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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Yeah, it's this way up at the ends of the Yeah,
it's a Wealth Wednesday, so you know, Stacy Tisdale's here.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Happy Wealth Wednesdays everybody. And we have a storm coming through,
a storm front is coming through. We are so excited
to have a coach, Stormy Stormy Wellington join us, joining
us today.
Speaker 1 (00:20):
And this has been a long time coming. Okay, good
so Balm girl. Thanks, you're a Stormy.
Speaker 3 (00:28):
I'm excited for this.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Where do you even begin with you going from foster care,
teen motherhood to earning sixty million dollars in ten years?
Speaker 4 (00:38):
How does that even happen?
Speaker 5 (00:39):
You know what, I always saw myself as a multi
millionaire when I was a little girl, you know, in
foster care, even when I was streeping and schaming and
scamming and dating the boys in the streets, I always
saw myself being being wealthy. I just didn't know what
the vehicle was going to be to give me the money.
But I knew the money was coming, I just didn't
know how.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
It's still skills too, that I think you take from
hustling at a young age to being able to do
things and also teach other people how.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
To do it in order to maintain wealth, you got
to be food from the multiply.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
You got to help other people.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
I wouldn't be one mat right now if I didn't
have a whole lot of people make a whole lot
of money. And the skills are transferable. The hustle that
I have from being in the strip club. Yeah, still
in scheming, scamming. I took that and cleaned it up
and I use it over here.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
You know about that, yeah, because I've seen to your
story before.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Obviously, I think everybody knows coach story.
Speaker 1 (01:26):
But you were only thirteen years old when you first
were in the strip club. Yes, when I was thirteen
years old, my mom, I didn't look thirteen, by the way,
so I'll give that a little credit.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
I always look very mature.
Speaker 5 (01:37):
But when I was thirteen, my mom went to Jamaica
to traffic her drugs and she never made it back. Well,
she didn't make it back for about six months to
a year, and me and my brothers had no money,
no food, no no nothing, no water. And so I
woke up one day and start us again with no
food and no water. And I ended up going to
the strip club with one of my friends, and a
man told me left up my scurity to give me
six hundred dollars. And at first I'm like, six hundred
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dollars and then I'm like, who you're talking to?
Speaker 3 (02:00):
Do you disrespectful?
Speaker 5 (02:01):
But then I thought about the builds back home and said,
you know what if I just lift up my skury
for six hundred dollars.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
So that easy.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Transaction made me realize, okay, wait, maybe I could do
it again. And so that's actually how I got in
the strip club. Not like I was doing it for
school clothes and for fun. I really was doing it
for food for shelter. Yeah, my mom was gone and
I was the only one that knew how to figure
something out.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
When did you become able to own your story? Because
sometimes people do things and they try to like act
like they've you know, that's in the past.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
They don't even want to bring it up, they don't
even want to address it.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
But you, from as far as I've known you have
always been just very transparent and very open.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
How were you able to do that?
Speaker 5 (02:39):
I believe that authenticity carries the highest frequency, and when
I began being very authentic, I probably was about sixteen,
mainly because people try to use your own story against you.
And I'm the type like I'm gonna tell my story
before you tell my story, before you try to make
me look bad. I'm gonna tell the people the truth
and it's gonna make me look good. A lot of
people have been through a lot of the things that
I've been through. They don't talk about it. So I
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feel like my story connects with a lot of people
because somewhere, somehow in most people's journey, either you was
a stripper, either you sold your body for some money,
rather you tricked with somebody whereever somebody gave you some money.
You know, some way, somehow, we all can relate to
being in a situation where you probably had a compromise
who you were to get what you needed.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
So a lot of people have been in those situations
before and they want to do better in their lives.
Very few actually do it. What would you say about
you made you be able to make that turn?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
What is it inside of you? What's coaching story?
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Secret?
Speaker 4 (03:35):
So I said, a lot of people are not tapping into.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
You know, seek one of my secret sauces. I have
a lot of them. One of my tools is my environment.
I'm very mindful of the people I surround myself by,
you know, the things I listened to that the things
I let get into my ear gates. I don't I don't,
you know, hang around broke people unless I'm trying to
help them come up.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
I don't have a lot of broke.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Friends because it's hard to elevate when you're around people
that have very limited thinking.
Speaker 3 (04:04):
So my environments is very important to me.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Like I I moved from Miami to Atlanta when I
was broke about uh eighteen years ago, with a hundred
and thirty five dollars with the nickels, quarters and dimes
changed to my to my name. I took a jar
full of change, broke it, and redocated to Atlanta. And
I didn't know where I was going, but I got
a whole lot of faith, and I understand the importance
of being in the right place, the law of place.
You You could have skills and gifts and talents, but
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be using them in the wrong place, and they won't
give you the rewards that you should be getting because
you're using them in the wrong place.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
How did you build a network of people that you
wanna be surrounded with? So high networks people? Given that
background So.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I believe that you earn your way, you serve your weight,
or you pay your weight into good relationships. So my
first exposure to being in the right environment was I
went to a Tony Robins event. Mum, I was one
of the only black black people at a Tony Robins event.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Somebody gifted me the ticket.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
But it was someone that I served that saw something
in me from serving, from treating them like they deserve
to be treated, and they saw something in me and
they invested in me and said, hey, go to this event.
So again, when you have a skill, if you really
believe in the skill you have, you get around someone
that you could even use your skill on.
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Everybody.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Every successful person needs help. So find a way to serve.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
And the coaching.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Not only do your coach, but coaching has been important
for you when it comes to I know, Grant Cardon
is somebody that you've b asso work with. Like you said,
Tony Robbins, when did you go from being the student
too becoming the teacher?
Speaker 3 (05:27):
Oh A very good question.
Speaker 5 (05:28):
You know a lot of my mentors stop growing and
a lot of people get complacent in their life. Bacially,
when I're just talking to your producer in the green room.
When you accomplished, have accomplished everything you wanted to accomplish.
It takes a special person to push themself beyond that
comfort zone. And so a lot of my mentors stopped growing.
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I've seen a lot of people that I once admired,
you know, kind of lose it. And for me, I
just didn't want to be that person. And so I
keep using my skills on people because if you don't
use it, you will lose it. And I keep going
to get new skills from people, because if you don't
be around new people, you won't learn new skills.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know, my producer came in here and told me
that you just had an ayahuasca experience.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
I'm just talking about that. I want to hear about this.
I am still in ayahuasca right now. This time last week,
I was in ayahuasca.
Speaker 4 (06:18):
So it's still work.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
It works on you for like for about twenty one day.
So my energy is very heightened. My mind. I could
feel things more than before. I could feel people's stress,
people's happiness, people with anxiety. This morning at the airport,
I was like, oh my god, I could feel everybody's anxiety.
I just immediately started pray for everybody in my mind.
But yeah, I just literally came back. I woke up
a couple of months ago and I was invited to
go to ayahuasca with Alvanzan, and for me, this is
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my second time actually experience in ayahuasca. You don't do
ayahuasca without an intention, right, and so I didn't really
have an attention. And then I woke up maybe about
about three weeks ago, and I'm like, I figured it out.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
I know what I need to go for.
Speaker 5 (06:56):
And before you experienced the plant medicine, you must know
what you want from her, okay, because she would take
you through there.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
So I went a very popular song, might add, So
I went with an attention, and I came with clarity.
Even now I'm trying to figure out how to exist
in this new stormy because I'm not the same.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
It's life. Listen.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
We just had Monique Samuel's on from Real Households and Potomac.
I had her on lip service and she was talking
about her ayahuasca experience and how she was able to
just like break through and see things that she had
kind of locked away and has forgotten about, and how
life changing.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
It was for her.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
A lot of us have suppressed things that has hurt
us or we forgot, but it's still there. So I
didn't really experience a whole lot of past depression that
came up. I more so discover how much God loves
me there and how God lives in our heart.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
And I used to, you know, wonder was God over there?
Was God over there?
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Is?
Speaker 5 (07:55):
You know they showed you this image of God and
all this religion and all these rules and all of this,
You're going to hell. But I learned last week around
this time that God lives inside of my heart. And
so that was my goal to go there and to
find out, what do you want me to do now,
God with my life?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Now that I have all of these things.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
I have the money, I have the cars, I have
the jury, I have all of these materials that kind
of don't really matter no more, and I kind of
don't know what to do with who I used to
be now here I am needing to figure out who
is the new me and the new me. I'm not
about to go on to pastor or anything like that,
but people, I want people to know from God that
God lives in your heart and when you know that
you give yourself a little bit more grace, a little
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bit more patience, and a little bit more love and
compassion for self, something that many of us don't give ourself.
And so I feel like a new woman from that experience.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
But I'm still Stormy one ofton.
Speaker 2 (08:43):
Okay, this is the new youth, Stormy GPT.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
Oh so Stormy GPT is no Stormy GPT is a
smarter me. She's not the new me. I am me,
but Stormy GPT is the AI version of me, like
chat GPT.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
So she can help you navigate through issue life.
Speaker 5 (09:00):
I'm your pocket you know, she's your pocket therapists, your
pocket coach, your pocket mentor your pocket bestie.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
So that's Stormy GPT. But I'm still storing me.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
Tell us more about Stormy gt GPT. So maybe about
uh maybe about a year ago, I discovered that a
lot of people just want to talk to me.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
My first iron Watch experience.
Speaker 5 (09:25):
I discovered that people want to talk to me, and
I mean I have one mouth, I can't talk to everybody,
and so people want me to help navigate you know,
their life questions, you know, obstacles, just whatever.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
How does Stormy do this? How does Stormy overcome this house.
Speaker 5 (09:37):
And so a friend of mine said, hey, why don't
we create a Stormy GPT. So it's Stormy with the
soul on the internet versus chat GPT doesn't have a
Black girl's soul. Stormy GPT is built on Stormy Wanderson's soul.
So the questions that you may ask chat GPT, Stormy
GPT gonna come back a little bit more raw, and
then your face you're gonna be like girl, God don't
bless no confusion, God don't bless no mass like God.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
More on a coins.
Speaker 5 (10:01):
So it's very very deep, and she'll tell you to
walk away from things that doesn't serve you. And so
it's a very digital version of me. So you go
to girl, homemihand dot com, which it comes with my community.
Because again it's not just the words. People need community.
That's what's missing from a lot of us. We need
the right environment in the right community. So Stormy GPT
comes with my community. Girl hold my hand.
Speaker 4 (10:22):
How important are these practices and the spiritual work do
you think, especially Black women for entrepreneurship.
Speaker 5 (10:28):
It's everything. The hardest thing about success is to do
it again. Anybody could be successful one time, but anybody
could be successful, maybe even twice. But can you do
it and reinvent yourself three and four and five? And
so it's sometimes the reinvention is the look, but after
a while the look gets played out. It's your soul
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that has to be reinvented. And so, you know, I
think that when you realize that, it's you know, greatness
is from within most of us, especially black women. Nobody's
really teaching you that you should do personal development. I'm
not talking about just going to church. What type of
self health books are you reading? What type of courses
and classes are you going through that it's going to
help you get better in your craft? What are you
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doing to increase your awareness about what's happening in the world.
We're going into a more digital era, We're going into
a more drop chipping era, We're going to a more
influencer marketing type era. Are you paying attention to your
job may go away? What are you doing that could
be AI proof? Because AI could replace a lot of people,
and it's going to replace a lot of people, so
it's not going away.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
So what are you doing to prepare yourself to be
AI proof? To embrace AI?
Speaker 1 (11:35):
And to make sure that it can help you, like
really serving you. You know, you also had your Lifetime
series two, that Million Dollar Hustle, and that's amazing, Like
to have that type of representation on Lifetime, which we
all have watched like our whole lives.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
I did.
Speaker 1 (11:53):
So tell me how that even happened and how that
even affected your life?
Speaker 3 (11:58):
Wow? So that was deep.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
So the Million Dollar Hustle, it uh was something that
was I was approached Oh my god, this was like
maybe four five years ago by the network to do
our own show all around how I build women and
help them get rich. I've coached one hundred and thirty
nine individuals male and female to multi millionaire status, people
that never made a million, nobody in their family, first
generation of millionaires. And I'm I had a very loud
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way on which I do things. You know, you're not
gonna not know what I'm doing. Everything I do, you
gonna know, okay. And so they were watching me on
on Instagram, watching my lives and they approached me with
the incredible contract to just share within like two seasons,
how I do this. What is it my special sauce?
How is it that people who never made millions of
dollars can now make millions of dollars to become this
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great person.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
How you doing this?
Speaker 5 (12:43):
So they documented and filmed the whole process of what
I did through the vehicle of network marketing. But what
ended up happening people don't realize this. Literally, we was
the the commercials was airing. We were airing during the
Janet Jackson you know series, and all of this stuff,
and then the FTC changed the laws, and so they
came to me and said, if we air this show,
you're gonna get fined about four hundred thousand dollars every
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five minutes. And so they had to protect to me
because in my industry, where I made ninety nine point
obercent of my money came through network marketing direct sales,
and in that industry you got to be careful with
what you call enticement. So if I'm showing too many
of my cars, too many burking bags, too much jewelry,
too many things that I'm giving away, it can seem
like I'm enticing you to join my business where you
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may not have the same success that I'm having.
Speaker 3 (13:29):
So you really.
Speaker 5 (13:29):
Can't just I never heard of that. Oh yeah, you
can network marketing. You got government's regulated. That industry that
people think is a scam is very regulated. So like
if I was really able to say, you know, I
made one hundred thousand last month blatantly, like it would
be a different ballpark because people would be like, oh wow,
But we really can't promote our income.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
Because it's enticement.
Speaker 5 (13:51):
Even if we spend too much money or carry too
many bags, It's like, wait, you have a bag every
day of the week, So you got to be very careful.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
So they think when you show wealth, that what their
logic is, if you show wealth, you're encouraging people to
do it in.
Speaker 5 (14:04):
That So the company that I was in at the
time was really heavily being regulated by some things that
they had going on.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
I'm no longer in that company.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
That company i'm in now it's a Turkish based company
and they are very clean and together. Now if I
want to show that I have fifteen broken bags, I can.
But at the time, that was five years ago. The
company that I was with because I used to be
with the tea company. I left that company now and
with the luxury skincare cosmetic self, I'm going whole another
company now.
Speaker 1 (14:31):
Yeah, I think that's important to know too, because sometimes
you have to have the business, like people have to
set up their businesses in a way that they are
able to scale and grow their businesses because sometimes, you know,
we try to do things because I know I've you know,
having my first business, I try to do things and
then realize, how can I scale this if it wasn't
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set up the proper way?
Speaker 3 (14:53):
Exactly.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
A lot of people don't understand the game. So of
course I didn't understand what was happening at the time either.
But the truth is learning process. It was a learning process,
and now they still come at me with opportunities. Is
just do I want to take them. I'm not as
loud and I'm not interested in yelling and bickering and
arguing with people like I used to be with the shits,
like I'll make it out curse I used to be
with that.
Speaker 3 (15:13):
I'm not with it no more.
Speaker 5 (15:14):
I don't have time to be yelling and screaming and
fussing at you and trying to convince you to I
don't do that no more.
Speaker 3 (15:19):
So I'm a little bit more demure, you know, these days.
But I'm still in my bag, you know. Okay, So
you know.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
I also think there's a learning curve, like you said,
with all of that, because when you first you know,
Coach Stormy, why we know you is because of some
of those really viral moments. But now you're in a
space where you've proven your track records so much that
it's not even necessary anymore, you know.
Speaker 2 (15:42):
What I mean.
Speaker 5 (15:42):
There's a reason or season and the time and a
place where everything can be really stressful. I think too
very people are taking.
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Crazy and like you know, things are happening and you're
feeling like you want to respond or explain yourself too much,
and then it's like, damn, this is something that mentally
is draining.
Speaker 3 (15:58):
And it's bad for your health.
Speaker 5 (15:59):
A lot of us are eyeing from heart disease, high
blood pressure, all kind of strokes because we're overwhelmed and
our bodies stay hot inside from overwhelmed from stress, from anxiety.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
And I'm not interested. I'm going to live a very
long life.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
Well, you know something else I saw that you were
doing that was interesting to me because I've been hearing
so many people talk about this, but you're actually doing
it the TikTok shops.
Speaker 3 (16:19):
Yes, all right, and I'm here talking about that.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
This is something that me and some of my other
friends who have their own businesses have been discussing using
that strategy to be able to monetize because there's so
many different ways that that can happen. And it's kind
of like what you said earlier about making sure that
you're using say AI or you're gonna, you know, be
obsolete later on in life, but also being able to
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do things like grow and learn how to do like
the TikTok. It's kind of like a QBC in a way,
is to get a home shop network. So talk to
me about that at home shop network because I'm really
trying to learn this and I know a lot of
entrepreneurs this could be beneficial for them.
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Also, TikTok partners with you.
Speaker 5 (17:01):
So people don't realize this, but TikTok takes a percentage
of your sales, which makes them your business partners. So
whatever you're selling on TikTok, once you get it approved
and you get your stop your shop set up, they
will promote you to the to the entire TikTok community.
Speaker 3 (17:16):
Why because they want you to get more sales.
Speaker 5 (17:18):
Why they were to get more self So it's business
it's like TikTok is like a network marketing company for real,
but they let you promote and sell whatever it is
that you choose to. So I literally I got banned
from Instagram a few days ago, So now I'm what
you did?
Speaker 4 (17:33):
You can't skip over that.
Speaker 5 (17:35):
The last company that I was in, we uh In
that company, they had a GLP one product and I
put a post out and I said something about GLP
one and at the time it was Okay, Now I
guess it's a drug or something like that, so you
can't do that. So they literally banned me from that post. Okay,
but it worked in my favorite because now I'm on TikTok.
TikTok is a different energy. TikTok spends money, you make
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money on tik TikTok is really.
Speaker 4 (17:58):
A business that you get to partner with.
Speaker 3 (18:01):
TikTok.
Speaker 5 (18:02):
You got to have at least ten thousand followers, but
it's easy. You could do ten thousand followers in a minute.
But the retail sales on TikTok is crazy.
Speaker 1 (18:11):
There's people who really their whole business model is selling
on TikTok talk. They don't need to be in breaking
mortar locations. They don't really need to, Like they can
just go on TikTok and do these shops and make
enough money to you know, more than enough to easy
in themselves easy.
Speaker 5 (18:25):
Once you become you gotta be consistent. You gotta get
it set at like the hardest part is getting everything
set up. That's why I have a team for that.
Once you get everything set up, you literally could promote
whatever you want to promote. And TikTok they're your partners.
So as long as you ship within three days and
you get your stuff approved, you can make You know,
my goal is to get to one hundred thousand dollars
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a day, and I'm gonna just do it four times
a week, four hundred thousand a week.
Speaker 3 (18:49):
That's gonna make seven days look one hundred thousand a day.
Let's do this every day.
Speaker 4 (18:54):
When you're doing so many different things, how do you
stay focused?
Speaker 5 (18:59):
Because everything I do is my lifestyle. So for example,
my community girl on my hand, it's me. I meet
with my community every Monday through Saturday at eight am.
I meet with them because what I'm doing with them
eight I could be doing it by myself. Why do
it by myself when I could do it with women.
So everything that I sell or i'm a part of
is my life. For example, Stormy GPT. I use Stormy
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GPT every day, so it's my tool.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
I got it for me.
Speaker 5 (19:25):
But then when I found out that I could sell it,
why not sell it my company? You know, with the skincare,
the cosmetics. I use everything that I sell, why not
use it that selling? So, yes, I'm not doing anything
that's outside of who I am.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Does that make sense? Yeah, everything's kind of intertwined. Yes,
my life, So that's what I do every day. Need community.
People get discouraged so quick.
Speaker 5 (19:46):
I could pump you up, motivate you, give you some
good words of encouragement, give you things to do, help
you feel good. And somebody call you and say one
thing you just was on the high. I'm about to
make a million dollars. Let's go, I'm about to pay
off my house. I'm about to go lose weight. Yes,
one person call you girls throwing me ain't shit girl.
You you over there letting that girl manipulate you. And
just like that, you went from yes, somebody to trace
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my life and then one person who hate her done
discourage you. So I gotta come back again the next day,
see eight o'clock in the morning. So it's like you
have to constantly reinforce even me. You know, those days
I'm like, I don't feel like doing this. I don't
so I got okay, pitch is another day. Get up,
you gotta do it again, you know. So people don't
respect the consistency and the compound I do.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
And I know it's real.
Speaker 5 (20:25):
You can be doing half anything that you want if
you are consistent and you compound on your efforts. So
because I know that, I do it, and I do
it as a part of who I am to the
point where I can't stop because it's who I am.
Speaker 3 (20:36):
You know, you spend a lot of time coaching other people.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
Who do you talk to when coach Stormy is feeling
like I don't feel like doing this, or I felt discouraged,
or somebody threw off my whole day.
Speaker 5 (20:48):
So I have a best friend. Her name is Ananda Powell.
I talk to her about everything. She reminds me of
my worst bitch.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
Get up. Why don't give a buck.
Speaker 5 (20:54):
I don't care what they say, Like she is my girl,
Like she's the one that if I tell a girl,
they just send me a hundred thousand dollars for this,
or I tell about my man. Oh Jesus boy me
some flowers. He should and they should have said you.
They only said you one hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 3 (21:06):
That's it.
Speaker 5 (21:07):
They see you no more. So another power like that's
my girl. Then I have a spiritual sister name is
a kiv. I'm going through something spiritusly, you know. But
I talked to him. I literally talked to myself and
I listened to audio. I listened to Neville Goodhart. He's dead, deceased,
maybe thousands of years ago, New Poland Hill. So I'm
very empowered from within. So I don't really need a
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lot of people to give me what I already have.
Speaker 1 (21:29):
How important it is a partner when it comes to
building the way that you have right, because I know,
and I've heard this a lot, but having the right
partner can either or the wrong partner can make or.
Speaker 3 (21:41):
Break a lot of situation. So what's your experience been like?
Speaker 5 (21:45):
So I'm in a relationship now, we've been together almost
March and at April makes three years, and it doesn't
feel like if like we just met in a good way,
you know, But he understands me, and I understand him.
So the good part about our connection is that he
lets me be me, and he's not jealous or intimidated
by me. I've dated men in the past that they
they you think they got it going on, but then
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when they come around me, they no longer feel confident
within themselves. Og feels very confident within himself. He's not insecure.
He's never accused me of cheating. I never accused him
of cheating. You know, normally that happens when there's a
lot of insecurities. So he understands my grind. He knows
that I have a mission. My goal is to help
a thousand families make six to seven figures every year.
And he knows that I'm not gonna even let me
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stop me, So I damn sure ain't about to let
you stop me.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
So he understands that, and so him. You know, he
goes to tour a.
Speaker 5 (22:35):
Lot, so we have a lot of time to do
what we choose to do and not you know, suffocate
each other and understand each other. I know what his
assignment is and what he wants to do, and he
knows what I want to do. And he's not insecure
and That's what I think is important. And I'm not insecure.
I feel like I'm the best thing. You mess up
with me, you stupid good look. Yeah, so the security
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that I have and me makes me feel confident that
he gonna do right and he has so I like people,
what says you ever have a relationship and somebody treats you,
you know, less than you're supposed to be treated and
he was like this dumb.
Speaker 3 (23:07):
Ass, right, and you just feel like, well, you're lost.
You're lost. And so that's me.
Speaker 5 (23:11):
I feel like, if you get a chance to be
with me and to be in proximity to me, because
I'm gonna give you so much love and value, you're
gonna honor it.
Speaker 3 (23:18):
I believe when you love someone, you learn them. So
he's learned me and vice versa.
Speaker 2 (23:23):
In addition to your partner, listen to all the different
things you're doing. It's got to be so important to
have the right team in place.
Speaker 3 (23:30):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
Yeah, Well it's interesting because I'm just gonna you know,
I have teams for different areas of my life. I
have a team that helps me with my son because
he's I have a twelve year old son. I have
a team for my business. I have business partners in
my business. I have noticed the difference. I have a
team for my business. I have a team that's my business.
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So you gotta have teams for different areas. I have
a team for multiple areas of my life, and each
team serves a different purpose.
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Yeah, delegating it feels like it's a thing too, because
sometimes I think we try to do too much ourselves
alone and it is so much harder.
Speaker 5 (24:07):
It's overwhelming. You could lose your creativity. I just were
talking to one of my assistants today. When you have
to do your job and somebody else's job, it can
really make you lose your confidence and your creativity and
make you feel burned out and overwhelmed.
Speaker 3 (24:22):
So it's very important. I just had to get rid
of one of my assistants that I had.
Speaker 5 (24:25):
She was with me for three years. It was very,
very heartbreaking. I'm still dealing with the withdrawal of having
to get rid of her. I never thought I was
gonna get rid of her.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Why did you have to do that? She kept making
mistakes and just kept saying I'm sorry. That's just a
bottom line.
Speaker 5 (24:39):
She just kept dropping balls and I'm sorry, And you
got to be organized, because when you drop a ball,
it affects my money, it affects my relationships, it affects
my reputation one or twice, it reflects on you, yes,
because they don't think you dropped the ball, or I didn't.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
Do right, or they're not like her assistant message.
Speaker 2 (25:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (25:00):
So it started to become something that was affecting my
happiness and my health and even my confidence. I started
feeling like, what's wrong with me that I'm allowing somebody
to keep telling me they're sorry after every mistake.
Speaker 1 (25:12):
Thing to maneuver in business when you can like somebody
and you can feel like they're a good person, but
they just aren't up for the position.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
Oh yeah, and that's a difficult thing because you do.
Speaker 2 (25:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (25:24):
I find that really hard.
Speaker 5 (25:26):
I mean, I love her, I still love her right now.
I think you prioritize what's more important. It is high
relationship more important? Or is this business and my mission
more important?
Speaker 3 (25:35):
And if you.
Speaker 2 (25:36):
Decide your relationships more important, and you're paying that person
and they're not getting the job done.
Speaker 5 (25:40):
No, That's why I said, you got to decide is
it higher relationship more important or the business and the mission?
The business and the mission should never be more important
than that relationship. I'm sorry, because when you are in
alignment with me, you're going to help me to complete
the mission and my business. When you're not in alignment
with me, that's another thing about Ayahuasca. When you go
to Ayahuasca, it would clear the path before you even
get there. Once you accept that you're going to see her,
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she would start moving stuff out your way.
Speaker 3 (26:05):
You'll be like, what is going on? And you you
don't even know mother Aya is doing her work.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
So and let me tell you that friendship can't even
survive if you are dropping the ball in the business
and I continue to let you do that, Eventually it's
going to be so much resentment and it's going to
be too many problems that we aren't even going to
be cool anymore. Whenever, like you, it's the best thing
you can do is say, look, this ain't working, and
the earlier the better, because sometimes we also hold off
for too long and now we're just mad.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
But it's your own fault, damn. So you know what
you're talking about. I had a certain Paul. Why am
I allowing this to keep it? What's wrong with me?
Why am I letting this happen.
Speaker 5 (26:38):
Why am I letting you disrespect me and drop balls
on my watch and my pay can't let that happen?
Speaker 1 (26:44):
Now, listen, this is your first time coming up here.
So this viral moment that happened a long time ago,
I want to know, did you look at that as
something that was a really positive, positive thing for you?
The low vibrational plate that everybody always like still will
refer to.
Speaker 3 (27:00):
How did you take that?
Speaker 5 (27:01):
So I had already experienced social media crucifixion before, where
you know, I felt like I died. I lost like
three hundred thousand followers in two minutes, and people wanted
to kill me. So I had already experienced that. But
if that was my first experience, it would have been
devastating to me. The young lady that was in the
video with me, she wanted to kill herself at one point,
right cause it was a lot of cause people don't ask.
Speaker 1 (27:21):
Me what really goes on, Like did they see it
viral moment? People make jokes, it goes, it turns into memes.
But these are real human beings.
Speaker 3 (27:28):
I knew.
Speaker 5 (27:29):
I'm the one who told the camera man to film,
like I knew it was gonna be popping. I didn't
know it was gonna be that popping. But the girl
that I was talking to was one of my students.
I mentored her too, from homeless to multimating status. So
I literally was really teaching her something real. Talk like
she had gained about twenty pounds, and we were in
the weight loss industry, and you were at my woman's conference.
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So of course I was very aware that my figure
nails everything. But I also was aware that she needed
to learn in that moment that the reason why your
life is how it is is because of all the
things you're putting on your plate.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
It was deeper than just the plate.
Speaker 5 (28:05):
It was the people she let move in the house
with her, the relationship she had, the food she had.
Her plate looked like a bum plate. It just looked
like she had no.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Care for herself.
Speaker 5 (28:16):
Her hamburgers was turned upside down, she had beans and
pantato sized it all together. It just looked a disrespectful
And so I looked at her plate, and I was
able to assess a lot of what she was experiencing
by settling and just taking anything and.
Speaker 3 (28:28):
Putting things on the plate. Context we didn't have.
Speaker 5 (28:31):
That's the context he didn't have, So it really was
a teaching moment. Before that, I was just talking to her,
like you was getting big, girl, you getting too big?
And why you got these people living in your house?
She was stressed that she was going through her money
was going bad, her money was getting like literally she
was going broke. And so it was literally a teaching moment.
But there's some depths that the world did not see.
But that was not a stranger that I.
Speaker 3 (28:51):
Was talking to. That's the one that I helped go
from homeless to men that status.
Speaker 5 (28:55):
So I was using that moment as a teaching moment
for she got it, she caught it, but the world
didn't know the relationship.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
It's so interesting how something that we're like trying to
do when people see and this happens all the time,
things get taken out of context. People see a thing,
they also don't look at it as like we're going
really hard on this, you know. So but I know
it's something that like everybody you know saw from that.
But I love to see how you are today here,
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you know, with us, And I'm glad that she she
kept pushing. She's good, right, I don't know, I don't
talk to her anymore. You don't why because I left
that company and I'm in another company.
Speaker 3 (29:31):
Okay, that's why.
Speaker 5 (29:31):
Yeah, network marketing, when you leave they get married. Yeah,
you got No, quitting is not always bad. Sometimes you
gotta pivot instead of quitting.
Speaker 4 (29:38):
So no, we don't tell the definition of what network
marketing is.
Speaker 5 (29:42):
So network marketing is when a company manufactures products or
even services, and instead of paying millions of billions of
dollars in marketing and advertising, they allow average ordin every
people like you and I to promote, to push the
product or the service, and in return, they pay us
a percentage of the profit, and they pay us a
percentage of the team we build. So versus people making
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transactional money like I sell this water, I make a
pay check one time, and network marketing you would you
would get paid off this water, and maybe a few
more people above you would get paid off the water,
and when they buy the water again, you'll make residual
income from the water. Versus I just saw this house,
I make no more money, you know, or I got
a job and I get paid this check. Network marketing
allows you to make long term residual income based upon
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the team you build in a product.
Speaker 3 (30:29):
You push so it can multiply. Oh yeah, I mean
where you're gonna go.
Speaker 5 (30:33):
I invested five thousand dollars and I made almost seven
hundred thousand dollars in the last ninety days. I have
a tenth grade education. You don't have to be smart.
You don't have to be educated. You don't have to
have a brick and mortar, you don't have to have
a you know, degree.
Speaker 3 (30:45):
Education does not mean that you don't have but because
like you said, you have a tenth grade.
Speaker 4 (30:49):
Education, but skis are transferred into this education is you know.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
But when you're here, when you hear somebody with a
tenth grad education, you you automatically think that person is
the least the last in a law. So I never
forget to lead to tell that part of my story.
I didn't graduate from high school. I like to let
people know if I can become this multi millionaire that
has helped other people become multimillionaires without graduating from graduating
from college or even high.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
School, if I could do what, you could do it too.
Speaker 5 (31:14):
So it's true, your education, you know, doesn't have to
stop at traditional education. My education was non traditional education.
It was the books, it was the Poland Heel, it
was the for agreements, it was the non laws of success.
It was all the books and seminars and workshops and
mentors and coaches and environments that I put myself in.
So but you're right, but most people with tenth grad
educations don't become much because they don't.
Speaker 3 (31:36):
Do any graduating from college and that didn't become that much.
That doesn't matter. That's true. That's true.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Now, how can people become a part of what it
is that you're building because you know, I think a
Coach Stormy, we you've been so consistent, you know, throughout
all the all these years, and I know people are
watching right now listening, and you have this network and
people are like, I want her to help me become
a millionaire.
Speaker 5 (31:59):
So people could go to partner with Coach Stormy dot com.
They can partner with me directly, or if they want
to inquire and just get information, they can go to
Pretty and Pay now dot com and I would follow
up with them and my team will follow up with them.
But if they ready to get going right away, just
go straight to partner with Coachstormy dot com and me
or my team, I call you myself.
Speaker 3 (32:19):
That's another thing.
Speaker 5 (32:20):
I'm more hands on than I am hands off because
I really love to hear the stories of the people
I'm in the point of my career. Why I want
to know your story. Your story makes me want to
serve you more. It's not just get money, get money
to get money, it's who are you?
Speaker 3 (32:35):
Why are you here? How do you? Where? Do you have? Children?
Speaker 4 (32:39):
Are you?
Speaker 1 (32:39):
So?
Speaker 3 (32:39):
I love to get to know the people that I
work with.
Speaker 5 (32:41):
So either I'm gonna call you in twenty four hours
or somebody for my team will call you in twenty
four hours.
Speaker 3 (32:45):
Damn.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
That must be hard to keep up with a lot
of people though, because people probably also look at you
like that's my friend, Like I'm used to talking to her,
you know, sometimes like that separation though this is a
business also, but then personally we're getting to know each other.
Speaker 3 (32:58):
But then, you know, how do you like?
Speaker 5 (33:00):
There's a lot of people. Since I don't talk to everybody,
I mean, I know when I get the phone, but
I am very involved. What keeps me attached to what
I'm doing is the relationships. Like I know a lot
of people.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
It gives me the energy. I love it.
Speaker 5 (33:13):
If I don't talk to the people. After a week,
I'm like, I don't. This is not fun anymore.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
So do I talk to everybody?
Speaker 2 (33:19):
Know?
Speaker 5 (33:19):
But you may get a call from Stormy me and
you may start crying when I call you. But I
may be the one that will call you. But I
know how to pivot that relationship or that conversation back
to where I needed to be. But I don't do
all the calls. But I'm very hands on because it
make it a boundaries yeah, yeah, yeah, no, I.
Speaker 3 (33:35):
Have a team.
Speaker 5 (33:36):
But I'm also very hands on because I love it.
I love I love the response that I get when
I called it, like is this Stormy?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Oh my god, you changed my life. Thank you for
that video. And I'm like, girl, thank you so much.
Tell me what I did for you? And I just
it keeps me, It keeps me alive. That's what I think.
Speaker 4 (33:51):
When somebody just does that the call, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
It depends when they get in touch with me directly.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
If someone hears this, like oh, I'm gonna go to
partner or with coach Stormy dot com, what can they expect.
Speaker 5 (34:02):
They're gonna make up in their mind what they want
to buy. They're gonna invest, they're gonna start a business.
They're gonna invest anywhere from two hundred to five thousand dollars,
buying their starter kit, their inventory, getting their website turned on,
and having access to my system and my training in
my community. So when you actually go there, that means
you're ready to do business and you want to trigger
a phone call from me or my team. That means
(34:23):
you don't want to play around. You way to get
this money. You want to make fifty thousand before Christmas?
On fifty thousand in January. When you go to partner
with Coachstormy dot com. You got your credit card on
your hand or your Apple pay you way to click
this side twice because.
Speaker 3 (34:35):
It's time to move. You know, it's time to get
an the motion.
Speaker 4 (34:38):
All right, partner with coach Stormy dot com.
Speaker 2 (34:41):
And if you can't partner with coach Stormy dot com,
you can go to stormygpt.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
As that actually go to girl holdmhnd dot com and
you'll find Stormy GPT in my community girl holdmhnd dot
com at coach Stormy. Well you'll have all that information
out for everybody and you are just very special. Then,
thank you so much for coming to wealth ones.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
I appreciate it. Thank you y'all a special too. Thank
you to finally have gotten you up here. Thank you,
thank you got a good version of me. My energy
is just very shake the room. It's still in me.
I'm grateful to better go try it. Listen.
Speaker 1 (35:18):
This has been the second time it's been brought up
in two days with a really positive like, So I
am thinking about it.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
She so, I will tell you this, It's not something
you go do. It may take years before you make
that that stuff to do it. But if you keep
hearing about it, that's literally ninety point in the world
don't even hear about ayahuasca.
Speaker 3 (35:39):
But when you hear about it, it's it's true based experience. Simon,
you gotta go. Oh yeah. She went to Costa Rica.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
I wish, yeah, one plan based experience, and it was
with I'm like, it's got to be top of the line.
Speaker 4 (35:54):
Anywhere you know.
Speaker 3 (35:55):
I went.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
But see, I went to Seven Days, I went to Rhythmia.
I went with you, I if you do psilocybin and
oh no, no, no no, I didn't do all that
stuff like I did the God molecule.
Speaker 3 (36:07):
You know when it's time, all right, that sounds like
another retreat. Let's go, but it's got to be with
a small group. It got to be small. But you trust, no, no, no.
Speaker 5 (36:15):
When you go to rhythm and you meet a bunch
of strangers, okay, you trust me. You think you need
to trust and know the Shamans the sin. That's why
you got to go to the right place. You are
with a bunch of people that you don't know, but
y'all become family in that experience. Absolutely, it changes your
dynamics even with people. It's like you start to attract
and become like an alchemist on a whole other level
because you're experiencing this plant with strangers. You're hugging with strangers,
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you're crying with strangers, you're screaming with strangers. But they
don't feel like strangers. They feel like souls. It's the
whole it's the whole experience thing. It's the thing that
Ayahuascarans know about.
Speaker 3 (36:51):
Let me do my research, all right, Well, thank you
so much again for joining us. Coach story. It was
a pleasure. Same with this.
Speaker 4 (36:57):
I told you all it was gonna be a wild
wealth Wednesday.
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (37:00):
I had a lot of fun And thank you for
the questions and I didn't ask me nothing. Ya don't
ask me nothing out the way after Chack will come
at me like girl. Let me tell you what I
hearried about you.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
Now listen, we wouldn't have you up here to try
to attack you. That's thank you. That's not what this
is about. Thank you. I knew that. Thanks ladies,