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Speaker 1 (00:01):
You are now angel what I call her yeep, Yeah,
what's good. It's way up at Angela yee. And today's holiday.
So some people are at work, some people are not,
but of course we are here and we do want
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to spread some love and spread some positivity like we do.
So let's shine a light eight hundred two nine two
fifty one fifty Call us up. Anybody that you want
to shine a light on, call us up.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Let us know. We want to do that. We want
to spread that love. It's way up.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Turn your lights on, y'all spreading love to those who
are doing greatness.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Light, shine a light on. It's time to shine a
light on them.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
What's up is way up at Angela yee, and it's
time to shine a light. And today I want to
shine a light on Jessica English. She is leading De
Troy's People Mover project and she wants to inspire more
women in construction. She's on a mission to increase gender
diversity when it comes to construction. She started off as
a facilities construction manager for the City of Detroit, and
she was drawn to this very extremely male dominated construction
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and infrastructure industry because she grew up watching her father
work in that field, So shout out to her. Now,
who do you guys want to shine a light on? Kelvin,
Who do you want to shine a light on?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I want to shine a light on monkey Asia. You
got sixteen days until our wedding.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
We're y'all getting married at.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
We're getting married at the Embasy Hotel.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
Okay, okay, we see you. And is it a big wedding?
How many people?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Eighty?
Speaker 2 (01:37):
All right, that's a nice size.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
And how involved were you and planning the wedding? Were
you super hands on or was she kind of running
the ship.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
She was running the ship, so we were definitely hands on.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
How long were you guys together?
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Oh it's been a while. I've been ten years, so
she been on me.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
All right, you gonna put her time in?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
Okay, all right, Well congratulations. I hope you guys have
the most amazing wedding ever.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
All right, thank you. I hope you'll have a blood day.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
All right, you too? All right?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Well that was shine of light, and you know what
we do it all We shine a light, but we
also tell secrets eight hundred and two ninety two fifty
one fifty Later on, we are gonna have tell us
a secret. Get it ready right now, don't get your
cold feet. It's way up, You're way up.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
This is a judgment.
Speaker 3 (02:19):
Freeze on.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Tell us a secret. What's up?
Speaker 1 (02:23):
As way up at angela yee? And the number is
eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty. It's time
for you, guys to tell us a secret.
Speaker 2 (02:30):
What's up? Anonymous?
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Call it?
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Tell us your secret.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So I just left an abist of relationship Saturday. The
person I was dating beat me up.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
Oh my gosh, that's awful. I'm so sorry to hear that.
But I'm so glad you left.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
Thank you. I just filed a protection in order today.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Yes, as you should.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
So I'm like, I don't know, feel free, but I'm sad.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
You know, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
I had to do that before too, and get an
order of protection, and it was the best thing I
ever did.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
That gets me hope.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Honestly, it definitely should. I'm so glad you left.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You don't want to end up in a worse situation
or not even here with us anymore.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
And you can never feel.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Bad for somebody that will put their hands on you
or feel sympathy toward them, because clearly they don't feel
a way about you if they're doing that.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah, that's what my mom was saying. She was like,
people don't love you if they can put their hands
on you.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Honestly, whatever they get is what they deserve. If you
get a order protection and they violate that and they
end up in jail, that's on them, that's not on you.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I agree, don't go back. I'm not.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
I would say, also, no communication. If you have to
change your number, block your number, whatever it is that
you have to do. I'm glad you told your mom
and that your mom knows because sometimes it takes a
village of people to make sure that you're strong enough
to do what you need to do for yourself. But
an experience like this should make you stronger in the future.
That's all you can do.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yes, absolutely, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
All right, congratulates relations.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
All right.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Well that was tell us a secret eight hundred and two,
nine fifty. Just in case you couldn't get through, you
could always leave a message and tell your secret that way.
And if you want to use a voice transformer, whatever
it is that you want to do. Remember, we just
want to hear your story because we're nosy. It's way up.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
Can everybody sence, whether it's relationship or career advice, Angela's
dropping facts?
Speaker 1 (04:21):
You should you should know this as what's up? His
way up with Angela? Yee, I'm Angela ye, and it's
time for you guys to call up with your questions.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
Ask ye. I'm here to help you out. Now. We
have somebody on the line today who wants to remain anonymous.
What's up?
Speaker 3 (04:34):
Hun?
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Hey, how you feeling?
Speaker 4 (04:38):
I could see better?
Speaker 2 (04:39):
All right, so talk to me. What's the issue.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
So I've been single for four years, divorcee for two
years almost, and I finally gave someone a chance to
very fee take me out on this every single day. Wow,
there's no sex involved. I don't want casual effects. I
want to get to know someone. But he went out
of town. He said he was going to see his
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kids and wouldn't give me a callback, wouldn't answer my
call on a sixth hour drive, and I texted him, Hey,
I just want to make sure you get this safely,
but just letting them.
Speaker 3 (05:13):
Know, like I'm patient.
Speaker 4 (05:15):
I just want peace in my life. So whatever's happening
to like, let me know?
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Tell me?
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Yeah, he said, I got here safely and that was it.
My question is did I even hear him out or
do just talk him with everybody else?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
How long has this been going on a couple of
weeks all right, so it's still fairly early, and so
it's not like you're in a committed relationship. You just
don't like the fact that why are you playing with
me and playing with my time? You did so good
for these first couple of weeks. I was hopeful, and
then you did something whack.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
Yeah, and I don't even know what it is.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
And has he called your sense like there's been no
more communication. Well, I want to first of all commend
you for knowing what it is that you want and
knowing what you don't want.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
And I think that is so important.
Speaker 1 (06:00):
You know, like you said, you've only been single now
officially divorced for two years, but you've been single for
four years, and it's gonna take some time for you
to feel comfortable with people. I don't think that you
need to just settle for anything, and you have to
show people how to treat you, especially early on. And
so if this is unacceptable behavior to you, you let
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him know now. If he's able to go out of
his way or be honest with you and tell you
what's really going on. And you decide you want to
give him a chance. That's fine, but he can't just
lie back in there easily. I don't know what he
could have done. But I think you also have to
follow your instincts right. Don't feel like you're doing too
much or put in too much on nobody. You don't
have to settle for anything. And this is not the
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treatment that you would expect or you deserve. And you've
made it clear. I'm not gonna just have these casual relationships.
When I do do something, I want somebody that's not
gonna lie to me, that's going to be open and
honest and communicate with me.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
And he's not doing those things right.
Speaker 4 (06:56):
And I know it's eart. Yeah, if this is what
happens when it's small, then I know it's probably gonna
happen when a big kid.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
It is okay to hear what somebody has to say
and see how they come. But this is something that
makes you feel grateful that at least you didn't do
too much. At least you didn't take it a step
further that you didn't want to do because then you
would feel even worse. So that's why you're taking your time.
So you're doing the right thing and you're playing it right.
And he's got to do the right thing too.
Speaker 4 (07:23):
I agree. I'm glad that I got herd well. I
can't never forget through when y'all canning out free money.
But good advice, this great advice.
Speaker 1 (07:32):
Thank you all right, and don't second guess yourself, trust yourself.
I got you, Thank you all right, Thank you for calling.
That was asking ye eight hundred and two ninety two
fifty one fifty. If you couldn't get through, you can
always leave a message. Well answer you or ask ye
question that way. Hope you guys are enjoying your Monday.
And remember there's no such thing as a bad question.
It's way up and it gets.
Speaker 3 (07:52):
Your voice heard.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
What the word bit is the last word on way
up with Angela yee?
Speaker 1 (07:57):
What's up? Its way up with Angela yee. Hopefully you
guys had a great, great Monday. This is how we
start the week right, This is how we lay down
the groundwork for what our week is gonna be.
Speaker 3 (08:07):
Like.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
I always think of a Monday as a way to
get everything accomplished that I haven't gotten accomplished in the
prior week. It's a nice way to wipe the slate
clean and just be like, Okay, brand new start. Let's
it's all about how you look at things. Some people
might be like, oh, Monday, back to work. I'm like,
all right, Monday, let's get a great week going. But anyway,
this is your show, so you have the last word.
Speaker 4 (08:28):
I fell love with my girl cousin, and now we
don't speak like something more in our time, like so
thinking about her more than I I sure.
Speaker 5 (08:39):
Hey, I just want to shine a light on my mama.
Her name is Kelly. I don't know what she is
doing now. She left me when I was about nine
years old. So I just want to shot a light
on here and just letting old that I love her,
that I always will love her, and that old show.
I just want to shine a light on my two
brothers that I always love those two and that they
should never forget that
Speaker 4 (08:59):
They way up, duck, you tapped in and way up
with angela ye,