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October 29, 2025 37 mins

Wealth Wednesday with Tonia Moultry-Pace, the Interim President and CEO, National Network to End Domestic Violence

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Y y Yeah, yeah, yee's what you're all being waiting for.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Oh oh, you're tapped in the way up with Angela.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
Ye all right, it's way up with Angela. Yee. I'm
here with my guy. I can what what it do?

Speaker 4 (00:13):
Yay?

Speaker 5 (00:13):
How you doing today? It's a Wednesday, it's almost Halloween.
I know you love that time of year.

Speaker 6 (00:18):
I don't know why you're putting that on me, but
I'm doing great. What I'm not a Halloween person?

Speaker 3 (00:22):
You're nice? So you're not dressing up?

Speaker 7 (00:23):
No?

Speaker 8 (00:23):
I never dressed up. I'll go watch like I'll go
people watch.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
Are you doing anything for it?

Speaker 8 (00:28):
I don't have any plans, you know.

Speaker 5 (00:30):
Okay, we're having a Halloween party at my coffee shop tomorrow.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
It's like a nineties theme.

Speaker 8 (00:35):
Okay, I'll come bar.

Speaker 3 (00:36):
So we're excited for that.

Speaker 5 (00:37):
Nickas DJing nice. I believe who's dressing up as? I
guess like a nineties look.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (00:45):
I'm gonna be honest. I haven't thought it out yet.
But what does that mean? What does the nineties mean?
I gotta figure it out. I probably got something at home. Yeah,
so you come as a baby. Okay, I'll just said
she was doing it in nineties. I was, yeah, put
umbilical cord on you.

Speaker 8 (00:58):
It's November sixteenth, ninety coming up, by the.

Speaker 5 (01:01):
Way, some fake after birth. But anyway, today is a
wealth Wednesday.

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Today.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
By the way, October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month,
as we are raising public awareness about domestic violence, honoring survivors,
advocating for more policies and resources. So we are going
to have Tanya Moulti Pace joining us. She's the interim
president and CEO of the National Network to End Domestic Violence,
and that's an organization that creates social, political, and economic

(01:28):
environment where domestic violence no longer exists. But she has
some really eye opening things to say. If it's something
that you're dealing with, somebody close to you is dealing with.
Financial abuse is one of the things that we're talking about,
and it's something like ninety nine percent of cases of
financial abuse will end in domestic violence. So we'll talk
about that, is what is financial abuse? Even we'll discuss

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Let's shine a light eight hundred and two nine two
fifty one fifty call us up. Let us know who
you want to spread some love to. Who do you
want to shine a light on? It's way up.

Speaker 9 (01:58):
Turn your lights on, y'all saspreading love to those who
are doing greatness.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
Shanna light on them, shine a light on them.

Speaker 2 (02:07):
It's time to shine a light on them.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
Yeah, it's way yup at Angela. Yeah, I'm here with
Akeen Woods.

Speaker 8 (02:12):
What did it do?

Speaker 3 (02:13):
And today we're gonna shine a light on mister Beast.

Speaker 5 (02:15):
You know, he teamed up with Disneyland and Make a
Wish and he turned forty kids dreams into a day
of challenges, surprises in real life magic. He's also a
Guinness World Record holder. He actually is somebody. He actually
posted that BEA's philanthropy has given away forty seven million
meals to people to around one hundred and forty one

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thousand people, and they're on track to get above two
hundred thousand by the end of the year. Two hundred
thousand people. So he's been impactful to a lot. He's
always doing good things. He personally doesn't have a lot
of money himself because he reinvests, and so he said, ironically,
he's also borrowing money from his mom to pay for
his upcoming wedding because he reinvests everything. They're going to
spend about a quarter of a billion dollars on content

(02:56):
this year?

Speaker 3 (02:57):
Can you imagine?

Speaker 8 (02:59):
I don't know. I don't leave MS. The Beasts exists
until I get something.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
That's not nice. Don't do that. I mean, he's done
a lot of amazing.

Speaker 6 (03:07):
He does all this stuff, but sometimes I just feel
like it seems performative.

Speaker 8 (03:11):
What I know?

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Don't you?

Speaker 10 (03:13):
Dare?

Speaker 8 (03:14):
Maybe seven that's amazing. What he did is amazing.

Speaker 6 (03:18):
But like sometimes when I see people do stuff and
then only on the camera, in my head, I'm like,
are you doing.

Speaker 3 (03:23):
It because you want to do a content creator?

Speaker 5 (03:25):
But I think that it also inspires people that's true
to want to do that because you really got to
see these forty kids make a wish kids you know
in Disneyland it'll scavenger hun is very sweet and making
their dreams come to.

Speaker 3 (03:36):
Yeah, what is wrong with you? All right? Danielle? Who
do you want to shine a light on?

Speaker 11 (03:41):
I had called you on last Thursday, but I was
the one in Nashville donating waters in like different schools.

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Oh yes, okay, I remember.

Speaker 11 (03:49):
Yeah, So to follow up, I get another school yesterday. Actually,
so that in total, I know that is chincases of
forty bottles of water to five different schools this one month.

Speaker 3 (04:00):
Okay, we love it.

Speaker 5 (04:01):
What's the organization that you have so people can donate
or follow what you're doing?

Speaker 11 (04:05):
So on Facebook. I'm donating with a Fru Street Baptist Church.
It's located in Nashville.

Speaker 5 (04:12):
So that's how people can find you on Facebook. Yes, ma'am,
all right, well we shine a light on you.

Speaker 3 (04:17):
Thank you.

Speaker 5 (04:17):
I think in times like this now, as we're watching
people losing their benefits, you know, come November first, and
the difficulties that people are having, things like this mean
a lot.

Speaker 3 (04:26):
Yes, ma'am, I'm of course all right, Well, thank you
so much.

Speaker 4 (04:29):
Thank you again.

Speaker 11 (04:30):
We'll off your show by.

Speaker 3 (04:31):
The way, all right, I appreciate it.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Okay, bye.

Speaker 5 (04:34):
Well that was shining Light eight hundred and two ninet
two fifty one fifty. If you couldn't get through, you
could leave a message and shine a light for last word.
And when we come back, we got your Yet we
did not see this coming. Cameron is suing j Cole.
Who would have thunk it. We'll discuss it its way up.

Speaker 9 (04:49):
It says in the rooms from industry shade to all
of gossip out send Angela's feeling that EyeT.

Speaker 3 (04:57):
Yeah, it's way up. But angela, yea, I'm here here.

Speaker 8 (05:00):
What did it do?

Speaker 3 (05:01):
And it's time for some yet.

Speaker 5 (05:03):
Now we did not see this coming, but Cameron is
suing j Cole.

Speaker 8 (05:08):
Hate to see it happen, I know.

Speaker 5 (05:10):
And this is all because and I'm gonna say this,
I could actually understand, and I'm hoping that they'll get
this resolved.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
I feel like they will.

Speaker 5 (05:18):
But apparently he got on j Cole's song and in
exchange for that, he was anticipating that, you know, that
Jake Cole would come and do their podcast.

Speaker 3 (05:30):
It is what it is. So here's that song that
Cameron was on.

Speaker 5 (05:32):
Y'all notice all right, so fair enough, right, Like I
do this song for you. The agreement is that you're
going to come and go on a podcast. That song
is called Ready twenty four. Well, apparently he said three
years later and he still has not been able to
get him on the show.

Speaker 8 (05:50):
Yeah, at this point, you've got to do something.

Speaker 6 (05:53):
I mean, I know, when I first saw the story,
I'm like suing, that's corny, But then I'm like three years.

Speaker 5 (05:58):
Yeah, the song was recorded into twenty two and then
it came out on Might delete later that mixtape in
twenty twenty four, and so he said that he's been
trying to get him to do this for two years,
and he kept saying he was unavailable for the podcast.
Who also maybe you know, could have did a collaboration
with him that didn't happen. So he said he didn't
get any proper compensation and he wants to be declared

(06:20):
co author of the song, get a full accounting of
the song's earnings, which he estimates is over five hundred
thousand dollars.

Speaker 6 (06:28):
I mean that's fair because all you have to do
is do a podcast, and now you got to come
up five hundred thousand dollars the podcast.

Speaker 5 (06:34):
He's trying to figure out what it made and then
he'll get half of that.

Speaker 8 (06:36):
Yeah, So I.

Speaker 6 (06:37):
Think that's more than fair because it's like, bro, I
get it, you're busy, but an hour. You can't take
an hour out of your day to do a podcast.
In three years, you don't got an hour.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Well we'll see what happens, though.

Speaker 5 (06:49):
I feel like they'll end up you start a lawsuit
just to get somebody to be like.

Speaker 8 (06:54):
Let's get their attention.

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Yeah, Like what do we need to just do the
podcast all right now, Dave East and Big Sean have
a new track called Man in the Mirror.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
This is from the COMMA for Deluxe Edition, and here
it is.

Speaker 8 (07:06):
Okay, I'm not gonna live like that.

Speaker 6 (07:08):
If I heard the title, I was thinking Michael Jackson vibe.
That wasn't it? But the good song.

Speaker 5 (07:13):
And lastly, Designer has put out a new freestyle and
people are like, wow, all this time Designer careerly rap
doo lyrics.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
And not have you know that crazy voice he does?

Speaker 5 (07:24):
Well here it is all right, well there you go,
there you and I say this design has been through
a lot in these past few years. So good to
see that he's out here, always still working. All right,
Well that is your yet. And when we come back,
we have about last night. I watched the stand up
special last night. I'm gonna tell you about it, and
I want to see if you watched it too, Okay,
and you'll tell us what you did.

Speaker 3 (07:44):
It's way up? What night?

Speaker 2 (07:47):
So about last night?

Speaker 5 (07:50):
Yes, he went down, Yeah, it's way up.

Speaker 3 (07:54):
Put Angela yee, I'm here, I keen Wiz is here.

Speaker 8 (07:57):
What did you?

Speaker 3 (07:57):
What did you do last night?

Speaker 8 (07:59):
I had a show at comedy club.

Speaker 3 (08:00):
I was that it was great.

Speaker 6 (08:01):
I'm running a set for something I can't tell you.
I'll tell you off air, you can't tell me. I
can tell you off but I can't say on it.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
All right, Well that's good.

Speaker 8 (08:08):
Yeah, it was good. It was a really fun show.

Speaker 5 (08:10):
Well, yesterday I was at home watching a stand up special.
I actually watched Moammer special.

Speaker 3 (08:14):
Oh I Love My.

Speaker 5 (08:16):
Wild World, and I thought it was great, the timeliness
of it.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
He's Palestinian.

Speaker 8 (08:21):
I haven't seen it.

Speaker 6 (08:22):
I've met him once and I've seen his comedy once
or twice at the Cellar, but I don't really know
him like that.

Speaker 5 (08:28):
Well, he know he has a series also on Netflix too,
that's pretty good. And he's the only and he said
this in the special, he's the only Palestinian with like
his own show.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
Yeah, and so that's a big deal.

Speaker 5 (08:40):
Because sometimes it's for people they get scared of being
canceled and opportunities. Even him talking about like where he
was going to film the stand up and issues that
he had with that.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
I'm not sure where he said it on here, but
I don't remember.

Speaker 5 (08:52):
I just remember him talking about the issues that he
had on figuring out where he could even film and
people allowing him, you know, to film there. He said
it was like a German gay bear club or something
like that.

Speaker 8 (09:04):
Really.

Speaker 5 (09:06):
In addition to that, he talked about being at a
hotel one time and they called while he was gone
doing a show. I guess somebody called the police on
him because his name is Mohammed, so they thought he
was a terrorist.

Speaker 3 (09:20):
Of course, can you believe that? But anyway, the.

Speaker 5 (09:24):
Way he starts off this special, if even if you
just put it on right now, watch the first few seconds.
The first two words that he says, three words I'll say,
are you know it has to do with him being
Palestinian and being disappointed that certain other people won't speak up.

Speaker 3 (09:38):
Who are Palestinian? Oh, so check it out. Shout out
to Moamar.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
Make sure you also stream his show, but stream the
special as well. Now when we come back, tell us
a secret. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty.
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likes when y'all say the most outrageous things and he
can sit here and be non just.

Speaker 3 (09:58):
He loves it. He loves it.

Speaker 5 (10:00):
Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty You are anonymous.
It's a no judgment zone. Tell us a secret. That's
eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty.

Speaker 3 (10:08):
It's way up.

Speaker 2 (10:10):
This is a judgment free zone. Tell us a secret.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
What's up? His way up at Angela? Yee, I'm here
with akem woo.

Speaker 8 (10:15):
What it do?

Speaker 3 (10:16):
Okay, it's that time favorite segment.

Speaker 5 (10:18):
It's time for tell us a secret. Eight hundred two
nine two fifty one fifty. If you have a secret
you want to share with us, you know, it's a
no judgment zone.

Speaker 8 (10:26):
What's that?

Speaker 3 (10:26):
Anonymous?

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Call it?

Speaker 3 (10:27):
What's your secret?

Speaker 10 (10:28):
So my secret is that I have been sleeping with
my best friend and my brother's gods father, the same
man that I told my daisy father not well, my
daughter's father not to be worried.

Speaker 3 (10:42):
About wow, and he should have been worried.

Speaker 8 (10:45):
Are y'all still knocking boots?

Speaker 10 (10:47):
Listen? Man, I've been trying to make an appointment all week.

Speaker 5 (10:50):
I'm okay now, now be honest with us a little.
Do you like could just see this going further?

Speaker 10 (10:57):
No, and we do. We do have a conversations about that.
Absolutely not, because it can become a date A very
dangerous game, very dangerous game because of the place he
has in my life, and then he is my daughter godfather.
So yeah, we try to keep it here and that's it.
We respect. If he's in a relationship, we respect.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
He's in a relationship too.

Speaker 10 (11:17):
No, he's not in a relationship, but if he was
to be in a relationship for me, then we would respect.

Speaker 8 (11:22):
And that's it. Okay, except for the time that you
didn't respect.

Speaker 6 (11:26):
Huh, I said, is that for the time for you?

Speaker 8 (11:30):
So you heard me, except for this time when you
was outside?

Speaker 3 (11:34):
All right, Well, thank you for sharry.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
I wonder you think your ex will ever find out
if he were to know that we.

Speaker 10 (11:41):
Ended up being involved, he would probably lose his mind.
So if you see a man, if you hear screams
and you see a man running without his head off,
with his head knocked off, that's him. That's probably my
daughter's father.

Speaker 3 (11:53):
Good to know.

Speaker 8 (11:54):
I'll look his mind.

Speaker 3 (11:55):
I'll stay out his way, all right.

Speaker 10 (11:57):
Thank you for thank you.

Speaker 3 (11:59):
By Hey, naimis color, how are you?

Speaker 4 (12:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 12 (12:02):
Good morning, good morning.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
You want to tell me and n Ichem a secret?

Speaker 8 (12:05):
What did you?

Speaker 13 (12:06):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (12:07):
Yeah, yeah, I got a secret.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
I'm just sticking with my baby mama's cousin for the
last fifty your.

Speaker 3 (12:13):
Baby mama's cousin. Fifteen years, that's a relationship. I mean
I think she No, yeah.

Speaker 8 (12:20):
Me too, for fifty years. She definitely know. She just
don't care.

Speaker 3 (12:23):
You're not with your baby mom anymore?

Speaker 12 (12:25):
No, we're not together. She wasn't isshue.

Speaker 8 (12:27):
Okay, are you still sleeping with the cousin?

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Yeah, we're still creeping.

Speaker 3 (12:32):
Why are y'all creeping? Is a cousin like with somebody?

Speaker 13 (12:35):
No, she's not with nobody.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
I'm years is a relationship?

Speaker 2 (12:40):
Wait?

Speaker 8 (12:40):
Are you single? Now?

Speaker 12 (12:42):
I'm single?

Speaker 2 (12:43):
I'm outside.

Speaker 3 (12:44):
Oh you're in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (12:45):
You gotta be mostly committed to.

Speaker 12 (12:47):
That, don't you.

Speaker 5 (12:48):
So why why is it that you don't like her
enough to do more? Is it only because that's your
baby mom's cousin?

Speaker 3 (12:54):
Or is it because why that's the only reason.

Speaker 5 (12:58):
Okay, so you got some type of morals, I'm I
mean not really fifteen years that deletes those morals.

Speaker 4 (13:02):
I'm a man that got caught up.

Speaker 2 (13:05):
You're gonna put it that way.

Speaker 3 (13:06):
Are they close with each other?

Speaker 8 (13:08):
No? Man, if you don't date this cousin.

Speaker 3 (13:12):
Like everything else about her?

Speaker 2 (13:13):
No, No, we got we got kids.

Speaker 11 (13:16):
I got kids, so you know they got a lot
to do more or left.

Speaker 5 (13:19):
Okay, the kids would be siblings and cousins if they
got together.

Speaker 4 (13:23):
Yeah, you know it's bad enough as.

Speaker 3 (13:27):
All right, all right, well, thank you for calling.

Speaker 2 (13:30):
All right, you'll have them go too.

Speaker 5 (13:32):
Well, that was tell it's a secret eight hundred and
two ninety fifty one fifty. Just in case you couldn't
get through, you could leave a message and tell a
secret that way. And when we come back, we have
your yee t and uh, let's talk about little Dirk.

Speaker 3 (13:45):
What are you doing man?

Speaker 5 (13:46):
He's in jail. Oh, but there's you didn't know that.
I didn't Okay, you know I don't know what's going on. Well,
I'm gonna fill you in because there is a confidential
witness that has allegations. But the Feds also are come
into a rowblock and what they're trying to find, we'll
talk about it.

Speaker 3 (14:02):
It's way up.

Speaker 2 (14:03):
She's about to blow the lead ab off this bot.

Speaker 8 (14:05):
Let's get it.

Speaker 9 (14:06):
Angelus building at yet, come and get to see all.

Speaker 5 (14:10):
Right his way up at Angela. Yee, I'm here, and
of course my guy Yaquim Wiz is here with me
today a comedian extraordina air birthday coming up. Let's get
into this yet. You don't be knowing what's going on
in these streets.

Speaker 8 (14:21):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (14:22):
Little Dirk his trialis scheduled to start on January sixth.
He's facing charges regarding an alleged murder for higher plot.
This has to do with Kwondo Rondo and allegedly orchestrating
the attempted murder, but Rondo's cousin unfortunately died during the attack.
Little Dirk is denying these allegations well. According to reports,
his iclod and Twitter have reportedly been cleared of anything

(14:44):
that could be used against him in this upcoming trial,
so there's no information on there. In addition to that
he has been prosecutors are requesting to keep members of
the jury anonymous during the trial. They're saying that some
of the fans of Little Dirk have made threats of
violence against the prosecutor and a judge ahead of the

(15:05):
trial called into the judge in the Central District of California.
But his team is arguing that transparency is necessary in
this trial, so we'll see what happens. There's also a
confidential witness.

Speaker 8 (15:18):
How much time is he facing? Does he say?

Speaker 5 (15:20):
I listen the trial is starting in January of twenty
twenty six. So we don't know what's going to end
up happening. But what we do know is that there's
a confidential witness who is alleging that Little Dirk order
hits on six people. And this person, CW one, is
saying that Little Dirk place monetary bounties for the murder

(15:41):
people with whom he was feuding, including six other individuals,
and they said the affidavit listed significant evidence corroborating the
account of the involvement in the murder of Kwando Rondo's cousin.
So we shall see. There's a lot of different sides
to this. So we don't know what's going to end up,
because I know with the Fed, you never know what
they're going to put on you. A lot of times

(16:02):
things get put on you, they don't stick. We don't
know what's going to happen. Oh, I'm glad I'm not
in the streets all right now. Phil Jackson has a
book that is coming out and they just put out
some excerpts today as a matter of fact, and this
book is called Masters of the Game, a Conversational History
of the NBA, and seventy five Legendary Players is coming
out on Tuesday. He talks about his time as president

(16:22):
of the Knicks that was from twenty fourteen to twenty seventeen.
He talks about Carmelo Anthony and a conversation he had
with James Dolan in which James Dolan questioned whether the
media would run Phil Jackson out of town. He said
that Carmelo Anthony his broken relationship with him, meant one
of them would have to leave, he said. Dolan said,
I don't want you to go through it. I know
what it's like to deal with these people the media.

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Phil Jackson said, Unfortunately, my relationship with Carmelo is kind
of busted, and if he's going to be there, it's
probably best that I go.

Speaker 3 (16:52):
So he ultimately.

Speaker 5 (16:53):
Phil Jackson ultimately left after the team decided not to
buy out Carmelo Anthony's contract, so that's what happened there.
He also talks about his relationship with Genie Buss and
how him coming to the Knicks kind of ruin that relationship.
He said that was his one regret losing his romantic
relationship with the owner of the Lakers, Genie Bus. They

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called off their four year engagement in twenty sixteen, apparently
because the NBA urged them to do so. He said,
I warrant her. I don't think our relationship can survive this.
I'm not going to take this job. And she said, no,
don't worry about it. We're going to be fine. But
she got pressure from the lead. They worried about the
idea of collusion that could happen between an owner and
a president.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
A lot going on here.

Speaker 8 (17:34):
That is a lot of tea. Sports be sports be's messy.

Speaker 3 (17:37):
Listen.

Speaker 5 (17:37):
I always say sports is like a gossip for sports
watchers because they be watching all day longest.

Speaker 6 (17:43):
I mean, it's the same thing that it's like Warehousewives
for sports.

Speaker 3 (17:46):
It's like TMZ all day, but all about athletes.

Speaker 5 (17:49):
Yep, all right, well that is your Yet when we
come back under the radar, these are the stories that
are not necessarily and the headlines they're flying under the radar.
We want to give you information that can be helpful
to you because a lot of families are at risk
of losing snap benefits November first, so we're going to
have some of that information of what you can do.

Speaker 3 (18:06):
It's way up the.

Speaker 9 (18:07):
News that relates to you. These stories are flying under
the radar.

Speaker 5 (18:11):
All right way up at Angela. Ye, I'm here with
a keen Woods what to do under the radar. We
got some helpful stories for you today. Grocery Buddies. This
is a new initiative that's happening as families are at
risk of losing SNAP benefits. And what this is is
online forums where people are you know, they go online, Oh,
do you have anybody that is good at painting. They're

(18:32):
looking for like recommendations, referrals you could be looking for
buying like gently used items. Well, now neighbors are stepping
up for one another with Grocery Buddies. It's a solution
for families across the country who are vulnerable while this
is happening. So the way this happens, neighbors post on
social media and community groups or public forums about their

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willingness to be a grocery body and you help a
family at risk of losing SNAP benefits. Then they ask
people interested to send them a private message. Once you
send a private message, they work together to find a
grocery solution that makes sense for both parties. That's awesome
and that's what it has to look like. It could
be any different situation like where maybe you know, you
go together to the supermarket and shop together. Sometimes you

(19:15):
give a gift card so the person could buy the
groceries they need.

Speaker 8 (19:18):
That's really sweet. It's sad that we have to come to.

Speaker 5 (19:20):
This, but yeah, it is awful that we have to
come to this. And so it is nice though, because
a lot of times I think about wanting to help people,
but wanting to directly help people, you know, sometimes you can.

Speaker 6 (19:32):
Sometimes you don't want to donate to a chaity the
money exactly, all right.

Speaker 5 (19:36):
Well, Door Dash has also launched an emergency food response
and is Snap stopping, and what they want to do
is promote efforts to support those who rely on Snap.
Through their emergency food response, they'll power delivery on behalf
of food banks and pantries to those who would usually
get benefits.

Speaker 3 (19:52):
They said, no one should go hungry in America period.

Speaker 5 (19:55):
Millions of families are worried right now about how they'll
put food on the table. So the response includes free
deliver for the Project Dash food bank and food pantry
partners nationwide. They're also partnering with leading grocers, so they'll
be waiving delivery and service fees for an estimated three
hundred thousand orders for SNAP recipients. In addition, they're delivering
one million meals for three hundred plus Project dash partners nationwide,

(20:18):
and they're also donating food and essentials to local food
banks and donating fresh food, shelf stable items and household
essentials from Dashmark locations to local food banks.

Speaker 3 (20:28):
And affected communities.

Speaker 5 (20:30):
That's awesome, all right, so everybody, I think, if everybody
can come together and do their parts, then Unfortunately, you know,
the federal government right now is.

Speaker 8 (20:40):
Not yeah, yeah, all right.

Speaker 5 (20:44):
Well, the way up mixes at the top of the hour,
plus it is a Wealth Wednesday. This is Domestic Violence
Awareness Months. So we have Tanya Militari Paste joining us.
She is the interim president and CEO of the National
Network to End Domestic Violence.

Speaker 3 (20:56):
All right, it's way up. She's like the tout like
a like a.

Speaker 2 (21:02):
And she's spilling it all. This is yeat, well.

Speaker 3 (21:08):
What's up? His way up?

Speaker 5 (21:09):
But angela, yee, I'm here with my guy, Aqim Woods.

Speaker 8 (21:11):
What did it do?

Speaker 3 (21:12):
What did it do?

Speaker 5 (21:14):
Let's get into some yut So first and foremost, k
One and Kialani have confirmed that they're in a relationship
together it's so cute. I feel like people been knew this.
You know, they kissed in worst behavior.

Speaker 8 (21:27):
That was just regular kids too, they kids and kids.

Speaker 5 (21:30):
Yeah, so that already shook things up a little bit,
and they spent a lot of time together. They also
did this cute little TikTok. Here's what it sounds like.
Every day I get on the shop, people flirting with
my wife.

Speaker 3 (21:43):
Good taste.

Speaker 5 (21:44):
Well, since then, K one has took to social media
to TikTok to address accusations, to clear up the negativity
because people are saying, oh, they were in relationships, they cheated.
They're questioning the timeline of things. They're saying things like,
oh they're gonna break up. It's not gonna last, it's
not gonna work. Here's what K one had to say, just.

Speaker 14 (22:02):
Ta clear things up, which I shouldn't have to do
because there's nobody's business, for real. But I've been single
for a long time, or was single for a long
time when I'm a case, she was very much single,
So I don't know what timeline do you think your
piecing together? But it's wrong first of all, and loss
of it's money a.

Speaker 5 (22:17):
Business, you know, that's why people keep their relationship private
for so long.

Speaker 3 (22:21):
The Internet is that internet.

Speaker 8 (22:22):
The Internet loves to hypothesize about everything. Who she know who?

Speaker 6 (22:26):
When when they start talking this, that and the third
and it's none of all business.

Speaker 5 (22:31):
Yeah well nowadays, I mean, but that's why happy a
happy life out of the spotlight. But sometimes you'd be
so happy you want to just post the person all right. Now,
Terry Rosier, there's some news about him. He's the Miami
heat guard who was alleged to have manipulated his performance
in an NBA game as part of gambling scheme, that
whole gambling conspiracy thing that's been going on, according to reports.

(22:53):
Now to ESPN, they're saying he was facing an eight
million dollar tax lean from the IRS and that was
around that time. Now, his attorney is saying that his
client did not owe the IRS the eight point two
million dollars listed on the lien. He said he owed
nine thousand of the total eight million in taxes from
twenty twenty one and it has been paid. We just
need the IRS to help remove the now defunct lien

(23:15):
tofferent numbers. Yeah, well, and there's no documentation. They didn't
answer any follow up questions yet, but some people are saying, well,
why would somebody who you know has one hundred million
dollars have to do these gambling schemes, and so people
are speculating that all was not what it seems.

Speaker 3 (23:32):
But I guess this is all allegations right now.

Speaker 5 (23:34):
Yeah, all right, And Queen Latifa was recently on with
Jennifer Hudson. I love her so much, and you know
who she loves so much, Meghan the Stallion.

Speaker 3 (23:43):
Here's what she has to say about Meghan.

Speaker 7 (23:45):
She's so cool, she's so fun, she's so very talented,
very and strong in her spot and I love that
energy carrying hip hop into the future, of course, but
she asked me to pop out at Coachella, and I
was like, what, you.

Speaker 5 (23:59):
Know, what a big deal it is that she popped
out for Coachella from Meg thee Stallion.

Speaker 8 (24:03):
Yeah, I feel like me and Megan would be friends
in real life.

Speaker 3 (24:05):
I think y'all would you would have it.

Speaker 8 (24:06):
I'm a anime nerd. I think we'd beat besties.

Speaker 5 (24:09):
All right, Well, that is your yee t And when
we come back, we have ask yee eight hundred two
nine two fifty one fifty any question you have me
and akim, are going to help you out right, give
us some questions. You give toxic advice, but sometimes I.

Speaker 8 (24:22):
Do give toxic advice, but listen to it.

Speaker 3 (24:24):
Sometimes it works, all right, it's way up.

Speaker 9 (24:26):
Well, it's relationship for career advice. Angela's dropping facts.

Speaker 2 (24:30):
You should you should know.

Speaker 5 (24:31):
This is ask ye what's up his way up at
Angela Yee? I'm here a keen WIT's is here with
me today?

Speaker 3 (24:36):
You ready to help the people out.

Speaker 8 (24:38):
Let's help the people all right.

Speaker 5 (24:40):
Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty It's time
for ask Yee. And we have an anonymous Carlo on
the line today. What's up anonymous color? What advice do
you mean from ask Yee?

Speaker 13 (24:49):
Oh? I've been rolling patent just die hows that I
was talking to just the seas over his house, even
though we're not talking anymore.

Speaker 8 (24:58):
Okay, Will you mean rolling by like a drive by?

Speaker 6 (25:01):
You mean just like driving by on the way or
do you mean sitting in the shadows with binoculars?

Speaker 13 (25:06):
No, I'm just like driving by, but it's like twenty
minutes away from my house. I'm like going completely out
of my way detours.

Speaker 5 (25:16):
What would you do if he saw you. Oh no,
do you stock at social media?

Speaker 13 (25:21):
I do?

Speaker 8 (25:22):
Girl? Do you have a do you have a burner?
Do you have a burner account?

Speaker 3 (25:27):
I don't.

Speaker 13 (25:28):
I do it for my own account.

Speaker 8 (25:29):
Okay, well that makes it a little less crazy.

Speaker 3 (25:32):
Do you want to stop or what do you? What
do you want?

Speaker 13 (25:35):
I do want him?

Speaker 3 (25:38):
So why did you guys stop dating?

Speaker 13 (25:40):
He said he wasn't ready for all of the commitment
and he needs just to concentrate on himself.

Speaker 3 (25:47):
And okay, he was honest with you.

Speaker 5 (25:49):
At least he didn't lead you on and you know, cheat,
he told you the truth and you're not accepting that
right now.

Speaker 13 (25:55):
My thing was, Mike don't even want to like be
my friend. But I haven't reached out facts from that because.

Speaker 3 (26:04):
Yea, I don't know why. I don't know why you
don't just call him.

Speaker 13 (26:09):
I don't want him to be mean to me about
reaching out to him again after he's already told me
that he needs okay him and face and just to
stop reaching out to him.

Speaker 3 (26:20):
Is this your first stalker situation from a girl?

Speaker 8 (26:28):
If you don't go find you another man to be
that's the thing. When a man got you sprung, the
only solution is to find.

Speaker 5 (26:36):
Another man you've been dating anybody else?

Speaker 3 (26:39):
No, I think you need to get back out.

Speaker 6 (26:40):
Yeah, and get back out on the streets. Baby, you
don't need to be hide in the bushes.

Speaker 3 (26:44):
Do any of your friends know you're doing this? Only one?

Speaker 13 (26:47):
And she's like, don't put that turning signal on.

Speaker 12 (26:50):
I'm like, at.

Speaker 3 (26:52):
Least find some other things to do.

Speaker 8 (26:54):
Yeah, get out the busher's girl, you're too cute for that.

Speaker 3 (26:56):
Gas is expensive.

Speaker 8 (26:57):
Guess is expensive?

Speaker 13 (26:58):
Girl?

Speaker 5 (26:58):
We here drive in twenty minute out the way. That
means twenty minutes back.

Speaker 8 (27:02):
Want to get your feeling drink?

Speaker 3 (27:04):
What would you do if you saw him with a woman?

Speaker 13 (27:07):
I'm back myself.

Speaker 8 (27:09):
You're gonna be sad, So you out here wasting gas
to be sad.

Speaker 13 (27:13):
You're right, I used to do that.

Speaker 8 (27:15):
I've been in I've been in the busher too. Girl. Listen,
I get it.

Speaker 5 (27:18):
There we go, confessions. You know what, you know what
guys are most attracted to.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
And I'm gonna be honest with you.

Speaker 5 (27:24):
Women who have moved on doing their own thing, happy
living life.

Speaker 8 (27:28):
She's right.

Speaker 13 (27:30):
My brother keeps telling me I'm just not used to
this dating world.

Speaker 5 (27:33):
Okay, well, this is not part of it. Okay, we'll
d then you have to actually be dating. Okay, so listen,
listen to your friends, listen to your brother and just
you know, go cold turkey without stalking.

Speaker 8 (27:46):
Get on the app, find yourself a new man.

Speaker 5 (27:50):
Go out some time you feel like turning that way,
turn the other way and go somewhere else.

Speaker 3 (27:54):
Try some new restaurants, do some different things.

Speaker 5 (27:57):
We pray for you, baby, all right, gay, look all right,
Well that was ask ye eight hundred and two ninety
two fifty one fifty. If you couldn't get through, you
could leave a message and ask us any questions. That
way will answer you and when we come back.

Speaker 3 (28:10):
You know.

Speaker 5 (28:10):
It is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It's also a Wealth Wednesday,
and we're going to be talking about financial abuse.

Speaker 3 (28:16):
We have Tanya Militarie Pace joining us today.

Speaker 5 (28:19):
She is the interim president and CEO of the National
Network to End Domestic Violence.

Speaker 3 (28:23):
It's way up.

Speaker 6 (28:24):
I had a dream of wealthy and I don't mind
sharing my wealth.

Speaker 9 (28:28):
Dog Get you straight financially, mentally, and physically.

Speaker 2 (28:31):
This is Wealth Wednesday. On way up with Angela Yee.

Speaker 3 (28:34):
What's up?

Speaker 5 (28:35):
His way up at Angela Yee. I'm here with my
girl Stacy's His Deal for a Wealth.

Speaker 15 (28:39):
Wednesday, October's Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and every year Angela
and I bring attention to an issue called financial abuse,
which a lot of you may be experiencing, but not
a lot of you know it is the precursor to
ninety nine percent of domestic violence cases. We are so
honored to have with us tod Tanya Maultrie Pace, who

(29:02):
is the interim President and CEO of the National Network
to End Domestic Violence, tell our audience what financial.

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Abuse really is is when one partner in a relationship
is controlling all the financial decisions, controlling access to the
money and resources. And they can do that by either
they're the only person that's access to the accounts. They
can do it by causing someone to lose their jobs.
They can do it by impacting people's credit score, which
has long term and multiple consequences across the lifespan for folks.

Speaker 5 (29:31):
Okay, because sometimes people don't understand what financial abuse actually is,
because sometimes it is a way to control somebody. It's
a way to have somebody feel like, well, if I leave,
how will I be able to support myself and my family?

Speaker 3 (29:43):
And that is abuse.

Speaker 8 (29:44):
That is absolutely abuse.

Speaker 1 (29:46):
That is one of those power and control dynamics that
we talk about in a relationship.

Speaker 8 (29:50):
And those all work together.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
So when we talk about verbal abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse,
the physical abuse that happens, you know, messing with people's parenting,
so like really utilizing the kids and using the kids
to like maybe attack the other parent or undermine their parenting.
All of that gets wrapped up with the financial abuse
because everything about this is about how can I isolate
you to maintain power and control over you so you

(30:13):
will not leave me.

Speaker 5 (30:14):
Right now, I'm here with Stacy Tisdale, We're talking about
financial abuse with our guest, Tanyamultary Pace, the president and
CEO of the National Network to End Domestic Violence. What
are some things for people who are listening that are like,
maybe I am in that situation. What are some of
those signs to know this is a financial abuse situation?

Speaker 1 (30:33):
Potentially, if you really don't know what's going on in
the family finances, if you don't have a say in
terms of what's happening, if you don't have access to
the bank accounts or credit cards, if you're the person
maybe who's working but you don't like your check goes
into into your partner's account. That is a sign of
financial abuse. If you are in so much debt because
of this person and you don't have a way of

(30:55):
getting out of it, and they're also doing all these
other tactics, right, they're verbally abuse of they're emotionally abuse that,
they're not supportive, then definitely, you know, I would encourage you,
if you are identifying with any of this, to reach
out to a local domestic violence program and speak with
someone there that can help provide support, education, safety planning,
all those kind of things in terms of helping you

(31:16):
figure out like what your next steps can be.

Speaker 8 (31:17):
Ninety nine percent.

Speaker 15 (31:19):
Now the All State Foundation is saying one hundred percent
of physical domestic violence starts in financial abuse, but eighty
percent of the public isn't even aware that exists.

Speaker 5 (31:28):
All right, we're talking all about financial abuse. This wealth Wednesday.

Speaker 3 (31:32):
What is it?

Speaker 5 (31:32):
How do you identify it? What is the connection to
domestic violence? How do you get help? We have more
with Tanya Miltari Pace when we come back. She is
the president and CEO of the National Network to End
Domestic Violence.

Speaker 3 (31:43):
It's way up kind of dream.

Speaker 6 (31:45):
Of wealthy and I don't mind sharing, my Wealth Dog.

Speaker 9 (31:48):
Getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is Wealth
Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Ye.

Speaker 3 (31:54):
What's up?

Speaker 5 (31:54):
His Way up with Angela Yee. It's a Wealth Wednesday.
Stacy Tisdale is here. It's also National Domestic Violence Awareness
Month and we are talking to Tanya multi Pace about
financial abuse. Tanya is the president and CEO of the
National Network to End Domestic Violence. You have the National
Network to End Domestic Violences Independence program.

Speaker 3 (32:14):
Can you tell us about that?

Speaker 1 (32:15):
Yes, thank you. This is an amazing program that is
so exciting. So this is a program that we've been
running for several years. We have helped across the country
a little over fifteen hundred survivors. And what this is
is a micro loan program. There's no fee, there's no
cost to it.

Speaker 8 (32:32):
Right.

Speaker 1 (32:32):
This is if you're a survivor of domestic violence. We
asked that you're working with an advocate at least three times, right,
because we want to know that you've got help and
supporting your community. And we start out what's called a
first step loan, and that's one hundred dollars loan and
we give you that and you pay it back ten
dollars each month and as long as you're paying. When
you pay that back on time, we report that to
the three credit bureaus. And the reason why we don't

(32:53):
want people to pay that off right away is because
it takes up five to six months for us to
see it increase in people's credit scores. But what we're
seeing is that people can increase her scores of fifteen
points if you successfully pay that off. Then we now
have had we've now introduced what's called the next step loan,
and the next step loan is where you can get

(33:13):
to either a five hundred dollars loan or one thousand
dollars loan. And so the idea is that we want
to do positive we want to be positive reports for survivors,
so increases their credit scores and through this process. So
it's such a wonderful, such a unique program that has
helped so many survivors. We had a woman who had
five different loans with us. When she started, her credit
score was like in the five hundreds, and now her

(33:34):
credit score is like at seven thirty.

Speaker 9 (33:36):
Wow.

Speaker 5 (33:36):
That's empowering, yes, to know that you don't let a
situation knock you down completely and that.

Speaker 3 (33:42):
Yeah, there's things you can do.

Speaker 1 (33:44):
Yeah, some of the strongest people I know are survivors
are domestic Absolutely, you have to be stan.

Speaker 8 (33:49):
Yes.

Speaker 5 (33:49):
Right now I'm here with Stacy Tisdale. We're talking about
financial abuse with our guest Tanyamultarie Pace, the president and
CEO of the National Network to End Domestic Violence.

Speaker 13 (33:59):
People are here.

Speaker 15 (34:00):
Are their stories in this conversation. They think they're having
financial abuse issues? Where can they go for help?

Speaker 1 (34:07):
So again, where you can go for help is, you know,
reach out to your local domestic violence program.

Speaker 8 (34:12):
They have advocacy.

Speaker 1 (34:13):
They can also help you with financial safety planning, which
means helping you figure out what are my assets, what
are my debts? What paperwork am I trying to figure
out how to gather so that I can make some
decisions going forward. You also want to know, again the
Independence Project is there for you to be able to,
you know, access in terms of rebuilding your credit. You know,
we have a whole wide network of advocates and we

(34:35):
do all sorts of things. So we have legal services,
and we have counseling, and we have I mean, whatever
it is that a survivor needs, we can figure out
how to show up for them. And again, if they're
not getting what they need at their local level, do
not be afraid to reach out to the coalition at
the state level to be able to help get that support.

Speaker 15 (34:51):
Everybody follow Wealth Wednesdays on Instagram and you also you
know our website Teamwealth Wednesdays dot com and we're going
to make sure today that all all these resources are
up there for you and you are not alone in
this situation can feel so isolating. So thank you and
every year we are going to have this conversation.

Speaker 5 (35:09):
All right, well, thank you so much Titania Multarie Pace
for joining us. We talked all about financial abuse and
domestic violence, the connection, how do you identify it, how
do you get help? How do you get help for
someone else? Thank you so much for joining us on
this Wealth Wednesday. You can watch that foot and if
you on my YouTube channel Way Up with Ye and
when we come back, you guys have the last word.

Speaker 9 (35:28):
Take up the phone, Tapian to get your voice heard.

Speaker 3 (35:31):
What the word is?

Speaker 2 (35:33):
He is the last word? On Way Up with Angela Yee?

Speaker 3 (35:36):
What's up? His Way Up with Angela Yee? I'm here
with Akim Woods.

Speaker 8 (35:39):
What to do?

Speaker 5 (35:40):
Thank you again, Titania multi Pace for joining us for
wealth Wednesday, we talked about financial abuse. Really important conversation
for US to have its National Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
A lot of y'all calls in today for tell us
a secret. We appreciate that it was mess.

Speaker 3 (35:54):
Don't I feel like everybody's cheating?

Speaker 8 (35:56):
It does feel like everybody's cheating. Can y'all have a
different secret next time? I got to be out in
the streets.

Speaker 5 (36:02):
It's like, what is going on in this world? Y'all
control yourselves, But it's no judgment. Yeah, I wonder if
you could be monogamous.

Speaker 6 (36:11):
I could if I found guy sliding my DMS keyboards
dot com.

Speaker 5 (36:14):
You never even had a real like monogamous relationship. I
know you gotta try that sliding his DMS guys.

Speaker 3 (36:21):
All right, well again, this is your show, so you
have the last word.

Speaker 12 (36:24):
Why I just got to get this off my show.
I was talking to a guy who I thought was
just so interested in me, and after a few months
of talking, he decided that he just got bored and
was not with it anymore.

Speaker 10 (36:40):
So it just really feels like a slap in the face.

Speaker 4 (36:42):
And I don't understand why people always complain about how
hard it is to find good women doing its pisinity
on a sober platter, you would rather just avoid it.

Speaker 13 (36:53):
Why I am just telling about my boyfriend Justin. He
is amazing.

Speaker 10 (36:57):
He has as treated me better than anybody has advertu
treated me in my entire life.

Speaker 13 (37:02):
I cannot wait to be his wife one day.

Speaker 12 (37:05):
Mmm.

Speaker 13 (37:05):
He is something special. I love you Justin, forever and always,
baby Love Megan

Speaker 2 (37:11):
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