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November 14, 2025 12 mins

Alexis Bellino is getting the truth from RHOM’s Julia…including more details on the Haitian mortician.

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
To Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Judge. Hi,
it's Teddy Mellencamp and Tamra Judge. Welcome back to to
Teas in a Pod live from Bravocon in Las Vegas.
It's such a fun, busy weekend and we want to
make sure you get as many episodes as possible, so

(00:22):
we have a special guest co host for you. Alexis
Bilino is here. Take it away.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Alexis.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Hey, guys, we are here with Julia right now. Oh
my gosh, I have to tell you how stunning she looks.
I'm talking dripping in diamonds, but not even that. It's
the leather, brown hair, makeup, to the tea like perfection.
So okay, I'm super excited to talk to you. Is
this your first Bravocon.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
It's my second Bravo Con in Vegas?

Speaker 1 (00:52):
Okay, well in Vegas? Does that mean you've been to
a different one in Miami?

Speaker 2 (00:56):
They had one?

Speaker 1 (00:57):
Oh I forgot that.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
You are good. I'm talking about yet my fourth.

Speaker 1 (01:03):
Oh honey, okay, So fill me in with this one
question of all of them. What so far? I know
it's only day two of this one. What has been
your highlight of any of them, or your favorite, and
then what has been not your favorite?

Speaker 2 (01:16):
No matter what happens this Bravacon, I decided it's going
to be my favorite because it's a reset button.

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Okay, you're manifesting.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
It's a manifesting, and I am manifesting it no matter
what happens. Yes, I love that. Yes, it's a reset,
it's a new energy. It's a you know, same passion,
but new energy.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
So is the reset because I mean because of some
listeners may not understand. But is the reset because of
some things you had? Was it a difficult season for you?

Speaker 2 (01:44):
I'm the first one to admit I had a really
rough season, but you know, I was going through a
lot of stuff, a lot of emotions, family changes, and
some of those emotions showed on camera, not the base,
not the best possible way I would have wished, But
I take full accountability. You now, we're only humans and
certain things can happen, and it's how you handle it

(02:06):
and how you take accountability. And I did.

Speaker 1 (02:08):
I love that, and I can I can see the
sincerity because no one can see you right now, but
I can, or maybe we are videoing actually so they
can but I hear the sincerity in that, and I
also think it's really important for like listeners to understand
that it is very difficult to take on being putting
your life, your entire life in front of a national

(02:28):
television show, on a national television show for America to
not understand every single element, but then to dissect your life.

Speaker 2 (02:38):
But it was a choice. We signed up for it,
that's right, both Martina and I. We agreed and we
wanted to do it, and I have zero regrets.

Speaker 1 (02:44):
How are things with you and Martina right now?

Speaker 2 (02:46):
We're so solid. We went through hard time. It was
tough to deal with the after reunion mass, but you know,
we've been together for almost eighteen years. Martine is my wole.
She's the best part I could wish for. She's the
best mom, and our boys are just keeping us grounded.
And my daughters are my best friends, and we are

(03:08):
like ol reunited again.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
It says a lot about Martina and your strength to
stay together. Because I do understand a little bit of
what happened with your last season, but you have to
tune in and watch it if anyone else wants to
see it, right, absolutely.

Speaker 2 (03:22):
However, but you can ask me any questions, Well.

Speaker 1 (03:24):
I think, well, today's more about light and happy. But
I feel like something like that either makes you or
it breaks you. Like my mom passed away and I
then broke up with my fiance at the time because
I did not have the support I needed. So what
I love about sitting here with you is that you
and Martina took something that could destroy your marriage and

(03:47):
your your life together and you just said, this is
going to make us stronger. We're going to go up
from here. So that's really incredible and I think it's
inspiring for other people. You guys, aren't the only couple
that goes through something as what you have.

Speaker 2 (04:00):
I didn't know. I don't have secrets from Martina. That's
the truth. She knows everything about me because she is
my she's my person and thinks I'm not always perfect,
But who has it perfect? Again, we are only humans.
It's how you learn from it exactly what to take
out of it.

Speaker 1 (04:14):
There's there's no perfect relationship, and it is about how
you walk through those trenches together and if you and
you have to grow together, right like I think you
have to grow together. But okay, so who have you
seen this? Bravo? Con that you wanted to meet or
is there someone on your list.

Speaker 2 (04:34):
I am really excited to meet I haven't met her yet,
but we're doing a panel together, parenting panel Kate. Yes,
Kate Shastain, and I really want to meet her because
I think she's such an inspiration. She's such she has
you know, she handles motherhood and her calm leadership is
really Okay.

Speaker 1 (04:53):
You need to tell Kate. I said hello because she
was the steward head stewart on below deck when I
was on below deck and she said to me behind
the scenes, this is great, this is good tea for
all the listeners. But she said to me on that
that yacht trip, the blow deck trip, she said, you
are one of my favorite clients ever that we've had,

(05:15):
because you're so kind and you're so like like, you're
so kind, and then she ripped me in one of
on Twitter or something. So then I tweeted her back
and I said, wait, you this is all fun. It's
all I'm jest and all fun. We are in a
great place. I love her to death, And so I
tweeted her back and I said, really, you say this
after you tell me I'm one of your favorite clients
ever and then you and then you you know Jade

(05:38):
a little bit on Twitter, so we loved about it.
But yeah, I just it was so funny. But I
love her, so give her a big hug for me. Okay, amazing.
I would love to see her too, now that you
say that. Yeah, So okay, what is your are you?
What is your agenda today? What are you like? What
do you? I know you're busy, so what is Are
you going.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
To the Bravos tonight? Which is so exciting?

Speaker 1 (06:01):
So did you come in last night?

Speaker 2 (06:02):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (06:03):
Okay, what did you do last night?

Speaker 2 (06:05):
Honestly? I needed to reset. I went downstairs, I had
a drink with some people friends, and then went to
room service at home because I knew it's going to
be three busy days. Tonight I'm doing full on party
till the end.

Speaker 1 (06:21):
Save that voice.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
And then tomorrow is a huge day because we had
a Miami panel and that's where you know it's going
to be spicy.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
How okay, let's talk about that. If we spicy? Time
to talk about that real quick? How is that going
to be tomorrow? Are you nervous?

Speaker 2 (06:38):
No?

Speaker 1 (06:38):
Is it on the first time? Okay? Is it the
first time? You've seen these women since the reunion.

Speaker 2 (06:43):
Adrianna and Gertie have not seen and Lisa I have
not seen everyone else. We are always in touch and
the communicate them talk see each other.

Speaker 1 (06:53):
Well, you're just those girls.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
I have not seen.

Speaker 1 (07:03):
The answer to when I said are you nervous? And
you said no so fast it makes me really believe
like you aren't nervous. You're just gonna go is your
is your goal to go out and have fun? Is
your goal to go out and just to go have fun?

Speaker 2 (07:13):
Yeah, it's not going to be a reunion situation. It
will be I'm here to have fun. There are tons
of people who came to watch us. I you know,
probably Haitian Mortician will come up, and I hope he will.
Can we go there? I need to know you can
go there? Be my you know, Okay, I just like
me said the record straight, I's not hitd on Martina

(07:35):
with Haitian Mutriitians. Did he exist?

Speaker 1 (07:37):
Hell? Yes, he did? You know?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
And you welcome because I gave her the phrase. I
gave it to her and she run with it.

Speaker 1 (07:45):
You got to back up though, because someone like me
now you've just gave it a lot You've given a
lot of information, and I'm like, whoa hol lot of
it is true.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
That's why I'm not scared to go tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
I love it. I want to ask this then, So
when if you say Haitian Mortician is true, I love
that you gave her that line.

Speaker 2 (08:01):
It's but there is another there's another thing.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Okay, hold on.

Speaker 2 (08:05):
Hold on.

Speaker 1 (08:07):
So if if Haitian Mortician is true, uh huh, but
you didn't cheat with him, and I did.

Speaker 2 (08:13):
Not give him a coffee makeup By the way, what
is he.

Speaker 1 (08:17):
Just a friend that you just texted and it was
just a text. No cheating, but.

Speaker 2 (08:20):
Just a text. It was a hot guy that I
met before Martine. I was living in Europe, right, and
he told me something else about him. He said that
he's a mortician, Bautician. That part I did not tell Adrianna,
so that would have made the makeup. I was like
a young mortal man and the makeup artists are like,
you know, they charge a lot of money. So the
guy said, I'm going to give you free makeup.

Speaker 1 (08:43):
Haitian Mortician, Like, dude, I am very much alive.

Speaker 2 (08:49):
No, he was super hot, but that was kind of
this end of it.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Another thing really quick. You're obviously bisexual. Yes, okay, that's
I needed to ask that because I'm I'm just now
understanding that you.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
I mean, I know to my biological daughters with their
fathers and okay. And when I met Martina, she was
my hero superhero. I manifested her since I was like,
I don't know, thirteen years old, I was like obsessed
with her. Yes, her energy. There was something about her
that I wanted to meet her.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
Well, you just can't explain when that energy, when you
collide with that energy with your person, there is no
other explanation for it. So I think that it's I
think you've just given the listeners a lot of good Jews.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
Just now listen. I am not I don't and life
is so short. I have no time for grudges, right,
and I want to have fun. But you know, we
do not have And that's what I said to Angie,
like we do not have an open relationship. But there
was some cracks in our marriage just before I started
the show, and I opened up to Adriana about it,
so she knew, and you know, then life happened. But

(09:53):
Martina is my biggest supporter, and you know, my best friend.
I We talk like you and I a lot. We
have a glass of and about the past. They have
a lot of fun, crazy story. I make her laugh.
This is one of the keys to the marriage.

Speaker 1 (10:06):
Laughter, you know what, honey, girlfriend, Laughter is the key
if you If you can't laugh, life is so it
seems so monotonous doing the day to day right. Everyone
can be the big party planner, the big party thrower.
It's the day to day thing that starts to make
you feel like you're just like, oh gosh, today's a
hard day. And if you don't have that partner that's
going to make you laugh.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
Yes, it's what's there, you know. And I have the
voice now and they have this beautiful big smile and
they have humor. They're still young and they have humor.
So that's my that's my grounding. I love it.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
Crowding.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
I love it too, you know.

Speaker 1 (10:39):
And I feel like I feel like like I was
so excited to meet you because I do. I have
obviously known a lot about you and all of that,
but I was so excited to meet you just because
of your story. And I feel like I had a
rough go around on in front of America. Not all
true Okay, yours was true, which kind of stinks for you,
but you did it in front of the world, and

(11:01):
and I just was like, I can connect with people
because I also believe we all grow. And it wasn't
it wasn't. It's like it hasn't stopped you. You are
on fire. I can just feel your energy and your
presence and your smile is genuine. You're not like sitting
here like you know, it's not like, oh my gosh,
you're actually.

Speaker 2 (11:20):
I love people, you know. And there's one thing about me.
I'm not perfect, but I don't lie, you know, and
I don't live my life for for like to pretend
this is who I am. But I need to I
need to grow, I need to learn, you know. I
became a full time student in the University of Miami.

Speaker 1 (11:37):
Amazing.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
Just you have to evolve.

Speaker 1 (11:40):
I think if you lie, you're going to get caught anyway.
The lie always catches up to you. So it's good
to just you have you owned it, and here you
are picking up the pieces. And I'm I'm so excited
to have had this interview with you and to have
been here with you today.

Speaker 2 (11:54):
So yeah, this is.

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Really well we will I'm sure be seeing and hearing
a lot more of you, and I need a catchup,
so you better follow me now and give me the
catchup so I can talk about it on my next podcast.
Follow you girl, Thank you nice. You're so f
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