September 5, 2022 • 36 mins
The drama is SERGing!!
Fresh off Part 1 of the Dubai reunion, the housewife… we mean, husband… everyone is talking about is HERE!!!!
Teddi quizzes him on sex education, soccer and Tiki Tiki.
We STANbury this Husband!
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellancamps and camera judge. Hi, guys,
welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy
Mellencamp and myself Teddy Mellencamp. Tamra is filming today, so
I have a special guest and I'll be grilling him alone.
(00:25):
It is Sergio Carreo, Caroline Stanberry's husband, who you know what,
Let's be honest. He may as well be a housewife
because he was pretty much in the show more than
some of the housewives. All right, well, I'm excited to
bring him on, grill him on a little sex education
(00:46):
and go from there. Hi, Sergio, how are you look
at you with your pink Oh my god, the pink
background and the do you think this is a confessional?
Oh my? Is your dog matching you? I hold on?
(01:07):
Is that your Yeah? I can't. And I also need
to know, is Caroline. I feel like I see an
additional person on the zoom is sheet and you're watching
us too. I knew, and I was like, she's got
her finger on the pulse somewhere. There is absolutely no
(01:29):
way she's my kind of girl. She has got this
on lock. I even put him in the closet. That's
why you will thank you belong. Oh speak, well, let's
just jump right into that because when I posted that
you were coming on, everyone and their mother sent me
text messages saying you need to ask him who Derek
(01:50):
Warburton is. Oh, okay, so who is Derek? And do
we need to just cover this? It's basically is the
his friend of a friend of mine who was kind
of like doing all these parties in Los Angeles and
I was just literally just a gay friend of his.
No, no no, I don't even a friend anymore. Like I
was invited to party and they do that picture of
(02:12):
fast with other people and that's it. We're gonna yeah,
which is like completely normal like us Europe being he's Latin,
ridiculous when he dresses. I mean, my husband is also
Latin um, but I have yet to make him dress
(02:34):
up to match. His dogs are dogs. But that's happening
next it made happen. I don't know that I'm actually
know what I'm going to get out of this, but
I actually think it's really sad that we have beaten
feelings and whatever out of our men. If a man
shows his feelings, he's gay or you know, hugs or
(02:55):
cries or does you know whatever. I mean, he was
a soccer player, and I mean, I mean stand for
this part. I mean, I think that's huge, especially because Caroline,
you are very much in the same way that I am,
where we are very like, we're kind of type A.
We can be come off as a little you know,
(03:17):
like I wait until I trust somebody to really open up,
and you can see that Sergio is the opposite, and
opposites attract, Like my husband always believes in the best
in everybody. I believe the worst and everybody and you know,
you say also like thinking about tamer and Eddie, they
have a very similar situation. So I mean, I think
we have to see all different types of relationships because
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that's how we work. If we're all the same, we'd
all kill each other just because other people don't understand it.
And the thing is, you know, like again, it just
annoys me that I have to prove whether I have
sex with my husband. We've been together four years, and
do you think I got divorced so that I couldn't
have sex for the rest of my life? But I
do want to know why you guys call it uticky
(04:01):
because we call ours wicky wicky. Yes, because our old
when we didn't have we're kind of broke, our bed
would always go wick wick wick wick Wi. I love that. Yeah,
you think he's like easy way just to say, you know, yeah,
(04:21):
we definitely have sex. He's not gay and he has
gay friends like we all do. I love that. He's
a man's you know, he's a he's a guy that's
comfortable in his own skin. Why not. It's just sad
for the fact that Yes, sold my feelings and I
just literally I'm just romantic. I have to do jets. Yes,
you are ridiculously romantic. He is. He lives in a movie,
one of those old movies. He's like, it's just you know,
(04:42):
even like he's boring, even though I just want to
get well and we'll move on from that. I just
figured we'll get the worst. We'll get like the most
asked Instagram question out of the way at the beginning,
so then we can get to the fun stuff, like
the sex education you're going to teach me. Oh my god,
I'm getting out of it. I'm gonna okay. So I
(05:05):
was books afternoon till well, my producer just texted me
She's like, by the way he looks fire, please tell
him so compliments from her, um, But I mean, another
big thing that I need to know is how does
it feel essentially being a housewife. You are more talked
about this season and more featured than I would say
(05:28):
at least two of the housewives. I mean, to be honest,
it's been amazing ride. You know, very intense, but it's
been incredible because, you know, for me just to being
able to just share the whole experience with someone that
I love, with his Caroline and when it together is
it's amazing. Yeah, when you first started filming where you're nervous,
(05:48):
oh my god. The first the first day of filming,
they said, listen, come in this hour and then just
get at this hour and then just be yourself. And
I literally just get out. I didn't have toweling almost
and there were like three were coming out. I was
just he told me a while just to get used
to it. Well, my husband actually was watching because there
was like a scene where you didn't have your shirt on.
He's like, I am so irritated. They never let me
(06:10):
film without a shirt because like the mic pack or whatever.
I'm like, I don't know things are different, du buy,
I guess, let me put it in um and then
so you remember the first day, do you think that maybe,
like next season, you should actually be holding one of
the gold coins at the front. I mean yes, yes,
(06:37):
I oh my gosh, I love it. Okay, So from
your point of view, not not Caroline cannot chime in here?
How did you and Caroline meet? I thine we met?
So we were I wasn't in Newport, California. I lived
within three years, and he was doing um uh like
(07:01):
a life you know, stand up show, talking about like
you know, empowerment, empowerment women and all that stuff. And
I got invited there. Uh basically, I can't invite to
someone who was trying to, you know, to get to
know me, and I end up going there. I didn't
know what I was going, and that's how I met Caroline.
(07:23):
I met there. So much is trying to get to
know you. Do you mean like another check kind of yes,
so you are on a date when you met Caroline.
I mean I didn't know what I was going to
be honest. They invited me to this event and it
was five minutes from my house. I end up going.
(07:45):
My friend was there. Uh, you know, randomly, I was
literally back to work with Caroline on the VIP section
and we just started talking and it was just like
an amazing connection that we had since the beginning and
then had so you weren't living in Dubai. That happened later, Yeah,
happened later. That happened a year after, and now I
(08:06):
need to know. So we have absolutely no idea how
much money your dad would have paid you to not
marry Caroline. Now, I mean, it wasn't enough. It was, yeah,
I mean I definitely I don't think anything would be
enough because you know, all that, all that came out
like a very funny way. But basically my dad said
(08:27):
to me, I know you you know, because you know
I came up, you know, before I get to my dad,
you know, saying like, oh the oh my god, I
made this amazing woman. I mean, this amazing girl, you know,
but it was never kind of the right one. But
then this one, which is Caroline. I said that I
made this amazing and credible woman. She's a bit older
than me, but I think this is the right one.
(08:47):
And he didn't believe for me, and that's when he
said listened by September, I will give you a Saturday
like it him, like you're not gonna last. That's what
happened after we just ended up, you know, just make
happened and pro tip, just you know, instead of staying older,
I always learned the best way to say is you
(09:07):
can say more mature, because then it's you're not having
to stay older, like she's just sore mature. But have
you always been attracted to more mature women than yourself?
I have to say yes. But also because of so care,
because of the industry that's been all my life. I always,
(09:27):
you know, have been you know, involved in groups older
than me. So for me, when I make carolines, it
was kind of like my eight I didn't really see dates,
you know, since the beginning, so we just started it.
And for me, I was just dealing with someone you know,
completely on the same level as me. And that's why
I think we made it work because I just step
up a little bit. Even though I knew she was
(09:48):
eighteen years older than me. I was pretty four when
I met her, so am I. But I you know,
I pushed myself because I wanted to make it work.
So you know, that was the key. I think, well,
one of the things that I appreciate the most watching
is your relationship with your your step kids because you
(10:08):
can tell like they they have a report with you
where they feel comfortable to joke with you. And I
think that's so huge. That's what you can really see love.
Like anybody comparent, but when you see a kid that's
actually feel safe enough that they can joke with the
other person, like Caroline's daughter when she's talking to you,
or like I was, like, she is a breakout star.
(10:29):
I was crying laughing every time. But I really appreciate that.
How do you think that you built built that trust
in them, especially because you know, I mean to be honest,
it wasn't this since the beginning. He goes, you know,
the last thing I wanted was to break a family,
you know, and I was very clear with with Caroline
about this. So I was trying to make things, you know,
(10:50):
very slowly, the right of steps, and it was just
a bit complicated, you know, in the beginning, He goes,
you know, I didn't want the kids to see me
as a second that I was just I was very
clear with them. I was, you know, I'm just here,
I'm gonna support you here no matter what, and I'm
just a friend. You know, I want you to see
to see me as an older brother. H two of them,
(11:11):
what you know? Very it was very with two of them.
One of them it was a bit more complicated, you know,
because he was very at that stood car languages and
mom would I absolutely understand. Uh. It took me a
bit longer, but then it's just amazing because I to
be honest, I would never thought I was gonna be
in this position, and now everything is just it's just incredible.
You know, I love them as my kids and I
(11:32):
would I would do you know, anything for them. Yeah,
well you can definitely that that definitely translate on translates
on camera, and especially when you're filming with kids, that
can be difficult. I'm gonna have to ask you, do
(11:56):
you officially know what pre acclamps here means? Oh my god,
I want you to give me your definition, Like, honey, no,
you cannot call a friend. This isn't like whatever that
show is where you get to call in a friend. Now,
now you go with what you think it is. You know. Yeah,
(12:19):
I'm gonna tell you know, he's gonna take your shirt off.
You know what I think it is. It's just in English,
he doesn't sound the same thing as pennies. So maybe
I know what it is, but I just don't know
in English pre acclaimsy, I just it sounds very complicated. Okay,
maybe that is the case, but maybe not. Just give
(12:39):
me like a three five seconds sound bite. Don't what
you think it may potentially be when women kind of
a baby? No, okay, I'm gonna give you the definition
so you can take this home with you. Let it resonate.
Pre acclaimsy is a complication of pregnancy with you clamsy.
(13:00):
You might have high blood pressure, high blood pressure, high
levels of protein in your urine that could indicate kidney
damage or other signs of oregon damage create clamsy. It
usually begins after twenty weeks of pregnancy, and women whose
blood pressure had previously been in a standard rage left
untreated pre a clamsy, it can lead to serious, even
(13:23):
fatal complications for both mother and baby. So it has
nothing to do with getting pregnant. But how it will
affect a woman wild pregnant. I okay, so now we've
got that. I feel like you're gonna nail it in
any other interview you're doing from here on out. Um,
next question, how are babies? If you're not doing IVF?
(13:47):
How do you think a baby is made? Actually, going
back to the left question, I know play is because
I just didn't get it, not like straight away. But
see how tammys use right on the last you know,
with Jetman and the less pregnancy, and I you know
she told me about it, you know, yea, But believe me.
(14:09):
I mean my husband was with me and the ivy,
like through all of my IVF treatments. He probably couldn't
explain it any better than than you do. And plus
there's a part of us that want our husbands to
understand every little detail. But then there's a part of
us that really I actually understood when Caroline goes, can
you walk away and leave? You like you're bugging because
(14:30):
like you're already stressed enough. They're making you hold dear
pe like you cannot go to the bathroom. They're like
digging around, and they're like so much is going on
that any distraction all you can think about when you're
like getting your eggs harviss like I want this to work,
Like I want this to work, and so I think
all of it is very relatable. When I see Caroline
(14:52):
on that, I stopped a little because I I don't
want her to go to police, you know, but I'm
portun option. And how did it make you feel when
you saw her say, if I'm not able to get pregnant,
I think he'll leave me. I could never leave her.
Come on, this is my is my other half, It's
my swulmate. You know, I would never He's my best friend.
(15:13):
I mean, I would love to build a bigger family
with her now we have now because I'm Latino and
I'm all of our family is the most important thing
for me. But if you know, the worst comes to
the wars and we cannot do it, you know, these
other ways always to you know, to have a baby,
you know. So I'm not worried, but I mean I
(15:34):
would love to have it. And I didn't really even know.
I had to do my own research that you can't
have a surrogate and dubai yeah exactly. Yeah, so that
really adds another dynamic to things because you know, in
the US you can and then you can. You can
even be with the surgeon, you can go to all
(15:55):
the doctor's appointments, you can do all the things in
the fact that that's not an option. Do you guys
know how many like boys you have versus girls. So
we have one little boy on ice which is healthy
and genetically right and ready to go. Uh. And then
we are gonna do one of around maybe next month,
(16:18):
to try to have another option. Yeah. And then would
would she put two in or one? I've done both,
So I've done multiple I've had it done do a
multiple times. But when I put you in, it didn't work.
When I put one in, it did. If you put
two in, you have the possibility of high in twins
correct or you have the possibility of one taking and whatnot. Okay,
(16:44):
but you're you're giving your it could but if you're
somebody who has free clamsy, that could add to having
even higher blood pins. And I'm not a doctor, this
is what I mean. Yeah, you understand. Yeah, But I
told her, honey, if after speaking to the doctor these
sences that you it can be dangerous for you. I
(17:05):
would never do that to you because I love you
so for me priorities you and your health. If that
doesn't work, let's see. Well that's nice to hear, especially
because when you're when you're watching one side. Then it's like,
uh so, now, but now you understand that a baby
(17:26):
can't be taken out halfway and moved to a new woman.
You got that part, you know the problem, you know,
like you don't really learn that the the technical part
of it, you know the practice. Everybody knows about it.
But normally you tickets again and you have the baby.
(17:46):
Then now you ticket take the baby stays there and
then someone take it out and then they give it
to you after and listen, you got it. Now you're
having a three years How is that post for someone
who doesn't know anything about how? I mean, I know
the basics, but I just don't know. Okay, So just
to give you a little backstory from tiki tikki, you
(18:08):
cannot then transfer. They have to put them, the doctors
have to put them together. That what happens from the
man's tiki tikki action and the girl's tiki tikki action
makes something and then they put that into somebody else.
It's not just like you have sex, you're good to go,
and then you can't when you when you spread out
(18:32):
the thirst, they go and they fly down to the
other side. That's where you learn. But no one tells
you a lot of stuff. Later. You know, well, my
husband is Colombian and his mom told him that, like
his his knowledge is so small. Like his mom told
him that if he masturbated ever, he would go blind.
So too. And then in the in the seventh grade,
(18:57):
he needed glasses and his mom was like, did it happen?
That's so good accidentally, but I was like, this is
like it's gotta be a you know, a thing. But
um so, next question, this is also a sexual education question.
Can you describe to us what an umbilical chord is for? Yeah,
(19:22):
umbilical cord, I think in a pan the cord bilical, Yes,
I think, yes, So the cord, I think the thing
that comes from your tomy out of the baby and
then when the baby comes, howd they cut it? Right?
But what does that cord do? What do you think that?
What do you think that job of that chord is
(19:44):
O feed the baby? Yes? Oh my god? All right,
so now we're gonna we're off of sex side because
you just got a point. So like you are, you're
winning all the things. Um now we're gonna get back
into housewives, which is if you had to play f
(20:07):
Mary kill with the other Dubai housewives besides Caroline, who
are you picking? Have you this game f is fu
c K. I can't say that because this is the
family show that you would have, that you would have
(20:28):
tikki tikki with a housewife that you would marry. And
how we don't have to say kill, we can say
never see again? Yes, okay? So who's who's who would
yours be? Yeah? Okay? You can't put Caroline for anything.
I had to play this with every franchise. It's very
difficult for me with some honey on hating me for
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these sea house wife tik tiki. Yes if yes, I
couldn't know away of him he's Caroline, I would say
sat on money okay, all right, because that's because he
is closer at to my aids O the shade. Okay.
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Then who would you marry beautiful? No? No, no, no,
who would you marry? I got Mary Nina? Nina? Okay?
So like you're picking like the nicer of the girls. Okay?
And then who would you be fine never seeing again?
(21:39):
A few of them? Maybe? Um? And then which husband
is your favorite husband from Dubai? Like you would if
you could go on a trip with him. Allow, I
was actually with him today, Mona. I absolutely love him.
He's amazing. Nina's husband. Nina's husband. Okay, And then how
did it really come about that you ended up on
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that girl's trap? Did you feel like Caroline was upset
and you wanted to go be her night and shining Armor?
Were you gonna show up anyway just because you wanted
to be there because you knew that you were the
story of the show. I was no way. I was
been planning to have to be and I was just
talking to Carolina and I and she just he was crying.
He was so upset, and I just felt so bad
(22:23):
for her. I just I had to do it. Oh.
I literally just came at the end of the of
the tree just to pick her up, you know, but
just come in. But I just gotta get Sky and
I just came in a bit earlier, but you know,
I was just my idea was to come just to
pick Caroline and just take her home. And can you
give me a better idea of Dubai, Like from where
you guys live, how long does it take to get
(22:44):
to the location where they had that trip on the boat? Oh,
it's actually amazing. Because it feels like my leaves and
it's just forty five minutes to an hour from where
we actually live. Oh wow, because I see that you
guys go on all these incredible like you go on
all these labis vacations, are all these very places, and
they're all like research what they are, and I'm like, oh,
(23:06):
this is all kind of in the same area. Yeah,
that's the beauty of the bye that you can have
a bit of everything in the same city, you know,
I mean actually, which is a bit far, but even
just in the why if you go to the beach
anywhere in the palm, it's just beautiful here. The one
thing that I also learned last night when I was
watching was that the one thing that all the women
(23:28):
could agree on was the reason that they chose Dubai
was because of safety and help safe. Everybody feels it's incredible.
I cannot tell you it's for us, is like lifestyle
wise and security. You know, it's just one of the
best cities in the world, and I would say the
best city in the world. Well, because also didn't you
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guys go somewhere and you were recently robbed, Yes, it was.
We went to we flew the baye to Mikonos, and
as soon as we land, within three hours, we got
robe and they took a with him. They pot from
the there was you know, it was a whole thing.
I was gonna say, you did they know who you were?
You think or who you guys were and tracked you
or tracked her Instagram or do you think it was
(24:10):
just really I think it was an inside job, you know,
because it was just very were we arrived in the island.
Then within three hours we arrived, get to the leave
the staff, go to dinner, and then we came back
and everything was gone, and the people were stairs in
the room on the top. I was I was shocked.
I was. And they said they didn't hear anything. Yeah, nothing,
(24:32):
Did you hear anything? Then nothing? And then Carol I
wanted to go in and go off stairs and I
was holding Caroline. Of course you did. I was. I
was peeing myself. I was so scared, My god, I
have to leave. I mean, I want to be the man.
And unfortunately it's kind of the money in the relationship.
So you know what I get that, I get that
um and then who on the show, it appears that
(24:55):
you take longer to get ready. Is that true? There's
no way. I deal already. I get a ready in
like five minutes. Caroline is like a whole thing. Well,
my husband, it's mainly he just he will wait till
the last minute it's time to go, and then he
starts getting ready. So then he's the one that makes
us late. I'm like, I may take longer, but you're
(25:17):
always freaking late, like always late, and it makes me nuts.
And then he's like, what why since dress? I mean,
I'm not late. Caroline is the one who is kind
of like always on the time, like right there. But
it's true that I I just love Caroline, so I
rely a lot on her. So I asked her a
lot of things. That's why in the show it looks
like I'm kind of like, honey, do you like this, honey, this, this, this, this,
(25:40):
you know, because I just I just I don't know,
I like her opinion. Yeah, Well, what was your favorite
memory from your wedding? Oh? My god, so many. I
mean a few of them, but I think one of
them because you know, we've been going to this place,
to the desert, uh where we have the pretty wedding
party maybe for the last three years since we met,
and we always dream about having this like walk you
(26:04):
know on the stairs together with the music, the friends,
So that wasn't a body special moment because we kind
of like be sliced since the beginning. And then also
just the father there's been in Bruffels, the palm, in
the hotel, you know, seeing our families and everybody, you know,
everything and white. It was just so special, like sometimes
we think about it and it was just wow, everything
(26:25):
just went so perfect, you know, I wouldn't think anything.
And so many apps and now because it was COVID,
it was quite complicated. You know, some guests couldn't make it,
but at the end it was it was beautiful. And
then how do you think that your families, I mean,
obviously they have some differences, but it really did seem
(26:45):
that they appreciated each other. How do you think that
your parents actually hundrevers and the appertity each other they
you know, the competition was so much fluent that what
he shows in the show. It was my father worked
in you know, in an American company. He you know,
he actually speaks like amazing English. My mom as well.
It was just kind of like weird in the show
(27:06):
but they really, you know, appreciate each other and they
you know, they gotta go amazing. How is it working
with your wife? Because I when I first met my
(27:27):
husband and I wrote horses for a living, and then
I got pregnant. I wasn't able to do that anymore,
and I started like helping him with work stuff. I
maybe made it like I don't know, six weeks and
then I was like, I prob, you will no longer
be living if we continue doing this, Like I need
to figure out something else. So like, how is that
and how do you deal with it when it starts
(27:48):
to bubble over? I mean, to be honest, I think
because I'm younger, and I kind of since the beginning,
I kind of decided to join the cow I extumbled train. Yes,
you know, like I decided to, Okay, let's just do
this together because I think together we can be stronger
and let's just build it together. Ah. So I think,
you know, for me, it's it's kind of like, you know,
(28:08):
I look up to her a load, so I listened
to her a load. So I take her advices a lot,
but I run, you know, kind of all the social
media stuff and all the marketing. I you know, I
move her with the whole team downstairs and everything, so
you know, we do together. Sometimes it's true that I
just have to. Let's we just you know, fight and
I just have to you know, but I learned how
to do it. Just leave her alone, you know, and
come back later. Okay, So what what's your fighting style? Like?
(28:31):
Are you you get quiet and you sunk or you
a like you say something that you regret or do
you need to talk it out before you got to sleep.
I have to talk. If not, it will never I
will literally die. You know. We just see goals all out.
Sounds like a sponge. I just get everything and then
sometimes I explode. But normally, you know, in general, we
(28:51):
just get it and just be quiet and leave and
then come back later. Yeah, and then you make sure
that but you can't go to bed angry. We're sad. No,
that's that's not I can't either. It like eats me alive,
like I if I feel like there's something going, like
if we fall asleep, and like we can't even like
touch hands before we got a battle again we have
(29:13):
when we go to wed we put the feet together,
you know, likedies and we have to do that because
that means like peace, that means that lacks you know,
if we do that, it means that everything is good. Yeah,
that makes sense. Um, And you just got back from
a two month honeymoon. What's the next trip for y'all?
That was crazy? I'm actually we just thinking here. I'm
actually going back to Bali for business and stuff and
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I'm going alone just for two days and then coming
back here and then we're gonna go to New York
to Bravo corn Oh fun, Well, I like that. And
then can you set the record straight on your soccer career?
Mm hmm, all right, explain it to me like I
don't know anything about soccer because I don't. My son
(29:57):
plays football, like actual football, not soccer. That's so basically.
I am from Spain, Madrid. I started when I was
five years old playing for a small team in my town,
and then slowly I got a queer by Nike. I
started traveling with Nike, and then after that I got
(30:17):
realmari called me when I was fourteen thirteen, fourteen years old.
I was sorry, thirteen two fourteen years old. Real Marie
called me. I became professional at the age of fifteen.
You can become a professional active team. Yeah. So then
a professional contract for five years with Marria fifteen and
(30:37):
kind of my life you know, changed completely because I
have to leave the normal school. I went to like
a different school. Uh. And then you know I played
for them, Uh almost six and a half years. I had,
you know, a five years contract and an omber three
years contract, but I broke the last contract because I
was not playing because I was on the bench, uh them.
(31:00):
From there, I moved to the US. I end up
playing in New York and then transfer to Los Angeles. Okay,
so you broke the contract because you you were still
being paid to play, but you weren't actually being put
on the field. So you're like, yeah, so if you're
a soccer player, I think any sport, Yeah, if you
have a contract for a professional team, they no matter
(31:22):
what you do, nor whether if they pay you no money,
if you broke a lego anything, they have to pay you.
So I was getting paid, Caroline. You know, seem my contract.
You know, I don't want to solve but you know
I have a Contractum. But you know, I started very
early stage in my life to play soccer and to
it becomes a full time yob you know, and basically
(31:43):
it's all you do. So I didn't really have any childhood.
So that's why when I was twenty three twenty four,
I was ready to change kind of you know, and
turned into a different life. But at the same time
I was always playing soccer. I got my international business degree,
I got my NBA Media and Communication and the etal marketing,
and then that's why that allowed me to change into
the business side of you know, of of of you know,
(32:07):
of the of life. Basically, yes, you're a worker. No, listen,
I had so many I mean, I would have to
talk about this because it's like a whole thing, but
you know, I I would never forget it. When I
was sixteen, my coach called me. He brought them into
the office and he said to me, listen, I see
that you have different priorities in life. Um, you know
that you have your modeling because I was doing modeling
(32:29):
at that time. You are studying, you are going to university,
et cetera, and you are playing soccer. So for me,
I had two options or soccer or the construction, and
I chose soccer. You because you have so many possibilities,
you aren't gonna play any menal with me. So because
of him, basically he kind of like me a little bit.
My career because of that, because he bends me. And
(32:51):
he was just yellows of because I was coming from
a good family, you know, think that I have, you know,
a normal you know, like worker family, you know, but
the realities that in soccer, the you know, it's the
life like well it's just very very low class people,
you know, and that's sad, but it's just like that,
you know, because I was coming from a good family
(33:11):
with possibilities that kind of like you know translated, it
ruined my career. And if you had if you guys
had a son, if you if your son, that is honest,
we can, would you have them play soccer? If you
loved it? Would you would you like being one of
those dads outside like or would you be like looking
(33:32):
to Yeah, socre was amazing for me and um who
I am because of soccer. But also it was very
hard for me, you know because you know, I cry
a lot. It was very tough. You know, when I
was here after leaving soccer, I had one year and
a half that I couldn't watch or feel aball, you know,
I couldn't watch any oka. It was. It was very
(33:53):
hard for me. Even now, I still you know, I
cannot do it. So I don't know if I would
put my son into that professional a little maybe he
will play, but I don't know. He's very top because
he left that thing here in my heart. You know.
I have the same thing with with riding horses, and
I can't do it. I can't do it half in
half out. People say, you know you're a professional for
(34:15):
so long, why don't you do anymore? And I'm like,
because I can't half asset, Like I either need to
like be all in and all my time and be
one of the best, or just not do it and
route my daughter on like, but I can't. It's hard
for me to do it a little bit and not
be very good at it. And then you're like, oh,
what am I doing not with my thing? When I
when I finished round, I would like, listen, I want
(34:38):
to be I want to be a businessman work because
it was just no, my my, my, my route, and
I took the business side. You know, I think that
makes sense. And I'm gonna leave you with one final question.
Do you have any the most what was the most
positive thing from your first season of filming on the
(34:58):
Real House Lives of Dubai and do you have any regrets?
The most positive thing it was getting to know all
this amazing women in the show, all the people arounder
the other queue. It was just such an amazing experience.
You know, you're having everybody in the house is for me.
It's a once in a lifetime life experience. And you know,
(35:18):
to be honest, I don'nderget anything, you know, and I'm
so happy and I tell Carol all the time that
we are able to do it together, which is incredible.
You know, that's huge. Any regrets like it? It's maybe
no knowing not that many things about babies and people
(35:40):
are going into it. Uh, well, you know what, You're
a good sport, so we um. We appreciate you so
much for coming on and letting us tease you, and
we wish we could give you a big hug because
you know, we watched last night and we were like,
like that whole first segment was about you. So we
are looking forward to continue watching the reunion. Hopefully we'll
(36:02):
see you. I know we can't. You can't tell us,
but we'll keep tuning in. Okay, thank you so much
for having thanks for coming on by him,
Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellancamps and camera judge. Hi, guys,
welcome to Two Teas in a Pod with myself, Teddy
Mellencamp and myself Teddy Mellencamp. Tamra is filming today, so
I have a special guest and I'll be grilling him alone.
(00:25):
It is Sergio Carreo, Caroline Stanberry's husband, who you know what,
Let's be honest. He may as well be a housewife
because he was pretty much in the show more than
some of the housewives. All right, well, I'm excited to
bring him on, grill him on a little sex education
(00:46):
and go from there. Hi, Sergio, how are you look
at you with your pink Oh my god, the pink
background and the do you think this is a confessional?
Oh my? Is your dog matching you? I hold on?
(01:07):
Is that your Yeah? I can't. And I also need
to know, is Caroline. I feel like I see an
additional person on the zoom is sheet and you're watching
us too. I knew, and I was like, she's got
her finger on the pulse somewhere. There is absolutely no
(01:29):
way she's my kind of girl. She has got this
on lock. I even put him in the closet. That's
why you will thank you belong. Oh speak, well, let's
just jump right into that because when I posted that
you were coming on, everyone and their mother sent me
text messages saying you need to ask him who Derek
(01:50):
Warburton is. Oh, okay, so who is Derek? And do
we need to just cover this? It's basically is the
his friend of a friend of mine who was kind
of like doing all these parties in Los Angeles and
I was just literally just a gay friend of his.
No, no no, I don't even a friend anymore. Like I
was invited to party and they do that picture of
(02:12):
fast with other people and that's it. We're gonna yeah,
which is like completely normal like us Europe being he's Latin,
ridiculous when he dresses. I mean, my husband is also
Latin um, but I have yet to make him dress
(02:34):
up to match. His dogs are dogs. But that's happening
next it made happen. I don't know that I'm actually
know what I'm going to get out of this, but
I actually think it's really sad that we have beaten
feelings and whatever out of our men. If a man
shows his feelings, he's gay or you know, hugs or
(02:55):
cries or does you know whatever. I mean, he was
a soccer player, and I mean, I mean stand for
this part. I mean, I think that's huge, especially because Caroline,
you are very much in the same way that I am,
where we are very like, we're kind of type A.
We can be come off as a little you know,
(03:17):
like I wait until I trust somebody to really open up,
and you can see that Sergio is the opposite, and
opposites attract, Like my husband always believes in the best
in everybody. I believe the worst and everybody and you know,
you say also like thinking about tamer and Eddie, they
have a very similar situation. So I mean, I think
we have to see all different types of relationships because
(03:40):
that's how we work. If we're all the same, we'd
all kill each other just because other people don't understand it.
And the thing is, you know, like again, it just
annoys me that I have to prove whether I have
sex with my husband. We've been together four years, and
do you think I got divorced so that I couldn't
have sex for the rest of my life? But I
do want to know why you guys call it uticky
(04:01):
because we call ours wicky wicky. Yes, because our old
when we didn't have we're kind of broke, our bed
would always go wick wick wick wick Wi. I love that. Yeah,
you think he's like easy way just to say, you know, yeah,
(04:21):
we definitely have sex. He's not gay and he has
gay friends like we all do. I love that. He's
a man's you know, he's a he's a guy that's
comfortable in his own skin. Why not. It's just sad
for the fact that Yes, sold my feelings and I
just literally I'm just romantic. I have to do jets. Yes,
you are ridiculously romantic. He is. He lives in a movie,
one of those old movies. He's like, it's just you know,
(04:42):
even like he's boring, even though I just want to
get well and we'll move on from that. I just
figured we'll get the worst. We'll get like the most
asked Instagram question out of the way at the beginning,
so then we can get to the fun stuff, like
the sex education you're going to teach me. Oh my god,
I'm getting out of it. I'm gonna okay. So I
(05:05):
was books afternoon till well, my producer just texted me
She's like, by the way he looks fire, please tell
him so compliments from her, um, But I mean, another
big thing that I need to know is how does
it feel essentially being a housewife. You are more talked
about this season and more featured than I would say
(05:28):
at least two of the housewives. I mean, to be honest,
it's been amazing ride. You know, very intense, but it's
been incredible because, you know, for me just to being
able to just share the whole experience with someone that
I love, with his Caroline and when it together is
it's amazing. Yeah, when you first started filming where you're nervous,
(05:48):
oh my god. The first the first day of filming,
they said, listen, come in this hour and then just
get at this hour and then just be yourself. And
I literally just get out. I didn't have toweling almost
and there were like three were coming out. I was
just he told me a while just to get used
to it. Well, my husband actually was watching because there
was like a scene where you didn't have your shirt on.
He's like, I am so irritated. They never let me
(06:10):
film without a shirt because like the mic pack or whatever.
I'm like, I don't know things are different, du buy,
I guess, let me put it in um and then
so you remember the first day, do you think that maybe,
like next season, you should actually be holding one of
the gold coins at the front. I mean yes, yes,
(06:37):
I oh my gosh, I love it. Okay, So from
your point of view, not not Caroline cannot chime in here?
How did you and Caroline meet? I thine we met?
So we were I wasn't in Newport, California. I lived
within three years, and he was doing um uh like
(07:01):
a life you know, stand up show, talking about like
you know, empowerment, empowerment women and all that stuff. And
I got invited there. Uh basically, I can't invite to
someone who was trying to, you know, to get to
know me, and I end up going there. I didn't
know what I was going, and that's how I met Caroline.
(07:23):
I met there. So much is trying to get to
know you. Do you mean like another check kind of yes,
so you are on a date when you met Caroline.
I mean I didn't know what I was going to
be honest. They invited me to this event and it
was five minutes from my house. I end up going.
(07:45):
My friend was there. Uh, you know, randomly, I was
literally back to work with Caroline on the VIP section
and we just started talking and it was just like
an amazing connection that we had since the beginning and
then had so you weren't living in Dubai. That happened later, Yeah,
happened later. That happened a year after, and now I
(08:06):
need to know. So we have absolutely no idea how
much money your dad would have paid you to not
marry Caroline. Now, I mean, it wasn't enough. It was, yeah,
I mean I definitely I don't think anything would be
enough because you know, all that, all that came out
like a very funny way. But basically my dad said
(08:27):
to me, I know you you know, because you know
I came up, you know, before I get to my dad,
you know, saying like, oh the oh my god, I
made this amazing woman. I mean, this amazing girl, you know,
but it was never kind of the right one. But
then this one, which is Caroline. I said that I
made this amazing and credible woman. She's a bit older
than me, but I think this is the right one.
(08:47):
And he didn't believe for me, and that's when he
said listened by September, I will give you a Saturday
like it him, like you're not gonna last. That's what
happened after we just ended up, you know, just make
happened and pro tip, just you know, instead of staying older,
I always learned the best way to say is you
(09:07):
can say more mature, because then it's you're not having
to stay older, like she's just sore mature. But have
you always been attracted to more mature women than yourself?
I have to say yes. But also because of so care,
because of the industry that's been all my life. I always,
(09:27):
you know, have been you know, involved in groups older
than me. So for me, when I make carolines, it
was kind of like my eight I didn't really see dates,
you know, since the beginning, so we just started it.
And for me, I was just dealing with someone you know,
completely on the same level as me. And that's why
I think we made it work because I just step
up a little bit. Even though I knew she was
(09:48):
eighteen years older than me. I was pretty four when
I met her, so am I. But I you know,
I pushed myself because I wanted to make it work.
So you know, that was the key. I think, well,
one of the things that I appreciate the most watching
is your relationship with your your step kids because you
(10:08):
can tell like they they have a report with you
where they feel comfortable to joke with you. And I
think that's so huge. That's what you can really see love.
Like anybody comparent, but when you see a kid that's
actually feel safe enough that they can joke with the
other person, like Caroline's daughter when she's talking to you,
or like I was, like, she is a breakout star.
(10:29):
I was crying laughing every time. But I really appreciate that.
How do you think that you built built that trust
in them, especially because you know, I mean to be honest,
it wasn't this since the beginning. He goes, you know,
the last thing I wanted was to break a family,
you know, and I was very clear with with Caroline
about this. So I was trying to make things, you know,
(10:50):
very slowly, the right of steps, and it was just
a bit complicated, you know, in the beginning, He goes,
you know, I didn't want the kids to see me
as a second that I was just I was very
clear with them. I was, you know, I'm just here,
I'm gonna support you here no matter what, and I'm
just a friend. You know, I want you to see
to see me as an older brother. H two of them,
(11:11):
what you know? Very it was very with two of them.
One of them it was a bit more complicated, you know,
because he was very at that stood car languages and
mom would I absolutely understand. Uh. It took me a
bit longer, but then it's just amazing because I to
be honest, I would never thought I was gonna be
in this position, and now everything is just it's just incredible.
You know, I love them as my kids and I
(11:32):
would I would do you know, anything for them. Yeah,
well you can definitely that that definitely translate on translates
on camera, and especially when you're filming with kids, that
can be difficult. I'm gonna have to ask you, do
(11:56):
you officially know what pre acclamps here means? Oh my god,
I want you to give me your definition, Like, honey, no,
you cannot call a friend. This isn't like whatever that
show is where you get to call in a friend. Now,
now you go with what you think it is. You know. Yeah,
(12:19):
I'm gonna tell you know, he's gonna take your shirt off.
You know what I think it is. It's just in English,
he doesn't sound the same thing as pennies. So maybe
I know what it is, but I just don't know
in English pre acclaimsy, I just it sounds very complicated. Okay,
maybe that is the case, but maybe not. Just give
(12:39):
me like a three five seconds sound bite. Don't what
you think it may potentially be when women kind of
a baby? No, okay, I'm gonna give you the definition
so you can take this home with you. Let it resonate.
Pre acclaimsy is a complication of pregnancy with you clamsy.
(13:00):
You might have high blood pressure, high blood pressure, high
levels of protein in your urine that could indicate kidney
damage or other signs of oregon damage create clamsy. It
usually begins after twenty weeks of pregnancy, and women whose
blood pressure had previously been in a standard rage left
untreated pre a clamsy, it can lead to serious, even
(13:23):
fatal complications for both mother and baby. So it has
nothing to do with getting pregnant. But how it will
affect a woman wild pregnant. I okay, so now we've
got that. I feel like you're gonna nail it in
any other interview you're doing from here on out. Um,
next question, how are babies? If you're not doing IVF?
(13:47):
How do you think a baby is made? Actually, going
back to the left question, I know play is because
I just didn't get it, not like straight away. But
see how tammys use right on the last you know,
with Jetman and the less pregnancy, and I you know
she told me about it, you know, yea, But believe me.
(14:09):
I mean my husband was with me and the ivy,
like through all of my IVF treatments. He probably couldn't
explain it any better than than you do. And plus
there's a part of us that want our husbands to
understand every little detail. But then there's a part of
us that really I actually understood when Caroline goes, can
you walk away and leave? You like you're bugging because
(14:30):
like you're already stressed enough. They're making you hold dear
pe like you cannot go to the bathroom. They're like
digging around, and they're like so much is going on
that any distraction all you can think about when you're
like getting your eggs harviss like I want this to work,
Like I want this to work, and so I think
all of it is very relatable. When I see Caroline
(14:52):
on that, I stopped a little because I I don't
want her to go to police, you know, but I'm
portun option. And how did it make you feel when
you saw her say, if I'm not able to get pregnant,
I think he'll leave me. I could never leave her.
Come on, this is my is my other half, It's
my swulmate. You know, I would never He's my best friend.
(15:13):
I mean, I would love to build a bigger family
with her now we have now because I'm Latino and
I'm all of our family is the most important thing
for me. But if you know, the worst comes to
the wars and we cannot do it, you know, these
other ways always to you know, to have a baby,
you know. So I'm not worried, but I mean I
(15:34):
would love to have it. And I didn't really even know.
I had to do my own research that you can't
have a surrogate and dubai yeah exactly. Yeah, so that
really adds another dynamic to things because you know, in
the US you can and then you can. You can
even be with the surgeon, you can go to all
(15:55):
the doctor's appointments, you can do all the things in
the fact that that's not an option. Do you guys
know how many like boys you have versus girls. So
we have one little boy on ice which is healthy
and genetically right and ready to go. Uh. And then
we are gonna do one of around maybe next month,
(16:18):
to try to have another option. Yeah. And then would
would she put two in or one? I've done both,
So I've done multiple I've had it done do a
multiple times. But when I put you in, it didn't work.
When I put one in, it did. If you put
two in, you have the possibility of high in twins
correct or you have the possibility of one taking and whatnot. Okay,
(16:44):
but you're you're giving your it could but if you're
somebody who has free clamsy, that could add to having
even higher blood pins. And I'm not a doctor, this
is what I mean. Yeah, you understand. Yeah, But I
told her, honey, if after speaking to the doctor these
sences that you it can be dangerous for you. I
(17:05):
would never do that to you because I love you
so for me priorities you and your health. If that
doesn't work, let's see. Well that's nice to hear, especially
because when you're when you're watching one side. Then it's like,
uh so, now, but now you understand that a baby
(17:26):
can't be taken out halfway and moved to a new woman.
You got that part, you know the problem, you know,
like you don't really learn that the the technical part
of it, you know the practice. Everybody knows about it.
But normally you tickets again and you have the baby.
(17:46):
Then now you ticket take the baby stays there and
then someone take it out and then they give it
to you after and listen, you got it. Now you're
having a three years How is that post for someone
who doesn't know anything about how? I mean, I know
the basics, but I just don't know. Okay, So just
to give you a little backstory from tiki tikki, you
(18:08):
cannot then transfer. They have to put them, the doctors
have to put them together. That what happens from the
man's tiki tikki action and the girl's tiki tikki action
makes something and then they put that into somebody else.
It's not just like you have sex, you're good to go,
and then you can't when you when you spread out
(18:32):
the thirst, they go and they fly down to the
other side. That's where you learn. But no one tells
you a lot of stuff. Later. You know, well, my
husband is Colombian and his mom told him that, like
his his knowledge is so small. Like his mom told
him that if he masturbated ever, he would go blind.
So too. And then in the in the seventh grade,
(18:57):
he needed glasses and his mom was like, did it happen?
That's so good accidentally, but I was like, this is
like it's gotta be a you know, a thing. But
um so, next question, this is also a sexual education question.
Can you describe to us what an umbilical chord is for? Yeah,
(19:22):
umbilical cord, I think in a pan the cord bilical, Yes,
I think, yes, So the cord, I think the thing
that comes from your tomy out of the baby and
then when the baby comes, howd they cut it? Right?
But what does that cord do? What do you think that?
What do you think that job of that chord is
(19:44):
O feed the baby? Yes? Oh my god? All right,
so now we're gonna we're off of sex side because
you just got a point. So like you are, you're
winning all the things. Um now we're gonna get back
into housewives, which is if you had to play f
(20:07):
Mary kill with the other Dubai housewives besides Caroline, who
are you picking? Have you this game f is fu
c K. I can't say that because this is the
family show that you would have, that you would have
(20:28):
tikki tikki with a housewife that you would marry. And
how we don't have to say kill, we can say
never see again? Yes, okay? So who's who's who would
yours be? Yeah? Okay? You can't put Caroline for anything.
I had to play this with every franchise. It's very
difficult for me with some honey on hating me for
(20:50):
these sea house wife tik tiki. Yes if yes, I
couldn't know away of him he's Caroline, I would say
sat on money okay, all right, because that's because he
is closer at to my aids O the shade. Okay.
(21:15):
Then who would you marry beautiful? No? No, no, no,
who would you marry? I got Mary Nina? Nina? Okay?
So like you're picking like the nicer of the girls. Okay?
And then who would you be fine never seeing again?
(21:39):
A few of them? Maybe? Um? And then which husband
is your favorite husband from Dubai? Like you would if
you could go on a trip with him. Allow, I
was actually with him today, Mona. I absolutely love him.
He's amazing. Nina's husband. Nina's husband. Okay, And then how
did it really come about that you ended up on
(22:00):
that girl's trap? Did you feel like Caroline was upset
and you wanted to go be her night and shining Armor?
Were you gonna show up anyway just because you wanted
to be there because you knew that you were the
story of the show. I was no way. I was
been planning to have to be and I was just
talking to Carolina and I and she just he was crying.
He was so upset, and I just felt so bad
(22:23):
for her. I just I had to do it. Oh.
I literally just came at the end of the of
the tree just to pick her up, you know, but
just come in. But I just gotta get Sky and
I just came in a bit earlier, but you know,
I was just my idea was to come just to
pick Caroline and just take her home. And can you
give me a better idea of Dubai, Like from where
you guys live, how long does it take to get
(22:44):
to the location where they had that trip on the boat? Oh,
it's actually amazing. Because it feels like my leaves and
it's just forty five minutes to an hour from where
we actually live. Oh wow, because I see that you
guys go on all these incredible like you go on
all these labis vacations, are all these very places, and
they're all like research what they are, and I'm like, oh,
(23:06):
this is all kind of in the same area. Yeah,
that's the beauty of the bye that you can have
a bit of everything in the same city, you know,
I mean actually, which is a bit far, but even
just in the why if you go to the beach
anywhere in the palm, it's just beautiful here. The one
thing that I also learned last night when I was
watching was that the one thing that all the women
(23:28):
could agree on was the reason that they chose Dubai
was because of safety and help safe. Everybody feels it's incredible.
I cannot tell you it's for us, is like lifestyle
wise and security. You know, it's just one of the
best cities in the world, and I would say the
best city in the world. Well, because also didn't you
(23:49):
guys go somewhere and you were recently robbed, Yes, it was.
We went to we flew the baye to Mikonos, and
as soon as we land, within three hours, we got
robe and they took a with him. They pot from
the there was you know, it was a whole thing.
I was gonna say, you did they know who you were?
You think or who you guys were and tracked you
or tracked her Instagram or do you think it was
(24:10):
just really I think it was an inside job, you know,
because it was just very were we arrived in the island.
Then within three hours we arrived, get to the leave
the staff, go to dinner, and then we came back
and everything was gone, and the people were stairs in
the room on the top. I was I was shocked.
I was. And they said they didn't hear anything. Yeah, nothing,
(24:32):
Did you hear anything? Then nothing? And then Carol I
wanted to go in and go off stairs and I
was holding Caroline. Of course you did. I was. I
was peeing myself. I was so scared, My god, I
have to leave. I mean, I want to be the man.
And unfortunately it's kind of the money in the relationship.
So you know what I get that, I get that
um and then who on the show, it appears that
(24:55):
you take longer to get ready. Is that true? There's
no way. I deal already. I get a ready in
like five minutes. Caroline is like a whole thing. Well,
my husband, it's mainly he just he will wait till
the last minute it's time to go, and then he
starts getting ready. So then he's the one that makes
us late. I'm like, I may take longer, but you're
(25:17):
always freaking late, like always late, and it makes me nuts.
And then he's like, what why since dress? I mean,
I'm not late. Caroline is the one who is kind
of like always on the time, like right there. But
it's true that I I just love Caroline, so I
rely a lot on her. So I asked her a
lot of things. That's why in the show it looks
like I'm kind of like, honey, do you like this, honey, this, this, this, this,
(25:40):
you know, because I just I just I don't know,
I like her opinion. Yeah, Well, what was your favorite
memory from your wedding? Oh? My god, so many. I
mean a few of them, but I think one of
them because you know, we've been going to this place,
to the desert, uh where we have the pretty wedding
party maybe for the last three years since we met,
and we always dream about having this like walk you
(26:04):
know on the stairs together with the music, the friends,
So that wasn't a body special moment because we kind
of like be sliced since the beginning. And then also
just the father there's been in Bruffels, the palm, in
the hotel, you know, seeing our families and everybody, you know,
everything and white. It was just so special, like sometimes
we think about it and it was just wow, everything
(26:25):
just went so perfect, you know, I wouldn't think anything.
And so many apps and now because it was COVID,
it was quite complicated. You know, some guests couldn't make it,
but at the end it was it was beautiful. And
then how do you think that your families, I mean,
obviously they have some differences, but it really did seem
(26:45):
that they appreciated each other. How do you think that
your parents actually hundrevers and the appertity each other they
you know, the competition was so much fluent that what
he shows in the show. It was my father worked
in you know, in an American company. He you know,
he actually speaks like amazing English. My mom as well.
It was just kind of like weird in the show
(27:06):
but they really, you know, appreciate each other and they
you know, they gotta go amazing. How is it working
with your wife? Because I when I first met my
(27:27):
husband and I wrote horses for a living, and then
I got pregnant. I wasn't able to do that anymore,
and I started like helping him with work stuff. I
maybe made it like I don't know, six weeks and
then I was like, I prob, you will no longer
be living if we continue doing this, Like I need
to figure out something else. So like, how is that
and how do you deal with it when it starts
(27:48):
to bubble over? I mean, to be honest, I think
because I'm younger, and I kind of since the beginning,
I kind of decided to join the cow I extumbled train. Yes,
you know, like I decided to, Okay, let's just do
this together because I think together we can be stronger
and let's just build it together. Ah. So I think,
you know, for me, it's it's kind of like, you know,
(28:08):
I look up to her a load, so I listened
to her a load. So I take her advices a lot,
but I run, you know, kind of all the social
media stuff and all the marketing. I you know, I
move her with the whole team downstairs and everything, so
you know, we do together. Sometimes it's true that I
just have to. Let's we just you know, fight and
I just have to you know, but I learned how
to do it. Just leave her alone, you know, and
come back later. Okay, So what what's your fighting style? Like?
(28:31):
Are you you get quiet and you sunk or you
a like you say something that you regret or do
you need to talk it out before you got to sleep.
I have to talk. If not, it will never I
will literally die. You know. We just see goals all out.
Sounds like a sponge. I just get everything and then
sometimes I explode. But normally, you know, in general, we
(28:51):
just get it and just be quiet and leave and
then come back later. Yeah, and then you make sure
that but you can't go to bed angry. We're sad. No,
that's that's not I can't either. It like eats me alive,
like I if I feel like there's something going, like
if we fall asleep, and like we can't even like
touch hands before we got a battle again we have
(29:13):
when we go to wed we put the feet together,
you know, likedies and we have to do that because
that means like peace, that means that lacks you know,
if we do that, it means that everything is good. Yeah,
that makes sense. Um, And you just got back from
a two month honeymoon. What's the next trip for y'all?
That was crazy? I'm actually we just thinking here. I'm
actually going back to Bali for business and stuff and
(29:35):
I'm going alone just for two days and then coming
back here and then we're gonna go to New York
to Bravo corn Oh fun, Well, I like that. And
then can you set the record straight on your soccer career?
Mm hmm, all right, explain it to me like I
don't know anything about soccer because I don't. My son
(29:57):
plays football, like actual football, not soccer. That's so basically.
I am from Spain, Madrid. I started when I was
five years old playing for a small team in my town,
and then slowly I got a queer by Nike. I
started traveling with Nike, and then after that I got
(30:17):
realmari called me when I was fourteen thirteen, fourteen years old.
I was sorry, thirteen two fourteen years old. Real Marie
called me. I became professional at the age of fifteen.
You can become a professional active team. Yeah. So then
a professional contract for five years with Marria fifteen and
(30:37):
kind of my life you know, changed completely because I
have to leave the normal school. I went to like
a different school. Uh. And then you know I played
for them, Uh almost six and a half years. I had,
you know, a five years contract and an omber three
years contract, but I broke the last contract because I
was not playing because I was on the bench, uh them.
(31:00):
From there, I moved to the US. I end up
playing in New York and then transfer to Los Angeles. Okay,
so you broke the contract because you you were still
being paid to play, but you weren't actually being put
on the field. So you're like, yeah, so if you're
a soccer player, I think any sport, Yeah, if you
have a contract for a professional team, they no matter
(31:22):
what you do, nor whether if they pay you no money,
if you broke a lego anything, they have to pay you.
So I was getting paid, Caroline. You know, seem my contract.
You know, I don't want to solve but you know
I have a Contractum. But you know, I started very
early stage in my life to play soccer and to
it becomes a full time yob you know, and basically
(31:43):
it's all you do. So I didn't really have any childhood.
So that's why when I was twenty three twenty four,
I was ready to change kind of you know, and
turned into a different life. But at the same time
I was always playing soccer. I got my international business degree,
I got my NBA Media and Communication and the etal marketing,
and then that's why that allowed me to change into
the business side of you know, of of of you know,
(32:07):
of the of life. Basically, yes, you're a worker. No, listen,
I had so many I mean, I would have to
talk about this because it's like a whole thing, but
you know, I I would never forget it. When I
was sixteen, my coach called me. He brought them into
the office and he said to me, listen, I see
that you have different priorities in life. Um, you know
that you have your modeling because I was doing modeling
(32:29):
at that time. You are studying, you are going to university,
et cetera, and you are playing soccer. So for me,
I had two options or soccer or the construction, and
I chose soccer. You because you have so many possibilities,
you aren't gonna play any menal with me. So because
of him, basically he kind of like me a little bit.
My career because of that, because he bends me. And
(32:51):
he was just yellows of because I was coming from
a good family, you know, think that I have, you know,
a normal you know, like worker family, you know, but
the realities that in soccer, the you know, it's the
life like well it's just very very low class people,
you know, and that's sad, but it's just like that,
you know, because I was coming from a good family
(33:11):
with possibilities that kind of like you know translated, it
ruined my career. And if you had if you guys
had a son, if you if your son, that is honest,
we can, would you have them play soccer? If you
loved it? Would you would you like being one of
those dads outside like or would you be like looking
(33:32):
to Yeah, socre was amazing for me and um who
I am because of soccer. But also it was very
hard for me, you know because you know, I cry
a lot. It was very tough. You know, when I
was here after leaving soccer, I had one year and
a half that I couldn't watch or feel aball, you know,
I couldn't watch any oka. It was. It was very
(33:53):
hard for me. Even now, I still you know, I
cannot do it. So I don't know if I would
put my son into that professional a little maybe he
will play, but I don't know. He's very top because
he left that thing here in my heart. You know.
I have the same thing with with riding horses, and
I can't do it. I can't do it half in
half out. People say, you know you're a professional for
(34:15):
so long, why don't you do anymore? And I'm like,
because I can't half asset, Like I either need to
like be all in and all my time and be
one of the best, or just not do it and
route my daughter on like, but I can't. It's hard
for me to do it a little bit and not
be very good at it. And then you're like, oh,
what am I doing not with my thing? When I
when I finished round, I would like, listen, I want
(34:38):
to be I want to be a businessman work because
it was just no, my my, my, my route, and
I took the business side. You know, I think that
makes sense. And I'm gonna leave you with one final question.
Do you have any the most what was the most
positive thing from your first season of filming on the
(34:58):
Real House Lives of Dubai and do you have any regrets?
The most positive thing it was getting to know all
this amazing women in the show, all the people arounder
the other queue. It was just such an amazing experience.
You know, you're having everybody in the house is for me.
It's a once in a lifetime life experience. And you know,
(35:18):
to be honest, I don'nderget anything, you know, and I'm
so happy and I tell Carol all the time that
we are able to do it together, which is incredible.
You know, that's huge. Any regrets like it? It's maybe
no knowing not that many things about babies and people
(35:40):
are going into it. Uh, well, you know what, You're
a good sport, so we um. We appreciate you so
much for coming on and letting us tease you, and
we wish we could give you a big hug because
you know, we watched last night and we were like,
like that whole first segment was about you. So we
are looking forward to continue watching the reunion. Hopefully we'll
(36:02):
see you. I know we can't. You can't tell us,
but we'll keep tuning in. Okay, thank you so much
for having thanks for coming on by him,
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Teddi Mellencamp
Tamra Judge
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