June 27, 2025 • 47 mins
Dolores is not holding back this recap and may get in trouble!!
Which RHOM Housewife was not friendly at Bravocon? Which two Housewives are they trying to ice out? And, which Housewife just needs to buy a vibrator already.
Plus, we are going to boycott until Marysol is a full time Housewife.
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hi, guys, welcome back to the episode of Two Teas
in a Pod with myself and Dolores. Good morning, Delores,
how are you morning?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good night? It's a good morning. It's my Boo Bear's
birthday today.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
You're Boo Bear, Pollie. It's Polly's birthday. Oh my god,
Happy birthday, Polly.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
He's going and have breakfast by himself.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Oh, he's all happy birthday to me. Yeah right, I'm saying,
are you guys gonna go celebrate?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So there's a restaurant called the one thirty Club that
he loves, so we're gonna go there. Yeah. And then
tomorrow we have movies with the kids, f one movie
and a barbecue here, and then Sunday Day.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
It's never a dull moment for you, Dolores.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
No, I have two graduation parties in an engagement, and
then my kids want to bring him to brunch. So yeah,
it's a big day on Sunday. It's a big day. Okay. Yeah,
So how's everybody? How are you, Tamra? I'm good.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
After this, I'm gonna go to lunch with my granddaughter
and her mother, Sarah. So we're gonna go wait for lunch.
And then Eddie said he wanted to take me on
a date tonight.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I go, I go, why really, I'm very little frisky. Yeah,
I mean wait, yes, but wait now tonight, since you're
going on a date, are you going to get dressed up,
do your makeup and hair.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I probably will do my makeup and hair and dress.
I don't know where we're going, so I don't know
if it's dressy or what. So I'm like, where we're going.
He's like, well, I'm not going to tell you, and
I'm like, okay, but I need to know how to dress.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Are you getting engaged tonight? What's going on? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I don't know. I think he's just trying to be
really sweet.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
That's really nice. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And then the next few days we're going to leave
to go back to Big Bear for the fourth of July.
You do have any big plans for the.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Fourth Yes, I will be busy, I kids. Oh, you'll
be out of town. I'll be out of town.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Oh, fun, that'll be fun. So this episode of Miami,
it's episode it's only episode three.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Can you believe it? It's only episode three and it
it was so good. I really loved it.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
I can't wait to get into the Julia of it
all because I want to know your opinion, what your
thoughts are on this, because that was a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, we'll get there, we'll get we'll get there. But
because I mean, first first, I want to talk about
the happy stuff. Yeah, Marisol is so amazing. Why is
she not a housewife?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I almost want to boycott this. I know, Marisol is amazing,
She's in every scene. She's funny, she's witty, her clothes
are insane, her husband's adorable. Boo beear like this is
I'm not understanding she is. I don't understand how material.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Well, not only that they're giving her home scenes and
they film in her house, and they're covering her wedding
and all these things. And it's like, if they're doing
all that, like why isn't she you know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I feel like the Friends is a housewife. I mean like,
but don't you feel.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Like the Friends on Miami have solo scenes like housewives do.
I mean, it doesn't make any sense to me. Kiki
had her own home scene as well, so I'm like,
I just don't get it.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I mean, I think Kiki is an amazing housewife too.
I knew I could say the same about her. They're good. Listen,
these girls got the memo, and it's just hard for
me to say, why aren't they housewives? But they're just
so good doing their jobs.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I'm gonna have to get to the bottom of this
because I've always wondered why is Marisol not a housewife?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I need to know. I'm telling you, I almost want
to pick it.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I'm gonna I'll see Andy in a couple of weeks.
I'm gonna ask him. Yeah, yeah, ask him, ask them.
It starts out a flashboard shows Marisol and Steve's wedding.
Gertie and Julia get into a heated argument. So let
me get this straight. So Marisol and Steve were they
not officially married. They had they had ceremonies, but they
never really got legally married.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
If I'm they had like twenty five weddings. The one
in Scotland was unreal off the I think they like
off the hook, like her. She had a custom beautiful
dress style, like unbelievable. I should refer to her for style,
but I could never fit into anything she wears or
haven't looked on me, So they weren't. They got married
(05:09):
in Scotland. He's Scottish, I think, Oh, okay, I believe
I could be wrong anyway. He is a class act,
brilliant guy. I mean, Paul was very impressed when he
met him, and he's just a gentleman. It's the she says,
it's the best thing that ever happened to her, and
I believe her. He's just he.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Really is, like, uh, you know, in a how world
of housewives where we see a lot of douchey my
friends and husbands, he's not that guy.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
He's not that guy, you know, and he she deserves
it and I'm happy for her, but it gives hope.
Like I was looking at it and I said, you
know a lot of women in their older years, look
at who have been through the mill. He's Australian, Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
He's also Australian.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Okay. I don't know why they got married in Scotland,
but you can't go wrong getting married in it.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Maybe it's one of their favorite places, yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It fit them. They looked beautiful and so I mean
just looking at them and their relationship gives so much
hope to women who think who've given up and saying
it's just not in the cards for me, Like I'm
not going to find that guy. You know, Maristol went
through it with that other bad guy that she wanted
to die over.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I don't remember him, so I don't remember the past
history of I.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Think it was her narc hmm. And and remember Adriana
shoved it in her face and goes, yeah, he called
me after you just broke up, remember that whole thing.
He was okay, it was during the break, but she
went through.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Between the break like this was her.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Devil, but she was crazy about him. And then and
then they got in that crazy fight because Adriana is like, yeah,
he called me, and she's like, how dare you knowing
what I went through with him that you never told me?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Now now you're going to it's all coming back to me,
see what I mean? Yeah, yes, yes, Well it's three
days before the wedding and Alexi and her son Frankie
had to see Spice to meet Miriam. Alexia is planning
a surprise event for Marason Steve. Now she even admits, Alexia,
she cracks me up. She's thrown a surprise wedding party
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at the place she and Todd met.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Alex Stop and she's like, basically, I'm a.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Glutton for punishment.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
That's why I do this shit. She's like, yeah, I'm
a masochist. But it's like, Alexia, go get a big
vibrater and stop banging this guy. Go get stop. Tell
you it's over. And it's just that that place. You know,
(07:49):
I've been there. Have you been there?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
I've never been there.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I used to be a Miami lover. We had a
place there for fifteen years in Sunny Aisles, So I
have been to the and I miss it. It's not
the same. But that place had like bad vibes for
some reason. Oh really, it just game.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Do you think that she chose that place because of
the fact that it was an easy place to film.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Or well, it's a cool place. It turns to take
a disco, you dance on the chairs and it's like
it looks like a ship on the inside. Hot yeah, yeah, yeah,
And well she had memories there, but I think it's
a cool place. It's a beautiful place to go, and
it's you know, you gotta go high end with Marisol
and when it's Maristol, you just can't do like something
(08:35):
like that. But it was nice of her to plan
this party. It really wasn't. She was very surprised because Marisol,
you know when someone's not surprised, you know they're dressed
to the nine. You know, Marisol is beautiful as she
looked on her worst day. She looks amazing. But she's like,
I'm not dressed for this. She would have been dressed.
I loved how she they.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Got on the back of the motorcycle and Drey. It
was just the courthouse, right. They just got married.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
To the power. They made it official, and to her credit,
she said, listen, I guess there's no prenap because she
said we have to. We don't have I don't have children.
And as we're getting older and I know this is
my guy, we need to be in and able to
get into each other's funds. And I get that. I
(09:21):
get that, get that as well. I'm not mad at that,
not at all.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So I think it was really sad. When Frankie was
got upset that his mom was crying.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I got, oh camera camera.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
He's like, Mommy, don't cry, don't cry, and.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Let me tell you he didn't say one bad word
about Todd. No, he didn't.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Alexia explains it. Even though Frankie can't express himself the
same as others, you know, he still understands what's going on,
and you know he was clearly affected by Todd and
he does.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Mom, I didn't say that jerk off. He didn't say
he's don't cry he's a piece of shit. Frankie knows
how to say those things, but Frankie doesn't. I've always
noticed what a special man he is. She raised a man.
Oh yeah, she taught him to such a man. Yes,
good man.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
So then Alexia calls Lisa to invite her after she
was just saying it was funny. Lisa doesn't pick up
her phone, she doesn't answer, and she's like, oh hi Lisa.
But Lisa was in Canada because her dad passed away.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I feel bad. It's very bad about that. On my condolences.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yes, absolutely, And then we see Marisol getting glam for
her official weddying, and Marisol gets emotional talking about her
parents not being there. She explains that it was important
for her to get legally married, like you said, because
she wants to be able to you know something happens
to one of them to be able to take care
of that person and have access to the things that
(10:53):
maybe aren't recognized legally. So she but you'd have to
say Marisol's had more wedding then probably, I don't know.
Miami has had seasons, more husbands, are more wedding weddings,
weddings to Steve like they've been wedding married Listen. I
love watching it because her style is so amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
It wasn't like, you know new. I mean, each wedding
got better.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh yeah, she's got the best clothes. But it's like crazy,
Like she's on the back of the motorcycle. You see
her veil go flying, but she still looks great. She
gets off that motorcycle, I'd be like, I'm mad enough Marisol.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
I can't get enough of the two of them because
he lets her be herself. One of the main things,
because you know, we're set in our ways. Now we're older,
you have to find a man who accepts everything about
you and lets you be yourself and never gets mad
at you for being yourself. Sometimes I get loud, or
(11:50):
I talk loud, or I swear or something, But you know,
and there's other people when they meet later in life,
that that other person tries to control and mold them
to be something they want. Oh, yes, I live that.
You get what I'm saying. I lived it.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Don't be loud, don't talk like that, don't dress like that.
Why are you with me?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
No? Yeah, don't tell me, Ron asked woman. Don't tell
my life. And and I love the person that I am. Now,
I don't want one person telling me to do any thing. Same,
don't tell me what to do.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I agree. Now, over at the cafe, Adriana heads over
to met up with Julia.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
You know, I was a little bit.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Surprised at this too, which kind of I think proves
that they're not good friends like you think they are.
So Adriana was saying to Julia, like, you didn't even
tell me about the adoption, Like why you tell everybody else?
I'm supposed to be your best friend. Of course they
do the flash.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Friends supposed to get the heads up before everyone else.
That is, there's a chain of command here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I feel like we're seeing a little bit of a
softer Adriana this season.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Well, her face is much softer because whoever did the
work on her face, she should be divulging because she
looks thirty years younger, or it's French dick. I don't
know what it is, but whatever it is, she needs
to share whatever made her look like she's.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Twenty A friend dip, Oh my god, like it's you know,
I kind of feel like Julia has dropped Adriana since
you know she It's just like she's moved on to friends.
Like she's like, I'm gonna go hang out with the
cooler girls because Adriana got some much shit last year
and now she wants to be with Marason Alexia.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Let me tell you something. I don't this happened, but no,
this happens if you haven't noticed it. I'm very loyal.
I don't do this. I always stick with the person,
even if the ship's going down, as you know. But
it happened in Atlanta too, and it happens with me too.
(13:58):
But what I'm saying is, you know this is noticeable
to me. I see this, and I see and I
agree with you, Tamra, But Adriana, girl, you look so good.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Do you know that she's almost sixty? I did not
know that, and she looks amazing.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
But yeah, and listen, you could ride that wave till
it crashes Adriana. But I don't know how old that
guy is, but I don't see that having longevity. Have
fun with it, keep your skin looking young, whatever it
is he's doing to it. And like when she was
going in the water and she takes her top down, Yes,
the look of disgust. I mean, maybe I'm reading it wrong,
but he was like.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
He just didn't.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
He was just like he did have a look on
his face. It was like whatever unless they just edited
it like and it was I didn't see him going.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
But they're only going to edit it like that if
further on in the season we see like him beanshady
with her or something was adding.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Sometimes I make faces and I don't mean it. I
don't mean it.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
I'm not had faces and I do mean it.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
But Tamra, I'm not gauging that look. I had to
say that, you know, clearly, we have to speak about
what we saw. But I'm not going to say that
he made that at her, and I'm good. I'm not
going to give that any weight. I'm not. I'm just
gonna say because sometimes the camera catches that.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Look Adriana, you know, being upset and with Julia because
she didn't even tell her.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
It was totally fair.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
But Adriana asked Julia if she could have a baby
shower for her, which I thought was really sweet because
you know, she could have easily went like, screw you.
You're obviously not my friend. Why am I going to
have a party for you?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
But she does.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
She has a baby shower. Now, Gerty goes to the
stretch lab. Have you ever been to a stretch lab?
Speaker 3 (15:43):
It feels so good?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Yes, I went. There was one over here by my
house and I went did a little sponsored situation for them,
and I mean, if I had the time, I would
go all the time.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
No, it's amazing. It gets your blood flowing it. It
really feels good and you leave there feeling good. I've
been getting lymphatic drainage massages. It hurts, camera it hurts
so bad. You do see a difference. I don't know
how long the difference lasts, but it does get like
it gets my digestive track going. And it's supposed to
(16:19):
be good for skin tightening. I told the girl listen,
I don't totally I'm not buying the skin tightening yet,
because you know me, I believe in everything. Has to
be surgical, but I have.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Yeah, I'm over here buying every oil, every rub I
just bought this diamond head thing that you like go
in circles in your skin and literally your skin just
goes flying off. I'm like, I'm doing it all right now,
fifty seven years old and shit is just falling.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
It happens, so at some point you just have to
embrace it. But well, like to some extent unless you
want to just go get it cut off. But the
renuvion helped me a lot than the knees, the skin tightening.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Maybe I need to do that. I need to do that. Actually,
my doctor told me that that was a pretty good.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It's amazing is and you also he went from what.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
They're saying like you could do it like more than once.
You can do it, and every time you do it
gets better.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
No, it's one and done.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Reneve On Well Gerty is struggling with insecurities post cancer.
She says she wants to do anything she can to
help herself feel sexy again. I totally get that. And
you know when she looked at her husband and said,
you know he's like, no, no, you don't need this,
She's like, man, if I don't feel sexy, it's not
going to benefit you.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
And she's not lying. No, that's true. You know. I
want to say I think men need to and I'm
not talking about Russell because he's the husband from Heaven,
but I want to say that men need to tell
women they're beautiful more they really do. Your partner needs
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to tell you because if you feel good, just like
she's saying you, it benefits them because you feel sexy.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Thank you mad You're fanful to that who just said
you're both beautiful. But you know what you're saying, Yes,
I understand that. But at the end of the day,
if you don't feel beautiful yourself like, it does, like
it makes you not want to take your clothes off,
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it does make you want to turn the lights off
in the in the bedroom, you know what I mean.
Like if you don't feel good about yourself or something
is like Gertie's going through went through cancer. She's been
open and honest about gaining weight, having to have surgeries
on her breasts and all that stuff, and her husband
like a nice husband. I think most men are like this.
They're like, you know what, you're good, You're okay, don't
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worry about it.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
You know, most men are not like that. They're not.
See Eddie's like that. I know Eddie's like that, but
most men are not like that. They're not. And I
think that has a lot to do with from them
not telling their women, oh you look beautiful. Oh let's
let me get your hair done, Let's have a date night,
let's do something special. It makes women lose themselves. They're like,
(19:10):
why wather they're getting dressed if he's not even gonna
tell me I look nice? You know that does happen? Yeah,
forget it?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
No, Sorry, I get a little insecure. I've you know,
I've had my breast and plants put in taken out,
put in taken out.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
So now what happened?
Speaker 2 (19:24):
Because I've had it done so many Well, I've had
him done a few times. My muscle separated from my
breast tissue. So I have like an indentation and my
chest and it bugs me, It really really bugs me.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And he's like, oh who cares? And I go I
do it bugs me if I flex?
Speaker 2 (19:41):
It's because I work out too, and so if I flex,
they like, there's a big indentation separation. So I can
never really wear anything low cut or anything.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
So you can imagine how she feels. You just have
an invitation. She has, you know, a malformity there.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yeah, no, I get it, So I get it. As
a woman.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
I like it. Yeah, I think she should do whatever
makes her feel good.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, And it's like it hasn't bothered me, and then
it has bothered me, and then I forgot about it,
and lately I'm like, I should just get it fixed,
like all it is. They go in and sew it up,
but just another time time.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Adrianna tells Julia that Gertie said she was getting weird
vibes from Julia. Julia says she does not have time
for her.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
Julia's just being a bitch. I'm sorry. I don't know
what's going on with her. It's not like her. You know,
I met her at Bravo Khan. She wasn't that friendly.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Now, well then that goes to show right now, like
she's just maybe.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
She just didn't know who I was, But who cares.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I don't care who anybody is. Like, you'd be nice
to people, but she wasn't.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
She was gonna have time for her. She wasn't like,
not nice. But I'm very sive, but I was a
little bit a little bit yeah, yeah, you know, making
your business when you're a housewife to know the other
housewives by the way, Yeah I do, I do? Do
I mean before this podcast, you know, I made sure
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that I knew who everybody was, so when I met them,
I gave them the respect they deserved as someone else
I work with. Right, It's just it's just.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
What you do. But in the confessional, Julia and Gerty
explain what happened on the cruise. This whole cruise.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Situation a little bit like what's so weird?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
So just to give you a little backstory, this cruise
was December of twenty twenty three. They didn't start filming
until late August early September twenty.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
On the cruise. Oh my god, was on the cruise.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Well listen, that means Julia waited almost an entire year
to bring this up on camera. So Jenfesler was on
this cruise. So obviously this was like some kind of
housewives celebrity cruise that you're going on one in September, right.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Yeah, but this was a different one. So apparently this
is what I just did not realize. So Gerty was
on one right before, Yeah, I got home, was unpacked. Yes,
he repacked and went with her. Now here's what gets murky,
The waters get murky. Julia's story is getting a little
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convoluted now because in the beginning she said she asked
Gerty to go, but then she said she didn't, right,
m hm. But I believe she asked Gerty to go,
because why would Gerty get off a ship and they
get right back on. Yeah, that doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I thought she meant she invited Gerty to go, like
to be part of all this.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Not to take place of Martina.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Martina, So that makes sense to me. But of course
she asked her to go. Why would she say that
she got home she was unpacking from just being on
a cruise.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I'll tell you right now.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
I mean, that's a good friend, because I probably would
not take the time out of my life and my
business and all that to land, get home and then
get right back on that ship. I don't know that
I would do that.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
I don't know that I could because I'm not with
somebody who's always like, yeah, yeah, just go. I mean
a lot of times Pole's very supportive of that. But
I have a responsibility I'm not a single person, rights kids,
just a kids.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's been away for a week, businesses like, it's not
that easy to go on vacation then come home.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
And drop what you're doing and go and support your friend,
which I'd love to do every single time. Listen, who
wants to turn down a cruise with Captain Sandy? You
tell me, yeah, no, I get it. I totally get it.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
But didn't she just go on a cruise? Why would
you want? And how long is this cruise?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Whatever? Here's the thing. When they get on the cruise,
Julia gets annoyed at the way Gertie is working it.
Let's face it, I'm seeing through all right now.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Yeah, all the fans were coming up to Gertie, you
wanted pictures, all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Julia was feeling left up, and you think that's what happened.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Yes, absolutely, Gertie is a much more bigger personality than Julia.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Julia got drowned out.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I got it, That's what I think happened. So she
got all pissy about that. But it's so silly, it's
so immature. I just think that overall, Julia is trying
way too hard to be relevant and it's not in
her personality.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Not everybody. I like that, Julia. I don't love this shit,
But you know, should I say it? Here go Timory,
you're making me like you, I'm gonna get in trouble.
Say it, okay? You know what, I think Juli could
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have been a little more attentive to Martina when she
was going through that stuff, because when the last round
of chemo was, she forgot to tell her to congratulate
or do something for her, be there for her. She
was doing opera lessons, or wasn't she getting a facelift. Well,
now we find out she got a facelift door in chemo.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
And now she was having a medical emergency.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
And she's that fucking cruise.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
She got in that fucking cruise.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
Listen, I'm not happy with it. You know, there's something
to be said for that. Right now, I'm starting to
question Julia, which I never did before. Never loved her,
loved how nice she was, how sweet she was. There's
been times they've shot on her. Listen. People have done
worse to Julia on this show than what Gerti has
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done to her, and it's been handled a lot different.
She is very rambunctious right now.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
Yeah, no.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
What I was trying to say is that.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Larsa went for Lisa for traveling while her you know,
dad was sick. And so I'm like, I bet you anything.
Larsa is going to have something to say about this
as well, because you know, here you're talking about this
story and you're admitting that Martina was going in to
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have a procedure or she something happened.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
I was scared, you don't bear and then she just
takes off and like, I wouldn't. I'm different, I'm different.
I don't. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it.
And you know that's okay, Julia, that's what you did.
If that's how you guys are. I mean, this takes
me back.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Did you go to bass Lake?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Like?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
You know what I mean, like if somebody's in the hospital.
You know, I got a little I told you I
got a little shit because I said, uh, you know,
Larsa was a little out of line for saying that,
but I didn't think that she really had that much.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
I think she was really that out of it. I
take it back, I did I do. Sometimes you're right,
you admitted legitimate question, but now she's she's regretting that
time she didn't take with her father. And let me
tell you, there's there's nothing like the regret of somebody
passing away and you saying, I wish I did.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
This because I wish things are different. I wish I
said could have said goodbye. I wish I could have
said I loved you.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
Well.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
There they're at her dad's funeral at this point, and
Lisa explains that her dad was an alcoholic and that
those were the memories she had of him when she
was a child. She had bad memories of him the last.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
And we weren't that kid with the alcoholic parent. I
don't say anything against Lisa for how she handled things.
I'm not judging her because I don't know what kind
of alcoholic he was. I don't know what kind of
father he was that she couldn't come back from that.
So I just feel sorry for how she feels.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yeah, you know, and I mean they had reconnected over
the past year, spent some time with him. She felt
like it wasn't enough time.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
So you know, my brother had a bad choice. My brother,
who I always say is the love of my life.
I heard him say to somebody one time, who wasn't
speaking to his father and my brother. You have to understand,
he's been a cop in Patterson for thirty years almost.
He's seen it all. He's held dying kids, he's seen
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what my brother. My brother's so brilliant. And I heard
him say to somebody one time who didn't talk to
their father. He goes, if you found out your father
died tomorrow, would you regret not speaking to him? And
that person went and drove to their father's house. So
that's something to think about, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
So to not have a family member in your life
over something silly or something that's not that big of
a deal, like families fight all the time. But to
turn your back on that person, I don't care if
they're an alcoholic, you know, there's obviously a line you
have to draw somewhere.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
Of course, but there's alcoholic.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
As a disease, and you want to help them, or
you know, for whatever reason, you don't like the way
they act and like the way they talk.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
Like, you know, what, were they that bad? Here's the thing?
Are they that bad? There are parents and there are
people and family members in your life that do not
deserve that. Ever, there are things that can happen, and
so I never really judge anybody, but I say to
people that I care about, will you be able to
live with this? Will you think about will you regret
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because tomorrow is not promised to anyone, will you regret
not making up with them? Because that's a part of
healing as well as we get Takiki now, who's father
threw around that in the street and she's now rekindling
with him because she wants him to be a part
of her children. But that is for the sake of her.
If you even do it for the sake of you
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not wanting to regret that, then when can you throw
up your hands and say now, I'm okay. If I
never s to them again, then you could want.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Yes, I mean, just personal experience. I pushed my son
into seeing his father, he hadn't seen him in years
when he was fighting cancer, and I you know, it
took me a while, but I'm like, listen, if something
happens to him, you're young right now, when you get older,
you're going to regret.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
It and you have to. You have to come to
terms with that. So but that's into everybody's individual thing.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Yeah, So Kiki, her mom and her daughter head to
the Museum of ice Cream and all her daughter wants
is a damn chocolate ice cream cone.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
So cute. She's beautiful, she has beautiful children.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Well, she is stunning. Did you see her mutcha Hoppins Live.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Oh that's silver dress. I want to know. Listen, there's
two outfits out of this that I want to know about.
I want to know where Alexasi got that skirt and
shirt when she was planning the party at Sea Spice
and she didn't get back to me. By the way, Alexia,
I text you and I don't see your answer. So
I'll go to Big Boss and finds out from there,
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thank you, and she'll have it.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Lauren will have it on her site.
Speaker 3 (31:07):
Lauren will have it, and then Kiki, I'm not even
gonna bother to maybe I'll DM you know what. I'm
almost being a prick right now, like I want to
d M them and find out if they get back
to me, and then I'm gonna be pissed. I'll talk
more here. So if I ask you where you got something,
somebody better get back to me because guess what I'm
gonna try.
Speaker 2 (31:27):
And guys, if you ever want to know what housewives
are wearing big blind.
Speaker 3 (31:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
It's an Instagram account and she usually shows everything and
she'll give like options like maybe a.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Cheap to.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
The guests start to arrive at Sea Spice and Marason Steve,
you know, for their wedding celebration.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
What do Steve know about it? Probably, but I feel
like he did because he had to help with the
guest list.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
But let me ask you a question. Do you think
that the other girls obviously knew why they were going?
Speaker 3 (32:03):
Right? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (32:05):
So why is Julian and Keikey showing up in white?
Speaker 3 (32:09):
Maybe they're European. Maybe they don't know that you don't
wear white to a wedding. You know. It's maybe a
cultural thing that we don't like it here, but it's not.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
Maybe maybe you're giving a look at you giving them
benefit of the dab.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
I get the benefit of the doubt when it's due.
You're so kind to Lores. I'll find other things to
pick on them about, because it's coming right now in
this scene. But I'm just gonna say.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yeah, don't you dare not respond.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I'm not going to read them for it. It's okay.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
Well, Marisol wakes up with the stye in her eye and.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
She fixed that sucks.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
I know that does suck, which she could have sucked.
Hired patch ride over her eyeball.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Now we know what to do if we have to
film with a sty I know.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Wait, So did she wear that at her wedding too?
And her ceremony?
Speaker 3 (32:59):
No, no saw the wedding when they went to the courthouse.
She didn't have on us.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
You didn't have it on. But was the party the
next day or the same day?
Speaker 3 (33:08):
No, the side came the day. It was the next day.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I was thinking that they went straight from.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
The another wedding, this is a guy to one of
the fifty thousand weddings they had.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Oh my god, But Marisol is so happy that Adriana
was forgotten about. She wasn't there, so like I forgot
to invite her.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Well here here you go again. Did Julia say, why
isn't Audrey Adriana invited?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
I didn't hear her say that.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
I didn't hear her say, you know, it's I don't
like excluding cast members. But they really fucking can't stand Adriana.
Marisol really can't stand her.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
But Larsa starts sharing that in Milan, Lisa understood Lars's
side and said she would unfollow Marcus. So she feels
like she got through to her. She's going to unfollow Marcus.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
Okay, However, Jody's doing for you, Lisa, Like Marcus isn't
doing nothing for you. You're on the show with this girl.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Well it was her best friend, you know.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Yeah, Like that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
I talked to Larsa the other day about the situation,
and I said, you know, I.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Still sell her. How did you see her?
Speaker 2 (34:22):
We're on the phone, and so I said, do you?
I said, do you want me to unfollow Marcus because
you know I've started following him after Traders we're in
Traders together. And she said yes, And I said, okay, listen,
I've just had a couple of DMS with him here
and there. I mean, he's always been really nice to me,
but I don't know him.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Girls before Bros.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Yeah, I'm like Hoose before Bros, Hoose before bros. However, Jody,
She's saying that Jody went crazy and started yelling and
saying he doesn't want Lisa and Larsa talking anymore.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
Malrsa, it's dirty, she's dirty.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Larsa shows him a photo of how big is eyeballs were?
Speaker 3 (35:01):
You know what she's getting at. It's not nice, that's
you know what Larsa. Sometimes you gotta just like stop
a little, like the girl just said, Okay, I'm gonna
unfollow Marcus, and then you go after Jody and you
know where you're going with this.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
Yes, we know everybody knows where she's going with this.
So Marisol lifts her eyepatch to get a better look
to see like, oh, look at his eyes.
Speaker 3 (35:24):
But you know, how does that look anyway? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Well, did you find it strange that Julius Julia says.
Speaker 3 (35:32):
Oh, I saw her jump on that. I saw her
jump on that.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Before she even showed the picture. She goes, let me
show you a picture of Jody. Julia says, how big
were his eyeballs?
Speaker 4 (35:42):
Like?
Speaker 2 (35:42):
Why would that be a natural instinct to say something?
Speaker 3 (35:45):
They were talking about it, they knew it was going
to be brought up, and and Julia's likes, Julia, stay
stay in your lane. Don't try to be like the
other housewives that you're hanging out with. It's does It's
not a good look when you're trying to pay something
you're not. It just doesn't work.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
I kind of feel like his eyes have always been big,
and Alexia is like, that's his eyes, Like that's Jodie's eyes.
Speaker 3 (36:10):
Oh, he was right. Gertie's like, sometimes you get a
flash and you're.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
Like, well, sometimes you're talking or you're heated and your
eyes are open. I don't know. Larsa was just trying
to prove her point.
Speaker 3 (36:22):
Love blow love, love, Larsa. Sometimes you go low bro Well.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Alexia is obviously team Lisa right now. She doesn't like
that Lara's talking about this at the moment while Lisa
is grieving her father. Do you think it's a bad
timing for Larsa.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
I think it's all wrong. I think it's all wrong
if she was really fight I mean, Lisa just just conceded.
Lisa just said, okay, I'll do this, I'll whatever. And
then you know, sometimes you might not like the guy,
but you have to respect him for the If you
(37:00):
love your friend, you have to respect him, right, do
you Yeah, I mean I do, I kind of do.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
I mean, it really depends on the situation.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
I think if you want to stay friends or staying
in that person's life, then you kind of have to
tolerate the person there with if they love that person.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
What if he lies about cancer? How does she feel
like it's a crime or something?
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Like?
Speaker 3 (37:26):
You have to again, you have to love the They
say you love the dog for its owner. Yeah, I
mean I think I think there's a fine dog.
Speaker 2 (37:35):
There's a fine line there. I feel like it depends
on you know, how good of a friend is this
or is this?
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (37:42):
I mean, if it's a really good friend, you know
you're going to be honest and say, I don't think
he's good for you.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
How do you know that?
Speaker 2 (37:50):
For me? That's my opinion. That's what you have to do.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
But but you can say it, but it doesn't mean Like, listen,
if Lars wants to be friends with Lisa, she can't
go after this fucking she's chasing this coke thing with him.
You know, I'm not. Let's fucking say what it is here.
Let's just say what it is. We know what she's
trying to say. That's a low blow, I will tell you.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Jody did an interview with Eddie and Edwin on The
Eds and just talking about his life and his ex
relationship and his kids and what he does.
Speaker 3 (38:22):
For work and all that kid stuff.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
He has one. He has one daughter. I did a
teenage daughter, and he came off very nice and very sweet,
very down to earth. I didn't know he's Canadian. I
didn't know who's Canadian.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Didn't know that.
Speaker 2 (38:39):
Yeah, Paul, he's got a very good relationship with his
ex wife. They do think a very decent guy. He
seems like a very decent guy. So then Julia, which
I don't know what the hell she's doing, but she
starts yelling and running around, hugging Steve and saying congratulations.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Yeah, that was so weird.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
It's very performative for the is how I feel nothing
she does is coming off natural so far this season. Well,
you know, Gertie asked Julia, do you want to talk privately,
(39:21):
you know, without the group, and Julia starts yelling at Gertie,
saying she's producing. Gertie apologizes to Steve while Julia is
still screaming. Gerty tells her to go sit down.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
Again. I mean, it's not Julia's it just is not
becoming of Julia. But do you know what I was
thinking of the whole time I watched this, Tam, I
was thinking the Valley. I hope they're I hope they're
watching this. I hope they're learning, because you know what
I was thinking of, tam Like show the al Coyote
(39:55):
scene where the valley lasted three seconds everybody got up
and ran away because they all like in their seat
and started crying. And you know, Nia was crying like
it's so hard. This is girls, take a lesson. This
is the way a scene is supposed to go. And
and Kiky saying Gertie, get up and leave. Gertie knows
(40:16):
she's a seasoned housewife. No, no, I can knot get
up and leave. I'm not getting up and leave.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Well, I honestly, yeah, I get that. Gertie yells like
what are you gonna do?
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Touch me?
Speaker 2 (40:27):
I mean, Julia is clearly provoking Gertie this entire time.
You can tell like she's just like, how far can
I push Gerty to get her pissed off? Like he
hand when somebody gets up and puts their finger in
my face, that was rough. I would have to walk
away because I'd probably punch him in the throat.
Speaker 3 (40:47):
I've walked away a few times. But I'm just saying,
Tamra that when she was and she was just like
sitting Gerty had such restraint during this, and she was
the screaming.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
The hype Well, she was screaming back at her as well,
but Marisol's like begging them to sit down and shut
the fuck up. They finally sit back down and explained.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
She should be mad.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
Yeah, I mean, she she was mad, and.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
It's such a good scene though.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
It was so good. Julia calls her crazy and then
throws a drink on.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
Gertie, I know on kekey Well Keikey was sitting, you know.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
I mean, Gertie's reaction was perfect by her not reacting
the way Julia was hoping she would. I feel like
she won that fight. It just didn't seem warranted, like
it wasn't. Gerty didn't say anything to Julia that was
that like over the top, that deserved her to be
throwing a drink. I think that's things that she has
(41:47):
seen done on Housewives shows before, and she's like, I'm
gonna make my mark. I just feel like she's just
a try hard this season, way too hard, and that's
gonna get her fired.
Speaker 3 (41:58):
I know. Now she's pissed off Adriana, who they've always
stuck up. Adriana is like hanging in there, but she's like,
you know, you could have told me, and Adriana, being
a good sport, says, listen, it's not about me right now.
I don't like how she handled things, but it's about
her and her boys, and I want to still throw
(42:19):
a party for her. So right now Julia has the
time to, I think, redeem herself. But let's see how
the rest of the season goes. It's only we're third
episode in. Let's see what happens when Stephanie Sogi comes in.
Speaker 2 (42:33):
I can't wait for her to come in. I cannot wait.
Speaker 3 (42:37):
I feel like Julia's about to.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Put on another public statement like she.
Speaker 3 (42:42):
Did last week or the week before. Well, what did
she do?
Speaker 2 (42:45):
She put out something about her behavior and how she
was stressed and all this crap.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
Oh, so she didn't like the way she looked When
she saw it, Gertie got the fan, the fan you
know support, Yeah, she did.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
I I was confused with Kekey telling Gertie that she
should leave.
Speaker 3 (43:05):
I'm like, if anybody should leave, Julia should leave.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
She's the one that threw a drink like I and
and Gerty is like leaving.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
Gertie was smart to see I'm not leaving.
Speaker 2 (43:17):
But you know who did? Keky leaves the party. Julia
tells Larsa she wants the event to be over. She
wants to take her mic out and cry what are
you going to cry about? You instigated this shit? You
instigated Julia. Now you want to sit there and play victim.
No way, nobody's buying this shit.
Speaker 3 (43:35):
No, because you know why it's she's not It's not
in her to act like this. So that took a
lot out of her. Now she wants to fall apall.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
Now all of a sudden, she's embarrassed, right, right, she
should be embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Right, played fool?
Speaker 2 (43:48):
Yeah, Now, Gertie has done nothing to warrant this type
of abuse from Julia. It has been happening since the
very first episode, the very first and it's like, I
feel like she's gonna keep coming for her and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 3 (44:02):
Like what the hell happened on this ship? It's been
like this ever since.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
I mean, it's almost starting to feel like they're that
some of the girls are trying to ice out Gerty
and Adriana.
Speaker 3 (44:15):
But why wait almost a year but wait, Gerty wasn't
invited to the Alexia. I don't think Alexia is so
like she didn't invite Gerty to the little they had
a dinner or whatever, a little lunch, I don't know, whatever,
Oh she didn't.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
Wait when what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Like when they were talking, they were talking about Gerty.
She's too much Adriana. Gerty and Gerty were the only
two that weren't invited to this lunch Alexia's dinner.
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Oh so with Dutt it really that just proves what
I'm saying. I feel like they're trying to push them out.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
So I know they're trying to push Julia and and
Adriana out. But but Alexia wasn't at the dinner. I mean,
but Girty wasn't at the dinner, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
Yeah, no, I think that they're trying to push Gerdy
and Adriana. Sorry did I say the wrong name?
Speaker 3 (45:10):
Yeah? Yeah, I think you did. Yeah, Okay, now I
see what you're saying. Out confused from it.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
Yeah, No, I think that they're trying to push them out.
And I'll tell you that happens on housewife shows. It does,
And sure they try to push people out and try
to ice them out. And I have a certain cast
member on our show that loves to use the word,
I'm going to ice her out.
Speaker 3 (45:28):
So okay, well, let me let me let everybody in
on a little something. You can't really do that. It
doesn't work like that. You look like a dick. Sometimes
it backfires on you. Oh, one hundred percent of backfire
on you, unless the whole cast is after one person,
like Monica Garcia, the whole cast said we're out. She
(45:51):
doesn't have a friend in us, we don't want her here,
get her out.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
I still think that was wrong. I think that Monica
deserved another chance.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
I do too, I absolutely do. I do.
Speaker 2 (46:05):
Yeah, But that's it for this episode.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
I mean, it was a great episode, so good. Now
you know what happens. Bring a different person into the dynamic,
Stephanie Sogi, and now we're going to see how it goes.
But I haven't heard you ready. I haven't heard one
person say one bad thing about Stephanie. I've spoke to
all the girls. They all embraced her, They all that
(46:32):
I know of, they've all said she was a great addition,
she did a great job. Even Alexia, who she goes for.
When she gets there, she tries to take down and
og as you say on the coming attractions, and they
still didn't say a bad word about her. So so
let's see. But if you did see the public statement
that doctor Nicole put out this morning, I didn't see
(46:55):
what she say. She's sticking up for Gerdy. She said,
we can we all use our words to argue, but
we still have to respect people and not get physical
with them. As far as throwing a drink, she went, well,
she said it.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
Yeah, Well, I thought like if doctor Nicole was still
on the show, you know that she would have Gertie's
back at this moment.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
Oh yeah, yeah, but that's a whole nother episode.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
Well, we're excited to see Stephanie next week. She comes
on the show and she's gonna shake things up, that's
for sure. Follow on Instagram. I've chatted with her a
little bit. She just seems like a really cold chick.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Okay, cool.
Speaker 2 (47:40):
Excited for her, But thank you guys for tuning in
to another episode and we'll see you next week.
Speaker 3 (47:45):
See you next week.
Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Hi, guys, welcome back to the episode of Two Teas
in a Pod with myself and Dolores. Good morning, Delores,
how are you morning?
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Good night? It's a good morning. It's my Boo Bear's
birthday today.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
You're Boo Bear, Pollie. It's Polly's birthday. Oh my god,
Happy birthday, Polly.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
He's going and have breakfast by himself.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Oh, he's all happy birthday to me. Yeah right, I'm saying,
are you guys gonna go celebrate?
Speaker 3 (00:45):
So there's a restaurant called the one thirty Club that
he loves, so we're gonna go there. Yeah. And then
tomorrow we have movies with the kids, f one movie
and a barbecue here, and then Sunday Day.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
It's never a dull moment for you, Dolores.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
No, I have two graduation parties in an engagement, and
then my kids want to bring him to brunch. So yeah,
it's a big day on Sunday. It's a big day. Okay. Yeah,
So how's everybody? How are you, Tamra? I'm good.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
After this, I'm gonna go to lunch with my granddaughter
and her mother, Sarah. So we're gonna go wait for lunch.
And then Eddie said he wanted to take me on
a date tonight.
Speaker 3 (01:34):
I go, I go, why really, I'm very little frisky. Yeah,
I mean wait, yes, but wait now tonight, since you're
going on a date, are you going to get dressed up,
do your makeup and hair.
Speaker 2 (01:52):
I probably will do my makeup and hair and dress.
I don't know where we're going, so I don't know
if it's dressy or what. So I'm like, where we're going.
He's like, well, I'm not going to tell you, and
I'm like, okay, but I need to know how to dress.
Speaker 3 (02:06):
Are you getting engaged tonight? What's going on? I don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I don't know. I think he's just trying to be
really sweet.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
That's really nice. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
And then the next few days we're going to leave
to go back to Big Bear for the fourth of July.
You do have any big plans for the.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
Fourth Yes, I will be busy, I kids. Oh, you'll
be out of town. I'll be out of town.
Speaker 2 (02:29):
Oh, fun, that'll be fun. So this episode of Miami,
it's episode it's only episode three.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
Can you believe it? It's only episode three and it
it was so good. I really loved it.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
I can't wait to get into the Julia of it
all because I want to know your opinion, what your
thoughts are on this, because that was a lot.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
Yeah, we'll get there, we'll get we'll get there. But
because I mean, first first, I want to talk about
the happy stuff. Yeah, Marisol is so amazing. Why is
she not a housewife?
Speaker 2 (03:13):
I don't understand that.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I almost want to boycott this. I know, Marisol is amazing,
She's in every scene. She's funny, she's witty, her clothes
are insane, her husband's adorable. Boo beear like this is
I'm not understanding she is. I don't understand how material.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Well, not only that they're giving her home scenes and
they film in her house, and they're covering her wedding
and all these things. And it's like, if they're doing
all that, like why isn't she you know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
I feel like the Friends is a housewife. I mean like,
but don't you feel.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
Like the Friends on Miami have solo scenes like housewives do.
I mean, it doesn't make any sense to me. Kiki
had her own home scene as well, so I'm like,
I just don't get it.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
I mean, I think Kiki is an amazing housewife too.
I knew I could say the same about her. They're good. Listen,
these girls got the memo, and it's just hard for
me to say, why aren't they housewives? But they're just
so good doing their jobs.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
I'm gonna have to get to the bottom of this
because I've always wondered why is Marisol not a housewife?
Speaker 3 (04:23):
I need to know. I'm telling you, I almost want
to pick it.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
I'm gonna I'll see Andy in a couple of weeks.
I'm gonna ask him. Yeah, yeah, ask him, ask them.
It starts out a flashboard shows Marisol and Steve's wedding.
Gertie and Julia get into a heated argument. So let
me get this straight. So Marisol and Steve were they
not officially married. They had they had ceremonies, but they
never really got legally married.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
If I'm they had like twenty five weddings. The one
in Scotland was unreal off the I think they like
off the hook, like her. She had a custom beautiful
dress style, like unbelievable. I should refer to her for style,
but I could never fit into anything she wears or
haven't looked on me, So they weren't. They got married
(05:09):
in Scotland. He's Scottish, I think, Oh, okay, I believe
I could be wrong anyway. He is a class act,
brilliant guy. I mean, Paul was very impressed when he
met him, and he's just a gentleman. It's the she says,
it's the best thing that ever happened to her, and
I believe her. He's just he.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Really is, like, uh, you know, in a how world
of housewives where we see a lot of douchey my
friends and husbands, he's not that guy.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
He's not that guy, you know, and he she deserves
it and I'm happy for her, but it gives hope.
Like I was looking at it and I said, you
know a lot of women in their older years, look
at who have been through the mill. He's Australian, Okay.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
He's also Australian.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
Okay. I don't know why they got married in Scotland,
but you can't go wrong getting married in it.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Maybe it's one of their favorite places, yeah, and.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
It fit them. They looked beautiful and so I mean
just looking at them and their relationship gives so much
hope to women who think who've given up and saying
it's just not in the cards for me, Like I'm
not going to find that guy. You know, Maristol went
through it with that other bad guy that she wanted
to die over.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
I don't remember him, so I don't remember the past
history of I.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
Think it was her narc hmm. And and remember Adriana
shoved it in her face and goes, yeah, he called
me after you just broke up, remember that whole thing.
He was okay, it was during the break, but she
went through.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Between the break like this was her.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
Devil, but she was crazy about him. And then and
then they got in that crazy fight because Adriana is like, yeah,
he called me, and she's like, how dare you knowing
what I went through with him that you never told me?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Now now you're going to it's all coming back to me,
see what I mean? Yeah, yes, yes, Well it's three
days before the wedding and Alexi and her son Frankie
had to see Spice to meet Miriam. Alexia is planning
a surprise event for Marason Steve. Now she even admits, Alexia,
she cracks me up. She's thrown a surprise wedding party
(07:20):
at the place she and Todd met.
Speaker 3 (07:23):
Alex Stop and she's like, basically, I'm a.
Speaker 2 (07:26):
Glutton for punishment.
Speaker 3 (07:27):
That's why I do this shit. She's like, yeah, I'm
a masochist. But it's like, Alexia, go get a big
vibrater and stop banging this guy. Go get stop. Tell
you it's over. And it's just that that place. You know,
(07:49):
I've been there. Have you been there?
Speaker 2 (07:50):
I've never been there.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
I used to be a Miami lover. We had a
place there for fifteen years in Sunny Aisles, So I
have been to the and I miss it. It's not
the same. But that place had like bad vibes for
some reason. Oh really, it just game.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Do you think that she chose that place because of
the fact that it was an easy place to film.
Speaker 3 (08:13):
Or well, it's a cool place. It turns to take
a disco, you dance on the chairs and it's like
it looks like a ship on the inside. Hot yeah, yeah, yeah,
And well she had memories there, but I think it's
a cool place. It's a beautiful place to go, and
it's you know, you gotta go high end with Marisol
and when it's Maristol, you just can't do like something
(08:35):
like that. But it was nice of her to plan
this party. It really wasn't. She was very surprised because Marisol,
you know when someone's not surprised, you know they're dressed
to the nine. You know, Marisol is beautiful as she
looked on her worst day. She looks amazing. But she's like,
I'm not dressed for this. She would have been dressed.
I loved how she they.
Speaker 2 (08:54):
Got on the back of the motorcycle and Drey. It
was just the courthouse, right. They just got married.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
To the power. They made it official, and to her credit,
she said, listen, I guess there's no prenap because she
said we have to. We don't have I don't have children.
And as we're getting older and I know this is
my guy, we need to be in and able to
get into each other's funds. And I get that. I
(09:21):
get that, get that as well. I'm not mad at that,
not at all.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So I think it was really sad. When Frankie was
got upset that his mom was crying.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
I got, oh camera camera.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
He's like, Mommy, don't cry, don't cry, and.
Speaker 3 (09:38):
Let me tell you he didn't say one bad word
about Todd. No, he didn't.
Speaker 2 (09:43):
Alexia explains it. Even though Frankie can't express himself the
same as others, you know, he still understands what's going on,
and you know he was clearly affected by Todd and
he does.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
Mom, I didn't say that jerk off. He didn't say
he's don't cry he's a piece of shit. Frankie knows
how to say those things, but Frankie doesn't. I've always
noticed what a special man he is. She raised a man.
Oh yeah, she taught him to such a man. Yes,
good man.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
So then Alexia calls Lisa to invite her after she
was just saying it was funny. Lisa doesn't pick up
her phone, she doesn't answer, and she's like, oh hi Lisa.
But Lisa was in Canada because her dad passed away.
Speaker 3 (10:29):
I feel bad. It's very bad about that. On my condolences.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Yes, absolutely, And then we see Marisol getting glam for
her official weddying, and Marisol gets emotional talking about her
parents not being there. She explains that it was important
for her to get legally married, like you said, because
she wants to be able to you know something happens
to one of them to be able to take care
of that person and have access to the things that
(10:53):
maybe aren't recognized legally. So she but you'd have to
say Marisol's had more wedding then probably, I don't know.
Miami has had seasons, more husbands, are more wedding weddings,
weddings to Steve like they've been wedding married Listen. I
love watching it because her style is so amazing.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
It wasn't like, you know new. I mean, each wedding
got better.
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Oh yeah, she's got the best clothes. But it's like crazy,
Like she's on the back of the motorcycle. You see
her veil go flying, but she still looks great. She
gets off that motorcycle, I'd be like, I'm mad enough Marisol.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
I can't get enough of the two of them because
he lets her be herself. One of the main things,
because you know, we're set in our ways. Now we're older,
you have to find a man who accepts everything about
you and lets you be yourself and never gets mad
at you for being yourself. Sometimes I get loud, or
(11:50):
I talk loud, or I swear or something, But you know,
and there's other people when they meet later in life,
that that other person tries to control and mold them
to be something they want. Oh, yes, I live that.
You get what I'm saying. I lived it.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Don't be loud, don't talk like that, don't dress like that.
Why are you with me?
Speaker 3 (12:10):
No? Yeah, don't tell me, Ron asked woman. Don't tell
my life. And and I love the person that I am. Now,
I don't want one person telling me to do any thing. Same,
don't tell me what to do.
Speaker 2 (12:27):
I agree. Now, over at the cafe, Adriana heads over
to met up with Julia.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
You know, I was a little bit.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
Surprised at this too, which kind of I think proves
that they're not good friends like you think they are.
So Adriana was saying to Julia, like, you didn't even
tell me about the adoption, Like why you tell everybody else?
I'm supposed to be your best friend. Of course they
do the flash.
Speaker 3 (12:51):
Friends supposed to get the heads up before everyone else.
That is, there's a chain of command here. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I feel like we're seeing a little bit of a
softer Adriana this season.
Speaker 3 (13:02):
Well, her face is much softer because whoever did the
work on her face, she should be divulging because she
looks thirty years younger, or it's French dick. I don't
know what it is, but whatever it is, she needs
to share whatever made her look like she's.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Twenty A friend dip, Oh my god, like it's you know,
I kind of feel like Julia has dropped Adriana since
you know she It's just like she's moved on to friends.
Like she's like, I'm gonna go hang out with the
cooler girls because Adriana got some much shit last year
and now she wants to be with Marason Alexia.
Speaker 3 (13:37):
Let me tell you something. I don't this happened, but no,
this happens if you haven't noticed it. I'm very loyal.
I don't do this. I always stick with the person,
even if the ship's going down, as you know. But
it happened in Atlanta too, and it happens with me too.
(13:58):
But what I'm saying is, you know this is noticeable
to me. I see this, and I see and I
agree with you, Tamra, But Adriana, girl, you look so good.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
Do you know that she's almost sixty? I did not
know that, and she looks amazing.
Speaker 3 (14:17):
But yeah, and listen, you could ride that wave till
it crashes Adriana. But I don't know how old that
guy is, but I don't see that having longevity. Have
fun with it, keep your skin looking young, whatever it
is he's doing to it. And like when she was
going in the water and she takes her top down, Yes,
the look of disgust. I mean, maybe I'm reading it wrong,
but he was like.
Speaker 2 (14:38):
He just didn't.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
He was just like he did have a look on
his face. It was like whatever unless they just edited
it like and it was I didn't see him going.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
But they're only going to edit it like that if
further on in the season we see like him beanshady
with her or something was adding.
Speaker 3 (14:55):
Sometimes I make faces and I don't mean it. I
don't mean it.
Speaker 2 (15:00):
I'm not had faces and I do mean it.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
But Tamra, I'm not gauging that look. I had to
say that, you know, clearly, we have to speak about
what we saw. But I'm not going to say that
he made that at her, and I'm good. I'm not
going to give that any weight. I'm not. I'm just
gonna say because sometimes the camera catches that.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
Look Adriana, you know, being upset and with Julia because
she didn't even tell her.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
It was totally fair.
Speaker 2 (15:26):
But Adriana asked Julia if she could have a baby
shower for her, which I thought was really sweet because
you know, she could have easily went like, screw you.
You're obviously not my friend. Why am I going to
have a party for you?
Speaker 3 (15:37):
But she does.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
She has a baby shower. Now, Gerty goes to the
stretch lab. Have you ever been to a stretch lab?
Speaker 3 (15:43):
It feels so good?
Speaker 2 (15:45):
Yes, I went. There was one over here by my
house and I went did a little sponsored situation for them,
and I mean, if I had the time, I would
go all the time.
Speaker 3 (15:56):
No, it's amazing. It gets your blood flowing it. It
really feels good and you leave there feeling good. I've
been getting lymphatic drainage massages. It hurts, camera it hurts
so bad. You do see a difference. I don't know
how long the difference lasts, but it does get like
it gets my digestive track going. And it's supposed to
(16:19):
be good for skin tightening. I told the girl listen,
I don't totally I'm not buying the skin tightening yet,
because you know me, I believe in everything. Has to
be surgical, but I have.
Speaker 2 (16:33):
Yeah, I'm over here buying every oil, every rub I
just bought this diamond head thing that you like go
in circles in your skin and literally your skin just
goes flying off. I'm like, I'm doing it all right now,
fifty seven years old and shit is just falling.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
It happens, so at some point you just have to
embrace it. But well, like to some extent unless you
want to just go get it cut off. But the
renuvion helped me a lot than the knees, the skin tightening.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Maybe I need to do that. I need to do that. Actually,
my doctor told me that that was a pretty good.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
It's amazing is and you also he went from what.
Speaker 2 (17:13):
They're saying like you could do it like more than once.
You can do it, and every time you do it
gets better.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
No, it's one and done.
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Reneve On Well Gerty is struggling with insecurities post cancer.
She says she wants to do anything she can to
help herself feel sexy again. I totally get that. And
you know when she looked at her husband and said,
you know he's like, no, no, you don't need this,
She's like, man, if I don't feel sexy, it's not
going to benefit you.
Speaker 3 (17:39):
And she's not lying. No, that's true. You know. I
want to say I think men need to and I'm
not talking about Russell because he's the husband from Heaven,
but I want to say that men need to tell
women they're beautiful more they really do. Your partner needs
(17:59):
to tell you because if you feel good, just like
she's saying you, it benefits them because you feel sexy.
Speaker 2 (18:07):
Thank you mad You're fanful to that who just said
you're both beautiful. But you know what you're saying, Yes,
I understand that. But at the end of the day,
if you don't feel beautiful yourself like, it does, like
it makes you not want to take your clothes off,
(18:28):
it does make you want to turn the lights off
in the in the bedroom, you know what I mean.
Like if you don't feel good about yourself or something
is like Gertie's going through went through cancer. She's been
open and honest about gaining weight, having to have surgeries
on her breasts and all that stuff, and her husband
like a nice husband. I think most men are like this.
They're like, you know what, you're good, You're okay, don't
(18:48):
worry about it.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
You know, most men are not like that. They're not.
See Eddie's like that. I know Eddie's like that, but
most men are not like that. They're not. And I
think that has a lot to do with from them
not telling their women, oh you look beautiful. Oh let's
let me get your hair done, Let's have a date night,
let's do something special. It makes women lose themselves. They're like,
(19:10):
why wather they're getting dressed if he's not even gonna
tell me I look nice? You know that does happen? Yeah,
forget it?
Speaker 2 (19:15):
No, Sorry, I get a little insecure. I've you know,
I've had my breast and plants put in taken out,
put in taken out.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
So now what happened?
Speaker 2 (19:24):
Because I've had it done so many Well, I've had
him done a few times. My muscle separated from my
breast tissue. So I have like an indentation and my
chest and it bugs me, It really really bugs me.
Speaker 3 (19:37):
And he's like, oh who cares? And I go I
do it bugs me if I flex?
Speaker 2 (19:41):
It's because I work out too, and so if I flex,
they like, there's a big indentation separation. So I can
never really wear anything low cut or anything.
Speaker 3 (19:49):
So you can imagine how she feels. You just have
an invitation. She has, you know, a malformity there.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
Yeah, no, I get it, So I get it. As
a woman.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
I like it. Yeah, I think she should do whatever
makes her feel good.
Speaker 2 (20:05):
Yeah, And it's like it hasn't bothered me, and then
it has bothered me, and then I forgot about it,
and lately I'm like, I should just get it fixed,
like all it is. They go in and sew it up,
but just another time time.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
Adrianna tells Julia that Gertie said she was getting weird
vibes from Julia. Julia says she does not have time
for her.
Speaker 3 (20:38):
Julia's just being a bitch. I'm sorry. I don't know
what's going on with her. It's not like her. You know,
I met her at Bravo Khan. She wasn't that friendly.
Speaker 2 (20:49):
Now, well then that goes to show right now, like
she's just maybe.
Speaker 3 (20:52):
She just didn't know who I was, But who cares.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
I don't care who anybody is. Like, you'd be nice
to people, but she wasn't.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
She was gonna have time for her. She wasn't like,
not nice. But I'm very sive, but I was a
little bit a little bit yeah, yeah, you know, making
your business when you're a housewife to know the other
housewives by the way, Yeah I do, I do? Do
I mean before this podcast, you know, I made sure
(21:19):
that I knew who everybody was, so when I met them,
I gave them the respect they deserved as someone else
I work with. Right, It's just it's just.
Speaker 2 (21:27):
What you do. But in the confessional, Julia and Gerty
explain what happened on the cruise. This whole cruise.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
Situation a little bit like what's so weird?
Speaker 2 (21:37):
So just to give you a little backstory, this cruise
was December of twenty twenty three. They didn't start filming
until late August early September twenty.
Speaker 3 (21:47):
On the cruise. Oh my god, was on the cruise.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Well listen, that means Julia waited almost an entire year
to bring this up on camera. So Jenfesler was on
this cruise. So obviously this was like some kind of
housewives celebrity cruise that you're going on one in September, right.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
Yeah, but this was a different one. So apparently this
is what I just did not realize. So Gerty was
on one right before, Yeah, I got home, was unpacked. Yes,
he repacked and went with her. Now here's what gets murky,
The waters get murky. Julia's story is getting a little
(22:28):
convoluted now because in the beginning she said she asked
Gerty to go, but then she said she didn't, right,
m hm. But I believe she asked Gerty to go,
because why would Gerty get off a ship and they
get right back on. Yeah, that doesn't make any sense.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I thought she meant she invited Gerty to go, like
to be part of all this.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Not to take place of Martina.
Speaker 2 (22:53):
Martina, So that makes sense to me. But of course
she asked her to go. Why would she say that
she got home she was unpacking from just being on
a cruise.
Speaker 3 (23:02):
I'll tell you right now.
Speaker 2 (23:04):
I mean, that's a good friend, because I probably would
not take the time out of my life and my
business and all that to land, get home and then
get right back on that ship. I don't know that
I would do that.
Speaker 3 (23:21):
I don't know that I could because I'm not with
somebody who's always like, yeah, yeah, just go. I mean
a lot of times Pole's very supportive of that. But
I have a responsibility I'm not a single person, rights kids,
just a kids.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's been away for a week, businesses like, it's not
that easy to go on vacation then come home.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
And drop what you're doing and go and support your friend,
which I'd love to do every single time. Listen, who
wants to turn down a cruise with Captain Sandy? You
tell me, yeah, no, I get it. I totally get it.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
But didn't she just go on a cruise? Why would
you want? And how long is this cruise?
Speaker 3 (23:57):
Whatever? Here's the thing. When they get on the cruise,
Julia gets annoyed at the way Gertie is working it.
Let's face it, I'm seeing through all right now.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Yeah, all the fans were coming up to Gertie, you
wanted pictures, all that stuff.
Speaker 3 (24:13):
Julia was feeling left up, and you think that's what happened.
Speaker 2 (24:16):
Yes, absolutely, Gertie is a much more bigger personality than Julia.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
Julia got drowned out.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
I got it, That's what I think happened. So she
got all pissy about that. But it's so silly, it's
so immature. I just think that overall, Julia is trying
way too hard to be relevant and it's not in
her personality.
Speaker 3 (24:39):
Not everybody. I like that, Julia. I don't love this shit,
But you know, should I say it? Here go Timory,
you're making me like you, I'm gonna get in trouble.
Say it, okay? You know what, I think Juli could
(25:00):
have been a little more attentive to Martina when she
was going through that stuff, because when the last round
of chemo was, she forgot to tell her to congratulate
or do something for her, be there for her. She
was doing opera lessons, or wasn't she getting a facelift. Well,
now we find out she got a facelift door in chemo.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
And now she was having a medical emergency.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
And she's that fucking cruise.
Speaker 2 (25:27):
She got in that fucking cruise.
Speaker 3 (25:29):
Listen, I'm not happy with it. You know, there's something
to be said for that. Right now, I'm starting to
question Julia, which I never did before. Never loved her,
loved how nice she was, how sweet she was. There's
been times they've shot on her. Listen. People have done
worse to Julia on this show than what Gerti has
(25:49):
done to her, and it's been handled a lot different.
She is very rambunctious right now.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
Yeah, no.
Speaker 3 (25:58):
What I was trying to say is that.
Speaker 2 (26:01):
Larsa went for Lisa for traveling while her you know,
dad was sick. And so I'm like, I bet you anything.
Larsa is going to have something to say about this
as well, because you know, here you're talking about this
story and you're admitting that Martina was going in to
(26:21):
have a procedure or she something happened.
Speaker 3 (26:24):
I was scared, you don't bear and then she just
takes off and like, I wouldn't. I'm different, I'm different.
I don't. I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it.
And you know that's okay, Julia, that's what you did.
If that's how you guys are. I mean, this takes
me back.
Speaker 2 (26:41):
Did you go to bass Lake?
Speaker 4 (26:43):
Like?
Speaker 2 (26:44):
You know what I mean, like if somebody's in the hospital.
You know, I got a little I told you I
got a little shit because I said, uh, you know,
Larsa was a little out of line for saying that,
but I didn't think that she really had that much.
Speaker 3 (26:56):
I think she was really that out of it. I
take it back, I did I do. Sometimes you're right,
you admitted legitimate question, but now she's she's regretting that
time she didn't take with her father. And let me
tell you, there's there's nothing like the regret of somebody
passing away and you saying, I wish I did.
Speaker 2 (27:17):
This because I wish things are different. I wish I
said could have said goodbye. I wish I could have
said I loved you.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
Well.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
There they're at her dad's funeral at this point, and
Lisa explains that her dad was an alcoholic and that
those were the memories she had of him when she
was a child. She had bad memories of him the last.
Speaker 3 (27:34):
And we weren't that kid with the alcoholic parent. I
don't say anything against Lisa for how she handled things.
I'm not judging her because I don't know what kind
of alcoholic he was. I don't know what kind of
father he was that she couldn't come back from that.
So I just feel sorry for how she feels.
Speaker 2 (27:52):
Yeah, you know, and I mean they had reconnected over
the past year, spent some time with him. She felt
like it wasn't enough time.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
So you know, my brother had a bad choice. My brother,
who I always say is the love of my life.
I heard him say to somebody one time, who wasn't
speaking to his father and my brother. You have to understand,
he's been a cop in Patterson for thirty years almost.
He's seen it all. He's held dying kids, he's seen
(28:22):
what my brother. My brother's so brilliant. And I heard
him say to somebody one time who didn't talk to
their father. He goes, if you found out your father
died tomorrow, would you regret not speaking to him? And
that person went and drove to their father's house. So
that's something to think about, you know.
Speaker 2 (28:42):
So to not have a family member in your life
over something silly or something that's not that big of
a deal, like families fight all the time. But to
turn your back on that person, I don't care if
they're an alcoholic, you know, there's obviously a line you
have to draw somewhere.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
Of course, but there's alcoholic.
Speaker 2 (29:02):
As a disease, and you want to help them, or
you know, for whatever reason, you don't like the way
they act and like the way they talk.
Speaker 3 (29:09):
Like, you know, what, were they that bad? Here's the thing?
Are they that bad? There are parents and there are
people and family members in your life that do not
deserve that. Ever, there are things that can happen, and
so I never really judge anybody, but I say to
people that I care about, will you be able to
live with this? Will you think about will you regret
(29:30):
because tomorrow is not promised to anyone, will you regret
not making up with them? Because that's a part of
healing as well as we get Takiki now, who's father
threw around that in the street and she's now rekindling
with him because she wants him to be a part
of her children. But that is for the sake of her.
If you even do it for the sake of you
(29:52):
not wanting to regret that, then when can you throw
up your hands and say now, I'm okay. If I
never s to them again, then you could want.
Speaker 2 (30:02):
Yes, I mean, just personal experience. I pushed my son
into seeing his father, he hadn't seen him in years
when he was fighting cancer, and I you know, it
took me a while, but I'm like, listen, if something
happens to him, you're young right now, when you get older,
you're going to regret.
Speaker 3 (30:18):
It and you have to. You have to come to
terms with that. So but that's into everybody's individual thing.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
Yeah, So Kiki, her mom and her daughter head to
the Museum of ice Cream and all her daughter wants
is a damn chocolate ice cream cone.
Speaker 3 (30:33):
So cute. She's beautiful, she has beautiful children.
Speaker 2 (30:36):
Well, she is stunning. Did you see her mutcha Hoppins Live.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Oh that's silver dress. I want to know. Listen, there's
two outfits out of this that I want to know about.
I want to know where Alexasi got that skirt and
shirt when she was planning the party at Sea Spice
and she didn't get back to me. By the way, Alexia,
I text you and I don't see your answer. So
I'll go to Big Boss and finds out from there,
(31:03):
thank you, and she'll have it.
Speaker 2 (31:05):
Lauren will have it on her site.
Speaker 3 (31:07):
Lauren will have it, and then Kiki, I'm not even
gonna bother to maybe I'll DM you know what. I'm
almost being a prick right now, like I want to
d M them and find out if they get back
to me, and then I'm gonna be pissed. I'll talk
more here. So if I ask you where you got something,
somebody better get back to me because guess what I'm
gonna try.
Speaker 2 (31:27):
And guys, if you ever want to know what housewives
are wearing big blind.
Speaker 3 (31:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:33):
It's an Instagram account and she usually shows everything and
she'll give like options like maybe a.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Cheap to.
Speaker 4 (31:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (31:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (31:43):
The guests start to arrive at Sea Spice and Marason Steve,
you know, for their wedding celebration.
Speaker 3 (31:52):
What do Steve know about it? Probably, but I feel
like he did because he had to help with the
guest list.
Speaker 2 (31:59):
But let me ask you a question. Do you think
that the other girls obviously knew why they were going?
Speaker 3 (32:03):
Right? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (32:05):
So why is Julian and Keikey showing up in white?
Speaker 3 (32:09):
Maybe they're European. Maybe they don't know that you don't
wear white to a wedding. You know. It's maybe a
cultural thing that we don't like it here, but it's not.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
Maybe maybe you're giving a look at you giving them
benefit of the dab.
Speaker 3 (32:25):
I get the benefit of the doubt when it's due.
You're so kind to Lores. I'll find other things to
pick on them about, because it's coming right now in
this scene. But I'm just gonna say.
Speaker 2 (32:35):
Yeah, don't you dare not respond.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I'm not going to read them for it. It's okay.
Speaker 2 (32:41):
Well, Marisol wakes up with the stye in her eye and.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
She fixed that sucks.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
I know that does suck, which she could have sucked.
Hired patch ride over her eyeball.
Speaker 3 (32:51):
Now we know what to do if we have to
film with a sty I know.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
Wait, So did she wear that at her wedding too?
And her ceremony?
Speaker 3 (32:59):
No, no saw the wedding when they went to the courthouse.
She didn't have on us.
Speaker 2 (33:03):
You didn't have it on. But was the party the
next day or the same day?
Speaker 3 (33:08):
No, the side came the day. It was the next day.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I was thinking that they went straight from.
Speaker 3 (33:14):
The another wedding, this is a guy to one of
the fifty thousand weddings they had.
Speaker 2 (33:20):
Oh my god, But Marisol is so happy that Adriana
was forgotten about. She wasn't there, so like I forgot
to invite her.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
Well here here you go again. Did Julia say, why
isn't Audrey Adriana invited?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
I didn't hear her say that.
Speaker 3 (33:41):
I didn't hear her say, you know, it's I don't
like excluding cast members. But they really fucking can't stand Adriana.
Marisol really can't stand her.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
But Larsa starts sharing that in Milan, Lisa understood Lars's
side and said she would unfollow Marcus. So she feels
like she got through to her. She's going to unfollow Marcus.
Speaker 3 (34:02):
Okay, However, Jody's doing for you, Lisa, Like Marcus isn't
doing nothing for you. You're on the show with this girl.
Speaker 2 (34:10):
Well it was her best friend, you know.
Speaker 3 (34:12):
Yeah, Like that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (34:14):
I talked to Larsa the other day about the situation,
and I said, you know, I.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Still sell her. How did you see her?
Speaker 2 (34:22):
We're on the phone, and so I said, do you?
I said, do you want me to unfollow Marcus because
you know I've started following him after Traders we're in
Traders together. And she said yes, And I said, okay, listen,
I've just had a couple of DMS with him here
and there. I mean, he's always been really nice to me,
but I don't know him.
Speaker 3 (34:38):
Girls before Bros.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
Yeah, I'm like Hoose before Bros, Hoose before bros. However, Jody,
She's saying that Jody went crazy and started yelling and
saying he doesn't want Lisa and Larsa talking anymore.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
Malrsa, it's dirty, she's dirty.
Speaker 2 (34:57):
Larsa shows him a photo of how big is eyeballs were?
Speaker 3 (35:01):
You know what she's getting at. It's not nice, that's
you know what Larsa. Sometimes you gotta just like stop
a little, like the girl just said, Okay, I'm gonna
unfollow Marcus, and then you go after Jody and you
know where you're going with this.
Speaker 2 (35:16):
Yes, we know everybody knows where she's going with this.
So Marisol lifts her eyepatch to get a better look
to see like, oh, look at his eyes.
Speaker 3 (35:24):
But you know, how does that look anyway? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Well, did you find it strange that Julius Julia says.
Speaker 3 (35:32):
Oh, I saw her jump on that. I saw her
jump on that.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Before she even showed the picture. She goes, let me
show you a picture of Jody. Julia says, how big
were his eyeballs?
Speaker 4 (35:42):
Like?
Speaker 2 (35:42):
Why would that be a natural instinct to say something?
Speaker 3 (35:45):
They were talking about it, they knew it was going
to be brought up, and and Julia's likes, Julia, stay
stay in your lane. Don't try to be like the
other housewives that you're hanging out with. It's does It's
not a good look when you're trying to pay something
you're not. It just doesn't work.
Speaker 2 (36:03):
I kind of feel like his eyes have always been big,
and Alexia is like, that's his eyes, Like that's Jodie's eyes.
Speaker 3 (36:10):
Oh, he was right. Gertie's like, sometimes you get a
flash and you're.
Speaker 2 (36:13):
Like, well, sometimes you're talking or you're heated and your
eyes are open. I don't know. Larsa was just trying
to prove her point.
Speaker 3 (36:22):
Love blow love, love, Larsa. Sometimes you go low bro Well.
Speaker 2 (36:27):
Alexia is obviously team Lisa right now. She doesn't like
that Lara's talking about this at the moment while Lisa
is grieving her father. Do you think it's a bad
timing for Larsa.
Speaker 3 (36:39):
I think it's all wrong. I think it's all wrong
if she was really fight I mean, Lisa just just conceded.
Lisa just said, okay, I'll do this, I'll whatever. And
then you know, sometimes you might not like the guy,
but you have to respect him for the If you
(37:00):
love your friend, you have to respect him, right, do
you Yeah, I mean I do, I kind of do.
Speaker 2 (37:09):
I mean, it really depends on the situation.
Speaker 3 (37:11):
I think if you want to stay friends or staying
in that person's life, then you kind of have to
tolerate the person there with if they love that person.
Speaker 2 (37:20):
What if he lies about cancer? How does she feel
like it's a crime or something?
Speaker 1 (37:26):
Like?
Speaker 3 (37:26):
You have to again, you have to love the They
say you love the dog for its owner. Yeah, I
mean I think I think there's a fine dog.
Speaker 2 (37:35):
There's a fine line there. I feel like it depends
on you know, how good of a friend is this
or is this?
Speaker 3 (37:42):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (37:42):
I mean, if it's a really good friend, you know
you're going to be honest and say, I don't think
he's good for you.
Speaker 3 (37:49):
How do you know that?
Speaker 2 (37:50):
For me? That's my opinion. That's what you have to do.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
But but you can say it, but it doesn't mean Like, listen,
if Lars wants to be friends with Lisa, she can't
go after this fucking she's chasing this coke thing with him.
You know, I'm not. Let's fucking say what it is here.
Let's just say what it is. We know what she's
trying to say. That's a low blow, I will tell you.
Speaker 2 (38:14):
Jody did an interview with Eddie and Edwin on The
Eds and just talking about his life and his ex
relationship and his kids and what he does.
Speaker 3 (38:22):
For work and all that kid stuff.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
He has one. He has one daughter. I did a
teenage daughter, and he came off very nice and very sweet,
very down to earth. I didn't know he's Canadian. I
didn't know who's Canadian.
Speaker 3 (38:37):
Didn't know that.
Speaker 2 (38:39):
Yeah, Paul, he's got a very good relationship with his
ex wife. They do think a very decent guy. He
seems like a very decent guy. So then Julia, which
I don't know what the hell she's doing, but she
starts yelling and running around, hugging Steve and saying congratulations.
Speaker 3 (38:56):
Yeah, that was so weird.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
It's very performative for the is how I feel nothing
she does is coming off natural so far this season. Well,
you know, Gertie asked Julia, do you want to talk privately,
(39:21):
you know, without the group, and Julia starts yelling at Gertie,
saying she's producing. Gertie apologizes to Steve while Julia is
still screaming. Gerty tells her to go sit down.
Speaker 3 (39:34):
Again. I mean, it's not Julia's it just is not
becoming of Julia. But do you know what I was
thinking of the whole time I watched this, Tam, I
was thinking the Valley. I hope they're I hope they're
watching this. I hope they're learning, because you know what
I was thinking of, tam Like show the al Coyote
(39:55):
scene where the valley lasted three seconds everybody got up
and ran away because they all like in their seat
and started crying. And you know, Nia was crying like
it's so hard. This is girls, take a lesson. This
is the way a scene is supposed to go. And
and Kiky saying Gertie, get up and leave. Gertie knows
(40:16):
she's a seasoned housewife. No, no, I can knot get
up and leave. I'm not getting up and leave.
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Well, I honestly, yeah, I get that. Gertie yells like
what are you gonna do?
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Touch me?
Speaker 2 (40:27):
I mean, Julia is clearly provoking Gertie this entire time.
You can tell like she's just like, how far can
I push Gerty to get her pissed off? Like he
hand when somebody gets up and puts their finger in
my face, that was rough. I would have to walk
away because I'd probably punch him in the throat.
Speaker 3 (40:47):
I've walked away a few times. But I'm just saying,
Tamra that when she was and she was just like
sitting Gerty had such restraint during this, and she was
the screaming.
Speaker 2 (41:01):
The hype Well, she was screaming back at her as well,
but Marisol's like begging them to sit down and shut
the fuck up. They finally sit back down and explained.
Speaker 3 (41:12):
She should be mad.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
Yeah, I mean, she she was mad, and.
Speaker 3 (41:15):
It's such a good scene though.
Speaker 2 (41:17):
It was so good. Julia calls her crazy and then
throws a drink on.
Speaker 3 (41:21):
Gertie, I know on kekey Well Keikey was sitting, you know.
Speaker 2 (41:27):
I mean, Gertie's reaction was perfect by her not reacting
the way Julia was hoping she would. I feel like
she won that fight. It just didn't seem warranted, like
it wasn't. Gerty didn't say anything to Julia that was
that like over the top, that deserved her to be
throwing a drink. I think that's things that she has
(41:47):
seen done on Housewives shows before, and she's like, I'm
gonna make my mark. I just feel like she's just
a try hard this season, way too hard, and that's
gonna get her fired.
Speaker 3 (41:58):
I know. Now she's pissed off Adriana, who they've always
stuck up. Adriana is like hanging in there, but she's like,
you know, you could have told me, and Adriana, being
a good sport, says, listen, it's not about me right now.
I don't like how she handled things, but it's about
her and her boys, and I want to still throw
(42:19):
a party for her. So right now Julia has the
time to, I think, redeem herself. But let's see how
the rest of the season goes. It's only we're third
episode in. Let's see what happens when Stephanie Sogi comes in.
Speaker 2 (42:33):
I can't wait for her to come in. I cannot wait.
Speaker 3 (42:37):
I feel like Julia's about to.
Speaker 2 (42:39):
Put on another public statement like she.
Speaker 3 (42:42):
Did last week or the week before. Well, what did
she do?
Speaker 2 (42:45):
She put out something about her behavior and how she
was stressed and all this crap.
Speaker 3 (42:51):
Oh, so she didn't like the way she looked When
she saw it, Gertie got the fan, the fan you
know support, Yeah, she did.
Speaker 2 (43:01):
I I was confused with Kekey telling Gertie that she
should leave.
Speaker 3 (43:05):
I'm like, if anybody should leave, Julia should leave.
Speaker 2 (43:07):
She's the one that threw a drink like I and
and Gerty is like leaving.
Speaker 3 (43:14):
Gertie was smart to see I'm not leaving.
Speaker 2 (43:17):
But you know who did? Keky leaves the party. Julia
tells Larsa she wants the event to be over. She
wants to take her mic out and cry what are
you going to cry about? You instigated this shit? You
instigated Julia. Now you want to sit there and play victim.
No way, nobody's buying this shit.
Speaker 3 (43:35):
No, because you know why it's she's not It's not
in her to act like this. So that took a
lot out of her. Now she wants to fall apall.
Speaker 2 (43:42):
Now all of a sudden, she's embarrassed, right, right, she
should be embarrassed.
Speaker 3 (43:46):
Right, played fool?
Speaker 2 (43:48):
Yeah, Now, Gertie has done nothing to warrant this type
of abuse from Julia. It has been happening since the
very first episode, the very first and it's like, I
feel like she's gonna keep coming for her and I'm like, okay.
Speaker 3 (44:02):
Like what the hell happened on this ship? It's been
like this ever since.
Speaker 2 (44:09):
I mean, it's almost starting to feel like they're that
some of the girls are trying to ice out Gerty
and Adriana.
Speaker 3 (44:15):
But why wait almost a year but wait, Gerty wasn't
invited to the Alexia. I don't think Alexia is so
like she didn't invite Gerty to the little they had
a dinner or whatever, a little lunch, I don't know, whatever,
Oh she didn't.
Speaker 2 (44:31):
Wait when what are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Like when they were talking, they were talking about Gerty.
She's too much Adriana. Gerty and Gerty were the only
two that weren't invited to this lunch Alexia's dinner.
Speaker 2 (44:47):
Oh so with Dutt it really that just proves what
I'm saying. I feel like they're trying to push them out.
Speaker 3 (44:53):
So I know they're trying to push Julia and and
Adriana out. But but Alexia wasn't at the dinner. I mean,
but Girty wasn't at the dinner, is what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (45:03):
Yeah, no, I think that they're trying to push Gerdy
and Adriana. Sorry did I say the wrong name?
Speaker 3 (45:10):
Yeah? Yeah, I think you did. Yeah, Okay, now I
see what you're saying. Out confused from it.
Speaker 2 (45:14):
Yeah, No, I think that they're trying to push them out.
And I'll tell you that happens on housewife shows. It does,
And sure they try to push people out and try
to ice them out. And I have a certain cast
member on our show that loves to use the word,
I'm going to ice her out.
Speaker 3 (45:28):
So okay, well, let me let me let everybody in
on a little something. You can't really do that. It
doesn't work like that. You look like a dick. Sometimes
it backfires on you. Oh, one hundred percent of backfire
on you, unless the whole cast is after one person,
like Monica Garcia, the whole cast said we're out. She
(45:51):
doesn't have a friend in us, we don't want her here,
get her out.
Speaker 2 (45:55):
I still think that was wrong. I think that Monica
deserved another chance.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
I do too, I absolutely do. I do.
Speaker 2 (46:05):
Yeah, But that's it for this episode.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
I mean, it was a great episode, so good. Now
you know what happens. Bring a different person into the dynamic,
Stephanie Sogi, and now we're going to see how it goes.
But I haven't heard you ready. I haven't heard one
person say one bad thing about Stephanie. I've spoke to
all the girls. They all embraced her, They all that
(46:32):
I know of, they've all said she was a great addition,
she did a great job. Even Alexia, who she goes for.
When she gets there, she tries to take down and
og as you say on the coming attractions, and they
still didn't say a bad word about her. So so
let's see. But if you did see the public statement
that doctor Nicole put out this morning, I didn't see
(46:55):
what she say. She's sticking up for Gerdy. She said,
we can we all use our words to argue, but
we still have to respect people and not get physical
with them. As far as throwing a drink, she went, well,
she said it.
Speaker 2 (47:09):
Yeah, Well, I thought like if doctor Nicole was still
on the show, you know that she would have Gertie's
back at this moment.
Speaker 3 (47:16):
Oh yeah, yeah, but that's a whole nother episode.
Speaker 2 (47:24):
Well, we're excited to see Stephanie next week. She comes
on the show and she's gonna shake things up, that's
for sure. Follow on Instagram. I've chatted with her a
little bit. She just seems like a really cold chick.
Speaker 3 (47:38):
Okay, cool.
Speaker 2 (47:40):
Excited for her, But thank you guys for tuning in
to another episode and we'll see you next week.
Speaker 3 (47:45):
See you next week.
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Teddi Mellencamp
Tamra Judge
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