August 12, 2025 • 30 mins
Teddi and Dolores can relate to Terry Dubrow in this episode… find out why!
Which OC Housewife can stir the pot without fully jumping in? And, who’s filtering her nostrils? We will explain…
Plus, Dolores reveals how Tamra was during Teddi’s time in the hospital. She sees the true friendship between them!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the
Rough with Teddy Mellencamp and Surprise Phil In what what
have we even? You're not even a guest at this point.
You're Surprise and Co.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I am whatever you say, I am. Yeah, you are
the boss, Teddy Mellencamp, You are my boss. So I'll
take whatever title you want to give me. And I
don't say that to too many people.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I love you, Dolores. You know who is obsessed with
your ex husband?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Who?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Edwin? He interviewed it the other day and apparently they
got on biggest.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I love that. He's a guys guy.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Yeah, they just they really got along. While Edwin was
all chipper around, I'm like, what are you so excited about?
He's like, do you know Dolores Catana And I'm.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Like, yes, they're so so bid.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
But anyways, Yeah, So there's a lot of things that
we're going to recap season nineteen, episode five of A
Households in Orange County. There was a lot of things
in the press, and there's a lot of things everywhere,
and I feel like the only thing that Dolores and
I could do by commenting on it would be getting
ourselves in trouble because there's spent so much chatter at
(01:27):
this point, even there's not even a point to recap it.
Everybody's seen it. Make your own opinion, yeah, I mean,
and learn from your mistakes.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
What else can you do? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I mean that's and maybe try apologizing without a butt.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
That doesn't happen often in our world, does it, Teddy?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No, Why is there always got to be a butt?
We should take butt out of everybody's vernacular and see
how well they go. They can't do.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Throw it in the garbage, the trash, and you know what,
I want to get rid of, Teddy. But I probably
always around. I think UM's been around since I've been
lost for words. No, I feel like I hear it
now more than ever, unless I'm sensitive to it, like
poor Gabby. You know, my daughter Gabby. I've been making
(02:17):
her work with Clear the Shelters this year and you know,
in the season, and she's been doing a lot of
She was took awful work to do an interview with me,
and she said too many times, but I didn't want
to yell at her there, so I had to wait
till we were done, and then I felt bad because.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
She's then she's overthinking it and can't change it.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That's what I'm saying. And so now but she's gotten bad,
but you know I told her, and now the last
couple of times, she's gotten better. So if I do that,
please tell me, because I'm trying not to be the
um girl.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
M Okay, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You have diplomatic immunity now, like, so if there's anybody
out there that wants to say something to me and
may not get mad, you're gonna have to go through Teddy.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Listen, you're gonna have to go through me, and we're
going to do our best. We'll get through it because
if we're we're easy to have conversations. It's easy to
have a conversation with Dolores.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I have problem not lately. Lately, I've been a fucking lunatic.
You have. I don't know why. I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's because someone suggested you needed to be a lunatic
A little bit from my viewing pleasure.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
It's like even off camera on I'm just I'm just
very up, like Paul's a calm down. I don't know
what it is.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
That's how I've been too, and I think somebody told
me it's because Mercury is in retrograde ship. It's over
and we're not be better. It ended.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
No fucking.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
We don't even have a butt. Damn sh damn it,
damn it, sh it. Well it starts off this episode.
At Gina's housewarming party, Jen tells the girls she met
with Tamra and explains that Tamar called claimed Jen is
obsessed with her, and then Gina tells them and I'm
only going to say this one time because I don't
(04:06):
think it's necessary to keep saying the word. But Gina
tells them about the fatty in quotation marks photo Tama
had shown Heather of Jin from yours prior listen. Tamra
may have said it was when Jen was heavy, but
she never said the F word. Gina is the one
who continues to say it and everybody else in this episode,
(04:28):
and for the record, I counted Gina said it over
eight times.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, I don't want to say that because I've been
the F word. I'm now the F word.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Like, It's just we all struggle in different ways, and I've.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Always struggled, and we know your struggles and it's not fun.
It isn't fun.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
And I think it's weird that she didn't actually say
the F word, But all the women are obsessed with
saying that's exactly what she said.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Because they I want to say, and they're using her
mouth to do it.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, but then it offends everybody. Now everybody's offended. Now
we can't stop hearing the effort.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm tired of it. Let's just stop, you know. Yeah,
but listen, Jen looks great. Her body's insane right now.
She should be proud of whatever it is that she's
worked hard on.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
And yeah, she looks stunning. I mean, should tamer have
shown the photo? Definitely not. But when she said heavy,
I think she met as it to look how Jen
got into amazing shape after meeting me. Not that this
makes any of the tons better, but she's trying to
justify a reason why, like, oh, well, clearly it's she
did these made these changes because she wanted to be
(05:44):
like me. I don't think she was trying to body
shame or judge her in that way at all.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Whatever she was doing, I can tell you one thing
she wasn't doing was the body shame.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No, she was not, and that's now turned into the
whole thing all over the worldwide web as well.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So everybody's upset that she Okay, well listen, it's got
you know what happens, Teddy. With this type of thing,
it lasts until something else happens. It has a seventy
two hour shelf life.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
The problem is, I think the next thing that's going
to happen if once we get to the trailer of
this episode is something with Tama is getting it this season.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
It's it's a rough one.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's a rough one.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's a rough one. We all have our seasons.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, but when Tama arrives, it's awkward with everyone. Jen, Shannon,
and Emily and Heather go outside to discuss the f
photo and Jen gets brought up. Heather explains that Tamora
is trying to show that Jen worked out to look
like her. Oh, this is exactly what I just said. Huh.
And then Heather explains how she can see someone else's
point of view, and Jen says Heather is bamboozled, and
(06:49):
but Heather has an amazing way of like not getting
into it, but getting into it, stirring it.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Just the tip, just the tip, the tip counts.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
The tip counts, It counts, So she does it so
effortlessly you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Can't just say it was just the tip, like you
could try, you could, doesn't count.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
But you know there was a couple throats in.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
There, Yeah, maybe two or three. One for good luck,
one for goodbye. It's always the goodbye thrust. That's the best.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
But if looks could kill. When Heather's eyes burned through
Jinn's face when she said bamboozled, like, Heather was like.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Not me, no, not today, not. I don't get bamboozled.
I'm hither to brow. I don't get bamboozled. But I
was impressed at how she did try to explain the
real intention behind it. I didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's like, what we're trying is impressive.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yeah, no, that was very impressive on Heather's part.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
It really was, because if not, it really is just
pile on, everybody piling on without fully knowing the information.
What would have been more interesting television at this point
is if they had brought Tamara out and said, hey,
can you explain this a little bit?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Oh yeah, well no, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Well fine, fine, Well, then Katie asked Haama how it
went with Jen, and Tamra explained that she told Jen
she's obsessed with her, especially for reaching out to people
like Gretchen. Gretchen tells Tamara it's like she has never
learned her lesson and calls her delusional and then walks outside.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Gretchen came back with a vengeance.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
She's not trying to get any forgiveness here. But also
I hate to be the beaar of bad news. Gretchen
filters are considered being delusional, so now I see the
thing that we are all delusional?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Are they?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
You need to peruse through her filters. She filters so much,
she takes out her nose holes.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Ah, she forgets again. She needs them that much. Listen,
if I knew how to put a filter on this,
I'm not doing it right now.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Believe me. If this could face app, it'd be on there.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
You're not face app got less. Oh thanks, that's not
even fair. You look airbrushed. I don't know how to
work this, and Paul's sunning himself in the backyard, so
he wasn't able to help me get this on. My
assistant brought my dog to get her nails cut, so
when I had to turn this on. I'm like, all right,
fuck it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Do you normally have a filter on here? I want one?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I always so wrong, I think I thought I did. Anyway,
it's not enough, but you know, yeah, it's the whole
filter game. But is she just listen, Gretchen's not a
bad looking woman. She looks great in her confession.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Doesn't need the extremity, need all that the filter she uses.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
But right, why is someone doing it for her? Or
she just doesn't know how to do it? It just
makes you look weird when you don't have to when
you work that hard on yourself. Looks like she's someone
who actually works hard on taking care of himself, Like
I know she doesn't have roots like I do right
now ever, and she's very fit. And then so no
(10:11):
need for all the filters you work too hard, just.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Saying no need for all of it. But then Gina
tells them they're all going to New Orleans this you
might have to take a little bit because it was
It's hard for me to watch Tamra's upset because the
last time she was in she said it was with me,
and it was when I had fallen down the marble
stairs and a couple of days later is when I
ended up in the hospital and had to have my
(10:37):
emergency brain surgery. So it's very weird for me watching
this back because of course I know how hard like
I you know, Tamar came was one of the first
people to come see me at the hospital, you mean,
and she's there for me, staying with me, and I
know what she's going through. But it's also hard for
me to watch back. So what was your thoughts on
(10:57):
watching the whole thing altogether, Because I mean, I say,
reality shoulds are supposed to talk about anything, but then
they every time she says something, they're like, oh, she
wants sympathy.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
So I can speak for Tamra who and you may
not know this, or you may know this. My off
camera Tamra was scrambling to try to find answers for you,
hysterical I had not I'm close with you, guys, but
(11:30):
I was so happy she picked up every call to
answer for you and just say I'm so upset, I'm sorry.
She was worse off camera than you saw her even
on camera. So whoever wants to say that, And I
would never lie about this. I want to speak for
someone who knows that you can I can debunk old
(11:52):
whoever has said, oh, she's looking for attention on camera,
because I have seen people say that, and you don't
want to fight with these people because when you text them,
you go into a whole thing and it's just not worthing.
I just wanted to be here to say that Tamra was,
of course truly truly broken over you, as everybody was.
You were so loved, but Tamra is so close to
(12:15):
you and was going through it with you.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
I think people don't realize that. Like, I mean, I
had a select group of girlfriends. I know that, you know,
a select group of girlfriends that were really there for me,
and Tamra was one of them. And like I was
not a peach to be dealing with, Like I was
a real freaking hard person to deal with, and like
when I was in the hospital, and even leading up
(12:39):
to the hospital, I mean, tamer and I had multiple
conversations where I was like, something is wrong with me.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Things were happening,
and like we were in a part of like we
gotten to the point because I wasn't even making sense
because you know, of all these plumb sized tumors in
my brain. That Tamor was like, are you okay, Teddy?
What do we do?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Like?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I love you? Like we Tamer and I don't film
a television show together. We have done this podcast for
so many years. We are like some people on television
shows are just friends. We've never been like. We don't
do that. We're not on Real Housewives of Orange County together.
There's nothing for either of us to gain from one another.
(13:18):
And we're true friends, right.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
That's what people don't understand. They don't know how to
separate these shows from what the two of you do.
And you're together all year around. People on the shows,
it's four months out of the year where you're on
top of each other. Then you see each other off
camera the real friends. But the two of you, for
(13:42):
so many years have five times a week, five times
a week, all year around a lot of time. You've
been through a lot together and nothing has ever come
between your friendship.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
And I'm sure you've had disagreements. Who doesn't.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah, I mean we can both be petty at times,
for sure, But I think at the end of the day,
we love each other and we joke about it and
we say like remember that time you deleted me from
the chat one time, or like remember that time I
called you one hundred and forty seven times and you wouldn't,
you know, like those types of things. But that's real friendship.
And I think truthfully, if one of the girls would
(14:19):
have actually like given her some love and said, like
talked through it a bit, maybe it would have helped
her move on. But I felt like she had to
just she kept kind of having to slide in little
bits of information like why doesn't anyone realize after I've
just told them that New Orleans is going to be
you know, like that what my situation was in New Orleans?
(14:40):
Cut to twenty minutes later, We're going to New Orleans.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
That's the thing. It's to humanizing sometimes to watch you
forget that these women and that all people on reality
are human. Yeah, because they get a lot of flack
from social media and then they see us by and
then they see all this, but they don't see what
we're going with. You can't see what somebody's feeling inside. Yeah,
(15:08):
but somebody with empathy would understand. Now one thing about Heather,
and I'm going to say Tamra reached out to them
quite a bit because her husband's a doctor and he
was an information for her to explain what you were
going through and to be there for her. So Heather
understood at great lengths what Tamra was going through and
(15:34):
what was going on between the two of you at
the time.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Yeah, and you could see Heather would come over and
lay on the bed with tam like they are past things.
But I think you know, the one thing that we
can say that it was really positive for Tama this
episode was we see her with Sophia looking through her
spot eyes stats and I mean, granted, I want to
know what the song is. It's about the girl that
falls in love with the cannibal, But I mean, just
(15:58):
you can see the relation and how great it isn't
That part made me smile? And then the part that
made me sad was Emily gets emotional about leaving Luke
(16:19):
for New Orleans. She feels like Luke depends on her.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
So that really got me teddy because it really was
a real look at a parent who a mother or
a father who's going through that, like she feels guilty
to be having or living her life. Yeah, and I
can only imagine that what she's going through like it's
(16:43):
got to be so hard. She's so worried about him
every second, every minute. Her cries are so visceral, Like
there's a lot of people going through things in this
episode that's like.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
That are big things and can I just do like
a little PSA. Bands have been awful, awful to both
Emily and Larsa this week because about their looks.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Can we oh my god, can like we do.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
A little better? Like we make fun of housewives in
so many ways, including outfits and hairstyles. But what we've
been saying, what people have been saying online, doing online
is not good. It's one thing to be like, that's
not my favorite look, but like the things that have
been said about.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Larsas that are coming out, yah, I mean.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
It's getting to the point where it's like we wanted
to still have a fun aspect to it, and we
know the show is about drama, but social media, let's
make it fun. You can be shady and talk shit,
but still make it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
When did it get so dark? There was always a
few here and there, but now the majority of it
is so dark. Larsa was so hammered that she felt
the need to get on social media in a mirror
with her phone and try to explain why she looked
like that people that she never met or doesn't has
(18:06):
no bearing on her life. She's like, but I had
an allergic reaction. This is my face. Really, Like, I
can only imagine for her to have to do that
what she really was feeling at the time.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
It's I mean, it's so brutal. It's I mean, the
other day and most of the time I don't respond,
I don't even see it. But somebody the other day
was like, oh my gosh, you look sickly. Well you
need to change your look, blah blah blah, and I
wrote back, well, I do have stage four cancer. Sorry
about my appearance. Doesn't appease you, And then all of
a sudden she was I'm so sorry about I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
What the hell? Did she just want the attention?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
She just wanted the attention of the response.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
It's all. It's how sad are these people that they
feel the need to say something so egregious to you
to get your attention like a child? Is it? Like,
I can only imagine how pathetic somebody's life.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Is that they have to want to say that.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
You know, like a child. Throwing a tantrum so they
get attention.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Yeah, or we just have to do better.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
We have very sad it's it's a very sad existence.
I have a lot of pity for those people rather
than hate.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
To be honest with you, No, true, I didn't. I
didn't have hate. I just was like, gosh, what is
wrong with everyone? Then Jen brings up to Ryan how
she struggles with body image, so the fact that Tamra
is showing. Then she uses the word, the F word.
Then she uses it Jen herself. Okay, Jen, but just
don't you now she's calling herself that.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
I thought that we're not supposed to be saying that
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
I thought so too. But it keeps going and they
discuss it. They love the word, they love the word.
They can't get enough.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Plaining about it, but they love the word.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
They love the word. Then they discussed gens X husband
will and how the situation weighs on Ryan. I mean
Ryan kind of wins me over this episode a little
bit when he said he's not he's her ex has
not paid a dollar towards the lumpsun of green upon
her and all her kids live with Ryan, and Ryan
has to pay the attorney, like, Ryan's having to do
(20:19):
a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
This is there's so in love. Those two love.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
But now that I found out she can't. He can't
even fully get it inside. He can literally dress the
tip that made me ouch. It hurts me just thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
What do you mean? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
At the end of the episode, she says that she
her vagina is broken, and I guess she had to
get a surgery on her pelvic floor.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Where was I when this happened. I watched the whole episode.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
What they don't know, but I every time I hear it,
I do a kegel. Now, aren't you doing it?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
No? I think it's Is it a bad thing.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
When you tighten yourself down?
Speaker 1 (21:05):
What I'm saying, like, is the pelvic floor being lifted
and tightened such a bad thing?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Well, I think if your public floor is not lifted
and you've had a bunch of kids, I think you
pee your pants. So I think there's a medical reason
why you do it. But then you have to like
stretch out your situation afterwards.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
I'm dying right now.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I can't believe you missed this.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
I'm gonna cry. This is such good information. I don't
even know what to do with it.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
So if you want to stop having sex, go get
your pelvic floor.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Stop ragging Jen. Enough between the ad photos and the
type vagina. I'm done with you, go away already.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Then the girls separate in two groups to fly. It's Emily, Gina,
Gretchen and Katie. And then oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Then it's Rush carry up. I'm crying.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
I know she can't get up. She can't.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
I'm gonna bring myself back for a minute. You don't
even know.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Then they go along walking along the Mississippi River, which
they don't know is the Mississippi River. If they go
on a boat ride.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Wives to freaking make themselves look stupid, like, guys, come.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
On, come on, you don't know where. And somebody's like,
we're at the bayou. And then somebody's like.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
We're somebody. Just get it together. Can you give us something? Bows?
I mean, look at Bows came on to Beverly Hills
and she's a rock star. Can we have a little
bit more of that?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yeah? Come on, I mean, clearly I couldn't do that.
I probably would have made the same error. But still,
but how about read the sign.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
I'm sure there's a sign somewhere that says Mississippi River
on the river, Like, I'm.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Not sure on your little thing that you got of
the day knowing that no one reads, yeah, is your itinerary?
It says go to Mississippi River for a boat boat ride.
And I have a question, did Gret just get her
wisdom teeth removed or something? Because this entire scene when
they're on the boat it sounded like me like I
was like sometimes and I was like, what is happening here?
(23:22):
And then I heard it later and I was like,
does she have a piece of gauze in there?
Speaker 1 (23:25):
No, this is weird. Let me just tell you something.
You ever notice like some women get some weird list
going on at this like all of a sudden, like
they hear someone talk and then they want to talk
like them.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah you think they like that kind of the thing,
which it's just really for a second and I was
so confused, so fat, I was really confused. Just tell
me for one second why you had this in your
mouth and why you're filming.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Used to be I used to work in a down
to office that I actually owned, and I just want
to say, like, no one talked like jesh after they
got their wearsdomp teeth. Now, I don't know why you
think it's wet damp cheeth.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I can't wait until she reaches out to me and
that was in her mouth?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Can we ask her?
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Because then she went back to normal talking after the dinner.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Maybe she had garment, she spread it.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Out well, gone with some emotion. That's discussing.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
I don't know, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Then they go to this dinner where this ship show
after ship show happens. They're ordering turtle soup. There's a
ghost they spilled over.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
Soup Onheather of all people. You know, I'm so nice
when somebody does that, like I want to make them
feel like I did it to myself. I don't want
to make the guy. Heather was not very gracious about it.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
She couldn't make eye contact. She was like, I mean granted,
like give.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Me, like, come on, did you get burnt? Like who cares?
And then who said? Gina was like, oh my god,
it was probably such an expensive dress. Can we stop
talking about her money defining her? I'd really like that, Heather.
I like you this episode. I'm not knocking you, but
I don't want I want it to not always be
(25:35):
about what you have and your things?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
And why why isn't there one regular human that can go, hey,
are you sticky? Did it make you sticky? Do you
need a want rag? Like? Do you not want me
to wipe you down? Because it was an espresso martini,
I think, and so it probably was sticky, But like,
where's everybody else's like human nation? Like if I got
spilled all over myself? Instead of this awkward moment of
(25:58):
showing Heather looking like frazzled, which she may or may
not have done the entire time and not been gracious
to the guy, or she could have been like, oh
my gosh, it's no big deal, and one of the
women could have gone over and like cleaned her up
in a nice fashion and been like, oh no, are
you sticky? Should we go to the bathroom? But no
one does. We just get right back into fighting.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Yeah. No, you know what, we could have made it funny.
Somebody could have licked it off of her sons. Come on,
we could have done something with that. When these things happen,
we need to capitalize on them.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Yeah. Then we get into Shannon talking about her ideal man.
The first thing Heather asks is can he be short?
And immediately they've panned to Emily, and Emily's like.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
Terry's lifts. I don't wait, you know, I like it.
I like him. He's nice.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
I think he's nice. I don't mind his height. But
also I don't think that Heather was trying to point
out Shane. I think she just met in general, Shannon
is a taller person, like if Shannon. I people think
I'm tall and then they meet me and they're like,
you are very.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Short and you're like five to four right, Yes, me too.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
I think Shannon's like probably five seven five A. And
then with heels, that's so that's.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Always Whears, the big Valentino plans. Always, that's her signature.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
And so I think Heather was asking because I think
that's something that's come up for Heather because Heather is
also tall, and Terry has to wear lifts, which now
they say are out of business. And by random, Taram
was telling me to buy these lifts sneakers that have
been influencing her on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
I bought them, Yes, I did. I love them and
I bought them for Paul.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
No.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Well, it's tall, but I know they're very light, they're
not cheap, they're like over one hundred dollars. They're like
one hundred and fifty or one hundred and seventy. I
think whatever, it was worth it so worth it. Love Teddy,
I love them.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Yeah. Then the episode ends where Heather as Emily her
favorite sex position they kind. She likes to say, it's
from behind so she can watch TV and if she
could have snacks she likes to.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
I'm like, Emily, you gotta give it to them. You
gotta give it to them, like we put it all
out there, we really do.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
And this is where we learn the tidbit about the
vagina not being big enough anymore after the surgery. Could
you I get a little tattoo right above it that
says ouch.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Nosing, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Like the.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Like this and it says like or you only height
or like when you're going under a bridge and it
says the height thing.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Yeah, it's just too good.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
But they all managed to get along this episode until
the very end. Of course they better do some and
this is when yeah, because this was a little bit
of a filler episode.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
And then next week is when we see in the
trailer that Tamra quits.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
This is when this is the pivotal moment of the season.
This is the moment. Like you know, every season, Teddy,
as you know, has to have a moment. Yeah, so
here's the moment. It's coming.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
It's coming, and it's gonna be good.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
It's gonna be good.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Oh well, Delores, I love you. Thank you so much
for joining me on Diamonds and the Rough. You guys
keep tuning in if you go to our stream. You
pretty much got a pod every day and you can
get mad at us all you want, but there's no
need to DMS how you feel. I'm fine about it.
I know you are.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You've never been swayed. I mean, you're consistent.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
Thanks guys, great, Thanks guys, talking to you.
To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Cambridge Edge.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the
Rough with Teddy Mellencamp and Surprise Phil In what what
have we even? You're not even a guest at this point.
You're Surprise and Co.
Speaker 1 (00:25):
I am whatever you say, I am. Yeah, you are
the boss, Teddy Mellencamp, You are my boss. So I'll
take whatever title you want to give me. And I
don't say that to too many people.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
I love you, Dolores. You know who is obsessed with
your ex husband?
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Who?
Speaker 2 (00:42):
Edwin? He interviewed it the other day and apparently they
got on biggest.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
I love that. He's a guys guy.
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Yeah, they just they really got along. While Edwin was
all chipper around, I'm like, what are you so excited about?
He's like, do you know Dolores Catana And I'm.
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Like, yes, they're so so bid.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
But anyways, Yeah, So there's a lot of things that
we're going to recap season nineteen, episode five of A
Households in Orange County. There was a lot of things
in the press, and there's a lot of things everywhere,
and I feel like the only thing that Dolores and
I could do by commenting on it would be getting
ourselves in trouble because there's spent so much chatter at
(01:27):
this point, even there's not even a point to recap it.
Everybody's seen it. Make your own opinion, yeah, I mean,
and learn from your mistakes.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
What else can you do? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I mean that's and maybe try apologizing without a butt.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
That doesn't happen often in our world, does it, Teddy?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No, Why is there always got to be a butt?
We should take butt out of everybody's vernacular and see
how well they go. They can't do.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Throw it in the garbage, the trash, and you know what,
I want to get rid of, Teddy. But I probably
always around. I think UM's been around since I've been
lost for words. No, I feel like I hear it
now more than ever, unless I'm sensitive to it, like
poor Gabby. You know, my daughter Gabby. I've been making
(02:17):
her work with Clear the Shelters this year and you know,
in the season, and she's been doing a lot of
She was took awful work to do an interview with me,
and she said too many times, but I didn't want
to yell at her there, so I had to wait
till we were done, and then I felt bad because.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
She's then she's overthinking it and can't change it.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That's what I'm saying. And so now but she's gotten bad,
but you know I told her, and now the last
couple of times, she's gotten better. So if I do that,
please tell me, because I'm trying not to be the
um girl.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
M Okay, you know.
Speaker 1 (02:51):
You have diplomatic immunity now, like, so if there's anybody
out there that wants to say something to me and
may not get mad, you're gonna have to go through Teddy.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Listen, you're gonna have to go through me, and we're
going to do our best. We'll get through it because
if we're we're easy to have conversations. It's easy to
have a conversation with Dolores.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I have problem not lately. Lately, I've been a fucking lunatic.
You have. I don't know why. I don't.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
It's because someone suggested you needed to be a lunatic
A little bit from my viewing pleasure.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
It's like even off camera on I'm just I'm just
very up, like Paul's a calm down. I don't know
what it is.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
That's how I've been too, and I think somebody told
me it's because Mercury is in retrograde ship. It's over
and we're not be better. It ended.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
No fucking.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
We don't even have a butt. Damn sh damn it,
damn it, sh it. Well it starts off this episode.
At Gina's housewarming party, Jen tells the girls she met
with Tamra and explains that Tamar called claimed Jen is
obsessed with her, and then Gina tells them and I'm
only going to say this one time because I don't
(04:06):
think it's necessary to keep saying the word. But Gina
tells them about the fatty in quotation marks photo Tama
had shown Heather of Jin from yours prior listen. Tamra
may have said it was when Jen was heavy, but
she never said the F word. Gina is the one
who continues to say it and everybody else in this episode,
(04:28):
and for the record, I counted Gina said it over
eight times.
Speaker 1 (04:33):
Yeah, I don't want to say that because I've been
the F word. I'm now the F word.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Like, It's just we all struggle in different ways, and I've.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
Always struggled, and we know your struggles and it's not fun.
It isn't fun.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
And I think it's weird that she didn't actually say
the F word, But all the women are obsessed with
saying that's exactly what she said.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
Because they I want to say, and they're using her
mouth to do it.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
Yeah, but then it offends everybody. Now everybody's offended. Now
we can't stop hearing the effort.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
I'm tired of it. Let's just stop, you know. Yeah,
but listen, Jen looks great. Her body's insane right now.
She should be proud of whatever it is that she's
worked hard on.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
And yeah, she looks stunning. I mean, should tamer have
shown the photo? Definitely not. But when she said heavy,
I think she met as it to look how Jen
got into amazing shape after meeting me. Not that this
makes any of the tons better, but she's trying to
justify a reason why, like, oh, well, clearly it's she
did these made these changes because she wanted to be
(05:44):
like me. I don't think she was trying to body
shame or judge her in that way at all.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Whatever she was doing, I can tell you one thing
she wasn't doing was the body shame.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
No, she was not, and that's now turned into the
whole thing all over the worldwide web as well.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So everybody's upset that she Okay, well listen, it's got
you know what happens, Teddy. With this type of thing,
it lasts until something else happens. It has a seventy
two hour shelf life.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
The problem is, I think the next thing that's going
to happen if once we get to the trailer of
this episode is something with Tama is getting it this season.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
It's it's a rough one.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
It's a rough one.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
It's a rough one. We all have our seasons.
Speaker 2 (06:26):
Yeah, but when Tama arrives, it's awkward with everyone. Jen, Shannon,
and Emily and Heather go outside to discuss the f
photo and Jen gets brought up. Heather explains that Tamora
is trying to show that Jen worked out to look
like her. Oh, this is exactly what I just said. Huh.
And then Heather explains how she can see someone else's
point of view, and Jen says Heather is bamboozled, and
(06:49):
but Heather has an amazing way of like not getting
into it, but getting into it, stirring it.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
Just the tip, just the tip, the tip counts.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
The tip counts, It counts, So she does it so
effortlessly you.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Can't just say it was just the tip, like you
could try, you could, doesn't count.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
But you know there was a couple throats in.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
There, Yeah, maybe two or three. One for good luck,
one for goodbye. It's always the goodbye thrust. That's the best.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
But if looks could kill. When Heather's eyes burned through
Jinn's face when she said bamboozled, like, Heather was like.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Not me, no, not today, not. I don't get bamboozled.
I'm hither to brow. I don't get bamboozled. But I
was impressed at how she did try to explain the
real intention behind it. I didn't.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's like, what we're trying is impressive.
Speaker 1 (07:53):
Yeah, no, that was very impressive on Heather's part.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
It really was, because if not, it really is just
pile on, everybody piling on without fully knowing the information.
What would have been more interesting television at this point
is if they had brought Tamara out and said, hey,
can you explain this a little bit?
Speaker 1 (08:10):
Oh yeah, well no, that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (08:12):
Well fine, fine, Well, then Katie asked Haama how it
went with Jen, and Tamra explained that she told Jen
she's obsessed with her, especially for reaching out to people
like Gretchen. Gretchen tells Tamara it's like she has never
learned her lesson and calls her delusional and then walks outside.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
Gretchen came back with a vengeance.
Speaker 2 (08:35):
She's not trying to get any forgiveness here. But also
I hate to be the beaar of bad news. Gretchen
filters are considered being delusional, so now I see the
thing that we are all delusional?
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Are they?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
You need to peruse through her filters. She filters so much,
she takes out her nose holes.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Ah, she forgets again. She needs them that much. Listen,
if I knew how to put a filter on this,
I'm not doing it right now.
Speaker 2 (09:09):
Believe me. If this could face app, it'd be on there.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
You're not face app got less. Oh thanks, that's not
even fair. You look airbrushed. I don't know how to
work this, and Paul's sunning himself in the backyard, so
he wasn't able to help me get this on. My
assistant brought my dog to get her nails cut, so
when I had to turn this on. I'm like, all right,
fuck it.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
Do you normally have a filter on here? I want one?
Speaker 1 (09:32):
I always so wrong, I think I thought I did. Anyway,
it's not enough, but you know, yeah, it's the whole
filter game. But is she just listen, Gretchen's not a
bad looking woman. She looks great in her confession.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
Doesn't need the extremity, need all that the filter she uses.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
But right, why is someone doing it for her? Or
she just doesn't know how to do it? It just
makes you look weird when you don't have to when
you work that hard on yourself. Looks like she's someone
who actually works hard on taking care of himself, Like
I know she doesn't have roots like I do right
now ever, and she's very fit. And then so no
(10:11):
need for all the filters you work too hard, just.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Saying no need for all of it. But then Gina
tells them they're all going to New Orleans this you
might have to take a little bit because it was
It's hard for me to watch Tamra's upset because the
last time she was in she said it was with me,
and it was when I had fallen down the marble
stairs and a couple of days later is when I
ended up in the hospital and had to have my
(10:37):
emergency brain surgery. So it's very weird for me watching
this back because of course I know how hard like
I you know, Tamar came was one of the first
people to come see me at the hospital, you mean,
and she's there for me, staying with me, and I
know what she's going through. But it's also hard for
me to watch back. So what was your thoughts on
(10:57):
watching the whole thing altogether, Because I mean, I say,
reality shoulds are supposed to talk about anything, but then
they every time she says something, they're like, oh, she
wants sympathy.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
So I can speak for Tamra who and you may
not know this, or you may know this. My off
camera Tamra was scrambling to try to find answers for you,
hysterical I had not I'm close with you, guys, but
(11:30):
I was so happy she picked up every call to
answer for you and just say I'm so upset, I'm sorry.
She was worse off camera than you saw her even
on camera. So whoever wants to say that, And I
would never lie about this. I want to speak for
someone who knows that you can I can debunk old
(11:52):
whoever has said, oh, she's looking for attention on camera,
because I have seen people say that, and you don't
want to fight with these people because when you text them,
you go into a whole thing and it's just not worthing.
I just wanted to be here to say that Tamra was,
of course truly truly broken over you, as everybody was.
You were so loved, but Tamra is so close to
(12:15):
you and was going through it with you.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
I think people don't realize that. Like, I mean, I
had a select group of girlfriends. I know that, you know,
a select group of girlfriends that were really there for me,
and Tamra was one of them. And like I was
not a peach to be dealing with, Like I was
a real freaking hard person to deal with, and like
when I was in the hospital, and even leading up
(12:39):
to the hospital, I mean, tamer and I had multiple
conversations where I was like, something is wrong with me.
I don't know what's wrong with me. Things were happening,
and like we were in a part of like we
gotten to the point because I wasn't even making sense
because you know, of all these plumb sized tumors in
my brain. That Tamor was like, are you okay, Teddy?
What do we do?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Like?
Speaker 2 (12:58):
I love you? Like we Tamer and I don't film
a television show together. We have done this podcast for
so many years. We are like some people on television
shows are just friends. We've never been like. We don't
do that. We're not on Real Housewives of Orange County together.
There's nothing for either of us to gain from one another.
(13:18):
And we're true friends, right.
Speaker 1 (13:20):
That's what people don't understand. They don't know how to
separate these shows from what the two of you do.
And you're together all year around. People on the shows,
it's four months out of the year where you're on
top of each other. Then you see each other off
camera the real friends. But the two of you, for
(13:42):
so many years have five times a week, five times
a week, all year around a lot of time. You've
been through a lot together and nothing has ever come
between your friendship.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
Nothing.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
And I'm sure you've had disagreements. Who doesn't.
Speaker 2 (13:59):
Yeah, I mean we can both be petty at times,
for sure, But I think at the end of the day,
we love each other and we joke about it and
we say like remember that time you deleted me from
the chat one time, or like remember that time I
called you one hundred and forty seven times and you wouldn't,
you know, like those types of things. But that's real friendship.
And I think truthfully, if one of the girls would
(14:19):
have actually like given her some love and said, like
talked through it a bit, maybe it would have helped
her move on. But I felt like she had to
just she kept kind of having to slide in little
bits of information like why doesn't anyone realize after I've
just told them that New Orleans is going to be
you know, like that what my situation was in New Orleans?
(14:40):
Cut to twenty minutes later, We're going to New Orleans.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
That's the thing. It's to humanizing sometimes to watch you
forget that these women and that all people on reality
are human. Yeah, because they get a lot of flack
from social media and then they see us by and
then they see all this, but they don't see what
we're going with. You can't see what somebody's feeling inside. Yeah,
(15:08):
but somebody with empathy would understand. Now one thing about Heather,
and I'm going to say Tamra reached out to them
quite a bit because her husband's a doctor and he
was an information for her to explain what you were
going through and to be there for her. So Heather
understood at great lengths what Tamra was going through and
(15:34):
what was going on between the two of you at
the time.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Yeah, and you could see Heather would come over and
lay on the bed with tam like they are past things.
But I think you know, the one thing that we
can say that it was really positive for Tama this
episode was we see her with Sophia looking through her
spot eyes stats and I mean, granted, I want to
know what the song is. It's about the girl that
falls in love with the cannibal, But I mean, just
(15:58):
you can see the relation and how great it isn't
That part made me smile? And then the part that
made me sad was Emily gets emotional about leaving Luke
(16:19):
for New Orleans. She feels like Luke depends on her.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
So that really got me teddy because it really was
a real look at a parent who a mother or
a father who's going through that, like she feels guilty
to be having or living her life. Yeah, and I
can only imagine that what she's going through like it's
(16:43):
got to be so hard. She's so worried about him
every second, every minute. Her cries are so visceral, Like
there's a lot of people going through things in this
episode that's like.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
That are big things and can I just do like
a little PSA. Bands have been awful, awful to both
Emily and Larsa this week because about their looks.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Can we oh my god, can like we do.
Speaker 2 (17:08):
A little better? Like we make fun of housewives in
so many ways, including outfits and hairstyles. But what we've
been saying, what people have been saying online, doing online
is not good. It's one thing to be like, that's
not my favorite look, but like the things that have
been said about.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Larsas that are coming out, yah, I mean.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
It's getting to the point where it's like we wanted
to still have a fun aspect to it, and we
know the show is about drama, but social media, let's
make it fun. You can be shady and talk shit,
but still make it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
When did it get so dark? There was always a
few here and there, but now the majority of it
is so dark. Larsa was so hammered that she felt
the need to get on social media in a mirror
with her phone and try to explain why she looked
like that people that she never met or doesn't has
(18:06):
no bearing on her life. She's like, but I had
an allergic reaction. This is my face. Really, Like, I
can only imagine for her to have to do that
what she really was feeling at the time.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
It's I mean, it's so brutal. It's I mean, the
other day and most of the time I don't respond,
I don't even see it. But somebody the other day
was like, oh my gosh, you look sickly. Well you
need to change your look, blah blah blah, and I
wrote back, well, I do have stage four cancer. Sorry
about my appearance. Doesn't appease you, And then all of
a sudden she was I'm so sorry about I'm like, okay.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
What the hell? Did she just want the attention?
Speaker 2 (18:43):
She just wanted the attention of the response.
Speaker 1 (18:45):
It's all. It's how sad are these people that they
feel the need to say something so egregious to you
to get your attention like a child? Is it? Like,
I can only imagine how pathetic somebody's life.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Is that they have to want to say that.
Speaker 1 (19:05):
You know, like a child. Throwing a tantrum so they
get attention.
Speaker 2 (19:08):
Yeah, or we just have to do better.
Speaker 1 (19:11):
We have very sad it's it's a very sad existence.
I have a lot of pity for those people rather
than hate.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
To be honest with you, No, true, I didn't. I
didn't have hate. I just was like, gosh, what is
wrong with everyone? Then Jen brings up to Ryan how
she struggles with body image, so the fact that Tamra
is showing. Then she uses the word, the F word.
Then she uses it Jen herself. Okay, Jen, but just
don't you now she's calling herself that.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
I thought that we're not supposed to be saying that
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
I thought so too. But it keeps going and they
discuss it. They love the word, they love the word.
They can't get enough.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Plaining about it, but they love the word.
Speaker 2 (19:54):
They love the word. Then they discussed gens X husband
will and how the situation weighs on Ryan. I mean
Ryan kind of wins me over this episode a little
bit when he said he's not he's her ex has
not paid a dollar towards the lumpsun of green upon
her and all her kids live with Ryan, and Ryan
has to pay the attorney, like, Ryan's having to do
(20:19):
a lot of things.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
This is there's so in love. Those two love.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
But now that I found out she can't. He can't
even fully get it inside. He can literally dress the
tip that made me ouch. It hurts me just thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (20:34):
What do you mean? Oh?
Speaker 2 (20:36):
At the end of the episode, she says that she
her vagina is broken, and I guess she had to
get a surgery on her pelvic floor.
Speaker 1 (20:43):
Where was I when this happened. I watched the whole episode.
Speaker 2 (20:47):
What they don't know, but I every time I hear it,
I do a kegel. Now, aren't you doing it?
Speaker 1 (20:55):
No? I think it's Is it a bad thing.
Speaker 2 (21:00):
When you tighten yourself down?
Speaker 1 (21:05):
What I'm saying, like, is the pelvic floor being lifted
and tightened such a bad thing?
Speaker 2 (21:12):
Well, I think if your public floor is not lifted
and you've had a bunch of kids, I think you
pee your pants. So I think there's a medical reason
why you do it. But then you have to like
stretch out your situation afterwards.
Speaker 1 (21:25):
I'm dying right now.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
I can't believe you missed this.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
I'm gonna cry. This is such good information. I don't
even know what to do with it.
Speaker 2 (21:37):
So if you want to stop having sex, go get
your pelvic floor.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Stop ragging Jen. Enough between the ad photos and the
type vagina. I'm done with you, go away already.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Then the girls separate in two groups to fly. It's Emily, Gina,
Gretchen and Katie. And then oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (22:05):
Then it's Rush carry up. I'm crying.
Speaker 2 (22:08):
I know she can't get up. She can't.
Speaker 1 (22:10):
I'm gonna bring myself back for a minute. You don't
even know.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Then they go along walking along the Mississippi River, which
they don't know is the Mississippi River. If they go
on a boat ride.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Wives to freaking make themselves look stupid, like, guys, come.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
On, come on, you don't know where. And somebody's like,
we're at the bayou. And then somebody's like.
Speaker 1 (22:32):
We're somebody. Just get it together. Can you give us something? Bows?
I mean, look at Bows came on to Beverly Hills
and she's a rock star. Can we have a little
bit more of that?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yeah? Come on, I mean, clearly I couldn't do that.
I probably would have made the same error. But still,
but how about read the sign.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
I'm sure there's a sign somewhere that says Mississippi River
on the river, Like, I'm.
Speaker 2 (22:57):
Not sure on your little thing that you got of
the day knowing that no one reads, yeah, is your itinerary?
It says go to Mississippi River for a boat boat ride.
And I have a question, did Gret just get her
wisdom teeth removed or something? Because this entire scene when
they're on the boat it sounded like me like I
was like sometimes and I was like, what is happening here?
(23:22):
And then I heard it later and I was like,
does she have a piece of gauze in there?
Speaker 1 (23:25):
No, this is weird. Let me just tell you something.
You ever notice like some women get some weird list
going on at this like all of a sudden, like
they hear someone talk and then they want to talk
like them.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
Yeah you think they like that kind of the thing,
which it's just really for a second and I was
so confused, so fat, I was really confused. Just tell
me for one second why you had this in your
mouth and why you're filming.
Speaker 1 (24:00):
Used to be I used to work in a down
to office that I actually owned, and I just want
to say, like, no one talked like jesh after they
got their wearsdomp teeth. Now, I don't know why you
think it's wet damp cheeth.
Speaker 2 (24:14):
I can't wait until she reaches out to me and
that was in her mouth?
Speaker 1 (24:18):
Can we ask her?
Speaker 2 (24:20):
Because then she went back to normal talking after the dinner.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Maybe she had garment, she spread it.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
Out well, gone with some emotion. That's discussing.
Speaker 3 (24:29):
I don't know, Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (24:43):
Then they go to this dinner where this ship show
after ship show happens. They're ordering turtle soup. There's a
ghost they spilled over.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
Soup Onheather of all people. You know, I'm so nice
when somebody does that, like I want to make them
feel like I did it to myself. I don't want
to make the guy. Heather was not very gracious about it.
Speaker 2 (25:09):
She couldn't make eye contact. She was like, I mean granted,
like give.
Speaker 1 (25:14):
Me, like, come on, did you get burnt? Like who cares?
And then who said? Gina was like, oh my god,
it was probably such an expensive dress. Can we stop
talking about her money defining her? I'd really like that, Heather.
I like you this episode. I'm not knocking you, but
I don't want I want it to not always be
(25:35):
about what you have and your things?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
And why why isn't there one regular human that can go, hey,
are you sticky? Did it make you sticky? Do you
need a want rag? Like? Do you not want me
to wipe you down? Because it was an espresso martini,
I think, and so it probably was sticky, But like,
where's everybody else's like human nation? Like if I got
spilled all over myself? Instead of this awkward moment of
(25:58):
showing Heather looking like frazzled, which she may or may
not have done the entire time and not been gracious
to the guy, or she could have been like, oh
my gosh, it's no big deal, and one of the
women could have gone over and like cleaned her up
in a nice fashion and been like, oh no, are
you sticky? Should we go to the bathroom? But no
one does. We just get right back into fighting.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
Yeah. No, you know what, we could have made it funny.
Somebody could have licked it off of her sons. Come on,
we could have done something with that. When these things happen,
we need to capitalize on them.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Yeah. Then we get into Shannon talking about her ideal man.
The first thing Heather asks is can he be short?
And immediately they've panned to Emily, and Emily's like.
Speaker 1 (26:42):
Terry's lifts. I don't wait, you know, I like it.
I like him. He's nice.
Speaker 2 (26:48):
I think he's nice. I don't mind his height. But
also I don't think that Heather was trying to point
out Shane. I think she just met in general, Shannon
is a taller person, like if Shannon. I people think
I'm tall and then they meet me and they're like,
you are very.
Speaker 1 (27:01):
Short and you're like five to four right, Yes, me too.
Speaker 2 (27:05):
I think Shannon's like probably five seven five A. And
then with heels, that's so that's.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
Always Whears, the big Valentino plans. Always, that's her signature.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
And so I think Heather was asking because I think
that's something that's come up for Heather because Heather is
also tall, and Terry has to wear lifts, which now
they say are out of business. And by random, Taram
was telling me to buy these lifts sneakers that have
been influencing her on Instagram.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
I bought them, Yes, I did. I love them and
I bought them for Paul.
Speaker 3 (27:41):
No.
Speaker 1 (27:42):
Well, it's tall, but I know they're very light, they're
not cheap, they're like over one hundred dollars. They're like
one hundred and fifty or one hundred and seventy. I
think whatever, it was worth it so worth it. Love Teddy,
I love them.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Yeah. Then the episode ends where Heather as Emily her
favorite sex position they kind. She likes to say, it's
from behind so she can watch TV and if she
could have snacks she likes to.
Speaker 1 (28:09):
I'm like, Emily, you gotta give it to them. You
gotta give it to them, like we put it all
out there, we really do.
Speaker 2 (28:16):
And this is where we learn the tidbit about the
vagina not being big enough anymore after the surgery. Could
you I get a little tattoo right above it that
says ouch.
Speaker 1 (28:33):
Nosing, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
Like the.
Speaker 1 (28:43):
Like this and it says like or you only height
or like when you're going under a bridge and it
says the height thing.
Speaker 2 (28:57):
Yeah, it's just too good.
Speaker 4 (28:59):
But they all managed to get along this episode until
the very end. Of course they better do some and
this is when yeah, because this was a little bit
of a filler episode.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
And then next week is when we see in the
trailer that Tamra quits.
Speaker 1 (29:15):
This is when this is the pivotal moment of the season.
This is the moment. Like you know, every season, Teddy,
as you know, has to have a moment. Yeah, so
here's the moment. It's coming.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
It's coming, and it's gonna be good.
Speaker 1 (29:31):
It's gonna be good.
Speaker 2 (29:32):
Oh well, Delores, I love you. Thank you so much
for joining me on Diamonds and the Rough. You guys
keep tuning in if you go to our stream. You
pretty much got a pod every day and you can
get mad at us all you want, but there's no
need to DMS how you feel. I'm fine about it.
I know you are.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
You've never been swayed. I mean, you're consistent.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
Thanks guys, great, Thanks guys, talking to you.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Tamra Judge
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