked them. Those were good, but
when I tell you, they messed up the eggs, they
messed up the pancakes, they messed up the fresh toads. Yeah,
I'll tell you that.

Speaker 3 (32:10):
Yeah, it was bad. But and then another thing that
we didn't like was our girl Karen.

Speaker 4 (32:18):
What about this? White people got a lot of nerves
and this is like something that apparently happened a lot,
but she had us sucked up. So we want to
want to go.

Speaker 2 (32:29):
I would say this before Liz started. So we were
in the process of doing a partnership, right, and the
partnership didn't go through. But you know, we always believed
that delay does not mean denial, and in order to
get on the beach, you had to have a risk wristband.
So obviously the two cute little black girls didn't have

(32:50):
a risk wristbrandt then and I guess Karen must have
noticed it, hence the reason why she came up to us,
wattled to us, and then go ahead, Liza.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
I do want to say one thing though, it's not
that the partnership didn't go through. It didn't go through
how we thought it.

Speaker 3 (33:09):
Was right because in some capacity we still were able
to work with them.

Speaker 5 (33:13):
Yeah, we were able to get on the island. The
island was booked up. They were able to get us
a place we knew to get there early enough. We
had a perfect seat.

Speaker 4 (33:20):
Like it didn't work out in all fairtas, But like
she said, Karen saw that we didn't have no risk bands.
So she gonna walk over, wadle over, and she gonna
play nice, right, So she the first thing she said
was hi, and then she's like, so, how did y'all
get here?

Speaker 1 (33:41):
You did?

Speaker 3 (33:42):
So I started laughing, y'all because I'm like, oh boy,
here we go.

Speaker 4 (33:47):
I was confused. I'm like, what kind of question is that?
But what got me about Karen, y'all is a she
thought we shouldn't be there. But what really got me
is she gonna say, so, what are your names? I said, Elizabeth, No,
she he asked, you said first she said, she said who,
She said, I don't like that. I don't like that name.
Then she asked me, you know I got a white

(34:08):
girl name Elizabeth. She said, oh, that one, that one
I like here and bye bye caring.

Speaker 3 (34:16):
And then when she asked us how you got her,
I'm like, oh, we're too influencers. We have a relationship.
So you not had the stunn on this bitch.

Speaker 2 (34:22):
And she's like, oh, oh, okay, okay. But then Carrie
kept coming back, y'all, so I guess she must have
built the energy. And then she was getting a her
nigga nerves because he was looking at her like, girls,
what are you doing what?

Speaker 4 (34:33):
She's like, all, I'm over there for my husband. And
she was like I think his name is Jack. I
don't know she's Jack Jack.

Speaker 5 (34:39):
He act like he are y'all, and then she yelled
at so many times he turned around.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
She was like, these girls here from New Jersey and
he's like, okay, hi, okay, I'm reading. He's like, I'm
reading my book. Yo.

Speaker 3 (34:52):
Ain't just like a white My white man will let
you know what he is. Disgusted. Okay. He was over
that bitch.

Speaker 2 (34:58):
So then she came back and then she was like
her and Jack was about to read leave and they
had seats closer to the beach, but they also had
like a I guess an umbrella, and so.

Speaker 4 (35:08):
They had like a hut on the tiki hut right.

Speaker 3 (35:11):
So she was like, you guys, if you want to
come up there, this and that, and I was like sure,
thank you, Karen, Thank you Karen.

Speaker 2 (35:17):
So we got our ship, we moved on up and
we just spent the rest of the beach taking pictures
and shit like.

Speaker 3 (35:23):
It was just such.

Speaker 5 (35:24):
It was started bread. That's when Lulu turned up, honey.

Speaker 4 (35:27):
But we got over there. He brought us some beers,
he brought us he was like, he brought some shots
and he was like, oh, this is some extra ice
water that we had in the back and it was
in these little shot glasses. So he gave us tequila shots.
He also brought like a Margaret Reader or something like.
Lulu turned up.

Speaker 3 (35:42):
Yeah, that was a good time.

Speaker 4 (35:43):
That was fun to say, cause you might be getting
to it now what you want to say as I
talk about like how your fumena got rescued. Oh okay,
so they can put the drinks.

Speaker 5 (35:57):
Remember in the little floating from mingo.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
Like blow up dolls. Oh yeahs into the lagoon when
we were on our way out, and I was like,
you can't have mine, even though I really wanted it.

Speaker 3 (36:10):
But I know you wanted.

Speaker 2 (36:11):
I was like, no, no, So Lulu gave us these
really cute like pink like I know, formingos everything right,
So he gave us these really cute plink.

Speaker 3 (36:20):
Like blow up.

Speaker 4 (36:21):
Cup holders cup holders for the pool.

Speaker 2 (36:24):
And so of course my little blond ass my ship
goes flying in the air and it goes into lagoon whatever.
So it's like, you can have my as I'm like,
I know you want yours, and I'm like, and then
you know, I think Lulu gave it to you for
free withom because they you have to pay for it
or he charged like a dollar for some ship.

Speaker 3 (36:38):
So I'm calling security. I'm like, excuss, mexcuse me my
little pink for water.

Speaker 5 (36:45):
And they didn't have no attitude of nothing, y'all. They
went and called some big man.

Speaker 3 (36:51):
Get all out.

Speaker 2 (36:52):
He then clown down there in the water with the
snakes and ship got my little to catch the boat. Yeah,
so that made me happy. I actually it over here.

Speaker 3 (37:00):
It's so cute.

Speaker 2 (37:01):
So we ended up leaving, and then I will say
this restaurant was pretty good, the one that was across
from Renaissance. When we had to go get something to
e because we was hungry, it was the.

Speaker 4 (37:11):
Best food I had. Yeah, it's sad because it was
like like a beach bar type of restaurant.

Speaker 5 (37:18):
Nothing, but they just actually season their food.

Speaker 4 (37:21):
That's it.

Speaker 3 (37:22):
Yeah, that was really good. And then we headed home
to get ready for the birthday.

Speaker 4 (37:26):
Dinner quote unquote.

Speaker 2 (37:32):
So we looking cute, y'all. I had my little two
piece white satin. It was so cute, two piece of
white satin.

Speaker 3 (37:38):
List set.

Speaker 2 (37:39):
Liz had on her little cute was it peach. Yeah,
it was just like Tina Turner Violet.

Speaker 3 (37:47):
We were just so cute, like we're rolling. Okay, So
we go to fucking Catch, y'all.

Speaker 2 (37:53):
This bit should have been called Toss because that ship
was fucking trashy. Ways it away, y'all.

Speaker 5 (38:04):
Y'all they played though, because the catch the logo in
the font was just like the Catch in New York,
and they played.

Speaker 3 (38:12):
Talk about plagiarism at its final.

Speaker 4 (38:16):
Y'all. They're not affiliated.

Speaker 2 (38:18):
They know where they're affiliated. When I tell you, they
get niggas with the oakie dog.

Speaker 3 (38:22):
So we come in.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
The inside looked decent, right, one thing about arub but
I will say that a lot of the places look
very archaic.

Speaker 4 (38:31):
To me.

Speaker 3 (38:31):
It looks very old.

Speaker 4 (38:32):
Yeah it's I look old. It's you know how exactly.

Speaker 3 (38:36):
So I didn't expect it to look the best.

Speaker 2 (38:37):
But I'm like, this is a franchise, Like this is
catch Like I know it's gonna look like something child
Like I said this, she looked like it was go
go fetch like that shit looks crazy.

Speaker 3 (38:46):
So they see us outside.

Speaker 2 (38:48):
We sit next to some black women, right, So at
this point we're trying to see We're looking at the
menu and like I'm trying to see what the hell
I'm gonna eat because I wasn't really hungry, but I
wanted something really good, but I didn't see nothing in
the Maybe that was like appealing to me, did you girl?

Speaker 4 (39:04):
No? And then like we we stared at the menu
and we eat like kind of sad, right because we
like it's her birthday dinner and we want to eat.
We just were looking frustrated. All of a sudden, we
hear ladies.

Speaker 3 (39:20):
No girls, girls, girls, girls.

Speaker 4 (39:23):
We're like it was girls because we just grown. Were
looking around.

Speaker 5 (39:27):
We look at the table. It's a table full of
black aunties.

Speaker 3 (39:30):
Oh baby, and what an auntie they were.

Speaker 2 (39:34):
Child When I tell you they gave they waiter hell
hell baby, they must I think they had issues with
their food. So they brought their food out maybe like
two or three times. And when they did bring the
food out, they was like, one of the aunties like,
well this was disgusting.

Speaker 4 (39:53):
Started like and you should have broke this for two
minutes before you put this, and I was like, okay, ma'am.

Speaker 5 (40:00):
So basically they gave us the rundown of what not
to get.

Speaker 4 (40:04):
Y'all. They said, the only thing on there that was
edible was a watermelon feta sally this me and you
got lamb chopped, it's got, it's got shrimped jerk pasta
they talk about, I mean the watermelon fetipossa.

Speaker 3 (40:19):
Listen, the nigga said. They was like, the fish wasn't fresh.

Speaker 4 (40:25):
He was She.

Speaker 2 (40:29):
Said the fish wasn't fresh. The waiter said it was
the catch of the other day. She said, what no
nigga supposed to be to catch them today? Y'all was like,
y'all the catch of.

Speaker 3 (40:40):
The other day. Took me out, y'all, because she was like.

Speaker 4 (40:45):
How the dish not freshing? You just cat it today?
He said, well, it was the other day. We and
everyday looking at each other, were like, you know what.
I was like, I'm gonna get mashed potatoes. She was like,
I'm gonna get thee to me with a salad, y'all.

Speaker 3 (41:01):
I had watermelon salad for my birthday.

Speaker 4 (41:04):
And she was hungry. Y'all.

Speaker 3 (41:06):
I was hungry.

Speaker 2 (41:07):
But I'm glad we ate before seriously, because I would
have been I would have been pissed.

Speaker 4 (41:14):
But you know what, that whole situation and then y'all,
it starts storming.

Speaker 3 (41:17):
Oh my god. Then y'all should have seen the little
patio set they had outside behind us. The ship was
like flying up. It was just a ship show, y'all.

Speaker 4 (41:26):
I waitress. She was from somewhere in New York. Where
was she from?

Speaker 3 (41:29):
She was from Younkers.

Speaker 4 (41:31):
Okay, she from Yonkers. And she going on and on
about how she couldn't raise her son in that neighborhood.

Speaker 3 (41:36):
Racial injustice, racial injustice.

Speaker 5 (41:39):
And then she like an eight, They racist here too,
They telling me something something, But I love it here, y'all.

Speaker 4 (41:45):
So good.

Speaker 5 (41:45):
You should move here, but fuck these people are I
was like, girl, what you go.

Speaker 4 (41:49):
Get my food up.

Speaker 3 (41:50):
Then somebody was coughing in the kitchen.

Speaker 5 (41:53):
I'm talking about hacking that, I'm talking about hacking.

Speaker 4 (42:00):
Then it was like a table full of like white
people to the left, and I don't know what's going
on with them, but they.

Speaker 5 (42:06):
Were like offending the waiter and they were mad because.

Speaker 3 (42:09):
It was just a lot hard. It was just a lot.

Speaker 2 (42:13):
So she ended up bringing me out like some fry
oreoles I could have made my damn self. She was like,
these are like decatent, and Liz was like, ain't nothing
this motherfucker being decictent.

Speaker 5 (42:27):
It was like you about, y'all gotta try the Oreoles.

Speaker 4 (42:29):
Y'all gotta try, and they're like decadent and light the
chef people to put his foot in this y'all from
New York. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (42:37):
She gonna know girl bye. And so I think at
that point we was gonna try to go out.

Speaker 2 (42:42):
I think we went to the Risk Carson because we
just wanted to see, like what the vibes were there,
And honestly.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
Y'all, we was like, let's just go back to the
Airbnb and just like vibe out.

Speaker 4 (42:53):
The real reason is because we go to the bathroom
to get our little mirror picks. I turned around. I'm like,
oh my god, I did not know.

Speaker 3 (43:02):
We didn't know. Her dress was sea through y'all, right,
see through?

Speaker 4 (43:06):
And I have no draws on. They talk about some
cute what.

Speaker 5 (43:16):
I'm like, girls, I'm trying to get kicked up, like.

Speaker 4 (43:18):
What are you do?

Speaker 3 (43:32):
So at that point, y'all, I think we were just
I know, for me, like I saw my flamingos.

Speaker 4 (43:37):
I was good.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
We got some wine at the house. Don't think I
wish we had with some snacks.

Speaker 2 (43:41):
But I was like, let's just go to the house,
listen to some Dolph and vibe out by the pool
because we had a pool in.

Speaker 4 (43:47):
Our airbnb, and about online.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
Yeah, and we was vibing outside, like just talking about
you know, girls should be into Lulu do Lulu.

Speaker 4 (43:56):
Right right? Right?

Speaker 3 (43:57):
So the next day, what did we do? Say with Saturday?
So we did U TV right Okay?

Speaker 4 (44:04):
So about that, I was supposed to take care of
the activity on Sunday and I was like, you want
to go hiking or whatever? Evan, It's like, what time
is it. Tell me about it. I'm like, oh, we
got to be there at six. She's like, are you
gonna get up at six? Because I don't get up early?

Speaker 3 (44:19):
Oh, I get up early. I get up early.

Speaker 4 (44:20):
I was.

Speaker 3 (44:20):
I didn't want to get up early.

Speaker 4 (44:21):
I said, I don't get up early.

Speaker 3 (44:23):
No, Liz, don't get up early.

Speaker 4 (44:24):
I do not.

Speaker 5 (44:25):
So I'm like, no, I'm gonna get up early. I'mna
get up early so we can do something different.

Speaker 4 (44:29):
I forgot to book it, and so we're trying to
book it Saturday night and it's gone. I'm like, oh shit,
I'll shit because she's gonna disappointed. And you were a
little bit I was.

Speaker 2 (44:39):
Y'all know, I'm not really an outdoor nature type of bitch,
but when I do get in that bag, i'd be
excited to have my little cute little hookah hiking boots.

Speaker 3 (44:45):
So like, I was not playing no games.

Speaker 5 (44:49):
I was like, shit, I gotta recover this. So I'm
on my phone like scrawling.

Speaker 4 (44:52):
And I found this like UTV ride and it's like,
you know u TV is because I didn't know what
the UTV was. Ya, the little car version of ATV M. Yeah,
you got like two seaters four seaters and six seaters. Yeah,
so I was like, Okay, we're gonna do this. It's
like four times as expensive as the hacking think. So

(45:13):
I'm like, oh shit, but now she's like, cool, sign
up for it. Best experience of the fuckingtions down. Yo.

Speaker 2 (45:21):
When I tell you, y'all, that shit was a fucking vibe.
I was like, knowledge, you did your big one. Like
that was so much fun. I think it was like,
well four hours.

Speaker 4 (45:30):
It was four hours, and we basically go we get
into UTVs, we riding over rocks and like you know,
we're just going crazy. It's like rough riding or whatever.
And then we go on to beaches you can jump
in the water. Yeah.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
On the ruins it was y'all.

Speaker 2 (45:45):
It was like they pretty much take you on the
outskirts of o Aru, but like you really get to
see the countryside of it. And like, I'm so happy
Lisz was with me because there's no way I could
have drove that shit.

Speaker 3 (45:55):
I couldn't, Yo. That shit was rocky like that.

Speaker 2 (45:58):
When I tell you, Liz was punching cheese, y'all. Like
that bitch was putting the pedal to the metal, like
she was swerving.

Speaker 4 (46:02):
This shit but tell me to dry that thing.

Speaker 5 (46:04):
They said, dry that thing like you running for the police.
I said, say, let's yes.

Speaker 2 (46:09):
Now, I don't see how people can do ATV on
that ship because on the route it's very like there
were some parts where it was like extremely rocky, like
one wrong turn you could have got sucked up.

Speaker 4 (46:19):
No, it was one time because like y'all, they are
real big when you're on it, like they like, stay
with me, stay with me, like y'all, don't get behind.
So I'm trying to keep up with they speed and
they driving. So it's like one time we going up
a hill around a curve and our card. Mind you,
it's four wheels on this thing. We were all like
one side.

Speaker 2 (46:37):
Yes, yeah, oh god, No, Liz did a good job.
Like it's no way I could have did that ship.

Speaker 4 (46:43):
Y'all, y'all gotta do that UTV. What is it? Aruba
UTV with Jersey and who Jersey and Chris.

Speaker 3 (46:53):
Yeah, look for Jersey and Chris u TV riding like
that ship is a vibe. So much fun, so much fun.
And then what did we do some Saturday night? I
think we just chill out with calibre.

Speaker 4 (47:06):
Yeah, let's try to go to Caliber Gang. Oh, we
had met some people that worked in Naughty Day Fiance.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
We did, we did. They brought our shots.

Speaker 4 (47:14):
Then the Goodes, some real good I think actually this
season is the season they shooting because they got people
in the ruby. I think, oh cool, cool, cool.

Speaker 3 (47:24):
That was super cool.

Speaker 4 (47:25):
It was super cool.

Speaker 3 (47:27):
We were supposed to get back up with.

Speaker 2 (47:28):
Her friend, y'all, like she was saying, we gotta beat
these niggas names down, child, but it was it was
like we was.

Speaker 4 (47:34):
An afterthought for days. But it was cool because we
did our thing. We went to Calibra, Calibra.

Speaker 3 (47:42):
We we went home.

Speaker 2 (47:43):
We just chill out, okay, because Sunday we had to
get up early because we was headed.

Speaker 3 (47:49):
We went to the Flowing Massage. Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (47:55):
We thought we was gonna go to the beach, the
other beach by our house for some more times. Yeah,
we got time for that.

Speaker 3 (48:01):
So we went to the floating massage and that was
a vibe. Oh my god, it was so nice.

Speaker 2 (48:07):
So we pull up to this beach. It was like
early in the morning because we ended up leaving that
same day. So I'm like, let's just get an early flight,
I mean an early massage.

Speaker 3 (48:16):
So we pull up.

Speaker 2 (48:17):
They have a boat that takes you into the middle
of the ocean and they have the tumasus with the
floating tables and stuff like it was huh.

Speaker 5 (48:26):
They're just waiting like they they stayed in there like
waiting for us to pull up.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
Oh my god, Like it just felt like you was
in heaven.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
Like it was such a vibe, like shout out to
Elizabeth and what was the other girl's name, I don't know,
I don't know, but shout out to them like that
was like that was everything.

Speaker 4 (48:47):
It was cute and it's like, okay, so you know,
like when you in the massage parlor and they playing
a little music in the background, waves crashing, well, it
was like that in real life. Yes, it just created
this like whole vibe and you kind of rocking so
you kind of going to sleep.

Speaker 2 (49:02):
It was so nice, like, oh my god. There was
one little thing that we didn't like, I didn't know.
I don't want to say it, but I will.

Speaker 3 (49:13):
Yeah, because my.

Speaker 2 (49:16):
So you know Mommy's We gave them good we gave
them a good tip. So obviously we enjoyed the service.
But so the time when you get a massage, they
turn you. They tell you to turn over right, so
we're on our backs, and to block the sunlight, they
have to put like a towel or something over your face.

Speaker 3 (49:34):
So Mommy thought that it was good to put a
meal DW towel. I'm like smell, and she tried to
cover up the stench by putting some of the central
oars on.

Speaker 4 (49:46):
Top of.

Speaker 2 (49:50):
And so the whole time I couldn't even enjoy the
massage in the front because I'm like, my, y'all, my
skin is very sensitive.

Speaker 3 (49:57):
Like I was like, take this.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
Ship off my face, mom me, like please, Like I
was so afraid. I wasn't just playing by I affection
or some shit.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
Okay, if y'all smelled like mop water, it was so bad.
But that was like five seconds out of the whole thing,
so it felt like.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
Five minutes water y'all. But overall that experience was like amazing.
It was really fun, like hands down, like we talked
about this. We was like we want to go back
to a Ruba.

Speaker 4 (50:27):
You're going back, yeah, y'all. You gotta know you gotta
have that cash like a rub but they want cash
for everything. Ye don't go like American dollars, go Yeah,
they're with a lot of cash, and like it's hard
to find an ATM. Like I'm walking around looking for ats.
Everybody's like, huh huh, you gotta like find certain hotels
that's got it. Yeah, the only thing, like I wish

(50:48):
I had taken more cash out going. But yeah, speaking
of that, the final ride to airport.

Speaker 2 (50:54):
Okay, so then we're gonna now we're gonna talk about
what we didn't like. So obviously we've been very vocal
about the food. So if you want to go there
for your birthday, definitely eat before you go to the restaurant.

Speaker 5 (51:05):
I heard that it's like a couple of restaurants that
we didn't get to that are decent.

Speaker 4 (51:10):
So I know the names of them me too.

Speaker 5 (51:14):
I just got to look them up. But next time,
that's where we're going, because.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Where I wanted to go for my birthday. It's a
restaurant where you can sit in the water while you eat.
Everybody swears by that, but swears by it, but you
have to book that bitch up by what three or
four months?

Speaker 4 (51:28):
The day it was booked up till May y'all.

Speaker 3 (51:30):
And I was like, god damn.

Speaker 2 (51:31):
So when we go back, I think we're gonna try
to go back for New Years or somewhere really cute,
and then we're gonna definitely give y'all a update. But
let's talk about the things that we didn't like. So,
for one, Liz wanted to get a car. I never
get a car when I go to certain places, but
I do feel like since Aruba is such a small
country or aland I think we can do it.

Speaker 3 (51:51):
I'm in a car.

Speaker 4 (51:53):
Yeah, because like the reason why I like to do
that is because if it is a small island, that
means that you can go see the whole island, go
check out, like because there's areas that they said that
are predominantly black to have, like certain restaurants. They've got
their own beach. It's called like San Louis or something, right,
But we didn't get to get over there because it's far.
But yeah, I like to get a car. Anytime I'm

(52:14):
saying to Airbnb, I like to get a car so
I can get around because y'all them taxis ain't no
airb I mean, ain't no uber. Like you gotta call
like a taxi line like back in the nineties and
they dispatch a car. Yo.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
That was fucking crazy. That was like a throwback, like
y'all remember when we didn't have.

Speaker 4 (52:32):
Ubers and lifts and I was living in New York.
But but the thing was, it was okay because I
could just go out and call it cay. I kind
of like it that way.

Speaker 5 (52:40):
So you got to like talk to the Uber driver
like I'm sitting over here and look right right.

Speaker 2 (52:45):
That's a fact, Like, y'all when I tell you, we
was calling the fucking line line like crazy, like that
shit was, Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (52:51):
It was like Uber was like I mean, each car
ride each way was at least twenty dollars minimum, yes, dollars,
So you spending money on them rides and you're going
down the street.

Speaker 2 (53:02):
I mean, honestly, that's where the majority of our money went,
was the Luber rides or cap Rise. But y'all, one
thing that pissed me off about this fucking trip was
a Rubert airport. Airport, y'all, baby, So it's getting y'all,
it's getting out of the Ruber, getting into Ruby.

Speaker 4 (53:22):
I feel like breeze, breeze.

Speaker 3 (53:25):
But getting out of it. First of all, when you
get to the airport, it was raining outside, y'all. You
know how you go through the airport and you're you're inside, y'all.

Speaker 4 (53:37):
The airport was outside, right, so y'all like you because
this started raining, of course, so we got to stand
in line. But we get there.

Speaker 5 (53:46):
We okay, we made it whatever whatever, because everyday.

Speaker 4 (53:49):
Was late, y'all. She was running late. Okay, yeah, she
was pushing it.

Speaker 5 (53:54):
And we hit the house because my flight was like
an hour and a half after hers.

Speaker 3 (53:57):
After the house that I keep saying, no, no, it
wasn't me.

Speaker 4 (54:00):
It what it was.

Speaker 3 (54:01):
It took the cab to get there forever.

Speaker 4 (54:03):
No, that ain't happen. Friends, So we caught the cab
late as hell, and I kept telling you. I kept saying, like,
talk about our little other stuff.

Speaker 5 (54:13):
But I kept saying, like, friend, it's twelve o'clock.

Speaker 4 (54:15):
It's I'm finna caught a cab. I'm just finished last
step in my I was like, I did not sound
like that a little bit. So she went into the
last minute to call his calbyll. The cab was late,
which added to the stress. Then we get to the
airport and we ain't got enough cash and like some
of the cabs did have a credit card machine.

Speaker 3 (54:34):
We thought, oh man, that lady.

Speaker 5 (54:37):
That lady was not doing it, and she was like,
it says cash d d DA and we were like, no,
she what she She snapped back, no, she said, well,
she said you need to request when you talked to
call the line, you need to request to have a
cab on ATM.

Speaker 3 (54:50):
I was like, bitch, how the hell I post no request,
poor cat to have ATM.

Speaker 5 (54:53):
Why y'all not that the calf has had a credit
card machine?

Speaker 4 (54:55):
Right? We realized that late Mitch.

Speaker 3 (54:58):
I'm so mad. I said to ATM credit card machine.

Speaker 1 (55:02):
Shit.

Speaker 4 (55:04):
That shit had me tied bags out already after she'd
already complained by the way that our bags was heavy.
But she had brought our bags out. We like because
we were like, can you take us to an ATM?
She gonna say, well, the bags are already outside the car.
I'm not putting back in, so somebody got to stay
with the bags. I was like, okay, ev, and they
take off because she don't even want y'all. On top
of this, I love my debit card at home, so

(55:25):
I really can't get no cash out y'all.

Speaker 3 (55:27):
I'm like, how did you leave a debit cardt home? List?

Speaker 5 (55:29):
I left everything at home, but my swim suits.

Speaker 4 (55:33):
And y'all know apple pay. Okay, that's the right, but yes,
so as they rush off in this cash, they get
some money. She come back.

Speaker 5 (55:43):
We get in line.

Speaker 4 (55:44):
As soon as we get in line, it starts raining.
Where you drop your bags off is covered like any
other airport. You walk in doors, it's like checking station.

Speaker 3 (55:53):
When you get inside the airport car.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
But then they make you go back outside after dropping
dropping your bag and standing in a long ass windy
line outside to get to security. So we outside and
it starts pouring down rain and the line is so long,
y'all and Ebaney ain't got no time to be.

Speaker 2 (56:14):
When I tell y'all, it was like a sheet over
our head that was covering up I don't even know
what the fuck that she was doing. From the start
to the end of the line, we was like, nah,
this can't be it. So Liz line was moving for
the head and I end up skipping her. So we
going through the line. We get to the first checkpoint,
so we're like, all right, cool, we're good, good good.

(56:35):
So the girl and I think somebody was like, don't
worry about You're gonna make it.

Speaker 3 (56:38):
So I'm like, all right.

Speaker 4 (56:39):
Cool.

Speaker 3 (56:39):
So then we go through a second checkpoint.

Speaker 4 (56:43):
Okay, So what I didn't realize is that you go
through customs. You go through US customs and a Ruba y'all.
Most of the time, y'all, you go through customs and
back home, you go through before you leave. So once
we get through the first security lines, they got backpacks out,
I mean our laptops at our backpacks. All that. We
thought we was good. We headed to the gates. So

(57:04):
we get inside and we stopped by the sousingirs shop
and we shopping and we walking.

Speaker 3 (57:09):
Wait, chill, I'm like, shure, we got time, like we
can nigga. I had to carry on. Liz had to
drop the no, she had to go back and pick
her back up.

Speaker 4 (57:20):
Yeah, I had, Yes, I had check checked two bags, right,
so I can get to the security thing.

Speaker 5 (57:26):
They like, oh, you gotta go get your bags, and
they my bags.

Speaker 4 (57:30):
Is thrown over in the side or whatever. I gotta
search through all these bags, find my bags, pick them up,
and then go through customs.

Speaker 2 (57:36):
Now, imagine you walking into a room and everybody that's
leaving a Rouba on that day have all of their
luggage right then and there.

Speaker 3 (57:43):
So we had to look.

Speaker 2 (57:45):
Nobody's watching it, so we had to look for Liz stuff,
and we was like, so, where are we going next, y'all?
We go through another line, and this line was long.
Liz fancy ass had global h entry my as. I
didn't know anything about it, so I'm just like I
had to stand in line, me and Liz looking all
sad like the two girls in the color purple, right,

(58:10):
and then I'm like, I'm asking.

Speaker 3 (58:12):
A guy being nice and stuff. I'm like, sir, can
I just go over there?

Speaker 2 (58:14):
Because like my flight was literally leaving like less than
an hour, No, it was less than that, like forty
five minutes.

Speaker 5 (58:19):
I think y'all was about to take off.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
Were about to take off.

Speaker 2 (58:22):
So the nigga was like the nigga barked at me,
and I just smiled at HM because I'm like, you
know what, I ain't going to jail in the rub,
so I said, you got.

Speaker 4 (58:29):
It, sir.

Speaker 2 (58:30):
So at this point, Liz is already through her point,
made to go through her part, she already got through checkpoints,
security whatever. I'm still in line, y'all, so I'm like,
i gotta start skipping people.

Speaker 5 (58:40):
So I'm wait, there's more. Because remember I got through customs.

Speaker 3 (58:44):
Right, and this is why I started skipping people right.

Speaker 5 (58:47):
And I get and I'm seeing people take their shoes
and stuff off.

Speaker 4 (58:51):
I'm like, what is going on? Y'all? It was another
security checkpoint like your regular airport win. So I'm like,
oh shit, I'm texting in a like again, you gotta skip.

Speaker 2 (59:02):
So at this point I'm starting skipping people. I'm like, y'all,
my flight leaving I I So they was like, yeah,
go ahead, go ahead. So this old ass nigga behind me,
he was like, oh, y'all, let a nigga skip.

Speaker 3 (59:12):
I looked at him.

Speaker 4 (59:12):
I'm like, sir, are you serious?

Speaker 1 (59:16):
Girl?

Speaker 4 (59:19):
She saw him when we get inside, when she probably
got through, she gets sided. She was like that's the
old nigga that I'm like.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
Girl.

Speaker 4 (59:25):
He on a cane.

Speaker 2 (59:28):
And shout out to the Brownies because they was next
in line to go through a checkpoint, and I was like,
come on, y'all, ss aked them. They was like, girl,
come on, we know how they feel because they was
late trying to catch a fight, so shout out to them.

Speaker 3 (59:38):
I think that's why I'm like London and some ship.

Speaker 4 (59:40):
But okay, the Black Girls was Black Girl in because
I want to talk about it. The thing on my
plate my flight back too, so.

Speaker 2 (59:47):
I get so after this point, I'm running through the
checkpoint that Liz told me about. So I'm hauling ass,
throwing my suits. Yeah, I'm sweating. I am so fucking
drenched because I don't like being late and stuff, and
I don't like Russian y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:00:01):
Why the fuck I get to my gate the damn
flights delay.

Speaker 4 (01:00:06):
I'm in there with all the Italians from Sicily. They loud, yeah,
come join us, girl.

Speaker 3 (01:00:13):
Girl, y'all. And I tell you, a Ruba airport is
a fucking ship show.

Speaker 4 (01:00:19):
It ain't it. Ain't it on island time. They don't
care if you got somewhere to go. Oh my god,
because I think my fight was late too, But it
wasn't super delayed, but it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:29):
Was late like the way I was like anxious, y'all.
It should not be no reason why my ship was
delayed like that. Now overall, I'm definitely looking forward to
going back to aub but I think that the next

(01:00:51):
time we go it's gonna be even more better experience
because I feel like we know the lay of the
land and also I feel like we did such a
This was our first trip together and we had such a.

Speaker 4 (01:01:01):
So good I'm gonna say that, it's like, if you
get older, you know what I mean, you just want
to be who you are. If you like tired, hungry,
or whatever the case may be. You know, missing your boo,
if you got one, whatever, you just want to be
able to like be in that mode talk about it
and not mess up the trip or none like that.
You know. But I just feel like we vied because

(01:01:22):
like we just like ebbed and flow whatever whatever with
the mode. If the restaurants were shut down and nasty,
wasn't nobody like we just like float on to find
something else. It was cool. I know. I'm gonna say that.
My little moments was when that sun was trying to
get me because I got roseation, y'all. Y'all like, bro,

(01:01:45):
you know why, I was like, cut on walk.

Speaker 5 (01:01:46):
I'm gonna walk, and I'm active, y'all, don't get it wrong.

Speaker 2 (01:01:49):
I work out and stuff, so y'all, this bitch got
like jewish and hurt, and so she was like, I
can't be in the sun.

Speaker 4 (01:01:58):
Breaking out.

Speaker 3 (01:02:00):
I'm turning red. I'm turning so my ass. I'm like, oh,
free you walking a little.

Speaker 4 (01:02:05):
Red, get your feet out there on that pavement a walk.
But no, I'm glad I did because it was one time.
I was trying to catch a cap. We was literally
going at five minute walk and she was She was like, gir,
I'm not listen to you for a walk, and I'm
glad you did.

Speaker 3 (01:02:19):
Oh, you know we from I'm from New York House.
We walked everywhere, so I.

Speaker 4 (01:02:24):
Normally don't mind walking, but you know, we're just trying
to keep the skin blowing. Her little thing was she
count prepare ever so she would get in her little mold.

Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
I got to a one time, y'all one time.

Speaker 4 (01:02:38):
It was one more time, But maybe it was the
I'm thiguring of the time at the airport when your
stuff was packing. It was trying to time to call
it uper.

Speaker 3 (01:02:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:02:44):
Yeah, it was funny because she was she was sad.
She was mad because she was mad. I'm so excited
about the g TV. Right, she got in the car
with no fu screen, no flip flop.

Speaker 3 (01:02:57):
Well, I tell you I left. I did never left
myself behind. I didn't drink anything. Yeah, I was so excited.
I don't know what the fuck I was thinking. And
I'm like, I'm like, Liz, I'm ready. Yeah. I had
my little Gucci.

Speaker 2 (01:03:07):
Crossby first, my little cute outfit, and Li's just like okay.
I'm like, why you didn't say anything, y'all?

Speaker 3 (01:03:15):
When I tell you, I was not fucking thinking like
that's how excited I was.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
It worked out though, because we stopped at we stopped
somewhere to get some water or something. Oh some cat
where we stop at. We stopped by somewhere to get
some cash or something. On the way there.

Speaker 5 (01:03:31):
Yeah, they had flip flops in there. I was like,
a you gonna get your flip flops.

Speaker 4 (01:03:34):
You're like okay, okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03:37):
So before we end, so to the listeners, what do
you What did you learn about me that you didn't
know about this trip? I'm I like that, and I'm
gonna say.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
I learned about you.

Speaker 4 (01:03:46):
Okay, So I learned.

Speaker 3 (01:03:49):
I'm gonna see if you're gona say what I think
you're gonna say.

Speaker 4 (01:03:52):
I don't think so, because it's kind of a I
need time to get this question. But what stood out
to me, which I thought about a few times, is
like the night that you want to sit by the
pool and just like kick it I didn't realize you
was like that chill kick it, Like, yeah, I didn't
realize that, like you was like just want to vibe
off on music because you know, you see look at you,

(01:04:13):
You're like so pretty in New York. You got all
these like cue clothes, key style boss girls. So I
didn't know she had that like homely chill element, like
where it's like I don't have to be out all
the time, I don't have to be moving all the time.
Like because I was like, well, let's go explore it.
She was like, this is exploring. It's just us chilling.

Speaker 5 (01:04:33):
I was like, okay, So that was my little thing
that keeps staying at with me.

Speaker 2 (01:04:37):
No, that is true, like y'all when I'm on my
chill vibes, like give me something to drink, maybe a
little edible, and I just be vibing.

Speaker 5 (01:04:44):
You finish that audible, you turn it things.

Speaker 2 (01:04:46):
I turned that because it's not you know, we worked
so hard, like Liz is just like me, like we're
trying to be full time entrepreneurs by time we hit
a certain age, and like we're always hustling, bustling. Y'all know,
I'm always working like a two dollars hole and so
it's Liz. So it's very rarey that I can just
be able to just sit down, especially be with my
loved ones and just like just vibe out and just talk.
Like I don't really get to physically be with my

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friends because most of my close friends don't live in
the same state exactly like I have my my my
best friend here, but like as far as like my girlfriends,
like all y'all live all over. So sometimes I just
be wanting to just like just be in the MoMA
with my girls.

Speaker 4 (01:05:22):
You know.

Speaker 2 (01:05:24):
Yeah, but I thought you was gonna say how you
didn't know. I was like the type of girl like,
oh my god, Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (01:05:31):
I was like, what is wrong? I forgot about that?
But I didn't forget thanks for minding me because I
talked about it the day, but I just when we
were all on three Way. But y'all, this girl is
a princess. You know at the name she gets sh done.
She out here like running this business, making connections, googoo woo, y'all,

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she has she's here everything. I was like, girl, what
is wrong with you? Like, for example, going to ocean
or whatever they're staying there might be seaweed in there.
It was like a flamingo, you know, her beloved flamingo
waiting on her to take a picture with It's like,
come get this picture. You were like, I can't put

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my on this grass and I was like, girl, what
you like? Like the way it feels. So it was
like a little mound of stand and like, oh, friends,
it was too swimmy for her, y'all. It was like
times when we were like doing a u TV ride
and I'm like, what's wrong with you? She'd been talking
about the whole time how she knew how to swim.

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I'm dressed because I don't know how.

Speaker 3 (01:06:38):
I do know how to swim, but I just wasn't
fucking with that cave, y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:06:41):
It was a little It was okay, y'all know how
y'all go to Tuloom and to be a little snow taze.

Speaker 5 (01:06:45):
It's like that super clear water like in a cave.
It was that, y'all kids there anyway, you part of
the little.

Speaker 4 (01:06:52):
UTV experience supposed to bear your swimsuits so you could
get in that water and you can like jump off
and it's seven feet, which I ain't gonna lie. That's scary.

Speaker 5 (01:06:59):
But you know, big, I'm over here talking out with
all this stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:07:02):
So I'm like.

Speaker 3 (01:07:05):
She was getting so annoyed with me. She was like,
I'm about to go.

Speaker 4 (01:07:10):
Everybody was dudes, like you're either gonna jump or you're not.
She decided to slip like no, I'm gonna do it
like this old scario bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:07:27):
We was about to do the UTV, so I thought
we was gonna be in the a TV about to be.

Speaker 4 (01:07:34):
Like I'm She's like, I'm gonna have my pussy on
your bet a CV.

Speaker 3 (01:07:37):
I was like, no, you're not.

Speaker 4 (01:07:42):
Not. We're not doing it here, y'all. But don't take
that to me.

Speaker 5 (01:07:48):
She don't know how to have fun. She fun as hell.

Speaker 4 (01:07:50):
It's just that I didn't know she was a like
girly girl to that.

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
Yeah, I'm like super girly.

Speaker 2 (01:07:55):
I'm just like when I want to y'all, if this
was my nigga, like my nigga, like the man of
all mens.

Speaker 4 (01:08:01):
Because I.

Speaker 3 (01:08:03):
Can't go, I can't, I can't.

Speaker 2 (01:08:08):
I was like, what I know, So I would say
the one thing that I learned about you is I
didn't realize how adventurous you were. Like I feel like
you are so like, yes, let's do, let's do, let's
do it, like you're just so free spirit and stuff.
And I don't know why I thought about this, but
like I felt like so Liz was in a really
bad car accident last year, right to the point where

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our good sister was not gonna be here, Thank the Lord,
she is. And I don't know why, but I thought
that you probably would have got triggered from doing a
UTV ride and the way that she was just so
fearless and like it was time. I was just looking
at her and she was just having so much fun
and like, I don't know that, just like really like
made me so happy to see you in such joy.

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
And yeah, it was like like we had so much fun,
Like we had some little.

Speaker 2 (01:08:57):
Nutcrackers and I was even scared about that, but I
was like, no, come on, come on, come on, like
right right, Like it was just like Liz is such
good energy, Like I'm so looking forward to the many
more troops that we're going to go on cause I
feel like we had like such a good time and
I needed that what.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
It's supposed to be. Like anytime somebody asked me about Aruba,
like I light up Yeah, that trip was perfect.

Speaker 5 (01:09:20):
And I told somebody yesterday, I was like, I like
traveling with people that like to do shit.

Speaker 4 (01:09:26):
Yeah, but it ain't like to do shit. I do shit.

Speaker 3 (01:09:28):
I be scared, but I do it.

Speaker 4 (01:09:30):
You're scared, but you gonna get there. Not just like that,
you know, because I think it's like her willingness and
my willingness to just like go with the floe and
try stuff. Folks calling me, But I think that that's
what really did it, Like, that's what really made the
trip is because we were acting like our asses was
on vacation.

Speaker 3 (01:09:47):
Yes I was. I had a moment.

Speaker 2 (01:09:49):
I was talking about work or something I saw about
PG and she was like, come on, bitch, we're not
talking about business.

Speaker 4 (01:09:55):
You said, we want it. I know it. Yeah no,
And I appreciate you for saying and that because I
actually was having a conversation with my homeboy today and
he was just asking me. I can't remember how we
got on this topic, but the question was along the
lines of like, what why do you make it such
a priority and make it so important to like live

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and get outside and just working. He's an entrepreneur and
he wants to do the same and Honestly, I feel
like it's just that because I like what you brought up.
Like literally, we went to Noble and Lab and Lab
went to Noble. One of my good good friends I
hadn't seen the years came we tripping, having a good time.
Luckily I wasn't drinking at the time, like I had
given up alcohol for that month. But yeah, we leaving Noble,

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we about to go like get some weed to take
it back, you know, to Tennessee and got tea bone
And it's just like everything changes so quickly that I
really just feel like you just got to live, like
yeah for now, you know, because you really don't know
how much more time you have. Plus, like we this
age just the last time we're gonna be this age.

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So I look ever so good doing stuff. It looked
this good, but you know, I just want to like
not lose time.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
So yeah, maybe I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
Crazy, but no, I think that being around you, especially
since we are we you know, our lives are very similar,
just really makes me want to just do more and
live more.

Speaker 3 (01:11:21):
So yeah, I'm really excited about our next trip.

Speaker 4 (01:11:25):
Oh I can't wait.

Speaker 3 (01:11:26):
I know we ain't gonna say we're just gonna pop
out and show it.

Speaker 4 (01:11:29):
I didn't know.

Speaker 3 (01:11:30):
I like my bitches blush.

Speaker 2 (01:11:33):
But we have two trips together, I think maybe three
trips together that we that we have planned this year,
and I'm just so excited about it. So i cannot
wait for y'all to see what we're gonna do in
the summer.

Speaker 4 (01:11:45):
Yeah, I'm coming to City, New York. How y'all say it?
New York, New York.

Speaker 5 (01:11:50):
I'm gonna come next week if I'm making happy.

Speaker 4 (01:11:52):
But yeah, this is the more fun, more last, more
girls time. This is the most girliest girl trip ever
and it was so good. It literally any bad like
ideas or thoughts that I've ever had about a girl's trip,
yeah amazing, Like I'm damn nearor just want to travel with.

Speaker 3 (01:12:08):
You all the time, y'all not sure? What's so girly?
I think we were pink like every day You're like,
I'm like, I do like I love pink. I love pink.

Speaker 2 (01:12:19):
But any final thoughts friend for this year and what's
the come final thoughts especial when it's a traveling too,
because you know.

Speaker 4 (01:12:29):
Like y'all get you know, connections and chances. I would say,
because I definitely have been in the past, like all
grown folks probably are of like O, Like we talked
in a minute, but you know what it's right and
like like when they said earlier, like if you got
that one girl where it's always good vibes, it's always
positive when y'all see each other, it's like y'all never left, Like,

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don't give up on that, because I'm I feel like
it's just set the stage for so much positivity and
excitement this year, from a business point to a relationship
standpoint to a travel stamp, like I'm gonna be excited
for what we have, like we just our mindset and
all the positivity and inspiration and y'all she had cheerleader y'all,
like the support that you bring to the table, like

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like you, But it's gonna make for a good year.
I'm excited what this year has to bring with you.

Speaker 3 (01:13:15):
Me too, Me too, I'm so excited.

Speaker 2 (01:13:17):
I just I'm just so thankful for you and obviously
my other close friends. I'm just so thankful, Like I
just feel like God has just been so good to
me and I'm just so thankful to see another year.
So and I'm really happy I was able to spend
this year with you, because you know, I really was
gonna go do this solo trip by myself, which I
was fine with, but for me, it speaks volumes when

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you was like, I'm gonna come for your birthday, Like
You're not gonna spend your birthday by yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:13:43):
So I really really appreciate what you really wanted to
do this birthday.

Speaker 5 (01:13:46):
You had plans for someone else, but yeah, yeah I did.

Speaker 4 (01:13:49):
I did.

Speaker 5 (01:13:49):
You don't get the friends together for the next one, y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:13:52):
We gotta be trying to like figure out another ship
where we can bring all the friends together and have fun.

Speaker 3 (01:13:57):
We had so much fun and I'm a listen. I
don't drink, but when I do drink, it's just be
so much fun. We just need some edibles and we
can really be lit.

Speaker 2 (01:14:07):
But because we support entrepreneurs list, please tell us about
your business, tell us where they can follow you at,
because we all try to get to this.

Speaker 4 (01:14:14):
Bag the bag. So I am a dog lover, dog enthusiast,
and I started a company called Friends of Dog. It's
the friendsofdogstore dot com, the Friends of Dog Store on Instagram,
anything for the dog lovers. We got accessories for dogs,
so fun collars, fun clothing. We have like dog enthusiasts,

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cups and things for dog moms, like I'm drinking out
of one right now that says like really fucking.

Speaker 3 (01:14:42):
Good dog mom, okay, and like just fun stuff like that.

Speaker 4 (01:14:45):
So if you love dogs or you know anybody that
does love dogs, we just got a lot of fun
stuff for y'all, and they.

Speaker 2 (01:14:50):
Are very all inclusive because I, yeah know, I don't
really mess with the furry animals, but I'm gonna support
my girl and some stuff because the stuff is really cute.
I was like, I get a dog, that's the thing. Yes, yes,
So make sure y'all support my girl, and also make
sure y'all follow me. Follow me at the Professional Homegirl Everywhere,

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follow me at the PhD podcast on Instagram. And until
next time, y'all, we are winding down down. We are
almost done with season two. I think we have like
maybe six or seven more episodes and then we will
be back. We're taking a nice little break because we
believe in balance and coming back.

Speaker 5 (01:15:29):
And yeah, so I think she got to take a trip,
y'all and plan for what's next.

Speaker 4 (01:15:32):
That's what that means. You know.

Speaker 3 (01:15:33):
What's so crazy?

Speaker 2 (01:15:34):
Yeah, because our next trip is gonna before season three
come out. I ain't gonn tell y'all date job. Yeah,
so make sure y'all follow and support and until next time, everyone.
And also, if you want to give me some birthday gifts,
some coins, anything, please make sure to hit the show
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Speaker 2 (01:16:03):
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Speaker 3 (01:16:10):
Just keep it moving, but show me.

Speaker 4 (01:16:12):
Some love having me, yes of course, friend of course.

Speaker 2 (01:16:16):
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