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Speaker 1 (00:02):
To teas in a pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera Jedge.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
Hi, guys, welcome back to another episode of The Twat Seat,
and today co hosting with me is Delores Hi.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Dolores Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
So you know that was a very that was twat
when I was growing up in the seventies.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Was the word yes?
Speaker 5 (00:30):
I know? Do you remember that Tampra? Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
But our twat is with oh so it's it's you know,
it actually spells out to tease.
Speaker 5 (00:39):
So that's a brilliant and genius.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
Well it was a total accident, but it worked out.
But today we have one of our favorites.
Speaker 5 (00:49):
Oh I all season did we not like? She's? Love
on her?
Speaker 1 (00:55):
How could you not love on the I feel like
she's the lady of Bravo.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Yes, the Miss Cynthia Bailey.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
But not only has she you know, been in the
housewife world forever, she's also an actress and entrepreneur. She
recently started a Lifetime show Lots of Lifetime Shows, Cruel Instructions,
and is set to appear in the upcoming project Jingle
Hells Different with Me and Bid for Love Too.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
I mean, this girl is booked and busy.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
She don't stop. She does. She also has had her
own sheet line correct.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Yes, I mean she has the whole thing alcohol line
sheet line like it just goes on and on John's
Celebrity Big Brother like she just she I'd.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
Love to see her on more and and she has
her podcast with Crystal.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Oh yep, absolutely, she has her pod and we will
hopefully be seeing.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Her on Traders.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
I mean she do well.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
We'll have to ask her about that. But let's go ahead,
and I know I'll do it again.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Me too. Can we do it again together?
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Put me in camera on We should just do a
housewife Traders. That's it, all housewives.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
That would be some round table that would be Oh
my god, let's bring her in.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
Cynthia Bellly, Hi ladies, Hi beautiful Cynthia.
Speaker 5 (02:20):
Do you realize how much we've loved you all season?
Speaker 6 (02:24):
Do you know that we just oh, I just say
you trust me. I appreciate both of you guys, Like honestly,
you guys know the deal. It's like you know, you
film it, you watch it back and then you wait
for everyone's two cents.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Oh, it's so much fun. I'm having so much fun here, Cynthia.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
Cynthia, are you happy filmings over and it's aired, or
did you enjoy the process or was it stressful?
Speaker 6 (02:51):
You know what, I am happy that it's over. I
think whatever capacity you are filming a reality show is
it's always nice when it ends and then you know,
you wait for.
Speaker 4 (03:02):
It to start again.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
So for me, yes, I am happy that it's over.
But I really enjoyed my time on the show as
an official friend.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
The season.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
It's kind of like pregnancy, right, It's like you're pregnant,
You're excited, then you're uncomfortable, then you're like just stop this.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
Yeah, then you deliver it. It's horrible, like the reunion.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
And the US comparing it to giving birtht.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
You know a lot. It's a lot, but it's a
beautiful thing.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Yeah, and then two and then two months go by
and you're like, let's do this again.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Exactly, I've never said let's do this again.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I will say this. I will say this.
Speaker 6 (03:43):
You know, Navi, getting a friend row in a lot
of ways was just as hard as being a housewife.
And you know how you I already got the housewife
T shirt. But I was like, Okay, this is gonna
be easier, this is gonna be lighter.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
For me.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
But I have to say I was pulled in a
lot season and caught a couple of strays, like the
whole thing.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
But the one thing I stared strong on.
Speaker 6 (04:05):
Was as a friend of the show is the fact
that I never picked a side. I tried to give
all those ladies love. I tried to give them all
grace because.
Speaker 5 (04:14):
It had a great chunk.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Thank you everything that they're going through. I've done it,
did it, got the T shirt already.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
That's the thing.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
But Cynthia isn't it as a friend of And we
spoke about this because I had to make a decision
on that too.
Speaker 5 (04:28):
First of all, it's.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
So funny that you loved being a friend of because
people get pissed off, Like when people come back as
a friend of they're like, oh, it's a downgrade or
it's a demotion.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
But you were like, shit, I get to do everything.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
I get to go on the cast trips, I get
to go do all this stuff, and I don't have
to bring on my man if I don't want to.
Speaker 4 (04:51):
Yeah, well, the game has changed. Listen.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
I have been at the friend contract literally, so listen,
the game has changed. What I loved about having my
opportunity to come back as a friend, I was able to.
Speaker 4 (05:04):
Really, you know, my focus is still my acting career.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
Which that's That's what I was gonna say.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
It's probably a perfect role for you because when I
did the intro, like you got a lot going on,
Jama Hell is the different for me?
Speaker 3 (05:15):
The bid for love too, like you.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Are who and I just recently played which I'm so
excited for you guys to see a heroin.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Addict what Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:24):
I saw pictures like everyone.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Was literally calling me like, oh my god, who do
we need to fight? What happened? Who beat you up?
Speaker 3 (05:31):
That's what I thought. I'm like, what the hell happened
to Cynthia? I know, listen, everyone like Housewives turned her
to crack.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I'm telling you everyone was blowing up.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
Understood.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
That's still my priority and coming back as a friend,
I get to still do all the other things that
I have going on.
Speaker 5 (05:50):
Oh Cynthia.
Speaker 6 (05:51):
And I always say this you guys, and you guys
are Housewives too forever.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
I won't ever say.
Speaker 6 (05:58):
I wouldn't do it, but I really, at this point
in my life would consider going back when I want
to do it.
Speaker 4 (06:04):
And I still love the space that I'm in right now.
Speaker 5 (06:07):
On your terms. She's going to go back on her terms.
Speaker 4 (06:10):
This girl, that's what it is.
Speaker 6 (06:12):
And I think, you know, I'm just older, I'm in
a different time in my lin woman, and I really
get to pick and choose how I want to work.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
And that's a blessing. That's a blessing that I have options.
Speaker 2 (06:25):
And Andy said at the reunion, you were the best friend.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Atlanta has ever had, which was.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
That was a very high compliment and well deserved. Now, Cynthia,
we have a little question.
Speaker 6 (06:40):
Oh okay, Well, first of all, let me thank Andy
for saying that, because I'm sure that he that he
saw it that way, like I didn't really Again, I
just set out to be fair.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
We all did to be kind, Cynthia.
Speaker 2 (06:53):
At one point he looked to you as like, help,
how do how do you fix this? Cynthia, I'm fixed
the ball, Like Andy, isn't that your job to ask
those questions?
Speaker 4 (07:03):
But right now he does.
Speaker 6 (07:05):
That's mad respect, And you guys can see all the
You know, there was a lot of editing, but I
definitely felt like what what was great, you guys, is
that although I am in a friend space, those ladies
still showed.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Me so much respect they did. They get mad when
I even say I'm a friend of the show. They're like, no, Cynthia.
Speaker 6 (07:24):
You know you're just really nice and it's you're Cynthia.
So I love being seen and just being given that respect.
That that meant the world to me, to be honest, well,
that respect was earned.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
Thank you, Thank you, Dolores.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Of the newbies, who would you think you were the
closest with, because I think all the girls did a
great job all of that.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Of the newbies, I talked to all of the ladies,
the newbies on and off camera. I had my own
little relationship with them because I was kind of the
safe space to call off camera if someone was freaking
out to just say, hey, how do I navigate this?
You know, what's your opinion? Because they know that I've
(08:17):
been through through it all. So I will say that
I was very instrumental and making sure that Angela Oakley
stayed in place. Yeah, okay, she was very upset after
the Nashville trip about the whole husband thing, and yes,
(08:39):
so she was very upset about that, and she was
struggling after that. And I did have a conversation with
her on camera and off camera, just giving her some
encouragement to just trust the process and just stand in
her truth and just be great. And that's exactly what
she did, and it ended up although she was a
(08:59):
little bit of a slow burn in the beginning, that
really activated her and I felt like, you know, she
you know, she distrusted my advice because obviously I just
gave her the you know, the honest advice that I
could give her, and she.
Speaker 4 (09:12):
Ended up being one of the fan favorites, if not the.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Fan favorite of she she became one of our favorites
as well.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
You know that at the very beginning, where like with
her husband, were like, ah, man, this.
Speaker 3 (09:21):
Is a little uncomfortable.
Speaker 2 (09:23):
But I feel like to you know, him being at
the reunion and you saw them dancing in the hallway
and you saw a different side of him, and I
just love their dynamic.
Speaker 6 (09:33):
I did, too, know that how you start is maybe
not how you finished.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
No, especially with the men, because you know what, not
all men are comfortable being on these shows.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
He certainly wasn't.
Speaker 1 (09:44):
And he's you would expect him, he's he's no, not shy,
and no stranger to the limelight. But I think maybe
him being a struggle and being out of it for
so long and then to come back into it and
get around a bunch of women is a little rough,
especially when they're gonna becoming free.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Well, especially this platform.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
Yeah, well here's the thing.
Speaker 6 (10:08):
This is what's freaky with reality TV because I went
through this a little bit with my ex Peter. When
we first came on a lot of people thought that
he wasn't super warm and fuzzy with me. So, you know,
on a show like this, I love when you're just
who you really are. And I feel like Charles was
very authentic to you know, who he is, and I
(10:30):
think that's why the fans ended up resonating with him.
And you know, the beginning, it's like you can't come
on and like, you know, I don't like when people
put on for the cameras and be like, oh, let
me just act super nice in the scene. Like if
you like how you are in your house, is how
you should be on these cameras because someone will relate
to you and it is what it is.
Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, let's talk about Brett. Are you guys friends?
Speaker 5 (10:54):
Uh?
Speaker 6 (10:55):
Well, of course, you know, we filmed together and I
do consider her. You know, I never had an issue
with Britt, so I haven't spoken to her, but I'm
in a very friendly space with brit.
Speaker 3 (11:07):
When were you shocked when she didn't show up to
the reunion?
Speaker 4 (11:10):
I was shocked.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
I think everyone seemed to be, but we don't know.
Speaker 6 (11:15):
I was a little disappointed as well, because I felt
like things were starting to turn a little bit for
brit towards the end. Fans were starting to, you know,
resonate with her a little bit more, and you know,
a lot of the things that happened season sixteen, you know,
she was involved in different ways, So I felt like
she was a We probably would have gotten four reunions
(11:37):
had she been there because she had a lot, you know,
that was her opportunity to say what she needed to say.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I just didn't understand why she didn't show up, and
it's like nothing happened that was so horrible that, like
I've I've seen girls not show up because you know,
they do something really bad and they don't want to
face the fire.
Speaker 4 (11:56):
Well, you guys know we watched those episodes before we
go to the region.
Speaker 6 (11:59):
Yeah, I've watched the episodes and I was like, I
couldn't understand why she wouldn't come.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
I feel like the worst was had already.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Had already been passed, and she stayed on after the
worst of it.
Speaker 2 (12:12):
The only thing that I can think of is somebody
got in her ear and is like, because there was
rumors out there, don't know if they're true that she
was filing in a lawsuit.
Speaker 6 (12:21):
That she could maybe about a lawsuit until after the
whole after she didn't show up.
Speaker 4 (12:27):
That's the only time I started hearing about a lawsuit
and never anything about it before.
Speaker 1 (12:32):
Okay, well, let's let me think though about she was
a good housewife, but I don't think it would have
been good for her in the end. I think she
she's too messy. I think she's too nasty all the time,
and I think that she.
Speaker 3 (12:45):
But she's good.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
He's a great housewife at her own expense. But we
love to see it. But I think it would have
hurt her in the end down the road had she
stayed on, because now she can't come back.
Speaker 6 (12:57):
Right. Well, here's the thing. I think first season is
very difficult for everyone. I really don't think it's anyone
has like an amazing great like flawless first season.
Speaker 4 (13:09):
I wish she had stayed too.
Speaker 6 (13:11):
Just what a second season would have looked like, Yeah,
like in my first season, I'm like, we were losing
our asses. It was like drama all the time between
you know, myself and my eggs, and it was a
lot going on. And when I look back, I thought
I looked completely insane my first season. But you know,
second season happened, Third season happened, and then you know
(13:32):
I was able, you know, to just figure it out.
Speaker 2 (13:34):
So yeah, it made me really sad to see the
demise of Portia and Shamia Cool.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
I love them both so much.
Speaker 2 (13:43):
And you know, they're so good together, and they've been
friends for so long. And sometimes when friends like that
calm on a show like this, it screws things up.
And Dolores can speak for this, because you know your
show delores family in front.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
When you have that much drama in a show, it
really destroys.
Speaker 2 (14:05):
Yeah, families and friends like this. Do you think they're
able to move forward?
Speaker 4 (14:10):
I hope, so, I really hope. So. I think they
need to take a beat.
Speaker 6 (14:15):
To be honest, Sometimes I think a little bit of
time and space is always good for the healing process.
Speaker 1 (14:20):
Time hills, Yeah, you know it, it's different.
Speaker 6 (14:24):
You know, I've had my ups and downs and with
friendships on the show as well. But I've never you know,
my mom was investies with any of the ladies that
I was best friends with all the show. So I
think some of the issues go a little deeper than
are bigger than ports and Shamia, And I think that's
when it becomes really personal. And I think that's when
you know, you have to defend your mom, no, any
(14:50):
of that. So that makes it really slippery to me.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Well, I want to see the moms and the daughters sit.
Speaker 5 (14:57):
Down, Sam, that's a good one, and that's.
Speaker 3 (15:02):
That would beautiful, That would be beautiful.
Speaker 6 (15:05):
I've had the pleasure of meeting both of their moms
and being around both of them, and they are amazing, beautifulful,
strong women who have.
Speaker 5 (15:13):
Raised these gorgeous look at them, right.
Speaker 6 (15:16):
And but you know, in a lot of ways, I
said this in another interview. You know, Porsha and Shim
kind of inherited each other a little bit. It's not
like they were like playing the playground and decided to
be friends. They became friends through their moms.
Speaker 3 (15:30):
Oh I'm not.
Speaker 6 (15:32):
Yeah, you know, it's like, you know, your mom's like
I'm going over to my friend Diane's house, you're coming
with me, and then you play with her kid, and
you know that's.
Speaker 5 (15:39):
And then you call each other aunt.
Speaker 3 (15:41):
And that is a long, a long time, a lot.
Speaker 6 (15:45):
Of layers to this, so which is why you know,
we have to just give them a little time and grace.
But I think, and I will always say this, real
true friendships find their way back.
Speaker 5 (15:54):
It makes me true real true ones on both ends.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
It takes two people to really be real friends. But
then you know, there was the talk that Porsche didn't
want to me to have the peach. Do you find
any truth in that at all?
Speaker 5 (16:11):
Like, we don't, We're really we're not. I don't believe that,
but we we were.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
Not clear on this conversation that took place, Like they
really didn't follow up on that conversation.
Speaker 4 (16:22):
Andy clear it up at the reunion.
Speaker 6 (16:24):
Remember when Porsche had a conversation with Andy Santa. But
I ever said that to you.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Oh, that's you're right, You're right she did, and and yes.
Speaker 4 (16:34):
Okay her that up.
Speaker 6 (16:35):
And I will say that Porscha has never personally told
me that she didn't want a peach.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Well, why wouldn't somebody want to not ally on the
show especially somebody as close as the two of them were. Yeah, exactly, exactly,
so it didn't really make sense. That's why I was
always confused about that. And I don't know where it
came from me.
Speaker 6 (16:56):
I would love to have like one of my childhood
of course on the show, because I feel like, you know,
we could you know, really support each other and have
each other's.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Back that well, speaking of that, can you bring Nani back?
Speaker 4 (17:10):
I wish I could.
Speaker 3 (17:12):
I mean, you recently went out with Edra and Nini.
Speaker 5 (17:16):
How is that? That would be so much fun?
Speaker 6 (17:19):
Yes, you know what I had. I am in such
a full circle moment with Nini. We I came on
the show with Nini's friend, and you know, we had
so many years of just fun times filming together and
then we went rubs and downs and yeah things, and
I did her YouTube. She reached out to me about it,
and she recently did Humble Brag with us. And I
(17:42):
love the space that we're in. And Nini, hands down,
is always going to be amazing TV.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
She's good TV.
Speaker 6 (17:48):
And you just can't make it up like those things
were definitely the glory days.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Yeah, oh yes, Well, Nini recently hinted that she spoke
with Bravo because there was rumors in the past there
was some bad blood going on there. I remember, so
(18:15):
I'm hoping that everything's good.
Speaker 3 (18:17):
I would love to see her at Bravo Con.
Speaker 2 (18:20):
I'd love to see her back on Atlanta, so let's
keep her fingers crossed.
Speaker 6 (18:25):
Well, you know, she was going to do Traders camera
and then we talked about you know what happened.
Speaker 3 (18:29):
That's right, that's right.
Speaker 6 (18:31):
That was kind of moving you know toward you know,
getting back, you know, on the way, opening it up
the door that do well.
Speaker 2 (18:39):
I feel like like Ultimate Girls Trip, Traders, things like
that really opens the door for housewives that haven't.
Speaker 3 (18:46):
Been on for a while.
Speaker 6 (18:47):
Yes, yes, yeah, now actually what wait?
Speaker 4 (18:52):
You guys both did Traders already. That's one of the
shows that I'm.
Speaker 3 (18:56):
They're doing next, You're doing it next.
Speaker 5 (18:58):
We talked about it out there.
Speaker 4 (19:00):
We're manifesting that patiently to do it. I really listen, wait.
Speaker 2 (19:05):
Longer and long, wait, wait longer and longer, because the
longer it goes on, the more they.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
Pay more money. You may.
Speaker 4 (19:11):
Think about that.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
I was on season two.
Speaker 4 (19:15):
Oh and you know what, I'm friends with Resident. He
was on season one. He said, it was like a
whole Oh.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
Yeah, it's like a donation season one.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Friend, it cost you money. It costs you money to
go on it. Sure you just wait a couple of seasons.
Speaker 4 (19:31):
As long as I'm on the list.
Speaker 3 (19:32):
Okay, Oh you'll be on the list to be Yeah.
Where do you stand with Kim Zosiak A great place?
I mean she she hates me.
Speaker 5 (19:41):
So much, you know she dies.
Speaker 3 (19:44):
She was on Watch Happens Live last week and was
talking on Guns of Ship about me.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
I think I saw that.
Speaker 2 (19:49):
Yeah, I'm like, girl, I whatever.
Speaker 4 (19:52):
All right, Well we're good. We actually did a Hulu
show together called Got to.
Speaker 6 (19:55):
Get Out, and we were roommates and we were never
close on Atland We wait, is that.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
The one Luke produced?
Speaker 4 (20:02):
Yes?
Speaker 6 (20:03):
Yes, yes, yes, yes, And I actually want which by
some miracle.
Speaker 5 (20:07):
Stop it. I want to see that.
Speaker 4 (20:10):
What was it about? Great for that show.
Speaker 6 (20:12):
By the way, myself and my accomplice we were the
only ones to get out.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
He ran it. He ran it for me. I basically master.
Speaker 6 (20:19):
Reminded the whole plan and he I just needed his
legs because these fifty eight year old legs was escaped.
Speaker 5 (20:27):
I hear you. So it's a it's a physical and
mental hear.
Speaker 6 (20:31):
The prisoner in the house and you're like the prison guards.
So they basically put twenty people in the house. It's
still on Hulu right now for everyone who hasn't.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
Watched it, I'm gonna go watch it.
Speaker 6 (20:39):
But so, so you get in this house with twenty
different people and you have to try to escape and
the money the clock goes up. You can win up
to a million dollars. So everybody's waiting, you know, everybody
just chilling until it. I think we just kind of
chilled until it hit like three hundred thousand, and we
were like, Okay, now we're going to try to figure
out how to get out of here. But like everyone's
on the roof, everyone's watching, everyone's moved, like where's simply
where's this person?
Speaker 4 (20:59):
Where's that? So something possible to get out.
Speaker 6 (21:01):
So I had to work on my trust building skills.
Speaker 4 (21:06):
While I was in the house.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
And maybe that's where she'll do good in Traders.
Speaker 4 (21:10):
Well, I have this talent of becoming invisible, Like I
literally become the furniture.
Speaker 6 (21:14):
I'm telling you, like they forget they're because I'm usually
you know, older or maybe even the oldest one I'm how.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Tall are you?
Speaker 4 (21:21):
I'm five ten?
Speaker 1 (21:22):
Okay, it's really hard to be in visible, Cynthia, and
you're like five ten.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
You know, of course, listen when I tell you when
I mean, I did the same thing on Celebrity Big Brother,
Like that was I just like people just forget I
was in there.
Speaker 4 (21:39):
And then it was like final three. I was like,
because I suck at games, I never win any of
the things.
Speaker 6 (21:44):
But once I clocked, I clock in same tame Like,
I'm like, I'm not gonna win that.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
Yeah, any competition I don't win. And I'm the most
athletic person, so I don't. I don't know what it
is like free.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
I'm not. My superpower is that I'm never a threat.
Speaker 5 (21:59):
I'm never That's how sometimes you win. That's that's how
you want.
Speaker 3 (22:02):
That's how you win. Traders. There you go right, use
that invisible power and all that. When you go on Trader.
Speaker 4 (22:09):
You do not see these sea bones. You did not see.
Speaker 3 (22:12):
No, you're not see those beautiful face these guys.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
I don't know, Cynthia. Any room I've ever been in,
you really stand out. So I don't know how that happens.
Speaker 6 (22:21):
Oh, thank you, you know, I actually just I was
in talks for another show. I was considering doing it.
Speaker 3 (22:27):
Oh, I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 5 (22:28):
I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 4 (22:30):
I don't think I'm going to be jumping out of
a helicopter any.
Speaker 2 (22:33):
No, I know, not after I heard not after I
heard the Denise Richards popter implant.
Speaker 4 (22:38):
Oh my god, Like I am so terrified.
Speaker 6 (22:42):
As much as I would like to like be fearless
and like jump off a cliff or whatever, I just
don't think.
Speaker 4 (22:48):
I just don't think it's in my willhouse. I don't
think I.
Speaker 5 (22:51):
Will see I I think that.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
I did speak to Teresa who was on it, and
she said it was harder than jail.
Speaker 2 (23:00):
Yeah, oh shit, no, thank you what she said.
Speaker 3 (23:06):
Okay, so they've already filmed.
Speaker 5 (23:08):
Yes, yeah, Oh I didn't know that it's airing.
Speaker 3 (23:12):
Oh I didn't know that. I thought they just announced
the No, it's done.
Speaker 6 (23:18):
And it's like, I never like to leave money on
the table. I'm just being ample and it's a lot
of money.
Speaker 5 (23:23):
That's a good one.
Speaker 4 (23:24):
Let me tell you something. Then I prayed about it.
Speaker 6 (23:26):
I meditated, Sure it would have been hard. That's a
lot of money to do that show. And I was like,
can I just make it through one episode? Can I
just get to the first episode I watched. I was like,
all the hard stuff happens in that first episode in
the helicopters, You've been dropped into the Indian Ocean.
Speaker 1 (23:43):
I'm like, oh, we in a car and a car
with the windows closed going on.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Now, I'm all for that ship.
Speaker 6 (23:51):
I cannot Please do not submerge me underwater in a
car and make me have.
Speaker 4 (23:55):
To break out like that. I can do a lot
of things, ladies.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
But I have clostrophobia. That just took me. Yeah, all
of the things.
Speaker 4 (24:04):
Afraid of heights. You know. I don't want to, like
swim in the ocean.
Speaker 6 (24:07):
I don't want to do I don't want to be
closed in in a situation I try.
Speaker 4 (24:12):
But I was like, you know what, I think this
is the one time.
Speaker 3 (24:16):
Well Traders is.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Not that bad, Like the missions are not like that.
I mean they did the very I think it was
the season one people had to be buried alive.
Speaker 5 (24:24):
They were buried alive, but you had.
Speaker 3 (24:26):
A choice, like you could do it or you don't
have to do it.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
I just rewatched the episode, Okay, buried Cynthia. Did you
see that one with the coffins they put they bury
them and put the dirt on top, and they have
to stay in the coffin until people find them.
Speaker 5 (24:40):
Listen, not for me, I would have died.
Speaker 3 (24:43):
In there and you could have just left me.
Speaker 6 (24:45):
Well I could have done that before I jumped out
of a helicopter, for sure.
Speaker 5 (24:49):
No, not me.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
No, but no, you know, with all these shows that.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
You're doing, Cynthia, I, I, what do you think about
your daughter? She was approached for the Next Gen Z
Well she was right was Actually they're doing LA And
as much as I would love her to, you know,
show up.
Speaker 6 (25:13):
On reality TV in her own way, in her own
space and not be, you know, not being a part
of my package.
Speaker 4 (25:19):
Because she's only done Housewives with me, I would love
that for her, but she has to love that for her,
and when we've talked about it, I don't. I don't
think she's ready yet. I don't think she's ready.
Speaker 6 (25:33):
But she did watch the season that just aired, and
I think at this point she might be interested in
maybe taking a meeting about it, but I just don't know.
And you know, Noel's twenty five now, I'm not gonna
make those choices for her, this.
Speaker 4 (25:47):
Is her life.
Speaker 3 (25:48):
I don't sure again, tell her to wait to season three.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
The better, the better, and then they get out of
all the clerks like you.
Speaker 6 (25:57):
So you guys have to realize too, you know, we
all have our kids stuff, Like we're different, Like I'm older,
like I'm tougher mentally, like I can just kind of
I've been through some shit and I can deal with
certain things. I feel like Noah's generation is very fragile.
They're very right, and I don't want to have to
deal with that. She's in a great space mentally, spiritually, emotionally,
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all of those things.
Speaker 5 (26:19):
We don't want to mess money that up.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
I don't want to mess that up. I'm so good
about it. It has to be her choice, and.
Speaker 6 (26:26):
I don't want to have to get anything on the
back end because she did it. And I would never
force her to do any of it, Like girl, do
you do.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
It's a lot different when you're filming with your mom,
right and you're just doing this, but when it's all.
Speaker 4 (26:37):
On you, conect her. I was so able to protect
her a little bit on Housewife.
Speaker 5 (26:41):
Now, Yeah, I know she won't be there yet.
Speaker 6 (26:43):
And I was like, no, she's not comfortable doing, but
like she could be on her own doing it, and
it's still a hard thing to navigate, like reality TV, because.
Speaker 4 (26:52):
You do the show, but then you got to deal with.
Speaker 7 (26:53):
The fans, like evening Nasty one. Yeah, Like even when
Noel came flewid on Housewives, she got so much hate
on social media.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
She did social media is the devil.
Speaker 6 (27:08):
Like they were like, oh, you're going to hell. You
shouldn't be again what I wouldn't never be really bad
And I was like, you know, you can say, don't
read the comments, it doesn't matter. These are distrolls, but
like it really, you know, bothered her.
Speaker 2 (27:21):
I just had this conversation with Sophia, who now this
is her second season on Housewives, and she had a
scene with me and I posted it and prior to it,
you know, we had a conversation like, you know, social media.
Speaker 3 (27:35):
Is mean, on and on not. Are you sure you
want to do this?
Speaker 2 (27:37):
You don't have to do this if you don't want
to do it. And she's like, no, Mom, I'm fine.
I don't care what people say. So we go to
lunch the other day and she's like, damn mom, like
I can't believe the comments. I go like what I said,
I looked, and like it looked like, you know, I
try to go through them. I have my guy go
through them and delete anything that's really nasty about her.
And she's like, people are saying I look unhealthy, that
(27:59):
I'm spoiled, rotten brat, and you can't.
Speaker 5 (28:03):
You can't even it's an abyss. You can't keep up
with them.
Speaker 4 (28:05):
I know.
Speaker 3 (28:06):
And then I said, but I go, she goes, I go.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
But you do understand, ninety nine percent of them are
really nice, and and we agreed that it's the one
percent that you focus on.
Speaker 4 (28:16):
Yeah, it's true.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
It's human nature.
Speaker 3 (28:17):
It's human nature, and it's just oh it is. It's
it's hard.
Speaker 6 (28:22):
I would literally probably do like I'm so open at
this point because I feel like once you do housewatching,
do anything. But I still feel like, you know, for
our kids and stuff, especially you know, for me speaking
just for my kid, I want to still protect her
as much as I can, let her go be great
and do the things that she wants to do. And
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after that whole whole thing happened with her coming out,
she actually got off social media for a few months.
Speaker 3 (28:49):
She just couldn'teah smart smart yep, smart.
Speaker 6 (28:53):
Yeah, and even now, she's very private, Like Noel doesn't
do podcasts, She doesn't really put her private life out
there that much, which is one of the things why
she was one of the reasons why she was having
a little trepidation about doing gen X because she's like,
I don't know if I'm ready to really show my life.
Speaker 3 (29:10):
Because good for her, but.
Speaker 6 (29:12):
Sism and the you know, the hate that you know
we all are subjected to on social media.
Speaker 3 (29:18):
So yeah, well, speaking of bullying, that's what it's bullying.
But speaking of protecting people, you're close with Denise Richards, correct,
I love Denise.
Speaker 4 (29:26):
Yes.
Speaker 3 (29:27):
Have you spoken to her recently? How is she doing?
Speaker 6 (29:29):
I have not, but I just literally got back to
La yesterday, and you know, it's one of those situations
when people are going through things, because we you know,
we all have people that are going through stuff.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
Of course, I was devastated.
Speaker 6 (29:40):
Yeah, want to give her a beat in some space
and then just say, hey, you know, I know you're
going through a lot, because what crazy things are happening
to me. It's very overwhelming when everyone's texting you and calling,
You're like, I just need a beat, I just need
a minute. But I love Denise. It broke my heart
to see to learn that she was going through that
and deal with that.
Speaker 3 (30:00):
It just gave me a chance when I saw she
had a black eye.
Speaker 5 (30:04):
You never know what someone's going through behind closed doors.
You just jump.
Speaker 6 (30:08):
Absolutely, So I'm going to give her a call and
try to, you know, have a drink.
Speaker 4 (30:12):
With her while.
Speaker 3 (30:13):
Yeah, give her our love for sure.
Speaker 5 (30:15):
Yeah, we stand behind her.
Speaker 1 (30:17):
And again social media here, she's actively being abused.
Speaker 5 (30:23):
The proof is there, and people are saying nasty things.
Speaker 3 (30:26):
About social media. It's so bad.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
It's I mean, how how could you say nothing, say
unless it's support in that days, unless unless, if you
unless if you know it firsthand.
Speaker 5 (30:39):
But I mean, come.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
On, look at look at what that woman's going through.
Just yeah, it's horrible.
Speaker 3 (30:45):
So are we talking about the boyfriend?
Speaker 4 (30:48):
Wait?
Speaker 6 (30:48):
Wait wait, but I do, like I know, we're just
talking about all the horrible things with social media. But
I will share one good thing about social media please
going back to and I can't who it is because
I have to reveal it on my own show, but
I'm going.
Speaker 4 (31:02):
To tee it up on here.
Speaker 3 (31:03):
Okay.
Speaker 6 (31:04):
I actually got a very nice DM from a huge
celebrity like Beyonce level.
Speaker 4 (31:12):
It's not Beyonce. Let me krave it, don't guess, don't guess.
I can reveal it.
Speaker 1 (31:18):
But the point hammers to know she cannot wait for
your podcast.
Speaker 6 (31:22):
Really nice, lengthy dm oh, just basically saying how much
she enjoyed me this season.
Speaker 4 (31:29):
She just loves seeing in this space.
Speaker 6 (31:31):
And I seemed really happy and just really confident and
just really and just in a good place in my life.
Speaker 3 (31:37):
And oh my god, how exciting to.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
Be seen by people that you actually not the trolls
that hate you, but like.
Speaker 5 (31:43):
I know, and there you go, like with the public.
Speaker 4 (31:46):
People I hired by. So I was like, and it says,
this is like.
Speaker 6 (31:51):
This cancels up any negativity because this person has taken
the time to.
Speaker 4 (31:56):
I overfell it on humble breg but I just wanted to.
Speaker 3 (32:03):
I can't wait to hear.
Speaker 5 (32:05):
You know what.
Speaker 6 (32:05):
I was actually having a pretty crappy day that day,
and then I, you know, I was getting ready to
go shoot the movie and I checked into my hotel
and I was like, Okay, let me go see what's
happening on social media.
Speaker 4 (32:15):
And I saw this damn and I was like, wait, shit,
is this real?
Speaker 3 (32:19):
It's really is it? Is it somebody that you follow?
Speaker 5 (32:22):
Look, Tamara's not going to do you could not do this.
Speaker 4 (32:25):
Man?
Speaker 5 (32:26):
Do they follow?
Speaker 3 (32:27):
And do they follow you?
Speaker 5 (32:28):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (32:29):
They do?
Speaker 3 (32:30):
Okay, I'm on a hunt.
Speaker 4 (32:32):
You know. Or let it go, Tamra.
Speaker 5 (32:35):
I was Cynthia, you know better.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
I just I need to know for myself. That's it.
I remember back in the day. I don't know, it
was probably five years ago.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Chloe Kardashian commented on one of my posts about Eddie
because Eddie was having heart problems and stuff. And I
mean I didn't even know it because there was so
many comments. My my daughter saw it or my daughter's friend,
and it was like I was like fangirling out and
I screenshot it and I put it on my Facebook.
Speaker 1 (33:07):
And of course how embarrassing that so me. I hate
to say that it's not too significant for you, because
she wished me a happy birthday one year and I
almost Chloe, and I'm sorry, but I love her.
Speaker 5 (33:21):
She's so beautiful and.
Speaker 2 (33:22):
I know, I just love she was my favorite out
of all I love all the girls, but she's my
favorite out of out of the cardashle lovely.
Speaker 4 (33:30):
I put it all out there. I have one more.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
I have one more Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 6 (33:34):
Celebrity Big Brother House. And I had no phones, no nothing.
I was like literally in prison. Right when I got out,
they were telling me everything that happened while I was
in there, because I was in there for like a
month and a half. No, but apparently Beyonce wished me
a happy birthday.
Speaker 5 (33:50):
Stop it.
Speaker 6 (33:51):
Yes, yes, she has like a page that she wishes
certain people heavy birthdays, and she wished me a happy birthdays.
I was like, the one time I'm locked up in prison,
I get a mess bad. It's like one of my
baby pictures. And she said, I have a birthday, Cynthia.
Speaker 5 (34:09):
So oh my goodness.
Speaker 4 (34:12):
Anyone who's made to me, I there you go wire me.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
So now we know, but now we know how we
make other people feel.
Speaker 5 (34:21):
There you go when we give them grace.
Speaker 1 (34:24):
So when we do a little something and just happen
to come across some random account on Instagram and just say,
you know what, happy birthday, your dog is beautiful.
Speaker 5 (34:34):
I'm sorry. I do that all the time.
Speaker 1 (34:36):
Someone loses their dog, like it could probably be from
ten years ago.
Speaker 5 (34:39):
It comes up, I'm like, I'm so sorry for your loss.
But it means a lot.
Speaker 3 (34:45):
It does, especially when it's Beyonce.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
It doesn't surprise me, Cynthia. Everyone really loves you. And
speaking of love, let's talk about the Prince the Prince press.
Speaker 4 (35:01):
Like, Lord send me a king, but he sent me
a prince instead.
Speaker 1 (35:04):
So that your tagline, right, You made your own tagline
better than probably the one they give us.
Speaker 4 (35:13):
I just thought of that. How are things going?
Speaker 5 (35:16):
You know what?
Speaker 4 (35:16):
We have somehow managed to make it to a year
and a half.
Speaker 5 (35:20):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (35:21):
A lot of that is because we're not on social
media together. Going back to social media the band stuff.
Speaker 6 (35:26):
Yeah, and I feel like, you know what, when you
put your private business out there, you get people permission
to have a say to come.
Speaker 2 (35:35):
Now, you're in Atlanta and La right, So where does
he live?
Speaker 4 (35:39):
He lives in Amsterdam.
Speaker 3 (35:40):
Oh that's right, that's right. You know that's where our
cast trip was this season.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
It was it was fun. It was a lot of fun.
I had never been there before, so I always love going,
you know, somewhere I've never been. So how often do
you see each other?
Speaker 6 (35:56):
Okay, So this is how it works. So when he comes,
he's coming next Sunday. He comes for like two months
and then he goes back for like two.
Speaker 3 (36:03):
Months, so he stays with you.
Speaker 4 (36:05):
He works there, he works, you know, his work is there.
Speaker 6 (36:07):
He's so he's American, and he says with me when
he comes absolutely, that's so here's the problem.
Speaker 4 (36:13):
He's here for unlimited time and just go back and
forth work. But I can't. I don't work in it
over there, so.
Speaker 6 (36:21):
My my work is all here, So I can't just
go to you know, answerdam for three months?
Speaker 5 (36:27):
Have I been? I have?
Speaker 4 (36:29):
Yes, We went there, I spent Christmas.
Speaker 6 (36:32):
We spent the holidays together last year, and then I
got to just go to Switzerland with him to watch
him perform, which was like amazing because he's so talented.
Speaker 1 (36:42):
But Anthony Cynthia is glowing and yeah, and this is
a year and a half, So what's the dame distance?
Speaker 2 (36:50):
You can't just keep having long distance? Do you think
about like the future?
Speaker 5 (36:55):
I love that long distance conversation.
Speaker 6 (36:58):
I'm you know, we I am an eight pretty big
age gap relationship.
Speaker 4 (37:02):
I'm older.
Speaker 6 (37:03):
I'm like in my season right now, Like I'm at
that age where honestly I want to retire in ten years,
I really do, Like that's my plan. So I'm just
really like hustling, just getting it all in and try
That's my goal. That's where I'm trying to go. He's
like way younger, so he has this whole career and
life ahead of him, where I'm like, I got to
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take every phone call, I got to check every email,
like I have to get it so I can set
myself up so I can sit my butt down and
relax in ten years.
Speaker 4 (37:32):
Right, So you know, with that said, I can't go
to Europe for three months. You know, I have to
get it.
Speaker 6 (37:38):
And he understands that, but it is a little frustrating
for us. But anyway, he's coming next week for a
couple of months.
Speaker 5 (37:44):
Are you in love?
Speaker 4 (37:46):
We'll just keep going and see what happens. Like, I
don't know where we're going to end out. It is
a lot of fun.
Speaker 5 (37:54):
It's keeping you young.
Speaker 3 (37:56):
I bet you are.
Speaker 4 (37:57):
Listen, I'm in very good shape being chased around Lake
Bailey when.
Speaker 5 (38:01):
He's Wait, Cynthia, I have a confession.
Speaker 1 (38:06):
So when we were at the Two Teas podcast, Yeah, yeah,
were you.
Speaker 5 (38:11):
Dating him then? Around then?
Speaker 1 (38:12):
Or no?
Speaker 4 (38:13):
Oh, what's been how long ago was that?
Speaker 5 (38:15):
Let's take a year and a half.
Speaker 4 (38:16):
Any that was that was kind of like the early stages.
Speaker 3 (38:19):
I know because October was October.
Speaker 6 (38:22):
Oh yeah, yep, yep, because we were like either was
just starting. I can't remember. I just know it was
about a year. We're about a year and a half
in now. I heard you on the phone.
Speaker 1 (38:32):
Yeah, you were sitting next to me, and I didn't
tell one.
Speaker 6 (38:35):
Here's the thing, I don't know if I will ever
get married again.
Speaker 4 (38:42):
But he's like never been married. That's the whole thing
with the younger guy. I've done everything and he hasn't done.
Speaker 6 (38:47):
All of those things, right, I mean, the good news is,
you know, he has he has a son already, so
oh that's good.
Speaker 5 (38:54):
Does he want more children?
Speaker 4 (38:57):
If I was able to give him some kids, he
probably will, But I you know, I'm done.
Speaker 6 (39:02):
I'm out of the baby thing. It's not happening. I
you know, I couldn't do it if I even wanted
to at this point. Side of that, but it does
come up. It's like fun dating a younger guy, but
there's so many things like I've just lived and done
so much and he's still starting to.
Speaker 4 (39:18):
Do all of the things I've done already. So sometimes
it's like.
Speaker 3 (39:22):
Does it make you nervous.
Speaker 6 (39:24):
You know what, it doesn't make me ner nervous, tam Rote.
What it does is, like, you know, sometimes I.
Speaker 4 (39:29):
Feel like.
Speaker 6 (39:31):
I don't know, like I aimed for someone a little
closer to my age, but I feel like that doesn't
always mean that I'm compatible with them. And I feel
like with some of.
Speaker 5 (39:42):
The guys true are my.
Speaker 4 (39:43):
Age, they literally treated me like I should be so grateful.
Speaker 6 (39:48):
That they chose me because because you are their age,
and they could.
Speaker 4 (39:52):
Be with a younger woman.
Speaker 5 (39:53):
So give me a break already. See the younger men are.
Speaker 6 (39:59):
They're like, hey, I am excited to be with you.
I can learn so much from you, like they can't
learn from the people that are their own age because
they're trying to figure it out. To answer your question,
it doesn't really scare me. I'm just in a space
now where I am just taking everything.
Speaker 4 (40:18):
Day by day.
Speaker 3 (40:18):
I'm not just letting it happen.
Speaker 6 (40:20):
I'm an overthinker. I'm not gonna overthink it. Like, wherever
it goes, it goes, and wherever it doesn't, it doesn't,
And that's just what it is. The point is, I'm
making incredible memories. I'm having fun. This guy's been consistent.
He loves me, I love him, and we have a
great time together.
Speaker 3 (40:36):
Oh good, I'm happy for you.
Speaker 5 (40:38):
Well for you.
Speaker 3 (40:40):
In closing, Cynthia, what's next for you?
Speaker 4 (40:44):
Wow? What's next for me? Well?
Speaker 6 (40:47):
I would love to go back to Housewives in a
friend capacity again.
Speaker 5 (40:52):
She likes the friend thing.
Speaker 2 (40:54):
Oh you should you guys, just finish it. You should
be uh filming pretty soon. I would imagine, Uh, yes,
they are gearing up to film.
Speaker 3 (41:02):
I figured they were announced.
Speaker 4 (41:04):
Yeah, but I've made it pretty clear that I would
like to go back in that space.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
So in your only own opinion, and I know you
can't reveal this because you don't know, you don't know.
You think everyone's coming back, the same people that love.
Speaker 6 (41:23):
I would imagine that everyone's coming back except obviously.
Speaker 4 (41:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (41:27):
Yeah, but I enjoyed this.
Speaker 6 (41:29):
This cast very about Atlanta again, Like when I tell you,
everywhere I go people people are talking about Lanta.
Speaker 5 (41:37):
So yeah, I enjoyed this cast very much.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
I got a little scared because Shmya put out some
video yeah, and I thought, oh my god, she's not
coming back, So I want to ask, Yeah, I dmmer,
I'm like, don't tell me you're quitting, and She's like,
oh no, no, no, So I'm like.
Speaker 4 (41:51):
Oh, thank god, I don't think she is going anywhere.
Speaker 3 (41:54):
No, no, she could No.
Speaker 2 (41:56):
The only way she would go anywhere would be on
her own. Well be because they got rid of her.
Speaker 5 (42:01):
She's too good.
Speaker 4 (42:02):
She was great, great addition to the show.
Speaker 5 (42:05):
Oh, I'm so excited we got to talk.
Speaker 4 (42:08):
I'm looking forward to that.
Speaker 6 (42:09):
If that works out, you know, stay tuned for the
season seventeen announcements, and I will confirm that there is
some new blood coming in for sure.
Speaker 5 (42:19):
That's always somebody did talk about that.
Speaker 6 (42:21):
Yeah, yeah, you heard. Every season that I've been on
the show, they always still look for new people. That's
just always.
Speaker 5 (42:28):
They're always casting on YouTube, right Oh see yeah, oh.
Speaker 3 (42:32):
They always cast.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
And sometimes even if they don't bring anybody in, they
still cast.
Speaker 5 (42:36):
Are always looking because they don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:38):
Maybe somebody falls out during negotiations, you know, who knows
things happen.
Speaker 6 (42:43):
So season seventeen hopefully you know Humble Break, you know,
Chrystal and I or we got some things going on
over there. Super excited about my movie to drop. It's
called Diamond, where I play the heroin addict what else.
Speaker 3 (42:58):
And we'll see you at Pravo on right.
Speaker 4 (43:00):
Oh, yes, and I'll be a.
Speaker 1 (43:01):
Promo con yes, yes, can't wait. That'll be here before
you know. It's this summer went really fast and will
be here.
Speaker 4 (43:09):
I'm going to be there as well.
Speaker 3 (43:10):
Right, yeah, we'll be there.
Speaker 6 (43:11):
Yeah, and oh ladies, we have to turn up. I
have a new tequila as well then as a bottle
of that my tequila Commissarial, and that's like a partnership
that I actually did with Adrian Mlouf's family, and that's
like a whole.
Speaker 3 (43:29):
Oh wow, yeah, send it over.
Speaker 6 (43:33):
And I got to send you guys my skincare my
go Wesama. I have a beautiful, amazing moisturizer and a
face oil, and I know people like face oil face, so.
Speaker 3 (43:44):
I love them.
Speaker 2 (43:46):
I have because people think that it makes your skin
break out or it doesn't at all, because I really
dry skin me too.
Speaker 6 (43:53):
But you know what when you put your moisturizer on,
the great thing about our face, well it just seals
in the moisturized So because a lot of times you
put it in the morning and then like three hours
say you're like, wait a minute, where did it go?
Speaker 5 (44:04):
It just you know, it's still a moisturizer.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
So I got I got a lot going on.
Speaker 5 (44:11):
I got a lot of menopause skin needs it. Sand
it girl.
Speaker 4 (44:14):
I'm telling you, I'm telling you. Are you on the
other side?
Speaker 5 (44:17):
Now?
Speaker 4 (44:17):
You you're you're on the other side.
Speaker 3 (44:19):
I'm on the other side.
Speaker 5 (44:20):
I don't feel like I'm on the other side. I
don't feel.
Speaker 3 (44:22):
She's going through it right now.
Speaker 4 (44:25):
Pop ups.
Speaker 1 (44:27):
Oh no, I'm just tired and and and and the
weight and the Yeah, I haven't. I don't think I'm
on the other side of it. I don't know that
feels like I'll ever be.
Speaker 4 (44:38):
Nobody messed me up.
Speaker 6 (44:40):
Like I look at before I started my whole menopause journey,
my body was a completely different body.
Speaker 4 (44:47):
That's why you know.
Speaker 6 (44:49):
I partnered with weight watchers just to help give me
support to try to lose weight. And it's hard to
get it off now. And I've been like skinning my
whole life from the whole modeling thing.
Speaker 4 (44:58):
But now when I.
Speaker 6 (44:58):
Tell you, nothing's moving, like I don't even have I
could like not eat for three days and still nothing
really moves.
Speaker 2 (45:04):
I went through that when I was going through menopause,
like I gained weight and no matter what I did,
and I've always been the one like I did not
gain weight and if I wanted to lose a pound,
all I had to do is not.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Eat for a day.
Speaker 5 (45:18):
Yeah, well, there needs to be more talk. Yeah, we
need to talk more.
Speaker 6 (45:22):
Yeah no, I you know I love talking about like
all like well, I just love women.
Speaker 4 (45:27):
And talking about what we go through.
Speaker 6 (45:29):
Me too, fuck lord, So anytime you want me to
jump on the menopause train and keep that conversation going, like,
I'm all into health and wellness because I'm at you know,
health is a priority.
Speaker 3 (45:37):
I'm you know, absolutely, I'm up there. I'm saying age
as you so you are.
Speaker 2 (45:43):
I'm fifty seven, I'll be fifty eighth September.
Speaker 5 (45:46):
Second, Oh my goodness, and I.
Speaker 4 (45:47):
Turned fifty eight in February.
Speaker 3 (45:49):
You look look up, thank you.
Speaker 6 (45:52):
I have to eventually get your doctor for that face
thing you got where you look crazy and now you
look amazing.
Speaker 3 (45:58):
Oh yeah absolutely.
Speaker 1 (46:00):
Her mother thought she had road rash and fell off
her motorcycle.
Speaker 3 (46:03):
I know, thanks mom. She's like, you look horrible, thank you,
thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (46:11):
I don't like gatekeepers. I like, if you're looking good,
tell me what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (46:15):
Right, Not gatekeepers, when I do things, I'm like, here
it is and this is what I'm doing Ary, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (46:21):
Yes, absolutely, and you get to get it for free.
Speaker 5 (46:24):
Yeah that too, that's the perk.
Speaker 3 (46:27):
Thank you so much, Cynthia.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
Thank you. It was such a pleasure to see you.
I fangirled over you all season.
Speaker 4 (46:34):
Thank you for my flowers, lady. You know, I love
both of you very very much.
Speaker 6 (46:37):
And it's always good when you see what's happening to
go to here, You're like, what is camera?
Speaker 4 (46:43):
And Dolores over you guys always have my bag. You
guys have my back the whole time.
Speaker 5 (46:50):
Well deserved.
Speaker 3 (46:51):
Yeah, it's so easy to have your back.
Speaker 1 (46:54):
Yeah, thank you so thank you for taking the time,
my busy woman.
Speaker 6 (46:58):
All right, bye bye no