September 26, 2025 • 24 mins
We’ve assembled a group of sorority women to address the rumors, the misperceptions and the flat out lies of sorority life.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
your hosts me Gia Judice.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Okay, everyone, welcome back to Dirty Rush. And today we're
talking to some anonymous sorority girls that we have here.
Would anyone like to say their actual name or do
we want to keep it anonymous.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
I'll say my name.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I'm Kiddy.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Oh, I'm gonna go with.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
No.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
I'm the producer.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
She's so I think I'll say my name.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
I'm Lauren, I'm Gracie.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
I can say a fake name.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
We're gonna be like no, and then I'd be like, Okay,
explain why.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Here's why we're being so mysterious.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Okay, So we are gonna be talking about some myths
and like all the tea around sororities and being like
actually real with all of you. And so some people
are saying anonymous just because they got a lot to say.
Speaker 7 (01:13):
It's very interesting because even like thirty years later, I
still always want to protect my sorority. Yeah, you definitely
feel that. In my in my school, I'm always like
better not say no.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It is I feel like it's such a special thing,
like sororities can they can get like bad people can
have bad ideas about them. But also like it was
such a great thing for me and such a good
time in my life, and like even the crazy stories,
like I love them.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
It just like it makes college that much more memorable.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
We had an interesting question when we were preparing.
Speaker 7 (01:42):
Okay, so there's six of us here, would anyone say
they're sororities?
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Password publicly? I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Wait what password?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I didn't have a password?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Mean, you don't have a password, the secret word? You
don't have a secret password?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
No for what, like to get in.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
The door, to get in this chapter room door.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Oh, and like.
Speaker 8 (02:08):
We had Greek names, so like everyone was assigned a
Greek name and you had to say that when you
got into chapter and that's how you like got in
the door.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
A handshake.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Yeah, yeah, I'll my Greek name.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I just put my fingerprint and then I walked through
the door.
Speaker 7 (02:23):
Your finger the chapter room door. You had to put
your fingerprint in the chapter room door.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Well, our chapter room was our fro.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
It was like, so two of us, who will remain nameless,
are in the same sorority here, and we will say
the password to each other.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
And give each other the handshake. But we wouldn't say
it to.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
You guys, like you wouldn't tell me when we're off air.
Speaker 7 (02:44):
No, that's kind, but I would say it to the
other person that was like, I get that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
If I had one, I would have to keep it sacred.
I get it.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
I don't really doesn't have one.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I think because technology.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Some times have changed, clearly changed.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Okay, Daisy hit us with the more questions.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Okay, well here we go.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
So I know we've talked a lot in like past
episodes about how it's expensive to be in a sorority.
Do you guys think sororities are paid friends?
Speaker 7 (03:18):
Oh my gosh, wait, say that again so I can
really take that in. You're paying to have friends.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Do you think sorority in a sorority or paying to
have friends?
Speaker 5 (03:26):
No?
Speaker 8 (03:26):
No, what an interesting take. I wouldn't say so either.
You're paying for the full experience. You have formals, all
these events, and it's like, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
My sorority was paying to live there and have food.
Speaker 8 (03:39):
Yeah, yeah, payduce to live in the house. I think
it goes so far beyond having friends. I don't think
that's the reason you're paying.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
I wouldn't say it.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
I think for me, like my freshman year at least,
I wanted to find a community, and so I felt
like sure, paying for my friends was like an.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Easy way to do that.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
But also like living in the house too, like our
rent in the house is cheaper than any rent in
my college town. That is, I was like financially the
smarter decision.
Speaker 8 (04:05):
To make I feel like so many people have that
have said that same thing.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
It's cheaper to live in how.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Which was yours because you were at Ole miss which
is like, yeah, school.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I don't exactly remember, be honest, my parents paid for it,
but so like pre so are Like I said in
the other episode, our house flooded my freshman year.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
So our old house, the dudes were very like really low.
I think they were like nineteen hundred.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But then and that was three meals a day, and
you used the house like at all hours, like you
could have it at all.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
We weren't living.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
There, but to be you could to be.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Fed three times a day, which was way cheaper than
the meal plans that you paid for sure anyway, but
then once we got the new house, I'm pretty sure
it was like in the three thousands per semester.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Like if you lived in or was that no, just
really cheap?
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah, just to like, yeah, okay, good, I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I thought that was where we're gonna live for one
thousand dollars a month.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I think it was like four hundred dollars a month
to live at the house, no bills. It was just
like four hundred dollars spot.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
And then there's three grand like on top of that.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah okay, yeah, so it makes more sense to live
in Yeah, okay. This kind of leads into our next question.
So are you still friends with all your sisters everyone?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (05:23):
Yes, And I'm fifty over fifty years old, and I
would say, right now, I could call twenty five people
in ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
That's amazing. I'm different. I'm not. You're not okay.
Speaker 9 (05:36):
Yeah, I have like two maybe super close friends for
my sorority. Still, I mean I feel like I could,
if I was in a bine call any of them.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Not that's loose.
Speaker 9 (05:46):
Not any of them, I would say, probably a handful.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Yeah I am not.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
That's so interesting.
Speaker 10 (05:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
We did a calculation the other day if we threw
a party of just like six years of my sorority.
We got to one hundred and fifty people in like
like literally ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah, that's how I feel.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
My I just got married a couple months ago, and
all my bridesmaids were my sorority sisters, including my own
blood sister who was then joined my sorority. And then
I had a house party because there were so many
of us, I couldn't have seventeen bridesmaids.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was going to be the number and I just
felt like that was a little crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So I did a house party and the other girls
besides Daisy and like three others were my sorority sisters.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
Yeah what about you, Daisy Me.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah, I'm like so.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
At San diegoce I my roommate freshman year, Christy, I
was in Alpha FIE, she was in Pie PI, and
we both like found our groups like within, like she
had our group in Pi FI. I had my group
in Alpha PI, and then we kind of like morphed
everyone together. So like most of my friends, all my
friends like outside of college were in Alpha or Pi FI.
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And then I have like a couple friends that I
did like stuff at school with, but like, for the
most part, I'm the closest with them.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I would say, we.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Got that at my school Kappa d G PI FI
and everyone's still friends.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, where did you go to school? By?
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Okay, so much for being anonymous.
Speaker 10 (07:13):
I would like.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Not to exploit you, but I have to know.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
We should like have the logos of the schools like
pop up. Okay.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Do girls fight over boys when you're in a sorority?
Speaker 10 (07:29):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Yeah, No I never experienced that.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, but it's like like girls like, I mean, girls
can be shady and they're like they're like, oh, you're
like hanging out with that guy?
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Will like I'm like hooking up with him.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
I never had that.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
We call it like claims, Like people would make claims
on a boy. Yeah, and then if another sorority sister,
like even months after those two end, did if another
sorty sister started to date or like that boy, Yeah,
a little dramatic.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I don't know if I find it that dramatic, Like
I would never you know, start things with like a
guy that my soorty sister had been with.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Oh, I was so many boys. I wasna I went.
Speaker 8 (08:21):
To a school that was sixty percent girls and forty
percent boys, so it was slim Pickett.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
You gotta fight. Everybody was fighting for themselves.
Speaker 8 (08:31):
But I mean seriously, like I feel like every week
there was a new just draw draw between girls because
it was like, don't kiss someone that your sorority sister.
I'd guess, but that's impossible.
Speaker 10 (08:46):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I remember being like, if like older girls in my sorority,
if like someone in my pledge class like started like
talking to their and like you comment, as a freshman,
you don't know anything, but like say, like a girl
starts talking to an upper classman's like ex boyfriend or
something like that and start hooking up with them, like
it's like crazy, and it's like you should not do that,
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like you like, and it's almost like then like that
friend group like will like not like attack you, but
like you know what I mean, they're they're like sowing.
Speaker 7 (09:33):
Back now because like I said, it's been thirty years,
but I remember I kissed a boy that my big
sister in the sorority dated.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah, and I don't think she was too happy about it.
And now I'm totally still totally friends with her.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
I don't even think if like we called her right now,
she'd even be able to name who the boy was Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I mean I remember because it was a little bit
more dramatic for me.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
We have a friend and she the upper classman thing.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
She yes. I was like, who are we talking about?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
She was like terrified to talk to this guy because
an upper classman. I guess they claimed him. Yeah, it's
literally how she described it. They were like, you're not
going to talk to him. He's he's ours and he's
older than you, and you need to stick stay in
your lane.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Yeah, and now they're dating.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
But now in college it was like no, And then like,
way is.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
The only thing that I think get a little sticky
in the sorority can.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Get a little sticky.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Extended past college.
Speaker 9 (10:33):
There was a situation in my sorority that our president
at the time came to college with her high school boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
He also joined a fraternity.
Speaker 9 (10:45):
She went on a semester travel abroad, and while she
was gone, he hooked up with somebody from our sorority,
but she didn't know, and they got married very young,
and she was convinced that she that they lost the
virginity together and like in their marriage she found out that.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
This is giving like tell me lies, you guys seen that.
Speaker 9 (11:10):
Yeah, in their marriage that he had cheated lost his virginity,
is just somebody else in the same crority.
Speaker 6 (11:16):
I think the most important part of that, like the cheating.
I mean, that's really.
Speaker 9 (11:20):
Nice stuff, but like that's and that's so that's extended
past college, so it gets it gets sticky.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Wow, Okay, let's move on to the next fun Are
mixers and like pre parties as wild as movies and
TV make them seem?
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Not not like in.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
The movies where like people are jumping off the roof
and stuff like.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I mean, no people at mine like jumped off the roof.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Honestly would Maybe I feel like the acting is kind
of fake where it just seems so out of touch.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
It's all so like I don't know about you guys,
but like when we would go to like fraternity parties
and say, it'd be like, okay, Alpha Fi, we have
a pre party with sigap. Then we would go like
with to Cingette, but no one ever had solo cups.
Like everyone would drink out of plastic vodka handles and
then have a like Steven Up like chaser from like
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Trader Joe's, and it would be vodka.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
The gods and everyone would just be slugging it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Out of the same bottle past Sumer haircuts.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
They would pour both so you'd like and dump it
into your mouth at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:36):
I will say I went back to s AE as
an old person, you know, like during a fraternity party
on a football game day, and I was actually like disturbed.
I was like it was so wild and they were
doing all that sharing and all.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
I could think about was the germ like mono.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Yeah, like yeah catching and it was so hot and
there's so many people that I was actually like a person,
was like I actually cannot do this. Yeah yeah, But
I think as a twenty year old I would have
been like, this is amazing.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
It's also like you're away from like you don't have
any rules. You feel kind of invincible and you can
go out and party whenever you want and you walk
in and it's like, I don't know about you, guys,
but it was dark. There were lights, there were like
people were DJing, Like, honestly, how many frack guys are DJs?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Because chair expired so bad?
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Oh my god, these are great questions. Keep going, this
is good, they get.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Good, Okay, oh, this is okay.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Do sorority girls actually have to earn invites to the
best parties.
Speaker 6 (13:44):
No, well, I'm the social chair of my sorority.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Oh so you go in everywhere.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
I'm I'm making sure that we get the good parties.
And it's also kind of like as dramatic as it seems, like,
I want the entirety of my sorty to attend these
events that we can continue having like a good relationship.
Speaker 5 (14:01):
What about a day party? What about a day party?
Speaker 6 (14:04):
Yeah, yeah, that's kind of like the like frat guys
themselves will seek out one person. So it's kind of like, yeah,
if us as a sorority, we're going to maintain these
great friendships or more with these guys, then that's how
you can kind of like get yourself into like a
date party.
Speaker 7 (14:19):
I'm trying to remember, like South Seas do they start?
So how does that work? Is that essial just a darty?
Speaker 6 (14:23):
So we just i mean like social.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Party, but like anyone can show up, Like if that's
what the question.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
Is is get into South Seas.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
No, it's not for us.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
It's like yeah, for me, it was like my sorority,
so like Alpha Fie, like we could get into like
like the three like frats that like we mainly like
hung out with, we could go in there. But if
like another girl like walked up and they were like
not in a sorority, or if they were in like
a different sorority and didn't have like a relationship with
that frat, they'd be like, show me your group me.
Speaker 7 (14:59):
That's how you to prove And the scroll you just
said show me or show me or get me.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
So it's like, do you know what group me? So
it's like an app where like you can add everyone.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
So like if we were all on the same sorority,
I would add all of you guys, and then we
would do like alpha pi like times like s AE,
and then we'd all be in the same one. So
then if I showed up and I was like, okay,
I'm Daisy, I'm an Alpha fi, they would scroll on
it to make sure that it's like real and not
a screenshot and make sure that it's you. And then
like if Gracie showed up with me and she wasn't
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an alpha fie, like say she was like not in
a sorority, they'd be like, no, like, she can't come.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
If I was visiting you, if you were visiting me.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Then it's like different than I like put in that
I have a friend visiting me or honestly, I mean
it's not horrible, but like it was and the guys
are like, oh, like you're hot, like they'll let you in.
Speaker 7 (15:51):
So how did I get into South Seas Because it
wasn't there a guest list?
Speaker 5 (15:54):
I feel like my name was on a list or something.
Speaker 6 (15:57):
What we do is we have like physical wristbands in
apps sometimes, but that's just maybe because like now there's
a lot more people that will try and go to
the fraternitys and it's not like a if you're hot
or not thing. It's like a safety thing of like
there could be people around Berkeley that are just like
lurking trying to get into presses that like don't go there,
and that's like a safety concern. So now we have
like wristbands and like we have an app to where
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we can like add people if they're visiting ours.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Was literally you walk up, you show your Sunniti and
you walk in.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Oh wow, like there and your Suniti didn't say your
sorority on it. They did not. There was no none
of that.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But that's for that's for like Okay, Sigma Nu had
what was there? They had like this one yearly big party,
like there was no no rules for like anyone could come.
It was the fratorney. Even guys from other fraterneys would
sometimes come. They had like a friend that was in
Sigma Nu. They'd be like all right, I'm gonna go. Yeah,
But like date parties where it's just Katie and just
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SIGNU or just Katie just Sigma.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Kai, you have to prove it.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
But like that's it would be like it's.
Speaker 8 (17:02):
Just regular parties. Anyone could walk in. Yeah, they didn't
check a student ID, they didn't check a group me nothing,
Like if you were a girl, you could just walk in.
But then, like you were saying, with formals or date parties,
then there's a list or there's a wristband that you
need to have. But any old fraternity party, especially a
tailgate or something, anyone can get in.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
No, San Diego.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
I don't know what it's like now the big city thing.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Like I mean I was in Oxford, Mississippi, Like there's
nothing there besides the college, so I could kind of
see that not being a safety concern. But if you're
in like a bigger city, you need to like control.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Is kind of like it's like not close, like if
you think of like downtown San Diego and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
It's like it's like in its own little kind.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Of world, you know what I mean. And the only
one that like the only people that try to get
to the parties are like college students.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Like any old people listening that still don't know what
a group me is, I'm totally with you. They still
it's just like, yeah, it's like group chats.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Yeah, it's a bunch of trip chots.
Speaker 3 (18:03):
Like an easy way to start, like a text start
without giving your number kind of.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah, you can only.
Speaker 5 (18:09):
Say it's fine, person. I don't think anyone over forty
is understanding that. But that's fine.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I'm over thirty and I'm getting it.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
So next question, are there ceremonies for things like engagements,
et cetera. Is the candle pass tradition real or just
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a room it is?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
It's real.
Speaker 8 (18:40):
Every single week my chapter would go like thirty or
forty minutes longer than it should have because we had
a candle pass, because there were a lot of ring
before spring girls in the stort wait when the candle spring,
Like you get engaged before you.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Oh no, wait, that's actually this.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
Is like the actually engaged.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
So they get engaged the secret, Yeah, it's they get engaged,
but they keep it a secret.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
And then they have a candle and they put the
ring on the candle and they pass it around and
then you sing a song and then at the very end,
the candle ends up with the bride and it's.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
Like, oh my god. They tell their entire love.
Speaker 8 (19:25):
Story for like way too long.
Speaker 10 (19:29):
Year.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
So that is crazy.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
One pinning in four years.
Speaker 6 (19:35):
I don't do that.
Speaker 7 (19:37):
What is a pinning like you're or this pinning is
like you're it's a step before getting engaged. So it's
the same candle and the candle's going around and you
don't know who it is, and then it stops.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
I don't remember how.
Speaker 7 (19:51):
There was some sort of singing and then that person
who's maybe the friend, blows out the candle so the
person knows they're getting pinned. And then all the boys
come in in suits and then but it's just a pinning.
I think they give them. It's very old timy. They
give their fraternity pin to the girl. And then it's
like engaged to be engaged.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
So they're hinting like you're gonna engage.
Speaker 5 (20:16):
It's like it's like a spring.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Honestly, thinking of like frat boys, Like all of my
like frat guy friends who I'm still friends with, love
them all to death, but like they were total frat
boys in college.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Like I like, you cannot marry any of them. Maybe
it's like maybe they.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Would never do that, like they would well, they just
like there's no way they possibly could.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
They're they're they were just like animals. I'm sorry, it's true.
There's a school in Minnesota.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
It's a private school and if you get engaged before
you graduate, you get school free.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Noel, Yeah, it's called I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 7 (21:01):
I'm like, actually, Google, give us another question, will you?
Speaker 2 (21:05):
Yeah, Oh, let's due.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Do you think Bama rushed TikTok mates already see more
extreme than they really are?
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Yeah, not for ole miss.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
Not for all miss. Well that makes sense because they're
both in the South. Yeah, I seem like the TikTok.
I think like social media has opened up like a
whole other aspect to it where other people can like
watch it too. But even my friends I remember in
our group chat, we like sent like our sorority Alpha
Fie at sandy or say like they do all those
dances before and they like scent it. And I was like,
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all my friends were dancers, and I was like, you guys,
i'd be that girl with just her arm showing in
the back holding the sign. Then like my friends were like, oh,
we'd be in the front dancing, like eating.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
That shit up, you know what I mean. So, I
don't know, it's definitely changed.
Speaker 7 (21:51):
Yeah, And we need to get like a grandma in
here du from you know, when they were in school
in the sixties or seventies, because it'll be interesting too.
Speaker 8 (22:01):
Imagine showing them one of those tiktoks.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
They'd be like, what the hell's this.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
Petition that?
Speaker 6 (22:08):
Yeah, my grand was in his story in the sixties
and she had said to me recently being like, so
what is work week? And why do I keep seeing
you on the Instagram?
Speaker 2 (22:15):
What's happening?
Speaker 6 (22:16):
And I'm like, I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
Yeah, we need to do a grammar episode. We'll do that.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yes, I need to gramas. If you want to be
on the podcall in.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Next question, do sororities secretly keep hotless during rush? Like
meaning like do they keep tabs of like girls that
they like.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Want in the sorority of course.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Yes, yeah, I feel like that's no secret.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Yeah, I think social media plays a part in it,
Like we were saying for sure, where they see online
a girl that has like the in her bio that
she's going to go to the school, and I feel
like they kind of like keep tabs.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Yeah, like someone joins the Facebook pages and is like scouting.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Do alumni ever pull strings to control who gets a bid?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Yeah, definitely, I know other sororities. It was like it
was kind of crazy.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
I don't know if it was like this for y'all.
Was Rush Week like super drama for y'all.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
Yeah, just so tiring.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So for us, like every day there was like a
rumor there was something about this house was doing this,
this house was doing that, And I remember alumni being
a huge part of one of the rumors. Actually every
year that this house's alumni was keeping this girl whose grades.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Were below the requirements and.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
They or they have these like crazy past things that
they've done that they like shouldn't be put it.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Yeah, it was crazy, guys.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
We have so many more juicy questions that people ask
and so come back for the next episode because we
are going to do a part two. We didn't even
get halfway through the question, so come back for that
and thanks for being here.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Love you guys.
Welcome to Dirty Rush, The Truth about Sorority Life with
your hosts me Gia Judice.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Daisy Kent, and Jennifer Kessler.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Okay, everyone, welcome back to Dirty Rush. And today we're
talking to some anonymous sorority girls that we have here.
Would anyone like to say their actual name or do
we want to keep it anonymous.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
I'll say my name.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
I'm Kiddy.
Speaker 5 (00:29):
Oh, I'm gonna go with.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
No.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
I'm the producer.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
She's so I think I'll say my name.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
I'm Lauren, I'm Gracie.
Speaker 6 (00:43):
I can say a fake name.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
We're gonna be like no, and then I'd be like, Okay,
explain why.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
Here's why we're being so mysterious.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
Okay, So we are gonna be talking about some myths
and like all the tea around sororities and being like
actually real with all of you. And so some people
are saying anonymous just because they got a lot to say.
Speaker 7 (01:13):
It's very interesting because even like thirty years later, I
still always want to protect my sorority. Yeah, you definitely
feel that. In my in my school, I'm always like
better not say no.
Speaker 2 (01:24):
For sure.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
It is I feel like it's such a special thing,
like sororities can they can get like bad people can
have bad ideas about them. But also like it was
such a great thing for me and such a good
time in my life, and like even the crazy stories,
like I love them.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
It just like it makes college that much more memorable.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
We had an interesting question when we were preparing.
Speaker 7 (01:42):
Okay, so there's six of us here, would anyone say
they're sororities?
Speaker 5 (01:46):
Password publicly? I wouldn't.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Wait what password?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
I didn't have a password?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Mean, you don't have a password, the secret word? You
don't have a secret password?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
No for what, like to get in.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
The door, to get in this chapter room door.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Oh, and like.
Speaker 8 (02:08):
We had Greek names, so like everyone was assigned a
Greek name and you had to say that when you
got into chapter and that's how you like got in
the door.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
A handshake.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Yeah, yeah, I'll my Greek name.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I just put my fingerprint and then I walked through
the door.
Speaker 7 (02:23):
Your finger the chapter room door. You had to put
your fingerprint in the chapter room door.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
Well, our chapter room was our fro.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
It was like, so two of us, who will remain nameless,
are in the same sorority here, and we will say
the password to each other.
Speaker 5 (02:39):
And give each other the handshake. But we wouldn't say
it to.
Speaker 2 (02:41):
You guys, like you wouldn't tell me when we're off air.
Speaker 7 (02:44):
No, that's kind, but I would say it to the
other person that was like, I get that.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
If I had one, I would have to keep it sacred.
I get it.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
I don't really doesn't have one.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
I think because technology.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Some times have changed, clearly changed.
Speaker 5 (03:05):
Okay, Daisy hit us with the more questions.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
Okay, well here we go.
Speaker 3 (03:09):
So I know we've talked a lot in like past
episodes about how it's expensive to be in a sorority.
Do you guys think sororities are paid friends?
Speaker 7 (03:18):
Oh my gosh, wait, say that again so I can
really take that in. You're paying to have friends.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Do you think sorority in a sorority or paying to
have friends?
Speaker 5 (03:26):
No?
Speaker 8 (03:26):
No, what an interesting take. I wouldn't say so either.
You're paying for the full experience. You have formals, all
these events, and it's like, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
My sorority was paying to live there and have food.
Speaker 8 (03:39):
Yeah, yeah, payduce to live in the house. I think
it goes so far beyond having friends. I don't think
that's the reason you're paying.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
I wouldn't say it.
Speaker 6 (03:47):
I think for me, like my freshman year at least,
I wanted to find a community, and so I felt
like sure, paying for my friends was like an.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Easy way to do that.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
But also like living in the house too, like our
rent in the house is cheaper than any rent in
my college town. That is, I was like financially the
smarter decision.
Speaker 8 (04:05):
To make I feel like so many people have that
have said that same thing.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
It's cheaper to live in how.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Which was yours because you were at Ole miss which
is like, yeah, school.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I don't exactly remember, be honest, my parents paid for it,
but so like pre so are Like I said in
the other episode, our house flooded my freshman year.
Speaker 4 (04:29):
So our old house, the dudes were very like really low.
I think they were like nineteen hundred.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
But then and that was three meals a day, and
you used the house like at all hours, like you
could have it at all.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
We weren't living.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
There, but to be you could to be.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Fed three times a day, which was way cheaper than
the meal plans that you paid for sure anyway, but
then once we got the new house, I'm pretty sure
it was like in the three thousands per semester.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Like if you lived in or was that no, just
really cheap?
Speaker 4 (04:58):
Yeah, just to like, yeah, okay, good, I'm glad.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
I'm not.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
I thought that was where we're gonna live for one
thousand dollars a month.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
I think it was like four hundred dollars a month
to live at the house, no bills. It was just
like four hundred dollars spot.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
And then there's three grand like on top of that.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Yeah okay, yeah, so it makes more sense to live
in Yeah, okay. This kind of leads into our next question.
So are you still friends with all your sisters everyone?
Speaker 2 (05:22):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (05:23):
Yes, And I'm fifty over fifty years old, and I
would say, right now, I could call twenty five people
in ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
That's amazing. I'm different. I'm not. You're not okay.
Speaker 9 (05:36):
Yeah, I have like two maybe super close friends for
my sorority. Still, I mean I feel like I could,
if I was in a bine call any of them.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Not that's loose.
Speaker 9 (05:46):
Not any of them, I would say, probably a handful.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
Yeah I am not.
Speaker 5 (05:51):
That's so interesting.
Speaker 10 (05:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:52):
We did a calculation the other day if we threw
a party of just like six years of my sorority.
We got to one hundred and fifty people in like
like literally ten minutes.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Yeah, that's how I feel.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
My I just got married a couple months ago, and
all my bridesmaids were my sorority sisters, including my own
blood sister who was then joined my sorority. And then
I had a house party because there were so many
of us, I couldn't have seventeen bridesmaids.
Speaker 4 (06:19):
I was going to be the number and I just
felt like that was a little crazy.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
So I did a house party and the other girls
besides Daisy and like three others were my sorority sisters.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
Yeah what about you, Daisy Me.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah, I'm like so.
Speaker 3 (06:32):
At San diegoce I my roommate freshman year, Christy, I
was in Alpha FIE, she was in Pie PI, and
we both like found our groups like within, like she
had our group in Pi FI. I had my group
in Alpha PI, and then we kind of like morphed
everyone together. So like most of my friends, all my
friends like outside of college were in Alpha or Pi FI.
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And then I have like a couple friends that I
did like stuff at school with, but like, for the
most part, I'm the closest with them.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I would say, we.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
Got that at my school Kappa d G PI FI
and everyone's still friends.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Yeah, where did you go to school? By?
Speaker 7 (07:08):
Okay, so much for being anonymous.
Speaker 10 (07:13):
I would like.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
Not to exploit you, but I have to know.
Speaker 2 (07:18):
We should like have the logos of the schools like
pop up. Okay.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Do girls fight over boys when you're in a sorority?
Speaker 10 (07:29):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Yeah, No I never experienced that.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
Yeah, but it's like like girls like, I mean, girls
can be shady and they're like they're like, oh, you're
like hanging out with that guy?
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Will like I'm like hooking up with him.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
I never had that.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
We call it like claims, Like people would make claims
on a boy. Yeah, and then if another sorority sister,
like even months after those two end, did if another
sorty sister started to date or like that boy, Yeah,
a little dramatic.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I don't know if I find it that dramatic, Like
I would never you know, start things with like a
guy that my soorty sister had been with.
Speaker 5 (08:16):
Oh, I was so many boys. I wasna I went.
Speaker 8 (08:21):
To a school that was sixty percent girls and forty
percent boys, so it was slim Pickett.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
You gotta fight. Everybody was fighting for themselves.
Speaker 8 (08:31):
But I mean seriously, like I feel like every week
there was a new just draw draw between girls because
it was like, don't kiss someone that your sorority sister.
I'd guess, but that's impossible.
Speaker 10 (08:46):
Whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
I remember being like, if like older girls in my sorority,
if like someone in my pledge class like started like
talking to their and like you comment, as a freshman,
you don't know anything, but like say, like a girl
starts talking to an upper classman's like ex boyfriend or
something like that and start hooking up with them, like
it's like crazy, and it's like you should not do that,
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like you like, and it's almost like then like that
friend group like will like not like attack you, but
like you know what I mean, they're they're like sowing.
Speaker 7 (09:33):
Back now because like I said, it's been thirty years,
but I remember I kissed a boy that my big
sister in the sorority dated.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah, and I don't think she was too happy about it.
And now I'm totally still totally friends with her.
Speaker 7 (09:45):
I don't even think if like we called her right now,
she'd even be able to name who the boy was Yeah.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
I mean I remember because it was a little bit
more dramatic for me.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
We have a friend and she the upper classman thing.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
She yes. I was like, who are we talking about?
Speaker 1 (10:02):
She was like terrified to talk to this guy because
an upper classman. I guess they claimed him. Yeah, it's
literally how she described it. They were like, you're not
going to talk to him. He's he's ours and he's
older than you, and you need to stick stay in
your lane.
Speaker 4 (10:17):
Yeah, and now they're dating.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
But now in college it was like no, And then like,
way is.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
The only thing that I think get a little sticky
in the sorority can.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Get a little sticky.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Extended past college.
Speaker 9 (10:33):
There was a situation in my sorority that our president
at the time came to college with her high school boyfriend.
Speaker 2 (10:42):
He also joined a fraternity.
Speaker 9 (10:45):
She went on a semester travel abroad, and while she
was gone, he hooked up with somebody from our sorority,
but she didn't know, and they got married very young,
and she was convinced that she that they lost the
virginity together and like in their marriage she found out that.
Speaker 2 (11:07):
This is giving like tell me lies, you guys seen that.
Speaker 9 (11:10):
Yeah, in their marriage that he had cheated lost his virginity,
is just somebody else in the same crority.
Speaker 6 (11:16):
I think the most important part of that, like the cheating.
I mean, that's really.
Speaker 9 (11:20):
Nice stuff, but like that's and that's so that's extended
past college, so it gets it gets sticky.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Wow, Okay, let's move on to the next fun Are
mixers and like pre parties as wild as movies and
TV make them seem?
Speaker 2 (11:41):
Not not like in.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
The movies where like people are jumping off the roof
and stuff like.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I mean, no people at mine like jumped off the roof.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Honestly would Maybe I feel like the acting is kind
of fake where it just seems so out of touch.
Speaker 3 (11:59):
It's all so like I don't know about you guys,
but like when we would go to like fraternity parties
and say, it'd be like, okay, Alpha Fi, we have
a pre party with sigap. Then we would go like
with to Cingette, but no one ever had solo cups.
Like everyone would drink out of plastic vodka handles and
then have a like Steven Up like chaser from like
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Trader Joe's, and it would be vodka.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
The gods and everyone would just be slugging it.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Out of the same bottle past Sumer haircuts.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
They would pour both so you'd like and dump it
into your mouth at the same time.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (12:36):
I will say I went back to s AE as
an old person, you know, like during a fraternity party
on a football game day, and I was actually like disturbed.
I was like it was so wild and they were
doing all that sharing and all.
Speaker 5 (12:54):
I could think about was the germ like mono.
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Yeah, like yeah catching and it was so hot and
there's so many people that I was actually like a person,
was like I actually cannot do this. Yeah yeah, But
I think as a twenty year old I would have
been like, this is amazing.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
It's also like you're away from like you don't have
any rules. You feel kind of invincible and you can
go out and party whenever you want and you walk
in and it's like, I don't know about you, guys,
but it was dark. There were lights, there were like
people were DJing, Like, honestly, how many frack guys are DJs?
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Because chair expired so bad?
Speaker 5 (13:33):
Oh my god, these are great questions. Keep going, this
is good, they get.
Speaker 2 (13:37):
Good, Okay, oh, this is okay.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
Do sorority girls actually have to earn invites to the
best parties.
Speaker 6 (13:44):
No, well, I'm the social chair of my sorority.
Speaker 2 (13:48):
Oh so you go in everywhere.
Speaker 6 (13:49):
I'm I'm making sure that we get the good parties.
And it's also kind of like as dramatic as it seems, like,
I want the entirety of my sorty to attend these
events that we can continue having like a good relationship.
Speaker 5 (14:01):
What about a day party? What about a day party?
Speaker 6 (14:04):
Yeah, yeah, that's kind of like the like frat guys
themselves will seek out one person. So it's kind of like, yeah,
if us as a sorority, we're going to maintain these
great friendships or more with these guys, then that's how
you can kind of like get yourself into like a
date party.
Speaker 7 (14:19):
I'm trying to remember, like South Seas do they start?
So how does that work? Is that essial just a darty?
Speaker 6 (14:23):
So we just i mean like social.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Party, but like anyone can show up, Like if that's
what the question.
Speaker 5 (14:31):
Is is get into South Seas.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
No, it's not for us.
Speaker 3 (14:35):
It's like yeah, for me, it was like my sorority,
so like Alpha Fie, like we could get into like
like the three like frats that like we mainly like
hung out with, we could go in there. But if
like another girl like walked up and they were like
not in a sorority, or if they were in like
a different sorority and didn't have like a relationship with
that frat, they'd be like, show me your group me.
Speaker 7 (14:59):
That's how you to prove And the scroll you just
said show me or show me or get me.
Speaker 2 (15:06):
So it's like, do you know what group me? So
it's like an app where like you can add everyone.
Speaker 3 (15:11):
So like if we were all on the same sorority,
I would add all of you guys, and then we
would do like alpha pi like times like s AE,
and then we'd all be in the same one. So
then if I showed up and I was like, okay,
I'm Daisy, I'm an Alpha fi, they would scroll on
it to make sure that it's like real and not
a screenshot and make sure that it's you. And then
like if Gracie showed up with me and she wasn't
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an alpha fie, like say she was like not in
a sorority, they'd be like, no, like, she can't come.
Speaker 2 (15:37):
If I was visiting you, if you were visiting me.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Then it's like different than I like put in that
I have a friend visiting me or honestly, I mean
it's not horrible, but like it was and the guys
are like, oh, like you're hot, like they'll let you in.
Speaker 7 (15:51):
So how did I get into South Seas Because it
wasn't there a guest list?
Speaker 5 (15:54):
I feel like my name was on a list or something.
Speaker 6 (15:57):
What we do is we have like physical wristbands in
apps sometimes, but that's just maybe because like now there's
a lot more people that will try and go to
the fraternitys and it's not like a if you're hot
or not thing. It's like a safety thing of like
there could be people around Berkeley that are just like
lurking trying to get into presses that like don't go there,
and that's like a safety concern. So now we have
like wristbands and like we have an app to where
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we can like add people if they're visiting ours.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Was literally you walk up, you show your Sunniti and
you walk in.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Oh wow, like there and your Suniti didn't say your
sorority on it. They did not. There was no none
of that.
Speaker 1 (16:32):
But that's for that's for like Okay, Sigma Nu had
what was there? They had like this one yearly big party,
like there was no no rules for like anyone could come.
It was the fratorney. Even guys from other fraterneys would
sometimes come. They had like a friend that was in
Sigma Nu. They'd be like all right, I'm gonna go. Yeah,
But like date parties where it's just Katie and just
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SIGNU or just Katie just Sigma.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
Kai, you have to prove it.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
But like that's it would be like it's.
Speaker 8 (17:02):
Just regular parties. Anyone could walk in. Yeah, they didn't
check a student ID, they didn't check a group me nothing,
Like if you were a girl, you could just walk in.
But then, like you were saying, with formals or date parties,
then there's a list or there's a wristband that you
need to have. But any old fraternity party, especially a
tailgate or something, anyone can get in.
Speaker 7 (17:20):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
No, San Diego.
Speaker 4 (17:23):
I don't know what it's like now the big city thing.
Speaker 1 (17:27):
Like I mean I was in Oxford, Mississippi, Like there's
nothing there besides the college, so I could kind of
see that not being a safety concern. But if you're
in like a bigger city, you need to like control.
Speaker 3 (17:37):
Is kind of like it's like not close, like if
you think of like downtown San Diego and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (17:42):
It's like it's like in its own little kind.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
Of world, you know what I mean. And the only
one that like the only people that try to get
to the parties are like college students.
Speaker 5 (17:50):
Like any old people listening that still don't know what
a group me is, I'm totally with you. They still
it's just like, yeah, it's like group chats.
Speaker 4 (18:01):
Yeah, it's a bunch of trip chots.
Speaker 3 (18:03):
Like an easy way to start, like a text start
without giving your number kind of.
Speaker 2 (18:08):
Yeah, you can only.
Speaker 5 (18:09):
Say it's fine, person. I don't think anyone over forty
is understanding that. But that's fine.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
I'm over thirty and I'm getting it.
Speaker 3 (18:15):
So next question, are there ceremonies for things like engagements,
et cetera. Is the candle pass tradition real or just
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a room it is?
Speaker 2 (18:38):
It's real.
Speaker 8 (18:40):
Every single week my chapter would go like thirty or
forty minutes longer than it should have because we had
a candle pass, because there were a lot of ring
before spring girls in the stort wait when the candle spring,
Like you get engaged before you.
Speaker 2 (18:57):
Oh no, wait, that's actually this.
Speaker 5 (18:59):
Is like the actually engaged.
Speaker 4 (19:01):
So they get engaged the secret, Yeah, it's they get engaged,
but they keep it a secret.
Speaker 1 (19:09):
And then they have a candle and they put the
ring on the candle and they pass it around and
then you sing a song and then at the very end,
the candle ends up with the bride and it's.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
Like, oh my god. They tell their entire love.
Speaker 8 (19:25):
Story for like way too long.
Speaker 10 (19:29):
Year.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
So that is crazy.
Speaker 5 (19:32):
One pinning in four years.
Speaker 6 (19:35):
I don't do that.
Speaker 7 (19:37):
What is a pinning like you're or this pinning is
like you're it's a step before getting engaged. So it's
the same candle and the candle's going around and you
don't know who it is, and then it stops.
Speaker 5 (19:50):
I don't remember how.
Speaker 7 (19:51):
There was some sort of singing and then that person
who's maybe the friend, blows out the candle so the
person knows they're getting pinned. And then all the boys
come in in suits and then but it's just a pinning.
I think they give them. It's very old timy. They
give their fraternity pin to the girl. And then it's
like engaged to be engaged.
Speaker 1 (20:13):
So they're hinting like you're gonna engage.
Speaker 5 (20:16):
It's like it's like a spring.
Speaker 3 (20:18):
Honestly, thinking of like frat boys, Like all of my
like frat guy friends who I'm still friends with, love
them all to death, but like they were total frat
boys in college.
Speaker 2 (20:29):
Like I like, you cannot marry any of them. Maybe
it's like maybe they.
Speaker 3 (20:34):
Would never do that, like they would well, they just
like there's no way they possibly could.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
They're they're they were just like animals. I'm sorry, it's true.
There's a school in Minnesota.
Speaker 3 (20:48):
It's a private school and if you get engaged before
you graduate, you get school free.
Speaker 2 (20:54):
Noel, Yeah, it's called I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 7 (21:01):
I'm like, actually, Google, give us another question, will you?
Speaker 2 (21:05):
Yeah, Oh, let's due.
Speaker 3 (21:08):
Do you think Bama rushed TikTok mates already see more
extreme than they really are?
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Yeah, not for ole miss.
Speaker 3 (21:16):
Not for all miss. Well that makes sense because they're
both in the South. Yeah, I seem like the TikTok.
I think like social media has opened up like a
whole other aspect to it where other people can like
watch it too. But even my friends I remember in
our group chat, we like sent like our sorority Alpha
Fie at sandy or say like they do all those
dances before and they like scent it. And I was like,
(21:37):
all my friends were dancers, and I was like, you guys,
i'd be that girl with just her arm showing in
the back holding the sign. Then like my friends were like, oh,
we'd be in the front dancing, like eating.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
That shit up, you know what I mean. So, I
don't know, it's definitely changed.
Speaker 7 (21:51):
Yeah, And we need to get like a grandma in
here du from you know, when they were in school
in the sixties or seventies, because it'll be interesting too.
Speaker 8 (22:01):
Imagine showing them one of those tiktoks.
Speaker 4 (22:03):
They'd be like, what the hell's this.
Speaker 5 (22:07):
Petition that?
Speaker 6 (22:08):
Yeah, my grand was in his story in the sixties
and she had said to me recently being like, so
what is work week? And why do I keep seeing
you on the Instagram?
Speaker 2 (22:15):
What's happening?
Speaker 6 (22:16):
And I'm like, I don't even know.
Speaker 5 (22:17):
Yeah, we need to do a grammar episode. We'll do that.
Speaker 2 (22:20):
Yes, I need to gramas. If you want to be
on the podcall in.
Speaker 5 (22:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:25):
Next question, do sororities secretly keep hotless during rush? Like
meaning like do they keep tabs of like girls that
they like.
Speaker 2 (22:32):
Want in the sorority of course.
Speaker 8 (22:34):
Yes, yeah, I feel like that's no secret.
Speaker 1 (22:36):
Yeah, I think social media plays a part in it,
Like we were saying for sure, where they see online
a girl that has like the in her bio that
she's going to go to the school, and I feel
like they kind of like keep tabs.
Speaker 3 (22:49):
Yeah, like someone joins the Facebook pages and is like scouting.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (22:53):
Do alumni ever pull strings to control who gets a bid?
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Yeah, definitely, I know other sororities. It was like it
was kind of crazy.
Speaker 4 (23:05):
I don't know if it was like this for y'all.
Was Rush Week like super drama for y'all.
Speaker 6 (23:09):
Yeah, just so tiring.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
So for us, like every day there was like a
rumor there was something about this house was doing this,
this house was doing that, And I remember alumni being
a huge part of one of the rumors. Actually every
year that this house's alumni was keeping this girl whose grades.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Were below the requirements and.
Speaker 1 (23:30):
They or they have these like crazy past things that
they've done that they like shouldn't be put it.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
Yeah, it was crazy, guys.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
We have so many more juicy questions that people ask
and so come back for the next episode because we
are going to do a part two. We didn't even
get halfway through the question, so come back for that
and thanks for being here.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Love you guys.
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