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October 10, 2025 46 mins

There were A LOT of threats during Part 2 of the RHOM reunion. What did the cast do that got under both Teddi and Dolores’ skin? 

Plus, Dolores goes straight to the source and calls Adriana to get her side of the story. 

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy, Mellencamp and Cameradge Edge.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in
a Pod with myself, Teddy and Mellencamp.

Speaker 3 (00:17):
And Dolores Catania.

Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hi, Teddy, Hi, I need to talk to you. I
reread on Jeff lewis something that happened in your Rhode
Island home? Can you give us the details?

Speaker 3 (00:29):
What it wasn't Rhode Island, It was my New Jersey home.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Oh it was your New Jersey home.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, because I was filming in Rhode Island, so I
guess they were watching around to see that I hadn't
been home. And or or Paul posted a picture of
him and I on the dock at the house, and
that night we got broken into.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
So a year they had blow torches.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
So the thing is the new thing is that they
they come in with a blow to and they melt
your window on your door so that they can get
through without setting the alarm off. But our alarm is insane.
Our alarm is hooked up to the police station. The swat,
I mean, you name it. And when they got in,

(01:14):
they thought they were in, and all of a sudden,
the house started screaming at them like get out, get
out right. So we have them on camera and the
cops came. They ran out, missed them by twenty seven seconds,
and the cops were amazing. But the video footage we
have of the cops coming through with the guns drawn
and everything, like, yeah, it's it's crazy, and it gets unfactorable.

(01:39):
They didn't because the cops did get.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Here fast, so fast, and I don't have their star
like that.

Speaker 3 (01:46):
Uh huh.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Are you feeling scared at all or a little bit?

Speaker 3 (01:50):
Yeah? Yeah, to be honest with you, it's really it
was uncomfortable. But listen, what can you do. You can't
live in fear. You just have to make sure that
the next door they can't get in, even with a blowtorch.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
I'm it's just people. You guys need to have your
alarm system set up. You have to do it.

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Well. Here's the other thing. Do not post when you're
not home. I don't care if it's a wedding, wait
till the next day when you're home, if you're on vacation.
I know how hard it is. Do not post. It
is a big mistake.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
But like out here in California, it's crazy I mean,
I when they came in, tried to come into my
house this year, and.

Speaker 3 (02:33):
That's scary rule of thumbs. If they come in when
you're home, they're going to hurt you.

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Yeah. Thankfully they didn't get in. The alarm's got them
too quickly. But like still, it's.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
You know what else is a big deterret, a big
german shepherd or a big pit bull. Yeah, that'll do it.

Speaker 2 (02:57):
That'll do it. I'm so glad that you're okay. When
I read that, I was like, oh my gosh, my Dolores.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Oh thank you, Teddy. Yeah, it was it was just shitty.
You know, it's just shitty. You work really hard your
whole life and people just think they can come and
take whatever they want from you.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
And it's yeah, it's just and.

Speaker 3 (03:18):
It's scary and it's dangerous. So do not post when
you're not home.

Speaker 2 (03:25):
Yeah, that's a good that's a good Uh, that's a
good rule. Anything else going on?

Speaker 3 (03:34):
Oh no, just the Miami reunion.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
Oh yeah, just the Miami reunion. Just a little just
a little touch of drama there.

Speaker 3 (03:42):
Oh, Like I don't I'm I don't know what to do,
Like I I don't know, I didn't really like this
part too, did you.

Speaker 2 (03:50):
Well, I felt like it was a lot of I
just don't know where my head is after it, Like
I feel like I need to watch it again.

Speaker 3 (04:01):
You know. I watched it fresh waking up. Typically I
like to watch the things before we come on because
I like to be really like into it, but I
couldn't wait, and I watched it when I woke up.
I was laying in bed and I watched it, and uh, yeah,
I just there's a few things that annoy me, and

(04:22):
we'll talk about it, and I really don't know how
I feel about it, and it's just kind of really shitty.

Speaker 2 (04:29):
Yeah, I felt the whole thing was pretty shitty. So
it starts out where Julia says she and Adriana slept
together before Julia's friend engagement to Adriana.

Speaker 3 (04:38):
First of all, the friend engagement's really fucking corny, and
I always felt they were a little too handsy for
my taste.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
If I was married, yeah, I agree.

Speaker 3 (04:47):
If I was Martina, she would not be allowed to
be friends with Adriana back then, And that's how I
felt about it back then.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
Yeah, I remember feeling the same way, like, wow, this
is intense it was intense.

Speaker 3 (04:59):
They were too feely. I I thought it was unnecessary.
I don't even see Toddler's acting like that.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
Yeah, I mean well, Julia says she only brought it
up at the reunion because she was being mentally abused
by Adriana. She felt muzzled and blackmailed by age for
four years. For four years and kept with the same behaviors.

Speaker 3 (05:23):
That's a long time to feel that way. So so
I guess she felt that when she became friends with
Alexia and Marisol that this maybe was going to come out.
Because this is where I'm confused. I'm going to tell
you where I'm confused. When they do a flashback and

(05:45):
Adriana says, I'm going to break the fourth wall. Now,
breaking the fourth wall means talking about something in production, Yeah,
doesn't it.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
Yes, that's breaking the fourth wall, meaning like now they
break the fourth wall on these shows where it's kind
of like somebody will talk to the camera or they'll
threaten to quit, or they'll do whatever that's breaking the
fourth wall.

Speaker 3 (06:06):
Some things to show that you have never happened. And
I mean, I think the people that watch like to
see that.

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Yeah, either do like it.

Speaker 3 (06:17):
But they they don't do it often, and they do
it in extreme cases. However, what does that have to
do with her threatening her to say, I'm going to
talk about what happened between us or the Haitian mortician
or the cop. Yeah, I doesn't the coffee maker.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
Yeah, it felt like okay. So Andy asked if they
had sex in the Hamptons, Adriana says, I don't have
a dick. They slept and kissed. No scissoring. Well, one,
everybody knows that like sex between women doesn't mean necessarily
means scissoring.

Speaker 3 (07:01):
There's more than one way to have.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Sex using your fingers. There's I mean, there's so many
different ways. So when all the women were there's a
lot of different ways there and like making jokes of it, I'm.

Speaker 3 (07:14):
Going to tell you, Teddy, that got under my skin.
It was a very immature reaction that the most thing
that they were caring about was the intimate details of
the act. I was so turned off by that. To
pun intended that these women are not taking into consideration.

(07:37):
There's not only a marriage now in place, but there
are children in place.

Speaker 2 (07:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
Well there always was children in place, but now there's
a new new family and a lot to deal with,
and there's a lot going on in the house, and
you know, do you does anybody really want to know
the raw details? How is it any of their business
the raw details of what happened between the two of them?
And why are they pushing that so hard? Like fucking

(08:04):
pushing it?

Speaker 2 (08:05):
And I was like a bunch of kids sitting around there.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
That's what I mean. I'm not gonna lie. Would I
have liked to see it? Yeah, if I there was
a video, i'd fucking watch it. But I don't think
in that moment if you were friends on either side,
that you would want to know the intimate details. Lisa,
you took it too far, but you weren't the worst.

(08:28):
Alexia and Kiki out of control with wanting to know
out of control well.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
Adriana acting like she doesn't have a fingers or a
tongue was also strange to me. I'm pretty sure.

Speaker 3 (08:47):
I think I have a theory behind why she said that,
because she was she couldn't deny it, really, but she
wanted to downplay what it was, right. I think because
she never saw it coming. She got totally blindsided by
this big reveal and she wanted to absolutely make light

(09:12):
of it.

Speaker 2 (09:13):
So what do you think she was threatening? Remember of
the episode when they were at her where she's sang
and it was like the I think the holiday party
where there was the fake snow and stuff. Remember when
she got upset, She's like looking at Julia and she's like, well,
I'm gonna it seemed like she was threatening her. Do
you think she does? Do you think she was threatening

(09:33):
her about that?

Speaker 3 (09:35):
I think more I don't know, and I want to
hear from Well, that's certainly how Julia took it.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah, and.

Speaker 3 (09:47):
Do you agree? Let me ask you because I want
to know this because I don't know how I feel
about this either. I'm do you agree with her saying, well,
now I'm going to say everything you can fight in
me during our friendship, I'm gonna say it now because
you said this, Like, no, Mortician.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
I don't agree with that. I don't agree with that,
because Julia was saying what happened between the two of them, right,
and then Adriana went for it and then brought up
other information that she didn't need to share.

Speaker 3 (10:27):
Exactly, so, and you know when she was pissed. She
was pissed, of course, but that's like for me, that
crosses a line with me, and that's something that we
need to all take in consideration when we're on these
fucking shows. That people do not respect the friendship you
had once you guys get in a fight.

Speaker 2 (10:48):
Yeah, they just don't.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
And the other thing, Adriana, I understand that you were
really beside yourself with this, and I get it. I do.
I get it because you were very ashamed of it.
I feel like, but you hurt Martina by that. We
don't know that Martina didn't know about these other things
you're speaking of. Julia didn't deny it, give her that,

(11:12):
But it.

Speaker 2 (11:12):
Seems like Julia has told her everything. But I'm also
I'm not sure about everything. Well maybe not everything. But
Andy asked Julia if Martina knew that Julia was going
to bring it up, and Julia said, Martina cried when
she told her. But Julia feels guilt and that's why
she could not have Adriana as a godmother.

Speaker 3 (11:34):
Well no shit, Well yeah, but they were already by
the time these kids came around, they were already on
the outs. It's a very A godmother plays a very
big role if you pass away or something happens to
you as a godmother. You are supposed to now step
in as the mother. I mean, that's really the role,

(11:57):
and to follow with whatever religion. That's a that's a
really serious job. And I don't know that Adriana at
the time that they had these boys. And then you
know what, adrianad taken to the fact of the consideration
that you guys did do something behind Martina's back, and
it wasn't right.

Speaker 2 (12:13):
It wasn't right, it wasn't right. And also it didn't happen,
not that this matters, but apparently happened more than once. True.
And I don't know, I just the whole thing, the
way it was talked about, the way it started. Then

(12:34):
Adriana says Julia was cheating on Martina with a Haitian mortician.
She used to bring him to a motel and give
him a cop and she gave him a coffee machine
as a gift. She brings up another lover who is
a cop. Adriana says, Julia is making her the bad
guy because she said Julia is a serial cheater.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
Well, it sounds not good. It does sound like she
I mean, it sounds like what's going on here?

Speaker 2 (13:02):
Well, it sounds like, you know, maybe she might need
a martician because it feels like Martina may kill her
after she watches.

Speaker 3 (13:09):
Julia keep your dick in your pants. Girl, Like, I
don't know what to tell you. But the thing is,
I just like, I'm like, oh, Julia, okay, to each
his own. I'm not judging her for whatever. I feel bad.
She could fight it in Adriana like that. But Adriana,

(13:30):
if you love Martina, the word love should not be
thrown around the way it is in this world. You
love Martina, you want it to be the godmother of
your children. But yet you're bringing up something right now,
even though you're hurt. You're hurting one person right now,
Martina by bringing this up. Why if you love this woman,

(13:52):
why do you not care? See? I don't like that.
In this business either, a lot of people will hurt
the spouse to get back at the person they're fighting with.
I don't like that. There's enough to say about Julia.

Speaker 2 (14:05):
There's plenty to say about Julia, and that conversation could
have been really about them and getting through like how
it started, how it continued, on, what made it stop.
All of those things like those are the bigger picture
of conversations, not how the sexual act actually took place.

Speaker 3 (14:24):
Exactly, Teddy, exactly, that's what the questions the girls should
have been asking.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
But they weren't. They had they weren't. I mean. Julia
then tells it a lot happened backstage this episode two.
Did you realize that I felt.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Boskia was just informed that he's going to have to
get a new godmother because Julia's fired. Did anyone ask
Boscia how he felt about this? The fucking shit that
dog has to hear all day? Can you imagine Boscia
needs a therapist.

Speaker 2 (14:58):
By now he has got I have a whole new thing.

Speaker 3 (15:02):
It's just a lot like I want. Maybe the dog
could come to Aunt Doelores.

Speaker 2 (15:08):
For a while, you know what, you'll things come to dogs.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Till things calm down. Poor Boscia crying. Boscua was crying.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Well.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
He also was so confused why he had to be
at the reunion. He's like, I'm not getting paid to
be here.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Oh my god, this just fucked. Oh this is wait,
I'm this is this is Google.

Speaker 2 (15:35):
Lands, It's beyond So. Julia tells Andy backstage that she
also had a one night stand with the Adriana at
Alexis's bachelorette at the Versace mansion. Adriana thinks Julia is
rehearsing her answers in her dressing room, and so she
goes into Julia's room and says she has kept Julia's
secrets to the grave. Julia says, Adriana said to her,

(15:56):
if you are going to defend marisolar Kiki, I will
take you done with me.

Speaker 3 (16:02):
Those are fighting words.

Speaker 2 (16:04):
Yeah, but I was a little bit if you were
going to defend Marisol or Kiki, I will take you
down with me. Is she meaning because of their past fights,
because of the birthday cake and because of the argument
over the knees? What is she talking defending in way that.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
There's a lot of threats here? Yeah, I mean for
the record, we you know, off the record or on
the record. Definitely, these are questions I'd like to ask
Adriana and they should be now. Yeah, we need I
mean I could call her right now maybe, but she
called me upset last week. She texted me, I've never

(16:46):
spoke to her before.

Speaker 2 (16:47):
Try to call her right now and see if we
can just get a question from her real quick.

Speaker 3 (17:04):
So Teddy, GoAhead, you're you can ask her.

Speaker 2 (17:06):
Okay, So something I was curious about when you guys
were at the party for the holiday party and you
were doing your threat you did a couple threats. What
did those threats have to do with Did they have
to do with what's coming this episode?

Speaker 1 (17:23):
Not at all, not in.

Speaker 3 (17:24):
A million years.

Speaker 1 (17:25):
That was about because okay, this is the backstory Julia,
you know, was sabotage under mine me when it comes
to my music. And I had asked her, I said, listen,
you were affecting my storyline, which is my way to
you know, make my living. I'm a single woman that

(17:46):
provide one percent for myself. I said, I gave you
an opportunity. You're doing well. You have other storylines.

Speaker 3 (17:52):
You have Martina, you have the boys.

Speaker 1 (17:54):
Now you have other things to talk about. Can you
just please leave the music for me because that's my
thing and in the show, we all have lanes like
we should. You know you do this. You're the animal
lover and married to a tennis champion and he now
adopted two boys. They have plenty of things to talk about.
Can you just leave the music to me? Because I
was the one that got her started with the upper thing. Anyway,

(18:16):
It wasn't her idea. It was my idea when she
left Martina fighting two cancers alone in New York and
went to Paris to get a facelift, because in Julia's life,
everything has to be fun and when things aren't fun anymore,
to jump ship. So you know, when I called her,
she's laying in bed. And when Martina said, oh, she

(18:36):
could be in an explain if needed bullshit. She was
in for a month of recovering for a full face lift.
She wasn't going anywhere. I called her and I said,
what are we going to do to celebrate Martina's victory
over cancer, because that's a big deal. And I gave
her the idea of doing this concert and then gave
my house, put my piano in the sun, practiced with her.

(18:57):
So it was all on me. It was me doing
all that. It wasn't her. She came here, just showed up,
all blammed up, like a deal. I was to half
my hair done, half my hair undone running around. I
paid for everything, everything, the party planner, the food, everything.
So she had her highest moment because of me. Why

(19:23):
she just letting down her wife. Okay, so for her
to then Why would I be blackmailing her if I'm
giving her these opportunities And it doesn't even make sense.
But what I was going to say, I was going
to say those things that I'm telling you now I'm
saying it was my idea. The whole upper thing was
me because I have that background in classical music. I've

(19:45):
been doing classical piano since some eight years old. You know,
there was me giving you something on a stiper platter
with the intention to celebrate Martina's winning over cancer, and
she needed all of all herself.

Speaker 2 (19:58):
So I had nothing to do with you guys having
a physical You know.

Speaker 1 (20:05):
I would never do that because first of all, it
wasn't the way that she's putting there. You know, it wasn't.
It wasn't like there was no scissoring by the way.

Speaker 3 (20:15):
Oh you know why, we're very angry that the girls
insisted on knowing details about intimate details about this situation.
That's not the questions we're here for, Adriana, and that
is something if you want to keep to yourself, you
absolutely should for more than one reason.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
I appreciate your your you know you're you're saying that,
But the truth is what she did was seduce me, okay,
like she tried to seduce me, like she tried to
seduce the entire.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
Cast at different moments. So how did she try to
seduce you?

Speaker 1 (20:53):
Well by being you know, both of us drunk, and
for feeding me vodka shots and in the middle of
you know, coming with her little hands towards me. You know.
So I'm drunk and I kind of like let her
do it. But I never touched her. I don't know
how her private looks like. I don't want to know.
You know. It's like if I were a lesbian, I

(21:14):
would probably you know, fly my flag and say yes,
I'm a lesbian and support all the other lesbians. I've
been an ally for, you know, the gay community for
so many years. So I don't feel ashamed.

Speaker 3 (21:26):
Okay, Well I thought maybe that there was a part
of you not ashamed in a bad way, but just
I don't be talking about you.

Speaker 2 (21:35):
Don't want it out there.

Speaker 3 (21:36):
Yeah, it's not about ashamed of being a lesbian. No, No,
that's something to be proud of if that's what you are.
But I feel like an intimate moment between you and her,
So when you said you were going to break the
fourth wall, you meant by saying you were the one
that planned her whole singing thing.

Speaker 1 (21:55):
Yeah, it was all my idea, you know what she
wanted to do. I was gonna break to say that
she wanted to do. When I called her again, She's
laying in Paris recovering her full plastic surgery and Martinez,
you know, fighting the battle alone in New York City.
I told her, I said, Julia. First, I told her
not to do the plastic surgery and stay and support Martina.

(22:16):
She got really angry. I mean like you've seen her
very angry. Now that's the real Julia. And she said,
I have the right to do what I need to do.
This was scheduled already. I was like, yeah, but this
is a schedule before Martina got diagnosed with cancer. And
She's like, oh, she's laying down anyway. And then what
difference does it make if I'm around, She's gonna be
laying down, so I'll be laying down too, ha hahaha.

(22:36):
Let's see whose face is gonna look worse?

Speaker 2 (22:39):
What gosh? So, and then how is your relationship? So
how long ago did did Julia tell Martina all this?

Speaker 1 (22:54):
I don't know. I don't know. I don't know, but
you know it's not the first time that Julia cheates
on Martina.

Speaker 3 (23:01):
Well we know that now.

Speaker 1 (23:04):
Yeah, you know, Martina left Julia back when they were
in Paris, you know, and didn't you didn't see her
for four months. Julia have to gravel and back for
her Martina to take her back because Martina colored cheating,
you know.

Speaker 3 (23:17):
Yeah, so there's the so so yeah, so this is
something listen, I wish, especially when there's kids involved. I
wish for everybody's relationship to be well and peaceful and
have a family together, and I just I don't want
to see anything like that happen. But I do just

(23:39):
want to know, like when did you you guys, okay,
you had that relationship. I'm not asking for the details
your sexual details, but when did the When did it stop?
Because is that something that just stops or is that
something that.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
Goes in a conversation that said like we're going to
stop this, this isn't right, or what happened ongoing?

Speaker 1 (24:00):
There was never an ongoing affair or ongoing physical No,
there was none of that. It happened that one night,
you know, in the Hamptons, and then later another time,
like we were at the Rasachi mentioned, and they kept
prying us to sleep together because we're besties. Right. Yeah,
she made another advance at me, and then she made
a third advance at me when we were in Spain.

(24:23):
Now this last gas strip.

Speaker 3 (24:25):
So you've never initiated this. It was always her.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
No, She always you know, was putting on her seduction,
you know hat and coming around. Because when I look
back now, looking at all this, I feel like she
always used this, you know, seduction as a way to
get things from people that she wants to get things from.

(24:51):
And obviously she was engaged nine times. You know, she's
like a professional seductress in that sense. How can you
get engaged nine times, you know, if you're not, you know,
an expert in seduction. And so I was just like
somebody she wanted to seduce. To make sure, you know,
I brought her into the show, make sure that I

(25:12):
taught her all the ropes I kept giving, I kept
I kept coaching, I kept supporting her, you know, kept
protecting her.

Speaker 3 (25:19):
I feel like you were also vulnerable at times to Adriana.
You were single, you were worried about your future, you
were lonely. There's a lot of factors involved. I've been
watching this show for a while now, and there's a
lot of times that I, you know, how you felt
resonated with me at times when I was single and

(25:39):
scared about how I would be handling my future and
I was a single mother supporting my children, you know
what I mean? So, yeah, I do. I did always
feel bad for you for that. But how do you
feel now? How do you feel about how people are
gonna what people will think after they watch this.

Speaker 1 (26:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (26:01):
I listen.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
I'm trying to stay strong, you know, and just take
this for what you know. It's on her, not on me,
because if you're that desperate to stay on the show,
that desperate that you're gonna throw me under the bus.

Speaker 3 (26:17):
But more than me, you know.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
Your own family, your own family stability. Like, what is
the point of this, yeah, blackmailing her? Why does now?

Speaker 3 (26:29):
And well that's I think the biggest question.

Speaker 2 (26:31):
Why why now?

Speaker 1 (26:33):
There's a deflection from the aggression, aggression to ta Gerty
and the fact that I did, not you know, sided
with her because I cannot, with my moral compass, side
with somebody who just finished her last cancer surgery three
months before I start shooting. She comes in trying to

(26:54):
get her life back together, and I lost a brother
to cancer. I was next to your bad you know,
for the.

Speaker 3 (27:01):
Last month and a half.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
I saw sorry, thank you, but you know, like the
hope that is in your eyes and in late day
by day you start to lose the hope and to
have someone come and with all the strength that it takes.
And that's why I'm so happy for you, Teddy, because.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Oh thank you for you to beat this and.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
For the group to go out hurt and to do that.

Speaker 1 (27:27):
And I couldn't.

Speaker 3 (27:28):
I couldn't.

Speaker 1 (27:29):
I could not morally be blindly supporting Julia because that,
to me is the lowest of the low.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
You just don't do that.

Speaker 2 (27:37):
Yeah, and that was kind of down played. We didn't
really get to see everybody. Yeah, we didn't get to
see a lot of people supporting Gerdy in this moment.

Speaker 3 (27:46):
No, No, we didn't. We didn't. And Gertie's viscerally hurt.

Speaker 1 (27:52):
You have to be stacked the people that come out
of this alive and vibrant. It takes most people don't
make it, and it takes so much fortitude, motion and mental, emotional,
physical to come on the other side. And for you
to trivialize that, and then I attrack someone, Come on,

(28:14):
where's where's your empathy? You know, like where where's your humanity?
You know?

Speaker 3 (28:20):
I just couldn't.

Speaker 1 (28:21):
And then then I'm being punished because I didn't walk
away on the mean girl konga line out of that
event that night.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Yeah, well Lisa didn't either. Stephanie didn't, Lisa didn't.

Speaker 1 (28:34):
Nobody, you know, people are used to have me be
the escape goat and the punching bags, so everything lays
on me. And I was like, I'm the easy target
because I'm alone. I don't have a man, I don't
have somebody, I don't have a support. So they feel,
let's pick on Adriana because she's the easy one to
pick on. Nobody is there to defend her, and she's
in no reactive and also because I gotta be, I

(28:56):
gotta stand my own ground, so then it's easy, you know,
like easy for damn to just miss me or attack
me or you know, belittle me or like demean me whatever,
you know, Like the whole thing the Marizona Alexa do
all the time, the campaign, the propaganda, you.

Speaker 2 (29:13):
Know, and what is it that you think they're doing
the whole time. You think that everybody is doing their
own version of producing the show.

Speaker 1 (29:22):
And the entire time skimmi and plauding the entire time.

Speaker 3 (29:27):
Well, you know, it's when two people are so close
and they really stand together, when they fight with someone
and it's only one person on the other.

Speaker 2 (29:36):
Side, that's yeah, it's hard.

Speaker 3 (29:38):
It's hard. It's hard. This this business is not easy, Teddy,
as you know.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
Yeah, no, this seems like an extremely difficult situation. Have
you spoken to any of the women since the reunion?

Speaker 1 (29:53):
Yeah, I mean I speak with God, Eliza, Stephanie.

Speaker 3 (29:57):
You know that's good.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
I meant it seemed to have your back.

Speaker 3 (30:03):
Stephanie seemed to really have your back. Yeah, and you
know they that's the thing. Like Stephanie stood behind even
at Gerty to say the night of the event, to say,
I'm going to find out for myself how I feel
about this. I just got here. Nobody's going to tell

(30:23):
me not to walk back in there.

Speaker 2 (30:24):
And then I have to ask just another question, because
you know, there was a lot this season and I
could feel like your energy, you didn't seem fully like yourself,
like you seemed a.

Speaker 3 (30:35):
Little you were kind of out of it even on
the cruise, Yeah, like you were just going.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
Yeah, well, on the cruise, which was gotten back from pain,
it was intense, you know how you filming you know
a castruct ships are it's intense and with the jet
lag at the time difference and you get there filming
right away and go to sleep and all that stuff.
And I was tired. And then I just realized on

(31:05):
that trip, how you know how much Julia was just
under the spell of you know, being friends with Marsal
and you know, I just wanted so badly to get
a table and I'll sit on the mean girl's table,
and that she's so you know, elated by.

Speaker 4 (31:20):
By having now you know, oh.

Speaker 1 (31:22):
They're my friends and they like me, you know, like
ridiculous twelve year old mentality.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
So you think she was kind of dangling that over
you to try to hurt your feelings.

Speaker 3 (31:33):
That was the sentiment for me.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Yeah, yeah, And I so I was physically tired, I
was emotionally hurt. And my birthday that I did not
want to celebrate. And I told her and many other people,
I do want to not not celebrate my birthday.

Speaker 3 (31:52):
And they need a point of it, you know, Well,
it's filming. I mean, I don't know that the girl.
That's the girl's decision. You know, production does push those things,
so we have to always remember not to break the
fourth wall. But if they know that, if there's something
that you don't like or you have a habit of
being late, they're going to tell you to come late.
Like there are certain things, right, Teddy.

Speaker 2 (32:14):
Yeah, there's for sure certain things like that. It's it's
gonna come around and it's going to bite everybody in
the ass one way or the other. But we were
just checking on you, We didn't, you know, we Yes,
I think at some points you can definitely go low,
too low, And I think sometimes that comes out of hurt.

(32:35):
And I was just trying to get like a little
better feel on what was actually happening.

Speaker 3 (32:43):
Yeah, where you stood, where you felt maybe that you
wanted to be hurt as well.

Speaker 1 (32:48):
And yes, I do cut deep sometimes, you know, when
I'm so triggered and you know, so tired of this
narrative that sometimes I exploded, I go lown later. Im sorry.

Speaker 3 (33:03):
Do you have any regrets from this season or this reunion?

Speaker 2 (33:09):
No?

Speaker 4 (33:10):
I mean out of them by Girdy, Regardless of popular opinion,
I refuse to be a mean girl like that when
it's true, you know, life where you've got to give
credit to people like I said.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
That to me is important because I lost my brother
to brain tumor. And I'm not gonna sit there and
pile on somebody.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
No, I refuse to.

Speaker 1 (33:31):
So I have no regrets, you know.

Speaker 3 (33:34):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (33:35):
This is who I am and what I believe in.

Speaker 3 (33:37):
Okay, Okay, could I have.

Speaker 1 (33:38):
A better delivery sometimes perhaps, but I try to stay
true to myself, you know, and what's important to me,
my core values.

Speaker 2 (33:46):
Okay, Well, we definitely want to have you on and
talk to you in person and do this the right way,
but we just wanted to have a couple of minutes
just to so you could share your thoughts and thank
you so much for joining us.

Speaker 3 (33:58):
Yes, thanks, thank you, Adrian, really really happy for you.

Speaker 2 (34:02):
Teddy, thank you so much. And I'm so so sorry
about your brother. I'll be thinking about you.

Speaker 3 (34:09):
Thank you, and I'll send you all love and strength. Okay, Okay,
thank you, We'll see you soon. You're welcome, Madrean, no problem,
take care of bye.

Speaker 2 (34:32):
I'm god smacked by this entire conversation. It's raw, so
but it's wrong. But also she doesn't. Here's the problem
with Adriana, Like, yes, there are parts of what she's
saying that I have one, you know, believe and think
that she's telling the truth. But she can also go

(34:53):
so low, like remember the things that she said to Marisol.

Speaker 3 (34:58):
You know, everybody's talking talking about their delivery these days,
my delivery. We're grown women, we're grown women. There needs
to be some self control on how we approach things. Now,
I'm a person who has lost my self control. I'm
not being a hypocrite, but I don't do it as

(35:19):
a rule, Like it happens sometimes when I'm pushed too far.
But for the most part, I really do try to.
I try to be aware of how I'm being and
try to fix it or try to better it. Yeah,
it's not like every time I get in a fight,
I go low and that's the truth.

Speaker 2 (35:40):
It's just the truth.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:42):
But then Adriana says that she first met Julia as
she told her how much she looks like snow white
and how good her boobs are. Julia invited Adriana to
the bathroom to see her boobs. Then Julia showed her
her butt. Adriana says Julia developed a crush right away.
She says Julia petted her in the Hamptons and that
Julia tried to sleep with her in Spain. I mean,

(36:07):
first we have Erica Jane pat in the Puss, and
now we've got Julia pet in the Puss.

Speaker 3 (36:12):
I guess it's a trend. Should I pat my puss?
Am I missing out on something?

Speaker 2 (36:20):
But then what about how Adrianna has a gift that
she brings over.

Speaker 3 (36:27):
I think she needs to retire the gifts, the antics,
you know what I noticed? Stephanie has a lot of analogies.
She uses the analogy as a super Bowl player who
wants to wear a ring when he and show off
his ring when he wins the super Bowl. The analogy
of these show and tall see analogies don't go over

(36:48):
well in New Jersey. She was doing okay with.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
Them, Yeah, she was doing I thought she was doing
well with the analogies. Yeah, yeah, I liked analogies to
explain this episode. Me too, I did you know ding
to ding let the fireworks go? I liked her this episode,
but then kind of getting through that after Adriana gives

(37:11):
her heart and this feels like something a lover would do.

Speaker 3 (37:18):
She's like, this is the deepest dagger of my heart
when I wasn't a godmother again. I think it's very
you know, it's almost it's performative. It's exaggerated. The way
she explains things in a very like kind of like
over the top way. Not to say she doesn't feel

(37:39):
like that, but coming from someone who doesn't talk about
their feelings at all, that's a lot for me. Like here,
I'm going to give you a heart in a box,
in a box that it looks like my dog's ashes
are in. You know, you can't like it's just a
lot for me.

Speaker 2 (37:55):
It's a lot, you can't.

Speaker 3 (37:57):
That's the way she is. It's just the way she is.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
And then Maricel's like, get that away from my.

Speaker 3 (38:03):
Feet, Marisol, because she thinks it's it's got a curse
on it or something.

Speaker 2 (38:10):
Yeah. Probably thank you.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
When they gave the crystals and Maristol and Alexia threw
them out the door.

Speaker 2 (38:17):
Yeah, they were like no thanks.

Speaker 3 (38:19):
Yeah, We're like no, we're Cuban, we know what shit
happens like this. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (38:27):
Then Kiki opens up about her dad and how she
has realized that the men she is dating show a
pattern similar to her.

Speaker 3 (38:36):
Dad and who doesn't.

Speaker 2 (38:39):
Yeah, And then Kiki has now been celibate since March
twenty twenty.

Speaker 3 (38:43):
Four, except for her vibrator and porn. I don't know
if that counts. I don't know if it counts.

Speaker 2 (38:51):
I don't know if it counts.

Speaker 3 (38:52):
Does it count if you still have an orgasm, even
if it's your own, you do it to yourself because
in the drag. Don't think I god by me when
she goes Yeah, I know what girls do. I watch porn.
I see it in porn. Then why do you keep
asking Kiki because you want to know because you're a
horn bowl too.

Speaker 2 (39:10):
Yeah, you want to know all the details.

Speaker 3 (39:12):
I think she's so pretty.

Speaker 2 (39:13):
I like her, so do I. Then Andy brings up
Stephanie's first reaction with Alexia. Her intention was to say
that Alexia is fabulous and Todd sucks and she regrets
it since Alexia gets sensitive. I thought her apology was
good here it was.

Speaker 3 (39:32):
I think it was more of an explanation than an apology,
and it was accountability and I'll take that rather than
a fake apology. Yeah, he explained the intention of the
way she spoke, and for me at this age and
stage in my life. For me, it's all about intention. Yeah, Like,

(39:53):
you could say something that's offensive, but I think I'm
smart enough. I'm wise enough now to know whether or
not you mean it in a bad way. So I'm
not going to hold every single thing somebody says to
me in a bad way. There's a lot of things
I could have taken offensively that people have said about
my relationship or my things, and I'm like, that person

(40:14):
really cares about me, that's saying it, and I don't
think they mean anything by it, So I'm not going
to get offended.

Speaker 2 (40:19):
Yeah, I think. I think that's actually what happened.

Speaker 3 (40:22):
But she didn't even know Alexia good enough to speak
to her like that.

Speaker 2 (40:25):
That is true.

Speaker 3 (40:26):
That is, if you're somebody's friend, you could speak to them.
Alexi didn't know that girl from nothing. She talk to
me about my shit. You don't know me.

Speaker 2 (40:36):
That was the pre lunch.

Speaker 3 (40:39):
Oh, the pre lunch.

Speaker 2 (40:40):
The pre lunch where she got all the information.

Speaker 3 (40:44):
It's always I don't think pre lunches don't happen. I
don't do them, Okay, I don't call the new girl
and say let's have lunch. I'm not a luncher. I'll
get to know you when I get to know you.

Speaker 2 (40:57):
Yeah. Then, Adriana felt Alexia was threatened by Stephanie because
she's younger. Gertie agrees that Alexia was intimidated by Stephanie.
I don't think Alexia expected Stephanie to come in with
such strong opinions and it cut off guard. I don't
think she's threatened.

Speaker 3 (41:14):
No, Alexia has a very high opinion of herself. I
don't think even on her worst of days, which they
are right now, that she would be intimidated. However, I
did shock me because I would have went much harder
after Stephanie and every single person on my cast if

(41:35):
she spoke to us the way she spoke to these
girls would have definitely take a different stance on it.
They're definitely in the in the in the feeding part
of the zoo.

Speaker 2 (41:45):
Yeah, they're definitely like they're human.

Speaker 3 (41:48):
They were human about this, like Stephanie could have gotten
like eviscerted. I don't care who you are. I don't care,
so Joe spa whatever it is, so so whatever. I
don't care. You're a ball. I don't care if you
would have come out come at people in my cast
the way you came after these girls, it would have

(42:10):
been a very different outcome. I'm not being a tough girl.
I'm not. It just would have been handled differently. And
it kind of surprised me that, you know, Alexia didn't
get crazy. And I'm glad and I'm not saying I
wanted to see that. I'm glad it was handled the
way it was.

Speaker 2 (42:28):
I am too. But then Andy asked Lisa what she
meant when she told Larsa, the world knows who you are,
Lisa says, even chat geptos. Then Stephanie reads the chat
GPT of Larsa's polarizing image, obsessed while others see her
public personality who refuses to be boxed into a single narrative.
Beyond that her relationships are roller coaster. Larsa loves this.

(42:53):
She's fine with this.

Speaker 3 (42:55):
She she was like totally fine with it. She agreed
with CHATDPT it is a roller coaster.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
Yeah, they're not wrong.

Speaker 3 (43:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (43:03):
Then Larsa tells Lisa that she expected for Lisa to
answer the phone during her breakup with Marcus, and then
Andy brings up Larsa flagging why Lisa was traveling while
her dad was sick. I can't believe we've gotten to
the point of using chat DoPT and a reunion.

Speaker 3 (43:21):
You know, do you use it? I don't.

Speaker 2 (43:23):
I don't use it.

Speaker 3 (43:24):
I'm trying not to.

Speaker 2 (43:26):
I mean, I feel like I have to use my
brain for it's least a little bit that I do.

Speaker 3 (43:32):
Right, and I don't want to. I don't want to
get attached to it. I may succumb to it eventually.
Like I used to come to filters, I was the
last one to go for them because I don't like
looking at myself without the filter because then I fuck
it all bucked up. So I knew that would happen.
So I really don't want to look at chat GPT

(43:54):
because I'm going to wind up going to it for everything,
and just like Instagram, just nonsense, so bullshit.

Speaker 2 (44:02):
But what I did get from the Lisa and the
Larsa of it all is that what Larsa was really
upset about wasn't necessarily that she's continued to follow Marcus.
It's that she couldn't get her to be her friend
during that time she needed her as a friend and couldn't.

Speaker 3 (44:17):
Really She's like, Lisa, all you needed to do was
pick up the phone. Yeah, like I was in the
feetle my family had to move in, kids were upset.
I just needed you to pick up the phone. And
if that's the case, then I understand where she's coming from.
And you know what, if it meant something. I'm not
big on the follow and follow people's shit, but when

(44:40):
it comes to a boyfriend and girlfriend. If my girlfriend
called me and said, unfollow the guy, I didn't follow
the guy.

Speaker 2 (44:46):
Yeah, I didn't follow the guy too.

Speaker 3 (44:50):
Truth.

Speaker 2 (44:51):
Well what an episode, guys, We've got one more, one more?

Speaker 3 (45:00):
My my, Uh, the stress of it, like it's tighten.

Speaker 2 (45:04):
I know I'm tight.

Speaker 3 (45:06):
I need like a massage. The fun.

Speaker 2 (45:10):
But we learned a lot and we're going to learn
a lot more, I think on episode three.

Speaker 3 (45:17):
But Teddy, don't you think this? I mean, you know,
I know I haven't filmed in along like I've filmed,
but not to this extent. Like with the cast and
the intenses. It's very intense. It's very emotionally heavy and draining.
This girl she's in bits.

Speaker 2 (45:36):
Yeah, Adriana does not sound good. She doesn't she doesn't
sound good. No, nope, does not sound good at all.
Oh my gosh. Well thanks you guys, for tuning in
to another episode of Teas in a Pod.

Speaker 3 (45:51):
We did it.

Speaker 2 (45:52):
Thanks guys, thank you.
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