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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Two teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Cheese in
the Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. Before
we begin, we have a very special guest. We have Alexia.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hi Alexia.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Hi girls, I'm so happy to be here.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You're here.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Can you just let us know what last name you
go by?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
These days?
Speaker 6 (00:38):
I still go by Napola, Okay, but for some reason
I can't get rid of that again.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
That's like what's Edward's last.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
But we are here with a Lexianapola and San Francisco
for the Janet Jackson concert. Janet Jackson is on tour
with special guest Nelly. It's called Together Again. Tour tickets
are on sale now at livenation dot com. Check out
tour dates and cities at livenation dot com or Janet
Jackson dot com. But also we have a pretty big
(01:21):
announcement to start.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
I'm scared.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You're right, I'm okay with it, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
She's okay with it now, She's okay with us until
July eleventh, because I'm officially announcing that my co host
on Twatts for Real Housewives of Orange County is Alexia Woo.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
I'm so excited, thank you, my god one honor. I
have big shoes to fill.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I oh well, I mean, I think the big thing
is we need somebody who's going to be outspoken, which
I think both of you and I if we went
into a competition on who could talk more, I feel like, I.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Know, I feel like we're gonna have a hard time.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
I feel like that's a housewife quality, right that we
just talk over each other.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yes, you talk over each other, but I think it's
especially when we're in this setting, we can at least
see each other and know like, Okay, this person's going
to say. You know, she's coming up with something. But
what I love about you is and my favorite thing
about watching you on the show, whether it comes across
well or not, well, you're always gonna say what you think.
(02:27):
And that's why when iHeart was like how do you
feel about Alexia? And I was like hell yeah, hell yeah,
Because if I want anybody to fill my shoes, oh
thank you.
Speaker 7 (02:42):
And are you gonna oh my goshes to plot? Are
you gonna feel comfortable talking about Tam when she makes
bad behavior.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
Well, no, she doesn't make bad behavior. I approve of
all her behaviors.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
For the love what watch watch I'm gonna.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Have to watch the show for someone and have to
watch a show. Am I gonna just talk?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I actually very well behaved this season.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Okay, No, And I'm a natural blonde.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I am not joking. I come in in a different,
different time in my life, like my daughter's on the
show this year.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
It's just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I'm very comfortable in my own skin. I'm happy. Like
last season, I felt like I came back to the
show after being gone for two years, and I felt
like I kind of had to do the Yeah, as
much as I really thought at the moment, I wasn't.
Now looking back, I'm like, yeah, I was trying to, like,
and you know what, I did the fucking job.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I feel like you're gonna do the job again this year.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Well, I always do the job, but I feel like
they're going to see a softer side of me the share.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I like that, you know, I like that because I
do know that softer side of you.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Yeah, you know, I'm happy that you're in a great
place you know, this season and every season is different,
you know, I know that the audience only gets to
see us and Joe just by that season. Yeah, it
really does say a lot about what you're going through
in your life at that moment.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, but I'm going to be very disappointed if you're
not a shit show at some point.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
But you still have to do that, Like, yeah, you
have to have one of those moments.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I'm a natural born show.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Just so you know, Tamra, what are you most nervous
about in regards to me and Alexia recapping this season?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Honestly, this season, I'm really not nervous about much. I'm
really not, and I'm not like, I'm okay like recapping
the show. And if I'm an asshole, I don't care
if you call me an asshole.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I don't care if.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
You, you know, say it like it is, I don't care.
I can watch it and see it as well, so
you know it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Have you been doing your research? Are you caught up?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Like, no, I'm not, but I'm going to. I'm gonna
watch the last season, oh god, which she didn't behave
so well. I'm not going to judge you by that Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
See that's the beauty about me.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Like I know all these women, you know that I've
gone to know throughout you know, the years, throughout the
different franchises, but I've never really watched their shows. And
for whatever reason, I've always connected to you, and I
haven't really watched you. You know that, you know throughout the seasons,
and with Teddy, the same thing when you war on
Beverly Hills, and alex Is the same when she was on.
It's kind of like, I don't want to judge you
by how you behave on the show because I do
(05:14):
this for a living too, so you know, sometimes we're
like misread and sometimes you know, people judge it so and.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
I think it's about misread.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
But I need you to watch last season. I am
going to watch last season.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
That's good, I say, don't.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I don't want to be misread that bad. No, you
won't be.
Speaker 6 (05:34):
You know what, because I understand that you had to
come back and you felt for whatever reason, I felt
a little pressure and you felt the pressure.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I felt the pressure, you know, being fired for two years.
You come back and you know the show is failing,
and if you come back and make it, make it good.
It's a lot of.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Pressure, it is, and I feel like you always have
that pressure because you are the face to your show.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I mean, it was on a very long pause, to
the point that when I watched season one, it's like, great,
how long was.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
The po How long was the pause?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Eight years? Eight years is a long time.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That is a long I was the only one that
knew that I was going to come back some day.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
So what point did you know that it was going
to come back? And what point did they reach out
and said, you know what, we're gonna We're going to
redo this.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
You know. I feel like around twenty fifteen, you know,
there was a lot of different things going on, Like
our producers always believed on us, and I feel like
so did the network and you know, and Andy and
the executives, but they were scared, you know, there were
so many other, you know, shows to focus on and whatnot.
So I think they just kind of like never said no,
never said yes, We never really did anything about it.
(06:38):
And around twenty fifteen, I always thought that, you know,
Lisa was going through things. I felt like Lisa and
I would have been the anchors at that time, you know,
to bring the show back.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
How rich is he.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I really don't know, because you know, in Miami everything
is so questionable and so shady that you don't know.
I mean, he has a great profession, and I think
his biggest acid is this home in Star Island. I mean,
I'm not sure about that. You know, I don't know
what people's finances, so I don't really know. But he
does have a great profession.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
At the house that Lenny and Lisa lived in together.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Yes, yeah, would you ever let him do work on you?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, that speaks volume.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
Yeah, yeah, because I know him a different way. And besides,
I always felt it's funny because I wanted to redo
my boobs like years ago, and and I wanted for
him to do it. But then after I was like,
oh my god, I can't go have dinner with Lisa
Lenny and like he just did my boobs and he's
gonna be looking at my boobs or I'm going to
be asking, hey, Lenny, way, can you check out my boob?
So that's why I never did it. But you know,
I do think he's a good surgeon. I'm not going
(07:37):
to say, you know, I do think he's a good surgeon.
I think he has a different look that I would like.
I mean, he does like super huge boobs, you know,
and they look great like on a twenty something year old.
But you know, I would be scared, like just to
go and.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Do it the night for the gigantic boobs.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Not in Miami, babe, Really Miami, the bigger, the better
and whatever.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Like with the is it b VBL or BBL.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
And all that, boy, Yeah, the big booty, the big boots. Yeah,
you know, Miami is just like a whole different We
do need to.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Go to Miami. As for another franchise, Real Housewives in
New Jersey, I know you're friends with Teresa. Are you
following this online blogging drama? And have you spoken to.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Her at all?
Speaker 6 (08:30):
I just saw that yesterday for the first time, honestly,
and I haven't spoken to her since maybe like three
or four days ago.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Right before this happened, she absolutely reached out.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
I think she started reaching out to us too. So
we're confused why this is all happening right now.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
I mean she and I always reach out to each other,
especially like now more than ever, Like she reaches out
to me a lot to see how I'm doing.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
So I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
I mean, I know she went to Paris and she
was you know, with her daughters, and you know she
stays busy, she has you know, a lot on her plate.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Yeah, we're all heartbroken to hear about the top than
news about Todd, so am I I don't know if
you can talk about it. I don't know if you
want to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
You know, I'd rather not talk about it out of
respect for him.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Yeah, but I more than anything, I want to know
how you're doing.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You know, I'm doing better.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
It's been two months and you know, I've gone to therapy,
We've gone to therapy, we're doing couples therapy, and you know,
I'm just trying to like understand is there a.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Chance you can get back together?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
I mean, for me, I would want that, like deep
in my heart because I'm met in love with him
and I would want it to work out. So that's
why it's so difficult. But you know, there's a lot there,
there's you know, a lot to unpack. There's you know,
but again, you know, I feel that being in the
public eye is so much harder, and I think that's
like one of the reasons that.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
He's you know he's struggling with its struggling with it, yes,
because he does not want to be in the public eye.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
He does not like it.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
No, do you think he doesn't like the public eye
or he doesn't like Also the fact that because you
are in the public eye, you have a certain amount
of control.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
I think sure, I think I think a lot of
men are afraid of that, absolutely, Like.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
You are strong, you're a strong woman, You're in control,
you know what you want. And I think you could
start to see him push up against it and times.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Yeah, I mean I feel like a lot of them.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Again, men get scared, you know, when they're in a
relationship and you know their lives are still public. And
even though like he doesn't want our life to be public,
even though he knew what he was signing up for,
and when he met me, you know, the show wasn't
on TV at that time, but I had already done
a few seasons and had, you know, like that housewife status,
whether we like it or not, So he kind of knew.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
What he was getting himself into.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
But I think that once they're in it, they're like, oh, like,
I don't like this, how do I get out of it?
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Were you completely blindsided or shocked.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I was, Yeah, I was, whichhich makes it so much harder,
so much harder.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
So there was no lead up, No, there wasn't like
you guys were in couples therapy and you're trying to
figure things.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
No, we did that afterwards. We're doing that now.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
But that's promising, it is.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
I mean, you know, that's how how I am.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Like, I'm full of optimistic about everything in my life,
you know, not only about my relationship with Todd. I'm
just that person and I think that that's why I
live my life differently and you know, and as happy
as I can be, because I always like, see.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
You know, what is Frankie telling you to do?
Speaker 6 (11:24):
You know, Frankie doesn't really tell me much, but I
know he's been affected by it.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Yeah, he has to be.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
He has to be because you know, we all live together,
so he has to be.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You know.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
I think we're all affected by it. I think Todd's
affected by it as well. I think we all are.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
It's why what do you think is great about you
and Todd? Like? What is it that you said? You know,
I'm still madly in love with him? Like, what is
it that you think could make you guys, you know,
work Stan in the distances.
Speaker 6 (11:54):
That's a good question. So, I mean, I just believe
that we have to have better communication.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
You know.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
I think we're strong people, and I think that we
struggle with the way that we communicate.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Yeah, and then we have those we so we have
different attachment styles.
Speaker 6 (12:10):
So he's like an avoidant attachment too, and an anxious
attachment like I need affirmation, I need reassurance, and you know,
Todd doesn't like that, you know, he kind of like
backs out.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
Yeah, And that's.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
What we do. You say things sometimes and your relationships
because we talk about this with our with our husbands.
Like when my husband's annoyed, he'll say something and then
he'll be over it in three minutes. Like he could
say something to me that I'm like, oh my god,
that just kind of broke me to my freaking core.
And then he's like, hey, oh my god, it's beautiful,
that's great.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
What do you want to have for dinner?
Speaker 3 (12:44):
And I'm like, I will hold onto this for four
and a half years, right, And I don't have that,
like I can completely shut down not have that conversation
like which which one are you?
Speaker 5 (12:56):
No, I'm like your husband.
Speaker 6 (12:57):
So I'm like the Anxi just one, and I do
have that that style so that I can once I
get it out, I'm good like five minutes later where
we you know, having dinner. You know, I can make
love to you, I can kiss you, I can keep
on loving you, and I forget about that. I don't
hold any grudges. Granted, if it does come up again
or there's like a you know, hard conversation again, I'll
bring it up.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
But I don't like to bring up the past. Like
you know, we all know the past.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
We lived it, we suffered it, cried about it, thought
about it, so you know, it doesn't make any sense
to like bring it up again.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Didn't you guys have problems leading up to it or was.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
It you know?
Speaker 6 (13:30):
You know, I'm always so busy with you, and I
feel like this happens to a lot of women within
their own life and like so fulfilled and that and
so much going on that I really, you know, it's
kind of like I for me, it was okay, Like
for me, it was working, you know what I mean.
I just thought that there were like typical fights and
problems that that every couple has. But it's not like
(13:52):
how much you fight or hard you fight. It's being
able to work through those, you know, fights and finding resolution.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
And I think that that's where we have like our
biggest challenge.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
And I'm just happy that you guys are talking and
going to counseling.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
Yeah, it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
You're working for a better future, whatever that might be.
Speaker 6 (14:09):
We are, Yeah, I think that we are because I
felt like he's very impulsive and you know, that was
like the decision that you know, that he took at
that moment, and then after I think that after, you know,
being away from each other, I think the distance sometimes
is good because you can like you know, refresh and
you have time to think about things and in a
different environment than when you're at each other's throats like
(14:31):
every day, even though like that wasn't the case you
know before.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Are you guys still living in the same place that
you ended up moving into?
Speaker 5 (14:38):
No, well, I'm living there.
Speaker 6 (14:40):
I actually move out this month because it's like our
last month that we had rented there for a year
and Todd got his own apartment.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
Kind of like j Loo and Ben.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
You know, can I ask you like a really transparent
friend type question because I catch myself doing the same
thing with when when work's going really well me or
things are good in the pot or like I'm busy,
I feel like sometimes I can get wrapped up in
myself and I don't really realize what could potentially be
(15:13):
going on with my husband, and then I will say
something like, oh, well you were working you like, I'll
kind of throw it out on him.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
Absolutely, are you think that?
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Do you think that there was a part of that?
And I think that is so many of us, yes,
that are in the public eye, regardless if it's a podcast,
the television show, whatever it is, where you get so
into what your life is so important that you forget
to ask.
Speaker 5 (15:38):
This about that. I recognize that, and I'm accountable for that.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
And you know, that's why I think therapy is important,
you know, because you get to talk about all these
things without.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
Starting a fight.
Speaker 6 (15:51):
You know, maybe like your conversation like this just at
home will like trigger you know, we'll be certain triggers
where you know, in a therapy you feel more in
a safe environment.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
And at the beginning of last season, I gave you
a little bit of a hard time about it, not
realizing that then that it was there was going to
be truth to come to it later. But I think
you you made some sort of a joke, like I
have an announcement. Me and Todd are not getting it.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I put that out there to the universe. I was
so mad because I said, that's what the girls are
going to think. Like he even got mad that I
said that because at that moment.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
We saw there.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
What how did that? I know, I don't know if
that just came out from my heart like that.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Just so, was there any truth of what Adriana had
said that she had said?
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Well, I don't believe Adriana. There's no way in hell.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I don't think anybody her shares at the gym though.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
No, he was okay, I know I will because I
mean I know that.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Did any of the girls rally around you after this
information broke?
Speaker 5 (16:45):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Yes, any of the of them that didn't reach out to.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
All of them, even Adriana reached out. Really, who other
than are clearly Marisol because and we love her, I
love her. Other than Marisol? Who do you find yourself
like having the most true, authentic close relationship with in Miami?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
Julia? Julia. Julia's really special.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Because I haven't seen that yet. On the show, right.
Speaker 6 (17:10):
Well, you know, I think she struggles also with with
filming the show.
Speaker 5 (17:15):
You know, she's new at this.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
She's not comfortable her.
Speaker 6 (17:19):
Yeah, it's not natural. But in real life, which is
what counts to me, she's a very great person.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
She's great.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
So it was Martina and I mean I I obviously
with Larsa, even though last time you all saw each other,
we all saw each other was at the reunion, and
you know things didn't work out, so good for us.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
They're at the reunion when.
Speaker 6 (17:38):
The news broke out, Larsa was actually you guys are
a person that called me?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
Yes, love Larsa.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
I love Larsay, Larsa doesn't love me? Because guests who
got invited to the Boca Ratone party and who didn't?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
I didn't why. I don't know why you didn't, but
I did.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
The last time she came on, it was I think
I think Larcia loves you.
Speaker 4 (18:00):
It is not invited.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Well, I don't care that I'm not invited. We can't go.
It's not a day that we're available, but I am.
Can I ask you a personal question since this filing,
have you guys made out or had any sort of physics?
Speaker 5 (18:16):
Yes, Okay, all right, so there's a chance.
Speaker 6 (18:19):
Yes, all right, so that we've done it all. Yeah,
we love each other and we're super into each other.
It's not because of that.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
They're fine.
Speaker 4 (18:28):
There are fine.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
He's just pissed.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
He's putting down his like he's he's letting you know,
these are my boundaries. Don't fucking cross them. But I
love you and I want you and.
Speaker 6 (18:40):
So no, I believe that too, and I want him
and love him too. But we're just trying to, you know,
make this work.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
I don't mean this in a negative way, but does
he have some narcissistic behaviors that maybe like this is
what I want and this is what you shouldn't have
in your mine and I don't want to share you
and those things because I'm getting that feeling a little bit.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
Yeah. Well, I mean he's needy and he loves to
be with me the entire time, and I love to
be with him as well. So yeah, I mean, I
think more than narcissists, I think he's like that. I
started reading this book called Secure Love that, by the way,
every woman should read. Okay, It's so good and it
really does explain, you know, because I feel like this
is my third marriage, and I think that that's why
(19:24):
I'm trying harder. So whatever, you know, I've always tried
hard with all of them because I'm a fighter and
I do you like believe in love and saving you
know what it is that you have. You know, like
you can have a lot of love, and I know
how to love each other. And I guess that other
times before I didn't put so much thought because I
think I thought it was different things, like I couldn't
(19:45):
save my marriage. I tried both with the dad and
with herman.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
But isn't it weird with it because I've been married
three times? Yeah, and with my marriage now, like your
eyes open wide to different things, and you want to
make things work, and you want to try hard, harder
than you've done in the past, and you're at a
time where your kids are grown. Yes, my kids are grown,
and it's it's a different relationship and you want it
(20:09):
to work and you think about the future and I
want to grow old with somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
And nine times out of ten, it's not like there's
better things out there right, Like it's it's going to
be work with no matter who it is. What are
your thoughts on people that are saying all of this
is about a storyline, but you're not even still me.
Speaker 4 (20:28):
I know, I know, you know what.
Speaker 6 (20:32):
I I don't even pay attention to that because it's
obviously people that they're so like obsessed with the show
in the wrong way, because that's not how these shows work. No,
you know what I mean, it's like none. I wish
I can change all my storyline. My storylines have been
very painful. I don't know Honor whatever saying I can't.
You shouldn't even talk about her because she's dreadful and disgusting,
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and you know, she's a loser, like she has nothing
else going on with her life that she has to
like try to like in other people's lives.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
Now you come to Orange County.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Wow, did you did you see the trailer?
Speaker 5 (21:05):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
I opened it.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
I was so happy I did.
Speaker 6 (21:12):
By the way, your trailer looks so good, so good God. Yes, yes, yeah,
I'm actually excited to talk about your show because I
was like, wow, it looked really really good.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
It's going to be a good epic season ever we've got.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
How do you girls do this after so.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Many I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
It's funny because I had a conversation with Andy Cohen
when I saw him, and this is like two weeks
ago at a party, and I said, do you ever
think about retiring? Like sometimes I think because we're Me
and Andy are the same age. So and he's like,
stop saying that word. He's like, I have young kids.
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I can't retire. I go, I have older kids. So like,
at my age, I'm fifty seven, You're so full.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Of shit, I'm retiring.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
I think, like, like you know, mentally, you think like, okay,
it's you know, it's time to give it up, like
it's time.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
But then it's like you have I listen, all of us,
I think are the same. I know that I am
not on a television show, but we all like making money.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
We all run this year.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
We all like being able to have our own independence.
And I think whether you're on the show, you used
to be on the show, we're creating lives for ourselves
within it. Yeah, and I think.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
That's some I think I would be bored as fuck
if I retired from the house. I'm like, oh my god,
what do I do with myself?
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Well, I like, great, I'll do to teas in a
pot and recab Horn County.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
My mind, my mind gets destructive if I'm not busy
all the time, and then I think.
Speaker 5 (22:43):
That's my therapy.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Complacency kills all joy. Yeah, we saw last reunion that
even you and and Marisol had some hiccups.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
I love Marion.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
You think it's the end of that drama or Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
The thing is that we're like sisters, you know, So
we love like sisters. We fight like sisters.
Speaker 6 (23:07):
You know, we tell each other whatever it is we
need to say to each other, and then we're like
two minutes later back, you know, like nothing happened. You know,
we never We've never in all these years and over
twenty years, we've never been like in a fight where
we have never spoken or like you know, stay days
without talking.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Can you tell us how much you love doing a
podcast together?
Speaker 5 (23:25):
Oh, it's so much fun and I love it. We
do it in person. I think it's so much better
the energy because like through.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
How often are you doing it in person?
Speaker 6 (23:33):
We're actually we're really liking it. So on Friday, I'm
gonna go do it again with her at her house. Yeah,
that way I get it, you know, I drive there.
It's like an hour away.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Graduate live that far away.
Speaker 6 (23:43):
It is, and Miami everything is you need a card
to go everywhere, and it takes me like an hour.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
In my mind, I think everything's like five five minutes away.
It's like an hour away. It's worse than she has
to drive it is. I don't drive.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
She doesn't drive me.
Speaker 5 (23:56):
Yeahs marathol Yeah, I drive to Marathon.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Yeah, she drives to me. If you're thinking about season
is it seven that's coming up?
Speaker 4 (24:16):
Oh my gosh, you're so excited.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
What do you think other than, of course your personal life.
Speaker 6 (24:22):
Which I hope is great, you know, I hope I
can get it, you know, go on and say, you
know what, we're working it out, and you know we're together,
and you know, I'm just you know.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
So you're win a lot of changes. So you and
Todd have split up, Larsa and Marcus have split up
as well.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Aren't they back together again?
Speaker 5 (24:39):
No, they're not.
Speaker 4 (24:39):
They're not together back together again.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
I thought again, like I think they're friends.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
I think No, No, I don't even think they're in
the friend zone.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
Oh, they're not in the friend zone anymore.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
If you could bring back one og Miami housewife, who
would be.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
Mm hmm. I don't know. I think that all the
ones that are there should be there. I don't think there's.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Any og what's left? What's that one girl it's always
on Jeff Lewis no the one, the one that moved
to La or something.
Speaker 5 (25:09):
She was never Miami.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
You know.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
The thing with Miami is, like I says, more people, No, no,
she had a boyfriend that lived in Miami, Okay, and
then that was like her story.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
But she was the only she was never on another housewife.
She just found no.
Speaker 5 (25:22):
Yeah, no, she has fought with Brandy, Yeah, what she
fought with a lot of people.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
What are your what are your thoughts about New Jersey
not having a reunion this year?
Speaker 6 (25:31):
I wouldn't never imagine that that would have happened, you know,
I think that's that's terrible. But like I understand, you know,
production wise, why they wouldn't invest all this time and
money into it, because who wants to listen to the.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
Same ship again?
Speaker 6 (25:42):
And it's kind of like it even like in no comparison,
but like it's going to be one side of the
couch against the other side of the couch.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
They're not gonna have any resolution, They're not going to get.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
Half, We're going to get fired.
Speaker 6 (25:52):
I think, uh, well, that's the only way to move on.
You know, you're gonna have to pick sides. And I
really do believe that. You know, they'll be either or
a whole new friend.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Who do you think is gonna get fired?
Speaker 6 (26:03):
Well, I think that they're probably gonna stay with Teresa show.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
Whether you like it or you don't.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
I agree, watch what happens, Like you did see the
way Andy looked at her.
Speaker 6 (26:12):
There's only one picture in the clubhouse and it's of Teresa. Okay,
I'm sorry. And Teresa's not getting it in her life.
I mean, she's like she shares so much and nobody,
no other lady on that show has done the same
thing that she's done.
Speaker 5 (26:26):
And you know, I mean not that she wants.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
And I think probably there's.
Speaker 6 (26:31):
Children and her family and whether you like it or not,
like she is the face of the show. And I
think the Lauris is good to you know, Lauris. I
love Deloris, but I also think she's good for I
love her.
Speaker 8 (26:43):
I think she's I think amazing, amazing, And I know
we're running out of time before we we have to
zip out of here, but if you were to say,
if you were to choose me and Tamra to compare
to uh Miami house Wife, who would you say each
of us were.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
Oh that's a good question.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Wow, So don't say Drina because I'll know.
Speaker 6 (27:13):
Like Adriana, I think you would be more like me
and Tamra would be more like mab Larsa. I'll take that, Lisa,
I mean I think we both.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
As we get in On that note, thanks for tuning
in to another episode of two. We will be back
later with both Alexia and the
Two teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Judge.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of to Cheese in
the Pod with myself, Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. Before
we begin, we have a very special guest. We have Alexia.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hi Alexia.
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Hi girls, I'm so happy to be here.
Speaker 4 (00:34):
You're here.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Can you just let us know what last name you
go by?
Speaker 5 (00:37):
These days?
Speaker 6 (00:38):
I still go by Napola, Okay, but for some reason
I can't get rid of that again.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
That's like what's Edward's last.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
But we are here with a Lexianapola and San Francisco
for the Janet Jackson concert. Janet Jackson is on tour
with special guest Nelly. It's called Together Again. Tour tickets
are on sale now at livenation dot com. Check out
tour dates and cities at livenation dot com or Janet
Jackson dot com. But also we have a pretty big
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announcement to start.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
I'm scared.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
You're right, I'm okay with it, guys.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
She's okay with it now, She's okay with us until
July eleventh, because I'm officially announcing that my co host
on Twatts for Real Housewives of Orange County is Alexia Woo.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
I'm so excited, thank you, my god one honor. I
have big shoes to fill.
Speaker 3 (01:48):
I oh well, I mean, I think the big thing
is we need somebody who's going to be outspoken, which
I think both of you and I if we went
into a competition on who could talk more, I feel like, I.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Know, I feel like we're gonna have a hard time.
Speaker 6 (02:03):
I feel like that's a housewife quality, right that we
just talk over each other.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yes, you talk over each other, but I think it's
especially when we're in this setting, we can at least
see each other and know like, Okay, this person's going
to say. You know, she's coming up with something. But
what I love about you is and my favorite thing
about watching you on the show, whether it comes across
well or not, well, you're always gonna say what you think.
(02:27):
And that's why when iHeart was like how do you
feel about Alexia? And I was like hell yeah, hell yeah,
Because if I want anybody to fill my shoes, oh
thank you.
Speaker 7 (02:42):
And are you gonna oh my goshes to plot? Are
you gonna feel comfortable talking about Tam when she makes
bad behavior.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
Well, no, she doesn't make bad behavior. I approve of
all her behaviors.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
For the love what watch watch I'm gonna.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Have to watch the show for someone and have to
watch a show. Am I gonna just talk?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I actually very well behaved this season.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Okay, No, And I'm a natural blonde.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
I am not joking. I come in in a different,
different time in my life, like my daughter's on the
show this year.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
It's just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
I'm very comfortable in my own skin. I'm happy. Like
last season, I felt like I came back to the
show after being gone for two years, and I felt
like I kind of had to do the Yeah, as
much as I really thought at the moment, I wasn't.
Now looking back, I'm like, yeah, I was trying to, like,
and you know what, I did the fucking job.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I feel like you're gonna do the job again this year.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
Well, I always do the job, but I feel like
they're going to see a softer side of me the share.
Speaker 5 (03:48):
I like that, you know, I like that because I
do know that softer side of you.
Speaker 6 (03:52):
Yeah, you know, I'm happy that you're in a great
place you know, this season and every season is different,
you know, I know that the audience only gets to
see us and Joe just by that season. Yeah, it
really does say a lot about what you're going through
in your life at that moment.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
Yeah, but I'm going to be very disappointed if you're
not a shit show at some point.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
But you still have to do that, Like, yeah, you
have to have one of those moments.
Speaker 4 (04:10):
I'm a natural born show.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Just so you know, Tamra, what are you most nervous
about in regards to me and Alexia recapping this season?
Speaker 4 (04:22):
Honestly, this season, I'm really not nervous about much. I'm
really not, and I'm not like, I'm okay like recapping
the show. And if I'm an asshole, I don't care
if you call me an asshole.
Speaker 3 (04:34):
I don't care if.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
You, you know, say it like it is, I don't care.
I can watch it and see it as well, so
you know it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Have you been doing your research? Are you caught up?
Speaker 6 (04:44):
Like, no, I'm not, but I'm going to. I'm gonna
watch the last season, oh god, which she didn't behave
so well. I'm not going to judge you by that Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
See that's the beauty about me.
Speaker 6 (04:52):
Like I know all these women, you know that I've
gone to know throughout you know, the years, throughout the
different franchises, but I've never really watched their shows. And
for whatever reason, I've always connected to you, and I
haven't really watched you. You know that, you know throughout the seasons,
and with Teddy, the same thing when you war on
Beverly Hills, and alex Is the same when she was on.
It's kind of like, I don't want to judge you
by how you behave on the show because I do
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this for a living too, so you know, sometimes we're
like misread and sometimes you know, people judge it so and.
Speaker 8 (05:20):
I think it's about misread.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
But I need you to watch last season. I am
going to watch last season.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
That's good, I say, don't.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
I don't want to be misread that bad. No, you
won't be.
Speaker 6 (05:34):
You know what, because I understand that you had to
come back and you felt for whatever reason, I felt
a little pressure and you felt the pressure.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I felt the pressure, you know, being fired for two years.
You come back and you know the show is failing,
and if you come back and make it, make it good.
It's a lot of.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
Pressure, it is, and I feel like you always have
that pressure because you are the face to your show.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
I mean, it was on a very long pause, to
the point that when I watched season one, it's like, great,
how long was.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
The po How long was the pause?
Speaker 5 (06:05):
Eight years? Eight years is a long time.
Speaker 3 (06:08):
That is a long I was the only one that
knew that I was going to come back some day.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
So what point did you know that it was going
to come back? And what point did they reach out
and said, you know what, we're gonna We're going to
redo this.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
You know. I feel like around twenty fifteen, you know,
there was a lot of different things going on, Like
our producers always believed on us, and I feel like
so did the network and you know, and Andy and
the executives, but they were scared, you know, there were
so many other, you know, shows to focus on and whatnot.
So I think they just kind of like never said no,
never said yes, We never really did anything about it.
(06:38):
And around twenty fifteen, I always thought that, you know,
Lisa was going through things. I felt like Lisa and
I would have been the anchors at that time, you know,
to bring the show back.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
How rich is he.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:50):
I really don't know, because you know, in Miami everything
is so questionable and so shady that you don't know.
I mean, he has a great profession, and I think
his biggest acid is this home in Star Island. I mean,
I'm not sure about that. You know, I don't know
what people's finances, so I don't really know. But he
does have a great profession.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
At the house that Lenny and Lisa lived in together.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Yes, yeah, would you ever let him do work on you?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
No?
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, that speaks volume.
Speaker 6 (07:16):
Yeah, yeah, because I know him a different way. And besides,
I always felt it's funny because I wanted to redo
my boobs like years ago, and and I wanted for
him to do it. But then after I was like,
oh my god, I can't go have dinner with Lisa
Lenny and like he just did my boobs and he's
gonna be looking at my boobs or I'm going to
be asking, hey, Lenny, way, can you check out my boob?
So that's why I never did it. But you know,
I do think he's a good surgeon. I'm not going
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to say, you know, I do think he's a good surgeon.
I think he has a different look that I would like.
I mean, he does like super huge boobs, you know,
and they look great like on a twenty something year old.
But you know, I would be scared, like just to
go and.
Speaker 4 (07:49):
Do it the night for the gigantic boobs.
Speaker 6 (07:52):
Not in Miami, babe, Really Miami, the bigger, the better
and whatever.
Speaker 3 (07:56):
Like with the is it b VBL or BBL.
Speaker 5 (07:59):
And all that, boy, Yeah, the big booty, the big boots. Yeah,
you know, Miami is just like a whole different We
do need to.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Go to Miami. As for another franchise, Real Housewives in
New Jersey, I know you're friends with Teresa. Are you
following this online blogging drama? And have you spoken to.
Speaker 5 (08:30):
Her at all?
Speaker 6 (08:30):
I just saw that yesterday for the first time, honestly,
and I haven't spoken to her since maybe like three
or four days ago.
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Right before this happened, she absolutely reached out.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
I think she started reaching out to us too. So
we're confused why this is all happening right now.
Speaker 6 (08:46):
I mean she and I always reach out to each other,
especially like now more than ever, Like she reaches out
to me a lot to see how I'm doing.
Speaker 5 (08:53):
So I don't know.
Speaker 6 (08:54):
I mean, I know she went to Paris and she
was you know, with her daughters, and you know she
stays busy, she has you know, a lot on her plate.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Yeah, we're all heartbroken to hear about the top than
news about Todd, so am I I don't know if
you can talk about it. I don't know if you
want to talk about it.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
You know, I'd rather not talk about it out of
respect for him.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
Yeah, but I more than anything, I want to know
how you're doing.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
You know, I'm doing better.
Speaker 6 (09:18):
It's been two months and you know, I've gone to therapy,
We've gone to therapy, we're doing couples therapy, and you know,
I'm just trying to like understand is there a.
Speaker 4 (09:27):
Chance you can get back together?
Speaker 6 (09:29):
I mean, for me, I would want that, like deep
in my heart because I'm met in love with him
and I would want it to work out. So that's
why it's so difficult. But you know, there's a lot there,
there's you know, a lot to unpack. There's you know,
but again, you know, I feel that being in the
public eye is so much harder, and I think that's
like one of the reasons that.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
He's you know he's struggling with its struggling with it, yes,
because he does not want to be in the public eye.
Speaker 5 (09:54):
He does not like it.
Speaker 3 (09:55):
No, do you think he doesn't like the public eye
or he doesn't like Also the fact that because you
are in the public eye, you have a certain amount
of control.
Speaker 6 (10:06):
I think sure, I think I think a lot of
men are afraid of that, absolutely, Like.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
You are strong, you're a strong woman, You're in control,
you know what you want. And I think you could
start to see him push up against it and times.
Speaker 5 (10:22):
Yeah, I mean I feel like a lot of them.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
Again, men get scared, you know, when they're in a
relationship and you know their lives are still public. And
even though like he doesn't want our life to be public,
even though he knew what he was signing up for,
and when he met me, you know, the show wasn't
on TV at that time, but I had already done
a few seasons and had, you know, like that housewife status,
whether we like it or not, So he kind of knew.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
What he was getting himself into.
Speaker 6 (10:45):
But I think that once they're in it, they're like, oh, like,
I don't like this, how do I get out of it?
Speaker 4 (10:50):
Were you completely blindsided or shocked.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
I was, Yeah, I was, whichhich makes it so much harder,
so much harder.
Speaker 3 (10:58):
So there was no lead up, No, there wasn't like
you guys were in couples therapy and you're trying to
figure things.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
No, we did that afterwards. We're doing that now.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
But that's promising, it is.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
I mean, you know, that's how how I am.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
Like, I'm full of optimistic about everything in my life,
you know, not only about my relationship with Todd. I'm
just that person and I think that that's why I
live my life differently and you know, and as happy
as I can be, because I always like, see.
Speaker 4 (11:21):
You know, what is Frankie telling you to do?
Speaker 6 (11:24):
You know, Frankie doesn't really tell me much, but I
know he's been affected by it.
Speaker 4 (11:28):
Yeah, he has to be.
Speaker 5 (11:29):
He has to be because you know, we all live together,
so he has to be.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You know.
Speaker 6 (11:33):
I think we're all affected by it. I think Todd's
affected by it as well. I think we all are.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
It's why what do you think is great about you
and Todd? Like? What is it that you said? You know,
I'm still madly in love with him? Like, what is
it that you think could make you guys, you know,
work Stan in the distances.
Speaker 6 (11:54):
That's a good question. So, I mean, I just believe
that we have to have better communication.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
You know.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
I think we're strong people, and I think that we
struggle with the way that we communicate.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Yeah, and then we have those we so we have
different attachment styles.
Speaker 6 (12:10):
So he's like an avoidant attachment too, and an anxious
attachment like I need affirmation, I need reassurance, and you know,
Todd doesn't like that, you know, he kind of like
backs out.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
Yeah, And that's.
Speaker 3 (12:22):
What we do. You say things sometimes and your relationships
because we talk about this with our with our husbands.
Like when my husband's annoyed, he'll say something and then
he'll be over it in three minutes. Like he could
say something to me that I'm like, oh my god,
that just kind of broke me to my freaking core.
And then he's like, hey, oh my god, it's beautiful,
that's great.
Speaker 4 (12:43):
What do you want to have for dinner?
Speaker 3 (12:44):
And I'm like, I will hold onto this for four
and a half years, right, And I don't have that,
like I can completely shut down not have that conversation
like which which one are you?
Speaker 5 (12:56):
No, I'm like your husband.
Speaker 6 (12:57):
So I'm like the Anxi just one, and I do
have that that style so that I can once I
get it out, I'm good like five minutes later where
we you know, having dinner. You know, I can make
love to you, I can kiss you, I can keep
on loving you, and I forget about that. I don't
hold any grudges. Granted, if it does come up again
or there's like a you know, hard conversation again, I'll
bring it up.
Speaker 5 (13:17):
But I don't like to bring up the past. Like
you know, we all know the past.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
We lived it, we suffered it, cried about it, thought
about it, so you know, it doesn't make any sense
to like bring it up again.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Didn't you guys have problems leading up to it or was.
Speaker 3 (13:28):
It you know?
Speaker 6 (13:30):
You know, I'm always so busy with you, and I
feel like this happens to a lot of women within
their own life and like so fulfilled and that and
so much going on that I really, you know, it's
kind of like I for me, it was okay, Like
for me, it was working, you know what I mean.
I just thought that there were like typical fights and
problems that that every couple has. But it's not like
(13:52):
how much you fight or hard you fight. It's being
able to work through those, you know, fights and finding resolution.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
And I think that that's where we have like our
biggest challenge.
Speaker 4 (14:00):
And I'm just happy that you guys are talking and
going to counseling.
Speaker 5 (14:05):
Yeah, it sounds like.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
You're working for a better future, whatever that might be.
Speaker 6 (14:09):
We are, Yeah, I think that we are because I
felt like he's very impulsive and you know, that was
like the decision that you know, that he took at
that moment, and then after I think that after, you know,
being away from each other, I think the distance sometimes
is good because you can like you know, refresh and
you have time to think about things and in a
different environment than when you're at each other's throats like
(14:31):
every day, even though like that wasn't the case you
know before.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Are you guys still living in the same place that
you ended up moving into?
Speaker 5 (14:38):
No, well, I'm living there.
Speaker 6 (14:40):
I actually move out this month because it's like our
last month that we had rented there for a year
and Todd got his own apartment.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
Kind of like j Loo and Ben.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
You know, can I ask you like a really transparent
friend type question because I catch myself doing the same
thing with when when work's going really well me or
things are good in the pot or like I'm busy,
I feel like sometimes I can get wrapped up in
myself and I don't really realize what could potentially be
(15:13):
going on with my husband, and then I will say
something like, oh, well you were working you like, I'll
kind of throw it out on him.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
Absolutely, are you think that?
Speaker 3 (15:22):
Do you think that there was a part of that?
And I think that is so many of us, yes,
that are in the public eye, regardless if it's a podcast,
the television show, whatever it is, where you get so
into what your life is so important that you forget
to ask.
Speaker 5 (15:38):
This about that. I recognize that, and I'm accountable for that.
Speaker 6 (15:43):
And you know, that's why I think therapy is important,
you know, because you get to talk about all these
things without.
Speaker 5 (15:51):
Starting a fight.
Speaker 6 (15:51):
You know, maybe like your conversation like this just at
home will like trigger you know, we'll be certain triggers
where you know, in a therapy you feel more in
a safe environment.
Speaker 3 (15:59):
And at the beginning of last season, I gave you
a little bit of a hard time about it, not
realizing that then that it was there was going to
be truth to come to it later. But I think
you you made some sort of a joke, like I
have an announcement. Me and Todd are not getting it.
Speaker 6 (16:15):
I put that out there to the universe. I was
so mad because I said, that's what the girls are
going to think. Like he even got mad that I
said that because at that moment.
Speaker 4 (16:23):
We saw there.
Speaker 3 (16:25):
What how did that? I know, I don't know if
that just came out from my heart like that.
Speaker 4 (16:28):
Just so, was there any truth of what Adriana had
said that she had said?
Speaker 5 (16:31):
Well, I don't believe Adriana. There's no way in hell.
Speaker 3 (16:34):
I don't think anybody her shares at the gym though.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
No, he was okay, I know I will because I
mean I know that.
Speaker 4 (16:41):
Did any of the girls rally around you after this
information broke?
Speaker 5 (16:45):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (16:45):
Yes, any of the of them that didn't reach out to.
Speaker 3 (16:48):
All of them, even Adriana reached out. Really, who other
than are clearly Marisol because and we love her, I
love her. Other than Marisol? Who do you find yourself
like having the most true, authentic close relationship with in Miami?
Speaker 5 (17:03):
Julia? Julia. Julia's really special.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
Because I haven't seen that yet. On the show, right.
Speaker 6 (17:10):
Well, you know, I think she struggles also with with
filming the show.
Speaker 5 (17:15):
You know, she's new at this.
Speaker 3 (17:17):
She's not comfortable her.
Speaker 6 (17:19):
Yeah, it's not natural. But in real life, which is
what counts to me, she's a very great person.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
She's great.
Speaker 6 (17:25):
So it was Martina and I mean I I obviously
with Larsa, even though last time you all saw each other,
we all saw each other was at the reunion, and
you know things didn't work out, so good for us.
Speaker 5 (17:36):
They're at the reunion when.
Speaker 6 (17:38):
The news broke out, Larsa was actually you guys are
a person that called me?
Speaker 4 (17:42):
Yes, love Larsa.
Speaker 3 (17:44):
I love Larsay, Larsa doesn't love me? Because guests who
got invited to the Boca Ratone party and who didn't?
Speaker 4 (17:50):
I didn't why. I don't know why you didn't, but
I did.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
The last time she came on, it was I think
I think Larcia loves you.
Speaker 4 (18:00):
It is not invited.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
Well, I don't care that I'm not invited. We can't go.
It's not a day that we're available, but I am.
Can I ask you a personal question since this filing,
have you guys made out or had any sort of physics?
Speaker 5 (18:16):
Yes, Okay, all right, so there's a chance.
Speaker 6 (18:19):
Yes, all right, so that we've done it all. Yeah,
we love each other and we're super into each other.
It's not because of that.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
They're fine.
Speaker 4 (18:28):
There are fine.
Speaker 5 (18:29):
He's just pissed.
Speaker 3 (18:30):
He's putting down his like he's he's letting you know,
these are my boundaries. Don't fucking cross them. But I
love you and I want you and.
Speaker 6 (18:40):
So no, I believe that too, and I want him
and love him too. But we're just trying to, you know,
make this work.
Speaker 4 (18:46):
I don't mean this in a negative way, but does
he have some narcissistic behaviors that maybe like this is
what I want and this is what you shouldn't have
in your mine and I don't want to share you
and those things because I'm getting that feeling a little bit.
Speaker 6 (19:03):
Yeah. Well, I mean he's needy and he loves to
be with me the entire time, and I love to
be with him as well. So yeah, I mean, I
think more than narcissists, I think he's like that. I
started reading this book called Secure Love that, by the way,
every woman should read. Okay, It's so good and it
really does explain, you know, because I feel like this
is my third marriage, and I think that that's why
(19:24):
I'm trying harder. So whatever, you know, I've always tried
hard with all of them because I'm a fighter and
I do you like believe in love and saving you
know what it is that you have. You know, like
you can have a lot of love, and I know
how to love each other. And I guess that other
times before I didn't put so much thought because I
think I thought it was different things, like I couldn't
(19:45):
save my marriage. I tried both with the dad and
with herman.
Speaker 4 (19:48):
But isn't it weird with it because I've been married
three times? Yeah, and with my marriage now, like your
eyes open wide to different things, and you want to
make things work, and you want to try hard, harder
than you've done in the past, and you're at a
time where your kids are grown. Yes, my kids are grown,
and it's it's a different relationship and you want it
(20:09):
to work and you think about the future and I
want to grow old with somebody.
Speaker 3 (20:13):
And nine times out of ten, it's not like there's
better things out there right, Like it's it's going to
be work with no matter who it is. What are
your thoughts on people that are saying all of this
is about a storyline, but you're not even still me.
Speaker 4 (20:28):
I know, I know, you know what.
Speaker 6 (20:32):
I I don't even pay attention to that because it's
obviously people that they're so like obsessed with the show
in the wrong way, because that's not how these shows work. No,
you know what I mean, it's like none. I wish
I can change all my storyline. My storylines have been
very painful. I don't know Honor whatever saying I can't.
You shouldn't even talk about her because she's dreadful and disgusting,
(20:55):
and you know, she's a loser, like she has nothing
else going on with her life that she has to
like try to like in other people's lives.
Speaker 4 (21:01):
Now you come to Orange County.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
Wow, did you did you see the trailer?
Speaker 5 (21:05):
I love it.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
I opened it.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
I was so happy I did.
Speaker 6 (21:12):
By the way, your trailer looks so good, so good God. Yes, yes, yeah,
I'm actually excited to talk about your show because I
was like, wow, it looked really really good.
Speaker 4 (21:22):
It's going to be a good epic season ever we've got.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
How do you girls do this after so.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
Many I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
It's funny because I had a conversation with Andy Cohen
when I saw him, and this is like two weeks
ago at a party, and I said, do you ever
think about retiring? Like sometimes I think because we're Me
and Andy are the same age. So and he's like,
stop saying that word. He's like, I have young kids.
(21:48):
I can't retire. I go, I have older kids. So like,
at my age, I'm fifty seven, You're so full.
Speaker 3 (21:55):
Of shit, I'm retiring.
Speaker 4 (21:57):
I think, like, like you know, mentally, you think like, okay,
it's you know, it's time to give it up, like
it's time.
Speaker 3 (22:04):
But then it's like you have I listen, all of us,
I think are the same. I know that I am
not on a television show, but we all like making money.
Speaker 4 (22:12):
We all run this year.
Speaker 3 (22:15):
We all like being able to have our own independence.
And I think whether you're on the show, you used
to be on the show, we're creating lives for ourselves
within it. Yeah, and I think.
Speaker 4 (22:26):
That's some I think I would be bored as fuck
if I retired from the house. I'm like, oh my god,
what do I do with myself?
Speaker 3 (22:33):
Well, I like, great, I'll do to teas in a
pot and recab Horn County.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
My mind, my mind gets destructive if I'm not busy
all the time, and then I think.
Speaker 5 (22:43):
That's my therapy.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Complacency kills all joy. Yeah, we saw last reunion that
even you and and Marisol had some hiccups.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
I love Marion.
Speaker 3 (22:59):
You think it's the end of that drama or Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:02):
The thing is that we're like sisters, you know, So
we love like sisters. We fight like sisters.
Speaker 6 (23:07):
You know, we tell each other whatever it is we
need to say to each other, and then we're like
two minutes later back, you know, like nothing happened. You know,
we never We've never in all these years and over
twenty years, we've never been like in a fight where
we have never spoken or like you know, stay days
without talking.
Speaker 4 (23:23):
Can you tell us how much you love doing a
podcast together?
Speaker 5 (23:25):
Oh, it's so much fun and I love it. We
do it in person. I think it's so much better
the energy because like through.
Speaker 4 (23:31):
How often are you doing it in person?
Speaker 6 (23:33):
We're actually we're really liking it. So on Friday, I'm
gonna go do it again with her at her house. Yeah,
that way I get it, you know, I drive there.
It's like an hour away.
Speaker 3 (23:40):
Graduate live that far away.
Speaker 6 (23:43):
It is, and Miami everything is you need a card
to go everywhere, and it takes me like an hour.
Speaker 3 (23:47):
In my mind, I think everything's like five five minutes away.
It's like an hour away. It's worse than she has
to drive it is. I don't drive.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
She doesn't drive me.
Speaker 5 (23:56):
Yeahs marathol Yeah, I drive to Marathon.
Speaker 3 (23:59):
Yeah, she drives to me. If you're thinking about season
is it seven that's coming up?
Speaker 4 (24:16):
Oh my gosh, you're so excited.
Speaker 3 (24:18):
What do you think other than, of course your personal life.
Speaker 6 (24:22):
Which I hope is great, you know, I hope I
can get it, you know, go on and say, you
know what, we're working it out, and you know we're together,
and you know, I'm just you know.
Speaker 4 (24:30):
So you're win a lot of changes. So you and
Todd have split up, Larsa and Marcus have split up
as well.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
Aren't they back together again?
Speaker 5 (24:39):
No, they're not.
Speaker 4 (24:39):
They're not together back together again.
Speaker 3 (24:41):
I thought again, like I think they're friends.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
I think No, No, I don't even think they're in
the friend zone.
Speaker 4 (24:45):
Oh, they're not in the friend zone anymore.
Speaker 3 (24:47):
If you could bring back one og Miami housewife, who
would be.
Speaker 5 (24:52):
Mm hmm. I don't know. I think that all the
ones that are there should be there. I don't think there's.
Speaker 4 (24:59):
Any og what's left? What's that one girl it's always
on Jeff Lewis no the one, the one that moved
to La or something.
Speaker 5 (25:09):
She was never Miami.
Speaker 1 (25:10):
You know.
Speaker 6 (25:10):
The thing with Miami is, like I says, more people, No, no,
she had a boyfriend that lived in Miami, Okay, and
then that was like her story.
Speaker 3 (25:19):
But she was the only she was never on another housewife.
She just found no.
Speaker 5 (25:22):
Yeah, no, she has fought with Brandy, Yeah, what she
fought with a lot of people.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
What are your what are your thoughts about New Jersey
not having a reunion this year?
Speaker 6 (25:31):
I wouldn't never imagine that that would have happened, you know,
I think that's that's terrible. But like I understand, you know,
production wise, why they wouldn't invest all this time and
money into it, because who wants to listen to the.
Speaker 3 (25:41):
Same ship again?
Speaker 6 (25:42):
And it's kind of like it even like in no comparison,
but like it's going to be one side of the
couch against the other side of the couch.
Speaker 5 (25:48):
They're not gonna have any resolution, They're not going to get.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
Half, We're going to get fired.
Speaker 6 (25:52):
I think, uh, well, that's the only way to move on.
You know, you're gonna have to pick sides. And I
really do believe that. You know, they'll be either or
a whole new friend.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Who do you think is gonna get fired?
Speaker 6 (26:03):
Well, I think that they're probably gonna stay with Teresa show.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
Whether you like it or you don't.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
I agree, watch what happens, Like you did see the
way Andy looked at her.
Speaker 6 (26:12):
There's only one picture in the clubhouse and it's of Teresa. Okay,
I'm sorry. And Teresa's not getting it in her life.
I mean, she's like she shares so much and nobody,
no other lady on that show has done the same
thing that she's done.
Speaker 5 (26:26):
And you know, I mean not that she wants.
Speaker 3 (26:29):
And I think probably there's.
Speaker 6 (26:31):
Children and her family and whether you like it or not,
like she is the face of the show. And I
think the Lauris is good to you know, Lauris. I
love Deloris, but I also think she's good for I
love her.
Speaker 8 (26:43):
I think she's I think amazing, amazing, And I know
we're running out of time before we we have to
zip out of here, but if you were to say,
if you were to choose me and Tamra to compare
to uh Miami house Wife, who would you say each
of us were.
Speaker 5 (27:03):
Oh that's a good question.
Speaker 4 (27:07):
Wow, So don't say Drina because I'll know.
Speaker 6 (27:13):
Like Adriana, I think you would be more like me
and Tamra would be more like mab Larsa. I'll take that, Lisa,
I mean I think we both.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
As we get in On that note, thanks for tuning
in to another episode of two. We will be back
later with both Alexia and the
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